The Skinny Confidential Him & Her Podcast - Sex Tape With Harry Jowsey & What's Real On Reality TV

Episode Date: April 11, 2022

#451: On today's episode we are joined by Harry Jowsey. Harry Jowsey is an Australian model and entrepreneur who hit the internet hard after his appearance on Netflix's reality show, Too Hot To Handle. Harry joins the show to discuss his rise online, celebrity dating, reality tv and what it takes to make a sex tape.  To connect with Lauryn Evarts click HERE To connect with Michael Bosstick click HERE Read More on The Skinny Confidential HERE For Detailed Show Notes visit TSCPODCAST.COM To Call the Him & Her Hotline call: 1-833-SKINNYS (754-6697) This episode is brought to you by Better Help We want you to start living a happier life today. Get connected online to licensed therapists at accessible prices to make sure yu are taking care of your mental health. As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting our sponsor at www.BetterHelp.com/skinny To Get 2 Months Free of Obé Fitness click HERE or use code SKINNY2 at www.obefitness.com when signing up. This episode is brought to you by Nutrafol Thousands of women have taken back control of their hair with Nutrafol, with many users raving that the supplement not only transformed their hair but restored their confidence, too. You can grow thicker, healthier hair AND support our show by going to www.Nutrafol.com/skinny  to save FIFTEEN DOLLARS OFF your first month’s subscription -- this is their best offer ANYWHERE and it is only available to US customers for a limited time. Produced by Dear Media 

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Welcome to The Skinny Confidential, him and her. Aha! So blessed, so grateful for the show and how successful it was. And I remember sitting on the couch with my friends, like with my best friend, my other best friend, we're just in our little apartment in Hollywood. And like my phone is just like on fire. And I was like, oh, this is crazy.

Like my life is changing in front of me. And like, I can't do anything to stop it. And so I was getting like overwhelmed. My face got like really red and I was like about to faint. So they had to give me a Xanax and tell me to relax. Because the day I hit a million followers, it was the day I hit 2 million followers. There's moments in my podcasting history where someone, a guest walks in and the threesome just clicks. And this threesome, this was like a functioning threesome. It's like you and I communicated before this threesome

and like all things just fit together nicely. Yeah. And I think it's a, you know, we did a podcast, Popping the Cherry First, watching porn on the podcast together during a threesome. Yeah. A lot was going on during this episode. Sex tapes, masturbation, threesomes, porn on the podcast together during a threesome. Yeah. A lot was going on during this episode.

Sex tapes, masturbation, threesomes, talk about threesomes with friends. I mean, we went, Chloe Kardashian, Selena Gomez, we went everywhere. It was a wild episode. The reason though, I have to tell you, I love this episode personally is yes, it goes everywhere and Harry is amazing, but he is so charismatic and so open and unapologetically himself in the best way. And I'm just obsessed with that generation. I love how they don't give a fuck. Well, I like when you meet someone and you think they're going to be some way and then they're somewhere different. And Harry's everything that he presents online and more. I thought he was articulate. I thought he was smart. I thought he was deep thinking. I really liked the kid. Can I call him a kid because I'm getting to be an old man? I really like him. Everyone's going to appreciate. I feel like that last week we talked about

midwives and holistic births and pregnancy. And on this episode, we're talking about sex tapes, wieners, and threesomes. Well, maybe this should have been like the prequel because this is kind of the tip on how you get to that step, right? This is how you do this first, and then you get to the pregnancy part. Whatever works. Anyways, guys, if you like this episode, stay tuned because we're going on his podcast. That's right. He is a podcaster. He has the podcast Tap In with Harry Jousey. You also may recognize him as a reality television personality and social media influencer. He has 4 million followers. Holy shit. He rose to fame with New Zealand's reality dating show, Heartbreak Island, and then later with Netflix reality dating series, Too Hot to Handle. Okay. I have to tell you when he came into the Dear Media office, people were very excited.

He maybe was too hot to handle for people. With that, let's welcome entrepreneur, podcaster, reality television personality, Harry Jousey. This is the Skinny Confidential, him and her. He has his Lana Rhodes outfit on today, but then you showed up. Wow. Is that where your balls are at? His balls are out. Is that a Cialis? He's ready to rock. He has his Viagra, Pornhub's on, Lana Rhodes is pulled up. Wow. Is that where your balls are at? His balls are out. He's at a Cialis. He's rid of the rocks.

He has his Viagra. Porn Hubs on. Lana Rhodes is pulled up. Wow. It sounds like you might know Lana Rhodes. Yeah, I'm great friends. Well, not great friends, but I'm friends with her.

Oh, how does it feel to be great friends with Lana Rhodes? Are your guy friends jealous? I think that, yeah, I think most guys are pretty jealous. But she's really awesome. Once you get to meet her

or get to know her, she's very empowering and a very smart individual. She's got a great personality. Great personality. I know. And a great skill set. She is beautiful. She's stunning.

Okay. So you start your podcast with three cancelable... No, that was just a terrible joke. Oh, you don't? That was a joke. No way. Oh, that was a joke. Maybe we could do it anyway.

No, no, no. I'm not trying to get canceled again. Has it happened to you before? Yeah, a couple of times. Okay. How many times? I think two times, but it was well deserved. For those who don't know why you were canceled.

I don't remember. You don't remember? You know what? Our publicist is here. I'm going to get in trouble. But you know what? It's like like our publicist too

right so like how is this gonna work yeah how is this gonna work yeah yeah okay so give us a little bit of background on you as a person

where you grew up yeah your accent is it's it's it's kind of a medley it sounds like to me you said it's Australian

but tell us a little bit about your childhood yeah so I grew up in a rural town in Australia called Yippoon everyone seems to laugh It's kind of a medley, it sounds like to me. You said it's Australian, but tell us a little bit about your childhood. Yeah. So I grew up in a rural town in Australia called Yipoon. Everyone seems to laugh because it's the most random place. There's like, it's a very, very tiny town. There's 19,000 people in the surrounding area. So not even the town.

So I grew up in a very small town and my mom's from England. My dad is from New Zealand. So I have like a weird... So some words will sound a little bit more English. Other words will sound like from New Zealand. Then I got kicked out of all the schools in Australia. So I had to go to school from New Zealand. So I have like a weird... So some words will sound a little bit more English. Other words will sound like from New Zealand. Then I got kicked out of all schools in Australia. So I had to go to school in New Zealand. I was just a piece of shit.

I started a riot. Like a paramedic got knocked out. Like it was the worst thing that happened. Well, it was probably the best thing for me, but it was like a terrible... How old? I was 17. Okay.

And they were like blowing up toilets with like chlorine bombs and like making firecrackers. And like one of my friends like blew off off one of his fingers trying to make... It was a terrible time. I was just a piece of shit kid. Just like having... But not malicious, just having fun. Yeah, having fun.

And then people got hurt, which was the worst part. Michael also was quite the rebel when he was... I can tell. Yes, he was... He's got a bit of bad boy look. Oh, yeah. He was quite the rebel. I remember one time we were in seventh grade and he mooned the principal.

No. With his full asshole. You guys have been together that long? We haven't been together the whole time. We've known each other since we were sixth grade. Wow. Long time. I can't get rid of him.

Yeah. I'm just kidding. I can't tell. Oh, my God. Taylor, our goddamn studio is falling apart. You bring Harry in the studio and it's falling apart. What the fuck, man? Yeah, Michael was not the best kid either.

But I actually think that a lot of rebels in middle school and high school turn out to be really creative entrepreneurs. Yeah. Yeah. Well, if you're getting your asshole out like grade seven, like you're probably set for life. Like you're on a good path. My teachers didn't seem

to think so at the time. They told me the exact opposite. They just didn't know what they were looking at. They're like, listen, son, put your asshole away. And I was like,

what are you talking about? This is an entrepreneurial asshole. It is. Stare at it. When I give keynotes, I'm like, listen, everybody put your asshole

over there. There is a thing where you put your son, your asshole towards the sun and it charges you up. I do that all the time. You actually do it? Yeah, it's called butthole sunning.

Right. See, I was going to do it, but I didn't want my neighbors to look at me and take a photo. Why? It's such good content for you. That's true. Harry was called butthole sunning. Yeah, yeah. It has a ring to it.

Getting his little raisin out. Getting his raisin out like your brown hole. Wow, a little freckle. If you need content ideas, I could give you a few. Butthole sunning is a great one yeah trust me i have like a mask you can do for your ball sack like a mask yeah really listen yeah you don't seem to need too much help right now which we're going to get into but if you want to take it to that next level yeah i would like my if you really wanted to go to that next level and get beyond this like kind of stuff you're playing around on the internet

like you really want to get the girls going like this. You'll get your balls. But whole sunning though on a side note is actually really good for you because it's the one area that doesn't get any sun

and so it charges that area and it actually like goes in like your body and gives you energy. Is there a science behind this or is this just... 100% Google it. I'm not joking.

I know I'm going to fucking wake up tomorrow and you're going to have the two chihuahuas and you're going to be bent over like you were when you mooned the principal butthole sunning. Possible. We should do it. We should have a group adding with

influencers. I've got a whole list of questions here on how I can take... I looked at your page and I'm like, I've got to get my shit together. I've been working out for nine months just to catch up with you so I can get out there. I've been doing it all wrong, doing this stupid fucking podcast. Nobody can see me. I need to get out there with my shirt off

and get my fucking lines hanging out. Okay, let's talk about how you got into reality TV. Yes. 19 years old. Do you try out or do you get approached? My friend tagged me in a post on Facebook and then I was having a bit of a dark time in my life. So I was just like,

oh, fuck it. And then I sent in some photos of me in my undies and then because I was like, what? Like, I want to stand out. So I was like,

I'm just going to be the only naked guy on like a normal show and then they hit me right away and then like a few days later I flew out. Can you post the picture

that you... Yeah, it's on my Instagram. It's on your Instagram already. Taylor, pull up this Instagram. We have your Instagram. Yeah,'s on my Instagram. It's on your Instagram already. Taylor, pull up this Instagram. We have your Instagram. Yeah, we have your Instagram. It's like right down the... Oh, here we go.

Is that it? Look, Lauren, I got to do this. I got to get a plant. It's right down the bottom. Oh my God. There's a lot of... Yeah. Harry.

That's just a free stuff. Well, listen, you can... Oh, this is the free stuff. There's stuff that you charge for Well listen you can I mean. Oh this is the free stuff. There's there's stuff that you charge for to like OnlyFans. The office is in an uproar. I walked out there

and people are it's going wild out there. Hold on. Is full penis on OnlyFans? No. No. Not yet. Can you show full penis

on OnlyFans? Yeah you can. Oh you can. Tell us when. Yeah. Oh it's way further down. Tell us when you can share penis so you can get on OnlyFans or tell us when. Yeah. Oh, it's way further down. Tell us when you can share penis so you can get on OnlyFans

or tell us when. You can fully. I'm dropping a sex tape. You are? Yeah. Yeah, on March 16th. You know what? Though, I bet you're going to choreograph it

and do it like really like beautifully shot, huh? No. You're just going to just go for it. It's like a Stevie shower. Wait, hold on. You got to give us more context. Her legs around my head. Wait, you already have the sex tape?

Yeah, it's done. Can I have a little more context of this? Like, does it happen? Oh, it comes out tomorrow. What day is it? Yeah, it's March 15th. That's why you came on the show to promote the sex tape?

Yeah, yeah. Good on you, man. It's still further down. Can you just release a sex tape online now? Like, how does that work? Yeah, Tyga's got like 50. Tyga has so many. And you can see his whole cock and balls. Really?

And it's with like influencers. You know what? Wait, do I need to get on OnlyFans? Yes. You know what? Is there a market for pregnant women to have like to do a sex tape? Okay, where is it? A little bit further. Actually, look at the long hair. That's crazy. Is it's a little bit yeah maybe it's up more we're going deep yeah if you see me in under like a full like

photo shoot in Tommy Hilfiger undies look at you on that horse what the hell are you doing on there nah it looks like that though you know what I like about this generation

you're 24 now I like how I am how you guys normalize things that so many people think are so taboo it's like just normal

to have a sex tape now. It's like having an Instagram account. No, it's not that one. No, it has actually, you can see the, the photographer definitely made my cock

look way bigger than it actually is. It was awesome. How do you make your cock look bigger than it is? I think he photoshopped it, like blew it out a little bit. I'm sure there's

inquiring minds listening that want to know how they can. Is that like an extra service you do with this? You're like, hey, like just. Yeah, he just fluffed this up a little bit. Do you actually there's inquiring minds listening that want to know how they can... Is that like an extra service you do with this? You're like, hey, like just... Yeah, he just fluffs this up a little bit. Do you actually say that? No, no, no. He definitely did it because I was like, I was a bit of a boy at that

time. Damn, did they take it down? Did it get removed? They might have taken it down. Sorry, girls. There's other pictures on there though. It's definitely... Yeah, I'll Google it. So, okay. Go back. We have a lot of questions. You know what? I'm mad because I'm looking at this page and I'm like,

I've been doing it all wrong. Maybe you're doing it right. If you want to take pictures without your shirt on with your cock hanging out, I'm all for it. I'll support it. I'll growth hack it.

Harry, what do you think? You think I could get in? Am I too old? Am I in the boat? He has a big personality. Oh, he has a huge personality. Huge. I don't marry a small personality

I can't do that for the rest of my life yeah this is it's like that someone I guess it's signed oh hold on

I gotta see this yeah someone sent my signature on eBay so this comes out you get picked up no he sends this picture in I sent it in

yeah because they full catfish moment I did not look like that okay so so you sent it in and then they automatically cast you without talking to you? Yeah, they hit me back like right away and he's like, I think you'd be perfect.

His name was Chris Howe. Great guy. And he's like, I think you'd be perfect. And then yeah, right away, they flew me out within two days and then we did all the intro shots and then we flew to the airport, met all the dudes and we went on the plane and went to Fiji. Crazy. So what's it like filming your first reality television show

before Too Hot to Handle? What is that experience like when you're not used to it? I think I was obviously really nervous. I didn't really know what to expect. And you're going up against really attractive dudes. So obviously, you're going to feel a little bit insecure, a little bit worried. You don't know what to expect.

So you're constantly always anxious. There's so much worried. You don't know what to expect. So you're constantly like always anxious. Like there's so much anxiety. You don't know what's actually going on. Like you don't know what tomorrow is going to bring and you don't have your phone, your friends or your family. So you can't really like call anyone or talk to anyone. So obviously I went in like super anxious, but then I kind of just have like, I don't give a fuck type attitude.

And then when people started reading into it too much, it's only just got a little bit more playful. And I was like, oh, we're just here to film a show. We're not here to like, like this isn't the end of the world. This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp Online Therapy. I have been telling you about BetterHelp. You guys, it is therapy that is accessible, affordable, and convenient. You can do it in the comfort of your own home. If you're having any kind of struggle, you can sign up today and you can get help right away. You don't have to get in the car.

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because it becomes your entire world. Like that whole, that whole like bubble. Because they cut your entire world. That whole bubble. Because they cut you off from everything else. Yeah. After a week, you're just immensely in it and you can't think about anything else. You're thinking about,

is this person doing this shit? What's going on? You fully forget that you actually have a normal life. That's why people cry so much when these shows. When someone leaves, it's because mentally,

you're fully like holy shit if this person goes like they're pretty much dying like that's how it feels but then once you like get out of that

mentality and realize that it's just a show you need to relax and then like so there's I think I don't know if I cried in any of the shows

when people left I probably laughed because everyone was just like upset about it I was like come on you're going to see him in a week like we're going to

have the wrap party. It's going to be fine. People get so immersed and they like think that they can see. Yeah, because they think that like this is like this $100,000 that you're going to win on the show is like the only money you're ever going to make. Like, holy shit. Like they're like, what the fuck is going on? Yeah, but how do they not think like strategically down the line?

Because we're not cast because we're smart people. Well, I would disagree with that though, because talking with you off air, like you seem like you're pretty people. Well, I would disagree with that though. Because talking with you off air, like you seem like you're pretty strategic. It's a big persona. Okay. So we're not going to see you like, I feel like you're going to be like a businessman.

No, not at all. Yeah. His publicist is shaking her head yes. No, but you're more thoughtful than you're giving yourself credit. I could tell. Yeah. What do you mean?

You don't build this. This is not on accident. Because listen, there's a lot of good looking dudes. No, I mean, not to take anything away from you, but like not a lot of people do what you're doing here. And you know- Getting my cock out. It was.

No, but in a way where like you've hit a vein where you get attention and you've doubled down and you know how to do it, right? Not to, you know what I'm saying? Like a lot of people, like there's a lot of guys that could put their cock out and have some abs, but not a lot of people take it to where you're taking it. could put their cock out and have some abs, but not a lot of people

take it to where you're taking it. Yeah, Taylor, I don't know if your cock was out on Instagram, if it would quite have the same effect. I would just get someone to Photoshop it.

You'd get someone to Photoshop it. Like it's pretty easy. I think on like the FaceApp or whatever it's called, you can make it, make everything a little bit bigger. I'm going to take a picture of Michael tonight

in his boxers and test it out. I'm going to see if I can Photoshop your penis. Okay, so on your first reality show before Too Hot to Handle, are you hooking up with girls on the show? Yes. I think I just had sex with one of them. On the show? Yeah. On TV. So do they film you like fucking or is it like behind a door? No, no, no. There's cameras like they can see everything. Number one,

they have to watch because they have to make sure it's all safe. And you don't care? No. You're just like, whatever. I was so excited because I'm like, this is going to be awesome. Are you drunk? No, not really. If I was drunk, it'd be a good excuse to say I lasted longer, but I'm pretty sure it was done in a couple minutes. So yeah, I was pretty sober. I appreciate

the honesty. I actually appreciate it. It's self-aware. Yeah. When I first looked at your page, I'm'm like i don't know about this but then i started like paying attention i i can listen man you got a lot of charisma right and i think you're self-deprecating and you can i can see why you've hit a vein here because again you're i don't i don't look at you just some like good looking dude that's like bopping around like you like you've got a personality behind it. I appreciate it. Is there a lot of drug use behind the scenes

on these reality shows to get you guys like looped up? Or is it- No. No. No, I wish, I wish. It would have been a different show. I would have been climbing the coconut trees if you go crazy. No, there isn't.

They really restrict like your alcohol intake as well. So people only have like two drinks before they're like cut off. Like there's only, rarely they'll give you a, like if you're a way in a suite, like they'll give you a bottle of wine or something. But like it's literally two drinks.

But for me, I am the biggest lightweight. If I have two drinks, like I am shit face. Like I'm having a great time. Wait, I thought you were going to say that you needed like 40 drinks. No, no, no. See, I don't usually drink. And then once I do,

because I like always like restrict myself. But once I finally like have a, like I had a shot the other night and I was fucking blasted. Like I was like, holy shit. I need to get out of here before I fall over. Do you restrict yourself because of like, you have to keep your abs tight or you restrict yourself because you want to? I find that once I self-discipline, that's when I'm way more productive. So I'm up at 5.30 every day and make sure that I go to bed at like 8 or 9 at night. So I just try and keep that my food intake right and make sure that I don't reward myself

until I'm like worthy of it. I don't know. It's kind of fucking bit dramatic. At 24, I was not disciplined like that at all. Like to say you're waking up at 5.30 in the morning and going to bed at 8 or 9 is crazy to me at 24 years old.

I mean, you were out like, where were we? I was picking myself up somewhere at 5.30. I was going to bed at like 1 in the morning. Yeah.

I mean, that's pretty impressive that you're up at 5.30 in the morning. Yeah, I just find that in this industry and like being an influencer,

it's really easy to be complacent and like be so comfortable with like what's coming and like just not even think about tomorrow. But like for me, I'm like, damn, I worked this hard to get here. Why would I just piss it away

by getting drunk every night and like fucking around with these other influencers? Like I don't really care. I just rather focus on learning new skills, investing in stuff and just trying to keep the wheels moving forward and, you know, doing some more scandals here and there. We're going to get into the scandals

so what's the difference in the culture at 24 in Australia and in America like do you find that Americans are partying more

or partying less I think it's probably pretty equal but I find that Australians like we hit it hard like we get so fucked up like I find that when you're in America

American men, they drink to go out because they want to get pussy. Yeah. But then American, Australian dudes, they drink to go out because they want to get

fucked up with the boys. Yeah. So, it's like a real weird dynamic because it would be out with American dudes and they're just so focused

on like, this girl. Like, I was like, I'm just here to have a good time. Like, fucking relax. You would fit right in.

Maybe I was. I know. That's exactly how I feel like you were. Maybe I'm in Los Angeles. Before we dated, I feel like that's how you were. You should have moved to Australia. Those are like the dudes that, that's the guys that I always had the most fun with. Like you go out and get blasted and see what happens.

If a girl came along, great. But like that wasn't, like I always found. It's never the priority. Yeah. I always find those guys strange where it's like they base their whole thing around like doing. And it's all they talk about. It's like, bro, like relax.

Yeah. It's fine. It's fine. But I always feel like those guys always have the hardest time too. The worst time because it's all they're thinking about. It's like, whatever. Just let it, if it happens, it happens. Okay, this is a little side note story. One of my best friends is Australian. Shout out to Faith.

And I was at her birthday party and there was like a big group of Australian girls. And I was like, this is obviously before I was pregnant years ago. I walked up to him and I'm like, hi, I'm Lauren. Like I'm Faith's friend. And I go, let's take a shot that we just met. They looked at me like I was so weird to take a shot. And so I told my friend Faith, I'm like, I wanted to take a shot.

She said, oh, no, no, no, no. You don't take shots in Australia. We don't drink shots. Oh, yeah, yeah. Is that true? Yeah, we we don't so this is a very American thing so American yeah because like everyone has like it's so funny that my friends from New Zealand are visiting at the moment and we went to a bar and I'm so Americanized right now and like I'm not even drinking but I was just like should we get a bottle and they're like for what like they just walked and lined up at the bar and like got drinks and I was like

you guys don't just get a bottle of sparklers like you can sit here and do it yourself. It's very American. They were so confused like I don't get it. I don't know it's a bit more of a scene. I think I agree with Australians like it is it's kind of like I don't know like why do a shot when you can just have a cocktail. Well I think like in my Australians. Like it is, it's kind of like, I don't know. Like why do a shot

when you could just have a cocktail? Well, I think like in my past days, it's like the shot gets you there quick. Yeah. Like the end goal, we're just trying to get fucked up. Not Harry though,

because he's up at 5.30 a.m. Always that way? Even when you were, always that way? Yeah. Okay. So you do the reality show. Do you automatically gain fame

from the first reality show? Yeah. I think I had 10,000 followers on Instagram because I was really trying to figure out how to be a model. But I got told that I was too tall and too fat. Yeah, I was like skinny fat. So it made me realize that, okay, maybe this isn't for me. And then we finished filming the show.

And I think I gained like, I think I got to like 70,000 followers on Instagram. And then I got verified. And in New Zealand, that's like a big deal like you're like pretty much fucking Angelina Jolie at that point like people stopping you and shit like you'll be at a bar and like people trying to talk to you but yeah after that point I kind of didn't really know what direction to take with it and I had won the money from the show so I started a sunglass company with my best friend and then yeah at that point I was just like

this really hit the ceiling here and I'm not motivated by anything else. I'd rather just focus on how do we get to the next level? How do we get to a bigger country, bigger opportunities? And here we are. So how does Too Hot to Handle happen? Because people fucking love this show. Is it popular? When you joined the show, was it popular as it is now? I think no. Well, no one knew what it was. No, you were the show, was it popular as it is now? I think no. Well, no one knew what it was. No, you were the first. First season. But at this time, you already felt like you were kind of on top of it, at least in New Zealand.

Yeah, I was kind of like, I knew, I kind of knew the direction. Like, I don't know, you have a feeling and like your purpose. Like when I went on the first show and I made people laugh and like I could see the DMs coming in and people like, oh, you're a dickhead. And like, oh, this was funny. That was funny. I see people out there like laugh at me. I was like, oh, this is what I meant to do. Like I get so much enjoyment out of just making people laugh.

So then, yeah, the second show come around. But I was applying for shows for like four months. Like no one knew that. Like I was living with my best friend, Christian, in his parents' house. Like literally like telling him like, this isn't it. Like applying for every single show. DMing people on Instagram like,

hey, I know you're in the UK. Like, who was the person that cast you for this show? Like, how do I get in contact with them? And then I finally got through. There's one guy called Sam King. And which shows were this? Any kind of show or just anything? You were just trying to get on TV.

MTV, Ex on the Beach. Like, I was DMing girls like, hey, let me pretend that I'm your ex. Love Island, Australia, Love Island, UK. Like, because I have a UK passport and I was trying to get on the UK one because I'm like, this will be the golden egg. But I made it through a few rounds and then

the guy that was casting me was like, hey, we have this other opportunity. I can't tell you what it is. But I promise you it's going to be so much better for you. And I was like, fuck it. The universe has a plan. So just put me on whatever. And then... Before you get on Too Hot to Handle though, you just said that you were DMing

girls saying can I pretend to be your ex-boyfriend so for people who are big reality TV lovers how fucking fake is it so fake it's

come on I'm such a housewife watcher it's fake or like the the ex on the beach stuff is pretty fake like there was a couple

people from season one of my show they recently did I think the USA one and they didn't even like I don't think they recently did i think the usa one and they they didn't even like i don't think they ever sat down together ever at one point like it was always like the only time they ever hung out was on the show when we were filming with everyone and then they tried to like i guess because they're kind of no names so they're like oh can we get on another

show but yeah so some of this stuff is pretty fake but then again you know like our show they just kind of pointed a camera at us and let us just go crazy. So there's actually people that are cast to be people's ex-boyfriends. Yeah. Yeah. Legitimate, like legitimately, like, because they want one person on and then the other person maybe has some like Instagram cloud or whatnot.

Maybe they've hung out or they know each other. Maybe they had sex one time and they're like, okay, you guys are perfect exes. So sometimes it's a little bit dramatic. This is one of the best deals you have ever heard about on this podcast. Everyone should use this. You get two months free of Obey Fitness. So you can go on and get 8,000 on-demand fitness workouts, live classes, and connect with the community. You can get strength training, Pilates, sculpt, yoga, HIIT with no equipment necessary. There really is now no excuse. You get two months free of this fitness program. You can do any kind of courses. They even have like body comp, 30-day programs,

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So if Michael and I decide to do a reality television show ever, which I don't know, I got to wrap my head around it and the executive producer. He threw that out there. Just let it go. Anyone is reaching out. Just let him. I need to be paid. Can you pretend to be my ex-boyfriend?

And I'll tell you why. I love the difference between you guys' height. Wow. She's coming. No, no, no. I always come for him for his height. That's the only thing I can make fun of him for. He's perfect in every single way. And by the way, he's coming. No, I always come for him for his height. That's the only thing I can make fun of him for. He's perfect in every single way.

Did you just neg me to bring me back up? It's called a compliment sandwich. It works wonders. Did you take mysteries class or what? Can you pretend to be my ex-boyfriend? Perfect. You swear? I'm perfect toxic ex-boyfriend. Perfect.

Cast. Done. Yeah, I'll go crazy. I'll cast it. Cast, done. Okay, too hot to handle. Yeah. So you get on the show, someone accidentally reaches, not accidentally,

but reaches out to you and says, I can't tell you what this is. Yeah. How do you find out what it is? And is it immediate? Is it right away? Did it take time? Did you have to go audition? Et cetera, et cetera.

Yeah, I think the crazy thing was, or it did take time. So you have to do like psych tests, background tests like that. They go through like every type of like background check to make sure that you're good enough or like that you're okay to go on a show like this. But we flew out. So I didn't know the show like, and the people that I was living with, they're like, Hey, like, I'm not sure about this. Like, I've heard the questions that they've been asking you. Like, we don't don't know if this like we don't know what you're walking into and I was like fuck it like what have I got to lose like I'm getting flown to Mexico it's gonna be a good time what are some of these questions that are like popping red flags in their head um like how

many people have you slept with when was the last time you had sex have you ever had a threesome like have you ever like had a threesome with a guy or have you ever done this or have you ever done that like it was very- What were your answers? You can't tell us the questions and not tell us the answers. Have I ever had it? How many people have I slept with?

I can't say it. Okay, okay. 11. 11,000. I tell girls 11. 11. That's a good number because it doesn't feel like it's too even.

Yeah, yeah. And it doesn't feel like it's like too low. I always tell girls 11, but they're all- Okay. But- Never believe a guy if he tells you 11. Yeah, yeah. And it doesn't feel like it's like too low. I always tell girls 11, but they're all... But... Never believe a guy if he tells you 11, by the way. Yeah, never believe...

Have I ever had threesome? Yes. Have I ever had threesome with a dude? Yes, my best friend, Christian. We... It was a crazy afternoon in a movie theater

with this poor girl. Anyway... Cancelled. Yeah, cancelled. But yeah, a lot of the questions were just pretty invasive because they want to know

like everything about you and as they should because they want to know everything about you and as they should because they want to make sure they have the crazy people on the show. But at that point, I still didn't know. It just said untitled dating show on all the contracts I signed. And it said it was just the production company

that was on the thing. So I was like, I don't know. It's for Netflix. Don't know. I just got told it's a good idea. So I flew out to Mexico. And the crazy shit is they put every single cast member

in different hotels around the city. So like, there's no chance that you can go and meet another person. So like, I'm walking around like the hotel, like, wonder if I'll see another hot person. Like, you're kind of like staring at people if you're just like, are you here for the show?

Like, because you don't know. Like, obviously, I found this out after. So I was like trying to talk to people. I'm like, hey, like, are you on the show? No, we're at a hotel. Like, obviously I found this out after. So I was like trying to talk to people. I'm like, hey, like, are you on the show? No, we're at a hotel. Like I'm here with my family. But they have like one person that like follows you as well. So you have like someone that's always like looking after you

and you're there for like a week before and you don't know anything. So you're just waking up and like, fingers crossed, like I go in today or fingers crossed that this happens. And the craziest shit is, is they'll fly out like 15 extra people as well that like some people have been sitting in this when we're filming the show like some people were sitting in the hotel the whole time because they were waiting for someone to say like this is my type like i

like girls with like brown curly hair that are from hawaii and they're like cool we'll pull her that's that's harry's type and maybe it will cause like a some drama like that's the type of that they do they always have like people around. Yeah, like I feel bad because I had someone that like DM me and just like, oh yeah, I was meant to be on the show, but they just put me in the hotel for a month. Like I didn't know.

And they never went on the show? Never went on the show. That's like quarantine. Yeah, they have people like just around, just in case, like in case something kicks off. Cause you never know. Give me the premise of this show, like quick rundown, just cause I'm stupid and I haven't watched it. But give me the premise of this show. Like quick rundown just because I'm stupid

and I haven't watched it. But give me the full premise. But oh, you're watching it now. I'm a different person from that show. No, no, no. Now that he has context,

he loves reality. I like to have people on this show and not have a lot of context and then I go in after because then I can be like, hey. Then you DM me

but you're a cunt. Why did you say that? I'm going to sit next to one of my bozo friends and be like, hey, you know I know Harry. But anyways, so what's the exact premise here?

It's like you go in. So they get people that are like super horny and super revved up and they put us on this, in this like sick, sick villa and there's rules that get dropped. So you can't kiss,

you can't have sex, you can't do anything sexual. And if you do, you lose money off the prize fund. Okay. There's $100,000 lose money off the prize fund. Okay. There's $100,000 up for grabs. So they wanted us to build like deeper, meaningful connections. And like, because obviously…

Without being physical. Yeah. So like sex is obviously super… Like people just fuck all the time now. So they're trying to like help younger people like be a little bit more focused on like the emotional connection as well. So… Did you… No, I fucked. Yeah. I was going crazy. be a little bit more focused on like the emotional connection as well. So, did you… No, I fucked.

Yeah. I was going crazy. Okay. I think I fucked almost every single girl on that show apart from two now. So, you were just going wild. No. After the show,

I was just like, oh, fuck it. No, no, no. I'm talking about on the show. On the show, I had sex. So, you lost. No, I lost like $32,000 but I made it back. You made it back. Yeah. Wait, wait, no. I'm talking about on the show. On the show, I had sex. So you lost? No, I lost like $32,000,

but I made it back. You made it back? Yeah. Wait, wait, wait. You made it back on the show or you made it back after the show just doing other things? No, no, no.

On the show. Yeah, because me and my girlfriend at the time, me and my ex now, but we got put in a... Because we were spending so much money and everyone was getting pissed off and we were kind of getting outcast.

And so they were just like, look, we're going to put you guys, you have 24 hours in this confined suite. And if you guys touch each other, like even brush each other, you lose all the money. But if you don't, you get to make the money back. So we go in and mind you, she was pretty drunk. I had a couple of drinks and I was like, fuck. Everyone just yelled at us.

I was like, fuck these guys. We could just go drinks and I was like fuck. Everyone just yelled at us. I was like fuck these guys. We could just go and fuck it up for them and we were sitting there and we had a flower. I remember like we have sex, we don't have sex. I was trying to leave it up to a flower but she like swatted out of my hand. There was like sex toys everywhere. There was a bottle of champagne. There was all this stuff. So I don't know what to do.

So we just started playing like hide and go seek. I was like it's really silly because it's a small room. But I went in the bath and I like tried to show her how I could like freestyle. I don't know. We're started playing like Hide and Go Seek. I was like, it's really silly because it's a small room. But I went in the bath and I like tried to show her how I could like freestyle. I don't know. We're just being like big kids.

And are your clothes on? No. Clothes are off. Well, in the bath, they're naked. You're naked. Yeah. This sounds like torture.

Well, it was like, and the thing is, it was a full 24 hours. Like they brought us breakfast, lunch, and dinner like full 24 hours. Like we were losing our minds. So I just started this.

It's actually, that sounds like, this is like if I was going to do a Chinese torture tactic. This sounds like an amazing tactic. And they pair you up with people that you've already let them know that you're attracted to.

No. No, no. So you meet everyone. Once you first walk in, you meet everyone as it is and you don't know who you're attracted to or what's going on.

So then obviously, you get like, you know, your days are pretty much spent trying to figure out each other and who's like a good person for you. So what happened? Okay, so you go on the show, you get a massive platform, everyone's watching.

What happens to your life after this? Like did it pan out the way you envisioned getting on a television show? Yeah, I think to be honest, so blessed, so grateful for the show and how successful it was. And especially it was in the middle of quarantine when everyone was at home. That was the weirdest shit because I remember sitting on the couch with my friends. It was my best friend, my other best friend. We're just in our little apartment in Hollywood.

And my phone is just on fire. And I was like, oh, this is crazy. My life is changing in front of me. And I can't do anything to stop it. And so I was like, oh, this is crazy. Like my life is changing in front of me and like, I can't do anything to stop it. And so I was getting like overwhelmed like to the point where like my face was like, I get really red in the face

when I get nervous. So like my face got like really red and I was like about to like faint. So they had to give me like a Xanax and like tell me to relax because like the day I hit a million followers, it was the day I hit 2 million followers. Like my phone was on fire like that.

It was crazy. Anytime I would post a TikTok, I would jump like 100,000 followers. Because everyone was so... Because you're in quarantine. No one had anything to do. But like, look at us idiots. And is the response...

Is it nice? Is it good? Is it supportive? Is it a mix? I think initially, everyone wants to pick the winning horse and everyone wants to be nice and get all these comments.

And then as shit kicks off and as this like leaves a nasty comment about this person here things start to get a little bit heated and then obviously you know anything i anytime i mention the show or whatnot now like i do get a lot of hate on on whatever it is so i just try and like to to push away from it and keep like trying to make funny content because for me like that's what i'm here to do like i'm just here to make people laugh but yeah and now around the show there's there's some like bad connotations and stuff like that all towards me anyway sure and how and so as a young guy obviously and you're just like and you get a massive plan that's a big that's a big jump right how do you how do you deal with that like do you without having an ego because you seem very down to earth. You would think like for a 24-year-old to jump the way you've jumped

and to have it seems like a medley of girls. Like your ego seems very controlled, which is unique. Yeah, I think it's because I have great people around me. I think the biggest blessing was the fact that the show happened in quarantine. Like I didn't have an opportunity to go out and everyone be on my nuts. Because you can't go anywhere. So I'm just with my friends

and I was like, oh, this is cool. So then when we all went out together and people want a photo and stuff, I was like, this is kind of weird. Why do people want to talk to me? And it kind of clicked. But yeah, I don't know. I just think it comes down to mindset. First off, when I first got into this and when it all started kicking off, I made it very apparent to myself, this is all rented. I don't own any of this audience. I don't own anyone's opinions. I don't

own any of this stuff. It's just all rented and it's not going to be around forever. So I need to do what I can to just keep things moving forward, but also just be super grateful for the fact that there's nearly 10 million people that care about me. That is wild, 10 million people. You said that you were on your couch in West Hollywood. How did you go from Australia to West Hollywood? Did you want to be an actor?

Did you just think Hollywood was the right spot for you? What happened in that gap? So we come back from finished filming the show and I was a little bit confused, but literally I was looking at my best friend, Christiane, and I was like, the ceiling is so low here. For what we want to do and where we want to go, I can't see us taking it any further. So I just said, sell all your shit. Let's just move to America. So I think I had $5,000 in my bank account. And I spent $1,800 on getting his mom a purse

just to say thank you for taking care of me. Went to the embassy in Sydney. It's a B1, B2 visa. So I was here for... So I have six months to figure it out. And then I went to New Zealand and then we flew out to LA together. And then I was selling shit on my Instagram.

I was trying to figure out how to do this and that. I started a few e-commerce brands. I was doing a bit of dropshipping. I would go to bed at 1 a.m. and wake up at 6 every single day, just trying to make ends meet until the show hit. And then when the show hit, I had a sunglass store up. I had my merch store up. And I had a whole bunch of other ventures that made me be able to float for that month

and take the foot off the pedal. Not a lot of people who are on reality television show have the foresight to see that gap between before the show comes out and when it comes out. And for you to have all these different businesses set up is really impressive. Yeah, I guess I just,

I was looking at it like I have a butterfly net and I can catch people's data or I can catch people coming across and looking at me. Why would I not have a link in my bio? I know the show is not going to be the biggest show forever. I'm not going to be asked back for the second season because they want more people on. So I was like, I just have literally one month to figure it out

and to try and make the most out of it. I remember in the group chat where we had with the other cast members on our show, I was like, yo, I'm begging you, just get a printful.com thing and just print on demand. Just put your name on a shirt. Just do something because I promise you won't regret it. And then it was like six months after the show, they'd be like, bro, can you post my phone cases? I was like, no, you're fucking melon. You're a loser. You are known as like, I feel like a little bit of a player with the girls. I first want to know how you manage that.

Do girls get mad at you all the time? What's the energy there? I think that I got... Well, the title was well-deserved, but it was when the show was in its peak. So I'd be out and a girl that I've always had a crush on would be like, yo, can I come home with you? And then I'd be like, sure. So then I'd get I think for like... But that wasn't coming

home with you before the show? Yeah, like girls that didn't know I existed. Right. I'd always had a crush on them on Instagram. So I'd be like so for six months or probably a lot longer, I was just going crazy. And now I'm a little bit more reserved. At that point, I didn't have any discipline.

So I was going out and I was looking at shit. The last photo that I posted on Instagram where I was skinny fat, that was at that point in time. And I was just like, didn't care about my mindset or my body or who I gave my energy to. This year or the past year, I've been a little bit more cautious about who I let close to me because I don't want to feel drained. I only want to feel energized when I'm around the right people.

Because when you're around someone that builds you up and makes you feel excited and ecstatic, you just leave that room buzzing and on a different level. And I realized that I was hanging around a lot of low energy people and people that made me not get excited about the future. So I'm like, this isn't where I feel cool. When I did a retreat in Costa Rica and all the people there were billionaires or had crazy stories like this one lady beat cancer twice. And I remember leaving that whole retreat just like I'm just vibrating on a different level right now

and I come back and my friends are just like let's go to Hyde and like do ketamine and finger girls at the club I'm like it's not what I want to do do ketamine

and finger girls at the club you know what that's the clip that's the clip yeah yeah but is that what people

am I just old no one was giving me ketamine and fingering me at the club when I was 24. You went to the wrong clubs. You know what's so funny? I didn't give you any ketamine, but I think I fingered you

in a couple of clubs. You actually fingered me. This is a true story. We've never told it on the podcast. No, your dad's listening. No, no, no. In home ec class through my overalls

in seventh grade. In the middle of the classroom, yeah. So Harry's been high at fingering girls with ketamine, but you were fingering me through my overalls in seventh grade. I'm pretty sure I fingered

someone with this. It's lucky we kind of missed each other by like a little generation. This is just a side note. Fingering someone in overalls is a great move because it's just,

you just slide in. Yeah. You know what I mean? There's no, if they're like open, girls, let's bring back the overalls. I called it up. I said, where are your fucking overalls?

I said, please. I said, class is coming up. You want to wear those overalls every single day. I'm like, I can't wear them every day. Okay. So, so, so you get back, you're around low energy people. How do you take inventory of your friends?

Like, do you tell them we can't be friends or do you just slowly move away? I think that's a bit, yeah. Like all my, like the people that I get advice from, they're like, oh, we can't be friends or do you just slowly move away? I think that's a bit… Yeah. All my… The people that I get advice from, they're like, oh, you should have the conversation. It's like, well, I don't want to not be friends with this person. But I also don't want to… I don't want to give more than I receive.

I want to… I think that this year, I've had to be able to be selfish, which has been really difficult. But it's also been the most rewarding thing that I've done. Be so selfish with my time. Like be so selfish. Like I want to learn a new skill. Like I've been taking acting classes and I have to learn how to do an American accent.

And like, I wouldn't be able to do that if I was like going out and like doing, going to dinner or doing this with these people. So it's been really, really rewarding. Like just flipping that switch. But I think, yeah, back to your point is not telling people like, hey, fuck off. Like you're a deadbeat loser.

Like I don't want anything to do with you. It's just like, oh, no, I can't tonight. Like still checking in and making sure that they know that you care. But it's just like, my priorities are a little bit shifted. You don't cut them off.

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skinny confidential him and her. I'm still terrible. When you get your American accent say, hello, skinny confidential him and her. I can't, I'm still terrible at it. When you get the American accent, I expect an interview in the American accent. I sound robotic. It's a good, it's a good practice for you to be here and do the American accent. Let me ask you this. This is like a little bit of a conundrum you might be in.

And I actually may get a little personal here. When you have this abundance of women, at times, right? It sounds like you calm down a little bit how do you how do you one how do you manage that ego and two the second part is how do you start attracting somebody that you can actually see yourself spending a significant amount of time with because i imagine at some period of time you start it starts to kind of feel yeah and three do you need viagra yeah cialis is the. You know what I'm saying? At some point,

you're probably like, oh, like it kind of, a lot of guys are looking at you right now and be like, I fucking envy this dude. This fucking, he's the man.

But you're probably at some point like, oh my God, like this becomes annoying. I think the biggest thing is like, you know, obviously you guys have been together for a minute. So, you know,

like you get to understand each other's body, each other's mind, and there's nothing more attractive than that. So, like the one night stands kind of just get a little bit like deflating like it's

it's just the same sex like it's just the same and it's usually not as good yeah it's the same situation over and over and you wake up next to someone that you don't actually know

and you're just like it's kind of now I'm tired and I have to get up at 5.30 for no reason just because I'm a dickhead and you have to manage that other person's energy

because if that other person wants more than what you want, it's a lot. Yeah. I just think the best thing is being honest and like,

I think like some girls take that as like, oh, he's like a bad boy. Like he's, he's talking to me like, he's not making me feel good about myself. It's like, no,

like I actually don't want. No, they're like, I'm going to change. Oh yeah, you're saying that I'm going to change you. No, he doesn't want me. It's like, no, really? Fuck gonna change i want to give a couple of tips yeah for let's do women because this is obviously the situation that we're in women who you have felt maybe have like a desperate energy towards you yeah

what tips would you give a woman who's having that energy like is there something that you could tell them like don't do for instance like i'm just going to give an example don't text the guy let's just let's simplify let's get granular what are the turnoffs yeah what are the turnoffs whatever it's like is this texting too soon like calling you like annoying you on instagram like what are things that you see people doing that you're just like ugh I think the biggest thing is you have to be respectful of people's time

so like people like dudes have to go to work so do women you know like I've had situations even with my brother like he's been mad at me because I haven't replied within like 10 minutes I'm like bro, I'm in a fucking meeting. I'm not going to have my phone on getting back. And I think that ladies, if the

guy that you're into isn't giving you the right energy, just understand he's probably got a very busy day. He's probably not sticking his cock in every single go at 10 AM in the morning. Depends who you ask or who you're talking to. But I think making sure that you're just respectful of their time, making sure that he's giving you the exact same energy that you're giving. If you're trying to make plans and he's always moving shit around, then fully put him on ice. Don't even acknowledge him. Fully take a step back and check yourself and how you feel. Is this person actually going to uplift me and make me feel better in my day to day like I just

think the biggest thing is just understanding that dudes have you know that they're also doing other shit and their plan isn't like to like fuck everyone do you know how I got Michael really this is how I got Michael I did nothing

wow it's nothing it my goal. I did nothing. Wow. It's nothing. It's true. It's a killer. I did nothing. So you didn't text him? The craziest thing is Selena Gomez is doing nothing and I'm all for her.

Oh, you heard it here first. The publicist is mad. She's not even replying to me. Emily Blair. She hasn't viewed my stories once and I'm like, fuck. I love this game.

She's acting like she doesn't know I exist. If I liked Harry in 2022, I would not watch his stories. I would not like his Instagram. I would not comment. I would not text him. I would not call him.

I would make him do all the goddamn work. You know, I grew up with two younger sisters and I kept, and I always told them and they've done a phenomenal job. Like they've luckily,

they've been good. They haven't had that desperate energy. Thank God. But they, but I told them and they've done a phenomenal job like they've luckily they've been good they haven't had that desperate energy thank God but they but I told them I'm like listen I promise you I swear to God

I am a guy I have guy friends I have a man I have a dick I have balls if a guy wants you he will chase you he will pursue you

if it's the other way around 100% there's no such thing 100% there's never been a time in my life if I was pursuing a woman or Lauren or whoever, that I was like, oh, you know,

I got to clock in for work. If I was in, I was in. There was never something else come up. So I think people need to match that energy and understand. It's literally so easy though because you just don't do anything. Like literally nothing. You just sit there. Go get your nails done. I think the best quote that I heard is

if you wanted to, you would. That's the thing. Legitimately done. I think the best quote that I heard is, if you wanted to, you would. Like that's the thing. Legitimately, and I think it goes like, in like a personal situation, like, the girls that I have on my roster at the moment… The girls that I have on my roster at the moment… I have all their stories muted because like, I don't want them to know that I'm obviously into them at all. Do you have a troll account though that you watch

no no I'll like wait so I'll have this shit muted and it makes you not like think about them all the time but like if I'm fully into a girl like if I'm ready if it's the right girl like the right girl comes into my life and I'm like fully into it like I'll drop my whole roster yeah which is

a terrible thing to say but it's the truth like if the right girl comes along and unfortunately, like, these, like, the situation that I've had with these girls

isn't in that direction. Listen, this is controversial, but you, I don't think guy or girl can blame girl or guy for having a roster if the person's like,

hey, like, I'm not serious about you. It's the people that get, like, someone's upfront and they're honest and I'm not that serious

and they linger on and they're not that serious and they linger on and they're mad that someone hasn't changed for them. By the way, I think a girl can have a roster too. If I was single and I wasn't married, I would have my own roster. Are you fucking kidding me, Lauren? We know the girls have the roster. Girls have bigger rosters than guys.

This girl on my roster, her roster is so hectic that she even has a boyfriend, which is crazy. I mean, listen, if you're upfront about it, I think it's fine. Yeah, you have to be honest. I think it's where people try to lie and compromise integrity

is where they get in trouble. It sounds like you're really upfront with it. Yeah, and also, I'll be like, oh, I'm sorry. I'm seeing someone now. We'll give it a go.

This is probably only going to be a month long anyway, so come back. Is there an Excel sheet roster? Is it in a notes app? Where's the roster no no it's just my head

it's just in your head is it five people is it 45 people is this seasonal or is this yeah cause

yeah no no is it seasonal I don't know no they've been around for a minute like maybe eight months

no I don't know we've both had like different relationships in between. But I think there's two on there at the moment.

There's only two. Two or three. Okay. So walk me through what happens in your life here. Why do people get so frustrated with you

with these dating? Because I think the reason people get frustrated with him and tell me if I'm wrong but just from an outside perspective is because people almost don't want honesty.

It's like weird. They like want you to brush it under the rug and like a feel-good hug. Yeah, I think, I think, well, first off, when I first come off the show,

like I didn't really know how to approach like podcasts or interviews and stuff like that. So I was like, you know, I'm going to continue this like crazy fuckboy persona

and it was probably pretty true to who I was at the time. Like I was fully just like, I don't give a fuck. Like just being super honest and like leaning into the reality TV shit.

But now I think that like because I've had to, you know, have a lot of like wake up moments and like come back down to earth. Now I think it's a little bit more like people a little bit more

relaxed with me. But before like I, and I think, you know, some people who haven't seen like my recent interviews still talk shit about like, oh, he's toxic. He's a piece of shit. He does all this stuff. And it was some people who haven't seen my recent interviews still talk shit about like, oh, he's toxic.

He's a piece of shit. He does all this stuff. And it was true at some point, but I feel like I've definitely transitioned to Raven. That was going to be kind of like where I wanted to take this. So you go and you have this persona, but now you're evolving as a person. You're growing as a person. You're around all these people. You're doing these retreats where they're successful people. Is it

hard to kind of shake the previous persona? I think that the you know, I call my audience my friends and I think that you know, my friends that listen and stick around and I've stick around this time that have seen me grow as a person and I think that I don't really give a fuck

about someone that's going to talk shit about me or like hold on to something from the past because like how we meant to keep moving forward if we're looking back? So I just, yeah, I know that people always comment this shit, but I always, I see my friends or my followers, there'll be people, they'll clap back and be like,

oh no, you have to watch this interview or you have to see this. I've seen on Reddit where people just trash me and then there'll be one account that will be like, no, just watch this interview. I really appreciate that, but end of the day, I actually don't want those people in my atmosphere. Like I want to keep like my audience and my friends like just solid.

I think it's cool too to hear from a perspective of someone who's open about this. Like so many guys hide this. I mean, I was reading this book called You'll Never Make Love in This Town. And it's all about in Hollywood. There was all these high class hookers back in the Town. And it's all about in Hollywood. There was all these high-class hookers back in the day. And like, it still is.

Okay, in the 90s. But they went as far, there is this doctor's office in New York City that looks like a medical building. And the man goes in to go to the doctor, quote unquote, and checks in like the doctor. And there's a woman that looks like at the front she's like a check in person

and the man goes to the back to the doctor's like little office and gets a blowjob and gets fucked and so it's like a what's the address this is this is this is back in the day it's like the 90s maybe it's still open there's no way that's going out of business they moved down to 5th Avenue

Harry's doctor so but the point is is like there's no way that's going out of business. You should start it. Harry's Doctor. But the point is, there's so much that entailed in that to be kept a secret that I actually find it refreshing as a woman to hear someone who's just open about it and not trying to hide it.

Well, I think, you know, you look at some influencers or you look at some celebrities and they move sketchy or they're always putting on this like crazy bubbly, like intense persona online or any interview. It's like, that's not actually you. Like, just be a real human and people are going to respect you a lot more. And I think that's kind of where like, I'm grateful that I haven't fallen into just like trying to put on like a persona all the time and just be myself. And I think that's, I guess, why people still fuck with me is because I'm just transparent. I'm so transparent. I'll get myself in trouble in my personal life by shit I say on my podcast because I just want people to know the actual truth and the real shit that's going on instead of me just trying to piss around and answer. this is so interesting because one of the first skincare brands my mom introduced me to was murad this has been around forever because it works murad is a dermatologist founded skincare brand there's someone that i reached out to because i wanted to work with them because i feel like

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he has a new girl each week or stuff with my ex or, you know, another ex, Julia Rose. There was like a big scandal there. She cheated on me with Jake Paul

and then they started dating again. So like, congrats to them. Is that really real and not manufactured? I think that there was, I think that she was definitely manufacturing shit on her side, which is fine. But like, was it real for you? Meaning the relationship? Like, were you actually in? I think that there was, I think that she was definitely manufacturing shit on her side,

which is fine. But like, was it real for you? Meaning the relationship? Like, were you actually in? I think like with her, she's just her business mind was just really motivating and such a massive turn on.

And she had a, she's got a great personality and a great person. So I think that was, that's what really like reeled me in. But at the end of the day, like it wasn't meant to be. So I was kind of,

kind of glad that it ended. Are you and Jake Paulake paul friendly no no he doesn't like me oh yeah he's not not my biggest fan why why can't you guys be friends um so julie cheated on me with him then i went and fucked his next girl and then i think i recently just hooked up with his current girlfriend what is going on you heard it here first. You heard it here first. No, I think the reason I like love this generation is you guys are so honest.

Like I've I've been chastised since I've been born because I'm an oversharer and I my like I share too much and

everyone in my generation I'll say things and their jaw drops but with your generation you guys just say it how it is. Yeah, I just don't really care like end of the day like of the day, like, what's the worst that can happen? It's just like, why lie? Yeah.

If you're going to lie about it, I feel like you're going to get caught. Well, I think what's refreshing for Lorne and I is like, you know, especially being around for a while, there's so much occasion. Like, so many people are so worried about what you say or what you do if you make a misstep. And like, our attitudes, like, who gives a fuck? Like there's real things going on. We're all going to die. Yeah.

Like it's my, the biggest thing is like, people, oh, you gotta have a trigger warning or this, you said this, it might hurt somebody. You're like,

Oh, who like, turn your phone off. Yes. People turn your phone off. If you're that, if that worried. Also,

people come with all these talking points. Like sometimes when we interview them and not, not in, in your generation, usually in the older ones, they come with like this whole, like people will we interview them and not not in your generation usually in the older ones they come with like this whole like people will pull out notes

and it's just like relax relax well I think people have done and listen we're evolving as humans but people do a disservice

to the human experience when they're trying to curate it as opposed to just letting people be human yeah and they're just like hey well it's just

it's really frustrating because you're trying to push it in a direction where it's like super sensitive and people can't hear the truth. Even the Joe Rogan, his podcast, everyone's trying to hush him. It's just a different opinion. If you don't listen to it,

don't listen to it. He's doing different shit. I'll watch the show that maybe this other person won't like, but they won't watch it because they don't want it. How easy is it to just unfollow or turn off the channel if you don't like it? I don't understand.. How easy is it to just unfollow or turn off the channel if you don't like it? I don't understand. If you want abs,

you want muscles, you want a huge dick. Average white cock. Average white cock. A lot of people don't like their way of life challenged. They don't like to start to question and think like, wait a minute, maybe my idea is not correct or maybe I'm wrong or maybe there is another way. People people get really sensitive

about that kind of stuff. The interesting shit is, it's just like a different opinion. And like, how are you going to see the whole picture if you don't hear all sides of the story? I want more 24 year olds on the podcast. Make a note, Taylor. We all suck.

I want more 24. Who is the most famous person that you've dated that actually would surprise people how cool she was? Well, I haven't really dated that many famous girls, I don't think. It depends what you call famous. I don't really call like influencer. Someone who's well-known on Instagram.

Who's someone that would surprise us that's really cool? Oh, who is really cool? That is a great question. Actually, they all suck, to be honest. I think real celebrities, like people with talent, like… Oh, yeah.

Khloe? Yeah, Khloe's a great girl. Don't get me in trouble. Khloe Kardashian is just so… No, she actually is… Did you date Khloe Kardashian? No. No.

She was trying to push that narrative, but I shut it down. No, I'm joking. I'm joking. I'm joking. No, that never happens. I'm joking. I'm joking. No, that never happens. He's joking. He's joking.

But apparently Khloe is like super funny and like a sweetheart. But all the Kardashians, from what I've been told… And actually Kylie Jenner, nicest person. Absolute sweetheart. I've heard that from a lot of people. I've met her twice and she's just… Like she doesn't need to be super nice. Like you could have just slapped me in the face and I would have been fine with it.

But like such a sweetheart. Might have liked it. I would have been like a little bit turned on. But yes those girls like stassi she's a sweetheart victoria like has the most insane like feminine motherly energy like it's incredible i have a crush on her she's she's the best beautiful yeah i feel like like michael if we weren't dating she's beautiful she's stunning and she's such a sweetheart and always like in a great mood and just having a good time and like caring. And like, I don't know.

She just has such an incredible like feminine energy and motherly energy that when you're around her, you're just like, you're gonna be a great mother. Who's the star of your sex tape? The other star. Or is this the star of you? It's me, but the other person, she doesn't want to be named. She doesn't want to be named.

So you can't see her face? No. So how does one… Okay so like let's say… What are the logistics here? Hold on. Yeah. It's 5.30, you're meditating and you're like, I'm going to do a sex tape.

Yeah. Or did someone inspire you? Like how does this come about? I saw another influencer do one and she did it in a shower and I was like, this is a good call. Like this is… Congratulations. Like you've got me revved up.

And me and this girl were just filming stuff because we film stuff. Usually. What do me and Michael need to do? What angles? What's the name of the girl with the sex tape? Huh? What's the name of the girl who did the sex tape?

The one that inspired me? Yes. Sia Sky. Yeah. She's so sexy. Yeah. I know who she is. Her and her boyfriend.

We're sure you do. But it was like… Wow. Your mic's on for once back there? It was like full on like catfish type videos though. Like you couldn't really see anything but it was just you do. But it was like… Wow, your mic's on for once back there? Yeah, it was like full on like catfish type videos though. Like you couldn't really see anything, but it was just them pretending. But I was like, I'm just going to go for it.

But it got me inspired. But yeah, on our sex tape, you can't really see her face. Like I've got her up on my shoulders. Like I was eating her out like that. And then I'd bring her down and just fuck her. Wait, were you… Hold on.

I have so many questions. What if we want to do a sex tape? You never know. After I'm pregnant, we might want to do a sex tape you never know after I'm pregnant we might want to do a sex tape I need to take some notes right now yeah okay first of all

are you casting for this tape is it like no no no no I just we were filming you were just filming shit yeah and I was like

oh would you be okay with this to be released and then she she was cool with it did you edit it yes and can you just release it on every platform

no no no you can't release it on Instagram it's only gonna go on OnlyFans. It's only going to live there. So people have to pay to watch the sex tape. Of course. Yeah. Okay.

This is where I get confused. Send me a copy so I can… I need to see what I got to do. Do you want to watch it? Do you have it right now? Yes, please. Can we watch it? Hit the airplay.

Taylor. Taylor, do not pop a boner. Are we allowed to? Emily, have you seen it? You have. You have. Is it good?? Emily, have you seen it? You have. You have. Is it good? Is it you?

Emily had to take one from the team. Okay. So the goal... So you're like, okay, I got this going right now. You can airplay it to the TV right there. I can airplay it to the TV? It's called Dear Media Studio 2021. It won't come up on the podcast?

The only people that are going to see it are me, Emily, and Taylor. Okay. So you're like... So let me get this straight though. You start editing this and you're going through all your angles.

You're like, okay, this is a good one. Yeah, are you even looking at the girl or are you just looking at yourself? No, no. How do I play?

I have a couple. Do you pick music for this or is this just... No, no. You'll hear it. Yeah. Let's just wait until we watch it.

How do you... It's called Dear Media Studio 2021. Taylor, calm down! Hold on. You better not have this play in one of our conferences. That's what I'm trying to say. Dear Media Studio 2021 main studio. Wouldn't it be crazy if it was in...

That's what I was trying to say. Dear Media Studio 2021 main studio. Let's it is yeah yeah if you do the wrong one it's gonna go can i can i write on the instagram story of harry that i saw the sex tape but nothing will be played okay okay here we go wow that's a good angle this is just the 13 second clip i can turn the sound yeah turn it up fucking like a rabbit in there, man. Hold on. Let's get this started. It's hot though. Okay. So the camera's outside of the... Why are you eating me out in the shower like this when I'm pregnant?

It's a lot more. This is amazing, Harry. But yeah, there's like... Anyway. Good on you, man. Good on you. Anyway. So you're like kind of like the Ray J of our generation with this.

Well, the thing is like… Hold on. How do I get this on the screen? Taylor's saving it right now. Okay. I don't know. Everyone's doing sex tapes. I'm like…

I just feel like there's no better time to be open about your sexuality and what's actually going on. Like people have this crazy taboo and I think that's what causes like people to be confused about what they're into and what's going on. You know what? We got to get this guy some woo. We have a sex brand that we have. I'm

going to get this one. I'm all for it. Yeah. And I think that's why I get so excited about speaking about sex and I talk about it because I remember when I was at high school and I didn't really know what's enjoyable for the girl. I don't really know what's going on. And I like just if i just don't give a fuck and just be open about it that it's going to help more conversation help people actually find what they're fucking into and like enjoy like i've got a friend who had two kids and a wife and now he's like figured out that he's actually into boys so it's like and at his whole entire life like he's never had a conversation with a friend or being able to like talk about it

because it's always been like a taboo and whatnot. So like, that's why I'm trying to like in my friend group or like wherever or in podcasts, like I just always do my best, like be open and talk about shit. So that's why I don't really give a fuck about a sex tape or this stuff or like sexual content being put up because I want people to be like comfortable

with talking to me about it or like comfortable with asking questions and stuff. You know why I love this show? Because it just shows all different kinds of perspectives. And someone that would have judged a sex tape, I feel like saw a totally different perspective. And Harry, are you filming sex tapes? If me and Michael need one filmed.

Do you want me to film it with you guys? Oh yeah, I need some direction. Taylor's edits aren't going to cut it. No, mine was a bit of a steamy shower. You can't really see too much. There's a tripod, right? No, I just put it on the bench. I was like, get in here.

She's oiled up. Maybe we'll just have like a dual release situation. No, we can do like a three-part series. Yeah. So my last question. They'd have to be kind of into like the weird pregnancy sex tape. My last question about They'd have to be kind of into like the weird pregnancy sex tape. My last question about the sex tape.

Yes. When they go on OnlyFans to get this sex tape, number one, how much is it? I think it's gonna be 200 bucks. Okay.

So they pay 200 bucks. Yeah. What if people go and screen record it? They can't. You can't do that. You can't screen record it and send it to your friends

like whatever. End of the day, I'm prepared that it's gonna get leaked. Do you see penis in the sex tape? No. Do you see anything? No.

You guys saw it. So you don't see… Can you see body parts though on OnlyFans? You can. Okay. I'm just trying to understand because I… You're doing a terrible job of teasing this out. Listen, we got to go check it out.

I think I did one video recently where you can see my cock. So you can see it full on? Yeah, I think so. You heard it here first. Yeah, because I remember... Why do you keep saying you heard it here first? Maybe they didn't. Because I got hit in the group chat.

Like, that's going to do really well, Harriet. I was like, fuck, did I actually get my cock out? But I was like, whatever. I think it's cool. I think it's normalizing sex. This culture, you're right, makes especially Americans make such a big deal about sex.

Yeah, it's like, who cares? We all do it. It's just like peeing. It really is just like another day. It's like habit stacking. You brush your teeth. That's the line for all the people out there. Listen, we all do it.

Picking up a nice girl, a guy in the bar. We all do it just like peeing. So is there a girl out there right now that you have your eye on? Yeah, Khloe Kardashian. No, I'm joking. I don't think you're joking.

You've said it twice. Well, I just think I'd be a lot of fun for her. You know, she's got all these, like, what is his name? Lamar. He seems pretty hectic. The last guy, Tristan,

seems like a bit of a fucking tosser. So I'm like, I don't know. See, that's the thing. With Tristan, Tristan was who I'm referring to. Like, he's the guy that hit it all. Yeah, it's embarrassing. So what, yes.

And so this is why I want to tell our audience that I appreciate Harry because Harry's laying it all out there literally and figuratively. You guys saw it. But if you get like Tristan, Tristan's doing everything in the dark. So which is it that you prefer?

Yeah, and also like, listen, I think that it'd be great for her career it that you prefer? Yeah. And also like listen I think that it would be great for her career to date you. Thank you. Yeah. I know she listens to this.

She's a regular she's a regular tune. She writes most of our reviews. I'm sure she'll finally reply to my hummingbird DM. So if our audience

could follow you on anywhere would you say Instagram, TikTok or OnlyFans? I would say Instagram for sure. Instagram. Instagram and Snapchat. I'm pretty active on my Snapchat which or OnlyFans? I would say Instagram for sure. Instagram.

Instagram and Snapchat. I'm pretty active on my Snapchat, which I didn't think I would be, but it's more like I talk about mindset and it's a little bit more of a serious side of me because I don't really have an audience on there. So I can just talk about whatever without being judged. So yeah, and Harry Jassy everywhere.

I have to ask you one last question. What are some wellness-y things that you do? You keep saying about mindset. Is there something that you're reading or something that you do every single day that you think makes a big difference in your well-being? Right. Yeah. I think the first thing I do every single day is I wake up and I just move my body. Corey from my show, Corey Simpson or Samson, I don't know. I've probably got that fully wrong, but he always says on Instagram, wake up and move. And I do it every single day. And unintentionally, I didn't realize that that's what I was doing. But I realized that as soon as I get up in the morning and I don't sit around and I'm not dragging my feet, I just get out the door and either go for a walk or go to the gym. It makes my day a hundred times better because my body's

awake. I'm already moving. and whenever I have a bad day I'm feeling sad I just put music on and like dance for 20 seconds like I can't dance but it makes me feel so much better it makes me feel like

charged up and if I'm ever feeling a little bit like in my head or a little bit like clogged up with work I just one of the best things I do

is I write down everything that's pissing me off and I cross out all the things I can't control I focus on stuff I can and then I'll go for a walk and like clear my head and like, okay, cool. Like this, we're actually present.

Like there's birds, there's trees, like the sky is beautiful. And then I practice like being grateful and my gratitude. So I always, whenever I'm like down, I just will start from that. What can I control? Okay, cool, focus on that. What are we grateful for?

Go on that and then like, let's go for a walk. Let's relax. It's very stoic of you. So like stoicism, I like that. What are we grateful for? Go on that. And then like, let's go for a walk. Let's relax. It's very stoic of you. Like stoicism. I like that. Man in many layers. He's a man. He's multifaceted.

You know what? It's all different kinds of things. A lot of salty guys are going to be listening to this thinking like, I've been listening to this fucking tall, good looking Oz. He's a piece of shit.

And now they're like, fuck, he's actually compelling and great. Yeah, you might be hit up for a movie theater threesome. It's going to be even more now. Yeah, I'm writing a book. You're writing a book.

No, I'm not. You should. You should write a book. You should write a book. Unless it's a picture book. Yeah. I don't know. I got a couple of ideas. I'll tell you offline what I think. Okay, so if someone wants to DM you and drop in your DMs to date you, what should they say?

I have some pre-saved messages anyway. So they're fine. What is pre-saved messages? So like when you go to DM me, it already has like messages that you can click and it'll just send it. I would want to be unique though if I was going to DM you. I don't think I would because I just do nothing. Right. But if someone wants to DM you, what's the move?

I think just something like funny, like something that's like going to get your attention. Like I'll always try and DM a girl like, hey, what's up little hummingbird? That's what I said to Chloe. She unfortunately was too afraid of falling in love with me.

So she didn't reply, which is fine. Did she see it? Did it say seen? No, I didn't. But I've got friends. I have a really good friend that's really close with her. She said she thought

it was all really hilarious. But I just think that like something funny, like something that's not like, hey, I'm in LA. Are we going to hang? It's like, I don't fucking know you. Like enjoy your trip. Like fucking peanut.

But like I just think that yeah, it's something that's like a little bit cute and like catchy and like funny. But I have like the pre-saved messages. It says like, why are your ankles so skinny? And like, why are you so handsome and humble? And then like, hello, little pumpkin or something else. So I'm like, when I see those come to, I'm like, oh. So if you get a hello, little pumpkin, it means you so handsome and humble? And then like, hello, little pumpkin or something else. So I'm like,

when I see those come to, I'm like, oh. So if you get a hello, little pumpkin, it means you just hit the, you just hit the copy. I'm like,

you're lazy. Okay. So DM him something witty and funny. Yeah. Or some titty pics. Or some titty pics. Do a little titty.

Harry, you are charismatic. You're funny. You got a great personality. Your Instagram feed is... I don't think I've ever seen a guy's Instagram feed like this. Go to the very top. Your jawline.

This is before. You can come back on our podcast anytime you want. Emily. I would love to. Great recommendation. Emily, now that we're all working together, maybe you could coach me on how to take one of those bubble bath shots. I feel like if I got one of those,

it could set my whole career to a whole... Yeah, look at your men's fitness cover. I got to get myself together. The bubble bath pics go crazy because they're a little bit sexual, a little bit cute and playful. Yeah. I should have cleaned up the undies and stuff behind it.

No, no, no. It's relatable. It's relatable. It's relatable. Go find Harry on OnlyFans Instagram. He's going to come back on our podcast when he can speak in an all-American accent when he's doing his next sex tape that is full frontal where we see penis.

Harry, pimp yourself out one more time. Thank you for coming on. Thank you so much. You can follow me at Harry Jazzy. That's it. Thank you so much. Appreciate it. And thanks for my Purify candle.

I got a Purify candle from Harry. I'm going to light this every day. Calm your tits down. Oh, purity my purify candle i got a purify candle from harry i'm gonna light this every day calm your tits down oh purity or purify purify and there's the love and love and heart look love and heart there you go oh you don't get me a candle what the fuck all you get me is a finger banging overall i'm trying to practice like giving more because i i'm i realize it makes an impact red Reddit threads eat your heart out. Welp, that episode was fun. You know what else is fun? The ice roller is back in stock.

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