The Vault with Financielle - UNLOCKED: Why Debt Is Holding You Back
Episode Date: January 13, 2025Send us a text💸 Welcome to The Vault Unlocked – a special bonus series of The Vault Podcast, where we deep dive into the big money topics no one wants to talk about.In today’s episode, we’re ...diving into debt—the thing no one wants to talk about but so many of us face. Debt can feel like a quick fix, but over time, it starts to hold you back. Whether you’re in debt, working to get out, or celebrating a debt-free life, this episode is for you!Here’s what we’re exploring:Why debt feels manageable at first and why it sneaks up on youThe real cost of debt—how it impacts your career, health, and relationshipsHow to break free from the debt cycle with simple, actionable stepsThe mindset shift you need to get and stay debt-freeThis is your guide to understanding how debt holds you back and the strategies to take back control.💬 Have a topic you’d love us to unlock next? Email us at thevault@financielle.com👉 Subscribe to Financielle for honest conversations about money, and let’s rewrite your money story together.The Vault is an entertaining yet thought provoking podcast that answers our community’s dilemmas and confessions surrounding women and money.Visit https://www.financielle.com to download our app.Watch the podcast on YouTube.Follow Financielle for more:▶︎ TikTok▶︎ InstagramAbout Financielle:Financielle is a female focussed finance app helping women to take back control of their money, ditch debt, increase savings and invest in their future.Recorded and Produced by Liverpool Podcast Studios▶︎ Web ▶︎ Instagram▶︎ LinkedIn
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Welcome to the Vault Unlocked, where I take a deep dive into money topics that no one wants to talk about.
And they don't talk about this the way that we do at Financial.
So brace yourselves. We on this very fine Monday, if you're listening to it on the day it came out. We're going to lean in to debt today.
Now this is going to be for lots of different types of people so don't switch off of it and
think it's not for you. So it's for people who are in debt and happily in debt. It is for people
who want to get rid of their debt. It's for people that are debt free it's to send to people that you think have a particular view
and have never been I guess shared this angle before you know this perspective um and so you
may send this to someone else someone may have sent it to you so if they have welcome this is
a safe space this is judgment free on debt and I really really want you to understand um that this
is coming from a safe space a nice space this is not
judgmental but I'm going to be the big sister kind of calling you out on certain things so
brace yourselves. We're going to be leaning into consumer debt so we're not really talking about
mortgage and we're not really going to be talking about student loans I think there's lots that can
be said on that would love to hear your thoughts and perspectives on the different types of debt
um but we're going to be talking about consumer debt so what do we mean by that we mean
credit cards car loans um buy now pay later payday loans anything that's kind of financed
to buy something that really isn't a you know a, a true asset. So not like a house.
We're going to come at it with no shame. We live in a society that throws debt at us, doesn't it?
I mean, every single corner of a billboard, every single checkout, every single ad on social
usually has some kind of finance connected with it something that can remove the friction or the
hesitation of you thinking you want to buy something I mean consumerism has absolutely
gone mental we all know that lots of us fall victim to it no one is safe but it is being
thrown out so I find it so strange or kind of ironic that something that is literally plastered everywhere and thrown at us,
we suddenly tend to become quite secretive about. You know, people are ashamed of being in debt.
People are embarrassed. People keep it from their partners. They keep it from family. They keep it
from friends. We're probably more likely to share much more intimate things than how much debt we have. And I think that just helps to show how, yeah, worried we are as a society about our debt.
And this is where we want to create this safe space.
Because I feel like if I'm honest, I don't think people tell you like it is when it comes to debt.
But I am prepared to be that person telling you like it is because I believe it's for
your best interests I think your financial well-being will benefit from it and I think
it's ultimately how you're going to build wealth like I said and this is because facts and figures
have shown us this and you know my own personal experience now if we think about how debt makes
us feel at first it can make us feel. It can give us access to that thing
that we want without having to pay for it upfront or without having to find the money or without
having to worry that it doesn't derail our other financial goals. You know, it seems too good to
be true, doesn't it? That you could just have something immediately and not have to pay for it.
And it's only when you step back and think of it like that
that you think wow like it does feel like magic that literally I can say I would like this phone
I don't have the money for that phone and let me borrow oh look I've got the phone and I think
you can understand how children really don't really grasp that you have to save up for things
and that you can't just get everything you want from the shop because actually even as adults we are living out that dream of anything you want you can have it
whereas you know decades ago this kind of wasn't available that easy finance you used to have to
save up in advance for something and pay for it over time though that initial feeling of freedom
can really start to weigh you down like I mean mean physically weigh you down. It can really play on
your mind, it can play on your anxiety and you're kind of carrying that decision, the weight of that
decision around with you. So in this episode we're going to be looking at how debt impacts your life
even if it's manageable debt because I think that's really important to remember that it can impact
us in many ways even if we can handle it, if we can afford it um but we're also going to be looking
at strategies to break free from it and i think it's really important that if you are someone
struggling right now with that and there is a kind of a spectrum of this isn't there there's
kind of like manageable little payments here and there or let me have a little learn about what i
shouldn't shouldn't be doing and there's the other end of the spectrum which is like you might feel
like you're drowning and i think this is the point in the
whole pod that I just want to call out that you are not alone if you are someone struggling with
debt really worried about making payments worried about your family worried about your health
then please go to the wonderful debt charities that are out there you've got step change
as a minimum and you can go to citizens advice in the uk but go look for debt
charities and just pick up the phone because i promise you just sharing it with someone will
make you feel so much so much better and obviously there are people with you know regulated debt
companies that can take you on a journey and hold your hand through it and so i feel like
i still want you to listen to this pod i still want you to feel like you're not on your own but if you're really really struggling don't
suffer in silence um but like I said walk with us through the rest of this pod and there may be
things that you can do um immediately to feel better but if you're in the middle and if you
want to get rid of that debt you are in the right place and so like I said for those of you who are
debt-free huns who have like done the work or never got
into debt before please stay around and stay with us because I feel like one you'll be reminded of
what a great decision that you made to be debt-free but two it might I don't know make you watch out
for someone in your life that you think you could help or you could um help you know on their
journey become debt free so um we've kind of talked about you know people that have manageable
debt people that are really struggling our debt free people and everyone in between you are all
welcome um and i just wanted to lift up a community post actually we see quotes all the time in our
community in the app you know if you've not downloaded the financial app, please head there, download it, meet your people,
see the wins.
It really helps to bring to life, you know,
what we're doing here at Financial
is facilitating you guys just hit your money goals.
And one of those is often to become debt-free.
This post in the community says,
this community really keeps me focused
on paying off as much debt as possible.
I've turned around 25,,000 of credit card debt to a £14,000 overpayment on a mortgage in four years.
I'm feeling so proud of myself.
And just for context to explain that, if someone didn't quite get it, what that means is someone entered the community in around four years she's gone from being in £25,000 worth of credit card debt to kind of
paying off that debt to building up savings being a position where she can save up £14,000
and she's whacked that off her mortgage and that's the journey that you can go on that's
the turnaround that you can achieve. Now I want you to think about the psychology of debt. It is
positioned to us as manageable and it makes sense like we want to know what a finance
payment would be on a monthly basis just the same as we want to know mortgage payments or car finance
payments because we tend to get paid monthly and so there's no use as knowing what the whole thing
would cost up front because most of us cannot do the mental maths of what the impact of that would be on our regular budget.
And so when debt is positioned as a monthly payment, it makes it feel so much more manageable.
Kind of until it isn't.
So I call this the minimum payment trap.
You know, you have a thousand pound balance on a credit card and it's got a 20% interest rate, which is like banging low.
I know often we get 0% which we'll come on to, but that's kind of low for a credit card.
It could take over 20 years to actually pay off that initial thousand pounds just making minimum payments.
It'll cost you double that in interest.
And you all along were just kind of sat looking at the minimum payment and same for finance deals, same for buy now, pay later.
Oh, I can afford that bit. And it really does mask the true amount of debt that you're taking on.
And this, you know, I think the other part of this is the normalization of debt in today's society.
It is so normal. We talked about this a little bit earlier.
It is thrown at us. It's like opportunity to use finance at every um every every corner you are offered it especially when you're looking to buy
something i was absolutely floored by this stat that keeps going up year on year the average total
uk household debt excluding mortgages was around 15 501 pounds which has been an increase of 79
over 10 years i mean you can imagine with all
the different things that you can get on finance now, and that's a household, you know, you throw
a couple of cards in there or some loans or some overdrafts or some credit cards, you can see how
that would happen. You know, buying phones on finance has been made completely normal. You know, most people don't get a SIM only and
just keep the phone. We get these prompts to upgrade, don't we? And, you know, get the next
one. And these devices, I mean, we use them a lot. Don't get me wrong. I'm not suddenly saying,
we should kind of revert to super, super cheap phones, but we use them a lot. But what do we
actually use on them? We could probably get a really good phone for a lot less and not get into this upgrade cycle,
but we don't.
We kind of wrap it up into a finance contract and a sim contract,
and you end up with it being quite a punchy part of your monthly budget.
Not many people would buy the new iPhone out of pocket with cash,
but they'd probably pay an extra 50 60 pound
a month in their phone contract that that smaller number is manageable but you don't see someone
handing over a debit card and saying can I buy the iPhone and maybe in financial land but generally
people wouldn't do that and do you know why it's because you realize how much it costs. You're kind of going, oh, do I really want to hand over over a grand for a phone?
Do I want to or do I want to distribute that to other things to kind of investing it or saving it or helping to buy a home?
So you can see how we kind of are skewed by the normalization of the monthly payment when we would never dream of kind of parting with that amount of cash for the bigger payment. I think we've also seen you know the memes and the jokes about credit card
debt and listen it's like I'm here for some of that I think we look we need to be able to laugh
at ourselves a little bit it's often laughing at women and maxing out credit cards you know
talking about two pence in your bank account oh it's payday I've gone crazy I'm all
about laughing um at ourselves but I think often it's women laughing at women or men laughing at
women the jokes about the wives and the husband and dynamic I just there's just something in all
that that actually now I just makes me feel uncomfortable and I'm less likely to laugh at
and maybe you will be next time you spot one of those memes you'll go ah they're laughing at me hmm another element to
this is the concept of like delayed consequences so a financial hangover I will I will delay the
impact of a decision that I want to make today and I'll sort it later maybe when you've got more
money maybe when you've got a better job maybe when
you know you've not got as expensive a month but we can justify anything to ourselves and you find
people like kicking things kind of um down the road i think it's probably a good moment to have
a call out to say that we are talking more about consumerism and impulsive spending here
some people are in such dire straits financially
that they have to make a decision to put something on a card to buy themselves time and they've no
choice but to sort it out later. And so we're definitely leaning into the impulsive spending
decisions rather than the emergency I have no option decisions. And it's really important to
remember that because this is where we're targeting this energy today. This is not being targeted
towards the people that do not have a choice. You know, they've got kind of enough on their plate
without having my finger pointing at them. It's those of us that are just overspending and we're
kicking something down the line and we'll justify
anything to ourselves but you know next year's you or summer's you will not be happy with your
decision that you made over Christmas or over New Year's you know or impulsively like kind of
getting a holiday or whatever it is to have later you deal with those consequences. You know finance
is a slippery slope we've talked about how buying a pay later
is a gateway drug for lots of, you know,
young people nowadays to the world of credit.
And for millennial generation,
it was absolutely not percent credit card.
And please do message in and tell me
if this is how you got into debt.
Did, you know, the mighty Martin Lewis
promote on his website some not percent cards
that if you're a savvy switcher you know
you could do this and you could do that but absolutely you know he gave the right caveats
he told you to make sure you pay it off in full he told you to diarize for the end of the periods
but we're human like we don't remember that kind of thing we're busy we're like living our best
life we've got things to do we've got kids to look after and then it can start out early with you know a student overdraft or these not
percent credit cards or um a little overdraft or a buy now pay later and later it ends up being
two cars on finance and sofas on finance and you know extension loan and just loads of different
things and you can see how it can start small but build into a huge cycle of debt i got another
quote actually in the community someone
said I spent my 20s relying on credit cards and even though I earned a good salary I never used
to pay the full balance off each month. Big lesson learned after finding out how much I ended up
paying in interest over the course of a year. I've now paid off a five-figure credit card debt bought a house built an emergency fund and I'm now
one year debt free and that's the kind of light bulb moment I guess that people can have when
they're suddenly kind of facing the reality of decisions that they've made here and there the
impact of them what they've built up to be become and then like what they then did about it you know there are so many success
stories of people who've come to this realization and I think you know so far we really really have
looked at how it sold to us the impact of it and we've got a little bit more to do on impacts but
I think you can understand how someone goes I've done I've absolutely had it I am not doing this
anymore I'm not being a slave to debt I'm not not going to use it. And then it's kind of like a big turning point for them in their
financial lives. At Financial, we always like to say debt isn't evil, but it absolutely keeps you
from your goals. The big reason for this is it steals from your income. If you think about your financial budget and you have all your expenses, when you have monthly payments going out to all these different finance companies, that is reducing the amount of your income that you expenses gives you an excess and it's the excess cash each
month that you can grow and put towards your goals if you didn't have finance payments you would have
a much bigger excess so you can see how even if debt isn't bad even if it's absolutely fine and
it's manageable it is stealing from your future self because it's slowing you down in your ability
to absolutely hit your financial goals.
Another element that people don't consider is the opportunity cost. So we've just talked about how having finance payments can slow down you hitting your goals because you've got smaller excess,
so less money to throw at your goals. One of those goals could be buying a home. Now we have seen that 60% of millennials delay home purchases due to debt.
It's not just that you want to be in your home and you want to be decorating it and you want to
kind of put it on Instagram and enjoy that time. It's also the capital increases that you're missing
out on because you don't own that property. You know, typically over time, the house market's
going up, property values are going up, but if you're not in the market, you know, typically over time, the house market's going up, property values are going up.
But if you're not in the market, you're not benefiting from that.
And sometimes it can be because of a decision with consumer debt.
You know, you're stuck over here paying off debt and you'd much rather be in your own home.
It's also the same about investing.
You know, every time £100 is going to a finance payment, it could have been going into the market being invested for you know like an easy five six
seven percent return um over time that's the cost the cost is the six seven percent compounded that
you could have been making on that amount of money instead it's going to finance payments
so this opportunity cost is a massive one that i don't think people often sit there and consider
what else could my money be doing?
Oh, if it wasn't over here, it could have been over there.
I want to lean in there again at this point and kind of say, please don't blame yourself for the situation that you're in.
I think you need to take accountability.
We're all better people for doing that.
You know, we are all human and we've all been there.
But you are up against the machine. There are billions of dollars spent on trying to get you to part with your money
and the marketing tactics of credit card companies especially is up there with the best of them.
And so when people get tempted by cash back credit cards air miles points I completely
sympathize because it can be very tempting realistically less than five percent of people
can gamify the system why do you think points systems are in place it's because they work at
getting you to put more on the credit card we know that we spend more it's
a harvard business review study i've shared this before that we spend more when we use credit it's
like an absolute fact and so when the credit card companies sit around and go how can we get people
to spend more let's give them this and let's give them that they're gonna win because they keep
doing it like they're not you can't outsmart visa or amex or mastercard and so for some people in some
scenarios playing with points can work you could have for example a business that has high spend
um you need to buy stock or you need to buy trips or you need to book rooms and and putting it on a
credit card through a business and you're going to spend it anyway it's not because you've decided
to spend it's because all these things are needed you can understand how people then can kind of get
this like cash back all these air miles um it's hilarious like the big thing with air miles is
like people get air miles if you're from manchester like us um and you get airways british airways
miles useless you want to fly out of london all the time like you and what ends up happening interestingly is you then you change your plans to fit the points and you've no idea if you could
have got a better deal without the points you just fixated on the points and so we're not going to
detail on it but i just want you to be aware i want you to think i want to be the little like
jimmy cricket on your shoulder hmm am i winning here or have I spent more than I would
have done? In all these points and all these prizes and all this cash back, did I win or do we think
I probably spent more? Because science tells you, you will spend more. But if you can be part of
this small minority gamifying it, no problem, you do, but just be aware of that okay this next bit gets me excited because
this is where financial and the community really comes into its own we are going to build a plan
to break free from this debt cycle and pay off our debt and we are going to become debt free and i
promise you it is one of the most invigorating and empowering things that you can do
and I think for those of you that have done this journey enjoy this next bit because I think you
need to reminisce and pat yourselves on the back and say oh my god like I did do that and for those
of you that haven't get excited because you've spent all this time feeling bad about yourself
and feeling bad about the debt and stressing about it and now you're going to actually do
something about it with a proven plan with a proven system that hundreds and thousands of
people have done before you. So we are going to lean into building a plan to become debt-free.
This whole thing starts with awareness, understanding your debt. So what is it,
where did it come from and why? Because this really is about lifestyle and
habit change. This isn't a math situation and we are going to look at numbers but this is about
unpicking where the spending came from. What was it spent on? Was it spent on food and eating out
and I've seen often that people call themselves a foodie and it gives them an excuse to go out
and spend money on food but like you can be a foodie and stay home. You call themselves a foodie and it gives them an excuse to go out and spend money on food. But like you can be a foodie and stay home.
You can be a foodie and go out once in a while.
So was it that?
Was it I want to be the latest restaurant and I'm lazy and I don't want to cook?
And you can think of a life where that will be you, by the way.
This is not like a forever thing.
You can't never go out to eat again.
But was that the thing?
Was it the Amazon, like running up an Amazon bill?
Was it a clothes and I need a new wardrobe and I need a new interiors?
Whatever it was, it holidays.
Was it just like I didn't budget properly?
So I kind of ran out of money and I would need to use it to get to the next payday.
Have a look.
Why?
Because you're going to have to build that into the new plan that like understand what
it was and what can we do to overcome that?
And and so you need awareness
so you need to create a list of your debts and the way that we we facilitate this in the app
there's a free debt tracker where you can list out all your debts a super easy way to do this
is to do a free credit report so have a look run one in your name don't pay for one you shouldn't
need to and you'll get a list of your debts the provider and the outstanding amount so you're going to be able to see that and like i said add it to the free debt
tracker in the financial app if you don't have access to that and you want to do it on scrap of
paper first do it but list out your debts for those of you that listen to the playbook episode
you're going to benefit from this system and so go back and watch it if you want to refresh yourself
but we'll just high level talk about the next steps.
So debt awareness is super important, having a list of all your debts.
But when you're building a plan to pay it off, we're going to annoy you because we're going to bring you back a step and we're going to ask you to save a mini emergency fund.
This will typically be a minimum of one month's expenses.
You need to pick the right amount for you. This is going to
frustrate you because you're going to want to dive straight into paying off this debt because we've
got a plan and we're very excited. But we're going to pull you back because this mini emergency fund
of a minimum of one month's expenses is going to be the thing that's going to protect you in that
emergency scenario where you may have typically used credit before and it's going to
protect you in the scenario that you don't get your budget right which is the vast majority of
the time we often don't get it right especially the first one two three budgets and so just paying
minimum payments on all your debts and making sure that you focus on building that mini emergency fund
first is going to be the best thing you can do. And it's going
to set you up for success in paying off the rest of your debt quickly. So picture this, you've got
your mini emergency fund set up. We're now going to tackle the debt. Now you have two main ways that
you can overpay debt. You can use the debt snowball method, or you can use the debt avalanche method.
Both are amazing. They are kind of driven by two different
systems. One of them is like mathematical system, which is the avalanche system. So you order your
debts in order of highest interest to lowest interest rate. And so if you know all your
interest rates and in the app, actually you can move the debts around and order them. So once you
know the interest rates and you've got an order, you can kind of move them around and you pay off the highest interest rate first. This is mathematically proven to be
the best way to pay off your debt more quickly. However, step in the snowball method. My favorite
method is a snowball method and this is because it's based on motivation and momentum and how you
feel. So the debt snowball is where you list your debts smallest to largest
and you start by paying off the smallest one first. And a really key thing about this is you get
momentum because you get a win. You pay a small, say if your biggest debt was £50,000 but your
smallest debt was £50, you're going to get a really good dopamine hit from paying off the 50 more than you
are paying 50 off the 50 000 if that makes sense and so again in the app you can reorder them
smallest to largest and that's my preference but both work super super well lots of success stories
on both but now you've got a plan so if you think about it we've done our budget we've got a mini
emergency fund in our back pocket hopefully
making some good interest if you can kind of find somewhere to park it accessible and now we're
going to overpay this debt and the wonderful thing about this and this is like what's really important
with financial is trying to do one thing at a time because not only did you do the emergency fund
first and just paid your minimum payments on the debt when it comes comes to the debt, you do one debt at a time and honest to God,
you get bloody obsessed. Say it's a Tesco credit card. Sorry Tesco, I'm picking on you. We're
going to pretend there's a thousand pound Tesco credit card bill that you want gone. And honest
to God, all that happens is you focus on this one debt. And any money that you find you want to overpay that credit
card any tweaks you can do to your budget you know reduce your takeout budget reduce your eating out
budget cut some Netflix subscriptions whatever you can do to get excess money you will throw
at the Tesco credit card debt because you're obsessed with it and once you pay off that debt and you close the
account you close the credit card and you say bye bye you feel awesome and you should feel awesome
because you are awesome because you've done everything that the credit card industry does
not want you to do you have gone after that debt with a vengeance I really benefited from the
snowball method because I really needed that motivation I was on a debt-free journey on my own and I had to kind of focus and these little debts gave me the
strength and the courage to take on the big one, which was the car loan. And honestly, my excess
was bigger then because minimum payments had gone. That's what happens with a snowball. Once you've
paid off that Tesco credit card, the minimum payment that was going on there can be applied
onto the next ones. And you can really see how you can build in confidence and motivation to tackle the bigger one later. Now you will work through each debt one at a time
until your biggest debt goes, and then you will be debt free. And you know what? You will not owe
anyone any consumer finance and you will have an emergency fund and you're now going to build a
bigger emergency fund. And so for anything that comes up, whether it's, I have an emergency fund and you're now going to build a bigger emergency fund and so for anything that comes up whether it's I have an emergency tire situation, I have an emergency roof leak,
I need to pay in excess, I would like to go on holiday to Dubai and enjoy some very expensive
cocktails. You can save up for that and you will not need to use credit cards to fund your lifestyle.
Now I've said this like it's gonna be freaking easy and it's not. You will need a support network especially if you are doing a debt-free journey on your own
or if you've kind of not got your partner buy-in and you know you're starting it on your own.
Being in debt comes with so much guilt, it's such a taboo that you need to meet like-minded people
just like you who are embracing this like debt-free journey. So make sure you find your people on TikTok.
There's a great debt-free community growing,
especially on Instagram as well,
but obviously in our own community in the financial app,
you'll meet other people.
Share with other people
that you're going to go on this journey.
Your partner should be supportive.
Your friends should be supportive.
Your family should be supportive.
And if they're not,
then maybe it's more of a question
about how supportive they are generally rather than just being around debt you know you need
them in your corner if you're taking on this big challenge because there's going to be moments of
weakness or they're going to tempt you and say oh we're going to go out this big night out or should
we do this big trip and you can kind of manage expectations and go look I can do some things but
not everything like I I want to I want to be able to live my life and I'm going to budget for some
things but I'm on a debt-free journey and I need your support
in doing it. And you'll be surprised how some amazing heroes come out of your circle and just
want to back you and support you and do whatever they can to help you hit your goal. I just want
to say though, there is no point going on this journey. If you're going to revert back to going
into credit, because do you know what? You're just going to make yourself feel so much worse
because you'll have paid it all off and then you'll have loads of guilt about going back
into debt and that's why you kind of need this that's why the playbook works really well because
you've got another plan you've got another plan you've got another stage you can move on to
you've got goals you can hit and you honestly the people that have just said bye bye to debt
and put it into their past are so
much happier so much more financially well so much more at peace and so really think about that
because I don't want you to get this amazing goal and then just go straight back again and run up a
credit card bill and go I've done it again I've seen people do it it's very upsetting and and
where it's avoidable especially and with that in mind I kind of want to close with you thinking
about a life without debt for those of you that are there you might take for granted this feeling
because you might be so used to it that actually you don't realize how amazing you are and how
weird you are and how um in the minority unfortunately you are and be proud of that
and for those of you on a debt-free journey or about to embark on a debt-free journey or even
thinking about it i can't tell you the impact it's going to have on your life i want you to
picture that moment where you are making you know offers on houses or you're investing extra in the
stock market and you're not worried about these extra payments that, you know, that are flying out, you know,
you're not worried if illness hits your household or a job loss or anything. These like payments
that are so annoying just won't be a part of your life. I think we're really lucky at Financial
that we get to hear from you guys so much, whether it's in the community or on social
or an email email you tell us
about your wins about your revelations about your light bulb moments your dilemmas and then your
follow-ups and I think by far the most prevalent you know thank you and celebration is when people
become debt-free is when it finally switches in their head and they go oh like I don't want to live like that anymore that is the biggest thing and so I just and so
the people can't be wrong like there's something in this and you know I'm gonna be playful with
you why don't you do it why don't you pay off your debt and if you don't like it just run it
back up again go use the credit cards I don't care I do care I really don't want you to but you know try me
have a go if you don't like that feeling and you want your credit card for safety and for holidays
and for you know extra spending then you can go back to it but just try it because I just feel
like once you're on this side and you feel how we get to feel I say we like this is privileged
for you but like the debt-free
community all someone will do who's done this will tell you to do it and I think you have to listen
to other people sometimes and go there's something in it if so many people are messaging in and so
many people say it's amazing then try it and if it's not for you you know no shame and no judgment
but at least you know like unlocked the vault unlocked is about you being informed and understanding why. And if you choose not to follow the process,
that is no judgment. That's no problem. But at least, you know, you're informed we've unlocked
kind of, you know, a topic for you. Um, I saw that like another comment in the community, actually,
um, there's two different ones. Actually, one said, I never realized how much my debt was holding me back until I cleared it. And I think that's a big thing. Um, it's, it's manageable. If it's not toxic debt, if it's not stressful debt, you just kind of limp along, but you're limping along in all areas of your financial life. If you're relying on credit to kind of fund your lifestyle another one was it's been a journey from spending on my card until it got declined in the shop and having no clue about where my money
was going to knowing my numbers paying off my debt building savings having a long-term plan
and now almost being a solo buyer owning my own home that is just it is a journey the j word but
it is it's slow and steady and there's ups and
there's downs and there's backwards and there's forwards but you get there and then you kind of
see what people can achieve it's really hard to achieve all these things if you're playing around
with debt early on and so you know I do want to go back to what I said at the beginning that you're
not alone and this isn't a shameful thing but there are lots of people
on this payoff journey and this debt-free journey and you are just one of many people who have been
in that situation and you know whether it's anonymous or not I do urge you to nip into the
community give a post tell us if you're going to start your debt-free journey tell us if you're
halfway through it tell us if you've done it but stories drive people and inspire people to achieve great things and i want you guys the
financial community to be at the forefront of this this podcast is me starting this and kind of
putting it out there to kind of stimulate conversation bring awareness but it's going
to be stories and other people that's going to influence um our amazing you know debt-free journey people to pay off pay off their debt become debt-free and just like grow
wealth like build wealth like stupidly crazy wealth that just would not be possible and with
all these payments being made so you can put stuff in the community but also before i lock the vault
today if you want to email in you can email to hello at the vault.com either with your comments
or stories to share or you can message with a topic that you would like to hello at the vault.com either with your comments or stories to share or you can
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It is not financial advice.
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