The Tim Ferriss Show - #502: Jordan Peterson on Rules for Life, Psychedelics, The Bible, and Much More
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Hello, boys and girls, ladies and germs. This is Tim Ferriss. Welcome to another episode of The Tim Ferriss Show, where it is normally my job to deconstruct world-class performers of all different types
from all different disciplines. And I am thrilled to have as my guest today a polymath. I would
certainly consider him a polymath, Jordan B. Peterson. He has taught mythology to lawyers,
doctors, and business people, consulted for the UN Secretary General, helped his clinical clients manage depression, obsessive compulsive disorder, anxiety,
and schizophrenia, served as an advisor to senior partners of major Canadian law firms,
and lectured extensively in North America and Europe. With his students and colleagues at
Harvard and the University of Toronto, Dr. Peterson has published more than 100 scientific
papers transforming the modern understanding of personality. As his book,
Maps of Meaning, subtitled The Architecture of Belief, revolutionized the psychology of religion.
His book, 12 Rules for Life, An Antidote to Chaos, was published in 2018 and has sold more than 4
million copies internationally. His newest book is Beyond Order, 12 More Rules for Life. You can
find him online at jordanbpeterson.com, on Twitter at jordanbpeterson,
Instagram at jordan.b.peterson, Facebook, you guessed it, Dr. Jordan B. Peterson, YouTube,
Jordan Peterson Videos, and you can find his personality assessment at understandingmyself.com
and the self-authoring program at selfauthoring.com. Jordan, welcome to the show.
Thank you. God, it's hard to hear my name so many times without becoming somewhat nauseated.
Yeah, that's how I feel when I listen to my own playback in this podcast. And I'm thrilled to
finally have you on the podcast. We are going to run out of time before we run out of material.
Yeah, that would be nice. That would be a good thing.
That would be a good thing. And I want to start in maybe an odd place, and that is asking
if you could describe to my audience who Sandy Notley was.
Oh, well, I grew up in a small town in northern
Alberta. I heard you and my producer talking about cold in Minnesota, and I was sort of smirking in
the background. I thought, you guys don't know what cold is. When I went to college there,
about 60 miles away, we had 30 days in a row one winter where it didn't get above minus 40. So anyhow, I grew up in this small town
and in the province of Alberta. So that's the Canadian equivalent of a state. And we had a
provincial government, the equivalent of a state government, and it was all conservatives,
progressive conservative party. Every seat in the house was progressive conservative, except one
new Democratic Party member, socialist,
Grant Notley, who was the leader of the NDP. And he wasn't elected so much because he was a
socialist, I don't think, because most of the people in my small town were conservative,
but because he was a really good man. Anyways, he was the only opposition in the entire province for
like decade, a decade or more. His wife, Sandy Notley, was a New Englander and somewhat of an
anomaly in our small town. And she was quite outspoken, a New England intellectual. And she
was our librarian in our junior high school. And all the delinquents and me as well, and maybe I
was in that category, hung out in the library, weirdly enough, because she treated us like adults.
And I started to work for the NDP when I was 14.
I ran for vice president of the party when I was 14.
That was my first sort of public exposure.
But she was a good guide for me.
She introduced me to a lot of books. I was an omnivorous reader, but mostly I read science fiction. I didn't know what the hell to read. I me to Anne Rand, interestingly enough, despite the fact that she was a socialist.
Not Anne Rand, obviously, but Sandy Notley.
She said she thought I would be smart enough to see through Rand.
Huxley, Orwell, Solzhenitsyn, a lot of serious material.
And I developed a real friendship with her and her husband.
And I worked with the NDP for four years.
So she was a pronounced influence on me.
And that's Sandy Notley.
Oh, and her daughter, Rachel Notley, who was a friend of mine,
a girlfriend of one of my close friends at one point,
became premier of Alberta.
Many years later, she was defeated in the last election, which was only about three years ago,
but she followed in her father's footsteps and became premier of the province.
So that's that story.
On your website, you have an extensive list of recommended books.
Yeah.
I've looked at it. Looked at it multiple times.
It's close to 100, I would say,
and they're put into different categories, different genres. Are there any books on that list,
or can you think of books that were introduced relatively early in your life,
some of the early exposures that have stood the test of time for you? Oh, Huxley and Orwell, I would say. Solzhenitsyn as well. I read one day in the life of Ivan
Dnicevich when I was 13 or 14. That was one of the books Notley recommended. And so they
certainly had an impact on me.
What was that impact, if you don't mind me calling out?
Well, you know, I started to think in broader terms as a consequence of being introduced to
books like that and started to think more seriously from a political perspective and a psychological perspective, I suppose.
It was my first introduction into serious thought.
And so it was extremely exciting.
I mean, I read a lot of English literature until I was about 25.
And then I started reading nonfiction more once I started my graduate studies.
But it opens up a world of ideas, and that was really exciting to me, incredibly exciting to me. And the reason I'm asking so much about books is I am really fascinated by you, and I'm fascinated by everyone I have on the show, but the formation of your…
Well, that sort of decreases my pleasure at being the object of current fascination.
Well, right now you're the most fascinating person in the world to me.
And I find that books are a sort of a wellspring of value for listeners because it's something
they can model very well, something that they can reach out for.
Yeah, well, people can get a whole education if they read those 100 books that I have on my website.
I mean, you're not going to get an education in every discipline, but there's a whole education there under recommended books.
That's been fun because lots of people have—that's been an unbelievably popular list.
It sells hundreds of books a month, that list.
I believe it and people email me constantly and
say well you know you introduced me to dostoevsky thanks a lot i'm i've been they're so enthralled
if you're psychologically minded and you like dark the darkness to some degree you know if you like
gothic imagery and and film noir and that sort of thing dost Dostoevsky is an unbelievable treat, and he's
so incredibly deep psychologically, enthralling. Crime and Punishment is an absolutely engrossing
novel, as well as being a stunning work of philosophy.
Another name that shows up not once but several times in that list is Nietzsche,
if I'm pronouncing that remotely correctly.
I never know. I pronounce it like in northern Albertan, Nietzsche. I know that's
wrong. It's Nietzsche, I believe, but I never get it right. So I've read you highlight, in a sense,
or at least mention that Nietzsche pointed out that most morality is cowardice. So if we're
making the leap from this list of books to specific ideas, could you please elaborate on that? If you don't have the courage to commit a crime,
it doesn't mean you're moral for not doing it. It just means you're afraid. You can see this,
I suppose, to some degree in mob violence. People will riot because they don't think they'll get
caught. And so they're not law-abiding under normal circumstances because they're moral.
They're law-abiding because they're afraid of punishment.
And so Nietzsche was very careful to distinguish mere obedience from morality.
And he thought of obedience not always as a form of cowardice, because it can also be a source of discipline, but not committing a crime because you're too afraid to.
I mean, it's probably better than committing a crime, but it doesn't speak to the essence of morality.
You know, and I've talked a fair bit about this, is that there's a certain utility in being able to do virtually anything and then to control yourself.
And that's something I learned in part from Nietzsche, I suppose.
You know, the best people I've ever met are dangerous people, but they keep themselves in check.
I have a close friend who's been a real rock to me over the last couple of years.
He was also born in northern Alberta.
He came from a pretty poverty-stricken background,
tough guy, worked in lead smelters and oil rigs, and he went to university, which is where I met
him, and then he was a social worker for a long time, and he's tough as nails, you know. He's
worked with delinquents all over Canada, and he's a good disciplinarian, but he's also a very
compassionate person, and he's a moral person as far as I'm concerned
because there's a real danger to him,
but he keeps it under control.
And he's not a coward.
He's not afraid.
He's not weak.
How do you cultivate or suggest people cultivate?
You can tackle either both the ability
to keep yourself in check or under control and to be courageous. And just to
provide a little context for the question, when I see you in the many interviews that you've done,
there are instances where people are very adversarial and aggressive. And one thing
that has struck me is your ability to maintain composure while still standing up for not
rolling over with respect to your arguments or your positions. How do you cultivate that,
or how have you cultivated that? Well, I have an advantage, I suppose,
in that I'm a clinical psychologist, and I've spent 20,000 hours, although I'm not practicing anymore, I've spent $20,000 listening to people and maintaining my composure, sometimes
under very stressful circumstances. And so I've had a lot of practice doing that. And then I did
do some TV work at a local station here for a couple of years and I had a good producer and he helped me
realize that anger plays very badly in a public forum like video and particularly now I didn't
have a tendency then I supposed to fly off the handle either. But it's not useful to lose your temper. It's
not useful. I mean, I'm boiling inside. I'm a very emotional person, way too much.
So it's not like it's not stressful. It's unbelievably stressful. But
I can detach myself from that to some degree. And I'm really curious. I suppose that's another
part of it I like to watch. And when people really go after me, this is where the clinical practice is handy. I can snap into a
different mode, which is, okay, I don't know what you're up to. So I'm just going to watch you. And
then I'm going to figure out what you're up to, because I can usually figure out what people are
up to. If I want to, I don't do that all the time because I actually don't want to know sometimes
what they're up to. I mean, lots of people have treated me extraordinarily well, don't get me
wrong. And normally, you know, when you talk to someone, you accept their persona. You don't look
behind. But if people mistreat me in some way or become adversarial, then I'm able to look behind the scene and think and see what
they're up to, if I can remember to do that. Do you look behind the mask or see
what is behind by deducing where they're trying to leave, where they're trying to lead you with the breadcrumbs?
I mean, I've seen you do that very effectively.
But what other forms does that take or might that take?
It's really hard to describe.
I guess I think it's useful to draw a distinction
between thinking and paying attention.
If you're thinking, you're kind of walking down a programmatic trail.
If you're paying attention, you just open your eyes and let your mind go where it will, and
ideas will occur to you. They'll pop up in your field of consciousness, and for me, that's often
informative. I'll get insight that way. I suppose I'm paying more attention to
nonverbal communication and to facial expression and posture and tone of voice, and I can pick up
patterns, I suppose. You mentioned earlier that at times you're boiling inside. I certainly have experienced that personally. Now, anger, how would you distinguish,
and I sort of intuitively know these are different, but I would struggle to maybe
on the spot separate the two, anger and resentment. Because one of your quotes
that I have here in front of me with my notes is consult your resentment. It is revelatory,
and I'd love to unpack that, but if you could walk us through.
Yeah, well, in my new book, I have a chapter, which is rule 11. Do not allow yourself to become
resentful, deceitful, or arrogant. It's kind of the evil triad as far as I've been able to
determine. Resentment in particular, it's a bad emotion.
It's useful.
You can learn a lot by noticing that it occurs.
Resentment tells you one of two things.
One is that someone's treading on your territory and something needs to be done about it,
or that you need to grow the hell up and stop complaining.
And it isn't necessarily obvious when you feel resentful which of those it is.
But you need to figure it out.
Because you can harbor resentment for unlived life for a very, very long period of time.
And all it does is corrupt you.
It hurts you.
It hurts you physically because it's a stressful emotion.
Anger is a stressful emotion because your body hyper prepares for action if you're angry because you might get
into conflict. So that's a dangerous situation. And so you burn off a lot of psychophysiological
resources in anger. If you're resentful, there's probably something you need to say. There's certainly something you need to figure out.
And so you can use it as a guide to further development.
It's very much useful to aim at a resentment-free existence.
And that means, I suppose, that you're taking up enough space.
There's always a struggle between your domain and the domain of other people.
Everyone competes for everyone else's attention. Everyone competes for everyone else's time. There's always a struggle between your domain and the domain of other people.
Everyone competes for everyone else's attention.
Everyone competes for everyone else's time.
You compete for your own time.
And if you're resentful, it's highly probable that, well, as I said, either you're not standing up for yourself sufficiently,
or someone is legitimately on your case, in which case, well, you need to do something about that.
Or, you know, live with the consequences, which is very unpleasant.
It's not optimal.
Sometimes I suppose it's unavoidable.
But, you know, generally there's something that can be done about it.
Maybe you need a new job.
Maybe you need a new partner.
It's easy for people to think that they're better than they are.
It's not surprising that everybody wants to think that.
I probably want to think that about me.
So then you'll get angry about something.
You know, maybe your partner puts you down in public.
Doesn't show you the respect. Maybe you're married, say, and husband and wife owe each other a certain amount of
categorical respect, sort of independent of the individual personalities. You know, if you have
decided that you're going to devote your life to someone and vice versa, they're now in a category
that requires a certain amount of respect to maintain the relationship over time. It's good
for your partner and it's also good for you. Maybe you've taken a shot in public and you're really angry about it,
but you don't notice it because you want to think that you're better than you are.
That sort of thing doesn't upset you.
And so you don't say anything about it.
You don't do anything about it.
And then you don't fix it.
And that's a mistake.
It's much better you could say to your partner,
look, you know, we were out for dinner tonight
and you said something snarky,
which I didn't think was appropriate.
Now, I might be hypersensitive and touchy and immature
and maybe you hit me in a weak spot
or maybe you're playing some power game.
Why don't we figure that out?
Now, that's messy.
People don't like conversations like that.
And I think that's one of the things that's peculiar about me. For one, I don't know why exactly, but I don't like that. I won't let those things go.
So the peculiarity is that you'll open those conversations. You don't have an aversion to it. Well, I have a horrible aversion to it, and I don't like conflict.
But I've learned, and this is partly, I suppose, clinical training, but it's not just that.
Some things, if you don't address them, they just get worse.
And I've been able to see where things are going to go.
It's kind of like what I mentioned to you earlier, that if I watch someone, I can generally figure out what they're up to.
I also can see where things are going.
If I walk into someone's house and there are things out of order in a particular way, if I pay attention to that, that's often indicative of something not right in the relationship.
You know, maybe the kitchen's a mess. It's like there's food that isn't fresh in the fridge, for example, or there's packages
up in shelves that haven't been opened for like two years or since the wedding, let's say. That's
too much chaos in the kitchen. Something's wrong. Well, what's wrong? Well, there's something wrong
in the domestic relationship there. The bargaining about who does what in the kitchen hasn't been fought through.
And so you have to have those fights to put things in order.
And if you don't, then you end up with a worse fight in the future.
And so the reason that I call things out, far as I can tell the positive reason who knows what
the negative reasons are is because I don't want more conflict I'd rather have genuine peace which
is very very very hard to obtain people generally obtain peace by sweeping things under the carpet
I have another chapter in this new book called Don't Hide Things in the Fog,
and that's what it concentrates on, is pay attention to your negative emotions. Resentment,
particularly, it's like, it's so informative. You find out where you're immature. Well,
do you want to? Probably not. Who wants to find out that? Or you'll find out who's oppressing you
and maybe then you can learn to stand up for yourself let's dig into the new book i want to
do it in a particular way uh which is starting with a quote of yours that a close friend of
mine has has committed to memory now please fact check me on this. Perhaps it's Abraham Lincoln
or Oscar Wilde or one of the other ubiquitous attributions on the internet, but here we go.
And I'm fond of this as well. Quote, it seems to me that the purpose of life is to find a mode
of being that is so meaningful that the fact that life is suffering is no longer relevant.
Now, I have a follow-up, just a segue from that, but is that an accurate quote?
Well, I don't know if it's an accurate quote, but it sounds like something I probably said.
Accurate sentiment, more or less.
It's accurately attributed.
Accurately attributed, all right.
It seems to me that it's true. I mean, it isn't necessarily the case that you can do it.
All right.
Right. It's hard to do. I mean, and that, of course, it's hard,
I suppose, in proportion to the suffering that you're undergoing. It isn't necessarily the case
that you can always manage it, but sometimes you can manage it, and it's good if you can.
So I want to use your book as a prop, isn't the right word, a vehicle for exploring this.
One of the books that you often reference is Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl.
Sorry, I'm going to stop just for a sec because I thought about some other things.
So this is partly why I have a certain conservative bent, I suppose. See, people need to search for meaning because
they get corrupted by suffering if their life isn't meaningful. That's how it looks to me.
Because you can't torture an animal forever without it lashing out. And so if your life is
nothing, if there's nothing in it that speaks to you, there's still going to be suffering.
You can't talk yourself out of that. And so then I see people tearing down traditional structures, let's say, or they're casual about them. Another rule in this new book
is do not casually denigrate social institutions or creative achievement.
Well, why social institutions?
Well, I've counseled lots of people who were lost.
And so if you came to see me and I was your therapist, I'm very practical.
I'd say to you, okay, well, let's look at your life for a minute.
Do you have an intimate relationship?
What about your family? And that could be, you know,
married with kids, or it could be the family of your birth, your siblings and your parents and so
on. How's that functioning? Do you have anyone there? Do you have a job or maybe a career even,
if you're fortunate, but at least a job that keeps body and soul together and maybe where there's
some chance of advancement and hope do you know how
to use your time outside of work productively do you take care of your mental and physical health
do you manage the temptations drug and alcohol use and that sort of thing do you manage those
temptations effectively are you as educated as you are intelligent those are standard patterns
of activity in the world do Do you have kids? Do you
have a wife or a husband? Do you have a job? I mean, it's mundane in some sense, and you can
look beyond all those standard answers for meaning, but if you're overwhelmed by life,
anxious and suffering, that's a good place to start. Put that together. Why? Well, the answer
to that is because that's what people do. That's what people do. That's the best we've been able
to manage. And so, and if you don't have that, because you're a human being like other human
beings, you're going to suffer for it. And so attacks on that, assaults on that, aren't that helpful,
unless you have a better, like I have this friend, he's an atheist, and he's wavering about this,
he was born a communist, he was raised in Poland, and he had objected at one point to the Christmas traditions of his family, who were also atheistic, and, you know, he objected on the grounds of logical coherence.
Why are we doing this? Well, don't do it. Well, then what happens? Well, then you have another
weekday. You lose Christmas. Well, great. It's like now you're logically coherent. Wonderful.
But you've lost Christmas. You don't
want to throw these things away. You know, I see this sometimes with young people when they're
talking about getting married. We don't need to get married. We don't need a piece of paper.
It's like, really? That's the depth of thought you've put into this? It's like you're not going
to mark this permanence with conscious awareness and
social celebration and the sanction of your community and a beautiful ceremony that's just
nothing you let that go well what are you going to replace it with nothing well you know you can
say it's it's i don't want to be married in a church. I don't believe in God.
Fair enough.
But good luck filling in the hole.
So what is the template for constructive criticism of a social institution?
In other words, if there is a wrong way to do it, where you're creating a void and not offering a better solution, what is the better approach or what might be?
You know, I got well known, I suppose, in part because of my injunction to people
that they clean up their room. My closet, by the way, is a mess. I haven't been able to clean it
up for like three years. So there's this English common law principle with regards to the distribution of power.
I think it's English common law.
That there are certain responsibilities of the family and the community and the town and the state and the federal government and the international organizations. But you want to have the most proximal level possible take responsibility for a given enterprise.
And I think that's a good philosophy. Personally, you want to make changes, start with what's under
your control. Start with changing those things that will hurt you if the changes go wrong.
There's a good one. You know, and it's better,
I think, to put your life together than to go worry about parading around and being a social
activist. I think most of that's fraudulent. And I think it's appalling that people learn to do
that mostly at universities. Fix up your own life. And that doesn't mean you shouldn't be involved
in the community. But I believe that you have to earn that right,
not because there's something more wrong with you than wrong with anyone else.
It's just that if you operate at a level that's beyond your competence,
all you're going to do is make catastrophic mistakes.
Practice locally till you're competent.
And then if you dare, well, move out a little bit, you know, as you mature and you gain some.
When I used to work for the NDP, the socialists, back when I was 14 or 15,
one of the things I came to realize, I think I realized this when I was 16 and went to university.
It's like I woke up one day and I thought, I had this ideology in my mind, you know,
about how the world should be structured. And I woke up one day and I thought, I have this ideology in my mind, you know, about how the world should be structured. And I woke up one day and I thought,
what the hell do you know? You don't have a family. You don't have any experience. You don't
have a job. Like you're a pup. I mean, I was smart enough. I verbally could hold my own and
my head was full of ideas. I could defend them. But, but you know at the same time that i was a socialist
kid i was i sat on the board of governors for the local college and almost all the people on
that board were local businessmen most of them immigrants because northern alberta was an
immigrant like it was only 50 years old everybody had moved there. It was a new place It was the end of the frontier literally
we were at the end of the railway the northernmost tip of the North American prairie and
there was all these conservatives sitting on this board and me and
What I found was I actually respected these people
My ideology my explicit ideology was antithetical to theirs, but when I interacted with them one-on-one, I thought, hmm, these people have made something of themselves.
And when I talked to the activists, I never got that impression.
I thought, you guys are resentful as hell.
You don't know anything.
You've never done anything.
But you're noisy and self-righteous.
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Tim. I was going to go to Viktor Frankl
but I'd like to
pull a hard left
oh it's a dangerous thing
it is a dangerous thing
depending on the country you're in especially
and we'll come back to Viktor Frankl
because I would like to ask about him
but first I'd like to go to
Aldous Huxley and possibly
Hunter S. Thompson
I was interested to see Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas by Hunter S. Thompson on your
list of suggested books and Island or The Island.
I don't know if there's a The in the title by Aldous Huxley.
And going into or down the rabbit hole with your videos and interviews, I noticed that you seem to have quite
a familiarity with the research done by Rick Strassman with Intravenous and NDMT and also
the psilocybin research at Johns Hopkins with Roland Griffiths, Matt Johnson, and their entire
team. But in the clips that I've seen, there isn't really a lot
of context. There's snippets that I've found. What has been the context for introducing those
to your classes or in your lectures? Well, I did my PhD in alcoholism,
so psychopharmacology. I mean, I've got a phd in clinical psychology but my research was for years
eight years nine years was all drug and alcohol abuse i concentrated on alcohol but that was okay
because alcohol is like water it it crosses the blood-brain barrier like water it bathes every
cell it has polysystemic effects and so if you study alcohol from the psychological and pharmacological perspective, you have to learn the function of the systems that all drugs affect.
You know, all drugs of abuse affect fundamental motivational or emotional systems.
That's why we take them.
Although with the hallucinogens it's more complex you know
like the benzodiazepines and barbiturates and alcohol they're anxiolytics they reduce anxiety
alcohol also has a dopaminergic effect for some people kind of like cocaine or amphetamines
there's the analgesics like heroin or cocaine is also analgesics whether the psychomotor stimulants
are analgesic as well but the big big categories are pain-relieving, anxiety-relieving, and psychomotor stimulant.
And most drugs of abuse fall into those categories.
And then there's the hallucinogens, which are their whole other universe.
And so I'm well-versed in the psychology and the physiology of drug and alcohol use.
And so that's the context.
That's part of it anyways. I'm also
interested in religious experiences. And for one reason or another, and it's a bottomless mystery,
there are agents that reliably produce religious experiences. And no one knows what in the world to do about that. That's for sure.
There's a study ongoing at Hopkins also that's looking at the effects of serotonin 2A agonists like psilocybin's effects on worldview of religious leaders of different faiths.
Oh, is that right? And how are they doing that?
Well, they're doing it with, as I understand it, administration, probably 30 milligrams of synthetic psilocybin.
Wow. That should definitely be illegal.
Should be illegal or legal?
Well, it's no wonder it was all made illegal. I mean, it's Pandora's box.
In what respect? What would your concerns be with that particular Pandora's box?
Well, look what happened when psychedelics were introduced into the culture in the 1960s.
You know, it was revolutionary. No one knew how to regulate or control it. And I don't mean
control by clamp down. I just meant no one knew what to do with it.
I mean, it knocked Timothy Leary off to the side, sideways, you know.
And I had Timothy Leary's old position at Harvard.
He had the same position as me.
Yeah, so that was kind of interesting.
I think the social dynamics are very different in the sense that, yes, there are a lot of risks, psychological, in rare cases physical.
With psychedelic use but um i'm very involved with the phase three trials both for psilocybin and mdma assisted
psychotherapy griffiths running around griffiths is involved so they would be one site for the... Yeah, well, he's a real scientist.
He's great. He's a close friend.
I met him at a conference on awe.
He's an excellent scientist with a lot of exposure to psychoactives,
expert in caffeine metabolism and all things caffeine among other compounds the i mean you've spoken in in the videos i've seen at least of the changes in openness yes
personality would that not be a positive thing if that is a consequence of opening pandora's box
depends on how neurotic you are no i mean technically this is a technical
discussion openness isn't much fun if you're high in neuroticism because you because you
continually undermine yourself like openness is creativity but let's let's not be all
pollyannish about this there wouldn't be variation in creativity if it wasn't dangerous
there's lots of people who are very low in openness, and there's a reason for that. Now, it has advantages. Open people occupy a particular
niche. They're on the edge. Jordan, would you mind defining openness in this particular context?
People who are open, it's creativity, essentially. Creativity and verbal fluency
together make up openness. Now, it's also associated with
verbal IQ. So it's the one, there's five personality traits. Extroversion, it's positive emotion.
Neuroticism, that's negative emotion. Agreeableness, that's compassion versus
predatory aggression, something like that. Conscientiousness, that's dutifulness orderliness um and then openness which is intellect interest in ideas
and creativity you know you might think the more of that the better but no that isn't how nature
works you can undo yourself by being open people who are open have a hard time catalyzing their
identity because they're so protean. They shift shapes constantly. They're
interested in everything. It makes it very hard for them to pursue one thing. My observation is
that if people are high in negative emotion, so they're prone to anxiety, for example,
then being open can be a curse, because when you expose yourself to something that's unknown, you know, the extroversion and openness can drive you forward as a function of curiosity and engagement.
But the uncertainty is also the uncertainty you pay a price for physiologically.
Because when you face something uncertain, your body, like when you're angry, your body has to prepare for anything.
And that's
expensive and physiologically demanding. And so, and open people, they flip things upside down all
the time. And that's dangerous. Like, it isn't like it's not necessary. Don't get me wrong.
It's necessary. This chapter I made allusion to. I said, don't casually criticize social institutions
or creative achievement. I picked those phrases very carefully. We need social institutions,
but they become corrupt. And so we need creative revolution, but it can get out of hand. And so
there's this constant war between the strictures of tradition and the transformation of creativity.
And you can't say who's right. You can just talk it out. But the psilocybin, you take one dose and
have a mystical experience, and you move from 50th percentile openness to 85th percentile with one dose it's a major neurological rewiring
it's it's stunning it's stunning and you know you could say well that i'm sure there are things
about that that are good but jung said beware of unearned wisdom it's a good quote it is a good
quote you know jung really puzzles me because it's never clear to me how he knew the things he knew, and that's one really good example of that.
On the openness, just to explore this a bit further, it also seems, again, I'm not a clinician, but speaking just as someone at least involved on some level with the science.
And as an open person.
I try.
Oh, no, there's no doubt about it.
Given what you do, you're entrepreneurial,
and you're interested in ideas.
Your cardinal personality trait undoubtedly is openness.
And if you can manage it, it's a great trait.
On the one hand, you have disqualifying criteria for becoming a
subject in these psilocybin studies, schizophrenia being one of them, or a family history of
schizophrenia, which seems to overlap with some of what you were saying earlier, right? There are
risk factors if you're sort of swimming closer to the bank of the river. Yeah, if you're schizophrenic,
if you're schizophrenic if you're schizophrenic
you should stay away from amphetamines it's pretty obvious that the um whatever the hallucinogens do
isn't the same as schizophrenia that's people think that but you can induce paranoid schizophrenia
in normal people by overdosing the moment on amphetamines. But still, it might not be a good idea if you have a family history
to mess around. Yeah, it seems to possibly accelerate the onset. Not that they're the
same thing, although these drugs used to be referred to as psychomimetics, but that's
since been somewhat disproven in terms of neurological correlates, just looking at fMRI scans and so on. Now,
on the other hand, you have acute anxiety, in some cases chronic, but acute anxiety in,
say, terminal cancer patients, which Hopkins has also, is a population Hopkins has worked with.
And in those cases, the shift to openness can be life-changingly positive.
Well, I don't know if it's the shift to openness exactly, or if it's the religious aspect of
the experience.
True.
Yeah, absolutely.
I mean, if you have ego dissolution, that can do something for fear of death.
Oh, yeah.
I also think that's phenomenal research.
It's unbelievably interesting, you know, and it's certainly the case that, like, I firmly
believe that the world is not
the way we perceive it it's deeply it's deeply strange and i do believe that the hallucinogens
reveal that and i you know i don't think that attempts to drive them underground have been
particularly fruitful one of the consequences of the war on drugs is now we have like 500 psychoactive chemicals instead of 20 or 30, you know, because chemists keep chasing the laws.
And so making it illegal doesn't look like a good solution.
I wouldn't, that doesn't mean we have a good solution.
Yeah, 100% agreed. I mean, if you just look also at a black market synthesis of something like MDMA, you have deforestation in Cambodia, or you have chemicals being dumped in Holland, which is a real nexus for production. If you legalize and regulate and tax that as you would any other industry, then many of those problems cease to be problems, not to make it sound easy, but I agree with you as I suppose what I'm saying.
I have to ask, before we go to Viktor Frankl, if you're able to put words to it, in what ways do you think reality is deeply strange?
Can you elaborate on that in any way?
There's a narrative aspect to it.
There's a religious aspect to it.
There's a meaningful aspect to it that we don't understand. We can't understand it
scientifically, or we haven't been able to. The scientific viewpoint excludes that to some degree.
And I think the best evidence for that probably does come from hallucinogenic experience. Now,
people have, clearly, people have a biologically instantiated religious instinct. Now, it's possible that that only speaks of our
peculiar biological nature, that it doesn't reflect broader reality as such. But if you go
deep enough into the psyche, it becomes increasingly difficult to separate what you discover from reality.
Now, people can clearly have individual subjective religious experiences.
Most scientific phenomena are objective.
Many people have to experience the phenomena at the same time.
You have these religious experiences that can be induced by hallucinogens, let's say.
Each person has their own particular
experience, but everyone has an experience that's similar, and we don't know what to do about that
category of experience. And then, you know, we think in stories and we see the world through
a structure of value. I think that that has been proven beyond a doubt by neuroscientists and psychologists. And the fact
that we see the world through a prism of value seems to indicate that there's something about
value that's real. And so that's partly why things are deeply mysterious. I mean, Rick Strassman,
he terrified himself right out of the DMT research, as far as I could tell, because
all his subjects came back and said, well, you know, I went somewhere else and saw aliens. It's like, well, it was a dream. No,
sorry, wasn't a dream, was way more real than any dream. In fact, it was actually more real than
life. Well, what do you do with that? What do you do with that?
Especially when it's every subject or almost every subject. Yeah, exactly. One out of 30. Yeah, exactly. No one knows what to do with that.
We don't know what to do with that at all. And yeah, I mean, it's beyond comprehension.
It is deeply, deeply strange. You know, one of the images that I paused on in one of your lectures
online, it was an older lecture, I believe, was a side-by-side comparison
of two drawings, one of a piece of artwork of the Scandinavian tree of life and the Peruvian
Amazonian tree of life. And if you don't mind taking a moment just to describe that, or I could
try to recall it, it was really striking.
And then you shortly thereafter had a drawing your son had put together, and the overlap was really hard to wrap your head around in some respects.
Oh, the drawing my son made? Yeah, I have it in my office. He was about six when he made it. It's stunning.
On one side, there's a forest full of pine trees, and then
there's a river running down the middle. Then on the other side, there's a town, but the town is
all mushrooms, like Amanita muscaria mushrooms, so all the houses have mushroom caps. And so
there's an order, there's order on one side and chaos on another, and the river runs between them.
And then out of the river grows a beanstalk, and the beanstalk stretches up to heaven. The clouds are there, and St. Peter's
there by the gates. It's not like my son had any particular Christian religious education.
Like, he didn't. We didn't go to church. And I saw him draw that, and I thought, that's
unbelievable. I can't believe you drew that, because it's a shamanic drawing. It's chaos and order. Those are the two subsets of existence. Right at the point they meet, out of the river grows the tree of life. It reaches up to heaven, and the shaman, many of them thought that if the experience was drug-induced, that somehow it had been pathologized.
That wasn't part of the actual tradition.
But I think that's completely wrong, is that people have been using psychoactive drugs
to transcend their consciousness for God only knows how long.
One of the most interesting hypotheses I ever encountered, I think that was Terence McKenna.
He thought that psilocybin mushrooms and human beings co-evolved.
So, who knows, you know?
The stoned ape hypothesis, yeah.
What's furthermore interesting is that we are not the only species
who seeks altered states of consciousness.
I have a little book about animals who seek out
psychoactive experiences flies even that's why amanita muscaria is called uh what is it the fly
fly agaric because flies i didn't know that stoned yeah yeah yeah even flies reindeer
even flies yeah it's very strange it's very very strange it is very safe to say that
we do not know what to do with that we also don't know what to do with things we don't know what to
do with you know that's the problem with opening pandora's box is that if you have your life
reasonably well conceptualized and then you have an experience that indicates to you that you just
don't know what the hell's going on at all it's like well what do you do then yeah and in fairness
this is uh maybe a subset of what you're describing but a term i was introduced to by roland was
ontological shock yeah and fewer those are better yeah for that reason these are not compounds to be taken
casually well ontological shock produces post-traumatic stress disorder there's a whole
literature on ontology they don't call it ontological shock it's generally termed something
like disruption of fundamental axioms but it's exactly the same idea. You know, and one half of that's terror and the other half is awe. And that's why trips can go bad, because you can get the terror side of the ontological shock. maps who is working with the mdma assisted psychotherapy is so important because these compounds can re-traumatize or traumatized if you or if used in an irresponsible context or even if
used responsibly quite frankly that risk exists well because even the safety precautions that are
put in place they can certainly decrease the probability that the trip will be negative but
that doesn't mean they alleviate the ontological shock. They do it at the moment, so it doesn't go astray during the trip, but there's still the long-term
sequelae to consider. I need to use that word more, sequelae. That is a great word.
You mentioned your son was not, these are not the exact words you used, but brought up
religious. You've also described knowledge of the stories in the exact words you used, but brought up religious, you've also described
knowledge of the stories in the Bible as, quote, vital to proper psychological health.
And you have a lecture series called The Psychological Significance of the Biblical
Stories, so people can dive in there. But for those who have not studied the Bible,
is this a study you recommend to everyone? And if so, why?
Well, I don't know if i would recommend anything
to everyone our culture grew out of the bible it's grounded in the bible for better or worse
and so if you want to know who you are and why you think the way you think
like you think you know the way you think you think think you think, you don't. Or very rarely. Thoughts are greater
than you are, in some sense. I mean, it's very rare that you don't think that you think something
that someone else hasn't thought, you know. I can't remember who said it, might have been
Alfred North Whitehead, that everyone is the unconscious proponent of some philosopher.
So, now, thought exists in a hierarchy.
Value, especially in relationship to value, and the more profound the thought, the more it deals with fundamental values.
And a fundamental value is one upon which many other values depend.
That's the technical definition of a hierarchy.
I can give you an example.
So, for example, imagine you're in a committed relationship, and you're, you know, you and your wife have an arrangement
to do the dishes, and it's her turn, and she doesn't do them. Well, that's a minor league
ontological shock, because, well, it has implications possibly for her honesty, you know,
and perhaps not. Maybe she was tired that night, God only knows, but it's a deviation from what's
expected.
And, you know, generally those things are knitted up pretty quickly.
And whether or not your wife does the dishes when she's supposed to once really doesn't destabilize you that much because not much else depends on it.
Now, if she did it 10 times or something like that,
well, then you might start to question her commitment to your agreements.
And then you might question her honesty.
And then you might question your relationship. And, you know, you can go down a rabbit hole pretty quickly. But if your
partner has an affair, that tends to be quite a shock, because you've modeled your plans for
behavior, and even for perception of the world, on the assumption of fidelity. And if that assumption is demolished, then all those plans dissolve,
and then the uncertainty comes rushing in, and that's very hard on you psychophysiologically.
And so, anyways, there's a hierarchy of values.
And the deeper you go, the more the values look religious, almost by definition. In fact, you could say that that's a definition,
is that the deepest values are religious. This is something I tried to impress upon Sam Harris. Now,
you know, he didn't like the terminology religious, but to me it doesn't really matter,
because you could replace it with, okay, deep then, you know, like have it your way.
We have a word for the deepest of values and that's
religious and so what happens when you encounter those values well you tremble and you might think
well not me it's like well all that means is that you're protected to a degree you cannot possibly
imagine and one day maybe not maybe you'll be lucky and you'll go through life without being
knocked ass over tea kettle so to speak but not. You'll run into someone malevolent, for example,
and then the scales will fall from your eyes. So, anyways, the deepest values are religious,
and our religious document is the Bible, and the Bible is an absolute mystery.
So, I don't care if you're
atheistic or not. I mean, and this lecture series was for everyone, and lots of people have watched
it, weirdly enough. It packed the theaters that I was lecturing in, of all the bizarre things.
And, you know, it was mostly young men coming to listen to some half-baked psychologist talk
about religious matters for an hour and a half.
The deepest questions are religious questions, and the Bible is the best answer we have. And
if you don't like that, well, fine, do better. Good luck. I mean, there's wisdom in that book.
It's unbelievable. The story of Cain and Abel. I have a whole lecture on Cain and Abel.
That story is one paragraph long, and you can think about that for the rest of your life.
You know, it's the first two human beings,
fratricidal murder with a genocidal twist,
all packed up into a story one paragraph long.
And it's all resentment.
It's like Cain's sacrifices are rejected by God.
Okay, what does that mean?
That's easy.
You make sacrifices to improve your future.
And you do that on the basis of faith. You believe that if you conduct yourself in a certain way,
fate is likely to smile upon you, because why else would you make the sacrifices?
And sometimes that doesn't happen. You make the sacrifices and the reward isn't forthcoming.
And will that make you bitter?
Well, in all probability, how bitter?
How about bitter enough to destroy the ideal?
That's all packed into that story.
I don't understand it.
I don't understand how that's possible.
I have a hypothesis, you know, a scientific hypothesis,
is as a story is transmitted across time,
everything that's superfluous gets stripped away because it's not memorable.
And then all that happens after thousands of years of playing telephone
is that what's absolutely not forgettable is retained.
But I don't think that's a comprehensive hypothesis.
It's partially true.
And I think the story of Cain and Abel, it's like when it opened itself up to me,
it just knocked. I've never recovered from that, I don't think.
When you think of stories, and you use stories, and you tell stories very effectively,
when you talk about, say, Pinocchio, you use biblical stories. You're a very engaging interpreter and transmitter of
stories. When you're working on, say, Beyond Order, this new book, how do you think of composing
your stories or your messages so that they are not lost, so that they have some durability or
transmissibility?
Mostly when I'm writing, I'm trying to figure something out.
As the period of time over which I've been writing has lengthened,
I'm spending more time communicating the ideas and less time figuring them out.
When I wrote my first book, which was Maps of Meaning,
pretty much all I was doing was trying to figure something out.
It was just an exercise in sustained thought.
And I worked on it from 1985 to 1999, about three hours a day.
And I thought about it, especially when I was in my 20s, all the time.
I was thinking about it like 13 hours a day.
And the ideas were just running through my mind at a rate far higher than I'm capable of now.
I was trying to figure something out. I was trying to figure out, I was trying to understand malevolence, I suppose, among other
things. But when I wrote the last two books, I was trying to communicate some of what I thought I
had learned. But a lot of it's still trying to answer a question. When I lecture, for example,
and I usually do that without notes,
I have a question in mind.
It's like, okay, well, in the biblical lectures,
for example, the first one is,
I think it's about two hours long on the first sentence of Genesis.
The question is, well, what does this sentence mean?
And so the lecture is an exploration of what it means.
And I'm trying to think it through.
And at the same time, I'm communicating that process of thinking it through.
And that's what I'm doing with my books.
And the books are written to me, you know, which is why I think I've gotten away with giving advice.
The books aren't really advice.
Or if they are, I'm included in the population of idiots who needs the advice.
So, you know, these are things I haven't...
The last chapter is be grateful in spite of your suffering.
You know, I've had real struggle with that.
So although I know perfectly well that resentment,
regardless of the cause, is not productive,
it's certainly understandable.
Grabbing what you just said, and maybe going to a somewhat meta level, I am going to shoehorn in
Viktor Frankl, because I don't want to leave that loose end for listeners. Frankl talks about the
desire to finish his book as one of the sources of meaning that got him through the concentration
camps. Did your book, and I don't know the timeline,
for having worked on it, serve a similar purpose over the last 18 to 24 months?
Absolutely. Absolutely. It was life raft. I was devastated when I finished it,
which is a common experience, you know, people, and it speaks to the nature of human motivation.
We often think, well, once I get to point B, that's where you're headed, everything will be okay. It's like, no, that's not the case at all, is that now you need a new point
B. So, and that was really, you know, because I don't work at the university anymore, and I don't
have my clinical practice anymore. And so those are losses of structure for me and i had the book to anchor myself while i was so ill and it was
invaluable and still is for that matter i want to ask you about the title beyond order but before i
get to that i'm just planting the seed i'd love to ask you and this is a question that a friend
of mine several friends of mine wanted me to ask some version of, and I would like to hear your answer. And that is, how would
you recommend someone think about meaning or constructing or finding meaning if they have
reached the pinnacle of competence or a high level of competence in a certain area? I have a friend,
I won't name him because I don't know if he would want this public, but I asked him some version of
this and he said, well, at some point you have to either find God or have kids, and having kids
is easier, so I had kids. Well, that speaks to what we discussed earlier. It's like there's
many domains in which to obtain competence. You can find a new domain, but kids, for sure,
that's like, look, life is quite straightforward in some ways.
Find a partner and stick with them.
You know, that's hard.
Try to make yourself into better people if you can.
It's a challenge.
Have kids, have grandkids.
Thank God I have grandkids.
Thank God I have kids.
They're of unquestionable virtue.
And so, and then if you you're lucky you have other projects and you're
healthy enough to to undertake them with regards to how people should search for meaning well it's
the first thing i do like i said with my clients is i do a a scan of their life
and we have you mentioned it at the beginning when you introduced me. Yeah. I have a program, self-authoring, at self-authoring.com that helps people with this.
It helps you write an autobiography, sort of figures out who you are.
It helps you assess your personality traits, positive and negative.
And then it helps you make a plan for the future.
And that's that people have found that useful.
Why Beyond Order?
What is the genesis of that title?
How did you arrive at that title?
Well, the first book, as far as I can tell, in the world of value.
So let's think about value for a minute.
If you move towards something, you value it.
Otherwise, you wouldn't move towards it.
There's an old joke about the chicken.
Why did the chicken cross the road?
And the answer to that is, well, he thought the other side was better.
Well, that's the case, you know.
And we need a gradient of value to organize our action.
And you have to prioritize because you can't do everything at once.
And so you do the thing that's most important right now, now.
And that means you're in a world of importance.
And that's a value.
That's a value world.
And the value world, as far as I can tell, has two broad components.
The Taoists talked about it as yin and yang.
And broadly speaking, it's order and chaos.
And order tends to be represented with masculine symbols. And order tends to be represented with masculine symbols,
and chaos tends to be represented with feminine symbols. That doesn't mean order is male and chaos
is female. And, you know, I've been pilloried for this, even though it's hardly my proposition,
but the idea of the patriarchy, it's a use of masculine symbolism to represent order.
You're in order when what you want to happen happens, when you act.
And so that's reassuring because not only do you get what you want,
but the fact that you get what you want indicates that your theory about how to get what you want is true.
And every time you fail, you don't get what you want.
But you also undermine the validity of the theory that you're using to organize your perceptions and your actions.
That's partly why people don't like to fail.
Because you don't know how far back that can echo.
How far down your hierarchy of presuppositions that can echo.
If you're clinically depressed, every minor failure means you're worthless human being and you never know when a failure is going to demonstrate that
you know it can in any case there's chaos and order they're the two great domains and
you have to contend with chaos because too much of it overwhelms you. You drown in it. It's the flood. And that happens when your life
gets beyond you. And you're somewhere where no matter what you do, nothing you want happens.
It's a domain of terror and pain. Now, it's also a domain of unlimited possibility,
because outside of what you know is everything you don't know.
And there's untold riches to be gathered from the domain of everything you don't know.
But that doesn't mean it still needs to be managed.
It's dangerous.
Now, the domain of order is the same way.
It's like if order becomes too extreme, then everything becomes cramped. It becomes totalitarian.
And then that starts to
pathologize. That's the dying king. The king who's dying for lack of the water of life is the old
tyrant who can no longer see beyond his own presuppositions. And so my first book concentrated
more on pathologies of chaos, and the second book more on pathologies of order and they're they're
a matched set in in that regard insofar as i was successful at doing that and you know the liberal
types they're very sensitive to pathologies of order and the conservative types are very sensitive
to pathologies of chaos but they're right. It's just there's no final
solution to that problem. You're stuck with it. It's an existential, it's an eternal existential
concern. That's why mythological language is standard across people, is no matter who you are,
no matter when you live, you always have to deal with the fact that some things escape your competence.
And no matter where you are, no matter who you are, you have to adapt to the fact of the existence of a value structure that's shared across a social group.
So those are fundamental constituent elements of human experience.
And we have symbols for them.
And we all understand the symbols. So,
for example, in Pinocchio, this is, I'm not going to go into this because it's too complicated, but
no one balks at a puppet going to the bottom of the ocean and being swallowed by a whale.
Why? It makes no sense. There's nothing about that that makes sense,
right? It's not, It's obviously not an empirical
description of the objective world, but it's so clearly real that a four-year-old can follow it.
It's a mystery. You know, the whale breathes fire in Pinocchio. It's a dragon. Why? Why is that? Well, we face dragons forever. That's
what a human being is. It's a creature that faces the dragon. The dragon can burn you to a crisp,
but it has what you need. That's the world. It'll burn you up, but it has what you need.
And so then the question is, how do you stop from getting burned up and get what you need?
And the answer to that is that you mold yourself into the hero.
And that's a religious story.
And you would say, well, is it true?
And the answer to that is, it depends on what you mean by true.
And, you know, that's a weasel answer in some ways, but it's not. It's because it's such a deep question that it can't be put forth without discussing the definition of true.
So it's as deep a question as what is true?
I would say that part of the cultural war is a criticism of the motif of the hero.
That's Derrida's philogocentrism.
Western culture is philogocentric.
I would say human culture is philogocentric.
I think Derrida was wrong about that.
It's human culture.
It's man, so to speak, against nature.
Although sometimes it's man against culture,
and sometimes it's man against man,
it's man against nature, and we triumph as the hero
and maybe that story isn't true or isn't correct.
But that's us.
And if it isn't correct, well, then we're an evolutionary abortion
because that's who we are.
And I would say, well, before you throw it aside, maybe you should try it.
You don't have a better option anyways.
What does it mean to try it?
Mostly, I would say it means two things.
It means to practice love.
And that means assume that things are valuable and act according to that assumption. And it requires truth, which is, don't say what you know to be untrue.
And, you know, when I tried to unpack the first sentence of Genesis,
in the context of the broader biblical narrative,
what appears to be happening is that there's a proposition that God is guided by love and uses truth to create.
It's something like that.
And maybe love is something like the wish that all being would flourish.
There isn't a better story than that.
What effect do you hope your new book to have?
I know that might seem like a lazy question, but I'm going to keep it broad.
I'd just be interested to hear your thoughts. What would be a successful effect
for this book looking back 12 months from now, 24 months from now?
It would be lovely if it had the same effect on people as the last book appeared to have.
You know, I mean, it's comforting to me to read through my YouTube comments, oddly that way, that they've put their lives together,
at least in some ways. And you talked about Viktor Frankl. You know, when I wrote Maps of Meaning, I said, well, I was interested in malevolence. I was deeply affected by the accounts I'd read of
what happened in the Second World War and in Germany and what happened in Soviet Union and in China.
These horror shows that characterize the 20th century constrain malevolence.
And so if you study malevolence, you start to understand what the opposite of that is.
The opposite of malevolence is something like the hero's journey.
You know, and it's easy to be cynical about that.
But, well, it's not that easy because if you're cynical about that, then you undermine your own life.
And everyone knows this.
This is the other thing that's so interesting.
Everyone knows this.
You never teach someone you love to lie.
You're always appalled if you have a son or daughter.
You're always appalled if they don't tell the truth.
You know in the deepest part of your heart that if you don't tell the truth,
the world falls apart.
And that's actually true.
You know, I talked about unearned wisdom.
It's no trivial matter to understand that.
You know, Dostoevsky said everyone is responsible for everything that happens to them and everything that happens to everyone else as well.
And, you know, that's an insane statement.
And he was a very extreme person.
But it's also true. And I think that's part of what people get a glimpse of when they have a hallucinogenic-induced religious experience.
It's like there's a lot more resting on you than you think.
And you know that.
You don't wake up in the morning berating yourself for telling the truth.
You wake up at four in the morning berating yourself for telling the truth. You wake up at four in the morning berating yourself for violating your conscience.
You know, and classically, at least in some strains of Christian thinking, conscience
is associated with Christ or with the Holy Spirit.
It's the voice of God within.
I'm aware of all the criticisms of ideas like that.
But you know, it's pretty, it's really something that you can't control your conscience.
So what is it exactly? It's not you.
You're responsible to it. It holds you accountable.
It transcends you.
So what is it?
Well, if you think it's nothing,
well, violate it for a while and see what happens.
So, you know, I hope what I wrote in Beyond Order is true.
You know, and if it's true, it should do some good.
Because what's true does good.
At least that's the hope.
Jordan, I think we're running up on time.
I want to be respectful of your schedule.
I have sincerely enjoyed this conversation.
I'm glad you exist.
I'm glad you write.
I'm very excited for you and your readers with respect to
Beyond Order, 12 More Rules for Life, and I encourage people to check it out. Is there
anything that you would like to add in terms of closing remarks or a question to my audience,
a request of my audience? Anything that you would like to say?
My book is coming out on March 2nd, and I've been thinking about what to do about that.
And I think the most appropriate thing to do is to thank people, the people who've watched my
lectures and listened to them, and who have bought tickets to my lectures and who've bought and read my book.
My family has received an unbelievable outpouring of support. It's saved my life. So appreciate it.
Thank you so much, Jordan.
And thank you to you too. I appreciate the conversation. Onward and upward.
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