The Tim Ferriss Show - #557: Q&A with Tim — Tools for Better Sleep, Musings on Parenting, the Different Roles of Fear, the Delight of Deepening Friendships, the Purpose of College, How to Boost Your Mood, HRV Training, and More
Episode Date: December 22, 2021Q&A with Tim — Tools for Better Sleep, Musings on Parenting, the Different Roles of Fear, the Delight of Deepening Friendships, the Purpose of College, How to Boost Your Mood, HRV Train...ing, and More | Brought to you by Athletic Greens all-in-one nutritional supplement, GiveWell.org charity research and effective giving, and Eight Sleep’s Pod Pro Cover sleeping solution for dynamic cooling and heating. More on all three below.Welcome to another episode of The Tim Ferriss Show, where it is usually my job to sit down with world-class performers of all different types to tease out the habits, routines, favorite books, and so on that you can apply and test in your own life. This time, we have a slightly different format, and I’m the guest.As some of you know, I tested a “fan-supported model” in 2019, but I ended up returning to ads by request. That’s a long story, and you can read more about it at tim.blog/podcastexperiment. 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The Tim Ferriss Show.
Hello boys and girls, ladies and germs. Welcome to another episode of the Tim Ferriss Show as I
garble my words because this is a fast-paced Q&A episode. We're going to cover a lot. And thanks to
everyone who is joining live. We have a lot of people who are joining live. We have people
who have submitted questions in advance, and we're going to cover a lot of topics. I'm
going to alternate between live and submitted questions. We'll probably do two to four at a time.
And I'm happy to see everyone here from all over the world and people can submit questions
right meow in the chat. So feel free to type those in. And specifically, you can focus on
the general. You can go anywhere you want. This is a topic free for all. And I see
a question here in the live chat from Clayton. I apologize. I'm going to say L. I don't know how
to pronounce the last name. What worked best to help with your plantar fasciitis? A number of
things. A splint to keep my toes dorsiflexed while sleeping. That was one. A second was rolling the bottom of my feet and
also using percussion devices like Theragun as an example. And oddly enough, this might sound
really strange because it's in some ways the opposite of what I just suggested, but a physical
therapist asked me at one point, because I was so sensitive in my lower legs during massage therapy, during
soft tissue treatment, he asked me, do you cross your legs under your chair when you sit and type?
And I thought that was a strange question, but I did that. I would put my feet under the chair
and cross them. And that was always pulling my toes and my feet back towards my knee. And he
said, try not doing that and see what
happens. He said, are you really tight in your calves when you do say downward dog and yoga?
I said, yes. And so I began experimenting with really being mindful about keeping my feet flat
on the ground instead of crossing them under my butt or under my chair. And all of those things
seem to have contributed mightily to the recovery. Also, not overdoing it with minimal footwear.
The way that my plantar fasciitis really flared up and became a problem is I walked in very,
very minimal footwear.
Imagine slippers or moccasins, basically, on cobblestones for a few days while traveling.
And that just about did it. So those are a few
recommendations related to plantar fasciitis. And I am going to take a look now at both the live
chat and the submitted questions. I see one here from Amir or Amir Gergik, I'm guessing. I'm sure I'm completely
butchering that name. Hey, Tim, do you ever do breathing exercise next to yoga? So breathing
exercises are something that I pay attention to. And most recently, the type of breathing I have
done is in concert with HRV training. And you can check out a doctor named Dr. Leah Lagos, L-A-G-O-S. She also has a book
that discusses HRV training and using breathwork basically as the API to the autonomous nervous
system. So the, what is it? Application programming interface. Think of it as the gateway into your
automatic or autonomous nervous system. So you can use breathwork to produce
what she would term resonance
that can affect everything from the vagus nerve
to many, many other things.
And I was doing 20 minutes of breathwork
twice a day for 10 weeks.
And my breathwork tends to have an objective in mind,
but I do think that breathing, since it is
this gateway into the deliberate control, which seems paradoxical, of the autonomous nervous
system, or at least some of its functions, I find it very, very interesting. All right,
let's jump into some of the submitted questions. This first one is from The Crazy Bulgarian.
What did you implement from Andrew
Huberman's advice on sleep? So Andrew Huberman is a neurobiologist from Stanford University who I had
on the podcast, and he gave me a lot of recommendations related to sleep. He's really
studied the visual system, circadian rhythm, everything associated with it. And I followed
a bunch of his recommendations, and it has dramatically improved my sleep. Here are a few of them. So I did take his advice to get my fish oil consumption up to
the point that it is at least one gram of EPA. And there's EPA, DHA contained in fish oil,
among possibly other things, and getting the EPA to at least one gram. I do that in two divided
doses taken with meals. Before sleep, I'm taking magnesium threonate, which selectively targets
brain tissue, or at least is well absorbed by brain tissue. Apigenin is another. I believe
I'm taking 50 milligrams, but you should listen to the full podcast. And other supplements that I'm taking, which I have to disclose because I started taking
them around the same time, and perhaps these are the causal agents, quite apart from his advice,
following a number of blood tests, it was recommended to me that I begin taking,
and this was recommended to me by my doctors. so get your own medical advice, please. I started taking higher levels of B6 in the morning. And also in the morning, I began doing two things
as suggested by Andrew. Number one, I began getting outside as soon as I got up. So no
dilly-dallying and burning an hour inside, getting outside exposed to the sun, even if it's through cloud cover for the first, say five to 15 minutes of the day. And I had been doing this on,
on some level, often jumping rope for even two or three minutes, really just to wake up the system
and to get that exposure to the sun. I've made that a must do. And I've also delayed my intake of caffeine for 60 to 90 minutes after
getting up. I think like a lot of people, my routine was to wake up and immediately consume
some form of stimulant or caffeine, whether it's yerba mate or coffee or otherwise. And the point
he made is, and I'm paraphrasing, that when you wake up, there is this natural and desirable
production of cortisol, which then does a number of things, including, I imagine, breaking down
glycogen into usable glucose and so on and so forth. And this provides you with a jolt of
energy to start your day. And that is an important, what they might call zeitgeber, or a time giver that helps to establish a bookmark for the rest
of your circadian rhythm, and that can dictate and inform your sleep later. So pushing off the
caffeine for 60 to 90 minutes allows your body to do what it's supposed to do without supplementation,
without any type of caffeine replacement therapy,
if that makes any sense. So those are a number of things that I've taken from Andrew that
at least together, all of those factors, including the B6, which is individualized,
so I'm not recommending other people do that, seem to have really produced a change in me.
So that I'm very grateful for. Let me jump to Clayton. This is another question that was submitted.
Tim, it's been over a decade since the four-hour body.
If you had to revise it, what would you change?
Has your opinion changed in regards to components such as keto, intermittent fasting, multi-day
fasting, PAG, et cetera?
The four-hour body, even though it was produced in 2010, has held up remarkably well.
And many of the things that were first discussed, or at least first widely
discussed in the 4-Hour Body, cold exposure, and so on, as it relates to fat loss or thermoregulation
with Ray Cronise and others, have really stood the test of time and entered the mainstream.
So a lot of it holds up. I would want to take a second look at polycocinol as found in PAG to see if there's any
additional research that either confirms or disputes the efficacy of including polycocinol.
In terms of things that I might add, I would likely put in a more sophisticated chapter on
fasting now that I understand much more of the science
and have done many, many, many experiments
and had the input of, say, Dominic D'Agostino
and Peter Attia and various PhDs and doctors.
Those additions, however, were put into Tools of Titans.
So a lot of the additions that I would have made
to the four-hour body were put into Tools of Titans. And many of the additions that I would have made to the 4-Hour Body were put into
Tools of Titans. And many of the updates that I would have put into the 4-Hour Workweek,
but more so the 4-Hour Body and the 4-Hour Chef were added into Tools of Titans. It's kind of a
simultaneous update of all of those books. But certainly fasting, especially focusing on
more extended fasting, so a three- fasts, say once a month and longer
fasts, seven to 10-day fasts once per year. I do feel quite confident those convey many benefits,
only some of which are understood at this point. And last one for now from the submitted questions
before we go back to the live feed, it's from Jordan. Why did you stop gymnastic strength
training? Do you think you'll pursue it again? I hit pause on some of
the gymnastic strength training as you might define it as GST per coach summer, the former
men's national team coach in part, because I injured my wrist. I injured my wrist doing
assisted training with iron cross and Maltese cross on rings and
just felt this incredible pop in my wrist and couldn't really use my hand for a number of weeks,
maybe even as much as a month or two. That was my fault. So I'm not in any way maligning the
system. And I've continued to use components of gymnastic strength training, although some of the
exercises are not terribly portable because you'd require something like a stall wall, for instance,
and people can look that up, SDAHL, which is an incredible piece of equipment, but you don't find
it in very many places. I have, however, continued with gymnastic strength training on the calisthenic
or bodyweight side. So I'm doing plenty of inversion training, otherwise known as handstands, although there are many different variations,
forearm stands, et cetera. And I am continuing with developing active strength and active
flexibility in the end ranges. And that could be through doing Jefferson curls with say kettlebells or any number
of things like pike pulses, which you can also look up. Those are found in tools of Titans as
well. All right. So let's get now back to the live stream. Dennis P would ever have David Goggins on
the podcast. I would have him on the podcast. David Goggins has also done an excellent job
of appearing on many podcasts. So I don't know if I
would be able to cover new ground. And that often gives me just a bit of hesitation, but Goggins is
incredible. And in fact, I had looked at David Goggins back in 2009, 2010, as it related to
the endurance chapters in the four-hour body, but ended up not being able to connect with him
in time to include something for publication. Let's look at some more of these questions.
Bear with me. All right, this is from Kale Panojo, if I'm getting that right, or maybe Kale Panojo.
When you're learning about a new subject, do you still follow the DS3 method from the four-hour
chef, given everything you've learned about learning since publishing? Any possible alterations to learning?
I'm sure there are many alterations, but for those who don't know, the DS3 refers to, let's
see if I can remember exactly what the acronyms are at this point, because it's so second
nature to me.
The first is deconstruction, so that's breaking down a skill, whether it's swimming or learning Japanese or chess or podcasting or anything else into smaller component skills. So identifying the
elements that constitute this larger skill so that you can break it down into more addressable
pieces. Then you have selection. That's the first S and this is effectively 80-20 analysis. You're
looking for the 20% of material or less,
the 20 is somewhat arbitrary, that provides you with 80% of the utility or the performance.
And in language, for instance, this would very easily be demonstrated through high-frequency
word lists. Some words are used more often than others. If you choose the proper, say,
1,200 to 2,000 words based on high frequency by looking at
ideally material that reflects conversation, but it could be newspapers, textbooks, and so on,
you can really develop conversational fluency or at least adequacy in eight to 12 weeks.
In most languages, that's my belief and experience. And selection being first indicates
that I believe material beats method.
So what you choose to study, what you choose to practice is more important ultimately than
how you practice because you can get very good at efficiently studying or practicing
things that are of very little importance.
All right, so we have deconstruction, we have selection, then we have sequencing,
and this is deciding in what order to practice things. So for instance, recently when I was
looking at rock climbing and applying this lens, one recommendation that came up a lot
was fingerboard training, but fingerboard training can also produce a lot of injuries because your
connective tissue, your tendons and ligaments, develop strength, tensile strength and diameter
at a much slower rate than your skill and muscular development. Therefore, whether it's in power
lifting or especially in something where you're using the smaller digits a lot, as in
rock climbing, you can really injure yourself. So as a function of going through this process
and looking at sequencing, I decided that even though it was recommended many, many, many, many,
many times, I would push the fingerboard inclusion to at least say six months into my training.
And only if I had achieved a certain level of
proficiency, technically speaking. And then last, you have stakes. Stakes, S-T-A-K-E-S. You can
think of that as consequences. And that could take the form of a bet with a friend, say, for weight
loss. Very, very effective. It could take the form of prepaying and committing to some type of group exercise whereby you are both financially
benefiting from some sunk cost in terms of attendance and then also getting the both
encouragement and as necessary ball busting from a group of people if you don't attend and comply.
I still use this with just about everything. So yes, the answer is I still use DS3 or DSSS
as described at great length in the 4-Hour Chef in the meta-learning section. All right, let's go
back. All right, kale is just like the vegetable kale. There we go. Regarding rock climbing,
this is from Jordan Bourne. Great
name. Are you familiar with Dave McLeod? I'm not familiar with Dave McLeod. M-A-C-L-E-O-D.
He has written a few books on training for rock climbing as well as putting out a lot of good
content on YouTube. I'll take a look. Thank you. Brian Williams, how is the work with wolf
conservation going? What are the impacts of your support? This is a great question, and this is a
very controversial subject. It's called the Middle East of
conservation by a lot of people for good reasons. There are many issues with wolf conservation or
reintroduction. If people want to understand perhaps some of the reasons for reintroducing
the arguments for reintroduction or conservation, they can listen to my podcast
episode with Mike Phillips, who led the reintroduction effort at Yellowstone.
And I think there are many arguments, whether it's related to trophic cascade
and sort of ecosystem development, and people can look at a short documentary
called How Wolves Change Rivers or Why Wolves Change Rivers. The only
sort of cinematography mistake that I would point out is I think they refer to elk and they show
deer or they refer to deer and they show elk in the visuals. But if you can allow that not to
distract you, I think it makes a good point about how the absence or presence of one species, especially a predator that keeps herbivores moving,
can affect everything. And since we also extirpated, meaning locally or regionally,
exterminated the gray wolf from many of its sort of natural historical range, if we're running into
problems, as you would witness, say, where I grew up on Long Island with rampant Lyme disease and deer overpopulation with no natural predators, I think there is
an argument to be made for reintroduction.
So the work that I did, if you see tim.blogs.com, you can look at some of what I tried to facilitate
in Colorado and elsewhere, I think is having an impact on the national conversation. Unfortunately, wolves as a symbol have become part of identity politics, and they're basically an outlet for
some upset and frustration and aggression that is most easily applied to something that can be
killed easily, like a wolf. So we're seeing, I think,
over-harvesting and over-killing of wolves. I do believe there's a place for the management of
wolves, the calling of wolves, and the management of those populations through hunting, for instance.
I absolutely believe that there is a place for that, but that as it would be the case with elk or anything else, they need to be
monitored very closely. And those policies should be informed and based on science and not based on
populist politics. And it's a touchy subject. There is an article that lays this out. It's actually very well done. It's a feature piece
called The Way of the Wolf Woman or something like that. It might be Wolf Lady in the New Yorker.
So if you just search Wolf Lady or Wolf Woman and New Yorker, this piece will pop up. And it
paints a very compelling nonpartisan picture because the fact of the matter is there are individual ranchers
who are significantly affected by wolf predation on livestock. And there are many ways to mitigate
that with flattery and other techniques that are non-lethal. But the fact remains that some
individual ranchers really have their livelihood affected by wolf populations. However, as a whole, the effect
on livestock, and this has been studied at Colorado State University and many other places,
the effect on livestock over time is very, very minimal. And I have some posts on social
that is sharing the research related to that. But again, these are controversial subjects
that provoke a lot of emotions. And as soon as we get into red line territory, it doesn't matter if
you're on the right or the left or somewhere in between, it's a big fucking mess. So that
hasn't been said. If you want to learn more, I suggest listening to my episode with Mike Phillips,
who's a fascinating guy. And you can check out Tim.blogs slash Wolf for part of what I was
involved with. And I have more involvement likely coming. So that is that. That was a long one.
All right. Let me dive in. Okay. So another live one. This is from Andy Donovan. Tim,
you've talked about having kids one day.
Any thoughts on what you would teach them at home, which you would worry they wouldn't learn
at school or indeed, which they might need to survive school? This is a great question.
And I think the two things that come to mind immediately are optimism and resilience. I do think that the infantilization of not just adults, but children
in the United States handling everything and everyone with kid gloves ultimately produces
very, very fragile people. And if the culture by and large wants to swing in that direction, that's fine. But I will want to ensure that my kids are as
resilient and confident and optimistic as possible. And I think part of that will be
both loving them unconditionally, maybe what you would think of as motherly love,
but also having very high standards and encouraging them to try things that they
think they can't do or that they
think will be very difficult or they think will be very uncomfortable. And that is how you build
confidence, through competence. You can't think your way, reason your way into confidence if you
haven't actually put in the time and put in the flight time and mileage to develop skills and resilience under duress.
You have to do things to develop persistent and durable confidence. So I think those are a number
of things that I would focus on. The forms those would take, I am not sure, but I think that there
are many, many good role models, fortunately, who I know a lot of them are coming out of military.
And they've basically turned, in a few cases, turned their daughters into Hannah, if anyone wants to watch the trailer, to Hannah, H-A-N-N-A.
I'm saying that only half kidding.
But at the end of the day, their kids are very capable, very tough, and very happy from what I can tell.
So I'm going to try to emulate that as much as possible.
All right, let's look at some questions from those submitted.
Next one is from Brad Patterson.
Outside of psychedelics, what other somatic experience slash physical modality has created the largest positive shifts for you?
I would say there are three that immediately come
to mind and I'll give you the answer though, if I had to pick one. And I would say the one answer
I would choose would be Acra Yoga, if I had to choose one. Because of its effects on my relationship
with my beloved, my significant other, because of its blend of mobility and strength in end ranges,
as well as athleticism overall. And those are not automatically the same thing.
Adaptable athleticism is not the same as being really good at six lifts in a few planes of
motion. And I think that even though this has changed more recently,
I remember a number of years when there was a softball or baseball throwing competition within
the CrossFit games. You can look at those videos to see just how poorly people did who were not
previously competitive athletes in multi-planar sports with rotation and so on.
So acroyoga on top of that is just fun. It is a
blast and you always end up laughing because you're going to make mistakes and it's pretty funny,
usually pretty funny when you do, assuming that you're being safe about it. And acroyoga is really
a combination of acrobatics, acrobatic training, which you think of on some level as gymnastics, and therapeutics. So it's also a blend
not only of the strength training and agility and flexibility, but at the end of sessions,
you would also experience in an ideal session, say 15 minutes of partner Thai massage for recovery
in the cool down. And you get very good at both building and restoring. And I think
those are incredible. So I've learned a tremendous amount through AcroYoga, particularly in working
with Jason Niemer, N-E-M-E-R. Look him up. He's amazing. I've also had him on the podcast.
The two others that I would mention quickly are, actually I'll mention three more.
GST, so that's the gymnastic strength training,
still a component.
And I still think there's a lot to be gained
from gymnastic strength training.
GST per coach summer, S-O-M-M-E-R.
If you search his name and my name, a bunch will pop up.
The next is very incremental happy body training.
And happy body training is going to sound hilarious to a lot of people, and it should.
But they can look up Jerzy, J-E-R-Z-Y, Gregorek, G-R-E-G-O-R-E-K.
His wife's name is Aniela Gregorek, A-N-I-E-L-A.
They both have multiple world records in Olympic weightlifting
and are originally from Poland. They have devised a system of training that is truly remarkable.
And with what I might call micro stretches, where you're really only sustaining an inrige for a
half a second or a second, maybe less, but doing repetitions with
weight, the gains that I've seen in mobility and active flexibility through their program is just
incredible. It's really remarkable. And combined with that would be Olympic weightlifting, but I
never got very aggressive with it. However, using as a training goal and as a training standard,
kind of the meat and potatoes of some of my training, in addition to kettlebell swings,
the overhead squats became an incredible tool for diagnosing weaknesses and deficits to fix,
but also really just developing overall functionality. And that would be overhead
squats with a barbell
pressed overhead as if you were doing a military press and then dropping down to an ass to heels
Olympic squat, which also over time developed much more mobility and flexibility in my ankles,
which helped with the plantar fasciitis that was mentioned earlier. And last was swimming.
I learned to swim in my thirties. If you look at my first Ted talk, it describes how I used total immersion swimming by Terry
Lachlan, who's also been on the podcast. So you can go to ted.com and search my name in the first
Ted talk that I gave focused quite a bit on swimming. And that'll give you an idea
of how I learned to swim and how it became a moving meditation at that point.
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John Lamb is the next one. What vacation or place you've traveled to would you most like to go back
to? There are many places I love, but the first two that come to mind are Italy and Taiwan. I've
spent some time in both. It's been decades since I really spent meaningful time in either. And I love the
people and the cultures and the food of both. So Italy and Taiwan are two that come to mind.
And I'll do one more in these submitted, and then I'll come back to the live.
So the next one is Joel Cherico. What are one or two of your super long-term big goals I generally
don't have super long-term big goals I tend to view things as two-week experiments within kind
of six-month projects and then I look at what windows what doors open I guess is more the
expression for opportunities don't jump out of any windows, but you can walk through doors. And very often I find that if I apply myself fully to
being excellent or at least diligent in an experiment for two weeks or projects for six
months, like experimenting with fiction right now, the opportunities that I will have and the lenses
that I will gain through which I can look at the world and my life are things I cannot predict at the outset.
So I don't generally have super long-term, but if I had to pick a few things, and I don't know if these qualify as super long-term, hopefully they're not super long-term. One would be to get to the point sooner rather than later that the federal government or the
agencies within the federal government, like the NIMH, NIH, et cetera, are providing funding to
scientists doing research related to psychedelic compounds on the clinical side, on the basic side,
across the board. And that is a significant problem currently because since, let's just call
it 1971, the Controlled Substance Act under the
Nixon administration, once these compounds were put into Schedule I, which means high potential
for abuse, no known medical application, both of which are ridiculous for most of these compounds,
it was impossible, if not at least close to impossible, but generally impossible, to get any type of federal funding
for these studies, which meant scientists had to spend a lot of their time doing two things.
Going to philanthropists, usually for small dollar amounts, which is incredibly time-consuming.
Secondly, they had to write grants and grant applications for other types of work unrelated
to their core interest of psychedelics
to pay their salaries and ensure that they would be able to support their families
while pursuing this interest in the therapeutic applications of psychedelic compounds.
So they were spending a ton of time simply to ensure they had a bare minimum of funding to do
small studies because that's
all they could afford. The other option in the last few years especially, so either high time,
low dollar amount, philanthropic fundraising plus grants, or they could take money from
well-funded for-profit companies, startups. And that's not intrinsically bad, but it's fast, easy money with a lot of
strings attached, generally speaking. And rightly so. If I were a company, I would want certain
IP provisions. I would want maybe certain types of data exclusivity. And that can get very squirrely
and start to look like big pharma lockdown very quickly. Breaking news update, very exciting.
Since the recording of this episode,
Dr. Matthew Johnson, professor of psychiatry and behavioral sciences at Johns Hopkins,
received a U01 grant from the National Institute on Drug Abuse, otherwise known as NIDA, to study
psilocybin for tobacco addiction. It's the first grant from the US government in half a century to
directly study a classic psychedelic. This is a huge deal and decades in the making. This has also been a primary hope and target of
mine for the last several years, and I'm super, super excited to be involved with the Hopkins
team. So congratulations to Matthew and team. There are also some other folks to watch very
closely, Ben Kalamendi at Yale and others. But suffice to say,
that is a very exciting update since the recording of this episode.
So I would like the scientists to have a third major source of funding, which is the federal
government. So that is one I'm very heavily focused on. And I'm hoping the initiative at Harvard Law School that just launched, which I'm a part
of, it's called Poplar, the Project on Psychedelic Law and Regulation, will be able to help with
that.
And I hope they will also be able to help with insurance reimbursement.
So getting to the point where these psychedelic therapies are reimbursable through insurance,
which means a broader patient population
has access. Because right now, even if they're rescheduled and prescribable, the therapies will
be very expensive because you have preparation, you have integration, you have sessions that are
say four to eight hours in length. All of this equals expensive. So to make it available to
millions of people who are suffering with say complex PTSD,
treatment-resistant depression, et cetera,
you need insurance reimbursement.
So that is the second big one for me.
And then last, but certainly not least,
is building a family and moving into fatherhood
and being a partner to my lovely, lovely beloved. And I think that will be a huge phase shift for me.
And TBD, what that means. But those are a few of my super long-term, big in all caps, goals.
All right, let's take a look at what we have here. I'll do my best to answer some more.
Sheila McQueen, if I'm getting that right, there's been a lot of talk of
experiential therapy techniques like psychedelics. Are there any promising research or research
programs using VR gaming? I'm not aware of them, although I know that there are some researchers,
including Andrew Huberman, who I mentioned earlier, is a neurobiologist at Stanford who
have captured footage of, for instance, gray-white sharks
in the hopes that they can take these type of stimuli and turn them into visual representations
in VR so that they can study not just fear, but fear extinction and contending with phobias and
so on using virtual reality as a tool, as a modality. I think there's a lot there.
It may take a while until the potential is demonstrated definitively in some fashion,
or maybe nothing's definitive, but in a compelling way with some type of clinical study.
But I do think there's tremendous promise. And we just have to look at 2D gaming to see where it could go in 3D gaming or simulations or therapies. And Adam Ghazali, G-A-Z-Z-A-L-E-Y,
who recently launched, along with Robin Carhart-Harris and others, the psychedelics
division of Neuroscape at UCSF, which is a very, very big deal. Adam, with some of his previous research,
he and his team developed software called Akili. And A-K-I-L-I is the spelling. And it recently
became the first FDA-approved treatment for ADHD as software. So I do think that digital therapies in 2D and 3D and in virtual reality, augmented reality,
certainly should be tested as legitimate interventions and tools.
All right, let's check here, see some more. So Jordan chimed in. There's a psychedelic VR
experience called TRIP, T-R-I-P-P. It's trying to do something like this. No idea on anything beyond that. Certainly there are going to be people who want to replicate or simulate the
benefits of psychedelic treatments without psychedelics themselves. There is a company
called Resonate also that is doing some interesting work in this space and take a look at that and
many others. So this will be a crowded and very, very exciting
space. So I do expect some innovation to come through. All right. Question from Brad Patterson.
Favorite book from past year. I read both Lion Tracker's Guide to Life, which is a great book,
and Brotherhood of the Screaming Abyss. Good for you. That's a long one. Per your recs and enjoyed.
Thanks. Well, I would reiterate that the Lion Tracker's Guide to Life by Boyd Vardy is excellent.
That's a very short read for people who are looking for something that I found very compelling
and very short.
The Brotherhood of the Screaming Abyss is by Dennis McKenna, and that is not short,
but certainly for those interested in psychedelics and interested in the history and the biography of not just Dennis, who wrote this
as an autobiography, but his brother Terence McKenna, who is very well known, thought of as
the Irish bard of psychedelics and was author or co-author of things like The Archaic Revival,
True Hallucinations, and many others. New books. I would say that Of Wolves and
Men by Barry Lopez. And I think it's Of, somebody could tell me it might be On Wolves, but I think
it's Of Wolves and Men by Barry Lopez is one of the best nonfiction books I've ever read in my
life. It is incredible. It is just, just phenomenal.
I would definitely recommend that people check that out. I'm going to do a quick
search to double check the name of that, the title of that. Barry Lopez also wrote Arctic
Dreams, for which he won many, many awards. His nonfiction is absolutely incredible. So let me look. Barry Lopez, Wolves.
Of Wolves and Men by Barry Lopez. That is the title. The cover, the original cover is absolutely
stunning. I have it in hardcover. I very rarely have things in hardcover that was given to me as
a gift. And I was supposed to be socializing and spending time with my girlfriend's family, in fact. And I did. I did
spend time with them, but I was so pulled into and engrossed by this book that I just started
reading it with every free moment that I had. I carried it around with me everywhere, to the
restaurant, to the park, everywhere. I just carried this book with me. So I would say
Of Wolves and Men by Barry Lopez would be my recommendation.
And let me take a look at a couple more.
Darcy Leffler has a question.
Since moving to Austin, it appears to me that you've become more reflective.
If this is the case, what brought this about?
What has been the impact on your life?
I think I have been more reflective in the last few years. And I think that that can be
attributed in part to moving to Austin, certainly, but more so it's moving out of San Francisco.
I think that I would have been more reflective had I moved to, who knows, Montana or Pennsylvania,
as long as I was outside of a major city. Even though Austin is a city,
it is not one dominated by a monoculture or a monoconversation in the same way that San Francisco
is dominated by tech. It is pervasive. It is soaked, drenched in tech, tech, tech. Los Angeles,
in many parts, is drenched and soaked in entertainment, entertainment, entertainment.
And it's very easy to end up in not just an echo chamber, but in a race where you feel like a
greyhound chasing that rabbit around the track. And you never quite catch it. No one quite catches
it. Everyone has agreed upon the rules, seems to think it's important important and it's a pull to the external in many senses.
So by removing myself somewhat from that environment, even though Austin has a million
people or so in the greater Austin area, I've been able to kind of recalibrate and think about
which interests of mine are actually mine or those that I've absorbed or inherited? Which drives of mine are mine or simply
absorbed through osmosis in some conscious or unconscious way, subconscious way, if need be?
And I think that has caused me, particularly as I contemplate family, fatherhood, and so on,
it has brought up a lot of the big questions. Where do I want to be
and why? What do I want to be doing and why? What do I not want to be doing and why? Who do I want
to spend more time with? As the horizon at the vanishing point at the end of my life draws closer
now that I am at least based on the historical ages of death in my family
on both sides for men, I'm past the halfway mark. Who do I want to deepen relationships with? Do I
want to deepen relationships with people I already know? Do I want to develop new friendships? And in
either case, why? With whom? And these are questions that take time, at least for me,
to explore properly and to really think on and to journal on and to test also. So I think that it's
been the removal from a high-density urban environment with a monoculture or a monoconversation.
I should note that even in a rural place or a smaller city, it is possible
to put yourself in circumstances such that you end up in echo chambers. So I've also been very
deliberate about trying to avoid that. And I hope that helps to answer the question. I've also had
a lot of death in my family. My uncle just in the last few weeks died of an alcohol-induced heart failure and passed away on the day, literally to the day of Richard Nixon's announcement of the drug war 50 years ago, calling public enemy number one drugs.
And it just goes to highlight, for me at least,
that better treatments are part of the answer,
not necessarily better punishments.
And these have all caused me to pause these types of events,
periods of mourning, and so on.
So whether I like it or not,
I've been given opportunities to reflect.
And I'm grateful at least for that. Let me take a look here. Here's one. Peter Gran,
I think G-R-A-H-N. Have you ever been in any of the Scandinavian countries? Sweden, Norway,
Denmark, Finland. And what is your image as an American of these countries? Well,
I have spent time in Sweden, in Norway, and in Denmark. I've not yet visited Finland,
but I would love to make it to Finland
and do some rally racing. You guys have some incredible, incredible racers and even some of
the techniques in rally car racing, like pendulum swing is also called the Finnish flick. So I'd
love to come to Finland at some point. What is my image? I wouldn't say I have an image across the
board of Scandinavians, because in my experience, I've found Norwegians,
Danes, and Swedes to be quite different. But I came away with a very, very favorable impression.
I've spent a good amount of time in all three. And some of my blood is from Denmark. So when I
went there, I remember I launched the four-hour workweek in Danish. I decided to go to Denmark.
I'd never been at that time.
And it was hilarious because I was walking around, pretty much bald as is, looking as I do.
And it was like reverse Where's Waldo. So in Japan, you could see a crowd of 5,000 people and be like, there's Tim. In Denmark, that was impossible. I looked like 90% of the people there.
And so we were launching the four
hour work week, which I think is Fiatima's Abaik Ula, something like that. And I was having drinks
with the publisher and the editor who is responsible for this book. And I said, yeah,
you know, but something, something, you know, I have this huge head and this gigantic bridge troll
forehead, which I get made fun of and have been made fun of forever in the United States. I have a huge head. I look like
bobblehead in the United States. And that's part of the reason I continue to weight train because
I need a big enough neck and body not to look like a lollipop. And everyone had had a bit of
booze at that point. And the editor said, you don't have a huge head. You have a normal Danish
head. And that made me feel a lot better about myself.
So I have a very positive association
with Scandinavian countries.
Would not surprise me at all
if I ended up spending a bunch more time in Scandinavia.
In fact, Trey Baldwin,
I loved your podcast with Jerry Seinfeld.
I'd love to hear you and Steve Martin talk.
I would love to do a podcast with Steve Martin.
I don't know if he would be game or not.
If he were game,
I would love to do it. I think his book, My Life Standing Up, something along those lines,
his autobiography, I listen to in audio, which I recommend everyone do. And I did that a long
time ago when it first came out. It is spectacular. It is one of the best autobiographies I've ever
had the pleasure to enjoy, especially via audio. So yes, if Steve Martin is out there
listening or anyone who's close to him, I would love to have him on the show.
The Intrepid Guide. Here's a question. Hey Tim, how do you maintain the languages you've studied?
Do you have one tip you recommend for language learners? Yes. If you are working on multiple
languages, well, number one, go to Tim.blog. There is a topics languages
or language learning link on the right-hand side. And if you click on that, there are a number of
articles that go into great depth about this. There are articles by Ben, the Irish polyglot.
There are articles by many others who have learned five, six, 10, 12 languages, and they talk at length about this. In my case,
I try to create a chain of languages such that I'm reviewing a prior language as I'm learning
a new language. So for instance, when I learned Spanish, and this was a long time ago, 2004,
2005, mostly in Argentina, I chose one Japanese comic book series because a lot of the Japanese
comic book series, A, have dozens of volumes. You're not going to run out of material. And they're popular enough
to have been translated into just about any popular language. And comic books are, by definition,
conversational. A lot of it is dialogue. 90 plus percent of it is dialogue. So you're getting
spoken language instead of written language. So I chose one piece, which is a very, very popular comic book. And I had the Japanese version, and then I had the Spanish version. And page by page, they are identical. And I would read in Spanish to the extent that I could. And if I came across something I didn't know, I would then go to the Japanese, and I would look at the Japanese version and see if that reminded me of the proper word, if I could translate the Japanese, in other words. So I'd
use the Japanese to reinforce the Spanish and the Spanish to reinforce the Japanese.
The Japanese was what I already knew. The Spanish was my target. Then I learned Spanish pretty well.
My Spanish now is rusty, but I can get by. Keeping in mind, this was 2004, 2005.
So 16 years ago, I haven't studied since.
And then when I later in, I suppose 2005,
it would have been wanted to learn German.
And I might be getting these two mixed up, actually.
It might've been German first,
but nonetheless, the illustration will be coherent.
When I then wanted to learn German,
I had the Spanish version of One Piece. And let's say learning Spanish, I'd gone from volume 10 to 15, right? Each volume is 200 pages or something.
Then I picked up at 16 and I had the German One Piece and then I had the Spanish One Piece. So I
would try to read the German. If I couldn't, I would go to the Spanish. And if the Spanish
wouldn't get it done, then I would go to an electronic dictionary. Now you have Google
Translate, so it makes it a lot easier, and so on and so forth. So I created these chains,
these connected links of one language to the next. But I highly suggest for those interested
in digging into this, I think some of the best articles written on the web about language
learning are on my blog at tim.blog. And you can
find the language learning topic or tag. And I can say that comfortably because many of the best
articles are written by other people. All right. Vaibhav Mathuku, I think the name is. What
principles have you learned from chess that you can use outside of the game? Quite a few. And if anyone saw the Tim Ferriss experiment episode
where I did chess and Brazilian jujitsu,
I think this is a good illustration.
And you can also find a discussion of this
in the 4-Hour Chef.
There's actually a pretty extensive discussion
of Josh Waitzkin, his work with Pandolfini,
I think it was, and various principles
that he applies and that I
apply in other areas. I would suggest if you're looking for the translation of chess principles,
high-level chess principles, to many other fields, pick up a book called The Art of Learning by Josh
Waitzkin. So The Art of Learning by Josh Waitzkin, W-A-I-T-Z-K-I-N. He was the second or third ever podcast I did on this podcast
that now has almost 600 episodes. And every episode with him, I think, is solid gold. So
you can also listen to the first episode with him. Some of those would be learning the macro
from the micro. So taking or creating scenarios of decreased or minimal complexity, let's just say going to the endgame in chess and having king and that for now. But learning the macro from the micro with
simulated conditions of reduced complexity is something that he's applied all over the place
to chess, to investing, to Tai Chi push hands, in which he was a world champion, to Brazilian
Jiu-Jitsu, in which he became the first black belt under Marcelo Garcia, who's considered the
greatest of all time, nine-time world champion, and so forth and so on. So those are a few that come to mind.
Let me take a look at some of these submitted questions. The Intrepid Guide.
Update. Thank you for answering my question. What you described as chains is called laddering.
There you go. So it's called laddering. There you have it, folks. All right. So question from Timur Shah.
Tim, I feel often like my energy to think deliberately is low. How can I improve this?
My recommendation would first and foremost be to get comprehensive blood testing with your doctor
because you may identify, especially if you do a micronutrient analysis on top of that,
that you have some type of deficiency or some type
of explainable issue that can be treated. It's not necessarily a thyroid issue, for instance,
but there are things like hypothyroidism that could explain something like this.
There are many other things. Perhaps you have a selenium deficiency. Perhaps you're taking too
much zinc and you've developed, response a copper deficiency, right?
So overdoing it with supplements and drugs
can produce various issues.
But stop number one is talking to your physician
and getting comprehensive blood testing.
All right, let me take a look at some of the questions here.
Question from Matt Ridley, outside of sleep, what is your
biggest force multiplier? Be five to 20 minutes of exercise in the morning with sun exposure.
Even without sun exposure, I think there's tremendous value in as soon as you get up
doing five to 20 minutes of exercise. That could be just about anything that moves your body.
And I do think that motion, whether that's jumping rope, kettlebell swings, something
dynamic, swimming is of great value.
It seems to really turn on my neural drive in a way that helps my cognition and mood
tremendously for the rest of the day.
It is astonishing how big a difference,
even two minutes of jumping rope outside.
Like everybody has two minutes.
You have no excuse not to do two minutes of something.
But doing two minutes of jumping rope outside in the sun,
seriously, if that's all I do,
it is a complete step function change
in how I feel and how I think for the rest of the day.
Could be placebo.
I don't really care if it is placebo, but that would be the force multiplier. Outside of sleep,
five to 20 minutes exercise in the AM, which consequently helps with sleep also. So it's a
two for one. Mira Levy, what about cold showers first thing in the AM? Yeah, I like that too.
I like exercise more, but what I'll often do right now is I will exercise for the five to 20 minutes
and then take a cold shower to rinse off
and then move on with the day.
So that's how I approach it.
This is a question from Alex.
After undergoing isolation, stress, and trauma,
how would you suggest individuals deal
with the lingering psychological effects
and cognitive biases of the pandemic?
In parentheses, heightened scarcity mindset,
risk aversion, et cetera, so that one can keep making growth-based decisions as opposed to
fear-based ones. And there's more to it, but I'll tackle that first. So the first thing I would say
is the cognitive biases or frames that remain at this point, and I should say during and not after the pandemic, because I don't think
we are clearly out of the woods yet, certainly not on a global scale. Fear has a place, and fear can
be a teacher. And we have evolved to observe and learn from cues in our environment. So having a certain degree of fear or apprehension or wanting to have extra
cash reserves right now, I don't view as a pathological adaptation. I think that is actually
very reasonable. So while I don't think it's additive probably or healthy to
sit in your house on the floor, rocking yourself all day with the
curtains drawn. If you have something like complex PTSD, I think that is maladaptive,
ultimately, long-term. But if you're simply behaving a little more conservatively
because of what has happened in world and local events over the last year, I think that's a very
intelligent adaptation. So I don't
take that to be a bad thing. However, to address your question more directly, I'll give you two
things. So the first I think is to, and I've learned this the hard way multiple times,
rather than trying to fix or suppress scarcity mindset, risk aversion, anxiety. If you want to begin to improve the
situation, I find that reading a book like Radical Acceptance by Tara Brock is incredibly helpful.
If you are trying to block things out or compartmentalize them or get rid of them,
I do find you can do a lot of damage in the process. And the solution
is very rarely a long-term durable solution. So Radical Acceptance by Tara Brock, which was
recommended to me at one point by a neuroscience PhD, which was very surprising. I think that book
is spectacular. If you're interested in a therapeutic modality, a therapy that can
complement to that or be done independently. I think IFS, internal family
systems, is exceptional. And I've seen tremendous results personally from that. For that reason,
I had Dick Schwartz or Richard Schwartz on the podcast. If you search my name and IFS,
that podcast should pop right up. And I suggest listening to that. And the last, and this is effective, highly effective
for worrying and anxiety. Side note, I remember someone said to me, worrying is like praying for
what you don't want. I thought that was quite clever and memorable and useful to keep in mind.
But the book is an old one, How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie. Pretty sure
I'm getting the title right. How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie. Pretty sure I'm getting the title right. How to Stop Worrying
and Start Living by Dale Carnegie. I have yet to meet a single person, I should say a friend. I've
yet to run into a single close friend of mine who has been suffering from anxiety, who has not
benefited from this book and come back and been incredibly happy that they read it. Some of it's
going to be outdated.
That's fine. It's an older book, but it is outstanding. So Radical Acceptance, the book,
IFS is a training modality. You can get a taste of it. I do a live demonstration of it
on the podcast with Dick Schwartz and then How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie.
All right, let me take another look here at the submitted questions, and we're
making good progress here. So I'm going to keep going if people want to keep going. We're at one
hour, but I'm just going to keep rolling because I'm having a good time. Side note on finance and
money. For those who are looking at the video, you can see this painted circle. It's kind of
like the eye of Sauron. It's this red circle with a yellow and
white center and green on the canvas around it. I have had more compliments on this piece of
artwork from people who've seen it than perhaps any other piece of artwork I've ever had.
This was bought for $60 at a warehouse yard sale, basically. So for what that's worth. Katie Wood asks,
what advice would you give to someone just getting started in podcasting or what would
you have done differently when you first started? Note, I realize that very few people actually can
monetize their podcast in a meaningful way. So I'm not as interested in that as I am in making
something worth listening to. Thanks as always. You're welcome, Katie. So let me take a stab at
this. What would I do differently? I wouldn't do anything differently. I think I made all the right
mistakes. And I think I approached it in a way that I'm very, very happy with. And I'm going to
rephrase something that you said, though, if that's all right. You said, and I'm summarizing
here, but I'm interested in making something worth listening
to.
I would suggest you think about creating a podcast by asking, how can I make this worth
doing personally for me?
And the way I thought about that was informed by conversations I've had with Scott Adams,
the creator of Dilbert.
He's written about this extensively, and he has excellent, excellent writing and essays on this. But how to win even if you lose.
And he and I also talked about this on the podcast. So if you want to listen to that,
you can find him there. By the way, he also predicted everything that happened with Trump
well in advance of anyone thinking it was anything more than a joke.
So his predictive powers are also pretty good. But the way I approached podcasting was asking myself,
what skills can I develop and which people can I develop or deepen relationships with by doing this
so that even if I stop after six episodes, and I'd initially committed to six episodes,
I think it's important to commit to some critical mass of, say, six to 10 episodes,
because you will need the repetitions to develop skills. And as a consequence of developing better
skills to deepen relationships or develop relationships with people. And I approached it as a win-win proposition in the sense that I enjoy researching and
interviewing people.
That is my favorite part of putting together my books, is identifying experts, interviewing
them, and pulling out unusual findings.
That's my favorite part of the book writing process. I was burned out
after The 4-Hour Chef. Didn't want to even look at a book for a while, at least a couple of years.
And I realized that by doing the podcast, because I'd really enjoyed being on a few podcasts during
The 4-Hour Chef launch, specifically Nerdist Podcast, Joe Rogan, Mark Maron, and others,
some of the longer form podcasts, really enjoyed being
on that side. And I thought to myself, if I approach this in the right way, I can become
better at interviewing. And therefore, I can become better doing research, which will help
future books if I decide to go back to books. And I'll interview people, initially people I know,
because it'll be less intimidating and they'll
hopefully be more forgiving. Although Kevin Rose busted my balls like crazy in the very first
episode because that's Kevin and that's what good friends do. But I approached it so that
even if I had zero listeners, it would still be a success after six episodes. And on top of learning
to ask better questions
in listening to the audio, I would be able to identify and fix verbal tics. And by fixing verbal
tics, like, like, um, you know, so, et cetera, et cetera, you become a better thinker. Usually the
easiest way to do that is through writing is to trap your writing on paper. And then you can edit
or have proofreaders edit your thinking.
It's very hard to do in conversation unless you record. And you can not just record,
but you can transcribe so that you can review transcripts and see just how awful
your verbal tics look when they are put on the printed page. So those are a few suggestions.
But think about how you can win,
how you can be really happy you spent the time doing it. And in my case, that's developing
skills, developing relationships, deepening relationships. And an example of that would be
in the next couple of weeks, I'm hoping to interview my parents. I'm not planning on ever
publishing those. I hope to share those with my kids when they're old
enough. But that's really to deepen my relationship with my parents and also to have a recording of
them in vivid detail and rich depth for my own kids. Because my grandparents passed away when
I was very young. I really didn't get to know them very well. And that's an example of sort of winning no matter what, even if no one, in this case,
the intention is kids, but even if you don't have a guaranteed audience, if that makes any sense.
Okay. One more submitted question, then I'll go back to live. This is from Ivy Patton.
Any thoughts on gap year travel all to ed for young adults,
not in lieu of college necessarily, but as a way to better understand yourself before the
enormous investment of a college education, furthering the truth that not all classrooms
have four walls and not all people are cut out for desk learning. So perhaps the question is,
do you think college is a must? Well, let me back up and comment on the lead,
which was related to gap year. I think that almost everyone would benefit from
having the option of a gap year in the United States. And I would love one option for that gap
year to be national service of some type. That could be Peace Corps. It could be volunteering
with a national nonprofit like Teach for America. It could be military. It could be volunteering with a national nonprofit like Teach for America.
Could be military, could be anything.
And that was actually suggested on this podcast.
So I've observed a lot from my guests.
But I do think a gap year, whether that is traveling abroad, whether that is doing something in the United States, but stepping outside of the four walls of the classroom to really
gain life experience that broadens your thinking of the world and the people in the world is
tremendously, tremendously valuable. As to the question of whether or not college is a must,
it's hard to say that anything is a must. There are always exceptions. So I can't say college is a must. But what I will say is that
at this point in time, for most people, if we're approaching it from a professional perspective,
the vast majority of people will benefit from having a college degree.
There are always these tales of the Bill Gates, the Zuckerbergs, and so on, who drop out of
Stanford or Harvard or wherever it might be.
But there is some fine print on that that is really important. Those people very rarely drop
out. They are not burning their ships. They're taking a leave of absence. Many of these schools
will allow you to take a leave of absence and come back and finish your degree at any point in time.
That is not the same as dropping out. It is also not the same as not going to college. If you attend Stanford,
if you attend Harvard and you say, I dropped out of Stanford, I dropped out of Harvard,
and you succeed and people repeat that, you're still getting the benefit of the blue chip
branding associated with Stanford or Harvard. So it's important to recognize that.
And I would be very skeptical of anyone who has benefited a lot from a degree or diploma if they tell you that you should not go to college. I would carefully assess how that
has impacted their trajectory. For instance, going to Princeton helped me. It absolutely
helped me. Was it necessary? Hard to say, but did it open doors?
Did it allow me to get replies to emails and so on where otherwise I think it would have been
harder? Absolutely. So one could say from a professional perspective, I'm going to come back
to the topic of education and cognition more broadly speaking, but from the professional
perspective, you know, one could make the argument that
if you can get into an excellent school, it is more valuable than getting into a non-excellent
school. I happen to think, again, for most people, a college degree is going to be of great benefit,
whether or not it is a top-tier school. When it gets to MBAs and things like that, professional degrees,
graduate degrees, if you are doing it for professional advancement, let's take a look
at an MBA program. I think that the value of an MBA is dramatically lowered if you are not going
to one of the top 10, 15 schools in the country who are well-known for
their MBA programs. That advice could differ if you are coming out of a management consulting job
or one of the big five accounting firms within which getting an MBA is encouraged for career
advancement and promotion where they pay your way. That is a
different situation. All right, let's come back to the broader question. Do you think college is a
must? But now let's look at it from the perspective of what I would consider, in the most literal
sense, not in the typical sense, a liberal arts education. So this, again, differs a little bit
from technical degrees, but I never received a technical degree, so I can't really speak to that.
I do think that going to a school, and I'm not going to say it's a must, but going to college, being forced to take mandatory coursework, and then depending on your, having required coursework and course load,
broadens your intellectual curiosity. I do think, at least in my case, you end up taking things that
you expected not to like that you really like. You take things that you thought you'd like that
you really don't like. You take things that you thought you'd be terrible at that you turn out
to be pretty good at. You take classes you think are going to breeze that completely kick your ass. And I do think that broader education
with assignments, how old fashioned am I, are really valuable to someone in that phase of life,
that being the age range of an undergrad, because you don't know what you want,
even though you might think you do. You don't know what you're best at. You don't know where your life will be in two, three, four, five years. And it is absurd to
think that you have comprehensive self-awareness of your strengths and weaknesses. You simply don't.
And you're not cognizant of where you have the greatest potential either. In that case, I do think there's a benefit
to college, so to speak. Now, could that take the form of something online? Yes. Could it take the
form of something in another format? Absolutely. But most people left to their own devices without
some investment of time and money and without the accountability
of classmates and having to be a certain place at a certain time are just not going to study
as much as people who are operating within those constraints. And constraints aren't always things
that prevent you from doing what you want to do. Sometimes constraints are the things that you
erect or that you deliberately engage with so that you can focus
on doing the thing you want to do. So I think positive constraints are very, very important.
So that's a long answer, but Ivy Patton, I hope that helps. Let's take a look at some of the live
questions. Miguel Leite, I don't know how you pronounce that. Tim, how are you going to
cope with sleepless nights once you become a father? I have no idea. That's one of those,
I'll figure it out when I get there kind of things. I don't know. I'm not looking forward
to no sleep, but if my friends are any indication, they seem to adapt and not die. So I assume I will
do the same. All right. Let me take a look here. Jonas K. Do I know T-Time
with Tynan? I don't know T-Time with Tynan. You know, I've seen a bunch of T-Times. People can
look back at this podcast and that blog post and see that I did T-Time with Tim quite a long time
ago. So I don't know what's going on with the T-Times, but I do think I was one of the early adopters to tea time with X. So who knows?
Maybe I'm an imitator. Maybe unbeknownst to me, I have copied many, many other people have done
the same thing. I do not know. Question, what's my take on global warming? How are you preparing
for possible worst case scenarios? I am paying incredible attention to climate change and thinking about it on every possible level, I would say that it singularly is
what produces the most existential anxiety and preoccupation in me. So I'm looking at it from
every possible perspective and thinking about the implications on food security, on migration within countries, both in the US
and elsewhere, water supply. And I think we're going to have a lot of trouble in the next 10
to 20 years, possibly sooner. So that is not a comprehensive answer, but I am extremely occupied
and preoccupied with thinking about climate change and researching it and
spending time reading about the kind of latest findings and potential implications from experts.
Ruth Ann, also that eight sleep pod has changed my sleep life dramatically. So that's awesome to
hear. I have an eight sleep right upstairs. I am a huge fan, especially when it's 95 plus degrees outside.
Had the AC die, and if it weren't for the eight sleep, I would have been just an omelet with zero
hours of sleep. Question from Jessica Downey. I'm joining late, so maybe you answered this already.
Why are you suddenly hosting these more frequently? What do these sessions bring to you?
Honestly, I don't get out that much. I'm pretty introverted and very, very, very private with my personal life. So this
is a way for me to engage socially and have fun and meet people and answer questions I never would
have come up with on my own. And to also turn the tables and have a chance to just riff since I'm
the one usually asking
questions. So I get a lot out of this. I really, really dig it. Thank you for asking and thank you
for joining. All right, there's some questions about psychedelics and psychosis, schizophrenia,
et cetera. I absolutely do not recommend psychedelics if you have had multiple psychotic episodes, or if you have history,
family history of schizophrenia or personal experiences with schizophrenia or multiple
personality disorder or anything like that. These compounds can absolutely, from what I've seen,
and also this is supported by some degree of the research, accelerate the
onset of some of these conditions or exacerbate the symptoms and severity of some of these
conditions. So I absolutely would suggest that people who are concerned about that not take
psychedelics. And with respect to my own manic depression or bipolar disorder,
I experience more symptomologically or sort of phenomenologically, although that's usually used
in the context of fancy papers in my life with respect to psychedelics. In terms of the presentation
of symptoms, I experience what resembles more major depressive disorder
or treatment-resistant depression.
I don't have much in terms of amplitude change
with manic episodes.
And I think the more you experience that,
the higher the danger or the greater the risks involved.
I am not suggesting that anyone with bipolar
should use psychedelics. I should not suggesting that anyone with bipolar should use psychedelics.
I should also note that I have access
to pretty much every one of the world's top experts
with respect to psychedelics.
Chances are that most people listening to me
do not have that degree of professional guidance and input.
So my suggestion would be
if you have pre-existing psychiatric conditions,
that you only use psychedelics in conjunction with advice from your psychiatrist and from your
medical doctor. And one first step there is to introduce them to How to Change Your Mind,
the book by Michael Pollan. And if they're willing to read that,
since I think also psychedelics represent the possible, I shouldn't say the future of psychiatry,
but a future paradigm that will dramatically change the nature of psychiatric treatment
and also overlap with, I think in some cases, medical treatment. If you look at some of
the beta carbolines in ayahuasca, for instance, like harming, I think there are tremendous
possible applications to what we might consider physiological illnesses, physical illnesses,
IBS, Crohn's, and so on, or neurological damage experienced by those who suffer from chronic depression, et cetera.
But this is all a very long way of saying, if you have a preexisting psychiatric condition,
do not use psychedelics without discussing this and without the support and guidance of
your psychiatrist, as well as your medical doctor, because whether you are on medication or not, there are significant risks. And if you swim a little closer to the bank of chaos and entropy than the bank of rigidity,
and I had a conversation with Graham Duncan about this on the podcast, but if you flow
in this direction, you can get yourself into a lot of trouble with psychedelics.
And my cousin by marriage actually used a lot of LSD when he was young. And there are some in the
family who think that that precipitated early onset of schizophrenic symptoms and is very,
very, very challenging. He's fortunately doing extremely well now, but these are things you
should be very careful with. So cautionary notes complete, but work with your psychiatrist and your doctor,
and you do need both. Okay. Let's take a look at some more of the live questions.
Ranjit Singh, am I still interested in Bitcoin crypto? Yes, I'm still very interested in crypto
and blockchain, although there is a sea of noise and garbage out there. All right, question here. What do you think
about the Inserto, or maybe it's Incherto, by Nassim Nicholas Taleb? I haven't read the Inserto
or Incherto. I'm not sure how to pronounce that, honestly. But I have read The Black Swan,
Fooled by Randomness, and some of his other writing, and I find it tremendously compelling. So I have not
dug into Incherto or the Incherto and Cerrito, so I have no opinion of that. But Anti-Fragile,
Fooled by Randomness, and The Black Swan, not necessarily in that order. I found all of them
to be very thought-provoking and worth reading. I don't say that lightly.
See what else we got. Actually, somebody pointed this out and I should highlight it. Kevin Rose also has a fantastic podcast called Modern Finance. I think it's modern.finance on the web.
You can find it wherever you find your podcasts. I think it's at modern underscore fi on Twitter, but it is exceptional with respect to
DeFi and new innovations in the world of finance, banking, money, et cetera.
Let me take a look at a few more of these and I'll probably hop off in maybe 15, 20 minutes,
if that's okay with you guys. Even if it's not okay with you guys, I'm going to do that.
All right. All right. Here's a good question. And it's, it's related to my disclaimer and warning earlier,
Linda E. Robledo. I found myself asking if the subconscious should always be examined if we are
functioning. Are we prepared to open Pandora's box with the use of psychedelic treatment options?
It seems very scary to me and not sure why. Will repression rear its ugly head later? This is a great question and commentary.
Always is a really strong word, and I think it's aptly used here.
So should we always examine the subconscious if we are functioning?
If you are highly functioning and things are going well, it would be hard for me to say
that you should automatically use psychedelics
or that you have to use psychedelics.
They are not a panacea.
There are risks involved.
And you can open up Pandora's box
and experience things that will require processing.
So if you don't have space in your life to do that,
if you don't have slack in the system to contend with material that might come up, then you should consider very carefully
whether or not this is a good time or if there is any good time for you to use these compounds.
I am not a messiah at all. I don't view myself as a hammer looking for nails with psychedelics. They are
contraindicated in many circumstances. They are extremely powerful. People who take them lightly
generally get punished. And you can have long-term consequences that are very difficult to resolve.
And if you're a cavalier with some of these
compounds, even if they have short duration in earth time, like 5-MeO-DMT and 15 minutes,
5 to 15 minutes, and people refer to it as the businessman's high and the businessman's trip,
this is a dramatic underestimation of just how destabilizing and reorienting or disorienting these compounds can be.
They're very, very powerful.
So I continue to feel that they are and will be as important, as Stan Grof has said,
as important to psychiatry and the understanding of the mind
as the microscope was to biology and the telescope was to astronomy.
I believe that.
I completely believe that,
both from firsthand experience and from the research and from anecdotal reports in great
numbers. And right along with that, you can inflict upon yourself instability or ontological
shock that is incredibly difficult to contend with. So I don't think that one should always
open up Pandora's box with these compounds, nor do I think that everyone should use them
even once. And for many of these reasons, I also think it's a great state of affairs and a great
place right now with respect to phase three trials to have MDMA-assisted psychotherapy
as the tip of the spear. Because MDMA is a compound in the right context with properly
trained therapists that is much easier to facilitate and to navigate, also to prepare
for and to integrate than classic psychedelics or novel, newer synthetic psychedelics.
So I'm very pleased that we will hopefully have time with larger numbers of patients
to refine the systems and the way in which these substances are administered, the way
that adverse events are dealt with with MDMA before even
psilocybin. I'm very, very pleased by that. Okay. Coming to next question. Casey Mercer,
what do you do to pattern interrupt when you notice you're slipping into a low point? I find
often that the fall gains momentum, and I would be curious how
to hedge against this. There are a couple of really simple things, and it's easy to neglect.
It's simple. The obvious seems perhaps less like a secret, because of course it isn't a secret.
But the fundamentals, I should say, exercise in the
morning, getting out in the sun first five to 20 minutes, putting off caffeine for 60 to 90 minutes.
So you don't over-caffeinate and therefore given the half-life and quarter-life of caffeine,
interrupt your sleep. Using different tools to improve your sleep quality and track your sleep
quality. You don't have to necessarily spend money on this, but eat sleep, for instance,
or a ring for tracking. These are things that I use.
Exercise, ensuring that you are exercising enough that you are physically tired when you get into bed. And then there are personally ways in which I microdose. I'm going to put psychedelics aside
because I don't want to give any prescriptive advice related to psychedelics. But you could
also microdose, as was recommended
to me by a very, very well-respected doctor I know. With the approval of your doctor,
I'm not providing medical advice, so please speak to your medical professional about this.
Low-dose lithium orotate, which I purchase on Amazon, and I take five milligrams before bed.
And if I'm starting to slip or feel like I might be slipping, I take five milligrams in the morning as well. That is not a monotherapy or high dose.
This is not lithium at 1500 milligrams or something like that. Lithium can produce
very significant side effects, especially in high doses. I take it at very low doses
to effectively mimic, or I should say,
enact the takeaways from an article I read a long time ago in the New York Times, which was sent to
me, called Something Like, you'll be able to find it, Maybe We All Just Need a Little Bit of Lithium.
It talked about the inverse correlation of groundwater lithium levels and hospital admissions of psychotic episodes, cause of death attributed to suicide,
things like that. But certainly read the article and speak to your medical professional.
But don't forget the basics. Exercise, sun, mitigating caffeine, cutting out alcohol.
That's a big one. And also cold exposure. There are, I think,
very legitimate reasons why back in the day, people like Van Gogh would be prescribed two
cold baths per day because it does have, at least in my case, significant antidepressant
effects and anxiolytic effects. That'd be anti-anxiety effects. So those are a few. Okay. Let me take a look here. Aha. So for clarity,
Tim, the Encherto, I'm assuming it's Encherto since he likes Italian, is the collection of
the following books, Fooled by Randomness, The Black Swan, Anti-Fragile. Some will include
Skin in the Game. Great. Then I'm a fan of the collection. There you have it. All right. Let me take a look
here. Lauren O'Brien has a question. Do you have plans to engage Congress in federal changes
related to psychedelics, or is that a longer-term objective once the science is solid? I will be
enabling other people to do both of these simultaneously. So the answer is both end.
I think that furthering the science
is critically important on many levels.
And then there's policy, legal,
and separately advocacy work that can be done
and education that can be done.
And thankfully there are some figures,
former political powerhouses and current, who are
very much paying attention to psychedelic therapies and how they can be applied to
certain populations who are politically immune in some respects, like veterans with complex PTSD.
And I'm absolutely fine, more than fine, with starting with that subpopulation because it's important to have defensive capabilities or, better yet, political immunity, meaning thatisman that enables them to further certain types
of investigation in a way that is very difficult otherwise. So I will be pursuing all of that.
And let me take a look here at two more. Here's a question. What's your favorite wrestling movie?
Did you ever watch Vision Quest? Oh yeah,
Vision Quest is fantastic. I mean, for people now, I think it's going to age probably quite
poorly. It's pretty cheeseball, but fantastic movie. I loved it when I saw it. My favorite
wrestling movie is a documentary called Dan Gable Competitor Supreme. And if you can find it,
that was my press play, watch to the end, and then start over and press play.
This was back when it was VHS.
And then later I got the DVD.
But Dan Gable, competitor supreme, is about Dan Gable,
one of the most dominant athletes of all time,
who, I'm going to get this wrong,
but he had a high school and college record
of something like 253 and zero.
And then in his, I want to say his last match in his last NCAA final,
he lost by one point.
And he was so upset by this that he trained seven hours a day,
seven days a week for the Munich Olympics and then won a gold medal.
I want to say without having a single point scored on him. Now that's enough to make you a legend. But then
Dan Gable went on to become a coach and to become, I don't know now, there are John Smith and there
are many other coaches who have done amazing, amazing things. So I'm not sure if this still
stands, but certainly for a while, he was one of the most dominant coaches, not just in wrestling, but in any sport. He produced just an endless string of
championships and champions. So Dan Gable, competitor supreme. I haven't seen it in many
years, but if you have a chance to watch it, check it out and let me know what you think.
It's intense and it's great. I really, really, really enjoyed it. All right. Jonas K,
what gets most people the most bang for the buck in terms of time management when you exceed 200K
annual income? Example given, executive assistants. Whether it's 200K or less or more, I think it
becomes increasingly important to revisit certain concepts. And the way I do that is through books.
So The Effective Executive by Peter Drucker. Read that. Read it at least once a year.
Essentialism by Greg McKeown. Read that. Highlight it. Highlight it on a Kindle so
you can export your highlights and then review your highlights. Another would be the 80-20
principle. And if you're so inclined, the four-hour workweek,
because there's a certain synthesis of a lot of those in the four-hour workweek. But I don't read
my own book because that would be fucking bizarre. So I don't read my own book. It'd be really,
really strange to be spotted walking around reading my own book at restaurants and so on.
So I read, and that's not the only reason. I mean, I already know that content. So I'm going back to catch things that perhaps I didn't catch the first time or to
review my own highlights in all of those books. Those are a few. All right. Two more questions
from the submitted questions. It's from Michael Friedman or Fridman. Could you please give some
examples about how having a sleep
tracker helped improve your sleep? I'm on the fence about buying the one that you have had for
a while and a little push would be great. Thanks a lot for all your amazing work. I've been a huge
fan for over 10 plus years. Thank you, Michael. For most people who use a sleep tracker, many of
the takeaways will be obvious. So if you use say Oura Ring, which I still use because I do constant
experimentation and I like to see what happens. For instance, without the Oura Ring, I would not have realized that if I have a sauna right before bed or too late at night., a few hours before dinner, it dramatically improves HRV for
the next day or two. Also, something that nearly everyone will see is that two or more alcoholic
drinks, if you're drinking stiff drinks like gin and soda, as I often do, might be only one drink,
dramatically damages your sleep quality. And for me, that's especially true of deep sleep.
And I find that to be valuable as a reminder, even though it is obvious. And it makes self-denial
or denial of that very, very hard. And I would say that overall, the main benefit of wearing a
tracker is it makes you more aware of your sleep and it facilitates,
it encourages paying more attention to your sleep. So honestly, even if the only thing I got from
wearing an Oura Ring was seeing it on my hand and thinking about my sleep and knowing that I
shouldn't have that second glass of wine or that second gin and soda or whatever the alcoholic beverage might be,
it would pay for itself a thousand times over in my life. And there are certainly other devices,
but eight sleep helps to track. It also helps to modify because of the way that it provides
cooling and heating, depending on the zone on the bed. There are other options, of course.
And then you have many different tracking devices. My favorite being the Aura,
O-U-R-A ring. But could you improve your sleep? Could you become aware of these things without those? Yes. Can you modify? Yes, you can still modify your sleep, but there's certain things
technically that are a lot easier with something like Eight Sleep or the Chili Pad, things of that
type. All right, I'm going to do one more.
Wesley Arai, you're highly efficient
and seem to be knowledgeable about everything you do.
Is there anything that you do that you just say,
F it and do it willy-nilly?
That's a good question.
So first of all, I'm picking the questions that I answer.
So that creates the illusion
that I'm knowledgeable about everything that I do.
So I'm curating these questions. I'm not answering the questions that would leave me stuttering and giving nonsense
answers or making things up. So that's an illusion. I appreciate the comment nonetheless.
Is there anything that I do just to say, fuck it and do it willy nilly? Yeah. Tons of stuff.
There's lots of stuff all over the place so if you know i went boating recently
tried to learn how to sail didn't know what i was doing at all but i had a great time you know i had
a few drinks with friends on the water and it was it was fantastic had a lot of fun so when i am
invited to do new things i'm constantly just saying fuck it playing with new instruments
musical instruments fuck it let's play around right I'm not putting it into some DSSS
framework and sitting down and saying, hold on, hold on. I'm not going to jam with you guys.
Give me two hours to figure this out and watch YouTube videos. I'm not doing that.
And it might be the only time that I play around, but I do certainly play around. And it's important
to me for my personal growth that I do more of that. So thank you for the reminder. And the last question,
this is going to be the last one because I think it's a good one to end on. This is from Brandon
Beckett. I practice mindfulness and gratitude, but still can't find a way to temper my drive,
feel satisfied and enjoy the present moment. How do I slow down and enjoy life again without being
so focused on the future? Okay. So if I take a look at this, there are two
things that jump out at me. And the first is you say, and enjoy life again. What that implies to me
is that you have enjoyed life before. In other words, what you're striving to be able to do,
you've already done at some point. So I think journaling on that, even if it's several days in a row in the morning,
longhand, stream of consciousness, something along the lines of morning pages, and I suggest you just
look up my name in morning pages, and that'll give you a lot on how I think about these things and
use these things. That would be step number one.
Although this can be done simultaneously with step number two, which is really simple.
Read an article called The Tail End by Tim Urban. So Tim Urban has a blog, although
calling it a blog seems to not give it sufficient gravitas. His website is called
WaitButWhy, and you can find it, WaitButWhy, spelled out, WaitButWHY.com. And there's an
article called The Tail End, which everyone should read. And that was introduced to me by Matt Mullenweg.
And it really changed how I look at the world and how I look at my life because it shares with you
multiple ways of visualizing your remaining time on the planet visually, your remaining time with
loved ones visually. And it is a gut punch. It is a sober and catalyzing reminder. It is very short
as an article. And I have read that probably 20 times. It is incredibly good. It's so good that I
believe that Tim Urban very graciously allowed me to reproduce it in either Tools of Titans or Tribe of Mentors.
That is how strongly I felt about it. But you must, if you have not, read The Tail End by Tim
Urban. And if you've read it, print it out, read it again, read it every morning. It is that powerful.
And with that, I will wish you all a wonderful week and a wonderful weekend. Thank you
for joining everyone. This has been a lot of fun for me, so hopefully it's been fun for other
people as well. And let's do this again. Tea time with Tim is my tea time with all of you,
and I enjoy it very, very much. I will include links to
everything discussed in the show notes, which people can find when this is published at
tim.blog forward slash podcast. And until next time, thank you for tuning in. Be safe,
experiment constantly. And I don't mean necessarily with drugs. I mean with behaviors,
with getting sun in the morning, with trying cold exposure and accepting what you find useful,
rejecting what you find useless, and adding what is uniquely your own a la Bruce Lee.
Baby steps, baby steps. That is from What About Bob? One of the greatest philosophical movies of all time.
And with that, I bid you adieu.
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strange esoteric things end up in my field, and then I test them, and then I share them with you.
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