The Viall Files - E174 Why Have You Been So Quiet With Victoria Fuller

Episode Date: September 9, 2020

On today’s episode of The Viall Files we catch up with Victoria Fuller as she joins us for her FIRST EVER podcast. That is right; Victoria has never sat down to talk about her side of the drama on P...eter’s season of The Bachelor. And today we get to it. What's the real story with the woman from her hometown who accused her of being a home wrecker? How did the conversation really go outside of her parents house? And how about that Chase Rice date! We also take some time to go through those Chris Soules rumors and find out what she herself could not believe. She shares all of her thoughts while being vulnerable, honest, and fun today on Viall Files. We are so glad she chose us.  ”Sweetie, I am going on The Bachelor not Love Island.”  Make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@kastmedia.com to be a part of our Monday episodes.  THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: HIDRATE SPARK: hidratespark.com/viall for free us shipping on the new Hidrate Spark Steel Bottle DIPSEA: dipseastories.com/viall for a 30 day free trial  EARNEST: earnest.com/viall to get a $100 cash bonus when you refinance a student loanEpisode Socials:  @viallfiles @nickviall @Vlfuller See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:00:58 What's going on? How are you? I'm good. So good. We have a great episode for you today. I'm very excited to bring this to you. We're the first. Oh, God, I love being the first.
Starting point is 00:01:08 Victoria Fuller. What a fun episode. I wasn't really sure how it was going to go. I extended the invite to Victoria, who was in LA, hanging out with three other women from her franchise. We get some dirt and update on that and her life, what's going on. She had some interesting times on the show.
Starting point is 00:01:26 It was a great conversation. I think you guys are really going to enjoy it. We had some fun. We laughed, we cried, we got in a fight. No, I'm just kidding.
Starting point is 00:01:33 It was a lot of fun. I really appreciate Victoria taking the time and I hope you guys enjoy listening. I hope, I hope that you feel like you got to know her a little bit better. And so, yeah, if you're tuning in to just hear the Victoria episode, all you bachelor fans out there,
Starting point is 00:01:51 check us out at Mondays for Ask Nick episodes, where we hear some wonderful relationship stories. I give my opinion on them and people find it helpful most of the time. And yeah, also, if you want to rate us five stars, we'd certainly appreciate that subscribe obviously and uh without further ado should we just get right to the vf the vf
Starting point is 00:02:11 bio files victoria fuller oh it's a combination made in heaven oh my goodness let's get to it is my how does my is my voice annoying uh welcome hi i'm so glad you could join us, Chrissy and myself. I'm so happy too. This is your first podcast. It is. Thank you for having me, both of you. We appreciate you choosing us. I did choose you, so you're lucky.
Starting point is 00:02:39 I know you have a lot of options in the podcast. When it comes to podcasts. Podcasts, even specifically ones that might associate themselves with the bachelor so this is true clearly you've i'm assuming you've had options to do other podcasts and interviews yeah i have why have you been so quiet um i think that it's just been really chaotic and hectic over these past like six months. So I kind of just was like, fuck everyone. I don't really want to talk to anybody.
Starting point is 00:03:12 I kind of just want to like chill out, do my own thing. Are you kind of generally a private person? Extremely private. Despite going on Bachelor? My whole life was aired. Yeah. Absolutely. How did you, I i mean you know since no one's really
Starting point is 00:03:28 had the opportunity to ask you really any questions i feel like correct i don't have to worry about if things have been asked and answered before so let's start at the beginning oh okay how did you find your way on to peter's season okay so this actually started i was um drunk with my roommate go figure and she signed up for love island another tv show and she didn't make it on it's fine wait so she didn't make it on america yeah yeah it was like their first season that they were airing and she applied and she got like pretty far into it. And then- Oh, the process. Yeah, the process. And then what?
Starting point is 00:04:08 You're like, I'm gonna want, you try to one-up your friend. It's like, sweetie, I'm going on The Bachelor, not Love Island. No, not really, but kind of. You're like drunk at home. Oh my God. Let's apply for reality shows.
Starting point is 00:04:21 No shit. How did you break that news? Sorry, you didn't make it. Also, I have some good news. Well, I actually didn't hear back for like a month and a half. And then finally when the recruiter reached out to me, she was like, hey, we got your application. I was like, fuck.
Starting point is 00:04:38 I totally had forgotten that I even applied. So yeah, and then I went out to New York and did the whole deal out there i met lacy lacy's lacy's the reason i got on the show shout out lacy love you um great girl head in the casting department yeah she's fucking awesome um so that was that and then i got a call 36 hours later who's counting the hours not me um and then that was it when you got asked were you like i'm definitely going was there a should i really do this kind of yeah i was super hesitant just because i am so private that i just didn't know like how i would respond to that situation
Starting point is 00:05:18 and i'm also just like extremely insecure so like fuck um i just don't really like competing with other women you uh what are you laughing at well the fact that when before we started you reminded me how in this very chair i think oh in the second episode of recapping peter season i what a gem i said i said i said there's no fucking way she's insecure and even though she's pretending to be insecure i don't buy it yeah you said that i was pretending to be insecure and then well fast forward like nine weeks i was like no she's super insecure yeah i don't always get it right. No, you don't. It was just a hot take.
Starting point is 00:06:06 Yeah. It's fluid. You thought you knew. So how do you feel about your overall experience on Peter's season? I think that now that I'm on the other side, it's okay. Because I was just like so in my head about everything. And I just didn't know how to adjust to this weird, like, I don't know. People are so fucking mean these days.
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Starting point is 00:07:38 steel bottle today. When you were filming, who did you get along with the most okay she's saucing up sorry um who was i closest with so i was closest with lexi do you remember lexi little redheadhead. Yeah. Fiery and cute. Yeah. Natasha, Parker, Sydney, Hightower, and Victoria Paul. We were all like in the same room together. So we had a little thing called the cats. Yeah. I mean, meow.
Starting point is 00:08:19 So I was closest with them. And then towards the end, me and Hannah became very close. So I was closest with them and then towards the end, me and Hannah Ann became very close. That's it. And now you're probably Natasha and Hannah Ann and maybe who else? Kelsey or you're the closest? Yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:08:35 I would say me, Lexi, Natasha, all those girls, we talk on a daily basis because we have a group chat. And then I talk to Hannah Ann every day and Kelsey too. And we all have like a group message. So we're constantly bugging each other. When you were filming. Well, yeah. So you're Victoria Paul.
Starting point is 00:08:57 So I was team Aaliyah. Aaliyah? What's Aaliyah? Aaliyah. Aaliyah. Aaliyah. Aaliyah. Did you feel like there was a misrepresentation there?
Starting point is 00:09:07 What really went down there? Can you shed any light on that drama? Because I honestly felt like Victoria Paul was the bad guy. I know you did. He is very vocal about that. In that bachelor moment. Well, I think that, you know alaya left and she had access to other things that we didn't like her iphone the internet right so she was
Starting point is 00:09:38 able to like read a lot and sometimes you go down a dark hole or i mean you read about yeah you know yourself and other people so anyways when she came back i don't think she had any serious intentions to like hurt anybody but she also was not exactly using her head in that moment i'd say you felt like when Alayah came back she well maybe it doesn't in any way excuse some of the things VP said but she I don't remember what she said I don't remember either but like it just looked like she
Starting point is 00:10:15 was definitely lying what was she lying about again? but like she's like we weren't first it was now I remember first before she got home, she was like, we're like friends and I know her and she's bad. And then Alayah comes back and she's like, I barely know this bitch.
Starting point is 00:10:32 Like it was like, wait, what? It was like a weird thing with them because one minute they were like friends. The next minute they weren't. I mean, I couldn't really keep up with either one of them.
Starting point is 00:10:42 And I'm friends with VP. To be honest, I was just like both y y'all, like, this is fucking stupid. And then Peter's like, it just doesn't make sense because it really didn't make sense. And then VP was like, I can't believe you don't believe. It was so wild. Yeah. Yeah. So despite that, Alea, you're saying, when she came back, regardless if she was influenced by her surroundings or not,
Starting point is 00:11:06 she came in just shooting bullets at people. Oh, yeah, she's coming in hot. So you felt like the vitriol she received from the house was at least somewhat justified. I think in the moment. The criticism. Yeah, I think in the moment, because you have to remember, like, we're all there for a reason, you know, to be engaged.
Starting point is 00:11:29 And then you add one more bitch back to the group and you're like, fucking, are you fucking kidding me? You know, so it's just, well, you kind of were like that though. Cause you came into there. You came in late. Yeah, you came in late. And how much shit did they give you?
Starting point is 00:11:43 A lot. They fucking hated you probably. They did. Yeah, because. And now they're all your friends. Yeah, you came in late. And how much shit did they give you? A lot. They fucking hated you probably. They did. Yeah, because. And now they're all your friends. Yeah, exactly. But it's because you're adding one more person. It doesn't matter who it was at that point.
Starting point is 00:11:54 But on top of that, she did come in. So it was a little bit of both. It was a little bit of both, I'd say. Okay. Yeah. That's an honest answer. Yeah. I'm not a fucking liar.
Starting point is 00:12:00 Yeah. That's an honest answer. Yeah. I'm not a fucking liar. Maybe a lot of things, but not a fucking liar. Your first bit of drama that you were involved in that really was specific to you was the Chase Rice stuff. Yeah. And minus the off-camera of of which even on this show,
Starting point is 00:12:27 I was a bit critical of how he handled the, that stuff. You were just, I mean, there's not much there. You, you were totally for anyone. What was that relationship?
Starting point is 00:12:38 If anything, how surprised were you? Like, what were you mad? The producers, what was going on because that was a very unique yeah okay for some for that to happen to anyone i don't want to get too deep into that because i just don't even think he's worth my time or our time sitting here talking um but i will say that it was extremely surprising and him and i had a, whatever you wanna call it,
Starting point is 00:13:08 like over a couple months span and yeah, like a week before I left for the show, him and I had, and people know this, like I went to go see him in Charlotte where he was performing and that was that. But yeah, it was extremely. But it was extremely out after the concert was done i mean yeah we're like we were in community yeah we're i'm not gonna say we're a boyfriend and girlfriend but we were communicating and we were yeah we're hanging out yeah we were
Starting point is 00:13:37 touching touching and stuff okay relax but um yeah did you tell somebody that like did you tell i told nobody i didn't tell i was totally random oh i didn't tell so and it wasn't like on your instagram or first off it wasn't completely random they didn't like book chase and cast victoria because they knew once they found out it was game on yeah yeah once they found out then they hooked up the date for that one on when they found that out they weren't like well maybe we should take kelly because she's a big change you know i mean they i don't know what they told you and i can't really speak to a lot of stuff but it was more than that it was like he was apparently talking with them over the past like year and being under i heard
Starting point is 00:14:23 he was really trying to get on right his team yeah yeah he was and there was like a year span where he like didn't really know when he was and then they called him two weeks before my date and he had to cancel one of his tour dates so oh so you think it was not as genuine just like that's all i'll say okay well you know i know like yeah well i would who do you did you hear you you might have you who did you hear that from um team chase well i don't want to answer that because i'm not don't let her be manipulated by her current surroundings do not manipulate me my current surroundings damn it shit it might be the title of the episode no but i do i do know like just from like talking to other like people that are like hey should we go and
Starting point is 00:15:18 do this this is a booking opportunity that's come up they do book it really far in advance oh well no no that's the thing is like that's why he was like, I mean, he was on tour. So his tour dates were booked out. And they called him two weeks prior. And he had to drop one of his dates. Well, I have always said, yes, they plan everything. I'm not going to say that. But I'm also-
Starting point is 00:15:38 What I'm saying is they plan everything in advance, as Chrissy said. Yeah, and they book out those dates. But they will move heaven and earth on a dime. yeah they book out but they can they will move on a dime and they can if need be yeah and that i know was and i've said that over and over and over they're best at adapting yeah that's their gift good producers um fucking got me good you make it work uh so when it did happen yeah like well like what was good i mean i would have i couldn't imagine. Standing in front of your ex-boyfriend dancing with somebody who's trying to make out with you. Why would that be weird?
Starting point is 00:16:10 It's less now even more. But I remember when I got casted, right? Yeah. My ex-girlfriend at the time was still good friends with my friends and we were in the same circles. But we had been broken up for almost two years. So like I hadn't had any ex. And other than that, there was, but you're always like you don't know you're afraid just like what if someone just pretends they're dating me and shows up you're always afraid of those things as a cast member going
Starting point is 00:16:32 in right like what how could this go badly so here you are on a date and fucking chase rice some guy that you at least you know hung out with after a concert of his and god only knows what because you won't say so we'll let our imaginations run wild you guys can and then that up to the imagination honey and then she doesn't kiss him down but whatever you can imagine probably happened and then so that relax she's like oh my god she probably just got on the tour bus and ate some funyuns and had some whatever whatever your weirdest thought is that's happened and then and honestly the night got really weird i wish i could elaborate but i won't it's all right it got weird they were clowns
Starting point is 00:17:20 i said all of a sudden you're with peter and you're walking up and all of a sudden you see him and all you can think about is that super fucking weird night with clowns and then what's going through your head okay so peter first off we're like this is a little uh bts but before we walk to go to the concert, he was like, I have a surprise for you. I'm just like so excited. And he's like, how would you dance at a country concert?
Starting point is 00:17:52 Cause he knows country is my favorite music. And I was like, I don't know. We're like dancing on the side of the stage. And then he's like, okay, I have one more surprise for you. And I thought it was like,
Starting point is 00:18:03 we're going to the teacups and I'm like, definitely afraid afraid of the teacups because I threw up when I was younger. It's just fucking traumatizing. Anyway, so we're walking over to, we're walking over and I'm thinking we're going to teacups. And I'm like, no, no. And then I was like, no, no. Those teacups look pretty good now. I was like, take me to the fucking teacups. No, but like my heart sank
Starting point is 00:18:25 and I was just like I didn't know what to do in that situation because I immediately like saw Chase and like I he saw me
Starting point is 00:18:33 and he kind of just did one of those like moments where he was like fuck and I both we both were like out of stage yeah
Starting point is 00:18:39 yeah because he's we made eye contact before I even got up so there there was some editing there because it they didn't show that which is yeah they just showed him why wouldn't they show that because
Starting point is 00:18:49 they just showed him playing and yeah they showed them walking out they showed him being a professional which is a service to him no it what i'm saying like it would have been better tv if you saw chase go you know yeah i mean we definitely made eye contact before i saw his hat and i don't remember either way um yeah it was definitely a moment where i was like okay shit do i like walk the fuck away because this is super awkward or do i like try to act like nothing happened and then tell him later i mean like it's a split second you have to make that decision and i was like yeah i mean i can put myself in that situation and i can't imagine i would have pant i would have yeah i was like yeah i mean i can put myself in that situation and i can't imagine i would have pant i would have yeah i was like freaking out a little bit and also too like chase knew i was
Starting point is 00:19:29 going on the show like we talked about it this was like a very open conversation with him and i um leading up to me leaving and i mean he knew the day before i was leaving we were texting like the whole thing is kind of just fucked up at the at the concert, he kind of gave you the old send off. What was that? Come again? Anyways. No, that wasn't, that actually, it was more of like when I went to go see him,
Starting point is 00:19:54 it was like our, I don't want to get like too deep in this, but it was just like, you know, I'm dating, you know? I'm dating. Who gives a shit? I'm not like here trying to dating right i want to figure myself out and no there wasn't like an old send-off nick thanks motherfucker um so what did you because what i know about you and is that you when you've and and I think America does,
Starting point is 00:20:25 when you don't, you will, if you're feeling something, you'll express it. But you're fine. But you had a good relationship with the producers and you could tell them when you were mad. So like, what did you say in that moment? Oh my gosh. So I remember I, when I, after the concert,
Starting point is 00:20:44 I walked in, you know, met up with my producer. She had no fucking idea. But I could see from across the way that, I don't even know if I want to be saying all this. Am I allowed to say this? Say it and we'll figure it out later. Okay. So I just remember looking over and just seeing the cameras like zoomed in on me. And I was like, oh, okay.
Starting point is 00:21:03 All right. I fucking see you motherfuckers the classic uh ask for forgiveness not permission exactly no that's yeah one thousand percent and they knew from then on that was a shit show uh second producing dramatic scene that you were involved in if i memory serves me correctly oh gosh uh hometowns yeah hometowns was um a fucking shit show and by the way oh no no before yeah hometown so but yeah hometowns daytime you had this girl show up who totally sold you a bus and i got okay first off there's no throwing under the bus that girl's just like cuckoo for
Starting point is 00:21:45 cocoa puffs so i i mean anyone who would listen to her is like i love that you drop the f-bomb every five seconds but she's not fucking crazy she's cuckoo for cocoa puffs so i don't i'm fucking crazy so they're and this you know actually this i totally forgot about this but i think this will i think is an opportunity for you to talk about yeah I would love to tell my side of that because I actually haven't told anybody and please you know it's so I'll give you a little background
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Starting point is 00:26:03 and this is the thing with her she what she's like calling the kettle black she um that weekend of my hometown was actually sleeping with my boyfriend of four years so when i got home i found that out she was sleeping with your boyfriend yes my boyfriend of four years that i was like basically engaged to we were living together um so she's just one of those people and everyone in my hometown knows this about her they think she's just absolutely fucking insane and so for her to i mean first off i don't know if you know what happened in that situation with her she basically just said like she didn't have any real information i remember i do remember that yeah it was like i
Starting point is 00:26:46 don't like her yeah basically it was like she just didn't like me and then she wanted to like say it was a classic no one likes her yes yes it was it was just like a mean girl when you're dating someone and then you're you know your partner you're you're whoever you're dating you're like i don't like it when you do this. And by the way, everyone thinks this. Nothing makes me more mad. And then it's like, actually no one thinks that. So,
Starting point is 00:27:11 but she, to actually follow that up, it's kind of funny because Peter and I have talked after the show and we even talked like, after all that. Okay. Shut the fuck up whatever um i know right i'm such a homewrecker but she no we him and i had talked like in fantasy suites about everything that had happened and um in that situation and she made a comment that that peter was her ex-boyfriend okay well let this be known they went on two dates and that was it so he was also too like very confused as to why she was like making an
Starting point is 00:27:54 appearance and why she was like oh that's my like i think i went and looked her her instagram her instagram refers to herself as a public figure. Okay, I'm sorry. And that's all I needed to see. No, no, no. Let me get, like, let's set the record straight. She was a public figure within 24 hours of her coming to my hometown. Well, I mean, I'm just saying the fact that she even called herself that.
Starting point is 00:28:15 Right, but if you think about it, she had, like, a swipe-up code within 24 hours and was listed as a public figure after coming to my hometown. I'm not fucking kidding you. Like, that's how, like, this girl's not right in the head so it there's no time like we don't even need to waste time on her was she the one who spread those rumors that were floating on the internet is that where it all started absolutely and producers also said and i don't know if i'm even allowed to
Starting point is 00:28:42 say this we'll figure it out um but producers also said she was the one who had called in about chase because she had found out yeah so three weeks prior to me leaving well i do want to thank her for that i mean like actually somebody sent her a paycheck honestly someone hire her yeah seriously put that title up there wow interesting we'll definitely keep that in there um it is it's very weird
Starting point is 00:29:16 bizarre it's tough right in all seriousness that stuff gets out there and everyone was talking about that in Bachelor out there and everyone was talking about that and in bachelor nation as if it was like it was accepted as truth right and that's what's so frustrating because it's like if you knew the credibility of this person you wouldn't believe what about anyone who might say they've heard it from more than one person or that's not like that's like
Starting point is 00:29:44 saying i don't know it's like spreading a rumor and then someone picking up that rumor because there was no there wasn't a first there's no receipts and i would you know that was the thing with me i was like i felt like i've heard it and i've heard it right but there was no like right and. And I felt confident. And that would be something you should have. Well, also, too, it's like if you are going to say something that big, then like follow it up. Like she almost had she almost she thought she was like being a martyr. And, oh, she's falling on the sword for these women and all these women who i've ruined their lives and it's like okay well where are all these it was just somebody who liked peter who didn't work out and she got
Starting point is 00:30:30 jealous so she wanted to try and make something of it to make herself feel better thank you and to be like look at me yeah i've told this to producers the shitty one of the shittier things they do is to let uh you did say that yeah let friends or whoever come on the show and speak their truth. I mean, yeah. And they get to get off the show and they get to go live their life. Yeah. And I can't say anything. Here's why I have a problem with that is specifically too,
Starting point is 00:30:59 because you go on the show, right? And we're on the show, we're going for Peter. And I'm like victoria fuller's a bitch and victoria is like nikki's a asshole and like and it's just like it's all in that world but you bring in someone outside and then like an audience they might yeah they'll take sides and they'll be like i'm team victoria or i'm team nikki or whatever but then you bring the outside person the outside person saying i know this person in real life and they're a bad person and then audience is like oh they know them and they're like that's who they are and i think
Starting point is 00:31:31 it's just fucking shitty like only for them to do that without really diving deep into who they are like drop and like again if someone has like i wanted to see fucking jed's girlfriend come on yeah bring that girl the ali baroski one is the best way they've ever done it. When they had all those voicemails playing at the end. Like that's how that was. That was amazing. It was awesome. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:31:53 But that's how they should go about doing it. If they're going to bring somebody from the outside, make sure there's, and I've, you know, and, and if I were to, if they were here,
Starting point is 00:32:00 they would probably say they do do that, but I think they could do a better job. That's just me. Well, you know, it's either, it's neither here nor nor there and so fast forward to the evening fast forward to the evening correct this is where maybe you're not as innocent i honey she was two bottles of wine deep okay sweetie when you're watching it and what i'm
Starting point is 00:32:24 referring to is when I think Victoria Fuller is the first person, and to your credit, it may not be repeated, to cancel her hometown and still make it the next week. I don't know if that's something to be proud of, Nick.
Starting point is 00:32:40 You're making me sound like... No one's ever going to do it again. He's like, that is boss. Is it though? I made myself a t-shirt because when we when you watch it back it is so wild it makes no sense and sometimes and i've i know this to be true in my season sometimes i think things that make no sense like my volleyball date and people watch your season i'm just sorry but people it's fine uh when people watch it back it really looked like it made no sense in reality like everyone just
Starting point is 00:33:11 lost their shit and that's what it looked like but the way they edit but in your hometown it it was like what the fuck is going on she's just leaving well there was three hours of that like people don't understand there was three hours that we were first off i was sat outside my house for an hour by myself and then there was three hours of me and peter talking people see a two-minute conversation what happened so basically my feeling is mostly on you well at the end i mean go ahead i'm sorry okay so basically what happened was he you know brought up this whole situation which i completely understood you want to like talk about a
Starting point is 00:33:50 situation like that and it's a these are serious accusations that are being made about me i'm your potential wife like what the fuck are you a homewrecker or not bitch i get it but at the same time don't expect to then go and meet my family after you're making these, like, saying these accusations about me. Do you know what I mean? I mean, I get if he was accusing you. Well, he did. He did. He said, I'm sorry, but when you say this is what was said about you and, like, he wants to get to, like, the bottom of it.
Starting point is 00:34:23 I'm like, you could have approached it in so many different ways. And this is no, like Peter and I have talked about it. It's fine, like whatever, we're cool. But if he had approached me and said, hey, my loyalty is to you. This is what this girl said. I don't believe her,
Starting point is 00:34:40 but I just wanted to bring it to your attention. Then the conversation would have went very different. A hundred percent. You know what I mean? You're right. You're absolutely right. Yeah. I'm not justifying my actions in that moment
Starting point is 00:34:51 because I went fucking crazy. However, we'll get to that. But I'm just saying, having been the bachelor, that would scare the shit out of me. Right. You know, when women, women who I really liked,
Starting point is 00:35:04 if other women had talked, when women women who i really liked if other women had taught when other women might have talked shit about them i was like fuck yeah but up to that point no one had said anything about me so why and i've lived with all these women you're right that absolutely would have diffused the situation no doubt about it but i think he honestly he didn't want to like get you off the hook in case it was true and unfortunately for peter and you uh the producers whatever they thought they didn't share their opinion they just let it unfold right which was very but at your final four would you have questioned those women that never seriously potentially you're like possible wives well i mean again if we're
Starting point is 00:35:45 just going to talk about my season yeah corinne who i sent home on hometowns if some guy in miami pulled up and was like uh but you check your source well the truth is i was going to send corinne if i was being honest i was going to send corinne home anyways right? So it would have been unfortunate for Corinne because I would have been like, what's up with it? And I wouldn't have been like, you definitely did this. I wouldn't accuse her, but I wouldn't say, I know it's not true. I would be, it seems weird.
Starting point is 00:36:16 What's going on? I understand. I think that in the moment I was just so like, you know, like you've been on that side of it. I can totally relate to already feeling defensive, panicked, worried. What are people going to think? And all you want is the olive branch from Peter and you didn't get it. Right.
Starting point is 00:36:32 Well, okay. I don't think it was like an olive branch. It was more just like I wanted him to be more understanding in that moment. I agree with you. I know what it's like to feel like on a fucking island in that world. Right. All of a sudden you just like, like on Andy season,
Starting point is 00:36:47 like all of a sudden, like the guys, Chris souls and some other guys, I'm just dropping. And, um, and I'm just dropping some names. Crystal. You all of a sudden realize I'm on a TV show.
Starting point is 00:36:57 You see the cameras and you're just like, I'm fucking alone. Yeah. I'm so alone. So I get that. That was that. Yeah. I get that. I don't know if i want to
Starting point is 00:37:07 handle it going listen i get it but also too have you ever like excuse you what excuse you what um have you ever just you know maybe handle a situation wrong and you look back and you're like shit i could have definitely done a couple things fucking different yeah that moment took place like maybe 20 minutes after Peter left my house because I told him to go away. Your family, just to make it clear, your family is inside. Three hours. They were in there for three hours.
Starting point is 00:37:36 You're on the front lawn and they're watching you from windows and the neighbors arguing with Peter. Oh, the neighbors were loving it. They were video recording us. They thought it was the best thing ever. But yeah, we were arguing for three hours and then eventually
Starting point is 00:37:51 he was just like, I want to go inside. If we can get past this, that'd be great. And I was like, maybe being a little bit of a brat. But I was like, no. You're not coming inside to meet my family i'm not saying it's smart or stupid i'm just saying that takes balls on to just be like no
Starting point is 00:38:12 no i was so offended yeah i'm supposed to marry you you should trust what i'm saying like and now you want to come meet my parents i would be like i would yeah that was that was it it's interesting that you are saying that from a female perspective, like fair enough. I'm not saying you're wrong. I'm just saying what America or the, like a lot of people like to say is, Oh,
Starting point is 00:38:33 you're defensive. Oh, then you're guilty. I'm right. That's a criticism. Yeah, no. And that's a criticism that I received and I get it.
Starting point is 00:38:41 It's understandable. But at the same time, it's like, imagine yourself in that position. Like I'm ready to marry this person and they're like you were feeling peter then i mean i because from a relationship standpoint that makes a lot of sense you're in a relationship you want your partner to trust you if no one else exactly and so you took it that's what i said and we had a interesting yeah because if there weren't cameras there that's exactly the same reaction i feel like most people would have. Right.
Starting point is 00:39:05 Thank you. And that was my whole thing was like, I was never different on and off camera. And I think that's why people kind of took me wrong. Well, I don't know you that well, but what I can attest to in the little bit I know you is that like Victoria will Victoria. I do. And she doesn't really care if it's on or off camera.
Starting point is 00:39:24 Yeah, I really don't. I mean, good thing and a bad thing, sweetie. Everyone wants you to be like really happy. And they also just want like an escape from their normal life, I think, on the show. So they expect, they hold you to a higher standard than they hold themselves. And I'm like, I'm a motherfucking human. Like I make mistakes. I, whatever.
Starting point is 00:39:43 I say shit I don't mean and then i take it back but guess what you can't take it the fuck back like you can't no you can't it's on national tv i have dated that's been a problem in relationships i've had is uh i'm like yeah sorry you can't take it back yeah but it's also both i do not want to have sex with you in this moment exactly you said some real nasty things to me five minutes ago. I'm sorry. Won't cut it. She's like, sorry. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:40:09 You don't love me? Let's do it. Let's just do it anyway. I love you. I was just feeling it. I was like kidding. You're so hot. But it's both of you. Like you always say, like it's both of your real lives.
Starting point is 00:40:21 Like and people would just sit at home and you're like, no, but this is my real. Yeah. And some more than others right um i know i feel like i was just i don't know i was very invested and and and so we're clear you know you're not saying and i'm certainly not saying that even while you were real still not the best course oh absolutely you regret how you handle my god i regret a million things honey you can't take it all back though i mean i regret i wish that i had handled the situation different but at the same time everything worked out the way it was supposed to work out and yeah so should i have maybe not excuse you what yeah maybe so whatever it's fine i'm fine um yeah we're working on it um what are oh we'll get to that what oh i was gonna say uh so if you if if you were to pander to the audience what would you say there things the criticism you've received about your
Starting point is 00:41:29 person your character on the show right just specific to the show what would you say things what would you say are things that are not the most accurate or what are true you know where do people get it right where how do people not know you you know you know what's the best misconception yeah yeah so i think the biggest thing is like i've had people like when i'm taking photos with them or meet them and then like whoever they're sending it to on the receiving end will say was she nice and i'm like oh my gosh people think i'm a fucking asshole and i'm not and you know that like i'm not a dickhead no you're she's very nice and i actually she you can be mean oh oh yeah for sure i mean definitely have like a mean side to me sweetie yes we know that but when you're not being mean very nice she's very nice there's a yeah um when you're not being an asshole very nice yeah those few
Starting point is 00:42:29 moments those very few far between but i mean i i also have gotten that too i was i'll be walk i was home in milwaukee and with friends and i always try to go out of my way to be nice but like also sometimes people will make it awkward. So at one time where it's like bar time around Milwaukee and this group of women walk by and the girl walks by and she's like, you know, after she's like 10 feet by, oh my God, it's Nick from The Bachelor.
Starting point is 00:42:58 And like, what do you say that? She didn't say, hey, Nick, whatever. She just like yelled it out. So we kept walking and she's like, oh my God god he is an asshole and i'm like what what did i do yeah you know like yeah um you're like wait come back oh my god just kidding he's sending me some of those it's fine i get it nh oils.com he's like and now to the advertisement
Starting point is 00:43:29 um so you're not always mean no i'm not always fucking mean nick thank you what else would be unfair criticism of you not only as a human but as maybe in someone in a relationship because a lot of times when we watch The Bachelor, we like to make assumptions about how people would be in a relationship. Yeah. The best one that I saw was that I was a narcissist. And I was like, that's funny, honey.
Starting point is 00:43:55 I'm not. And then I like gaslighted Peter, which we've talked about gaslighting. You definitely gaslighted Peter. Okay, first off, you can't make those kind of accusations right now. Well, you can be a... Back the fuck up.
Starting point is 00:44:06 Wait, everyone. Here comes the meme. Oh, here she goes. Wait, wait. It's funny. Here's the thing about gaslighting. It's become a new word. I don't even know what it means.
Starting point is 00:44:18 It's honest. Gaslighting is like kale. We didn't know what kale was one day. And the next day, everyone knows about kale, right? We didn't know what kale was one day and the next day everyone knows about kale right we didn't know what gaslighting wasn't a word for the average person and now people are throwing it out like you're fucking gaslighting you're gaslighting you can have we've all gaslit before just so we know in relationships it doesn't mean you're like a total gaslighter so anyone who wants to throw it out like if you've ever been accused of gaslighting it's like you get canceled or
Starting point is 00:44:49 something can we just get like a definition of it because i'm not very well i mean i don't want to rip off a definition like in some of the but it's when you're it's when someone like would give you a criticism a legitimate criticism of how you might be acting instead of acknowledging that you immediately turn it around on them and accuse them of something either valid or most often completely out of blue and getting them on the defensive men historically have done it to women i feel like that's i feel like i'm like that's weird because i feel like that's why women can do this in relationships i told a friend last night i was like that guy gaslighted you. She's like feeling super guilty probably. But yeah, you, again, we have covered how your interpretation, but Peter asked you a
Starting point is 00:45:34 question only based on the information that was coming to him. Yeah, but you guys didn't see the full story because I had explained to him in depth and he even like when, he like told other people about our conversation too, because they they didn't show everything like i gave him the full scoop of like this girl we talked for three fucking hours okay i wasn't gaslighting him but by the end of it it was very it was extremely frustrating let's go back there so i am three hours is a long right 20 minutes is a long time. Right. 20 minutes is a long time for a fight. Three hours of a talk. So are you saying you, you know, like. Oh, in depth. Okay.
Starting point is 00:46:08 So when you, when Peter first asked you, you didn't lose your shit? No. I was like, the minute that he walked out or he got out of the car, I knew something was wrong because I could see it in his face. And he walks up to me and I was like, oh my God, are you okay? Like initial reaction because I just saw it all over his face face and then we sat down and we started talking about it and i was like under i was like okay this is all making sense i was like this girl has this huge like thing against me we talked about it for hours so i'm talking hours so you're saying eventually
Starting point is 00:46:39 eventually i got so let's just for argument's sake say it was one hour and it felt like five it doesn't matter that's a long time i mean it was 20 minutes but you're a long time so you explain yourself and the explanation only takes 20 seconds you did that and then what peter just wouldn't believe you he was and then you got mad i think it was more like no it no it was more like he was wanting more information about it and after i gave him the information it's a very like weird I don't know how to explain it but it was just I it is what it is and I wasn't connecting the dots yeah he wasn't understanding fully like he was like but why would someone make that up and I was like well why would somebody like go on and do? You know, so it was like he wasn't understanding from my perspective. I wasn't understanding from his perspective. Looking back, I could have been I could have been way more understanding of his position and where he was coming from, because it is hard. I know that he was like trying to weed through everything and understand everything.
Starting point is 00:47:42 And it's a huge decision. like trying to weed through everything and understand everything. And it's a huge decision. But at the same time, I was like, yo, we've been dating for like how long? And we're like supposed to be getting engaged in two weeks. So to me, it was just frustrating at that point. And so I did react in an inappropriate way.
Starting point is 00:47:59 And I was extremely frustrated at that point. But not right away. No, it was not. Let's make it different. No, 1000% because I was getting aggravatedated and i was getting annoyed that he didn't understand me or where i was coming from so then i was like just i was like you know what fuck this like kind of deal and i was like i'm done and that's why i was like if you're not gonna like and then he wanted to go meet my family after which was even worse because i was like you're gonna drop this fucking
Starting point is 00:48:23 huge bomb now we have to definitely go inside and tell my parents because he knew that too he was like well we'll just explain to them yes yeah and he was like we'll just like explain to them like what happened and i was like how the fuck are we gonna explain you know what honestly that was a miss by you let me explain why let me explain why well that's your fam it's hindsight it's 2020 but and listen i i get it you're frustrated whether you how embarrassing you know what i mean but here's where this is a miss on your part you not like not that you want you like peter now that you wanted to make peter look bad but your family watches you for three hours you have to explain it you go in there and you tell them the story i just got accused of this crazy shit immediately your family goes to peter it's just like wow it seems like a weird thing to
Starting point is 00:49:10 believe but you've been dating for how long why don't you fucking believe her i know all of a sudden you have your back you have your team okay you've been feeling all alone this whole time and now you have your team your team's going to be like peter that's amazing what the fuck yeah and then peterson has to explain to america and your family why he doesn't believe you you're right and what a mess but also too i was like i had all these um i was envisioning my dad talking to him and and how they would like connect and how they would like just form a bond. And I just, I thought, you know,
Starting point is 00:49:46 first off, my dad would have ripped him a fucking new one. He would have been like, listen, motherfucker. But I, I just, I thought it was going to be sweet moments.
Starting point is 00:49:54 And then I knew that was taken away from me. And I was upset by that. And I didn't want it to be him meeting my family. And I even told him when we went to Australia, I was like, if you meet my family, it's going to be organic and it's going to be when it was supposed to be and we had talked about like flying my parents out to australia and like what that would look like
Starting point is 00:50:12 she was trying to get a sneaky way of getting her family a free trip to australia oh my god shut the fuck up the joke um well i will say whatever you want to think i think it's clear by what you're saying is that you took you know all the right reasons stuff you're almost taking the whole thing too literal and too serious oh absolutely oh my god you know everything you're saying is how would you handle it in a relationship in real life exactly and that's what that was almost and i've said this before that was like my biggest regret was that I was too like naive to the process of like,
Starting point is 00:50:50 I should have been a little bit more reserved and known that the cameras were on me because like, I think that we all can relate to a time where we have been in an argument with our significant other and maybe we didn't handle ourselves correctly and we get the,
Starting point is 00:51:04 we have the option to maybe work it out 10 minutes later and you were willing to give america the most honest representation of yourself i mean thank you once again i don't know if this is good or bad right now it's authentic you make an interesting case if if you're saying hey anyone listening have you ever done this well that's what i'm saying and most of you listening would say i'm on camera i've right i do that but i'm not crazy enough to do it on camera and you're like well everyone fucking was i am yeah yeah yeah exactly so okay maybe i was just convincing argument you can make i should have just been a little bit more aware is all i have to say because behind closed doors we all act a little different right yes
Starting point is 00:51:51 moving on to uh before we wrap up your experience on the show and get into your purse yeah i can't wait to talk about your current personal life yeah uh here we go here we go what are the biggest things you learned overall about your experience i think and what are you grateful for yeah i think that's a really good question thank you for asking me that i think that my overall experience what i've learned is that one putting yourself out there in an uncomfortable situation that you're not used to is worth it because you get to grow so much and I think that from this experience I've really taken everything that I've been through and also just all the criticism that I've been bombarded with and I've really tried to turn it around and make it a positive um, I think that, I don't know, this shit's fucking hard, but like it's, it's been
Starting point is 00:52:50 good and it's been eyeopening and the fact that I can see myself back and see what I can change on and also like what I was doing wrong in a relationship. I mean, it is the most sobering thing to see yourself on television in a relationship and then have to like watch yourself. But you can also correct your behavior. So I think that was very eye opening for me. I feel like after the show, I was able to really like reflect on what was, I don't know, just myself in general. on what was, I don't know, just myself in general. And I also am like happy that I do get such a big platform now to be able to advocate for what's right
Starting point is 00:53:32 and also for what's good in the world, not just like what's popular. And I think that my perspective has definitely changed. And I don't know. I've, I made a lot of friends from a lot of different walks of life on the show too, that I didn't have maybe beforehand. And you're just open to so many different worlds,
Starting point is 00:53:56 which is very beautiful. And I think I'm able to appreciate and respect all walks of life. Um, what have you been up to lately and um how did you and chris start talking he doesn't even like you just he's like what have you been up to and how many frequent flyer miles do you have to iowa he's like, how many times have you been to Iowa? So what have I been up to lately? Let's start there.
Starting point is 00:54:32 So I have been working a lot and I've just been trying to figure out what my next steps are in life and what I want to do and achieve out of. Are you back in the medical sales? So I do a little bit of that still. I think my focus is geared more towards stuff that i'm passionate about and that will all come to fruition and whiter teeth how do you know that about me did you know that i'm wearing white strips all the time
Starting point is 00:54:59 my teeth are very sensitive um okay so so great. Excited about your career. Fuck off. Second question. He's not fucking genuinely excited for his ass. I mean. He's like, okay, by the way, second question. White teeth, kind of a trade off. Perfect.
Starting point is 00:55:18 Okay, and second question, Nick, what was that? How did you and Chris start talking? So Chris and I met through um a mutual friend kelsey weir who was also on the show final four shout out um and she set us up she was like i think you guys should do yeah she was like she was talking about how there was only three people from iowa that have ever been on the bachelor and she was one of them and Chris was one of them and I was like oh Chris like Chris is cute like why haven't you ever talked to him and she was like oh well you know whatever I don't really know what her response was but she was like I have his number like I can like reach out to him and I don't know so she basically just like
Starting point is 00:56:01 set it up and we ended up, um, he ended up texting me within like five minutes of her giving. I have no problem with that. Which is so great. No, I thought it was so endearing. I'm excited to get to. Yeah. I was like,
Starting point is 00:56:15 that's so sweet. So, um, he like immediately texted me and then we FaceTimed and we talked to each other on the phone and through text. And then three weeks later I and we talked to each other on the phone and through text. And then three weeks later, I was in Iowa. And then does that not work out or where are we at now? I am just living my best life.
Starting point is 00:56:41 Single. What happened? We went a separate direction. But I, like, respect him so much. I think he's an amazing man. I just think that, like, right now I'm in such a different place than he is. And I'm not moving to Iowa anytime soon. So I just want to focus on me.
Starting point is 00:57:00 It's been so much about other people this year that i just really want to like hone in on what i want to accomplish and like what i want to get out of this year and looking forward to my career in the future so i'm i talk i still talk to him all the time i think he's amazing and we are a lot alike but i just want to focus on myself right now so she's not a farmer not a farmer i am not a farmer but i know a lot about fucking corn now so there's that i'm like honey there's a difference between sweet corn and corn and i know corn goes in ethanol that makes total sense anything else sweet corn's really good anyway that's it the corn has been good this summer it has been delicious i've enjoyed some good corn i've enjoyed the fruits of his labor so oh
Starting point is 00:57:52 relax i mean i really love corn but how do you really love corn how do you eat your corn with butter why are you like making this conversation so weird okay so oil butter well personally so chris makes it with um i can't believe it's not butter so we what we i know we always joke around are you fucking kidding me i know i know oh well then there's no offended listen yeah i'm offended it's like fucking plastic it's like it's fucking dog shit he's a fucking farmer and he's buying something that's manufactured in a fucking lab i got a fucking cow right next to me can't go go and milk that cow churn a little bit and get some fucking farm butter on it oh my god are you fucking kidding me i feel like i should not have said that i feel like i greatly offended you i don't know if i can be friends with chris anymore listen
Starting point is 00:58:54 he puts it it would ruin it for me what the fuck is this shit i mean i don't know your reaction i know he's so pissed he was like he's like what i can't believe it's not butter i can fucking believe it don't be mean nick he is kind of like rude no yeah it was he's so mean to corn you're like he's so mean to corn everyone's like he's really abusing corn you buy a ferrari and you put fucking vegetable oil in the tank you're like what yeah i know but listen back to the future i um bless his heart he he thinks that it's so good and every time he goes he's like i have can't believe it's not better i'm like oh my gosh i cannot believe it's not better you have it in your fucking cabinet like this shit needs to be refrigerated warm yes in his cabinet chris is
Starting point is 00:59:50 saying he can't believe it's not butter like he literally can't believe it's not butter the whole time he's eating like i just can't fucking believe it this is amazing stop no he's very privy to the fact that it's not fire and it's hot it's not even cold that's the worst part too it's been there for seven weeks it's like no longer than that it's not real dairy yeah it's like it's great he literally grows the corn from the earth walks outside plucks it off the plant it couldn't be more fresh and then he yeah soaks it in plastic i can't believe it's not butter so rude to corn i can't believe it it's so great
Starting point is 01:00:38 it's so rude yes it's nice you're clearing well you wanted to know how I've been eating I can't believe what excuse you what Kaylee was that better I know I was a little offended at the moment or at the time I went off the rails fast
Starting point is 01:00:58 anyways you're out there working on Victoria you respect Chris. I do. He's not your person, at least at this stage in your life. We don't know that. Oh, you're leaving the door open. I'm going to leave it.
Starting point is 01:01:11 We talk every day. So I'm going to leave that open. Maybe you just have a hard time letting go. And you're like, you keep things on the sideline because you're bored. I don't know. Or maybe she's just not into living in Iowa right now. Thank you. I'm not saying what it is.
Starting point is 01:01:27 Maybe she likes real butter. I'm simply saying I talk to someone every day doesn't mean anything. We, as you know, on Questions with Nick, he called me every day and I was like, but also like, you know, I'm just saying. Yeah. I think that. You call me every day.
Starting point is 01:01:43 Yeah. It's like we talk every day. Like, okay. I'm just saying. Yeah. I think that. You call me every day. Yeah. It's like we talk every day. Like, okay. It's like, I'm just saying, I'm just trying to get an accurate representation. So no one can put words in the relationship's mouth. So I, we, I don't know how to describe this. It's complicated. But at the same time, I'm just living, I'm just living my life.
Starting point is 01:02:00 It's complicated. But at the same time, I'm just living my life. And he is an amazing man. And he deserves somebody super awesome who's willing to go to Iowa and live in Iowa. And right now, I'm not there yet. And maybe I will be in a couple years. Before we wrap things up, you're here you're here in la the only reason why you're here is because you had a final four party that's not what most people think when they say the final four in basketball yeah the peter's final four women got together it's not the woman
Starting point is 01:02:38 he's currently with who is honest he's in kelly yeah did you guys spend all weekend talking shit about kelly Oh my God. It's so funny. Everyone wants to know this. Wait, why would you like all come together? Yeah. What is a final four?
Starting point is 01:02:51 It was the final four. It wasn't a final four trip. It was the final four women on Peter's season. Gall got together. And I'm assuming, you know, you guys were just like, Hey,
Starting point is 01:03:00 let's hang out. Yeah. It wasn't for something. You're just like, Oh, we're friends. It was for engagement. We, up so you're such a shithead um we are are all friends still and we have a different relationship outside the show that nobody really understands
Starting point is 01:03:16 so did you care elaborate yeah in what way would you like me to in any way that's how was it different than people don't understand how do people don't really get it because they think that, they put people into a box and they're like, oh, this is how this person is. It's like, no, we're actually extremely all alike. And that's why we all were the final four. Like if we didn't have some commonalities, then we wouldn't,
Starting point is 01:03:46 there's obviously some. So you're saying that Maddie has some Victoria Fuller in her. Absolutely. And you have some Maddie in you. 1000%. Me and Maddie are like, we don't agree on everything, but we see eye to eye on a lot, which is funny because people would never know
Starting point is 01:04:05 like me and Maddie people think that we're complete opposites and I've like seen that a lot and we are but our vibes are very similar like we just we get along very well and that's true about a lot of the people on this show like no one again no one's perfect or is bad the perfect people
Starting point is 01:04:21 every the most innocent people on that show could be looked at as trash human beings if they want absolutely if if it was if they get you know yeah and we actually grew up with very similar morals i grew up extremely catholic and so we connected on that like at the show in the show during the show um and yeah so that's like something that we have in common as far as like morals go and what we want for like our families when we're older and married maybe not now we're a little separate she wants one thing i want the other but down the line yeah okay uh do you guys what was the overall conversation between these four group of very close friends
Starting point is 01:05:06 when the peter was transitioning from hannah ann from madison to kelly i mean i'm assuming there were some talks going on inside the uh the bub the bubble yeah so um were you supportive were you shocked surprised so my thing is like, I, me and Hannah Ann were so close at the end that I was always like advocating for her and wanting the best for her. So I'm a big Hannah Ann fan. Yeah. She's cool.
Starting point is 01:05:34 She's very chill. She's a cool ass chick. She's one of my best friends. And, um, yeah. So whatever she was like wanting to come of the situation is what I wanted for her.
Starting point is 01:05:45 And I think the whole, like, Peter and Kelly situation and all that, I wish them the best. And Hannah Ann's so over it at this point. She doesn't even give a shit. And that's what I care about. I care about my friend. I hope that Peter and Kelly are happy, but my main focus was always Hannah Ann and how she was like working through and how she was going to be okay and come out better on the other side. So.
Starting point is 01:06:12 Fantastic. Yeah, I know I am. Do you know me? Yep. Loyal friend. Before we let you go, we have a game to play.
Starting point is 01:06:21 It's super easy. It's an easy game. Okay. All right. So how this game works. I'm scared. It should be. I'm going to ask these questions.
Starting point is 01:06:29 Does Victoria blank? Does Victoria blank, blank, blank? Oh, shit. Okay. And you're going to think of the answer to yourself. You're not going to say the answer right away. We're going to guess the answer. And then you are going to figure out who gets it right.
Starting point is 01:06:41 If you have an anecdotal story to go with your answer, please share. If you don't, don't feel go with your answer please share if you don't don't feel any pressure to do so okay do you know me with victoria fuller does victoria believe in aliens i'm uh i'm torn on this one. I don't know you that well. On some levels, I think you're a very practical person and who might be like, it's fucking stupid. I don't believe in aliens.
Starting point is 01:07:14 But also, she spent time in a cornfield and may know. There's that. There's that. Also, I mean, if you're asking me if there's a life in the super, I guess technically I believe in aliens. So you're asking me if there's a life in the super, I guess, I guess technically I believe in aliens. So you're going to go with yes. It's a big, big, big universe.
Starting point is 01:07:30 And if you're, if an alien by definition is any type of life form outside of earth, then I do. And I think you're an intelligent person. And so, yeah, I'm going to say yes. Am I allowed to answer? Not yet. I'm going to say, I'm going to say yes. Am I allowed to answer? Not yet. I'm going to say no. Just to be fun.
Starting point is 01:07:49 Can I answer now? Yeah. Have you guys ever seen ancient aliens? Yes. 1,000% I believe in them. 1,000% I believe in aliens. Do you believe in ghosts? I do.
Starting point is 01:08:02 I believe in spirits. I don't like to call them ghosts. Spirit. Spirit. Spirit. believe in spirits. I don't like to call them ghosts. Spirit. Spirit. They're spirits. Be respectful. Okay, question number two. Did Victoria have sex on prom night?
Starting point is 01:08:21 Night of prom. I mean. Also. Oh my God. That's's actually funny when was your first prom were you the freshman who got asked by the senior how'd you know that senior i was a freshman got asked by the senior read the room okay fuck off let's say her senior prom my senior what about my problem because i went to prom all four years of course she is I mean it's really crazy I don't know if you know that about me
Starting point is 01:08:49 I went to like all the proms yeah when did you have sex I'm gonna say yes at some point you're gonna say she had sex on one of those four prom nights
Starting point is 01:08:59 yeah you have to say that you can't say when did you have sex like that doesn't I agree I think she had sex on one of those prom nights. Before junior prom. Before junior.
Starting point is 01:09:09 I'm going to say senior prom. Okay. I definitely at some point she got a hit. During one of those proms? Yeah. Do you want to know the answer? Yes. I'm going to say, we both say yes.
Starting point is 01:09:21 We both say yes. Yes. 1000% on the last one. Senior prom. Senior prom. Yep. So I get extra bonus. Which is weird because I didn't think.
Starting point is 01:09:29 Just to note, 100% is all you really need to be to be 100% certain. You don't even need to be 1,000%. I'll believe you the same. Okay, wow. Fuck me, right? My parents are going to be like are question number three that's lame so lame i actually know this isn't true have you ever bought in followers no you haven't come on sweetie i had like a thousand followers do you know anyone in your season who has purchased followers stop nick open-ended question you're trying to rattle the cage so you do
Starting point is 01:10:13 okay that's all i need to know um can victoria name the three branches of government um i'm gonna say yes i'm gonna say yes as well okay don't mean to go ahead and name them republican is that not the three branches of government oh like senate what are we saying i don't know can we elaborate don't make me look okay fine answers no well what well what is it listen someone's gonna write some comment just you know executive legislative and judicial okay first off don't put this in there because people are gonna be really hateful because they're like oh my god you know what i've learned how bad people are at geography and it's like i'm good at geography i'm
Starting point is 01:11:13 bad at politics judicial legislative and executive yeah i know the the senate is part of the legislative legislative branch yeah who are part of the who branch. Yeah. Got it. Who are part of the, who's the judicial branch? Ooh, the House. The Senate. I hate that. Like the Supreme Court? Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah.
Starting point is 01:11:33 The judicial. And the executive branch, who's that? The president. There we go. I knew that. There we go. I have to say, you helped a friend become a citizen, and I didn't know you. You totally rebounded.
Starting point is 01:11:44 Well, I knew the executive. I can't say judicial helped a friend become a citizen and I didn't you totally rebounded well I knew the I can't say judicial so judicial do you have siblings I do okay that doesn't matter
Starting point is 01:11:53 in this question has Victoria ever had a crush on a friend's sibling I'm gonna say yes every girl's had a crush on like a friend's brother or sister for that matter
Starting point is 01:12:07 no my siblings are five years younger than me so inappropriate it would be very inappropriate we're not talking about your siblings we're talking about a friend's siblings oh have you ever wanted to fuck one of your friend's brothers oh have I ever wanted to sleep with one of my friend's brothers
Starting point is 01:12:22 yeah have you no I have not Oh, have I ever wanted to sleep with one of my friend's brothers? Yeah. Have you? No. Yes. I have not. Okay. I do not tell a lie.
Starting point is 01:12:33 We want people to... Or one of your friend's sisters. You never know. One of my... Oh, honey, she's open. She's here. Has Victoria ever taken a meditation class? What do you guys think? I say yeah.
Starting point is 01:12:52 Was it court ordered? Just kidding. Such a shut up. I would say yeah, you've been to a meditation studio of some kind. I have. Have you ever heard of Nidra Yoga? No. Of course you haven't.
Starting point is 01:13:06 Well, it's meditative, so sweetie, look into it. That doesn't require skates. That's it for Do You Know Me? That was it? You did a great job. Okay, I love that for me. Victoria, thank you so much for coming. This has been a ton of fun.
Starting point is 01:13:24 I hope that you also had fun and i hope the people listening enjoyed themselves and uh feel like they know all of you they haven't put you in a box um and i feel like they have i certainly have enjoyed this conversation i wish you the best in life and uh lots of real butter in the future for you. We got some real butter coming your way. There is some real butter coming your way. Let's hope. Where can people find you on social if you want to be seen?
Starting point is 01:13:56 I don't have Twitter because fuck that. But you can add me on Instagram at VL Fuller. Okay. Anything else that you're doing that you want to promote? No, not right now. Stay tuned. But thank you for having me. Instagram at VL Fuller. Okay. So anything else that you're doing that you want to promote or no, not right now. Um, stay tuned,
Starting point is 01:14:09 but thank you for having me. You guys have been so fun. I know. Right. I know. Right. I know. Excuse you.
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