The Toast - S5 Ep47: It's A Lot with Tayshia: Wednesday, April 20th, 2022

Episode Date: April 20, 2022

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Good morning, Millennials! Welcome back to the Morning Toast. Happy Wednesday, also known as Hump Day, and I'm very excited because the girl sitting next to me is so beautiful I might hump her. Welcome back to the show, Tayshia! You've become like Madonna. You're just like a one, a Tayshia. I was looking at your Instagram this morning and your Instagram is just Tayshia. Yeah, that's so cool. I mean, to be honest with you, I love it that way. Yeah. I really don't. Fun fact about me. Last name has changed.

Right. Before and almost did again. So at this point, we're just dropping it all. Got it. Is Adams your birth name? My maiden name. Maiden. That's the right word. No, that is it.

Yeah. Well, welcome back to the show. Thank you. I love having you here. You are a hard woman to book. You're traveling. You're here. You're there.

You're a star. You're hosting The Bachelor, here. You're there. You're a star. You're hosting The Bachelor, The Bachelorette. How is Tayshia? Welcome back to New York, first of all. Thank you. I love it here, number one. It's warmer today as opposed to what it's been the rest of the week, which I have a bone to pick with New York.

Y'all know that. With Mother Nature. But I'm so happy. I'm like in this city. I love it. I feel more New York, like a city girl than Orange County. And this is your permanent residence, right? I mean, I still have a place in Orange County.

Oh, you do? Yeah. And you travel a lot. Yeah. Your family's there. Yeah. Like I actually booked a flight for tomorrow, so. Oh no.

I need sun. A hundred percent. A hundred percent. So what's it like living in New York? Not a lot of people who come off The Bachelor live in New York. A lot of people move to LA. Are you joking? No.

I feel like I was one of the first to move here. Now there's about 35 people. And I'm just like, I actually try to do something different. Now it's like, this is the main hub for all Bachelor people. You're not like other girls. No, I mean, you know what? Now I just have to move to London. Totally. Well, the thing is, is I have to be totally honest. The last season of The Bachelor I ever watched was your season. Well, you slash Claire. And I'm so excited you're here because we have this running joke at the toast that like I need to tell you about. So when we used to recap your season, for some reason, we back on to like not really

a busy street, but there's a street behind us. And for some reason, like whenever we would talk about you, like these trucks would honk their horns so loud. And it's like annoying for us because when we try to record audio, you want would, would honk their horns so loud. And it's like annoying for us. Cause when we try to record audio, you want premium silence and they're always being so loud. So we used to call them the truckers for Tasia because they were here supporting you.

And every time you would say the word Tasia, I swear to God, no, yes. So the truckers for Tasia, I hope they show up today, but I want to let you know, like you have the truckers of America behind you.

It's so funny though, because like that started appearing on my Instagram and I'm like I don't know what that means but like yeah people go truckers for Tayshia like and they'll say like all the time and I was like I mean like is it because I wear a trucker hat sometimes like I'm confused but like also at the same time I'm maybe I need to date a trucker like I didn't know what they were trying to say no literally the truckers for Tayshia they are like a fierce group wow well thank you truckers for Tayshia thank you Tayshia appreciate it yeah the truckers just Iaysha they are like a fierce group wow well thank you truckers for Taysha thank you Taysha appreciate it yeah truckers just I actually pay all of them to do that

so I believe it yeah um okay so let's catch up a little bit you're gonna dive into the fast five it's also Wednesday so we're gonna get advice okay we've got some interesting submissions today and I would love to get your take on them but before we catch up on that like how's single life how's Taysha doing Taysha's actually doing really well, which, I'm not gonna lie, it was a little rocky. Of course. For a little bit. Breakups are hard. Very hard. But also, at the same time, I really think that my trip to London was kind of, like, the refresh, the rebirth, the, like, new rejuvenation. Yes, it's exactly what I needed. And it's been phenomenal ever since. Good. Yeah, it's kind of just like you needed to just do something on your own.

And that's what exactly I needed to do. And I just walked around and everyone's like, what did you do there? Did you have an agenda? I'm like, I actually went with no agenda. And that was the agenda. Yeah. And I just learned so much about myself. Although it is a little odd constantly going to happy hour by yourself.

Gets a little sad. Yeah, just a little odd constantly going to like happy hour by yourself gets a little sad yeah just a little bit so um i did start to like make friends and whatnot but um it's i'm happy to be back in the city do you prefer traveling by yourself or with like friends um i don't think i've ever traveled by myself that wasn't like work related it's actually really fun to travel by yourself i can imagine because like you don't have to worry about like everybody else but also at the same time um you can like stay longer you can imagine. Because like you don't have to worry about like everybody else, but also at the same time, um, you can like stay longer. You can do this, do that. I don't know. You can meet whoever and you don't have to feel like, oh great. They want to go home and I'm like down and talk to you. I don't know. It's actually really nice. Yeah. No, I imagine that it is, but you have to have like a lot of, um, confidence. Yes. And no, well, yeah, you definitely kind of feel like a fish out of water. Like everyone's watching me

right now. Especially in a new country. But no one actually cares about you. That is the most important thing you've ever said. No one actually cares. And I think that like as you grow up, it's like a lesson. You think like everyone is looking at you all the time. If you embarrass yourself, like everyone's thinking about it. Yeah. And once you come to learn that literally nobody cares about you, it is so, well, you're

like a famous person. So like some people do care about you, but like just like socially when you come to realize that like there's so much freedom with that lesson like no one's thinking about you it's so true and you know what New York actually kind of warmed me up to that first because I started doing like this thing like where I take myself out to dinner every Sunday like I actually love it I go to dinner this is odd but I I don't know if you've ever gone to go get like a foot rub it's like yeah of course like an hour it's the best like literally I so I'm more of a back early but yeah oh okay okay've ever gone to go get like a foot rub it's like $35 for like an hour it's the best it's like literally I'm more of a back girlie but yeah

oh okay love so I love to go get like at least a glass or two of rosé go get a foot rub it's like literally the best thing

that's ever happened my best friend now does and she's like this is probably the best piece of advice you could have ever given me but yeah I do that and I was talking

about foot rubs for a second I was like why do I talk about foot rubs we like to call this show The Morning Tangent. We just go off. There you go.

But it's just like nice, like get to go to dinner and date yourself for a little bit. I couldn't agree more. I also feel like coming off the heels of your breakup, you were so booked and busy. Always. Work wise. Yeah. So you like, I actually feel like that's a blessing in disguise. You don't really have time to like sit in your own self pity and just be sad.

Yeah. You have to cash those checks. Absolutely. Which is the best. I mean, like I'm not, I'm not saying no to it right let's keep it coming you just got so free let's take on more work almost like a little too free though yeah but at the same time I don't know I really needed that moment to myself and I still have it right now which is nice it comes in spurts right now but I think I've kind of designed my life um to be that way this year yeah just to like really kind of be in. But I think I've kind of designed my life to be that way this year. Yeah. Just to like really kind of be in the city. I also,

you've just, like you've had such a jam-packed career since The Bachelor. I always forget that you also hosted like a bunch of seasons. Yeah,

it's kind of odd, right? What was that like going from a contestant to a lead to a host? Which I think like is the dream. I mean,

it's kind of amazing. Like I still pinch myself over it because I don't think I ever realized exactly what was going on it was crazy because it's just like okay yeah okay yeah like and you you say yes to everything exactly it's basically your family you've done it time and time I've been with them for like what four years now right so you kind of just didn't think twice but at the same time I like cannot even believe like do you remember me on cold season I don't know if you do but like honestly yes I was the quietest shyest like little I don't even know what I just probably bat my eyelashes right but then you really came in into your own on paradise okay i loved paradise though and you were like everything everything like i just and i don't even watch a bachelor anymore so like my frame of reference from like bachelor history yeah it's really the last couple of years that you were on and you were just a star i feel like

you never really shied away from being yourself you always pulled out the looks and i i have so many questions about paradise because i can't imagine like anything worse than getting ready in the heat. There's no air conditioning, like the hair, the sweaty makeup. Like for me personally, it's like just a big sweater. It is my worst nightmare. And you might as well have been in Antarctica. You just showed up everywhere like snatch to the gods.

Listen, okay. I feel bad for you for number one, but this is the thing. I love the heat. I don't sweat. Oh, you're from OC. No, I like bad for you for number one, but this is the thing. I love the heat. I don't sweat. Oh, you're from OC. No, I like live for it. So it was like the perfect situation for me to even have my season in Palm Springs.

It was 122 degrees. That would have been my worst nightmare. I would have turned it down. Literally, the men looked like they had just showered, and I was just like, why are you guys hot? I'm confused. Sweating through their shirts. I loved it. So I don't know.

Paradise is like very my element. I'm also half Mexican, so it's like home.'s like home I get it I get it well you did it flawlessly well thank you I mean sort of I mean I'm sure there's a lot we didn't margarita helps but in terms of getting selected to be a host I feel like there's so many contestants that come out of the show people love them they get tons of different jobs, opportunities, but to be selected by bachelor nation for that job with Caitlin, obviously. What did that feel like?

Did you feel like you were just better than everyone? Cause I would have felt that. Oh my God. No. I was like, are you sure? Like you're sweet. Is it me?

Like, but also it's very nerve wracking. Cause if you feel like you have to like uphold a lot, like you have to be on a certain level and you're like, I'm still, you're like the same. I was a contestant. Right. And on a certain level and you're like I'm still you're like the same I was a contestant right now it's a house and like you don't want to like try to make people feel like I'm inferior I don't know just it's a different dynamic but also at the same time like it really did build me up and I also feel like I was meant to be that you were you were killer

I I feel like that that's like what I want to do for my life and so like perfect place to start I'm really happy. Good. And I'm thankful. But like also like. Damn straight. Yeah. No. You killed it.

Thank you. And in terms of getting back out there. Dating wise. Yeah. I'm assuming I know the answer to this question. But would you ever date Bachelor Nation? Absolutely not. That's what I figured.

And I think that's the sentiment from a lot of people. Yeah. Who go on the show. And it like. It doesn't work out. Well the reason why though too. Is just like. It's really hard having a public relationship. And I don't like, I don't even imagine like what,

I can't even imagine what a celebrity feels like. But for me, for Bachelor, like those fans are such diehards and they feel like they have to be in on everything. There's an entitlement. Absolutely. But even like, you can say like, oh, we're just in a funk today. We're just not doing well like they will completely come up with an entire different scenario and you're like wait

i just actually told you what the problem was right and now you're running with this tangent and it's like this whole thing you have to like fight and it actually starts shit in your relationship of course and i'm just like do you want us to work out or do you not want us to work out me and jackie always say normalize looking miserable in relationships because a lot of times we'll get paparazzi pictures and it'll turn into a whole story like trouble in paradise right like we're human beings like if I was photographed with Ben like people would think we're getting divorced every single day like I'm just a miserable person like it's just like what I look like normalized looking miserable yeah because it's just a part of life not every

part of a relationship is going to be like he he the best ever it's so true and like that's also weird if it is always like that. 100%. You know what I mean? So, like, you guys are going to be talking to each other, like, it's not always, like, you know, roses in your relationship. Like, what's wrong with you? It's so true. So, I just love seeing you in this season of your life.

And what's next for Tayshia? God, I mean, hopefully more hosting opportunities. I feel like that's, like, really where I'm trying to, like, hone in right now. Well, you're always welcome here at the Morning Test. Oh, thank you. Honestly, and it's the cutest set ever. So, like, I feel right at's like really where I'm trying to like hone in right now. Well, you're always welcome here at the morning. Oh, thank you. Honestly, it's the cutest set ever. So like I feel right at home. But other than that, like right now I'm really just trying to come into like the world of me being like a single woman that can actually provide for herself and like. There's no better feeling. No, it is really not. And it's like confident in herself. I have a lot

to offer. Girl, you have a lot to offer. Oh, thank you. You always have. It takes a lot to like actually like feel that way though. I know, I know. And you know, the last time you were on the show, I think it was before you were the lead. I think it was right after Paradise. You were still living in OC.

Yeah. And you were still this just like wonderfully charismatic, positive person. Like you have this almost toxic positivity about you. Really? Like you are so smiley all the time. Like you're so nice. You're so lovely. And it's nice to see

that like after all you know the opportunities and where you've come from you're really still the same bitch. Oh thank you. And I mean that in a positive way.

Also another thing we say here at the Morning Toast normalize saying the word bitch. Oh wait. It's a positive word. It's definitely a high used word in my vocabulary. No same and like

everyone's like bitch. No it's like endearment. I was just going to say it's endearing. Yes. Me and my best friend call each other all day every day. So I know you haven't here in a while i didn't want to like make you feel bad no no i would be offended if you didn't call me a bitch okay but like also my family and my best friend keep me very humbled too so it's also really nice to like have that very like solid foundation has it been hard to live further away from them like harder than

you expected I mean honestly I'm like I'm never coming home they're like you haven't been home forever like can you please come I'm like right no no like I'm actually not you're living your best life I love being here but I've also lived at home my entire life right and so I think my parents are finally to the fact like you've been home for every holiday like you don't have to come home right like go do your thing are you on any dating apps no are you against it yes for what particular reason just because like i'm a hopeless romantic and i really feel like i'll just like run into like my man like on the inside of the eiffel tower oh my god please yeah i feel like across like this like the crosswalk and you just like see him he like winks at you and it's just like this whole romantic freaking thing yeah like

i really thought i was gonna fall in love in lond, no, I could have totally seen that for you. Like a London businessman. Yeah. Because like there was this guy that, I don't know if you saw my stories, but I was actually like in my hotel room and I was dancing around in like my underwear and a t-shirt. Yeah.

And there was a guy that was like actually looking at me and like how romantic could that have been? Like he was actually really cute and he fell in love. Normal, not a serial killer. But also like I definitely got a better look at him and I was like, absolutely not. Where was he? Like across the street? So the buildings killer. But also like, I definitely got a better look at him and I was like, absolutely not. Where was he? Like across the street?

So the buildings are very close, like here in New York. Right. And he, like my windows here, his work building slash office cubicle is right there. Didn't really realize

that they were like that close. And I guess it was a work day. I was on vacation and literally turned around. He's giggling, straight up looking at me and I'm just like I just like grabbed everything I had like okay I have to say like it does sound like a meet cute but it also sounds like a peeping tom no wait yes it could have been really creepy

actually it's funny how you could put a spit on something like it's really cute but also like really scary I didn't even think about like I could have gotten that could have been a serial killer yeah no or like he would like take pictures of you and then become obsessed with you and like start uh like a wall in his house with pictures of you oh my wait now I'm scared of trouble by myself that wasn't the point of what I was trying to say gosh dang it it just goes to say you know be careful perspective is everything yeah absolutely I'm just gonna like live in my fantasy that like and you know what I'm sorry I didn't mean to burst your love bubble you know what what? I'm toxic, and I'm sorry, and I apologize. We've got to think about these things.

We're going to dive into the Fast Five, and I want to know, are you a pop culture girl? Because it's a weird place to be in when you're a fan of pop culture, but then you also become a part of it. Yeah. What is that like? I am and I'm not. Everyone expects you to be binging all these TV shows. Right.

I think part of the reason I took a step back from bachelor nation there's a multitude of things but also like i can't really like give a lot of input on it because i kind of stopped watching the shows of course once you see how the sauce is made well yeah but like it was just a lot for a minute i just needed to breathe so even with like i watch real housewives and whatnot right um i watch obviously keeping up of course what did you think of the first episode okay i'm actually obsessed with it so good but also i feel like they kind of did like a little like bachelor twist because like they don't go in like their little interview rooms anymore like it's like kim like like all the side of the set yeah it's giving documentary i kind of love it me too it's very

real right yeah but okay do you like the vibe a bit i love i loved every every moment freaking second of it. I thought it was much better than the E! show in the sense that E! show had so much filler. Yes. So much idiotic pranks. And you know what? Not everything is going to be high drama all the time. But I really am interested to see how they live day to day.

Like, what do you eat for lunch? I thought, like, what they were eating at the barbecue was so interesting. You know, it was. And, like, I love how Chloe was like, I kind of forgot what it feels like to have the cameras. And Kim was like, just pretend they're not there. Like, just do your thing. Talking about the cameras is normal. It was so cool.

I completely agree. I don't know. I feel like very close to them. I don't know why. And Chloe just looks so bomb. No, I know. I feel very close to them too in like a delusional way. No, it's, I know you do.

Like when they get together. You love them. You love them. When they get together, I'm like, where, why the fuck? And I'm dead serious. Like, how was I not invited? Like, I feel actual FOMO for people who have no idea who I am. It's rude.

Honestly. God, I want to meet Kim. I know. I have met her. You have? Mm-hmm. Okay, well, I'll tell you this. I was at the Beverly Hills Hotel once having dinner, and she looked back at me.

Like, I think she looked, and then she, like, looked back again. Well, you know she watches The Bachelor. I know. Well, one time she was actually looking at her phone and there was a picture from the paparazzi like from right behind and it was my face

on her phone. Like she was reading an article. What? And yeah, I kind of freaked out semi. Wait, that's the craziest thing ever.

I know. What was the article about? Did you recognize it? It was back when, it was like Colton season. It was like me, Hannah and Cassie, I think.

Oh my God. I know. I kind of felt, I don't know, it was like very cool. No, that's literally like put that on my tombstone. That's the coolest thing. I know. Like she knows my face. Yeah, of like very cool no that's literally like put that on my tombstone that's the coolest thing I know like she knows my face yeah of course she watches she

totally knows who you are I feel like you could meet her soon okay so like Kim like I want to be on a skims campaign well you know we have it on you know decent authority that Kylie actually listens to the podcast really yeah um so if you not every day but feel free to speak into the camera directly to Kylie hi well you're iconic and also I want some lip kits. Yeah, oh yeah. By the way, same. You too. Yeah, let's get those. Okay, so Tayshia's gonna join me for the Fast Five and Dear Toasters. So without further ado, I think it's time to dive into the Fast Five stories that you need to know before you wake

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You don't watch Potomac, which is just a huge flaw in you. Like you need to watch Potomac, especially when you've confided in me before the show that you're watching Orange County. And I know you're from there. Listen, how can you not watch it though? They're literally in my backyard. Oh, how can I not watch it?

Easily. Okay, yeah, it's really, it's bad. It's gone downhill. The music video? Okay, wait, I don't even wanna talk about it because honestly, the secondhand embarrassment is real. It's to the point where I was watching and I was like absolutely not.

Yeah, horrible. I closed my computer. I was gone. You see them around town when you're in OC? Yes and no. I've seen like Emily and Gina. I like them actually. Yeah.

Emily and Gina. They're kind of fun. But I haven't like really interacted with them, no. Would you ever be a housewife? Not yet. I wouldn't say no. But like, depends which one.

And where the franchise is. Like right now, OC's in a lull. So you don't want to be associated. I want to be like Beverly Hills housewife. Girl, me too. I mean, come on. Who doesn't? Well, there's some big news coming out of Potomac.

And I'll explain to you why it's important. Okay. So Ashley Darby has announced a separation from her husband, Michael. No one is the root cause, she says. So the Real Housewives of Potomac star told Bravo's Daily Dish on Tuesday, she said, almost eight years ago, when Michael and I said I do, we anticipated sharing every single day together from that moment forward. Unfortunately, that is not our current reality.

We have decided to separate. We are aware that there will be many viewers speculating as to why we have made this decision. People will be quick to assume that the causes were too much intrusion by reality TV into the most personal parts of our lives, age gap issues, cultural problems, or child-rearing differences. Pieces of all these may have affected our pure love for each other, but no one reason

is the root cause for a mutual decision to go our separate ways. We are now both at very different stages in our lives, and we have different goals for the future, yada, yada, yada. So let me tell you why this is like... Please explain. Okay. So Ashley came on the scene. Husband Michael, much older than her.

Okay. And just like a weird guy but you know what like she stood by him and it was actually admirable after all they'd been through how she like ride or died for this man even after he was accused of like horrific things she was actually it was crazy so he was accused of sexual assault to multiple staff on the production team wait what yeah like grabbing guys asses and there have long been rumors of him being gay and you know eventually the charges got dropped but there was like weird footage. Yeah. It was like a crazy couple seasons of Potomac and it was all really about Michael.

He cheated on her with a stripper while she was pregnant. Really like not a good guy but through and through with every allegation she was a really good housewife in the sense that she shared everything okay she had really uncomfortable conversations on tv she found out about the stripper on tv and she handled it like a champ wow but through and through she never left his side and they kept having more babies and so i believe i think she just gave birth to her third or she's pregnant with her third whatever something about the third baby and now fans are like why now and it really seemed to me like she wanted to have kids yeah and as many as she could and then she bounced and then she was like she got her dream she got what she wanted what she wanted and you know what I think Ashley Darby is an amazing housewife and I really like her and even though I don't agree with a lot of the times she defended Michael I'm kind of happy for her like she got her kids yeah and now she can bounce I mean I feel bad for her like I know it

was really tough how do you stand by I mean I know every relationship is different and you know you always like have your own opinions and you never know what's really never know what it's like to actually be in that relationship so but like power to her for like I guess sticking in it as long as she possibly could but I'm happy that she's now, like, I guess sticking in it. I know. As long as she possibly could. But I'm happy that she's now getting out of it. I agree with you. I know. And they discussed last season that she didn't have a prenup.

He has a lot of money. Oh, gosh. So, we love that for her. She's taking half and her kids. Okay, well, she got what she wanted. I know. And I feel like now we're going to see her in the next couple seasons. Totally different light.

I know. And, like, she's going to be iconic. Like, she's going to be, like, you. Like, independent. And I'm telling you, like, I just see. I know and like she's gonna be iconic like she's gonna have been she's gonna be like you like independent and I'm telling you like I just see I see she fun like she's everything she like loves to drink she like was always drinking a corona even she's just cute she's also like a pot stir bone carrying housewife there always has to be a little bit of that you can't not be a housewife and not have that. But I think, and she's never been like afraid of a fight. I think that like she is going to enter like the next couple years as like one of the greatest

housewives of all time without Michael. Wow. The Michael stuff was always bringing her down. Like no one could really take her seriously. Interesting. Yeah. Okay, well then this is actually really good news. I'm actually really excited to see this.

Maybe I will tune in. I can't believe you don't watch Potomac. It is the most underrated franchise. I think's okay up there with Beverly Hills wait what and people don't give it enough credit Jersey was up there with that Jersey's also really good this season but Potomac is just this underrated franchise because I think a lot of people haven't heard of Potomac geographically yeah it's a newer franchise but I'm telling you like we just came off some of the great like I can't believe you don't know about Monique vs. Candace. No, I don't.

It's so good. Okay, how many seasons are there? Not that many. I think maybe they just wrapped their sixth. And is it necessary to binge the entire thing, or can I hop in at a certain season? You're going to want to. Okay. It's that good.

Jesus. Me and Jackie both binged it two years ago, so we haven't even been watching from the beginning. It's so enjoyable. And they have some characters, especially in the beginning, like Katie Ross, who I hear is coming back. Oh my gosh. It's so good. And it makes me annoyed that like it's not as popular as other franchises.

Like it was the same kind of story as Real Housewives of Dallas, which I'm not sure you watched. No. It was canceled. And you know what? Like it wasn't that great. It just wasn't it, yeah. But they launched at the same time. And like Housewives fans have been been watching for so long I think they're very skeptical of new franchises I was just gonna say I feel like they have like

their shows that they stick to and like that's it and there's like a hierarchy yeah you know yes but Potomac is that bitch I'm telling you really I will preach the gospel of Potomac to anyone I mean if you said it's all the others with Beverly Hills okay fine yeah when people when people ask me my top two franchises I'll usually say Potomac and Beverly Hills. And I'll only not say Jersey because Jersey this season is amazing. Yeah. But not every season is as good, you know? Right, right.

But they always keep it good. They never enter a place. It's always juicy and there's always a lot of family drama. Like, we get it. They've never gotten into a place of like OC or New York, which right now is both experiencing some just really horrendous content really bad what do you think about the news that real housewives of new york is now being split into two shows did you hear about that yeah but i i'm excited for like the ogs to come back me too but like this whole new spin on it it's a

little confusing to me like is julia fox like really being considered and if so like i don't think that's a show i'm interested in watching i don't think that's a show I'm interested in watching either which is so weird to me because I feel like yeah but you know what people always say this like people are always so pissed for like a certain bachelor or bachelorette and guess what yes is watching it every single week and here you are commenting and like so obsessed and you're in love and you're in bed ready to watch it no you are a hundred percent right about that you? I actually have another question for you. That scene of you emerging from the pool in the red bikini, looking like a smoke show and a half, how many times did you have to do that?

Wait, question. Okay. It was the one that you used in the promo like a thousand times. Okay, so that was an orange bikini. That was my season. Orange, sorry. Only because I did it also in a red bikini with Colton during his season. But I don't know if that

actually aired the parallels so it actually stemmed from being in um Singapore coming out of the water got it and I was doing a whole like little Halle Berry moment and it ended up being like my thing it was and then so in the pool I probably only did about three four times that's not bad no it wasn't bad you've got a lot of upper arm strength oh well thank you yeah but also at the same time I mean that I like live for moments like that it was so iconic and i love how they knew it because they use that in every single commercial like a thousand times it was i mean first of all it's kind of rude because they didn't tell me that they were going to do that you should have like i thought i was just gonna be part of like the episode overall next thing

you know it was like my everywhere yeah you should have gotten paid extra for that oh maybe yeah what the heck we have a bone to pick. For how many times I used it in commercials. Like. It's true. It was so good. Well, thank you. You get a lot of people slide into your DMs.

You know what? No. Really? Like, I don't really check them though. But like. Girl, I would love to go through your DMs with a fine tooth comb. Like. Honestly, that would be kind of fun.

I know. Give me your phone. I won't take people's names. I won't take people's names. I won't say people's names. No, wait, this is, where is it?

You don't have to, you don't have to. Maybe afterwards though. We have to. That could be kind of fun. I know. I can't believe you don't like, I would obsess over who DMs me.

I feel like there's just probably like famous people in your DMs just sitting there. Okay. Unless it's like Channing Tatum or like Jack Carlow. Like I don't want to hear it. Okay. So who is your like celebrity all time? Well, all time,

obviously Matthew McConaughey but like oh interesting Liam Hemsworth I think he's taken so like I can't um I think he's taking Channing I'm so upset at the news I just saw the picture of her like him and Zoe yesterday and Channing Tatum yeah is also unavailable well also Jack Harlow yeah but like you would have to wait in line with a million other people but this is the thing and this is the bone I have to pick with this first of all he's I think he's 23 24 he's super young yeah I've been into him since his Yeah, but like you would have to wait in line with a million other people. But this is the thing, and this is the bone I have to pick with this. First of all, I think he's 23, 24. He's super young.

Yeah, I've been into him since his first album six years ago. So where were y'all at? Oh, you know what? Where were y'all at? You can cut the line. Wait. The line of people waiting outside to date Jack Harlow? No, that's what I'm trying to say.

You get to the front. I didn't even know he was a singer up until like two weeks ago. It's literally to the point where my friends, after first class came out last week or two weeks whatever my girlfriends like random people were just texting me being like i only know of this man because you were the person that introduced me to him that's years ago driving in your car blasting all of his songs that's huge phone like i i know sylvia like i know everything about jack say it to jack say jack i'm your girl that was like so awkward.

Hi, my name is Stacia. Jack, I'm available. Like, what do you do? DM me. I don't know. I've been married for a hundred years. Have you ever? Well, no.

I mean, I've slid into like a gay man's DMs. Okay. Which I'm just like, hey, queen, what's up? Like, I try to relate. Is it acceptable to do that? I don't know. I, I'm not entirely sure. But like I've said many times, there is a gay man living inside of me

so I feel like I really relate to the gay men and that's why I feel very confident DMing gay men see that's I'm fine with that

yeah but like me as a woman like should I like trying to date oh um yeah you'll the thing is you'll never know

until you try and like life is short take risks stop it she is smiling so hard as she's saying this, which means absolutely not. I mean, I don't think I ever would, but I'm just saying like,

isn't that so cringy? Doesn't that seem like a fangirl? It does, but it really depends on what you're saying. What is the context of a conversation sliding into a man's DMs? Right. If you're saying like, hey, I'm a big fan, like that's loser-y.

Are you joking? No. But if you have something like, oh, my friend Sarah, like, you know, like if you have saying like, hey, I'm a big fan, like that's loser. Are you joking? No. But if you have something like, oh, my friend Sarah, like, you know, like if you have common ground. Yeah. You have to say the perfect thing. Right.

For them to actually pay attention to me. Like, okay, wait, she's not creeping me out. Right. The checkmark helps. Okay. Obviously. Yeah. But I would definitely recommend that you do that.

Okay. Well, I compile a list. Yeah. Just think about it. Okay. You're making a list and checking it twice. I love that. So we're sending our best to the

Darby family, but I do think this is the best for everyone. Agreed. Next up, Lizzo is in a relationship. She revealed that she's currently dating someone and she went basically on Radio Andy, getting the scoop. Love Radio Andy. Yeah. So she was spotted out twice with a mystery man and he was

wearing a mask and a hat both times. So like no one could see who it was. We didn't know if it was someone famous right and she revealed on radio andy that she has been seeing someone for a while um he's not a celebrity and then andy asked like what's it like to be so famous and date someone who's not famous and if it's weird she said it's not weird if you have the right person if you have the right person no not at all it's not even a factor it should be a mutually supportive no matter what that it should be mutually supportive no matter what that person does um so i love that liz is in a relationship i love that she's dating someone not famous because like she's such a big star like a lot of celebrities you use dating as like a means of

climbing yeah yeah and she's just like so famous that she doesn't need it and she's just like dating someone who makes her happy yeah and i love that for her no And she's just like so famous that she doesn't need it. And she's just like dating someone who makes her happy. Yeah. And I love that for her. No wonder she's been like literally glowing and like the happiest living her best freaking life. And her music is like very positive. Exactly. Like behind the scenes, like she has it going on and she's in a relationship and nobody

else is meddling into that. Like it's probably so refreshing. Peaceful. Yeah. What are your thoughts on dating as someone who's well-known by other people? Like, do you find it makes it more difficult to date? To be honest with you, I don't. Yeah, I don't really date very much.

It's just really hard. Yeah. I guess you just don't know, like, people's intentions at times. And, like, I don't want to be the person to be, like, constantly on the lookout and, like, be hyper-vigilant. Like, what are your intentions? Right, like, paranoid. It's just, like, a little weird. But also, at the same time, I will say, say like people in New York are so nice and friendly and I feel like

they also aren't like weird yeah people in New York are a different breed like nothing phases them yeah and it's nice especially for dating yeah and also you feel like a lot of people are watching but not everybody's watching which I love too but do you think when you do start like diving in more into the dating scene you're going to gravitate towards famous people or non-famous people? I mean, again, Jack, if you're listening,

absolutely. But, um, I'm not opposed. Yeah. I think it really depends on the situation. Yeah. Like I definitely would not to do it for like social climbing or PR stunt.

Right. Cause that just seems like a freaking headache and I can't not be truthful. But it has to be fun, you know? I mean, it could be fun, like very scandalous, but like whatever.

Um, but also dating like a very normal human also sounds really fun. Sounds lovely. Yeah. And I just imagine Lizzo in a relationship is probably like the best girlfriend. She's so funny. I was just gonna say, she's probably so fun.

She's so charismatic. She doesn't give a fuck. I want to know what their dates are like i know i want to know how lizzo like got to this place of mental clarity because like it's it seems so healthy even with all the fame all of it i i'm so jealous of people who so clearly are living their best lives like really everyone says like i don't care what people think but like i care um a lot um actually yes yeah but she's one of those people you could tell like she totally talks the talk and walks the walk. And I love to see people who clearly have just, like, really good mental health.

I mean, of course, you never know what people are going through, but, like, she just seems so positive and, like, actually happy. No, I agree. It's not a facade. It's not like she's, like, putting it on front of the camera. Right. She, yeah, there's, you can definitely tell when it's, like, genuine. Yeah, it's, like, almost tangible.

But also, I almost feel like she she's she's gotten where she is because she's unapologetically herself and like it's not because she's you know stick then amazing like model body and like this that this that like people genuinely love her because she's an insane singer I love like just like her energy confidence her energy everything that she exudes like like is relatable and so true just love her confidence, her energy, everything that she exudes like is relatable. And people just love her for that. It's like, I feel like that has to be like a major confidence boost. Right, you're right.

Like she got famous being exactly who she is. Yeah. And she never had to change. Like I think a lot of people will tell you their experience in the industry was like, they were always told like, cut your hair, get a nose job, lose weight. Exactly.

And she got to just like rise to A-list stardom as completely authentically herself and that must just be like the best feeling in the world she's good as hell I literally I love Lizzo I thought she was great on SNL also she's amazing her new music sounds fabulous I saw her perform at Global Citizens Festival in the city how was it she was just like another level and the flute just gives me life. It is the most random thing. I was going to say, I would never put her and a flute together.

No, she was in Marching Band and she just like carried. But it's actually magical. It's magical. And every time she brings it out, it's like a combination of funny. Yeah. Unbelievably shocking how talented she is. And when you think about it, like singing, dancing in front of so many people is so tough. Like your breath work probably, you have to have like a really good breath yes and then to blow a flute wait that's I never thought about always thinking like how is she not out of breath

I just stand up for 10 minutes and I cannot breathe like I'm choking by the end of the show I'm like I need to go to the hospital does anybody have a bag what is it what is it called like no like this bag I need a brown paper bag so I always never, does anybody have a bag? What is it called? Like a Liza's bag? I need a brown paper bag. So I always think, I'm like, that is so impressive that she can also do all that and blow a flu.

I never thought about that. It's so true. Kudos. To Lizzo. Kudos to Lizzo. Literally kill it on all fronts. I'm good on Radio Andy for getting the scoop.

Like we actually all want to know. Next up, I have any excuse when I have a new guest on to talk about the Smith family because I'd love to hear their take on the slap. Okay. So we have some Jada news,

but I want to hear your take on the slap first. I was so confused. Beyond. I mean, at first I was like, this is a stunt. Like I'm just, I actually feel really, I feel like Will let me down. I know. Just because like I grew up with him.

Like he. America's sweetheart. Fresh Prince, I literally, I literally, who didn't, binge it every single night. I actually use it to go to bed at times. I really look up to him. He's always been such a light and a positive figure. I couldn't agree more.

When that happened, I was just like, it actually hurt. It was such a letdown. It was such a letdown. I hated associating his name with every article that was coming out. Totally. And it doesn't stop. No.

Especially because him and Jada are very public. Yes. Very open. Yes. You know, red table talk, the entanglement. And now Jaden Smith is giving thoughts on, well, a source is giving thoughts. We don't know if he actually thinks this. It's not actually him.

But I thought it was interesting just like getting his perspective on Jada like being so open, you know, coming to the table every time there's a fight in the family like some things can be private yeah um but a source is is saying Jaden knows that his family's a little different and how open his mother is about their personal life and that has never been easy for him he also goes on to say um no sorry this article has a thousand ads get out of here oh my god it's so fucking annoying so despite this the discomfort um at this point he's used to having his personal life on display yeah and even criticized at times he just wants to move past the oscars slap um i guess i never really thought about like we always know like will and jade are like kind of messy yeah but i never

thought about the impact that it has on the kids. Especially because Willow's on the show but Jaden is not. So he doesn't really have control over what's shared. It's interesting to me because like I can appreciate Jada not being such like a refined woman where she feels like she has to like

pretend like everything's okay and she's able to talk and talk about real life stuff so people can actually like, I don't know learn and feel relatable everyone has shit absolutely but at the same time some things can be private i really feel that way especially family stuff that's like the one thing it's like your kids that you have to like protect you know what i mean i'm not saying like i'm sure she's a phenomenal

mom and like but for me if that was my situation like I don't know if I would feel good talking to like about an entanglement with my daughter like right here I'm so sorry to interrupt I just remembered something that I have to tell you about what okay okay do you know not skinny but not fat yes you know she uses that gif of you all the time it's a lot do you know that it was referenced in her interview with Kim Kardashian yes okay you're lying okay thank you I'm oh my god okay so for those who don't know not to get even off that is this a hilarious instagrammer and she loves to use this gif of taisha i think it's from your season yeah where you're saying it's a lot yeah at any time

like a celebrity is like being extra she'll always post the gif it's a lot it's become like her thing and kim kardashian was on her podcast and Kim Kardashian follows Amanda is her real name. Yeah. And like loves her content because it's very Kardashian focused. And in the interview, she was like, it's a lot as you like to say.

Oh my God. See, this is the thing. We need to be friends. It's happening. The universe is so crazy. I'm sorry. It's actually beating kind of fast.

I'm sorry to interrupt. I just had to tell you that because I forget everything. Wait. Okay. So this is iconic. I'm sorry to interrupt. It's actually beating kind of fast. I'm sorry to interrupt. I just had to tell you that because I forget everything. Okay, so this is iconic. Okay, so this is my moment. It's possible. Okay. So Kylie,

joking, all jokes aside. I'm sorry to have interrupted you. Back to Will and Gina. I just wanted you to know that. That's amazing. I'm so happy you told me that because I wouldn't have. No, I know.

And I totally forgot. It's like a very niche. It's a very niche. What do you think about that, Jif? It's so funny. That's because all I'm so happy you told me that because I wouldn't have. No, I know. And I totally forgot. It's like a very niche. It's a very niche. What do you think about that, Jif? It's so funny. That's because all I ever say is it's a lot. That was iconic. I'm sorry, but like.

It's a lot, Will and Jada. It is. Okay. There's a lot of things that have just been happening recently. It's just, it's a lot to whatever. And I also see how like, I think a lot of people are very open at the beginning of their careers. But Will and Jada are like extremely rich, established like permanent a-listers um they don't

have to like keep telling us everything I know and it's kind of at least for me and I think the general consensus on the internet it's like we're now starting to get like annoyed with that well because it's like it's like just keeps yeah it's just keep stuff to yourself yeah especially you don't need to know about literally everything and the entanglement was a lot it's how do you i mean like that should be kept what and after the slap like all this content that they've posted over the years has started to resurface just like content that like rubs you the wrong way and now it's just like they seem kind of toxic i will but this is the thing is it both or is it just one who do you think is toxic I mean I feel like Jada just like says a little too much yeah no and it's almost like you want us to talk shit

it's like almost like you want to constantly be the topic of conversation things to get a reaction like it's I don't know it just seems odd to me yeah and she's the one on red table talk and it's her show and I actually love the the the theme of red table talk and like the concept of it I agree and I love like the three generations sitting and talking hard conversations um but I think a lot of times they do overshare that's what I'll say it's funny though because like usually I feel like us like we want to know more of course but like it's funny that we're like it's a little much because you want to know why when it's family stuff it gives me a pin I feel like family is the one thing that should always be protected.

It's kind of like the Kardashians. They do a very good job. Exactly. And they always have each other's back no matter what. No matter what. And they'll blow up and they'll overshare.

Exactly. But they always, at the end of the day, are protecting one another. And the reason why I think they've had such success is because they've remained this unit forever.

I mean, the Robs and Chyna stuff was like a little chaotic. Yes, yes, yes. But they never tethered from being like a strong core family. And you know you can't mess with them or like poke and pry. And like with this, it's just like a little too much. I agree.

It's a lot. It's a lot. I think that's going to be the name of today's episode. It's a lot with Tayshia Adams. Okay, we're going to keep going into the Fast Five that is brought to you by Stamps.com. Time is money. Don't waste either with repeated trips to the post office. With Stamps.com, you can skip the trip and with repeated trips to the post office with stamps.com

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toast. All right, next up. Can I just say one thing? Yeah, please. You're like a queen. You do really well with that. Thank you so much. No, it's really, really good. You know, it keeps the lights on here at the Morning Toast. Yes.

And when Jackie's here, I feel very comfortable. But with a co-host, you know, I feel like a little nervous sometimes. Yeah, I get that. I get that because I've done that as well. But like you just did that in one take, which I just want everybody to know that's really freaking hard. Keisha, that is so nice.

No, it's really hard. Are you still hosting Bachelor Happy Hour podcast? No. No. You're over it. Yeah. Gotta go. Love that for you.

But I feel like you read books really fast. I do actually. That's also what I got from that. I talk really fast. What's the last book you read? Right now I'm reading The Seven Wives or Husbands of Evelyn Hugo. My favorite book. Which everybody else is reading. It's so good. It's really good. What part are you up to? Spoiler alert. Yeah.

Are we allowed to talk? Say it. We said spoiler alert so it doesn't count. Cecilia, stop talking to her. And so we're talking about like basically Evelyn's like I lost her forever. Right. And this is like where we're trying to figure out. Depressed to press yeah and you know that Netflix bought it and is making it a movie stop well because I feel like it's everywhere like everyone is talking about it is the biggest book ever it's so good okay it's so good I can't wait to finish and you read it I did read it um okay next up is something I never thought was like two people I didn't even think knew each other apparently are friends and their kids are friends Jessica Simpson opened up in an interview that her daughter Maxwell and Northwest are BFFs um and that she thinks they're going to be a part of the change in this world so she was doing an

interview and she said one of Maxwell's best friends is North and so watching North she's amazing she's a great kid and she will be a part of change in this world her and maxwell she said eric her husband coached north in basketball just recently so it's been really fun because they live in the same neighborhood so it makes it really easy for the girls to like hang out and i never put these together like two rich queens obviously their kids play in the same league but i'm i'm obsessed the next book you should read is jessica simpson's memoir is it good it is one of the best celebrity memoirs of all time it's juicy as fuck oh my god because I actually really love her love I it was a huge Jessica Simpson stand growing up um we have the same birthday and like that was

like I never felt so special I never felt so special in my life do you know who your birthday buddy is Beyonce you're kidding yes that's like fair. You just totally one-upped me. I'm so sorry. Okay, that's iconic. When's your birthday? September 4th. Wow, that's a gorgeous day. I know. It's actually pretty amazing. So you can relate to like feeling better than your classmates back in the day. I mean, yeah, I always would be like

it's also Beyonce's birthday, but like no big deal. That's iconic. I know, it's actually a good one. But so is Jessica Simpson. I know. And like I love her. You will love her book. Me and Jackie have raved about it. Jackie raved about it. It's really long. And for me, like I have such a short attention span.

If a book is over like 350 pages, like my ass will not read it. Like I just won't. Or I'll stop like halfway through. I couldn't put it down. Really? Unbelievable. Okay, wait. I'm going to read that.

And a lot of celebrities talk in their book about their childhood, which is like the worst part of the celebrity book. Just like tell us the juicy stuff. Yeah yeah but the way she grew up is insane like it's just i forget like her dad yes ashley oh my gosh and her mom like they ran this church in like a really poor part of town and like they just the craziest stories of how like her mom helped people in the community it was really amazing um you'll love the book okay okay i'm gonna read it and then like john mayer and like nick it's so good we okay okay putting it on the docket um but her kid is friends with northwest and i just i would have never guessed never i guess i never i forgot like her kid is

the same age as norris right and i always forget like how rich jessica simpson is from her clothing line like she doesn't even do me so true it's like a billion dollar company jessica simpson clothing holy mackerel and she just bought it what a queen no i know it was owned by kohl's i think yes yes she totally bought it out she owns a company herself now oh my gosh i didn't know that she's a rich queen so of course like her and the kardashians are just you know watching soccer together wait but i kind of needed her to come out with like an album again i know well so how fun would that be if you buy the ready if you buy the audiobook okay of her book the end has a couple songs never released party of one is one it's really good okay okay okay i'm listening it tomorrow on my flight and

she talks about her journey with music like it was really toxic because of her dad i could imagine and there's just a lot there um and she's just a queen okay so her kids play with north i want to okay you know what i want to know what if they're friends and they're teenagers like what their texting situation would be like can you imagine being like those conversations like oh my god like who else is their age i need to figure this out penelope disick is their age okay um i don't know about what other celebrity kids but i'm thinking about is like when they grow up and like become like the lindsey lohan paris hilton i was going clubbing. Paris Hilton, yes. Like style icons.

It's going to be insane. It's going to be insane. And like I might be 50 years old, but like I will be interested. 100%. I'm like, that is so cute. I can't wait for that. No, it's actually going to be amazing. And we're going to be able to tell our kids like, you know, back in my day, their moms

were queens. Their moms were like our icons. Yeah, sure. Whatever, mom. They're probably going to think that we're like so old like whatever like why are you into like i will be caring about this absolutely for years to come oh my gosh i can't even i'm like excited for their looks i cannot imagine northwest and maxwell being teenagers i know but like the looks they'll serve i guess like all parents feel this

way and like i'm not even north's parent but like they really do grow up so fast no north was just born i remember the picture that came posted of north in the crib like i remember everything like I'm not even North's parent, but like they really do grow up so fast. Nope. North was just born. I remember the picture that Kim posted of North in the crib. Like I remember everything. Okay. Also, did you see the article where I'm like Sandra and Channing, like their kids got in a fight at school and they went into the principal's office together.

Sandra Bullock and Channing Tatum. Yes. They got sent to the principal's office. Yes. They like something happened. They had like an old, like a fight at school. And like,

they literally called each parent into the principal's office and like could you imagine like sitting there like Sandra's like the mom to the kid that your kid's getting in a fight with I would literally this is how thirsty I am I would move to LA send my kids like the best school yeah and tell them to start a fight with the kid whose parents are most famous so then I can get called to the principal's office and it's just me and Jason Momoa I literally said the same thing I'm like I'm I do not condone fighting but also at the same time like just like you're like tap her shoulder a little bit you know or tell her she's ugly you know do whatever it has to take okay do what you gotta do what you gotta do that is so funny I'm telling you like

what if they all go to high school together wow like see like real what is it the OC yeah come to life. Or like Beverly Hills 90210. Remember that show? So good. The remake or like the original? Well, I grew up in the remake era.

Okay. Well, yeah. I watched the remake. With Sinead Grimes. Yes. So good. Silver. Do you remember her name?

Silver. And that was her name? Silver? Her name was Annie. No, Annie. Yeah. But the other character, her name was Silver.

And I remember I wanted to be named Silver so bad. The girl with the short haircut and like really pretty blue eyes. I don't remember. Oh, yes. Yes, yes, yes, yes, Annie. Yeah, but the other character, her name is Silver. And I remember I wanted to be named Silver so bad. The girl with the short haircut and really pretty blue eyes. I don't remember. Oh, yes. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. Her name was Silver in the show. Yes.

And Annalyn McCord. Yes. As Naomi. Which is such an iconic character. And Sarah Foster as Naomi's sister. Oh my God, that's right. Yeah. That was such a good show.

Amazing. And Meghan Markle was in it. No. Yes. So like you wouldn't have remembered her but when she got, you know, famous with Harry.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. The scene, she's just a random extra who's giving someone a blowjob in the back of a car and she like picks her head up and is like, what? You're joking.

No, I swear it's Meghan Markle. Oh my God. Yeah. I wouldgan markle oh my god yeah i would have never oh my gosh okay now i really need to go watch it the more you know rewatch honey i'm so happy for north and maxwell yes i think i'm about to become a full-time babysitter in the northern california area it's a really good idea all right final story is a little bit of a developing story i don't know if you know that black china and the kardashians are in court right now had no idea so black china sued them they countersued this is like hundreds of million dollars she's suing them for damages they she claims that uh the kardashians had the tv show

robin china canceled and like now she's suing for damages whatever it's all back and forth there's been a lot of news but now people are like quaking because black china's mom tokyo tony yeah has been making these like unhinged videos on the internet and posting them during the trial like she was outside the courtroom yesterday talking about the kardashians are so scared of black china because they're losing in the courtroom and she went on instagram live yesterday and she threatened the judge she said i'm gonna get that judge oh my god and that actually could have like really bad implications for her in court so black china's mom tokyo tony may have taken her displeasure with the judge a little too far because she's allegedly threatened him in her daughter's trial against the kardashians tokyo went off on

the judge while live streaming tuesday on instagram from just outside the courthouse where the civil case is underway she said i'm gonna get that judge she's reacting to the judge booting her from the courtroom earlier that day she was asked to leave and this could be extremely problematic for tokyo because even an oblique threat against a judge is taken really seriously by law enforcement especially after attacks against judges and their families have increased measurably over the last few years she's been super active on instagram this week going off on the social media platform on monday ripping the kardashians over their appearance um on the first day of the jury selection. So she said the family looked dead and compared Kris Jenner to the bad guy from the movie Saw. Oh! She's unhinged. Like she's really out of

control. She seems like I hate calling people toxic, but she's toxic. No, she's the definition of toxic. And like honestly I don't know the legality. I don't know if Blac Chyna has a leg to stand on, but in the court of public opinion her mom is making her look terrible I was gonna say like she's basically losing it for her daughter like right why would you people do not realize I know they want to like get their message across on live but like honey you're live no like you can't take that back live is a death sentence no it. No, I think this woman is so insane. And I can't believe that for the next couple of weeks, our Kardashians are going to have to sit in a courtroom with Blac Chyna.

I'm sure they fucking hate Blac Chyna. How can you not? She was so awful. It just seems like if it's not one thing, it's another. I know. What was it before? Also, it's Tyga, too. It's Tyga.

It was like having a baby with Rob. Really out of spite. It's just so messy. And there was also a bunch of drama last week where she was claiming that she doesn't get paid enough child support, blah, blah, blah. And it was on The Shade Room. Actually, it was really funny.

So she was commenting on The Shade Room, and The Shade Room made it a post, like, Blac Chyna claims she doesn't get child support. And Tyga commented and was like, I have my kids six days a week. Why would I pay child support? And then Rob commented, I have my kid every day but Tuesday. Why would I pay child support?

Oh, my gosh. So they both, like, came together and were comparing how much they pay. And Tyga, I guess, pays, like, a couple thousand dollars more a month towards Black China. And he was, like, making jokes about how he has to pay more. He's like, Rob, how'd you get off paying this lot? It was so crazy. So she's just, just like the definition of messy messy and i think her mom and her are just not making her case in a literal sense dang it like honestly i feel so bad dream is the prettiest child it's and you know what like it's the kardashians even after all that china has they've been through with China they love

that kid like oh my god they treat her so well and I didn't know that the kid was living with Rob mostly full-time I didn't know that either I just assumed it was the kid was with China yeah but I also just feel like there's so many like kids in the family like it would be so bad to like exclude her and like I'm so happy that she's all totally but the way that she came into this world was just so crazy that was the crazy i remember rob posted a picture of her vagina on instagram oh my jesus that was just it's been it's been a freaking roller coaster since day one as we refer to it as the vagina it was just the craziest day in pop culture history and like to this day to this day to this day nothing crazier has happened oh my god they were just so messy i'm

actually really looking forward to seeing how this plays out. I don't think that the Kardashians had anything to do with Rob and Chyna getting canceled, first of all, because if they didn't want the show to happen, they never would have happened. First of all, yeah. Second of all, Rob and Chyna broke up. Yeah, that's actually so true. Why would they continue it on?

Right. Like you're not together. It would just be like a really messy, like we don't need another Jerry Springer show. I feel like it would. Breaking news. Breaking news. Oh my God, what? Breaking news. Thank you.

Lizzie sent it to me. Oh my God. ASAP Rocky has been arrested at LAX. Wait, what? ASAP Rocky was taken into custody as he flew into LAX this Wednesday morning. Eyewitnesses at the airport tell TMZ that the rapper flew into LA from Barbados

on a private jet where he was met by cops at the terminal and taken away in handcuffs. According to NBC News, the arrest stems from a November 2021 shooting where an alleged victim claimed that Rocky shot them three or four times, grazing the victim's left hand. So he was in Barbados because Rihanna's, I think, wants to give birth in Barbados. Yeah.

And she's like close to, she's at the point where you can't really travel. So she's staying in Barbados. And I guess he had to come back because he was under arrest and he like surrendered himself. Wait, this is like really bad and so stressful for Rihanna. Wait, how can this be happening? I know.

Is she about to give birth, I feel? I don't think she's there yet because she was able to fly down to Barbados. And they say you can't fly past seven months. So I think she might still have a good chunk of time. But still, regardless, wait, this is really juicy.

I can't believe it just happened right now. I know. That's the thing morning toast you never know what's going to happen. Wow. I know.

This really is like the segment you need to be listening to every single morning. Which by the way my mom listened yesterday and she was like did you know that

it's Theo's birthday? It is. Oh thank you so much for saying that. It's Theo's birthday today. Everyone he turned five if you want to go wish him happy birthday

on his Instagram pups with nojob, check it out. I'm really just wishing the best for Rihanna. I'm really nervous for her now. She doesn't need that kind of stress. I was just going to say that. It's very bad for the baby to be stressful.

So we need her to be keeping her peace. Also because now she's like in Barbados, which is so far away. I know. So it's like you feel helpless. Oh gosh. Well, breaking news. We'll keep you updated on that developing story. Before we let you go, Tayshia, I need you for our Dear Toaster segment.

Yes. So we do it every Wednesday. If you guys ever want to write in, it's deartoasters at gmail.com. We've got some unique submissions today, and we just try our best to give advice, you know, that we would give our own sister, you know? Okay. And it's brought to you by BetterHelp. People don't always realize that the physical symptoms of stress, like headaches, teeth

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All right, Tayshia. Our first submission comes from a girl who needs some help. Hey, girls. I'm 24 years old and my roommate and close friend, who's 23, we both work at the same restaurant as servers. There's a 60-year-old man who's a regular that comes in every day and has been banned before for drinking too much, being too loud, and being creepy towards and touching the servers inappropriately.

This is the man who is now my roommate's new boyfriend. I've told her several times that I don't feel comfortable with her having him over at our apartment, and regardless of whether I'm home or not, I still don't feel comfortable. She doesn't think it's fair that he can't come over here and doesn't respect the fact that I'm uncomfortable. He also has his own place that they can go to that's less than 10 minutes away. We also have a third friend slash roommate who lives with us, but she doesn't work at the same restaurant restaurant i just feel weird that he would want to come over and hang around three young girls in their 20s he has two daughters who are older than us and i'm not judging my friend

for who she chooses to date but i just personally am not comfortable with him being around so what i'm wondering is if i'm an asshole for telling my friend that i don't want her boyfriend to come to her apartment even if i'm not home it feels like it's pushing a personal boundary since i have to serve him at work all the time since he comes in every day. The reason I'm torn on what to do is because it's still her apartment as much as it is mine. And I do have my boyfriend who's the same age as me sleep over sometimes. What do I do?

Wow. I mean, that's a lot. That's a lot. It's weird. First of all. 100%. And I know you're not judging your friend, but like I would. Okay, wait.

So I'm just to clarify, she knows about all of these things. Yeah, then I would kind of judge. She works at the restaurant too. What is like the point? What are you doing? Honestly, like I don't think you're out of bounds for asking him not to come over, especially when you're home. Where it does get a little dicey is like you asking her not to have her boyfriend over

when you're not home. Like what's the danger there? Yeah, I would agree with that. If I'm home, I don't feel comfortable. And like, as my roommate and as another person that like pays rent,

right. Place. I would like for you to respect that boundary. And if he's 60 years old, he probably has his own house. Like, why does he want to hang out with girls? Three girls who live together.

That's what she's saying. That's so creepy and weird, but also at the same time, I feel like if you express this feeling and she doesn't reciprocate or understand, I think it's your time to kind of move out. I know. The thing is like,

you're the one who's uncomfortable. So I do think that means you're the one who has to leave. Not her because you're the one with the problem and moving, you know, I don't know where you live, but it's impossible to move in New York right now. It's so tough.

We get it. I mean, I mean, you can be a bitch. I was just going to say, wait, what do you do in that situation then? I mean, if that was me, like I'm out. Like my house is my safe space. I'm like a real homebody. Some people use their house as a place to sleep and they're out all the time. Not me, bitch.

Like I'm home all the time. I eat at home. I live at home. I host at home. Everything is home. So for me, this is a huge deal breaker. And like I would spare no expense. I'd be really uncomfortable.

How do you sleep? I would be so uncomfortable. I couldn't do it. Same. And I would do anything to then find myself a new place where I feel safe. But again, like it's expensive. I think you can try to be really stern with her. And maybe try asking her to not have him over when you're home yes and see

if that makes you feel better yes i agree and then try to have try to see if you can spend more time at his place i don't understand why they wouldn't that's so odd to me it's so odd is that not a red flag obviously and your friend that's what i'm saying like your friend seems like her priorities are fucked up i'm really sorry that you're in that situation because there's a difference between dating someone older i think a lot of young girls do that like they date someone older for fun and right by them stuff it's fun right but when when this man is like a history of being creepy it's just not it's not the vibe it's your turn to get out it's your turn to go yeah um or maybe you start dating someone and start spending a lot of time at their house like start couch surfing like

what does your boyfriend live because she said she had a boyfriend where's your boyfriend with your boyfriend now this is what this is the exact step we forgot about that this is the exact step you need with him be like babe i'm really not feeling comfortable at home i think i need to move in with you and the next thing you know you're married can i say tonight can i say tonight and the next thing you know do you want to just move in yeah like i forgot helping you out okay wait i forgot you love this man yeah that's no more details the boyfriend is your answer i agree with that thank you for bringing that up yeah this next one is psychotic okay oh. Oh, God. Hey, Claud and Tayshia. My boyfriend Theo and I have been together for five years.

We've been living together for two years, and we've been discussing next steps and marriage, and I couldn't be more excited. Theo and his two female gay coworkers, who are dating each other, went out to lunch out of the office this past week. I'm friendly with the couple, and I've hung out with them casually a handful of times, but they aren't mine or Theo's like best friends or anything. At lunch, they asked Theo how comfortable he would be by giving them a sperm donation in the near future so that they would be able to conceive a child.

Theo told them that I probably wouldn't have any issues with it and that he would love to do that for them. When Theo told me, I shared with him that I was not comfortable with that situation whatsoever. I don't want Theo to have a child in the world that we do not care for and I don't feel a weird need to co-parent his offspring that's out in the world.

If his sperm is going to produce a child, I want it in my uterus and in my home. I also was hurt considering how big of a question that is and that this couple

didn't include me in the discussion considering that they know me. Theo told me that he would not, Theo told me that he would love to provide his coworkers what they biologically cannot do for themselves and that my stance was very selfish. I can see myself as a mom in the future, but I also cannot see myself as a mom. Theo and I could

thrive in any scenario, but our recent discussions about our future do not have children in them. I feel like most women just know that they want to be a mom and I honestly haven't ever felt that feeling, but I may in some time. For context, Theo and I are both a portring 30. The female gay couple is in their mid-30s and they've been dating for about a year they aren't married ladies what do i do should i tell the couple i'm not comfortable with it and kindly um and kindly not to ask theo knowing that he is comfortable with it or just give a time and hope that they find another donor any advice is appreciated this is so much to unpack hold on a second and you like just catch my breath yeah because like i actually can't breathe after i

was like holding my breath like the entire time. There's so many layers. Versus your Theo not asking you and just saying yes. It's a like. It's a red flag. That's rude. It's such a big decision. It's such a red flag to like not even consider your feelings.

Absolutely. Especially because like he's not single. Right. He's dating you. And the couple asking Theo without the girl present. Absolutely. Is also a strategic move on their part because of course because they know that he's gonna say yes right you want to be like oh my god because I don't think a man really thinks about it no as anything other than like fluid he's donating whereas a girl really sees it as a biological

connection I agree so I mean this is beyond bizarre it really is and you have every right to be mad at everyone involved for not including you and then just making a decision that does affect you without you but where do we go from here that is i'm not entirely sure okay wait hold on one second they're engaged or they're just dating just dating for a year okay i definitely think it would be an entirely different situation if they were engaged the gay couple no oh sorry the gay couple and her gay couple are engaged theo and her are not yeah but if theo and her were engaged? The gay couple. No. Oh, sorry. The gay couple. Theo and her. The gay couple are engaged. Theo and her are not. Yeah, but if Theo and her were engaged, it would be totally different.

But also at the same time, damn, this is hard. I know. Because I agree, like, you do want to like, I love that Theo wants to be like super sweet and like help them out.

And I love the sentiment. But also at the same time, I feel like it's really putting him and his relationship in a really awkward predicament. And like, I get it. but why do you want his specifically like it's a little strange to me like there are services for this right and you know what like i i think that if you're a couple who needs a donation whatever your circumstances are it's actually

very easy and i think affordable to get sperm. There are sperm banks. I think where it gets really pricey and complicated is when you buy eggs. So for a lesbian couple, I think that, and a sperm donor, I think you can really customize, like you can find out this person's family history, medical history, looks, height. Athletic, they're tall, eye color. Yeah, right. So I feel like it would just be way easier to go to a sperm bank and then you don't have the whole complicated, like what if you and Theo, you know, get into a fight? Like with a sperm donor, it's totally anonymous. Jeez. Okay.

What do we tell her? I mean, honestly. If it were me. I would tell him that I'm not happy with the situation. Me too. I would tell them. And I think honestly, him not telling you and then him being mad at you and calling you selfish. Like huge Theo red flag.

Well, yeah. That's. Is he going gonna make other like really big life decisions without you like buy a house that's kind of strange yeah no that's really fucked up so basically I think you need to actually like evaluate your relationship if it's something that you actually see long term that you're gonna get engaged to and like you want to be with this man and marry have his well maybe have his babies then I think you should definitely vocalize if it's something that like

you know what you're kind of on the fence and like you've been kind of feeling like maybe this is my guy maybe not this might be that can also come into play and like this might be your sign to be like you know what maybe this isn't the relationship for me because he's not considering me and he's really like which is so fucked up his answer should have been I'm honored you asked me I have to talk to my girlfriend 100 and the fact that he totally dismissed your feelings and just you in general, like, is making me mad. No, I know. I'm kind of fired up.

I don't, I don't like this at all. And I think like, you know what, this might've been a blessing in disguise because people show like their true colors and I'm not encouraging you to break up with your boyfriend or anything, but like, I don't know, it's worth thinking about after, like, this is a huge. I would kind of think about that. Big time. And just kind of the way he, a lot of it is bothering me yeah I agree I agree I think you need to evaluate if this is a relationship you want to pursue and if it is like you need to have a major conversation with this

man and don't let him just blow up blow off your feelings like you have completely valid feelings and he can't get mad at you like oh I'm trying to help my friend I understand that but at the same time like do you see a future with me because like I should be considered in that as well and the fact that you didn't is huge. Whoa. Yeah. Heavy topics here with dear toasters. Wow.

I've got one more for you. Okay. Um, anyways, I have a guy friend in high school who was my best friend. We were always very flirty with each other, very touchy feely, but we never dated.

He got married right when we graduated and he has since had four kids. We're both only 28. We lost touch after high school and we only really keep up on Facebook. I met my boyfriend almost four years ago and we are totally endgame. He's the love of my life. Well, three days ago, my old male best friend messaged me on Facebook and told me he's getting divorced. Then he asked me if I had any single friends and how to use dating apps. I was upfront with my boyfriend. I shared with him all the messages. My boyfriend was not worried. We have a pretty normal trusting relationship. The weird part is now the guy friend is asking to hang out with us i understand he's newly single and never lived a single life i mean he's never even been to a concert oh my god but i think him asking us to

hang out is just so weird am i overreacting do i tell him no or do i invite him to our next outing any help is appreciated my boyfriend trusts me i just don't want to disrespect him and also how do i know that the friend isn't trying to infiltrate my relationship? I feel like you're being kind of paranoid. Yeah. It seems nice. Like, I feel like it's pathetic. Listen, I feel like as a person that has actually been divorced and like it's a very lonely time, like you kind of latch on to people that I don't know, like are close to you, but also you kind of want to like just get out there and feel like a different vibe.

So maybe he's just like looking for some type of friendship. And it's nice that he thought of you and you think about it. So he's 28. He got married right after graduation. He has four kids. He probably doesn't have a lot of friends. Exactly. And it's nice that he thought of you. And you think about it. So he's 28. He got married right after graduation. He has four kids. He probably doesn't have a lot of friends. Exactly. And that's why the first memory that comes to mind is you.

And for you, it feels weird. But for him, it's like, oh, my old friend Katie. Yeah, he probably still thinks like really fond of like that relationship you guys once had. Yeah. So yeah. But at the same time, I wouldn't hang out with him one on one. No, of course not.

I would definitely invite him like as a group setting. To a barbecue. I don't think that's weird. I don't think it's weird either and I think you're right. Like of the, I mean I've never been divorced but I imagine it's extremely isolating.

It is. Especially when you have friends as a couple and they get like split up and you know, you thought you were really friendly with someone but they go with the other partner.

You kind of lose like all people around you. So I think it's sweet that he's reaching out and I don't think you have anything to be worried about. If your boyfriend seems cool, I thought you were going to say

your boyfriend's being like weird and jealous. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But he's being cool so just invite him. Or like try to hit on you. Right. That's what I thought think you have anything to be worried about if your boyfriend seems cool I thought you were going to say your boyfriend's being like weird and jealous yeah yeah yeah but he's being cool so just invite him or like try to hit on you right that's what I thought the situation was going to be

me too but you're never going to regret you know being nice and offering you know an invitation to a barbecue fill it out once

yeah and if it feels uncomfortable then like you can also just like okay like whatever it's making me sad that he's reaching out

to you yeah he hasn't made like a ton of really good friends since high school yeah I think he's just like he's like trying to like find himself again. Yeah.

Truthfully. And like you kind of revert back to like what you were used to. Yeah. At one point in time. It's sweet. That's you. I think you're being a little paranoid. Me too.

I think it seems harmless. So I would respond. It's okay. And you know what? Just be kind. I think that's the message here. Yeah. Invite him over.

Invite him over. But like in a group setting. Yeah. Those were Dear Toasters. Again, if you ever want to write in, it's dear toasters at gmail.com tasha you're an absolute queen for being here giving us everything beauty grace she's miss united states um everyone can keep up with tasha on instagram at tasha t-a-y-s-h-i-a anything else you want to promote um no okay how nice for you now i happy. You're just living your best life. Yeah.

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