The Toast - Desperately Seeking Salvation: Wednesday, May 10th, 2023

Episode Date: May 10, 2023

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Good morning, Millennials, and welcome back to The Toast. Happy Wednesday. It is hump day. A great day here at The Toast. A great day, really, no matter where you are. Universally beloved day. I feel like they love, I feel like they love Wednesday, like even in the most dire of circumstances, you know?

You're a prisoner at Guantanamo, but it's Wednesday. It's hump day. The thing about hump day, though, is that like it's Wednesday, which is actually a's hump day. The thing about hump day though is that like it's Wednesday which is actually a sucky day. Well excuse me for trying to put a positive spin on a long car ride. Yeah no you're excused but let's let's we not forget like it's the middle of the week we're getting over them but we're getting you over the hump but you know we we talk a lot about the perks of hump day and I don't think we talk about the negatives enough. Jackie, don't start because that's just a slippery slope, you know?

I don't think we talk about the negatives enough. I know. But this hump day doesn't feel like a regular Wednesday because the rest of our week is like... Fococked. Fococked. Yeah. It feels like a Wednesday for me because like it sucks and I look so ugly.

Like I'm doing no hair, no makeup on the toast. But it's because I got a spray tan and I'm about to get on a flight. And honestly, like I just couldn't do it, know yeah you're playing a Chris Appleton it's like such a crazy brave thing to do like to be on this YouTube channel that millions of people see hourly and to be looking like your most borderline natural self like I deserve seriously a purple heart I'm so brave no you're fine like you're skinny and you're tan so it's fine also it's not like your makeup it's not like me if I come on without makeup I don't have eyebrows and I don't have eyelashes and I like have no color in my face like you have a face no I see how you

could see that face and you have a tan and you're you're like a vibe you're a mood thank god for the tan let's just let's leave it there yeah although it was just an absolute delight to like roll out of bed like a man this morning like I literally took a shower because I had to wash off my spring time I put on some deodorant I threw my hair back and I put on clothes like what a life yeah what a fucking life the luxury yeah the privilege I got to like lay around for like an extra 20 minutes loved every minute of it do you think that that's what's in your future manliness no no that's that's a good question I think perhaps what might be in my future is you know more podcast only days because when we're not on YouTube we don't have to get all you know

glamorous gussied up so honestly like I'm jealous of the people who just have podcasts you know i know we could be saving ourselves so much time and money on makeup if we just did a podcast on this studio oh yeah this we've already discussed that and that's why it's so important that you subscribe to our youtube channel because the more subscribers we have the less likelihood we'll ever go podcast only permanently but no we're definitely not going podcast only permanently. We've come this far. And now video is kind of germane to podcasting, which it wasn't when we started it this way. But even if we were just podcasters,

we probably would have had to get on the video train sometime this year. Yeah. And that would have been overwhelming. Yeah, like to have to do it all at once. Start wearing makeup to work and being on camera and setting up a studio. You know the clips. What the clips giveth, the clips also taketh away you mean because our clips aren't what doing what they used to do no because the clips like you know are changing our business everyone's like falling in love with

us on tiktok and reels but we have to get all gussied up oh that's what they're taking they're taking away you know chipping away at the pieces of my soul got it i thought you meant because like when we first started posting clips like it was just so much fanfare. No. And now we're really like like. No that's just not true. Our clips are still killing it.

I don't know what happens on TikTok but I know what I see on Reels. On Reels they're killing it like don't come for the clips. Oh my God. The clips not only are they

a quarter stone of this business they are near and dear to my heart. So say something negative about the clips. You're basically saying something negative about me. I literally didn't say something negative about the clips you're basically saying something negative about me I literally didn't say anything negative you said that they're not popping off but that could just be the algorithm not the clips themselves it's so like the fact that you would come for the clips like this early in the morning

when I'm not wearing makeup but I'm not coming for the clips and also if I'm coming for the clips I'm coming for myself I would say like coming for the clips is like 50% coming for myself, but it's really like like 15%. You know how I feel about the clips. Like the clips are like you. Okay. Ready? The clips to me is like rolled to you. Does that kind of put it in perspective? Yeah. Just so you can like kind of understand where I'm coming from. So on Sunday, are you celebrating Clippers Day? I am. I am. Monday, the Sunday Mother's Day is a really big day for me. Not only am I the mother of the clips, I'm the mother of Theo and I'm kind of like a mother of this community. That's beautiful. Yeah. Basically, I don't have any children. Yeah. How's Theo? Great question. I haven't seen him in so long. He is at his, my in-laws, his grandparents, where he honestly

prefers to spend his time. When we were in Nashville, and then I came back Sunday, and I was leaving again today. I was like, why disturb Theo? He's so happy. They take him to the beach. He has his routine. So I left him there. And it's been hard, I can't lie.

Being in my house, like without Ben, and without Theo, it's truly not a life worth living. It's so empty and lonely. That is really empty. That's why I've been spending so much time with you. Not to rub it in, but I slept with Shrysan last night. And usually he sleeps towards the end of the bed, because that's why I've been spending so much time with you. Not to rub it in, but I slept with Shrysan last night.

And usually he sleeps towards the end of the bed because that's where I put heating pad or that's where like his favorite Barefoot Dreams blanket is. But last night when I got into bed, like he just decided to like sleep in my spot.

So I, I went to Zach's spot and I slept there and like we were together the whole night. Yeah, no, I have slept with Bruno

many times and I can tell you it's one of the most unpleasant experiences last night he maybe when you have to know how to sleep around the stress no I think when your baby boy is at my house he feels like a little displaced because he's not with his mama and he just wants to curl up to like the warmest thing so he has to sleep like in my vagina he gives me no room to breathe yeah in the night, like I wind up on my back. I usually sleep on my side of when you're pregnant.

Like it's best to sleep on your side. But sometimes, you know, you roll over. Things happen. And I sleep on my back. And like if my legs are even like a little bit. Open. Separated. Stry sands in the middle.

Did you know that Megan Maroney song? This is literally about Bruno. I sleep on my side and you sleep with everyone i don't that's not the right melody i've only heard it a few times but that's literally strice that sure i was actually listening to the megan maroney album this morning it's so good finding new meaning in some of the lyrics like trader jo Joe she's saying like she's a Trader Joe trade her Joe you know grammar so important it always and then of course it's like Trader Joe's let's get groceries but you once pointed out to me like the importance of a comma do you remember this when oh put me in coach put me in

coach put me in coach yeah two different meanings one you want to get in the game the other you want to sit in economy right and trust and believe if i'm ever saying put me in coach i want to go to the field because i don't want to sit in coach but you want to get in the game if i had to choose between the two yeah i'd like to get in the game you're looking stunning today i am just kind of stunting like you knew i was going to look ugly so you had to look nice i do the exact same makeup every single day like wearing this colorful wearing this colorful sweater. Oh yeah I got a new Kurt again. And when I felt like I was an old Kurt again. That's like I think what she was trying to say when she wrote that song. Yeah she was. This is not an old Kurt again. This is a new Kurt again. It's nice and pleating. And when I felt like I was

a new Kurt again. Exactly. New cardigan, new you. New cardigan greater than old cardigan. I don't know. I feel like sometimes an old cardigan that like has been with you in your family for years. Morphed to your shape. And it has memories and it has like you know like holes and stuff but that's what

makes it like important. Then you like wrap it around yourself when you're staring off into the distance on your porch contemplating divorce you know that's like cardigans are made for contemplation you don't agree world well they're also made for pregnant women right now yeah but like if you're not just like wrapping the cardigan and like thinking why bother wearing a cardigan because you're cold because you want to cover your arms because you want to cover your booty because you want to cover your arms that's really all you need you want to cover your sides yeah no now that i think about it cardigans are so versatile that's why i keep asking you to bring me some fucking cardigans and i keep telling you just come over to my

fucking house oh yeah now i'm gonna go shopping in your closet but you're never home the life of a jet-setting star so you and and the satchel are off to Dallas. Can you believe I'm spending a week with satchel? It's literally one night, but okay. Do you think Katie... It's two nights, bitch. And that's exactly what a weekend is. You said a week. Oh, I meant a weekend.

Can you believe? Do you think Katie Maloney is going to feel weird that I'm spending a good amount of time with satchel? No, I think she trusts you. Yeah, around the satchel. And she trusts satchel. Implicitly. Are they still together?

I really don't know. Okay. Well, Vanderpump Rules is on tonight. That's exciting. But let's talk about your 48 hours with the satch. I'm heading to Dallas today. Tomorrow, Academy of Country Music Awards. Snatch and I are walking the carpet.

We're doing some carpet interviews. We're going inside the show. And then I think we're going to hit up an after party. It's going to be like a crazy day. And this is subject to change. But i think i'm wearing my hair up which is she is wearing her hair up she has to if you thought this was brave you know coming on this youtube channel that millions of people see hourly with no makeup and no hair just wait till you see me on the carpet tomorrow and updo a chignon but we've established that updos are greater than they are but like you know it's just

crazy I'm using a local Dallas hairstylist who I'm not I'm sure she's amazing you know Margo's used her before but it's not someone I'm like you know super comfortable with and hair to me is just so personal more personal than comedy yeah you just have to kind of let some of your walls down I can't you're like making everything such a big deal in your mind. It's like girly swirly. You're wearing your hair up. Your jaw is snatched. What's the problem?

I can't. I can't. Like my walls, they protect me, you know, and they've protected me for years. I know, but you have to let them down. I can't. You're like just holding on to all of this anxiety. This trauma. Anxiety.

I'm going to try. I'm really going to try try just let the chips fall where they may how scary is that it's fine like it's literally fine it's fine it's fine you've like put in all the work i'm putting like a lot of pressure on this up to like i think that's a mistake i know i agree because then i'm just gonna hate it regardless yeah like what up to could be that perfect so true like i just think like she's gonna spin me around in the chair and I'm gonna be Margot Robbie but like I just think you should get in the chair be like do your worst no no no no no but like the whole thing together is gonna look really nice like try not to hyper

focus and just have fun that's just not something I'm good at hyper focusing like not hyper focusing and then just like having fun just have a cocktail that probably like is the right decision yeah just one of course i don't need to be like sloppy on the carpet like grabbing everyone's ass but you would do that regardless 100 if you've seen our red carpet live streams you know they have a twinge of unhinged she's kind of like cheating on me in her red carpet i am i am work i'm like part of another duo now but let me just say nothing compares to Jackson Claude like you do you feel like you're have a different personality or like role in your other duo with snitch yes what do you feel like it is it feels like I'm like very much like bossy

and in control like I am bossy with you but like I feel very comfortable like we really split everything like 50 50 in terms of like management and like you know the satch is just the satch and I feel like protective and I want to like do everything for her no but I mean like when you're live yeah when you're doing the the hosting yeah do you feel like you have a different personality dynamic when you're with her personality dynamic yes because I'm the older sister now so it's like I get to be like you know like I know best here you're with her personality dynamic yes because I'm the older sister now so it's like I get to be like ah you know like I know best here you're just like a wallflower yeah and I'm just like okay Jax whatever you say whereas with Margo like I'm in charge bitch move over I'm the older sister and like what I say goes which honestly is very scary it's a lot of pressure

people say like oh I wish I had more say I wish I could make more decisions it's like okay you live with it. No, I do generally like to defer to you on like decision making. So it really doesn't affect me in any way. And let's be honest, like when I'm with Margo and there's a decision to make, like I will just be texting you. So it's really like you're there. Got it.

You know? Well, I'm excited to watch you girls do your thing. Me too. We'll be on the Amazon Fashion Snapchat. So make sure to find us there. We're gonna be looking fashionable too. Yeah. I'm excited to see the look. I'm also wearing a dress that's like kind of crazy and different, you know? Because it's actually, it is like a little. Not me in terms of style. It's because it's very feminine. It's

very feminine. It's very country. It's got bows. Like that's just not me. You know me. I'm like gonna wear black. It is. Well, it's white, but there's a little block too yeah yeah no but it is it's very girly swirly yeah it's like very cutesy little ladybug yeah when I'm used to dressing like a mammoth you know she's a mammoth of course how would you describe your style whatever looks best like I really I don't discriminate like it's not like I want to go boho like oh does the boho look good great oh the classic looks good that's why I feel like you're in this transition period with your shopping and your fashion I'm really not realizing that not like you have choices well that's the other thing now I'm and I talked about this I feel like a lot every time I did like a patreon try on vlog like I really struggled like because if something fit

I was just always in the past I was just gonna keep it I was gonna wear it like it fits like it's so hard to shop really at any size but like in the bigger sizes like there's such limited options for you and then like when you do find something that fits it might not even be the most flattering or the most beautiful but like you just feel compelled to wear it because it fits right now I'm at the phase where like multiple things fit but I really do still find myself like being drawn towards the same like styles because I still have the same problem areas like I still have a really big fupa so the same styles you mean like silhouettes silhouettes silhouettes okay like you know a rouged belly

I'll never turn away love a rouged belly I'll never turn away a rouged item like rouged is check so that's your style rouged ask a question again. Turdy Lou, how would you describe your style? Rouged. I like that. Because I like it. So we've got a great show. It's Wednesday. We've got stories.

Describe the stories for us, Jax. A little bit of everything. A little bit country. I wouldn't say like one hits harder than the other. I would say like each are contributing their 20% to the past five. Oh my God. Not me having a dream about Matt Healy. Like we were boyfriend and girlfriend.

And? Like it was, it was hot. Like we were, we were vibing. Like, you know, we're two artists. Some would describe us as, you know, both tortured artists. And we had a lot in common. And Taylor wasn't even a factor. But it's like, that's my level of delusion.

You didn't have like a pit in the dream? Like that was Taylor's man? Sometimes like if I'm in a dream and like there's like a factor. But it's like, that's my level of delusion. You didn't have like a pit in the dream that it was Taylor's man? Sometimes like if I'm in a dream and like there's like a hot guy or something or like a celebrity that like I'm in love with, I always have a pit. I'm like, oh, I'm married. I can't. But Taylor wasn't a factor and neither was Ben in my dream. And that's what he gets for going on a business trip. I'm starting to forget about you, Ben.

Why don't you come home? Why don't you come home? Makes you think. You know who Matt Healy reminds me of like looks wise? Who? Mark from Ugly Betty. You know who Matt Healy reminds me of, like looks wise? Who? Mark from Ugly Betty. You know what? Yes.

Also, he's in Younger. He's that book agent. I love that actor. Love. Mark from Ugly Betty who plays like Bestie of the Receptionist. Amanda's Bestie. He's like gay and mean. She's like pretty and mean.

And they're just like a mean duo and they're so funny. And then, yes, he's in Younger. He plays the book agent for every various there's only one various talents there's only one they are at a publishing company they need an agent to work with he's great he deserves more roles 100 where has he been maybe if there's like a matt healy biopic he could play him um i like that call for you also you know what I started last night Jewish matchmaking I saw on your IG what do you think well I really liked the initial show called Indian matchmaking that I thought really highlighted like beautiful parts of Indian culture and left Ben and I with like an immense respect I feel like there's a lot of like you know negativity when it comes like arranged marriages they're so old school but I don't know it really gave me a fresh perspective

on it and that's why I felt confident watching the Jewish one. Because matchmaking is a huge part of Jewish culture. It's not an arranged marriage per se. But there are like a lot of professional women whose job it is to be matchmakers. So I felt confident watching it. Because up until this point, everything I've seen that is even remotely like touches on Judaism on Netflix is so honestly like disgusting and offensive and and borderline untrue not borderline untrue um so I had not watched it but then Brian called me he was like you will love this show like the woman is amazing and Jackie it's really good I've heard it's really

good I've heard it represents all different uh levels of Judaism Judaism personalities within Judaism is also really respectful towards Judaism and And so maybe I will watch it. And you know what I liked is because like one of the problems, one of the shows on Netflix that claims to represent like Jewish culture is My Unorthodox Life. And one of the problems I had with it was that like it really represented Orthodox Judaism. Like it really misrepresented it. Like there was so much, you know, talk about how women in that community like can't leave the house and can't get jobs. And the matchmaker here is ultra Orthodox, not ultra Orthodox. She's, she's Orthodox. She lives in Israel and she's like a business owner. She runs this very successful matchmaking business.

Her husband and her are like so cute. You would die from the husband. Like he was vacuuming their lawn. Like he's so cute. And it just like, that really is what those communities are like. And like, that's why I felt the My Unorthodox Life show to be so inaccurate. inaccurate it's like I know a lot of people who live in the community that they're talking about Muncie we have family who lives there they have jobs like they start businesses they go to school they get their degrees like it's not this like you know like literally nobody stopped you from like leaving going on a reality show and embarrassing yourself like nobody's stopping you right no it's just it was so inaccurate and so I really the woman Aliza who's like the matchmaker oh my god she's so cute and she reminds me so much

of like all of our teachers growing up she's literally Miss Scheinbein remember Miss Scheinbein she was your teacher she wasn't your teacher maybe for like one class oh you missed out Miss Scheinbein was my queen I didn't have enough classes with her to like identify with her as like my teacher I think about her all the time I would love to get in contact with her if somehow this podcast makes it I know she lives in Israel now and she got married so her name isn't shine by anymore she was like you know everyone has a teacher who like really left like a positive she was mine who's who's yours oh a teacher who left also shout out to miss bro she still works in my high school she was a queen were you not impacted by a teacher in a positive way

nothing comes to mind but maybe all your teachers were so great maybe I did bounce around schools a little bit you know you did that's actually so true so I feel like I didn't get to have those attachments oh that's that's hard that's sad it is like I think so fondly back on so many of my teachers don't get me wrong some of them I literally wouldn't think twice before like slapping them in the face but so many of my teachers like really shout out miss brocco dr ajarone you know a lot of them really i guess maybe like more middle school teachers like mr levine well mr levine was hot that's why he left a mark on us he also like cared about us yeah he also tutored us yeah like he he cared about our success i wouldn't say i

don't know that he cares about all students as much as like, he liked us especially. Yeah. I think he just like, he could see that we were girlies. Yeah. And I, I liked to think back in the day that he took a special liking to us because he like thought we were pretty.

No, no, no, that's not why. And he actually does care about all students because now he's the principal. Yeah. But he like,

I think it's so important. Like when we're telling this story, like don't forget how hot he was. Yeah. Yeah. And he was like, and he was like young and single, which is like not very common for teachers,

you know, especially our teachers were all like older and tenured. He was like this hot young thing. And he was. Yeah, yeah. It's germane. And he was like young and single which is like not very common for teachers, you know? Especially our teachers were all like older and tenured. He was like this hot young thang and he was like Israeli and he like smoked cigarettes but he always chewed gum and he smelled like tobacco and gum and it was like so hot.

This episode will probably make its way to him. Well, I'm so glad to see him climbing the ranks, you know? Yeah. Now being the headmaster. And getting to oversee more campers. Right.

And having like a great impact. No, I like was obsessed I think that was probably Like my first crush Now that I think about it Like before Maverick Because he PM

Yeah What did he teach us even Hebrew He taught Hebrew But he tutored us in math Math yeah He was like really smart Yeah

Obsessed Oh my god Not him having to Like if this Okay by the way If this episode gets back To all of our teachers Which I know it will because everyone on the planet listens to this podcast like of course it's the day i'm not wearing any makeup maybe they'll just send if you are going to send

it around to the teachers just send the podcast only thanks um and remember like that other time you talked about a teacher and and then he reached out yeah that that story's in my book that story's in my book because that was a good story. Oh, really? Yeah. Which one? Our English teacher from high school? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. That story's in my book. But that story makes me want to not do this job.

It's enough to quit. It's enough to quit. Yeah. That's really the trouble with this podcast. I have got to stop. I know. But those stories, the ones we just told,

that's what the toasters love. It is true. But you guys don't know how we're putting our personal lives out on the line for this show. Just imagine you talk about an old teacher

and say that they're hot or whatever and then they hear it and then they text you that they heard this into your podcast. That's my 13th reason. It's enough.

I can't. No, but I do hope to hear from Ms. Brockhout. Honestly, if I can be reconnected with Ms. Scheinbein, like my queen. my 13th reason like it's enough i can't no but i do hope to hear from like miss brockload or like honestly if i could be if i could be reconnected with miss shinevine like and you know the pro there are pros and cons sometimes you talk about someone and they reach out it's like oh my god i can't believe this reached you right you get reconnected and right right and that sometimes it's not and sometimes it's not what did you say about your english teacher no i can't i can't get back into it read the book uh girl with noNoJob.com slash book. Very fair.

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Are you ready for our first story? I am. I'm curious. I feel like I don't even know what the stories are today. I'm feeling just like crazy. I feel like they'll all feel a little familiar. Okay. You've probably seen them around town.

Actually, some new stuff. First you've seen Morgan Wallen reveals his diagnosis as he cancels six more weeks of tour dates. Morgan Wallen has canceled six more weeks of tour dates after re-injuring his vocal cords. He took to his Instagram on Tuesday afternoon to share the bad news that he received on Monday after visiting the Vanderbilt Voice Center in Nashville.

He said, quote, after taking 10 days of vocal rest, I performed three shows last weekend in Florida. And by the third one, I felt terrible. He said he was advised to go on vocal rest for six weeks and he's decided to follow doctor's orders. He said they want me to not talk at all, but they said if I need to, it's OK for something like this,

because obviously he's talking in the video. So postponing six weeks of tour this literally not to make it about me couldn't be more have worked out worse for me like he did three shows and strained himself and it was like the show I would have wanted to go to right and so if he had canceled before your show would have been rescheduled in Florida oh I couldn't wait right you could have been pumping on the way um yeah. So I'm sorry to Morgan Wallen and his fans and his voice and to myself. Yeah. Well, I want to say like when I first saw this, I was like, oh, I was not buying it.

We talked about this. So at first when he canceled after the openers went on and he made people wait an hour. Right, that OG show. And the security guard video said that Morgan was drunk and that's why he canceled. And then he canceled a few more shows to like make the lie look real that he had lost his voice we were dubious skeptical we were skeptical and when this thing came out I was like oh please like something is going on but you know I'm a very well-connected person and I did like you know inquire to a few to a few other well-connected people and it appears as though he's having major vocal trouble. Like, I just feel like he's so, you know, he's troubled almost.

That anytime something's even remotely awry, I'm automatically like, well, what's going on? He's drinking. But I did inquire. And everything I've been told appears to me that this is the truth. I believe him. Because I don't think he would cite, like, the Vanderbilt Voice Center if he didn't go there. Because you know they would come out and be like, I don't know I don't know this man when people well they can't because that's like doctor confidentiality but like when people like include so many details

I'm always like oh you're lying but sometimes it's the details that give it if they don't include any details and it's so vague what's her face went to a mental health facility Raquel even though you know she actually did what is it I don't know I don't know what the facility is but there was a lot of speculation about whether Raquel like with her Instagram story statements saying she was going to like get treatment whether she was going to like a spa canyon ranch or like an actual like mental and as far as I've heard she is in like a like an actual like facility okay I believe him I well I do too now that I inquired because also like why would he I guess like you could say you know he missed those shows because he had been drinking and then maybe he's taking six weeks to like go to rehab but I don't think so I don't think that that he would do that I

don't think his management like he could write such a lucrative tour tour yeah and they could just like keep propping him up for the rest of the tour I believe believe that his voice is shot. You know what's so interesting to me? I've been thinking about because like we're in like the summer concert series. How pretty much like the four biggest artists in the world right now. Like are technically just based on tour. Taylor, Beyonce, her tour is about to start. Luke Holmes and Morgan Wallen. Isn't that crazy?

Those are the four artists playing all the stadiums this summer. There's not other people who we just don't follow and you don't know about like me play well no they do like those stadiums but all over the world but okay fine like whole play whatever i just feel like when we think about the big artists we always say taylor we always say beyonce we always say when i'm on my instagram it's like i don't know if it i see a picture of a stadium i don't know if it's luke or taylor right like they're like isn't it so crazy and no one's talking about like luke holmes is playing the same venues as Taylor Swift? He's just so low key. He doesn't need all these accolades.

But, like, nobody talks about how, like, yeah, that's a thing. Yeah. I'm so obsessed with Luke Holmes' album. And actually, like, I have to go out of my way to listen to other music so that I can, like, be educated in the music that's going on. What's, like, a song from the album that, like, at first you know living giving to you and now it's like you've listened to it so much that it's really bringing on well I've really been listening to my liked songs so it's like the ones that I choose but the other day I was listening to five leaf clover and just hit me a different again no it hits different when he says who would who

could have wound up with weeds like I'm not okay no it oh my god I didn't even hear that part you know because the whole the whole song I didn't even hear that part you know because the whole the whole song says I didn't even register like me who could have end up with three wind up with a five leaf clover who and also a guy like me who'd have been fine with three okay so that's the that's the lyric in the chorus but then at the last chorus how a guy like me who could have wound up with weeds wind up with a five leaf let me me tell you, like, the lyricism, like, we all need to get into Luke Holmes. Like, I'm really sick of this, like,

I don't like country, but you know what? I don't like you. No, I'm really so over that. Like, people have just such, like, a misunderstanding of what, like, country music is. Like, and it's the same thing with, like, Taylor. People are always like, Taylor's, like, pop star, like, writes about her boyfriends.

And it's not. It's actually, like, profound lyricism. It's poetry. And really, Luke Holmes thing with like Taylor. People are always like Taylor is like pop star. Like it's about her boyfriend. And it's not. It's actually like profound lyricism. It's poetry. And really Lou Combs' music is poetry. Yeah. And it's about time like we all started fucking respecting it. I'm sick of it. I'm sick.

I mean we do. I'm not talking about us. And I feel like we associate with people who don't. I'm not talking about us. You can only control yourself, Turdy Lou. Jackie, listen to this lyric, okay? I've already said it on the toast, but it's one that really stuck with me.

Some battles are bought. No, sorry, I fucked it up. Some battles are fought on foreign shores. And some are fought behind closed doors. Some fall from grace. Some lose their way some find the peace salvation brings like I'm not even a Christian but I'm seeking salvation you are I am a Christian she's not a Christian she could be a Jew and believe in God you're seeking salvation desperately seeking salvation mm. No, the whole album.

I have to skip some because they make me too emotional. I just say I can't right now. Except I do have to acknowledge the one flop on the album that I always skip. You have a skip. And I just want to say, I do this to all my favorite artists. Luke, this is nothing against you. But I do this to Taylor. There's just one flop on the album.

I'll tell you what mine is, but what's yours? There's a fox in the hen house it's like a song all about hunting like I genuinely can't relate to it I can't seem to get him out but it's honestly like I feel like if you're into hunting or you live on a farm and you know what it's like to have a fox like plague there was a fox on Brian's farm and it was killing all the animals like a fox it's like it's like having lice it's like the worst plague so it's like it's redneck imagery you know so there are a lot of people who can relate to it and it's like all about like sneaking up on the fox and just like trying to kill the fox but let me tell you like i just have to skip the song it's not on my like so i don't listen to it that much but my skip is the hottest take of all time I think I've told you this what is it

fast car oh my god you're not okay for those who don't know Luke Holmes did a cover on his album a fast car the Tracy Chapman song it's like a song that he's like covered in bars like before he got famous and there's so many videos of him on the internet doing it and people loved it so much and he explained this weekend actually why the song is so important to him like his dad introduced him to it and his dad used to play the cassette yada yada um I cannot believe like like I'm vomiting and I'm like this isn't Luke okay here like it's not like it's I don't like it because it's not Luke Holmes and I don't even like I didn't love this the song I never thought about the song before but it's just like not my favorite song at all and I'm just like I want to hear what Luke

has to say I want to hear what Luke thinks let me offer a different perspective I want you because the song is all about you know getting out of town like you and your girl we got a car let's just get out of here and the pronouns are off in the song like he's singing from a female perspective but I do want to I want to um pull up the lyric where the pronouns are off just because like that's where I kind of get stuck okay my bad my bad my bad okay fast car lyrics you have to get over you have to get over the pronoun thing no no it's not what's hanging me up completely like um I'm just saying it's just always something that I notice sorry the point before you get into that Jackie the point that I was trying to make is like,

I want you to actually listen to the song because it's not what you think it's about. Okay. You have to listen to the whole song. It's actually like a sad song. Okay? Okay. Okay.

I'll listen. Okay. But it's not about like the words that are bothering me. It's just like, it's just not Lukey enough. Where did we go from here? I don't know. Morgan Wallen.

Rest up, Morgan. Rest up, Morgan. Rest up. That's really scary. Cause like, is there a situation where your voice doesn't come back? Like, no,

but there are a few artists who have had to get that surgery. Adele got it. John Mayer got it. It's like the vocal nodes. It's a really scary surgery, especially if you're like a singer. There's an episode of Glee where Lea Michele has it. But I don't think,

unless they botch it, I don't know. Okay, well I hope that he takes the time that he needs. Yeah. You know. I saw clips from like his final show in Florida and like it was bad.

Oh. Yeah. Like the voice was not voicing. Okay. So speaks to the truth of this story. Of the matter. I believe it.

Yeah. Are you ready for our next story? Yeah. Robert De Niro is okay and good with welcoming baby number seven at 79 so at the new york premiere of his most recent film about my father on tuesday the oscar winner told extra that um he recently welcomed a seventh baby he said that i'm okay with it i'm with it. That's just what a baby wants to hear. Though he added it never gets easier. Because when he sat down with 18 Canada for an interview about this movie, they were talking about his six children.

And he said seven, actually. That's how it was known that he fathered a seventh child. He sired a seventh child. So biblical. Who's the mom? So then Kim Cattrall said that he welcomed the seventh child so biblical who's the mom um so then kim cattrall said that he welcomed the seventh child that's his co-star in this movie with his rumored girlfriend tiffany chen how old is she tiffany chen give me a second because i know like wealthy people have access to like you know

insane medical care and stuff but like he's literally 64 what no one second let me just make sure it's the right biblical person it's giving abraham and sarah what did she had a baby what when she was 102 or something yeah it's it's unclear a quick said 64, but maybe it's not the right Tiffany. Who is Robert De Niro's girlfriend, Tiffany Chen? Thank you, Daily Mail. Is there a photo? Yeah.

Does she look 65? She's wearing a mask. So tough to tell. Yeah. Does she look 65? She's wearing a mask. So tough to tell. Yeah. I don't think she's 64. Let me see a picture. I think she's 64. No, for real.

Like, what are you looking at? And, you know, that makes me like Robert De Niro. He's dating someone age appropriate. I don't think she is. Let me see. Let me see. This. She's wearing a mask in every photo.

Maybe it's a pandemic relationship. I just don't think that, like, people have enough information about them as a couple. So they're, like, grasping at straws. Yeah. No, I'm sorry. Like us right now. I actually feel like she could be 65. I don't know

no I the woman that I googled like that's not her oh okay okay yeah interesting well happy for you Robert you know it's amazing I don't know what to say I'm glad that he's good with it though yeah no I'm no I'm glad he's okay with it I'm glad that he's good with it, though. Yeah, no, I'm glad he's okay with it. I'm glad he's feeling fine about his new baby. Yeah. I can't wait for the baby to grow up and watch that. Yeah. I didn't know Kim Cattrall was like doing Robert De Niro flicks.

Yeah, I know. And spilling the beans. Happy for her. Tiffany's a martial arts instructor. Oh, maybe that's why she looks so young. Yeah, or maybe that's like why she's not 64. Right, right. Interesting. I wonder where they met. he was taking martial arts class yeah there's not a lot of info about them as a

couple which is why i think people are really quaking about um him having a baby and also having a baby and like spilling the beans he was like married for a really long time yes to a woman named claudia correct um yes or at one point he was in a relationship but he was also married to a woman named grace he met tiffany when they were filming a movie together in 2015 oh what she was like the special martial artist like producer on set yeah cool very cool so it's giving you like nick cannon energy yeah elon musk they should all get together right they should get the kids together and like start a football team like rent out six flags literally so that's really sweet yeah it's nice it's nice i'm happy for them are you ready for our next story is it the next story that's brought to you by thrive cosmetics it is all right you guys thrive cosmetics i first learned about on social media from a lot of you guys and now it is my

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in the market as a checkout girl. Oh, so Luke says I work in the market as a checkout girl. I think so, something like that, yeah. Yeah, no, I guess he does. I literally never noticed it. It doesn't bother me in the slightest. Oh my God, Jackie's not okay. Jackie's not okay. He's like actually more stark than I even thought.

No, actually I think he changes it. So you work in the market as a checkout girl. I'm pretty sure Luke changed it. You think? Yeah. I'm pretty sure Luke changed it. You think? Yeah. I'm like pretty positive. So you work in the market as a checkout girl. We'll have to listen. Still ain't got a job.

We'll have to listen. Luke's version is different. Fast car Luke's version. Yeah, I'm pretty sure it doesn't have that lyric, but go off. Jackie's cackling. I like to imagine that it does. Jackie's cackling.

She's choosing her eyes. Like I am imagine that it does. Jackie's cackling. She has tears in her eyes. Like I am. Are you ready for our next story? I am. Some lovely love news. Yeah. Sia is married to Dan Bernard. So random.

The Australian pop superstar wed Dan Bernard in an intimate ceremony at Villa Olivetta, the home of designers Stefano Dolce and Domenico Gabbana in Portofino, Italy on Monday. I know. And it's so funny because Sia is like such a Kardashian girl. Yeah. And she got married at the same place as Kourtney.

Yeah. But the Kardashians weren't there. I mean, it was really small. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And I don't think they're like that close. No, they are that close. Like Sia wasn't at Kourtney's wedding, was she? Was she?

I don't think so. You would know if you watch the thing. So would I. Yeah, I didn't watch the special Photos obtained by Page Six Showed the bride wearing a light pink lace Embroidered fishtail gown Which featured a high neckline and long sleeves

Also I feel like she's definitely super close With Kim and Khloe and Kris I don't know if she's as close with Kourtney That's true But like she's always around She's always FaceTiming and sending love Yeah no and she's performing at every small intimate affair that they host. Yeah, like North's birthday, I'll be there.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I love Sia. We got some aerial photos of the nuptials. Who's her man? Dan Bernard. Who's that? Dan Bernard. Right, you say that like it's Cher.

Like who's Dan Bernard? Claudia, it's Dan Bernard. Got it, okay. No, nobody knew who he was before now um and now we know that it is dan bernard it is yeah okay because i had thought that it was someone else much like tiffany chen there's not a lot of information about dan bernard well you know sia lives a very low-key life even though she does perform at you know the biannual kardashian events she really does live like this very quiet, simple life.

Yeah. So now she's Mrs. Bernard. Sia Bernard. Gorgeous. It's got a nice ring to it. Yeah. I love Sia. Me too.

Like, I just love her. Me too. She's really a queen. When are we getting new Sia music? There was a time period where it was like banger, banger, banger from Sia. You know, chandelier, electric, elastic heart. That album was just like a pure. Gasoline.

I'm alive. Alive. Like, where is Sia? I feel like she does like do songs, collabs and stuff. Collabs. Yeah, but she hasn't done like a whole album in a while. She did give us Candy Cane Lane. So honestly, she doesn't really need to do anything after that.

I will genuinely like never not start laughing when I hear Candy Cane Lane so honestly she doesn't really need to do anything after that. I will genuinely like never not start laughing when I hear Candy Cane Lane. I know but you know it's like become such a big holiday song. I'm sorry. Not even just for us. I wasn't speaking about that like because it's a bad song. I think it's like the best holiday song. Take a trip down like it's a song that like we would like that no one would ever have heard of but it's in every holiday movie like she has licensed the fuck out of it and she's like I just made this holiday song for you guys like please enjoy it there are a few modern holiday songs which have made it into the classics Kelly Clarkson's underneath the tree like that one made it but I won't for Chris I miss you yeah but I um I only I laugh at Candy Lane because it's actually pure of course you guys We were on vacation in Utah and we were like staying in a house and we decided to like

go to a hotel for dinner. So we got like this big like van to come pick us up and we ate dinner and like the meal like wasn't great. And like we had like drank, but like it was like not, the night like wasn't going. The vibes were off. The vibes were off. I think the van was also really hot. The van was really.

And we're in our sweaters because. It was snow season. Yeah. So we get back in the van and for some reason Shapiro like sat sat in the back which he just shouldn't have because he like gets overheated and I sat in the front on the aux yeah of course and Shapiro's like in the back of the van like wanting to kill us like maybe he's just like been on vacation with us for too long and he's like done with us and he was like so hot and the air conditioning was like in his defense like not reaching him in the back and he does not you know he does not deal with overheating well I mean who

does and we're like in the front of the van like we don't he's like screaming for the air he's like please put the air on and we're not listening because the aux is take a trip down candy cane lane with me and he's like screaming and we can't hear him and he just gets so mad and he will not listen to candy cane lane anymore like it's a triggering song for him back to that moment where he was kind of like voiceless he was silenced yeah but it's so funny and the song is so good so good take a trip down candy cane lane with me so good are you ready for our next story yeah something that i think you might find interesting because luanda sepps has set her sights on kevin costner amid his divorce me when i'm delusional so luanne was at um the premiere of book club the next chapter of course she was monday evening i just want to say i was gonna text my book club that we should go see that

movie i didn't see the first one though like you should see the first one i just think it'd be like a fun outing for the book club yeah that would be right um and she was asked about her dating life and she said kevin costner he's so elegant he's my type at the oscars didn't you think he was amazing his speech he was so elegant so eloquent so manly i'm sorry like um there is nothing this woman could do to make me dislike her like luanda seps is low-key the funniest bitch on the planet. Like, I know she wasn't even trying to be funnier, but, like, it's hysterical. And you know what? I ship.

Crazier things have happened. I ship wholeheartedly. I mean, lest we not forget, this woman is, like, formally a royal, like, aristocrat. Like, she has a pedigree. Kevin Costner could do a lot worse. No, 100%. She's a gorgeous woman. I feel like it's not out of the realm of possibility. No Costner could do a lot worse. No, 100%. She's a gorgeous woman.

I feel like it's not out of the realm of possibility. No, it's like not. And I am like, she has my full support. Not only does she have my support, like she has my. Maybe we need to like book them on the toast, like back to back. They'll meet right here. Love. And they can take it from there.

She's so funny. Honestly, like Andy should have them on watch right after five together like everyone needs to do their part that's actually a good idea like that's how they meet yeah everyone needs to do their part to get Luann what she wants Luann de la Costner because I was gonna say Luann Costner doesn't like roll off the tongue but like she would literally go from being like a British royal to being American royalty like being the girlfriend wife of Yellowstone John Dutton like that that seems like how her story ends honestly like I could see it I could see it too no that's why I was drawn to this story I'm obsessed things that make sense yeah and they kind of look alike You know when people Are meant to be like They do sort of look alike

Yeah They do Yeah they could start I mean I seriously see it And then perhaps like She's the motivation He needs to get back To work at Yellowstone

And then of course He's so grateful to her For you know her Helping him see the light He writes a role for her Where she's like a ranch hand Or something Who does cabaret on the side

Like the story Pretty much writes itself It does I'm obsessed It's not far-fetched it's not so we'll keep you posted on that yeah on budding romance spotting sightings our fifth and final story is the crossover news that nobody asked for okay i'm really excited to get your thoughts on this okay the jonas brothers can give you directions as the new voices of the navigation app

Waze. The Jonas Brothers are giving Waze users the wings they need to fly and drive with their latest collab. On Wednesday, Waze announced

that Kevin, Nick, and Joe will be the next celebrity driving instructors through the new Drive with Jonas experience. Available now, the Brothers voice instructions, some of which can be heard

in the Instagram teaser, will leave fans entertained on their daily commutes through witty directions and tour life anecdotes. The Brothers said in a statement, growing up on the road, our tour bus became our home away from home, so we know the importance of getting places safely and on time. Now they're trying to make a connection for why they do this brand deal. Like, we get the money, they paid you, and it's like fun and quirky. We don't need like an anecdote from tour. If users happen to find themselves in the Jonas Brothers home state of New Jersey,

they'll also get some tailored tips like exit right. And if you happen to be on New Jersey Route 3, don't miss the TikTok diner in Clifton. That really feels like a way to get lost. But continue. They also will be sharing memories. Like you've arrived. Congrats.

As a reward, I will tell you about the most ridiculous show we have ever arrived. Congrats. As a reward, I will tell you about the most ridiculous show we have ever played. Okay. Let me just say. Start with something positive. No. If I was a publicist, I would never recommend like my client do this.

I feel like being the voice of a GPS is like a fast track to becoming the most hated person on the planet. I fucking hate that bitch Siri who's like first of all she's always pausing my music I'm like I could see the map I don't need you to tell me like she's always like fucking me up I feel like I have like a very contentious relationship with the GPS voice so I wouldn't want to be that voice because then people will just hate me yeah but you don't think that this is maybe a way to mend ties between GPS voice and

driver and that maybe we could all get along. Like I think that the hope is that the person who gets in the car would listen to the GPS voice and the GPS voice only. But most people have GPS and like podcasts, GPS and music. And the GPS always just becomes like a nuisance. But I guess it's cool if you're doing GPS and listening to the Jonas Brothers. And it's like, OK, you have to be interrupted for your direction, but it's a brethren. Yeah.

That would be like us doing GPS voices while you listen to the toast yeah i'm just saying like that is a good idea yeah if they had multiple artists so it's like you will be interrupted by the person that you are listening to i just i don't think i would do it what if you were interrupted by luke and he's like hey turtle lou honestly like there's a fox in the hen house no what if it was taylor i still think i would find it annoying like there's just something about the gps voice that no matter who it is and i know it's pre-recorded it's like not even pre-recorded it's ai like i would find it annoying i would be like shut up i think that if they could find a way to have like every artist in the system and when you're listening to that artist that person that's a good idea is a better idea it's more seamless that's maybe this is the start of that like that's pretty like creative yeah but I don't know I don't know either it's a little weird yeah it's not like the I like the thing that we needed

that the next step for civilization was to get the Jonas Brothers doing navigation. No, this is like a cute brand deal. Like, let's not, let's, you know, call it spade to spade. Do you use Waze? Is that your navigation of choice? No. Me neither. What do you use?

Apple Maps, I think. Okay, like my inclination is like always like Apple Maps. Ben is like so against Apple Maps. Why? If I ever, like if we're going somewhere, he's like, how long does it say? I'm like 30 Maps. Ben is like so against Apple Maps. Why? If I ever like we're going somewhere he's like how long does it say? I'm like 30 minutes. He's like what are you using? He only uses Google.

I don't use Google Maps. And then when I have like I find the place on Google on Safari and then they like want me to download Google Maps. I'm like no. I actually really like Apple Maps. I think it's fine. And someone bought Waze and ruined it. Who was that?

Google? Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Because Waze used to be the best. And now Waze is the worst. Who was that? Google? Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Because Waze used to be the best. And now Waze is the worst. No. Waze is fine for me.

Like. Everybody. Like. It's. They are directing you towards traffic. They're directing all the people to use the same streets. To use the same small street that like wasn't built for this amount of traffic. It's tough.

Because we're in the city. And it's like. The traffic in the city is like actually unpredictable. Like no app is going to save us. Yeah. But I think if I were like out in. You is like actually unpredictable. Like no app is going to save us. But I think if I were like out in, you know, the country, I would be comfortable using Waze. I feel comfortable using Apple Maps in everyday life. I like Apple Maps too.

And these days I use Tesla Map in my car. But you know, Apple has a way of like destroying everything. You know, Apple, the Apple weather app was always like beyond trash. And then they bought Dark Sky Ben's favorite app website and now they shut down darksky.com and made their app like Dark Sky and it sucks it's like Airbnb and luxury retreats right like everyone's just like snatching up their competitors and making their and ruining it yeah and making it worse ruin I don't mind you want to snatch up and you want to capitalize sure sure but then they shut it down and they fold it into the bigger company which is trash I agree now it's like airbnb lux and it's just airbnb it's just airbnb yeah no it's our life is so hard nobody gets it nobody does like we make this life look

easy jonas brothers are gonna get us on our way sure sure sure so those are the best five feel as though you need to know them feel as though also you know I feel like this week I'm just like kind of like talking out of my ass and like saying things that are not true like like yesterday when I said the Knicks lost and they're out there's another game I'm happy about that you know I'm glad that you said that they lost and they're out because I was sad and then I got to be happy yeah as opposed to the opposite you know yeah so i'm sorry i'm just like i'm i gotta stop saying stuff like but that's your job i know it's fine you know it is what it is yeah so we have dear toasters today the show is not even over yet which is so exciting dear toasters is our weekly advice segment so every wednesday we do a little little three submissions you can email us

deertoasters at gmail.com if you have written in and we haven't read your response yet either it sucks or it's too long so feel free to write in again but like a more abridged version just need to know details um and if we've given you advice like we've read your submission on air the last couple of weeks or months please feel free to write us in with an update as to what happened today we do have an update which is very exciting I know i'm so happy for you yeah for me yeah because you love the updates like you're so invested no i do but i think you love them more i would say we love them equally oh okay okay yeah sure sure i love them so much no i do but you get so excited about them yeah of course because it's like it's the fruits of our labor you know yeah it's our results coming

to life yeah i just like to think that if I don't get an update like everybody is living peacefully right it's like you only write a Yelp review when things go badly right so

if I never get an update it doesn't upset me because I'm like amazing problem solved yeah I guess that's true go forth and prosper right I guess and you know

getting an update can lead to more problems which I believe I haven't spoiled it yet but I believe we have like a kind of a sad update today no yeah like I don't think it's a happy ending a sub, I haven't spoiled it yet, but I believe we have like a kind of a sad update today. Yeah, like I don't think it's a happy ending.

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Yeah. I was saying I am giggly today, but I am also ready. No, I know. Oh, cool. I asked two questions and you answered twice. What's wrong with that? Ready? Yeah.

I am. Okay. Good to go good so much hi jackson claude i was helping my boyfriend of two and a half years clean out his car before trading it in i decided to tackle the glove box while he washed the outside oh my gosh are you okay i'm just lost in it yeah like have you seen you actually sent me that meme of what it looks like for a baby in the belly while the mother's laughing and it's like the whole uh shaking it's like but i think it's fine right no yeah okay no no it's fine tears do you need to no no i'm fine oh do i actually have tears no it wasn't like a concerning video it's

like really cute yeah it was cute but it's But it's like, it's fine, right? Yeah, yeah. No, there was nothing about it that was like, don't laugh. Right, right. Tony Lou doesn't laugh. But I want to give. I'd have to quit my job. I actually wish I was wearing that Thrive Market. Thrive Cosmetics mascara today. Because this mascara that I wear is horrible.

Oh, but do you not have one here? You should just get one. No, I don't have one here. That's why I had to buy horrible one. I also need like a new one. Mine's a little like mine's a little like empty okay i'll place an order after this i want to give full attention okay start again hi jackson claude i was helping my boyfriend of two and a half years clean out his car before trading it in i decided to tackle the glove box while he washed the outside in between 12 years of service receipts i found his vows from his

previous marriage he was married for under a year. She cheated. He moved on. Clean divorce. No big deal. This is her husband or her boyfriend? Boyfriend of two and a half years. But still the vows. He claims he had no idea they were in there, which I totally believe. But still, it's not sitting right. I love him to death. And we even started looking at engagement rings. Should I just move on from this mishap? Thanks in advance. Yeah. Like, I don't think you keep important, really sentimental things in your glove box. Like he probably shoved them in there after the wedding and really forgot about them. Yeah. I'm going to choose to believe him. Like, I don't think you keep important, really sentimental things in your glove box. Like, he probably shoved them in there after the wedding and really forgot about them. Yeah. I'm going to choose to believe him. Like, yeah, it could be nefarious.

He gets in his car every day and, like, reads them and jerks off. Yeah. But I don't think he does that. I think that he really didn't know they were in there. I also want to offer. Also, did you find a lot of other crap in there? Like, is that somewhere he throws his crap? Yeah, she said literally service receipts.

So that's how important it is to him as important as a service receipt I'd also like to offer a rebuttal really quickly like if he had kept them for sentimental purposes like I don't know and a lot of people have like a box of like old photographs love letters like I don't think that necessarily means anything it's like it's your history I think he was married I think keeping them in a box that you don't see every that you barely see ever is fine too it is part of your personal history I think the fact that they were in his car which he uses every day it's like if he put them in there intentionally it's because he wants them close to him but like a glove box is really like a garbage yeah I don't think it means anything and Me neither. And I also don't think

that he has to throw away his vows. Me neither. Like I think it's actually like. I mean he shouldn't hang them on the fridge. No. But like to have a box of like things you accumulate in your life like from old boyfriends.

Like yeah. It's like it's weird for like the girlfriend to find it. But like everyone's entitled to like a little love box. I completely agree. I don't have one. But like if I did it would be cute.

Yeah. But you don't have anything that Maverick gave you? No. I actually do have a love box. But I agree i don't have one but like if i did it would be cute yeah but you don't have anything that maverick gave you no i actually do have a love box but i think it's so lost yeah but that's the point it should get lost yeah when you move or something you find it right and it comes with you from place to place it's not like so important to you it's not something that sits pride of place on your mantle no but like my love box i've only had one boyfriend so it's all forbidden like it should sit on my mantle. You know? True. I really don't have anything from Maverick or Mr. Levine. Unfortunately.

You should put a cigarette in there and a piece of gum. Literally. We're being so funny today. Ready? Ready. Hey, girlies. First off, thanks for being my daily break where I can sit, enjoy, and laugh while I listen to your gorgeous voices.

Not faces. Notice how she said. She probably doesn't watch on YouTube. Yeah. Okay, here's my issue. My husband is a great guy. A fantastic father. But a shitty husband.

We celebrated our five-year marriage anniversary last Saturday and he was responsible for making reservations at a nice restaurant we've never been to. But he dropped the ball, didn't make the reservation, and they were fully booked. We ended up having a nice time at our regular spot and it was lovely but boring. I'm sick of his bullshit. He's never excited about going out. It's like a chore to him and makes me feel like I'm a chore to him too. We dated six years before we were married and we never liked celebrating anniversaries, but I do and I think he should act accordingly. I want to be cherished just like I cherish him. Now I'm annoyed and I can't get over it. Am I overreacting?

Should I lower my standards since I knew he was like this before we were married love a sad burnt piece of toast no like I feel like okay you maybe you're not in the habit of doing like big things for these milestones so you can't necessarily like blame him for not you know renting out Central Park for you but I feel like if you just vocalize it and be like moving forward like I want to be that type of couple and like get on it it's your job goodbye you can't be mad at him until he knows yes but I also feel like anniversaries are important to you they're not important to him and they never were so he shouldn't be in charge of planning anniversaries you're kind of setting yourself up for disappointment because he might not even like have the imagination to think of something that would be really special

for you for your anniversary like he thinks oh dinner at our place that we like for dinner. Like, and I know that we really lowered the bar for men sometimes here on the show. And like, but I feel like sometimes when you set it too high, you're just going to be disappointed. So like maybe keep it low. And that way you don't experience like this disappointment. You would have made the reservation at a restaurant that you really liked. And you guys would have had a nice time.

And like, yeah, it's annoying that you have to do everything, but delegate something else. I don't think that you really liked and you guys would have had a nice time and like yeah it's annoying that you have to do everything but delegate something else I don't think that you should delegate this but I do understand wanting to feel special and on your anniversary like but maybe there are other strengths of his where he could shine in this department you know what I mean like maybe he's a good masseuse no I do give you a massage I think you're being really realistic but like I refuse to believe that like even husbands can't plan anniversary dinners. Like I'm not lowering the bar that low for her just yet.

No, I think that he could plan an anniversary dinner and yeah, they wound up at their local spot. He thinks that that's nice enough. I think if you sit him down, say, listen, I know we haven't been like very sentimental in the past, but like I've started to realize like we're getting older. We have kids like we should take these nights off for ourselves and I would like for you to plan them say it in a really nice way and if he doesn't do it after that be like okay you're fucking useless I'll do it plans it and it's just not special enough that's what I'm saying I don't know if he's capable of imagining

the specialness that you are imagining so maybe you could even say like well you could drop hints or you could be like when it's our anniversary or it's a special day like I would like to receive flowers yeah you know urban stems.com slash toasted girls picked out some really gorgeous designs yep but I'm being I'm serious or it's like or I want a little gift or I want a gift card to I think you need to be really specific otherwise he can't imagine what you're imagining and you're just going to be like disappointed and it sounds like he's otherwise a really great guy so let's work with what we've got let's work with yeah no Jackie's being like hella realistic it's just like so pathetic yeah

these men like my god no and you make the reservation at the restaurant of your dreams and he's paying right right that's actually a really good point. You know? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So a little compromise. A little balance. A little balance. And marriage is a compromise, you know, lest we not forget. Yeah. All right.

Our third and final submission is actually an update. So I'm going to read you guys the original submission from this girly. And then we'll hear her update. So her original submission was, I'm in need of some help. I recently got engaged to a total p-jom. However, I don't love my engagement ring. It's white gold and I'm really just like a gold girly through and through. I have no idea why he picked something other than gold since it's all I wear in jewelry.

Like I don't think I own a silver piece at all. I'm contemplating getting a gold plated because this white gold just isn't me. It actually bugs me that he did this because he hasn't been paying attention or he hasn't been picked up on the fact that I'm white gold jewelry wear and we've been together for seven years. What do I do? Am I being a a bitch am I justified for wanting to make this ring perfect I love the cut and everything else it's just strictly the color and what we told her was like you know to expect your man to notice that you wear gold or silver jewelry is

like a little delusional you want to get just like if everything if the diamond itself is good and the you just don't like the band or the plating in terms of cost it, it's a much lower cost than like, oh, I didn't like the cut or the carrot of the diamond. We were just like, change it. Like, and you don't need to be like bitter about it. Like it's really not a good deal. And I also don't think it doesn't mean that he doesn't pay attention to you. I think when most men walk into a jewelry store, like the typical engagement ring is

silver. Yeah. And so he went with, you know, what she gets. Not like, oh, she likes gold. Men are blind. Like they have no idea. They don't even know these what she gets. Not like, oh, she likes gold. Men are blind. Like, they have no idea. They don't even know these are two different colors. No, 100%.

It's not offensive. But if you don't want to wear it every day, take matters into your own hands. But nothing to write home about. So here's her update. Hi again, girlies. This is an update I've been dreading to submit. I was the girl who got engaged last Christmas and was not in love with her engagement ring, specifically the color of the band.

Well, I'm crying as I type this, but I've chosen to call off my engagement. Not because of this situation. I never even brought it up, but because I found out my fiance was hurting, hiding certain things and lying to my face. We cannot be engaged since he is not ready for marriage. If he's continuing to lie to his fiance over and over. So now I'm so heartbroken. We still live together, but I've been staying at my family or friend's house, but this is the worst thing I've ever had to go through. My life flipped upside down and I don't know how to move on since we were together for seven years any advice helps you know what this is like the most annoying like grandma thing to say while this is like I'm sure immensely painful right now think

about how much worse it could have been if you had actually married this person and realized like that he was lying or that it wasn't a match and you had to undo like a marriage and a divorce maybe even you had kids at this point like the fact that you got out when you did and you guys realized you weren't right for each other, like is such a blessing. And I would just be grateful for that. Like, think about how much worse the situation could be if this happened one year later, like maybe you were pregnant. Maybe you were all like, you guys got married and things got worse. Like, just be grateful. Like you'll go through heartbreak. It's a healing journey. Everybody goes through it. And then you go out into the world and you meet someone even better who would never lie to you. You know what it. And then you go out into the world and you meet someone even better who would never lie

to you. You know what? That, I feel, I feel good about the fact that you didn't get married. And I think it's like better to call off an engagement than to get divorced. Agreed. And that's great advice. Honestly, I don't have anything to add on top of that. You hit the nail on the head.

And I'm sorry you're sad. I could recommend some podcasts, you know, The Toast. Good guys. Probably a podcast. Mood. Get some giggles, you know? Yeah you know yeah and just hold up like it's okay you don't feel like you have to like get back out there right now yeah like a seven-year relationship is fucking long take your time this too shall pass it will all one day like be in the rear view and you'll be like thinking you'll be in a better situation and so happy thinking about how you dodged a bullet and just think about that girl yeah and there's no

expectation that you need to be her right now but just know that that's all waiting for you this is one of the situations where like you go through it and it's so horrible but like you're gonna be like 90 years old looking back on your life and being like imagine if i had gotten married or imagine if this situation had worked out differently so you know what god works in mysterious ways but like you're struggling right now but this is probably the best thing to ever happen to Did you get to keep the ring? Good question She didn't even like it Yeah

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