The Tim Ferriss Show - #372: Julie Rice — Co-Founding SoulCycle, Taming Anxiety, and Mastering Difficult Conversations

Episode Date: June 3, 2019

"There is no elevator to success; you have to take the stairs." — Julie RiceJulie Rice (@julierice_) is an entrepreneur best known for co-founding the fitness phenomenon SoulCycle. Julie se...rved as Co-CEO at SoulCycle from 2006 to 2015 before joining WeWork in November 2017.Julie's life's work has been about building community, and these days she brings that focus to her new role at WeWork. At WeWork, Julie is approaching everything through the lens of community—she is focusing on WeWork's brand and the experience WeWork provides its members, and seeking new and innovative ways to grow and share the WeWork experience around the globe.Julie lives in NYC with her husband Spencer and their two daughters, Phoebe and Parker. She is a board member of The Public Theater and Weight Watchers, as well as an advisor to the women's club The Wing.***If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes? It takes less than 60 seconds, and it really makes a difference in helping to convince hard-to-get guests. I also love reading the reviews!For show notes and past guests, please visit tim.blog/podcast.Sign up for Tim’s email newsletter (“5-Bullet Friday”) at tim.blog/friday.For transcripts of episodes, go to tim.blog/transcripts.Discover Tim’s books: tim.blog/books.Follow Tim:Twitter: twitter.com/tferriss Instagram: instagram.com/timferrissFacebook: facebook.com/timferriss YouTube: youtube.com/timferrissPast guests on The Tim Ferriss Show include Jerry Seinfeld, Hugh Jackman, Dr. Jane Goodall, LeBron James, Kevin Hart, Doris Kearns Goodwin, Jamie Foxx, Matthew McConaughey, Esther Perel, Elizabeth Gilbert, Terry Crews, Sia, Yuval Noah Harari, Malcolm Gladwell, Madeleine Albright, Cheryl Strayed, Jim Collins, Mary Karr, Maria Popova, Sam Harris, Michael Phelps, Bob Iger, Edward Norton, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Neil Strauss, Ken Burns, Maria Sharapova, Marc Andreessen, Neil Gaiman, Neil de Grasse Tyson, Jocko Willink, Daniel Ek, Kelly Slater, Dr. Peter Attia, Seth Godin, Howard Marks, Dr. Brené Brown, Eric Schmidt, Michael Lewis, Joe Gebbia, Michael Pollan, Dr. Jordan Peterson, Vince Vaughn, Brian Koppelman, Ramit Sethi, Dax Shepard, Tony Robbins, Jim Dethmer, Dan Harris, Ray Dalio, Naval Ravikant, Vitalik Buterin, Elizabeth Lesser, Amanda Palmer, Katie Haun, Sir Richard Branson, Chuck Palahniuk, Arianna Huffington, Reid Hoffman, Bill Burr, Whitney Cummings, Rick Rubin, Dr. Vivek Murthy, Darren Aronofsky, and many more.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Starting point is 00:03:44 this might be the easiest way to dip your toe in the water. You can try it out by the hour or even by the minute instead of a monthly or ongoing membership. Check it out at madebywe.com. And full disclosure, I am an advisor to WeWork. Julie Rice. Who's Julie Rice? She's an entrepreneur best known for co-founding the fitness phenomenon SoulCycle. Rice served as co-CEO at SoulCycle from 2006 to 2015 before joining WeWork in November 2017 as a partner. Rice's life's work has been about building community. At WeWork, Rice is approaching everything through the lens of community. She's focusing on WeWork's brand and the experience WeWork provides its members and seeking new and innovative ways to grow and share the WeWork experience around the globe. And a common thread that we're going to
Starting point is 00:04:34 explore is connection. And we're going to get into all sorts of details and tactics related to that. Rice lives here in New York City with her husband, Spencer, and their two daughters. She is a board member of the Public Theater and Weight Watchers, as well as an advisor to the women's club, The Wing. You can find her on social media, Instagram, at julierice underscore, tricky, at julierice underscore, and on LinkedIn as julierice. Welcome to the show, and thank you for being here. Thank you for coming to visit us. Although this is your home, so thanks for for being here. Thank you for coming to visit us.
Starting point is 00:05:05 Although this is your home, so thanks for having me. Thank you for coming to visit us. And we're going to jump all over chronologically, which is my habit. I try to turn that bug into a feature. We'll see how I do. And flashback to childhood. So were you a well-behaved child, or do you have any memories of misbehaving, getting in trouble? Yeah. So I was a super well-behaved child, like borderline nerd, actually. I was the kid that didn't have a curfew because I actually called my parents before it was time to come home to let them know when I would be home.
Starting point is 00:05:40 But I did get in trouble once in a very big way. And I will tell you what happened. I decided I wanted to get a second piercing in my ear. And my mother said, absolutely not. I was 11 years old. And that was completely inappropriate to have a second piercing in your ear. And I had one friend. She was my most rebellious friend.
Starting point is 00:06:01 Her name was Laura. And we decided to take the bus to the White Plains Galleria Mall. And we were going to get our ear pierced anyway. And so we did. We took the bus. And she convinced me that it was no big deal. And my mom wouldn't even see it. So I just came home and I put my thing over my hair. And my mom actually did notice it. And so I told her, you know what? I actually don't even think she noticed it. I was actually such a nerd, I told her. You know, I couldn't do it for more than five minutes without telling her that I got my ear pierced. So I admitted that I got my ear pierced, and my mom decided that a great punishment for me, well, first she called the woman who pierced my ear to explain that you actually couldn't, you know,
Starting point is 00:06:39 put holes in the body of minors without their parental consent. And the woman didn't seem to really care that my mom thought that. And she said, well, if you don't like it, then you should sue me. So my mom decided that she would. I'm not only going to teach my daughter a lesson. Yes, she decided that she was going to sue her
Starting point is 00:06:57 for $8.99, the entire contents of my piggy bank that I took to get my ear pierced and that I was going to have to take the stand. Yes, and that's exactly what happened with my punishment. My mom went to the library and she was her own lawyer and she figured out that yes, in fact, you could not pierce the body of a minor without parental consent. And then I had to go to court and get up on the stand as the most terrified 11-year-old that you have ever seen to tell them that, yes, I had disobeyed my parents and gone to the Galleria Mall and gotten a second piercing. Go, Mom.
Starting point is 00:07:31 So what did your parents do professionally? My dad was a phys ed teacher. And my mom, she had actually an antique business. When people move from homes or estates, she appraises the contents and sells them off. She's kind of like an art historian. And you said white plants. So where did you grow up? I grew up in Westchester, New York. Westchester. All right. So we're going to flash forward, as promised, to a year before SoulCycle. Could you paint a picture for us? Where are you? What's going on in life?
Starting point is 00:08:06 Yes. So I have had, this is just about my third career. I started out, my first career was I worked in the movie business. As a kid, I had always been obsessed with theater, with musical theater. That was always kind of my thing. I loved entertainment and I always wanted to figure out a way to work in the movie business. And I remember coming home, you know, my sophomore year of college and saying to my dad, who was a gym teacher and my mom who worked in an antique business, like, don't you people know anybody? I need an internship somewhere. This is never going to happen for me unless we know somebody. And my dad recalled that he had worked with some woman whose husband ran a kids talent agency, cut to I got some internship. And long story short, I did find my way into
Starting point is 00:08:55 the movie business. And I worked in New York for about eight years as a commercial agent. And then I kind of figured out that if I really wanted to go to the next place in my life, I would need to go to California. And so I went to LA and I became a manager in Los Angeles. And I did that for about 10 years. And after 10 years, I kind of flash forwarded ahead to what people's lives looked like, you know, in the entertainment business, servicing clients all the time, kind of, you know, really being, you know, a prisoner to a lifestyle of servicing people. And although I loved artists, which is what I was always in it for, I really thought to myself, like, I'm kind of ready to go back to the East Coast. I'm kind of ready to make a change. And I came back to the East Coast and I, my husband and I both went into our offices on the same day
Starting point is 00:09:46 at the time. I met my husband in Los Angeles. He was an agent at William Morris and I was working for a management company and we decided we were going to head off for sort of nobler professions and head back to the East Coast to keep it real. And we got up one morning and we lived in Malibu at the time. It was sort of like our swan song. We decided to move to Malibu on the beach because we knew we were going to head out of the West Coast. We got up one morning, and we said, okay, today is the day. We're both going to go quit our jobs, and we're going to tell everybody goodbye. We're going back to the East Coast. My husband and I, we left that morning.
Starting point is 00:10:19 He came home, and I came home at the end of the day. We said, how'd it go? He said, oh, yeah. Everybody said, great job. Thanks a lot, whatever. And you know, I'm all, I'm all good. And I said, oh, well they told me that they were going to move my assistant a month ahead of me and that I should take a month on the road and that I could do this in New York if I wanted to. And then I started thinking like, how are we going to pay our rent? So I kept my job. So basically the picture
Starting point is 00:10:40 was that I came back to New York and I was running a New York office for the agency that I'd worked for in Los Angeles. And I was still working in the movie business. And I was, you know, really, you know, having a better time doing it here, but definitely beginning to think about kind of what's next. I mean, I'd been thinking about what was next already when I was thinking about leaving the West Coast. And the one thing that was really going on for me here in New York was that in LA, you know, so much of my life had been tied up in lifestyle pursuit. You know, I went hiking with my friends. I belonged to a running club. We lived at the beach. And when I came back to New York, there was just nothing here that was lifestyle. Fitness was really about going to a big box gym, burning calories, having somebody yell at you about, you know,
Starting point is 00:11:29 were you beating the person next to you? Could you push harder? You know, how could you, you know, get it done quicker and more efficiently? And, you know, it's interesting, cut to 2006, you know, there was no green juice in this city. There was no boutique fitness. There were a couple of yoga studios. But certainly what's going on today was not what was going on, you know, in 2006 in New York. And so for me, there was a real void, even though I was desperate to come back to the East Coast and be with my family. There certainly was a void in what I had experienced in Los Angeles in terms of lifestyle. So I want to talk about, just for a moment, managing talent. So what does a manager do?
Starting point is 00:12:12 And based on what you just said, which, well, you said several things, but one of which was, they said, great, we'll give you a bunch of time off and you can then pick up with your job you i would imagine we're good at that job uh so what does a manager do and what were some of your better bets or better decisions as a manager sure um so a manager you know an agent is responsible for getting actors jobs and a publicist is responsible for making sure that people know about those jobs. And a lawyer is making sure they're making sure they don't get screwed over in the contracts for those jobs. And kind of what a manager does is think about big picture. You really think about who that person is, who they want to be in the world.
Starting point is 00:13:01 What I learned actually from being a manager is you're really thinking about creating a brand for a person. You know, what is that person's brand? You know, what does it, how do they walk through the world? What do they stand for? You know, what do people think about when, you know, when they think about an actor, an actress, everything from their fashions, the things that they endorse to, you know, the way that they talk in interviews and really thinking in terms of, you know, how do I plan talk in interviews and really thinking in terms of, you know, how do I plan a career, not just a job to job for this person? And when you get to LA or got to LA, you transitioned to this job as a manager.
Starting point is 00:13:38 Were there any particular wins or finds from the perspective of talent, people you chose to work with or ended up working with that come to mind? If you can talk about them. I definitely can. Well, I will definitely say that I think that one of my better skills in life is picking people.
Starting point is 00:13:59 I've seen that. I agree. I'm a very good people picker. I think I'm just about the greatest husband. I chose a very good people picker. I think I've just about the greatest husband. I chose the nuances that make people the people that they are and you know those little things about people that are special are things that I feel like I can really see and something that I love doing in the world is trying to help figure out how to connect the world to the things that are special about those people and so I've had good luck all along. Early on in my career, Ellen Pompeo was a bartender that wouldn't give me a drink.
Starting point is 00:14:52 And when I finally gave her my card and her boyfriend found it in the laundry a couple months later, she called me and we had quite a good run. I worked with Selma Blair for a while. I worked with Justin Long. And then when I was in Hollywood, I worked on the teams of people. I worked for a bigger company, but I worked on the teams for people like Jennifer Lopez and Sean Combs and Will Smith. And those were not necessarily people that I found, but I was actually really lucky to be a part of those teams because I worked for somebody, a guy named Benny Medina, who's like a very famous talent manager. He's created a lot of incredible artists. And really, he was one of the first
Starting point is 00:15:30 people that really thought about how you create artists into brands. He would take somebody like Jennifer Lopez and think, how can we release an album on the same day as we release a movie on the same day as we put a fragrance into the world? And I think that was pretty early thinking back then in terms of 360 thinking about how you could turn a person into a company. Let's flashback to Ellen, who you mentioned. Bartender. Bartender. What did you see? Now, as context for me, as well as people who are listening, do the most successful iconic managers have five clients, 50 clients, 100 clients? What does that tend to look like in terms of the number of people you work with? And
Starting point is 00:16:13 then what did you see in Ellen? Sure. So when you're starting out, it's much more, you're betting and you're betting on more people, right? So usually in the beginning, you start with about 25 or 30 people. First of all, your ability to sign. You're not me at 25 in the world saying to J-Lo, like, hey, come on with me. That's not happening. So you're trying to identify talent. You're trying to find people that you think are going to have trajectory. And you're usually signing between 20 and 25 of them and then watching their, you know, how their different careers are advancing. As your clients become more
Starting point is 00:16:49 successful, what winds up happening is you personally handle less people because now you're really building companies. And if things are going great, you're actually producing things, you're looking for properties for them. You know, you're really overseeing pretty much every decision for them. And so you're probably at that point handling between, if they're mega stars, you're having between one and three. If they're big stars, you're having between three and five, you know, and if you have a bunch of people on, you know, TV series and other things, you know, I'm going to say that once your clients are successful, you don't have more than 10 that you're personally handling. You might have a team of people below you that are handling a bunch and you're kind of saying like, yes to that, no to that, whatever, but you're hands-on with,
Starting point is 00:17:28 I'm going to say, between three and five. And what do you see in Ellen? What made you think, and the reason I'm asking this just for people who are wondering, why is he drilling so deeply on this, is that whether you think of yourselves as investors or not, you're all investors in the sense that you are allocating your hours, you're allocating your attention. And so in a way, her choosing clients is putting together an investment portfolio. I mean, you're placing bets and you have a finite number of bets you can place. So why Ellen? What did you see? You know, I saw in Ellen, interestingly enough, what I ultimately wound up looking for in SoulCycle instructors, what I ultimately look for in employees, and what I actually do ultimately
Starting point is 00:18:12 look for in entrepreneurs, which is, you know, there was something about her that made me want to know her, that made me want to understand what she was thinking, what she was going to be doing. You know, when I used to audition SoulCycle instructors, I would say the main criteria that I had for a SoulCycle instructor was, do I want to have a whole meal with you? You know, I'm talking about an appetizer, an entree, and dessert, and I'm still not bored of you. You know, really, you know, how do you connect to people? And, you know, watching her, there was something that was just fascinating about her. There was something that was really deep that I wanted her to tell me.
Starting point is 00:18:54 And I think that's really interesting. I think that there are certain kinds of people that you really want to lean into. And whenever I sort of have that instinct, when my body kind of wants to lean into somebody to know a little bit more, I genuinely know that that's a person that I need to sort of surround myself with because there's something about that person that is, you know, interesting for me. So we're back into SoulCycle become something real in the sense that there was a concrete action of some type of taking it from in the head to into the world in some way? Right. That's what actually separates the boys from the men, right? I always say, everybody's got an idea tucked away somewhere. So, I was working in New York. I was still working in the talent business and I was taking classes at many different gyms, just sort of trying to find
Starting point is 00:19:53 something that, you know, fulfilled me in terms of exercise. I'm an anxious person. Exercise is a real must for me in my life to sort of keep myself and everybody around me in good spirits. And I just couldn't find anything that was enjoyable. And I kept thinking to myself, this could be different. This could be fun. This could make you feel good. And I was taking classes with an indoor cycling instructor at a gym. And I became friendly with her. And I just kept saying all those things to her. And finally, she said to me, you know, there's a woman that takes some classes with me at another gym.
Starting point is 00:20:33 And she's been saying the same thing to me. You guys should meet for lunch. And so she connected me with my business partner, who's right there, and my other soulmate, as I like to say. And we had lunch one day, and it was really the craziest thing. I mean, it's a hard story to believe because we met for lunch.
Starting point is 00:20:53 We had a couple-hour lunch. It was in the winter, and it was at Soho House here in New York, and we had lunch, and it was crazy. It was like we had the same exact idea, and we were just completing each other's sentences. And when I left lunch that day, before I even got in my cab, my cell phone rang, and it was Elizabeth, and she said to me, you know, I'm going to look for real estate, and you look at towels, and I'll call you on Thursday. And I thought, wow, like, that's amazing. I mean, I still had a job and,
Starting point is 00:21:25 you know, whatever. And sure enough, like she called me on Thursday and she said, I found something on Craigslist. She said, it's a 1200 square foot sublet of an old dance studio. We could take a five-year sublet and you should meet me tomorrow on 72nd Street. And I went and four months later we opened. How were you doing on the towels? She's like, so how are you doing on the towels? So it's really interesting actually, in case anybody wants to start a business, it turns out that when you have a 1200 square foot studio and you don't actually have laundry facilities, what you do is you rent towels and somebody picks them up and takes them away every day and launders them. And I learned that on Google and I dutifully brought
Starting point is 00:22:04 my towel report that day as she was signing the lease for our Craigslist dance studio. You, based on just the reading that I've done in preparation for this, made some, in retrospect, what seemed to be very important decisions. One of them was deferring or minimizing payment to yourselves, it seems. And I read about, maybe you could talk about the, I think it was, what, the every Sunday, the $200 ATM. Maybe you could talk about that. But could you explain the rationale behind that? And could you elaborate on the weekly ritual with the ATM? Definitely.
Starting point is 00:22:46 So when we started SoulCycle, I actually had a good job. I was making real money. And it was really the first time, actually, that I ever thought about my time as money. Because I was sort of giving up a salary now. And I was going to be using all my time but wasn't going to necessarily be taking it. I took a small salary because at the time that's what we needed to do.
Starting point is 00:23:12 But my husband was working luckily and he was supporting us. But we had a five-month-old baby and we moved into a rent-control apartment. We paid a little less than $1,000 a month. We lived on 71st Street over Harry's Burritos. And I had a five-month-old baby who's in the front row. She's not such a baby.
Starting point is 00:23:34 What are you wearing? I'll let you guys start that out. And, yeah, so what we decided was that we were, you know, we were going to make sacrifices so that we could start this business. And Spencer, my husband, would go to the cash machine on Sunday nights, and he would take out $400. We decided that when we started the business, we were going to give our credit cards up.
Starting point is 00:24:07 And we were going to put ourselves on, like, a real budget, which we hadn't really done before. We were two people with no kids and two salaries and, you know, we weren't making tons of money, but we certainly had enough that we could each go to Starbucks and take cabs and go out for dinner and not think about a vacation. And so Spencer would give us a white envelope, each of us on Sunday nights, we each got $200 and that was our money for the week. And when the $200 was gone, that was... Each of us, meaning he got one. He got 200 bucks and I got 200 bucks. And I will tell you with a child in New York City,
Starting point is 00:24:37 $200 does not go that far. So it was like a lot of strollers on the crosstown bus, not a lot of Starbucks, But that's what we did. And, you know, it actually, you know, I think that one of the really interesting things about, you know, really believing in what you're doing and being so passionate about an idea and really believing that something should be born was, it was hard. And, you know, I remember clamping my finger in that stroller a million times and cursing on that bus, but it didn't really feel like that big of a sacrifice. I mean, we were happy. And we, Elizabeth and I were loving what
Starting point is 00:25:16 we were doing and we did it. And, you know, we lived in one room and, you know, when we wanted to watch TV, we rolled the crib into our bedroom and we wanted to go to sleep. We rolled the crib back out into the living room and that's what we did. And I was, thank you for painting a picture because I think it, and you already said sort of anxious by birth. So it doesn't strike me as the perfect time to necessarily start a company. And just with a five-month-year-old kid and five-month-year-old kid, is that what they say? Sorry, guys. For the Brits in the audience, that's American.
Starting point is 00:25:58 That's Yanksby. It, I think, just highlights the fact that if you really have something you want to do and feel is important, there's very rarely going to be a perfect, convenient time to do it. You know, it was such a gift that it happened so quickly. I talk a lot about Elizabeth, my business partner, sort of being a great entrepreneur, and me being a really hard worker. And I think that's part of what makes us such great partners. Elizabeth's an incredibly good risk taker. I always say Elizabeth's like a total baller.
Starting point is 00:26:33 And I'm just sort of running behind trying to work really hard. But the truth is that I think because she was such a good risk taker, because she's so good at moving the ball forward, it all happened so quickly. I didn't actually have time to be anxious or think, oh, I'm giving up my job, and what's going to happen? It was just like, we met on Tuesday. We saw the place on Thursday. We went across the street to Starbucks. We rode on a napkin, which we still have framed.
Starting point is 00:26:56 It says, if we could see 100 people a day at $27 a bike, we're going to have enough money to pay for some babysitters. We both had young kids at the time. We're going to be able to pay our studio staff. We're going to be able to take a little bit out of the business to justify the fact that we're not raising our own kids for the next decade. And that was our business model on the back of that Starbucks napkin. And the truth is, it happened quickly. And we just got into action mode so quick that we didn't have a lot of time to obsess about what if, what if, what if, like we just had to make it happen every day. What names, what other names were candidates for the business besides SoulCycle? Or was that just like a lightning bolt from the
Starting point is 00:27:37 sky and that was it? Did you guys? That was a lightning bolt to Elizabeth's husband in the shower one day. It was not a lightning bolt to either of us. But, you know, we thought of, you know, we thought of a bunch of different names, you know, at the time, again, there was no boutique fitness in New York City. And so we felt like we needed something sort of descriptive about the cycling part of it in the names. We thought about Cycle NYC. You know, we definitely had a lot of cycle in the name in the different other names, because we felt we needed to be somewhat specific for people. And then you landed on SoulCycle. How did you decide on the business model?
Starting point is 00:28:12 So not just, say, the technology and the ambiance and all these other elements that made it different, but how did you both think about developing the business model? So it's interesting. I think that, you know, again, at the time, the landscape was, you know, in New York City, there were big box gyms. And the model that was profitable was you went in, you gave somebody your credit card, they took an imprint of it, and then they just hoped that you never came. Because the best thing that could happen was that they could double or triple book
Starting point is 00:28:49 your spot when they were figuring out their utilization. And rather than take 400 members, they could have 800 members or even better. Both of those people didn't show up and they could have 1200 members. And so for us, you know, we really began to think about it in a different way. And I think a lot of it, you know, had to do also with our idea that we were tasking ourselves to create a really special experience every time, you know, to the point of being a theater lover and thinking about things in terms of a production, we used to always say that every time somebody crossed the threshold at SoulCycle, it was curtain up. And until they left, it was curtain down because we were only as good as their last experience. When we decided on a pay-per-class model, everybody thought that we were crazy. Like, why wouldn't you just take people's credit cards? Why wouldn't you just charge them? And for us, it was a challenge to everybody there, from the people at the front desk to know your name, to the instructor in that room to deliver a certain kind of experience, to us to make sure
Starting point is 00:29:50 that the brand was delivering a message and continuing to innovate. And we just really felt like we wanted to challenge ourselves in that kind of way. We wanted to deliver that kind of experience every time. Were there any other early decisions that proved either particularly important slash good or particularly bad? There were many decisions that proved both of those things. Let's talk about the good ones first. I think that when we started SoulCycle, there were quite a few things that even though our business model on the Starbucks napkin might not seem sophisticated, I think that we were smarter than we thought that we were.
Starting point is 00:30:32 And we thought about a few different things. We thought about technology. We thought about the fact that at the time, you had to go to the gym an hour early to put your name on a paper list and sign up for a class that was only going to be 45 minutes long. So your gym experience now turned into two hours plus for 45 minutes worth of exercise. And so we created the first online reservation system. We thought about brand a lot. We thought about creating something. We never thought about SoulCycle like we're creating a gym. You know, for us, our muses were things like the White Cube, you know, the art gallery in London or an Apple store.
Starting point is 00:31:12 We always thought about ourselves in a much different way and creating a brand and, you know, we never compared ourselves to fitness. And we always thought sort of, if we could create a brand, if we could set a stage, if we could create a place where people felt safe and empowered and like they could share with other people, if we could set that stage where people felt safe and empowered and like they could share with other people, if we could set that stage and create that for people, then they could have a different experience and they could have an environment that wasn't like that. We also really thought
Starting point is 00:31:36 about community and we thought about, you know, how do we create a place where people support each other? You know, so much of what was going on at gyms was competition between people. And for us, it was all about, you know, some days I'm not going to feel like exercising, but like, if you can bring it for me on Monday and I can bring it for you on Wednesday, and we can all raise each other up, what does that kind of a place feel like? As co-participants. Correct. Correct. And, you know, there were a lot of little decisions that we made along the way, you know, and things also that just happened to us in a lucky way. We started out with 35 bikes
Starting point is 00:32:08 in the room. We got popular before we could find a second space. So we ended up with 45 bikes in the room. And what did that do? It put the bikes this close to each other. And when people were done complaining about, can you believe they're going to charge $27 and I'm going to have to sit that close to somebody? What actually happened was the lights were dark and people could all feel the music at the same time. And you could almost feel somebody breathing next to you and your foot was on the same beat as their foot was on. And all of a sudden it became connected and it became tribal and it was dark and there were candles and the music was amazing. And an instructor is telling you that you could be more than you thought you could be.
Starting point is 00:32:45 And somehow the room is moving together in a way that you don't often feel connected to people like that. Even when you're having deep conversation, there's something about a moving meditation with other people that are rooting for you, that are holding space for you, that aren't there to compete with you, that are there to elevate you so that they can be elevated as well. And when we created an experience like that, it was magic. I mean, it was really magic. And that is kind of, it was a really transformational thing for people.
Starting point is 00:33:14 It's really remarkable, among other things, that you two are still close in the sense that a lot of co-founders blow to smithereens at some point. Like they get speed wobbles maybe because the company's growing really quickly. They might not have the important conversations up front that they should have. There are a million and one reasons why a lot of these relationships don't work out.
Starting point is 00:33:37 I don't know if this factors in, but could you talk to coaching or advisors? And if, if, and how you've, you've utilized people to, to, to help you guys develop and maintain close bonds and ability to work
Starting point is 00:33:58 together. Definitely. So early on in our business life, Elizabeth and I started to see a coach. And the way that that happened was we had a third business partner in the beginning. And that was, we quickly found out that, you know, that partnership was not necessarily going to work. And we realized, you know, as that partnership was crumbling, that it takes work to make good partnerships, something that I have worked on in my marriage, something that, you know, is no longer a secret to me, that people actually need skills and tools to be in relationships with other people.
Starting point is 00:34:39 You know, there are plenty of people that are in relationships that are fine, but if you really want to have great relationships, that's actually a particular skill set, right? And so Elizabeth, and picture, I don't really know Elizabeth very well at this point. I mean, we're about a year into business. You know, we met at this lunch. We decided, like, let's just go for it. I mean, you know, we're still pretty much strangers. And, you know, Elizabeth, you know, while I was in LA growing a career, Elizabeth's in Colorado. She goes to University of Boulder. She spends her time in Telluride. She is like a much more sort of evolved spiritual, you know, at peace with the world person than I am. I'm still like, I've only lived on the coasts, you know, I've only done that grind. So Elizabeth calls me
Starting point is 00:35:23 in the middle of the night and she says, you know, I've Googled Life Coach NYC. I've realized she's having a nervous breakdown because she realizes that our business is taking off. Our third partner has walked, you know, we've got to get rid of our third partner who's completely toxic. And now it's like, what's going to happen here? And we both have little kids at home. And, you know, the worst thing that's happening is that our business is becoming such a success that like, we're going to have to, you know, put our foot on the gas here. And so she says she's Googled Life Coach NYC and that I should meet her tomorrow at somewhere, some location around Gramercy because we're going to meet with the coach. And I'm thinking, I hang up the phone and I say to my husband, like, this woman is batshit crazy.
Starting point is 00:36:01 Like, there is no way. Like, I have to work tomorrow. There's no way I'm getting myself in a cab going all the way downtown to go to some hotel and sit with some life coach NYC. Like, I'm thinking, we're sitting with Dionne Warwick, and she is going to tell us, you know. But sure enough, I mean, we get there. And, you know, we start to talk to our coach, who, by the way, we still work with today. There are so many decisions in my life and our life that we wouldn't make without her. And I met with a woman. Her name was Meredith Haberfield. She has an incredible company called Think Human. And we started to
Starting point is 00:36:40 talk about what it's like to be good partners and, you know, what it takes to make decisions together. And like any relationship, you know, you're two people that have a common vision, but are in very different moments in your life at all times. And a business relationship is no different. I mean, there are times that like, I need money and you don't, or, you know, I need to slow down for a minute because something's going on in the life of my family and you don't, or I need to slow down for a minute because something's going on in the life of my family, and you want to put your foot on the gas, or whatever, or there's just things that you want to do with the business. I'm ready to sell the business, and you're not. What does that all look like? And everything along the way, from learning how to be the only two employees in a company,
Starting point is 00:37:21 to managing 2,500 employees, and what do you look like as leaders? And how do you communicate with your employees? And so we started down this journey with Meredith, our therapist coach, life coach, NYC. I really think she's changed her website since then. You know, we've worked with her for a long time now, 10 years. And I will say that she taught us lessons that helped inform the entire way that the culture of our company would exist. You know, we would learn how to have a conversation with each other. And then we would take those skills and we would codify them. We had an incredible chief culture officer. And we'd work on them.
Starting point is 00:38:03 We'd learn how to have those skills. And then we'd bring her in to learn that skill and then we'd codify it and we would teach the entire organization how to communicate like that. And we did that until we created a really extensive library of tools that we use to build a culture. And what was amazing was, and I know that you speak to so many founders that have spoken businesses, that have started businesses. But I really do believe that, you know, just like the way that I was saying to you, like the nuances of people, what makes them special or just so intricate and so interesting. I really think that the nuances of great businesses come from the DNA of their founders. You know, it's those very things that make those people special that ultimately make those companies so special.
Starting point is 00:38:45 But the problem is, right, after it goes from two employees to 2,000 employees, how do you take that DNA and keep it in a place that's really what it was meant to be? And I will say that finding that coach was so lucky, not only for me personally, I can honestly say that it has changed who I am as a human being and who I ever would have been able to be as a leader. But it also allowed us to scale this kind of stuff into our culture, which was incredible for our employees. I mean, we gave them tools like, you know, how to get unstuck, which was really just teaching them how to have a conversation about what was bothering them and to create spaces where they could have those conversations and not feel like people were
Starting point is 00:39:29 going to judge them or, you know, reward them or punish them for what they were saying. You know, we had an expression sort of, you know, saying no lumpy carpets. We created a, you know, an ethos where it was, you know, you had to communicate with your coworker if something was bothering you. And we created a space where you could have those conversations. And we taught people not only how to express themselves, but also how to listen. Okay, there's so much to unpack. Let's get into it. So the tools that you developed or were able to learn from your coach are one set of questions that I'll get to. But let me start with going from, oh my God, we're going to be talking to a psychic, get me out of here, I'm busy, to working with someone for 10 years.
Starting point is 00:40:17 Were you sold in the first meeting? And if so, why? What did she do, not do, ask, not ask, exude that sold you? Well, here was what was so interesting about our meeting. I mean, first of all, it was definitely one of those lean in moments. I had never really met somebody who had such different life experience than me and was so different than me and yet saw it all the same. Elizabeth and I have such completely different things that we bring to our partnership and relationship. And yet at the end of the day,
Starting point is 00:40:54 we have a really common vision. And I think that that's really what drew me to her. And in the case of Meredith specifically, how did she overcome your skepticism about that use of time? Well, first of all, she's just completely cool and normal. Like if she was here with us,
Starting point is 00:41:14 she would just be, you know, us. You know what I mean? Like she's super, she's just, and she's just real. You know, there's no bullshit. It's like she will call you on it. And she asks you really hard questions. You know, you'll sit there and defend something for 15 minutes.
Starting point is 00:41:34 Well, that's not how I see it. And that's not how I want it. And yeah, but that's it. And then she'll say to you, that's all great. Here's what I want you to think about. And you don't have to answer it now. She'll say to you something like this. At the end of your life, when you look back on this, who do you want to have been? How do you want people to have thought of you?
Starting point is 00:41:55 And you'll just go, wow, because that's some different shit than what I was about defending right now, right? Wow, that's way different than being right in this room right now. You know, when I think back to the end of my life, and I think back about the way that I want people to have thought of me, or have listened to people, or have taken a moment to consider somebody else's feelings or point of view or put myself in their shoes. I mean, that's some different stuff than being right in the moment. And, you know, when somebody asks you a question like that, you know, you stop. And it's always questions like that. Or it's questions, and a lot of times, it's just you and yourself. And she'll just ask you questions like, you know, about why you're doing things. You know, is it about your ego? Is it about the way other people think about you? Is
Starting point is 00:42:41 it because you need more money? You know, questions that you, I don't know. I have not done enough work on myself to ask, to really ask myself those questions. I'm really good still at talking myself into the things that I want to hear. And when you were talking about the getting unstuck, if I'm getting that right, and no lumpy carpets,
Starting point is 00:43:07 or no lumps in the carpet, I might be getting the phrasing wrong, or managing these what could be very uncomfortable conversations with a partner about wanting to sell when someone else doesn't want to sell, or whatever the conversation might be, be. It seems like a lot of those tools, whether it's for employees or for the two of you, is about having uncomfortable conversations successfully and managing conflict. Are there any specific recommendations, tools, anything at all,
Starting point is 00:43:41 or examples you could give of how to approach, say, the employee who has something that is bothering them about a coworker and kind of walking them through how to do that in a way that doesn't lead to World War III? Well, you know, first of all, I think that, you know, for better or for worse, I think that, you know, company culture also has a lot to do with it. I think they're creating environments where it's safer for people to do those things. You know, there's so much politicking and, you know, things that still go on in many places where, you know, that sort of, you know, you have to actually reward that behavior. You know, I do think that that is something that is, you know, it has to be considered. But what I will say is that, you know, I do think that
Starting point is 00:44:34 having those conversations and beginning to have those conversations really start with teaching people how to listen first. You know, I think that training people how to listen to what somebody else has to say allows people who then have issues to go and be heard. I will tell you about something actually great that my husband and I have done for a long time, which actually changed the dynamic of our relationship. And I can honestly say that it's, you know, if I had to say sort of the other best thing that I've ever done is, you know, we had our first daughter and all of a sudden we were no longer two people that could just do what they wanted whenever they wanted. You know, if we both wanted to go to take different exercise classes at different gyms at the same time, well,
Starting point is 00:45:29 somebody had to stay home with our kid and that began to create conflict. You know, we no longer had the time that we used to have to ourselves. We no longer had the autonomy. It's, you know, it's different, you know, when you're, when you have a child. And so, you know, we had, we'd started arguing and we had started, you know, having all this conflict. And my husband, who happens to be a much more evolved person than I am and a much better communicator, said, you know, well, maybe you should go talk to somebody. And we started to go to some couples counseling and see different marital people, you know, on a hunt for some solution to this. And, you know, when we were in the room with couples counselors and therapists, you know, we would basically, we're two like really smart people. So, we would just play the win the therapist game, you know, so we'd, we'd, we'd spend a couple hundred bucks
Starting point is 00:46:08 an hour trying to figure out who was going to actually win that day. Um, and then finally, um, you know, we quit the couples therapy and cause I decided that our therapist liked him better. Um, and then, and then finally, um, you know, Spencer was seeing, was seeing a therapist on his own, and she had given him a suggestion, and she said, you should read this book, and it's called Getting the Love That You Want. And he brought it home one day, and he started to read it. And he would say to me, you've got to read this. This book is really amazing. And before he was through the book, he had gone out and bought a copy for me and said, like, we should read this together. And so we started to read this book. And before we were
Starting point is 00:46:50 done with the book, we had actually signed up for the workshop. And I bring this up because this is actually a technique that we have learned that you can use with your employees, you can use with your children, you can kind of use with anybody. But we went to this workshop. It was probably the most important 40 hours of our marriage up until that point. And it is these two older therapists called Harville Hendricks and Helen Hunt. And here's what's so fascinating. Harville was the first person to win Oprah a daytime Emmy. He's this amazing older therapist who had studied relationships for a long time and was becoming very prominent. And his wife was also a research professor that was studying relationships in the brain. And she's learning all these things about
Starting point is 00:47:37 the brain and cortisol levels. And he's winning daytime Emmys. And they're both on their second marriages. And they're actually about to get divorced while they're all winning all these awards and stuff. And you go and take the seminar and cut to this. 50% of first marriages end up in divorce. 70% of second marriages end up in divorce and about 90% of third marriages do. Teaching you that it has not much to do with the partner that you choose, but mostly the skill set that you bring to the relationship, right? And so here's the crazy thing. Nobody teaches us how to be married. Nobody teaches us how to communicate with a partner. Nobody teaches us how to communicate with anybody. I don't remember being in a class in school where somebody said to me, this is how you listen.
Starting point is 00:48:19 This is how you talk to somebody. This is how you consider what they're saying. And really, all you do in this workshop is you learn active listening. You know, we learned how to make appointments with each other and have conversations so that you're not bombarding somebody at a time where they can't hear you. When you make an appointment and you say it's your turn to talk, basically, you know, I say, you know, I say what I need to say. And then all that person gets to do is repeat back to you and say, is there more? That's it. That's all the person gets to do. And then you, you know what? There always is more. Because it's never really just about that,
Starting point is 00:48:57 is it? Right? And then you say what more there is, and then they get to repeat it back. And then they get to say, is there more? And you know what happens at the end of three is there mores? Rather than trying to win the therapist and rather than trying to be right, what you realize is that somebody is suffering about something and that it's coming from a source of pain, not coming from a source of like, eh, eh, eh, at you. And it's not about you being right. It's about taking care of somebody that you love or taking care of somebody that you work with or hearing a child that's coming home from a school that didn't have a good day or got a bad grade
Starting point is 00:49:33 that's feeling disappointed also. And I think really, you know, teaching people how to listen and how to have conversations is something that's so important. Thank you. Very specific. Are there other examples of ways you've brought things from that workshop or book or elsewhere
Starting point is 00:49:52 into your relationships aside from the specific examples that you just gave in terms of active listening? Are there any other tools or habits that you've adopted or found useful? There are actually many others. I think that one is really the one that, it's really the focus of the workshop and what you do, you know, most often. But there are a lot of amazing practices, you know, telling people what's great about them. I mean, how often do you, you know, do you think about something that's wonderful about your partner and make sure that you share that every day? How often do you make time to be proactive about doing something nice? Again,
Starting point is 00:50:33 whether it's for a spouse, whether it's for a child, whether it's for a colleague, I think there are a lot of incredible things that happen out of that workshop. But I, but I will say that, you know, the foundation of it is really learning to listen. So you have, and you mentioned that, I think, and I'm paraphrasing here, so correct me if I'm wrong here, but you see founders with certain DNA, certain superpowers, and that sort of infuses and informs the organization. And I think it's at least been my experience observing and being involved with a lot of companies that also if there is acute dysfunction in a founder that that can also sort of infuse its way into a company so I'm mentioning that just to say that the culture which we take to be like a shared set of beliefs and behaviors at least that's how I think of it does not just
Starting point is 00:51:22 take care of itself and part of that is doing doing the work that you guys have done as founders, both separately and together. Are there any other, whether it's books, seminars, advisors, anything that come to mind as having made a real difference, whether it's in your business life or in your personal life that you're like, you know what, I would recommend, I've tried a lot of things here. A few things I would definitely recommend that people check out. Yeah. I mean, a big, a big book at SoulCycle for us was always start with why from Simon Sinek. And I know that that's made it to a lot of your lists and a lot of people are
Starting point is 00:52:01 Simon Sinek fans, but, but I will say, and you know, fans, but I will say, and, you know, this is what I think is so interesting, you know, as somebody who is fascinated with brand and, you know, the articulation of brand and all things brand, I think that people are often confused and think of brand as the way something looks or the color of a logo, but, you know, brands are really how people feel. They're really, you know, I think it was maybe Jeff Bezos who said, it's what people say about you when you're not in the room or that kind of a thing. And I do think that start with why is so important because people understanding why you do something, not what you are doing is really what makes or breaks a brand. And I think everything about that
Starting point is 00:52:46 book is fantastic. I think that, you know, for us, really, we spent so much time, you know, I remember the day that we just really officially stopped doing our day jobs. I looked at Elizabeth and said, like, are we ever going to get to go back to work? Or do we have to spend our whole life making these people happy? You know, referring to our employees. And that was the truth. But there was a day where, you know, it all turned and you began to realize that if the culture wasn't going to be good, that the product wasn't going to be good. And I think that's like a real, you know, core value from Simon Sinek, who really says that your happiest customer is only as happy as your happiest employee. And so for us, like really making sure that our employees were taken care of and taken care of,
Starting point is 00:53:34 meaning, you know, not just financially, but really felt like they mattered, like the things that they were doing were moving the needle for the company, that we personally understood, you know, things that they were going through, achievements that they were, you know, making happen. I think that really taking care of employees in a way that they were going through, achievements that they were making happen. I think that really taking care of employees in a way that they feel heard is very important. What were little things or big things that you did to foster those things, to make those things happen? So, I mean, interestingly enough, one of the main things that we recognized in the beginning when we started SoulCycle was that the fitness industry in general was really broken. Instructors didn't have full-time jobs anywhere. So if you were a fitness professional, you would teach two classes at one gym and three classes at another gym and personal train somebody in their home.
Starting point is 00:54:19 So you'd spend your entire life sort of, you know, commuting and being exhausted just to try to cobble together a living. And then on top of it, for doing one of the most physical jobs in the world, you had no health insurance. You had no paid vacation. And, you know, you certainly had no place to call home or really feel like you had somebody to support you or that cared about you. And one thing that was very early on a goal for us was to create these careers for fitness instructors, which is something that we really did. And, you know, we paid more. We gave people full health benefits.
Starting point is 00:54:58 We paid for those vacations. And, you know, most importantly, we really gave them a home. You know, we built a platform, you know, SoulCycle was really a platform that we built to allow, you know, we really thought of, you know, our fitness instructors as artists for allow artists to really find their voice on a platform and to sort of give them the room to be creative and to grow into being their best selves. And I think by giving people that kind of a platform and room and then really taking care of them
Starting point is 00:55:30 in kind of the tactical aspects of their lives, it allowed people to become a different kind of employee. I mean, what we found was that we didn't have employees. What we had was brand ambassadors. You know, we had people walking around so proud that they worked at SoulCycle telling everybody how fantastic it was. It became way more like a family than it did a job. So I'm going to ask some questions about good strategic decisions, then we're definitely going to get to... You see how I've avoided the failures, right?
Starting point is 00:56:00 Yes. No, we're going to get to the wastes of time and money because there are plenty of those stories in all businesses. Initiatives that didn't go quite as hoped. But one story that I read was related to opening the Bridgehampton location and how you sort of resisted the urge to pay yourselves or pay yourselves much. And as I understand, also had not taken outside investment, because I would imagine, especially being in New York City, as soon as something seems to be going really well and spreading quite widely, that you start getting calls, you start getting emails about outside investment. So could you talk to why or how you decided when to take outside investment, which could just be why
Starting point is 00:56:47 you didn't take it up to this point. And then the thinking behind the Bridgehampton location, which for people who, everybody in this room or a lot of people, I'm sure know where Bridgehampton is, but for those people out in the wider world, so you have Manhattan and then you have Long Island and you go way out and you have this place called the Hamptons. And depending on who you are, there's very little in the middle. Either you love or you hate the Hamptons. I happen to grow up as a townie out there, so I have this incredible inner conflict. And I bounce back and forth between the two.
Starting point is 00:57:20 And just for people who do not know, so the Hamptons are kind of where many of these successful people from Manhattan go to summer, beautiful beaches, where for some people they go to be seen. Why Bridge Hampton? How do you guys think about it? And why no outside investment? Well, let me just say that, again, to the point of ignorance is bliss, we opened in four months. When I look back now, and when I think about all the investing that we've done and when I think about how the world is spinning with people raising money, I really think that it was an incredible luxury to have no investors. I mean, we were really allowed to make decisions that were just the best for the business. We always just used our gut instincts and, you know, there was no choice except doing what was right for our customers,
Starting point is 00:58:11 what was right for employees, and really what was right for SoulCycle. I mean, we invented a brand that was like a human being, you know, and we would always make choices if, you know, we have four daughters in between us, but, you know, SoulCycle was like our fifth daughter and we would always, you know, really make choices thinking about, you know, we have four daughters in between us, but, you know, SoulCycle was like our fifth daughter, and we would always, you know, really make choices thinking about, you know, what is the right choice for this business? And not having money in the beginning, I also think really informed the way that we marketed. You know, we had no marketing dollars. I mean, zero. Up until 10 years into the business, we didn't spend, you know, any money on advertising. And I think what it really did was it really forced us to be incredibly disciplined and incredibly scrappy and really be a part of the communities that we were trying to
Starting point is 00:58:55 create. You know, we would be out there, you know, at the mouth of Central Park handing out flyers in the bike loop. I'd be pushing my stroller up and down Broadway, trying to get doormen to let me into mailroom buildings so that I could leave flyers. You know, if you could actually find our studio, which by the way, was in the rear lobby of a building with no sign on the outside of it. We forgot to talk about that. We'll get to that in the epic failures. But, you know, we were so happy to see you that we would do anything. I mean, I would watch your dog. I'd feed your parking meter. I'd let your kids sit there and, you know, we were so happy to see you that we would do anything. I mean, I would watch your dog. I'd feed your parking meter. I'd let your kids sit there and, you know, play a video game.
Starting point is 00:59:30 Like, it didn't matter. Like, we convince you to pay $27, to click into a bike, to be in a dark room for 45 minutes. I mean, if we could get you there, like, you had to come back. There was nothing we weren't doing to get you to come back. But all that being said, it really was interesting because, you know, when I think about the way that we thought about that first studio, and I think about that napkin that we wrote our 100 Riders on, you know, I think about starting a business, and I think about this for a lot of young entrepreneurs, and there is so much low-hanging fruit in the beginning.
Starting point is 01:00:14 I mean, we really thought about building that first studio rider by rider. And, you know, people will say to me, did you ever think SoulCycle was going to be such a big deal? Did you ever think this was going to happen? And what I always thought to myself was, I just knew that I needed to get 100 people there. And that was not going to be a problem for me. Because if I had to go and walk up and down the streets of Manhattan and call all my friends
Starting point is 01:00:35 and get people on those bikes, like 100 people are coming today. And that was what I thought about it. And I think that that really forced us to have a different kind of discipline than if we had had crazy investment and marketing dollars. And, you know, it just shaped who we were in the way that we understood our customer because we were in it in a different kind of way. And there was a lot of freedom to that. And the great news for us was that, you know, our business model was great. I mean, we kept throwing more and more bikes in that room and it was teeny little place. I mean, 1200 square feet. We ended up, we had 40 something bikes in there, $27 a bike going eight times a
Starting point is 01:01:10 day. You know, we were able to sort of create our first, you know, four or five, six studios, you know, taking from Peter, giving to Paul, selling to Mary, you know, it was like, it was pretty great. I mean, we were really able to finance one with the other. And because we were not taking money out of the business, because we really were that disciplined, we were taking everything that we made and we were putting it back into the business and we were growing organically.
Starting point is 01:01:33 And again, to the same point of not noticing the Starbucks was missing from my life and taking the taxis, we were having a great time. And it really didn't feel like we were suffering. So I'm gonna to, I'm going to, and there, I may be kind of chasing, chasing the wrong trail in terms of Bridget Hampton, but so we can, no, no, we can scrap it if need be. But I want to highlight something that's really important. That's come up numerous times with founders of companies that
Starting point is 01:02:02 have done extremely well on a large scale is that in most cases, especially if the business models actually work, I mean, there are some companies that get very big with business models that still work. But in the case of something like SoulCycle, it's very tempting to want to say that you're aiming for this billion dollar, two billion dollar, X billion dollar outcome. But as Seth Godin has said on the podcast before, it's very easy to hide when you have this grandiose, somewhat abstract, gigantic goal.
Starting point is 01:02:38 And so he's like, start small because then you have nowhere to hide. If it's like 100 people, it's a very clear, measurable outcome. And with no marketing dollars, this is also a common thread that I see with a lot of these companies that are, at least those I've been exposed to that are kind of consumer facing, is if you don't have much in terms of marketing dollars, or you constrain it deliberately, you have to make sure your product is great. Like you really have to ensure that your product or service is really, really good.
Starting point is 01:03:07 And then your customers become your marketing. Well, that's, that's, that was always the philosophy, right? I mean, we always knew.
Starting point is 01:03:14 And again, this was part of it all kind of all work together, right? Because we created a paper class model, it had to be great every time or else nobody had to come back. And what we used to say was like, it can't just be good. Like this cannot be a utility. Like this needs to be so good that people are talking about it when they're out with
Starting point is 01:03:32 their friends on Saturday night for dinner and they are wanting, you know, you want the credit for finding the coolest, greatest thing that's going to make your friend feel the best and you're going to bring that person. And so the saying in the halls of SoulCycle would be like, we do not create users, we create evangelists. And our evangelists were spreading the gospel for us. And that's really was our marketing. But I will answer your question about Bridgehampton. We were doing very well. And we had become this little Upper West Side destination, and the studio was bustling, and we were selling our classes really well. And we realized pretty soon everybody was going to leave for the summer, because that's what happens in New York, right? There's a mass exodus to
Starting point is 01:04:12 different beaches. And whether, you know, people are going to the Hamptons or the Jersey Shore, wherever they're going, there's nobody, you know, here on the weekends in the summer. And so I called Hamptons Magazine to see what it would be to take an ad. I thought, oh, we'll just take an ad in the 4th of July publication. And they gave me a staggering quote. And I thought, well, we certainly don't have that much money. And the truth is, what we did was experiential. I could sit here and tell you how awesome it is to be on a bike and what it feels like and the music and the sweat and the instructors and the people.
Starting point is 01:04:43 And then you're sort of like, you still can't really feel it because you know there's no music playing and we're not in the dark and what I found was the only real way to get people to come and to really experience it was to come and get them to take a class and so we'd comp a lot of classes we'd tell people if they didn't like it they should pay if they didn't like it give them their money back but I realized that doing something experiential would be better than taking an ad and we got a phone call one day and somebody said there's this great old potato barn and money back. But I realized that doing something experiential would be better than taking an ad. And we got a phone call one day and somebody said, there's this great old potato barn and there used to be some pole dancing class in there. And the pole dancing class was apparently going out of business. And now the space would be vacant if we wanted to create a cycling studio.
Starting point is 01:05:18 And so we figured, you know, we could either spend $75,000 running a quarter page ad in Hampton's Magazine, or we could just run this studio and plan on making no money and just think of it as a marketing experiment. I mean, that's all we thought it was going to be was marketing dollars. And so we did. And we, you know, we went and we painted the barn and we rolled our bikes in there and we put a big yellow wheel on the wall and we flung open our doors and the barn became like a sensation. It really became, you know, I, you know, we live in a little bit of a soul cycle bubble, but it really is like, I mean, it's really the epicenter of, you know, Hampton social life. You know, people will tell you that, you know, if they can go and, you know, take a
Starting point is 01:06:00 class at the barn at soul cycle in the morning and then sort of, you know, hobnob in between classes. They barely need to go out at night anymore because that barn sees hundreds and hundreds of people between the hours of 7 and 12 on a Saturday morning. And it really, what it did for us was it took our little Upper West Side business from being a local kind of great neighborhood business, 100 people a day, to all of a sudden becoming this sort of buzzworthy New York City on page six in the New York Times, you know, destination. And we came back from that summer. And what happened on Monday is at noon, which is when our reservation system opens. So,
Starting point is 01:06:36 if you want to reserve a bike at SoulCycle, you go on Monday at noon, if you have a specific thing that you'd like to reserve, and you can sign up for your classes for the full week. And what happened for us when we came back that fall was that we started to crash servers at noon on Monday. The demand load became crazy. And all of a sudden, we noticed like a line of town cars up and down the street would always be parked outside for SoulCycle classes. There was no Uber yet at the time. And what it was is that people were coming from all over now you know waiting and their drivers or whoever whatever rides they were taking up there would be waiting outside and it became you know that's when we knew like we needed to grow i'm no scientist but i think we should get another studio, except the market doesn't want us to grow.
Starting point is 01:07:28 You know, it's 2007 and everybody wants a Chase Bank or a Duane Reade in their space. You know, two women with a business that is throwing off a bunch of cash still does not look that attractive. Okay. So how do you solve that problem? Well, then 2008 happens. Wake up! Suddenly cash is king. No, no. You know, it still was not easy, but 2008 happened and it definitely became, you know, easier for us to think about getting space.
Starting point is 01:08:07 After we, you know, we started to, well, we, okay, so now let's talk about when we actually did take money. Because there did come a point after about four years where we took money. We had eight studios. And it's interesting. Our decision to take money was not so much about the money itself. But again, we really loved what we were doing. We could really see how SoulCycle was changing neighborhoods, and it was changing communities, and it was changing the way that people felt about themselves and about other people. And we wanted to win.
Starting point is 01:08:34 You know, we had a first mover advantage, and we were starting to see copycats come into the landscape. And we were introduced to Equinox, to Harvey Spivak, who's the CEO of Equinox. And we started to get to know him. And, you know, the money and the cash infusion seemed nice, although, you know, we had a pretty good business. I mean, the businesses were making money, and we could have expanded in a slower way. But we thought to ourselves that, you know, we would take a strategic partner rather than just taking money, and they would be able to help us, you know, grow 30 studio, 10, 15, 20, 30 studios at a time rather than let's say five or six or seven a year.
Starting point is 01:09:12 What were some of the decisions or initiatives or anything where you look back and you're like, wow, that was a bad use of time or money. Does anything come to mind? Or just, yeah, we should have thought about that differently. Well, there are definitely a few. I mean, we definitely made a lot of mistakes along the way. Neither of us had ever been entrepreneurs before. And there were small mistakes and there were definitely bigger mistakes. You know, Elizabeth always likes to say, you know, every time we would make a mistake, it would be $50,000 we didn't have. And she would say, well, look at it this way.
Starting point is 01:09:47 You know, neither of us went to business school. It's like part of our tuition for our MBAs. And that was always true. But, you know, we started out in our first studio. And what did we know? We had never built anything before. And we built a studio. And some guy told us that he was really good at soundproofing things.
Starting point is 01:10:04 And he'd done some porn studios in Midtown. And so thought great like this guy's done porn studios go to it you know um and he stuffed some insulation into the ceilings and closed them off and then you know cut to opening day we turned on the stereo to find like a line of irate neighbors outside of our door um and we certainly did not have money to re-soundproof the studio. And so that was, you know, that was really interesting. Well, hold on, hold on. I'm sure it was interesting. Fade to black. So what would you do? Well, now we're getting into it. You know, I find that if you can befriend, you know, local neighborhood law enforcers, sometimes they will soundproof, they will come and do the sound checks for your studio
Starting point is 01:10:54 later in the evening when there may or may not be actual classes going on. And then you might actually be able to make the sound a little bit lower than you do during regular classes sometimes. Yeah, that makes good sense. And that worked for us for a while until we had money to re-soundproof the studio. Yeah, well, you sometimes have to build the bridges you're crossing. Yes, and we built some of those. Another fantastic memory was our first customer appreciation day.
Starting point is 01:11:21 This is really one of my favorite. I can talk about study and human behavior so we decided after about a year we really wanted to thank the people that had helped us build business and so what we were going to do was an entire day of free classes on saturday starting you know seven o'clock in the morning all day long we were so excited about it i mean for us giving up a saturday of revenue was huge i mean saturday was our biggest day we had four of those a month i mean we were still living by the skin of our teeth. We were still going, you know. So we decided we were going to let everybody just call the studio rather than use the reservation system
Starting point is 01:11:54 and sign up for free. We were going to do, you know, big bowls of fruit and free drinks and juice sponsorships and all this great stuff. Cut to, we like open up the phone lines and of course a million people that don't ever come to SoulCycle sign up for the free classes. And now all of our regulars are irate because they actually don't give a shit if they have to pay for class. They just want to be on the bike. They want to be on with the instructor at the time that they want to be on. And now what we have is hundreds of pissed off customers who cannot get into a Saturday class at SoulCycle and hundreds of people that may or may not actually show up, but just signed up for a free class because I put it in timeout. And that was our first customer appreciation day. So that was a great learning
Starting point is 01:12:34 exercise. I would say the worst amount of money we ever spent was, you know, scrappy entrepreneurs, no funding. Elizabeth worked on all of our technology with a web developer in Long Island. You know, they built everything, you know, as it came up. So, you know, first we built it for one studio and then we built it for 10 studios and then we wanted to have e-comm and, you know, until we built this thing that was basically like building a million extensions onto a foundation of a house that couldn't handle it. And so we needed to rebuild our website. And so we were psyched.
Starting point is 01:13:10 I mean, we had a million dollars to spend and we were going to hire the pros. And that's what we did. We went out and we hired a big fancy agency and we worked on, you know, articulating our vision and our brand. And we spent six months explaining to somebody else what we already knew, which was, you know, our brand and our experience and the user experience and things that were kind of already working on that website. And then was going to be the big reveal, our big fancy new website. And I don't know, I mean, they gave us a new, you know, a new CTO that was checking all the hardware and software and all the things that we were launching. But somehow we flipped on the switch that day and flipped off the other website.
Starting point is 01:13:50 And it was great because eight people could book the same bike in the same class at the same time. And that was a disaster. And then to make it even better, nobody could fix it. One week of signups went by, four weeks of signups fix it. One week of signups went by. Four weeks of signups went by. Six weeks of signups went by. Talk about using up your goodwill.
Starting point is 01:14:13 You know, the first few weeks, people gave us the benefit of the doubt. We had great customer service teams. People showed up. They gave people hugs. They gave people free classes and juice. After the fourth hug, they're like, get up with the hugs. Yeah. It was like by week number four, people were just like, we were just, they just thought we were totally inept.
Starting point is 01:14:27 Wow. And that's actually how our app was born, to divert people from our fancy new website that never actually got working. I mean, it works now, but it took us quite a while. I mean, we were able to build an app better than we were able to fix that site. That sounds really stressful. It was stressful. So I don't know if this is still a thing and maybe it was never a thing
Starting point is 01:14:46 and it's just something somebody wrote on the internet. 16 seconds to calm. Huh. That's how long I can meditate. Yeah, okay. Can you talk about that and any other tools that might help when you're going through an experience like that?
Starting point is 01:15:04 So I'm not really good at sitting still. That's not my specialty. I've definitely tried meditation in many different forms with many very talented people and many trusted friends have referred me to many places that I'm sure are the right places to be meditating. And I have never found it yet in my being to meditate. I think that's why SoulCycle continues to be such a huge part of my life just because there is something in that room for me that is really meditative and to the point of coping skills, it's still something that's in my, you know, daily practice almost, you know, at least a couple times a week. But for me, I have a friend who started a meditation studio in Los Angeles and sent me, you know, a million ways to get onto her app and her
Starting point is 01:15:53 stuff. And there is one meditation that I have found that is called 16 Seconds to Calm. And it's 16 seconds and you basically take one breath in and one breath out. But this guy tells you why you're interrupting patterns while you do that, because you're focusing on your breath. And he claims that in those 16 seconds, you have interrupted your thought patterns enough that you have broken the cycle of anxiety. And I choose to believe it. Besides the 16 seconds, and aside from SoulCycle, are there other tools, habits, routines, anything at all that you've found to help you to operate at a high level
Starting point is 01:16:35 when there's the potential to be overwhelmed by stress? Like you said, you don't strike me as the type to sit still for very long. I seem to do a lot and get a lot done. And therein lies the risk of, I think, overwhelm. So what are other things you do to avoid buckling under overwhelm? I will honestly say that the number one thing that keeps me from buckling under is that I have a really awesome marriage.
Starting point is 01:17:05 I know that that sounds funny or maybe not, but I have chosen a partner who actually is really amazing at communicating with me during times of anxiety and actually has sort of created an
Starting point is 01:17:22 atmosphere in our home that is not super tolerant of my anxiety in the best way possible. So what does that look like? It looks like, you know, when I walk through the threshold of my house, you know, I have a partner that if I'm stressed out, sort of demands me to communicate about it and sort of get rid of it. And, you know, we have a lot of respect for each other. And he usually finds a way to figure out what it is that can bring me down from that. And I will say that being in a relationship like that with somebody who is not an anxious person, who is able to kind of de-escalate your own anxiety is,
Starting point is 01:18:09 is kind of fantastic. Could you give an example? You don't have to, but if you can, of language is so important here, right? Like the devil's really in the details. So what might he say or ask when he's like, Oh,oh, code red, I see what's coming, and wants to get you to talk about it or de-escalate? What might be an approach? Like just this morning. We were preparing for this interview. And I said to him like, are you going to help me with the questions for Tim Ferriss? And he said to me, you know, I didn't want to say this to you yesterday, but you said that to me the same way yesterday. And you were asking it to me in a way that obviously you're very anxious. And, you know, of course I want to help you, but would you like
Starting point is 01:18:58 to ask that in a different way? And I thought to myself, you know, I know he wants to help me because he is like the biggest supporter of my whole entire life. And I'm sure that he, and I know that he spent a lot of time thinking about this because he sent me emails, you know, that I asked him to think about this. And then I thought for a second about my own anxiety and where I was going with it because I thought, you know, oh, I have something else to do at 11. And is he going to help me at 1030? And it was my own crazy person in there thinking like, you need to help me right now. That was like my own person.
Starting point is 01:19:36 But he does not get worked up like that. And so he said to me, like, do you want to ask me differently? Because you asked me the same way yesterday. And I don't think and the thing was that was just my own check and most of the times that I um you know am communicating badly with him with my children it's because I'm in a state of anxiety or distress and I think having somebody like that by your side that can check you like that again in a state of anxiety or distress. And I think having somebody like that by your side that can check you like that,
Starting point is 01:20:07 again, in a way that's loving, not in a way that's, you know, like that, I think that really helps to bring the situation down. And I will tell you one other amazing thing that we do in our house that has really helped to kind of reframe the way that we live. So we started to celebrate Shabbat about five years ago. I was out one day with a friend of mine who is like a super successful music executive. She's like definitely one of my main girl crushes. You know, she's like
Starting point is 01:20:41 a total boss and a real power broker. And we were having a business lunch one day. And at the end of the lunch, she said to me, you know, I have to duck out a few minutes early. I have to go pick up a challah for Shabbat. A challah for people who don't celebrate Shabbat is the braided bread that we eat on Shabbat, right? And, you know, one thing that, you know, my business partner Elizabeth loves, she always says to me, it's always fun to find out something new that you don't know about somebody that you think you know really well. So I looked at my friend Julie and I said, really? I said, you like celebrate Shabbat on Friday night?
Starting point is 01:21:12 And she said, yeah, you know, I'm out a couple nights of the week listening to music. And I find that, you know, because I'm so busy, it's really, it's a lot of integrity for our family. You know, we all have to be at the dinner table at 630 on Friday night and we put our phones away and we light candles and we don't take out our phones till the next morning. And it's the one thing that we do in our house that really, you know, reframes our time together. And I thought, well, she's clearly more important than I am. And she makes this happen. So like I could definitely fit Shabbat in. And we started to have Shabbat. And here's the interesting thing. You know, we're not religious people. I would say that we're
Starting point is 01:21:47 spiritual just in the way that we believe that, you know, the way that you are in the world is the way that you feel in the world. And I think that we believe in something bigger and that we're all connected in some way, but I wouldn't say that we're religious. But we started to have Shabbat and we have very few requirements of our children, but one requirement is that everybody is home for that evening. Our daughter, who was five months old when we started SoulCycle, she's now 13, and our rule for her, she can have as many friends as she wants, but she has to be there. And we light our candles at 6.30, and there's something about the time that it takes those candles to burn that, for me who cannot meditate, being with people that I love and there's always plenty of people at our table, it's friends or family and it's always fantastic
Starting point is 01:22:33 and there is just something about the time that it takes those candles to burn and not having phones and having a different kind of conversation with each other and And just, it's almost like I've given myself permission for the evening to shut down. And whatever that is inside of me that has, the minute we light the candle, it says like, it's cool till tomorrow. The world's going to wait for you. There's something about that ritual for me
Starting point is 01:22:58 that's really one of the times that I look forward to most in the week. What rules do you have during Shabbat? And what's the duration? Is it primarily from that dinner to the following morning and you guys all put phones away? Is that the most important rule? Are there other rules that you guys follow? No. We like candles and we do say two prayers in Hebrew. It's what we do. My husband has recently started playing the guitar
Starting point is 01:23:29 and he's mastering some guitar songs. And so we usually, we try to have some music. He's getting pretty good. Our kids are usually super embarrassed if they have friends over and their dad's playing the guitar and their mom's singing and clapping.
Starting point is 01:23:41 So it's a really big hit. I try to buy a lot of really good desserts. You know, everything from Levain Bakery to Baked by Melissa on down to lure my kids to stick around the table for a certain amount of time. Spencer and I try to keep our phones in the drawer until the following morning. My daughter, you know, would obviously die without getting back on Snapchat by about nine o'clock. So we allow her to do that. And there are no rules really. And the crazy thing is, you know, it's just, again, it's always intimate. It always feels like a safe space. It always feels like people can share like what really happened to them that week, you know, how they're really feeling about themselves,
Starting point is 01:24:27 their triumphs, their tragedies. It just feels like there's no bullshit at the table. People are really, for all the times during the week that you had to go out and pretend it was great or that you were killing it at work or that I loved you at school today or whatever it is, it just feels like it's a really kind of, we go in pajamas or sweatpants, no matter who's coming over.
Starting point is 01:24:45 And it's just a super relaxed kind of just bring your best self or bring your real self. I love it. What a beautiful ritual. Where should I go from here? Well, you mentioned the prepping for the interview and the anxiety. Were there any questions that you hoped I would ask you? Like, you know what? I have a really good answer to that.
Starting point is 01:25:04 I have a really good answer to this type of question. I hope he asked me this. Or conversely, was there anything where like, I hope to God he really doesn't ask me? This is a bit of a trick, or is it? Well, I have to say, you know, I did do some research while I was, you know, getting ready for the interview.
Starting point is 01:25:22 And I was really, you know, I listened to a lot of very impressive people on your podcast. And I was really thinking to myself, like, I haven't written a book, I don't really have a method for anything. So I was really hoping that you wouldn't ask me for some sort of dissertation on something. You know, I was thinking a lot, a couple of things that I was thinking about were just, you know, I was thinking about Soul Cycle a little bit, and I was thinking kind of about what made the experience special. And I was thinking about, if we would talk about that a little bit, just sort of about, you know, the construction of what that experience is like in the room. And I think that's kind of an
Starting point is 01:25:59 interesting one. You know, I think that we've really crafted the experience in that room to be a lot of the things that I think people really need today. And what we've done is we've really taken, you know, we've created an eight-week training program for our instructors. And what we teach in those three things is we teach them, you know, we teach them how to be spiritual and emotional leaders. We teach them how to be physical fitness instructors so they can give people what they need for their bodies. And we also teach them how to be DJs and how to create music like artists. And what I think is really interesting about taking those three different tracks of, you know, psychology, you know, physical experience and also creativity and putting them together is you really provide
Starting point is 01:26:47 something for people in a room that allows them to access many different parts of themselves that I think people don't often get to access. And I do think that there is something about that and about creating sort of that moment. You know, we've created the class sort of in five stages. I mean, there's almost five stages that we break it down into, which is, you know, we warm people up, you know, we pop the party, we break them down, we give them a soulful moment,
Starting point is 01:27:19 and we send them home like heroes. You know, and there's something about that emotional arc and that physical arc with music matching it all that I think really provides people with a lot of what they need to get today in the world. And I think it's also a really interesting journey for people to go through together because although people aren't speaking and aren't communicating, they are all experiencing a journey together. And so there is, it's, it's a really interesting way in a world where people have almost forgotten how to communicate with each other because of phones and digital
Starting point is 01:27:49 isolation to allow people to participate in something where they really do feel closer and connected to each other at the end. I'd love to ask a bit more about the spiritual, emotional leaders part. what does the curriculum look like for that you know there are quite a few there's there's there's several parts of it and i think the main part of it is allowing people to have a place to be vulnerable to come and express their own vulnerabilities as well as to talk about things that they're thinking about, their own vulnerabilities,
Starting point is 01:28:28 and then to empower people, to really deliver messages to people that allow them to, as they are wearing down physically, as the music is playing, as they are this close to somebody else who's moving with them, we are teaching them to deliver messages that allow people to believe that they're enough, that they can be more than
Starting point is 01:28:50 they thought that they can be, that they could achieve more than they thought that they could achieve, that, you know, people are rooting for them, that are hoping for them. And I think that there is something about the empowerment that people get in that room when they are, you know, inhabiting their physical bodies in a way that feels strong and teaching those, you know, instructors to deliver messages of positivity, you know, to really, they read, they read a lot of, you know, different, I'm sure so many of the books that are on your list are books that we're giving them in those classes. And what are some of them? Um, I think about what people are reading in there, you know? The curriculum is actually wide. And that's the other thing also, because we've created it to look more like a framework. And we also like to use the
Starting point is 01:29:32 expression sort of freedom within framework. So we are allowing people to, you know, to, although they're creating within that framework, to really, you know, find their own voice, to find their own music. And that's also why I think that our writers gravitate to different instructors, because somebody that's moving me might not be the same person that moves you. And yet we've kind of created this shell of an experience. It's almost like a Mad Lib, right? Where they learn sort of this outline, this technique, and then they can take it and fill in their own content. And aside from the Simon Sinek book that you mentioned, which I do recommend people check out, it does pop up a lot on the podcast. Are there any other books that either you've
Starting point is 01:30:16 recommended to managers or employees or that you've just recommended or gifted to other people? Well, I definitely gift people, a lot of people, that Helen and Harville book that I was talking about, Getting the Love You Want. Something else that we did a lot of reading at SoulCycle is Setting the Table by Danny Meyer. Just for, you know,
Starting point is 01:30:34 we also ran an incredibly interesting hospitality school for our people that worked in the front of house and not in those rooms. You know, we're all big fans of the Tony Hsieh book, Delivering Happiness. Um, and I think those were like some of our favorites. Yeah. Danny Meyer is amazing. Uh, very, very fascinating guy for people who don't recognize the name. You should look it up. Uh, how are we doing on time? I do not have a countdown. Yes, I do. What was that?
Starting point is 01:31:06 735. Okay, great. Let's see. I would love to hear what you are currently most excited about and why. Because much like my question at the very beginning about what you saw on that bartender and how you kind of pick where you're going to allocate your time. Right. You've made some very deliberate choices. And when you make a choice, when you make a decision, right, you are cutting yourself off just like incision. You're cutting yourself off from other possibilities. There's an opportunity cost. So what are you
Starting point is 01:31:36 most excited about now, professionally, personally, or anything in between? It's funny to talk about opportunity cost because for the longest time, I really thought you could just do everything. And I'm starting to understand that there are only a certain amount of hours in the day. But I will say that, you know, well, sitting here in the middle of Made by We is really interesting
Starting point is 01:32:00 because I think that it's definitely a good example of something that I'm thinking a lot about these days, which is, you know, how are people connecting in a world where people spend most of their time on their phones or connecting digitally? I think that's something that's really interesting to think about is, you know, where are the places and what are the experiences that we're delivering to people to allow them to connect. You know, we're reading about loneliness as an epidemic. You know, I'm personally terrified watching my 13-year-old and the way she interacts with her friends and their phones. You know, they're all in the same room and yet they're all on their phones communicating.
Starting point is 01:32:39 And so I am really obsessed with the fact that people are lonely and people are unhappy. And how are we giving people skills to be happier? And how are we giving them places to find those connections? And so, you know, a place like this, when I think about it, it's really a new version of a community center, you know, a place where we can go. And especially in an economy where so many of us are now have the luxury of, you know, having our own company, working by ourself in our apartment. You know, that all sounds great until the day that you wake up and think I could really use somebody else around me to help me get inspired. And so really thinking about, you know, how people
Starting point is 01:33:19 connect and what kind of tools we need to give them so that they can connect and connect in meaningful ways. This is a beautiful space. I mean, I don't know how people in the audience feel, but it's my first time here, and I would love, I could have used a place like this many years ago, and hopefully there'll be many, many more. Come any time.
Starting point is 01:33:42 Yeah, it's absolutely stunning. And let's wrap up with just a few final questions. And this one, sometimes a good question, sometimes a terrible question. We'll find out. And that is, if you could put a message, a question, a quote, anything at all, metaphorically speaking, on a billboard to get a message out to millions or billions of people, non-commercial for the time being. Do you have any thoughts on what you might put on that? For me, this is a very easy one. You know, I'm a terrible claustrophobic. I did not know that. Yes. I am a terrible claustrophobic. And ready for this? I live in New York City. I do not take elevators.
Starting point is 01:34:32 Like do not, never, don't take elevators. Have gone to weddings, black tie weddings at the Rainbow Room, 71 flights. I walk. Yeah. Wow. And presumably you're not in like a running shoes when you go to such a function. I have a whole situation. I have my heels in a bag, and I wear my sneakers up in full hair, makeup, outfit. I make it to the top, I blot, I put my heels on, and I walk out like nothing happened. But yes, elevators are not my thing.
Starting point is 01:35:01 And so, if I was going to put a billboard up, I think that it would say, there is no elevator to success. You have to take the stairs. I love it. I dig it. And do you have any final comments, asks, recommendations, anything at all that you'd like to say before we wrap up? I don't think so. I'm so happy I got a chance to talk to you.
Starting point is 01:35:27 And thank you so much for coming. I know that people were so excited to have you in the space. So it's awesome to have you here. Oh, it's great to be here. And it's nice to see you again. For people who don't know, we've spent time together before. And I've been looking forward to this. And as soon as we had a chance, the very first time to spend 10 or 15 minutes together, I was like, I need to get her on the podcast at some point in my head. So here we are.
Starting point is 01:35:49 And it's been really fun. I've taken so many notes. Everybody in the crowd has watched me taking all these notes for things that I'm going to follow up on and dig into. Where are the best places for people to find you, learn more about what you're up to, WeWork, anything that you'd like to mention in terms of resources. And of course, I'll put these in the show notes online as well. Definitely. So you can always find out what's going on in this space on our Instagram.
Starting point is 01:36:20 Is that right, Joel? Where are you? What's the best way to find out about stuff in this space? Yes. Made.by.we. It's very hard to get domain names these days. All right, Joel? Where are you? What's the best way to find out about stuff in this space? Yes. Made.by.we. It's very hard to get domain names these days. All right, there we go. And a good way to find out what's going on with me
Starting point is 01:36:38 is either at my Instagram, which is at julierice underscore, or Elizabeth and I have a great Instagram, which is at julierice underscore. Or Elizabeth and I have a great Instagram, which is at soulfounders. Awesome. Thank you so much for taking the time. Thank you so much. This has really been fun.
Starting point is 01:36:53 Thank you, everybody, for coming. And until next time, see you around. Hey, guys, this is Tim again. Just a few more things before you take off. Number one, this is Five Bullet Friday. Do you want to get a short email from me? Would you enjoy getting a short email from me every Friday that provides a little morsel of fun for the weekend?
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