The Squeeze - Tay & the Gals Tell All

Episode Date: March 5, 2025

What better way to celebrate Galentine’s than with a little girl talk?! For this week’s episode, we gathered women from all four corners of the internet—Gen Z creators, Mormon MomTok, beauty OGs, and Bachelor alums—for a fun, deep, and sometimes spicy conversation about dating, love languages, first kisses, biggest icks, and more. Featuring Lexi Hensler, Victoria Garrick Brown, Mikayla Matthews, Mayci Neeley, Jessi Ngatikaura, Anna Sitar, Rachel Nance, Natasha Bure, Kelsey Anderson, Daisy Kent, Jaclyn Hill, Laura Lee, and Manny Gutierrez, no topic was off-limits—from worst dates to the best advice for a healthy relationship. And in the end, they all had to answer one question: If you had to recommend one thing that’s helped your mental health, what would it be?Be sure to follow:Lexi: https://instagram.com/lexihensler/Victoria: https://instagram.com/victoriagarrickbrowne/Mikayla: https://instagram.com/mikayla__matt/Mayci: https://instagram.com/maycineeley/Jessi: https://instagram.com/_justjessiiii/Anna: https://instagram.com/annaxsitar/Rachel: https://instagram.com/rachelmariean/Natasha: https://instagram.com/natashabure/Kelsey: https://instagram.com/kelseyanderson/Daisy: https://instagram.com/daisyykent/Jaclyn: https://instagram.com/jaclynhill/Laura: https://instagram.com/larlarlee/Manny: https://instagram.com/mannymua733/To email us your questions or share your story, you can reach out to [e-mail] sure to rate, review, and follow the podcast so you don't miss an episode! Plus, follow us on Instagram:The Squeeze:  https://instagram.com/thesqueeze/Tay Lautner: https://instagram.com/taylautner/Taylor Lautner: https://instagram.com/taylorlautner/& TikTok:  https://tiktok.com/@thesqueezepodcastTo learn more from The Lemons Foundation, follow  https://instagram.com/lemonsbytay/ and visit lemonsbytay.comEpisode Sponsors:Take control of your hormonal health with Allara Health and get 25% off your first month of personalized, expert care by visiting allarahealth.com/squeeze today.  Head to JLOBEAUTY.com/SQUEEZE to receive 20% off and THREE FREE GIFTS - a one hundred and seventy-five dollar value. From gathering inspo and scoring expert advice to finding your wedding venue and figuring out your budget, The Knot connects you to all the people, places and tools you need. Visit theknot.com/audio to start planning your wedding today.Visit premierprotein.com and go to Where to Buy to find a retailer near you or find where to buy online.Tempo is offering our listeners 60% off your first box when you go to Tempo.com/SQUEEZEPut your water to work with Gatorade Hydration Booster.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Go to your riceadviceor or sunnycars. The following podcast is a dear media production. Lemon Drops. Welcome back to another episode. episode of The Squeeze. This one is a little different. I have some friends. Hi, I'm Likesie, Victoria, Michaela, Jesse, Macy, Anna, Natasha, Rachel, Kelsey Anderson, Daisy Kent, Jacqueline, Laura, Mani. Today we're gonna be answering some of your most requested questions on relationships, love, and all the fun stuff in between.

Period. Damn, that was good. I was like, she remembers that so quickly. What's your biggest ick? I'll start. When they're too needy too quickly. That's a ache of mine. Dude, bad breath. If it hits the nostrils.

Girl. Wait, do I sexualize men? I was gonna say like biceps. Hey, that's also really good too. I love a good chest. I love shoulders. Shoulders. I like hands.

Hands. Kiss on the first date. Absolutely. The breath work. It was like great that he was really into it, but watching him like squirm and yell, I was like, oh no. That was spontaneous. I wasn't planning on doing it, but I did it for the plot.

What do you think about sliding into someone's DMs? YOLO. I'll be like, have we really sat down and gone through the entire, Los Angeles Rams roster and send everyone a DM. Shoot your shot. I went to Vegas on my first day, and now I'm engaged to that man. Just go with it.

Maybe because you don't have kids. Probably. Honestly, let's clock back to you. When life gives you lemons, what do you do with them? Over here at The Squeeze, we talk about it. Lemon drops. Welcome back to another episode of The Squeeze. This one is a little different than our normal episodes.

I have some friends with me in this episode, and we are spilling all of the tea on love relationships, ourselves, and lots of things. And I have two beautiful humans with me to kick this episode off if you want to introduce yourselves. Hi, I'm Likesie. I'm Victoria. Happened to be back. I know, right? Thanks for having us back.

Yes. Return. Return. Yes. The reboot. It's the remix. It's the world tour. We're going to be put on the spot here with some of these cards. Tay has prepared.

Yeah. I'm going to give you my all. You're ready. Okay, I guess we can probably start with, oh, wow, there's actually some good ones on here. And I'm actually surprised and I'm surprised because I wrote these. Wow, where do I want to start? Maybe let's just start with biggest ick. I feel like that is such such like the go-to question.

Being rude to strangers. Being rude to servers. Yes. Like, yes. I will storm out of somewhere. No, it's even, yes, for even when I friends. It's, oh, my God, it's bad. Wait, I'm curious, did you guys work in the service industry?

Nursing. Okay. So not service industry. That is a lot of service. I didn't, but my mom did. And she has so many stories about waitressing and, like, things she learned and just a lot of stories. So I think about it.

Okay, that is the best biggest take, though. It's like, oh, no, absolutely not. Because also, I think I heard one time a celebrity would take dates into environments and leave them for, like, 30 minutes to an hour and see how they survived and then how they treated other people and then come back. Because sometimes they'd find that they treated them differently than they treated like just anyone if they didn't know who they were. Interesting.

It was really interesting. That is smart. Strategy. That's a big one for me. Find the good eggs. You got to be nice to everyone. What would be maybe the worst date you've ever had? If you haven't had a bad one, maybe like the best date.

We can go either end of the spectrum. Wiped up for eight years. I'm like, did I go on a date before I'm back? I know. I know. I feel like it's just kind of like rude to say. say that I've been, I know, I don't know, I don't really think I, like, went on that many dates. I feel like maybe you both feel this way with your forever partners.

Like, anything before my husband, I'm like, that was not real. Like, no, I'm like, I blacked it out. I felt nothing. Like, this is the only relationship I've had. I think my worst date was I went to get tacos and I don't think this man said a single word to me and I kept trying to start a conversation. And then at the end of the night, he went in for a cat. piss, which I wasn't expecting because it was a horrible date. And it literally, like, I'm not kidding.

It was like, like, it like actually hurt my head. Like, it was like in and out so quick. And then he got in his car and backed into my neighbor's house. He was probably like so frazzled. Like secondhand embarrassment. Yes, that was fun. Yeah. And then, and then he ghosted me. So he was, he had to have been like so embarrassed. I mean, there's nothing embarrassing. Like, I've had plenty of car accidents in my day. Bad driver? I wouldn't say bad driver. I would say bad in parking lots. Okay.

Oh, well. That's funny. I actually thought of a worst date. The date wasn't bad. It was a Taylor, but the experience itself was, like, bad. It was comical. I think it was like our six months, like day-diversary dinner. We went to the sushi place that everyone had, like, raped about.

And it was so bad. Taylor and I would like We're putting it like we would try it and then we would spit it out in our napkin We ended up putting it in our napkins and bringing it to the bathroom because we like felt bad I both get really like anxious about like setting things back because someone worked hard and made that and I feel bad So we just threw it away in the bathroom and then we went home and did you take turns going to do that? Uh-huh I went to the bathroom three times got dinner

That's really sweet of you guys go. And then it was it was it wasn't like I've worked The food was not great. Yeah. The company was nice. Well, the sushi you gave us tonight was incredible. So you guys ever deemed yourselves. Opposite experience.

That's funny. What do you think about sliding into someone's DMs? I support it. Yolo. I support it so much. Yeah. If anything, I feel like I underestimate how, I don't know, nerve-wracking that is for my single friends. Because I'll be like, I'll be like, have we really sat down and gone through the entire Los Angeles Rams roster and send up

I want to DM. And my friend's like, I don't think that, like, what if they talk? You know, I'm like, but if they don't, shoot your shot if you want to be with a pro athlete. I didn't know that's where that was going. That's hilarious. But then they're like, they're like, it's nervous. I can't. That's awkward. But I guess because I'm like, like, like I said, white for eight years, I have no, I'm so out of the game that I'm like, just text them and say, I'm really interested. Can we go on a date? And they're like, that would be the worst thing I could say. I think A, that's hot. I think it's hot when someone's like, I know what I want. Like, hey, I'll pick you up at eight. And if they don't respond, like, that's on them. You know, like, who knows? Maybe just be delusionally happening. Just be, you know,

delusionally happy and just tell yourself that maybe they're seeing someone and it's not public yet. And that's by the they respond. But also, I would just wait for a story that they post for me to like swipe up on. And, you know, I feel like that's dipping your toe in the water. It's like. I do think, yeah, the follow. Did they follow you back? Are they watching your story? Have they liked anything? I would need to like feel like the water is warm before. I just sent a DM. Yeah. Because, you know, what's the worst?

Why, when you DM some certain people, you can't unsend it. Oh, really? You can. And then you can only send, like, a certain amount of character. This has happened where, like, if you're not, like, friends with them, you can, like, send the message and then you can't, like, send another one. I guess it says they have to, like, approve it. And you're like, but my first message doesn't make sense with the second message.

I have that all the time. I feel like it's, like, podcast pitches. And I'm like, wait, I click send by accident. I think it's their settings. Yeah. Yeah. But then I just sit there and I'm like, hopefully. Hopefully they know it's their setting, so they're not like, probably?

It's weirdo. Hopefully. I guess we'll never know. I guess we'll never know. I guess we'll never know. I guess we'll never know. Kissing on the first date. If you're into it, yes.

I went to Vegas on my first date and now I'm engaged to that man. So, you know, just go with it. Did you guys plan to go to Vegas or like happened? No, he, I met him 48 hours prior at a party. I didn't know him. I hadn't talked to him for more than five minutes of the day. the party. He asked me on a date. We went to lunch. He took me out to a cute little lunch spot. And I was like, do you ever just like want to just thing spontaneous? And he's like, I love spontaneous.

Liar. And then I was like, let's flip a coin and let it. And let's flip a coin and choose a place to drive to right now. And it was San Francisco, San Diego, Las Vegas. And I think one other spot. And it didn't land on Vegas. But we were like, we're going to Vegas. And you drove? Yeah, we drove. Oh, my God. I feel so nervous about the car ride being really awkward. And so that's what everyone is. said once I told them the story. Oh, I didn't even get that far yet. No, that didn't even go into my brain for one second. We were just in it and we talked the whole way there. We like didn't hold anything back. We told each other everything. And it's funny because a couple of our friends then tested out the first date trip theory, like the extended first date theory. The coin flip.

And it really let them figure things out quickly, you know? Wow. I did not even think about the car ride. No, that's, I probably wouldn't either. And then we'd be in it and I'd be like, oh no. I can't let like there be a break in the conversation. You know when you have to get to a level with someone even friends where you can just be silent and not think about it? That's when you really, it's so great. It's so good. I love rotting with my friends. Yeah.

Silence and friendship is just like so nice, even though I feel like that sounds weird, but it's so nice. You were one of those people that like I quickly felt okay being like quiet around. I was like, I don't need to perform for her. I feel safer on her. You really are so chill, Tay. Wait, guys, that's so nice. That's like the sweetest comment. Even tonight hosting such a huge group, you're so like composed.

and it's like no big deal. And I admire that. Thanks, guys. Now I'm uncomfortable. That was very sweet. Next question. Next question. I'm trying to find like a good relationship. Maybe like best advice to a healthy relationship. What do you feel like you've maybe learned or something that you wanted to know you could have known going into your relationship? Hmm.

I would say I'm trying to give like a more unique take than I, my usual stick. I would say like be wary of. of the stuff that you've seen in the movies that you think is like really passionate, true love that's actually toxic? Like, you shouldn't feel jealous if your partner's hanging out with the opposite sex. They shouldn't be texting you asking you what you're wearing to the party. They're not going to be at.

Like, I don't know. I just think when you really trust each other, then you don't need to do that stuff. And I think that you hear people say like it's, they like when it's like chaotic and there's constantly conflict or like you an argument to then be told that they love you and it's okay. It's like, let's avoid the whole argument and just say, I'm really craving love right now. Like, can you validate me? Can we cuddle,

like, instead of starting a fight to then get the thing, you know? Yeah. Yeah. That's really good. I really like that. I think mine would be like learning communication styles. Because I feel like once Taylor and I learned that about each other, it was like such smooth sailing because we are opposite communicators. And Taylor would always think, like, I was upset at him or like he would get frustrated that, like, I just, like, couldn't, like, talk when he was, like, want to talk. And I was, like, I don't know. I'm flustered. And now, like, he knows. Like, he'll, like, vent to me. And then he'll be like, okay, we'll talk tomorrow about this. I'm like, oh, okay, great. Like, it's so much, like, more healthy. And we can, like, we don't get upset at each other. Like, I know how he talks. I know how I

talks. I love that. That would probably be my advice. I know that's huge. Communication styles is huge. I think for me, it was, like, before the relationship even started working on myself and being like, it's okay to be single. And I was actually excited to have that time to really deep dive because before my current fiancee, I dated very problematic people that caused me a lot of pain and were very narcissistic and some were abusive. And it was something where it took me stopping and being single long enough to actually see that I was dating in a pattern because of my past trauma. And once I recognized that, I was able to get a breath of fresh air, breathe a little bit,

work on myself a little bit. And then I was able to finally start gravitating towards the right people. Yeah. And actively seek out like a different type of person. Stop attracting the wrong person and be able to see the red flags before it's too late. See, we knew we would get deep for you guys. We knew it. We knew.

We knew. This is who we are at our core. I know. Victoria and I were like, we're going to be so funny and cute. Like, we tried. Not us. Okay. Last question on the same kind of note is if you had to recommend one thing that's helped your mental health, what would that be?

Should I say mine? Spending less time on the internet. Yeah. Which I probably shouldn't be saying as someone who creates content for a living, but in doses, you know? You have to give yourself breaks. For sure. And the doom scrolling, especially at night. Yeah.

It gets like your brain all crazy. But yeah. I would say therapy. It's a huge privilege that I've been able to go, the amount that I go. And for the years, I've gone. I've gone like on and off depending on the season of life I'm in. But it's really been amazing. And I think if you are able to seek the help, seek it.

And even opening up to someone that you love and talking to them just like takes the weight off of your shoulders. So huge. Yeah. Those are both really good. I think maybe mine would be just taking them. that first step in admitting or saying out loud, like, what you're feeling because I feel like it's always not admitting you have a problem, but like admitting, hey, I'm struggling with this. Hey, I'm having these thoughts. Hey, I'm going through this. That first, like, initial thing could be

so scary. But then once you say it, you're like, oh, wait, this actually, like, isn't as, like, like, I built it up to be in my head. And when you say it out loud, like, even to yourself in a journal or to someone that you love and trust, it's like, hey, I'm not like in this alone. It's like it's out in the world now and it's better. You know what's crazy is I feel like 90% of the time, I'm just guessing. But to me it seems like almost 90% of the time, it's never as bad as you think it's going to be. People don't respond as bad as you think they will. Things don't turn out as bad as you think they will.

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We should talk about the tattoos. Worst since we both. Okay. Oh, yeah. Are you skipping through? No, it's fine. I'm, yeah. We have to do biggest ick too.

Oh, wait. That's a good one. That's an easy one. I feel like we talk about this all the time. Let's do it. Let's start with that one. Okay. Mine is hygiene or like smell.

I'm a really big smell and like teeth. Me too. Cleanliness hygiene. That's a good one. Also, we talked about being rude to customer service. Yeah. That's a big ick. Yeah.

We talk about that a lot actually. Yes. ABC posted a deleted scene of our show, and it was Jordan doing the sound bath. And he was like, the breath work. My egg is breath work. Sorry. And I was dying and I was like, I think that's my egg. No, I got a bad ache in that watching it.

It was like great that he was really into it. But watching him like squirm and yell, I was like, oh no. That would have given me the egg too. I was getting an egg sitting there. I don't know how anyone was getting into it. I was under my blanket laughing the whole time. It was so funny. I think my biggest ick is like mouth sounds, like loud chewing.

loud breathing. I can't handle muck bangs. Like any kind of mouth like sounds like loud chewing with like the mouth like the mouth like I don't know. Okay I get that. I think it's called something. It's like a phobia. It's like a phobia or something. Of course she knows. I know. I already have it like weird. It's called this. Self-diagnosed. Okay. Let's do that if you were cookie. Ooh. My favorite cookies are snickerdoodle. I was going to see that. I love. We're so alike. We're in love. Sorry. Me's me. So is that both of yours? No, yeah.

Snickerdoodles are chocolate chip or like Nutella stuff. Are you saying a cookie you like? It's supposed to be a cookie that is you. But like Snickerdinals are great because they're like a little, they have a little kick but they're also sweet. I don't know. Right? I was just going to say like a pink sugar cookie. No.

You would be the funfetti stuff Nutella one. Well, that's my favorite cookie though. That was so specific. Because that's my favorite. But why is she that cookie? I don't know. She's like a party girl. Maybe because like the inside's dark.

It's like the dark side of me with the dark side of the dark side. is like, is that a compliment? Is the golden retriever? I don't know. You're a black cat. I am a black cat for sure. She's probably like the, what's the most plain cookie? Jesse's a plain sugar.

Because she's a child. She likes eating like chilt like a child. You are the sugar cookie. You're a plain sugar cookie cookies and mini corn dogs. That's me. You're right. Jesse's cookie dough. That is so accurate.

Rock cookie dough. Yeah. Okay. Love language. Oh. I feel like mine's quality time and then touch. I feel like my change, I feel like, as I've been married longer. Yeah, I'm like, so good at all of them. I love massages.

Oh, is that a love language? Is that a legit love language? Yes. Add it to the list. Doing everything. I feel like it's so important, though, to know your partner's love language. Yes. Because you can be giving the way they don't receive and be like, but I'm showing you this and they don't know. And that's hard for a marriage. I feel like that was something that was so hard in our marriage is like, because when you don't have the same love language and you don't know how to show it, like if you didn't grow up with words of affirmation, you don't know how to do that for your partner. Like that was a big struggle.

I did not grow with words of our relationship. And that's Jacob. And I'm like, I don't know. Words of affirmation was hard. Like, don't tell me what I want to hear. Show me. That's how my personality is. You should be required to take that test when you're dating.

I'm not kidding. My husband actually, well, Jacob always talked about it before when we were dating. Really? All the time. He's such a sweetie. He is. I love that. He's great.

I think mine is. I think I had like acts of service as I married. I didn't before. But it's like, oh, if you're going to do the laundry, like, clean the house, like, that means a lot to me because I don't have to do it now. And I feel like happy. Or like when I'm hungry and I want like a gas station snack and Jace will run to the gas station and get mass at like midnight. You're adding these to the lights. They're like, these are actually not love like. No, that's true. Actually. No, it's true. No, it's true. I feel back when I want to do it. Yeah. It's so nice. Yeah. It's like, love language is that. I love that. It's actually. Yeah, that's a good one. I think as a wife and a mother, I think anyone would relate to that. Yeah. Yeah. Exactly. Celebrity crush. Okay. Okay. We talked about this on the way over. Yes.

Like who would we be most starstruck? Yeah. And we were talking about like celebrity crushes. Like when you're in high school, that's such a big thing. When you're married, it's different. Yeah. But who would you guys choose? Chris Hemsworth.

Yeah, you knew immediately. But I feel like that's, it's hard because like all the old ones that I used to love, like Shannon Tatum and Zach Eifford. I'm like, I'm not really into right now. Yeah. But you could say like them in 2008. That's fine. Yeah, but I'm talking now.

Okay. And I feel like there's not a lot of good new ones. I just thought of mine. I didn't think of it before. Your sister Joe James. Hello. Mine is. Okay. Wait, Theo James. Who is that? The Viking guy. Oh, I love Theo James. Okay. Well, okay, not him though.

I was going to say like if I was thinking like all time, like my whole life. No, actually, Brad Pitt. I always thought he's so hard. I don't think he. I think he's a daddy. He's a daddy. I feel like my dad. I feel like my dad looks like 30. I don't know. He has like the vibe. Like the long hair. Okay. Brad Pitt and Fight Club. Oh. I didn't get it. No, I even watched that because you said. He's so hot. What do you mean? I had like an 8-pack. And he was like tan and like has like nice lips.

Mine's Chad McCormack-Murray. Oh, that's funny. You know what? Jesse was married to Chad Michael-Murray. Did you know that? There was an article that my husband sent me that was like Jesse and her ex-husband and it was me and Chad Michael Murray. And I was like out of meeting.

And that was the case I wouldn't have gotten divorced. But thank you. I'll take it. Also how is this a news article that doesn't know who Chad Michael Murray is. I know. I'm like he's pretty established. That's hilarious. I'll take it.

Do you order on a first? date. A diet Coke. Yeah, like a a crispy diet Coke. A crispy diet Coke with my own lime. I'm a glass of moscato. You guys are like, what's that? I don't even know what the hell that is. I'm so gross. When I used to drink, it was not moscato, whatever that is. It was too fancy. You would have just like heart liquor. Mine was vodka. Yeah. She's like no chaser. Mine was shots, no calories. Okay. Would you get matching tattoos with your partner? Yes, I have

matching. Yes, you do. It's this one. And we're matching on this one. We have a Me and Facey have a matching tattoo, so we're in love. So this one I feel like it's like not with him the same, but it is. Because it's for our daughter. So it's like a matching tattoo for our daughter. It's so cute, yeah. I feel like it's because what you're doomed when you get matching tattoos to your partner. Tell them what it is.

What does it say? Oh, it says golden. Yeah. It's for our daughter. It's for my arm. So like, and we guys. So we have matching tattoos. Me and Jordan both got, is it the side?

Do I have to show us your nose? I don't see anything. Wait. Wait, where is it? I don't see it. Wait, you don't have a tattoo there, Jesse. No, you would have. Yes, I do.

Wait. Oh, there is. Okay. I'm like, you guys don't guess on me. I'm like, did your surgeon take it off and your fit, boop? My fifth boob job job. Her surgeon lasered it off. Like, I know I have it, you guys.

It's a speechless. So our wedding song is speechless by Dan and Jay. Like, our first date was their concert. That is hilarious. So yeah, we both got this. And his is in cursive too. So it's like, girly. Oh, it's like cute.

Have a tattoo? I do not have a tattoo. And I was just talking about this earlier. I was like, I don't think I would ever get one. Like I get bored of my nails after two weeks that I don't think I could do it. But I was telling him it's really sentimental like your kid. We've got tattoos on season one. Like we just, I think once you have one.

That was spontaneous. I wasn't planning on doing it. But I did it for the plot. I don't know if I would do that. And if I did maybe behind the ear. I know it got cut out. Mine made it. Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. She got it on her. Yeah. That's kind of there. Yeah. Yeah.

Well, it's tiny. It's like this big. I would do one behind my ear maybe. I have. Yeah, but you see that when you pull your hair up. So you still see it. You guys, I got a temporary tattoo the other night and then I washed my face and it like blurred out. Oh, cute.

Okay, yeah. I was like a pen. I was literally looking at earlier today at lunch and I was like, what is that? Did you get any neck tat or just like did not notice it? And like, why is it blurry? It's so funny. I thought you really got it lasered off and it was like in the process of lasering it. Oh my gosh.

It's so funny. If your love life was a movie, what would the title be? Ooh. Swinging Mormons. Knocked up. Knocked up. No, yours would be teen mom. Teen mom.

Knocked up. I don't know. I'm like, why does crazy stupid love come to mind? Wait, that's good. I love crazy stupid love. I like that. That brings us into the next one. What's your favorite movie or TV show?

Obviously, our favorite TV show is the Secret Lives of Mormon Wine. Obviously, we watch it all the time. Favorite movie? My favorite movie is the Dark Night. Really? I'm obsessed with Batman. It's like my thing. That's a good one.

She has a thing for Batman. I do. She makes Jordan dress with like Batman. That's her role play. I'm a real celebrity crush. I would, that's my new ick. Just kidding. I feel like, ew, gross.

What's been surprisingly challenging for you and your relationship? Surprisingly challenging. I think for me when I got married, I think, like, this is going to get, I'm going to get screwed for this one. But I was just going to say, like, sex because I had sexual trauma. And so when I didn't realize, like, I thought, like, when I got married, like, oh, it would be, like, great. Like, I was so excited. And, like, it was, like, that I realized it had, like, sexual trauma. And I was, like, triggered by a lot of things that took, like, a couple of things that took, like, a

couple years actually too. Do you feel like you fully worked through that now? Did you ever go to therapy? For a little bit and then I got over it. That's my problem. I just by myself, I did EMDR. Oh, okay. So therapy. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So I did that. And I think it helped. But I think just like over time it's gotten better and like just learning what your triggers are. And like when you are feeling that to like be able to stop and like, oh, that's triggering me. Because before I wouldn't say anything. Because I'm like, oh, it's embarrassing. I don't want to like say anything. Does your therapist at EMDR teach you to like replace it with like a positive memory? Yeah, like, yeah, like, if I got learned how to, like, retrain my brain and, like, kind of figure out what triggers me, because at first I was like, I don't know what's going

on. Like, I didn't understand it. And I had to understand it. I was like, oh, I'm, like, triggered by this. Like, I didn't realize it. And then I think my hardest part is because I never communicated that to him. So he's like, you hate me, like for a bit. Like, because I would, like, we talk about, like, our anger comes in. I think it comes from that because it's like, you almost put them as your abuser, like subconsciously. Yeah, because if you're, like, not in the mood. You're like, I don't feel like doing this. They're not saying, like, communicating.

And for women, it's so different than men. Yes, it is so different. And then they feel rejected. That was like, yeah. Yeah. Our thing too, but it was like, they feel rejected, but you're like, I'm not trying to, I don't know. But you're also not voicing it to them. Yeah.

And once I voiced it and he, like, oh my gosh. Like, this makes sense. Like, I'm so sorry. And I was like, I know. Well, I probably should have told you earlier. Like, that's my bad. But I feel like you've worked through that now. Like, you guys.

Yeah. Yeah, like I feel like I don't nearly get triggers as much. And, like, I know what bugs me or, like, triggers me. And he just learned what. And he knows, too. So it's like, we just work through those things. It's like, fine now. It was like the first two years, I would say.

Not like consistently, but like. But the first year or two is hard for any marriage. Yeah. I feel like mine's first 10 years. Okay. The seven year age, that's a thing. That's what Jake's mom said. She's like, the first 10 years.

I'm like, that's a long time. Yeah, literally. But I feel like mine was parenting, like learning how to, take your different parenting styles and your different childhoods and upbringings and kind of like make it your own. And you parent this way, you're a good cop, I'm bad cop or vice versa. Yeah. And it's probably hard when you both have kids too. Yep. Yep. Like Jacob was learning how to be a dad for the first time. Jordan was already a dad. Like, yeah. He was the good cop though. So I was like, yeah. I'm the bad cop. I feel like we're both. Like we're 50-50 now. But like he was the good cop. Like just the fun dad. And I'm like, hey, but he's being mean to me. I feel like is your switch off though. Like I feel like if I'm a little. I feel like if I'm a bad call. I feel like if I'm. I'm a good cop. I feel like if I'm. I feel like if I'm. I'm a ever mean to Haven or if I tell her no, like my kids know, they'll go to Jace and be like,

mom's being so mean. Yes, they play you against each other. Yes. And then if Jason does something, then they'll come to me and be like, Dad's being so mean. And I'm like, no, I'm like, what's wrong with you? But then like Jacob actually always backs me. That's the problem. Jacob backs me and I'm like, why are you being mean to them? I like, it looks so mad. Like, Mama Bear comes out. Well, speaking of therapy, if you had to recommend one thing that's helped your mental health, what would it be? Therapy. Yeah, therapy. No, therapy is hard. It was hard for me to get into. It is hard. Especially when you grow up not expressing your feelings. It's like going to therapy

is so hard. Especially when you have to find a therapist that you like. And you're comfortable with. Yes, you have to be comfortable. I'll go into therapy and I'll be so uncomfortable. And just like, when I'm uncomfortable, I overshare. And then I'll go after that therapist and be like, I actually don't like this therapist. And I'm never going to go back to them. And I just shared all this for nothing. Yeah. So it's hard. But it takes a few sessions to get there too, to where you feel comfortable enough to like. Yeah. I think that's the hardest part of starting with a new therapist. And it's Girls trips. I think hanging out with girlfriends is good too. Oh my gosh. Yeah. Anything outside of your marriage and kids and like daily routines.

Yes. I agree with that. Yeah. Like having good friends. And I would say like I like to like if I'm really stressed or anxious, I like to go into like a walk and like listen to just calm music. I was going to say comfort for mine. I feel like music and then having time for yourself to like ground. And yeah, even if it's five minutes at the end of your day. Like alone time. I don't think Jesse has ever had five minutes. She doesn't want five hours. I actually don't know. I'm just saying that because I've heard it. She's like, I'm role playing. Great, guys, well, thank you for listening to us. That was fun. Just gab the whole time.

Hi there. I'm Anna. I'm Rachel. I'm Natasha. And today we're going to be answering some of your most requested questions on relationships. Oh my gosh. And dating. And mental health.

Love. All the things. All the good stuff. Take it away, babe. Okay. If you were a cookie, what cookie would you be? I love cookies. Ooh.

Ooh. Probably a homemade peanut butter cookie. Oh. But has to be homemade. Has to be homemade. Has to be homemade. Don't ask me why. Okay.

I just think they're the best cooking. I love that for you. What about you? Oatmeal raisin. Oh, that's a good one. That's a bold move. Home-o. Home-owned.

Home-owned. Home-owned. Home-made. Houtmeal. Nuts or no nuts? Nuts. I want no nuts. No nuts.

No. But you put your peanut butter. Like the texture of nuts. Okay. Okay. Would you have like a little chocolate chips in your oatmeal or no just raisin? No, no chocolate chips. Oh, uh, raisins instead.

Raisins are amazing. That's a good way. You're not. I don't agree. I like love a little chocolate. Like I think I would be like, uh, oh my gosh. I'd either be like a chocolate chocolate chocolate chip, like a chocolate brownie chocolate chipped fudge cookie or I would be like one of those like ones that has the Hershey kiss in the middle of it.

I think that gives me like with peanut butter base but like a little kiss on the top. Yeah. So it's bust together. Yeah. With like a little kiss on the forehead. Yeah. I love that. Okay.

Let's see. Oh, ooh, ooh, ooh, worst date ever. She said, I got many. It was, it wasn't bad. He didn't do anything like weird. Well, it was weird. Okay. You know what?

Tell us. It's supposed to be bad. Okay. We went on a date and I kind of knew like right off the bat. It wasn't really vibing. But I didn't respond quick enough to say like I didn't want to go on the second. date. Like I had made plans like, oh yeah, we'll go out again, whatever. And then after I thought about it, I'm like, I don't want to. But I never canceled. So I went on the second date.

And the whole time, he was like talking about like plans for the future and like trips with this family. And I was like, whoa, it's moving like really fast. No, I'm like, this isn't going to go anywhere. And then at the end of the date, mind you, it was a holiday. So there was like a bunch of families at this restaurant like all celebrating. And he asked the waiter if he could take a photo of us having dessert. Oh no. And we're at like a super long table. So it was just us like leaning in with this waiter.

And I was so uncomfortable. And I never saw him after that. So I don't know where that photo lives. Oh. He probably just has it framed. In his kitchen. Yeah. And looks at it daily.

Yeah. Yeah. That's my worst date. Okay. And it's not bad. It's not bad. It's just a little like awkward, you know? Yeah.

Yeah. I haven't gone on many dates. That's okay. Tell us your thing. So I feel like, I think the worst one is. is more of like I think I was judging judging him a bit more than I think so it's his worst day not yours maybe I don't it was a little like I feel like it was the same was just awkward we went to um we went for a day day I don't drink so I feel like I don't really get to go on like we don't go out ever and like dinner feels like a big commitment like I'm a coffee girl so like we went out to coffee but he took me to like his favorite coffee shop where he knew everybody and they all knew about me before I got there yeah it was like I know I got there and everyone was like really gassing him up and I was like I was like really gassing him up and I was. kind of like, if you need this many people to convince me that you're the good person, I don't,

I don't know how I feel about it. You know? Like, it was just like, everyone, like knew. And they were like, oh my God,

he's told us about you. And we had never hung out before. No. Yeah. Love bomb. And then like, also I've almost like me a lot of compliments. I was like,

this is nice. But like, is it just because you want me to stay. Yes. Yeah. But honestly, these are good. Like these aren't like,

they're not doing something innately like bad. No, exactly. You know what I mean? Yeah. Yeah. And I mean, I have like, yeah, I feel like I've like bad boy stories of like weird stuff boys did. But like on a date specifically like that would probably be the weirdest.

You know? Like boys kind of suck sometimes. But like straight men are so scary. No, they, I fear. No, they're so scary. I fear they are. Like I have to date one, but it's like. No.

Unfortunately, exactly. I think about that all the time. Anyway, let's say my worst dating. Me too while dating a man. Both of us having boy friends. I'm the single one here. I'm like, you like your straight man? Yeah, I love my straight man.

man um let's see my worst day it's not even that bad but i was about to graduate nursing school so i went in a date with this guy and he knew i was going to graduate nursing school and he's like can i be honest with you i was like yeah what's not tell me anything tell me you're in love with me he's like no um i can't date nurses and i said so then why am i on this date he's like well like i thought it would be cool but said you're going to be a nurse like i just don't think it's going to go far i was like can i ask you why he's like you guys work too much and then like you guys need like a lot of, you know, help when you come home. And I said, oh, yeah.

Yeah, this is not going to work for me. No kidding. And I just sat there and I just stayed. And he's like, shall we pray? I said, praying is crazy. You want to be a man who serves his wife, but don't want to serve me. Okay, got it. Yeah.

Of course, I made him pay and I got extra food. And then I took him home. But I was like, bye. As you should. But he was so cute. Dang it. Doesn't I'm saying, like, cute. He was an engineer.

And. Love an engineer. I'm an engineer. I can say that. Yeah. That's amazing. But anyway, moving on. God bless.

Okay. God bless. God bless. God bless. I hope he got what he deserved. Anyway. Yes. He's still single to this day.

Oh, good. Yeah. And he's like 34, 35. Oh, awkward. Tough. That's tough. Straight men. Okay.

What's your biggest ick? Oh. There's so many. I have a good one. A man who uses the same joke on me as he uses on other women. Oh, that's a new one unlocked. Yeah. Can you give me an example?

Because I feel like it happened to you. Yes. To be honest, I feel like I know. Listen. Listen, I love my boyfriend with my whole heart. Oh, has he said it. He did it. And that's how I know that it was an ache.

But it's okay. It's okay. But we're in love now. I'm getting warm. We're in love now. And it's okay. And it didn't even make me that upset. I just kind of like realize I'm like, oh, that joke doesn't land with multiple women.

This is side note from that. But I get the same joke all time. When I tell people I'm homeschooled, they always say, they, they everything is Stop. I'm ready. That explains so much about yourself. I said, dude, I've heard that jokes. You think you're funny? Yeah. I've heard that joke since mean girls, bro. No, literally. Like, anyway, no. I have the same ick, but that's like, if I hear you repeating the same joke to anybody in general, it's like, you know it's funny so you're trying to get the laugh. Yeah. You know what I mean? I just, that gives me the ick. Even though, like, I'm sure I do that, but if I see somebody else doing it. No, that's like, if I have a funny story, that's one thing.

That's different. funny story multiple times. It's like having a little inside joke and then making it everybody's inside joke. Not acceptable. Yeah. No. Agreed. My ick. What's your egg? I don't like when people smack their food. None of that. Got it. Do you like that? Okay, this is a quick yes or no. Okay, ready? Do you kiss on the first date? Uh, I don't think I have. Not on like an official date. Yeah. No. Love. No, I have it. If it's a first date of someone that I've never met, no. If it's a first day with a friend that I've known for like a minute, I'm like, okay. It's like situation to situation.

Like if I'm vibing, then yeah, sure, but I can't say that I have. No, I haven't either. Okay. Love, look at us, girlies. Do you have any relationship deal breakers? Listen, I was just looking. I would maybe say someone cheating, but I also would want another context. I can look at me.

No, come on. But you could grow. You could be like, I don't accept that anymore. You know what I mean? I don't think you should accept that. No, no, no, no, no, no. Like, I just think, like, the, like, cheating is, like, such a complicated thing where it's, like, is it texting? Is, like, actually sleeping with someone?

Is it emotionally cheating? Yeah. You know what I mean? I think there's so many layers to it. Yeah. Like, I feel like I would say that's a deal breaker, but I think it depends on what context. I think a deal breaker for me is you, if a guy who doesn't have his own friends, I don't know why I, like, can't do it.

I was just going to say mean to his mom. Oh, that's a good one too. Mendo's mom. If he's mean to, like, either of his parents. Honestly, I will say this is now a deal breaker of mine being with my current boyfriend. I want someone who's like about me, you know? Like I want someone who is just about me, obsessed me, loves me. Like only thinks about me because I've been with people where you're like begging for their attention.

Yeah. It's like it is the worst feeling. Like if I'm with you, I don't want to feel like I have to like earn your love. You know what I mean? Now that I'm with someone who like makes me 100% confident and validated, I'm like, oh, that would be a deal breaker. Like I just, I couldn't. They're going to be there for not the right reasons. We just pumped to it.

Okay, okay. Guys, I want to ask, I'm going to take pictures of these because I want to sit at dinner and go through them and ask them all of you guys. We bring them down. So wait, I don't know about this. No, okay. I'll let me show you the Instagram. Did you ever see this thing where it was, listen, wait, wait, wait, real quick, have you seen this thing where you pick a topic for every mile of the race? Really?

It's like you run a half marathon and you have 13 topics. Wait. You only have one mile to talk about the topic. Okay, we're doing that. I think that sounds so smart. That's so fun. That would kill time so quickly. We're physical attribute

are you most attracted to. Ooh. And then we're going to do one to help. It's your mouth. Mouth and like teeth. It's your mouth. Like if you have nice teeth, I'm all about it.

Every person I talk to you, I will look at your mouth first. Wait, do I sexualize men? I was going to say like biceps. Oh. Hey, that's also really good too. I love a good chest. I love a good chest.

I love shoulders. Shoulders. Shoulders. I like hands. Hands. You guys, I have a really weird thing for like arms. Forearms.

Oh, babe, I'm a nurse. I eat that up. You know what I mean? Listen. Okay, wait, let's focus away. If you had to recommend one thing that's helped your mental health, what would it be? Honestly, exercise is really good for me. Like, if I can get outside in fresh air and work out and it doesn't have to be something like strenuous, it can be a walk, whatever.

Like, it helps me so much. That's such a good answer. I was literally going to say therapy. I said to go to therapy a year and a half ago. Slay the house down. I've never been better. Like literally, I feel like, funny enough, post-marathon, like, post-an exercise, I feel like my, like, brain clicked back in for the first time in a year. And I was like, is this what the world looks like again? Yeah. So, yeah, therapy, for sure. For me, it was, I set aside time to do devotion, like, not at church. Like, I have my own time alone with my dog. And we just, like, talk to God. We just like talk. I love that. It just kind of centers me. Whatever you believe and I feel like taking time to talk to whatever that is. It kind of like brings you back to like what you your core is.

Agreed. Kind of equilibrium is like. Yeah. We can conquer the day. I love that. And running. And running. And running.

And running. And running. The girls are running. The girls are running. Thanks for having. Thanks for having. Thanks for guys. Welcome to the squeeze.

We are back. I'm Kelsey Anderson. I'm Daisy Kent. And we are here reporting live from the squeeze. The squeeze. Daisy, would you like to go first? Okay. what is your love language?

My love language is all the languages. I want them all. That's mine too. I think they're all super important. Yeah. Physical touch. I want you telling me how much you love me. I want all of the actions and everything.

Yeah. Words of affirmation. All of that. Oh, I feel like I might know this one. Kiss on the first date. Absolutely. Good for you, girl. I thought.

My older sister. actually told me though, she said, never kiss a guy on the first date. But why is that? Why do you have to? I feel like if the vibes are right, the vibes are right. Yeah, if the vibes are right, the vibes are right. I feel like you just need to feel it. It's not necessarily, is it right or is it wrong. It's like in the moment. If you're feeling it. Yeah. And you're feeling it. Yeah. What drink do you order on your first date? Um, I like to be a little classy. Um, so I usually will do like a white wine, I think. Savvy be. Yeah, savi en blanc. Um, biggest fashion regret. Biggest what? Fashion regret. Fashion regret. That yellow dress I wore on The Bachelor and everyone said I looked like Big Bird.

I thought you looked beautiful. I think yellow is beautiful. Exactly what I was talking about. No, only because of what the internet said. Whenever we were there in the moment, I did not think that was an ugly dress at all. I thought it was. Even looking back, I didn't think it was ugly. I think that the internet is just crazy.

Also, they literally grueled me for wearing these heels. My Gucci And in the moment I knew that was a bad idea, but they were comfortable. Yeah. It is what it is. I loved them. Yeah. I thought they were cute.

Would you get matching tattoos with your partner? I think that I would if I was married to them. Yeah. But also like, I'm not a big tattoo person at the same time. Me either. I don't think I would. I think that it would be like. Maybe I'd make him get a tattoo.

Yeah. For me. Exactly. Maybe not matching. Just you get one for me. Yeah. Just you get one. Um, how do you feel about PDA?

I love PDA. But sometimes I feel like I get a little awkward about it. How so? Like, I'm like, oh, people are like watching. See, I love PDA and I think maybe I'm too much sometimes. But not like I'm not trying to make out. Like, I just love like playing. Yes.

I love like touching and like, yeah, yeah, grabbing my hand. Yeah. Love that. Right. But I wouldn't be like. Yeah. I'm not trying to like make out. I'm thinking of like,

midday in a corner. High school. Do you ever see people like against the locker? Yes. Leaning over. Yeah. Oh my God. Oh my God.

They're crazy. Favorite date someone's taking you on. It's definitely Joey. I'm trying to think. I feel like one of my favorite dates that we've had is just being at home and like ordering like our favorite pizza and Joey picking out a movie. Yeah. I think that right now, those little moments of just like spending time together and not having a bunch of noise around us are my favorite. Just like the you two together. Yes, exactly. Yeah. Yeah. Oh, I got another one. If you go. Have you ever been cheated on? If so, how did you find out? Yes, I have been actually. I was, I forget what grade I was in, but I went on family vacation.

The high school? Yeah, in high school. With my. My. family and then got back and he asked me to prom and i was like like my boyfriend yeah obviously i'll go to prom with you and then found out like a week before prom that he had cheated on me while you were gone on that vacation yeah what did you do still went to prom with him i know it's like a week before my high school prom you can't i should have went with one of my best guy friends him and his girlfriend broke up and you should we go together. No day. But I still went with him.

Yeah. But it's okay. You live and you learn. Yeah. Living and you learn. Yeah. Okay. Tell us the story of your first kiss.

Oh my gosh. My first kiss was in junior high and it was in between periods. And like the school that I went to is very small. So like high school junior high like all the grades were kind of mixed up. So I was like I think in like eighth grade and he was like a ninth grade. and he was like a ninth grader. Okay. So like super hot.

And we were like texting and he was like, do you want to kiss in between periods? And I was like, oh my God. And so met at this. That like adrenaline. I was so nervous. We met at this corner and I was so. And like we literally like pecked. And I was like, you know, I was very unwell.

I had to go to the bathroom. I like had to like get my breathing. No. No. It was just like, I remember. hyped it up so much and then it happened. I was like, oh, that was it. Yeah. Dude, yeah, that was it. Mine was traumatizing. What was it? My, I think I was in, was I in ninth or ten, I think I was in 10th grade. Your first kiss was in 10th grade? Yes. I know. I'm crazy as

in eighth grade. This new guy moved to our school. His name is Alex. Shadow Alex. Alex. But he was in. Don't tell Thor. Thor. But he was in my brother's grade because my brother's only year older than us. And we were like hanging out. And then I remember I was like leaving his house, his parents' house. And he was like going in to hug me. And I was like, okay. I've never been kissed before.

I'm like, it was obviously just going to be a hug to me. And then he like turns to kiss me. And I remember he like halfway like hit my mouth halfway in it. And I was like, oh my God. And then I leave. And then the next day. my brother's at like Wednesday night, like football, talking with all the guys like after practice.

And I got a call from my brother and I'm in my car. My brother was like, hey, I heard you had your first kiss. And I was like, and he missed your face or something. And I just heard a bunch of guys dying laughing. And I was like, oh, my God. Because he told everybody. He told everyone and my brother. And your brother.

Trauma dies. I have a good one for you. Okay. advice for someone who hasn't found their person yet? I would just say that it's okay to have standards and don't ever let those not be met, that your person's out there. And I think that everyone has different timelines. Yeah.

But I would just say be patient and put yourself out there. Yes. You never know who's going to come walking out. You never know. You never know he's going to have a big little hammer. No, okay, wait, I'll ask you one last one. If you had to recommend one thing that helped your mental health, what would it be? It's okay to not be okay and feel everything you're feeling and also ask for help if you need it. I love that.

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And I'm Laura. And today we're going to be. be answering some of your most requested questions on relationships, love, and all the fun stuff in between. Period. Damn. That was good. I'm like, she memorized that so quickly, honey. I've been doing this. It's like she's a podcaster. Literally. Literally.

Okay. So we've asked some questions yet. What's your biggest ick? I'll start. I have too many. God, actually, it's too, honestly, when they're too needy too quickly. That's a ache of mine. Dude, bad breath is that thick. Takes me. And someone could be so attractive, but maybe if it hits the nostrils. Girl, she's sensitive.

When I watch love is blind, that's all I can think. I'm like, what if they fall in love? And when they meet, I don't care about the ugly. You can be ugly. Halitosis? But the breath better be correct. Every time they need. I'm like, what if he has bad breath?

I just imagine it. Okay. No, I'll freak out. I'll literally freak out. Laura, if your love life was a movie, what movie would it be? I know. I know, it's hard. We can come back to it.

We'll come back. What about you? I don't know. Mine's like finding Nemo or something. I find shit, y'all. It's fucked over here. Yeah Mani I love you so much

I just heard what you said My friend I'm getting hot I'm sorry to sweat Okay I'm so sorry Well we're gonna come back to you We'll come back to think about

If your love life was a movie What movie would it be? I love that Mr. Mr. Smith Just kidding Oh What the fuck are you doing? I'm like the fight scene

I'm like listen Yeah I'm like yeah I know it was definitely a fantasy at one point Okay No sorry go ahead Okay.

Okay, so let's see. Mine is going to be, what's your love language? Like, what's your one of the five that you're like, baby, that's the one that'll activate me? I fear I'm all five. No. Too real. Oh, too real. No, I actually, no, no.

My, your main. What's your one? Quality time. Oh, okay. That you like. Quality. No, physical touch. Oh, that you like to get.

So you give quality time. Physical touch. Got it. I require physical touch. If Jordan doesn't touch me for like the whole day, that's like our number one, um, Like if he's too busy and I'm too busy And like we'll lay in bed at night And I'll realize like oh my God

Like he forgot to kiss me or touch me or anything Like my love language is like the way he like Rubs my back when we're standing in line Or it's holding my hand Like if you don't touch me I'm like he hates me Yeah he's not attracted to me anymore What about yours? Mine?

Yes, bottom out Mine is gonna be my number one I think that I need Is actually the words of affirmation Okay So I think at this point Only because I haven't been in like A really really intense long term relationship So I think that

because of that, I'll get insecure about things if they're not like telling me like, oh, I do care about you. I do like it. That's definitely the most common for guys though. Yeah, I think, okay. Like, if I want to make his day, I just tell him how proud I am of him and how amazing he is.

It's like, that's just, I think that's a guy thing. I'm so proud of you. You want to get married right now? What are you talking about? What about you? I don't know what I like, but I like to do gift giving or like cooking for someone. Anytime I could give somebody something.

Access service. Okay. Okay, so access service will be mine to give. And then probably the one I like to receive is, I don't know, what do I like to receive? For a second, I thought you were starting to cry as your voice is talking out. Holy shit. Oh, my God. I've got some tea up in here. You to receive, I feel like.

I like to receive as well. Well, yeah, of service. Me too. I like to receive acts of service, but I also like to give up to service. You like gifts. Me too. You're sick. You're sick.

Okay. Honestly, yeah, I feel like that's. I remember once Laura literally gave me from my birthday. I think it was like my 30th birthday. She gave me 30 gifts. Oh, I did. It was 30 gifts for 30. I love it.

She likes the gift giving. That's my love language to everyone outside of Jordan. Like I give gifts to Jordan too. But like I, since he's like my love partner, I give him different things. Totally. Oh, my family and friends, like I just love. Showering. I think it's also something when you're like used to being broken and then you get money.

You're like, oh, I can now. I'd be part of this access service. 100%. Totally. I get that. I have more fun giving gifts and I do getting them. Would you get matching tattoos with your partner? Never.

No. I know you would. This is power. I've heard. I've heard this. She wants a tattoo. She wants a no regrets. Yeah,

I want a no regrets. I already got one as a tramp stamp. And I'm going in for two. Just do it. You and Tyler have been together for so. Girl, literally. Honestly, even if we divorce, it's fine because we were together for so long.

It might as well be there. I'm going to say at this point, you'd be like, listen. It was like a memorable moment. It could happen. Yeah, it had to happen. Correct. We're going together like a lifetime at this point. So mine just.

Okay, my next. Okay, let's see. I have, oh, this is good. Who is your celebrity crush? And it's okay. Your partner's gonna be fine with this. I don't have one. Wow.

I'm being dead serious. I don't. That's really. You're like. Yeah, me either. Yeah, I hate them. I used to have a really big celebrity crush. Who is bad?

Who is Andrew Garfield? I know. Really? Honestly, I love a nerd. Yeah, he's a nerd. And he's cute. Andrew Garfield, especially in Spider-Man. Like, I had a problem.

I had a problem. When I started dating Jordan, I was like, I gotta tell you something. I'm like super upset with Andrew. He was like, really? Great. You kind of remind me of him. He's like, he's like, come here, Jacqueline. And Jacklin's like, oh shit.

You want the upside down kiss. No, that's Toby. That's Toby. That's Toby. That's Toby. Yeah. Are you sure. Celeve?

No, it's, I know who it is. But you do know who mine is, I fear. It's Henry Cavill. Yeah, Henry Cavill. I feel like that's just, like, so on brand for you. It really is. I feel like that is. It is.

It's so on brand for you. He's correct. He's correct in everything. He's correct in everything. The Witcher. He is too much man for me. Like, that's a big. That's a beefy, big man.

Girl, that's a lot. That's a lot. That's a lot. That's a lot. That's a lot. Okay. I feel like that's great. No, for me, it's lovely.

I'm gonna feel so dainty next to him. I think that. Oh, my, yes, sir. Jaylen Hertz, quarterback for Philadelphia Eagles, Alabama. Oh, that's one. Okay, okay. I was like, that kind of shocked to me. Jack was like, I have none.

I have like a roll of it. Yeah, she's like. I'm very generic, though, for this one, Brad Pitt. I think he's so. Dude, Brad Pitt. This is like perfect. He really is just perfect. Come on.

Brad Pitt. There's something, yeah, there's something different about Brad Pitt. Because it's like he speaks everyone's language. He does. My great grandma at 102 was thought, oh, he is just so parents up before she died. You know what I'm saying? Right. I'm like all the way down to my nieces.

It's like everybody speaks. Universal language. That is a universal language. It is a universal. Don't get me started. I was like, Savon? No, sorry. Troy the movie.

You're activating me. The touch is activated me. Okay. That's rapid fire. Let's try to like, leave that. One answer. One word answer. Okay, here we go.

With a one night stand, do you sleep over or leave? I never had a one night stand. A one night stand. A one night stand. Have you ever had a one nice hand? Yes. You have? Before Tyler?

Yes. She's like, no, last night. No. What do you mean? You like yesterday. Never had a one nice hand. Never. Never.

No. I have and I leave every single time. I sleep ever. Because honestly, after, afterwards, after the. Okay. You know. You leave? You're out?

I have to go. You're out. Because I'm like, maybe we had our moment. Yeah, you're done. We had our love. You don't like to say. You don't say. Kiss on the first date.

If I'm vibed, I would. I would too. And I do. Life short. Depending on the vibe. Depending on the vibes. Yeah, like, if I'm a vibe, I'm like... The last guy I was dating, like the one I was seeing recently,

we kissed on the first date. Okay. So that's a good time for me, I think. It took me and Jordan probably, like, nine days to kiss. Really? Oh, yeah, like, at least a long. I kind of love that because sometimes I feel like, if things are moving too slow, like, and like that kind of well,

I'm like, are we just friends? Yeah. Because somebody, like, it can feel like that. Totally. Totally. Totally. It's like a gay thing. I would be fresh out of a divorce.

Yeah. Time, honey. You need it. It's like six months to sleep in the same bed. Correct. That makes a lot of same. Yeah. I was like, come about that.

And it's divorce. I'm like, uh, it's different for me. Got it. Okay, sorry. I'm asking you a question. Do you guys keep going to be a rabbit fire? I know, I know. Have you ever ghosted anyone?

You have, obviously. Come on, manny. I'm like. Manny, yes. I have. Little hearts for you. I'm sorry. Like, bro, I have.

Laura, have you ever ghosted anybody? Never, but I haven't, like, Like date it for 10 years, you know what I mean? 100%. What about you, Jacqueline? You go sit down. No. No.

Jacqueline, you guys, I'm so pure. My past literally has two guys in it. Okay. God, you're so good. All right. I have a Chelsea Balton. Literally. It's lost.

Under that, you guys, metal. Metal under that. She has a metal candy on. She can't go through the airport. I stop her every time. TSA. They have a picture of her on the wall. I'm so dead, you guys.

Oh my God. I kissed a lot of boys in high I'm proud of you. In college. I kissed a lot of boys in college. Did you kiss a girl? Oh, yeah. Definitely.

Yeah, I kissed a couple girls. No, I did not at all. I really didn't. I didn't. But like I got it out of my sister. I'm like, how it's fun, kissed some girls, and then my roommate started kissing me a lot. Oh my God. Yeah.

A lot of getting so dramatic. Oh my God. We already knew this, by the way. We already knew this about Jack. We're like, oh my God. What the fuck? I think we didn't know. We are.

We are. We are. We're all three going to give you everything. Oh, no. We are. We are. We get too much. Have you kissed a girl, Manny?

Many. I've actually kissed a lot of girls in high school. And honestly, like in college. Okay. I've kissed a lot of girls. But it was more so like for fun, like they're drunk and I'm having fun, like we'll make out kind of thing. But it's never like in a sexual way. And it was just never for you.

It's like fun. No, no, it's fun. It's a different feeling. Same when I kiss girls, it was always for fun. It's different. Yeah. There was definitely never a party. It was never one-on-one.

And back in that day, I feel like it's different back then than it is now, guys would like egg it all. Yes. Totally. That's why I kiss girls. I think they still do. I think they still do. Yes, they still do. Honestly, young men are so sick.

Are you? But that's what it was. Like every night, like my friends in high school, we'd like all get in the hot tub, like at the local like. Right. And we'd all hang out. Be like six of us. And the guys would literally like make all the girls make out. Yeah.

Yeah. That was one of those guys like kiss. I'm literally like kiss her. Me just wanting to see gay stuff. I'm like, kiss her. I'm like, are you gay? Are you gay? Kiss her.

I'm dead. Oh my God. Okay. I have a good one. At least I think it is. Give it. What's the best gift you ever received? What's the best gift you've ever received?

My wedding ring. Period. My wedding. Okay. Scratch that. If it wasn't that, I lost that. So fuck that. I lost my.

Either my cat peach were my super 73 bike. Wait, your bike? What, your bike? Like a bike that's? Did you ride? Laura really went to the sentimental, right? Okay. Got it.

You know what? Laura really was the sentimental? You guys, I honestly am like just not, like, I don't, I don't know. I don't know about gifts, really. All right, okay. Moving on. I don't know that. Okay, we did biggest ick.

We're not doing that. We need quick ones. We need quick ones. Um, have you ever been cheated on? Yes. Yes. Yes. For me.

I don't know. I've been cheated on in such a bad way. I've already told you. You told you told us. Oh yeah, you did. You did. And we, it was fierce. It was fierce.

It was fierce. It was fierce. Can't confirm for all listening. Fierce as hell. One day I will write a book. Yeah, correct. That's going to be a best teller. Honey, cash that chick.

You better cash that check. New York Times best selling. Don't give it for free. Don't give it for free. Can we have a chapter? I think we do get a chapter. I do. I do.

I do. Yeah. I'm going to get 10. Can you stay friends with your ex? I'm like, no. I did. I did. I did.

You did. And it was fine. Yeah. And it was, it worked. I mean, it didn't because of the fact that, like, he was an addict. But, like, I tried my best all the way up until I couldn't. But, yeah, like, we remained friends. Yeah. But I think in order to stay friends with your ex, I don't know.

I feel like you have to have, like, a codependent relationship. Yeah. Like, I can never be friends of Jordan. See, okay. Yeah. Oh, I see. It's way too much love. There's way, it's too, you know what?

It's too far gone. Like, you're too far in, like, to the territory. You were too far out of that one. Correct. You know what I mean? I feel like we were always friends. Even when we were married, we never felt married. We were just friends the whole time.

So it's like I could remain fun. With Jordan, I'd be like, I have to block you. I can't think about you. Yeah. No, I could, oh my God. If Jordan, like, John would call me and talk to me about his new girlfriend. Right. And you were fine.

Yes, I'd like talk to him through it. It depends on your relationship. I think she's not going to like that. Don't buy her a coach bag, buy her a Chanel bag. Oh, wow. I love that. I'm going to let you talk to Tyler. Yeah.

I'm going to. Have a... Yeah, no. I've stayed friends with all my situations. Hey, every situation I've had, friends. Friends. I love you. But in the beginning, I can't be friends.

I can't. I need to blog. I need a new. I need to let air out. You? Could you be friends, Tyler? You couldn't. Oh, I feel like I would.

God, you honestly, you guys would. You guys have been together because you were high schoolers. Like, I genuinely, I think, like, if we had divorce, I would still have to call him. Every day. Yeah. Hey. Hey, girl. Yeah, literally, it becomes a girl.

You and Tyler are so cute, though. Like, you're literally, like, best friends. Exactly. When I spend time with you guys, I'm just like, oh, I love it. I was telling you, I was telling Jordan and I was like, I love. Yeah. After all these years. Maybe it's because you don't have kids.

Probably. Honestly. Let's clock that tea. Let's clock that tea. And, like, you guys laugh together. Like, you genuinely giggled, you laugh. 100%. Yes.

If you had to recommend one thing that helped your mental health, what would it I know mine. Prozac 10 milligrams every day, baby. Well, honesty is appreciated here. Yep, very. Mine is to quit drinking. No alcohol. Oh, I love that.

Mine is. You know what? I got a piece of advice in L.A. And it was the best piece of advice ever. Oh, it wasn't in L.A. It was from like a self-development. But it was like, don't take things personal. And it went into deeply, like, how personal we take everything.

We make it always about us. And like sometimes people don't text you back. Sometimes people don't call you. Sometimes people aren't interested in working to you, working with you. And it has nothing to do with you and everything going on with them. And like we want to just take every little thing we possibly can personal. And when I let that go, the freedom I experienced in my life to be a happy person was wild.

Especially in the industry we're in. So that was just like it's like don't take things personal. But if you go deeper into that and like all the different nuances and ways that we've do it. It's so fierce on how it controlled us and our feelings towards everyone. But if you can just let that go, you will have so much freedom. And I think that's part of mental help. Absolutely. And I will say, I will say really quickly to rewind to me just very quickly saying to stop drinking. The reason that I say stop drinking in case the squeeze wants like a little bit of elaboration on that. Me too that. The reason that I say to stop drinking is because when you

get completely sober, you are forced to deal with your demons. And it's the hardest thing you'll ever do in your entire life. But sobriety is when I finally figured out how to cure my anxiety. Like nothing else worked. All the therapies that I did, all of, you know, working out. Everything that I tried. Everything. Nothing worked until I finally got completely sober.

And it wasn't the sobriety that cured my anxiety. It was me having to go through the worst anxiety of my life because I no longer had a crutch and I had to figure out how to work through it by myself. I bet you learn how strong you are. Yeah. And everything else paled in comparison. Yes. 100%.

Yep. That was beautiful. Sickening. Good job, guys. Thanks for joining us. Bye-bye. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.