The Viall Files - E990 – Going Deeper with The Nader Sisters

Episode Date: August 27, 2025

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper edition.  Freeform/Hulu’s newest hit Love Thy Nader is on deck, and we are sooo excited to welcome the Nader sisters! You may know Brooks Nader from he...r Sports Illustrated cover and time on Dancing With the Starts (aka Gleb drama), but do you know her sisters? Brooks, joined by Mary Holland, Grace Ann and Sarah Jane are here to discuss their new show, growing up, family dynamics, what it’s like to be the next Kardashians and more. You won’t want to miss it!   “New rule: the guys we eff cannot be uglier than dad." Listen to Humble Brag with Cynthia Bailey and Crystal Kung Minkoff! Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/humble-brag-with-crystal-and-cynthia/id1774286896 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@humblebragpod Listen To Disrespectfully now! Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/disrespectfully/id1516710301 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCh8MqSsiGkfJcWhkan0D0w Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/  To Order Nick’s Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com  Are you struggling with any sort of dating, relationship, or life dilemma? Do you want all the answers? Email asknick@theviallfiles.com with your question in the subject line to express interest in appearing on the show!  To advertise on this podcast please email: ad-sales@libsyn.com or go to: https://advertising.libsyn.com/theviallfiles   Thank You to Our Sponsors: Cymbiotika - Find out why Nutrafol is the best-selling hair growth supplement brand at https://nutrafol.com, promo code VIALL. Thrive Market - Go to https://thrivemarket.com/VIALL to get 30% off your first order—plus a free gift worth up to $60. Skylight - Keep it classic and cool — with long-lasting staples from Quince. Go to https://quince.com/viall for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Coop Sleep Goods - Upgrade your summer sleep. Visit https://coopsleepgoods.com/VIALL to get 20% off your first order. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @nnataliejjoy @brooksnader @maryhollandnader @graceann_nader @sarahjanenader

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Starting point is 00:01:52 people in fashion and they're like what's your name and i would say it's brooks claire they're like I just had to pick a lane And I just stuck with it Yeah, but how about you been able to keep your middle name It's very annoying honestly I have to everyone's always like Sarah nice to meet you And I have to say it's Sarah Jane I go by SJ too which I think makes it easier
Starting point is 00:02:10 But people always think I'm saying like Sarah Gway What? Or like Sergei like And I'm like okay It would be hard to hif GA Like general admission Yeah Oh yeah
Starting point is 00:02:22 No VIP I know No general admission is a no for me Backstage only I go by GAN Grace Ann Nader So that's kind of what I'm rolling I was like, why are they calling for that? Yeah
Starting point is 00:02:35 So everyone calls me Gann and they have since sixth grade So that's a safe one you can always do Ganymal though Ganymal yeah if I'm in my party zone I'm Ganymal You know is that something your parents Like instilled in you ladies When they named you like this is
Starting point is 00:02:46 I do feel like that's a southern thing Totally yeah Totally southern My parents still call me Like if I'll be doing a press day Or like I'm doing some event My parents will shout like It's Brooks Claire!
Starting point is 00:02:56 And they're like, shut on. It's fine. It's fine. Okay. Well, love that nadir. It's great. It's really good. You guys watch.
Starting point is 00:03:07 And not that I know anything about reality TV, but I was one of the few people who said that Secret Lives of Mormon Wise would be a massive hit before everyone else jumped on the bandwagon. Wow. And what are you saying? It's big. I really think you ladies have something here. I'm really excited for you. Thank you.
Starting point is 00:03:26 We left it all on the table. You guys have a really, I mean, is that something you guys always dreamt of doing? Not necessarily, oh, like, we're going to have a reality TV show, but like, as you ladies grew up together, clearly the bonds there, did you guys all kind of look in the mirror and being like, I'm a star kind of thing? Or where did that kind of energy come from? That one did. I can't lie.
Starting point is 00:03:46 She always thought she was a star. And she believed it into maybe almost reality, I think. Highest form of manifestation. But yeah. I don't think we were. like we need a reality show like I want to be on TV but people would always be like I think we thought it was normal to just be like so close and crazy and like we're always naked running around since we were sure close crazy and naked yeah close crazy and again as we especially
Starting point is 00:04:12 moved to New York I think we realized like how special our bond is and how rare it is to be like best friends with your siblings and so just it kind of fell in our laps like I feel like it was almost divine timing like someone i mean it also had to take you know certain star to rise obviously so like when did humility become your best trade we're still working on next year we are like to mess with this because they're like you know loving loving the experience which i think is special but yeah i have to remind them it is fun like watching like you know i think nowadays when reality tv shows what you know referencing back Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, we watch a lot of TV. And I think what makes those women
Starting point is 00:04:56 special or what makes that show special is you don't see them try to edit themselves in a way that they're so focused on like, you know, just brands or whatever. Like they're making a TV show. And when I'm watching Love That Nader, I feel the same way about you ladies where I feel like I'm actually getting an authentic glimpse into your lives. You guys are like messy in a fun way. Like you're not necessarily holding back, which I think is great because I think a lot of reality TV shows nowadays, I think so many more people, everyone's just so brand conscious, you know, everyone's just so polished. And it's just like, well, I didn't really, I don't know why I'm watching. Right, right. Obviously, you don't want to be so messy where it's, you know, turns into the valley or something like that.
Starting point is 00:05:39 Pretty damn close. I'm curious when you got, when you ladies got together, like what conversations did you four have, or even with your parents? about like how are you guys going to approach this? Like what boundaries do you guys have? Was anything off limits or was it like if we're going to do this, we're going to go all the way? I think our initial conversations were like, you get one shot. We're just going to throw it all on the table. Fully be yourself.
Starting point is 00:06:03 There's really no other option. And I think if you try to bake things or hide things, it does come out. So it's like, yeah. Our whole approach, we're like, let's just do it and free ball it. Yeah. But you're the only one that high restrictions. I was like, you know, you guys can go for anything. for me because whatever, it's fine. It's all
Starting point is 00:06:19 just me. But this one over here did have a relationship restriction. No, you said your boyfriend. It's like, I'm not going to force him to be on the show. You know, so that was one that we Are you all in relationships? No. We're single. Us two were single. They're in relationships.
Starting point is 00:06:35 How did your boyfriends react to the show? Mine was like supportive and excited. We had just started dating. The prince. The Lord. The Lord. The Lord. Yeah. As long as it's a title. What? I mean, honestly, like, I thought he was hot when he had the British accent, and then he threw in the title. And I was like, oh, God, the knees are buckling.
Starting point is 00:06:56 He's a lord. He's a lord. Yeah. Whatever that means, I still don't know. Yeah, I would be a lady. She's the only one of us to be a lady. She's as lady as one of us gets to. Right?
Starting point is 00:07:07 We needed one lady. If one of us is going to date a lord, it's going to be that one. What is being a lord entail? I wish I knew. I mean, I love the type. Like, I don't, he's tried to explain it to me. And it's all, like, very English law things that I can't even follow. And I'm like, honestly, I don't care what it means.
Starting point is 00:07:22 It probably means nothing now. That could be a spinoff. We all go to the palace or whatever. We love to do. We love it or a wedding or something. Let's get, like, the royals opinion on. Oh, my gosh. I know.
Starting point is 00:07:33 Exactly. His parents are very, like, posh and proper. I met them this summer. And they were like, so when is your show coming out? Like, we can't wait to see it. And I'm like, actually, don't watch it. Never mind. I should say, actually, they're going to be in season two.
Starting point is 00:07:45 It's going to be. I think so a lot, and I'm like, is Disney airing in London? I hope not. You don't want him to hear like the sister threesome coming? There's, yeah, there's two things like a little awesome. Yeah, we're like, oh, wait, what? Okay. That's a, gosh, no, it was.
Starting point is 00:08:03 I think though, before the show, to get back to your question, we all were like, this is a huge opportunity for us, obviously. And even my parents were like, my mom never curses, but she was like, screw it. Like, we're just going to go all that. She said the F word. She said the F word. She said, holy crap. Oh, okay. We're still protected.
Starting point is 00:08:24 But yeah, I think we just were, our biggest thing is we didn't want to walk away and be like, we could have, like, put more on the table. Or we, like, hid too much. Or we, like, protected certain parts of ourselves. I think our goal was just to be as raw and, like, opened as we could. That sounds gross. We're raw. Raw, not out of you. We definitely raw dogs.
Starting point is 00:08:44 We were definitely open. I think we are proud because we did that and I hope that that resonates and the editors and producers like really did a good job from what we've seen of capturing like our true personalities. I will say we all had to give up different things. I had a corporate job like was there for five years. I was so comfortable and I didn't want to quit when we first started filming and Deutsche Bank where I was. They were like, yeah, no, we're not filming. I was at Deutsche Bank. I was at Deutsche Bank. Yeah. Yeah. Thanks a lot, guys. I was there. And the bank was like, yeah, you're not filming a reality show here, obviously. So I had to quit almost. I'm so glad I did, obviously. But they were supportive of you.
Starting point is 00:09:23 But then they were like, you can film your exit. And I thought that that would be a perfect kind of Gen Z leaving corporate America moment. But now they're her biggest fans. They're throwing a watch party. Oh, yeah. If you're watching this TV, love you guys. I love you, TV. I'm like the mascot.
Starting point is 00:09:40 Well, as someone who used to work in corporate America, I don't miss it. No, I will say I'm never going back. to be the common consensus. Yeah. Yeah, exactly. You can always go back to. Once this is out and airing Brooks, do you feel like you're going to have a little bit of protective sister mode?
Starting point is 00:09:53 Obviously, you've been in this world for so long. Do you feel like you're going to be like that? You're going to be like, fuck it. Y'all, I don't know. Go to the wolves. Like, now you know how I'm so protected with you guys. I'm obviously harder on you in person because that's how you parent and you know, that's outside.
Starting point is 00:10:07 But yeah, I feel like I've more recently, you know, been opened up to more criticism and scrutiny and whatever. And truthfully, like none of it really does hurt. right feelings. But then when people start, which they've started to rip on them already, I'm like, oh no, you know, appearances or weight or this. You know, all the things. All the things. People, they call y'all ugly and stuff, I'm back. They say things like that. They really do about y'all. No, I agree. In case you didn't know. Yeah. They say that you have a horrible eyebrows and a universe and all this stuff. I'm serious. They should have seen it a year ago. I used to think I was a pretty attractive guy. Then I went on TV. I was like, I know when you go on TV, they'll point things out.
Starting point is 00:10:50 Last night, we watched it for the first time. And Grace Van goes, oh, my God, I have a whole entire list of plexes. I know, I'm getting my face done, my boobs done. I'm getting plastic. I literally, even two, I will be in full bandages. No, that's the part of first season thing. Like the season two work that like people watch themselves on TV and then they're like, okay. No job.
Starting point is 00:11:09 I also, yeah. But we're going to film this surgery. It'll tell me. I also was like. Like, do I have a rusting bitch face all the time? Yes, and I guess I do. I do. I do.
Starting point is 00:11:21 I do. Like, I look like a raging face. I always look miserable. Okay. I think you're great. I don't know this for years. And I was like, why I wasn't the one thing I'm mean. Are you all prepared for the, I mean, I'm sure you've gotten it your whole life.
Starting point is 00:11:34 But the DILF comments. Oh, God. Because dad's hot. Dad's hot. Okay. So we have a new rule. Can I just tell them. Tell us that.
Starting point is 00:11:41 Okay. Wait, Jane and I have a thing for older gentlemen that are around my dad's age. How old is your dad? 51. Which is in each, it's hard to like, yeah, lower than that. Yeah. For me at least, I'm 28 so old.
Starting point is 00:11:52 Me and your dad can be friends. Yeah. Well, that's the thing. They get along. I think you all would be. Yeah, very good friends. But Sir Jane goes, okay, we have to make a new rule with this whole old man thing we're doing.
Starting point is 00:12:01 The guys we fuck cannot be uglier than dad. Because when you see them next to each other and you're like, oh. I guess we'll do, I guess we'll be starting now after the stormer truck record. Starting next week. No, he, yeah, he is, he's cute. He's a cute. He is, we love him. We see it in our TikTok.
Starting point is 00:12:20 No, let's not sell mom short. No, no, I mean, of course. She's a hobby. Mom is high parents. They're so cute, too. Like, they're so in love. When we were watching it last night, we were like, like, he's like pulling her hair out of her face.
Starting point is 00:12:30 No, they really are precious. They're really too high. I mean, like, me getting a divorce everything, dad's like, oh, are you going to get it right next time or the next time? And I'm like, Daddy, I'm sorry. Yeah, they're so innocent and precious. He's just so supportive. He's put them through it.
Starting point is 00:12:44 Well, I really enjoyed watching the first season because honestly, your lady's, like, family or childhood, in a lot of ways. Like, I have 10 siblings. Oh, my God. Same mom and dad. Shut up. Where are you in the lineup? I'm the second oldest. Oh, wow.
Starting point is 00:12:58 I stand with you. 19. Oh, my God. Guys, I need a family photo. Where are you from? I mean, you all need a reality show. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:13:08 Should we do a spin-off? Colless. We can do a collab. Literally. Paradise, but like, right. Your family. Y'all family? Like seven brides for seven brothers.
Starting point is 00:13:16 I don't think I could do it. But you guys are doing great. But, you know, like, I'm sure you could guess. Like, we grew up very, very religious, like a very, like, I had a great childhood around, centered around religion. Obviously, you know, my parents, I grew up very conservative, a lot of rules, just, you know. And then, you know, I give my parents a lot of credit because I feel like as their kids got older and went on to the real world, they've become a lot more open to, like, the
Starting point is 00:13:42 world that they become more progressive through their kids kind of you know their kids kind of got older and we were just kind of like you're yeah yeah I can't say that anymore and so you know they still have their core values but um so like watching your show I it reminded me a lot the way you ladies kind of interact with each other and just you know what your guys are doing outside of the real world I mean so it just made me wonder like what was your childhood like was it very hardcore very conservative like how did you ladies go from a household that seemed very traditional, very Christian, to, you know, being on a reality TV show,
Starting point is 00:14:19 talking about sex, talking about your bodies, talking about free songs or whatever. Your heart in front of your parents. Yeah. Lots of body. The shoddling. She's getting honest for that. Everyone online is like, okay, you guys didn't grow up that poor.
Starting point is 00:14:35 Your dad works in like, you know, the finance world and whatever. People have to remember that he actually works for a nonprofit called Fellowship of Christian athletes, FCA, from the time we were born till I was like eight years old. So that was a core part of my childhood. We lived in that house that they show on the TV until I was eight. Then we moved to the big city of Baton Rouge. We moved into a three-bedroom house. We didn't move into this huge house. And currently we still live in that house in Baton Rouge. You know what I mean? So yeah, he now built himself up. Basically what happened was he worked for FCA and he had four daughters and he was like 25. It was like, I'm getting cars donated, food donated to the house because he made
Starting point is 00:15:08 $12,000 a year. This is like public knowledge. People are like, you did not grow before. I'm like, Oh, yeah, we did. Or at least from my memory, because I'm the oldest, you know. And so he was like, I can't work in this industry anymore, even though I'm passionate about it. You know, being a minister, I have to get another job because I can't feed these bitches. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:15:24 They need a lot. According to the comment. So he said, yeah, as a pastor. So that was kind of our whole, you know, upbringing was centered around like Christian camps and, you know, sports and Christianity, basically. Our grandfather was an athletic coach at LSU football. So it was basically football and God was like, our entire life. And then when my dad went into the, you know, finance world, it wasn't like
Starting point is 00:15:46 an overnight thing. He's still to this day. I mean, I out earn him. But like, you know, he makes decent money to like live in this. God. He's done everything for us. Right. I'm like, just because he dresses like that. And he works him. Yeah. I mean, your parents do like it look like waspy rich people. They present. Honestly, they loved her ex-husband. And I think he copied his style. Yeah. Dad. A little waspy. He did. He learned to play golf and copied his style. And I will say that throughout our childhood, they worked really hard to make us not feel poor. They would always say we're rich in love. We're rich in love. And because our grandfather was an athletic coach at LSU, we went to a semi kind of private school through LSU. So we really worked hard
Starting point is 00:16:26 to not feel poor if that makes sense. And like Brooks was always trying to save up her babysitting money to buy the juicy couture sweatsuit or whatever it was. She's always a trend. But since we were little, we had that work ethic instilled because we couldn't do anything without our own money. Yeah, I always said, like, my parents gave me everything I need and things we wanted, we had to work for. So I had jobs when I was a kid. But I feel like that's probably part of your success now is because the way you were raised.
Starting point is 00:16:52 100%. Like, I knew what it meant to, like, work for something. Yeah. Because, like, if I wanted it, I had to work for it. My parents let me work. Yeah. And, like, yeah, growing up, I had a great childhood. And my, I have a core memory of just knowing my, the scene my parents worry about money.
Starting point is 00:17:08 If you saw the house I grew up in. Like pretty nice. Like it wasn't like a, but, you know, it was, they, they figured it out. They, they invested their entire life into giving back to their children. And you saw that. But yeah, like we, money was always a concern, you know, like just worrying about money. How are we going to make the next, you know, but like you, yeah, they didn't present as poor. Right. Right.
Starting point is 00:17:30 Well, that's the thing. And when I moved to New York, my dad tells me all the time, you know, because then by the time she moved, he helped her with her apartment and like rent and whatever. And when I moved, I dropped out of Tulane on a full right scholarship. and he gave me $1,000, it was like, good luck to you. Was your full scholarship in? It was in finance at Tulane. But it was a legislator scholarship, like a Louisiana.
Starting point is 00:17:49 I found a way, a loophole with my time out in front of the legislator. And I was like, I want to go to Tulane. For finance. She's a finance cronage. That's how I got it. So I got around with the legislators. I was supposed to be like, who's the smartest run in the room? And then it's like, but who is the smartest?
Starting point is 00:18:07 I think you can gauge that several ways. But Mary Holland is, like, on her shit. I think, no. Okay. Book smart. Book smart. Grace Ann, actually. I'm definitely. She has a photographic memory and she's like a little.
Starting point is 00:18:21 We can't have this argument right now. We can't have a argument. I'm definitely the smartest. Also, I will say on the being raised, you know, worrying about money things, the most important thing was that you are always getting up and going to work no matter what it is. Now I very much adopt. Now I very much adopt the philosophy of like work smart. not hard. You know what I mean? Which I think is a little bit different than how we were raised.
Starting point is 00:18:44 And we were raised, it was like, oh, work and like, you know, like go to the farm and like work all day. But now I'm like, why don't we just work on a farm? But like that was the, that was the vibe. We have like the summer months when we were. I think also like when you're raised, like when kids are like helicoptered and their parents are like controlling everything they do, they turn 18 and they go crazy. They go crazy. They go crazy. We were helicoptered. No, but they go crazy. see it's like the same philosophy like Brooks wasn't allowed to wear a two piece her whole life and so when she when she yeah moved to york it was like i'm going for s eye like you kind of go the opposite way and i think we've gone the complete opposite way of how we were raised but also our
Starting point is 00:19:24 parents have definitely like grown to expand their like beliefs and just like accept they are like the most supportive parents they are and that's what my dad tells me he's like okay because i'm like this is unfair you help her with her when you give me a thousand dollars and we're like deal with it at 18 when I dropped out or 19. And he goes, well, if I had the money then, I would have helped you. But I literally didn't. Yeah. Right. And it worked out. Exactly. Yeah. It could have been a lot different, honestly. I don't even know what it would be like, you know, because I just went to my agency and begged them for all the, you know, hand modeling jobs and jobs. I was like, put me in front someone and I need to make my rent. I'll do anything. So, you know, it made me have a lot of
Starting point is 00:20:03 grit and, you know, I did e-commerce for Walmart, you know, lingerie Walmart, bare necessities owned by Walmart four times a week in a touch in New Jersey, took the NJ Transit, made like nothing. But I did that for an entire year and it paid my rent and allowed me to live in New York. And I look back on those times as, you know, building, building me up to what I am today. So that's why I hope they do some lingerie Walmart. I'm in Jersey doing e-com all day. What was your big break? I think probably Sports Illustrated was what introduced me into the scene on a different level. It was always like on my mood board growing up. I had like Christy Brinkley and Cindy Crawford and all the great supermodels on my vision board. And then I was already signed to a
Starting point is 00:20:41 modeling agency and I told them like, I really want to be in sports. I'll show as my dream. And they were like, they would never look at you twice. So I went to an open casting call with 10,000 people in Miami and waited in line for like eight hours. My mom went with it. That's great. Yeah. And I was signed to an agency and all these people. The open casting call, the point of it was to not be assigned model and be regular and still get a chance. And I was signed, but I just went. and then I ended up sending a signed copy of my cover when I got the cover to that agency, who I then left. And I was like, I know, I like, shout out. Wishing you the best. I'd feel like your divorce wasn't, I don't know if it gets touched on later in the, but it doesn't feel like
Starting point is 00:21:19 it's much of a conversation. Was that something that you did purposefully of like, this is my life now? I don't really want to like go backwards. I would say it's a part of my story and it's a part of who I am and what shaped me. I feel like. You know, why are you laughing? No, I would say that and an NDA. And that'll do it. That'll do it. Okay.
Starting point is 00:21:44 So you just ruined the whole thing. This is why the show's good. Go on, go on. Okay. Well, I don't really care. You probably shouldn't say anything about it. No, no, I can say about my experiences. That's a fine print.
Starting point is 00:21:55 So you had to sign an NDA. Well, we both did as a mutually exclusive one. Is that allowed to say? but I didn't say it actually she said it I can't say anything I think you're allowed to say you sign an end yet yeah okay it's somebody makes a lot of people
Starting point is 00:22:09 signing the fifth yeah but I think that I was a different person when I was married to him and when I met him I was like it was the first guy I ever dated in New York I was 19 years old my first night in New York City
Starting point is 00:22:19 and then I stayed with him until 27 and I'm 28 now so I feel like it did shape me and it was a really really hard decision to you know get a divorce because just because you don't love somebody that's why I did it So that's, damn.
Starting point is 00:22:32 So you just, like, fell out of love. Yeah. Or you never really love. Well, how do you know it? Well, I don't know. I think I was a little bit warped in what I thought was right. What happened was we started dating. He was like 11 years older than me.
Starting point is 00:22:46 So a baby. But we started dating and then my mom's like, okay, great. And then what you do in New York is you move in because it saves money. So we moved in. So my parents thought, okay, they're going to get married. And then he asked my parents. And then I had no idea. And they were like, of course, great.
Starting point is 00:22:58 Engage. And my mom has the wedding already planned because she's Southern. You know, so she's like, I got Leslie Campbell. She's already playing the wedding. It's to be Ursuline Covent, New Orleans, like the classic thing. How old were you and got married? Like 23, 22? You were 22, yeah.
Starting point is 00:23:10 And she met him when she was like 18. So she never really dated. Never dated. I don't have my speech for my second wedding. I tried this one and it didn't work out. This one's got to spend. That matters. Like when you meet someone, depending on their age and their life experiences,
Starting point is 00:23:24 you've met a guy at 18 and then that was like all you knew. You were a different person at 18 versus like, whatever it was it was your first boyfriend how did you break that news that on my birthday actually okay at my birthday party that's right yeah it seems to be a bit of a theme yeah it was like six month process of like me trying to do it and I was doing it I was slowly but norily and then that was the day that it was the nail in the coffin and then the nail in the coffin day was her birthday and um her birthday party and Gracian goes what was it a random birthday or 23rd she's like of course she fucking decides to do this on my 23 birthday.
Starting point is 00:24:01 Girl, it's been going on for six months. But really, my birthday's not a big deal to me. I don't care about it. So, yeah. And then she'll see on a show. It's not a big deal to her. It's not a big deal to her. If you want. And then he showed up to the birthday party.
Starting point is 00:24:12 With 10 friends, which was like, did you. It was so awkward. It was like a heist. No, we did it. So what were you all? Let me. What did you think?
Starting point is 00:24:22 What did y'all experience through that marriage? Well, we watched her just fall apart because we're all very much people pleasers and we divorce was not okay growing up like it wasn't really an option and my parents didn't take it very well at first so I think we were all kind of going through it with her and you can tell in the show we go through a lot of things together we feel each other's pain so that was really hard for us but then we also were realizing that she was coming into like singlehood for the first time ever and her younger sisters were more experienced than her in that right that's probably the only area where we were more experienced so we were like okay wait we have to like step up to the plate and help her
Starting point is 00:24:59 the way she's helped us. Show her how to DM people. Show her how to, like, respond to a tag. Her reentry into single dating and being single in work was actually the funny and it was so iconic. And it was so much fun.
Starting point is 00:25:12 Like when Brooks got single again, it was so much fun. I also was newly single at that time. And for three months, we just had the best time. Did you just have like the most like iconic roster? Yeah. I would say she did.
Starting point is 00:25:23 Yeah. I mean, it keeps getting better. It's changing every day. How many professionals? sports are we working? I mean, I think we're spanning. We're spanning quite a few. We've gotten into like, no, Greeney. We are spanning. We're becoming fans of a lot of music. I won't say categories, but I will say we're dipping more into like the country club sports now. You know what I mean. We're getting off the field. Well, I mean, your sister is dating a lord. So it's true.
Starting point is 00:25:51 Yeah. So anyway, that's all out there. Okay. But yeah, I think the divorce was also like we were really close to him and so it was like yeah the like I was like say goodbye girls yeah it was like dad say goodbye it was weird and then we didn't know yeah no well this is the worst part so she's awful with confrontation like she can like do any any deal any business thing but when you have to have like a serious emotional conversation she will not have it and so she puts the nail in the coffin is like we're getting a divorce or signing the papers you're moving out and then flies to LA and leaves She could probably pick the date and then left my parents with her ex-husband
Starting point is 00:26:29 to like really deliver the news and move him out. So he's like really upset. My parents are taking care of him and we don't have to do him like that. So we didn't take it well. Yeah. We don't have to do it like that.
Starting point is 00:26:40 And my parents didn't take it well either. They were distraught like mortified. And it was worse than my coming out. To like talk to him for a while. We didn't know if we like at first she was like beat up to them. I would pop up to me and be like, oh, yeah, I had drinks with your ex-husband last night. He's looking good.
Starting point is 00:26:57 I was like, whoa, where are you going to tell us that? She's like, what? He's my friend. I was like, okay. We're still rooting for him, aren't we? I mean, yeah, we are. I wish him all the best. He's a really great guy.
Starting point is 00:27:08 He is sweet. Has he moved on? Yes. So perfect. He's dating. He's so sweet. I don't know. Last I saw him, he was dating some girl.
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Starting point is 00:30:13 I know Gleb. You know, Nick was on Dancing with the Stars. Wait, what? Who was your partner? Pita. Oh, she's beautiful. I love her. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:30:21 Did you have a great for me? I did. I loved it. It was a great experience. So when you found out you, you were going to be partnered with Gleb initial response. Well, so she was excited. No. Well, what happened was they called me and she's like, if you could describe your perfect ideal partner.
Starting point is 00:30:36 And it was last summer, I was newly single. And I had like three boyfriends, great roster. And I was like, give me the hottest, duchiest fuck boy in the whole roster. She was like, God. They're like, this is exactly why we hired it. So I kind of asked for it. I go back to that in my head and blame myself all the time. And she's like, we have the guy.
Starting point is 00:30:55 And so there he was. Did you know it was him? She showed me, she told me his name and I googled him. I didn't know anything about him, but I googled him. And I was like, oh, my God, he's perfect. And then he, I walked in the studio the first day. And what I saw in Google, he had lost like 30 pounds. All the muscle was gone.
Starting point is 00:31:12 He was bald. And I was like, put the one. And he was. By ball, you mean like shaved his head? Well, he shaved his head. He's going through like a wellness phase of like no drinking, no anything. Of course, night one I'm like, when I come to my house and have a shot of tequila. So I kind of blurred the line from day one as well.
Starting point is 00:31:26 But I liked him. You're a newly single. You're on dance for the start. Right. Like, why would you do anything but? Right. Why not? I was like, you're sweating on him for eight hours a day.
Starting point is 00:31:35 It might as well sweat on the rest of the night. It's impossible. Yeah. Did we hook up the first night? I think it was probably like the fourth or fifth night, maybe. Which is pretty good will to deal It was before the first show Setting each on each other all day
Starting point is 00:31:48 I remember that You needed to have good chemistry For the first show Well but my way of looking at it Was like I don't want to do this dilly dally Build tension thing all season Let me just see it
Starting point is 00:31:57 Right Yeah I want to see what you're made up And what was it Oh You guys are so messy I don't even want to talk about it Don't give a matter
Starting point is 00:32:07 Oh okay Don't give a Yeah we don't need to give me up He's crushing it sounds like With what? Just with his clothes off Oh yeah
Starting point is 00:32:15 Oh yeah Okay So throughout dancing With the stars This is like Becoming a real relationship Like y'all are actually dating
Starting point is 00:32:26 They were dating And I will say when I first met Gleb I literally said to you The very first I was like I have a feeling That this is going to be A very long drawn out thing And I feel like this man's going to be
Starting point is 00:32:36 In our life for a very long time And it's going to end very badly Why did you think that? Just because I met him And he was like I was like, they don't like when they see the possession early on. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:32:46 I just saw it. He was very like, no, she doesn't want to do this. Yeah, he was like, no, like Bruce will come with me.
Starting point is 00:32:53 And I was like, Brooksie will come with me. Yeah. I love you. But I will say we all like, in the good times. Like I was living with Brooks in L.A. And he was like at our house.
Starting point is 00:33:04 He basically lived there. And like I loved him. Like we had quality time. Like it was like brother vibes. Like he was so sweet and cool. And so I think that. that's why throughout the show, like the emotions surrounding club and just in life are like so real for all of us because it's like we built a bond and I mean, she went through it the hardest. I didn't date the man. But like, no, I will say a traumatic situation. Well, I just felt like the unraveling. There was a part of me that whenever I went to dancing with the stars, I have like a dance background. I was on the high school dance team. So I really did want to what? I was on the high school dancing, bitch. Fucking don't laugh at my love for dance. And I really wanted to dance and like learn. how to dance and I he's really horrible at choreography he always has been and so I didn't have a
Starting point is 00:33:48 chance in hell between the banging on the side and this and that and like I was fuck literally I thought guys did pretty good well yeah yeah you know they got eliminated the night we danced with them so that's still a tough time I mean we had yeah that was true but I will say glove was so sweet and we had so many fun times and I do seriously with wish him the best? I don't. Did you forget what you did? She's having to drink tomorrow.
Starting point is 00:34:17 I'm having to drink for things tomorrow. I'm kidding. I'm kidding. No, it wouldn't be surprised. Well, I've just I can't get drinks in the water. I haven't really talked to him in a while.
Starting point is 00:34:30 But like, yeah, you meet him. He makes a great first impression. If you have him on the podcast after us, I swear to God. Do we not? Don't. Why not? We don't want to hear his size.
Starting point is 00:34:39 You could. No, no, no, no. No, no. No, no, no, we're loyal to you. I mean, you can't. He says everything, you know. I feel like, how is he, that's, yeah. How is he? Yeah, like, what's his position?
Starting point is 00:34:50 I mean, every time I hear Lebb in the news about someone he's dating, it's always like. I didn't do that. Yeah, he's like the shaggy or whatever. What is it? Wasn't me? Oh, yeah. Yeah. Deny, deny, deny, deny, deny.
Starting point is 00:35:02 It's all slander, he thinks. It's happened before. You know what I mean? Like, it's. Did you ever have any conversations with any of his previous? No, I did it. Did any of them, like, reach out and be like, girl, too. Actually.
Starting point is 00:35:11 I thought about reaching out No, we had, I don't know if one of his very close friends who was no longer on Dance at the Stars was married to a girlfriend of mine and she told me her experience with him which checked out to everything that A 3-7 in Joshua Tree. Well, not that she wasn't around.
Starting point is 00:35:28 He's no longer in her life because her and her man got divorced. They have a baby. And she told me just Yeah. So many people. Because she was his celebrity on dance that's how they met.
Starting point is 00:35:40 Okay, here we go. Whatever. I'm just saying she was just like this is how he is like she was like I saw you in the thick of it like online and on TikTok during the season I wanted to reach out to you and be like girl run but she was like I knew it had to play out and whatever so this isn't news to so so it's funny that you say this is how he is because when I'm watching love thineater and I met Gleb and like if I didn't know him or watch the show like what what is being portrayed is your classic you know love bomber you're just like gaslighting kind of lying scumbag is kind of like he checks a lot of those boxes but like you're also like
Starting point is 00:36:20 maybe this is this who he kind of this way of like I don't know if it's the Russian in him or whatever it is but it's like it's like I don't know he just doesn't mean it did you feel that kind of energy totally all the time and he would say things
Starting point is 00:36:37 all the time about even he would be mean about like oh you need to fix this about your appearance and I'd be like, don't eat those ships. Yeah. That's just glad like, but you're like, oh, it's quakey. You need to work out.
Starting point is 00:36:50 Yeah. You like, it's kind of like a mental like It's a weird gas lady. It's always like, it's like a little Stockholm syndrome. I think I have that. You guys all thought y'all dated him by the way. This conversation's going. You're like, well, so whenever he would tell me this
Starting point is 00:37:05 emotionally abusive. But you had Stockholm for sure. You did. You just had blindness. You did have Stockholm. But I think, like, I still go back and forth in my head. Like, it's exactly what you're saying. But I was in real, like, none of it was at all produced.
Starting point is 00:37:19 Like, I was in like the darkest. When I rewatched it, I was like, oh, that was a dark couple of months. Because I was just like spiraling. I was crazy how everything just like, I almost think it was like, it made me want to become religious again. Because like, the fact that like you found out that information when you did, like, it could have been a whole year-long thing, you know? Can we, I mean, how did you find out? The car, he left his, can we say that? I mean, the episode's already out. He left his phone in the car. And it was
Starting point is 00:37:47 in the Uber to the airport. He left it. He left it. And so the driver just showed up the apartment. It's like, so sloppy. Basically, I didn't hear from it all day. If you're going to do it. And I was like, this is so weird. I don't understand what's going on. And then the driver was like, hey, this phone was left in our car. Like, no one produced this. This is really the Uber driver. And it was clubs. And so, you know, I did what girls do. Do you know his password? We can't disclose how we got it. Somehow, some way you found your way into the phone.
Starting point is 00:38:13 Yeah, I found my way in there. As any girl would. Everyone's done it in the situation. And was it at immediate like, oh, we're going to do this? No, she didn't want to get it. I was there a conversation. I was already suspicious. I was suspicious that he was cheating.
Starting point is 00:38:26 And so I was like, you have to go to the phone. Why were you suspicious? I'm not, and I am not a go through the man's phone proponent. But in this instance, I was like, yeah, never been through your phone. Don't worry. But in this instance, I was like, we have to. They were like, you're already so... But also, we just saw a TikTok about him being on the dating app.
Starting point is 00:38:41 Oh, yeah. And we saw a TikTok of him like on Raya or Hinge or something. That same day. That was like his profile active. Yeah, and people were sending it to me. I mean, Raya's hard to get off of. Yeah. They will, it's like quitting a gym.
Starting point is 00:38:53 But you pay for it. What? But you pay for it. He's like, I still have the app. I can't get off. They're so obsessed with me. They don't want to let me go. When you delete the account, I had people like,
Starting point is 00:39:05 telling me. You still have a phone. But then we had some girls. We had people that I knew. Reach out to them and you really had to take me off your app. It's like I'm married with a child. Right. We knew people like second degree though.
Starting point is 00:39:18 Like one of my friends in LA knew somebody who had been messaging him on right. And so and it was like a few degrees away, but I was hearing things like that. Also though more than like the cheating suspicion, he was just, it was escalating so fast. Like he was talking about moving in with all of us and like I was scared for torting. And not even asking just telling us. Like it's our house our show This is our like talking about the show
Starting point is 00:39:39 And like our house like it was his and we were his like And so are you dating when you knew Love That Nader was picked up or got a film? Yes He was there for that whole journey of it situation And when I He was super excited He was very excited
Starting point is 00:39:51 He was talking about all of the future plans for all of us five together I'm like I mean I hope I hope that he like Fixes whatever's going on in there And like can respect a person like one day
Starting point is 00:40:07 and did you guys like define the relationship did we define it I mean he told me I love you like day one no I know but did you ever not that I'm not not defending him but I am curious because like in 2025 no one's defining relationships no one's like boyfriend and girlfriend yeah he like referred to me as his girlfriend they were dating yeah yeah yeah and he would get jealous
Starting point is 00:40:26 of guys and like y'all were dating you know when did he first say I love you day one I swear to God like and that didn't like raise The red flag. Oh, for me, it did. She was like, whoa, I love you too. The thing that raised red flags for me is to the point when you notice your sister's mood
Starting point is 00:40:42 is so dependent on someone texting her or not texting her or what they're saying. And my parents were like really freaked out by me during that day. They're like, you're really manic. And actually what was really cute but wasn't filmed that like really broke my heart was I was really upset and I was like depressed and wouldn't get out of bed for like three days. And my parents were in town. They extended their stay one more day and I'm such a daddy's girl. and everyone was going out to brunch.
Starting point is 00:41:05 People say daddy's girl. I'm not talking about the guys I like. The way you all laugh at each other is kind of my favorite thing about you all. Daddy's girl is a term. Don't say that. Okay, go. Okay. Go, day.
Starting point is 00:41:15 Speaking of that, sorry, my dad is saved his daddy and my phone and it rings. And she goes, that could be so many people. Oh, my God. Daddy passed the song. Okay, so anyways, my dad. My father, you're a father's girl. I'm a father's girl. He stayed and I was so.
Starting point is 00:41:32 depressed and upset and everyone was going to this big brunch the whole family mom everyone and i thought that i was home alone so i like mosey up and i love my dad making me breakfast it's like my favorite and he does it in a special way it's like our favorite little pastime so it's like 4 p.m and i wake up i roll out of bed i look like i'm in it by a truck and i roll upstairs thinking no one's here and dad's like oh and he pulls it out of the microwave and has the breakfast ready and he goes yeah they all went to lunch and he told all of them i'm going to stay in case she wakes up i want to have the breakfast ready for her And I started falling. They were like, he didn't want to come.
Starting point is 00:42:03 He's like, what if she wakes up? I'm going to cry, though. It was really. And I had a photo of him with a plate. I'll send it to you. It's so cute. With the eggs and the bacon, I go, I have to take a photo of this. And he's like, it's going to be okay.
Starting point is 00:42:15 And I was like, is it? I've never seen her as upset as she was during that, like, week. Yeah. Let's tell about your thing. She calls him bed with me, Sarah Dana. I'm probably for three days. And I'm howling. And she goes, she was like, you will be done with this by morning.
Starting point is 00:42:29 I have to sleep with her every night And she's like And I'm like It's been days You're done You will be done with this by morning I don't want to hear a peep about this thing I love that
Starting point is 00:42:40 Now how much do you think his I mean his looks had to do with A lot of it The whole part of why I like that Let's put it this way I think if he were unattractive We would never be in this debacle In the free place
Starting point is 00:42:51 He's so hot Objectively I always thought I was a handsome fellow You are No you are But I grew up in Wisconsin, and then I go to L.A. and I meet Gleb, and I'm like, Jesus fucking Christ. You kind of can't trust somebody that. No, you can.
Starting point is 00:43:07 He's so hard. Yeah. Like, they need to have something wrong with us. I agree. Yeah. Yeah. It's shocking how it is. It is winding for real.
Starting point is 00:43:17 And he knows it. And he knows it. And he has a very masculine, like, you know, a lot of very pretty men. Okay, that's enough. Yeah. Yeah. That's enough. She's like, I hate him.
Starting point is 00:43:27 You're not making me. feel about her neck? She did after the whole cheating thing, she's like, I mean, like, he's not that hot. And I was like, this was a day ago. It was an Enews thing. It was like, Gleb, response to brook, blah, blah, blah. As you're saying, I'm looking like, what an asshole. And he goes, can we hang out with him in L.A.?
Starting point is 00:43:40 Yeah, she was, I mean, but are we going to see him? I was like, no. Because I feel like ladies don't, like, I feel like ladies don't, like, I feel like women don't fall in love of their eyes as much as men do. I think that's false. She did. She was also, this was her first boyfriend, keep in mind, since her ex-boyfriend.
Starting point is 00:43:56 I mean, ex-husband, since her ex-hous, she had many boyfriends. No, it wasn't. But, like, the first one, you really were loved Bombay and, like, fell into it. I will say, though, like, watching, despite his good looks, watching Love Thy Nader in the first episode where he keeps, I think he says, I love you to you, like 60 times. I don't hear him say, I love you. What I hear him say is, my face loves you. And it's almost as if he, you know, he's doing, you're mad a little bit. And he goes, hey, I love you.
Starting point is 00:44:22 You know, it's just like, you just like, you back in. There's nothing behind it. There's no, like, this is why I love you. It's just like, whatever. I love you. All right. It's like his response to everything. I love you.
Starting point is 00:44:36 Also, like, she's like, I feel bad. He's mad. Like, she's never one to be like catering to anyone. Like a man. So when she's like, I feel like, y'all are mean to him or like whatever. And he's like out here being rude to my dad, which like, how do you be rude to my dad? No, I mean, that is such a red flag. I feel like the viewers will see that too.
Starting point is 00:44:51 How rude he was to my parents. He's perfect. He's perfect. But I feel like that's just like a dead. giveaway of like this guy doesn't have the right. Also my parents never speak up about guys we date. They always keep their mouths shut and they were vocal about the club thing. They were like, we do not like this. We don't see
Starting point is 00:45:04 this going well. This is before you found out about the whole time throughout the whole season like of dancing with the stars and us looking face. There's all these backward photos of us like rock and roll night and my dad is like right behind us and I'm like okay maybe that was rude. Just to have no consideration watching it back the episode and knowing that my family is so conservative. If you cared any about getting respected at all, I feel like watching it back.
Starting point is 00:45:28 When I was in it, I was in it so I didn't really realize. But watching it back and seeing the amount of BDA, which it takes two to tango, I guess. But in front of my dad just standing there, it's like, it's aggressive. Yeah. Yeah. I'm distradling. I was like, oh my God. I think this is like, I'm from the South and I can't imagine like in front of, I mean, even I'm like married with a child and my mom will stay with us for long periods of time. And I'm like kissing Nick in front of my mom. I'm like, I'm so sorry, Mom. Yeah. And I'm like, like, just, I've just.
Starting point is 00:45:57 Right. I don't know. We're just buddies. Yeah. But, yeah, it's almost like he was like this natural lethario kind of like, that's just what he does. And I think that's the part right almost, not that you want to forgive him, but he just. He's like unaware almost.
Starting point is 00:46:14 He's like, yeah. Like, it's almost as if like, and it's not okay. But it's like he was raised. You just tell a woman you love her. Right. When you're in trouble or whatever. And like, that's. That's all she wants to hear is, I love you.
Starting point is 00:46:25 And as long as you just say, I love you, you kind of can do whatever you want. Right. And that seems to be how he does. That's a good insight. I mean, I'm sure it's works for him in the past. I'm sure it's gotten him out of many debacles. What was, I remember, like, when y'all were on Dancing with the Stars, there was obviously a lot of TikToks, a lot of, like, was that part of the bit? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:46:46 No, it was, what's funny about that is, and I tell everyone this, like, we're not faking it. Like, we're banging and we're, like, hanging out every night. every day. And like, it was just the TikToks. I didn't have anyone behind that but me. I just, like, never used TikTok. And then everyone's like, you're going to taste the stories. You should try. And I just, my For You page feeds me like really weird freaky audios because that's who I am, a weird freak. And so there was just all organic and we just would make them together. I didn't think anything of it. I think that I didn't realize that the viewership and the audience is like a little bit like our upbringing, like more conservative middle America. And, you know, they're also obsessed with clubs. They fucking hate my guts. They're like, how dare you?
Starting point is 00:47:22 And I'm like, Karen, stop. I'm sorry. Like, let me tell you what he did. When you told the dance from the star super fans as they identified them in episode two and you. Oh my gosh. Who was it that? Serjeet. Oh, yeah.
Starting point is 00:47:36 In the bathroom. Yeah, he cheated. Yeah. We don't love him. I know. I don't think of it. Anyways, where are you going to do? People send me messages still going this long.
Starting point is 00:47:46 I am asking you. I am begging you to consider taking him back. Everyone makes mistakes, honey. This and that. I'm like, fuck off. I think he kind of lives in that world, too, of, like, he only tunes into, like, people who are obsessed with him. And so he's living in this world where, like, Gleb is, like, God.
Starting point is 00:48:00 Like, you know? That's all he sees is the good things. Exactly. I see the good, the bad, all the things about myself. And I feel like that's a little healthier. I'm assuming he's never acknowledged or apologized. Oh, he will deny it. Like, you know, his ex-wife and, like, he's obviously said.
Starting point is 00:48:12 He will deny it. What did you find on the phone? I found. Is that, am I allowed to disclose? No. No. I can't say it. Well, the title is in of what I found.
Starting point is 00:48:21 Can we get a description. is in the episode. Well, if first two episodes come out on the 26, this comes out on the 27th, you talk, it's, it's threasons and Joshi, yeah, yeah. I think Gleb has also gotten in a fair time, guys. Yeah, I agree. Well, I feel like the point, the whole point of the Gleb situation is that we all use it to kind of band together. I think that the purpose of it all, watching it back, it's painful to see what went down because I remember that being such a dark time. But I think, and, you know, the cheating is just scratching the surface of what he's done, really and truly. And, you know, I'm not going to get into that. But I will say the beautiful. part of it is which I loved watching back and made me so emotional was seeing like how my family rallied around me and my parents and all of my sisters. And I just feel like that was the blessing that came out of it, was seeing that because I'm usually the one that's taking care of things and take care of other people that they will come to my defense and, you know, be there on my bedside with like my breakfast and tissue boxes for as long as I needed. And I feel like that was so special to see, you know, our bond on TV because it was special in real life. And that's really what this show's
Starting point is 00:49:23 about. And like, you dated. What do you think his response is going to be to this show? Denies all doing. I don't think he's going to like it. Oh, God. I mean, it's going to be more. For sure. He loves airtime regardless if it's positive. I don't think he'll be able to tell if he's bothered. What do you mean? I don't think we'll be able to tell? Yeah, he's already posting shit on TikTok. Like, oh my God, yeah, being like story.
Starting point is 00:49:58 They're like, watch me shine. Oh, it's all he does is that. That's what I'm saying. I don't think he's ever going to let it go. No, he just. Address it like in a video crying. Yeah. This is what I'm sorry.
Starting point is 00:50:10 No. He'll be like, yeah, it's like, whatever. You know, we're cool. Like, it's fine. Oh, no, no, no. You'll blame it on TV or the edit or whatever. I think he's going to say, he already said it.
Starting point is 00:50:18 Use me for your reality show. Oh, yeah, yeah. Honestly, the show isn't even about glove. No, it's about it. That's really what the show's about.
Starting point is 00:50:27 That's really what the show's all about. That's true to camera. Yeah, but it is a juicy way to start the show. It is. And that's the way you ladies bond together. And you see a lot go on with other relationships and ups and downs
Starting point is 00:50:40 and the intertwining of the four of us. And I think that also, you know, season two needs to start rolling out because the T is. It's piping. Yeah, it's piping. We're in the thick of it. Yeah.
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Starting point is 00:54:03 Oh, yeah. Photosho. Oh, that was so good. Who do you agree with? So you would actually die if you were in the airport with us yesterday. Yeah. I was just protecting her. No, I wasn't arguing with you on the photo shoot, by the way.
Starting point is 00:54:14 I was like, I mean, I couldn't imagine having my sibling there. Right. And I'm also, I also didn't invite for it. I would have probably responded. Yeah, I was like, I just don't want to see your face. We argue like that so much yesterday at the airport. We were screaming at each other, checking in for the flight. And this man next to us was like, oh, my God.
Starting point is 00:54:33 Turns out he's right in front of us on the flight. By the time we're going into security, we're like best friends, dying, laughing. The whole thing happened because she asked me to pack, I would say, like this big of a box of like all skin care. I'm packing my hill suitcase. I'm packing your look, your looks, so much shit. So I and her laptop and like some other codenic. So I pack all of her shit.
Starting point is 00:54:55 I forget the skin care. Girl and Pendry. Sorry, I forgot the skin care. I get to the airport. She starts freaking out. Where's my skin care starts crying? I did not start crying. I did not start crying.
Starting point is 00:55:05 I did not start crying. Of acutane. My skin is going to fall off of my skin. And then proceeds to on the plane put mouth tape over her. her lips, pulls it off your wrist. And now my skin is red. No. It was, do you see it? Yes. And she didn't know. And she went and texted, she got dermopained and she shouldn't have because her skin is so thin that it's falling off. Yeah. And so she wouldn't text her facialist. And she was like, I'm going to die pretty much during the press store. Like, I'm going to be
Starting point is 00:55:30 skinned alive. And so I texted her facelist and was like, hey, like she lost it. Can we get replacements at the pharmacy? She had product delivered to her yesterday. End of day. End of day. You're fine. It's all good. You're good. You're good. No, it's all, it's all good. You are incompetent. You use this piece of shit. And I was like, I was doing you a favor. Sarajean, you were my, you, you, you strike me as someone who, like, knows when she's right.
Starting point is 00:55:52 Yes. She does. You do. Yeah. You on the other hand, always think you're fucking right in your neck. I don't always think I'm right. Yeah. Do, I do.
Starting point is 00:55:58 I do know when I'm wrong, though. Sometimes, yeah. You don't think so? Sometimes she's, some, it's positive of this child. You're what? You two see, you two feel like you have similar energy. Yes. And then you two have also, like.
Starting point is 00:56:11 like a similar energy. They're dangerous. We've always said too. Like we are... We have a lot of... Yes, of course. We get into physical rights. With Sarah Jane, we just like
Starting point is 00:56:20 do this and this and we're best friends like five seconds later. Okay. Do you stand by your outfits that you chose? Okay, no, I do not. But I will also say that I did not choose those outfits. But you chose this... I didn't have this.
Starting point is 00:56:34 I think you... No, I like this one. But I, what is something that was not really depicted in the show is that I did not choose the outfits. the stylist and the photographer did. And then... No, but they did. They did.
Starting point is 00:56:46 And then... She's like, this is the truth. They did. And that's something that I said to her on the side during the shoot. I was like, look, stop. I'm just going to shoot these looks and then. That's not how you were. I told you there were so many things on that rack.
Starting point is 00:56:55 I said, you should put something like that on. You said, get the fuck off my stuff. I didn't say whatever. You did. You could have styled it differently. Okay, this is the point. The stylist really wanted to shoot this one look. So I was like, we'll do that for you.
Starting point is 00:57:07 And then we'll do the ones that I want to do. Because it is like a stylist of photographer. or you're all doing it for free. It's not like I can... And now you're going to shave them really false. And that's really what the show's about. You know? No, but I'm just saying that wasn't like depicted.
Starting point is 00:57:19 She's like, that's so ugly. That's so ugly. And I was like, dude, there's other people like involved here. Shut up. They were all fine. So, yeah. No, I did not like the outfit. I didn't use the photos.
Starting point is 00:57:28 Clearly it strikes the cord still. I love that you're all still activated over it. And so you're single and your single and you two are in relationships. Yes. And how those relationships going. You're going great. Going great. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:57:40 They're worth here for the press week. Yeah. Yeah. How did you meet your boyfriend? I was set up by mutuals. My boyfriend has, no. I set you up to you. No, you did not.
Starting point is 00:57:50 You actually did. You literally did not. I brought you to the charity. No, you did not. I was at the charity. It was a birthday party. You did not bring me. It was actually our agent who set her up.
Starting point is 00:57:58 Anyways. Yeah. Yeah. My agent is friends with his sister. So I met him completely organically. I introduced him to you months after we had been dating. What is organic? Organically.
Starting point is 00:58:08 In the street. She's like, I was set up and I met him. Completely right. I don't think, right? It's an oxymoron. Organically at an event. Organically at a party that I was invited to in order to me. Right, right, right.
Starting point is 00:58:21 Yeah, and then I met, we were friends for a couple years before we met. So, yeah, basically the girls knew him first, and then I met him. We were friends for a while. Then he took me to Wimbledon as a friend. And I was like, actually, you're kind of hot in the Lord. As a Lord. He was in his element. You were like, I would like to go to Wimbledon.
Starting point is 00:58:37 Yeah, I was like, this actually is a vibe. Yeah. We can make this work. And then he moved to L.A. So obviously I wanted him more because he was across the country. So he was in L.A. now. So now he's in L.A. And you all are still in New York? Yes. Bicostal. Okay. How's the Bicostal thing going? It's actually pretty good because I'm so busy and he's busy and I feel like we need our space. Like I date my sisters in New York basically because y'all are. People are going to accept that out to be incest. But okay. No, but like we're always fucking together. We're doing a million things together all the time. So having a boyfriend there might be distracting.
Starting point is 00:59:07 Oh. I'm advertising the girls I like it Yeah always But yeah The long distance is working For now But the show goes over that
Starting point is 00:59:15 It kind of touches on that Sarah Jane You got your nipples pierced On camera The fact that I once Had some nipple piercings Before I was pregnant She was naughty
Starting point is 00:59:27 Wow Yeah She was that girl Did you love having them? Loved having them I felt it gave It gave me such It gave me such a confidence
Starting point is 00:59:36 I was like I'm the baddest bitch Yeah, a lot. I love that. It really does. And you take your shirt off and people are like, yep. Yeah. Or you like go without a bra and people are like, oh, she's bad. Yeah. She's a lot of gay. It's hot. Yeah. It's so fun. The fact that you did not jump off that table in. Honestly, okay. Watching my face during it, I was like, I was hurting. But it was not as bad as I thought. The second one was rough. Yeah. Because like I had to go back in because I couldn't do the asymmetry. But like, it wasn't as bad as I thought. The pain after was like rough. And was that something like you had always planned on doing and you're like, you had a TV show, so you're like, fuck it. Like this is a great scene or was I? No, I kind of was like, I always wanted to do it. One of my best friends in high school got hers pierce, but then she had a terrible experience with it. So I think that like expired my like trauma from seeing her like she had a whole situation. And I was just like, why not? I was bored. You know when you like cut your hair when you're bored or like do something like that? I was like, me pierced my eyeballs. And did you tell your parents that you got the Pierce? No, you did not. I did it. They're going to find out. They know now. Yes, yes. You will see their wife reaction. Yeah, you'll see it all. My dad sees it. He's like, yeah. Why would you even do that? Does it make any sense? Your nipples are fine as they are. We're like, so you can't say that either, dad. Yeah. The thing is, we had too many conversations about nips with my parents. But I love them.
Starting point is 01:01:01 Oh, our grandparents are going to see that. Oh, yeah. You forget about the grandparents watching. Yeah, we try to. Oh, I know. I know. I'm sorry, Mazzie and dog. Nice knowing y'all. Yeah, I don't know. I feel like grandparents. I think they're going to love it. You know what I mean? They're cray too.
Starting point is 01:01:15 My grandmother's like the sweetest southern most innocent lady who like gardens and makes sweet tea. And I go, Mazzie, you're going to probably cry on one of the episodes because I grow. She goes, oh, sure, girl, I don't want to see you cry. What is her name? Mazzie. What is like her government? She's an angel. And Gardner.
Starting point is 01:01:31 Margaret Ann. Margaret Ann. She's the sweetest Southern Bell. She's probably going to listen to this, but she does listen to the earth. She's a podcast girl and she watches everything. We love you, Mazzie. Hi, Grandma. Love you,
Starting point is 01:01:41 so you four ladies are in your 20s. You come from religious backgrounds. You're from the South. A lot of people you grew up with are having kids. You know, the pressure of kids is, like, prominent in the Midwest and the South. Is that something that's you ladies are interested in or you're in the, like, hey, we're just out there having fun? Do you feel the pressure from your community or even your parents sometimes to, like, or
Starting point is 01:02:05 grandma, you know? Totally. And how do you ladies deal with that? I think we all want to have big families. Like growing up with sisters, you want to have that for your kids. And so Grace Ann, I think we'll have five kids first, probably. And then Mary Holland. Wait, what about me?
Starting point is 01:02:22 No, I think we'll all have four. I think we'll all have four. I think we'll have a lot of kids. I feel no pressure. The only time I feel pressure is when I go home. Yeah. And aunts and uncles and people are like, when are you having kids? And I'm like, oh, my God, relax.
Starting point is 01:02:36 It's like that's not what we're doing in New York in our 20s, you know. And I think that nowadays, like everyone's kind of like effed a tradition in a way, like micro retirement. People are quitting early and people are not having kids early. Marriage isn't necessarily end game like or end goal. So I feel like we do have that pressure growing up, but the whole show is about us kind of like coming out of our shelves in that way and kind of breaking traditions that we're used to, including religion.
Starting point is 01:03:00 We talk a lot about that. So it's definitely I don't feel any pressure to have kids as much. because I'm more confident in myself than what I want. Damn, eh? But sorry mom, sorry, Mazzie. But I feel like we all, like, because we came from a big family
Starting point is 01:03:16 would like a big family, but... Yeah. Our kids are all going to be best friends. The goal is to have four townhouses right next to each other and then, like, a joint yard, communal yard, all the kids in New York. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:03:27 Any of you four religious anymore? I'm Christian. I'm religious. They all are Christian. I'm not religious anymore. I go to church. I'm actually Christian. You go to church, Dan?
Starting point is 01:03:35 I do. I go to church, too. No, I go to church. I have been to church recently. Other than Christmas and Easter? I went to church twice in July. I went to church last month because my boyfriend's very religious. A few months ago.
Starting point is 01:03:46 I think we all have like, I've been listening to worship music. I pray every night. Confession. I listen to the whole song. It's not a competition. No, we're all Christian. I think we all, yeah, like have different things that I'm not atheists. I just don't identify as Christian.
Starting point is 01:04:03 I'm like, yeah, I'm spiritual. more so, you know. Yeah. And was that a tough conversation to have with your parents? Yes, which happens on the show, actually, a little bit. Like my mom at first, my dad is more, I guess, intellectually curious in that regard than my mom is. And so I talked to my mom a bit about it. And she's very, but again, our values still shine through us.
Starting point is 01:04:24 And I'm so grateful that we grew up religious because of, you know, what it taught us. But it was a hard conversation at first. And do you like deliberately, like, you were like, they're a Christian. I'm not like I grew up Catholic I don't go to church anymore but like if anyone asks I'm like I'm Catholic like I don't like I don't really have a problem with the label
Starting point is 01:04:44 or I still like identify I guess you know like yeah I don't go to church and I don't I don't subscribe to a lot of the guilt and shame that is centered around religion that I used to and things like that and you know I just figure out as I go but yeah I don't really have a problem
Starting point is 01:05:04 I'm not worried about people like labeling me Christian or Catholic, but are you? Well, I guess I'm saying that explicitly because in the show it's talked about so much and because my boyfriend is very Christian and I, in the show, talk about not being necessarily as Christian. We go over in the show a lot, but he's super supportive. And I think growing up, we were around a very strict church environment where people were a different type of Christian almost where it was like no sex before marriage. mega churchy like what's the show Righteous gemstone that was literally our church
Starting point is 01:05:38 So I associate his Christian boys with that And he is so the opposite And just a good guy which I imagine is what they're supposed to be like So it's not a problem right now He doesn't you know judge me for it And I he doesn't pressure me But I still go to church and it's nice Okay
Starting point is 01:05:54 Yeah Sarah Jane you came out to your family Did your sisters know before your parents knew? Yes I told them in this order Why was Brooks last? Well, I told her and her husband together And I just She's like a mother figure I think I was like
Starting point is 01:06:11 My best friend And I was dating a girl that I went to school with at the time So like me and Mirhalen lived together So it was like Mirhalen automatically knew And then it just felt like When I told you I think you were like I already knew or like I was like girl I know you've been gay like
Starting point is 01:06:26 I'm not gay but yeah But and then I don't know It just kind of worked out that way Brooks no everyone was so supportive but Brooks is like a mother figure I feel like it's just like more intimidating to like she was like so do you eat no no you're everyone is so supportive
Starting point is 01:06:41 not saying that I'm just saying this is how I told them and then I told my dad and then my mom lost no my mom my mom was honestly like she was raised super like ultra religious and she's the oldest of four boys so like she was just like very I think suppressed growing up and didn't really have room to like explore other ideas she became a nurse
Starting point is 01:07:01 I've got a lot of questions when you came out. Like, what does that mean? I think she was confused and she, but she also at times has been like, I always like wondered. But then I think it was hard for her to adjust. I think when you come out, whether your parents are supportive or not, it's like the death of an expectation. So she expected me to get married to a guy, have kids by the time I was like 30. And that's just a different life than like I want to have.
Starting point is 01:07:23 And so it was like shifting your expectations. It's not necessarily good or bad. It's just like changing what you are imagining for your daughter, you know? And at what age did you realize this about yourself? I was always very curious, like early, like ninth grade. I was always, like, middle and high school, I was always very curious. Like, you know, just curious. But I never, like, I never explored it until I got to college.
Starting point is 01:07:50 I was like on the cheer team with Gracie Ann. I was like following in my sister's footsteps and like wanted to be like just fit in. I was very shy too and didn't ever want like attention of any kind. And it was understood, like, in our community and in our family that, like, if a child came out or, like, if a kid was gay, it was, like, talked about and, like, not in a positive way, you know. So, like, oh, whoever down the street is, like, a lesbian, that's, oh, Jesus. Can you imagine? Like, if my kid was like, I'm like, oh, fuck. So I waited until college and then I went to Fordham.
Starting point is 01:08:21 And so it was very opened and, like, liberal and just, like, I felt very free to explore. And I had a relationship with a girl who was, like, amazing. amazing. Grace Ann hung out with her a lot. And that was sort of my first experience. But that relationship was also, I was like, I don't want to come out to my parents knowing that I'm, like, sexually free and, like, fluid. I don't want to come out to my parents and just like explain that because that's a hard thing to explain. So when I was in a relationship with a girl, I was like, this is an easier way for me to tell them, hey, I like someone and it's a girl. It was a, I was very lucky, though. I was very lucky. I mean, like, I know so many people from Louisiana that don't talk to their parents, don't talk to their grandparents. Well, that's why I like watching your show. I mean, I related to you women and just your relationship with your parents for that reason. You can tell your parents are very traditional,
Starting point is 01:09:06 but there's a level of, yeah, but these are my daughters. And at the end of the day, you know, I have siblings who came out as gay. And I remember being, you know, a kid. And if you would have told me things that us kids would have done in adulthood
Starting point is 01:09:20 or just like told my parents, you know, like I thought if I didn't get married by a Catholic priest, my parents would feel a certain sort of way about it. none of the kids got married by Catholic priests, you know, like there's been so many more other things and my parents just don't care. At the end of the day, they just, they want to love their kids. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:09:37 I feel very lucky to have me. Not all parents are like that, but your parents really give that energy of, we're going to raise our kids, how we want to raise our kids, and we have our values and things like that, but we're not here to tell our children how to live their lives. Right. They'll live it for themselves and we're just here to, we just want to support them and love them. Exactly. And I love that energy I got from your parents.
Starting point is 01:09:58 Yeah. And I think it's also like, along for the ride. I would anticipate, oh, what are they going to think about this? And then sometimes it's like, not even the sexuality thing, but other things. And it's like, they don't care. Even the nipples, it's like they were like, ew, why'd you do that? But like, I don't care. And I think they get more and more unfazed as things transpire.
Starting point is 01:10:14 I mean, we beat them down. I mean, y'all could literally tell me that, you know, you're naked on the strip in Vegas and well, and I would just be like, well, and I would just be like, well, what they do. I mean, she just nothing surprises. Yeah. And I think y'all will see that by episode six. Grace Allen. Y'all give y'all's dad a run for his honey. Oh, bless. Bless. He gets roasted at his little. He finally is doing boy things and joined a golf course in Louisiana. After all these years, he never did anything for himself. So we like got a membership. And I ran into some of the golf buddies at like a wedding. And they were like, oh, my God, can we take a selfie so that we can put it up on the big screen and roast your dad? My tits were out. And I was like, hey, boys. And dad's like, why did you do that with like Mark and all them? I go, they asked me too, dad. And he goes, they're doing a whole thing at bullying me. Okay, wait. Y'all are going to die this. My dad is like, I think, nominated or something for Best Dress of Baton Rouge. So in September, he's walking in a fashion show and he's going to look amazing. Wow. You just gave it away. All of that is going to know. No, I'm just saying. No, it's a big deal. That's right. I think it's okay. That is the other thing. People are like, that's the craziest thing. Your dad walked in a show. Best dress of Baton Rouge. We leaked it. They're going to watch. We'll make sure people watch. Watch. That was one other thing that people would come in.
Starting point is 01:11:26 were like, they are not poor. Their dad is best dressed of Baton Rouge. I was like, okay. Listen, fashion is not money. It's a dial. You ladies refer to Brooks as like a mother figure. Obviously. I think she refers to herself.
Starting point is 01:11:43 Either way, whatever. And then you're talking about your religious background and, you know, all you women see very, very sexuality open and things like that. But you talked about your upbringing in terms of like no sex before marriage. I very much relate to that where it was like, Fuck, I'm burning hell. Did you ladies go to, like when you were growing up and when you started liking boys or girls or whatever and started being curious about sex, how did you all deal with that? Because I remember, you know, like, yeah, growing up, I didn't talk about sex with my parents.
Starting point is 01:12:12 Like, you know, you just, you know, and all the thoughts and feelings I had always felt wrong when I was in high school. And it just felt very, I'd made a lot of problems. That was the last time. Yeah. You know, shit like that. I swear God, I promise you don't send me to hell. I've done that a million. The next day, you're like, one more time.
Starting point is 01:12:32 Yeah. Yeah, but how did you lady, like, did you go to Brooks? Was she the person? Because were you, I mean, how did you all have those conversations? Well, the way it was dealt with in our home in our church is that in eighth grade, you go to a little camp. Boot camp called True Love Waits. Where you, they show you a million photos of STDs. Gonorrhea.
Starting point is 01:12:53 Blue Waffle, totally made up things. That shit works for me, too. And you get horrified. Yeah. And you're like, I'm never touching a boy ever. And then at the end, you get a promise ring from your dad. And the pastor kisses your forehead. And it's like, you will be a virgin until marriage.
Starting point is 01:13:06 And you're like, I had a whole hand of promise rings. Yeah. I had winged. I'm a businesswoman. I'm like, you want a diamond. I fucked up. I had sex. But I need a new ring.
Starting point is 01:13:13 And then I'll honor that ring. And then I'd have sex. And then she's like, I need a phone. No, but I'm like, dollar free rings. I don't think we like talked. I maybe I would talk to Grace Ann about like sex. You would talk to me about it. We were a little more.
Starting point is 01:13:25 suppressed when we were living in our childhood as normal to talk about. Since I was the oldest, I obviously did everything first and I will never forget I was like 16 years old taking a bath and my mom had a feeling because I had snuck in from a boy's house and went straight to the bathtub to like clean up. I don't know. And I went straight to that and my mom was like, are you in there? You didn't
Starting point is 01:13:43 say good night. You didn't say good night. You didn't see good night. She broke down the bathroom door and I had a hickey on my neck. And she was like, I knew it. The curling iron day. And I said it was curling iron and it was this whole curling iron gate. And she's like, let me see your neck and like move my hair and she was bawling you would have thought that I like was pregnant and I was like mom I made out with a boy and she's like how could you I can't believe you to this I was 16 years old my friends were having sex so I was the last all my friends had
Starting point is 01:14:08 older brothers you know so they were doing everything and I wasn't doing anything that bad really I was making out with boys and I was always you know infatuated by like sports illustrated and all this sex and glamour of this lifestyle and so my parents I had to hide all that from them you know because that was not something that we so I think we were suppressed to talking about sex and sexuality and feelings at home because we never even the way that we were like late bloomer I was about to ask so all we were
Starting point is 01:14:31 we were late bloomer's we really were yeah we were like I remember when you first didn't even have sex you like someone went down on you and you were telling us and you would like come home from college and you were telling us about it and I was like oh god I don't want to hear it like and you liked that
Starting point is 01:14:47 that's insane okay you're fucking grounded by the way I'm not even kidding now Sarah Jane loves it now she gives an take She's obsessed Pass forward Oh, that's why I knew That's how I knew she wasn't straight
Starting point is 01:15:03 She was like, do you ever just like I was like, wait, no Okay, that's actually Don't finish that sentence You need to take a nap I don't even know So we feel like maybe Grayson is like the least Filter PR train
Starting point is 01:15:17 Yeah The Lee train that So many notes during media trains She did Who do you all Like does there one of you in the group who feels the most picked on by the rest? Grace Ann thinks she is.
Starting point is 01:15:28 She actually is. No, you are. Fine. It's you. It seems like her. It's her. Yeah. But then she's all, are you the middle. I'm so picked on. We're both the middle. We're both the most picked on. Yeah. No, we don't get picked on. I don't seem like you're never around. You guys you come on the TV and we're all like. Don't even start. Literally. I guess I was never around. Grace Ann is the best I get picked on a heart. Is there any one of you that could kind of like I was, I'm like a only child with 10 siblings. That is insane to me still I'm very independent
Starting point is 01:15:58 I do my thing You know Is any one of you like Could kind of disappear for a while Not talk to anyone I do it all the time I do it's one day She's like I wonder where I was
Starting point is 01:16:09 I just wasn't like I had a corporate job That I was at every single day So I just naturally wasn't around during the day But yeah I'll just disappear Independent for sure For sure Don't even talk to me about I'll disappear for months on end
Starting point is 01:16:20 I'm in the bed with me at all time Where are you going? I usually am going to visit my boyfriend in Florida. And then I come back and everyone's like, blah, like picking on me. And I'm like, okay, I can't. I got to go back. He's a tech guy. Tech guy. Yeah. What does that mean? He's a tech startup. He's a tech startup. Yeah. Crypto? No, not crypto. No. It's like sports tech. Yeah, it's like sports tech. Yeah, he's amazing. He's amazing. He's so smart. He works so hard. Such a cutie. I told him not to come on the show. Yeah, he fits and
Starting point is 01:16:47 he took us all. I told him not to come on the show because I actually want to keep him. And anyone that comes on is, you know, somewhat on the chopping block. So, so. So will you be dating for love going forward or will you be dating for the show? I'm not going to ever have like a hired boyfriend for the show. I don't mean like hired, but like, you know, I don't do me. And if it's someone that, which all the people in my roster right now are not keen to be on the show, which is totally fine, I'm going to like, if I'm really truly in love and I feel like it's the right thing to do, you know, because it is a fine line of balancing like your personal life. And if you're going to open up
Starting point is 01:17:21 and be vulnerable and be on a show, you do want to share that, you know, like, because it's a part of your life. So I'll have to probably do some convincing if it ends up being one of the ones current. Yeah, you have to make sure it's worth it first. Are you usually sliding or? I never slide. Is there someone who's like higher up on your list? In what? I would say there's a constant like one, two, three, four. And we kind of like, and are they, they're all equal. And then the rest trickle in and like it's like we've had. There's been one at the tippity top for the past couple. Okay. Weeks. He's great. Yeah, we love two weeks. He's been top of the pyramid. Wow. And on the bottom of the pyramid
Starting point is 01:17:56 Yeah, yeah What's your love language? My love language? I'd say probably Now that I'm, you know, someone went down on me in college Physical touch. No, I don't think it is.
Starting point is 01:18:08 No, I think it's. I think it's words of affirmation. What do you think it is? I think it's anyone who does exactly what you want them to do. Be obsessed with me. It's her love. I mean, I don't know.
Starting point is 01:18:20 But like what other than someone's face, like what makes you like melt or like where you would be. honestly like somebody being really funny what it's your what you're this is for everyone uh what's your biggest ick biggest egg oh when someone freeloads and lives with you that'll do it that'll do i feel like when someone tries to like start shit between the sister that like acts like they're closer like to you than like no but like anyone that tries to like be like just wedge anything with the sisters yeah yeah i feel like that's a guy that's just clearly insecure i think it's
Starting point is 01:18:52 really like everyone's insecure but a guy that just shows it and isn't confident. It's like, yeah. What's your situation? Mine is probably the same as Seths. If anyone tries to come in between us, like, isolate. What if a guy trips over his own feet? I think that's funny. I think if he laughs it off
Starting point is 01:19:08 and he's like, oh, he handles his own feet is crazy. If he's like, oh, God, sorry. Okay, but I have a really bad fall in this season, so I won't shit on. It's not the same for women, though. No, and I was on rollerblades. But I've realized that, well, at least for my wife, like any, if I'm tripping is out.
Starting point is 01:19:23 Just general. Domesiness. Divorque. You know, like, divorce. Not looking anything other than like a secret book hero or manly. We're just like on our honeymoon. Natalie jumped over the pool wall.
Starting point is 01:19:34 And then I lifted myself up and slipped off the wall. And then she wasn't looking. Thank God. Yeah, he was nervous. Wow. Anonement. No, I know.
Starting point is 01:19:44 If you've ever. Yeah. If you've ever seen a guy drink out of a water fountain. Why would anyone do that? We don't know people that drink out of water fountain. Yeah, that's interesting one. Yeah. Where was the last time you saw a water fountain?
Starting point is 01:19:55 I also don't like flip flops on a man. That's disgusting. That's disgusting. Also, shorts. I mean, honestly, like, men in the South really need to like. They need to clean that shit up. Yeah, I understand the humidity's hot, but like have some self-respect. Yeah, and having no sense of style is like.
Starting point is 01:20:08 Yeah, that's a big one. Like the tuck-down polo. Oh, I like it. Well, I don't mind skinny jeans. Well, no, I'm old enough. Well, Nallie had to get me out of skinny jeans. I don't like, like, skinny French feet. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:20:19 I was. With, like, Chelsea boots. Yeah. Oh. A black skinny jean with a rip? No, I did all those terrible things. Oh, it's okay. It's so bad.
Starting point is 01:20:29 Yeah, but it was popular. Yeah. It was cool. You know? I don't mind a skinny gene, but apparently I have terrible style. So I was not to ask, who has the best style. Me.
Starting point is 01:20:41 I think it's the worst. You wear like jeans and teas all the time. I have the worst. I do have the worst style. I'm working really hard on it. But she's confident. It's almost like a competition. She owns it.
Starting point is 01:20:51 She owns it. How is this? And I think it's a prank most of the time. I know, but like, the thing is, I do just wear whatever I want. She does express herself. I honestly love, it's very like Kerry Bradshaw. It's just very opposite. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:21:04 Like I like colors and sparkles and she's a beautiful face and it's like, don't you like it? And I'm like, I guess, like your confidence. So Natalie said she's from the cell. She is. She's from Auburn when she. Oh, God. Or eagle. We're not there.
Starting point is 01:21:19 She moved to New York when she was 16 and took dialect classes. so you couldn't hear her from any of you, but I can't hear it from any of you, but you all have played around with it. So, like, how have you all lost the accent? All of our childhood videos, we have this country, it's crazy. It's not even southern country. And I think that, I don't know, I guess I left and went to Tulane at, like, 18 years old, and it was full of people from the Northeast.
Starting point is 01:21:39 And so I wasn't around southern people as well, starting at 18. So for the last 10 years. But also, when you moved to New York, like, I was kind of insecure about it in modeling, you know, because I didn't meet any other New Yorkers that had it. Yeah. because I was there to like model and I had this agent who was like if you're gonna like try to get into acting commercials
Starting point is 01:21:57 whatever like you cannot sound like this you are the biggest redneck ever like you can't I want it back I know I know it comes out if I like you can't do it you can't do it if I'm back home it comes out which yeah like I wish I could I wish I could keep it I can't use dialect classes
Starting point is 01:22:13 I think that is you like it was beat it out of yourself I know let's just hear it let's just go we love an accent Brooks Claire yeah that's how we sound growing up It really comes out and we're at home. We go home and see it. Also, if you meet my parents, you'll hear it.
Starting point is 01:22:25 Yeah. Yeah, they definitely have it. And when you're talking to, like, somebody with a Southern accent, it comes out, I think. Yeah. When I'm talking to my grandma, it's like, can I hear it now? We have, when we have country singers on, we, like, interview and I, 100% people will be like, Natalie, what the fuck is this? Yeah, I know.
Starting point is 01:22:42 We're all the time. And I'm like, no, I'm not home. I know. It's my real voice. It always happens. My boyfriend's dad is from Tennessee and he's really Southern. And I'm always like, hi. What's that? And I'm like, oh, my God.
Starting point is 01:22:53 Sorry, sorry. I don't know how it. I mean, we're like, we've weirdly been, like, nostalgia and drinking, like, Jack and Coke and stuff. Yeah. So we're like, once I have one seven out of like, oh, I feel right? Hell yeah. We were just in Nashville hanging out with some friends and they were like, let's have some, like,
Starting point is 01:23:11 some whiskey. And we're like, yeah. That sounds delicious. Let's get it. Maybe we'll put it my parents on the pod next and you can hear the real accent, the real deal. No, yeah. Do they tone it down for the show?
Starting point is 01:23:23 No. No. No. No. They're there. They're there. Yeah, they're there. They're there.
Starting point is 01:23:28 They do exist. They're there. Was it hard to get them to agree to do it? No. They will do anything for us. Yeah. They'll do whatever. I mean, of course they've given me the whole spiel of like, so you know, like all
Starting point is 01:23:40 of Baton Rouge is having watch parties and like, you know, my dad's really cute though because he goes, he facetimes me and he goes, so when are we going to start filming season two? Because I have some ideas. And I go, oh, soon, dad, whatever, hopefully soon. And he goes, so is it, is the deal like however many, we want as many TVs as possible tuning in? I go, I guess so he goes, so we've got four here in the house. So those are going to be running on a loop. He's serious, by the way.
Starting point is 01:24:01 He goes, and then Mazi has two at her house, our grandmother. And Edna down the street has three. So I told them just to keep him run them. And I'll pay for the bill or whatever, but keep him running. And I was like, he's forcing his friends to ask. He's right in his Facebook post. I know, everybody. I know.
Starting point is 01:24:18 He'll truly make it work. It really, like, I feel like they're the glue. No, they are. I really are. Final question before I let you all ladies go. But do you have, are you comparing yourselves to anyone's out there? I mean, obviously, I think maybe the closest come. I think it's definitely, this, it's very much OG keeping up with the Kardashians in the best way that I think they lost it.
Starting point is 01:24:38 And I think they started caring too much about the public and lost kind of it in between each other. And I think it's like the best, most nostalgic watch. Well, thank you. We grew up nostalgic early 2000s like simple life, the hills. Yeah. I mean,
Starting point is 01:24:55 that's kind of I was getting. I was very much kind of giving Kardashians in a great way. I feel like when keeping up came out, I feel like a lot of
Starting point is 01:25:02 families or sisters were like, oh my God, like we could like this is us. Like you know, you'd tell you, you're the Chloe,
Starting point is 01:25:09 you're the Kim. You know, you'd kind of like name yourself. And I feel like that's kind of what y'all are doing for maybe this next generation, which I think is really cool.
Starting point is 01:25:15 We hope so. We hope we resonate with each see themselves and one sister. Yeah. Totally. I feel like it's so different. The only thing that makes it different is we didn't grow up in like Hollywood or around anybody famous. And so I feel like it's such an interesting. Like some people are saying this is like sex in the city meets swamp people meets the Beverly Hillbillies. Because it's like, take these like, and the Beverly Hillbillies, by the way, mom and dad, cousins, aunts and uncles are on the way to
Starting point is 01:25:39 the house. So I can't wait to see that country jacking coke ships. I feel like it's just kind of something that's aspirational and something that, you know, someone watching in Louisiana or in South Carolina can see and be like, oh my gosh, she moved to New York and had nothing and built something. And I feel like in these days, it's like the American dream for sure. And you can do that. You really just can. Especially that apartment you all are living in. I know. Right. I know. I know. Well, I've seen a lot of TV and not that my opinion mattered, but I think it's going to be a big deal. Well, it does matter. You heard of here first.
Starting point is 01:26:09 It's like it. Yeah. Love thy Nader for an Emmy. Yay. Great to you to be. Congratulations, ladies. Congratulations, ladies, on the show. I think it's on it's going to be a big hit and we'll have to have you back. Definitely. We would love that. I know. I know. Let's do it. Please. If y'all are ever We'll drink Jack and Coke.
Starting point is 01:26:29 Honestly, it's right. Absolutely. We're having like a Raisin Cain's Food Shop, Cafe, Demons. It's a little party tonight. It's come tonight. Yeah. Yeah. That's where you'll hear our Southern accents come out. Oh, good. Yay. We also got invited to your premiere on Wednesday night. Yay. Yay. Yes. This is a warm up.
Starting point is 01:26:48 want you guys to go out. We're getting Allie's number. Okay. Yes. Totally. Other reality stars will be in attendance and other stars.
Starting point is 01:26:57 Okay. No, but you guys have the stars. All right. Well, okay. Yeah. Get out of here. Thanks for time. Bye.

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