The Tim Ferriss Show - #414: Jack Kornfield — How to Find Peace Amidst COVID-19, How to Cultivate Calm in Chaos
Episode Date: March 12, 2020Jack Kornfield — How to Find Peace Amidst COVID-19, How to Cultivate Calm in Chaos | Brought to you by FreshBooks and 99designs."We have the opportunity, even in difficult times, to let our... spirit shine." — Jack KornfieldJack Kornfield (@JackKornfield) trained as a Buddhist monk in the monasteries of Thailand, India, and Burma, shortly thereafter becoming one of the key teachers to introduce Buddhist mindfulness practice to the West. He has taught meditation internationally since 1974.Jack has had a profound and direct impact on my life, and I'm thrilled to have him on the podcast once again.Jack co-founded the Insight Meditation Society in Barre, Massachusetts, with fellow meditation teachers Sharon Salzberg and Joseph Goldstein and the Spirit Rock Center in Woodacre, California. He holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and is a father, husband, and activist.Jack's books have been translated into 20 languages and sold more than a million copies, including The Wise Heart, A Lamp in the Darkness, A Path with Heart, After the Ecstasy, the Laundry (one of my favorite book titles of all time), and his most recent, No Time Like the Present: Finding Freedom, Love, and Joy Right Where You Are. He offers a brilliant online training program for those who want to learn to teach meditation at JackKornfield.com. This episode is more of a personal therapy session for yours truly in some respects. You will notice that I sound anxious and unsure in this interview, and that is very much by design. I think it is unhelpful when people in the public eye hide the fact that they also struggle, and it puts them on this illusory pedestal that I think is ultimately self-defeating. Instead, I want to share with you that no matter how much Stoic philosophy I read, no matter how often I meditate, there are times when I struggle, and this week is one of them.I also hope that you'll listen to portions of this conversation multiple times. There are a number of exercises that Jack shares that I will certainly be listening to in the upcoming weeks.Please enjoy. This episode is brought to you by FreshBooks. I've been talking about FreshBooks—an all-in-one invoicing+payments+accounting solution—for years now. Many entrepreneurs, as well as the contractors and freelancers that I work with, use it all the time.FreshBooks makes it super easy to track things like expenses, project time, and client info, and then merge it all into great-looking invoices. FreshBooks can save users up to 200 hours a year on accounting and bookkeeping tasks. Right now FreshBooks is offering my listeners a free 30-day trial, and no credit card is required. 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This is Tim Ferriss. And welcome to another episode of the Tim Ferriss show where it is my
job to interview and deconstruct world class performers of different types to tease out the habits, routines,
frameworks, practices, etc. that you can apply in your own life. This episode is more of a personal
therapy session for yours truly, in some respects, and features Jack Kornfield. And I want to say a few things before we jump into his
bio. The first is that my hope is that you will listen to portions of this conversation multiple
times. There are a number of exercises that Jack shares that I will be certainly listening to in
the upcoming weeks multiple times. And I suggest you think of this as a menu from which
you can choose different things you can use repeatedly. That's number one. Number two,
you will notice that I sound anxious. I sound unsure in this interview. And that is very much
by design. In other words, I'm not trying to hide the fact that I also struggle. I think it is unhelpful when people in the public, I do that,
and it puts them on this illusory pedestal that is, I think, ultimately self-defeating.
And instead, I want to share with you that no matter how much Stoic philosophy I read,
no matter how often I meditate, there are times when I struggle, and this week is one of
them. So with all that said, who is Jack Kornfield? Jack Kornfield, you can find him on Twitter
at Jack Kornfield, K-O-R-N-F-I-E-L-D, at jackkornfield.com. Jack trained as a Buddhist
monk in the monasteries of Thailand, India, and Burma, shortly thereafter becoming one of the key
teachers to introduce Buddhist mindfulness practice to the West. He has taught meditation internationally
since 1974. Jack has also had a profound and direct impact on my life, and I'm thrilled to
have him on the podcast once again. Jack co-founded the Insight Meditation Society
in Barry, Massachusetts with fellow meditation teachers
Sharon Salzberg and Joseph Goldstein and the Spirit Rock Center in Woodacre, California.
He holds a PhD in clinical psychology and is a father, husband, and activist. He has a very
expanded broad spectrum toolkit and has worked with veterans, has worked with adolescents who self-harm, cutters, etc. He has a wealth of
experience as a clinician, so he is not limited to meditation practices. I feel that's important
to underscore. Jack's books have been translated into 22 languages and sold more than one and a
half million copies, including The Wise Heart, A Lamp in the Darkness, A Path with Heart, After the Ecstasy,
The Laundry, one of my favorite book titles of all time, and his most recent No Time Like the
Present subtitle, Finding Freedom, Love, and Joy Right Where You Are. He offers a brilliant online
training program, and I don't use that adjective lightly, for those who want to learn to teach
meditation at jackkornfield.com. And he is
co-leading that with Tara Barak, who I also have a very high opinion of and who has been on this
podcast. So definitely check out his course at jackcornfield.com. And without further ado,
please enjoy this, what was for me, a very valuable conversation with Jack Kornfield. Jack, welcome to the show.
Oh, thank you, Tim. I'm happy to be back.
I'm thrilled to have you back. And for purposes of context, for people listening,
we're recording this Monday, March 9th, 2020. And things are very exciting in quotation marks at the moment. And I am perhaps not so
secretly going to use this conversation, which is intended to be listened to by my audience,
as a therapy session for myself. And I will confess, Jack, that only very recently in the last even few days have I ever in my life taken prescription medication for sleeping. to not necessarily make sense of, but contend with a lot of what is happening currently with
the novel coronavirus, COVID-19, etc. And I thought we would start with the topic that I
had written down here at the very top, and that is talking about a large virtual class you taught
recently in China. Could you speak to what that was and
what the experience was like? I taught a class in China of people who'd been involved in meditation.
So it was through a community of people I know there, many folks, who are already already uh under quarantine at home and dealing with the collective anxiety and fears that are
happening the incredible disruption that's happening in china which may well be happening
here and looks like it's actually coming to us in a very rapid fashion so we talked about how
to hold it all and uh you know to get them to laugh a little bit, I said, you know, we have at our center in California at Spirit Rock, we have a whole group of people who are on our winter spring two month retreat, 100 plus folks who are mostly in their own little rooms. They meditate quietly together. They can't go out. They can't talk to
anyone. And they paid lots of money to do it, I said. And you get this for free. So,
what will it mean to take your circumstance? And even though there is anxiety or fear or,
you know, again, not able to sleep, all the kind of disruptions.
What if you were to turn it around and say the universe has provided you with a retreat
that you might not have had any opportunity to do in your life in this way and to use
it somehow to deepen your compassion, your self-care, the wisdom you have. And I said,
because I use the image that is so powerful from the Vietnamese Zen master Thich Nhat Hanh.
He said, when the crowded Vietnamese refugee boats met with storms or pirates, if everyone
panicked, all would be lost. But if even one person on the
boat remained calm and centered, it was enough. It showed the way for everyone to survive.
And I said, so these are tough times, and it's quite obvious, you know, that we're in this complex of cultural anxiety and the spread of the virus and so forth,
you can either give in to or get lost in your fear and anxiety,
or you can take this as a time to begin to train yourself in steadiness, in trust,
in the ability to have a vaster and broader perspective,
and perhaps more than anything, with a kind of common humanity, to develop your sense of care
and connection more deeply for everyone else. This is the time that the bodhisattva, which is a Buddhist term for a being who commits to
compassion, turns toward the difficult circumstances and makes their own heart a zone of peace and
compassion and says, we know how to hold this. We've been training our whole lives for this
difficulty. And now let us see if we can use this so it's not
happening to us, but it's happening for us. And that reverses the frame of it. Now, I don't mean
this is easy, but it is actually true. Circumstances can change, it's said, like the swish of a horse's tail from something benevolent to
something difficult and when you enter a retreat especially a long retreat as i did in my own
training in buddhist monasteries they will often say during this retreat many people will be born many people will die and your task is to come to that
great inner freedom that can hold birth and death and joy and sorrow and be a benevolent and
liberated spirit or liberated force in the midst of it all So we had this kind of conversation and people talked about their
concerns with their family and obviously their economic fears, which I worry about more broadly
here in the U.S., how many small businesses will be affected and how many people who live from one
paycheck to the next. And it just touches my heart even to say it. And at the same time, maybe this wake up also is a call for us here to have universal health care, because in fact, you know, it doesn't matter how rich you are when you go out in your car or you go out to the market, you're surrounded by all these other people. And if everybody around
you doesn't have the necessary care, then it will inevitably affect you because more and more we can
feel how we're tied together. So what do we do with this? I asked them. We can either get lost
in our fearful fantasies or we can let them go or give them a safe place the way to work with
anxiety to begin with is to acknowledge it anxiety and fear and say thank you thank you for trying to
protect me i'm okay for now and put them aside you can even visualize putting them aside. You can take your fears and anxieties as thoughts or images and put them into a bowl or put them into a sword and place them on an altar in your mind and say,
All right, may the wise ones of the past, may the Buddhas and whoever it is that you admire, you hold this for a while.
It's not my job to hold this. And let me be the person who lives
in the reality of the present with a centered spirit and a compassionate heart. And that kind
of conversation got a lot of response as a reminder, really, of what we know.
Pete And for people who want to explore the exercise you just described,
I'd actually highly suggest our first conversation,
because you may or may not recall, but we spoke about anger,
specifically my anger, or anger response to certain circumstances,
which included a discussion of contractor ease, as you put it,
which we don't have to get into,
but people can explore that in the first conversation we had. I would like to
follow up with a question about the distinction and the labels I'm going to use are somewhat
clumsy, but the how to combine what Bruce Tift, I believe his name is, he wrote a book
called Already Free, calls the developmental view and the fruitional view or the developmental
framework and fruitional framework, meaning that you have a developmental framework that one could
associate with Western psychotherapy, where you identify problems, you work through
your problems, you improve your circumstances, maybe you ask for that raise, quit that job,
have the difficult discussion with your spouse, whatever it might be. So, it's a personal
development slash improvement path in some respect, problem-solving path, then the frictional view, which at least as he would put it,
is improving your
ability or changing
your
lens through which you relate to your
circumstances. So,
for yourself, how old are you now,
Jack, if you don't mind me asking?
I'm about to turn 75.
75. It's a wild
number, because inside, of course, I don't, and very often, we don't feel anywhere near as old as those numbers that roll by.
And inside, I don't know what age I feel.
50, 40, 30?
Because it's all just a concept.
Right. do you in let's just say the current circumstances think about how much of your mind space or energy
to dedicate to relating to the anxiety and fear and so on differently or with an accepting heart
and so you don't become lost as you put it in these overblown fantasies in some cases versus the kind of brass tacks of problem solving where you're
taking steps to disinfect packages, you're taking steps to socially distance,
et cetera, et cetera, et cetera, thinking about medications you might need for the next two to
three months if there are shortages. How do you think about or suggest that people blend
those two? Because I do see people who fall in a binary way 100% on one side or the other,
and that doesn't strike me as ideal. Yeah, one side would be almost a kind of denial
and just carrying on or saying, well, you know, the outer doesn't matter. And the other is to get lost in the future of your fearful fantasies
when the future is still really unknown for us.
Part of what happens for me, and I think as we mature, become wiser,
is that we become comfortable with paradox.
The way, to put it most simply, is you need to remember your Buddha nature and your social
security number.
There are different dimensions to our being, just as light can be measured as a particle or a wave, depending how you
examine it. And there it is in its particle form, and you can see it, or there it is as a wave
function. In the same way, consciousness itself can be experienced differently. It can be experienced as a field of vast, timeless awareness.
It can also be experienced in each moment as the consciousness of what's here, almost as if it's a particle.
And we human beings have this miraculous capacity to hold these multiple dimensions in a wise and open heart.
So I recommend to people, of course, be sensible.
Any good spiritual teacher says what they want from students is a student who's dedicated, yes,
and also who has some common sense and not just lost in illusion.
So be practical in your community.
Be careful because this virus is spreading, and it will spread further.
There's not a question of it.
And the question more is there's a collective and an individual one for us as individuals.
How can we go through this and tend ourselves and others with care and not spiral down inwardly into a place of fear or despair?
And this is possible.
We've done this as human beings.
We're survivors and we have generations of ancestors behind you that are cheering you on and saying, yep, we lived through
some tough stuff too. And I remember being in the forest monastery, and I got very sick
at different times as a monk or in that period of my life training.
Pete Can you just, for people who don't have
context, explain the forest monastery, you mean when when when i uh became interested in buddhism
i went in the 1960s to thailand where i worked for some time in the peace corps on tropical medicine
teams in various remote villages and then i became a buddhist monk in monasteries of the forests of the area of Thailand and Laos that were still huge, vast forests.
And in those monasteries, we lived very, very simply.
You know, took our alms bowl out to the nearby village to walk and get whatever food we could and, you know, sewed and made our
own robes.
It was a marvelous way of life and one that was ancient.
And much of it was really the training.
We did a lot of meditation.
We also did various kinds of communal practices and service and things like that, was learning how to be steady and balanced and compassionate
to ourself and others through all the ups and downs. So I remember when I was sick with malaria,
I had typhoid too. There were various things I went through. And I was lying on the kind of
wooden floor of my little hut in the forest and didn't go to the daily chanting or
whatever. So the teacher came to see me and he said, how are you? I said, I'm really sick. He
felt me. He said, you have a high fever. I said, yeah. He looked at me quite knowingly. He said,
it's probably malaria. I said, it probably is. He said, makes you feel bad, doesn't it? I said, yeah. Really
suffering. He looked at me. I said, yes, really suffering. He says, makes you think about going
home to your mother, doesn't it? And I smiled because he was a very funny guy. I said, absolutely.
He said, this is malaria. All of us who lived in the jungle have had it. Now there's good medicines and I'll send the medicine monk to help you later. But remember, no matter how hard it is, you know how to practice with this. We've all done this. And he smiled. He looked at me and said, you can do this. And he actually urged me to sit up in the middle of it. There I was sweating and chills. He said, sit with it, meditate with it, and you'll find your center in the midst of it all.
So that was the kind of training.
And in some way, we all have that training in our lives.
We know there are choices where we go down the rabbit hole of our fears and get lost and contracted.
And that's fine.
You can say thank you thank you for trying to take
care of me as you you know as you might to your fears but then you remember that who you are is
not limited to that and this is the shift of identity that who you are is bigger than the
thoughts and the fears or worries and when you remember who you really are, which is awareness itself, a vast, loving awareness,
then you can look at the circumstances, hold them with great compassion, and say,
how do I want to live now?
How do I want to follow this?
And the beautiful thing is that you learn that you don't have to pick up all those difficult thoughts and carry them around.
We were out wandering in the rice paddies on a way to a village to collect alms food one day with my
teacher, Ajahn Chah, and some monks. And out across the rice paddies was this great big rock, a boulder. And Ajahn Chah
said, is that boulder heavy to us? He asked the question, kind of the way a Zen master would.
And being intelligent young monks, we said, yes, it is, Master. And he smiled and he said,
not if you don't pick it up.
Pete I knew there had to be a trick coming.
I knew there was something coming.
And it was something that we learned inside
of how to witness what's present without being lost in it.
And so let's stay with the question of the spread of this virus, because our society isn't very well prepared, but we can prepare ourselves.
We can prepare our hearts so that we're that one on the boat, whether we stay in our homes at times that we need to and take it as a time of deepening our sense of presence and care for others.
It also means that we can become altruistic.
It can bring out the best in us.
And let me tell you a story.
This was on BBC some, not so many years ago.
They did a special on the 60th anniversary of the siege of Leningrad in World War II.
And Leningrad was besieged by the German army for almost three years through three long winters.
And there were hundreds and hundreds of thousands of people inside,
many who were close to starving. And one older woman who had been there as a child
was describing the experience, and she said, we would go out once a week. She said, and in the
winter, I went out to pick up bread for my mother and myself.
And the streets were icy and slippery.
And I stood in the bread line and went and got my piece of bread.
And as I came out, I fell on the ice and the bread fell into the mud puddle.
And I sat there and I wept.
I was a young girl.
And another woman walked out behind me who
had received her bread and she helped pick me up and she tore her piece of bread in half and
wrapped it in a cloth and handed it to me. And then this old woman led the camera down the hallway
of her railroad type apartment into the kitchen and opened a cabinet.
There was a ceramic, which she pulled open and pulled out a blue kerchief and untied it,
and inside was part of that piece of bread.
And she said, what that woman did for me is she gave me
the Spirit to live through the next year and a half of the siege, and I'll never forget it.
Pete Wow.
Pete So, we have the opportunity,
even in difficult times, to let our Spirit shine.
Pete Maybe especially in difficult times.
I've been thinking a lot of an expression recently
and how it might apply to me
and how I'm responding to current life events,
or world events for that matter.
And I don't know the attribution,
so I apologize to whoever actually said or wrote this,
but that adversity does not build character, it reveals character. Have you seen any, and let's
just take for the time being that to be true, whether it is or it isn't, but let's assume that
to be true. Have you seen any patterns in the people who are having the greatest difficulty emotionally, psychologically,
with the spread of this novel coronavirus? And is there anything to be learned from that,
that can help people?
Well, the first thing to say is that I've seen people, I have a friend who's a doctor who's going around visiting anybody who has got symptoms.
And she's, you know, from the outside, you might call it heroic in some way.
But she said, but this is what I trained for.
This is the oath that we take as physicians, that we will actually be there.
And so it brings out what's beautiful in lots of
people however as you say if we have a tendency to worry which many people do or if we have a
tendency to feel ourselves to be small if our identity is built somehow around the sense of separateness, then this can exacerbate it.
What's helpful is to have a bigger perspective. The Ojibwe Indian Native Americans have this
amazing, I find poetic way of putting it. They say, sometimes i go about pitying myself when all the while i'm being
carried by great winds across the sky and and we are in this human incarnation for a certain
measure of time no one knows how long they have um a beautiful and difficult and remarkable dance in this life and how we do it we're being carried by
vastness and we're not just this personality or our history or the small sense of self
you are spirit that was born into your body you were you were the loving awareness that was born into your body. You were the loving awareness that was born into this
incarnation. And you get to remember who you are as you start to awaken, and it gives you a
tremendous kind of freedom. So my hope is that people will see their habits and also remember that who they are, the Buddhist texts begin with the words, oh, nobly born, or you who are the sons and daughters of the lineages of the awakened ones, remember who you really are, that it will actually bring out what's beautiful in people. You know, I asked, I think this is relevant to a question I asked earlier in so much as
you strike me as someone who relates to life and death and mortality, perhaps differently than
many folks, including many people I've had on this podcast. And you mentioned that you're about to turn 75.
I think you've got lots of mileage left. And I also know that older segments of the population, as it relates to COVID-19, at least, appear to be more susceptible to severe illness and death.
And many people, including myself, are worried about their parents and are perhaps in some cases for the first time, but certainly right now a lot of people are looking at mortality or feeling the sort of imminent looming specter of death in some capacity or the potential of death and struggling with that. How do you relate to
death and mortality?
So, I want to tell a little story of relation to my twin brother when he died, and I don't remember
so well what we did in the last podcast. So, if I repeat it, I think it may be relevant.
And then from it, maybe we can talk about how one learns to face death in a different way. So my twin brother, who was an accomplished and acclaimed scientist and a geneticist and a world explorer, he was a population biologist more than anything else.
So he explored the underwater genomes of the great lakes of the world and Lake Malawi in africa and lake baikal and siberia and lake
titicaca in the andes and so forth and genetic diversity and all those sort of things he did
lots else he was an acclaimed professor um but he got blood cancer and after a time
um it morphed into a leukemia that they were not able in the end he had a he had a stem cell
transplant and all kinds of good treatment but they were not able to stop so i was with him
in the weeks before he died and i loved him a lot he's a you know as a twin and a funny you know high-spirited interesting
playful human being but there he was lying and knowing that he was gonna
die soon and I thought well maybe I'll teach you meditation, I said to him.
But he'd been in some pain and, you know, in all kinds of states.
And I realized pretty quickly that it was a little late for that.
I mean, yes, I could do a couple guided meditations, but mostly it was beyond his doing some inner training so i said how about instead if i
meditate with you and i'll meditate out loud and so you'll get a sense of how i do this and
he was a member of the explorers club in you know which has the people who first climbed
everest or went to the north pole or the south Pole or went to the moon, all these great explorers.
I said, will they take inner explorers?
He said, no, no, no, we only do the outer.
I said, okay.
Okay, I said, well.
So I closed my eyes.
I was sitting next to his bed.
And I began to meditate.
And I said, I'm simply paying attention with a loving awareness to what's here in body heart and mind my my main practice
is that of opening to what's so and learning from it and there are different channels or
perspectives that open up so i said i'm tuning in right here and I closed my eyes. And after a minute or so, I said, my body is feeling cold.
And the cold is centered in my testicles and in my penis and, you know, right in my groin.
And it's getting colder.
It's like ice.
And I'm paying, as I continue to pay attention.
And I said, and this is death.
I feel it because our minds and bodies as twins were really linked.
I feel death growing in my body.
And he said, so what do you do?
And I said, you pay attention to it.
And so I sat with that for a little bit.
And I said, now I feel my attention moving from the ice
in my genitals up to my heart. And all of a sudden, the temperature changes. And I feel my
heart warm like an oven. And a color kind of red comes. And I feel a love that I've had for you
since we were in the womb or maybe lifetimes past, who knows.
But this love, I feel, is outside of time, that whether I'm with you in your body or not,
we love each other. And I feel a rest, a connection in this love that's huge and warm
and keeps us connected forever. And I stayed with that for a time and I said now my attention is moving
Spontaneously
Up to my head and my head's dissolved and now I feel myself to be
vast space and awareness itself, which is how I practice often in meditation and
I said in this place i can sense that there's
a body here some sensations of mine and a sense of body over there because i can see and hear and
feel yours they're just appearances on the screen of timeless awareness coming and going and who we
are is so much bigger than this we are the field of
consciousness itself that manifests in these incarnations and in this i feel absolutely
at peace and open and spacious and when i opened my eyes and looked at him, he had become much more peaceful.
It's as if he had taken in these dimensions, and it had reminded him of something that he knew deep in himself.
Because these are the different dimensions of freedom that come as one trains in meditation.
And so let me talk about that a tiny bit, and then I'll get back to your question about death, because there's no rush whatsoever.
That's so interesting as well. There are four dimensions of freedom that you learn as you train
in, we'll call it meditation, or in the inner capacities of presence and each of them involve a shift of
identity the first is that you become more and more able to be present with the content of your
experience with what is called the 10 000 joys and the 10 000 sor. So as you, I'll use sitting as the example, as you sit and meditate,
you'll have your longing and your love and your itches and your worries and your anger and your
joy and your creativity and your imagination and your pain in the knee, you know, and your
resentments. And you have all of those things come.
And the first thing, that first dimension of freedom that grows for you
is what neuroscientists call expanding the window of tolerance.
That you're able to tolerate your humanity with its broken heart and its incredible love you know with the unbearable
beauty of the world you live in and the ocean of tears and the poet i believe it's hafez says
don't surrender your loneliness so quickly let it cut deeply. Let it season you as few ingredients can.
And so you sit with your loneliness and you learn to say, ah, this is loneliness and give a bow to
it and say, yes, thank you for your song. And you sit with your love and you acknowledge that.
You sit with the difficulty or shame that many people carry. I remember working with this man who'd been an orphan, and he felt like there was something wrong with him because he was put into an orphanage, even though it was nothing that he as a child had done.
And you learn to tolerate your humanity, and that already brings a tremendous kind of freedom.
And then the next dimension of freedom, and they're not in order,
they're different dimensions of because we are able to hold, we're beings of multi-level or
paradox, is not just the content, but the process or the common humanity of experience and you start to realize that what you
take so personally is just what life is zorba the greek says trouble life is trouble only death is
nice he goes on somehow or other and you start to see um you know, that there are different kinds of tears.
There are the tears from your own trauma and being, you know, hurt or wounded or abandoned or abused that need to be honored.
And we might talk about trauma more later.
But there's another kind of tears that are called the tears of the way.
And those are the tears of the Dharma where you realize when you face your own loneliness or
longing or the way that you've been mistreated, all of a sudden you realize, oh, loneliness and
longing comes with being human. Praise and blame come with being human.
Joy and sorrow come with being human.
I think last time I told you the story of being with Pema Chodron with this person, this woman whose partner had committed suicide.
And how terrible that was for her and Pema telling her to hold it all with compassion.
And then I asked in this room of 2,000 or 3,000 people for people to raise their hands or stand up if someone in their family had committed suicide or someone close to them.
You know, and 200 or 300 people stood up.
And all of a sudden that woman gazed back at them.
I asked her to look, and they had heard.
And the room became a holy place because there was so much common humanity of that which
the heart has to bear, and yet we know we can bear when we are connected with others. And so the second dimension or aspect of freedom
is our common humanity. That it's not personal, that you have suffering or that people get sick
or that you have triumphs and successes and you, you know, make a name for yourself or
build something beautiful. These are part of what human incarnation does.
And you begin to hold it all, not as me and mine, but as part of this great dance.
And it's all both impermanent and not so personal.
It has both its, you know, joys and its suffering, and the heart grows wider to hold this and and then the next dimension
which opens up further and and kind of talks to that question you talked about developmental
versus fruition practice and i'll get back to it is the dimension of awareness itself. My teacher Ajahn Chah, this great meditation master in the forests of Thailand and Laos,
had lived in caves and done austere practices and long days and months of meditation, and
out in the jungles where there still were tigers and all those things.
And he had deep insights and visions and, you know, lots of suffering, but also tremendous insights and beautiful states of samadhi and awakening.
And he went to see the greatest master of his time, another Ajahn or teacher named Ajahn Mun, and told him about all the things that had
happened in his meditation and the insights and understandings in beautiful states that had come of
dissolving his body into light and so forth. And Ajahn Mun's response was, Cha, dude,
you've missed the point. He said, those are just experiences. They're like movies on a screen.
You sit and you have the war movie and you have the movie of conflict at work and you sit and
you have the romantic comedy and you have the documentary. He said, they're all happening,
they arise and pass. Those are not the point the point he says
is because none of those can be held on to they all come and go the question is to whom do they
happen turn your attention back to the one who knows to the knowing there was a phrase he used, Sikibuto, to the one who knows and become the witnessing of all of this.
Because who you really are is consciousness itself manifesting in the different forms that are experienced. is timeless and pure and open, vast like the sky, containing all things, but not limited by them.
And when you become the loving awareness itself, then this is the gateway to an even greater
dimension of freedom. And then, since I'm going on and on here, I'll add the
fourth dimension of freedom, which is that as you become familiar with and remember and remind
yourself and discover that you can be the loving awareness, that you are the witness to things,
all these things change. But even even now as you listen, Tim,
and as people are listening to this podcast
and you feel your body seated there in a chair
or you're in your car or wherever you are listening
and you hear the sounds and the other sounds around you,
you know, in the sights,
there is a consciousness that knows these.
Turn your attention from the experience to the mystery of consciousness that is ever-present
This is the one who knows the knowing
Rest in it. It is your true home
and
from this place, then there opens one more dimension of freedom.
As my teacher in India, Sri Nisargadatta said,
Wisdom tells me I am nothing.
Love tells me I am everything.
Between these two, my life flows. But you actually become more intimate with it. You become able to hold it in this great heart-mind, the word in Sanskrit is jitta, which means both heart and mind, that is loving awareness.
And with loving awareness, not only is there spaciousness, but there's also intimate connection.
And so your love grows for this mystery of life even as your
freedom grows and so these are the different dimensions that they're part of the training
that we do when we train teachers in meditation but these are the different dimensions of freedom
that are possible for us and as you learn, they allow you to enter the terrain of birth and death with a
wise and spacious heart. So, I'd be happy to talk more about death, but let me take a pause here
because I've been going for a while, and I wonder how this sounds to you.
I enjoy this type of discussion. So, it makes sense to me, conceptually, experientially,
and perhaps we'll get to this point
or we'll cover this topic at some point,
I think particularly with certain adjunct assistance
in ego dissolution.
I feel as though I've, from an experiential standpoint, also perhaps glanced
on the edges of some of these dimensions personally. And I suppose as the shepherd
of my listeners, the way it's landed is both very, very fascinating and wondering how for someone who is in pain currently,
thinking about ruminating upon, perhaps just perseverating with the topic of mortality and
death, the uncontrollability of vastly changing circumstances, perhaps they're separated on
opposite sides of the country from their parents or grandparents and recognize that healthcare systems may be overwhelmed, etc., etc.
Is there something that they can do in terms of practice or anything you can share that might give them some reprieve or lessen the severity of that anxiety that's associated with all of that?
Yes, there are a few things that they can do.
And I'm grateful for the practical dimension of your question.
So first I want to answer personally.
I've had a really good life, so I feel in many ways complete.
And so what will happen in terms of death, I don't particularly want to die.
I'd like to be there for my grandson Desmond,
who's now approaching one and a half years old. I want to play, you know, tag and ball and watch things and, you know, watch him develop
and grow and all that. But I also feel at peace with myself. That being said, of course people
are going to be afraid. And of course they're going to be worried for whether it's their parents who are old or other people they know who are vulnerable or themselves.
So here are several different things that are important.
The first is to stop and just to sit down for a little bit and maybe put your hand on your heart every day and remind yourself let me hold all of
what i'm worried about with a tender compassion bring in the element of compassion because we
human beings go through difficult things let me hold myself and my worries and my parents or my
friends who are vulnerable may they be safe and well you can
sort of extend your well-wishing may we hold ourselves with tenderness and compassion so this
sort of brings that altruistic quality and reminds us that we can hold things with kindness
not to judge yourself even you know you think, I shouldn't be worried so much,
or I should this, or I shouldn't be anxious. Again, just say, thank you for trying to take
care of me. And then the next step is to notice, I'm okay for now. And this becomes really important
because your parents are okay for now, or the people you worry about are okay for now.
It doesn't mean they shouldn't prepare or get your masks or sequester yourself, you know, or line up the kind of care you might need or medications.
But to live where you are, to come back and say, I'm okay for now and feel yourself rooted in the earth. Another thing that you can do, you feel yourself connected to the earth,
is literally to go outside and find a beautiful boulder or rock or a tree
and stand with it and feel the roots of the tree, look at it and sense how it goes into the earth and how that tree lives
through winds and storm and loses its leaves and regains them and how life keeps renewing
itself and stand with that tree and feel how you too can root yourself in the winds of change and feel grounded and steady and flexible
and find those qualities in yourself.
Again, you can take your images of worry and fear, thank them for trying to protect you and visualize placing them in a bowl or into some other form and put
them on an altar and that altar in your mind can be filled with the you know the image of whoever
whatever you take to be sacred it can be the bud Buddha and Kuan Yin or Jesus or Mother Mary,
you know, or Gandhi or whoever it is. Or if you have an altar at home, because some people do,
and they put their favorite spiritual inspiration on it, you can write your worries on a piece of
paper. Feel all the energy of those fears in your body the emotions of it the stories
and then fold the paper up and bring it to your altar and put it in the lap of kuan yin or in
front of mother mary and say you hold these now i will do what i can for my parents. I'll take care of myself and my family and community.
I'll let you carry the fears.
I'm going to do it from a place of centeredness and courage.
Know, too, as you do this, that just as I talked about with a vastness, don't be squeamish about letting things go.
You can actually let go of some thoughts and feelings. It doesn't mean they won't be there,
they'll come up again, but you can say, you know, not now. I put you on the altar, I let you go,
I put you back into the earth, and instead, I'm now going to shift my consciousness to calm and spaciousness and vastness.
And feel your breath breathing in and out as it does.
And feel how life has carried you.
And let yourself open to a space of steadiness and calm.
And maybe link your spirit with all those others who are steady and calm in the world right now just as you are.
The thousands and thousands who found a way to be calm and steady the physicians and nurses you know the fathers and mothers of children
who found their way to tend one another with a steadiness and a calm and link
your consciousness with them so these are a few of many practices to suggest
and this is important to say also that it's not a one-time thing. That's
why they're called practice and not perfect. Because you do it, you lose it, you kind of
get lost again. You can't sleep as you said, Tim, or you get lost in worries. And then you can't
sleep and you say, all right, let me sit up and meditate, and let me meditate on vastness, and let me become the bodhisattva of peace and compassion, and extend my compassion to everyone
else who can't sleep tonight. And we'll meditate together, and we'll meditate on our connection
and love. And little by little, you'll get bored just doing the compassion over and over,
and you'll fall back asleep. It strikes me that this, well, a number of things strike me.
First, for people who have not ever tried this,
the visualization of placing these various feelings or concerns on an altar
or with other advice-giving sources you respect or physically putting it on
your altar is, at least has been for me, surprisingly effective. And not only that,
but it doesn't have to take a long time. the power of the metaphor for me at least has, has been very
effective.
And, uh, certainly Jack, you've helped me in many other instances over the years.
The linking of consciousness with others, I think is something I haven't quite paid
enough attention to.
And that, that strikes me also that it could be particularly important and nourishing when people are, say, social distancing or self-quarantining or otherwise isolated or feeling physically isolated.
So that strikes me as a very good practice. And I had a follow-up question, which was, could you maybe expound a bit or
expand a bit on, don't be squeamish about letting things go? Because I think I need to hear,
perhaps, maybe just you repeat what you said, or elaborate a little bit.
Well, it makes me think about Ram Dass, who we may talk about as we go on as well. And that story, when he was teaching as Baba Ram Dass and had just come back from India with his white robes and beads and so forth, and offering Hindu and Buddhist meditation, some of what we just did, and some Hindu mantras.
And this woman in the front row said, hey, Ram Dass, aren't you Jewish?
Come on, what's with the Hindu stuff?
And Ram Dass smiled, and he said, I am. He said, and I was, as he pointed out, he said, I was bar mitzvahed, as I was.
And there's a lot that I love in the Jewish spiritual tradition.
The Hasidic masters are like the Zen masters. You read the stories and the Kabbalah has
all these dimensions of consciousness. And then he smiled and he said,
but remember, I'm only Jewish on my parents' side.
And it was, as he was,
a witty comment, but also a profound one.
Because a witty comment, but also a profound one, because we can get lost in things that we're identified with and really take them to be ourself.
But then in a moment, we can also say, oh, that's just common humanity.
That's just, and we can step back um and not take take it so personally and in this
case it's like your whole history your parents your trauma you know your gender whatever all
those things are given to you in this incarnation in a certain way but in another way who you really
are is bigger than all of that um and so, then you can also spread out your
consciousness or open to that vastness and say, I'm going to connect myself with everyone in the
world who's steady and calm right now. We will do this together. So, I don't know if that helps.
Pete Thank you. It does help. And you also
mentioned a name that I know some listeners will not recognize, and that is Kuan Yin. Now, speaking as someone who's spent some time at Spirit Rock, and actually had some very challenging times in my first silent meditation over an extended period of time, which you were very gracious and generous in helping me to get through. There's a very large
wooden carving of Kuan Yin at Spirit Rock. Who is Kuan Yin and what is the
significance of Kuan Yin for you as a symbol or an avatar or an icon so part of what's interesting about consciousness is that it works in the minute
particulars you know your toenails and the the um kind of breakfast you ate this morning
you know and the number of people in your family and what kind of carpet or wood you have on the
floor, that it has the specifics of life. But it also has an archetypal dimension,
which is to say it has patterns. The archetypes are the patterns of life. There's the pattern of, you know, houses or places to live, whether they're, you know,
huts or thatched or caves or wooden or concrete or something, they all fit under the pattern
or the archetype of awakened consciousness, which are sometimes described as, you know, great, wise beings and so forth, there are many, many kinds. bodhisattva. Bodhisattva is the compound word that means bodhi is awakened and sattva is being
someone who's committed to compassion and the freedom or the awakening of all beings.
And there's lots and lots of bodhisattvas. And in fact, I think there's lots of bodhisattvas
in my neighborhood, people who treat one another beautifully, who help uplift one another, who have a free heart. We know Bodhisattva. So Kuan Yin is the name for a Buddhist
archetypal Bodhisattva. She is the consciousness of universal compassion. And sometimes she's depicted with a thousand arms and a thousand hands,
enough to reach out to respond to the needs of the whole universe.
So we have these images of Kuan Yin because she's, as an archetype,
she's a symbol of compassion itself.
And we can become that.
The beautiful thing is not that there's some, you know, symbol on the wall or carved statue in whatever tradition it is, but that these are really symbols for what lies within us.
And so we have all these capacities.
And depending which ones we, Thich Nhat Hanh used to talk about it as seeds in consciousness,
depending which ones we water and tend, those are what blossom.
If we water and tend our anger, it will grow. If we water and tend and spend time in our fears or our conflict, they will grow if we water and tend and spend time in our our fears or, you know, our conflict.
They will grow if we water the seeds of peace in us.
They'll grow if we water the seeds of compassion in consciousness and tend to it.
It will blossom. And the invitation of these archetypes is to realize that we have this in us it's not
separate from us um and also i think there's something else people kind of approach spiritual
life as a grim duty all right i jog i meditate you know i i uh i go to therapy i watch my diet
i'm trying to lose weight and now i got to do the damn meditation stuff, you know.
And it's not about that.
It's not about like perfecting yourself.
Okay, I've got to fix my body and I've got to heal everything and then I've got to fix my personality and perfect it.
It's not about perfecting yourself.
It's about perfecting your love.
Can you live in this world with love for this human incarnation?
With all its marvels and its imperfections,
there's something bigger than that.
The Zen master Ryokan,
the most beloved poet of Japan, he wrote of himself, last year, a foolish monk, this year,
no change. And there's so much tenderness. That's like Kuan Yin speaking, or here's another phrase from Kuan Yin, my old faults like snow falling on warm ground, that there's a forgiveness and a tenderness in that archetype of Kuan Yin that says, yes, we're human, and yes, we all get afraid, we make mistakes, and we can water the seed, the magnificent seeds of presence and care and love.
All of those are also part of who we really are.
And then behind that, we are consciousness having this great game. And that's where your psychedelics come in, my friend, as well as meditation, because you were
beginning that, you know, that easy conversation.
I was tiptoeing around.
Yeah, okay. All right.
Let's jump in. You mentioned one of the archbishops of American psychedelia, Ram Dass, in a sense, at least starting back in his Harvard days,
in his previous incarnation as Richard Alpert. So, could you speak to, it could be specific to
Ram Dass, it could be in the context of your own life, but what role does or do psychedelics serve, if any?
And they don't need to be limited to psychedelics.
We could put it under the umbrella of sacred medicine or something else.
Sacred medicines.
You know, I've written about this.
I've written a number of articles.
I have a chapter in a book called bringing home the dharma where i where i
write more extensively about this um there is a long tradition as we know in many many spiritual
uh cultures whether the ayahuasca cultures of the amazon the african cultures ibogaine and so forth, and the Indian cultures of Soma that's woven into the Vedas,
you know, or the Huichol Indian culture using peyote, you know, or the magic mushroom cultures
of Central America and so forth. There's this long, beautiful human tradition
of using sacred medicines to help us remember who we are.
And because they're so powerful, they're also scary to people because they take apart our conventional reality. which is why when Tim Leary and Richard Alpert back in the old Harvard days were, you know, turn on, tune in and drop out,
were espousing that at the same time there was this sort of freewheeling hippie movement of love and peace as opposed to the war in Vietnam.
That was a long time ago, half a century ago. But it was also threatening
to the culture at large that was more focused on getting through school, having a job, on
making a bunch of money, on fulfilling your social roles. And these sacred medicines,
they have different dimensions, but in the deepest way, they let you shift your identity
from being that separate sense of self, that separate atom in the cog of, you know, the culture,
and come back to remember love, to remember who you are, to have a sense of mystery and vastness.
And of course, in the meantime, depending which ones you take, they're also quite cleansing.
And so you'll find in taking them that you relive your traumas.
And if you relive them in a conscious way, you can release yourself from them.
I've worked for 40 years or more together with Stanislav Grof, another of the great
elders in the psychedelic movement. And now, of course, with Michael Pollan's wonderful book on
how to change your mind and the resurgence of research at Johns Hopkins and UCLA and NYU and
so forth, it's again possible to see the benefits of these medicines, and people are using
them in all kinds of ways. Now, they can be misused like anything. We're Americans. We know how to
misuse anything. And for certain people, people who have already, you know, psychiatric concerns or histories and so forth,
they can actually be dangerous.
So I don't mean to say that they're all, everything's all hunky-dory.
And they can easily be misused as party drugs and things like that,
or people then in wrong circumstances having what they call a bad trip because they don't
actually understand it but in general when they're approached as a sacrament or as a sacred medicine
or something in the simplest way to invite us to learn from a deep dimension our being
they can be quite magic and you can take a psilocybin mushrooms, you know, or join a circle that is drinking the
ayahuasca tea, you know.
And when it's held in the right set and setting, where it's quiet and you're tended by someone
else and you're able to let go and open in a safe way,
you'll find that there's a purification that takes place, a release of things held in the body and
in the emotions of past difficulties and traumas. Images and visions will come. And then beyond that,
if you allow it, there opens a sense of joy and mystery and a connection to the consciousness
that you really are and all these things are possible in what i've written almost all the
very well known and respected teachers of my generation from the eastern side of our
you know meditation in the west the teachers like like Sharon Salzberg and Joseph Goldstein and
Pema Chodron and you name them, they all started with psychedelics. We all did.
And it gave us a glimpse into something that we then wanted to learn further the beautiful thing is that there's
a great complement between this and the inner trainings in meditation when you meditate you
learn how to navigate these vast spaces and all the intensity of emotion and healing that come up
with a more gracious and understanding perspective
and in my many many years of working with
Ramdas, but especially with Stan Groff where we would lead reads
retreats for hundreds and thousands with the holotropic breath work many people who are also
Using these psychedelics at the same time or near that.
We learned and showed people both how to open through this process and at the same time how to use the meditative skills of witnessing, of being a loving awareness, of tolerance, of opening the window of tolerance, of trust and compassion, holding whatever arises in compassion,
so that all the lessons and the openings would actually land in a more integrated and wise way in their life.
So I'm excited that these are now available in our culture and that people are in a conversation about how to use them in a healthy and skillful way and celebrate that as part of our human heritage
of what we can use to remember that who we are in the end is love, that who we are is life itself
living through us and our connection that we are, as my teacher said,
wisdom says I am nothing and love says I am everything, that we are consciousness connected with all things.
I remember this image from Alice Walker who wrote of one character.
She said, one day I was sitting there like a motherless child, which I was,
and it come to me that feeling of being a part of everything. And I knew if I cut a tree,
my arm would bleed. And I laugh and I cry and I run all around the house. In fact, when it happens,
you just can't miss it. There is a reality of our interconnection that is available to us,
and we all know it. We know it from walking in the high mountains and having our eyes and
senses cleansed and open. We know it from lovemaking and dissolving into one another,
into the field of love. We know it from being there at the birth of a child, witnessing that mystery,
or holding the hand of someone at the time of death and seeing that miraculous moment when spirit leaves the body.
And after that, it's just a corpse and realizing that we're not this body, who we are is spirit itself.
We know in all these different ways, and the sacred medicines are a way of bringing us back to that.
Jack, I'd love to ask you about, perhaps about mistakes or misuses of these plants and medicines and compounds and so on,
in the sense that just as there are people who use these tools in the right settings with the
proper preparation, proper supervision, guidance, and I should say just as a caveat, neither of us
are recommending anyone do anything with severe legal side
effects.
In other words, many of these compounds are Schedule 1 in the United States and otherwise
highly policed and scheduled and controlled.
So follow your local legal restrictions and requirements.
But just as there are people who use these things in
responsible ways, there are also people who are somewhat like a hammer looking for nails
in the sense that they try to use these tools to fix everything and anything, or they use them,
I wouldn't say to escape exactly, because these are, on some level, anti-escapist tools.
I mean, what you're trying to get away from is almost certainly going to come up and stare you
right in the face for an extended period of time, which can be uncomfortable. How can these be
overused or abused? Abuse is a strong word, so let's just say overused.
Well, you know, they can become party drugs, and I'm not against parties or people having that
kind of dance and loving connection and so forth, but they can be used in ways that are superficial,
if you say that, you know, in which, or they can be used in a setting where you can get
lost or frightened in the setting
because it's not really very well contained.
Or on occasion, the beautiful thing about most of the psychedelics is that they're not particularly addictive,
which is a great relief.
However, human beings, you know, we can still try, all right, I'll take a lot, a lot, a lot and see what happens.
And that's not particularly helpful or healthy.
That's another way of misusing it or trying to get somebody else to do that.
They should be approached with respect.
And approached with that respect means also, you know, not too frequent.
And that you have to ask your own heart, well, what does that mean?
How much can I learn from it?
How do I integrate it?
Can I take some time afterward?
You know, it's not like piling on.
And the truth is that none of these things is a kind of magic cure, as you said, that you're just going to fix everything with it because it doesn't work that way.
Each of these are opportunities for healing, for understanding, for opening to continue.
And all that, bless it, that's great.
You want to take the journey and not kind of leap ahead.
And you started somehow early on talking about the difference between development and fruition.
The fruition lens of becoming the consciousness, the one who knows, you can have that perspective.
And because we are paradoxical, you also still need to do the inner work.
Or even if you have had a beautiful, vast meditation or a psychedelic trip
or something that's opened you like that,
still there'll be places that you're caught and there'll be trauma that you carry.
And that becomes the place to develop compassion, open the window of tolerance, allow that healing to take place, and understand that we're multidimensional beings.
And so, yeah, I mean, these are part of the, it's so mysterious.
We are mysterious spiritual beings.
And these help open the gate. but so does poetry, you know.
So does looking deeply in the eyes of another person.
So does going out onto the ocean and seeing its vastness or walking in the high mountains.
These are all our birthright.
So does even the mystery of sleep, you know.
I mean, we want to sleep, and you talked about, you know i mean we want to sleep and you talked about you know wanting to sleep and
i find that um when i can't sleep and mostly i'm able to sleep pretty easily i get up and i meditate
say okay it's given to me time to meditate and then i notice my mind is maybe thinking about
something or obsessing or worried or something.
I say, oh, yeah, thank you for trying to take care of me.
It's okay.
And I go back to my compassion practice or to the vastness.
And after a while, I get bored and I go back to sleep.
But there's some way in which sleep is mysterious, you know.
Tim, here we are. And then every day, we long to go unconscious.
Forget about the dream part.
We do.
It's like, oh, can I only have a period where I disappear?
You know, people are worried about disappearing in meditation.
Hallelujah.
Can I have a period where I disappear and I'm not so self-involved with my life and
all the things i have to do and love and hate and so forth please give me a little peace you know
it's it's such a weird thing that that beings um being sleep nobody looks at these things it's just
like eating you have this hole at the top of your body into which you stuff dead plants and animals regularly and grind them up with these bones that hang down and glug them down through the tube, you know.
And you ambulate it by falling one direction and catching yourself and you fall the other side and you catch yourself.
I mean, how did you get into this weird thing?
So, we've lost that sense of mystery. Sleep is one of the great mysteries, and we love it. So,
when you have that sense that instead of it being success or failure, it's like, oh, you get to see this mystery and realize that it's connected with everything.
Yeah. You mentioned Stanislav Grof earlier.
Yeah.
Stan Grof, who I was very fortunate to have on the podcast before his stroke not too long ago,
which I think he's largely recovered from in terms of writing, but had some aphasia afterwards, much like Ram Dass did, although not that severe.
He, I believe, has certainly spoken extensively on these topics. And one of his observations, I'm going to paraphrase here, that is, I believe, in his most recent book,
or actually a combination of two books, related to suicide and attempts at suicide
perhaps being attempts to free oneself from the ego, but thinking that the only path available
for that is extinguishing your physical form. And that part of the reason you see efficacy with certain psychedelics, as has been shown,
at least in certain clinical studies done with psilocybin, the ability to reduce end-of-life
anxiety in terminal cancer patients, or even address, say, treatment-resistant depression,
is in part because just as we long for sleep to go unconscious, in a sense, or go subconscious,
it's that temporary alleviation of the burden of self-centeredness and this sort of recursive
self-referential prison that we can create for ourselves. So, I do think that's an astute
observation about sleep. I just want to underscore a few things you said also.
One is that I do think for anyone who is considering any type of psychedelic experience, it is
incredibly valuable to put on a little bit of mileage with a regular meditation practice and to practice even in a somewhat
volume turned down sense, sitting with emotions that may be difficult or thoughts that may be
unpleasant for, say, a consecutive 30-day period, meaning daily for 30 days or 60 days minimum, before considering a larger
psychedelic experience. That would be certainly something I would strongly suggest. And it's
akin to, on some level, drinking from the water fountain before you drink from the garden hose
before you drink from the fire hose. I think that they can be complementary in a lot of respects,
but I do think it's a very good idea.
Oh, it's really good advice.
It's really good advice.
And also, if you're going to do it, the other dangers, you want to make sure that the source of that sacred medicine is clean and good and not just street stuff.
And you want to have a sitter. For people who do, it's like going out
into, you know, an astronaut. You want a containment. So you want someone who's not taking that
to sit with you, tend you, give you whatever you need, keep you warm, give you something to drink,
foster a sense that you're protected so that what needs to happen inwardly is held in this
sacred set and setting and that makes all the difference um now what stan said what stan groff
said about uh about suicide too let me paraphrase it in a pretty similar way that when people feel that they want to commit suicide they are right that something needs to die
they're mistaken in thinking that it's their body that has to die that they're but they're facing
something that really does have to die and change and it may be the way their whole way they're
living their life it may be you know the the history that they have that they have to die to.
You could call it an ego death, some sense of identity that they've had that they don't want to let go of, but they have to.
Some difficulty. Just as you point to the deep inner work of a psychedelic session where there comes an ego death or a death of the way we hold ourself and all that we go through is coming to that.
That transforms us.
And we realize the problem isn't our body.
The problem is actually in our own heart and mind. Now, if anybody's interested in, you know, a wise perspective on
the nature of consciousness, my favorite book of Stan Grof's is a book called The Cosmic Game,
which you can get, like, everything online. And it's a description, he described 5,000 people, 5,000 sessions, sitting with people, whether they did LSD or holotropic breathing or other sacred medicines.
And it's a summary of the deepest insights and understandings that have come.
And it's a very beautiful framework for understanding the nature of consciousness itself.
Now, the other thing that you're sort of pointing to, Tim, has to do with,
one of our ongoing themes has to do with trauma and how do we deal with that as it comes up,
whether it's in a psychedelic session or, you know, in our meditation or
just in our lives.
So there's that.
And then I'm also, so we can go there, but I'm also remembering sitting with Ram Dass
when, oh gosh, my mind is blanking.
What's the name of the researcher at Johns Hopkins who's been doing all the psychedelic
research? Roland Griffiths. Roland Griffiths, right. So Roland, the name of the researcher at Johns Hopkins who's been doing all the psychedelic research?
Roland Griffith.
Roland Griffith, right.
He's the director of the center.
Roland had come to visit Ram Dass. It was probably last year or a year or two ago.
And they'd never met in person.
But Roland, in a way, has been picking up that psychedelic work that was left off almost 50 years ago by Stanislav Grof, who was the last LSD researcher legitimately doing that work.
And he was, again a beautiful afternoon because Ram Dass told him about the Good Friday experiment with clergy in, you know, back in the 1960s in Boston. And how various clergy members had had experiences of God and experiences of deep religious awakening in this.
And then Roland was describing what he'd learned.
And it was like a passing of the torch.
So much love that was there in the room, which is, of course, what Ram Dass was like in these
last years.
And then Roland said, he said, the thing that makes the biggest difference for those who come through our studies, whether they're healed, whether they're able to approach their death in a more peaceful way, or whether they've had great trauma and that starts to heal, or they've had depression or addiction he said the various groups that we're working with he said one of the scales that
we're using to measure the experience is a scale for mystical experiences and he said i can see in
our data quite simply that if someone has and he went on and many of our people do, a truly full-blown or a truly deep mystical experience.
Everything shifts in their life.
And so this is the invitation from meditation itself or from these psychedelics in the right setting.
Because remember the way that it's done at Hopkins is with a blindfold on and earphone, you know, so that your trip is entirely interior.
And you're attended by someone, and it allows you to go into the depths of your own being.
So this is really different than, you know, party tripping or something like that.
Very different. Very, very different. People can learn more about that program at hopkinspsychedelic.org also, where you can see not just Roland, but many other team members who are absolutely incredible. Mary Cosimano, of course. You have Matt Johnson, many other scientists and researchers. looking at the studies and the science that is being done there, which has really sort of set
the bar for how these compounds are researched in the last few decades and hopefully moving forward.
Question for you about trauma. Let's jump into it. How would you suggest people think about trauma? You and I, and I may speak publicly about this more another time,
but you and I have had a lot of conversations over the last, say, four or five years,
and I feel like my response to the current circumstances in the world, COVID-19 and so on, is really an exaggerated display of the hypervigilance that is a result of
childhood trauma.
And I couldn't prove that in a mathematical proof, but it seems somewhat self-evident
to me.
And I would guess that a lot of people out there may share that sentiment in some capacity.
How should people think about trauma?
How do you think about trauma?
So I want to take a pause here.
You know, we're talking about a lot of things that are actually very deep in our human experience.
We started with the virus itself and the fact that we human beings have periodically lived through epidemics
and that many people have died and it's not just you know that one becomes calm but that it's
really something huge to be able to try to hold it's like people living through warfare
i wish i could say well that's human history as in the past history, but it's current.
And we have these streams of refugees from war zones in Syria or Sudan or other places or the undeclared wars in the streets in Central America, between gangs in parts of our country wherever it is so first i just want to feel the weight of this
in our human life and take a breath and say so this is a this is a you know a deep question
for us as human beings how do we hold this um what's true is that in our lives, those who are listening and yourself and for myself, many of us have some significant trauma in our past.
And if we're not aware of it or don't have a way to manage it, then we can become overvigilant, as you described.
We can unconsciously manage it through addictions,
by drinking or drugging or using in all kinds of other ways,
or eating or sex or whatever it is,
in ways that are unhealthy, addictive patterns.
We can live our life in a lot of fear.
So to understand trauma is really important. And for anyone who's working in the realm of the psyche, of the heart and mind, whether
as a psychologist or spiritual, and I can't even divide them, it's just who we are as
humans, understanding trauma is important. Trauma in the simplest way, it speaks of an experience of suffering of some kind, physical
or emotional pain of some kind or other that's happened, in which our body goes into its
fight, flight, or freeze, a kind of survival, and then that gets locked into our bodies and hearts and minds.
Sometimes we can have difficulties and process them somewhat, be there for it, feel the feelings, feel it all, and live through it and release it.
And then it doesn't become trauma.
It becomes part of our history, something that we've learned.
And that's more how animals do it, apparently.
One of the great trauma experts, Peter Levine, has these videos which show, for example, I think it's a great big jackrabbit being chased by a coyote.
And it's running as fast as it can. And the coyote's running as fast as it can.
You could see it absolutely terrified.
And then all of a sudden, I don't know, some other larger coyote or something comes along and distracts the coyote that's chasing it.
And the hare, the rabbit giant hare, ducks down a hole and escapes.
And you see the coyote sniffing around for a while like, where did it go?
And then it saunters off.
And then you see the hare come back out of the hole or wherever it ducked into.
And it starts weird.
It starts to dance it starts to jump around as if it's releasing
all the tension and all the struggle that was there in that life or death chase and it does
that for a while and then it settles down and then it kind of hops along and goes on its way
well for us as human beings when we're're children and, you know, whether we're abandoned
or abused or terrible things happen, or as adults as well, where there's an accident or even surgery
where they put us to sleep, but our body knows it and the extent that we have major trauma that's unrecognized or unreleased,
as I said, it takes over in some unconscious way our life. So let me tell a couple of examples
that help give a perspective. The release of trauma happens, again, because we're
beings of multi-layers or multi-dimensions. It happens in different dimensions. There's a physical
dimension of it. So when you start to remember or recognize, or you may already have some memories, that there is trauma.
One part of it, and it can be in therapy or sitting with a very good trauma person,
the people who are trained by Peter Levine's somatic experience or EMDR or Bessel van der
Kooke's practices and so forth, that you start to remember as best you can, start to tell the story,
and then feel what it does in your body. And your body's going to want to start to move and tighten
and release. And if you're able to be with someone or with yourself over a period of time and
tolerate that, gradually what's been held in the body gets released.
The second dimension of it is the emotions. And I know this very well from people who face
trauma arising in their meditation on retreats that I teach, and I'll have them close their
eyes and the images from the past will arise. and then with them come all the emotions of terror, fear, of weeping, of being abandoned in some terrible way, all those emotions arise.
And to be able to tolerate them and make, often with the help of another person, make a field of presence and compassion that can allow those to be released becomes important.
And then there's the mental dimension of telling the story. So having
worked with vets who returned back from Afghanistan and Iraq and Kuwait, Middle East especially, but
other places as well, and led retreats with my colleagues, Michael Mead luis rodriguez this wonderful latin poet and activist maledoma
west african medicine man um when vets return and it's all the more so from the women who are vets
they can't tell their stories to their families to the people around them because they're too
horrific and you know he wants to go home you know and have to tell the stories of the things that
that they've been through it's too difficult but when we get combat vets together
and make a safe place and create a ritual where we light a candle and make a ritual space and say,
this is where we can hold the suffering and the horrors that you have lived through and the humanity of it and who we really are.
And they begin to tell their stories.
There are two kinds of stories.
The first part is, I can't tell you what I saw.
And then they'll go ahead and tell stories, and the other combat vets all know this.
And then the more difficult story is, I can't tell you what I had to do, what I was forced to do.
And then the real grief comes even deeper deeper because it's a betrayal of our soul
in some way, you know, to be forced to kill other people. And the fact that they're able to tell
their stories and be witnessed, you know, that a person can tell the story of what really happened to them as a child
and be witness with a loving gaze and with an understanding of how much suffering that was
and how it's held in the body and the emotions and to realize that it's not who you are,
that who you are is so much bigger than that. It has an enormously transformative effect.
And at the end of these retreats for veterans, they would then stand up.
We'd invite family and community members to come.
And they would tell a little of their story or read a part of a poem they wrote or something.
And finally, you'd get some of it out to everyone else to hear and then they would be
ritually and symbolically and literally welcome back into the community we hear you we now
understand what you've gone through and you are you are one of us we welcome you home
and it makes me wonder you know and worry about all those thousands, hundreds of thousands who were just let off the buses back home.
And no one really helped them with the stories and the wounds that they carry.
And, of course, I'm talking about military, but I could be talking about you, Tim, or me where my father was incredibly violent and would throw my mother down the stairs or beat
her black and blue so she had to wear long sleeves in the summer so people wouldn't see
how much she was battered by him you know and how it was to stand there and witness that or have his
rage turn on us and it took me a long time to deal with the pain and the anger. I didn't even want to feel how much anger I had
because I didn't want to be like him.
But then as I meditated, I realized it wasn't just out there,
that it was in me as well.
And so these are all dimensions of healing of the body,
of the emotions, and the heart, and of the story.
And one of the great gifts of being with Ram Dass in these last
years is that he became he became transparent he became a lighthouse of love you would just sit and
he would gaze at you with what in India was called the glance of mercy the eyes of that guru that being whoever she or he is
that looks at you with so much love and you go blah blah and I've felt this and I've done that
and I feel so and your whole story and your pain and your suffering and they just look at you with
so much love and you remember that that's not who you are, all that trauma. And so we can do that
for one another in these deep healing ways. So that's the beginning of, you know, your question
about trauma. Thank you, Jack. Well, I think that, number one, I would like to have you back for a
third installment sooner rather than later. I'm ashamed that it took so long to have you back for a third installment sooner rather than later.
I'm ashamed that it took so long to have you back on.
So that's the first thing I would like to say.
No pressure to accept the invitation now, but I would love to have another installment of this conversation for public consumption.
And I think this is a sensible place to talk about what you're up to now and perhaps tie up this conversation
because it's provided a lot for people to chew on and think about
and hopefully apply and and use i have all
sorts of follow-up questions that i will ask another time but uh the one that i can't
push off is asking you what you are focused on these days so what is i'll get to that i'll get
to that in just a minute and yes i hope next time we can talk about climate change, we can talk about servant leadership, because I did some teaching and meditation in the UK Parliament with people from both sides of the aisle and what that was like, or working in Palestine and Israel and things like that.
I'd love to talk about all those many, many more things like this. I want to say one more
thing from Ram Dass and then it connects directly to answer your question of what I'm working on.
And that is that we held a couple of, there've been a whole series of memorials for Ram Dass
as a spiritual friend and teacher and colleague who died
in December.
And I was fortunate enough to teach with him and be with him in December, not long before
he died.
And he was so loving that when the retreat ended, that the last day, they give a little
set of beads with a thread from his guru's blanket tied into it, and
all 350 people would pass by Ram Dass, who was seated there and who didn't have a lot
of words because his aphasia had gotten worse.
He couldn't speak as much toward the end of his life.
And he just gazed at them with so much love that people would stand there and start to
weep.
And at the memorial, Krishnadas, who is a colleague and a friend and a quite famous
musician who does chanting that you hear often in yoga studios around the country and so
forth, Krishnadas told a story. He said, I first met Ram Dass when I was 18 years old.
And Ram Dass had just come back from India and was wearing his white robes and his beard
and he was teaching.
And Krishnadas said, it was the most compelling spiritual voice I'd ever heard.
And I just wanted to follow him.
And I went back to India, spent time with his guru maharaji
and spent time around ramdas in the community and really became part of it um and have for years now
and he said i can tell you this after this 40 years have passed he said ramdas became
the person we thought he was when we first met him.
And it was a really, it was a beautiful and rich comment that talks about all of us, because in some way, we already know, and in another way, we're works in progress, right, of becoming.
But it's also, it's gorgeous, because it means that we can become that love
and we can become that loving awareness that's who we really are more and more in our life.
So the one thing that I will say then to answer your question, I'm involved in other projects in
Silicon Valley and with trying to humanize the future of technology and AI, and that would be another topic, and
writing new things and so forth. But I've got a training program for people who are interested
in teaching meditation. If you've been a mindfulness practitioner for a few years or
a meditator for some years, and you're interested in passing it on to others,
it turns out to be one of the most delicious and transformative things you can do with your life.
And it doesn't mean it becomes your whole life, but one thing that you can do becoming a meditation teacher.
And so with Tara Brach, we have this online training program to which we poured our very best teachings in our hearts. It's a
two-year online program that's really quite wonderful that you can find out about by going
on to my website jackcornfield.com and it involves a few in-person short retreats if you can do them
mostly online. You become mentored.
You become part of a small group, and you have a wonderful teacher as a mentor,
and you have a whole group of others that you're training with.
And we now have people in 50 countries around the world doing it,
and it transforms their lives, and then they take it into their schools
and businesses and communities and health centers and so forth.
So it's a beautiful thing to do.
And I'm excited because we've just put everything that we know that's good in it and people learn so much and they become part of an amazing community.
So that's my current favorite activity.
Or one of them any one of them talking with you tim and along with you
know um getting the holding my beloved trudy my my uh wife and dharma partner and you know
lots of walking out in the spring blossoms here in the bay area well Well, you have many projects. I want to highlight this one for a second
because I have spent time with you in person.
I have spent time with you on retreat.
I think you are an incredible teacher.
You're also an incredible clinician
and you have toolkits beyond that
of perhaps the prototypical mindfulness or meditation
teacher. So, I want to also just give a nod to the expansive toolkit that both you and Tara have.
So, I want to mention also Tara because Tara Brock is the author of a book that was recommended to me that I have also recommended
to many, many people called Radical Acceptance, which has had a large impact in my life.
So the fact that the two of you are offering this teacher training, in effect, for those
interested in meditation, I think is just a tremendous opportunity.
And I don't say that lightly. I say that as someone who has spent time in live discussion with both of you and spent time
in person with you and seen what both of you can do as practitioners and as teachers. So I
highly, highly recommend that if you've ever thought about not just learning more about how
to meditate, but as a practitioner, how to teach this, how to help others, that you go to
jackcornfield.com and take a look. And I would say not to make this a hard sell, because it's
not a hard sell. I don't have any skin in this game. I don't get anything from it other than hopefully introducing you to two spectacular
teachers that it's very likely that you're going to be spending more time online from this point
forward for the next few months. And it makes sense, at least to me, to look for opportunities, and there are many different options, to feel connected and some
cohesion with a group that is not in a physical location. So this also presents, I think, an
excellent option for embracing and cultivating that if it makes sense. So I will get off my
soapbox, but since you're very understated, I wanted to at least
just draw a couple of my words. I appreciate it. And I also I appreciate our friendship.
I appreciate that we've gotten to know each other in some really important and deep ways. And
I so value the work that you do and the heart and care that you put out to all the people that listen. So
thank you for the opportunity. And thank you to all those of you who listened.
Thanks so much, Jack. And where else can people say hello if they want to say hello? I have
at Jack Kornfield on Twitter. Is there anything else you'd like to mention? JackKornfield.com,
of course. That's probably sufficient they we can wave at the market but
you know as we as we uh walk by but for the moment we'll issue the hugs and
just make a little cleanliness bow to one another as we go by
sounds good jack well it's always such a pleasure to spend time with you and to learn from you. I really appreciate it. This is done. I think I've probably from hitting record to now
probably lowered my blood pressure 20 points. So I appreciate that also. And I can't wait for
our next conversation. So thanks again for blocking out the time to have a chat.
My pleasure, Tim.
Take good care.
You too.
And to everybody listening,
thanks for tuning in.
And you can find show notes,
links to everything we have discussed as always at tim.blog forward slash podcast.
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