The Toast - S5 Ep122: Self Improvement AND Self Acceptance: Tuesday, August 30th, 2022

Episode Date: August 30, 2022

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Good morning Millennials! Welcome back to the Morning Toast. Happy Tuesday. Hope everyone's having a great Tuesday. Hey Jax, how you doing? I'm doing good. A couple things off the bat. One, you really put your foot in that GMM this morning. Yeah, and then also I heard you in my headphones being like a little like, almost you had a little skepticism in your in your voice so I mean because you popped off so hard I was just like oh okay because my GMM every morning is the same I feel like I feel like yours is fluctuates based on what's going on in that mind of yours for sure but one thing about me when it comes to a tune I am gonna pop off so I just I don't want you to ever be surprised about that ever again yeah and now one question before we start is that a simla I see oh my god no like get your eyes checked girly two days in a row

this angle where my camera is where I see you I like come from the side so I don't know what's going on twixt your legs it's how for you. And it looks like a gorgeous little simla. It's my favorite set from Amazon. Oh my god, wow, it's really not a simla. It's really not a dress. Yesterday I could understand, romper, dress, you don't see the little thing between my thighs. Today I'm wearing a full blouse and shorts.

Oh, okay, well you look gorgeous as usual. Thank you, you look stunning. Thank you, thank you, doing my best, you know. Mama Tings. Mama Tings. It's been a busy morning. I have such a busy day filled with content galore. Speaking of content galore, I recorded a Patreon episode yesterday. It's a vlog. It's up already. It is long overdue, but it's all of my favorite baby nursery mama tings, you know, our favorite onesies, our favorite gear, our favorite pacifiers, our favorite gifts, gift suggestions. If you're just,

you know, not interested in baby tings for yourself, but maybe, you know, someone that you know is. So it's a really great vlog. It's honestly, it's over 30 minutes of me just like talking about the best items that I've, and I've been through so much trial and error over the last six months. That I feel really good about sharing my recs. Plus there's links to everything. Plus there's just like sneak peeks of your house. And Rold's voice.

Yes. Whoever. There are. Rold. How did you know? Yeah. So it's really. I've been meaning to do it for a while.

I'm so glad that it's out there because I do I get a lot of questions about my favorite baby products and the thing is and I went on like a whole tirade about this and I but I can't not say it it's like there are so many products out there there's so much almost too much information it's not like there aren't enough places that explain what's what but it's like I don't have time to read a magilla about like different stroller converters so I found so many of the processes for picking out some of the bigger equipment to be so overwhelming but now that I've chosen you know I got what I wanted and it's the one I got um because it's the one you got I'm really happy to share you know what actually was good for us and what's really not um just like tangent kind of I want to really talk about um

rolled in I want to talk about the subject the nickname that I just want like full credit like I fully came up with it right well actually I'm kidding even kidding in our family like with certain things we all do like years later later, we're like, well, how do we get into Kacey Musgraves? And literally nobody in this family will acknowledge that it was me. Literally nobody. But it's fine. It was me.

And so now that it's like, you know, only six months, like I feel like we're going to be calling him rolled for a while. And I just want to put it out there. Everyone listening. It was me. It was Claudia. And that is also because I usually come up with the nicknames yes but it's like I can't nickname myself that's

why I don't really have a great nickname because true and I think the same goes for him you know I just call him bug and different variations of bugsy tugsy wugsy tugsy is what we're calling him these days but that's a very like affectionate nickname. Like Rold is really more of a distinguished nickname. No, for sure. And for anyone who might be confused as to why his name is Rold, is because obviously his name is Harry.

His, you know, birth name is Harrison, which honestly, like, I don't know Harrison. Like who the fuck is Harrison? Like obviously when people got you gifts, they put Harrison on like a chair. I'm like, whose chair is that? I do not know Harrison. Like who the fuck is Harrison? Like obviously when people got you gifts, they put Harrison on like a chair. I'm like, whose chair is that? I do not know Harrison, but he was named for our grandfather, Harold.

It's a more modern version. But he was so much more of a Harold when I first met him. He honestly is such a Harold. Like, is it too late to change? Like his birth name should be Harold. I know, but I just didn't want to like send him to school with the name Harold. No for sure. But I agree with all that you're saying and I would also say if you are actually never mind.

Well I was gonna say like I feel as though when parents are thinking of naming their kids they're always thinking about like elementary school how kids can be so mean and it's a really good like thing to have in mind to filter out names but there's so much more to life than middle school you know I agree no I totally agree with that you really can't get too hung up on it right but I mean Harold is a very antiquated name and I just wanted like a modern version of it and I love the name it was always going to be Harry so it's really not like it mattered as much but let me tell you wound up just being such a Harold right and we also called him a lot in the beginning Haroldson because it was a mixture but you know kids are unexpected because obviously you would think okay the kid whose name is like Gaylord would get, you know, nicknamed and all these things.

But kids, like, you can't predict. Like, Ben has the most regular name, Ben Soffer. You know what the kids used to, like, they came up with a nickname for that, Ben Soccer. It was like, oh, Soccer. And it honestly plagued Ben. Like, when we talk about it, I could tell there's some deep trauma there. That's so random. And he just has a regular ass name.

Like, yeah, you really can't. You can't predict what's going to get kids like made fun of. Yeah. All of these things go into naming a person. But there's not like you shouldn't do it just because of like middle school or whatever. You should go with the best name for for the man. But calling him Harold did lead to us calling him Rold. Which also is Roldini, which is a personal

favorite of mine. Roldini, Roldini. He thinks I'm crazy, but he like loves the chaos. No, he loves it. That's the sort of energy. He just wants entertainment. And there's literally no one more entertaining than you. Also, I'm just only saying this because I'm literally sinking into this couch. Tomorrow, finally, I get my Buckel chair that you have. So we'll have matching chairs. This couch, I definitely exceeded the weight limit fluctuating through the years. And she's served me well. But her time has come.

And I'm excited. What about when we have guests? I think you're keeping the couch. No, I'm not. I'm not getting rid of it. I'm excited. When, what about when we have guests? I think you're keeping the couch. No, I'm not. I'm not getting rid of it. I'm definitely keeping it. But for your solos endeavors, I think you're really going to love this chair. And if I have a guest here and you're not here and it's just like a one-on-one, which

I think we plan on doing, you know, like you doing some interviews that you want to do, me doing some interviews. I'm so excited. Yeah. I will be using your chair because mine like is broken. The chair that you used to sit in is not nearly as sunk in as mine. Got it. Okay.

I love that for you. Yeah. I'm excited because we are now that we're separated, like you'll do some in-person interviews just like you did with TPG that I can't be there for. And if we're ever doing remote interviews, like we're kind of going to start doing them solo, which is something that I've been like itching to do for a while yeah because whenever anyone we get like a pitch one of us is always like fuck yes and the other one's like like I don't really care because we really do cover a wide range of interests between the two of us so I actually think it's

probably going to be better we've been I've been getting asked a lot like what are you guys going to do about guests um and some of them if it's like a really big interview I'm sure you'll fly up yes but for you know the regular ones I actually think it's going to be better it's easier to do a one-on-one interview and there's always one of us who's more interested in it than the other yeah no I'm so into it me too I'll see how it goes I think this is a good call by us yeah we shall see new era you guys new era um so yes we have a new patreon i'm also on tour girl with no job.com slash tour excited to be in the pacific northwest in a few weekends oh you know what i have a dilemma because i have a an appointment with dr gizzi today i'm so jealous i know but obviously i only go like maybe once or twice a year for like a little lip filler

and some Botox. But I really like shouldn't be getting Botox while I'm on tour, especially because I'm going to film a special at one of these remaining shows. And so much of my comedy is like physical, like my eye, like I need to be able to move my face. I think I have to say no to Botox. Yeah, just say no, because you probably still have some leftover it's not like you're like me just raw dogging it through life right now and you I think better air on the side of caution plus like you have a young sprightly gorgeous botch and you don't want to like do a special and it's like girl can't move her face and it's all anyone's talking about no I know but it's like okay I'm recording a special I want to look my best what do I do Botox but I honestly feel like part of I honestly feel like it would impact the comedy. Right, right.

It would impact the comedy. It would impact the comedy. No, you have to say no. But what about lip filler? You know, I love when you get lip filler. Oh, no, I'm definitely open to it. Even though I have to, I have to sit down with her, have her take a look. She's really good about not making me look crazy. And the last time I did it, which I don't know how long ago it was, she gave me a new type of formula that lasts way longer and I still might have it in my lips. And if that's the case, then I don't think I should be getting more

because I really am very conscious of not looking nuts. You definitely have something in your lips because you don't look like that girl that you used to look like. And thank God for that because I'm about to destroy my phone with the app TimeHop. I really, I just cannot believe how many years I walked around looking the way that I did. Like with no regard for my face, my looks, my clothing, my body.

It's really, it's astonishing. Like the morning breath was probably the ugliest year of my life which is so crazy because it was such a great year for me personally professionally like I got married that year this is 2017 um and I just feel like it really goes to show like what you look like really doesn't matter you know even though now in hindsight I'm like ugh but I was having all this wonderful success in my personal life we got this brand new show like all these great things were happening for me even though I was like an ugly beast yeah and I think that's the takeaway honestly I'm just trying to be positive I think that's a really good lesson but you know what I've realized recently I feel like up until recently I would look back at old photos

like where I was beastly and be like you're a beast Miranda beastly yeah but now maybe it's because like I'm a mom or maybe just because I'm a beast now I look back at even though the former Beasley moments and I'm just like you're so cute you know I know like you have like a protectiveness over your younger self like yeah I don't know I think that's normal I don't know which which one it is if it's just because I'm bigger now than all those times where I thought I was big or if it's just because like I have mama. If it's just because I'm bigger now than all those times where I thought I was big, or if it's just because like I have mama eyes and it's like,

you're a sweet young thing. Stop being so hard on yourself. No, I think becoming a mom, like definitely makes you realize like, you know, the woman you look back at those pictures, you can't hate that woman because that woman is a part of roles being here

today. You know what I mean? Like it's all meant to happen. You were meant to be in the place, you know? Yeah. Yeah. No. and I just think like if you're not looking back on old photos and wanting to die immediately like you're not living the true human experience no and you're not growing you're not that would mean that you look the same then as now and it's like so we've learned nothing we're learning everything and I just think we're not learning how to you

know fill in our eyebrows in a way that we do like that's not too much but that is enough I feel like there might be someone out there who's contemplating you know whether or not to get the mole removed and this might be the sign that you need to get the mole removed like you won't regret it and it'll change your life yeah or for me that's pretty much always the takeaway. Yeah. Or Botox or fillers. Yeah. Like if you want it. If you're on the fence, we've only had positive experiences.

But you know what? I actually know some people who have not. So do your research. She was allergic, remember? Right. Or just the good thing about it is that it is all temporary. So if you don't like how it is for you, you don't have to do it again. But I love it and I miss it.

And I'll be back it and I'll be back soon. I'll be back. This is not to say like everyone needs to get plastic surgery. I just think like normalize disliking things about yourself and not just having to accept them. You know, like you can change things like, and if it'll make you feel better inside and you're doing it for yourself, like do it. Yes. But also normalize like nobody's perfect love yourself the way you are it's such a hard line to walk where it's like normalize normalize self-improvement and self-acceptance oh Jackie what that that's it because I strongly believe like in just loving who you are like the person that you were born but then I'm also like the second something arises

about my body or my face or anything that I don't like removing it immediately you know yeah I mean it's just like balance both it's just like most things in life it's somewhere in the middle layered layered it's a little bit of both not everything is all one thing not everything is all one thing yeah I think that's a great lesson to get into today's episode with I agree so without further ado to do it is time for the where are you where are the boys Theo's just busy as fuck like honestly no time for auntie no time for mom building his empire going on walks being sexy it's it's a tough life also what's going on with the doggy crew now that Bryce is gone?

Like, is it the same? Are they forlorn? Completely disbanded. I have not seen Mystery. I have not seen Butters. I have not seen a single member of the gang since Bryce's departure. He was the glue. He was the glue.

Literally, Bryce is Rascal Flatts. Me and my gang. We live to walk. We walk to live. Aha! Okay, wow. I mean, I wasn't expecting that this morning, but Bryce will be happy to know

that he doesn't have to have FOMO. Nothing's going on without him. Right. Now, without further ado, here are the Fast Five stories that you need to know before you wake up and take a bite out of your morning toast did we hit the crunch apparently yesterday we hit it yesterday too oh there was rumors starting there was a lot of rumors starting

yesterday i'm sick of being we hit the crunch on our soundboard yesterday and i never thought to like check on, before I uploaded the audio, that, like, it was there, because it's always there, but it wasn't there. So I'll double check today. Oh, okay. Oh, I thought that. We always hit it.

Got it. The soundboard is here at HQ, and we hit it. So the people who said that it wasn't there, like, they weren't lying. No, no, no. Got it. I thought for a second when you were like, we hit it. I was like, where are these rumors coming from?

No, we physically hit it, but I don't believe it made it to the final cut. It might be because of the new way. Yeah, yeah. But I can always add it in, in post. So I'm glad we know about this now. Obviously, you know, remote tings, always in flux, always getting better.

I mean, my chair arrives tomorrow after tomorrow's episode, which is so annoying. But constantly evolving, constantly shifting, working on it constantly. Love it. Okay, now let's get into, I'm ready. Okay. Today's episode is brought to you by Ink Master.

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In the clip, the actress and singer croons directly to Affleck, who is seated in a chair directly across from her, smiling and enjoying the performance, before holding the mic out to the crowd to have them join in on the catchy refrain, which was, can't get enough. The lyrics go, all all night i can feel the passion in your eyes i'm still in love with you she sang as she was surrounded by backup dancers now before i get your thoughts on all of this i just want you also to know that j-lo has

slammed this leaked video of her serenading ben at the wedding she right it wasn't a j-lo approved video that they put out on it didn't come out no it didn't come out through the newsletter it was taken by a guest and then leaked and sold to tmz so she commented on the instagram video saying this was taken without permission period and whoever did it took advantage of our private moment i don't know where you all are getting it from because we had ndas and asked everyone to not share anything from our wedding that is our choice to share anything i put out is private on the j- and to share with my fans which I will do when I am ready to this was stolen without our consent and sold for money thank you for caring I love you guys okay so it sounds like she's more upset that she didn't get the exclusive for on the JLo.com than she is about the fact that it's a huge

invasion of privacy and I do agree with her like that she should be mad if the point of having like a really small low-key wedding like that when you're a celebrity is that shit doesn't get leaked and so that means that either you know someone they invited friends and family leaked it or someone who was working at the event because those are the only people who would be inside yeah and that's fucked up it is fucked up I feel like someone who was a guest I'm sure guests could take pictures and videos but just like not share anything maybe someone like took a video and then like went home and they're like kids saw it on their phone and like send it to themselves and then you know sold it to TMZ. I mean you're being really optimistic. I just don't think one of her 100 close personal friends who like got the invite is selling like that would be so traitorous. It's fucked up yeah

it really is. It's a betrayal but that doesn't sound like the reason as to why she's upset over it like she's missing out on the engagement, the likes. Yeah, and the subscribers. And we are doing it all for on the J-Lo. Right. But let's talk about the actual contents of the video. Because you have strong feelings on this concept. I do.

And I actually think I'm going to really surprise you. So she's getting roasted. People are like, this is so cringy. And there's definitely an element of cringe to it. And for the most part, like, I think it's really touch and go when the bride or the groom is going to sing or dance, like whatever their, you know, talent is. I think it's more often than not going to be weird. I happen to think that like this video was really cute. I mean, she's JLo for God's sakes. Like why, who, why get a performer to perform at your wedding when literally JLo is the bride? And like we said a couple of weeks ago, like they're

extremely chuggy and this is a really chuggy thing to do. It's very live, laugh, love. I think it's really on brand for them. And I kind of found myself like finding it really cute, actually finding it like incredibly cringy it was definitely cringy a little but that's them yeah I also think what makes it cuter is the fact that like she didn't share that she was doing this there's not like or maybe she was going to but the way that we're finding out about it is like they really intended for it to be a private sweet moment it wasn't like her like putting out a new song with like the music video from her wedding on the j like it wasn't a whole machine maybe that was the plan though so you know it was stymied but the way that we're seeing it it seems very genuine and sweet and I agree like JLo is getting married who else are you gonna have performing your wedding

an original song like it's very it's cute it. And they're just so. She's such a romantic, you know. Right. Almost in a choogy way. Yeah. And I'm never going to. I'm never going to knock that. No. And it wasn't like this big stage with tons of backup singers, dancers.

It was literally J-Lo on the dance floor, him sitting in a chair right in front of her and like three backup dancers. Like it was kind of low-key and I don't know I wasn't bothered by it but people like on the internet were just like dying over like the cringe factor and I do think something like that when done at a wedding always has the possibility to be cringy and more often than not it does but on this particular occasion I actually found it cute. And I also feel like there are certain people who when they get married like they should be singing at their wedding, you know?

Right. Like who is Andrea Bocelli going to sing down the aisle to, if not himself? Right. You know, even I know you have harsh feelings, Michael Bublé should be singing at his own wedding. The way Michael Bublé's image in my mind never recovered from that Instagram live with his wife is so astonishing to me because you know I forget everything and I actually like I've been to a Michael Buble concert at Barclays Center with Ben like I actually am like a big fan um and the way I was never able to look at him the same I don't know whether it was a you know a one-time thing or it was really just you know a bad look and that's not how he really is but I saw something in him in that Instagram live.

And if you don't know what I'm talking about, just Google it. I, like, do not fuck with Michael Buble whatsoever. Yeah, he has a new song out, though. That's really good. And that's why I feel like if he sang himself down the aisle at his own wedding, I would be like, oh, you would hate it. Egotist, egotist. Of course.

Because I saw like a really like dark side of him in that Instagram live. I know. So that's not a good example but like let me like Adele like that's what I was gonna say yeah if Adele's getting married she should be singing someone like you and I definitely um have regrets about not singing myself down the aisle at my wedding. Not down the aisle. No, I literally, instead of a bouquet, give me a microphone. So you have regrets that I didn't sing you down the aisle with my rendition of Camp Health, Falling in Love? But the thing is, we both had modern Orthodox weddings,

and kolesha is a real thing, so actually you can't sing in front of a rabbi. And that's why I personally didn't sing. Right, that's why. That was the only reason. Otherwise, it would have been a no-brainer. No-brainer. But I did think it was extremely,

and I feel like I've said this to you before, but it's worth mentioning again. I do feel as though it was extremely gracious and extremely generous. And really, honestly, I'm not even being sarcastic, is indicative of the type of person you are, like in a positive way, that you let me sing at your wedding reception. Because indicative of the type of person you are like in a positive way that you let me sing at your wedding reception because first of all like you know me

had to find a way to make it about myself and like you just handed me the opportunity right on a platter you let me sing probably the song I'm best at singing of like my top five in my repertoire coming home from country strong and it was so meaningful but it was also like she gets me you know she gets me she really gets me you know I actually forgot in this conversation that you sang at my wedding right not in the ceremony in the uh reception but I just think like that's something most I don't think most brides would do and by the way you know what it reminds me of like when brides throw their bouquet but instead of throwing it they go up to like a bridesmaid and hand it

over and the bridesmaid turns around and their boyfriend is on one knee, which is like fucking psychotic. Oh my God, I just got chills. I didn't know that's what people do. Oh my God. So it's like a trend. You know, videos from weddings

always go viral on the internet. And there's this thing where like at the end of one girl's wedding, she'll toss the bouquet and it's like, oh, the next girl who's going to get married, let's see. But instead of tossing it, she just walks right over to like her maid of honor and gives it to her and the maid of honor is like what and then they turn her around and the maid of honor's boyfriend is on one

knee that's so cute and people in the comments like people on the internet think it's fucking psychotic like this is your day you paid so much money these are your friends and family and like you're gonna let some other girl make it about herself honestly all the brides who have done that are bigger women than me I could never yeah I would never um I would never be either of the people in those that situation but I had never heard of this and I actually think if not overdone and in the right circumstance and at the right time in the wedding like literally at last call yeah I think it's cute yeah but it's giving Sheena and Brock like using someone else's wedding budget for your engagement budget like I don't like it it's tacky yes but like if it's your maid of honor and it's you know Sheena and Brock it's like these people

are co-workers and we know that they're close friends but it's like you're glomming on to James and Markel like what where's your family where's your friends like if it was someone who's like their family friends are there this girl you know she's all dressed up for the wedding like it's it's kind of sweet if it's the bride's sister if yeah if it's like you speaking of Sheena and Brock there's been a lot of footage coming out at their wedding and it was beautiful like really really gorgeous I know I was telling you that dream hotel in Mexico great advertising because they did a bang up job yeah it was did you see their first dance yeah it was really cute I wonder if Sheena That Dream Hotel in Mexico, great advertising, because they did a bang-up job. Yeah. Did you see their first dance?

Yeah, it was really cute. I wonder if Sheena sang at this wedding. Oh, good as gold. I hope so. Because we're good as gold. I've got to add that to my playlist. Yeah, so J.Lo sang herself, not down the aisle. There's a difference between down the aisle and performing at your wedding for your man.

Yeah, agreed. And we approve this message we approve we do shockingly yeah great i'm glad that we fleshed that out me too i feel good are you ready for our next story yep demi lovato regrets making her documentaries she says i wish i would have waited yep demi lovato won't be gracing the small screen anytime soon. The singer who uses she, they pronouns revealed in an interview with Alternative Press that she doesn't- I like how page six put that in there so they didn't get like hate for using the wrong pronouns because Demi recently went and changed her pronouns from they, them to she, they. So she prefers, she doesn't care like if you're going to do she or they. So like to ward off any backlash, they put that sentence in there yeah yeah yeah she doesn't plan on making any more documentaries

about her life quote honestly I'm really sick of watching myself and I think other people are too and if they aren't they can watch my music videos over the past decade she has released three different documentaries outlining her struggles with addiction and its impact on her career quote I wish I would have waited until I had my shit figured out more because now it's cemented. Sobriety is what works for me and nothing else. Her most recent documentary, Demi Lovato Dancing with the Devil, detailed her near fatal drug overdose in 2018.

Following the incident, she revealed that she was California sober, meaning she still smoked weed and drank alcohol in moderation. However, a year later, she gave up substances completely and went into treatment. However, her dislike for documentaries doesn't mean she wants to stop sharing her story with fans. She's just planning on waiting until she's figured out what she wants. She said, quote, my story is not done. So I want to be able to say by the time I've written a book, OK, this is me grown up.

Yeah, I mean, I agree with her point, but I think her saying, you know, I think people are sick of hearing from me, I don't think that's why she needs to stop making documentaries. And I don't think we're sick of her documentaries. No, I think, right, that's not it. It just seems really confusing and inauthentic for every couple of years to release a documentary

and be like, forget what I said in the previous one. This is how I feel and this is who I am so it's like what do we watch the other one for yeah I agree I think that documentaries are often like memoirs where it's like figure out what exactly that you want to say that like even though you will continue to grow and change over the years that you will not negate what you said in all of that. But just like that was your truth up until that point. So I feel like with her documentaries in them, she wasn't always completely honest with herself and therefore honest with us. So it's like, right.

They no longer are relevant and not even the California sober thing, but I feel like even her first documentary, she was talking about her struggles as if they were over. But even then we find out in the next documentary that she was like between takes engaging in some of the behavior that she was talking about as if it was in the past. So there's no pressure for anyone, especially people who are struggling to do these documentaries.

Like we will hear from you when you're good and ready. And like, if that's when you're 50 years old, like then there will still be your audiences there. Like don't be doing these things for us when you need to heal first. And I think it's just become really trendy to do celebrity documentaries, no matter how long you've been famous for, or no matter how old you are. And I do feel like documentaries should be reserved for, you know, and when it comes to celebrities, people who have been in the business a really, really long time. Like, I think one of the better documentaries I've seen recently was the Shania Twain one. And it's like, it was her journey at a glance. Her career's not over, but what she had to say, like, now was the time.

And it's like, Taylor Swift's first documentary was like literally 15 years after she got famous like I think you need to wait a certain amount of time like I think and I always use this example like I think Shawn Mendes's documentary was one of the worst pieces of content I've ever seen I was just about to say like Shawn Mendes doesn't need a documentary no it had only been like six years since he got famous from Vine and it was just, it was not good. And the whole documentary was about Camilla when they literally broke up six months later. So then it invalidates. It's like, oh, irrelevant. We don't care. Yeah. I feel like there's a lot of pressure for people. That's not to say though that your life

can't change as a celebrity after you release a documentary. That's not what I'm saying. No, I don't think that's what you were saying. I think there's a lot of pressure for people to do documentaries. I think there's a lot of interest in documentaries on all different subjects. And these streaming services are constantly looking for content and they're just like giving out documentaries. But one, I think a lot of times they're premature.

And two, I think it can be really invasive for people who are not ready, but like who's gonna turn down an opportunity to share, not even the money, but like someone comes to you and says like, and especially if someone, you know, a celebrity who's maybe struggling with something and wanting to share, and it's a really good medium to tell your story, but it's not always the right time. So I think it can be really attractive to do a documentary because you feel like it's

the perfect forum to talk about what you're going through. But I think it also puts a lot of pressure on you to be healed and have it all figured out. Right. And then you don't. Okay, so premature is the perfect word to use for it. Also, I think another really good example of someone who waited an extremely long time is Paris Hilton's documentary that was on YouTube recently.

One, it totally changed how I think a lot of people saw her. I think they ended up having a lot of respect for her hustle and her business acumen and her brain. And, you know, she's in her 40s now. We've known her since she was 17. I think it was a really good documentary and the time was right. Yeah. Yeah.

I'm just like thinking about documentaries in general. Or if the documentary is going to document, you know, a milestone. Halftime by J-Lo, Five Foot Two, Lady Gaga, both of those documentaries were like, here's the process. This isn't my whole life story. This isn't my E! True Hollywood story because the story is not even close to over. This is the six months I spent preparing for the Super Bowl. Also, Katy Perry. That was a good one because it wasn't, you know, here's who I am and what I know. Here is, you know, me being on a historically large tour, you know, being the first woman to do so many things.

And, you know, at the same time, my personal life, like it was a moment in time, not like this is who I am. I also think with Demi, this feeling of like she's constantly acting as if like the story's over is not just in the documentaries. Like it's in her music. It's in the documentaries like it's in her music it's in her interviews it's in her song lyrics it's everything and that's something that I feel like maybe she feels the need like she has to constantly be saying like okay now I have it figured out but she needs to release herself from that and it does it's not just the documentaries

I totally agree like her overall vibe and Miley too that's what I was gonna say but Miley's is less serious in the sense that like I think Miley just struggles identity wise when it comes to her music not who she is as a person like I think Miley probably has a strong sense of self but when it comes to her music it's like every couple of years she'll go to a different genre and be like this is what I've always wanted to do it It's like, well, you said that last time. Yeah. Yeah. Even though I do feel like the rock era she recently entered into is actually the genre she, and that's actually just indicative of her talent. Because when she released Malibu and that whole album,

I'm like, this is the real Miley. Yeah. Because she's really good at what she does, no matter the genre. I agree. And now I wonder if, like, there is a correlation between them being child stars. And not just Disney, but just child stars.

And like having to one, like figure themselves out in the spotlight and then having to constantly prove that I figured myself out. And just, you know, like that's what most people go through privately. But I think a lot of people arrive maybe at that conclusion sooner because they don't have all these external factors yes and you know kids who get famous really young are a lot of the time stunted at the age that they got famous at so perhaps you know Demi Lovato who I think is almost 30 is having these you know revelations when other people her age had them maybe 10 years ago yeah so no more documentaries from Demi for now.

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ex Bradley Cooper on a tropical vacation getaway in a rare Instagram photo. Irina Shaikh and ex Bradley Cooper are having fun in the sun. On Sunday, the supermodel uploaded a post on Instagram featuring various photographs of herself on a tropical getaway with Bradley Cooper are having fun in the sun. On Sunday, the supermodel uploaded a post on Instagram featuring various photographs of herself on a tropical getaway with Bradley Cooper. Some of them, she can be seen wearing a floral bikini and mesh leggings while resting her head on the actor's shoulder. In other images, she's posing beside some pigs on a beach

and she's lying in the center of a heart drawn in the sand. Now people are saying, you know, this is co-parenting at its finest. They're obviously on a trip with their daughter, Leah. But these like, I'm sorry, this just looks like a romantic trip that they're on. Yeah, I don't think like even the best of co-parents would go on like a trip, the three of them,

to a romantic island. And maybe the best of co-parents would, but post these pictures like they're staring us in the face like these are couple pictures yeah no i definitely she's in a heart together who drew the heart and what does the heart signify and it wasn't leah the kid drawing the heart so no and it's like if they weren't romantically involved at all she wouldn't post this carousel yeah unless like she's trying to make it seem like they are but I don't know her I just don't think that she would I think that they're telling us that they're together and why is everyone like oh here's a romantic picture of the two of them

on a romantic vacation it's like co-parents yeah like what what aren't people seeing I agree I think this is pretty much like a confirmation that they're back together and you know since they have a kid together like I love that you know I think that's you know children of divorce's dream you know like mommy and daddy are getting back together it's wonderful but just as you know like a celebrity obsessed girly I do not ship these two like whatsoever I think they're hella toxic I didn't really ship them either but I'm shipping these photos and I and if they really you know did separate and come back together like I love that story for them so I'm shipping from here on out yeah the vibe that I've always gotten from I know Wimbledon we know I actually was not going to say Wimbledon really but those pictures of them from

Wimbledon are one of my favorite things about this job like just the fact that I get to talk about that if you don't know what I'm talking about google it relatable the vibe that I've always gotten from their relationship was that she was like so much more into him than he was into her um and I think that's like really not a you know if it's true I don't think that's like a sign of a healthy relationship and if anybody in a relationship is going to like the other more in a hetero relationship like it has to be the man sorry in order for things to work yes okay so with that looking at these pictures again it could be more of what you're saying where it's like first of all in the picture of the two of them like if

I'm just looking at body language like his arms are just like down I feel like and also he's been rumored To be seeing Huma Abedin so if like he has a girlfriend If he has a girlfriend and like he knows Irina's like gonna try and like make it seem Like something like his arms are down he's kind of stiff it could be because He was like giving water to the pigs I also feel like he doesn't like photos Do you know what I mean no but like now through the lens of like she likes him more like she's trying to look like yeah we're together haha and by the way I have no proof of that it's just a vibe that I've

always felt and it was really highlighted with the Lady Gaga stuff um because she just looked honestly like pathetic they made her look dumb and if I were her I would never fucking forgive him for that yeah they did they did they made her look stupid at the Oscars like his date he's googling I you know Lady Gaga giving her a hug and a kiss and she's just sitting there um so that's just always how I felt like she is so desperate to be in a relationship with him and he like couldn't be bothered to give a shit and I have no proof of that like that's just the vibe that I get. Yeah. Well, through that lens, these pictures tell a different story.

And who drew the heart? She did. Irina. Who took the picture? Self-timer. Irina. She brought her tripod. So that's just how I feel.

So I'm not like dying for these two to get back together. I will say, though, I was appreciative to Irina because I don't feel like we get very like many candid shots of Bradley Cooper. He's, like, very private. And we certainly don't get shirtless ones. And he looks so hot. He does. And he is just, like, beyond handsome.

And the other day, I actually went on a Bradley Cooper totally random. I saw a clip on TikTok. You know, I'm always seeing, like, them show. Oh. I'm so annoyed but I just remembered something what and I okay I could not sleep last night because right before bed I so what I was going to say before that reminded me is I'm always ending up on TikTok where like they'll show you a random movie and like they'll explain to you the whole plot in like 60 seconds and it makes you want to see the movie even though you already know what

happened and so I saw one from American Sniper and that sent me on a rabbit hole just like googling pictures of Bradley Cooper when he was you know dressed up and in character as Chris Kyle because he was so fucking hot and ripped so fucking hot but yesterday before bed, I saw a clip, 60 seconds, and I couldn't peel my eyes away once I had seen it. And I've always heard, always heard about the human centipede. And people are like, it's so disgusting. Like, don't ever look it up. And I never looked it up. What is that?

And if I had, it's a movie. Okay. And if I had to have guessed what it was, it was, I thought like they were, you know, guessed what it was it was I thought like they were you know taking people and like removing their limbs and like sewing them to other people and they create like a chain of humans because I knew it was a chain of humans yeah but I thought it's just like people wrapping their arms around each other but I didn't even know it's a movie but when if you said a human centipede I would think it was like a hundred people just holding each other in a line right it's just a connection it's like a long chain of people being connected and I thought people were like it's so gross

I'm like oh I'm sure they were like stapling body parts that's really what I thought human centipede was and I never bothered to look into it I've never thought about it what I found out that the human centipede was last night please don't I'm not gonna tell me okay I'm not and if you don't know what it is like I really encourage you like this is not something you want to be curious about like it will ruin your life um oh my god I couldn't sleep I'm gonna vomit it was a movie is this a real thing I don't know the backstory I just know it's a movie and it's just like a gory movie with a gory concept. It's not gory. It's so disgusting. It's very similar in a sense to the feeling that you get from Black Mirror Pig Prime Minister episode.

Okay. Okay. So it's a disturbing movie with a disturbing plot about this warden of a prison who does something so disturbing to all the prisoners is Bradley Cooper in it no but I saw a clip on TikTok from the same account that I saw the American Sniper one on it I don't know it's not about who's in it you know yeah and I don't know if the human centipede was like a concept biblically that turned into a movie I don't know what the origins is but I know there's a movie and I know there's a thing like the human centipede I don't know where it comes from but I finally found out what it was okay I have no desire to know no Jackie protect your heart I'm going to do not and if you're watching

on YouTube do not write it in the comments like for real like if you don't know what it is protect other people I hope nobody ever has to find out what it was I wish I I wish it was what I thought it was which was just like you know murderers like putting shoulders on butt cheeks I don't know okay I never thought about this honestly I don't even really I'm so sorry to have changed the tone. I just forgot that I was literally, it was a night full of terror for me. Okay. Okay, let's just move on. So do you think Irina Shayk and Bradley Cooper are back together?

After everything we've discussed? No. Me neither anymore. Now I know why everyone's just like, go parents. Right. No, I don't think so I know why everyone's just like, go parents. Right. No, I don't think so. Those arms tell a different story. Yeah, the body language.

And I think that if they actually were romantically involved, Bradley wouldn't want that shit posted. He's never been public about his life. But, you know, showing the world healthy co-parenting, that's probably something he wouldn't mind. Yes, and if Irvina is not his girlfriend girlfriend like he can't tell her what to post not even if she was his girlfriend that she could he could tell her what to post but she would want to be mindful of what he wants because you're in a relationship and you don't want to start a fight 100% what you just said

100% 100% Irina went rogue Irina went rogue Iroga okay I'm glad we got to the bottom of that they're not back together ships back to port back to port I think like when he dated who? Suki Waterhouse

oh yeah like if I could come back in this life as anyone it would be Suki Waterhouse so I could date Bradley Cooper And Robert Pattinson Yeah and you'd be in some really good movies too What is she in? She's in like everything

She was in something we just watched That Woody Allen movie She was in Rainy Day in New York Yeah she was the girlfriend who comes back She's always like the girlfriend who's out of town Who comes back Totally And so it's like she only has to do like one day on set She's in the credits she's at the film festival she's on the red carpet

but jackie totally she's just his girlfriend in the movie i don't even remember remember when l fanning is with that director yeah she goes to his apartment and then he like shoves her out the door. She's also in she's in something that we love. Sorry, I'm just I'm going to her IMDb. She's like she's just one of those girls who I feel like was born under a lucky star. Again, I know nothing about her or her life. Just that's the way it seems like she literally like released a song, even though I don't think she has any experience. And like the song went so viral on TikTok,

like the type of virality artists only dream of. The skyline falls and I try to make sense of it all. Yeah. Wait, why isn't she in anything else that I've seen? You think we're the same? If you guys like know that song from TikTok, you would die if you found out. Oh, she's-

If you didn't know, the Suki Waterhouse sings it. She's going to be in Daisy Jones and the Six, which i know you didn't love the book but there's a series coming out of it and now that we're elvis girlies elvis's granddaughter is playing daisy jones riley keough which i knew that when the news broke but now i didn't have like a care so much about elvis so elvis's granddaughter lisa marie had a baby with who um she's had I think she's has four kids that are half siblings and Riley Keough I don't know who Riley's father is interesting very interesting and Suki Waterhouse is playing Karen who I think is the the female drummer in the band oh yeah she was honestly She was, honestly, she was cool.

I liked the drummer. Yeah. Low key, you know? I think it will be a very good TV show. It was, I liked the book, but you- I think so too. You made me hate it. I did not like the book.

I did not like the book. And there were a lot of people who agreed with me. And a lot of people said that the audio book was amazing. So I think, you know, book, audio book, TV show. Like it might be the type of story that needs to be told visually. If it's so much better audibly with different people. It was like a play. Yeah.

I heard the audio book was. Yes. Okay. Our next story. Chris Rock says he was asked to host the 2023 Oscars and his response would be a no. For Chris Rock, returning to the 2023cars would be like returning to the scene of a crime the comedian told a phoenix comedy show audience on sunday that he was asked to mc next year's event but declined the opportunity according to the arizona republic

the star told the crowd that going back to the oscars would be like asking nicole brown simpson to go back to the restaurant where she left her eyeglasses before she was killed in a reference to the murder trial of OJ Simpson who was acquitted in the case he rejected hosting duties um his rejected hosting duties would have come a year after Will Smith slapped him at the Academy Awards okay that Nicole Brown joke was like hella unnecessary very unnecessary like it's a joke so you by the way do you know that the Nicole Brown when she left her sunglasses at the restaurant and then Ron Goldman came you know the restaurant was Craig's no I feel yeah it was and I feel like everyone knows that but they don't really put together that it's also like currently still celeb hotspot Craig's got it well I mean think

of that a restaurant like that like it wouldn't survive a scandal like that they didn't do anything no I know but why should Craig suffer totally a local business yeah um yeah I don't think it's the same as that but it's a joke so no it's a joke um I don't know who thought it would be a good idea to ask him I love that Chris Rock said no and I don't know what his reasonings were a good idea to ask him. I love that Chris Rock said no. And I don't know what his reasonings were, but mine would be like, I literally got slapped. You didn't even kick this man out.

Why the fuck would I work with you? And give you the ratings. Because of course everyone would tune in, see what he said. It would be like a big moment. And why the fuck would Chris Rock do that for the Academy when the Academy was being- Just carried on with the show and then gave him an Oscar right and let him and let him speak um yeah yeah I understand why they asked him the Academy has his best interest no I understand why they asked him like it would be amazing and that's

really all everyone was talking about from last year and whenever there's a moment that everyone's talking about or even like a host or a presenter then you know they try and capitalize it on it for the next year. It would be great television if he hosted the Oscars, because now you can't really talk about the Oscars without like just thinking of Will Smith and Chris Rock. The slap. But yeah, decline.

It's also a thankless job. And even if the slap hadn't happened, like a lot of people don't want to do it. And so. You end up like always getting like backlash or people saying you didn't do a good job it's a thankless fucking job yep it's hard work and Chris Rock doesn't need the work like he's literally one of the best selling comedians of all time like he's just fine yeah so

I think it was a no on all fronts um I wonder who will host but it's like I don't know what the reasoning is why Kevin Hart has never done it since, you know, that whole thing. Is it that he hasn't been asked or he's just over it? He was asked, I think. I think he's over it. And I think he was, I don't know if pissed is the right word, but I think the piss was like taken out of it for him. And the fun was, you know, it's just like.

For sure. It was his dream. Then it became just like this whole thing. And it just, I think he moved on. But, you know, and another great example for a celebrity documentary that was done well was the Kevin Hart one. It wasn't, you know, Kevin Hart was born in New York. It was the year after the Oscars thing, like the journey he went on, what he learned, etc.

And in the documentary, he was like, I'm so sorry. Like, it didn't seem like he was pissed at all. It seemed like he was like groveling almost like he was so apologetic. Right. Right. For something he literally said 15 years ago. I actually never watched the documentary. So I'm still like, I only know. Right. So in the documentary, his tune completely changed. Then, you know, when he wouldn't apologize when it was announced, he was like, I've apologized a million times. Like, I'm not going to let this keep following me. He was very, you know, strong in his stance. And a year later, or maybe a year and a half later, when that documentary came out, his stance was completely different. He's like, I understand why I hurt people. So that kind of defiance he had was gone.

And I don't know if that was just something he was saying so that he could move on from it press-wise or if that's how he genuinely felt. But I felt like he was already moved on. Like he's the one who went back. Yes. So I don't know if he wants to do it or not, honestly, but he would be great.

Even though like, I don't think it's really a job worth getting. No, I don't think so either. And they can try as they may, just give it to Ricky Gervais. Yeah. He's really the only person that does a good job. Yeah, I would...

And that's not to say other people aren't talented, but it's a very specific job that not everyone is cut out for. You have to be ballsy as fuck and not a part of, like, the Hollywood core. Like, Jimmy Fallon, Jimmy Kimmel, James Corden. Like, they're never gonna really say something outlandish because they're a part of the problem like they're part of like the hollywood elite whereas like what the fuck does ricky gervais care he lives in london give it to andrew schultz right like somebody on the total outs

to really be able to poke fun at like the elephant in the room which is like this is so dumb yeah it's got to be a podcaster i would love they're the only ones with the courage a hundred percent and i'm not saying like you were i really like the no we're not suggesting ourselves honestly i don't want it no no i don't want it either but I want to see some of my favorite comedic podcasters out there roasting roasting like Tim Dillon Tim Dillon that was my nomination last year I wasn't yeah when we had this conversation last year and we decided it needs to be a podcaster we were talking like Bill Burr Tim Dillon we just watched Andrew Schultz's special. It was really dark. It was wild. It was wild. Honestly, it was a wild ride. It was so funny, though. And, you know, part of the

reason I was interested in watching it was because there was like this big scandal with him where Netflix bought his special and they had requested he take out so many jokes that for the sake of his art, he didn't want to do it anymore. And he bought back his special. I'm sure that put him honestly in enormous debt. So I wanted to see like what was too crazy for Netflix. And I assumed it was too offensive in terms of like not politically correct enough, too crass, too, you know, out there. But I think the reason why it was pulled from Netflix, which I was shocked by was it was too dirty like it was really sexual and that's not what I was anticipating I was ready to hear him say some like crazy controversial there was there was all of that yeah but it was also really dirty

it was sexual I don't the way that we were able to watch it I don't because it's kind of hard to find because it's like uh yeah it's this it's like it's a service that you can purchase on on a website but then like once you get it you have to airdrop like airplay it to you we airplayed it from our iPad to a TV it's not a wasn't a premium experience no the watching it was premium but I feel like trying to go and find it was hard but maybe that's just because we're unfamiliar with the platform but anyways it was really it was a wild ride it was wild honestly yeah it was funny though so don't watch it with like literally anyone you respect no yeah don't watch it with your parents no do not watch it with your parents watch with like your husband boyfriend girlfriend something like

that yeah that's what you did we're by yourself yeah it was funny though it was funny but like I definitely felt like a little awkward. Like your husband sat in for like 30 minutes and I was like please leave. Well Ben was there the whole time. Yeah. No I know. Are you ready for our fifth and final story? Is it the fifth and final story that's brought to you by honey honey.

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archived her post about supporting garcelle's son she said quote it did nothing so rinna posted to her instagram um a screenshot of messages with a fan who asked why her post she had posted the bravo statement a lot of other housewives had posted it too about from different franchises right she uh reposted it like you know in defense of garcelle sun and then she was asked what happened to the statement on her instagram and this was her reply i archived it that's all i've been keeping my social media page very edited if you notice i'm keeping it very positive non non-negative, and fashion and fun. I don't want anything negative on my grid, and since my own children are being threatened as we speak,

I felt it best to archive it. The statement did nothing, so why keep it up? Our children are getting death threats, all of our children. It's gone beyond, and I need to keep my family safe now. I will no longer be saying or posting anything about the show. Okay, like I get what she's saying. It definitely has gone beyond, and I'm sure that everyone's kids are getting harassed. be saying or posting anything about the show. Okay like I get what she's saying it definitely has gone beyond and I'm sure that everyone's kids are getting harassed. I don't think to the level

that Garcelle's kids were getting harassed. One because Garcelle's kids like their harassment was like a coordinated attack like by bots like it was really and it was like race racially motivated. It was like really bad. I get what she's saying but I do think deleting it or archiving it whatever she said like makes me think there's more to it you know and like of course yeah things like that do nothing that's so performative that's literally like the basis of social media like everything is performative like everything you post like it just is so I agree with that concept but the posting and then archiving of it makes me think it's like there's something more nefarious going on yeah it makes it like you know drama filled but what's uh what's I like I'm not caught up on the show so I don't know like

what's changed why all the kids are now getting death threats when the show has been airing for more than 10 years every other franchise like this hasn't been an issue until this season. And it's just making me think of like what you theorized, where you theorized the bots were coming from. Like what's new about this season that's different from other seasons? Diana. Yeah, so there's really not even that much going on

on Beverly Hills right now. Garcelle's son, especially her younger one, was involved in a brief storyline with Erica. Erica was like wasted and she yelled at him like, get the fuck out of here. And Garcelle was like, do not talk to my kids like that. And it wasn't really a big deal.

And that was weeks ago. Right. So I don't know why, why this is happening when it's never happened. It does make you think there also are a lot of people who think that Lisa Rinna was behind the bots, but Lisa Rinna has been on this show for many years and it's never happened. It does make you think there also are a lot of people who think that Lisa Rinna was behind the bots, but Lisa Rinna has been on this show for many years and it's never happened. So I agree.

Like the new factor has to have something to do with it. It has to, but now that you told me that theory, like that's all I can think. Because like the fact that all the kids are getting this, they were never in play before. Like this was not ever happening. And that's always been a line that I feel like the, this they were never in play before like this was not ever happening and that's always been a line that I feel like the the housewives never crossed most of the fans

really don't cross it unless I mean Jolie unless the kid is doing confessionals you know like and then Jolie what about Jolie like remember when people were messaging her like disgusting things about her mom and it was on the show yeah yeah see but I also think that this is a lesson to housewives and reality tv stars everywhere like it's especially for your kids if you if they are on public like I just think that that's something you should rethink I think kids are totally off limits but you know how disgusting the internet is you know how fucking crazy Bravo fans are to the point where like I'm actually worried about the network and I think that they're crazy fucking fans are making them look really bad and having a negative impact on like their overall image so I would just keep that in mind like I do think if you're going to be a

housewife like your kids social media should be on private which makes it tough because then you look at like Gigi Hadid and you see what it did for her and then you look at Delilah and Amelia and it's like wow there's so many opportunities and I get it but you have to weigh you know the pros and the cons yeah a hundred percent I think that the cons really outweigh the pros it depends like where you what you're looking for but yeah and it's definitely never gotten to this level now but now that it has I think it probably makes all the other women on different franchises who have kids on the show it makes them you know second take a second and think yeah it's just wild it's wild and then everyone was freaking out because Lisa Rinna took Real Housewives of Beverly Hills out of all of

her social media out of all of her bios thinking that she's been fired but I feel like she pretty much just explained why she did that in that Instagram story. She said, I'm not going to mention the show on my socials anymore. So yeah, I think for I mean, I think that's kind of silly. It's like you're on the show. What are you trying to pretend like you're not on social media for these bots? Like they know that you are. But I think for Rinna, because she really you know, she's like a celebrity before she's a housewife. And so I think she's just trying to like separate between like here's me Lisa Rinna's a celebrity and then like I also I'm in this tv show it's a little too late for that she used to be a celebrity before she was yes no no no I know now that's why I say she's a little too it's a little too late for that like all of her celebrity is exclusively her followers are are Bravo fans. She's so enmeshed with that,

but I think she's trying to separate it. Even maybe like Erika Jayne and Erika Girardi. But there's nothing to separate. No, there's nothing to separate. There's nothing to separate. And I do think her taking it out of her bios and stuff is very like... Dramatic.

Dramatic and it's only going to cause people to talk. And don't get me wrong, I would love for her to be fired, but I don't think that that's what happened. No, not at all. I do think it's a possibility. But it hasn't happened. No, but I think, like, based on this season, I think that it's a possibility that she might not return.

She's very, everything she does is, like, kind of low budget. And I don't think she can keep up with this group of women. Honestly, I feel that way. Yeah. I have to watch to see for myself, but those reasons don't sound like fireable. Especially for someone who like- Not fired, but like not asked to be back.

Yeah, no, but no, not, sorry, not fired, but those just seem like personal preferences of yours. Oh, okay. She's constantly bringing the drama, like constantly letting someone else know what someone else said. Like she's doing what she's supposed to be doing. I guess. So, yeah, period.

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