The Tim Ferriss Show - #677: HERESIES — Exploring Animal Communication, Cloning Humans, The Dangers of The American Dream, and More
Episode Date: June 14, 2023Brought to you by Wealthfront high-yield savings account, AG1 all-in-one nutritional supplement, and Helix Sleep premium mattresses. Welcome to another episode of The Tim ...Ferriss Show. I'm very excited to publish this episode. This is an experimental format, and we are calling it HERESIES.The objective of this format is to encourage and celebrate independent thinking. Please enjoy!Bios of the co-hosts and guests:Kevin Kelly (@kevin2kelly) helped launch and edit Wired magazine. He has written for The New York Times, and The Wall Street Journal, among many other publications. You can find my most recent interview with him at tim.blog/kevinkelly. He is the author of the new book Excellent Advice for Living: Wisdom I Wish I’d Known Earlier. Other books by Kevin Kelly include Out of Control, the 1994 classic book on decentralized emergent systems; The Silver Cord, a graphic novel about robots and angels; What Technology Wants, a robust theory of technology; Vanishing Asia, his 50-year project to photograph the disappearing cultures of Asia, and The Inevitable: Understanding the 12 Technological Forces That Will Shape Our Future, a New York Times bestseller.Kevin is currently co-chair of The Long Now Foundation, which is building a clock in a mountain that will tick for 10,000 years. He also has a daily blog; a weekly podcast about cool tools; and a weekly newsletter, Recomendo, which is a free, one-page list of six very brief recommendations of cool stuff. He is also a Senior Maverick at Wired. He lives in Pacifica, California.****Noah Feldman (@NoahRFeldman) is a Harvard professor, ethical philosopher and advisor, public intellectual, religious scholar and historian, and author of 10 books, including his latest, The Broken Constitution: Lincoln, Slavery, and the Refounding of America. You can find my interview with him at tim.blog/noah.Noah is the founder of Ethical Compass, which helps clients like Facebook and eBay improve ethical decision-making by creating and implementing new governance solutions. Noah conceived and designed the Facebook Oversight Board and continues to advise Facebook on ethics and governance issues.Noah is host of the Deep Background podcast, a policy and public affairs columnist for Bloomberg Opinion, and a former contributing writer for The New York Times. He served as senior constitutional advisor to the Coalition Provisional Authority in Iraq and subsequently advised members of the Iraqi Governing Council on the drafting of Iraq’s interim constitution.He earned his A.B. summa cum laude from Harvard, finishing first in his class. Selected as a Rhodes Scholar, he earned a DPhil from Oxford University, writing his dissertation on Aristotle’s Ethics. He received his J.D. from Yale Law School and clerked for Justice David Souter of the U.S. Supreme Court.He is the author of 10 books, including Divided by God: America’s Church-State Problem—and What We Should Do About It; What We Owe Iraq: War and the Ethics of Nation Building; Cool War: The United States, China, and the Future of Global Competition; Scorpions: The Battles and Triumphs of FDR’s Great Supreme Court Justices; and The Three Lives of James Madison: Genius, Partisan, President.His upcoming book is Bad Jew: A Perplexed Guide to God, Israel, and the Jewish People, which is currently available for pre-order.***Maggie Spivey-Faulkner is an anthropological archaeologist and practitioner of Indigenous archaeology, currently working as an assistant professor in the Department of Anthropology at the University of Alberta. She also serves as an assistant chief of the Upper Georgia tribal town of the Pee Dee Indian Nation of Beaver Creek, a state-recognized Native American group in South Carolina. Her work focuses on using anthropological data to upend harmful misconceptions of Native American peoples embedded in public policy, science, and the public consciousness.Maggie was raised in a tight-knit extended family in rural Hephzibah, Georgia. She is an international fellow of The Explorers Club, a former junior fellow of the Harvard Society of Fellows, and a recipient of the National Science Foundation Graduate Research Fellowship. She received her Ph.D. in anthropology from Washington University in St. Louis in 2018 and her A.B. from Harvard College in 2008. ***Joshua L. Steiner is a partner at SSW, a private investment firm, and a senior adviser at Bloomberg, L.P., where he was previously Head of Industry Verticals. Prior to joining Bloomberg, Steiner co-founded and was co-president of Quadrangle Group, LLC, a private equity and asset management firm. Before co-founding Quadrangle, he was a managing director at Lazard. From 1993 to 1995 he served as chief of staff for the U.S. Department of the Treasury.He serves on the boards of Yale University, the International Rescue Committee, and the SNF Agora Institute at Johns Hopkins University. Steiner received a B.A. in history from Yale and an M.St. in modern history from Oxford University.***This episode is brought to you by AG1! I get asked all the time, “If you could use only one supplement, what would it be?” My answer is usually AG1, my all-in-one nutritional insurance. I recommended it in The 4-Hour Body in 2010 and did not get paid to do so. I do my best with nutrient-dense meals, of course, but AG1 further covers my bases with vitamins, minerals, and whole-food-sourced micronutrients that support gut health and the immune system. 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Hello boys and girls, ladies and germs. This is Tim Ferriss and welcome to another episode
of the Tim Ferriss Show. I'm very excited to publish this episode. This is an experimental
format, and we are calling it heresies. And the objective of this format, which is a group format,
is to encourage and celebrate independent thinking. And I was introduced to this
by Kevin Kelly, who hosts many Jeffersonian-style conversations where there's only one conversation per group.
And there are many reasons why I wanted to do this podcast. Number one, it's just a lot of fun,
and people get fired up quite quickly. So it starts a little slow in this episode,
and then things get moving very, very quickly. But more important, it honors the worth of holding a belief that you did not inherit.
So most remarkable people, most amazing people I have met inevitably have some very, very unusual
beliefs. And I think that is worth fostering so that you can be the author of your own beliefs,
even when they are, maybe especially when they are unpopular. Number two, just because people
agree on many things does not mean just because people agree on many things
does not mean they have to agree on all things. You can have close friends and disagree intensely
on certain things. Learning to work with unconventional beliefs in others is, I think,
one of the most important skills that individuals need. And even if you just want to, in self-interest, perform better,
get more done, I think this is important. And furthermore, I think as a society, this is
incredibly, incredibly critical and could not come at a more critical time.
Number three, practicing independent thinking is a skill. It can be improved. It is not just
inherited. It's not like height or something like that.
And as you listen, and we will reiterate this in the conversation,
recognize that there is an art not just to having and sharing a heresy, but in hearing one.
Okay, so there are two crafts, two arts, two skills that you can develop,
hopefully, in listening to these conversations. One is developing and sharing
heresies, unpopular beliefs, but also in hearing one, stress testing one, having a civil disagreement
about one. You can become a better listener of heresies by reserving your judgment as long as
possible and amplifying your curiosity and effort to understand. As one of the guests today will say, try to be curious, not furious. We'll see how that goes.
Sometimes the gloves come off in this one. So with all of that said, let me get to the guests,
and it'll take a minute, but then we will hop right into the conversation.
The first guest is Maggie Spivey Faulkner. She is an
anthropological archaeologist and practitioner of indigenous archaeology, currently working as an
assistant professor in the Department of Anthropology at the University of Alberta.
She also serves as an assistant chief of the Upper Georgia tribal town of the Pee Dee Indian
Nation of Beaver Creek, a state-recognized Native American group in South Carolina. Her work focuses on using anthropological data to upend harmful misconceptions of Native
American peoples embedded in public policy, science, and the public consciousness.
Maggie was raised in a tight-knit extended family in rural Hefzibah, Georgia. She is an
international fellow of the Explorers Club, a former junior fellow of the Harvard Society of Fellows, and a recipient of the National Science Foundation Graduate Research
Fellowship. She received her PhD in anthropology from Washington University in St. Louis in 2018
and her AB from Harvard College in 2008. Joshua L. Steiner is a partner at SSW,
a private investment firm, and a senior advisor at Bloomberg LP,
where he was previously head of industry verticals. Prior to joining Bloomberg,
Steiner co-founded and was co-president of Quadrangle Group LLC, a private equity and
asset management firm. And before co-founding Quadrangle, he was a managing director at Lazard.
From 1993 to 1995, he served as chief of staff for the U.S. Department of the Treasury.
He serves on the boards of Yale University, the International Rescue Committee, and the SNF Agora Institute
at Johns Hopkins University. Kevin Kelly, you can find him on Twitter at Kevin, the number two
Kelly, helped launch and edit Wired Magazine. He has written for the New York Times and the
Wall Street Journal, among many other publications. You can find my most recent interview with him at tim.blog slash kevinkelly. He's been on the podcast quite a bit and is
arguably the most interesting man in the world, but I'll leave that for another time. He is the
author of the new book, Excellent Advice for Living, Wisdom I Wish I'd Known Earlier. It is
a great book. I literally have it in my suitcase right next to me here in my hotel room. Kevin is
currently co-chair of the Long Now Foundation, which is building a clock in a
mountain that will tick for 10,000 years.
That is not made up.
That is a real thing.
He also has a daily blog, a weekly podcast about cool tools, a weekly newsletter, Recommendo,
which is a free one-page list of six very brief recommendations of cool stuff.
Last but not least, Noah Feldman, who will be my ongoing co-host,
at least that is the plan. You can find him on Twitter, at Noah R. Feldman is a Harvard professor,
ethical philosopher, and advisor, public intellectual, rigorous scholar, and historian,
rigorous, religious scholar and historian. He's also a rigorous scholar and historian,
and author of 10 books, including his latest, The Broken Constitution, Lincoln, Slavery, and the Refounding of America. You can find my interview
with him at tim.blog slash Noah. His upcoming book is Bad Jew, subtitled A Perplexed Guide to
God, Israel, and the Jewish People, which is currently available for pre-order. So with all
of that said, I'll leave my bio for another time. Please enjoy this very wide-ranging, sometimes very hot conversation in this new format, Heresies.
We are locked and loaded and ready to go. So this is intended to be fun. It's an experimental
format. It will get in front of interesting people. So let's just have a good time with it. And if we need to zig and zag as the format settles, we'll zig and zag.
With that, Kevin, do you want to take a deep breath and lead us in?
There's lots of definitions for heresy, but one that I like to use and ask people about
is what's something that you believe that the people that you most admire don't believe and might
even find shocking.
And to be a true heresy in this sense, it has to be something that's not just necessarily
an unpopular idea, but it's an unpopular idea among the people that you hang out with in
your circle, the people that you most respect for.
And we're not right now going to try and uncover
some heresies, and they should be, in some senses, things that you think that the rest of us here,
the other four of us, probably don't believe and might also find hard to believe. And then
we'll kind of go through and see if we can maybe change some people's minds and see if there's a
way in which we can kind of understand it. And the whole purpose, I think, of this exercise is,
in some ways, is to cultivate independent thinking. Because if you have a heresy in this
definition, that means you kind of arrived at it on your own. It wasn't something that you inherited
because you inherit the things around you. It wasn't something that you inherited because you inherit the things
around you. It would be things that you absorbed, things that you didn't really think about.
So in order to arrive at something that the people around you also find weird, odd,
or hard to believe, you've probably had to arrive at it on your own. So we're trying to cultivate
that skill and celebrate that skill of trying to have some sense of
independent thinking and not necessarily just inheriting or absorbing the ideas.
And so, one of the things that we'll first do with it is I found in doing this numbers of times that
it's good to kind of try to help collectively refine the actual statement of the heresy to put it in
a form that makes it easy to see its orthogonal relationship with everything else that we believe.
So, what I'd like to do is to go around and each one of us can present a heresy that they
believe and then we'll examine it and see if we can understand it first, and then see where it sits into our own beliefs.
We're just an experiment, as Tim says, and we don't know where this is going to go.
We've done this in small groups, like dinners.
This is a public version of it.
We'll see what happens. So, we don't have an order in mind, but Josh, would you like to suggest a heresy that you think the rest of us would have trouble believing?
Happy to do it, although I have to say going first is no great gift. Thank you, Kevin. I feel like part of the heresy probably should be disagreeing with part of the premise.
Which premise? The premise of the heresies?
The definition. So, you know, you said that the people you most admire would disagree with you.
I'm going to talk about something where I would say the person I admire most and with whom I'm
closest, my wife, has persuaded me that it's something I now believe that I did not believe,
but consistent with your point of view that many people probably don't think.
So, do you think that the rest of us would also find this heretical?
Only one way to find out.
I don't know. Only one way to find out. I'm going to try it out on you.
But you suspect that.
Well, I suspect it's definitely heretical relative to the teaching and training that
most of you got during your educations. Now, whether you've overcome that education in ways
that might make you open
to this idea, that I don't know because I don't know you. I'm hopeful that it will be at least
stimulating and interesting. I'm eager to get invited back. So if it's a disaster, I will have
failed. Okay, that's a great setup. Okay, so what's there? Let me start with a little hypothetical.
You know, you have a friend who comes back from a date. And how many times have you heard her say the date was a disaster?
The guy I was out with, he just listened too carefully.
Or how many times have you heard about a couple that are breaking up?
And, you know, say, why did those guys break up?
And your friend says, well, the couple broke up because they just listened to each other too carefully.
My hypothesis is you've never heard either of those statements.
We've all had friends who come back from a date and said, that guy just would not stop talking.
Or you've heard about couples and all they did for many, many years was argue with each other.
And why is that?
Well, at least one reason, I think, is that we spend a disproportionate amount of time during all of our educational lives being taught two things.
We get taught how to speak publicly, and we get taught how to debate. And yet, if you think about
what forms the core of most meaningful relationships, it's the ability to listen.
And we somehow have this notion that listening is an inherited skill, that someone's intuitively a
good listener or not. So, my heretical idea is we need to
de-emphasize and stop spending so much time teaching people how to debate and spend a lot
more time teaching people how to listen. Well, that's predicated on the idea that
talking isn't listening. Well, I would definitely say talking is not listening,
and listening is not waiting to talk. So, I think
many people think that the premise of listening is just waiting your turn, and I think part of
the argument I'd like to make is that there are lots of teachable skills around listening which
make people better able to understand differences, demonstrate empathy, and have the capacity
actually to learn in ways that just teaching debating does
not. So let me hop in for a second. I want you to potentially push back. I would say, though,
it is on topic in the sense that in our back and forth about this episode, the point has come up
strongly that speaking heresies is one thing, but developing the ability to listen to heresies
is also important. So it is sort of compatible in a sense, which maybe means it doesn't fit into the
heretical bucket. But how do you feel, Kevin? I'm in total agreement. I think listening is a
superpower. I just did this book of advice, and that was one of the main topics, was that active
listening, which is an important,
I would say, caveat, that it's an active listening rather than just a passive listening,
that is the superpower. So, others? Noah, did you have any comments about this heresy?
Yeah, I mean, I think it's an interesting form of a heresy, and I think it is a heresy,
because it's a heresy that it's
hard to disagree with without sounding like an asshole. Can I say that word on your podcast?
Yeah, you can. Absolutely. I'm from Long Island. You can say whatever you want.
There you go. So when someone says, yeah, we really need to learn to listen more,
and I'm sure every person in my life would agree that what Josh said is exactly what I need to
hear. But I do kind of have an instinct to want to say, yeah, no,
you can't really teach somebody to listen well. You could teach them passive listening by making
them spit back what they've heard, but we all agree that that's not that useful a skill.
You can teach them tricks like, I will mirror back to you what you've said so that you have
the experience of feeling properly listened to. And we probably all,
at least those of us of a certain age, have gotten some training in that, whether we liked it or not,
maybe from a romantic partner. But even that's not really listening. I mean, really listening
requires being genuinely open to the other person's experience. And when you just at a deep level don't think their experience matches reality
or you think that their opinion is just so flat out wrong, sure you can teach yourself to listen,
to get inside their head, to convince them that they're wrong. And sure you can learn to listen
because it's a really useful tool to get ahead in life. I think the heresy, if I hear it right, Josh, is not for those reasons.
Not instrumental listening to get something, but there's inherent deep value in listening
to other people.
And I think that's probably true, but I'm not sure you can really train people to do that.
It's like training people and being open-minded.
I mean, maybe you can do it, but it seems very, very difficult to figure out how.
Just to jump in for a sec, Noah, I think you were making two different points. One is whether,
in fact, it's possible to teach something like listening in a way that won't come across as
superficial. That was the first point about mirroring. We'll come back to that. The second
point I think you were making was that, in fact, just listening actually is an understanding.
And understanding is different from listening.
Are those the two points that you were making?
Yeah, I think so.
And the third maybe is that really listening might be something that you can't teach, that you just have to make your way through life and get experience, but that formally teaching it wouldn't do us much good. Now ask yourself, Noah, your reaction to what I put back to you,
where I was demonstrating that I actually had heard you and that I was paying attention to
what you said, as opposed to what might have been my natural inclination to say, Noah, you're a law
professor, you're used to lecturing people. The fact that you may have the incapacity to listen
probably doesn't mean this is a bad idea. That would be
an alternative response and probably somewhat less productive. No, I think it's way better.
I actually think it's way better. If I was debating you, that might have been my response.
And so I think what I'm getting at is, first of all, on your two points, I don't think I agree
with the first one. The fact that something might seem superficial when you first try it doesn't
mean that it can't permeate in a way
that will fundamentally change your behavior. So, picking up on Kevin's point, one of the skills of
active listening certainly is mirroring, but that is, you said, a relatively superficial tool when
it's first practiced. Your second point about the difference between listening and understanding,
I think, is more complicated and harder, but the process of doing that does teach one empathy. You know, the line I like, which I think is very helpful, is curious, not
furious. If your first reaction to hearing someone, even to your point, someone with whom you disagree
quite profoundly, is to be furious, it's very unlikely you're ever going to get to a point of
empathy or the ability to understand what she might think.
If you're curious, on the other hand, if you go through a process of asking questions,
I think that is a skill that ultimately will allow you to actually develop some empathy,
to develop some understanding, even with people with whom you disagree quite profoundly.
I wanted to ask Noah the third point, just to clarify so I understood. When you said that you didn't think, we'll call this maybe a sophisticated level of listening,
as something that isn't teachable, do you mean that a person could not improve their
ability to do it?
Or just that when you say teaching, do you mean like in an educational formal context?
Or are you saying that they can't actually improve it?
Definitely people can get better at
listening and they can also get better at understanding over time. You can also train
yourself to greater empathy, I suspect. I think Josh is right about that too. What I'm thinking
about is what most education looks like where we say, okay, now we're going to start training people
in listening. Some kind of a formal process where you try to make people listen.
I mean, look, as Josh pointed out, I teach constitutional law for a living. So basically
what I do all day every day is I go into a classroom and I point at kids and I ask them,
well, they're young adults, and ask them to speak. And then I ask everybody else to listen to them
and respond to them. And if I'm doing my job right, I don't have to say anything. When it works well,
it's them all listening and having a conversation with each other. So yeah, I do believe that it's
possible to train them and to train ourselves in that kind of listening. What I'm kind of dreading
is the industry that in Josh's utopia we have, where we're all subjected to trainings on how
to listen. And maybe that's just my allergy to trainings in general,
which is maybe it's not a heresy.
It's like the opposite of heresy.
Most people don't love trainings.
Is that it would just, I feel, very quickly devolve
into one of the things we don't want.
You know, the spitting back or the mirroring or the,
I mean, those are all fine techniques,
but they're not genuine listening.
I wanted to just get some other people in this. So, Maggie or Tim,
did you have anything to add to this?
Yeah. I mean, I think that, let's hear, a lot of the times I speak anecdotally,
right? I'm not from the same culture y'all are from. And the way that listening is modeled
in the cultures that it appears y'all grew up in. It's not what listening
looks like in other cultures anywhere else on earth, right? So for example, how do I say this
without getting myself in trouble? When I hang out with my mother-in-law, she listens. She's been
trained to listen. It turns into a little bit of an interrogation. You keep asking more and more questions of the same person and you dig down, dig down,
dig down, but there's no sharing of yourself there.
So how do you even know that that information is being consumed and understood and internalized?
Or is this like an algorithmic performance?
As opposed to in my culture, when you listen to someone,
the way that you show that you understand and relate is that you respond back with an anecdote
and story from your own life that illustrates the same point. And if you're not used to that
structure, it sounds like you're full of yourself. It sounds like you're trying to dominate the
conversation with your own bullshit. But in reality, what you're showing is you're relating.
You deeply understand the topic at hand because you're like, I have had a similar experience.
And a conversation predicated on that concept of listening sounds like two people who aren't even having the same conversation to someone from like-class America. So I think that that's the tough thing here,
is that the way that we are acculturated to converse and listen isn't uniform,
even in the United States, much less worldwide. So I don't know how applicable
this type of, like Noah says, training or whatever intervention would actually be. That's my take.
And Tim, what's your response to this heresy?
I'm just enjoying how quickly this all got fired up. I was eager to see where it would go. So,
I'm just enjoying the initial fireworks. I would say that I am inclined to ask Josh more questions
because I heard Noah, who's good at sparring too, he said in Josh's
Utopia, and I was like, well, wait a second. Is that Josh's Utopia? Maybe we should clarify
what Josh means. And specifically, since this is my job as the prescriptive podcaster, I suppose.
Maybe it's Thomas Moore's Utopia.
My inclination is also just to say, all right, well, let's take the broader statements and
maybe refine it down to Josh's personal experience.
Coming back to this sharing of anecdotes, it doesn't need to be some RCT.
In your experience, Josh, since you've changed your mind on this, it seems, what have you found most helpful to
help to inform the experience of genuine listening on the part of people you're having conversations
with? So to your point, Tim, my experience is deeply formed by my wife's experience. And so
I recognize that runs a little contrary to Kevin's original point.
My wife started out as a nonprofit litigator representing survivors of interpersonal violence,
and she would go to court and have horrible case after horrible case. And she did an amazing job
representing these women who were facing just unbearable personal situations. And after years
and years of that, she found it difficult.
And there's a lot of vicarious trauma in that profession. And she ultimately migrated and got
retrained as a mediator, where she now helps low-income couples avoid court and work through
mediation on orders of custody and separation. And through that process, she went from being a really
hard-edged, although she's a very deeply empathetic person, but a need to have a really tough near because she was a litigator, to being retrained as a mediator.
And she would come home after three days of training, and I would get really helpful instruction.
And I would say that I started someplace like NOAA or maybe even further from NOAA on this whole subject. And I think it may
have reflected my own personal experience like NOAA with some corporate institutional type
trainings, which made me skeptical about whether in fact these things could be done. And just
listening to Antoinette week after week, year after year, and watching her and seeing how she
demonstrated it was super compelling. And it totally changed
the nature of our interaction. And it totally changed the way I try to work in my professional
life as well. It was as profound as anything else I had been taught in my professional life. And I
learned it at home in our kitchen. So I think I feel it so strongly, partly because I learned
from a woman I admire and it changed my life quite directly.
Y'all are straw man and Noah, okay?
It's okay. That's my job.
Josh, what's an example of a technique that you learned that was really helpful?
I think a lot of it has to do, Kevin, actually with what you were talking
about in terms of active listening. And for me, the piece that is hardest, and I wish I were a
lot better at it, and I'm quite confident over the course of this podcast, I'll demonstrate that I
haven't learned it as effectively as I should have. And that's the difficulty, of course, with this
topic. Because you guys are all looking at me like, doesn't look like he's learned that much
on this. Maybe he should go back to school. But I think the piece that's most effective and has helped me the most, and as I said, it's
really not just in the context of our relationship, but with our friendships and at work, is trying to
come at these conversations from a place of empathy and really asking myself why. Why is this person
reacting in the way that she is? Why is this guy so angry? What is upsetting
her? What is upsetting him? What is the underlying root? And there's an expression in this area,
which is going down the V, which is to say, you have to go down and understand the root of the
issue and try to come at it from a place of empathy. And if you can do those things, your
capacity to hear, to listen, to adjust is likely to be increased. To Noah's point,
often one won't agree, right? This isn't about saying we all need to get along. This isn't about
necessarily always cooperating. There are things out there in the world about which I feel
very strongly, and I'm totally antithetical to my belief system. This is about having the capacity,
at least, of having some empathy. I just also want to pick up on Maggie's point quickly. I totally agree with you, Maggie. There is not a one-size-fits-all to this.
And, you know, what you described in terms of sharing anecdote sounds lovely. The version of
that that operates in New York is horrible. You go out to lunch with a guy and you say,
my daughter's not feeling great for X, Y, and reasons. And he immediately responds by saying,
my daughter's got the same
problem. It's like, that's not really demonstrating empathy. That's just talking about yourself.
So I think it's got to be done in a way that is appropriate for the community in which it's
being taught. Yeah. I don't know nothing about New York, to be fair.
Maggie, can I ask you a question? When you were talking about, you belong to multiple overlapping
cultures, I guess we all do. When you talked about your culture where the appropriate response is to say, I've had a similar experience, which of your cultures were you talking about? speak where I'm from in around Hepzibah, Georgia. This is like deep rural built in place,
Southeastern stuff. And to the point that, you know, after how many years I've been gone from
home and kind of trained in this other way of being polite, you know, with the air quotes and
everything. I remember going back home and having a conversation with my mom and my papa and his wife, my step grandmother.
And they just looked at me like I was an alien.
We were trying to have a conversation and I was like asking questions.
And she was just looking at me like I'd grown a third head.
And I was like, oh, all right.
I've been led astray.
This isn't about politeness.
It's a cultural thing. And when you live in a liminal cultural space like I constantly do,
where you've got all these weird overlapping cultures that are hard to disarticulate,
sometimes you get slapped in the face with reality like that.
Sure. Is there anything else we want to add to Josh's heresy before we maybe move on to another
one? I think it was a great starting
place. Yeah. I'll let you court it back as you see fit. Okay. So Noah, would you like to volunteer
a heresy that you have and subject it to the group? Sure. It's always hard to narrow down
the things you think that the people around you think are terrible, because I got a lot of them.
They're not terrible. It's just that we don't believe. So I'm going to take one that comes from my professional sphere, but it's a professional
sphere that a lot of people care about, which is constitutions, broadly speaking.
Okay.
Intentional agreements between people to do something a certain way.
And my heresy is that written constitutions are seriously overrated.
Okay.
And this is coming from somebody who's devoted most of my life to studying mostly written
constitutions, and no one will let me try to help people write them.
So it's like a self-harming heresy.
And just to articulate why I think it—
The best ones.
Yeah, it's the best kind, right?
Is that we think that if we have an agreement written down between us, and this
is not only at the constitutional level, but it could be like an agreement with your partner,
or an agreement with your business partner.
Like a contract.
Like a contract.
We think, well, we have a contract, it's written down.
And because it's written down, we're going to keep it, because there's some consequence
if we don't keep it.
And we also think that we'll both know what the agreement is because we can look at the piece of paper that
it's written on. And all of those propositions turn out, when you look at them more closely,
to be false. You're keeping the agreement because you each think it's worth keeping the agreement
at a given moment. And you might change your minds about that. And you might break the agreement
without telling the other person. Or you might jointly decide to change it without bothering to change the writing. If you think someone's
breaking their promise to you and you say, hey, look at this piece of paper where you wrote down
their promise, that'll basically never get them to do the thing you want them to do.
And the whole approach forgets that it overemphasizes the idea that language is clear,
which it isn't, and it overemphasizes the idea that language is clear, which it isn't. And it
overemphasizes the idea that if we've agreed to something at one moment, we're stuck with that
thing forever. We're not. And in the case of a country, if we ran the country the way the
Constitution of 1787 was written, we'd still have to be living like it was 1787. And that's not
viable. And we actually don't amend our
constitution barely ever in the United States. We just change what it means by a whole complicated
set of processes, some official and some unofficial. And so now if you look at the
written constitution, it doesn't really bear any relationship to what it was supposed to be
originally. And that's fine. What that shows you is, what if we hadn't written it down at all?
You know, what if we had just agreed to live together as a community and work things out as we went?
That would have been closer to what it's like to be married to somebody or to be in a long-term
business relationship with somebody where you're constantly modifying and altering and
shifting and changing.
So the heresy is that we think this is so great.
And we think it because we've been patting ourselves
on the back and saying that in the US for 200 plus years. And really, here's the kicker.
When we wrote down our constitution in the US, basically no one else had ever had a written
constitution. And now, almost every country in the world has a written constitution,
which means we've convinced people all over the world, basically with the exception of
Great Britain and Saudi Arabia, that this is the greatest thing since sliced bread, and you have to have one. If you want
to be a democracy, you've got to have this. So we've convinced everybody of this idea that
it's verging on bullshit. It doesn't map reality. And so I think that's, you know,
it's not something that the people around me would agree with at all. And, you know,
they've got a million good arguments about why I'm wrong, and I'd love to hear how you guys react to it.
So the heresy is that written constitutions are overrated. So what's the alternative to it that's
underrated? And actually, if I may jump in, and maybe know if you'd be able to use a real-world
example, like you mentioned the UK, perhaps that's a good counterpoint.
Speaking as someone who's really not familiar with the inner workings and the way that you are,
the question of what the alternative would be is interesting. And maybe leading into that,
you could just say, when you developed this heresy for yourself, has this been something
that you've believed for 15 years? This is the last five years, what led to it, and then
what would be an example of an alternative?
Because speaking as an idiot who doesn't know anything about these things, I have all these
board games laying around.
You open the board game, what's the first thing you do?
You figure out the rules.
And that keeps everybody on the same page.
So to my knuckle-dragging Long Island self, I'm like, well, if you don't have a set of
written down rules, wouldn't it just be complete chaos, especially in the US with a bunch of separate states and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
Is it chaos when you play pool?
Not if you agree on the rules in advance.
That's a good question.
Yeah, fair enough.
As long as you agree in some form in advance, not necessarily.
Depends on the number of drinks I've had.
But yeah, it's generally okay.
Noah.
It's something I came to very, very slowly because like you, I always thought we need
the rules and I cared about it enough to go into this as my living.
So I definitely was not an early life realization.
I think I had way too much faith in the idea of stuff being written down.
And I think the way I came to it was by actually being in the middle of processes where people
were writing down rules from scratch, as they were making up the rules of the board game in Iraq and in Tunisia, and
realizing that actually nobody necessarily intends to follow the rules the way they're written down.
They just see the rules as kind of a vague suggestion that will ultimately come to be
distorted, changed, played around with. I used to think that was a bad thing. And I came to see
that that was a good thing. And then if there was one idea that really made me realize that
I was kind of wrong about the rules of the game, and I remember reading this really clearly. I
read it in graduate school, but I didn't understand it for years afterwards. It's this idea that
conversation, this actually might bring us back to Josh, that conversation language is also
like a game. Like a game, you say? Like a game. Okay. Yeah. So like we're, the five of us are
having a conversation and there actually are a bunch of rules of that conversation regarding
who can speak and when and how and grammar. And there's also a ton that isn't written down in
there. You know, we don't have a paradigm
exactly for interruption, and we'll all have different interruption styles, to Maggie's point.
If we're from different parts of the country, we'll have different interruption styles. If we
have a different class upbringing or gender upbringing, we'll have different styles. If we
speak different languages, we'll have different interruption styles, just to take one example.
And in fact, we're just making up the rules of that game as we go. Same when, you know,
invent a new word. Like, who's the first person who thought that the word cool meant what it now has come to mean? Whoever first said that, people probably looked at that person like, what are you talking about that this music is cool? Like, cool what? You introduce a new word, and then other people use it, and you play around with it. So you're playing this game. And so that game doesn't have rules. And from there, I didn't understand it when I first learned this at all. I was like,
this is interesting, but I don't get it. I came to realize that actually, you know,
life is a lot more like a game of catch than like a board game, Tim. So if we're playing catch,
you know, there's a whole bunch of unwritten stuff. Like, do we bounce the ball to each other?
Sometimes we do. Do we throw it hard when kids do it? Like when you're trying to see how hard
the other person can handle it. We do that sometimes too. Sometimes are we
just lobbing it? There's like all this unwritten stuff in a game of catch. It's definitely a game
and there's some rule like throw it to each other and throw it back. But then everything else is
kind of being played with along the way. And that's why it can change.
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How can that work on a nationwide basis if you could just paint an alternative?
Yeah. Since I don't know what that looks like. The most aggressive version would be the British Constitution, which depending on how you
count, you could say is a thousand years old. You could say it's 400 plus years old. You could put
the inflection point at different moments. And by the way, there's been civil wars in the middle of
it too. So it's not like it's perfect by any stretch of the imagination.
But what you had there is that the people who were doing the governing, the people who were criticizing the way the governing was happening, and the people who were being governed
collectively experimented with different ways of doing things, and they shifted their collective
understanding over time in an evolutionary way, and all of them basically admitted that things were changing over time.
None of them ever said, I can point to this piece of paper and tell you this is exactly
who can run for office, or this is exactly what the king or the queen can do.
And sure, they had mess-ups along the way, lots of them.
But it turns out not really more mess-ups than any other system.
And they maintained a high degree of continuity. And again, they had a civil war, they had a revolution, so it's not like it was totally seamless. But they were able to
negotiate moments of big change and transition often more smoothly than other countries. And
they've got the best longevity of a governing
system of any country. And if you measure it in those terms, that's pretty darn successful.
And what's more, I would just close that by saying, countries like ours that have an old
written constitution, we do all that same stuff too. We just lie about it. We just pretend that
we're not doing that. Maggie, maybe you hit something.
Yeah. I mean, the other long-term example of this is the Haudenosaunee Confederacy. Maggie, maybe you had something. a kind of living spoken constitution complete with federalism for hundreds and hundreds and
hundreds of years prior to European invasion of North America. And the physical manifestation
of that government, you still have that, right? You still have an item that is the thing to point
to. It just doesn't have words per se on it. So you have these wampum belts
that have figural depictions of agreements woven onto them. And even beyond what happens
in the UK, that constitution has survived an apocalypse. It still exists and is in working
order today. And they're the strongest nation, indigenous nation in the Eastern Americas because of the strength of that spoken constitution.
And I think to what Noah's saying is, you know, we talk about this a lot. It's kind of the difference between the word of the law and the spirit of the law. When you write something down, you can play a different kind of game than what Noah
was talking about. You get all these people who are interested in trying to find the seams and
the cracks in an agreement to change the meaning rather than trying to adhere to the original point
of what the agreement was. You start having people trying to rip it apart to suit new needs
rather than adhere to what the point was.
This is why I didn't end up becoming a lawyer, actually.
So, no, I have to clarify something.
So, it seems to me that there's, in saying that the written constitution is overrated, that there are several things.
One is you have something that's a language-based constitution, and there's issues with, as Maggie was saying, having it based around
language. And then there's the additional one of the written language. So you're saying there's
additional level of difficulty because it's written down. And that, as far as I can see what
you're saying, is that it's because writing is sort of immutable. And then that becomes a problem
as time progressed, because you don't want immutable things. You want things to be mutable. And so writing is the immutable version of the language. And so are you saying that you don't
want to have a language-based agreement or that you just don't want to have a written immutable
version of the language agreements? What I'm trying to say is closer to the second thing
you're saying. I'm not sure I can imagine what it would be like to reach agreement
without language at all at scale. You can have symbols, like Maggie was talking about,
that are super powerful and maybe can't be reduced solely to language. But on the other hand,
if you ask people who have been the bearers of that constitution for 300 plus years,
they could tell you what it is. And they could tell you in language what the
particular image on the particular wampum belt is signifying. So it's not that I'm trying to
imagine a world without language. I'm not saying it's impossible. I just can't do it. I'm not good
enough at it. I am talking, though, about our fantasy that if we've written something down,
now we know. And now that agreement is genuinely fixed. And you could also think of it just in
terms of regular contracts. You made a contract with someone that you're going to shovel their snow and they're
going to pay you X dollars every time there's a snowstorm. And you're like, okay, I'm great. I'm
good. And then you get like a dusting of snow and you go run right out and you shovel up the dusting
and you send them a bill. And they're like, what the hell? That was not a shoveling of snow.
And now you immediately find yourself, what matters is not what the words shovel mean or snow mean.
What matters is how much they like you.
Do you intend to shovel their snow next year?
What kind of social ties do you have with them
so that it'll be an issue if you stiff them
or they stiff you?
Those are the relational issues.
The relationship issues are really the most important ones
that come in and they will determine what's gonna happen.
Now you imagine that between two people and it's definitely definitely the same. You can't really get up and
invoke your wedding vows. You promised to love and honor me. Now you're not doing it. I mean,
you could try that, but it doesn't always work. So maybe it works in Josh's house where everyone
listens, but in the rest of the world, it doesn't always work that way.
Okay, now I got to jump in.
Oh, no, poking the bear. Poking the bear.
Josh.
Exactly.
Thank you, Tim.
So first of all, I totally admire the fact that Noah chose a topic where we would be
somewhere between idiotic and foolish to debate it with him.
Does anyone really want to get on this show and say, you know what?
I think I'm going to take on the Felix Frankfurter professor of constitutional law at the Harvard
Law School over a subject of
whether constitutions are valid. I'm not signing up for that one. No, thank you. No, thank you.
I will respond, though, in two ways. One is I totally take his point about the UK and Maggie's
point about the Six Nations. There's a big survivor bias element of that. Yeah, you can
always point to the example which has survived and say, yeah, great.
Unfortunately, there are a lot of examples of where it doesn't survive, and therefore we don't point to those.
So I'm not sure those examples are entirely valid, notwithstanding the strength of the cultures and the histories.
I would say on the subject of contracts, and that's why I know as a constitutional professor, not a contracts law professor, because if he was a contracts law professor, he wouldn't have made that case.
I really disagree. Look, contracts serve important purposes,
and here's what they are. One is they force a discussion up front. They allow people to align expectations. Without that process, I don't know what you expect. Now, let's leave aside marriages,
because I think prenuptials are unlikely to work, and I agree with you, wedding vows are done at a
highly romantic moment.
But in business, in the real world,
what you do is you say,
you're buying something, I'm selling something.
Let's figure out what that means
and make sure that we've agreed on the fundamental terms.
And that's an important process.
And the other thing it does
is it forces you to understand consequences
if you don't live up to your side of the agreement.
And that's a very useful technique as well.
So it's possible that this discovery
that Noah made at Burning Man last year,
that his lifelong work in the Constitution
is no longer valid.
That's conceivable to me.
It seems unlikely, but it's possible.
I don't think it's necessarily applicable, however,
if you extend it out into the rest of the world.
And using wedding vows as the extreme
example generally speaking i think is a little bit of a false analogy so just to be fair i'll
say josh likes poking bears too okay so um going back to the kind of immutable aspect of it to me
that actually the true genius was not the first writing down of the constitution of the u.s was
the fact that it had a self-amendment clause.
That is a real genius.
And I think actually it was the Six Nations that influenced that self-amendment.
So there's something buried in there.
There is a facility to do that.
So I would say in a Constitution without a self-amendment clause or facility
would be really worrisome.
But once you have that in, to me,
that could overcome some of the immutability aspect of it. You just
want to have it easier to mutate. So right now, we're kind of penalized because it's kind of more
difficult to change the Constitution than it was to pass the Constitution. And so there you're
penalizing the future generations. So wouldn't you just want to make it easier to change things
if that was the real hurdle? Actually, could I modify that question, Kevin? Are you okay with that?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I'm going to build off of that. So the question, Noah, is very closely related to what I would
ask to Kevin's, which is, let's say we could wipe some of the polarization in the US and we're kind
of starting from scratch in a culture that at least informed by Western and
European influence, by and large does not have, for the majority of the country, a strong,
hand-down oral tradition. What might you suggest as a better way to put things together?
Now you guys went a minute really hard. So let me go through them in order.
So I'll start with Josh's point. I agree, Josh, that if you're strangers and you need to sell
each other some commodity, you need a written contract with all the details. I'm not imagining
that you could run the futures trading markets by purely conventional terms with nothing written down. Though I will note that
there are markets like the diamond markets where people's transactions are overwhelmingly still to
this day based on a handshake and a bunch of rules that are not written down in any one place.
But that depends on being a close-knit community of people who know each other. This already hints
at the answer to Tim's point. So I guess what I would say is, imagine that you've got two poles of continuum. On the one side are pork bellies
sold by people who had never seen a pork belly to each other and never will see one. And on the
other hand is wedding vows, which are highly conventional, general principles at a high level,
designed maybe to inspire you to manage to live well together over the long run. I'm saying
my heresy is that constitutions are on that continuum, closer to wedding vows, where the
goal is to be together for a long time and to adjust and evolve and change and be responsive
than they are to pork bellies. And I think that's the heresy. So that raises the
question of change. Kevin, you're right that amending a constitution is crucial, but unfortunately,
our wonderful founders did a terrible job in putting in an amendment provision if they wanted
us to actually amend the constitution, which secretly they didn't. Madison was terrified
about the possibility of too much amendment. He thought it would end up like the Florida
constitution or the California constitution or one of these constitutions with hundreds and
hundreds, in some cases, nearly a thousand amendments. So they made it too hard to amend,
and that's why we have to do all of these mechanisms that aren't amendment to change it.
Tim, I think you're making an incredibly rich and powerful point, which is if we don't have
common traditions necessarily,
and we're also a country of both of immigrants and of people who change their views, even aside
from the polarization, it makes us look more like traders trading pork bellies who don't have
anything in common with each other. I mean, they actually do in real life, but let's imagine they
didn't. For example, they all wear the same Patagonia vest. But it makes us seem more like that than it does like a married couple.
And I guess here's what I would say.
That's a reason to have a written thing up front and then to try to use that to build
up a culture in which we do share common values.
And if we don't have enough of the common values, we're not going to pull it off.
And that's why
polarization is so scary. I mean, we've had polarizing moments in our history before.
This is not our most polarized moment. It's not even the second most polarized, but it's still,
it is very polarized. And the reason that in general is scary is at a certain point,
if you don't have enough in common with somebody, you know, if the situation's not working,
you know, you might break up. And this is not a situation where there's
the option of some clean breakup. That's terrifying. And it's why you need to build up
some sense of common values and beliefs. And a constitution is a good starting place that way,
recognizing that it's not going to run all the way down through history with all the details
specified. So talking it over at first is great, like Josh says. But then as hundreds of years pass, if we got together and had a new constitutional
convention today and said, oh, let's just talk it over, I don't think we'd reach an agreement.
So we sometimes need something that is general and loose enough, like marriage vows,
that we can all say, oh, I know what that means, I know what that means, and we think they mean
almost opposite things. So unless someone has something else to add to this heresy discussion i'd like
to move it on to the next one anyone else have anything more to say on noah's really great
wonderful unexpected so maggie um what's a heresy you'd like to share with us
yeah i think american middle-class culture is ruining america america middle-class culture is ruining America. America middle-class culture is ruining middle America and all Americans.
It's ruining everything.
It's ruining literally everything.
Yeah.
I mean, we export ourselves, so maybe it's ruining the whole world.
Let's just extend it.
Let's get out there on a limb.
When I say that, though, really, what do I mean?
I kind of mean American modernism, the type of America that's existed post-World War
II, where we instill in people a certain set of values. We've adjusted our culture. You tell your
youth that to be a successful and respected member of society, you leave home at 17 or 18,
go somewhere where you don't know anybody, go to college. And then if you're
successful, you can start up a little nuclear family out in a nameless suburb or a town that
has the same amenities that every town has and live a successful kind of Weberian life, a little Protestant ethic in the spirit of capitalism in there.
This is a very particular cultural brand.
And as we're no longer in the heady glory days economically of what America was able to achieve after the world was destroyed,
and we were the only people that had like working machines anymore.
As some of those pockets of fat have dissolved in the United States, we've been left in this situation where you get extreme social isolation.
You get kids that can't get into the Ivy League, even though they feel like they're entitled to it.
And then they go spend all their time online, become incels, buy AR-15 and shoot up a school.
And I think that it's because we've really moved away from the idea of community in terms of being embedded in a place. You know, there are other
European countries with economic issues. Look at Italy, look at Greece, but they don't have the
same end result because those people are still embedded in a community of people who care about
them, who interact with them. And you don't have this extreme social isolation. It's just, it's all cultural process,
in my opinion. It's similar thing with, I think that leads a lot of people to these extremely
escapist drug addictions. And, you know, to Josh's point, I'm not talking about Burning Man,
right? I'm talking about the kind of drug issues I see in Worcester, Massachusetts.
So I think that this extreme adherence to that particular brand of the American dream has ruined our ability to have a functional...
I mean, things have just become quite dysfunctional in the country because of it.
So I'm trying to, again, refine the heresy with the...
It is...
So you said it was American dream, and then you said it was maybe more'm trying to, again, refine the heresy with the, it is, so you said it was
American dream, but then you said it was maybe more modern. Yeah, modernism. I'm thinking about
the hundreds of millions of people, hundreds of millions of people in China who have left their
communities, moved into the cities. And so is this what you're talking about or is it something
different than this?
And the same thing is happening in India right now, where the same kind of migration is happening,
of people leaving these little villages where they have a certain identity.
They know who they are.
They're moving into big cities. They're going to college and beyond.
They're mixing up.
They're isolated.
Is that where we're talking about this as a general phenomena?
Or you're saying that there's something else different than this?
Yeah, I think I do mean it a little bit more pointed than gradual urbanization due to like
change economically, globally.
I think there is a particular brand of the American version of this.
And honestly, the people who are most harmed by it, I think,
are young men, young white men in America. They're feeling this sea change under their feet.
There are more women going to college than men for a decade now. Why? In America. A lot of it is because men are just not achieving dumb metrics
that are kind of meaningless, like SAT scores and GPAs at the same rate as women in the United
States. I think that it's all American culture bounded, where if you're failing to meet this high
kind of this Billy Crystal standard from movies in the 80s and 90s
of being able to strike out on your own with just a baseball bat and an army duffel bag full of stuff
walking into New York City to like start your life that you have failed. And I think people
are being told that they're literal failures because they're not able to achieve this very time constrained version of
American success. And that a lot of the people who are doing some of the worst things in the
United States right now are people who have gone through that experience of failure. And it's not
necessary. I don't know that there's any analog to that type of failure in modern China or India.
And I'm pretty sure there isn't a version of that
in Italy or Greece.
You live with your parents, you go to college,
and then you move down the street when you get married.
Can I ask Maggie, how much of this is the stuff part?
The part that you might call consumer culture,
that we measure ourselves by how much stuff we have
and how good that stuff is and the brands
that go with it. And then if you want that, you need cash. And to get that cash, you move to the
city because that's where the job is that pays more cash. And then you just meet more people
who want the same stuff. How much of it is the stuff part of it? And how much of it is the
dream of making it big? Like, you know, the fantasy of becoming the next Elon, and how much of it is the
leaving where you grew up to go to a new place? Because all those seem to be part of what you're
describing. Yeah, absolutely. I mean, I think the stuff is a major part of it, but I would extend
stuff beyond consumer goods and keeping up with the Joneses type stuff to meaningless achievements.
What's the real difference from getting a degree
from the University of Georgia versus Emory in terms of your life trajectory? Not that huge,
but if you don't get into Emory and you have to go to Georgia Southern, suddenly that's like
almost like a narcissistic injury where you have this hit to your ego you can never recover from.
And it's just constant knocking down of ego that injures people in this way emotionally.
What I'm arguing is that those standards are fucking stupid to begin with. They're not based
in anything other than the imagination of what we could achieve on the GI Bill in 1950. At a time where
we had far fewer people in the country, we had a far different economic outlook. And I really don't
think it's necessarily about leaving home, which I mean, for me, it is. Personally, I'm coming from
this, again, from an outsider point of view. I didn't grow up in this type of culture, but I'm
surrounded by it all the time now. So it's all bound up with it. But I think it's more of this absolute, like you
said about the constitution, the written constitution, this fiction we've created,
this fantasy of what you need to just have a basic respectable life in upper middle class America.
It doesn't matter how much money you make even. If you're an
underwater welder, are you getting the same respect as someone who went to Cornell
in upper middle class Boston? I don't know that you are, even if you're making double the money.
So quick question for you, Maggie.
Yeah.
And I'll just add a little backdrop. So Johan Hari is an author, if I'm getting his
name pronounced correctly. He's
written books about addiction and also depression, chasing the scream, lost connections. And he
returns in a very compelling way over and over again to social isolation. And I suppose what
I'm wondering is, as I look at cultures that I understand somewhat, like Japan, for instance,
the schooling there and
cram schools and test scores are even more determinant in a way of your future than,
say, the SATs are in the US. However, and there are social isolation issues in Japan,
but you have multi-generational households. And you look at a place like Costa Rica,
multi-generational households. And I'm wondering if that is a crux component of all of
this, which it seems to be, is there anything to be done in the US? Are there changes that you
think we could make culturally that would remedy some of the symptoms that you're describing?
Maybe celebrate people whose lives are happy as that's the form of
success that we should be like lionizing above meeting what is frankly, like you said, you just
said, oh, there's multi-generational households in Japan and there's this really toxic testing
culture. If you think about it, you know, not to get too theoretical here in an organismic way,
where these different facets of culture work like different organs in a system as a whole, like a body that forms a culture, very like Durkheimian way of thinking about things.
Maybe you can pick pieces in and out there, like you're explaining these other cultures that you have experience with. Somehow in America, we've picked a set of organs that lead to a
particularly toxic end, toxic individualism. Individualism at all costs, really. We don't
have maternity leave. It's just like, we don't have universal health care. There's stuff that
just makes economic, even neoliberal sense that we don't do because of like toxic individualism.
And I do think that if we started focusing on, again, lionizing people who live happy lives, that live fulfilled lives, rather than ones who meet this American archetype, Don Draper, that could lead to a lot of good change.
Josh, I think you had your hand up.
So I react in a couple different ways to this, Maggie.
The first is, you know, if you live in New York City,
you have a lot of politicians who come here to ask for your advice,
then they quickly pivot to asking for money.
But it gives you a chance at least to hear from them.
And I try to ask them,
what's something true about your constituents that I wouldn't know?
And one of them said to me once,
you think all my constituents want to move to New York City. They don't. The problem is they don't
have jobs where they want to live. So the first way I react to this, I totally agree. And I think
we are failing to your point, Tim, as a society, when we fail to provide employment opportunities,
meaningful work, a sense of purpose in the communities where people
actually want to live. And we should not assume that everyone wants to move to New York City and
work for a Meta and live in a loft in Soho. Although even if you work for Meta, you probably
couldn't afford a loft in Soho. So that part I really react to, Maggie, and I agree with you.
I probably disagree with you slightly on part of it. If you look at places like Italy and China,
just picking two examples of what you cited, probably their biggest problem going forward is a demographic one,
where they have some of the lowest birth rates in the world. So you pick two societies and held
them up, particularly Italy as a place where things are going well. I would say a society
where people are sufficiently pessimistic about the world that they're unwilling to have children
and where they have repeatedly
voted into office someone like Berlusconi, let alone the person they have now, probably aren't
society as ours hold up as exemplars of what our aspirations should be. So I'm not sure I agree
with you on that point. And then the third thing I'd probably say is the maladies that you're
describing, I think, are real. I think that's a confluence of things, though. I think one element
absolutely is consumerism. One element certainly is social media dislocation. They're all think are real. I think that's a confluence of things, though. I think one element absolutely
is consumerism. One element certainly is social media, dislocation. They're all combined. But if
I had to come back to one, I probably would go back to the point you made and where I started,
which is we're failing to provide meaningful employment, a sense of purpose,
the capacity to support yourself and you support your family in a community that you find meaningful.
And we've assumed that's only one type of community, and that's a failing as a society. I started in this
conversation with responding to Josh about how I normally converse in my culture, and I will now
show an example of that. I have a very large, tight-knit family that lives on a compound.
Okay, we all live on the same piece of land. We've had
the land for 300 years. We got it for service in the revolution. I'm related to most of the people
where I'm from, the exact piece of land. We all went to high school together. We all went to
middle school together. And some of us, including myself, are considered in our culture big weirdos,
people who would be targets of bullying, people who don't fit into the norm of the area.
But having the social network of cousins in this example to help guide you through social
situations that you don't understand on the ground as a peer who loves you in your school
and then threatening to kick someone's ass who tries to come at you gives you a way to navigate through
some of what are the most scarring times for a lot of these kids who are totally disassociated from
a community. You hear about all of these maladjustments and I spend a lot of time online
to my physical and emotional detriment and you just see these communities of young men that are just spiraling. And I have
cousins who could have gone down that path, but instead live normal lives now, because we were
there to kick someone's ass who tried to come at them. Can I just say, the more I hear you say that,
Maggie, the more I think that the problem might just not be in modern America. It might be
everyone in the U.S.
who's descended of immigrants to a certain degree, because so few people descended of immigrants
in the U.S. formed familial compounds where they stayed. You know, mostly people move a lot. And
that's always been true since Europeans first came to the Americas, to North America. So some of this
problem may go back even further. And the other thing is, to my mind, it's associated with this problem of social
class that we don't like to talk about in the United States. Class is like the C word of our
public conversations. On the one hand, there's something beautiful about that post-World War II
moment where, as we're constantly being told by the economists, there was a lot of mobility
possible in the United States. And in the US, because we never had an aristocracy, mobility was often measured
by did you go to college. And at first, there weren't very many colleges. So going to college
was a way to bump up. Then after the GI Bill, there were a lot more colleges, but we still
treated it as a way to bump ourselves up. And now, it's obviously a lot harder for reasons you were
describing for anyone to bump up. And so we know about this kind of mobility problem, but what you're saying, and this is why
I like it. And it's also so radical and it's really making me think is that it's actually
even before that, it's that even just the idea that you can move up implies that you should want
to move up and that there's something not okay with you if you don't. And in a way, what you're
describing is a kind of like downside of mobility. It's not just the lack of mobility. You're saying,
even if we had the mobility, it still sends the wrong message to people who are like,
I don't want to be mobile. I like who I am. I like where I live. I like what I do.
And that is something which I think it's hard to find any period in US history where European
descended or other
immigrant-descended Americans were consistently happy with saying, I'm just going to stay where
I am and do my thing. No, I mean, you'd be shocked at how bizarre people treat me.
I went to college at Harvard. I'm a beast of a certain mold, like Noah is. You know, we had this, you know, Uncle Harvard there looming in the background for a lot
of our lives.
And you'd be shocked at how many people acted like I was out of my mind for not wanting
to spend my time dragging the American South for being the place where a lot of the worst
sins of America were, was it, paroxysmed out or tried to, we
pretended the whipping boy of the entire United States that I didn't want to talk about how awful
it was and get away from it. And, you know, that I spend my time proselytizing to people from home
about the fact that, yeah, I mean, Donald Trump really is the con man snake
oil salesman from New York you told me to be scared of when I moved to New England. It's here.
He's here. He showed up, y'all. Maybe pay attention. I get treated like it's crazy that I
don't want to live in New York City, that I don't, I'm not interested in it. I have my people and I
have my culture. So Josh, you had something. I think maybe conflating a couple things one is mobility
with a sense of economic security i think maggie's completely right that not everyone wants to move
no you're right that the history of the united states required movement and why was that it was
because parts of the country had a stagnant economy and parts of the country almost always
had a booming economy and people who were
looking to better themselves from an economic perspective and prioritize that. That was a
question of choice. One can argue about whether that's the right choice, but they found mobility
is the most compelling way to improve their lot. Interestingly, over the last couple of years,
mobility in the United States has declined dramatically. That was partly COVID-related.
It's partly also people are reprioritizing, right? They're recognizing, I think, a little bit,
what you're saying, which is that new job, that 20% pay raise is less important to me in some
respects than maintaining a sense of community and a sense of place. And I'm going to prioritize
those. I think we just have to be willing to acknowledge that if that's going to work, though,
we need to be creating jobs around the country, leaving aside one's views on right to work.
If you go to Greenville, South Carolina, why is that community vibrant? It's because we have a
lot of auto plants. And we've moved auto plants out of one particular place, which was the Midwest,
and we've moved them to places where other people want to live. You don't even have to live in the
town of Greenville, city of Greenville. You can live outside in quite rural South Carolina and have a
job that will pay you a living wage. Boeing's in Charleston, South Carolina, that works for the
people who work at Boeing and manufacture and assemble 787 Dreamliners. So I think our conception
of where people want to live and work needs to change. And I think we need to recognize that
and provide those opportunities.
So I completely agree.
But it's a different question than upward mobility.
And I don't think we should diminish the historical and relatively healthy American desire for
our children to have a better lives, in quotes, than what we had.
And part of that, realistically, is economically.
It's not just having more meaningful relationships.
For people who have not had means, it's important that they have an opportunity to have more financial security.
So I feel as if maybe we should move on. Maggie, do you have anything final to say
on your heresy, or is that enough? My last sentence would be, if you can just move from one
suburb a thousand miles to another suburb and you don't
feel culturally uncomfortable, you are doing it wrong. Okay. All righty. Really good. So, Mr. Tim,
Tim, what's your heresy? I know you have a heresy deep inside you, so tell us what it is.
I've been racking my brain on this for a little while because I didn't want to start with
something so nearly impossible to defend that it would be unproductive.
So I think what I'm going to go with is I have come to a point where I believe there
are multiple vehicles through which we will be able to meaningfully communicate with animals
within the next five years, I would say. vehicles through which we will be able to meaningfully communicate with animals within
the next five years, I would say. And by meaningful, I've thought about what that
actually means. Would it be at the level of a small human child? I don't think that the
conceptual mapping will work quite that way, but there are a couple of things that have
combined for me to believe this. One, on the easier to grasp side would be work that people like
Aza Raskin are presenting and exploring related to using AI and machine learning and so on to
effectively decode and then produce communication with different species. And there's a fair amount
of progress that's been made with, say,
whales and others. Yeah, Whale Guy. I've met him. I can't remember his name.
Okay. Yeah. I haven't met the Whale Guy. I've seen the book though. So I do think technology,
and in this case, literally sort of exponentially developing technology,
will put a huge dent in that in a very short period of time. And of course,
Kevin, you've spent a lot of time in the sandbox of AI, so you know how absurdly real-time interaction along the lines of, say, what neuroscientist David Eagleman has done, where they put on, say, a suit for someone
who is blind or deaf, and it provides a tactile form of feedback where they begin to map their
environment and inputs differently and adapt to this very, very quickly. And furthermore,
this is the last I'll say and then
I'll stop. I think that certain psychedelic compounds will probably facilitate a number of
these, mostly the sensory augmentation used in combination. And I would point to some research
that these are mostly case studies, I should be clear, not randomized controlled studies or
anything, that a journalist named Rachel Neuer has pointed me to related to MDMA for social anxiety and social cues. There are quite a number
of people in the communities, the autism communities, who have experimented with
durable effects on social anxiety and social cues. So I'll stop there since there's plenty
to pick apart, but compelling, surprising animal communication
within five years that will then be propagandized by all the political and special interests.
It will become a very contentious area.
So I'm not sure that it will have uniformly positive impacts, but that's my prediction.
So one clarification, the psychedelics you were talking about being applied to the humans,
not necessarily to the animals?
No, I think that they could be applied to animals as well, in terms of reading body language and opening the reducing valve on processing that type of information, particularly as it relates to neuroplasticity and adapting to sensory augmentation.
I think that will be ultimately viewed as maybe a very primitive approach to what the AI can produce. But I think they could all work in tandem.
I think you have nesting heresies there because giving animals psychedelics is a self.
Oh, no, not animals.
Well, I guess animals, human animals.
The human animals.
No, no, that's what my question was.
I was just talking about giving animals psychedelics.
Although I would like to fund research looking at whether or not MDMA can help to reverse the
equivalent of PTSD in dogs who have been abused. I think that's underexplored, but that's a whole
separate thing. Is the time frame of this important for your heresy?
I just wanted to kind of throw something out there that would give people something additional to object to. You can't read it. Okay, Noah, you have your hand up, Noah.
I'm not going to object, but I am really curious, Tim, about this. And I should begin by saying I
know less than nothing about this. So when you talk about communicating with animals, I mean,
first of all, we already do a certain amount of significant amount of communicating with animals, right?
And the better you are, say, with the dog at both understanding where the dog is coming from and
communicating to it and what a dog will understand, and I've seen you do this, Tim, with your own dog
really beautifully, you're having a much better communicative relationship than a lot of other
people do with animals, certainly than I do, and maybe even than a lot of people. It turns out Noah likes listening to animals, just doesn't like listening to people.
There you go. But what I wanted to ask about the communication, Tim, is like, what are you
picturing? Because, you know, there's this super famous essay by the still-going-strong,
well-into-his-80s philosopher Tom Nagel called, What Is It Like to Be a Bat? And, you know,
basically what he tries to say,
and if you're right, this article will be obsolete, is that we can't really piece together
what it would be like to be a bat from within our perspective. And I would think that maybe
language is a little bit like that. So what would it mean to hear the animal communicating? I'm not
talking about the whale song here, where it has enough like language
in that it has repetitive patterns and it's sound and we can sort of begin to picture the way it
might be used. But what does it look like to you to say we're understanding what the animal
is communicating to us? Is the AI producing like a translation? It's like wolf GPT or something?
And it just gives us a running translation. I mean, just tell me what you're
talking about because I can't really picture it. Yeah, sure. So I think there are multiple
possibilities and I do not understand the technology. If we're talking about the AI side,
the idea of calling that keeping it simple is kind of hilarious in and of itself, but let's
keep it simple and talk about AI and the sort of computer science side of things. I think that for a communication model to be functional, and I say this as someone who's
studied a lot of human languages, first and foremost with, say, different species,
we're talking about, let's just define terms a little bit. When I say communication,
it could be human to animal communication, but it could also and probably will
first be animal to animal communication. So within a certain species, can you model the
language in such a way that there is a predictive value? Does that make sense? So you are able to
predict what will happen next based on pattern recognition within a given species or even, say, it could be a regional
iteration of a single species. And we see a lot of variance across, say, chimpanzees,
depending on location. But let me give an example that Asa Raskin has brought up just to give an
example of one of the leads that I find interesting that I think will develop over time.
So with dolphins, which also have this sort of sonic patterning. So in that sense, as a human,
it's a little easier to compare these funny sounds coming out of my mouth hole that are
being molded by all these muscles and so on to a dolphin. But with the dolphins, you can ask a
dolphin, and I don't know the exact
training that went into this, and we can come back to Nagel too and the kind of behaviorism,
Skinner, black box type of stuff if you'd like. And I don't think you need to understand the
internal functioning of an animal to make progress with communication in the same way
that you don't really understand what's going on in any human's head, but you infer that based on what comes out. So I do think you could base it on observable
data. But with the dolphin example that Aza has given, and I'm going to butcher this because I'm
calling it from memory, but these marine mammal trainers, which is a very interesting branch of
animal training for anyone who's interested in, say, dog training. It gets more interesting when
you get in the water. You can't hit a misbehaving dolphin with a rolled-up newspaper, not that
I would recommend that with a dog. But they will ask a dolphin to do something novel. In other
words, do something you have never done before. And they have confidence that this is being
sort of semantically communicated well enough that the dolphin understands it. Is that true or not?
Who knows? But they are able to produce novel
behaviors. The more interesting aspect to me, although I think that's very interesting if you
dig into it, is that they can then take two dolphins and say, together, do something that
you have never done before. And they do whatever they do, and they confer, and then they simultaneously perform a novel movement
that they have never demonstrated before. So I think a lot of it will be starting
with trying to model some type of predictive value on language inputs using technology.
I think that's where it's going to start. Where it leads, I honestly couldn't tell you,
but I do think at some point, we will be able to produce, we already can on some very, very primitive level, birdsong and so on that have, say, alarm call values.
It's very rough, but I think the fidelity of that with the type of data that can be captured now with better technology, not just AI, but just simple kind of audio technology.
I think we will get to a point, and this could be abused, and Aza would agree with this,
where you could actually propagate messages, say, through water to dolphins, to whales. I think it'll
be easier to start with mammals versus, say, reptiles, although you can train chickens and other things,
which I think is a good idea. If you're planning on having kids, you should have to train a chicken
or a dog first, I think. But I'm not sure if that answers the question, but that's where I think
things are at least starting at the moment. There's an example of a prototype version of
that with dogs using these little buttons where you record a word onto it that was used often with
kids who were having trouble with language. And the ultimate was the scowl who was teaching her
dog to speak by having, she had a plywood setup where they had 34, she got up to 34 different
words that the dog could press the buttons for and say a sentence. And it was,
again, remarkable, like Coco, it was kind of like a sign language, but it was an audible sign
language, where the dog was constructing fairly complicated sentences about what it wanted to do
or wanted to go outside and see its friend and all kinds of remarkable things just using the recorded sound on one word per button.
And up to 34, and they had kind of primitives,
so they could actually construct a fairly complicated sentence.
And so that would, if you could imagine that transferring into some kind of audible language,
that would make it another step.
Josh?
Tim, let me ask you a question.
Do you think if you're right,
it's going to lead to a quite transformational view on animal rights and people's willingness to consume animal products? Yeah. So I do think that's one possibility, and that's related to my
comment on political division and how that's going to fit into things. I do think for millions of people who are maybe towards the midline,
let's just say you have a continuum,
just to, I want to sound like a smart guy,
so I'm going to use this too.
If you have a continuum from, let's just say,
pure vegetarian to, or like herbivore carnivore,
and you have like 100% pure, 100% pure, never going to change.
And as you move towards the middle, you get increasingly flexible. I think for people who
are close to that midpoint, or maybe even within 20 points, a lot of folks will switch to probably
more plant-based food, which I do not, for the record, think is automatically healthier.
But for moral reasons, I think more people will switch. At the same time, my experience,
because I've been involved with all sorts of things that are kind of at odds, we could talk
about it, but the conservation work that I have done, conservation is viewed in a very particular
way, I think in a very exaggerated way in the US specifically.
You don't run into this as much, say, in South America, in Colombia, when they're producing
like Chiribigete Park and so on or protecting it. But in the US, there's a great piece in The New
Yorker. I think it's something along the lines of The Wolf Lady or The Powerful Story of the Wolf Lady. And it talks about wolf conservation,
which is basically considered the Middle East of conservation and how politicized it is.
So there are people who want to kill wolves just because they view it as a magnet for liberal
overreach with conservation city folks telling rural folks how to live.
There's more to that, of course. And then you have the opposite on the liberal side,
and it turns into this battlefield for ideology where something like a wolf or a fill-in-the-blank
animal is a symbol. It becomes a symbol. So I do think that it will flip a lot of people towards different
behavior. And simultaneously, it will become hyper-polarized. And you'll have competing
researchers or computer scientists who are taking completely opposite interpretive stances
based on whatever their political or ideological goals will be. But I do think it'll change behavior. Absolutely. I'm not a vegetarian. I hunt and consume elk and deer and so on.
So my personal choice has been to set parameters around it so that I feel ethically
comfortable with consuming nutrient-dense meat. But I do think a lot of people will switch to a
more plant-based or synthetic-based diet, which is
not automatically healthy, but I do think that we'll see that change. Yeah. I was recently at a
very strange kind of conference about the confluence of a lot of the things we're talking about today about multi-species constitutionalism
and this idea of trying to and being able to communicate with other animals was the majority
of the focus of this meeting i was there because my assertion was that we're not you know the
dominant again i'm an anthropologist, right?
So I'm thinking about culture all the time.
But the dominant kind of cultural worldview or as people in my field call it ontology, which is just like an obfuscating word for no reason.
It's like, let's make things harder.
We'll say praxis instead of practice.
It's just like, all right, thanks for making this less reachable by normal humans.
But we don't have it built into our worldview to deal with this eventuality, in my opinion.
And there are plenty of cultures that do have it built in to their worldview to deal with this.
And I would say that most of those are relational cultures. So, I'm native,
bringing it back around to that. you know, you have this idea
of a relational world where there is a connection and reciprocal responsibility between every entity
in the universe, including between an individual squirrel who eats your trash or whatever,
I guess that's a raccoon, and yourself, that raccoon has a
responsibility to you and you have a responsibility to that raccoon. And it gives a baseline having a
conception of how to deal with animals in a way that respects them as what they are, rather than
what we need them to be to fit into how the mechanics of our world currently
work is going to be necessary to deal with this eventuality or else it's going to be a disaster
like you said at the beginning of this it's like you know who's going to get the lorax endorsement
on their presidential campaign and you know stuff that's just let's churn it through the
meat grinder we currently have i think is the the danger, not to be too punny.
Yeah.
Yeah, totally.
The Lorax, great invocation.
I want to say a few more things.
So this is also, so far, we've only been talking about what we would consider animals.
I actually think it's going to get stranger.
Like funguses?
Fungi? Well, plants in general. I don't think that we will find that eating plants is quite as ethically
black and white the opposite of eating animals. And there's a piece that Michael Pollan wrote
called The Intelligent Plant in The New Yorker in 2013. A lot has happened since then.
And you have to be careful,
I think, just to point out the obvious with anthropomorphizing all things. I think there
are lots of risks there. But there are some very seemingly credible researchers who have observed
some very, very strange phenomena, which make plants seem much more sentient, much more sensitive, much more, let's just call it alive
than I think many people who eat solely plants would like to believe. So I think that's also
going to complicate matters. And I'll just point out also, and you can romanticize a lot of older
cultures. And I think there's a risk that you see a lot of that in Austin. It kind of drives me nuts on some level, but where everything new is bad and everything old is great.
And I'm like, I don't know if it's that simple. However, there are many, many cultures and I've
had most of the exposure in South America and Central America, although I know it's certainly
true in other places where the idea of communicating in some fashion with animals and
plants is completely uncontroversial,
which is not to say that therefore it is true, but I find it interesting that over the span of millennia, in some cultures, there is a durable, uncontroversial belief. It's kind of like Tuesday
comes after Monday. Yes, you can communicate with plants or with fill-in-the-blank species.
Don't call them old.
Those are still living cultures that exist today.
They ain't old.
What's the right way to put it?
Non-modernist.
Traditional.
Non-modernist.
There we go.
Traditional.
There we go.
Traditional.
So Noah, you have something to add here.
Yeah, I wanted to ask a heretical question about the heresy.
So let's say you're right, Tim. Let's say the heresy is true. Maybe it'll go the other way. Maybe instead of thinking
that ethically we can't eat something that we can talk to, we go the way that most traditional
cultures have gone, which is they're not necessarily vegetarian just because they think they can
communicate with animals, nor, I mean, if you can communicate with plants too, you're going to eat
the plants. Maybe it would have the opposite effect. Maybe we would no longer think that
the capacity to be sentient and communicate is the basis for deserving our ethical consideration.
And maybe at the margin, that would even be bad. This is the heretical thought. Maybe that would
even be bad for the way we treat each other. I mean, drawing the line at humans is problematic
in a whole bunch of ways, obviously, but at least it's had one really big benefit over the last few hundred years,
which is it's gradually allowed us to recognize that all humans deserve equal rights,
no matter what aspect of those folks' practices or culture or appearance we don't like.
Because the line used to not be at human.
Yeah. So the thing about drawing the line at humans is in a lot of ways, it's obviously naive,
but it has done a lot of good drawing the line at humans
in terms of our treating other humans,
not equally because we never get there,
but treating them as humans
and respecting their inherent dignity.
So the radical question would be,
what if everything you said happened, Tim,
and it made us worse?
I think it's entirely possible is my short response.
I have more thoughts, but Kevin.
We get back into genocide in a big way, you know?
There's a heresy that I would not bring up here,
but I would just have to add,
which is, yeah, cannibalism is okay.
Long port.
Right?
You dropped the line.
Yeah, we can eat humans.
Sure, it's fine.
If they're dead.
So unless there's something
else to add to tim's um i want to move on to the last one because we have only 15 minutes to talk
about so let's do it i picked a heresy that i thought would be we could have a short discussion
rather than a complicated one so we can finish in time and mine is that i think that human clones
are fine we should have human clones that there. We should have human clones, that there's nothing wrong with human clones.
Right now, there's kind of a taboo about making human clones, but they're perfectly fine because we already have human clones.
They're called twins.
They're simultaneous clones, but we get all freaked out with serial clones.
And actually, in fact, if we did not have twins and we suddenly invented twins, people would call them the devil.
They would just say, that's just insanely evil if we had twins and we didn't have them naturally.
So I think that it's perfectly fine just to have serial twins rather than just simultaneous twins.
Okay.
But according to you, Kevin, we can eat them, right?
As long as we do.
Exactly.
And we can eat them, too. as exactly and we can eat them too
well i mean twin farming am i wrong am i wrong and eatyourself.com yeah and saying that the uh
the reason people are like weirded out by serial twins is because of the insight it gives into the
psychology of the person who wants to serialize themselves more so
than the actual cloning well you're assuming that you that you don't have to actually serialize
yourself you can you can make twins of anything you don't have to make a twin of yourself you
don't clone yourself you can clone you can clone anything you can clone you could clone your
neighbors if you wanted to right exactly so
it's not just cloning of yourself that you have to do okay so you clone your kids so you have an
heir and a spare and you just keep yeah so kevin what would you like to see happen then you're
making an ethical statement that this is okay instead of not okay what would some use cases be
well there's obviously many people
who lose a child or something
who would like to restore that,
to bring them back, so to speak.
And so I don't think that we should prohibit that
just based on the fact that they're clones.
At a deep level,
I understand that people have that instinct,
but what's the advantage of that
relative to a non-clone?
Because the new clone,
like identical twins, won't actually be the same person. They might look alike for some period,
but they won't be the same person. And so if you had, let's say you lost a child and chose to have
another child. I think if someone said, we lost our child, we decided to have another child,
none of us would think what a terrible ethical reaction. We would think, oh, that's very
understandable. We wouldn't condemn it. But that's because they would be acknowledging that it wasn't going to be the same person
all over again.
And even if they named the child the same thing, we might raise our eyebrows quietly
amongst ourselves saying, gosh, don't they want this child to have its own identity?
But we probably would let that go, too.
After all, we don't get too upset when people name their kids after themselves.
Sure.
You know, we know that they don't really mean that that's going to be their kid's going
to be a mini after themselves. Sure. You know, we know that they don't really mean that that's going to be their kid's going to be a mini-me.
Yeah.
So, I don't know, I guess what I'm wondering is,
what's the added value there?
I understand people have the instinct.
Why is it any better than just saying,
just have another child if you feel that way?
I think you're right.
I think there's going to be a lot,
would be a lot of self-correction in the sense
that people would understand that clones
are very rarely possible to have an identical thing.
And so there would be less maybe demand for it, but it would be another choice, another option.
And there might be times when it worked out.
I just don't think it should be a prohibition.
The reason why there's a prohibition is there's a fear that they're going to be taken over,
that our lives would be full of clones and that there'd be nothing but clones.
And so where does the prohibition come from?
What if it turns into one of these weird Gattaca elite things
where you start cloning people you think are really smart
or Usain Bolt or something, and you create this weird elite class?
I think what they discovered, which is to Noah's point,
is that cloning is,
there's no guarantee that you're going to get necessarily what you think you're going to get
because of, we know twins themselves, they vary between each other and triplets likewise.
I think you see often how something which is super well-intentioned can run afoul of what
actually is best for society. So you take the example of sperm
donors who are trying to help families get pregnant or single mothers conceive, and then you end up
having these cases where there are either doctors or individuals who ultimately have 500 children
out in the world, which is a deep, deep disservice, obviously, to those children, because now you need
to get genetically tested when you start dating someone to make sure that you're not dating your half-sibling.
And that seemed like a pretty unappealing thought. So the idea that we would have a
massive number of clones out there, all of whom have to figure out whether, in fact,
there are huge genetic, let alone psychological issues associated with it, because as they get
older, they're not going to be able to self-identify as clones wait wait why where are you what do you mean well because even
identical twins relatively rapidly don't always look alike and so you're not immediately going
to be able to know who's your sibling who's not whether you're intermarrying and doing all sorts
of things so from a genetic perspective it doesn't seem like a particularly wise thing for the
species to have thousands and thousands of people who have their identical genetic code.
Right. So you're saying as soon as you have clones, you have thousands and millions of them?
No, you don't necessarily, but just the way no one assumed when you had the opportunity
to have sperm donors that you were going to have some idiot who decided that he wanted to have 500
children.
So I would say you might want to regulate clones, but that's very different than prohibiting them.
Are they prohibited right now?
Yes.
There's an agreement among, I don't know if it's a treaty,
but there's an agreement among biologists that they're not going to do human cloning.
Okay.
Yeah.
I mean, I think one of the reasons for that worry is the kind of worry that,
well, both of the worries, both Josh's worry and Maggie's worry,
that we're worried about people trying to make tweaks to the clone and then tweak the clone so that they develop the
germline in new ways. And that has both risks and ethical side. But I wanted to ask, just taking on
your core case, I think the best thing you could say on the opposite side, you almost have to say
this, is there's something about human reproduction that should include recombination and the
randomness that comes out of that
recombination. Because we're not saying it's completely random, because we let people choose
who they're going to have kids with. If we're able, we want to let people choose. And so we're
letting people decide within some boundary who they're going to mix their genetic material with.
But there is some unavoidable, inescapable, and I think most people think good,
randomness about what happens when you combine two genomes. And I guess that
question would be, what do we lose if we give that up? And I think what we lose at some basic level
is the beauty of human variation. And the thing about twins is that that's also a product of the
randomness of human variation, especially identical twins. Well, not really. There's a huge preponderance. Those aren't identical twins. Yeah, exactly. And I'm talking about identical twins well not really if there's a huge preponderance but those aren't
identical twins yeah exactly and i'm talking about almost always fraternal exactly identical
twins are themselves that's a rare outlying random experience so my argument would be that we
shouldn't as a society want to encourage human reproduction that it doesn't have that element
of randomness because it encourages us to believe
that we can plan out in advance what someone's going to look like and from there what their
life is going to be like in some way and it's already bad enough i mean i'm a parent of teenagers
yeah i already sorry i'll just close i'll shut up i already have two i'm too invested already in what
my kids turn out like i need to be every day i wake up and try to be less invested in that
and here it just feels like an invitation to people to be more invested.
Well, no, and just to your point, the societies that have tried this most closely,
which are the royal families of Europe, it's inevitably ended badly. The enormous jaws,
huge health issues, because they were convinced. Yeah, they were convinced that the way to ensure
exactly what Noah described was to intermarry.
And the result was insanity and deep, deep physical deformity.
So any experiments that we've seen in real life have not ended well.
To the extent that there are problems and it wouldn't work, I think those are going to be self-correcting.
You would say, okay, we don't want to do this, or trying to engineer this always has trade-offs,
and whatever is going to try to eliminate this disease parkinson's alzheimer's there is inevitably going to be some
trade-off and if you eliminate that kind of a gene from your clone so eugenics we're drifting
into eugenics and and that's the concern is that this turns into a form of eugenics but it doesn't
have to again i think we want to have the option of it. We don't want to close off the option. We want to be able to manage it and do it just like, you know, we don't prohibit twins.
Would you allow people to sell their genetic material? So you see some person who's super
successful and she decides, you know what, if you want to have someone like me, I've been super
successful, you can, I'll sell you a clone of me. And so couples are deciding that they go off and
want to have
maggie as their daughter people i don't know that's a decision people do buy and sell eggs
right i mean for surrogate babies and i don't know if sperm is actually sold or not that's
interesting you can sell it i'm not sure you have to buy it i don't know i want to say as like a kind of related sidebar as someone who is currently gestating and pretty far along, I would like to say it all sucks and we shouldn't do any of it.
Just a personal complaint.
If you could do it in the lab, you would, is what you're saying?
Yeah.
Oh, man.
Like in the Matrix where there's like some some other spider thing. Yeah, this sucks.
So Kevin, I just want to say
since I'm your friend and I care for you
that for your next
cannibal buffet
you should also pay attention to genetic
diversity so you don't get kudu
which is the laughing death.
I really would.
It would hurt my soul to see you die of the shape.
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
Don't eat the brains.
Avoid the crayons.
So this has really been great, everybody here.
I hope, Tim, that you found it successful.
That was good fun.
And we do another version someday.
And I appreciate everybody being willing to play along with the game of sharing your...
The unwritten rules.
Exactly.
I liked it.
Yeah, so fun.
And I'll just say to people listening, yeah, we will put links to whatever we mentioned
that can be linked to.
We will include links. And also to everyone who's been on the show in the show notes as always at Tim.blogs.com.
But this was a great experiment.
It really was.
It was a lot of fun.
I really enjoyed it.
Really great.
So thank you guys.
Thank you, Kevin, for coming in with the Sage experience for our maiden voyage.
And I think finally back to the night when I first experienced this in our small group
doing our walkabout.
A lot of fun.
And thanks for making the time, everybody.
Thank you.
Really, really appreciate it.
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