The Vault Unlocked - Why Most E-Commerce Brands Are Measuring the Wrong Metrics (And Paying for It)

Episode Date: September 2, 2026

Most e-commerce brands are not losing because their product is bad or their ads are off. They are losing because they are measuring the wrong things and making decisions based on data that was never d...esigned to tell the whole story. Mark Young is the founder of RYZE Agency, a PhD in functional medicine, a career educator, and one of the sharper strategic minds operating in direct-to-consumer and health and wellness e-commerce today. His five-book series, the E-Commerce Guide to the Galaxy, is built for founders who refuse to be taken advantage of by agencies again. ROAS is not a health metric. It is a signal. And the business owners who treat it as a target are handing their agencies a blueprint for smoke and mirrors. Mark Young, PhD has spent over a decade watching this play out in real time, walking into client relationships already contaminated by bad metrics, bad incentives, and the kind of blind trust that costs brands their momentum. He wrote five books on it because the problem is not a tactic problem, it's a literacy problem. In this conversation, Mark breaks down the specific metrics that actually drive e-commerce growth and explains why the ones most brands obsess over are actively working against them. Kayvon and Mark go deep on the Holy Trinity of Metrics: lifetime value, average order value, and new customer acquisition cost. They walk through how a business can rationally spend $300 to acquire a $100 customer, why blended MER matters more than account-level ROAS, how cross-channel attribution is being double-counted across Meta, Google, and email simultaneously, and how the "ready, fire, aim" wiring of most entrepreneurs is exactly what makes them vulnerable to the metrics game agencies play. They also cover AI, hiring, and the structural shift happening inside lean agencies: fewer people running more sophisticated operations, with intellectual curiosity replacing credentials as the primary hiring filter. This conversation is for founders, operators, and marketers managing e-commerce brands or working inside them. It is for people who want to understand how to read a marketing dashboard like a business owner, not a media buyer. If you are running paid ads, managing agency relationships, or trying to understand why your numbers look fine but growth feels stuck, this one will reframe how you see the whole game. Topics covered include e-commerce marketing strategy, return on ad spend, customer acquisition cost, new customer acquisition cost, direct-to-consumer marketing, lifetime value optimization, average order value, media efficiency ratio, cross-channel attribution, marketing analytics, agency accountability, e-commerce brand building, AI in marketing operations, digital marketing metrics, and health and wellness brand growth. Questions Answered: Why is ROAS a bad metric for most e-commerce brands? What is the Holy Trinity of Metrics for e-commerce growth? What is the difference between CAC, NCAC, and CPA? How do you calculate how much to spend acquiring a new customer? What is blended MER and why does it matter more than account-level ROAS? How do agencies use metrics to hide underperformance? How does cross-channel attribution work, and why is double-counting so common? When is it rational to lose money on the first sale? How is AI changing the structure of lean marketing agencies? What should founders look for when evaluating an agency relationship?   Looking to dive deeper into these conversations and connect with our host and guest? Follow Mark Young:  Instagram Facebook LinkedIn Website Shop Mark's Books Ryze Agency Follow Kayvon: Instagram Facebook LinkedIn TikTok   Want to go deeper with Kayvon? Subscribe to the newsletter Book a discovery call Get your Revenue Engine Scorecard™️ Hire the right salespeople  

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Most e-commerce brands are measuring the wrong things. They're tracking ROAs like it's a health metric. It's not. It's a signal. And if you're building a business off a signal, you're flying blind. My guest today spent 12 years in the trenches of digital marketing, built an agency that works predominantly in health and wellness, earned a PhD in functional medicine,
Starting point is 00:00:23 and then wrote a five-book series to make sure e-commerce founders never get burned by the wrong agency again. He's got a framework he calls the Holy Trinity of Metrics. And by the time this episode is done, you're going to look at your ad spend completely differently. Mark Young is the kind of operator
Starting point is 00:00:43 who hands you the playbook before you even ask for it. This is the vault. Let's unlock it. Mark, we're live here. Welcome to the show. I appreciate that. I appreciate the invite, buddy.
Starting point is 00:01:07 Yeah, I think anyone that's listening right now, we are going to be deep diving into, I would say, all things, e-commerce. So if you have an e-commerce brand, if you're an e-commerce business, this is going to be the episode for you. I know, Mark, we were just talking before the show and you said that you came out with this new book called e-commerce Guide to the Galaxy. Is that correct?
Starting point is 00:01:27 Yeah, it's actually five books, Kavon, because I actually started writing it as one book. And literally, I was like, okay, this is like a 600-page book. No one's going to read that. So I ended up breaking it up and doing this stuff. So it's like it's actually a five book series. And really it's about e-commerce, but here's my angle. I'm an agency owner. Like I'm just going to sell out and tell you.
Starting point is 00:01:49 I own an agency that deals with e-commerce brands by and large. But one of the things that if I can say pisses me off is that every single time I'm talking to a potential new client, I end up having to drudge through the baggage of what they've been through already. And, you know, it's like I end up having to take them through triage and then through the ER before I can even get them into the hospital. And a lot of that is their misunderstanding of the metrics that move their business. And the agency did something and they thought it was wrong. And sometimes I'm like, no, actually, what they did was right. I'm sorry you don't like it, but the agency wasn't wrong.
Starting point is 00:02:33 And sometimes it's the agency just started using smoke and mirrors to make it look like they were performing and they weren't. And here's the reality. Business owners, this is my thesis. I'll wrap it up here. My thesis is the business owners get into businesses because they're really, really good at people. And as my friend Ben Hardy says, this is a who not how situation. Right. So when it comes to marketing, find your who.
Starting point is 00:02:58 Yeah. The problem is that business owners, they don't know how to do. the marketing. And if they did, they wouldn't be running their business. They'd be running marketing companies. And my entire goal in all of this was, I want to write a book that literally becomes, this is your travel guide, never be taken advantage of by an agency again. And at the same time, this is my, if you're going to work with me, you need to understand all of these terms and all of these strategies because now nothing I tell you is going to be a surprise. Like, I'm literally handing you the playbook.
Starting point is 00:03:36 You want to run it by yourself, great. It costs you $12.95. You want me to run the playbook for you. Cool. You know in advance what you're getting. Yeah, I love it. I can tell you're the passion and the, the same thing that I deal with is just there's good agencies, there's bad agencies, and there's good business operators and there's bad business operators.
Starting point is 00:04:00 And when you may have them all mixed in, good things come out, bad things. come out, ugly things come out. It's a nightmare. So I can understand the pain. I'm going to call it the pain you've probably gone through from like just discovering what was not working or what was working, but it wasn't working because of X, Y, Z. And we're going to get in all of that. So let me, before we go into the power of the books and the power of what you do, I think it's going to be a service to tell us a little bit of how you got here. Like what, what's the background, what's behind the vault that got you to where you are today to have the power to be able to bring e-commerce to another level for a business?
Starting point is 00:04:42 So I'm a bit of an unusual animal as I think most entrepreneurs are. And I always say I love, love working with entrepreneurs. They're all crazy. Like they're absolutely all crazy. And as much as I prefer sanity in my life, I also love a little crazy. I even live downtown because as much as I complain about it every morning and I drive to the office, I still choose to live downtown for Lauderdale because it's crazy, it's busy, it's traffic, it's all that. So I do love it.
Starting point is 00:05:13 And entrepreneurs are my passion. And I'll say entrepreneurship is my passion. Like they're all nuts. You know this. You work with this audience too, right? Yeah. And they all get defensive and then they all kind of chuckle and go, yeah, I guess we are. Like it's just kind of the way that goes.
Starting point is 00:05:30 So I've been in an entrepreneurial family, and I laughingly say that entrepreneurship is kind of like a nationality. Like you're just born into it. You can do nothing about it. And once you get the bug, you're just, you're part of the, part of the machine. My father actually ran an advertising and marketing agency. He's owned his for 30 years. I swore I would never be part of the family business. That is not what I wanted.
Starting point is 00:05:53 I went to college a lot and ended up. I mean, a college professor worked in education, ran private colleges for ages. And what's really funny is I worked in private and public education. I loved private education more than anything. And part of the reason was because it was entrepreneurial. It was very granular in the way we ran the business. It was education. So I got the philanthropic high from actually helping students and seeing outputs and people
Starting point is 00:06:22 that had nothing go to people who had established careers. Like that was exciting to me. but I loved the grid of the entrepreneurship. How do we hit enrollment goals the next start? Like all this kind of stuff. Well, I ended up getting out of that. And what's funny is I did end up going and working with my dad for a little bit after I got out of education because I was like,
Starting point is 00:06:42 I don't know what I want to do when I grow up. And that's a weird question to ask yourself when you're 39 years old. Yep, yeah. And my dad's like, well, look, I need some help right now. We're working with some giant clients right now. and one of them happened to be in health and wellness space. And I'm like, well, I'm not doing anything. Like, I'm just, you know, sitting on the beach in Florida.
Starting point is 00:07:05 So sure, I'll come back to Michigan for a little while. Didn't take me very long to decide several things. One, I didn't want to work for my father. Two, I didn't want to live in Michigan. And three, I not only fell in love with the marketing side of the business, which I had grown up around, but I also fell in love with the health and wellness side of the business. business. And I have subsequently come to the point that I even went back to school and earned a PhD in functional medicine. And what I find is entrepreneurs and longevity are probably the most
Starting point is 00:07:41 overlapping Venn diagram I've laid eyes on in a really long time. Yeah. It's huge because partially, we're all crazy. We love experimentation. We understand the value of time. So sickness is not about health. sickness is about time lost. And I'll overlap that to say that we all love looking at dashboards and figuring out how to make them better. And that's all longevity is about. Whether I'm logging into an aura ring stats in the morning or I'm looking at my labs, it's no different than me looking at a digital marketing dashboard and going, okay, if I make this one change, I can do this. Like, how do I get my HRV to move? Like, it's the same thing. It's gamified. It's, it's gamified. And I think entrepreneurs love gamified things.
Starting point is 00:08:31 I get it. I love it. So, and now you, as a result of working with your father and then moving over, you really got into what it sounds like is the online game, the e-commerce game, and working with big brands. And specifically in health and wellness, or have you kind of expanded? I would say that's probably 75% of our, of our clientele falls in health and wellness, It's, you know, CPG, direct-to-consumer marketing.
Starting point is 00:08:57 Not everything we do is e-commerce, but everything we do is online. So we do online support. As a matter of fact, just before this, I was working on an analysis for a international brand rebuilding their U.S. market, but it's not direct-to-consumer at all. So it's not necessarily direct-to-consumer, but it is very much e-commerce in so much as it's online marketing. So, yeah, we dabble in other things. Like, we certainly have expertise in other things.
Starting point is 00:09:24 And where I thought you were going with that was that for me, I focus in the digital world. My father's agency actually is the exact opposite. Like, it is such a compliment to what we do. Their television, their radio, their brick and mortar. Like, they're the people who have all the buying relationships with Walmart and Target and so on. So it kind of is somewhat organically turned into this step one, step two, where what we're finding is sometimes he'll get leads that come into his agency and he's like, you're not, you're not ready to go national TV. Like, we need to get all your other stuff under control. Let me make an intro.
Starting point is 00:10:03 And then we nurture them and then pass them back. Sometimes we're working with clients that expand to the point that they're ready to go national. They're ready to go into retail. They're ready now. They've hit that maturity in their business life cycle. So it's a great partnership. and what's been fun about it 12 years later, because it's been that long, which is crazy to imagine. But 12 years later, like we're back together working hand in hand,
Starting point is 00:10:30 but working as partners, not as subordinates. And it's a fun handshake. So for anybody who listens to your podcast, who works in the family business, I have to tell you it actually can work. I love it. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:10:45 Well, it seems like you guys are running too adjacent, like kind of business. but in parallel with each other to support each other a one man. So you have your economy. You're not underneath your dad or your. 100%. Well, and I got to tell you, like for a lot of people out there,
Starting point is 00:10:58 and I'll speak to the children of entrepreneurs. And I will say that if mom or dad was successful in that world, there is a shadow that is always cast. And again, I say this at 51 years old, but even at 39, 40, 40, 41 years old. old. It was like, sorry, you got a 20-year head start on me. So you're, of course, going to be more accomplished than I am in that respect. But at the same time, there is an element of I believe, and I'm speaking from, you know, n equals one, that there's a need to make sure that you're able
Starting point is 00:11:36 to prove your own muster on your own. And as an example, like even in this partnership that we're working on between the Rise Agency and Jekyll and Hyde is Even his team, like all of a sudden the boss's kid is back around, you know, and it's like there's a natural bent for people to, you know, to assume nepotism. And, you know, and the laugh for me and it's like, great, let's just pull out your resume, pull out mine. I have absolutely no problems with that. The funny thing is, I'm, I mean, I'm a capitalist. So like when I hear about nepotism, yeah, like I have no, I have no problem with nepotism. Because you're the business owner.
Starting point is 00:12:21 You started the thing. You started it for legacy for your family to work into. Like it to me, it just doesn't make sense. It's hopefully, right, it's when it comes challenging is if the, the child or the young one is not good and they're in the seat
Starting point is 00:12:39 and they're destroying the company, that's, you know, that's a different story. But if they're pulling their weight, I mean, why not? Why would you hire outside when you can hire within someone you know?
Starting point is 00:12:50 Well, yeah, because there's there's a trust factor that's somewhat just inherent in that. And there is a legacy, as you said. But I think that even goes one layer deeper to that. That is, they're my chips. I can bet on whatever number I want. Well, that's the thing, right? But I guess, you know, as an entrepreneur and an owner, I mean, I see that. I always think you have options in life, right?
Starting point is 00:13:12 So if you walk in, like, I'm in a business right now with mass nepotism. and I know what I'm dealing with. You know, I don't complain about it. I, there's not, you can't complain about it. You either deal with it or you move on, right? So one of my clients. Do you know Dan Sullivan? I know Dan Sullivan.
Starting point is 00:13:29 I know Dan's a good friend, strategic coach, the whole deal. And Dan has a philosophy called guesses and bets. Sorry. Guesses and bets. Oh, guesses and bets. Yeah. And his philosophy is that throughout your life, you've just made a lot of guesses. And all of those guesses,
Starting point is 00:13:46 had some kind of bet that you put on them. And then however it turned out, you learned from it, you guessed the next time. But every guess you take has chips on the table. And I think in this particular one with entrepreneurial families, it's like, yeah, is your kid the most qualified person to create legacy? Maybe. But that's up to the business owner to take that guess and take that bet. And if the business owner loses everything because the kid was the wrong person to run the company, it's his money.
Starting point is 00:14:23 That's exactly. Like you said, it's his chips. So let's circle back. So let's circle back to the series, the book series, because I think is very interesting. Sounds like you're giving away the keys, aka giving some stuff behind the vault in these book series. Where did you get to the idea of this or where was it that you decided, hey, hey, I need to get this information out there and or I want to protect because I think it came from a place of also protection for younger startup businesses, not working with the wrong agencies and or going down the wrong rabbit holes. Yeah. Well, I'll tell you, as is most things in my life, they all come from moments of frustration. And the frustration was twofold. Mostly it was because I was sitting on the telephone on Zoom calls all day long, as I'm sure you are too. And it's like I spend my life on.
Starting point is 00:15:16 Zoom, but 45 out of every 60-minute meeting is spent having to fix a client or a would-be client's worldview mindset, whatever work you want to assign there. And I'll give you a very tangible example. I had a client once upon a dream correction, once upon a nightmare, who said on a call, 1.7 row S. That is the number. If you can't achieve 1.7 row S on every month, we're done. And I'm like, well, that's a really interesting first 30 days conversation that, okay. And of course, I'm an educator. Remember that.
Starting point is 00:15:57 And I'm like, but that's a terrible metric. And she's like, no, I said 1.7. I'm like, but that's a terrible metric. And of course, and I'm trying to be kind about it because I don't like necessarily calling people's babies uglies or calling people stupid. But I'm like, let me explain how ROAS works. It's like this is a trailing metric, but you're measuring ROAS at the account level, which means you're not measuring campaign level ROAS or ad set level ROAS or anything.
Starting point is 00:16:28 And you're not at all measuring blended MER, which means each of your channels that you're using for marketing don't behave the same way, but they do behave together. and trying to explain this that I need a 1.7. And I said to her, I'm like, look, here's what I'm going to tell you. I'm looking to your data, the way your last agency always got you 1.7 ROAS was that the remarketing that they are putting, your budget is all in remarketing campaigns. So making your demand hurt you because they're acquiring hardly any new customers. and the only reason they're not acquiring new customers is because you told them they have to hit a metric. So they went to the easier sales. It's always easier to sell to somebody again than it is to sell to somebody the first time.
Starting point is 00:17:23 And you've set that standard for them. I'm like, I can manipulate all of your data to get you to a 1.7. I said, I would never do that, but I want to teach you how that shouldn't happen to begin with. And it really had me unpacking something that I call me. my holy trinity of metrics. And I'm like, Roas to me, it's a false metric,
Starting point is 00:17:44 it's a terrible metric, it is a trailing metric. Interesting. I hate it. I hate the, I come from a world where all people look at as Roas on the market.
Starting point is 00:17:54 You're correct. That is most people in the world. And I will, I will debunk that for you right now. Let's, now we got, I told you at the beginning, we're going to get somewhere.
Starting point is 00:18:03 You're going rounds here. We got it. Let, for those of you that have been living your business off of Roas. Let's go. Now, you, I want to, I want to just for me to calm my brain down. We're talking Roas, you said at the account level, but we can be talking about Roaz at the, you know, campaign level and or product level. So Roaz to me is a signal. It's not a health metric. So if, if, I mean, and again, I also have a medical background. So I'm going to make some,
Starting point is 00:18:37 some health metaphors and analogies here because that's the way my life moves. Roeast to me is you came into the doctor's office with a fever. A fever is not a diagnosis. It's a signal. The only reason you went there is because there was a signal that told you to look deeper into something else. Roe S is a symptom. So you've got, I agree. Okay. You have some ads, for instance, that are getting very few sales. Roe S is telling you that's the return on ads. spend that you spent $500 in this ad, this ad set, this campaign, whatever you want to call it, you spent 500 bucks, you've only gotten 200 bucks back. Here's the problem. In some business models, to spend $500 and get $200 back, that's okay. Well, now, yes, I agree. You can actually lose money
Starting point is 00:19:26 to get a customer if you have that. And actually, a lot of companies do that because if you're on a subscription base or whatever it might be, yeah, correct? Should we unpack that or does that make sense? I would love to unpack that and you are correct. And part of that is based on RoAS targets being correct because there is lifetime value to consider. But outside of lifetime value, what I always talk about is that's a downstream metric. Because by the time RoAS takes place, it's a trailing metric. It is kind of like looking at last month's financial statements. And I can look at last month's financial statements.
Starting point is 00:20:03 But if they don't teach me what to do with next month, it's just a history. history book. And I have no interest in doing my business in history. I need to be looking out the windshield, not the rearview mirror. There are three things that I can pay attention to. And the three things that I always refer to as my holy trinity of metrics is my lifetime value, as we just discussed, what are the actions I can take to make somebody purchase from me one more time? Because, and I'll use an example of a company called proactive. You're familiar with them, I'm sure. The skin, yeah. Proactive spends over $300 for every new customer acquisition.
Starting point is 00:20:42 Well, if you're familiar with the brand, the whole product kid only sells for $100 and some odd dollars. Why would a company do that? Well, two reasons. One, they're very cash positive, which means they can afford to take a loss on a customer acquisition. And they also know that the average person who gets onto their subscription or repurchase, as you said, that person stays around for six to seven months. So if I spend $300 to get a customer, but I get $150 out of the customer every month for six months,
Starting point is 00:21:11 spending $300 just got me $900 in lifetime value. And a three to one customer acquisition cost to lifetime value ratio is perfect. That's a textbook. I call that the scale button. 100%. Push it until it until it starts to slide. But that's not a, that's a business decision, which I always make a distinction. You and I understand business decisions.
Starting point is 00:21:36 not every company can make that cash flow decision. So it's interesting you said that because I think there's two decisions there, right? A, the cash flow meaning can you have the cash flow to support it? Because it takes, I'm going to say two, three months to get that. You're running negative. You're running negative. But then there's also the entrepreneur mindset challenge, the business owner who doesn't, like, they get it, but they don't get it.
Starting point is 00:22:05 Like they, they, they, when it comes to like, and you can show them the money, you could literally show them the on paper, but their brains just won't add up one plus one equal two because all they're seeing is, well, it costs me $300, but I only make $100. No, I'm negative. That's not how you run a business. How do you get around that mindset? Like, how do you actually train somebody and or get people to realize what has actually happened? Because as a smaller business, it could be scary. You are putting, you said, we're making guests. or putting chips on the table, putting a lot of chips on the table.
Starting point is 00:22:40 You're exactly right. And then that literally becomes what I call a waterfall analysis. And that is, in this month, I'm dumping all the money in and I'm going to be negative cash flow. But if I only have $15,000 in the bank, I can only buy $15,000 worth of leads because that $15,000 is only going to give me $7,500 back using that proactive model as an example. I only put $7,500 back on. How am I going to get the $15,000 for next month's lead generation? And it really becomes a game of cash at that point because a lot of businesses can't support scale because of their cash position.
Starting point is 00:23:22 And that's just an undercapitalized thing. Now, for a lot of businesses, they don't have the long-term takeaway. They don't have the long-term picture. And part of that is because I'm going to tell you most business owners and entrepreneurs that I know, and maybe your audience can prove me wrong, look at the bank balance more often than they look at a financial statement. Yeah. And because of that, like, I am the entrepreneur who looks at the bank account every morning. I don't know what I'm trying to accomplish by looking at the bank account every morning. But every single entrepreneur I know knows exactly how much money is in the bank today.
Starting point is 00:24:02 But if you asked them what their contribution margin was last month, most of them would have to go ask the account. Yeah. Because that's just the nature of what we do. And using the Colby scores, like most entrepreneurs tend to be like 7, 8, 9 quick starts. Like, we're ready, fire aim and all of these financial things. I was going to say, I wasn't going to let you away from that. Yeah. I go.
Starting point is 00:24:25 I'm going back. But it all matters because lifetime value is something that I can help control. I can create experiences. I can create life cycle moments like emails and SMSes and all of the things that keep my customers engaged. The second thing, I can control my average order value. How do I get a bigger cart? If $150 in cart value for a $300 acquisition is too painful on my cash, great. Let's talk about how we get a bigger cart.
Starting point is 00:24:58 Maybe I can get my $150 to a $2. $200 cart, and then my payback window is only, you know, 70 days or whatever instead of 90. The third metric, and this is my holy trinity, is acquisition cost. Because while one mindset is increased the size of the cart, is that the other one needs, we're talking cack? CAC, exactly. Yeah. And I'm talking NCAC specifically because we're talking new customer acquisition cost.
Starting point is 00:25:26 This is the cost of a new customer, not just acquisition of a transaction. And that's also where this 1.7 row as is a problem. Yeah, yeah, okay, hold on here. We just divided that up for a second. So there's KAC and then there's NAC, you said? So KAC is customer acquisition cost, which should refer specifically to the acquisition cost for a first-time buyer.
Starting point is 00:25:52 The problem is that many businesses actually don't necessarily call that KAC, They call that like CPL or CPA, which is cost per acquisition or cost per lead. Yeah. The cost per acquisition technically is referring, and this is where all these acronyms start to screw people up if you're not an industry expert, cost per acquisition is literally the cost for the sale, not the cost for the customer. Yeah. So I may have spent $170 or $150 just to get a customer to buy a second time.
Starting point is 00:26:29 because all of it was in the remarketing funnel. Well, that's a cost per acquisition, but if that's a customer who already bought from me before, I shouldn't be paying such a heavy penalty to bring them back on. My marketing cost for a second purchase should be significantly lower than marketing costs for a first-time acquisition,
Starting point is 00:26:52 which is why I need to be looking at that lifetime value metric. What are you doing to off-channel keep that relationship. Which goes back to, I just want to make sure if people are paying attention here, goes back to ROAS, which is I can get a ROAS when I'm looking at re-targeting my customers. Can you get the ROAS when you're bringing in new customers? Can you hit your ROAS target if it's all in new customer acquisition? And that's where I'm telling you that ROAS is a bad metric.
Starting point is 00:27:24 Because as an example, let's go back to that 1.7 crazy lady. 1.7 in that conversation is like you're fighting for a 1.7. The problem is her average order value was $150. Her lifetime value of a consumer was $1,200. So ask me, Kavon, what would you pay to acquire a $1,200 lifetime value? Because the reorder rate is so high. I mean, I don't know the exact math, but what I would be paying on $1,200, I'd be paying I can go up to six.
Starting point is 00:28:00 You can go up to seven. Well, keep in mind our three to one, cact to lifetime value ratio, three to one. For a $1, $1, $1,200 lifetime value, if cash is not a problem, I'd pay up to $400 to buy that customer. Well, that's what I'm, yeah, exactly. I'd pay up to $400.
Starting point is 00:28:16 But using her model of a $1.7 ROAS, that means that a $150 first-time order needed to be benchmarked against 1.7 row S, meaning that we could only acquire a customer for $90 or less. Which makes it so much harder. How do you acquire a $1,200 lifetime value for less than $90 in ad spend? Tell me if this, if I'm right on this, because I'm not saying I'm the expert. When I heard that, the first thing I thought was like, and making the marketer's job so much harder than it needs to be.
Starting point is 00:28:57 and leaving so many opportunities on the table. You're 100%. Like potential, like potential like whether you want to call them CPLs or even optins on the table. That's exactly right. And the issue is it's a scale issue because if you want to be mean. You can't scale like that. You're you killed, but you're scaling slow and long.
Starting point is 00:29:17 You're scaling five customers a month. Yeah, you can't. But with the kind of margins. And by the way, her margin. Oh, I don't even want to know this. The margin was the, like a 12x. So cost of goods was like
Starting point is 00:29:30 nothing. Yeah. So for that $150 average order value, the cost of goods in it was less than $10. Oh my. Wow. So those are the things. So you had the original question you asked me
Starting point is 00:29:49 was, what caused me to write a book like this? And the reality is what caused me to write this book was trying to get a level set conversation that when someone comes to me and says, but then I'm like, page 46, I want you to go to book two page 46. Yeah, it was great. If you want to understand me, go to page two or go to book two, chapter three, go read this section so that when we get to a conversation, there's a common denominator. Because you're bringing language into the conversation,
Starting point is 00:30:23 like, for instance, the difference between CAQ versus cost per acquisition. Those aren't the same metric. And yet they are used interchangeably. And I'll say two things. One, ignorantly by entrepreneurs sometimes, and I mean ignorant in a just lack of knowledge, not as a negative,
Starting point is 00:30:42 but manipulatively by agencies. Because if an agency clearly explained to you that it was a cost for a new customer acquisition, those numbers are never going to be as good as a cost per acquisition, meaning just the attributable marketing towards total sales. And then the other side of that is channel acquisition is an entirely different issue. Because first of all, not all sales are attributable to a specific channel. And maybe I saw you on meta, so I went and Googled you.
Starting point is 00:31:19 Who gets the win? Well, it is. now you just opened up another. We are opening up Pandora's box and we're staying here because it's so important because I've been in so many businesses where that becomes, especially online businesses, a higher ticket. I usually come from more of the services size,
Starting point is 00:31:40 so $5, $10, $15,000, $50,000 ticket. And the marketing is arguing with each other of where or the channels I should say. You're bad. The channels are arguing that was my lead. That was my. And I'm out of a point where I say that there's, you can't track it all. Like there's no way you can track it.
Starting point is 00:32:02 You can track, you can try to track the first point of entry. But there is no way to possibly track. What you said is I saw an ad on YouTube. I went to Google who searched you up. I got busy with the kids. I went back on Instagram. You targeted me.
Starting point is 00:32:20 I watched the VSL or I watched. watched whatever. I went and read the sales page. Then the other kid pulled my leg. And then I just went straight to the website. I was like, you know what? I'm going to go to the website. Well, it's an organic sale. Your marketing efforts did nothing. Or you don't know. Sarcastically, I'm saying. Yeah, exactly. Right. The owner looks at it and says, well, they came straight to our website. That had nothing to do with marketing. Yeah. Or social or. So I mean, I guess, yeah, you can't. You cannot tag somebody because unless they do an action, you can't. can't tag them. Well, what we find is there's more, the bigger problem that we have in cross-platform
Starting point is 00:32:58 attribution is double attribution because there's, you know, again, in your scenario, let's assume that all of that happened within a seven-day or a 30-day window. The issue is, is your example was, I saw you on YouTube. Great. YouTube counted an impression. Well, then you Google the person. Google just pixels your machine. Now, Google and YouTube are kind of the same story, but Google pixels you. You went to Instagram and got remarketed to because Google's pixel shared with meta. Meta just pixelsed you. Then you ended up getting an email because you watched the VSL. So Clavio just pixels you. Then you ended up going to the website and converting, but we just counted three pixels and all three of them claim to win. How do you deal with that? You deal with what's, I mean, and again,
Starting point is 00:33:44 I'm going to arguably say it's just the rules of engagement because some businesses count first click attribution. Who introduced us? Last click attribution. Who closed the sale? Or what we call weighted attribution, which is, let's assume, and I always say this is, I'm from hockey town. I'm from Detroit originally.
Starting point is 00:34:04 So I always look at this as we don't just count the goals. We also count the assists. Yeah. And because of that, I mean, nobody in basketball ever got an assist, right? Like, you got the, you got the, you got the, the, the, the basket. Or you didn't. Yeah. Hockey, we count the assist too. So when we're looking at attribution, it's, it's who got the goal, who got the assist, you know, who was the person that stole the base versus who actually got home, like in baseball. Like, so there's every sport measures it differently. It just depends on what are the rules of the game and what are we counting. The goal for a business is not that any one of those are better than another. The goal is to just consistently. count them month after month so that you're not looking at apples and oranges type data.
Starting point is 00:34:57 I was going to say, yeah, there's not one decision you make. You track all. And then the decision comes from what is the most important metric for that business? Correct. And in your world of a $15,000 ticket item, for instance, it's probably a very different metric than like a client this is so funny. I use this client as an example, and I love him dearly. He's literally like the world's kindest, most congenial human being, present company excluded. But he's just the nicest guy. And he sells socks that have like Bible verses and stuff on them. And it's a company called Bible socks. And it's just the funniest thing to me because they sell. And I think it's amazing and they're great quality socks and everything. But he's selling an $18 pair of socks or a $15
Starting point is 00:35:47 pair of socks, you're selling a $15,000 item. Like, it's such a difference. So the way that his business tracks, like, there is no middle funnel. Like, there is no education sequence. No one needed to go through an education sequence or a VSL before they bought a pair of socks, right? Their impulse buys. It's the convenience store crowd that, you know, I didn't buy the gum because I was searching
Starting point is 00:36:15 all over the place. I've never bought gum online. Yeah, no, yeah. It's a gas station. It's whatever. So consumer behavior on those types of things are just very different. Very different. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:36:26 So what measures them should also be very different. Absolutely. But at the end of the day, we do, I mean, in my world, they do a lot of ROAS measurement. That's a big one in ours, but cost of book call is a big one. And then I run a sales agency. So mine is more of the sales metrics, which is what we call is average appointment value, meaning how many dollars does my sales guys make on every call or every booking that lands on their calendar regardless if they show up good fit, bad fit, whatever it is, because it costs the company
Starting point is 00:37:00 $150, $200 just to get a booking. It's 100%. Back when I used to run sales teams, it was, we always used to talk about lead to appointment, appointment to show, show to interview, an interview to start. And that's the education funnel. That's a lead came in. how many of the leads that came in actually turned into the person on a telephone setting an appointment. Of the appointments that you set, how many of them actually showed up for their meeting?
Starting point is 00:37:25 Of the people that showed up, how many of them actually signed paperwork and enrolled? And of the ones that enrolled, how many of them actually started classes when the semester began? And literally looking at those five numbers, and this is a lot of what I did in my early days in education, was fly all over the country and train teams on this. because it was like, no, your lead to appointment is down. And like, we have a script problem. Like, you're not following the script on a telephone call. And nine out of ten times, I could listen to recorded calls and be like, there you go. You ended up talking about the student's dog.
Starting point is 00:38:00 Well, the student was talking about his dog because the dog was barking in the background. Then you let the prospect control the call. The conversation. Yeah, we're getting some of it. Absolutely. Yeah. And all of that training. Why did the person not show up for their appointment?
Starting point is 00:38:13 well, I can listen to the phone call and tell you why they didn't show up because you started, you used the phrase, well, when works best for you? Yeah. Or you set the appointment two days from now or three days from now or sometime next week. Like, no, here's the answer. I have an appointment available at 515 today or one at 9.30 tomorrow morning. Which one of those works better for you? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:38:40 Like, this is basic stuff. And that's exactly it. And if you understand your funnel, you understand the break points and exactly how to fix the funnel. Delievers. Totally AOV, CAC, LTV. I can move the levers. Those are all break points in my in my funnel, if you will, that will pan out in my RoAS. My RoS will change because those are my upstreams.
Starting point is 00:39:09 The Trinity, LTV, AOV, and. Kack or Kack. There you go. That's exactly right, buddy. It's my story. I'm sticking to it. And for those that want to learn more, I mean, you basically put this into a full book series. Yeah. Go take my knowledge.
Starting point is 00:39:29 Do what you got to do. So where do you see marketing and all of this, like even LTV, AOV, all these metrics, how are you seeing these going to be changing the way consumers are buying? the way AI is being obviously implemented into all of this, where we are in the world today with everything that's going on. Are we going to be tracking the same metrics in the next five, 10 years or are we going to be tracking different metrics? That's interesting.
Starting point is 00:40:00 So, yes, AI, we could go on for another hour because that's probably my next favorite topic. The reality is, as an agency, we're super heavy in AI. I would say that we are probably more advanced in AI than most companies I know because I had a meltdown about a year and a half ago. And it was it was not anything too dramatic. And most people didn't notice, but I try to keep my panic attacks behind closed doors. But watching the way AI was starting to revolutionize the marketing world pushed me into a place of having to say, do I have a business two years from now? like is my skill set even valuable?
Starting point is 00:40:41 And the truth is I think every smart person in the world is asking that exact same question cross-discipline. Like, it doesn't matter. I mean, if you're a doctor, you're asking yourself that question because AI is able to diagnose better than most physicians. So the crazy thing is the physicians don't want to believe that. That's even the crazy. That's bad because we're going to go down a rabbit hole here because I'll tell you, I'm all. I love it. But it's sad because I'll just take a whole step back for right now.
Starting point is 00:41:12 It's like the 30 step view, the 30K view of this is like everyone's saying, oh, like, you know, AI is going to take over humans. No, we're in a world right now where humans who are adopting utilizing AI, implementing AI will 1,000 percent take over the humans that are like breaks are on. What's this AI thing? I actually, my wife always puts her hand on my hand. Like, you know, when the wife tells you to shut up. quietly, on a daily basis, if we're out in public, because the first thing I'll ask,
Starting point is 00:41:42 you know, are you in AI? And when someone says, no, I don't do AI or they balk at it, like, I can't be in that conversation because I'm now in speaking to somebody in history. Like, I'm not going to be speaking to you in the future because you're not going to have a life in the future. And you don't even want to accept that. So I had a panic act, too. So a lot.
Starting point is 00:42:05 Yeah. So, so. So I had the same panic attack and the same thoughts. And I was running away. I was so scared because I wasn't, I'm not a technical founder, right? Like I'm your high D, high eye. I'm the sales guy. But when I made that commitment, wow.
Starting point is 00:42:21 I would just say, wow. It's the first time ever in history. Let me say this. And you got it. I believe we are now in the first time in history where the only limitation we have is the one we have in our mind. It's imagination. I just did a group interview yesterday for a bunch of interns.
Starting point is 00:42:42 I love this. I love this. And literally I started the meeting with, okay, I'm talking to you all like your college grads, you know, so on. And they're all just like,
Starting point is 00:42:51 mm-hmm, like super eager. They just finished school last month or whatever. And I'm just like, look, I'm like, I'm going to sell out and tell you, I'm so sorry you spent all this money on tuition.
Starting point is 00:43:01 And they're like, like, they're like, somebody was just like, You don't like college. I'm like, well, I'm going to say this. Like, I've got a bachelor's degree, four master's degrees, and two doctrines. It's not about not liking college.
Starting point is 00:43:14 Okay. I love college. Like, I'm here to tell you right now that nothing you learned is in any way comparison with what you could learn if you just have the intellectual curiosity to want to learn it. Like, I'm doing 12, 13 people's jobs on a daily basis. And one of the jobs I'm doing is building robots to do other people's jobs. And here's my philosophy here. And this is how I explained to them.
Starting point is 00:43:44 And I'm like, if you have an above average IQ and an intellectual curiosity, you can do anything you want in the world right now. There are zero limitations on what you can do other than time and imagination. Yeah. But it is a wide open field. then I intend to lead, not follow, when it gets into that space. And literally, that's our hiring criteria right now. Because the fact that I had a call with a recruiter who's recruiting a C-O-O for me right now. And that's clearly a pivotal position.
Starting point is 00:44:20 So, and she's like, I need to know everything about you, the way you think, the way you behave. Like, I need all of this. Like, what are your likes, your dislikes? What are your Colby scores? Your Myers-Briggs. And I'm like, first of all, I can be an ass. like let's be honest about that. I'm like, but here's part of my problem.
Starting point is 00:44:39 And I spell all this out. I'm like, because she's thinking, well, you need a person who's this and this and this and who's done. And I'm like, I don't need a person who's ever worked in an ad agency. I don't need a person who's got 30 years experience. I don't need a person who, who, you know, where's a suit to work every day. I don't care. I want someone who is smart and intellectually curious because there is zero limit.
Starting point is 00:45:04 to what anybody can do today. And there is just an entire culture of people who are still baffled. And they're like, oh, you're so smart. And I'm like, nope, I just know how to use the machine. I love the intellectually curious. You have to. And the key word is there is the curious. Non-negotiable.
Starting point is 00:45:28 And I with you, because an intellectually curious, smart person, guess what they will do? take over the world. Well, I was going to say, they'll figure it out. Yes. They'll research. If they don't know, they will go research deeper and harder than you and I ever will research and become experts in it in faster time than you and I will ever become experts in it.
Starting point is 00:45:50 And here's the deal. Like, you've lived your career. I guarantee the same way I have. That is, you say yes and figure it out. Yes. Every opportunity I had was something I didn't know how to do. Right? You hire me to do something.
Starting point is 00:46:03 I'm like, can you do it? Sure. Like, and as long as I figure it out before you figure me out, we're good. And by the way, you got what you paid for. Yeah. As long as I figured it out and got the job done, it's irrelevant to you if I knew how to do it when I said yes. And right now, I've lived my life that way, you know, and always figured it out, which again, praise the Lord, I just got a good brain. I'm very happy about that and I do whatever I can to keep it in good shape.
Starting point is 00:46:32 But here's the truth. That opportunity is available, not just to the super smart people nowadays. It is available to anybody with the intellectual curiosity, even people with lower IQs. But here's the point of all of that. AI is not taking away humanity. I believe that AI is giving humanity permission to be humans again. Because we have spent decades behaving like robots in the workplace. and we're actually required to be humans in the workplace now
Starting point is 00:47:07 because the only reason to have humans is because they do something a robot can't do. And too many people, particularly college graduates, because they've been trained to, I mean, people who get A's in school are not out taking over the world. I would argue to say most of your audience didn't get straight A's in school because straight A students are conformists. Yeah, I couldn't agree more. what's the big saying they say, which is really true? The straight A students work for the C&D students.
Starting point is 00:47:37 Absolutely. Because the straight A students learned how to follow a system. The C&D students learned how to survive. And the reality is that the A students aren't the people I necessarily even want. That's the rub in all of this is trying to figure out, like, I don't need the people that everybody thinks I would need. But when I say the humanity, I'll say this. And as any interview I have, I'm like, around here, everybody knows what I mean when I say 108010. And I kind of stole some of that from Mike Canning, but the 108010 logic is that, you know, I'll backtrack 10 years. 10 years ago, I came to work. My boss had done 10% of the work before I got there because the KPI was determined, the leads were generated, all of that stuff existed on my desk.
Starting point is 00:48:28 My job was to do 80% of the work throughout my eight-hour day and give the work to somebody else to review to decide if that work was appropriate or not. If it was, it got shipped. If it wasn't, I did it again tomorrow. The problem is, is I'm not hiring that 80% anymore because now I need you to understand what the 10% is. And people call that prompting. I look at it as I need to actually have a clear scope of the work I'm looking for. AI is going to do the 80%. My job picks back up at the end of the AI's work because now I need to decide if what the AI did actually make sense.
Starting point is 00:49:09 If it's applicable to the situation, what's the most appropriate way to human to human deliver it to a client? Like, I get to be more human. I get to strategize. I get to have a relationship. I get to have meetings. I get to think in marketing not about ROAS person. say, I get to think about human behavior and purchasing behavior. I get to spend my time doing the things that only humans can do like use imagination. AI is leaning on history. I get to spend my time
Starting point is 00:49:43 in the future now where AI can't be because it can't imagine. It data aggregates. I could go out of this all day. Sorry, Caitlin. I'm just going nuts here. I know. I knew we were going to. I could tell. And I love it because you just even, I just got a moment where I realized what you're saying. And it's so many, well, employees of these A students, these employees, they come in and they're working in the system. All day long, they're working in the system. And the business owner, when you're starting out of a business, you're always working in it. And you always hear, are you working on your business or in it? Yep.
Starting point is 00:50:21 Now we're living in a world where every employee can actually work. work on the business because the AI is working in the business. And now it's not just the entrepreneur working on the business, it's every employee can actually have the strategic thinking, the intellectual curiosity as the mundane work that used to take forever and waste eight hours a day is now done in 10 minutes. And here's the deal. With fewer people, but the same top line,
Starting point is 00:50:54 those fewer people can be rewarded with the same. pool of money that the larger group of people used to have to share. I couldn't agree more and I hope business owners hear that. It isn't about trying to cut the cause, make more money for yourself. It is how can you get instead of having 200 people? How do you have 20 rock stars that are working 10 different jobs using AI and being handsomely rewarded for that? Handsomely rewarded. Yeah. Well, I won't hire anybody unless they use AI. So I tell them, like, if you're, if you don't use AI, I can't, I had a developer that I brought on. And I said, are you using AI?
Starting point is 00:51:33 They're like, how do you think we've been communicating? That's great. How do I get your attention? I said, touche, you're hired. AI writes half my emails. Right. You know, does most of my research work. Like, I just, I spend my entire day.
Starting point is 00:51:48 I, this weekend, because on that guy, I fell behind. I had a bunch of travels and stuff and just, just, you know, the day to day stuff fell behind. And it's like this weekend. I'm like, that's it. Saturday, Sunday, I'm committing myself to being in the office, early morning to late night all weekend by myself. And at the end of my time, I actually, I estimated that the amount of work that I was able to complete
Starting point is 00:52:12 from non-interrupted focus time got about a month's worth of work done. And I just sat there. Like, I can't, but like my team came in on Monday morning and was like, what in the hell? because the amount of assignments and tasks and outputs and this is what I need and data dives and just because I literally like I've got not only my quad, I've got my chat GPT because I use them for different things. I've got an army of clawed bots that are autonomously doing a hundred different things and I'm literally just having 16 conversations. I mean, I laugh and say you can see
Starting point is 00:52:49 the big glass wall behind me. I'm going to get a grease pen and it's going to look like the beautiful mind. I'm going to like Russell Crowe this thing in a second. But like literally just the amount of human output and none of those things would happen if I weren't human. And it's me understanding buying behaviors. It's me understanding the creative process. It's me understanding that when AI gives me an output and says, well, on this landing page, it needs to dot, dot, dot. And I'm like, no, I'm a human and that doesn't speak to me. Like we need to do that again and again.
Starting point is 00:53:24 And it's not that I pushed a button. and a bunch of output came out. It's that AI, everyone refers to AI as a tool. And my team knows it's a hand smack, if you say tool when you're referring to AI. AI is a collaborator. A collaborator. Like, this is a collaboration. It gives me input.
Starting point is 00:53:44 I give it input back. It gives me more. I give it more. A tool is an input output. And it's like, this isn't an input output moment. This is a shared analysis and shared synthesis. and it's opinion versus opinion versus opinion until we get to a point that we both agree.
Starting point is 00:54:03 And I'm collaborating. It's like a group project where everybody's participating for the first time. And it's like, this needs to be a collaboration because you have the world's greatest collaborator with 135 IQ and a PhD and everything. Yeah, it's, like I said, we can keep going because that was the other thing too.
Starting point is 00:54:24 I was just talking to somebody. I think I actually heard it on the diary of the CEO, great podcast, by the way. And he was saying there was an expert there going, like, if you are hiring someone who's out of grad school, you might as well hire. And this is where we get to that whole, you know, AI taking over. You might as well hire an AI agent because an AI agent is as good as somebody with four or five years of experience. So now it's about how, you know, and that's the biggest issue that's happening.
Starting point is 00:54:56 is how are these kids that have no experience? How are they going to be able to get the five-year experience that they need that I'm looking for now before I hire anybody? And the way you do it, and this is why I said, don't buck, is go become an experienced AI prompt engineer. And watch how your life will change. My chief of staff, I say that I've often said that if anybody was like me when I was her age, it's her. And I don't say, because I was always intellectually curious. It didn't matter. Like I was disassembling just to see how it was built.
Starting point is 00:55:30 And it's like, she kind of has that, although I'm very extroverted and she's very introverted. But she's one of those people where it's like, I will pass a project along and she'll be like, okay. And then go about doing it. The next thing I know she's running the world from a Mac Mini. What in the world is going on? And it's like, I've got a full-time AI innovation manager who's, Like that team just spends their day developing things. Now, at our office, I'll give this away.
Starting point is 00:56:00 I'm going to be jealous if everyone else does it. Like, we're using a lot of like Claudebot type stuff. So we've got security guardrails, I'll do the other kind of stuff. But they're all on Mac minis. So one of our things that we laugh about is like every Mac Mini, we've personified all of our robots. Yeah. So every Mac Mini has a name. Every Mac Mini has a personality.
Starting point is 00:56:21 we build the personality into it. So when you get an email from a coworker, co-worker has a name, and all of the names actually have Mac in the name. Okay. So it's kind of funny because like our meta media, you know, our meta manager, his name is Connor McGregor, but he always emails with an Irish accent.
Starting point is 00:56:44 Yeah, yeah. And Angus McGuiver does Google research, and Leonard McCoy writes medical boys. logs and like just because we use this whole army. And it's like I'll say that we used to do the work, work in the business. But our business now is it's a smaller group of people at the top that are playing puppet master. Like we're just helping steer them.
Starting point is 00:57:09 They're the subject matter experts. We're reviewing their work. We're watching them work. We're pointing out anomalies that they may have missed because you know this. Like if you edit your own work, you do a tariff. terrible job. But I'm really good at editing other people's work. Yep. Yeah. I mean, I love it because this stuff used to scare me. But now I like, I spent six months just all in attitude. And everything you're saying is like, yep, yep, greed, doing that. Everything like that set up in the business
Starting point is 00:57:41 that I'm running right now. And you have to. So for those of those, for those that are still here listening, they want to learn more how they can maybe work with you. If you have an e-commerce brand. If I had an e-commerce brand, I know where I'm going. But for those that may not know where they're going or working with maybe an agency they're not so happy with, how do they find you? Yeah. So I will tell you, the easiest way to find me is through my own website, which is the markyong.com. Easiest way to find my books, everything about me, the mark young.com. Social man handles Instagram. I'm just the Mark Young. And then the only reason I have that is because I bought it before my dad did.
Starting point is 00:58:20 Because he's got the same name, so that's even more confusing. My agency's name, as I mentioned, is Rise Agency, R-Y-Z-E-Agency.com. You're welcome to take a look at it. But reach out to me. I mean, go to Mark Young. All my social handles and everything are there. Reach out. Love to talk to people.
Starting point is 00:58:37 I just love chit-chatting about this stuff. And we are actually waiting for literally this book series was supposed to launch two, three months ago. and this is going to be terrible, but we did the entire audiobook recording because we're going to be giving away free audiobooks. The audio book, I did the entire recording, the editor mailed all of the notes, and USPS lost the edits.
Starting point is 00:59:03 Oh. Yeah, damn post on us. So the audiobook edit is taking longer than expected, but here we are. Well, Mark, thanks so much for being here. appreciate the wisdom and all the knowledge that you brought. I appreciate it, buddy. Great connecting.
Starting point is 00:59:21 Thank you.

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