The Tim Ferriss Show - Ep 41: Rolf Potts on Travel Tactics, Creating Time Wealth, and Lateral Thinking
Episode Date: November 4, 2014"War is God's way of teaching Americans geography." - Rolf Potts Rolf Potts is the author of Vagabonding (hear the audio book sample here), one of my favorite books of all-time.... It was one of just two books (the other was Walden) that I carried with me around the world from 2004-2005. Those adventures led directly to The 4-Hour Workweek. In this often hilarious conversation, Rolf and I dig deep into travel tactics, creating time wealth, "managing success," and much more. It's a fun romp through every imaginable topic, from business to poetry, and from Wall Street to psychedelics. Enjoy! Tim***If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes? It takes less than 60 seconds, and it really makes a difference in helping to convince hard-to-get guests. I also love reading the reviews!For show notes and past guests, please visit tim.blog/podcast.Sign up for Tim’s email newsletter (“5-Bullet Friday”) at tim.blog/friday.For transcripts of episodes, go to tim.blog/transcripts.Interested in sponsoring the podcast? Visit tim.blog/sponsor and fill out the form.Discover Tim’s books: tim.blog/books.Follow Tim:Twitter: twitter.com/tferriss Instagram: instagram.com/timferrissFacebook: facebook.com/timferriss YouTube: youtube.com/timferrissPast guests on The Tim Ferriss Show include Jerry Seinfeld, Hugh Jackman, Dr. Jane Goodall, LeBron James, Kevin Hart, Doris Kearns Goodwin, Jamie Foxx, Matthew McConaughey, Esther Perel, Elizabeth Gilbert, Terry Crews, Sia, Yuval Noah Harari, Malcolm Gladwell, Madeleine Albright, Cheryl Strayed, Jim Collins, Mary Karr, Maria Popova, Sam Harris, Michael Phelps, Bob Iger, Edward Norton, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Neil Strauss, Ken Burns, Maria Sharapova, Marc Andreessen, Neil Gaiman, Neil de Grasse Tyson, Jocko Willink, Daniel Ek, Kelly Slater, Dr. Peter Attia, Seth Godin, Howard Marks, Dr. Brené Brown, Eric Schmidt, Michael Lewis, Joe Gebbia, Michael Pollan, Dr. Jordan Peterson, Vince Vaughn, Brian Koppelman, Ramit Sethi, Dax Shepard, Tony Robbins, Jim Dethmer, Dan Harris, Ray Dalio, Naval Ravikant, Vitalik Buterin, Elizabeth Lesser, Amanda Palmer, Katie Haun, Sir Richard Branson, Chuck Palahniuk, Arianna Huffington, Reid Hoffman, Bill Burr, Whitney Cummings, Rick Rubin, Dr. Vivek Murthy, Darren Aronofsky, and many more.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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But to our subject matter at hand, Rolf Potts, Rolf Potts, Rolf Potts, Rolf Potts, Rolf Potts.
I'm in the Halloween spirit and I'm attempting to summon Rolf Potts to my hotel room like Candyman, but it's not working.
And why would I do such a thing anyway? I would do that because Rolf Potts is hilarious.
And he is one of my favorite writers. And this episode showcases his intelligence and his wit.
I think one of the quotes, for instance, is war is God's way of teaching Americans geography. This guy is
hilarious. And he's also a very astute observer of human nature and a master world traveler,
among other things. He is the author of several books, including Vagabonding. And Vagabonding
has a very important place in my life. I sound like the science duck
modeled after Albert Einstein. I'm going to run with that, but I won't subject you to that
horrible invitation for the entire bio. So Rolf Potts wrote Vagabonding. Vagabonding
is a very important book in my life. It is one of two books, the other being Walden by Thoreau that I took with me when I left the U.S. and ended up traveling nearly 18 months around the world in 2004.
And of course, all of those experiences set the stage for later writing for our work week, all the notes that I took.
And Vagabonding had a huge impact on my thinking and how I approached all of that time.
And it was initially a four week trip. It
turned into 18 months. So Vagabonding is an incredible book, so much so that I partnered
with Rolf very recently to produce the audio book because it is one of my favorite books of all time.
You can check that out by going to audible.com forward slash Tim's books. If you want to check
that out and get a free sample, listen to an excerpt, but long-term travel, long-term world travel does not have to be a wealthy person's sport.
And in this conversation, we talk about all sorts of things ranging from how to travel,
how Rolf travels, writes, wanders, gets lost, studies success, studies quitting success or
managing success. And maybe you haven't thought
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mentioned in this episode. All of it can be found in one place in the show notes. So you just have to go to fourhourworkweek.com, all spelled out, forward slash podcast, fourhourworkweek.com forward slash podcast.
You can find the show notes and resources and links for this episode as well as every other episode like those for Peter Thiel, Tony Robbins, Mike Shinoda, you name it.
So you don't need to scribble furiously unless you want
to, but 4hourworkweek.com forward slash podcast is where you want to go. And I had a blast with
this interview. It is a two-part interview. This is going to be part one, and then there's part two.
And I really hope you enjoy it as much as I did. It was just fantastic fun. So without further ado, please meet Rolf Potts.
Hello, ladies and gentlemen, this is Tim Ferriss, and welcome to another episode of
The Tim Ferriss Show. I'm very excited for this episode because I get to catch up
with a good friend of mine who didn't start off as a good friend, and that is Rolf Potts.
Rolf, thank you so much for making the time.
It's good to talk to you.
Yeah. And I realized by saying that you didn't start off as a good friend,
it makes it sound like we might have been arch enemies or something. But what I mean by that
is I really felt like I got to know you through your book, Vagabonding, which was one of two
books, many people do not know this, that I took with me around the world
for about a year and a half, starting in late 2004, early 2005. It must have been 2004. And
it is one of my most heavily underlined books and really acted as my guide and my companion
for all of the various travels, adventures,
misadventures during that time. So first and foremost, thank you for writing such a spectacular
little tome. My pleasure. Thank you for reading. You know, it occurs to me that I heard from you
in late 2005, which was in retrospect was pretty soon after I had written the book. So you must
have found it pretty soon after it came out. Yeah, I found it. I found it. I found it soon after it came out, because
I suppose in this, this may be true for many people. The, the buying of the book,
then the reading of the book, and then the implementing of the book had quite a bit of
lag time in between those various junctures.
But I think like a lot of people, I spent a lot of time fantasizing about travel and
taking that leap, but had more than a handful of nebulous fear about it. And I suppose we could start there,
actually. And I could ask very simply, what are some recommendations that you have for people who
may be able to work up the savings if necessary, and are really just fearful of taking the leap and exploring
long-term travel. And I suppose just wrapped into that, you might give a brief description
of vagabonding itself in the subtitle and why you wrote it. But I'll let you explore that
multi-part question if you wouldn't mind. Yeah. Well, I like that you bring up the idea
of fantasizing about travel because I think it's something that everybody does. And it's one of
those top three, if not top two or one things that people dream about that. And you see it in the
movies all the time. And in fact, I mentioned this in Vagabonding, you know, the heist movie where
the whole goal is to have this complicated robbery so they can have enough money to move overseas to a wonderful place.
And as I say in the book, you don't need to rob a bank to do that.
In fact, you can do that for a cost that is equal to and sometimes less than your cost of living in a major American city.
And so I think an important principle I bring up in Vagonding is saying, don't put this off.
If you're dreaming about travel, and most people do, and if you don't dream about travel, that's fine, but I really address these travel dreams, which are so common, that don't wait until you're too old because retirement isn't necessarily the best time to, to, uh, to do something like this. And in fact, uh, Henry
David Thoreau, I think Walden was the other book you took on your travels, uh, talks about how
people, and I'm not quoting him directly. They, you know, they put off what they really want to
do until they're too old to actually do it. You know, that's a paraphrase. Um, and so if you are
18, 28, you know, 38, 48, whenever you're dreaming about travel, put, make your goals soon and don't
put off those goals because they're very attainable. And, you know, I think there's a lot
of fears that are tied in to confronting vagabonding, which you asked me for the definition.
It's, vagabonding is long-term travel. It's not just a vacation. It's not a week or two off that society gives you as a vacation.
It's six months or two years or six weeks that you make for yourself to travel in earnest,
not as a consumer experience, not as a vacation, but as a more deeply meaningful life experience.
And as a way to actualize your wealth of time, and I think this
is an idea we'll come back to a lot, and it's something that you write about as well as me,
is the idea of time wealth. The idea that your experiences are more valuable in life than the
things that you accumulate, than the things that are always being touted as the most important
things in life. So travel is a great way to cash in on your time wealth. And vagabonding, just by
definition, is a more meaningful way of travel. It's a way of slowing down and really discovering
parts of yourself instead of just buying a lot of experiences, which we've sort of been conditioned
to do as American consumers. My first vagabonding trip was 20 years ago this year, oddly enough.
Happy anniversary.
Thank you.
Thank you.
It was just this time that I was straggling back to Kansas after having this amazing eight-month trip around North America.
And it was a trip that I thought would be my last.
I thought I would get travel out of my system so I could become a responsible American workaholic and then maybe return to travel when I was old.
But you mentioned the
idea of fear and the fears I had going out were, you know, is this going to be expensive? Is this
going to be dangerous? Am I going to come back and be compromised professionally? And all of those
sort of turned into the opposite, that it was a lot safer than I expected. It was a lot cheaper than
I expected. And I came back and for 20 years, I've been integrating travel with a professional
life that continues to diversify. I continue to do other things to make money while at the same
time having big swaths of time to travel. And I'm not suggesting that everybody needs to, you know, become a vagabonder for a 20 year chunk. And in some ways, I travel a lot less than I used to,
you know, 10 or 15 years ago. But it's something that you can do. It's an option that you can have.
And it's not an option that you wait for life to give you, you create it. And so I'm a big believer
in the active aspect of vagabonding, of saving your money.
The lottery is another metaphor I use a lot in vagabonding, that people keep waiting for the lottery to reward them.
But as we all know, the odds that you're going to win the lottery is pretty low.
But we've already won the lottery.
We're born with time wealth.
And so it's just a matter of creating these travel experiences or these time rich experiences through things like simplicity and just the decision to make these sort of things happen.
Well, that's one of the themes and I think gifts that you provide in Vagabonding.
And for those perhaps wondering, the subtitle says a lot, which is An Uncommon Guide to the Art of Long-Term World Travel.
And I think uncommon and art are both key words in that subtitle. financial, a quiver of, of philosophies and, uh, uh, suggestions for simplification,
viewing the world through a different lens, really decluttering your life, both materially and, uh,
emotionally and psychologically, uh, even if you do not travel. And what I've noticed is I recommend vagabonding to people
who have no intention of traveling or for whatever set of circumstances feel they can't travel
simply because, and I'm blanking on the attribution here, but I really believe that
most people, even those who have more money than they know what to do with, live lives of quiet desperation.
And they have this, they've fallen into a drone-like schedule where they have these material objects they thought might make them happy or give them something they were lacking beforehand.
But they've lost that, the excitement and anticipation perhaps that
they once had, you know, the, the, the leaping into the unknown, uh, the, the, the feeling that
kids have the night before Christmas or the week before Christmas and adults lose that.
And I think one of the easiest ways to capture that is to actually fantasize about travel,
but do it in detail, right? So not one day I want to travel,
but to read Vagabonding and go, oh my God, I could do A, I could do B, I could go to Japan
for the first time, I could go to Europe and busk, I could do all of these things that rekindle that
passion and enthusiasm and excitement. Because I think that excitement is a much more tangible metric for
perhaps what otherwise can be very nebulous in the word successful, right? In the US, I think that
for better or for worse, and I think perhaps for both, we have this Protestant-like work ethic towards a relatively undefined goal, which is this success. And what are some exercises
just in terms of helping to address that fear? So you mentioned one thing, which would be
setting a near time horizon for travel, right? And I completely agree that in many ways,
the utility of travel decreases as your physical capacity decreases,
right? So you can do the most, you have the most options, uh, the younger you are when you travel,
or at least, uh, the, the more functional your body is when you travel aside from setting a tight
goal and whether that's in a few weeks away, a few months away, what are some, are there any
exercises that people can go through to decrease that fear factor and, or anything they can read,
but besides vagabonding to decrease that fear factor. And there are, there's stories,
for instance, that I'll tell folks about Columbia is a good example. So I recently,
not too long ago, spent a month in Medellin, Colombia, which was formerly the murder capital of the world when it was under the iron fist of Pablo Escobar, the drug kingpin. in San Francisco on a daily basis whenever I go and walk down certain portions of Market Street
than I ever felt in Medellin. And I went all throughout the entire city.
And I think that sometimes those stories can be helpful, but do you have any recommendations
for whether it's exercises or things to read to sort of overcome the fear of the big bad
overseas adventures and all the terrible things
that await you or not? Yeah, well, there's a couple of big picture ones. It's funny,
Medellin, I was just there a year and a half ago. And I think now it's like the breast augmentation
capital of the world. Yeah, it's, yeah, you know, South America is, it's like the yeah you know south america is it's like the you know i guess korea has its facial
bleaching and then you know south america has uh if you brazil there it's the butt implant capital
of the world which is still incredible just to even ponder but yes continue sorry to interrupt
right now the drug lords moved out and the plastic surgeons moved in that was
it's a beautiful city but that was just it was a strange physical attribute that obviously surgeons have been hard at work. Wonderful city. that I have for this. And one is to, they're both sort of mental. They're about redefining
your relationship, um, or just how you think about things. One is your relationship to money
and what it represents. And one is your relationship to information and what it represents.
Um, you mentioned success, you know, the idea of the American, uh, you know, puritanical idea of
what success is and money is a great metric for success, but it's not the only metric
for success. And I think people fixate on money to their own detriment. Because as I mentioned
before, it doesn't take that much money to travel the world. Travel isn't a consumer experience.
And I think you said you weren't sure of the reference. I think you were quoting Thoreau
when you're sort of talking about these rich people who were sort of bound by their own riches. And he's, he's actually stealing that from
the Bible and the old Hindu scriptures, which talk about these, these golden chains with,
you know, under which we sink, you know, we're bound to our possessions. And through success,
this is a very old philosophical idea. Through success, we lose perspective on the good life because we tie success so closely with money and possessions and material splendor.
And so if you can just redefine your relationship with what success is, and really it goes back to the idea of time wealth, that success is being
able to do what you want whenever you want.
And there's billionaires out there who are compromised in ways that you or I, or, you
know, your plumber or your local park ranger, um, are not because just realizing that money
is a tool, it's not a metric for success.
It's a nice side product of success, but it's a tool for allowing you to live a time rich
and experience rich life and really live in ways that allow you to not only follow but discover
passions that you never realized you had. No, I agree on so many levels. And just to,
because of course, we both think about this stuff a lot. And I apologize for jumping in. But
just on the billionaire point, to give some concrete examples. So this is very recent.
I was talking to a fellow. He is putting together an event. It's going to be 20 or 30 people,
a number of billionaires in attendance. And it's a week-long retreat of sorts. And he said to me, this actually,
the gentleman who's organizing it is very materially successful, but actually has a
very level head on his shoulders and has been able to keep things like time and mobility in mind as
important currencies and metrics for his quality of life. So he's done
a really good job. But he said, of course, the billionaires can't take a week off. So they're
only going to be there for 24 to 36 hours. And I thought about that. And it was like,
the billionaires can't take a week off. What the hell is the point of having their billion dollars
if they don't have the options, if they have fewer options than I do, if that makes sense. And, uh, it reminded me of a
conversation I had at one point with, uh, another person who shall remain unnamed, but he has at
least several hundred million dollars, maybe a billion plus. And, uh, he was commenting on
the number of homes that he had and, uh, he's a good guy. But in effect, his accumulation
had gotten so out of control between, I don't know, six and 12 homes around the US. And he said,
I no longer feel like people work for me. I feel like I work for them because he has
staff of five to 10 people at each of these homes. He's never at
nine out of 10 of them. And, uh, so he's effectively just working to pay for homes
where his staff basically are the owners of the homes because they live there.
And I was like, wow, it, it, it really brings to mind, um, uh, this is also a quote, unfortunately, I don't know the attribution,
but the idea that things in excess become their opposite, right? So, you know, money that provides
you with freedom basically takes away your freedom when it reaches a certain point. It starts to reduce your freedom.
The idea that so-called freedom fighters in excess,
given too much power, become tyrants.
So things tend to flip when they get to a certain point of excess.
And also just because I'm such a diehard fanboy of vagabonding, correct me if I'm wrong, but the example that I think you gave in vagabonding of sort of Hollywood nonsense related to overseas travel was from Wall Street.
Wasn't it from Wall Street where Charlie Sheen's big goal was to save up enough, one day when he strikes it big to get a motorcycle and drive across China, I think.
Yeah.
And you pointed out that you could scrub toilets in China, not even in the U.S., for a month or two and probably figure out a way financially to make that possible. Um, so certainly, I mean, when I was traveling and,
and ultimately putting together the notes and observations that became the four hour work week,
I saved tens of thousands of dollars compared to simply staying in the Bay area in California.
And, uh, yeah, anyway, just, uh, that's, that's the thing is that if you live in an expensive city like San Francisco, New York, there's probably a half dozen other examples in the United States alone.
You're going to be living on fewer dollars per day by far if you're traveling in Southeast Asia or South America or the Middle East.
Then you would just be paying your bills and paying your rent and
buying your groceries at home, that you're traveling in a completely different economic
zone, which was sort of the point of pointing out this Wall Street example. And China, that movie
was from the 80s. Certainly China is more expensive since then. You might not have to
clean toilets. You might have to clean something else now to ride your motorcycle across China. But the point is, is that, you know, all this importance is placed upon conspicuous consumption
of romantic ideas of what we can do. And oftentimes, it's not money that's in the way,
it's a mindset thing. Which is why I'm sort of answering your question, your earlier question,
in a big picture way that it's
really a mindset about your relationship to money and your relationship to information, which I'll
get to in a second. But you were talking about, you know, the billionaire who's sort of become a
slave to his own parasitical wealth. That's an old idea too. I have a quote from the ancient
Sanskrit scriptures in Vagabonding, which is about the king and his
palace only has half a bed and the food on his plate for all the grain in his fields. Does he
own the rest? At the end of the day, even the kings, and I knew this 3,000 years ago, even kings
only eat one meal at a time. They only sleep in one bed at a time. And at the end of the day,
the substance of your life is through experience. And if you're suddenly compromised, your material wealth and your money
is there to actualize your experience and to enhance your life meaning. And the moment that
it becomes parasitical, the moment that you're a billionaire who has 36 hours to go to a conference,
and I'd love to know how much money is spent flying to the conference, catering it, you know, because, you know, I know
people who could travel probably for five years on what one billionaire spends to go to that 36
hour conference. And I'm sure you know, people who could do the same. So that's just such an
important thing to keep in mind is to, I have nothing against success or material success, but really know where the
line is, the point at which the success you've achieved is actually getting into the way of
actualizing a good and meaningful and option filled life. Definitely. Where does, so where
does the information come in? I'm, I'm very curious how the relationship to information plays into all of
this. Right. Well, this is where the fear factor comes in. You were talking about Medellin. You
know, there's Mexico that has a lot of drug war violence going on. Of course, the Middle East is
a perennially bad reputation place to travel to. But keep in mind that information is something that can work
against you or work for you. And these days, information is everywhere. When I left to travel
the United States 20 years ago, I was actually more afraid of the United States in 1994 than I'm afraid of any place in 2014, simply because pre-World Wide Web,
I didn't know what to expect. I had no examples. I grew up in Kansas, which is not in sort of
bullseye middle class circles. I didn't have a lot of friends traveling full time.
And so I didn't really have anything to compare to. Now, if you're a successful person
with the money to do it and the physical capacity to do it, you can go online. And not only can you
realize that people are traveling in Mexico, they're traveling in Colombia, they're traveling
in Egypt and Israel and other parts of the world where you think that might be dangerous.
You realize that there's family bloggers out there who are traveling with five kids to these places or traveling with a diabetes
problem or with physical handicaps or with money that they've made on a job that has
a fraction of what most people make.
People who've simply decided to become wealthy in time regardless of the fact that they work
as park rangers or exotic dancers or maintenance men. And so that information, you can, if you get past, I guess, media exists in a man bites dog world. They're going to talk about explosions and revolutions and bad things around the world. And so much of what we understand,
in fact, there's that famous phrase, you know, war is God's way of teaching Americans geography.
God, that's so horrible and so true. Oh, God.
And so because Americans are so insular, our international understanding is really pegged
to major world events that don't really represent day-to-day life in the towns of these towns around the world.
So if you can look past the panic-driven, man-bites-dog tenor of media and realize that Mexico is actually a giant country and that the drug violence is very isolated and that there are ways to travel in a very safe way and a very inexpensive way,
then suddenly Mexico becomes this amazing and very close way to travel.
My sister is a college professor in north central Kansas, and she and her family took a little – there's a big Mexican-American community in Kansas,
and they just took the local Mexican minivan down to
Fresnillo, Mexico, and just a family of four, and they've traveled for next to nothing in an amazing
way for their teenage sons to a part of the world that people assume is full of drug violence.
And that was just taking a minivan from five blocks away from where they live.
And so that information, realizing that the big picture
news media information is always going to be panic driven. It's always going to be,
you know, man bites dog. And so the more you get to the specific information and think,
hmm, you know, I'm 37 years old. I'm looking to take a sabbatical from my job. I live in Virginia, and I like to drink beer.
Well, within 30 minutes, you can find somebody from a very similar life situation who's doing what you're doing.
And again, even if, I mean, there's people who are blind who are traveling for years at a time.
There are people with major impediments.
And if you're able-bodied and you have a little money socked away,
there's really nothing stopping you except your own fear,
which is sometimes tied to your ideas of money or your ideas of what the world is like, which is pegged to information.
Right. Agreed.
What type of sites or resources would you recommend to people who are trying to find comparable folks, let's just say, people who will help years old, two kids, one year of travel, then odds are you'll find 20 blogs of people in that demographic who are doing just that.
So really be unabashed and very specific about Googling, you know, your fears or your demographic and just see who like you is is out traveling the
world there's a lot of great traveler communities i've been affiliated with boots and all.com
um since the very beginning of vagabonding and part of their mo is just sort of creating community
and and uh and support uh for people and they have they have blogs and resources on their site.
And there's other travel communities as well.
And Boots and All, we'll put the links to everything in the show,
of course, in the show notes for those people listening.
But it's Boots, the letter N, all.com, right?
Yeah, B-O-O-T-S-N-A-L-L.com.
And they've been operating out of Portland, Oregon for years
and have just quietly been doing the nice work of reassurance
and saying, oh, so you're worried about an around-the-world flight?
Well, here's how around-the-world flights look.
You're worried about a certain situation.
Here are some resources for that.
And they're not alone.
I'm most familiar with them because we've sort of shared a similar mission for a long time.
But there are big communities of travelers who are happy to help and sort of help newbies feel better about these prospects of long-term travel.
Yeah, they're all over.
I remember one that was very helpful to me in the beginning was virtualtourist.com.
And I was with the site for a long time.
And then the four-hour workweek came out, and I ended up becoming friends,
much in the same way that I reached out to you.
I became friends with the founder of virtual tourist. And so I'm now actually involved with a site of his called
trippy, which is just trippy.com as people would expect. But, uh, it's, it's effectively a community
of, of open questions and you can follow specific locations, right? So if you're interested in,
whether it's San Francisco, Buenos Aires, Spain, Medellin, whatever, all of the questions
that come up. For instance, I'm just taking a quick look here and you can pose any question
you want, but what's the steepest place you've ever been in country X? Where's the best rock
climbing in San Francisco, which is generally going to be extremely
uh inexpensive you know what are the best online tools for group vacation planning so if you're
if you're a family or multiple families so like you said there are many different options
speaking of of technology uh how have how have uh different services like like whether it's couch surfing or even say Airbnb or anything else, really these collaborative consumption companies changed travel for you?
And perhaps there are older examples, but you mentioned that you're taking a trip before we started recording and you're doing a home swap.
Would you mind perhaps elaborating on how some of those options work, those that you're familiar with?
Because I think that many people who consider travel think in terms of one of their main expenses being staying in a hotel, right?
And I'd love for you to share any of your thoughts on that.
Yeah, well, it's shifted the way the travel world works in some ways that are delightfully convenient and in some ways that are a little bit strange.
I think that technology is one of these double-edged swords that in some ways has turned us into insufferable micromanagers on the road.
Can you elaborate on that?
Yeah, well, I'll start with the negative.
Okay.
The travel culture which I started in, which was 20 years ago, but really my more international
travels are more like 15 years ago.
It's about showing up in town and knowing that when you get there, the unexpected awaits you,
that you're going to walk to the hotel district. You may have a guidebook with some hotel recommendations, but you're going to shop for your hotel. You're not going to find a deal online.
You're going to walk in there. You're going to see the room, you're going to haggle because in all throughout Asia, basically any place outside of the industrial world,
prices are up for grabs and haggling in person gives you so much more leverage than haggling
online because you can go in, look at the room and physically leave if the owner doesn't give
you a price that you're into. And so these days, it has become so convenient,
not always a bad thing,
but it has become so convenient
that people just assume that the best deals to be had
are the ones online.
And then pretty soon you've locked in,
you're traveling for six weeks
and you know where you're sleeping every night in advance.
And it really compromises the flexibility of travel
and the serendipity of
being inspired by a place and thinking i'm going to stay here for a few days or wow i just met this
traveler who told me about this great place up in the mountains and i'm i'm not going to go to
varanasi i'm going to go up into the himalayas and spend my time there this technologically
enhanced micromanaging cuts into that serendipity in a certain way.
And it also connects us to home.
And again, it's a two-edged thing.
Social media and the constant connectivity that comes with smartphones, for example,
allows us to really find things that we couldn't find before,
but it cuts into the idea of wandering around and finding things by surprise,
finding things organicallyically and letting a destination
reveal itself to us on its own terms instead of sort of finding that place as a consumer before
we get there. And a lot of technologies have eliminated things like loneliness and boredom,
which sounds good and is good to a certain extent, but loneliness and boredom
can lead you to those moments that
sort of force you into a new version of yourself. They force you to be more extroverted.
Totally agreed. Totally agreed.
They force you to read the local newspaper instead of looking through your Facebook feed, right?
And so that is what we're up against with these technological these technological advances and i don't want to be the grumpy older traveler because i remember being being 20 and listening
to these you know baby boom era hippies sort of lecture me on how travel used to be you know back
at a time when telephone answering machines and credit cards were seen as this decadent form of
technology um and and so i know that there are younger travelers who don't know anything but the
constant connectivity of travel.
Um, but unplugging is important and we can talk more about that if, if you want.
Um, and we can also talk about the pluses and there, I have many recent examples about
how technology have, have helped.
This recent home exchange is just a longtime friend who lives in Brooklyn.
She's a writer, uh, and she wants a quiet place.
I have 30 acres in Kansas. And so I get an awesome pad in Brooklyn for a week and she gets a
quiet farm in Kansas for a time. And the positives you mentioned or alluded to the positives. I
definitely want to delve into the importance of disconnecting. Yeah think I've become somewhat, especially living in Silicon
Valley, but have some thoughts there as well. But what would you say, how would you expand on the
recent positives or positive examples? Yeah, well, you mentioned Airbnb and couch surfing. I think in places, in more expensive places like Europe,
you know, the hostel was your go-to. It was where if you wanted to save money, you would go to the
youth hostel. And it was a great place to meet people. You get a cheap bed. You would forgo a
few amenities, but you would hang out in the hostel. Well, I went to Amsterdam this summer.
I teach a writing course in Paris every summer, and my sister and my nephew came
and visited me, and we wanted to go see Amsterdam. And using Airbnb, I was able to get a full cottage,
a 15-minute train ride outside of central Amsterdam for about half the price as a hostel for three people in the center of Amsterdam.
So instead of staying at a somewhat grungy hostel in the red light district,
we were staying in this little town filled with windmills and we had our own house to ourselves
and we could just walk down the street and get groceries. And so that was an Airbnb hookup.
Couch surfing is a similar, has similar benefits. It just allows you to break out of not only that old hotel set of assumptions, but also out of the hostel set of have been as cheap as the hostel. But with three
of us, we were getting hostel one bed at a time. We just got the perfect place to stay through
Airbnb. And so those services and even social media, even going on Facebook or Twitter,
and I'm not a big believer of tweeting while you travel. I think that that really puts you into this home
mindset and it pulls you out of the place where you are. And the point of travel is experiencing
what's before your eyes and not what's coming across your social media feed. But before your
travel, before one's travels, I'm a big fan of throwing, throwing out a tweet or Facebook post
that says, Hey, look, I'm going to be in this place. What are some suggestions? And that is something that
didn't exist 10 years ago and is not tied to a business or social networking thing like Airbnb
and couch surfing. But it could just be that your buddy from high school has a friend who's in the
military in Germany and they have an ex-girlfriend who lives in Stockholm and suddenly you have a place to stay through very random circumstances.
And so that kind of,
it's the old model of sitting in the hostel
or sitting in a guest house or a bar
in an exotic part of the world,
talking to the six travelers who are there with you
and them giving you advice on points further down the road.
That principle has been taken to social media
and through networking,
that's another way that technology has allowed taken to social media and through networking that's another way that
technology has allowed that that that old hostel room it's actually killed the at the literal
hostel room where people are now staring at their phones in the hostel room but it has expanded the
virtual hostel room where instead of talking to the six travelers you're with physically you can
be talking to 600 travelers through your networks who might have some good
advice for you. No, agreed. And, uh, the, to touch on the disconnection point, uh,
I think that, uh, I think that social media and being online while traveling, if the objective of travel is to gain some introspection, have unique experiences, and come back better than when you left in some. And it's very common, at least if I'm speaking from my personal experience
and looking at many of my friends,
whose professional lives are based on computers.
They look at a laptop, they look at their smartphone,
they look at their desktop computer for work,
which is the vast majority of them,
who are managing
email using base camp or other online services to manage business. It is, it is a, uh, it's very
easy to use Twitter or Facebook socially as a gateway drug. And you're only one tab away from,
from, from going right back into your, your old routine. Uh. And it's extremely easy and seductive,
like you said, because of the convenience to travel abroad. And I know many people who do this,
unfortunately, I don't see the point, but they will take a laptop, go overseas, stay at a hotel
that could just as easily be the Four Seasons in any major city in the United
States. And they come back and they really haven't, they've changed time zones, but their mind,
their experience hasn't changed more than perhaps what they had for lunch while they were abroad, which is a real shame. And so when I've taken these,
when I've taken sabbaticals,
which are typically because I feel like
I need to reassess my priorities
and gain some perspective on things
that are hard to assess when you're down in the weeds, right?
When you're deflecting bullets and dodging problems and putting out fires, looking at your email inbox, it's very hard to step back and look at the larger picture of your life and goals and whatnot from a computer, phone, and calendar, basically, to, like you said,
move from the micromanaging of my daily experience to the extreme opposite, for me at least, which
was pretty much pure serendipity and forcing myself to, rather than feel comfortable and convenienced, to feel as
uncomfortable as possible, at least when you consider how routinized life becomes.
Even if you're, or especially if you're kind of optimizing for efficiency, right? It's very easy
to become trapped in systems of your own making where you're like, well, fantastic. My per hour output is, is wonderful. I'm doing all these new things. I'm taking on new projects.
And then you step back and you realize, wow, I might as well just be a cyborg running,
you know, running in all these systems. So this is a very long meandering observation, but I think
that, uh, even if your only goal, and I don't think this is a crass goal, but even if your only
goal were to improve your professional life, especially if you run your own company, taking
a month off the grid is perhaps the best way to do it because you have to set up systems that will
persist after you get back. If you're taking three days to go to Amsterdam, you don't need to do that.
A week off, you can probably come back and still rescue things. But a month off,
completely off the grid, and I was available for emergencies via phone by my assistant or other
people. They had to call the office at the Bahasa Indonesian language school and find their way to
me. You really have to, I think,
think about the bigger questions that are easy to avoid, um, by, by, uh, keeping your hands full
with busy work. But anyway, long, long sort of preachy observation. But I really think that,
um, you know, the, the less you feel you can go without your smartphone, the greater the value
of going without your smartphone.
Yeah, well, this is an old conversation. The first person to do this in the technological age was actually J.P. Morgan. When the telegraph was invented, he went to Egypt, and I forget exactly,
it was a little over 100 years ago. And his companions talked about how he was
in Egypt, but not really, because he spent his whole time in Egypt attending to business. It
was like the turn of the previous century version of what you just explained. It was him in a hotel
room attending to his business. Technology, basically, the telegraph, which seems very primitive in retrospect, prevented J.P. Morgan from actually being in Egypt.
He may as well have not left home.
And so this is an old problem.
In fact, travelers of previous generations have complained that sailboats, that steamships were compromising travel in ways that sailboats didn't. In the Roman
era, the technology of roads was changing the way travel was experienced. George Orwell talked about
how trains were changing the way that travel was experienced. And trains, when you think about it,
was a technology that allowed you to travel so quickly compared to how you previously could,
that you could maintain a business relationship of sorts while you were traveling. I don't think there's a silver bullet that can keep you from
being a slave to your smartphone when you travel. It's hard. And as you mentioned, there's some
things that you have to maintain back home if you're traveling for more than a couple of weeks.
To an extent, it's a lot about self
discipline. There's something to be said for physically not taking your smartphone with you,
which is something I don't do when I travel. I use the internet, right?
Yeah, absolutely. I make it I make it harder. So I don't have a data plan
that that generally allows me to get international coverage. So I can't, I can't use the phone. Yeah. And this pays off
in tangible ways. There's been recent research that having a vacation that is actually a vacation,
and this isn't about vagabonding, this is about vacations, is important for your creative mind.
It's important for your brain that having a cessation of obsessing on your creative life will allow your brain to work in ways that
will make you more creative. So even if you travel to Amsterdam or Bangkok or the Andes
for a week and you're constantly attached to your smartphone, in some ways it could be less
advantageous to the creative
life of your business or your career than if you just let go. Because if you let go of that
constant stream to the information and the micromanaging, then your brain is working in
the same way that it was back home. And part of the gifts of travel is that your brain and your
emotions and everything is working in a new way. And your brain actually, that obsessive part of your brain is resting,
but it's actually working in its own way.
And this is actually scientific information.
The New York Times reported on it about a week ago,
that you actually come back, if you can unplug,
if you can actually immerse yourself in a new place
and turn off that obsessive part of your business brain,
then you can come back and your mind will gift you with creative ideas
and insights that it didn't have if you had spent your whole time in the Andes or Amsterdam or
Bangkok obsessing on those very business issues. Definitely. I'm sorry, you took an inhale. You
feel it sounded like I interrupted you. Well, there's one more point I was going to make is that it sort of this ties into the idea of time wealth.
That sometimes these days, this new generation has a way of stealing time wealth.
Again, it's not that new.
I mean, Plato complained about that written literacy was ruining people's ability to memorize poetry, right? But now this technology is so immersed in our lives that we can steal our own
time wealth by being hooked into virtual experiences, into our social media feeds,
instead of the experiences that are before us. You used a great phrase, which is optimizing for
efficiency. And just think, if you're going to sit down to an Italian meal in Italy, are you going to
want to optimize that meal for efficiency? If you're going to hike for
a week in the Andes and the Machu Picchu region, are you going to want to make sure that that hike
is optimized for efficiency? If you're going to be sitting on a beach in Thailand or Brazil,
are you going to want to optimize that experience for efficiency? I think that that Italian meal
metaphor can apply to so much of travel that, of course, you don't want to make it more efficient. You want to savor every bit of it. You want to be eating tomatoes that were in the ground two nights before and having just these very sensual, tactile experiences, not just food experiences, but just ideas of the unexpected, of unplugging yourself from the life thatendipity are not just, you
know, actually you can stumble into a bad experience as easily as you can stumble into a good experience.
But it's the misadventures or the unexpected good experiences that actually change you,
you know, to the core of your being in a way that those pre-planned experiences don't.
And so if you can't unplug, you're robbing yourself of that aspect of your time wealth.
You're making, to extend this metaphor, you're making an optimized efficiency out of an Italian
meal in every sense of the word. And it's hard to break away from, but in the vagabonding sense,
it's essential. You're going to be selling yourself short if you can't stop micromanaging and optimizing for efficiency. And the more
you think about those phrases in the context of the best parts of travel,
the more you realize that you really have to throw the jargon, the efficiency jargon of daily life
out the window and just throw yourself open to the travel experience. Definitely. And one thing that I think about a lot and part of my motivation for
traveling oftentimes, and you don't have to travel, uh, over overseas to achieve this, but I find the,
the, the change of scenery to be very helpful for resetting, is to focus on appreciation as opposed to
achievement.
And I'm very type A, always have been, and competitive.
And those can sometimes really reinforce themselves in good but often destructive ways.
And when I go abroad, I think food is a fantastic lens actually to use, not just
metaphorically, but to really focus on slow, long meals is I think one of the greatest gifts you can
give yourself. And that was one of the experiences that I brought back after my nine months in
Argentina, which was supposed to be four weeks as these things often turn out, with the really long dinners. A couple bottles of wine, a bunch of friends.
Of course, they have the parrilla and the incredible meats of Argentina. But
putting aside the fact that they're famous in South America for being unproductive,
putting that aside, the long
meals with larger groups of friends was something that I brought back with me to the US and that I
try to do at least once a week or once every two weeks. The other observation I wanted to make for
folks, because I really was, well, no, forget was, I think once, once a computer addict, always a computer addict,
just to kind of borrow from AA, you know, once an addict, always an addict, and you have to
manage that. And I think one of the easiest ways to manage that is to not rely on self-discipline.
What I mean by that is when I took my, my trip, uh, in 2004, which, which some people know began with a one-way ticket to London and
no planned itinerary, no planned return date. Uh, I didn't take my laptop. I did. And I knew I,
I couldn't take my laptop because I would default to using it. And what that meant was at the time,
and there are many different ways to do this now, but I had go to my PC installed on a computer, uh, at home.
And if I wanted to use my laptop, so to speak, I would have to go into an internet cafe and which,
which is not generally one of my favorite experiences. It's pretty, they're usually
dingy. It's, it's just not an experience I enjoy, which is entirely the point. I wanted to make it inconvenient and unpleasant to engage in, uh, sort of masturbatory, uh, computer use, you know?
And, uh, and, uh, I think that it's, it's very easy to default to that because you can always
find something on the internet, right? Whether it's, and you could very easily go to Morocco and then end up sitting on your laptop, watching the stupidest cat videos
on YouTube for hours a day, because that's what the internet optimizes for. It optimizes for clicks
and views and everything else that can be commercialized, generally speaking. So, you know,
don't even enter, don't walk through the door if you don't want that to happen. Um, so when in, when possible sort of, uh, change your environment and remove
things that facilitate bad behavior, as opposed to trying to rely on, uh, willpower, which I think
is very, very fallible. Uh, the, um, you mentioned creativity and I wanted to wanted to ask you about that because I really, really enjoy your writing.
And I don't say that lightly, not that I'm the ultimate connoisseur in writing, but I think that a lot of writing is very, very bad.
And I've loved your writing and enjoyed it for a very long time.
Of course.
Yeah, it's had a huge impact on my thinking and not, not moreover
my actual behavior and way of living. So the, I want to talk about the, the concept of a staycation.
Uh, are there times, um, for, for, uh, creativity and let's just use writing as an example, do you find that you can replicate some of the benefits of travel in what people might refer to as a staycation?
Yes.
Yeah.
And this goes back to something that we were talking much earlier in the conversation about decluttering emotionally you talked about the idea of uh i
think you used the word portfolio to describe something um but i think i think vagabonding
uh the principles of vagabonding apply to life in non-travel ways um and it it's it's been used as
a text in social studies class and And it's sort of about another,
tying into something else you were talking about earlier, you were talking about something that sort of constitutes what some people call the beginner's mind, which is part of the excitement
of traveling. Definitely, definitely. Is that we get stuck into being experts and online resources
allow us to be sort of dilettante experts in everything. You know, we can suddenly know a little bit about everything
when in fact the beginner's mind
is one of the most emotionally daunting
and exciting parts of travel
where you just allow yourself to be a child again.
And in fact, I have some quotes in Vagabonding
talking about how you go to a new city
and you're as dumb as a five-year-old.
You know, you can hardly read, you know.
You don't know. It's dangerous
to cross the street. This is a gift of travel is that it allows you to have the vulnerability of
being very young, but also the excitement of being very young and the discovery of being very young.
And sometimes for all of the research you do back home, the coolest part of showing up in, in Bangkok or Buenos Aires or, or, you know, Cape town is just
smelling the place, you know, or, or, um, or going in and into not into a tourist place,
but into a supermarket and realizing how different everything is. And it's, it's that beginner's
mind. It's, it's that wonder of childhood stuff. It can turn into a cheesy metaphor, but it's a real thing. It's that beginner's mind, taking that travel mindset,
which I talk about at the end of Vagabond and the idea of coming home and treating your neighbors
as exotic tribesmen back home. And one thing, and actually one thing I'd love to talk to you about
is the idea of appreciation versus achievement, because there's limits to achievement. I mean, you've been, it's been, before our work week came out, what, seven?
2007, yeah, seven years ago.
And I think there's, you know,
there's an extent to which that ongoing success
can be as meaningless as ongoing lack of success.
And that you have to have a relationship with that
to realize that appreciation
becomes more important than
achievement because there comes a point at which that you've achieved your goals and now what,
you know? Definitely. And so I think achievement is a linear way of thinking, which is very
American and important. And I'm a big believer in that. But appreciation is that more Eastern
circular way of thinking of being able to savor what you do have and balancing that with your achievements.
And so that goes back and ties into the creativity, the idea of coming back home.
And I own a house on 30 acres of land in Kansas, and that's no accident.
I'm close to my family, but it's also really, really cheap.
And instead of living in a fashionable part of a big city, I can.
I mean, what's happening right now is an example of it.
I'm going to go live in Brooklyn for a week and do a little home exchange,
and I have the option of living for short periods of time anywhere
while at the same time saving money and really building a relationship to a place,
which is my quiet 30 acres in a sparsely populated part of north-central Kansas,
and I am extraordinarily creative there, not just because it's quiet, but because I can have
sort of a quieter sense of discovery, sort of a walking pace, neighbor's pace sense of discovery
in the place where I live. This is another one of the silver bullet things you were talking about, um, how you
enjoyed my writing. Um, and it is so tortured sometimes to write well, you know, very familiar,
one beautiful, smooth reading, logical, inspirational paragraph of prose is the process
of a day of labor and self-loathing. So, so just because I have this wonderful place to write and that my
creativity is enhanced by marrying my travel mindset to my home doesn't mean that I just
am sitting at my desk laughing in glee with my glass of wine writing brilliant prose. It doesn't get easier, but I guess it enables that tortured
process to be fruitful in a way that perhaps it wouldn't have been otherwise. I don't know.
I know that you have a very... Annie Dillard said that a schedule is a net for catching days,
and I think that you're a believer in being very disciplined about having a writing schedule. I'm not very disciplined, but somehow it works anyway.
Well, just because I'm a believer doesn't mean I'm a fantastic practitioner, right?
Right.
But I think for folks who are wondering what it's like to be a writer for most people. Now, I should maybe caveat that with
the observation that I have extreme jealousy slash anger sometimes towards extremely good
journalists who have daily or weekly deadlines because many of them, to my great upset,
disagree that writer's block even exists.
And they say, I don't have the luxury of writer's block.
I need to kick out 1,500 words a day.
And they're exceptionally good at it.
And it's just infuriating because my experience with writing is, number one, it has not gotten easier.
Generally, people ask me, like, oh, well, after the third book, it must just get easier and easier. Generally, people ask me like, oh, well, after the third book, it must just get easier and easier. I'm like, actually, it just gets harder and harder because I feel like I have to ensure
that I'm not repeating myself. But the most accurate sort of portrayal of my experience
of writing is adaptation. And I actually, I nicholas cage is amazing in it uh but uh
the movie the movie is weird i i read the screenplay first but just the idea that you sit
down you're like okay i'm gonna do this i'm gonna do this and you're like you know god i should
really wash my face you know like i should just she did a donut i need to relax before i start
writing to all of these like you will at least i i, I, you know, uh, Ayn Rand, I can,
I can never really, I don't know if it's Ayn or Ann, but anyway, let's just say Ayn Rand,
um, had a book called how to write, I think it was how to write nonfiction. And there was a portion
called the white tennis shoes. And I remember the white tennis shoes is, uh, refers to the fact that
if you sit down to write and there's a pair of white tennis shoes with a little blemish on it,
you will, you will convince yourself that you need to clean those shoes before you write
and that a writer will do anything to avoid writing. So that's my general experience.
I feel like a schedule or at least a plan helps to, even if you don't fulfill that plan, for me, it's, it's, and I think this is actually
a Winston Churchill quote where he said that in effect, you know, a plan is important,
not because you're going to follow the plan, but for the planning itself.
And I find that having a plan for writing decreases my anxiety associated with writing,
which helps me to write, even if I don't execute that plan perfectly.
But what, what, what, what is your writing process like? And I have, you know, some,
some additional questions about travel, of course, but, and vagabonding, I should say rather,
but what, what does your writing process look like? When do you typically sit down to write and why?
Well, it's funny that you mentioned the Nicolas Cage character and adaptation as something you can relate to, because that's like the least glamorous depiction of a writer,
you know, and you're going to compromise people's romantic conception of you as a writer.
And my process is possibly even worse.
I think because, I don't know,
I think there's different neuroses attributed to writer,
and mine is maybe a little bit obsessive-compulsive,
that sometimes I could be the guy
who writes two hours before breakfast every day,
and sometimes I am,
but sometimes I'm the guy who writes two hours before breakfast every day? And sometimes I am, but sometimes I'm
the guy who writes for 14 hours. Um, and, and is it most fruitful at hour 13? Uh, and so, you know,
my, if I wrote a writer's handbook and I teach writing and I try to instill, you know, discipline
and ideas of discipline in my students, cause that's important because people can over romanticize writing and think about the muse visiting them. And in fact,
you need to be the one who creates this. But in practice, I'm sort of a bad example that there's
some days where I'll just sort of be just frustrated with myself. I'll have my spot on
the white shoes problem. I actually bought the freedom app. Do you know the freedom app?
The internet connection? Oh, the freedom app. I thought you said the freedom map. I was very
excited. Yes. No, the freedom the Freedom map. I was very excited.
Yes, no, the Freedom app is cool.
I agree.
Yeah, and it's just one of those things where despite my good intentions,
sometimes my monkey brain goes back to the internet,
and I just have to be my own mother and discipline myself.
I wrote a screenplay in 12 days earlier this month. And so that's an example of,
it was really a, it was sort of a pulpy B movie screenplay that I did for fun just because I had
this idea and I would compromise my happiness if I didn't suddenly write this movie that was about
zombies and giant dinosaur attacks. And I think that was
almost part of resting certain parts of my intellectual brain that it was just delightful
to write a really pulpy story. But it was interesting. It's like I keep teaching myself
lessons. When I wrote something low stake, when I wrote a B movie, you know, a monster movie earlier
this month, it gave me such an interesting creative
perspective on my, on my own processes and the importance of just getting work out there. Um,
that I was, I was able to write 90 pages in 12 days, whereas sometimes I can be torture,
tortured over a 1500 word article. So I think there's something, you know, worthy in the idea
of, you know, Anne Lamott's idea of shitty first
drafts of getting the word, the words on the page. Kurt Vonnegut said that there's two types of
writers. There's swoopers and bashers. I'm so glad you're bringing this up. Yeah. Please go into this.
You're familiar with the concept. I am, but I want you to, I want you to explain it because
this is so key. Yeah. Well, swoopers tend to be people who will blast through their first draft
and then they'll spend days, if not weeks working on draft number two and number 13 and number 67 until they get it right.
Whereas bashers, they go sentence by sentence. And by the time page one is done, then paragraph one has been rewritten 10 times.
And by the time they finish what they're working on, be it 1500 words or
30,000 words, it's pretty much done. They're not going to do a whole lot of rewrites,
but that process has taken, you know, 20 times as long as a swooper will take. And these are
both legitimate creative, um, uh, methods. And, and he suggests that maybe, uh, women tend to
be swoopers and men tend to be bashers.
And that might be statistically true, but I've met, you know, male swoopers and female bashers.
And they're both creative ways. I am a basher through and through.
I am as well. And I think of the two, I've never been a swooper, so I don't know how it feels, but I have to imagine that being a basher is just the most torturous process of self-loathing and doubt.
It's because there are days, I don't know if you've experienced this, but you'll be like, okay, great.
I'm going to try to knock out whatever it is, a few pages.
And I will just agonize over the first two paragraphs in an hour.
It's so, God, it just gives me anxiety even thinking about it.
But yeah, anyway, I apologize.
This is serving as a therapy session for me.
Oh, no, it's actually, and hopefully people in our audience can take heart in this,
but I'm in the exact same situation that the last third of a story or even a book is the easiest to write because I have the first two thirds to show that I'm not a complete incompetent, you know, and that I have in my office.
I have different, you know, writing awards and articles about myself to sort of remind me that I'm not a complete incompetent.
But that blank page that the generations of writers have
talked about is a real kind of anxiety. Um, and, and getting started. And I have a, I have a really
bad combination, which is that I'm a basher, but I'm also an optimist. And I, and I think that if
I completely gave way to self-loathing and pessimism, that I would just throw something
horrible out and then, and then I would have something. But I just have this blank page anxiety coupled with the optimism that I think I can do good.
It just makes it that much harder to get started because I just can't.
I know that something is going to be good, but for some reason that first step is somehow at odds
with my optimism. So it's a weird thing. And I'm actually relieved to hear that you
struggle with the same thing. Oh, yes. Struggles, I think a very generous,
light word for it. But we're both successful authors. So I think that there's something.
No, hopefully people take some solace in that think i think matters are not helped by the fact that i've i've tried
for years to change my writing schedule so that i get good synthesis um i tend to differentiate
between research and and synthesis or gathering up all of my material and then putting it into prose.
It doesn't help matters that I've tried to become a morning writer.
And I have friends who do this where they wake up really early and they kick out good
prose in the morning.
I've never been good at it.
So I tend to get started in the middle of the night when it's pitch black outside.
And so I have those moments of acute anxiety.
It's just, I might as well be in solitary confinement in a basement.
So that probably doesn't help my psychological state much, but who knows?
Maybe some good has come of it.
What are some of your favorite books or articles on writing itself?
Or just commentary.
These could be authors who have written about it.
But I'm looking for things myself, quite frankly, to read.
You mentioned Anne Lamott.
I think Bird by Bird is a fantastic book.
But what are some of your favorite books or commentaries on writing?
Well, this is funny because I teach writing in various contexts.