There Are No Girls on the Internet - Talia Jane Versus Yelp: BEST OF TANGOTI

Episode Date: June 17, 2022

This week, we spoke to labor reporter Kim Kelly about the wave of union organizing at places like Amazon and Starbucks. In light of that, let's revisit our conversation with Talia Jane, who made headlines back in 2016 for asking her company Yelp to pay workers a living wage. After Talia Jane called out Yelp for failing to pay a living wage, she became the "entitled millennial" poster child. But she was actually right. Read the Wired profile on Talia's life: https://www.wired.com/2016/04/the-revelations-of-lady-murderface/ Read Talia's Medium piece: https://medium.com/@taliajane/an-open-letter-to-my-ceo-fb73df021e7a Join our newsletter: Tangoti.com/newsletter Want to support the show? (thank you!) Subscribe, tell a friend, leave a review, or buy some merch at There Are No Girls on the Internet’s store: TANGOTI.COM/STORE Say hello at [e-mail] omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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So this week, we heard from labor reporter Kim Kelly about the wave of union organizing in the United States at places like Starbucks and Amazon warehouses. And it really made me want to revisit our conversation with Talia Jane. Back in 2016, Talia Jane became the poster child for, quote, entitled whiny millennials, for asking for Yelp, the company where she worked, to pay staff a living wage. Her story is fascinating, and I think it tells us a lot about what we can expect from how big tech companies treat their employees. So let's listen in to Talia Jane versus Yelp. There's a good chance you've heard of Talia Jane, even if you don't recognize her name. In 2014, when the country seemed to be having a love affair with crapping on millennials, Talia basically became the poster child for the whiny entitled millennial brat. But she also

ignited a conversation about the living wage and took on one of the world's biggest tech companies and actually kind of won. My name is Talia Jane. I am a low wage worker, labor activist, and occasional writer. My pronouns are she, they also. And I live in Brooklyn, New York. My social security number, if you give me a ticket. I don't include that. Wait, that's not how this works. Talia's upbringing was complicated to put it mildly. When she was a kid, her mom got involved in a convoluted criminal plot that left five people dead. You probably want to know more about that.

There's a wired profile about her that you can find on the episode description. I lived, my mom was a single mother. She was working low-wage jobs. She was, you know, like a secretary. She worked for Mary Mae. the cleaning company. She did all sorts of stuff like that. We moved around a lot,

lived in a lot of low-income housing, a lot of food insecurity. As soon as I was old enough to read, it was expected that I make my own food and do my own laundry and kind of be the parent very, very early on. And on top of that, when I was 11, my mom's three best friends were arrested for murdering five people,

which I, you know, obviously I had a response to and issues with, but it really spoke to her sort of chronic need to be liked by people and to go along with whatever people wanted to secure a sense of like stability and friendship, which was not translated to me. It was not a good environment that I was in. And when that happened, I went to live with my grandparents in Southern California. And I was put in a stable environment for the first time in my life. Someone else was making dinner and someone else was doing my laundry. And they were very they were very firm that the only thing I had to focus on was school. And then I bounced around a little bit more between my mom, family friends,

finally went back with my grandparents. And then when I graduated high school, it was like, all right, because they, you know, they're from a different generation where it's normal. As soon as you graduate high school, you are out. and ideally also married for some reason. So on graduation day, my grandpa walked into my room and he was like, congrats, you have 30 days to find a new place to live. And so it's just been a lot of instability, moments of stability that are sort of shrouded by this sense that the circumstances that I'm in are not going to last.

and that they are not normal. Talia took out loans to attend Cal State Long Beach, but eventually found herself having to decide between going to college and working so she could support herself. She chose working. She found a job lead that sounded promising at the food delivery site Eat 24, which was then owned by Yelp.

She'd be starting out with minimum wage, which she said worked out to about $8 an hour after taxes. But it was a job, and there was talk of her being able to move into a position, with better pay. This job also meant that she could be closer to her father. I thought this would be a good chance to connect with my dad who lives in the Bay Area and who I never really had much of relationship with.

So I was like, all right, we're going to do it. I just opened a credit card and I put moving expenses on there. I went up there and spent two weeks or two weekends searching for. apartments and I finally found one that was extremely expensive but at a point like it was month to months so I figured you know I could live here and I'll find someone at work to room with and then I can move and it'll be fine like it'll it'll all sort itself out. Talia did something a lot of people have done at some point in their life packed up on the hope that what she was leaving for would be worth it when she got there and it was a chance at something that she really didn't get much of as a

child living with her mom. Stability. Only that stability never came. I wasn't able to find a roommate. I did not get transferred to the position that would have me earning something like a dollar more per hour. I was working full-time, minimum wage. I was living 30 miles away and paying something like $11 a day to commute to and from work. And very quickly, it went from, this is difficult, but if I just keep pushing, something will break and it'll be fine, to, oh, this is not tenable.

I was, by the time my letter happened, I was, I hadn't eaten an actual meal in a while. and I had noticed that my hands were shaking constantly and all I was doing, like when I went to sleep, I wasn't dreaming. I would just lay down and then my alarm would go off and I would wake up and I had been doing that for a few weeks. And I had something like $20 or $16 in my bank account. I'd gotten into positions where I couldn't afford to get to work because I couldn't afford to put money on my clipper card to take the train,

and I couldn't afford to pay the toll because I didn't have any cash. And it just, the situation devolved very quickly. And on top of it all, I didn't even get to, like, nurture a relationship with my dad. We got coffee once on our birthday. We share a birthday, and we got coffee for, like, 15. minutes. And I was like, cool. Like that's, you know, it was not great.

Yeah, it was, it was, it was a lot of like, you know, when, when people read my letter and they responded to it with like, oh, this girl's so entitled, you know, it's like, no, I was attempting to create something better. and I had been told by numerous institutions and people that if I did certain things and if I followed a certain playbook and if I worked really hard and threw myself completely into the work and dedicated everything of myself to that, that things would work out.

And obviously that is not true. And I'm not saying that just because of what happened to me, but if we look at like the world, that is the whole concept of the American dream and pulling yourself up by your bootstraps. These things aren't based in reality. They are pretty lies that we tell ourselves to make ourselves feel better for being constantly, chronically in pain.

One day at work, Talia's boss, Yelp's CEO, Jeremy Stueleman, sent out a cheerful all-staff video blog, something he did pretty regularly. And something I just have to say, sounds like the kind of soul-crushing, semi-mandatory motivational tactic right out of the movie office space. Seriously, Talia says that one of his vlogs

is about how he styles his hair in the morning. Hearing her boss speak so cheerfully about her company at a time when she was struggling was her breaking point. In true Talia fashion, it started with a sarcastic little joke on Twitter. She tweeted at the CEO, offering to edit and watch his vlogs

if he agreed to pay a living wage. Then, she wrote him a scathing open letter on medium. If you've ever found yourself in an economically precarious situation, her letter will probably sound very familiar. It's written with Talia's trademark dark sarcastic humor, but in it, she writes about not being able to afford groceries or heat and making rice for dinner most days.

She describes how her coworkers teetered on the brink of homelessness and eviction. Your employee for your food delivery app that you spent $300 million to buy, can't even afford to buy food, she writes. So walk me through how you were feeling when you wrote that letter in 2016. Like, what was the, was there like a moment where you were just like, I am over this? Or was it something that was just like a slow burn inside of you? So I remember I was standing in my kitchen and I was drinking some water because I had tried to go to sleep.

And I couldn't sleep because I was hungry. And so I was drinking water because my stomach was cramping. And I was waiting for some rice to boil. And I noticed that my hands were shaking. And I suddenly realized that these things that I had started doing, drinking water to get myself through the 20 minutes it takes to boil rice. So then I have food in my stomach so I can sleep for a few hours while my hands are shaking. And like all these things, I suddenly like zoomed out very quickly.

And I went, oh, this is. This is fucked. And I was just like, holy shit. I am, wait, am I allowed to cuss? Absolutely. I was like, holy shit. I cannot believe I'm in this situation. And it immediately became clear that I had been doing all of the things that we tell

ourselves we have to do. and I had been putting in the work and I had been making plans A, B, and C to make something happened. But the problem was that I was in a circumstance and in a place where none of those things were going to work because the area in the Bay Area has become unlivable for people who earn six figures

and yet there are still jobs that pay a minimum wage in that area where people have to commute several hours so that way then they can live somewhere slightly more affordable and they're still failing to get by, you know? Like I suddenly, like it all clicked together and I was like, oh shit, I should be earning a living wage. And I started typing and I thought about saving it as a draft.

And I remember I like sent a picture to my friend of the rice that I was eating with my laptop open I was like I'm venting really hard right now and the picture was blurry because my hands were shaking from being

you know malnourished and I was reading it because usually what I do is I will write something out just to get the emotion out and it occurred to me that like

there were more people that were struggling. Like if I have it bad, there are other people at this same job who also have it bad. And it's not fair to them to say silent and to just go along with it when it's so clear how fucked up things are. And of course, there was like a part of me that was like, they shouldn't fire me though because this is protected. concerted activity.

I'm speaking on my circumstances and on the circumstances of my coworkers and demanding something better. Like I'm taking a stand for all of us. They would be very ignorant to fire me. And then, of course, two hours later, my email got deactivated and I was like, oh, yep, I'm fired.

And that's when everything blew up. It was read by over 2 million people. And less than two hours in hitting published, she was fired from Yelp. Her time at Yelp might have been over, but this was just the beginning. It turns out, just asking the question of whether it's okay for a company

based in one of the most expensive cities in the world to be paying staff minimum wage was enough to spark a lot of outrage. What was the fallout like after that letter went viral? So there was two waves to it. The first wave was people being like, holy shit, this is awful. Oh my God.

And it was a lot of people in Silicon Valley who were like, whoa, this is huge. Like the fact that someone said something about Yelp paying minimum wage in, like to work in San Francisco, one of the most expensive cities in the country, shit, this is a whistleblower. And then about four days later, conservative media started to pick up on it because their crusty asses are always late. And that was when they were like, oh, she's entitled. Like, who does she think she is demanding a living wage? Who does she think she is? The responses were really personal and angry.

Talia Jane chokes that she has a lot to learn about adulthood. One headline sneered. Talia Jane, she was a Yelp employee. She went on Medium.com, wrote this blog post, basically calling out the CEO. And, yeah, blaming the company that is actually the one that's paying her bills, allowing her to function. One of the most popular responses was by Stephanie Williams. She wrote that Talia lacked work ethic, and that if only she had hustled harder, like getting a second job in the service industry like she did,

she could have pulled herself up by her bootstraps. her response made a lot of assumptions about Talia's life like how she was probably able to get support from her family when in reality that wasn't really an option Talia had after her response to Talia went viral Williams did a series of TV interviews about Talia and entitled millennials. Here's Williams' segment from Fox News

called the Woosification of America. The whole thing kind of sounded very Dickens-esque like I am so poor, oh my God, I'm so poor but when I got to the end and I realized that she had included a link to her Venmo account and a PayPal account, asking for people to help her to pay rent, I just sat there and was like, you have got to be kidding me. After doing a media circuit about Talia, Williams successfully sold a TV show, writing on Medium that her viral rebuttal about Talia's lack of work ethic had been, quote, her golden ticket.

Well, the thing that I had trouble with is that she was, you know, listing all the ways that she worked hard but she was also putting it in the context of privileges that I don't have access to. She was living at home when she was working. When she lost a job, she was able to move back home. Those were not options that I had. Like I said, my grandparents were like, all right, see ya. I didn't have a home where I could share the financial burden while getting myself. in line, you know? The responses to Talia's letter, calling her lazy and entitled or a wuss,

reveal a big problem about how we talk about poverty and work in America. It isn't always about individual choices or people. And while it's great that some folks are able to hustle hard enough out of tough situations, if someone is working a full-time job, they should make a wage they can actually live on. And it's not entitled to expect this in America. You're not being a wuss by simply posing the question of whether things could be better. And having to work more multiple jobs just to get by isn't a badge of honor. It's a sign that something larger is a miss. Obviously, you should not need to work multiple jobs to survive.

The minimum wage when it was created was enough to cover a family of three. That's two adults and a child. Today, it cannot cover a single person by themselves working full time. And that is the thing that we should be discussing. It's not you as an individual are failing. It's the system does not want you to succeed. We'll be right back. Another podcast from some SNL late night comedy guy, not quite.

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After her letter, people combed Talia's social media to prove she wasn't struggling as much as she said she was. They found pictures like ones of her eating a homemade roast or ones of her using facial scrub to suggest she was exaggerating her financial situation. That, too, reveals a big problem with how poverty is framed. It doesn't always look how you might think. And we've made it seem like it's justified to question the financial choices of someone who's poor. And we expect that someone who's poor should project that poverty at all times. You can't be

poor and have an iPhone or a laptop or nice nails or eat the occasional good meal. And in the age of social media, the problem gets even trickier. Everyone knows the reality we present on Instagram is better than the one we actually live. So is it reasonable to judge someone's financial situation on what's essentially their digital highlight real? So I think an important thing that people don't realize is that when you're struggling financially, you have a limited number of ways that you can release stress to help you get through it. And for a lot of people, that might be drinking or, you know, going to the beach or experiencing something beautiful as an escape from the ugliness of your day to day. For me, it's cooking.

Like, I made these banging ass cupcakes from scratch with, like, candied lime slices or something like, like, and it was a joyous thing for me to be able to escape all the other stuff so that way then I can take a breath and get back into it. And when we look at these things and say, oh, well, you're not really struggling. We have to consider the fact that people need outlets to get through shit. on top of that, social media, every single person curates their social media to appear better than it is. You never see someone posting a picture of their infant with a huge diaper blowout screaming their face off. Even though that happens, you only ever see those little babies looking cute and cherubic, right? Like, we tailor our our social media to present a better version of our lives.

And this happens throughout the, you know, the financial spectrum. What it boils down to is why do you feel the need to police other people? Like, why, also, like, why do you need a ton of context to justify someone's experience? Like I had a picture of a oven roast that I made and people said that it was steak. And I'm like, no, you're just being a cliche. I'm not making fucking steak and lobster. It was an oven roast. It cost like $7.

And someone else purchased it for me to cook for us. But I'm not going to put that context on social media because if my family and friends found out that other people were buying food, because I couldn't afford a $7 roast, then it's going to be like a huge thing. And I didn't want my family to be worried about me because they don't have the resources to help me and they would just feel really bad that I was struggling. And I didn't want to put that on them.

Like, it's just ridiculous. Like, these assumptions of feigning poverty or feigning excess or like anything like that, Like, who gives a shit? If someone on food stamps wants to buy themselves steak and lobster, because that steak and lobster is the first meal, first real meal that they've eaten that makes them feel human after months of struggle and houselessness and all these different things, if they want to do that, that's their prerogative. They're a grown-up, you're a grown-up, act like one. I feel like we're all, most people that I know, even people who are pretty comfortable are all like one or two calamitous things from not being so comfortable. And I knew someone who was living pretty comfortably and then like many folks lost their job and then like many folks lost their health insurance and then like many folks had a health emergency.

When that person was doing comfortably, their car was an older, an earlier model BMW. But so many people were like, I can't believe you drive a BMW and you're on, you're on. on WIC for the baby or on food stamps. And she was like, what am I supposed to do? Sell my car to make you all feel better about me being on food stamps and government at distance. Like, how would that make sense for, like, how is that a choice that makes sense? Maybe the point of the matter is that, like, it's not really your business to make sure that I

have what you assume to be the trappings of poverty to be, you know, adequately broke down enough that I deserve to eat. I deserve, you know, government assistance or what have you. We have this like really fucked up. I feel like it probably has roots in that bullshit thing of the welfare queen. I feel like it has roots in that where you have to kind of present yourself. We have to put on like a performance of your struggle for people to believe it's real. You're not allowed to have acrylics or nice hair.

You're not allowed to have, you know, in-fashioned clothes or things that fit you comfortably and that are clean. You can't have any of these things. You have to be like dirty, grimy, tattered clothes. Like, you have to put on this charade for people to be like, oh, yeah, you really are struggling. I've been saying all of these things. But unless I'm doing the song and dance to make you think that,

or like to make you believe my reality, it's somehow like, oh, well, what's your personal fault? Like, what's your failing? Like, if you have a laptop, you're not poor. Like, most people in the U.S. have a laptop. Also, it's not that hard to purse. purchase a laptop and then put it on credit and you're paying like a small amount every single month. It's not hard to purchase an iPhone and every single month you're only paying $20 a

month to pay off that phone. Like you don't see all of the other debts that go into just like maintaining an existence in modern society. But because you're seeing the aspects of existence of existing in modern society, you're just going to assume that people are faking it. Like, I don't need to walk out in 1932 for you to believe that I am depressed because it was like, you know, the Great Depression. Thank you for that context. I don't need, I shouldn't need to be like sepia toned and dusty and like with dingy, dirty nails for you to recognize that earning a minimum wage is not a living wage, right? Why do I need to

live in a shack out in the middle of the woods for you to believe that my struggling is valid? Like, we have to really, I think, examine our biases when it comes to what poverty looks like, what poverty sounds like, and what poverty feels like. Because so many people, they assume certain types of people are poor, they assume they are poor in certain types of way, and that there's nothing that can be done because it's their own personal failing. And it's just like a big fuck you to all that, because it couldn't be further from the truth. These are systemic issues that need systemic fixes. And one of the best ways to get started on a systemic fix is to recognize your internal, personal,

adherence and enabling of that system and to uncouple yourself from it, you know? And then you go through and be like, oh, I now realize that even though I'm not struggling as hard as someone in a third world country, my struggles are valid. Or I realize that my income does not reflect my value. And I recognize that your income doesn't reflect your value. Yeah, so like there's so much that we can uncouple in ourselves, and when we do that, we are able to remove the power that these systems have over us and demand better. But if we don't do that, it's not going to get better. Two months after hitting publish on our open letter, Talia's story faded from the headlines. And for as many media outlets ran pieces about entitled millennials like Talia, much fewer followed up on the story and the fact that Talia was actually right.

and that her letter triggered real change. Not only did Talia get people talking and thinking about the living wage? Two months after her letter, Yelp increased pay from $12.25 an hour to $14. They increased the number of paid time off days from 5 to 13, and they added 11 paid holidays up from their previous number of zero. Even though a Yelp representative told Recode that the company did agree with many of the points in her letter, Yelp still says these changes had nothing to do with her and that they were already in the works.

Do you think this was in response to your letter? Yeah, absolutely. They'll never tell you that. So here's the thing is that the city of San Francisco had previously enacted a thing where the minimum wage was set to increase up to $15 by, I think, 2018 or something like that. So no matter what, they would have had to raise the wages, but that first bump would have been much less. And it wasn't going to go into effect until June. So they raise wages more than the bump that they needed to. And prior to, they needed to do it.

And then they're going to go ahead and claim that it wasn't because of me. when at the same time, as my letter was going viral, the customer support managers were having one-on-one meetings with all of the customer support staff to gauge how they were feeling and to basically try and prevent a mutiny. And workers were like, yeah, it is fucked. I'm working full-time. I should be making a living wage.

And they were like, oh, we need to do some changes real quick. And then that's when they rolled it out. Like, it's obvious. They're never going to admit it, but it's obvious. Do you feel vindicated? No. Because the amount that they raised, or like the amount that they increased it, it's still not a living wage.

The workers that are working for these tech companies are still not earning a living wage. The rental costs in the Bay Area is still unlivable. And there's still all this stupid like nimbabes. be infighting against building housing and capping rental prices and all of these toxic things occurring in the Bay Area. So people are still struggling. You know, I do feel like, it's like, yeah, I was right, but also the fight continues. Like, we're not done yet. More after this quick break. Another podcast from some SNL late night comedy guy, not quite. Unhumor me with Robert Smygel and friends, me and hilarious guests from Bob Odenkirk to David Letterman help make you funnier.

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Listen to Inner Cosmos on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Let's get back to it. In the last few weeks, workers across industries have been speaking out against unfair, racist, toxic work environments. After Matt Hunsey at the food publication, Bon Appetit, tweeted about racist workplace practices within the organization, he was put on leave. Talia is happy to see more workers. No, they don't have to keep quiet when something bad is happening at their job. Every time I see an open letter, I'm like, yeah.

You're welcome. Like, I remember when Medium posted like an app update and they, in their debug log, they called it an open letter to medium users talking about, talking about like what the update included. And I'm like, my legacy

but I do feel like people I was I was early but I was also right on time I think because obviously I spoke up in a very loud

and a very indignant and like direct way which you know you don't usually see you see like leaks from people speaking to media

off the record or whatever it is in this sort of like closed door method to get the information out there. And instead I was like, fuck that. I'm just going to hit post. And I think it might not be direct, but I think that I did get caught in like the early part of people realizing that they have the capacity to use their own voice and say this stuff out out directly. I'm hesitant to say that I was the originator of that, but I do think that people can look

at what I said and be like, I can do this, but in like a less sarcastic way. And then, and they do it, you know, like, Hunsy went on, you know, Matt Hunsey for BA, he was like, yeah, this stuff is racist and bad. Things are bad here. And then they were like, oh, we're putting him on paid leave. And he's like, look, they're so afraid of people just saying the thing. But if you just say the thing, then it's out there and people have to reconcile with it. If you don't say it, who will? You know, I think the lesson that a lot of people take for me is like, oh, you have to be really scared of like your social media presence and like whatever you post on there and it's like, who gives a shit? I make beautiful cupcakes and I say stuff that needs to be

said. Like, just say it. If it needs to be said, put it out there. If you're scared a blowback, do it anyway. You're going to have people who are going to come out of the woodwork and be like, hell yes, you know? Like, the risk that we create in our minds of being afraid of like, like, you know, like for me, I obviously am still working low-wage jobs. But that's not. Like, I used to see it as like punishment. Like, oh, I'm never going to have a good job because I did this thing. And now I'm like, there are no good jobs.

I don't care. I did the thing. You say the thing, do the thing. That's it. So thinking about organizations. like Uber and Amazon and Instacart, you know, they're fueled by working people, but yet those same people don't really have a loud voice in the conversation about those same companies. So what could what can we like, how can we make sure that we're meaningfully centering those voices in conversations

about about things like Uber and Amazon and Instacart? Pay them to write the articles about the companies. We just have people who, you know, went to journalism school to, contacting workers and asking them questions that other, like, that journalists are thinking of, but that other workers aren't necessarily, like the workers know the problem more than a journalist asking questions does. I saw especially among COVID reporting early on, so much of the coverage would detail how hard it was at a company for low-wage workers. And then every single quote from workers boiled down to essentially quote like, I'm frustrated and scared. And then there was no deeper dive. The best thing I have seen, like the best article I've seen about workers

in COVID was written by an MTA worker who had the piece published, I think, in the Washington Post. And they wrote about the terror of seeing people that they saw. every day just vanish and die. And like these are things that you are seeing as you're working in it and you're able to mediate like and like think on these things as you're experiencing them. The journalist is just popping into a space and being like, hey, how's it going? Good? No?

Dad? Okay. And then like that's their story. If you want to see these stories reflected accurately, pay the people who live them to write about it. get a good editor, who doesn't mind spending a little bit more time, and nurture the story. Don't take their voices and put it into your mouth and then speak for them. If you knew now all the things that were going to happen if you published your letter, would you do it again? That's it, yes.

I mean, it's the trolley problem, right? Would you sacrifice one to save 100? yeah, I don't mind if I'm the one. That's fine. And I mean, I've definitely still had issues, but the further away I get from it, the more obvious it is that socially and culturally, whether people realize it or not, if they were to go back and read my letter today, they'd be like, yeah, obviously, duh. Like, we've moved into a place where what I wrote is like it's not controversial anymore. Talia's right.

For all the hate she got for her letter, by a wide margin, Americans say they favor raising the federal minimum wage. Two-thirds of Americans support raising the minimum wage to $15 an hour, including 41% who say they strongly favor that kind of increase, according to a 2019 Pew Research Center survey. So will Talia be remembered as someone

who was an early adopter that most people now agree with? Do you think that you'll be remembered as a whiny entitled millennial or someone who amplified the conversation around living wages and actually made tangible change? I think both. You know, Senator Ben Sass in his book, he called me an entitled millennial. And that book is going to be on shelves, you know, and certain people are going to choose to read that. He said, what was his quote?

The founding fathers would panic at the survivability. of the nation if we were to have too many Ms. James. Think about that. A sitting senator says if there were too many people like Talia, our country might not have been able to survive. But what she did was actually see a problem in her country and at great risk to her own comfort and stability, asked why couldn't it be better?

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