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Last time on part one of the Temptation Island Season 2 reunion.
I still had that little bit of hope.
And that shit failed.
Have you been back in contact with Xavier?
So, well, we do have a video and so we wanted to play that for you.
Mikey, you, I don't, I just want to be respectful at you like you cool.
Part two starts now.
I'm not sure if you wanted to step out or anything.
No, we're good.
Okay.
Just as crazy.
Hey, Sid, just wanted to say I'm thinking about you today and wish you're the best of three
you, you know, be yourself like you always are and you know you're going to be good.
You know you got a kind, hard, gentle soul.
And I'm moving for you.
Do you feel like there is a chance that you and Xavier might become a real couple?
So, you know, being that, like, on the show, like, we definitely found a real connection
and that I've had time to, like, step back, focus on myself.
I would say that there is a possibility in the future that you never know what could happen.
What does need to happen for that to be a reality?
You know, I think we just need to take some time, you know, without the same.
the cameras being in front of us and just really build a stronger connection outside of the villa.
You know, a lot of it was encouraged by things that I had went through. And I feel like now,
like, being able to have processed those and meet him where he is, I think that is exactly
what I need to do to that now that I've focused on myself, I could see, you know, that
connection happening outside of the villa. He did mention to us that he lives here in L.A.
Are you planning on stopping by this place?
You know, we actually have a few plans this weekend with like the whole cast and everything, everybody getting together.
So I'm like just might see him.
Mikey, was that tough to watch or are you, would you be, like you really rooting for Xavier and Sydney like you say you are?
I root for what's best for Sydney.
Okay.
If that's Xavier.
Do you think he is what's best for Sydney?
I think I think Xavier is exactly who he portrays to me.
He's a great guy.
A thousand percent.
I think he's a great individual.
He's somebody who everyone can tell was raised correctly.
A thousand percent.
I'll never shit on him.
I'll never talk down on that man.
But at the end of the day, I mean, I can't be his best friend.
He took one girl.
What you're talking about?
I mean, that's just how it goes.
I can't be best homies with the guy,
but I can give him props on being a phenomenal individual.
Because I don't play a hate.
Like, that's the one thing I don't do.
I don't play a hate.
I can't do that.
I think what was kind of interesting about the video, I mean, it's short.
It's not like this profession of love, but it's the little thing, you know?
And I feel like that's something when watching Xavier back, he seemed to be willing to do those little things.
Do you feel like in your next relationship, you will want to do stuff like that with someone that you feel as strongly as you felt for Sydney?
Yeah, 1,000%.
It doesn't, like something like that, that's something that doesn't put much thought.
it's just who he is.
You know what I'm saying?
So from watching their experience,
from watching the arts and crafts
and watching like the Jonas Brothers stuff,
I was just like, wow, like that is like,
like that's literally just who he is as a person.
And that's a beautiful thing to see.
So I truthfully have to figure out,
well, I have figured out
what makes Mikey unique in those romantic ways.
You know what I'm saying?
Because I'll never take what he does
because, no, I want to be who I am and display that to an individual and show them that I have
all this love to give. I need another chance, Nick. I'd love. Come on, man. I need another chance to love.
Yeah. Are your DMs open?
Trust, ladies, wait. Tell me where I'm at. Where? Right there?
Sure.
Oh, that's me? Ladies, listen. Oh, boy.
Listen, ladies. I got all this love to give.
And that'll do it for the temptation.
Come on, man. I need it. I would love that.
I have a girlfriend for real. I would love that.
Do you want a girlfriend now already?
No, I mean, no, no, no, not right now.
I'm still working on, I'm only four months into therapy,
and we're finally getting somewhere good.
So I want to create this individual of myself that I really want to be
so that my next partner is like, oh my gosh,
how did any girl leave you?
Like, that's what I want for my next relationship, truthfully.
What do you want to say to your future girlfriend?
Listen, listen, my love.
Don't watch this season.
You can watch this season because you'll see how much of an idiot I can be,
but also how much I can love somebody with all my heart.
That was deep.
Beautiful.
I'm sure she's stuck.
If only you did that on the show.
Well, I do want to appreciate you guys for being so open and honest.
I know that wasn't easy for the both of you.
It's our first conversation we've had for months.
Y'all got it.
Y'all got it.
Also, Meg, I do want to commend you.
on being open about therapy.
And as a young man, I just want to say good for you.
It's not easy to always acknowledge that,
but I think it's done a lot for me.
It's done a lot for our relationship.
So good for you for putting in the work.
I appreciate that.
Yeah, I'm really written for you.
All right, well, I think it's time to get to,
Cheyenne and Jack.
Two young lovers that after a moment of infidelity,
a relationship of distrust was built.
And after some dicey bonfire footage,
closed blinds, and some giant one-night flame.
Oh my God.
They both decided to choose themselves in the end.
I knew she said it.
I didn't.
You saw it.
No, you fucking said that shit, Shed.
I was saying his muscles were giant.
No, we were.
Yes, exactly.
Thank you.
Yeah.
He is a giant fan.
You noticed that under the covers?
Like when I was like cuddling, yeah.
Okay.
What was the energy like when the two of you got home?
I know y'all shared two dogs, who took the dogs.
I picked her up from the airport, actually.
surprising. You picked her up from the airport. He waited for me at the airport. I waited for actually,
because we were on two separate flights. And we didn't have a conversation after we got out of the
villa. So we waited until we got home. I picked her up. We had a conversation. And it went on
and on. We basically just decided that it was best for the both of us just to grow and heal from
everything that we went through and be as mutual as possible just based off the time we spent
together. Is the reason that y'all didn't have a conversation until after you got back home was because
you were with Carter? Correct, yes. Okay. Was that hard to know that he stayed back with Carter another day?
No, because I was with Preston, so it was just like, tip for tat. Okay. That seems to kind of be
the theme of your guys' relationship. Yeah, I think that's the whole story. Okay. Okay, this is T.
Oh.
So after we got done filming, I'm like in a separate hotel.
They like, obviously me and Jack weren't allowed in the same hotel.
And I escaped security and I Ubered to Jack's hotel.
And I told the front desk, I'm like, I left my passport in my boyfriend's room.
Like I, someone needs to connect to me because he wouldn't answer the phone.
And so what, what did you got to say?
Was this when I was on FaceTime?
Yeah.
Oh.
Go ahead.
Yeah.
And they connected me to his room.
And I'm like, hey, motherfucker, I'm downstairs.
Like, are you going to come down here so we can chat?
And you just hear, like, in the background, like, no, no, please, no.
Or whatever.
I don't know what the fuck y'all had going on there.
But he was there.
Yeah, in the room, you could hear.
Yeah.
And so he wouldn't come downstairs because he was too scared.
And so I started knocking on, like, the doors.
I was crashing out, okay?
And basically that's all that happened, though, because the,
I got escorted out of the hotel.
So he never opened up the hotel room door?
Oh, no, they took me immediately to the airport.
Yeah, they put him on lockdown as they should.
For his safety?
Yeah.
So what were your intention?
Yeah, because I heard you on the phone.
I just wanted to chat.
You didn't sound like a chat, Cheyenne.
When I was on FaceTime, would have sounded.
I just wanted to chat.
What was it that you wanted to say?
I just, like, I feel like we should have been able to have a conversation
after the final bonfire without cameras.
and like just one-on-one, like, let's talk this out.
Like, let's, I don't feel I needed to wait
until we got back to Kansas City to have a conversation.
And so that's ultimately what I was coming there for.
And did it piss you off that he wasn't coming downstairs?
Or did it piss you off that he was up there with Carter?
It pissed me off that he wasn't coming downstairs.
I could honestly care less that he was up there with her
because I'd already seen everything I needed to see.
So that was like not really the problem to me.
It was more of just like...
The betrayal.
You can't, yeah, you can't come downstairs.
and have a conversation, which, I mean, emotions were high.
Maybe it's probably a good thing he didn't come downstairs because I don't think the conversation
in that moment probably would have gone very good.
What did you want to say?
What the fuck is wrong with you?
That's what I wanted to say.
Do you regret not coming downstairs or do you agree with her that I probably wouldn't
have been a productive conversation?
Looking back at it, my mindset was like she's going to be off the rails.
Like, she's going to freak out.
and we're in a whole different state.
And basically everyone that worked the show was gone.
And none of the guys were there.
So really, I only had the people I was with.
And I regret not going down there, yes.
But in that moment, it wouldn't have been the smartest decision
just based off the emotions coming from behind it.
I just wanted to avoid it and wait until I got home.
Is that kind of a pattern that you guys had throughout your relationship
of kind of these extreme highs and extreme lows
of kind of pushing each other's buttons?
Yeah, that's been...
Yeah, I mean, let me say something.
I push her buttons a lot.
And, I mean, I can't even give you an example.
Little shit, you know?
I just, like, annoy her or something.
And you knew it would annoy her?
Not necessarily.
Yeah, I mean, yeah, yeah.
He loves a reaction.
Like, he loves a good reaction out of me.
And where do you think that comes from?
I have no idea.
I don't know.
Did you guys, when you finally picked her up and had a conversation, did you guys fully open up into all the things that went down?
You both seemed to really take advantage of the tempters and the temptresses that you guys are interacting with.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So whenever I got off the flight and we had the conversation, it was just more of like, you need to tell me everything that you did.
I'll tell you everything that I did.
And I will say, like, he told me more things that happened on the show that weren't shown.
So from, like, what I know about, like, how he acted in the house, like, there's a lot more, like, shit that he did that didn't get shown that I know about.
And I obviously told him everything.
But I think in that moment, I was just like, you need to get your shit.
Like, you need to go.
Like, I wanted nothing to do with him, like, right off the island.
It wasn't until like, I would say, a month.
A month or two, maybe, Meg, almost two.
Where were we just like, yeah, go.
We, like, weren't talking, whatever.
And then he was just, like, shy, can we have a conversation?
Like a legit, like, sit down.
Let's have a conversation.
Let's talk this out.
And that's whenever we had a talk about a month later.
And I would say that conversation was productive.
That's where we kind of came to the conclusion.
like Jack was like I still like want you like in my life like I still want to be friends with you and I still like want that you know like not relationship like he still we still wanted to be like friends and on that page we've been together for so long that I think that that's the best and that's where we kind of just came to the conclusion of everybody from the show needs to go what did you guys do I'd love to hear I think everyone would love to hear what actually happened in terms of the physical boundaries that you both crossed.
go first. Okay. I just, like, kissed everyone in the fucking house. Like, honestly. Like,
not everyone. Well, I'm not there yet. On the show, I didn't have sex in the tent. I didn't have
sex in my room. The last date that wasn't shown on the show is where I had sex with Carter.
Okay. And what about Jacenia? Nope. Just made out. I mean, we didn't do anything else other than that.
Do you think oral sex is sex? Oh, no, I didn't have oral sex. Okay. Did you suck her?
No.
She said you did.
I sucked her toes.
She said that's why in the Temptation Haven
she said that turns me on so much
is because you were sucking her toes.
Well, the night of the Temptation Haven
actually, I'll get into
this night, actually. This was my best,
probably my best night. I needed a trophy
for this one. Before going to the
Temptation Haven.
Oh, Clint.
Climps.
No, it's okay. No, because I was
so fucked up
that night that I actually had a
crash out that wasn't on the show.
Oh, you did. I know that. I actually,
this was the one time
in the show that I was going to cry, or that
was going to be shown me crying.
And it was probably the worst one. And I just
remember the guys around me, like, freaking
out. I don't know. I mean, I would wake up in the
mornings and be like, I don't fucking remember what I did
last night. Is it true you face-planad
right before you went into the temptation even? Yeah,
I did. He did. There were times
when I actually did put him to bed, though, and then
I would go live my life, and then he would disappear
and go do something else. So, like, I can't, like,
police someone. Like you get what I'm saying like
Shianian, we did. They tried. We tried
our hardest to take care of time.
Like, why did, it's also Jack's choice to be
drinking that much. Exactly. You're making that decision
because it wasn't like people were forcing him to
Yeah. I'm not saying that. I'm just saying
like, we were never like that.
That's true. Like all of us, like we were cut off.
I just don't understand. I feel like it was completely different.
We never got like hammered.
We told the producers. We would tell them. Actually.
We said. It was so bad to the point that
I actually got all over a house cut off for four days of alcohol.
And they would try and cut you off.
But I almost just feel like it's just like that's your,
that's my own fault.
We had this conversation when we went into the house.
Correct.
Our conversation was,
because you have done, like,
this has been a problem in our relationship,
the alcohol and doing fucked up shit, right?
We had that conversation of don't let yourself get to that point.
And you got to that point.
So at some point, like, yes, you can see both sides,
but at the end of the day, like a lot of it does fall on you.
But at the same point, like, it all falls to me.
It all falls to me.
It all falls to me.
So was him not drinking a boundary you guys tried to set prior to coming in?
Yes.
Like, the very last thing that I said to him when we said bye to each other, I literally looked at him.
We're holding hands.
I'm crying.
I'm like, whatever you do, do not get fucked up.
Like, please, like, control yourself and do not get fucked up.
And that completely went out the window.
What?
The second day.
Yeah.
And you're saying it got so bad that they did cut you guys off.
Oh, they go.
Even the girls couldn't drink.
Yeah, for like four days.
I was getting bitched that for days on in because it was living hell.
So I just went up.
They tried to keep you accountable.
It wasn't like you were being let out of control.
Yeah.
Well, yeah.
Yeah.
No, they did try to keep us accountable saying like, no, you guys.
Once it got bad.
Yeah, once it got bad.
Yeah.
Oh, what were you going to say?
Oh, nothing.
I'm just talking to the girl.
Until we switched houses and then we drank all their alcohol.
We definitely drank all their alcohol when we switched house.
Yeah, when we did the villa swap, we stole.
Yeah, we did your guises too.
Oh.
Why do you think it didn't take long at all for you to just kind of forget every conversation you had with Cheyenne about your boundaries once you got into the villa?
I think, you know, honestly, another thing.
I mean, I just honestly think it was hearing the bonfires and hearing how the way she was talking about me.
But at the same time, it wasn't necessarily what she was saying.
It's everyone around me that's hearing that.
and then everyone in my ear saying,
you don't deserve this.
But you knew that was going to happen.
That's the point of fucking temptation island.
I let the manipulation gets me.
I let people's words get to me.
I let my brain just be like,
hey, you're going to do it.
And there's no regrets in that moment.
From the time that I kissed Carter,
I knew because before we went on to the show,
she told me, like, if I broke any boundary,
she's going to give Netflix a show.
So when I knew that I kissed,
no, straight up.
I knew when I kissed Carter,
Thank you.
I was going to wait.
I knew that I fucked up,
and then I had the conversation
with the guys the next day,
and then I saw what she did,
and then my brain,
right then and there was like,
okay, what do I do?
Everyone around me is like,
dude, it sounds so stupid,
but I'm just like,
I'm listening to everyone around me.
That's the saddest part about it.
Were you hammered when you kissed Carter the first time?
Yeah, 100%.
I never was sober doing anything with anyone.
But you were conscious enough
to know to get out of,
of the way of cameras and turn off the lights
so that it wouldn't be shown
to Cheyenne. So the way it's shown
in the show is not what actually
happened. It actually happened in the confessional.
It didn't happen in the bedroom.
No, they showed it in the confessional,
but they showed you getting up from in front of the cameras,
turning off the lights,
and standing what it seemed like out of frame
so you couldn't be clipped.
I mean, honestly, if you would be frank with you,
like, I've only watched three episodes of the show.
I haven't even watched it.
that I have no idea.
Yeah, so that's how it happens.
So you were sober enough to realize,
hey, I don't want Cheyenne to see this,
let me move out of camera and turn off the lights.
You were conscious enough of that.
Yeah, yeah, I'm going to say, yeah,
because it's better to not look like a bad person on the other end.
But you were in the photo booth after,
because that's when Lulu told me that you did something,
and I walked up to you and I said,
if that's the step you're going to take
you gotta stand on that
and you looked at me
and he was just like
we're here
and I looked him in his eyes
he was fucked up
like I'm not going
like I gotta defend him on that
like when he looked up at me
and I told him like
if you're gonna go do some foul shit
you gotta stand on that shit Jack
and what did you say
he was like
oh we're here
and I was just like
he's fucked up
like I looked in his eyes
I was like he's not here
no it's like sad because like
even some of my confessionals
like my eyes were rolling
in the back of my fucking head
I'm just like dude
I don't even remember
I hated it there. It was terrible. I honestly was awful. It seemed to the opposite.
Exactly. No, like, I'm gonna be straight up. It was awful. Once I fucked up, it was the worst
experience in my fucking life. I felt like I was targeted every fucking day to do some bullshit.
I was the only dude that in the house that did some shit. Like, I mean, like, come on, dude,
we're on a TV show. Once someone fucks up, they're gonna push you to do other shit. So,
what did I do? I fell for the bullshit and I did it. And now I'm, I'm,
sitting here right now. So you're blaming the producers for your cheating and not
I'm blaming myself. No, I'm blaming myself for the cheating but I'm also it's also the people
pushing me and the people in my ears in that moment and like the emotional distress that we're all
going through and like I can't even explain it dude it's not real life to anyone that's watching
this. It's really not like everyone in this room has experienced it everyone from last cast experienced it
no one would ever understand.
But,
Cheyenne, seeing the kiss
or hearing the kiss
that happened with Carter
and the confessional,
that was it for you.
That's all you needed to see
for you to be completely done.
Yeah, I told,
like he said,
I told him going into the experience
just because we've had our issues
obviously before we went.
So it was just like,
you know the way that
the first time made me feel.
So if you go out of your way
to go do it again to me,
it's over.
Like, I'm going to,
as childish as it is, and yes, maybe I shouldn't have reacted the way that I reacted,
and I shouldn't have immediately went to go get my lick back or whatever people, or whatever,
you know, I said. Yeah, I did. So it's fine. It's whatever. But yes, in that moment, like,
right whenever I saw it, I was just like, it's game on. Like, he's about to get what he deserves,
and that's what I did. Oh, and it's because it's interesting when we started this whole reunion.
and you, like you said, you knew he was going to do what he did.
Yeah.
Did you think it was going to be?
But I still had a little bit of hope.
No, I understand that, but did you, it doesn't seem like you said that because of his drinking.
You said that because of how you know he moves in the relationship.
Like when me and Jack were together in like our relationship and we spent every single day together and we were with each other, that is not like how Jack is.
time that Jack has gone out of his way to cheat or whatever, went out to the club with his friends,
got fucked up, cheated on me, right? So it's like, he's not the same person when he's sober
and it's me and him. Like, it's just completely different. So I don't know, it happened. There's
no excuses. Like, it happened. So it is what it is. I mean, to be honest, it's, I kind of empathized
with you guys because, like, I think we all know what it's like to have our first love. It's hard to
quit that person, you know? And there's always like there's this love, but there's this toxicity.
And it did seem like almost a good thing while you guys did things that hurt each other,
you guys leaving the island alone, I feel like made a lot of sense to the viewers, to us,
even to you guys. Yeah. But I'm hearing you guys both, especially you, trying to like defend it
and almost take it back in a way that you feel like you almost regret how it all went down.
Yeah, I just, I do, like, Jack has.
obviously I said it on the show. He's been the only guy I've been with for five years.
So after I went and I did what I did, it's like it didn't make me feel good.
Like I didn't hook up with Preston after and be like, oh my gosh, I'm on top of the world.
Like that was the best thing ever.
Like, in fact, it was the complete opposite.
Like right after I hooked up with him like immediately when I got into the confessional,
I was just crying. I'm like, I just feel bad.
Like that's not how I should have gone about it.
But I wasn't going to sit here and let him play in my confess.
face on Netflix, just not going to happen.
That's real.
Jack, you said to the guys that she kept bringing up the time that you cheated,
but what we didn't know was that she had actually been the one to cheat first.
Can y'all talk a little bit about that?
Yeah, so two years into me and shy and dating, she just went out with a friend,
got drunk and kissed a guy, and came home that same night and told me and was on
honest about it and didn't lie about it was so truthful. I was just like, you know what, it's
going to be okay. But that started all from a huge, a huge fight of us like literally screaming at
each other like, fuck you. And that's whenever I went out with my friends. I had never gone out
with just my friends without you before that. So it's no, it's no excuse for what I did.
But then, yes, I did. I went out. I kissed someone. And then I immediately left and I came home
and I told Jack and I was like, it happened. Either we're going to move past it.
or we need to end the relationship now,
I want you to decide.
And he was just like,
I want to stay with you.
Like,
it's not something that is going to end the relationship.
So we got past that.
And then it's just like,
after that happened,
it was,
he just kept going.
Like,
he just kept being a piece of shit.
And that's where it's like,
we never have came to,
it's always,
it was shown in the show.
Like,
it's always we're going,
like,
for each other.
Like,
if,
if I,
something, he's going to do something back. If he does something back, I'm doing something.
Like, it's just a very toxic, it was a very toxic relationship. And I mean, I feel like a lot of
people understand as crazy as it seems, but I think a lot of people have been in a super toxic
relationship like how ours was. And I mean, I think people can see and understand how we kind
of moved the way we moved and why we did the things we did essentially. So how soon after
you kissing the guy, did he go home with the girl?
I would say, what, a few months?
Oh.
Yeah, yeah.
I'm not going to lie, the way it made it seem on the show,
like it was like back to back.
Like it was like, oh yeah, she kissed somebody,
then boom, Jack went and went to go fuck somebody.
You know what I'm saying?
Like, yeah, they made it, like,
I really feel like the show really portrayed Jack
as this fucking evil person, and Jack is not a evil fucking person.
Well, the show does only show what they are given.
Exactly. No. Yeah.
They can't make him say things or make him do things.
And he's such a loving guy.
And the stuff that he would say about Cheyenne in the house and I know he fucking cheated.
And I told him he was wrong about it.
All of the guys told him he was wrong about it.
But we also asked him his perspective because he spoke so highly of Cheyenne.
And that's why when we got out of the house and everything, like I felt like I knew Cheyenne based upon the conversations that he was having with me.
So it's like I don't want the world to feel like Jack did not love Cheyenne.
He did love her.
I don't think anyone doesn't feel the love.
Yeah, because it's there.
I would agree with you.
And I know this is all, like, new for you guys.
Maybe not you.
You've been on reality TV before.
But, like, I empathize you with you guys.
I've been in your shoes.
It's hard.
You guys, I'm sure the DMs are open.
People are saying nasty shit to you guys.
But I can assure you, like, no one thinks anyone here is an evil person.
And that's what I love about this show.
Because, again, like, is salacious as, like, the premise sometimes feels, like, this show really is about love and relationships and working through your problems.
and in a very unconventional way, testing your guys' relationship.
Like, I didn't see a piece of shit or an evil guy in Jack.
I saw a young man, like, working through some shit.
But that doesn't mean you can't be accountable for your actions,
and it doesn't mean you can't grow from that.
So I think it's sometimes a little heavy to go down to, like, oh, he's not an evil guy.
Like, we know that.
Like, we're not trying to figure out whether Jack is evil.
We're just trying to figure out, like, what you guys have learned from this experience.
But I also want to talk about, like, obviously, Jack is the one who brought me to Temptation Island.
He's the one who wanted to do this experience.
And so after months of convincing me, we came up with the decision of, listen, if you want to go on to the show and you want to air out the dirty laundry that you've done in the relationship, that's fine.
But I don't want to go on the show.
So at the end of the day, that's not coming out.
So if you want to go on this show and you want to bring up problems that we've had, you can bring up your problem.
I'm not doing it because I don't it was his idea he wanted to go on it so I almost feel like
Correct me if I'm wrong, but
The reason that you had to go and bring that up after we had already talked about that multiple times is because you knew you fucked up
And so you thought it was gonna make you look like a better person to go and bring up
Shit we agreed wasn't gonna get brought up correct you looking at me like I'm a lie
I'm just saying like that's you didn't if that was the case we would have brought this
up when Mark's introducing us all. We would have brought that up, but you waited until you're
thinking in your head like, fuck the world's going to hate me. Like, everybody's going to look at me
as a cheater. So I'm going to go ahead and bring up what Cheyenne did, even though you knew, like,
going into this when we decided we were going on Temptation Island that that wasn't something.
I mean, it's whatever. I can, like, I don't, I don't care. Like, it happened. It is what it is,
but it's just like you can't, you couldn't even stand on, like, the simple-ass, like,
boundaries that we had set. Like, you just totally blew them out the water. And it's like,
you already broke the boundaries with being physical. So it's like, why break the boundaries with
other shit that we say? I just, that's something that I just didn't understand. Yeah,
that's, yeah, it's true. Do you think there's a part of you consciously, subconsciously,
that you brought Cheyenne to Temptation Island to ultimately end the relationship? Because deep down,
you felt like maybe you two weren't right for each other? No, I mean, no. I don't know. I would not
say yes to that no i don't i don't think that's why i brought her there because genuinely i went in there
with the intentions to be loyal and to show her that i loved her it's just that that's not the way it
went i can't change anything but all i can do is just be better every single day and show her that
you know no matter if she's you know who knows what's going to happen down i didn't spend six years
with her for no no reason but at the same time i want her to be happy and at that in that moment we
weren't happy no i hear that i mean that every time you said that on
the show. I mean, I understood you. It's like, no one watched you guys and thought, I want
something like this, but we also, no offense.
You know.
And not too much.
But we've been, listen, I've been, like, we've all had that first love. And like, love is a
powerful thing, you know, you don't learn how to drive getting in a Ferrari. You know what I'm
saying? And that's sometimes what love.
is like. It's like getting into a high-powered car not knowing how to drive, and then we get surprised
when we crash and burn. So I think everyone has a lot of empathy for you guys. But at the same time,
every step of the way, it just seemed like you wanted out of this relationship. Yeah, honestly,
I think we both wanted out of the relationship. I think... She did not seem like she wanted out of the
relationship. Well... She didn't. Yeah. Jack, I literally, I'm not coming for you.
Like I'm just saying, listen.
I'm gonna my mouth shut.
Jack, fucking listen.
I, you guys can back me up on this.
I went into the house and I was literally standing 10 toes for you.
Like, the guys would try and talk to me, and I would literally tell them to get away from me.
Like, they would try and have a conversation with me, and I would be like, I don't care, it's not Jack.
Like, it's not Jack, though.
Like, I was standing for you so hard.
So for you to sit here and say that I didn't want to be.
be with you. It's just like that
it just, you know
that's not true. Something that was like the big
catalyst and I'm not excusing what he
did or blaming it on us when I say
this, but something, the very
first bonfire he saw
was you on that
boat with that guy
and you were like talking a bunch of shit.
Okay, but Jack didn't bring up to you guys
that he's the one who told, he literally
said whatever you do, go in here
and talk as much shit as you want to talk.
Just don't get physical. I know. I'm just
explaining like what happened, like how it went down on the show. We saw that in the bonfire.
We gave Jack a really hard time of like, wow, how do you let her talk about you like that?
And Jack's like, that's just how it is with us. And we gave him a ton of shit. Not that we pure
pressured him or anything, but that was like a, I think one of the driving forces in it is we were like,
she doesn't seem like she likes you. She doesn't respect you. Doesn't respect you. So why was you
to do with somebody who doesn't respect you? Yeah. He's a rush is our relationship. You know, he's a grown
nice man and he made his decisions, but I'm just saying that was like a component.
That's crazy.
Why it happened.
Do y'all regret putting your opinions onto their relationship?
Thousand percent.
Yeah, maybe.
Thousand fucking percent.
Because knowing now, I feel fucking bad for it because I talked, they didn't show it
in the house.
I talked to Jack, we talked every damn day.
And I'm over here like, shit, she calling you broke.
I don't know.
Like hearing, hearing a woman talk down on a guy that she really loves, like.
I will say though, like, well, I think alcohol is kind of a weak excuse for
bad behavior.
Real.
Real.
I do think, you know, in relationships, and we've talked about this, and I think this was
kind of a theme with this cast, I do think men don't realize how hard it is to hear your
partner talk bad about your character, whether it's saying he's acting like a sociopath
or whatever.
And I think, you know, when Sidney for a moment was she kissed Xavier, and your first
response was, I'm going to fight for this woman.
You actually, for the first time, like the season opened up,
you're flirting with Trace Amigas, you're doing all this thing.
You saw her make out with a man, and I'm like, oh, he loves Sydney.
And I thought that was very interesting that you watched your girl cross a physical boundary,
and yet you fell more in love with her.
And yet then the next bonfire, she was kind of talking down on you,
and that's when you, like, lost some respect for Sydney, or you seemed more angry with her.
Hell yeah.
And so I guess what I'm saying is it's like, do you think,
a little bit, you clearly had every right to be frustrated with Jack, but do you think you have
spoken to him in a way that damaged your relationship? Yeah. I don't think that me and Jack have been
the most respectful to each other as we should have been in the relationship. And yeah,
I don't know. We should have talked to each other nicely and hyped each other up more and,
you know, been that person for each other. But I think it just got to a point where we were spending
so much time together and we were with each other every single day, all day, every day,
that it kind of just got to a point where it was like, I don't know, we just both.
Like we were just fighting like brother and sister. Do you feel like she respected you?
Oh yeah, I mean, yeah, we both respected each other. Obviously when you have those bad moods
and you're, you know, you're frustrated with your partner. You know, we both get a little antsy and say
things you don't mean. But I mean, overall, of course, I feel like we both respected each other
when it was really, really good.
We actually gave you shit also on the show.
It sounds like we gave you a lot of shit.
But we also gave you shit for not standing up for yourself,
it felt like at times.
And I know it's weird because the whole show,
like we only live one side of it.
We don't live their side.
And so like inevitably the entire time,
we're like, you know, us against them, like screw the girls.
But anyways, we gave, not a screw the girls,
but you know what I mean?
Like, we're living our truths and we don't see you.
But we, you know.
we would give you shit because we would
literally be at a bonfire. It would be a clip of
her like getting railed by
Preston and you
and you would just be like good for her like
I love her. That shit. Because he didn't want to look
like a hypocrite. No that shit pissed us off
bro. We didn't go on a show to just talk highly
of each other 24-7. We wouldn't
be on Temptation Island if we
didn't just only have nothing of positive things to say about each other.
We felt like moral high ground
because we're like we're not going to talk bad.
We're not talking bad about our girls. That's not
That's just how we felt.
And we also told the girls too
don't talk down on our girls.
They knew that.
Yeah, and they did it.
But I'm telling you right now
the only reason that Jack reacted
the way he reacted
whenever he saw that happen
is because he knew
he knew he did not want to look like a hypocrite.
Deep down, you know that shit fucking hurt.
It killed me.
Okay, so you were just,
you were putting on a show
the entire fucking time.
Like, you weren't being your genuine self
and like showing your genuine emotions.
Like you were putting on this front
So that way you could protect yourself in the long run when it came to social media and what people were going to think of you.
That's why he went about it the way he went about it.
He didn't want to seem like...
I didn't want to seem like a grant, dude.
But no, but doesn't it, I, we all feel like it looks bad when you see Cheyenne getting fucked.
Can we stop?
I'm saying when we're seeing Cheyenne do what she was doing and your only emotion is like we're happy for, like I'm happy for like that we was all like what the fuck.
We had bigger reactions to that shit than you.
So it kind of had us like...
We gave you shit.
We gave you bad shit for that shit.
What was like, what the fuck is this?
In that moment in the villa, I just, there was no...
I had no room to judge what Cheyenne was doing.
I mean, I feel like I was in the wrong.
I had already done what I had done.
Like, I had already hurt her.
And it was like five days in.
And like, the fact that I had to, like, let Cheyenne go through the amount of time we were there
at the very beginning.
And on top of that, she just met the girls.
And it's like, I don't know how she's doing.
So I'm sitting there like...
I don't know.
Why didn't you guys, instead of giving him shit,
why didn't you just, like, man to man,
just, like, sit him down and try to, like,
have a heart to heart rather than, like,
give your boy a hard time.
When I say give shit, I feel like that's kind of what I meant.
I thought we did, like, we did that.
It's just, it felt like Jack was...
But it was, like, Jack shitted on himself in the house,
where he always kept saying,
I'm not good enough, I'm not good enough.
And that shit would piss the three of us off
because we're like,
bro, where fuck are you getting this shit from?
But then finding out now that Cheyenne is so fucking supportive of him and all this other shit,
it's like, why are you shitting or stuff like that?
You know what I'm saying?
But isn't there a way to like hold your friend accountable while still supporting him?
We never were like, oh, good job cheating.
Like we did help.
We held him accountable.
They did.
But at the end of the day, he like took it for the team.
Like at the end of the day, he was giving Netflix like what they wanted from Temptation Island.
So it's like, you guys aren't going to sit there and be like, what they're.
the fuck are you doing?
I saw, like, you're...
The first time Jack cheated, like, if I saw him, I was asleep when the soul went down.
But if I was there and I saw him starting to do bad, I would have grabbed him by the
shoulder and not let him do that.
But once I woke up next morning, he already cheated.
And while it's like, I already cheated, like, I'm not going to go...
You already cheated.
I'm not going to, like, try to condone him now when he's already done it, you know?
Not to condone him, but, like, you can just ask him, like, why do you think you did that?
I did that.
Like, it...
This is the thing.
It's like...
It hurt bad enough to see him cheat the first time,
but then it's like,
it just kept getting worse and worse and worse and worse.
And the clips that I saw at the bonfire,
half of them were cut out.
Like...
From the show.
Yes, half of them were cut out from the show.
So it's like, what I saw, like,
it's almost you guys could have...
Whatever happened happened at this fucking point.
I really don't care.
But you guys could have, like, just been like, Jack.
Like, why would, Mikey, why would you be like,
go all in then?
Like if you're gonna cheat, go all in.
Like, at some point you could have been like, you fucked up.
Like, take a step back and really think about what the fuck you're doing.
You've spent six years with this girl.
Like, really, really think about what you're doing instead of just being like, it's a fuck fest.
Did I not say that?
You did.
They did.
I just didn't listen.
And I'm gonna say this for all three of them.
They did.
It was a mentality, too, that like you guys were kind of both single once you both, like, cheated and like you're now exploring yourself.
Because I reminded him.
of the shit you said on the first day we met.
You said, if you fuck up, it's one of those ones.
You get what I'm saying?
You said, it's up.
And I said, you remember, it's up.
Why were you, it seemed like you were more invested in their relationship than you were
around.
Because it was just the fact that, like, looking at Jack was just like, we felt bad.
Like the way Jack would, like, I've never seen a grown man talk down on himself before.
Like, to really shit on yourself constantly.
Okay, but you know Jack in real life now.
And that's not, Jack doesn't, he doesn't talk down on himself.
Okay, so why all of a sudden he's talking down on himself on the show?
Probably to make himself fucking look good.
I don't really know because Jack that's not who Jack is.
Jack is confident as fuck.
Exactly.
He's a very, like he's very, he knows who he is.
He knows he's a good-looking guy.
Like he knows all of this.
So it's like why all the sudden Jack, like when we've been in this relationship for so long,
you haven't ever talked down on yourself like that?
So why in the house are you all of a sudden talking down on yourself?
I just don't get that because that's never been a thing in our.
relationship. Like, if anything, you've always been the guy that's like, you know who the fuck you are.
Like, you've always said that. So it's just hearing them say that you were talking down on yourself
acting like you're not good enough. Like, that's crazy to me because I've never heard that before.
I just think it was by the emotions in the house. I mean, I do, I can't even recall the, like I said,
I haven't watched this fucking show. So I can't even recall the bonfire, but I just know with
some of the stuff you were saying in the bonfire that,
it
I don't know
like it's
like I told them
it's all stuff I've heard
but it's all stuff I've heard
when we were super mad at each other
it's like
you're talking to another fucking man
and like
I just like
I don't know
and then the way that
which you probably checked him
after he said I was broke
but I mean
I didn't know if you checked him
because it just cut off
and then
but like seriously
like me calling you
broke
like dude
that's a reason to cheat
Like I just I don't understand that
There's no no there's no don't don't say there's that's reason
That's not a reason
Okay then what the fuck? There's no first of all
There's no
You just said that the reason that you went and moved the way you moved in the house
Is because you saw
What I said offended you
Yeah you're right I cheated and
Yeah I don't know
Okay that's it
Do you think you mean just
Do you think you have some insecurities about yourself
You haven't fully tackled
No. I think I figured all those insecurities out after me and Shian broke up.
What were those insecurities?
I mean, first of all, not being able to be alone. I couldn't do things on my own.
Okay.
My overall body, I got, I started running and fucking working out and, like, losing weight again and, like, actually, like, focusing on myself and putting time towards myself after the show.
And...
Did you?
Because last I checked, whenever you got back from the show, all you were doing was constantly getting fucked up.
And then when we finally sat down and had that conversation,
I sat there and I told you like, this isn't...
You're good.
No, it's not that I'm good.
I'm speaking the fucking truth.
I'm speaking the truth.
Talk to it.
And we had that conversation and I have done nothing.
Like I have multiple times in this relationship is push you to be a better fucking version of yourself.
And you can't seem to accept that I have done that for you.
You have.
Okay.
So why couldn't you have said it?
Why is it?
Why can you say it now to my face?
But you couldn't have said it whenever I'm behind closed doors.
It's like, you know.
know when you got back from that show, you were doing nothing but getting fucked up and turning back into the old version of Jack that you weren't before you went on to that show.
And then we finally decided we're going to continue to be in each other's lives.
We're going to be friends.
We're going to be support systems for each other, whatever.
And I'm the one who's like texting you every single day like, hey, like, how are you doing?
Like, did you go on your run?
Like what, like, is everything good?
Right?
So it's like, I just, I don't understand.
Like, you didn't do that.
You fell right back into your old habits.
And the first thing you told me when you got off the island,
you want to know what the first thing you told me was?
Do you remember?
Nope.
I don't remember.
Even the island.
Okay.
Well, the first thing you told me when you got off the island was,
you know the one thing I learned?
I said, what did you learn?
You said that I'm going to smoke weed and I'm going to do whatever I want,
when I want, and you're not going to tell me otherwise.
Correct.
That's fine.
That's fine.
But you fail to remember that the reason that I don't want you to do,
you can do whatever you want, bro.
You can smoke weed.
You can do that.
That doesn't bother me.
But I'm not saying that in a way that's like, I want to tell you what to do.
I'm trying to just like help you grow and like help you.
Like I want you to realize that like you could be so much more because you have that potential.
But when you're constantly drowning yourself with things that don't help you, like it's hard to be the best version of yourself.
But you take everything that I say and you take it in such a bad way.
and that's not how I like am trying to make it seem like I don't want to my goal was to never give
you rules or to tell you what to do or what not to do it's just like I want you to be like the best
version of Jack and I feel like I have done that for so long in the relationship but whenever
it comes to me and like pushing me I don't get that it's just like why don't you do it with me
type of type of thing and it's like I just want to I just feel like when we were in the relationship like
it should be nothing but pushing each other, you know?
And I felt like I was constantly pushing you and not getting it.
Yeah, I failed.
I didn't do that.
I took all that for granted.
And I'm sorry that I did that.
I'm sorry, I took the whole relationship.
I took you as a person for granted.
I took all the time we spent together for granted.
And I would never take any of that back a day in my life.
I appreciate everything.
I want you to be happier than you ever were with me,
no matter what path you go down.
I want nothing but success for you.
I mean, I owe nothing but the truth to you about.
everything I experienced in this whole situation. So, I mean, that's all you deserve. Do you realize
how much she cares about you? Because I think it's pretty obvious. I mean, Mikey is like my biggest
hype man when it comes to that. He texts me all the time. He's just like, she loves you. Like, you know,
and she did love you. And she like, you know, will always love each other. That love will never be
gone. Why do you have such a hard time taking the love that she has for you in a way that will
actually help you? Because it seems like she really cares about you in ways.
that she probably should have given up on you a long time ago.
Oh, she should have kicked me to the fucking rocks.
Like, I don't even deserve her loving me still.
But I have always seen so much more in you.
And like, that's not, it was never to like, I never wanted to get rid of you.
Like, I've always, I feel like if anything, I fought for you so hard.
Just like, you've fought for me too.
But it's like, I truly don't think you realize, like, how bad, like, I rode for the relationship, you know?
What are some things about Jack that you really love about?
That's a great question.
Stop.
Don't cry.
It's okay.
You're good, you're good, you're good, you're good.
Let it out.
Let it out.
Let it out.
It's hard for everybody.
You're good.
Stand up.
Don't cry.
Don't cry.
Oh, you're over here by the cry.
I don't know.
What are you feeling right now, Jack?
I regret.
My actions, the way I just.
treated her the way I took everything for granted.
You know, it's interesting, like, it seems very real, and there's a lot of love.
But, like, maybe I'm crazy, but I don't feel like the show broke you guys up in a way.
And I feel like if you were willing...
I think we're just crazy.
I think...
We're all crazy.
I think that no matter what, at the end of the day, like, I will always have love.
Thank you.
Not let me make a minute or whatever.
I think that I'll always have love for Jack, no matter how things went on the island.
And the people that are, like, wanting me to hate him and wanting me to bash him and wanting me to just tear him into shreds, it's like, you're just not going to get that for me because I do love him.
I, like, no matter what, like, I really do love you.
And that's not going to change.
And I know you regret what you did.
and I know how bad you felt for what you did.
So there's no reason for me to make you feel worse.
You know.
I love you.
But I wish you the best.
I don't, I wish I could have you still, but I'm fucked.
Jack, have you thought about therapy?
Has Mikey encouraged me to maybe talk to?
Yeah, we've had a lot of conversations about that.
I mean, I think I sit on the phone with him maybe once every two days, maybe talking.
He just rambled.
but yeah.
So, Mike, he's your therapist.
Yeah.
I try, bro.
He's a new type of therapist.
He's changed a lot, actually, you know, from the show.
The part of you that we watch this on the show, and I think we're seeing it now,
and it doesn't seem, like, inauthentic, but there's this,
there's something about you kind of like, yeah, no, I'm a piece of shit,
and, yeah, like, she deserves better.
But, like, at some point, like, I don't know if it's a cop-out,
but it does seem, like, you clearly all.
are hurting, but what's stopping you from receiving Cheyenne's love in a way that's like,
you know what? I got to get my shit together. Like, I should be, like, why don't you just use it
as a way to hold yourself more accountable? Because, like, you're a young guy. There's definitely
a lot of life in front of you. And, like, you can, you could look back and really think of,
that's the old Jack, but you seem so reluctant to, like, take advantage of that.
I don't, I don't even know. Can you tell me the question, then?
Am I making sense?
Because it's the whole like, yeah, you concede like that you're, like, you concede your actions.
And I kind of like, almost the way you were saying it, it's just like, well, if you're so quick to be like, yeah, no, I shouldn't have done that.
Yeah, I shouldn't have cheated.
Like, why don't you just not do the thing that you're so quick to admit, you know?
It's like it's awesome that you can take accountability to acknowledge it.
But like, what's stopping you from just being a better guy?
Nothing.
Honestly, I think right when I got off the out of the island, I think immediately my brain went to what the fuck did I just do to I need to be a better person. I'm like my morals are not straight. Like I'm not a good guy. I didn't treat her good. You know, it's interesting. I don't like watching the show, it's like these two should not be together, you know? And and yet I'm sitting here just like the love that you guys have is like so palpable and obvious. Like it's hard.
not to, I honestly, I feel like
my perspectives change.
I find myself like rooting for you guys.
Yeah.
Which is probably bad advice.
Guys stop.
And sometimes hope is like,
hope can be a good thing and also in these situations
it can be like your worst enemy
because like you have so much history,
you see the good in each other.
Like I hate to ask, but is there a world?
I don't get the sense that you guys have given up
on a possibility of ending up together.
Would that be fair to say?
I mean, I guess never say never,
but I think right now,
especially after this experience,
it's just like we've really got to focus on us
and maybe just creating a good foundation
of like just a great friendship
and if we can't seem to be friends,
I mean, I wouldn't say like...
I don't think you guys can be friends.
Yeah, I don't know.
If I can just be honest.
That's good.
I don't think you guys.
You guys have seen Wolf of Wall Street, we're not friends.
You know what I'm saying?
But.
Friends from afar.
I think that if everything could go my way, like, I would want to be with Jack at the end of the day and I would want to try again.
But right now just isn't the time.
And that's not to say that it couldn't happen later on down the road.
You mentioned that Jack's close with your family.
How did your family feel about watching this all go down?
So we all went to dinner right before we went to the island.
And Jack sat down with my entire family.
And they were just like, tell me your intentions.
Like, are you going to cheat on my daughter?
Like, what are your intentions?
And he said fullheartedly, like, I'm going to prove you guys wrong.
He said it straight to my dad, straight to my mom's face.
He said, I'm going to prove you guys wrong.
And you guys can have these doubts about me, but it's not going to happen.
And then it happened.
And so my parents, like my family's immediate reaction was, what the fuck?
Like, that is not the Jack that we have been around for so many years.
But it's crazy because it's like they know like this side of Jack and they don't recognize the Jack that is shown.
And it's crazy, but they still love him.
They still text him every single day making sure he's okay.
Like, they love Jack down.
I don't think you got a chance earlier,
but what are some of the things
that you and your family love about Jack?
He's just like, as much as I have not talked so highly about Jack
or I've said things that I don't mean,
it's like Jack has been there for me through so much.
Like, he has helped me accomplish everything in my life.
Like, if it wasn't for Jack,
I wouldn't have half the things that I have.
I wouldn't.
He's just helped me so much.
much, like my style, like everything.
Like, it's from as simple as, you know, the way, I don't even know.
It's just everything.
Like, if it wasn't for Jack, like, I wouldn't be where I am today.
And my, everyone that is in my life, like, knows that.
And he's just great.
He's great with my nephews.
Like, he, my nephews adore him.
And it's just, yeah.
that Mike, there's a lot of things to love about Jack.
Do you think you have a habit of self-sabotaging?
24-7.
I feel like I constantly like self-sabistage.
I judge myself a lot.
I feel like I'm harder myself a little bit.
What are some of your biggest insecurities outside of,
I know you share it a little bit, but I don't,
my gut tells me those aren't your biggest ones.
Damn, you didn't even get this deep in the confessionals.
They're pulling aside out of you haven't seen.
Probably my adoption.
It's my biggest insecurity.
From what we've talked about and when we have gotten deep about it,
I know he, he's going to break down.
But I think it's more of just like just feeling the love of like everyone around him.
And I think that it kind of stems from a, you know,
it does stem from it from that, you know.
And I think that at points he doesn't feel that he's loved from.
He has an amazing, an amazing family.
Which I do, yeah.
His mom and dad and his brother, they are literally the best.
And so that's not what I'm meaning.
Like, he gets the love from them.
Like, he knows that.
That's not what I'm talking about at all.
I'm just saying, like, I think that he's always felt in some type of way that,
I don't know how to put it.
I wasn't.
She's unwanted.
Yeah.
I'm sure that's, yeah, tough to process.
And also I imagine, like, you know, when,
we go through difficult times.
Like you guys, you guys have clearly leaned on each other.
No one can relate to this experience except for what you guys went through.
And obviously, I imagine it must be difficult to find people to relate to that type of feeling.
Like never, anybody, but it's okay.
You said you wanted to be your authentic self.
Who is that?
Me.
Hi, guys.
Well, listen, I mean, I really appreciate your vulnerability.
you, I mean, you all seem like great people.
I think a lot of, obviously, people are watching the show,
and it's easy to judge and critique,
but you're a really young guy
with a lot of life in front of you
and a lot of potential,
and I hope that you reach it,
and you certainly can,
but it won't happen until you face
some of your demons, you know?
Yeah.
But the show also doesn't define who you are.
Like there's, you can always show a different side
that wasn't shown,
and I think that that's something that,
you just need to do. You just need to put it out there and you just need to really show like the
version of Jack that I know. I know the side that you show it on the show is like the worst side of you,
but that's not who you are. And we all know that that's not who you are. And you just need,
you need to show that. It's beautiful. You can also reinvent yourself over and over and time and time
again. Right. You know, like, yeah. I've done that a million times. This is just the start.
Like, you have a rough start. Like it's coming at you hard, you know.
Like the internet's really coming for you, but just look at it as this is the lowest you'll be and just grow from here.
That's deep.
That's bad. That's back.
It's real.
Well, before we move on to Scarlett and Cole, if you don't mind me saying, if I can just offer you guys some advice.
If there's any hope that you guys end up together, do me a favor.
And don't try to be friends until you, you know, you're not friends.
And I know you guys care a lot about each other.
and it's probably easy to always go to each other during hard times,
but like respect the relationship that you guys had, you know, like, and it's not as friends.
Like, yeah, you'll be best friends if you're together, but if there's any hope for you guys,
it's not going to happen if you try to be friends in between.
Try to not care.
Try to not care.
It's just, don't torture each other, you know.
Either let each other go, you know, and know that you have a support from afar,
or give it a shot.
One more thing I want to say
before we move on.
Another thing that just wasn't shown
in the show
is at our final bonfire,
we like had a moment
where it's like,
we literally just started
like busting out laughing.
Like we have like such
a weird dynamic
and weird,
we have just literally
like we have been so close
for so long
that it's like
I couldn't even take him serious.
Like what I was seeing
in that house was just like
that is not Jack.
Like I literally have no idea
who this man.
You said that all the time.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Every day you were like, that's not Jack.
Yeah, this is not Jack.
I have no idea who this is.
And so it's just kind of like whenever we went to make our final decisions of like who we were going to leave with or what we were going to do, it's like when I looked at him, I'm just like, we just started dying laughing.
Because I'm like, what the fuck was that?
Like, what was that?
That is not what we have been like for six years.
Well, it's interesting because like, you know, again, we all relate to these.
these first toxic loves, but it's also like, I do think we get surprised how much we get comfortable
with the pain that we cause each other. Right. You know, like we miss, we sometimes miss the pain,
we get familiar with it. That's why honestly, no offense, Mikey, I commend Sydney because like,
it's not easy to walk away from something you're so comfortable and used to, and you even get
comfortable to the pain that you guys call each other because sometimes the, you know,
the makeup is great, you know. That's right.
is giant. The makeup is giant.
Speaking of, I don't know if you want to, like, give your man some props
because, like, the internet thinks he's not giant.
I'm a fucking small boy.
He's not, guys, I'm telling you, like.
I saw that.
If it could have been Jack, if I could have had Jack in the bed, I would have chose Jack any day.
So.
Have you guys hooked up since Temptation Island?
Fuck yeah.
No, he's it.
We have not.
He's lying.
One time.
You said three times?
I said one time.
He's such a lie.
Well, thank you, both of you, for being so vulnerable and open, Jack.
It was very beautiful to see that side of you.
I think we all knew it was in there, but it was nice to see.
I'm glad it came out, I guess.
Yeah, we appreciate you.
Maybe.
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And we're back to part two of the Temptation Island
Season 2 reunion. Moving on to Scarlett and Cole.
Scarlett and Cole came to the island to regain trust in their two-year relationship
and dig deeper into their issues. While Cole maintained his physical boundary of temptation,
Scarlett formed another connection that reminded her she didn't need to settle.
And while Cole was ready to commit, Scarlett decided her journal was not the only man she wanted
to read.
Scarlin Cole, I got to know, how did you cross that bridge of living together once you got
back home from the island?
We took a little space when we got back and, you know, I really needed a reset.
And I think a lot of things were brought up for me there.
I think I was exhausted from trying and trying in another chance and another chance.
And so once we got back, I was just kind of removing myself from the situation.
and he stayed elsewhere for a little bit,
and then it wasn't too long,
and we were like, you know what, let's figure this out.
And, you know, I think that we just said,
we're going to dive back in,
and we're going to do the work,
and that's what we've been doing.
Well, I definitely want to hear about how you guys dove back in,
but I want to back up a little bit.
A big theme of your guys' relationship on the show
was talking about Cole's lying
and the lack of honesty you had.
But I don't feel like we really got to hear the context
of what you guys were talking about.
So can you shed some light on that relationship,
going into Temptation Island
and give us some examples of why trust
was such a struggle with you guys?
So, yeah, and that's the thing,
is going into Temptation Island,
we were in such a fragile place already.
And, you know, from the start of our relationship
up until island time,
I had been hurt over and over with lies.
and, you know, it would be one, and then, you know, he would be right there saying how sorry he was and it won't ever happen again and then it would happen again. And it was breaking me, you know, but I wanted this to work. And that's why I continue to put in the time and the effort and give another chance. And, you know, I see him and I love him. And I know that, like, he's not intending to hurt me. It was more so he was just, like, scared that he would lose me, you know?
So I think it was just like a bad cycle and pattern that needed to be broken, but it was breaking me.
What were some of the examples of the lies?
So we were together and then we broke up.
Wait, wait, wait.
Let's start with the lies up until when we met, we weren't dating for a long period of time.
Yeah, that's what I'm talking about.
Well, then we dated and then broke up and then got her.
Yeah, so, well, when we first started dating from the very start, there were lies from day one.
Seeing each other.
When we were seeing each other.
Not exclusive.
We just started seeing each other.
He was going to Hawaii.
And he said, this girl that I was talking to before you is going to be there.
I just want to let you know.
And I was like, okay, are you sharing a room with her?
He said, no.
He gets back from the trip.
I said, did you share a room with her?
And he said, no.
And I said, did you hook up with her?
And he said no.
I asked him again, did you share a room with her.
No, did you hook up with her, no.
And then finally it came out.
They did share a room.
They did hook up.
That was very beginning.
We weren't even together yet.
I should have known then.
I continued.
I, you know, get into the relationship and it was things like that.
Well, then we end up breaking up and we take a break.
So it's during-
You broke up with me.
Yeah, I broke up with Cole.
And, you know, we had rushed into it from our previous.
We were both in really long relationships.
Got out of those relationships and right away we got together.
I realized I was not fully ready to be committed to someone else yet.
I needed time to heal and, like, really process everything. And so we didn't talk for a couple
months. And but then, yeah, we start hanging out and just kind of started exploring the idea of
dating again. You know, I mean, we would hang out here and there, but I still wasn't ready to be
with him. And so it was like this wishy-washy gray area. Fine. Do what you want, but don't lie
about it to my face. So there were multiple occasions where, well, there was one specific. I remember,
I had gone away for the weekend. I'm hanging out with him right.
before I leave, you know, right when I get back, but I woke up feeling sick to my stomach.
And I was like, oh, I just feel like something happened last night. And I asked him, I said,
what did you do last night? And he said, nothing. I said, okay. I remember, I fly home, hold on,
I fly home. And we were talking and I said, what did you do last night? And you said nothing.
And I said, did you hook up with someone last night? And you said, no. And I said,
I'm going to ask you one more time. Did you hook up with someone? And you said, yes.
Can I give context of that, though?
The timelines messed up.
That was when we first started seeing each other, like, a year before that.
Nicole, this happened multiple times when we were broken up.
Yeah, but the time you're talking about was a time, and she wrote a wedding in Charlotte.
There were multiple times where he had slept with people and lied about it.
Same thing.
She can't keep track of how many.
Yes.
So.
We're not dating, though, just to be clear.
It's fine, but just don't lie to my face about it.
I know, I agree.
But I just, I don't want to act like I'm, cheat on it.
I hear you.
No, no.
He never has cheated on me.
To set that record straight, I've seen some things about that.
He's never cheated on it.
me that it wasn't about cheating. As you see, I'm not worried that he's going to cheat on the
island. It's not that. That's not it. It's that I have no foundation here. It leaves me with
anxiety and questions and stress. And it's like, when's the next lie going to be? There are so many
examples like that to where I was just like exhausted. And then he says, you know, if you'll just
be official with me again, there will be nothing else for me to lie about. And I was like,
all right, let's fucking do it then. That's kind of when we get back together. And, you know,
there's still been little things since then. And then that was basically the foundation of the
trust issues. And that's, you know, it makes a ton of sense. And I appreciate you sharing that
context. Call, I'm curious, like, do you appreciate what she's saying and why she feels the way she does?
Yeah, for sure. I mean, if you want to call it, I lied to her about things. If you want me to shed, like, not an excuse, but like why I lied about it, you could say, I feel like I didn't owe her the answer. We weren't dating. I asked to date you. You didn't want to date me, but you still want to meet my foot in the door with you. And I felt like...
I hear you, but you're being a little hypocritical is a little strong, but if you're not dating, be honest. I mean... For sure. When we first met, we weren't together. We were... I want to...
to date him and he did not want to date me.
Same thing.
But we were very upfront.
We were like, we're not dating.
So we have no reason to lie.
Yeah.
And so here you are kind of leaning on the fact that like, we're not dating, we're not dating.
I don't, I can do whatever I want.
You could.
And yet the fact that you lied is an example.
It had nothing to do with whether you were dating together.
In fact, if I'm Scarlett, I'm thinking he has more incentive to lie if we are in a relationship
because you couldn't even be honest with her when you could.
like you had every reason to tell the truth.
Like, she wasn't your girlfriend.
Yeah.
So, you know, you know what I'm saying?
Yeah, no, for sure.
You're still kind of like, we weren't dating.
We weren't dating is like in a justification.
Yeah, if I did it over again, I would have just told her the truth.
Like I said, like, you know, been that black and white.
And however she dealt with that, you know, that would be on her.
But like I said, I felt, you know, in those moments, I was kind of like,
I could even reworded it.
And I think I'd talk to Mark on the show, but this be like, you could have said something like,
I don't owe you that answer.
Like, you know, if you want to ask that question,
we need to be dating. So like, either let's make this concrete or like we should stop having this
gray wishy-washy, like, because she was seeing other people too. So it wasn't just like, you know.
No, but I'm assuming she was honest about it.
What? Yes. I didn't like ask questions, though. She asked, I feel like she's like, she likes to ask a lot
of questions, you know, but it's not an excuse either, but it's just. Sounds like she just
wants to know where she stands. I just, especially after I'd already been lied to, of course,
now I'm going to ask even more. You know, we're working.
so hard towards trust right now, but I still have questions, and I do question a lot. And, like,
I know that, you know, we're both just doing our best right now. So fast forward to you guys
leave the island separately. I got to ask, like, why actually go back into this relationship,
as much as you guys care about each other? It seemed like you got a lot of answers from going
on Temptation Island. And yet, here we are. Not that I'm not happy you guys are together,
but I am just wondering, what did you think was going to be different?
I just think I, I see Cole and I, you know, the way that he is with me, the way that he supports
me, the way that we live our life together, like, that's what I want. That's what I want next to me,
you know? And I think that everyone can grow. You know, I have a lot of things I need to work on,
too. And I think that we're both doing a really good job right now of putting in that effort. And, like,
when I think of the father of my children, like it's someone like Cole. And so I think, you know,
Yes, our problems have been put under this spotlight, and they've been very hurtful.
Like, I have been very hurt, but at the end of the day, like, I just think that this love is worth it.
I think he's worth it.
I think, you know, this relationship is what I want.
Has he lied to you since leaving the island, or no?
Not too much of...
Yeah, yeah.
Cole, have you lied to Scarlett since leaving the island?
Yeah, I mean, like, there's been some things that have come up, but we'll leave it up that.
Like, what? I got to ask.
It's fine. You don't have to.
I mean, you were saying not to the severity of what...
It's just been, like, little things.
I mean, ever since we've been, like, concrete in a relationship, there's never been something
lied about that was, like, all the cell was with a girl or this or that.
No, it's nothing, yeah.
Yeah, it'd be, like, white. I guess I want to call them white lies, but stuff about, like,
I guess you could say the level to something like of that.
degree. Do you know what the lies are? You do. So this is something that y'all are working through.
Are y'all in couples therapy? Not in couples. We're an individual. Individual. Yeah. I mean,
we've talked about it. I mean, at the end of the day, it's like I'm trying to, it's not about, like,
trying to prove each other right or wrong. I'm just, like, trying to see her and she's trying to see me.
And it's not that either of us are right or wrong. We just want to, like, work through it together.
And every relationship has their problems. And I think what's cool,
about ours is like we've gone through a lot of shit, but we've never like given up on each other
because we really do love each other. And I think in this day and age, a lot of people are quick
to give up on that and not work through their problems. And I mean, after the show, like, to be
honest, like, we got home and like we lived together. So we went back to the same house. And for a period
of time, it wasn't good. And like, I left for a period of time. There was a time when, like,
It was just a very, like, stagnant relationship.
But, you know, I started going to therapy.
I think I journaled every day for, like, two or three months, like, twice a day.
And just got, like, you know, worked on myself and she's working on herself.
And I think over time, like, putting in that work and also giving her the confidence, too,
to, like, see me put that work in, I think helped her overcome some, like, insecurities with me.
And it's kind of molded into, you know, like a beautiful thing.
And, like, I'd say lately, like, as far as I've come.
remember we've been in like a lot better place.
On the island, so much of your frustrations with Cole were,
seemed to be his lack or inability to have a deeper relationship or a deeper conversation.
How has that changed in your relationship?
I've actually seen Cole really open up and go a lot deeper.
And I think it's all about how deeply you've met yourself.
And so I think with this inner work and with the journaling and with the therapy and with the, you know,
issues that we've had, I think, you know, you meet yourself at new levels, which opens up, like,
different conversations. And I really have seen a lot of that. And I feel like we're getting somewhere.
And it's a beautiful thing because, like, me and her, like, really do love each other. And, like,
I don't think on her side on the show, that's shown to, like, the degree I think she got kind of
like a, people would, like, express to me that seemed like she was very cold on the show. Didn't show a lot of,
like, emotion towards me or didn't show that true love. And I know that's a bunch of bullshit.
and she did. And I just want people to know that too. Like, you could get lost and seeing the show
at Face Value for what it was and thinking, like, Scarlett didn't give a shit about Cole. And that's just
not, that's like the farthest thing from the truth. Yeah, there was, we saw her every day.
Yeah. I mean, there's blimps of her, but I mean, yeah, we have like this crazy, strong love,
and that's why it was worth fighting for. And that would suck for me a lot in the relationship, too,
because, like, I had so many things to offer and so many qualities and we loved each other so much
that for the trust to dampen everything else, like, that would obviously be, like, a let
And I wanted to fix that because I'm like, if we can figure that out or at least make it stronger, it's like everything else over here flourish.
It turns us into like a power couple honestly because we have so many things going for us.
I got to ask though, if the lies aren't so bad or they're white lies, why are you guys so resistant to share what they are?
You know, I feel that we shared so much and we really opened up and put ourselves on the show that I think from here it's like, why am I going to open up anything else?
Like we've, we did that.
We're working through that and...
That is why we're here, though.
Yeah, but I don't feel the need.
To, like, give the audience more ammo against your own relationship.
It's like we're really doing what we can right now.
There was a lot talked about on the show that, like, we talked about that actually was never shown in the show.
And so, like, you know, we did open up and, like, express our problems in certain situations of things that did happen and, like, really dive into it.
And, you know, the overall theme is, you know, obviously the trust and, you know, things that stemmed into that.
I know where we are now. And, you know, with the show coming out, I think, like, you know,
we fought it out. It can call it, yeah, it kind of like, it kind of came out and we were, we were at
Coachella, and then we get back, and I think it was like, we went out of it for two, three days,
and I think it's out of our system now. We get opinions from friends and family.
I hear you. I will say, like, being vague about it only makes the audience question.
They're going to assume you're covering for him.
assume it's worse than what it probably is. And they're going to assume you're probably just
lying to yourself about the relationship, which is what you don't want. So it's easier to just
lay everything on the table if it's not as bad as what we've already heard that he's done.
And you're working through it. Y'all are actively in therapy. You're actively working on
your relationship. So, you know. But I hear you. Well, while watching it back, it honestly seemed
like you brought Cole to the island for a way out.
I've seen so many of those.
And it almost felt like you kept moving the goal post on Cole,
but you would say that is it accurate or unfair?
Cole and I were set on leaving that island together.
You know, like, I thought it would be a breeze.
Because when you're going on Temptation Island,
the goal is like not cheating, you know?
And so that's what we were like, of course we can go on here and make it to the end.
Like, we're not going to go on here and cheat.
But that's not what it is.
You get there and you really have to analyze your relationship.
You are forced to dive in and talk about it nonstop and, like, really look at all the pieces that are not working.
And, you know, and so I think I was already like, you know, there had been so much.
And so I think once being there and everything is just surfacing, I was like, I need space, like getting back.
you know, I really do need to figure it out. And it's like, you know, I also see people. It's like,
you didn't even give him a chance to grow and like take him with you at the final bonfire. I haven't
seen him this whole time. I've seen clips and the clips that you see at the bonfire. That's not what
they were showing me. I was seeing him not put in any work. I was seeing him just sitting in a corner being
like I'm not doing anything, you know. So I didn't know that he was really on the other end, like,
trying. And so for me, the things that he said at the final bonfire, I was just like, I've heard
this before. I need to leave and see for myself. In what ways did he try? Because it honestly looked
like, Cole, you were like going on dates with people you clearly weren't interested in. I mean,
I wasn't interested in anyone in the house, and that's just the reality. I obviously love this girl
so much. I don't think there could have been 12 high quality candidates that would influence it any
better. I mean, like, I was fully committed to going on the island, carrying myself in the way that
aligned with my values and my morals and how my family raised me and I was going to do that
no matter if she went off the rails or whatever like I was going to stick to that and that's just
who I am as a person. I carry myself on the island in the way that I'll look back on this 50 years
from now and still have no regrets and respect and my kids and family and future wife one day
we'll watch you know and it's like we're all good so I don't think um I did everything that I did
on the island and you know leaving it it was I mean not going to lie like I did get mad at the end
They didn't really show it to the degree, but I was, you know, frustrated.
Yeah.
Well, I mean, they didn't show everything, you know, but frustrated.
But I feel like I was frustrated because I cared, though, because I love this woman, you know.
And like I said, it was hard when we got back for a period of time.
And I felt all the feelings of feeling rejected or abandoned or this and that.
And, you know, it wasn't easy.
During your anger, one thing you said is that you think that Scarlett has something
as she needs to work on herself or maybe you mentioned past Trump.
or childhood or whatever, is that how you felt or do you feel that way?
Or is that just out of anger?
A lot of just anger.
I think we all have stuff to work on.
And, you know, I have stuff to work on.
She has stuff to work on.
And that's on, you know, her time and her accord.
And just to, you know, not make it, I guess, feel like it was all on me or it was all my fault.
While, like, you know, we left the island and obviously not together.
The boundary you guys set in terms of not going on multiple dates with the same person,
you seem to break that boundary.
your reason for feeling like that was okay?
So, you know, first date, I took Bradley on a whim.
We had met the guys the night before, and I just was like, all right, picked him.
We ended up having a great time, but then we, you're right, we had said, you know,
like, let's take someone different each time.
The next time I take Clint, and on Bradley and I's first date, we had great conversations.
Back at the villa, great conversations.
I feel like he challenged me, you know, like we really were diving in, like trying to figure out
my problems trying to grow. I take Clint and the conversation's like he's great. I love him.
I had so much fun with Clint. But it just, if I was looking for growth, if I was looking for
answers, I was playing at surface level by taking someone new on every single date. I'm having to
start the conversations back from square one. So third date, I said, I'm taking someone else new again.
and
I don't know if I'm all
to say this,
but production was like,
Scarlett, like,
what are you going to get out of that?
You know,
like you clearly aren't having,
you tried this last time
and like nothing came of it
and they were like,
take Bradley,
like you clearly have the best conversations,
you're actually growing from this.
And I was like,
you know what,
you're right.
Like, if I,
if that's how it's going to be,
then.
Did you ever feel like
you were tempted
to get physical
with Bradley or was it?
Never.
Bradley was seriously such a great friend for me.
And what's not shown a lot is the conversations we had
where you can see how much we talk about Cole and I,
you know, where he really was just like pushing me and helping me.
And there was such a clear boundary with Bradley.
He even jokes, he was like, one time I sat too close to you
and you were like, scoot over, you know?
Like it was just very clear that there was never going to be a lying curve.
And he was just a great support system, a great rock. And I'm so grateful for him for that.
There was a moment where you said that you didn't think, maybe I'm paraphrasing, but you
question Cole's masculinity. I think we've talked about masculine energy, which is totally
different than being, like, masculine. And so I think that that's where it got, like, misconstrued
maybe, but no. No, I hear you. But, like, I think, you guys let me know what you think. You guys let me know
what you think, but I don't know if I would hear the difference between questioning masculine
energy versus just his general. What is masculine energy? Yeah. I feel like it's a sense of like being
grounded and like strong and knowing who you are and just being able to like died and yeah,
stand firm. Did you feel in that moment that cold didn't have that? Is that kind of where that came
from? In what moment?
When you talked about the masculine energy? I never talked about it. Not on the show,
but... Oh, in our relationship? In your relationship? Yeah, there's been times, of course,
you know, where I think that our energy is just like done in a line. I think it's less about
the word energy and more. Like, if, I just think a lot of guys that would be hard to hear, it might
even be true, but I just think... No, I get that too. Yeah, I think a lot of guys would almost rather
see their girl make out with a guy than have their girlfriend question their masculinity,
or their masculine energy.
I don't question his at all.
Okay.
Yeah, not at all.
Reading the journal, you said she would not want you to do this before you did it.
And you did it anyways.
Do you regret doing that?
Yeah, I shouldn't have read the journal.
You know, that's why I owned it on the show and I would have owned it in real life.
You know, obviously I read it for reasons that I did, but it's not an excuse and I read the journal and I shouldn't have read it.
And did you think at that point maybe she was, like, where would have read it?
your mind when you chose to like cross that I mean to be honest I didn't
slept in two or three days went over to their house I mean he's digging through the
suit case I mean we're all fucked up like I don't know like I'm not talking you did have
summit be like you guys can't know if you should read that I don't even know if I heard
yeah that's her you're like do you think she'll be mad cut to Scarlet being like we have
one rule she goes we have one rule props to the show like they got me like they
spiced up her bonfire clips where I was like fuck I think she's falling for Bradley so I'm like
freaking out, I'm losing control. I go over there. I can't talk. It's not like in the real world,
but I can just text my girl and be like, hey, is everything good? Like, what's going on? I'm like,
the only info I'm going to get, apart from a shitty tainted bonfire clip is I can hopefully read
like a love letter in her journal and feel secure again. Like, oh, I'm fine. I love that Cole is
sitting there and he's like, what if they show this in the bonfire? I'm like, duh, they're like
going to, but they didn't show it to me. They didn't show it to me. They didn't show me.
And I said, they probably just showed cold not talking to anyone for the fifth time of the row.
I was convinced I was like, he would not do that.
He knows that's my rule.
And so I was like, if you guys just show me a clip of him going through my journal, like, I will be done.
And they didn't show it.
So I was like, he didn't do it.
The producers put it on top there to make me think that.
And then he tells me at the final bonfire.
And that's when I was like, you just broke my trust even more.
And that's when I was like.
And where is your journal these days out in the open or locked in a ball?
It's at Netflix.com.
Yeah, they've lost it. No, I still leave it on my nightstand.
It's actually my notebook.
That one was, yeah.
No, I have my real journal at home.
It sits on my nightstand, and I just trust that, like, that will not happen again.
I've never looked at her journal in the real world.
Let's just leave it at that.
I shouldn't have looked in the journal.
Understood.
Whatever part of your brain that thought, hey, I don't know what she's doing with Bradley,
but this theme of white lies, big lies, lies, you know, is obviously this lack of trust.
And do you think your propensity to lie for whatever reason when you do plays a role in, like, thinking, oh, if I can lie, and if I'm capable of it, maybe Scarlett is too?
No, not no, no.
I mean, I don't think one liar makes another liar.
I don't, I mean, to be honest, I've never caught her lying to me about anything.
and I think are since I've known her, so I don't really have anything on her.
But why not trust her in that moment that?
Oh, just because the show's so fucked up.
I mean, like, they're just like, I mean, every bonfire I would just be sitting there like,
damn, this looks bad.
And then I'm seeing all the shit happening to them and I'm getting paranoid and freaked out.
Yeah, but like, you were so, you were the almost annoyingly self-aware of the cameras
in a sense of like, well, which one is it?
Do you know it's like kind of bullshit or, you know, they're fucking with you?
There was one bonfire clip where if it never happened, I would have been fine.
but they made it look to me so bad
where they spun it up
where like, you know, he's like picking her up in the clip
and then going down into the foam
and then they showed some other shit
like they were in the photo boot together
and I don't know, I mean,
I lost like 15 pounds on the show
like I was stressed the fuck out.
I hear it, but like in all the production talk
and blaming production,
just to play, not even playing devil's advocate,
but like that's what the show is about.
Like they're not just doing it to mess with you.
They want to see how strong your relationships are.
Like everyone comes into the show
being like, we're strong, we'll never break up.
And they're like, bet, you know what I'm saying?
They're like, they want to see that's why they're not showing you everything.
That's why they're cutting things off.
They want to know.
And that's kind of the point of the show is, are you going to let your mind wander?
Are you going to think the worst thoughts?
Well, it was a mental battle.
Or are you going to trust your partner and not read her journal?
It was mental warfare all the time of like knowing what was real, what wasn't, what they're thinking.
I can't talk to her.
Like in the normal world, I just, hey, Scar, I saw that today.
Is everything okay?
And she's like, yeah, and explains it.
You can't do that on this show.
You talk to her at the end.
But that is what you're saying,
where it's ultimately just a test of like...
Yeah, trust.
Unwavering trust no matter what.
It's like all your heart.
Yeah.
You all for handled that lack of trust differently, you know?
And I think that kind of speaks to where you guys were or weren't in your relationship.
Yeah.
I mean, like...
Well, they all, you know...
He's drunk.
The journal...
Some acknowledges he got messed with, you know?
Yeah.
You moved a little bit differently than Cole.
You know, so you didn't let those insecurities or whatever they showed you or didn't show you have you snowball.
You trusted Kaylee.
You're like, I know who my girlfriend is.
I mean, we literally went into the show and I, we like, I felt like we were like going off to war.
Like your loved one was going off to war.
We like wrote each other notes.
Yeah.
And it was like no matter what you see, it's going to be the worst thing.
And like those notes is like really kind of what helped us get through the process of just like reading those and
just like yeah having trust no matter what whenever someone asks about the show i say it's a test of
like yeah just like your your backbone to just keep going forward but i think it's more than that
it's like trusting your heart and following your heart yeah is what really gets you through
no well that's i mean i guess for us where there's like definitely this unwavering love like the love's
never in question i'm just saying the trust also that like you're not doing anything i gotta be
honest though kaley you had great clips bro what do you mean you had phenomenal clips of me because
i was so well but no i know i know i know i know
No, I used to.
Oh, you mean I behaved like an angel?
Your kids were not that great.
We were like, what they're not good?
We used to spaz on Summit.
We like, bro, we wish we wished that's what our girlfriends is in the same.
Let me get some, it was still tripping.
Something it was shipping.
It was what they talked about earlier.
But you get so in your head.
I get it.
Yeah, and what we talked about earlier where it really does hit a man's ego when you're getting talked shit about it.
Yeah, but we went on to the show to talk about that thing.
But was I just speaking to.
We had this mentality of like, we're not going to talk shit.
so we felt this moral high ground.
I'm just explaining how I feel.
I will say, like, please.
She can say whatever she wants to me to my face.
We will get through it.
We'll talk about it.
If she were to say that to a friend
or certainly another guy,
that would hit very differently.
But that is how they are supposed to learn
about their relationship and grow
is to like lean on these men who are there for a reason
to talk about their relationships
and what they're missing and what they're needing
and have these men give them advice
from a male's perspective.
That's a dangerous.
Like if we were just sitting there talking
about how much we loved our partner,
like, there's no show.
And if I didn't have the big, like,
you know, animated reaction,
then I wouldn't have learned either.
If I just saw it and was like,
I don't care, then, like, I wouldn't have learned either.
You know, I needed that.
It was his reaction.
I'll say, too, like, from the moment they pay.
But it's all relative.
Like, for me, it was, I don't know.
I'd say, like, the feelings are,
like, from the moment she, like, yeah,
we go on the show.
We're like, we're going to do this, we do that.
I mean, when I was sitting in the chair and she picks a dude in front of me, I'm not going to lie, I had some rage in my chest.
I'm angry.
I cry.
They all did.
Yeah.
I don't want to see my girlfriend on a date with some, like, I was mad at every bonfire because going into, I'm like, I'm going to see her fucking with this.
I don't want to see that.
But I mean, you guys are together.
Yeah.
Like, y'all have made it through the hard part.
Y'all are working on your relationship.
What are like the guidelines and the boundaries you guys have in your relationship now that you did not have before?
I think we weren't putting in this much work before.
You know, I think it was just kind of like, I will say to, you know, our prior relationship,
I don't, I think he put in like, or he was way more sure, whereas I feel like, you know,
I did have that time where there was that gray area and I was kind of in and out.
So I just think since being back and since being back together, we're like, if this is what
we're doing, this is what we're doing.
We're both all the way in.
We're both putting in the work, you know.
I think the way that we communicate now is way.
more open and transparent.
You know, used to I felt like he was super big with me.
I would ask a question, I would get one word response.
And I'm like, please, I need more.
And now he's like, this and this and that.
And I'm like, perfect.
She tells me, shut up.
Would you say you're 100% certain that Cole is your person and you'll spend the rest
of your life with him?
I think so.
I think.
Yes.
Yes.
I know Cole certain.
I don't know. Yes, I do. As long as we can just commit to the growth and like be better.
You know, I think that, you know, I was getting so much shit for choosing myself at the end.
And it's like, you can't just let yourself be miserable and like be so exhausted all the time, you know?
And it's like you have to choose you and you have to choose what's best for me.
And I think Cole is absolutely what is best for me.
and I just want us to stay on this track
and then I think we'll be together forever.
Just beautiful.
Do you think he'll ever lie to you again?
Probably.
But not, you know, I think that maybe something,
I think he's way more transparent now.
I will say too a lot of like the lies,
it's not that he's done anything to hurt me, you know,
but it's still a lie.
And so...
I would argue that being lied to is one of the most hurtful things in a relationship.
I agree.
You know, it did destroy me.
It destroyed our effects.
foundation and it did hurt, you know, and it, yeah, but I really have seen.
Part of going to, like, therapy and stuff, too, is, like, maybe I would lie about something
because it would, like, it'd be, like, a white lie that just, like, came out of me.
Like, I just, versus now I might think before you speak.
And then give a educated, thoughtful answer instead of just, like, telling her something
that sounds good. Yeah.
If that makes sense.
Sure, except that, like, what about the times when she's, like, no, but are you,
lying and then she does the follow-up questions and then in the past you would still lie until
she just caught you.
I don't know that's happened in a long time.
It hasn't happened since before the island.
I mean like, yeah, because she used to like question me so much because like she did not
trust me at all so we'd be walking on eggshells all the time so I'm just being questioned
all day long and that's not.
Well, but he kind of taught me to do that because I knew once I asked the fifth time I would get
the truth.
All right.
Well, not to go back there, but I do want to give you guys one more.
chance because I do think people are just going to assume the worst. But what are these little lies
that have been told since you guys got back together? I'm thinking of one right now. Which one are you
thinking of? I'm thinking of the girl. There was a girl that texted me that I ran into at a bar
that I had a prior thing with when we weren't dating. And the conversation of the bar with the
girl was short and it was because I just ran into her. I'm not going to not say hi and it was of the sorts
of like how's it going and she was like you've been off your social media for a month or this or that
like and I was conversations a bit like I have a girlfriend I live with my girlfriend Scarlett that was
that I went home that night drove home went to bed at 1030 with her and then I wake up in the morning
with a text from 3 am from the girl who's like it was like a drunk text or something and it said like
so good seeing you like I'm not like a
It was a drunk text, and I just saw it, and I was like, what the, like, I never responded
to the text, but I felt like an invasion of my privacy and my phone.
Like, why did this person text me that?
Like, it just, it was weird.
It was, like, caught me off guard.
So I deleted the text, and then she found it on, she snooped through my phone one day,
found the deleted text message.
She asked me point blank, and I told her, like, what I just told you guys, and then, I guess
that was.
You snooped in his phone?
I did look at the deleted messages.
I mean, my password.
I kind of giving, looking at your journal a little bit.
My password is all zeros.
Like, I mean, I don't, I don't, like, hide my...
Go.
Like, off the world.
Yeah, he's very open.
I think we've all been through each other's partners' phones.
He's changed shit now.
I've never been through her phone, even when I've asked.
But, you know, I just...
The point is, like, I'm very open,
I don't hide shit from her.
My phone, I don't...
She wants to see some of my phone.
My text messages just pop up.
Yeah, it's not like he's, like, hiding his phone from me, you know?
And when she told...
I get why she was mad that I deleted the text.
My reason, I understand.
Well, I will say, I asked who you...
If anyone had...
texted you that night because I was in L.A. And he said no. And I said, I didn't know.
I asked again, of course, no. And then I said, um, I said, really what about the date of and said
the reason why. And he was like, the reason I said no is because I didn't know what she was
talking about. I generally got out of the shower and was like, she had, there was like a concern on
her face. And I was like, what's wrong? And she's like, has a girl texted you recently. And I sat
there. I'm like, I, you didn't remember the leading? Well, this is like a month. This is like a month
prior. So I sat there. This was like, I don't know. What do you talk about? And then when she
brought it up, she said, did this girl text to you? And I said, yeah. And then I showed her the
text and, like, showed her I never responded. And like, that was that. But, you know.
And I, but for me, it was just more so we're working on transparency. Why? Delete it.
Why not just be like Scar? I saw her last night. This is, she texted me. But the,
the deleted message made it feel shady to me. Did you just have like a gut feeling that
something that happened.
Yeah.
Have you ever tried just being like,
overly transparent where you just
Yeah, the same girl, the same girl
commented on my Instagram story like two
weeks later and I told Scarlett like,
yeah, just letting you know like this girl comment.
I think I unfollowed her right there, point blank.
Yeah, that was that.
And she was like, thank you.
I mean, I'm like, even with the text message,
though I didn't like lie.
I was like, yeah, there's still texting me.
Watch out there all right.
No, listen, you seem like a good guy, like you said.
But the lying is weird.
It's a weird.
That's why it's frustrating because it's like you're not intentionally trying to do it.
Well, you're letting them off the hook there.
It's a lot is a lie.
It's just, it happens.
It's the disclosure affirmation, especially the dynamic of our relationship then.
Obviously, there's a lot of, maybe if we were fucking, yeah, like, if we're perfect trust, whatever,
maybe you don't have to disclose a girl messaging you that you don't respond to,
but because the dynamic of where we were at that time, there was a lot, she didn't trust me.
That would have been a good opportunity for me to be like, yo, like, this girl texted me, just don't let you know.
Like, I didn't respond.
Here you go.
And like, lift it at that and, you know, move on, which is how I would have done it over.
What stopped you from saying, you know what?
I gave you another chance.
I did.
I was not happy.
But there's a difference between not being happy and we're still willing to work on the relationship.
That's where I can see where he's, you know, I don't know.
It's been hard.
I'm not going to lie.
It's been so fucking hard, and there have been so many moments where we've, you know, broken down.
And, you know, we still are.
But I, like I said earlier, you know, I just feel like I'm willing to fight for it.
You know, if he had cheated on me, no, I'm out.
I'm out the door, you know.
But it's, these are things that, like, I don't think he would ever hurt me, you know.
And that, in, like, a bigger way, yes, the lies do hurt a lot.
Like, it really has damaged me so much.
But I just think, like, Cole is an amazing guy.
And I see him, and I, you know, I get to experience his love every day.
And, you know, so some things are just worth working through.
On the island, you said you felt like Cole held you back in ways.
What did you mean by that?
Not holds me back in ways, like, in life.
Like, because he pushes me, you know, we do all the things.
But I think what I meant was holds me back from maybe being able to be full.
scarlet because sometimes like maybe the conversations weren't fully there or I wasn't like getting my needs met there.
And so I feel like I got a little disconnected from myself. I got a little disconnected from my spirituality.
Like I just didn't feel fully me and I felt held back in those ways. And that was something that I really realized on the island.
I was like, wow, like there are pieces of me that have been missing and like that I'm not willing to separate from.
Like these things are really important to me. And so I think that's what I meant.
you know, just by being held back from like my own self.
Well, I'm glad you guys were able to work it out.
It's good to see you guys back together.
I really hope you can get through these lies.
I will say, like, if you can't figure it out, it will be the end of you guys.
Because like the thing about a lie, it's like a disease that grows.
And then it doesn't even matter what the lie is, little big, small white lie.
It's like when you plant that seed of doubt, it's just really hard to grow the type of relationship.
You guys seem to work so hard on growing.
And so I hope you guys are able to work through that because, yeah, a lot of couples have not made it work because of little things like that.
Because someday you will reach your limit.
And hopefully that doesn't happen.
He's got this, don't you?
You got it.
I believe you both.
Yeah.
Well, we appreciate you guys for being vulnerable, being honest.
I know it's not easy to do.
And since you guys are together, no one likes having the relationship picked apart.
So I appreciate you guys being honest.
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And we're back to part two of the Temptation Island Season 2 reunion.
Going around the room, what is the most important thing
everyone has learned about love and relationships from this process?
Let's start with you, Cole.
I think like picking off like Scarlett and just what I've learned is like how much work is involved
in creating a strong foundation and relationship with someone that you really love. I used to think like
you can love someone and then it's like you just go on a cruise control and it's like every
freaking day like I mean like these problems we have like they're obviously a lot better but it's like
every day I have to show up for her in a way that makes her feel safe shows transparency shows her
you know the things that she needs and then she reverse the things that I need and it's a constant
it, not battle, but like, I mean, it's, it's a full-time thing to really create something beautiful
with someone, you know, and you got to put work into it every day. And it gives your partner
the confidence, too, to trust you more when they see you put in that work because they see the
time invested. And so it's not like you just wake up and go through life together. It's like,
you know, it's the most important thing and the hardest thing that you can do, but it's so
beautiful on the other side when you can make that happen. So to find someone like her,
it's worth it to do it with her. I think that's very rare these days to find someone that's,
you're willing to go the mile an extra mile with and do the work.
And maybe before the island, that was something that I didn't have, like, that strong of a
good response.
Scarlet.
Yeah.
Good it, Cole.
That was beautiful.
Summit, what about you?
I learned so much, I feel like.
It's hard to, like, know where to begin.
But I feel like almost oppositely from Cole, I feel like if there's anything I learned,
it's that there's so much, like, grace that needs.
needs to happen in a relationship. And I agree. It should be work. It should be work every day to be
the best versions of yourself, not only for each other, but as a unit. But ultimately, I almost feel
like temptation taught me a lot about just this idea of like having grace. Because I feel like we used
to get on each other for all this little bullshit. And then after Temptation Island, all those
little bullshit just seems like irrelevant to like what actually really mattered. And that was
the fact that like we didn't want to live without each other. And all those little things just
didn't seem like they mattered nearly as much anymore. And that almost made it the relationship
feel like way less work than we were making it seem to be. Mikey, what do you find so funny
about Summit talking? I just love how Summit talks. He's just so like here with it. Just love how he talks.
I'm really curious, Mikey. What did you learn about love and relationships from this experience?
I learned that you have to be intentional within your relationship or it'll be gone.
I also learned that you've got to be serious with yourself and you have to be serious as an individual
because sometimes it's really time to grow up within your relationships.
And if you don't do that, I am a prime example of what will happen.
Okay.
So yeah.
How about you, Jack?
Don't ever take your, I mean, advice or anything.
I feel like I took my relationship for granted.
And I think when you're in that moment of that relationship
and during those really, really good times,
you don't think about what if that wasn't there anymore.
And just don't take anything for granted,
especially your partner.
Because once it's gone, it's gone and your feelings are hurt.
Or maybe not gone.
Oh, yeah, do one more thing.
It's not bad to be vulnerable.
It's not a bad thing for a man to be vulnerable at all.
And it's not bad for somebody to love somebody
to the point where they want to cry.
every single day. That is not a bad thing. And I had to get that out because it's not a bad thing.
And showing your emotions for somebody that you truly fucking love, that's not. And I would do it
all over again. You get what I'm saying? So that's just something I had to get out. So yeah.
Okay. Well, before we get to the ladies, something I thought that maybe I just was reminded of
watching you guys because there seemed to be this theme with you guys being like, you know, we're good guys.
We're not bad guys. And I would agree, you all seem like good guys. But it felt like watching the show back.
I was a reminder that there's a huge difference between being a good guy and a great partner.
Yeah.
And I think when the ladies are talking about bare minimum, I think that's correct me if I'm wrong, kind of what you're speaking to.
And I think sometimes we forget that there's so many examples of bad guys out there that just because you're a good guy doesn't mean you're giving your partner enough and you're showing up in the ways that they might need.
Yeah.
Well, especially like get girls like this, you know.
Very true.
Yeah.
Very true.
Shian, what through this process did you learn about love and relationships?
A big thing that I learned while being on the island and just going through the experience was
I really needed to take more accountability for the way that I would speak about Jack and stuff
because, I mean, the way you talk about your partner can push them over a limit.
And that's what happened to me.
And I think that at some point...
No, no, no, no.
I'm a bad guy.
You're good.
It's not your fault, too.
No, well, I'm just saying, like, I did learn, like, at some point you have to watch how you're talking about the person that you love and just not take them for granted.
And yeah, that's what I learned.
At the end of the day, it didn't end in my favor.
And it ended with a big heartbreak, but that's not, it's okay.
It was a good, it was, I wouldn't take back the experience.
It happened.
It is what it is, and life moves on.
You're definitely not a bad guy.
He just got some shit to work through, but.
I know.
You.
Sid?
I would say what I learned through my experience is that the foundation of your relationship really matters.
So, like, if it starts off Rocky, then that's kind of what it will be.
So when I went to the first bonfire and I saw what I saw, it triggered me back to where we started.
And it showed that our foundation wasn't stable because I couldn't watch that and be like, oh, that's not my key.
My key's not flirting with them.
My first instinct was that's exactly who my key is.
That's what I've known my key to be.
So I just, I feel like foundation is very critical in a relationship.
Can we?
I feel like I learned that life is literally all about love.
And literally, what do we have in life if we don't have love?
Like you would be lonely.
And I learned through this process, I literally would sit there every day and be like,
I think I actually love Summit more and more every single day.
Then I did the day before, and I don't know if it was the distance, or just, like, really digging deeper within myself and realizing he really is who I want to be, like, living with 12 other guys and still just being, like, literally all I want is my boyfriend right now.
I don't know.
I think I just learned love is everything, and I just want to be with you for the rest of my life.
Any chance in engagements?
I think they got to get that dog first.
Yeah, let us get the door.
I need to move in together.
It is weird because I feel like I'm ready for it all,
but I'm almost like, you know, let's see.
Take it one day at a time.
Yeah, we don't want to rush anything.
No.
Unless, right now, you're going to.
Someone needs to spice this up.
That's your one. Spice it out. That's what you said on the show.
Oh, yeah.
Oh, yeah.
That's not bringing back the trauma.
That was a bad.
And Scarlett, what about you?
I feel like I learned so much, and I really,
Really grace, I think that's a big one, you know, but I think, too, is like, always remaining a team.
And, you know, it's not us against each other. It's us against, like, all of these different problems that are within the relationship.
And so I think, you know, I can get so frustrated and he can get so frustrated with me, but it's like remembering to just come back together.
Like, we're you in it and we need to move that way.
Well, I will say it was a great scene to see the three of you boys. I don't know where you were, Jack, but sleeping all in some things.
This room was a really sweet moment they showed.
I mean, it's not like we were sleeping with girls.
That was a little embarrassing.
I was jealous that you guys had each other like that.
I was like, where for my girls in my room?
The context is that his room had AC and I had like these big ass centipedes walking on my bed.
It's okay, man.
I was to explain why you guys like that's all right.
But no, but it was the frogs that would get night and keep me up all right.
But it was the moments, it was just like the moments like that where we were just together.
We were able to have, even though I was having nightmares and I woke up for my
sleep every I know.
No, he would have like
sleep talk and stuff. He'd be talking like crazy.
When people watch the show, they're probably like, oh my God,
they're such drama kings.
But really, like,
when you think that. Drama kings,
that's a thing. Well, we appreciate
all of you, obviously, for coming here today
and being so open and honest. And
also for going on this show,
I can imagine it is
not easy to watch it back and
have opinions of the world now
in your relationship, in your home, in your
lives, but it was entertaining for us to watch, so we appreciate you all being vulnerable and
giving yourselves. Yeah, truly, I really appreciate it. You guys were an enjoyment to watch,
but even today, like, it's not easy to do this, and thanks for showing up, especially you two.
I know it wasn't easy, and you too as well, yeah, so thank you. Although we're tempted to
keep going, I think that does it for the Temptation Island Season 2 reunion.
As always, we want to
thank the entire cast, our team, Netflix, and of course, Mark L. Wahlberg, for this incredible
opportunity.
Shout out of it.
Well, this has been great, and I feel like I'm at the bonfire right now.
If we could leave you all with one final message, love will persevere between two people who
are right for one another.
Bye bye.
Bye.
That was great, everyone.
Good job.
