The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby - Renee & Tim "Thruhikers" on Walking from Mexico to Canada, Intimacy Outdoors & Getting Lost
Episode Date: November 20, 2024Renee and Tim share their incredible journey of walking from Mexico to Canada, including the challenges of going 20 miles without water and finding intimacy as a couple in the wilderness. They also ta...lk about canoeing the Columbia River naked, the realities of pooping in the woods, and the emotional struggles they faced after the hike was over. This episode is sponsored by Thorum, RocketMoney & Dreamland Baby. Thorum: Whether you need a wedding ring, anniversary ring, or you just want a ring that looks awesome, head over to https://Thorum.com and use code Unplanned to get 20% off. RocketMoney: Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to https://RocketMoney.com/unplanned. Dreamland Baby: Go to https://dreamlandbabyco.com and enter code UNPLANNED at checkout for the buy one get one free deal from Dreamland Baby. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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I think our record for not showering was 23 days.
Holy crap.
Who smelled more after those 23 days?
It's pretty equally terrible. It was a very panicky moment. It was terrifying
We knew the next water was 12 miles out and we got there and there was no water after that
It was 20 miles to the next water source. You guys ever gotten in an argument while hiking? Yes
Definitely
That would be brutal because you're like you're the only person I can talk to right now
It's worse for Renee for, because I walk a little faster, so she's stuck with me.
Intimacy when you're hiking for five and a half months. Does it happen? Are you exhausted? Are
you too exposed? You must have a TikTok, because that's TikTok's favorite question.
Today on the Unplanned Podcast, we sat down with thru-hikers Renee and Tim. Imagine hiking 20
miles a day every day for five months. That's what Renee and Tim did twice. It's called the Continental Divide Trail, which goes from
Chihuahua, Mexico all the way to Alberta, Canada. And if that wasn't enough time
outside, they've canoed for 1,200 miles straight through the Columbia River. We
talked about sleeping outside with no tent, getting caught naked, and how they
go to the bathroom in the woods all in today's episode.
I don't know if you guys realize this, but if you do the math, if you walk 20 miles every
single day for five months straight, that's how long it takes to walk 3000 miles.
And that is the length of, correct me if I'm wrong, that's the length of the Continental
Divide Trail, right?
Yeah.
We don't need to do the math.
We've experienced that exact five months is how long it took, right? Hiking we don't need to do the math. We've experienced that exact five months
is how long it took.
We're hiking a little over 20 a day.
You guys are hardcore.
And it was all Renee.
It's Renee's fault we started doing this,
definitely, to answer that question.
Tim's mom gave me the book Wild for a present one year
about Cheryl's trade.
It's a movie too,
hiking the Pacific Crest Trail and I was just very intrigued and just kept
telling Tim we need to do this, like and let's do it now, let's not wait and Tim
kept saying we need to retire before we do it and yeah somehow I convinced him.
I thought she was crazy. Because you guys both work regular jobs while you're taking five months off of work.
How does that work, like while you're working and hiking five months?
Yeah, I'm an engineer, Tim is a scientist.
For our first thru-hike of the Pacific Crest Trail, we quit our jobs and, you know, had some ideas some kind of loose things lined up after but
yeah it was a big risk that we took and yeah you're like our expenses will be
low because we're just living on the land kind of yeah like we we had a
lifestyle where we were saving money and living simply and so financially we knew we could do it and I still felt like both of our careers
were going well and who leaves a good career kind of right as they're hitting the stride and goes
off to be homeless for five months four months. Yeah and like literally homeless we packed up our
all of our stuff put it in Tim's mom's basement and yeah. Sold your house.
We had an apartment, we moved out of the apartment
and yeah, got rid of that and yeah.
Was your mom worried because I'm sure this conversation
went something like, hey mom, I know I'm a scientist
but I'm going to quit my job and go hike in the mountains.
Like what does she say to you?
Full time.
Full time, yeah.
And eat freeze dried food and coffee.
I think my mom was relatively supportive. She thought it was exciting. She has joked,
never give Renee a book or never get her an idea because Renee has a history of kind of
deciding we should do crazy things and I'm always for it. So there was the first hike we did
and Renee got us doing long triathlons before that.
And so various crazy ideas always come from Renee.
But Tim makes sure we follow through on the ideas.
So yeah, it's kind of a-
That's a good partnership.
Yeah, or a dangerous partnership, but yeah.
And the book you got, like, walk me through, yeah, like what specifically was it about the book that got like walk me through was yeah like what
specifically was it about the book that was like oh I want to do this I want to
go do all these massive hiking adventures because it's not like we love
to hike we're avid hikers but when we hike we'll go hike for like an hour okay?
Not an hour. Or three. Or like three. I don't know but like our typical. And the long for us is like seven hours. Okay but our
typical hike is probably three hours.
Yeah.
Hiking 3,000 miles is a completely different thing.
Completely different thing.
It just, it sounded really like challenging
and it just was like, okay, this is a challenge,
an adventure, can we do it?
I don't know, let's give it a try and find out.
Something new, something exciting. That's really cool
like when you're hiking all day every day, you don't have
Do you have earbuds in you would have no way to charge them or anything?
Are you just like listening to nature or talking the whole time?
We're pretty much talking on and off a lot of people doing these long hikes do use earbuds, but we really don't.
We just chat or don't chat or whatever happens. It's peaceful. Yeah. Yeah. Do you get lonely?
A little bit. You know, some of the trails we've done are surprisingly social. The Pacific
Crest Trail and the Continental Divide Trail,
you go out and you meet other people who have said,
I'm gonna go spend four or five months doing this.
And you can make a really strong, good bond there.
So like, yeah, it's the two of us having fun together,
but then we've also made some really lifelong friendships
from other hikers doing the same thing.
And then you're flip-flopping with them and seeing them every couple days.
But one trail we did, there was almost nobody else.
It was 2,700 miles through the Pacific Northwest,
and it included a lot of hiking and then canoeing.
We canoed the Columbia River, and there was nobody else
canoes the whole Columbia River.
So that was really just Renee and me.
Yeah, that got a little lonely.
Yeah, definitely.
If you guys ever got in an argument while hiking.
Yes, definitely.
That would be brutal because you're like,
you're the only person I can talk to right now
on your treadmill.
I think it's worse for Renee, for sure,
because I walk a little faster.
So like, she's stuck with me.
Yeah, so but I mean, our typical approach is, you know, I hike in front, Tim hikes
behind me, so I set the pace and cause I'm a little slower than him, but if we
get into an argument, we like split up and hike apart for an hour and cool down.
But, but I can't like, if, you know, if I want to get away from Tim, I can't
cause I'm the slower hiker I want to get away from Tim, I can't because I'm the slower hiker.
You can get away.
It's just you have to be like, hey, let's walk apart.
And then I might be like, well, but why don't we
just walk together?
Whereas if I get mad, I could just like take off.
Beeline.
When you have a disagreement, who's the fighter
and who's the flighter?
I don't know.
Maybe I'm the fighter, Tim's the flighter.
Because he loves checking his phone for service
on the top of a mountain or something, and I always am like, Tim, save your battery,
get off the phone.
That leads to a lot of arguments.
It's predictable.
The phone leads to half of our arguments, and the other half come when the trail gets
hard, which is really strange, but we've figured it out.
And if we have a big ascent or a big descent,
that's when our speeds get different and our bodies just get out of sync,
which accidentally leads to us disagreeing and fighting a little bit.
And so now we sometimes just pre plan ahead and say,
okay, we have a big climb,
let's split up for the next five miles.
And that-
Five miles.
Or one mile or whatever, however long it is.
But you guys don't have phone service.
So like, you just know that you're gonna meet up
at some point, like coming up.
And so you, okay.
Yeah, usually we say, we set a meeting point,
you know, meet at the top.
You're so much more comfortable outdoors than me, like me, I'd be like, oh, wait a minute, if I can we set a meeting point, you know meet at the top There's so much more comfortable outdoors and me like me
I'd be like, oh wait a minute if I can't get a hold of you like something could be really bad
And running out of battery on your phone
My guess would be that you would have some sort of like solar panel or something to charge electronics
Is that something that you use to have battery on your phone when you're hiking? No, those don't work
They don't work. They don't work at all.
And everybody thinks they'll work
and we thought they would work once.
So it's not that solar doesn't work.
Renee's a solar engineer, like solar works.
But when you have one of those panels
and you try to put it on top of your backpack,
it doesn't collect enough sun as it's shaking around.
And so we've given up on those.
So we'll carry power banks
and we have to stop every week or so to get food.
So when we're getting a food resupply,
we'll charge our power banks and then head back out,
but no solar.
Has there ever been a point where your power bank gets
like lost in a river or something,
and then you have no way of looking at a map on your phone or
calling for help if you can't like has there ever been like a scary situation where you're not able
to get service and you're like freaking out what do I do I don't think so no I don't think so um
on our first hike from Mexico to Canada on the Pacific Crest Trail we decided it would be a good
idea to share a phone so we only had one phone between the two of us.
That was a mistake.
That was a mistake.
So usually because there's two of us, you know,
I'm better at preserving my battery.
So I always have, you know, a phone.
I'm guessing you guys had quite a few times
and where you had a meetup in five miles then
cause you were sharing a phone
probably caused some controversies there.
Yeah, yeah. But even like we couldn't really walk apart because we use our phones for maps.
And so that was our first time doing one of these long hikes. And it was a learning experience of
we each need a set of maps. So we either carry a paper map, which is inconvenient, or we get two
phones. Very cool. So we've kind of touched on dehydrating food.
So how does that actually work as someone that's never had dehydrated food?
Do you have to rehydrate it to eat it?
Usually. Yeah, it depends on what?
Fruit, you can just dehydrate and eat dehydrated fruit or freeze dried fruit.
But other foods like we dehydrate meals
like rice and vegetables and beans.
And so dehydrate those at home before the trip,
mail them to ourselves.
And then on the trip, we either cook them,
boil them for a couple of minutes
or just soak them in cold water for an hour
and they come back to life.
Wow, that takes a lot of prep because you dehydrate it yourself.
Yeah, yeah. That's impressive. Those machines are crazy big, huh? The dehydrators are pretty big.
We just recently upgraded also to freeze-drying. Those machines are a beast.
Ours came on a pallet and a bunch of boxes and hundreds of pounds. Oh my gosh.
Those aren't for messing around.
Those are for intense hikers only.
I saw your video of you guys freeze drying coffee
and it was so fascinating because, I don't know,
you don't really think through how everything
in the real world is made until you see someone like you.
You're stripping it back.
Freeze drying coffee and I'm like, wait a second, instant coffee is freeze-dried coffee.
Like I just like my brain made the connection
and you guys are just doing it yourselves.
And it's good.
Like everybody hates instant coffee.
This stuff was really good when we made it ourselves.
I don't know quite the difference about doing it
home kitchen scale versus commercial scale,
but man, it tasted like coffee.
It didn't taste like that crap you get in a jar.
I feel like you guys are onto something and you could probably have like a multimillion dollar business here.
I don't know. We put up that video and we got a few comments, several from people saying like,
oh, there's this little cottage company doing exactly that and there's other ones.
So I think the freeze-dried coffee, we're not the only ones who have figured it out.
And if there's a business to be made,
somebody might be on it.
From watching your content,
I've noticed that you guys have a large focus on coffee.
Has it always been a big part of your life?
It's so good.
Like, yeah, let me get some.
Like Abby got me into coffee when we first got married.
Who here, like were you guys both into coffee when you met
or was this something that one of you
got the other person into?
I think we were both into coffee,
but maybe Tim drank it in more excessive quantities than me.
But yeah.
Here's the thing, I think of coffee as a health food
because it gives you energy, it hydrates you,
it tastes great.
Like it's the ultimate thing to put in your body.
It's just so good.
It's fuel, it's fuel.
And it definitely helps when you're walking all day long,
you know, that extra calorie or caffeine.
Oh, for sure.
When we were doing the Columbia River Canoes,
1200 miles of canoeing, the days were getting shorter.
We really had to paddle always.
We had this rule that we were not going to get out of the
canoe at all if we could avoid it.
And we figured as long as we're in the canoe paddling,
we're making forward progress.
And that part of that trip really required coffee.
We were drinking coffee in the morning and then drinking
cold coffee in the canoe and then adding caffeinated energy drinks to water to bring them back.
It was a very caffeine trip.
Were your shoulders just dead? I guess probably your forearms would probably be more...
Yeah, I mean, this trip we started by like walking 1,500 miles and so yeah, we had no strength in our arms.
Right, we had said, let's do push-ups every night so we have some strength for the canoe.
But after you walk 30 miles, you don't want to do push-ups.
I'm going to take a nap.
I love how casually you guys just say, yeah, walk 30 miles, walk 1,500 miles.
It is such a large number. I ran six miles last month and I have not
ran since and it was really hard. It was very, very hard.
And it was six miles.
And it was six. Okay? So what you guys do is impressive. And I wanted to ask about the
paddling because you said to move forward, we had to paddle. Were you guys paddling upstream
on the Columbia River? No, downstream. Okay. But it turns
out we didn't exactly know what we were getting ourselves into. The Columbia
River should be renamed the Columbia Lake. So it's one of the biggest rivers in
the US. Okay. And it drains like the whole northwest of the country but it's got
14 dams and they're some of the biggest dams
in the world and behind those dams are lakes,
sometimes 100 miles long.
So we had gone into it saying like,
we can hopefully do a lot of floating
and get big paddling days in without much work,
but no, everything took effort to keep moving.
Yikes.
Oh wow.
It was fun though.
It was really good.
I've seen some beautiful sights too.
Yeah, definitely.
Yeah, the Columbia River, it kind of goes north in Canada and then comes back down to
the US and just huge mountains right next to the river with glaciers on top.
Yeah, it was gorgeous.
What does a glacier even look like?
Like I honestly couldn't, if you asked me to describe a glacier, I know it's ice, but
does it look like it's a mountain and it's just ice basically?
Or like how?
That's a good question.
How do you define it?
I honestly kind of feel like it, I mean when you're close up, it kind of looks like dirty
snow in my opinion. Really?
Yeah.
Because that's how, like the mid,
I grew up in the Midwest and I always heard,
yeah, like all this farmland was formed,
like with glaciers millions of years ago, all this,
I don't even freaking know what a glacier looks like.
So it's just a bunch of dirty snow.
Well, it looks different, I think,
on the top of a mountain,
because from the river we could look up
and kind of see that it was thick and the wrong color.
And yeah, I wondered also, I grew up in the Midwest too
and I've always wondered like,
if you were standing in Illinois and you know,
10,000 years ago when it was glaciated,
would it look like you're standing on snow
or would it look somehow different?
I don't know.
And is that where you guys met in the Midwest
when you like first started dating and everything?
Yes, yep, we met at the University of Wisconsin Madison.
Nice!
Cool.
Okay, I used to grow up going to Wisconsin Dells to go snowboarding with my family.
Oh nice.
Yeah, so I love Wisconsin and I love Culver's.
I know that started there.
Culver's is so good.
I just heard from somebody it's out here in Arizona.
Yeah, it is.
Yeah, it's the Wisconsin folks who have winter places in Arizona brought Culver's with them. Do you know what the ultimate Culver's hack is? No. No, you get the kids
meal. Get the kids meal. You get fries, a drink, an ice cream, a burger, and a toy. Wow. I
don't think you get a toy. Okay, actually, you need to use like the little tokens to
get the toy. You have to like build up to it. When I was a kid, we'd get that all the
time. And then it's $5. Yeah, I think with inflation, it might be like six bucks now.
Okay, but I always got that growing up.
And then even into an adulthood,
I'm like, this is the biggest steal in the game.
This is the same size burger.
I've got it.
Maybe Wes Patty's in like, well, I don't know.
It's pretty big.
I've got a Taco Bell hack for you.
What's your Taco Bell?
Taco Bell is the best restaurant.
Okay.
And if you go and get a Crunchwrap Supreme,
like it's like 619 for it. Okay, I know the prices. It is 619 for a Crunchwrap Supreme, like it's like 6.19 for it.
Okay, I know the prices.
It is 6.19 for a Crunchwrap Supreme.
Can be like something around $6.19.
And it's good.
But if you order a Crave Box,
it includes a Crunchwrap Supreme and a burrito
and cinnamon twists and a drink for 5.99.
Wow. What?
Yeah, who would pay an extra 19 cents
for that much less food?
It doesn't make sense.
That is a good hack actually.
But you need the Taco Bell app, right?
Get the app, yeah.
It's worth it.
It's worth it to save like $7.
You just, that is amazing.
Now I want one.
Now what's sad is this is gonna,
that clip of you saying that is gonna go viral
and then Taco Bell
is gonna shut it down they're gonna be like gosh that freaking podcast they've ruined the
press for Taco Bell. We've made some videos of like dehydrating Taco Bell food and rehydrating Taco Bell food.
Have you ever dehydrated Taco Bell? Uh yeah Taco Bell doesn't know who we are but now they do.
What did you dehydrate? A Crunchwrap and a potato, crispy potato soft taco.
Yeah.
We tried to pick the vegetarian things without dare,
low-fat things, because fat doesn't dehydrate well
and kind of spoils quickly.
So we chose the beans and potato.
Crazy.
What's the craziest thing you've dehydrated?
Oh, that's a good question.
You know those, um, uh, the coffee that went viral in 2020?
Yeah, like the whipped coffee.
The whipped coffee.
Yeah.
I decided to freeze dry that and Renee told me it wouldn't work and I said, it's totally
gonna work.
It'll turn into astronaut coffee, like astronaut ice cream.
Yeah.
It was gonna be so cool, but it exploded
I went to the freeze-dryer and the whole thing was covered and yeah, so that didn't work.
So that was a fail, unfortunately.
Crazy stuff. One thing we do a lot of is like just like tomato sauce. People always find the sauce is interesting
But we use that for a lot of our meals. Good flavor. Yeah
Yeah, and I mean the cool thing about tomato sauce is it comes in a can you dehydrate? find the sauces interesting, but we use that for a lot of our meals. Good flavor. Yeah.
Yeah.
I mean, the cool thing about tomato sauce is it comes in a can, you dehydrate it, and
it turns into a sheet of paper.
And we constantly think we should store it in a binder, have a binder of different flavors
of tomato sauce.
Wait, that is funny.
What flavor did I eat?
I saw your video about dehydrating applesauce, and yeah, I was like, what?
Why is that a sheet?
But yeah, you really could make a binder of all your dehydrated foods clear protectors
Have you guys seen people do that before? No, no that idea comes from a comment on one of our tik toks a bunch of years
Ago, you guys could store this in a binder. You really could hey, that's pretty genius
What it gets stuck together though, like as the elements and stuff. No, you use the plastic binder sheets.
Oh.
Yeah, that's what I was saying, clear protectors.
Yeah.
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We got talking about Taco Bell meal deals
and I totally forgot to ask more about how you guys met.
So I was in Wisconsin,
guessing while you were in university at college.
What was your last story?
What was your timeline? Yeah.
Yeah, I mean we met when we were pretty young. I was a freshman and Tim was a sophomore and
we met at a football game.
Nice. That's so cute. Who noticed who first or who fell for who first?
Man, why do people always ask that? It was definitely me first. Renee still only half remembers
that football game when I like, I remember it very well. Oh, there's this girl. I got
to get to know her better. And we had a mutual friend and I remember that football game very
well. And you're like, yeah, maybe we met at that game. I don't know.
So we, and then did you get married after college? Yeah. Yeah,
a couple years after college. Yep. Yeah. Sweet. Did you guys go on like a memorable first date
of any kind? Yes. Yeah. I mean. Your face just lit up. Why is that? Because I get to tell a story
I never tell.
You want to tell them? No, you can tell them.
It's your story.
Okay.
Renee, you're blushing.
That's a good one.
So at the university of Wisconsin, they have a block party every year, or at
least they used to the Mifflin street block party and college, everybody's
drinking and I was also drinking and I had
installed a car horn on my bicycle. A car horn? Uh-huh it was pretty cool.
I was 20 like whatever just having fun with the car horn. And you used like a
wheelchair battery to power the car horn? Uh-huh so it was full car volume. Engineer? Wait, you're the engineer. She's the engineer, but I like-
But you kind of dabbled, it sounds like.
So, I was just honking the horn on this block party with 5,000 people and a cop decided
I was an underage drunk and I was not an un- well, I was not going to let him know that I
was an underage drunk so I refused to blow into the breathalyzer, which you don't have to blow if you're not driving.
And I wasn't driving.
So I said, no, I won't blow.
And he said, well, then I'm gonna write you a ticket
for making too much noise.
So he wrote me.
Oh, you knew your rights.
Yeah, yeah.
You really did your research.
I learned that in high school.
They said, you don't have to blow unless you're driving.
So I didn't.
And then I got the ticket and I decided to fight it.
So I had actually that summer left to go back to my parents' house.
I think it was summer after sophomore year.
I guess it must have been.
So you were back in Chicago.
I'm from the Madison area, Madison, Wisconsin originally.
So I was in Madison. Yeah. So
I went up to Madison to go to my court date to fight that silly noise violation
which was no problem and on that trip that was our first date. That's
cute. To the courthouse? Yeah. And you guys got married there. No. It was all it was
really quick. Yeah I fought the ticket, signed the paperwork and that was it. We were hitched
Wow, no, but that was our yeah, that was our first date cuz you guys go to Culver's on your first date
I can't remember where we went. I do it was Panera
Do you remember what you ordered no no I
Remember I was disappointed why because Renee's from that area. Her hometown is near
Madison. So I was like, let's go out for breakfast and you should show me a cool local place. And
she took me to Panera. You're like, nothing beats good Panera breakfast. That's sweet. I'm impressed
that you fought your ticket. Like, how do you even do that?
So I looked up the rules and the rules were
if you make an unreasonable amount of noise,
you can get a citation.
And I just said to the judge, like,
yo, judge, there's 5,000 people out here.
There's bans, there's parties.
Like, why is a car horn unreasonable?
And he said, yeah, you're right.
I'll give you six months to not get any more noise violations and then
you're off the hook wow wow so but that's how you say this wasn't
unreasonable which that's a valid argument at a 5,000 person block party
right like everybody's making noise for lots of reasons wow you have me convinced
there were no complaints nobody had called the cops to say this guy's crazy on his car bike horn. You didn't, I didn't peg you as a rebel.
So that's pretty impressive. That's a good first story. Did you guys ever, so you got
married and I feel like the common question after people get married is like, are you
planning to start a family? Was there ever a point that you were like planning on having children or were you like
from the beginning not interested for us? I think we've always kind of said like
maybe someday but yeah the someday has never come yet
and I still no plans yet. Yeah that's funny. Is that something I know
like especially like with relatives and sometimes like in-laws that's something that Is that something I know like, especially like with relatives
and sometimes like in-laws,
that's something that people will like bug you about like,
okay, is it gonna happen?
Like, is that ever something that family will
ask you guys questions about?
Not anymore, I don't think.
Really?
You just said, stop asking me mom, and then she stopped.
Well, I think it helped that, yeah,
Tim's siblings had some kids, so his mom stopped asking because
she had grandkids.
And then...
She was satisfied.
Yeah.
And then we started going on these crazy hikes, so I think they just realized we're a little
crazy and...
They can't control us.
That's awesome.
We were talking earlier about you guys cold plunging in the Arctic or something, and something
that you said, Tim, was that if you go from a sauna and you're in the sauna long
enough and you just like stand outside and it's zero degrees and you're naked, you actually
don't get cold for for quite some time since you're still like you have the body heat from
the sauna.
And it made me think because like you just casually said you were like standing outdoors
naked.
I'm like, have you ever had any awkward encounters where you're trying to take a bath in a hot
spring or something and then some random hiker sees your butt cheeks or something?
I don't know.
I've never encountered something like that before.
That's a good question.
Yeah, I mean, we definitely, if we think there's no one around and we want to take a swim,
we definitely do it naked.
There's been once or twice we've gotten caught.
I do remember that.
Which ones?
I can't think of them.
Somewhere in Northern California.
I think they were just kind of like, oh, uh, yeah.
What do you mean by getting caught?
Were you full on bare naked?
They saw you or were you in the water and then you realized, oh, I can't get out of the water because there's people here?
I think I just remember being in like a lake and you know, you're kind of really dirty.
You don't shower that often.
So you kind of like go in the water and scrub a little bit.
So I think we were just standing scrubbing half in the water, half out of the water and there were just some, I feel like they were hunters or something out there walking
by and oops. And they definitely saw both of you. Yeah. Oh man, did they like laugh
or did you guys laugh? I mean I think you when you're hiking you just kind of get
in, you know, we'd been out there for a couple months
and you just kind of get into a mindset of,
you're just free and don't really care and, oh, okay, oops.
When we were doing the river, the Columbia,
there were no other people.
And so we had these really big stretches of time
where we were in Canada in this huge expanse
of like you can see 20 miles to one mountain and 20 miles to another mountain and we were
down low just totally open paddling with no clothes on.
Like we'd have to put our clothes on to make a video because we didn't want to put up videos
without clothes on.
So that was pretty good. That must be pretty free. Paddling nude? That's crazy. Was it amazing?
Absolutely. And like nobody's going to see us because there's just nobody there. So,
and that's weird. Like even in California or the Rockies, whatever, usually you wouldn't have
a chance to take off all your clothes with a 30 mile radius or 40 view around you of like nobody
could possibly show up. But this was just such a huge space to be naked in. It was cool. So you
guys have gotten to live naked and afraid. That's been your life.
Not the afraid part, no afraid.
Oh yeah, you're not afraid.
You're just naked and free.
Naked and free.
Happy and naked.
Yeah.
Yeah.
That's wild.
Now I definitely want to go do that
because a friend of mine actually did
something really stupid with some of his friends.
They got hammocks and
took like jars of peanut butter and a life straw and they were like, let's go do naked in the frayed in like this
very like Jungly remote part of Florida and one of them got like bit by a mosquito on their private part
Anyway, it was like a whole thing, but they told me stories about it and it was it just sounded freaking hilarious
like it sounded whole thing, but they told me stories about it and it was it just sounded freaking hilarious
like it sounded so funny, but
Their experience it sounded like it was awful, but yours sounds like it was it was great. It was peaceful. Oh, yeah
Yeah, I mean it's so fun to be
For for us for me
It's so free you said naked and free
That's the word that that I always come to is when we're on these long trips
You said naked and free. That's the word that I always come to,
is when we're on these long trips,
we get used to hiking 20 or 30 miles a day,
and so that part becomes easy,
and then it's just like, all I gotta do is eat and walk,
and nothing else.
And find water, yeah.
Find water, and that's so free and fun.
And when you're out there for months,
how are you bathing, how are you showering?
Walk me through that process.
Yeah, so I think our record for not showering was,
was it 20 days, 20?
I think 23 days.
23 days.
Holy crap.
Wow.
That must have been pretty smelly.
But like, there's streams and lakes,
so we've rinsed off in that time,
but that's the longest without shower.
Who smelled more after those 23 days?
It was pretty equally terrible.
And at the end of those 23 days, it was,
we did not like it.
It was time for a shower.
I remember we paid a lot of money
for a hotel room in Steamboat Springs, Colorado,
because that's a tourist town and hotel rooms are expensive, but it was like we were coming into Steamboat Springs, Colorado, because that's a tourist town and hotel rooms are expensive,
but it was like we were coming into Steamboat Springs and we needed a shower and there was
no campground or whatever, so we got a pricey hotel room that had a shower.
It had to feel glorious.
But I mean, typically, you know, we stop every five to seven days to get more food. So it's yeah, we try to do laundry and showers
sometimes, you know, every other time. Describe the feeling of feeling the warmth of a hot shower
over your body after going five, ten, even 23 days without a shower. That's good. It's uh,
the hot's nice. The visual stimulation is good because
you can look at the drain and say how is it still brown? I've been running for 10 minutes and it's
still just dirt draining down that drain so. Wow. But it's like seven days is a non-issue. I don't
even feel gross for seven days.
We don't wear deodorant when we're on these trips.
I'm sure we don't smell that great,
but you change your expectation and it doesn't feel filthy.
But you're also in the outdoors.
You're not in a confined space.
And then health matters, so we're always brushing our teeth
and if there's blisters, we're taking care of those.
We're doing the things that affect our long-term health but dirt
doesn't affect long-term health. In your book you guys yeah you guys wrote a book
yeah it just came out a couple months ago. Congratulations that's a very big deal we
should all give you guys some applause for that. That's a big accomplishment. We brought a copy we We're going to give you guys a copy. Oh, thank you.
That's so nice.
I know you touched on how you handle injuries or illness
a little bit in your book.
Like, what if something happens to you when you're hiking?
Has something ever happened?
Infections or sickness?
Injuries?
Sickness has happened.
One of our, can I tell this story?
Yeah.
Okay.
We had COVID on one of our hikes.
That sucked.
Oh yeah.
We didn't quite know we had it and we had the starting date and then right before we
started we tested and realized we had it.
But like we were in the middle of nowhere isolated.
You're truly isolated. Yeah and it was almost gone by the time we started so.
Yeah we shouldn't have been contagious anymore but like the effects of like. Oh for
sure. Yeah. Linger. And we just kept walking I mean it made the walking less
fun but you know. That had to be exhausting though. Like being sick and your body's already spending this,
like using this much energy too to walk.
That's wild.
There was another time when I got really sick,
we don't know what it was.
We-
Cold or something.
Yeah, it was summer of 2021.
And that year, right before the trip started,
we both got vaccinated for COVID.
So it was like, we're good.
And we thought we were invincible.
So then when I got sick, didn't test for COVID.
Cause at that point, nobody knew that you could really get it
after, right?
So we didn't even, maybe that was COVID too.
I, we don't think so.
It didn't really seem like it, but I got really sick,
but just kept walking and I finally started getting better.
And then Renee got equally sick.
We traded, so that was a bummer.
Do you bring multiple pairs of underwear with you
or like changes of clothes?
Because if you're not doing deodorant
and you're not showering for you know minimum five days
like do you just have like two outfits that you're like cycling through and
just like rinsing off in a stream how does that work?
um yeah we only wear one outfit. But multiple pairs of underwear I usually
bring two pairs of underwear one to wear and one to change into the next day and
you have a couple more right? I bring three pairs of underwear, one to wear and one to change into the next day and you have a couple more, right?
I bring three pairs of underwear.
So one I wear, one for the next day and one for sleeping.
Oh, okay.
I don't know why.
Weight is really important.
And so to make a trip suck, you carry more than you should
or more than you're comfortable carrying.
And so we both try to do what we can to keep the weight really really low and yeah so about a change of clothes they
would both be dirty so why not just go with one how do you go poop in the woods oh come on same
way go in the toilet it's the same it's just there's no water there's a pit you guys must
have like very strong thighs
from just like practicing your squat.
Like you have no toilet seat.
You can poop for way too long.
Dude, like how do you squat for 25 minutes straight
while you're on your phone, you know?
Like that must be challenging.
Yeah, well, Renee taught me,
I used to hate pooping in the woods,
and Renee taught me the trick.
It's a really easy trick.
You don't put your pants at your ankles,
you put your pants at your knees,
which it changed everything.
Really?
Yeah.
Why, why at your knees?
I think because then you can hold your ankles wider.
Oh!
And like the stance is much better,
so you're still squatting,
and with your pant waist at your knees,
you get a better balance. And like for a couple of years, I didn't understand that.
And I would, when we do shorter trips, I'd always be the guy holding it until he got to the trailhead.
And yeah, I learned.
You guys are hardcore.
Well, you guys know there's literally an invention called a squatty potty that you can use to help go number two.
They can't be carrying that. How heavy are your...
Well, you're obviously not going to carry that, but there's like science to if you're
in a squat position or whatever and like engaging your muscles, it helps you go.
And I'm sure it's because of how the caveman did it back in the day.
I mean, I personally think it's easier to go in the woods than on a toilet.
That's a good position.
How many minutes we talking?
Not long. It shouldn't take long Matt. I think you're backed up. If you guys are, you do
weightlifting and gym courses and stuff right? You know if you do like a big
workout for ten hours or so, a big long one. A workout for 10 hours?
Okay, well, next time you do a 10 hour workout,
the next day, for us, for both of us,
the poops are better, they're easier,
they pop right out.
Wow.
I think the hiking and hiking and hiking
just loosens it all up, not to the point of being like a
liquid but to the point of like
You just dig a hole. Yeah, so to answer your question. Yeah, we carry like an ultra light trowel
So we dig a little cat hole
away from the trail away from water
squat take care of our business and then
We don't actually use toilet paper. We start with sticks or rocks and then...
Rocks?
Yeah.
Wiping with a rock?
I prefer a stick.
I prefer a rock.
Wiping with a stick?
It sounds gross.
How do you not bleed?
How do you not...
Like that must hurt.
It really doesn't.
The first time we did a big long hike we carried toilet paper and it's annoying and then we
saw these videos of people who have hiked more than we have saying, try using a stick
or a rock and like leaves don't work.
They're shiny and waxy and it really stinks to use a leaf.
And if they like break then it gets on your hand.
Yeah, leaves are not a good idea.
I had a cousin wipe with poison ivy once.
Oh.
Yes, that's the other reason they're bad.
But a stick is really surprisingly good.
OK.
We follow up the stick or the rack with some water.
And you can get a little attachment for your water bottle.
So it's like a bidet and it squirts out.
Oh wow.
And you don't use that with your drinking water bottle.
You do that with a dedicated dirty water bottle.
You guys just have down,
you have this down with scientists,
almost like you guys are like scientists or something.
You know?
You're such a dad.
Okay.
That's pretty impressive I feel like you know a perfect segue would have been when we were talking about being naked but
You guys have probably been asked this before in private, but if you're not if you're not comfortable answering
Totally can move on
Intimacy when you're hiking for five and a half months.
Does it happen?
Or are you exhausted?
Are you too exposed?
What was the process?
They probably just take a break.
They probably just like don't kiss or anything
for five and a half months.
Or do you just resort to kissing?
You must have a TikTok
cause that's TikTok's favorite question
when we're on the trail.
Really?
Do you guys get freaky in the woods?
But yeah, it's like 23 days into a no shower stretch, then that's not really when we're
in the mood.
But during our usual schedule of showering every week or so, it's yeah, definitely.
I figured, I mean, if you're're paddling naked then there's probably some
romance happening. And we're both equally smiley so like it's not that bad. Has anything ever
happened in a canoe? I just saw your face like yeah. Dude that I'm inspired. Oh, there's a joke.
I have a, oh man.
So I'm a scientist and one of my colleagues, another scientist from Germany, he was at
an American conference that I was at.
He was drinking coffee and he walked up coffee, and he walked up to me
and he said, Tim, with this really,
it's a dad joke like you.
Tim, what's the difference between coffee
and having sex in a canoe?
I don't know.
They're both near water.
They're not coffee, American coffee.
American coffee, yeah.
I have to say.
I'm like, how did you respond to that?
I thought it was good.
Probably like you guys are responding.
It was a good one.
I feel like that's, you said he was German?
Yeah.
I feel like Europeans are even more out there with their language and humor sometimes.
Why do I feel like our frequency would go up
if we're out in the middle of nowhere?
Just because I feel like it would bring us back
to our animalistic traits.
I think I'd be like, I just what?
You'd be like, you need a pro-creator.
Hike 20 miles, get your hips off me, I'm gonna sleep.
I think that is the problem.
Sometimes it's just exhausting.
It's exhausting.
Yeah, yeah.
Well, you actually, I think we were listening to a podcast
that you guys were on about,
you take a nap every day when you're hiking.
Yeah, I mean, if I can, yeah.
We like to like take a long lunch break.
I mean, that's also a good time
because then you're not tired, you know.
Right after a nap?
Right after, yeah.
So eat lunch, take a nap, and then, yeah.
Okay, then get back on the road.
And then get back on the road.
Gay sex is the best, honestly. Yeah, it really is on the road. Out in the open and then get back on the road.
Day sex is the best, honestly.
Yeah, it really is.
It really, I think we can all agree on that.
Especially like the stage of life we're in with kids
and stuff, we're always way too tired at night.
It's an, it happens at night.
I mean it happens, but.
And I'm sure, yeah, and you guys freaking walk in 30 miles
are like, we're not doing this at night.
You're probably just going right to bed.
Sometimes we do.
But the day is the better because we don't have this at night. You're probably just going right to bed. Sometimes we do. But the day is the better
because we don't have the tent pitched.
We're not like, you know,
if we're doing day sex on the trail,
it really is just in the woods somewhere.
Oh, okay.
I'm not gonna ask.
You can find privacy.
Matt, I'm really happy to hold that question.
I'm maybe remembering this Northern California thing.
That was...
Oh, that was a different time.
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah. No. Yeah, how do you privacy for that? Oh, that was. Oh, that was a different time, yeah. Yeah, yeah. Yeah.
No.
Yeah, how do you have privacy for that?
Oh, that one.
Somebody saw?
We saw someone.
You guys saw someone having sex on the trail?
Yes, yes.
Oh!
They were in a tent, it was the middle of the day,
but they only had like the mesh part of their tent.
They didn't have a rain fly up.
And their tent was pitched like down below the trail so we were walking
above them and we could just look down right into their tent. Jarring. And they were yeah just right
in the middle of it. No. Did you ever come into contact with them after seeing that on accident?
No that wasn't on one of our long hikes so it was like a three or four day trip we didn't have to
That wasn't on one of our long hikes, so it was like a three or four day trip. We didn't have to bump into them a month later.
Did you just happen to see it?
Were there like noises happening or something?
I don't know.
Yeah.
I mean, both maybe.
Something had to draw your attention.
It's just like, you know, you can like see out of the corner of your eyes some movement
and look down and oh yeah.
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Your night's sleep when you're on these like hiking trips, is it eight hours plus?
It's eight hours.
Eight hours.
Give or take, plus or minus. You guys ever worry about like, I don't know, an animal
attacking you or some like creepy hiker being like oh okay
let's get them there's no there's no tent I don't know in my brain I'm like if I have a tent I'm
safe so yeah you get over that because really the tent is a piece of fabric what's it protecting
you from other than maybe a rattlesnake but we've never had an issue with a rattlesnake while we're
sleeping and otherwise a barrel go right through a tent or a mouse goes right through a tent.
So it's like a comfort thing and you get over it.
The scariest we've ever had was a beetle,
a big beetle that was making a bunch of noise
right by our heads.
It was kind of terrifying
cause we didn't know what it was.
And then it was a beetle.
So we flipped it away.
What did your brain tell you in the middle of the night
when you were hearing all those noises?
What did you think it was?
Oh my gosh. It sounded like a mouse or something. It sounded really big
But yeah, it was just a beetle
Well, the thing is there's insects out there that actually can kill you
So even if it was just a beetle I'd be like does this beetle have venom that could literally injure me or kill me
You know, like yeah, but there's not that many like the worst
We've insect wise that we've like the scariest we've woken up with was
a scorpion.
But they don't kill you.
Oh yeah.
They just sting.
Yeah, totally.
Just under our shoe and.
When you're like far from society, not near any hospitals, you know, just a scorpion.
I guess so.
We've had almost no run insins, dangerous run-ins with any animal, so a lot of miles
outside and the animals just like they scare people but when you get used to them they're
not such a risk.
You guys are hardcore because in your video about cowboy camping underneath the stars
you mentioned tucking in your shoelaces into your shoes so that mice don't eat the ends
of your shoelaces. What's been your mice don't eat the ends of your shoelaces.
What's been your experience with that?
Has that ever happened to you?
It has not happened to us, but it has happened to other, you know, through hikers we've interacted
with and yeah, it's kind of sad when you wake up and half your shoelace is gone.
So yeah, mice and then another thing is deer like salt.
So we've had our friends have their hiking poles
stolen by deer and drug off.
So yeah, you just gotta keep your camp clean and tidy.
You said salt?
Yeah.
Yeah, they're after the salt.
So like in certain areas where they're desperate for salt,
Northern California is one, I don't know why,
but that's where the deer that we run into,
they'll like walk right up to you
and you're thinking, what are these deer up to?
And then we wake up in the morning
and they're licking the leaves
where we were peeing overnight.
And it's the salt, they just want salt.
So. Crazy.
And how does salt have anything to do with a hiking pole?
I think your sweaty hands on the hiking pole.
That makes sense.
I never would have thought about that. Neither would the guy who woke up without his hiking
poles and found him forever away. And is that a friend that
you met while you were out hiking the Continental Divide
or like how how did you meet this person that lost their
hiking poles? Yeah, it was on the Pacific Crest Trail. We
um were camped with them when this happened. Just you know,
you run into other hikers out there and yeah,
in the morning it was a search party for his pole.
And did you find the poles?
Yes.
You did?
How far away were the poles?
They were far, was it 50, 100 yards?
And chewed up?
Oh dang.
But we sleep so well out there.
Really?
The best sleep of my life is on the trail.
But you don't even have a, like you're not on a mattress,
like how does it feel comfortable to sleep on the ground?
I think it's really comfortable, like we're used to it.
We use these really thin foam pads
and that provides mostly warmth,
but also a little bit of comfort.
It's equivalent to a super, super firm mattress.
Some people don't like that. Some people want to have an inflatable, but for both of us, we use those. And then
we've been working out for 10 hours, 12 hours, 14 hours, whatever. And then the freedom is
just like, I'm not thinking about what work do I have to do tomorrow or just my mind is
free and like close the eyes and I'm out.
Bodies are tired.
And people aren't texting you
because you probably don't have service.
No service and even if we did have service,
we'd be conserving battery.
Yeah, we usually keep our phones in airplane mode.
The whole time and yeah.
That sounds so refreshing.
I'm sure you guys have seen some crazy stuff
with all the hiking that you've done.
Have you seen bears before?
Because you've mentioned bears a lot in your videos
and I've wondered, have you ever encountered a black bear
or a grizzly or something like that?
Oh yeah.
Yes, yeah.
Yeah, lots of.
Both, yeah.
We're used to them.
Black bears especially, we think of them like raccoons.
They're always afraid of us.
We never get to look
at them long enough because they take off running. So black bears are common
for us out there. Grizzlies are more exciting. We haven't seen too many
grizzlies but we've encountered some of those. See I feel like a raccoon can
maybe like bite off the tip of your finger but like a black bear could
literally eat you. No, no they don't. That's the thing. Everybody is scared of black bears, but there's very little need to be scared of black bears.
But when we went to Rocky Mountain National Park, I did my research on black bears and apparently back before the year 2000, someone got murdered by a black bear in Rocky Mountain National Park.
While they were camping. Yeah. So we were on guard. Yeah, it's possible. but come on back before the year 2000 in Rocky Mountain National Park
That's had how many millions of campers since then?
It's probably not something to worry about. I do feel like wildlife gets you really on edge, but how are sharks?
Well, it's just like you hear those stories and they never leave your brain, you know
That'd be a really horrible way to go honestly. Oh
Yeah That'd be a really horrible way to go, honestly. Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah.
Shimmy.
We've seen mountain lions.
Those, not many, but that's always like a treat
to see a mountain lion.
I think I've seen three, Renee's seen two.
Renee just saw a wolf though,
which has always been one of our goals to see,
and I haven't seen a wolf yet.
Wow.
Yeah, but we've run in, not run into, but we've seen so much wildlife and they really
want nothing to do with us.
So yeah, you just kind of get used to it.
Very neat.
And like you, you don't ignore them.
You be smart.
Yeah.
We, we don't sleep with our food.
When we're in grizzly bear country. So like you take steps to make sure that
you're not attracting the animals and then if you're not doing that they're not such a concern.
Which animal is your favorite to see? The big ones the cats we've seen
like a mountain lion, a Canada lynx, bobcats. Yeah I like cats. The mountain lion was so cool when we saw one in the Poseidon wilderness in Washington
State and like it came right near us on the trail. It was sort of above the trail and
as we rounded a corner it ran down to the trail to run away from us and the way that
it moved it was, we have cats at home and it was like watching our house cats bounce
through the kitchen, you know,
it moves like a cat.
Yeah, just a huge one.
It was very big.
And it was in the middle of the day.
That's really cool.
And when you guys are out on the trail
for five months at a time,
you're having like a family member or a friend
mail you guys, excuse me,
mail you guys your freeze dried food in packages, right?
To like a post office along the trail,
is that how that works?
Yeah.
Yep.
And like how often do you get a shipment of food in?
Is it like once per week?
Is it, yeah, what's the timeline there?
Ideally, it's about once per week.
It depends on where the towns are.
So before we do a trip,
we'll make a spreadsheet of the towns
that we think we can get to.
And the trails usually where they cross a road,
we will leave the trail often by hitchhiking,
get to a town, and that's where we'll have a food shipment
and then we'll hitchhike back to the trail.
So we have the spreadsheet that says
where we're targeting stops.
And then depending on how the towns fall,
it's every four to eight days,
except in a few extraordinary spots
where we have to go farther or rarely shorter.
Have you ever had a person that picked you guys up
hitchhiking drop you off since you smelled so bad
when you got in their car?
No, not yet.
I'm sure we've had lots of people comment
when we get out of the car.
We've hitchhiked in national parks before.
And I think that like really freaked our parents out.
I think it is kind of like the culture in those parks
where it's like people are
You know ending up really far from their car at times and that's kind of necessary. It's not you're gonna uber
Within the park, you know, right? Yeah, you might not have cell service
It's like it's not practical to uber and hitchhiking
I wish culturally it was less of a shocker because it it's very convenient and if you're in a wilderness area or if you're near a wilderness area, good chance the people doing it are doing it because they were doing a hike or whatever.
Yeah, that totally makes sense. Yeah, we one time we picked up some hitchhikers and they were part of, remember when like Chaz was a thing in like Oregon,
there was like a group of people that like,
basically formed their own city within,
I think it was Portland, Oregon,
or was it Seattle, Washington?
It was somewhere up on the Northwest.
But anyway, we picked up these hitchhikers in California
and they wanted us to bring them to the Santa Monica Pier.
And as we were talking to them,
we literally found out that they both were like, I guess you'd call them like professional protesters because
they were part of this like movement where they were trying to form an LA
Chazz kind of like they had formed a Chazz up on the northwest it was super
interesting but so they wanted to hitchhike with you from we did yeah we
were malibu they said take us as far as you can yeah we were like I thought you
were saying from Seattle down to LA. No, no.
That's be nuts.
Well, they got in the car and they're like,
take us as far as you can.
We're like, what's going on?
Yeah, we.
And we had just.
What have we done?
We had just been to Hawaii earlier that year
for the first time and we were like,
yeah, like someone helped us hitchhike
to the top of Mauna Kea to see the beautiful view
from the top of the mountain.
It's like the tallest point on the big island of Hawaii.
So we're like, let's help these people out
and help them hitchhike, whatever.
Like we've been there too.
And we were just like, they had the most interesting story.
Like it was crazy.
Like they had been living, they're like you guys,
they've been living in tents and stuff.
Or I guess you guys have been sleeping in a tent.
But no, it was-
Often we sleep in a tent.
Oh, you do, okay.
It depends on where we're at.
Yeah, and that's to prevent, like what if it rains?
Yeah, so like in Washington,
we definitely like carry a tent and sleep in the tent,
but like in Arizona, no, we just cowboy camp.
And we'll have a tarp, so the tarp is super light
and it's even in the desert just in case it rains,
we can pitch the tarp on our hiking poles as a rain shelter.
But yeah, so like more dry, deserty climates,
we like to cowboy camp, but then in places that rain more
or have bugs, we bring a tent so that we,
you know, like mosquito type bugs.
That's so cool. You're so low maintenance.
I admire it, because I'm like,
I think I'm too, I fear I might be a little too high maintenance for this.
I need toilet paper and shower.
Maybe I can do it. Maybe I could.
When Abby and I got married, like back in 2019, we took this trip out to Colorado
and we were so high in elevation that I got elevation sickness.
Like it was giving me headaches and I was having trouble sleeping and it felt like super dry there. I was chugging water all the time to
try to help because I know drinking water I think helps with elevation sickness. What
do you guys do for that? Because I think I saw in your videos you guys do encounter elevation
sickness and it's something you have to deal with with all the hiking you do. Yeah, yeah, it's a thing.
We pay attention to our bodies and it's affected both of us in different ways.
It usually gets Renee a little more than me.
It's like rest and slow down.
When you're doing, when you're climbing a mountain,
the elevation sickness hits worse.
So you take more resting
and then you're doing less physical exertion.
What are the symptoms of elevation sickness?
I always get headaches and yeah, really bad headaches.
Little bit of shortness of breath and just like low energy
and just like okay, I need to take a nap right now.
But the first time that elevation sickness hit us pretty bad,
it was before we were long distance hikers
and we didn't really know what we were doing a little bit,
but we went to Kings Canyon National Park,
which is kind of near Yosemite,
and we weren't that high up, we were at like 8,000 feet,
and we didn't think you could get elevation sickness
at 8,000 feet, but turns out you can,
and Renee, she got loopy. So we were camping in like a car camping spot. And she started just...
It was, it was really cold. There was snow on the ground. It was below freezing. Yeah.
Yeah, way below. She started taking off her jackets when we woke up in the morning and like
stripping out of the sleeping bag. And I said, Renee. What are you doing? It's really cold. No, I'm really really hot and she insisted
she was hot and she said she had a headache and and then she said you have to drive me to the
outhouse and the outhouse was
50 feet away and I said what do you mean? I have to drive you to the outhouse. I can't make it that far
I can't walk it. You got to drive me and like I couldn't win that battle. I didn't walk her to the outhouse I drove her to the outhouse. I can't make it that far, I can't walk it, you gotta drive me. And I couldn't win that battle.
I didn't walk her to the outhouse,
I drove her to the outhouse, 50 feet.
I couldn't win that battle.
And then we drove straight down to lower elevation
because we kind of figured out it was something like that
and talked to the ranger and said, what's going on?
Can you get elevation sickness at 8,000 feet?
And he said, yeah, you definitely can.
And they turned to Renee and said,
are you on your period?
And she was, and it was like, he knew because-
You're like, excuse me, sir.
No way.
No, but it was awesome.
Yeah, and did you slap him?
No, I was just like, yeah, I am.
Is that like, he's like, yeah, I've heard that
that contributes to or makes elevation sickness worse if you're on your period too.
And so, that's good to know.
You had a video about how you manage being on your period on long-term hikes.
Explain it for people that might not have seen that because that's a great...
First of all, the thought of hiking while you're on your period is just...
That seems like one of the last things most of them
would wanna do.
So how do you manage that?
Yeah, well, I guess I feel like exercise kind of helps
with period symptoms.
So yeah, maybe that's, yeah.
But anyways, I usually just bring a menstrual cup.
So yeah, so I have it with me all five months
and then when I need it, just use a lot of hand sanitizer,
dig a hole and dump the menstrual cup into a hole,
just like going poop, yeah.
Wash it with clean water.
Crazy.
Do you ever have any animals do anything crazy
around that time of the month when you're hiking?
Because I remember like one time Abby's dog like ate her underwear.
Really? You're gonna bring that up right now?
Like literally just straight up ate it.
And so I feel like with there being bears and wolves and all these animals out in the wild you must have to like-
That's why you dig a hole.
Yeah, I mean you're diggin- but like when you go to bed at night you probably have to tie
certain products or something. I don't know maybe like up in a tree or I don't know.
Yeah, yep.
So we have a like a bear proof bag that we usually use.
It depends on where you're hiking and the regulations.
But if it's allowed, we have this like canvas sack that's bear proof, bears can't chew through
it.
So we put all of our food and any scented items in there and tie it on a tree away from our tent
So and we love that thing because we don't have to hang it really high instead. It's just like
Bear proof and so we just you tie it on to the tree so the bear can't run off with it
But they can chomp on it all they want and they can't get through it. Why would some places not allow for that?
Ask the National Park Service.
So there's this company that says this thing is bear proof and use it everywhere and then
everywhere you're allowed and then you have the National Park Service who at some parks
says we don't trust that thing. It's not bear proof enough.
You have to use either beefier plastic bear proof containers.
Yeah, like a bear canisters.
You're like, I can't carry that around.
They're really heavy.
Yeah, it really stinks to carry those bear proof,
or the bear canisters, but some places require it.
So if I had my way everywhere,
it would be okay with the bear proof bag.
Can we just reevaluate? Can we do some tests? Let's prove this.
Well in the Olympic Peninsula, at Olympic National Park, the ranger we talked to,
they do require bear canisters, big plastic heavy things, and we were talking he said yeah there's
not really
many bears here. You're not going to see them. We mostly require those for rodents. And we were just
like, what? Like, let us take our own rodent risks. But they don't. And the bear-proof bags, many of
them are not rodent-proof. So rodents can chew through, but bears can't. See, these are things I would not think about.
That's why I'd give myself a kill.
No, I feel like we would die.
Like, I truly feel like if Abby and I decided tomorrow that we're going to go do 3,000 miles of hiking,
I think we would die.
We'd either get eaten by an animal, we would kill each other, like something would happen.
I don't know.
Something crazy would go down on this hike, you know?
I don't know.
There's no way we're making it out.
I feel like if we went with them, it would be better.
They would make me feel confident.
If it was just like Matt trying to make a decision in the wild, I feel like, what are
you not about?
I think I'd make too many dad jokes and you'd like push me off a cliff or something.
That's so dramatic.
That's wild.
So you're not packing water or are you packing water?
We're finding water.
Finding water, yeah.
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a water source to be somewhere and it's not?
And is that a panicky moment?
Yes. Yes.
It's happened I think once.
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next water was 12 miles out and
we had enough water to go a little beyond the 12 miles because you like to be a little safe. Yeah
And we got there and there was no water. It was a spring that was just completely dry and
after that it was what was it 20 something miles? 20 miles to the next water source. Yeah
And so that's a long stretch no matter what and doing 20 miles without water seemed foolish so we
weren't gonna do it so we had to turn around and go backwards towards the road
we had crossed that did have a town. Yeah but the problem was it was just a road it was 12
miles back it was just a road and we would have had to hitchhike back
into the town but it took us two hours for a car
to pick us up the first time.
So it was just like, oh my gosh.
Because that was like in the middle of nowhere,
there were almost no cars driving by.
And the town was like a 50 person town or something.
So yeah, but so, you know, we didn't follow the trail back
because we knew there was no water
on the trail.
So we looked at our maps and found some like dirt roads and they had like cow ponds labeled
on there.
So we went back towards the road on this dirt road, hoping that these cow ponds had water.
And the first one didn't and the second one didn't and the third one didn't and eventually after going 11 of the 12 miles backward
We found this disgusting
Cow pond. Yeah, what's a cow pond? It's it's where the cows drink and poop and whatever
And poop
There's poop in this water
Yeah, yeah
That's what the filters are for
Really good we've never gotten sick Yeah, yeah. That's what the filters are for. We told you we had these filters. How good are these filters? The filters are really good.
We've never gotten sick.
Okay, okay.
It's not the cows' toilet.
It's just that they go stand in the lake and drink water
and it's a small enough pond
that it has plenty of cow poop in it.
Oh, wow.
That was disgusting.
And the filters, like it was this gross brown water.
And as we filtered, it came out clear, totally clear.
And all of the cow poop was gone.
And then you just went to the 20 mile, the next one.
Yeah, so then it was like 30 miles to the next water source.
Yeah.
Did you boil the water at all?
No.
Is there any way to boil it?
Cause you've mentioned, you know, heating stuff up.
Do you have like a little canister that lights up and it's like a little skillet or something?
Yeah, we bring a little stove that we make our coffee or dinners in with a pot.
But the filters work.
As long as you're using a filter rated for bacteria, cow poop isn't a problem.
That sounds gross.
Are these expensive water filters?
No.
No.
Really?
They were invented, I don't know, not that long ago
and everybody switched over to the style we use now
which is cheap.
They're a whole bunch of small fibers.
It's like, yeah, it's not very big.
Like six inches long?
Yeah.
Oh wow.
And you screw it on the top of your water bottle and it has teeny tiny straws in it
and the water gets forced through those straws and bacteria doesn't fit through.
So after the water travels through this little straw and comes out the other end there's
no bacteria and you're good to go.
Very cool.
So then you had to go 30 miles
without another water source.
Right.
And so you just had to fill up one water bottle
and make it?
We had enough water bottles to make it the 20 miles
because we thought that was our longest stretch.
Yeah.
So we got creative, we drank a ton of water
as we were sitting there, We call it cameling up.
Wait, I heard that was a myth about camels.
Really?
I don't know anything about camels, but that's just the expression for when we drank it.
Okay, well I get what you mean.
I just want to fact check if you found camels.
I think it's fat that's stored in their humps, honey.
Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
I don't think it's water.
The myth is it's water, but it's not water, it's fat.
But I'm sure they do preserve water very well.
So you cameled up.
Okay, we cameled up, yeah.
And then we also filled our pot with water.
Okay.
Yeah, it kinda worked.
That's something we would fight about.
I'd be like, you're drinking too much water.
I just looked it up and I was right.
A, I just confirmed it's fat in the camel's humps. Okay. So you're the one like me always on the phone and yeah, and I'm getting trouble
Can I run to the bathroom? Yeah, go for it. You can explain how you get to the water. Yeah
Okay, just don't dig a hole in there. That's like really nice flooring
hole in there that's like really nice flooring. Hey Renee's laughing she thinks I'm funny. I'm literally as I'm talking I'm realizing I'm turning into my dad.
You are. Why are you just so wrong? I'm literally my dad it's freaking me out. Okay filled up your
pods. Oh my gosh. Yep so then yeah we took off walking and we actually found like a plastic water bottle, like I
don't know, 10 or 15 miles later, we found like a half full plastic water bottle on the
ground.
Shame on them.
But good for you.
And then we were just like, okay, let's steal this for emergency supply.
And yeah, we'll boil it or, or you know filter and boil it if we
need to use it but and then it actually the trail crossed a road and there was a
little trail register where you know you can put your name and the date that you
crossed and inside the trail register were two small Gatorades. That was
glorious. Trail magic. People do do that to be nice? Like just put little
treats in there and stuff to be nice to hikers? Yes. That's so cool. Also, oh sorry you keep talking.
I totally interrupted you. Like a couple hundred miles later we actually we met the guy who put the Gatorades in there. He was
out camping for the weekend and I don't know we got to talking and yeah it turned out he was the
one who put them there. Thank you so much we actually knew that. And he put them there the
year before and he was like oh is it getting low I should go add more. Part of me hopes that the
man that did that you guys met was my high school teacher who taught me geology
Mr. Schaus because he was the first person that introduced me to like backpacking and
doing like the Appalachian Trail because he did the Appalachian Trail when he was in college and was super passionate about
geology and rocks and
Somehow got me to be very passionate about like geology and rocks at the time
but
Because I had never
like when when I was watching your videos on TikTok, it was just bringing back all these
memories of Mr. Shouse saying, yeah, we would get our meals shipped to us at the post office
and go pick them up. And we'd be so hungry out there on the trail because you know, you
don't have the most food. And so anyway, I hope I hope the person that did that for you
as a shouts was a 60 year old man that like was super happy with yeah thinning hair
Yeah, so let's go with it. Okay him. He was probably something like that age-wise and he was super happy and we only know his
Trail name. He was mosey
Trail name. Yeah, you get nicknames on these trails. You call them trail names. Well, we're cool
We've had a few on the Pacific Crest Trail. I was
Sausage and Renee was Blue Man.
Blue Man?
Yeah, yeah, I um
Halfway through the trail I decided to buzz off all my hair. Um
Just cuz I was sick of it. You buzzed off all your hair? Yeah, yeah. So I had like a buzz cut.
And then I had like my base layer was bright blue.
So everyone said I looked like I was in the Blue Man group.
But the base layer like.
You're like, thank you.
You basically never, she didn't hike in that,
except for this one day it for some reason you hiked
in that.
I was only wearing this bright blue outfit.
Wow, I'm just amazed you just got sick of your hair and buzzed it off.
But I guess when you're in the wilderness, you're like, what is this serving for me?
The freedom out there, it's again, why not buzz off your hair and why not just do what
you want? It's so weird.
Yeah, I mean like most people out on these long through hags
don't shave their legs.
I didn't shave my legs, my armpits, anything.
Like, just like a...
I love that for you.
That is so wild and free.
That's amazing.
Tim, what's your take on that?
Like, do you like the hairy legs?
Do you like the shaved legs? Do you like the shaved legs?
You have no preference. Yeah, I prefer
shaved legs and shaved armpits and nice hair.
He's like, are you walking me into a trap right now?
No, but I mean I like Renee when she's just having fun
and if we are free and you know if we're doing it when we're 15 days since showering like is it such a big deal if she has hairy legs?
That's incredible. I had a question. Oh, I was just what how heavy are your backpacks? I'm sure they get lighter as you hike
But like how what are we starting off at? It's a hard question
So Like how, what are we starting off at? It's a hard question. So backpackers measure things by base weight,
which is kind of a silly weight,
but it's like if you took out the water
and took out the food, how much does the stuff weigh?
And for that, we're both under 10 pounds of stuff.
And so if we're finishing a stretch coming into town,
10 pounds, that's the easiest number to answer.
And then when we're out,
if we have a 20 mile stretch of water without water,
we have an extra 10 pounds of water.
So it's like on the lower end, 10 pounds,
on the higher end, 25, 30 pounds, worst case.
Yeah, depending on how much, you know,
if we're just leaving town and we have seven days to walk,
so we need all that food. And then if there's a lot of water.
And you're so petite, that's a lot of weight for you to carry around.
Yes.
That's like my toddler just piggybacking on us the whole way.
Yeah.
That's impressive.
Yeah and I've thought about this.
I do try to carry more weight than Renee, but not by much.
Like if you do the ratio of body weight to pack weight,
you're losing, you're carrying way more
if you think of it that way.
Because I weigh substantially more than you
and my pack is a little heavier.
And you're burning a ton of calories.
You said this in one of your posts
that you cannot eat enough to match what you're burning.
So, and you were eating like 4 4500 calories a day? I think
in the video it was 3500. 3500 calories a day. Yeah. So you're burning a lot. And those come from
real like those days that we've made a couple of videos about that we've really measured like every
actual calorie and yeah it was 35 to 4000. Yeah I think what do they say about the thru-hikers?
At the end of a long trail,
the women kinda look like goddesses.
They're super muscular and thin,
but the men look like they're dying.
There's nothing left.
I don't know why, but.
Maybe that.
Well, because I think women build muscle
that they don't usually have.
And the men lose fat that they do usually have
and lose muscle.
And yeah, something about the difference in male
versus female bodies.
The men just look scrawny and the women have these huge calves
and look really strong.
That's amazing.
Do you find yourself happiest when you're out on the trail?
By far.
Yes. Yeah. And why do you think that is? Do you find yourself happiest when you're out on the trail? By far.
Yes.
Yeah.
And why do you think that is?
I think your mind is just so free and life is so simple.
You're just, you know, you're really just thinking about food, water, walking, and you
don't have your cell phone, so you're not worried about that.
You're not really worried about what other people are thinking of you.
Not worrying about your status in the world. You're just worried about
walking. That sounds amazing. Maybe that's how humans are meant to be honestly.
There's this other component of it, I think which is the simplicity of it. So it sounds super hard to be
hiking 20 to 30 miles a day, but you get used to it physically, but you still feel
accomplished when you do it.
Like you can't hike 25 miles without feeling like you did something.
And so it's not, Oh, I have a work deadline.
That's going to take me a month and every day chip away a little, but it's always like,
I did 25 miles today.
I've accomplished what I set out to do. It was this small pint-sized piece of a whole trail,
but like I did that pint-sized piece,
so I always go to sleep with this nice sense
of accomplishment, like I succeeded at what I set out to do.
In normal life, it can take longer than a day to do a task,
but on the trail, we have it just divided into daily chunks. That's awesome.
And like when you're traveling or hiking and it's just the two of you for long periods of time,
do you find it difficult to go back into like a group setting? Is it kind of like strange?
Yeah, yep. I feel like going back into the real world it's very loud. Everything is very loud.
And fast.
And fast.
We really slow down.
Like we talk slower out there.
You think slower out there.
Cause you're just not used to the,
you know, the TikTok speed of things.
Are people like in your family ever like,
you seem like a different person.
When you come back from a massive hiking trip,
are they like, something's changed or you're acting weird.
Like has it ever been a thing that people have said?
They've said our smiles are bigger.
Really?
On our first long hike, the Pacific Crest Trail.
We weren't filming any of that.
That was just us doing our own thing.
But we Skyped with our fans.
Yeah, it was 2018. We were Skyping. But we Skyped with our fans, yeah, it was 2018,
we were Skyping.
But we Skyped, we sent pictures back,
and like consistently, my side of the family
and Renee's side of the family, everybody was saying,
we've never seen your smile so big.
That's sweet, there has to be such an immense
sense of accomplishment after, even just like our like,
if we've done like a seven hour hike,
I'm like, we did that, and then I want to eat a bunch of food. To someone who
doesn't know what the Pacific Crest Trail is or the Continental Divide Trail
you guys have done a lot of these like massive trips could you like give a
really brief like super fast breakdown of like what each of those big ones is
exactly? Yeah so the Pacific Crest Trail is through the desert and mountains of California, Oregon,
Washington.
Okay.
From the Mexican border to the Canadian border.
And that one is how many miles?
2,650.
Wow.
And the Continental Divide is also from the Mexican border to the Canadian border, but
that one's 3,100 miles?
Yes.
Okay.
And that one follows the Rocky Mountains.
It follows the Continental Divide up the Rocky Mountains.
Gotcha.
Okay, so one's like, sorry, one's like California and then the other one's more like the Colorado,
like further east than the Pacific Crest.
Okay, cool.
And then the third really big one we've done is the Pacific Northwest Circuit, which was
up by Washington in Washington
near Seattle we started on the western tip of the Olympic Peninsula hiked along
the US-Canadian border to Glacier National Park in Montana then we went up
into British Columbia where the Columbia River starts and can do that back out to
the ocean and how how long is that one, how long did it take for all three of those?
Each of those was
four-ish months. About four months.
Yeah. Four months.
Some a little more, some a little less.
Maybe four and a half months to three and a half months.
Yeah. Got you.
But the Continental Divide was by far
the longest one you guys ever did?
Longest in terms of distance,
but I think we were faster than when we
hiked the Pacific Coast Trail by like a week. Wow okay. We got better yeah we
definitely were you know the first one you're learning what you're doing and
the second one we were pretty good and by the third one we were really good at
this you get more efficient you get used to it. Yeah and you're always just
learning new tricks from other people and yeah. You don't really have downtime because I was like
it'd be so nice just read a book in the middle of nowhere but like a book is
heavy. Yeah we don't really carry that. Yeah. And we also just are always
walking. Oftentimes we often we're saying like we should do a mountain break or a
mountain zero would be the term for it
Let's spend one day in the same spot without walking and we've never done that on these trips
It's always like we gotta keep moving. So yeah zeros a couple of times
We've had to like stop in a town and
Spend a day doing shopping or laundry or whatever.
Like you spend some time not hiking but never in the mountains where it would be really
fun to do that.
What is post-trek depression like?
Because I feel like you guys have opened up about that on social media.
Is it, when does that exactly hit? It's just that people who do these big things big hikes
including us it's you shift back to society and
It can be kind of sad to not have this life that we just described how much we love it
so you take something you really love and you just push it off into
The mountains a thousand miles away and you want it and you crave it.
And I think, you know, we mentioned like the goal,
you have like a goal that you're working towards every day
and you finally accomplish that whole goal
of finishing the trail and then the goal is gone.
And it's just like confusion of what am I doing?
And yeah, so it can hit, you you know pretty quick a couple weeks to a
month later and yeah it's hard to reintegrate into society. How long does
that last? I mean the until you fix it I'd say tell me if you agree Renee but
I'd say that the first time we did a big hike, we had some degree of that post trail blues
or post trail depression for like three years
until we did our next huge one.
And it was just like this emptiness of,
I just wanna be out there on the trail.
It's not like we were depressed for three years,
but felt a little bit incomplete.
I wouldn't say it's so much of an issue now. Now we've
gone back and forth and back and forth and it's like well I have my life in the city,
I have my life in the woods and they both exist in parallel. It seems like you guys are very
simple people when it comes to your need. It seems like you really crave the simplicity of life.
Being out on the trail and not having to worry
about running errands or worrying about
what people think about you.
Is there a life change that you made
after starting this journey of going
on these massive hiking trips?
Did you start getting rid of things
or living more minimalistically?
Like, did you, I don't know, sell everything you owned
or something, like, was there any big life change
that occurred
after your journey of going on these trips?
Stuff became less meaningful and we didn't,
we didn't necessarily even understand it.
So, do I keep going while she's gone?
Oh yeah, you're good.
You can chat away.
Super chill.
This is the unplanned podcast, so.
Awesome.
So when we finished our first big trip,
we then moved to Germany,
and it was another big life change of,
well, we were just in the woods,
and now we live in Germany,
and we got an apartment,
and we got kind of a nice apartment,
but we didn't really wanna go buy furniture
because it felt like, what good is furniture?
So we went to a thrift store and got some $5 chairs
and our footstools were beer cases.
They have plastic beer cases over there.
Those are like the Ottomans.
And it just felt like that's all we need.
We'd never really got around to decorating or anything
because yeah, we wanted a nice apartment,
but we didn't want to buy a bunch of furniture
that what does that give you other than status?
Like the chairs were good to sit on.
So, and there was confusion.
Like that was this life change
of what is the furniture even for?
And not that we sit on the floor now,
like we've
re-acclimated to normal life we actually just bought a nice set of
living room furniture for our for our current house okay
which was a big step um instead of beer can
or beer beer cases but yeah but yeah that that was like coming off
the trail and trying to understand those two sides of
life has not always been easy.
What do you think is silly about what I guess some people choose to spend their time doing?
I think hearing you say, yeah, we just got some beer cases and use them as a stool and
had our chairs from the thrift store.
Recognizing all that.
What are things that you think are just dumb?
I'm guessing you probably think keeping up with the Joneses
is the stupidest thing ever.
Something, going through this experience,
is I've realized for me what is luxury
and connects to keeping up with the Joneses.
If the Joneses have a nicer car, then you get a nicer car,
but now you don't like the Joneses,
you like the Smiths because their car is even nicer.
So do them.
And like luxury is kind of nice
as long as it feels like luxury.
And if something becomes the norm,
then no longer does it feel special.
And making sure that those things that feel like a treat
are a temporary treat. And it's not depriving myself
but it's just I enjoy something more if it doesn't become the norm. And here's an example.
We love coffee. I just love coffee. We don't have a nice espresso maker.
It's not because I don't want a nice espresso maker or that an espresso maker is more money
than we could afford,
but it's that if I woke up and had a fancy oat latte
every morning,
then when I go to the coffee shop and get a fancy oat latte,
it would be less of an experience.
And so that's like one way to, for me,
to make sure that I'm enjoying these luxuries
or treats a little more is by making sure
that it's not what I get used to
and that I need more and more and more of it.
I think you're right about this comparison mindset
being so dangerous because it really doesn't ever end.
Like it doesn't matter how much stuff you acquire,
you're always gonna wanna get more.
It's like a never ending game.
And I feel like even the wealthiest person on this planet with all the wealth he's accumulated over the years, I'm sure there's still this desire for him to have more. So it like it there's literally no end to it. Something I want to try this, this could be really dumb, or this could be really cool. But I saw this on a podcast, I want to try this actually with all of you guys. So if you look around the room right now Pay attention to everything you see that's brown
So like try to count if you like look around the room and try to count everything that you see is brown
Just take like a couple seconds. Don't overthink it but like look for everything that's brown
Try to see how many things you can count that are brown
Okay now that we're done how many things that did you see that were green? Without looking?
Come on, that's not fair.
I was looking for brown.
I can't tell you.
None.
You can't tell?
Why can't you tell me?
Because I was looking for brown.
Right.
So you see whatever you're looking for.
Yeah.
So like if you're looking to always keep up with the Joneses, you're going to fall into
that trap.
If you're always looking for the positive or the negative in life, you're going to see more of the thing you're looking for.
And that, like when I saw that podcast clip, I was like, bro, like that just like shook me to my
core. Yeah. Wow. Did that work on you guys? I didn't know how many things were green. It worked
on me when I saw the podcast clip. So I totally just like stole that. It was, uh, I think Tony
Robin, Tony Robbins was with Theo Von and they were having a conversation anyway, no
Yeah, and then you asked the question like I knew there's one green thing cuz I could see it as
You started looking for it once I asked you started looking for I counted eight brown things just for the record that was
See I'm still fixated on your question
and we've moved on.
Yeah, well, I'm so genuinely excited
to take a look at your book, you guys,
because you guys have such an amazing life
and journey and story.
And I think we can all learn a lot from you guys,
especially just your mindset.
And it was really cool hearing you guys say
that your family said you were so happy FaceTiming them oning them. The fact that you guys are both so into something that
like I feel like it there's obviously you have found a community of other
hikers but to this degree I feel like that's a small pool has to be a small
pool of people and you guys are married and you're both so into it and you kind
of discovered it together like that's really cool. Like you guys can journey for months at a time, the two of you, and you're buds.
I love that.
Yeah, and it's uh, there's no one I'd rather do it with and we yeah, we have so much fun out there.
So it is really, we're lucky that, um, that we're both game for it.
I love that. You found the right person.
Yeah. Where can people follow you guys on social media? Where's the best place to find you?
Through Hikers, wherever, T-H-R-U-H-I-K-E-R-S, and that's on all of the platforms. Literally TikTok,
Instagram, YouTube, are you guys on Facebook? We're on Facebook. Wow. Snapchat. Snapchat.
Okay.
All of them.
And then our website is throughhikers.co.
Quick detour.
The website is really fun.
So we mentioned earlier the trail depression after the first hike lasting three years.
One way that we kind of relived the trail was a year after that hike, we decided to
make a website where we posted our daily journals and posted recipes.
We weren't making videos then, nobody knew who we were on the internet.
It was just like, let's make this website mostly for ourselves and for the five people
who might read it in all of history.
And then that changed and then we started making videos and all of a sudden
the website is actually popular and pretty well read and folks are like we bump into
people all the time who have gone to that website to find recipes that they're dehydrating
food from our website that was not at all supposed to really be a popular website.
And that's been so rewarding that we were giving info to folks from this project from 2019 that
was mostly for us. That's awesome. How cool. That's awesome. And I love that you guys are
making content that is like putting out good energy, good vibes into the world. Because I feel like
yeah, I just think we need more of that. I think we need more of that in our society and so thank you for sharing your story and
I just know that you guys are like honestly changing lives.
Like I know there's someone out there that probably found hope in hiking that like would
have been lost without finding you guys on social media.
So thank you guys for what you're doing.
I know you guys are like making a positive impact
on the world.
Thank you.
Yeah, awesome.
We'll go follow them, check out their book.
And as always, this is where we say Peace Out Dudes.
Three, two, one.
Peace out dudes.