This Past Weekend - #619 - Stan the Chauffeur

Episode Date: October 22, 2025

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Today's guest is a driver, he's an operator, he's a chauffeur, you feel me, a chauffeur. I met him in South Carolina when I was a recipient of his services. He is a one of one. I'm grateful to learn all about the world of chauffeuring. Today's guest is Stan, the chauffeur. Yeah, like usually like this is good. Yeah, okay, this way it's not too static in. But now if you get locked up like this, then you can move this.

Oh, you know what I'm saying? No, no, I'll loosen up and wiggle around. Whatever you gotta do, I'm at Muhammad our listener, baby. You feel me, though? I'll hear it all. I don't miss a beat. No, and then, you know, as emotions go. You know, you move around and wiggle the neck.

You know, you laugh here and there. Yeah, you've got different pieces inside of you, bro. Yeah. And that's how it works, man. Stan, hold on, I know this. Stan Boyleau. Boyet. Damn.

Well, I don't know how y'all say it in Louisiana. Yeah. But in New York, all my life, it's been boyet. Boyet, son. Boye, dog. I like that, bro. I wonder what it means. Probably a beautiful or something.

It means a beautiful place or thing. Ooh, that's it. And that's part of the BS that I tell of women. You do? Because my name, Stanford, Stanford means a hard rock or stone. Boyer means a beautiful place or thing. So like I tell them, within that hard rock,

if you could get inside of it, it's a beautiful place. It's like a gemstone in there. Yeah, it's some real bullshit to lay on them, though. Oh, you got to lay it on like that. That's how you do it, man. Well, one thing I noticed about you right when I met you because you and I met, I went to a South Carolina football game a few weeks ago.

and you're a chauffeur. Yes. And so you pulled right up on us and immediately we were like, wow. Yeah. This something is going on here. This guy got loose, you know? We were laughing immediately.

Oh. We were having so much fun, man. And is that where you're from, South Carolina? No, I'm from the Bronx. Ooh. I love the Bronx. So you started out there or what happened? Like, how did it go?

Your family was there? What was y'all doing over there? Well, in 95, my first wife left me and she went to Charlotte. her mother was an IBM exec and I used to go to see my daughter once a month that kind of got to be expensive so in 97 I literally walked off the corner in the Bronx got on the Greyhound bus and went to Charlotte because my first ex-wife's mother told me that if I was serious or about changing my life she would give me a shot I stayed with her briefly until we had a conversation where she would give me a shot I stayed with her briefly um until we had a conversation where she would give me a shot. She told me that I'm supposed to be giving her something more than just rent while I'm staying in her house. Oh, n-uh. She was looking for a little bit of limb, huh?

And I asked her, what are you talking about? Because I do your grass. I do the laundry. I don't bring anybody here. What more do you want? She told me I was a man, and she's pretty sure I could figure this one out. Dang, she wanted that interior design. I said to her, are you talking about the bonus plan?

And she said to me, whatever you want to call it. And she said to me, it's my house, my rules. If you don't like it, find another place to stay. I moved out the next morning, and I've been off and running since. Dang. That's it. You said, look, I'm going to make my own choice for me. Why didn't you make that choice, though?

Was there something about it? It's just that wasn't in your, that just wasn't in your DNA to say I'm going to provide that for you, ladies. No, first of all, that was my first wife's mother. Oh, I didn't realize. My first wife and I are really still cool. And that's my oldest daughter. mother's mother oh i didn't realize yeah i think i missed a beat of the story yeah no first first ex-wife's

mother oh and yes my daughter knows yeah my mother my ex-mother-in-law and i we we have survived that we don't even think about that no oh that's a speed bump man was she using at the time or something well we all potheads yeah okay so you never know somebody gets a little bit high you don't know who you fucking man dog not me oh yeah you write about that bro type shit boy you know Right about it. No, because I knew you see things like that were surfaced back later, and my daughter might have resented that.

You made the choice that you had to make as a man. Yeah. All right, so you're down there and Charlotte, you end up down there, you head down there, you live with your ex-wife, her mother. Briefly. And stuff gets a little while down there, and you're like, man, I got to get back out in the world,

this ain't the spot for me. Yes. Was that it? And is that when you started a chauffe first? down there, and Charlotte, when did you get behind the wheel, big dog? I started chauffering in 99. As a result, I was driving a truck on the highway one day going to Raleigh, and a guy in an SUV kept riding next to me trying to get my attention.

Coming from the Bronx, with that Bronx mentality, I'm thinking it's a hijacking. So I started dipping the truck towards his SUV. and then the window lowered down and he said to me he wanted to talk to me about a driving job we got off the next exit his name was Shane

he was from Miami and he told me that he needed a driver for his stretch navigator I had never driven a limo before I decided to take the opportunity

and it gave me a feeling man and I've never looked back I mean every guy wants to look good driving a nice car burning somebody else was gas and getting paid for it.

Woo! And I really enjoy it. I mean, it is me now. Oh, when you pull up, I was like, this is a, it was just part of, it was this ensemble, bro. It wasn't like I was going with you, you were taking, it was like, this is an adventure. You are welcome to Stan Gannistan, baby. You know what I'm saying?

That's what it felt like. I enjoyed myself that particular evening. Oh, we had a great time, man. What are some of the, like, what are some of the things with chauffeuring? Like, do you have a code of ethics and conduct? Like, what is something you have to remember as a chauffeur? What I have to remember is as a chauffeur. First of all, it's not about you as a driver.

Your job is to make sure that your guests have a good night. They enjoy themselves. Safe driving, great customer service. You know, make sure they enjoy themselves. You know, if you have a sprinter, make sure they know, know how to, you know, work the music, the AC, you have to do a lot of ear hustling, you know. If you hear the women say something like somebody has to go to the bathroom, you're supposed to hit them.

Hey, listen, group, we're going to make a stop because I have to go to the bathroom. Oh. If you hear them say something like they're running out of beer or they need some more soda or water, then that's when I'll hit them with the, hey, y'all, listen, I'm going to stop at a convenience store because I need them out and do. I see, put it on you. Bingo. You know, you always have to try to stay.

a step ahead of them, make sure that wherever the venue is that they're going is safe for them. You have that responsibility. And if you have women, and I'm a male driver, I make sure that them women are safe. I have seven sisters. But that particular evening that I have those ladies, they are my sisters and my daughters. Yeah, because people don't know, like, when they're getting in with a driver, what their mentality is, you know? What are some of the worst things that, like, passengers can do kind of man. What's the type of shit that? Throw up.

Throw up in my vehicle. And what you're talking about, vomit? Yes, from being excessively drunk. Yeah. You know, I had a guy one night, he's hanging out the window throwing up, and then I was in Charlotte, and he asked me to pull over.

I pulled over, let him throw up. Another time, I had a group that I was taken down to Orangeburg in the sprinter on a Monday, no, excuse me, it might have been about a Tuesday morning. I won't say the name of the organization. And then the guy started screaming, hey, Stan, stop, stop.

I pulled over on I-26 and let this guy earl out the window. And he was vomiting? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Oh. But things that I detest are somebody that's too drunk because you can't rationale with them. You can't reason with them.

And then normally when somebody has been drinking a whole lot, the evening is going to go downhill. Amen. Every time. I mean, that's a given no matter what's going on. Yes. And you ever have anybody try to get you or get them out there to hustle to get a bag or something, get a little bag of dope or something like that? I mean, does that happen?

I'm sure people ask that kind of shit all the time. Well, people ask as a driver, especially out-of-towners, do you know where they could get such and such? And what they're looking for usually, you think? Normally, somebody might want either a little cocaine. And my thing is, I don't know. anything. You know, I mean, you never know whether they're an undercover agent or what. Plus, also, my boss would really be let down if that happened, you know, in our vehicles. Oh, for sure.

You also don't know if they're a little bitch and they can't handle their cocaine. Boom. Boom. That's right. That's true. That's true, boy. That's true. So that's the kind of thing like, Because, yeah, sometimes people don't think, like, when they go do something, like, they, they meet up with a chauffeur, you have a responsibility as a passenger as well, right? Yes, they do. And people just, you know, like, I think that's just about life. People think just because somebody's providing a service doesn't mean that you don't start to be a human being, you know, in that instance, isn't take care of yourself. Have you ever had a spot where, like, what, I'm sure this happens a lot where a couple wants to make out or make a little bit of sex or something. Brother, it happens.

You had to stay in the car and put your ears like that, or what do y'all do? Okay. It's happened more than you think. The first time it happened, I was in a stretch limo, and I heard some kind of weird noise, and I had the partition up. I went to lower the partition to see what was going on in the back, and as the partition began coming down, I started trying to push it back up. I didn't want to see it. Her legs was in the air, and my man was power driving. You know, about two or three months ago, I was in the sprinter, and I had, um, and I had, um,

or I had some newlyweds. They were in Columbia outside of a little bar or something. Their wedding party was in the bar. They came out and got into the sprinter. I thought the wedding party was coming out behind them. I felt the sprinter rocking to the side. And I went to look into the back. I saw what was going on.

I got out to Sprinter and I went into the bar to go see whether or not the wedding party was coming out. They told me, nah, that time is for them. I gave them about 10, 15 minutes, then I knocked on the sprinter. Hey, I'm about to take y'all home. When I took them home, knocked on the door, they were just getting dressed. It happens, brother. Yeah.

So when you knock on that sprinter door, is it a hard knock like a cop or is it something kind of chill? Like, how do you, because you know what I'm saying? You still have a responsibility. You got to make sure. No, it's a soft knock just to let them know, hey, listen, I'm about to, you know, check on y'all or we're about to get moving. I mean, you already know what's going on. Yeah. You know, I mean, honestly, that's why people rent limos and sprinters, man.

Uh-uh. You'll be surprised, man. Damn. Oh, dude, I do remember just now, actually, I ended up getting a BJ out there and, uh... See? Yeah, I forgot about that. Thank you. Actually, thank you.

I never would have remembered it. I ended up getting a BJ out there from some girl. I think she was like a lieutenant, like third lieutenant. I don't know what was happening to her. I think she was, I don't know if she was missing something. I don't remember what happened. She'd been in the military for a while. And she rattled me off a little BJ over there somewhere.

And that was in, I believe this might have been over there in Missouri, somewhere over there. Now, as a driver, you have to avoid that. You do? Oh, then I'm trying to give it to you. I do. Got it. I don't know what any other driver does. But my thing is, I have two daughters and total, including my god's sisters.

I have seven sisters and I would not want any driver to think that he is a celebrity because they are out that night and they've been drinking and have a good time and they may be hitting on him for him to go for it.

They're hitting on you because they're drunk. They don't know you. They don't even mean to. They just out having a good time. Don't go for it. Don't do that. That's a trap, huh? Yeah.

Have you heard stories of drivers going for it and anything happening to him? I've heard drivers brag about going for it. I would never. I actually avoid it. I have run before. I have lied. Really you got a runoff?

Yes. You ever have to lock a woman in a car and just get away? No, I want them out the car so I can get away. Got it, got it, got it. Yeah, that's better. Better idea? Yes. One lady actually had me call my mother 3 o'clock in the morning,

and I woke my mother up because this lady was gifted. I had two ladies in Charlotte one Saturday. Now, you know, they were at the breakfast club, having a good time. Okay. They were really drunk. They lived across the street from the Panthers practice facility. Now, once again, I have seven sisters. So my intent is always to walk the women to their doors. I walked this lady to her door, and as we went to shake hands,

she took these two fingers and this thumb and stuck them in her mouth. And she was holding my arm over here, and I'm trying to, get it from her. And the more I pulled back, the more she pulled in. And now she has her eyes closed. She got veins sticking out her forehead, and she's going off on my arm. I couldn't get it out of her mouth.

Now, this is the truth, y'all. Eventually, a feeling went down my arm, down my leg, made my toes curl, came up my leg, and hit my right testicle. I snatched my arm out of her mouth, ran. jumped into Lincoln. I'm trying to start it. It's going to jig, jig, jig, jig, jig.

Yeah, because it wants to stay and get that blow job, bro. And then when the car started, since I had my foot on the gas, rocks went flying out from behind me, and the car zoomed off. I went around the corner, skid it to a stop and caught my mother 3 o'clock in the morning. I'm like, Mommy, mommy, mommy, you got to wake up. You got to wake up. And mommy's like, Stan, what's wrong? So I told my mother what happened.

And mommy's like, Stan, so why did you run? I said, Mommy, she has skills. If she could get on my finger and make my body wake up, imagine, y'all might not have ever seen me again. My mother was like, Stan, you're crazy, man. Leave me that hell alone as I can go back to sleep. Man, yeah. Another time I walked a chick to her door, I had to go to the bathroom.

I don't care if my stomach is upset. I don't go to the bathroom in women's houses anymore. This young lady had let me. into her apartment. I went to apartment. I'm peeing. When I went to open up the bathroom door, she was standing there with her panties on. No bra, no clothes, no nothing. What kind of panties was it, you think? If you had a guess. There was some little flowery little joints, man. Hey, wait. Come on. Springtime. She wanted me to go for it, and I lied. What did she say? Did she say something, or was she standing there just kind of rocking her body, or what? She told me that

she wanted to give me a tour of the apartment, and she wanted to show me her bed. And when I told her that I wasn't going for it, she told me that the guy I was driving for, once again, Shane, with the Stretch Navigator, that Shane told her that she could have me because he was having her friend that he picked up two chicks in the strip club, Onyx, and Charlotte. Dang, bro. I got out of that, y'all. I told the young lady that there were condoms in the limo, and I was going down in the limo to go grab a couple of condoms.

I got in our car, and yeah, y'all, I peeled out of there. I've said that kind of shit Damn, bro I've said I remember one time I couldn't get an erection Right And I don't know if you guys

Deal with that In the black community Or whatever But I couldn't get an erection You know A white erection or whatever Man, it happened to me before Yeah

And so I told a girl I was like Oh I'm gonna go get some condoms She's looking at me Like for what You know what I'm saying I was trying to make An excuse to get out of there

And bro I've been going Eight years going To get them condoms I ain't been back there since God damn. Actually, that type of issue, and I'm going to be honest, y'all, since we're talking, that's what made me leave cocaine alone.

Really? Three times it had me dead. The first time, I was confused. The second time, I'm like, wait a minute, wait a minute. The third time, I knew it, and I was with my second wife. That was my last time that I used it because how she made me feel so stupid when she was sitting there plucking it talking about look at this what am i supposed to do with this what's wrong with this what did you do and i'm sitting here feeling dumb and dumb and i said to myself

ain't no woman on the planet going to ever make me feel like this and i have not touched it since how long did you use it for stand be honest with me bro because i've been down that road i might have started using cocaine when i was about 15 maybe 16 and i stopped at 33 a lot of that had to do with lifestyle in the bronx growing up um with um with The guys that controlled my part of the Bronx. I see. I mean, wherever it was a Coke, wherever it was a heroin.

These, my guys were narco-terrorist. So it was always there. It was, it was always around. Like, were you at school, seeing it after school? Was you not in school?

Were you seeing it, like just on their playgrounds? Like, did they have gang members that had? Like, what was it like? No. Like, when you said, guys that controlled the area, take me on that. Like, what was your neighborhood like growing up? Like, take me through a little bit of that.

I'm from the Bronx. I come off a 169th Street. Washington Avenue, the Marra Senior neighborhood. Our projects was called Claremont Village. It's a good project. You know, recently there's been a few shootings, but this is America, so that's going to happen. Yeah, we don't need everybody. But one thing that I can say about that particular neighborhood, if it wasn't for a man

named Mr. Curtis Johnson, he was responsible for the schools being open, for evening basketball, for the Friday night hip-hop shows. He got the summer youth employment, the free turkeys, the free cheese, the bus rides, the great adventures, the pool mobile, the skate mobile. All of that used to come in, like, the neighborhood. What was the pool mobile? A big giant truck that came to the projects that had a pool in it. Nah, motherfucker, he's tripping now, bro. You steer it, stand?

Yeah, and what... Hold on, hold on, hold on. First, let's back up, man. Yeah, man. In the summer, they used to have, like, every now in the, like, the skate mobile where it would come through. You know, it's an impoverished neighborhood. So those things that we don't have, skates.

And so what was that? They would just hand out skates to everybody? Nope, you had to give up your sneakers. Okay. And, you know, they would give out skates. And then where would you skate in the street? Yes, because it was blocked off. Got it.

So it was a block off an area. Yeah. The truck would come with the skates and everybody would get them. Wow, it's so cool. Yeah. But just the way that creates a neighborhood event, you know? But then they would close off in front of Claremont Center, and a large truck would come with a pool.

What? Like, what do you mean? Yes, yes. And we would have pool mobiles, skate mobiles. No, look at this. Black parties. I've never seen this. We had parades.

Johnson was a good dude, man. Yeah, this is it. And this right here on Perplexity. It says, New York formerly operated as mobile swimming pools called swimmobiles. Essentially, pools attached to trucks that could be parked on residential streets during the 1960s and 70s. These swimmobiles provided underserved

neighborhoods, access to swimming. While the era of true mobile pools is over, there have been recent proposals for pop-up or portable pools such as dumpster pools and temporary pool installations. What happened to those pools? Can you look that up for me really quick?

I think it might have been a budget thing. People phased it out. New York City's swimmobiles disappeared, mostly due to changes in pool filtration standards, which made mobile pools harder to maintain and operate legally. Okay, yeah. Lawsuit shit. Somebody probably got some infection.

Some asshole in the head of fucking make a big deal out instead of put some ointment on it. You're a bitch. Additionally, budget cuts made it difficult for the city to support their upkeep. Many fell into disrepair by the early 1980s. Oh, also the rising number of permanent public and private pools also reduce the need for a mobile solution. Wow, so when would the mobile pool pull up?

Like, what was that like? Various times during like the summer. It's like when they closed off 169th Street between 3rd and Washington, there was always something going on for us, you know, whether it was the skate mobile, the pool mobile, or just a block party, you know. It was always something.

but when they would close off the street, that's the reason why I don't get on skates, man. I do not do skates. Why? I could never skate. I was that stiff kid who would put the skates on and just float until I could either touch a building or go to a car or something.

Yeah, I'm not good like on wheels like that and shit. I'm not good. I'm that gingerbread, man. I'm just kind of stiff. No, and one day I was on the skates and I'm going towards like the rope. I will never forget this, man. And this girl pulled,

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Okay. The limos or the stretch market. The stretch market? Oh, you know, like the stretch limos. Stretch limos, yeah. That particular market is almost drying up because of the sprinters. Like the Mercedes sprinters has basically eliminated the stretch market because why would you put, say, eight to ten people in a vehicle that's low and they'll be sitting down. The driver has to make wide turns versus putting them in a sprinter, a Mercedes sprinter, where it may be 13 passengers, maybe a 10 passenger, it may be the party bus.

Depending on how the owner-operator has the interior designed, people prefer that. You just have to make a little wider turns. Like, how do you do it? Like, if you had to show me it? Well, I always drive with two hands. Okay. The reason when I drive with two hands is because one hand is not going to do it right. And a lot of times, like, the wheels move, you have to constantly look into your mirrors.

and you have to always make sure you have distance between you and the vehicle in front of you because those vehicles don't stop on a dime. And a lot of times, like the public, people will see like the sprinter or they'll see like a limo and they'll try and undercut you and stop short. Come on, dog, you don't have to do that, man.

You know, as if they try to cause an accident. I'm constantly sweeping my mirrors. I'm going from left to right, constantly. I'm constantly looking in like your middle mirror if you have one but most of the time you won't

if it's a stretch if it's a sprinter you're not going to have that either so you have to really learn how to use your mirrors keep the space in front of you you have to be a really good driver

as well as taking care of your charge of your people I mean you know would have been some situations that have gotten a little sketch out there for you like on the road

like what's some of the most harrowing situations you've had to dealt with okay I was in Charlotte and one thing as a limo driver is that you're not supposed to you know pick up you know person that hasn't been booked I was at

the bowling alley in Charlotte off of a park road I dropped somebody off over then I was about to leave a guy came out to bowling alley and he asked me if I was gone to uptown Charlotte area. And I was like, yeah, and he said to me how he had never been in a limo before

and, you know, could I just take him? I figured, you know, the guy was bowling, eh, it's nothing, I'll take him. So he got to the limo and I pulled off and then the guy asked me, he said to me, hey, is it true that as a chauffeur, you're not supposed to be armed? And I was like, yeah, why?

He said to me, so what would you do if somebody's robbing you? I was like, man, I ain't even worried about that. And then the guy said me, man, Look, what would you do if I'm robbing you? And I turned around and looked at him, and I said them, why? And then the guy said to me, man, because this is a robbery. Ooh.

And I said to do it, okay, it's like this, man. Because now, ha, ha, ha, ha, he messed up. I said the guy, it's like this, man. I practiced this. Yeah. It's like this. I could hit my break, open the door, and roll out, and let the car go. And I showed him how I had the door open.

I said, the man, I practiced that. I said, but nah, it's like this. If you have a gun, I roll out the door and the car keeps going. Said to him, now, if you have a knife, that means that you have to be up on me. And if you're up on me, because the guy was, you know, leaning close. I said to him, man, if you're up on me, here's what's going to happen. My foot hit the gas. The gas hit the floor.

I turned the corner. He fell all over the car. I'm doing about 90 miles now in Charlotte, about 2 o'clock in the morning, looking for a cop, turning corners, driving while skidding and all of this stuff. The guy's falling all over the place. He's telling me I'm crazy. Something's wrong with me. And I'm hollering at a like him.

We're both dying tonight. Yeah, let's die. And like I said to him, my family know I can drive. I'm surgical behind the wheel. So if I hit a building, they're going to know something was going down in this car, man. And then I skid it to a stop. And I said to him, you can get out now. The guy got out, put his weapon away.

He had his finger up in the air. He's telling me, man, you're crazy. F you, this, that, and the other. And I'm sitting there going, hey. How about the robbery, man? What happened? Where you're going? Man, fuck him.

But that's the kind of shit, brother, you got to be prepared for. Yes, you do. Yeah. What about another instance? You pulled up at a gas station and you refueling the coach and then somebody come up.

Something happened over there. I'm sure you running some characters out there, man, take me through some of that stand. You do, but that's where the Bronx. That's where that 1609th. That's where you know what's going on. We're right, yeah. Like I tell people, your dog,

don't walk up on me, man. I'm a different dude, man I tell him don't do that I keep a lawyer on a speed dial his name is Ken Snow he's in Charlotte y'all he's good too

and I tell people do not walk up on me man because if I got to take off the glasses we're getting down I take off the glasses for two things they both begin with a F fighting and you know and

I tell people do not walk up on me. Yeah. Oh, 100% man. 100% dog. That's the thing, yeah. You got to tell people, do not walk up on me. Do not walk over here sometimes.

Yeah, man. No, because I have this $200,000 vehicle and I have people. I may have somebody who's a $200 million person with me. I don't want anything to happen to that person. It's not my responsibility to be executive protection, but I'm not going to let something happen to say. somebody who's with me. Right, that's part of the gang. Right. I mean, me and that person to stomp somebody out together. And do you keep a blade on you? Do you keep a pistol on you?

No, no. Are you allowed to keep that thing on you? Some people do. I'm an anti-gun guy. Okay. I'm anti-gun. But I know you've had a blade on you before. You told me a story about a blade not a dude, huh? Oh, yeah, man. Oh, man. This guy, he was a home contracting scam artist made Mickey Moore. My house in Charlotte that I had bought and renovated it had a HVAC problem. Now once again, y'all, I'm a

reject from the projects. I don't know any of the language as far as that century AC and the HVAC and all of that stuff. So my HVAC their heat went out. A friend of mine put me in touch with a friend of his who worked for a guy. They came over to the house. The guy said all the right

things. He blew smoke up my You know, he told me everything. Oh, yeah, the Native American shit. I mean, he told me everything that I needed to hear. My at that time girlfriend was saying to me, Stan, something sounds funny about this. And I told him no, well, he's a friend of this dude here. Let's let him do the job.

Did he have a ponytail or anything? What do you look like? Mickey Moore, well, come to find out heroin user, heroin dealer, pill user, pill, pill dealer. The lady. There he is right there. Yup, that's him. Are you sure that that...

That's Mickey. Oh, yeah, I've seen this guy. He does all those Jesse Ventura impersonations. This guy here, he had a company of Charlotte call C.S.C. of the Carolinas. The lady before me, an 87-year-old lady, he scammed her for $43,000. Ooh, pop. Then when he got me, he got me for $10,000. No, no, no.

He took out a perfectly good HVAC system. that only needed to have a fuse change and dig this y'all. He incorrectly installed a highly defective unit that he must have bought off the marketplace or from some bogus place that had turned my crawl space into a foot of mud.

Damn. He put a blender in that bitch. He took out a regular H-back system and he put a fucking two-story microwave in that bitch. We literally had poison gas coming through the floor. another air conditioning company cut off my gas I mean I was having headaches and stuff

That's because he put a lawnmower in that bitch He put a riding lawnmower where your fucking H-Fax Then he vandalized my central air figuring that I'm not going to know State Farm Notice the paperwork was incorrect And they called me and said to me Man we're investigating you for fraud

And I'm like what are you talking about And then when they explained it to me and then I'm like, wait a minute. So no wonder why something's been wrong. I called a couple of other AC companies that came over, they checked the work, and they told me what he did. I contacted this guy,

and he told me, F you, Stan, you'll never find me. And I explained to Mickey, I'm a New Yorker. I don't have anything to do. I'm bored. I will find you one day. I will find you.

Well, y'all, I did find him. And when I found him, Mickey Moore had an 8 to 10 inch knife on him and a crowbar. Ooh. I got out of my car with my hands in the air. No weapon, y'all. Ooh, Raphael and Donatello. A little while later, Mickey was popped eight times with his own knife. 20 cops came to my house and come get me.

And that's all we know. But I'm in the street, y'all. And that's all we know, boy. Anybody who knows me can fill it in. That's all we know, son. Pinned the tail on the donkey, homie. That's all we know, bro. I explained to the judge that I'm from the Bronx.

And if you take somebody's weapon, it's called a free kill. She told me that in a civilized society, there's no such thing as a free kill. Well. There's a difference of opinion. Very true. And he is alive, but anybody once again who knows me knows that I'm no dummy. Below the waist is misdemeanor. Above the waist is felony.

Is that true? Yes, it is. Wow. Yes, it is. You just have to watch out for that femoral artery that the judge told me that I almost hit. I missed it by less than half an inch, but he got popped eight times. Ken Snow, y'all. He did his thing.

I'm in the street. Ken Snow, baby. That's another advertisement for Ken Snow. And you're based over out of Columbia, South Carolina. That's me riding that now. Yes. That's where you chauffeur in that now, man. And yeah, if you guys, we'll put Stan's info out there, man.

If y'all want to ride with the dog, when you pull up somewhere in Columbia, South Carolina, man, that's the got to do it with. Signature transportation. Dude, that story's crazy, bro. I'm trying to think, one story you was telling me, oh, so you've had some love issues over the years, bro. Oh, yeah, man. I love the women, y'all. I pay for two divorces. Um, let's see.

I'm 60. I'll be 61 on the 24th for this month. You look great, brother. Thank you. My on and off again, girlfriend, she's only 25. She's in Columbia. Yeah, and I was telling Theo how January 7th of this year, how she hit me with a pot of fettuccini noodles that I was boiling,

and I ended up in... Let's say it again, fetachini noodles. Fetachini noodles, y'all, that I was boiling. And I ended up in... the doctor's hospital in Augusta, Georgia, which is America's largest burn center. And I had to have some surgery because my left ear was melted in the back.

I was burned back here. I mean, they had me wrapped up like a mummy. It was bad. Melted in the bag. And then after telling Theo the story about how I got beat up that particular night and like my gold chain was twisted into my neck. Take us through it, Stan.

Take us through it. Take us out of this. You know what I'm saying? I mean, no judgment. She was drunk that particular night. She came by my apartment. And, you know, once again, you know, drunk people, you know, it's hard to rationalize this, that, and the other. Oh, yeah, they'd be wild.

Yeah, she was upset about a few things. I'm in the kitchen. I'm trying to make some, I'm frying some chicken parmesan, making the fettuccini noodles and making the vegetables. and, you know, like this pushing and shoving. I'm trying to get her out the kitchen. And then when she grabbed a hole in my chain and started choking me. So she grabbed your chain.

And basically I had to get her attention by feeding into what was going on. And then when I was moving out of the kitchen, she began looking at the stuff on the stove. and I was hoping that she did not grab the chicken parmesan with the vegetable oil in it and instead she grabbed the pot with my fettuccini

and I said to her, don't do it if you do it, you're going to go to jail and then she picked it up and as I turned to run I felt it hit me and when it hit me I ran out of my door and I was screaming ah you really burnt me

and then my dog Snowy Snowy started trying to attack her then I went back into my apartment, but I had already called the police. I left my door open, and that's when the cops showed up. And when the cops showed up, like, did you get, was there water in the pot, too, or just in hot noodles? Water was on the floor. But were they boiling, and was the noodles boiling? Was the noodles boiling? That's what I'm asking. They were boiling when she threw them on me.

Yeah, man. So would you rather, in hindsight, got hit by that entree, by that chicken parm? Or you think the, uh, catacini? or the fettuccini noodles. Given the choice, the fettuccini was better because the chicken palm was in vegetable oil and that would have really torn me up. And how did that feel

when that first hit you, man? When that chini hit you, bro, what it is? It stung. It stung something fierce. I screamed, ah, the shit stings. And I ran out my door and I said to her, you burnt me. There you are.

right now, and that's it. I went back inside, and she was telling me at that time, she realized what she did then. Did you have a shirt on? Did you put your hands in the air? Did you get down on the ground? Did you put some milk on it? Like, what did you do, you know?

I did not do anything to it. I did not touch it, and when the police and the EMTs came, they were literally picking noodles and stuff off me. It stung like crazy. I didn't do anything. I didn't even touch it. I mean, later on, I went to bed. The next day...

You went to bed? Eventually, I went to sleep just like that. Did you put the gauze on? No. I didn't do anything because I didn't think it was bad. Honestly, then the next day, I went to see a friend of mine to borrow some money. Yeah.

but I noticed that it was dripping over there it was really wet and when my friend looked at my head he said to me what happened to you and I didn't say anything and he said to me who did that to you and then the tears just started rolling so he knew and um his or yours no whose tears

my tears started rolling and then damn look at this shit here you look like a model in one of those like fashion shows or something and what my friend said to me was um this is like some bc br g maxes area bro uh they sent me my actually it's my friend scott that that own signature transportation he's like my boss friend big brother um scott told me to go to the emergency room so i went to the emergency room and when i walked into the emergency room

they didn't take my name or anything they just walked me into the back you get the express lane Wait, dig this now. They took me into a room. Three doctors came in there. They didn't touch me. They walked around me and they looked. And one doctor said to me, sir, there's nothing we can do for you here. You have to go to Augusta.

And I said, what's in Augusta? He said, America's largest burn center. And I said to him, yeah, well, okay, I'll go. Let's do it. They's calling you up to the big leagues, baby. Now, bear in mind, I'm in a little shock. So they gave me the referral. and they told me the referral

was for 7 o'clock tomorrow morning. And they wrapped you up like this or no? No, they just sent me home. Because this shit looked like they got you in a damn to the gumbox right here. I went home and took a shower not knowing that I shouldn't have did that. You can't feel it, bro?

I'm in shock. Oh, my bad, man. And then I smoked me some herb and I went to sleep. I got up the next morning, got my car, and I drove to Augusta. And was it still dripping a little? Still dripping.

And what's dripping? Is it dripping us into your shirt or what's popping? It's getting on my clothes. Does it smell like fettuccini at all? No. Or like a little bit of garlic or parmesan? It was just weird because

it felt like sweat on one part of my body. Yeah. Fuck, you're a damn side eye out there. I didn't know that the back of my ear was literally melting. I mean, I was literally messed up. I went to Augusta.

Damn, bro. Look at this shit, bro. You look like a damn blackstronaut, bro. They got you fucking look like you're going to space right there, bro. But the crazy thing is, man, like I tell anybody. Hey, Stan, they got you. She didn't mean to hurt me. She was intoxicated.

Oh, no, I'm not saying that. No, I'm saying as bad as it looks. Right. Yeah, that's just, yeah. As bad as it looks, I can honestly say because I still deal with her to this day. Yeah. People ask me why all the time. I go, why?

life is life shit happens love is love too man and that's the thing I'm 60 she's 25 and I'm gonna say this publicly y'all I love this shit off this young lady I don't know why but I do

we go through it all the time but um that's look at Belichick he on that shit bro I mean and this happened and the police wanted to arrest her they were trying to convince me to let them press felony charges on them The felony for the fetichini?

And I'm telling them no. I'm telling them no. First of all, she has two boys. Who's going to raise her sons? Got to be two more young black men in the system. We're not having that. And my thing was she was intoxicated and emotional. It's not like she did it.

Had she not been intoxicated, it would have never happened. She's beautiful like most people. Right. But yeah, it's not like she's... Alcohol changes your personality in everyone. Oh, yeah. It's not like she's hiding in the woods sober with a fucking panna, you know, orzo

or Angel Hair Apostor, something she popped out and hit you with that bitch. This was something that was drunken and then it happened. Boom, yeah. I mean, that's my baby. That's your girl, yeah. That's my baby. Well, look, we love who we love, bro.

That's a thing. That's right. We love who we love. That's right. And that's sometimes how, that's one of really the interesting things about love, I think, Stan. It's crazy. It's weird.

It's crazy, bro. You can't even explain it. And everyone I know tells me, stand, stay away from her. She's not right for you. Everybody she knows tells her, oh, F him. Stay away from that dude. He's too old for you. Oh, that's an old man.

This, that, another. But like I tell her, okay, I'm a little older. But ask your friends, do they have a good man? Huh, do they have any man? As your family. Do they have a better man? I mean, I don't cheat. I don't drink.

I'm in bed by 10 unless I'm working. I mean, I go out the house. to walk the dog, buy my herb, get my mountain dues and my Dutchmasters. I mean, I don't go nowhere. Look, that's a South Carolina fitness routine, man. I mean, she still has a decent guy here. I don't care how people feel about me.

Type shit, man. But my thing is, when it comes to her, I'm there for her. Right. You know? I mean, that's the interesting thing about love, man. Some days love is a sitcom. Some days it's a scary movie.

Some days it's just the same movie over and over and over. again that you really are at peace watching like but to be honest i can't take much more of that particular madness the drinking no the madness that that goes with the whole relationship i mean the whole madness i mean i'm 60 years old i'll be 61 in another two three weeks i paid for two divorces i'm looking for my last queen yeah i'm looking for i want real i want a woman i want my woman I want somebody to make me happy for this last, what? I'm 61, y'all. How much more time do I have?

I think you got a lot of time, bro. Well. Because you seem like that guy, they ain't going to get rid of. Look at the, bring up another shot of him in that helmet, bro. They had you pack it up in this bitch, bro. Yeah, man. God damn, bro. You look like an undercover cop at a cottonball factory, homie.

They asked me who drove me to Augusta. I said to them, I drove myself. They were like, you did what? He said to me, who was with you? One of the doctors asked me, well, how could you take the pain? And I said to what pain? My C4, 5, 6, 7, and 8 is fused and my L5S1 is fused. Right.

I could do pain. Yeah. I mean, other than it's stinging, I was literally in shock. Yeah, you're a damn Lego person at that point, man. You know, we've gotten past that. We have a decent friendship. I mean, like anything else, it goes up and down. but right about now

it's beginning to get old and yeah you got to see what else is look it needs to evolve if it's going to it it would be nice for it to evolve in a better place and that's okay to say that man

either be real with me or be gone so that somebody else can go on and get this dude here that's a good dude gang gang gang and that's my mantra

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person that's out there for you, kind of like, you know, that's one thing, like I realize instead of, sometimes I'll be a little bit, like, can I meet somebody? Because we can, everybody can meet, not, not everybody can meet someone. It's like, where is she, though? It is exciting, though, too, thinking that there's somebody out there, right? You know, and where that person is and what their life is like, and that's like an exciting thing. I want that ultimate queen, man. Oh, bro, I'm going to see you on the throne with your dime, bro. You deserve it, man. At least why I still got a little lead in the pencil. Hey, bro.

No. That's it, man. Has that ever been a tough thing in, like, your relationships? Because you said you had two wives. What's caused some of those to go astray? What have you struggled with in relationships? Do you think, man? Because you were good when you're a chauffeur, right?

You were good when you're an operator. I'm in control, right? That's a control situation. I'm the one who's running everything. It's my way kind of and the highway. Well, that's something that a lot of women have a problem with. Right. Especially, and I hate to say this,

and y'all going to jump on me. about this, especially African-American women because a large percentage of our African-American women have been raised in a household without a father. So that dominating

or that stand-up man is not there. And they all say that they want one. But when they run into a strong guy who's going to lead and speak, they want to resist. Oh, oh, you think you're my father. You're trying to control me. No, I'm not, darling.

Yeah. No, I'm not. I'm a man. Lay low, wonk. That's what they be yelling. Lay low, wonk. Yeah, men are leaders. Allow me to lead.

Yeah. You know, but a lot of African-American women, that's not in their household. You know, you hear a lot of black women saying, oh, well, I don't need no, man. Come on, y'all, let's stop that. Because that filters down to the kids. Now, you hear your boy, excuse me, your son hears you all. the time saying, oh, well, I don't want no man, I don't need no man, then what do you think

that does to him? That lowers his self-esteem, and that makes you raise a weak man. You know, your daughters pick up on that same mindset, I don't need no man, and they grow up being resistant, you know, to guys trying to lead them. And see, that's a world that I don't know about, you know, because it's not part of, you know, it's part of my universe because I live in the universe, but it's not part of like my world I don't have a lot of experience

in that space but you have you've struggled in marriage and stuff like what is it like like how do you think if you look back on your own life

you could have been better at being somebody who loves okay or is love first wife I was streetwise

running in the street hanging on Washington Avenue were you wearing jerseys and shit like that no no no I've never I've never been a jersey dude I'm always just just

just nice you know um I've never been one to wear wearing Cologne back then? Yes yeah what kind? At first it was Lagerfeld and now like these glasses it's Prada bring up that Lagerfeld let me get a little look at that called Lagerfeld you know like that shit

that splash the original the classic The classic baby man That splash baby I remember growing up Big Stan got that splash One of my older brothers A guy named Tony Pinell that I that I really love, right? I would put on like my Lagerfeld

and T would say, yo, ice, because that's my nickname in the Bronx. Yo, man, that stuff got you smell like a wet paper bag, man. Take that off. But the women would be doing things like,

who's wearing that? And I'd be going to A.O.T. See? See? And Tony, we're going, yo, your ice. But I don't need that to pull him. And my man, T.P.

used to pull him. Hey. He ain't need no Lagofell. He ain't need no Lagofell, huh? Look that Columbus. Baby, that's the bird seed, and that brings, I have them flocking over, bro. That's how it is, Mike. But now it's Prada.

I love that Prada. And these glasses, this is, this is my second pair of Prada's. And as you see, they are a little injured because, like, my first pair of Prada's, my dogs got to my Prada glasses. They destroyed them. So I bought these. Then, yes, Snowy got to these again one day. She chewed off the side here, bit on my lenses, but didn't dig this, y'all.

I do have a brand new pair of proud of glasses at the house I just have not had the prescription put in it yet That's all Yeah, that's it man Nobody's judging that but I feel you gotta tell them You gotta preach that exactly What advice do you have to young men out there Who's starting out on their path

If they could look back on your path And do something different bro Or what have you learned in your life so far Because you're at an interesting spot right You are entering that third trimester of your life Right like and it's really is kind of like the master class of life in a lot of ways. That's what you can give the best advice.

Yeah. When you have at least the most experience to share from. Like I'll tell anybody, the street, leave it alone. It's a lie. It's a lie. You young guys, you all want that street credibility? It's a lie. You want to sell drugs?

It's a lie. You'll end up in jail, okay? You will end up killing your own dreams. This is what you do. You stay in school. Get that education, y'all. Go to college. Get that education.

I mean, like I told my son Ricky when like he was telling me he didn't want to be a nerd I said to him why Ricky I told him that's why I made my mistake because I wanted to be in with the end crowd okay I got tired of being teased

picked on called the professor the scientist so what did I do I started being with the bad kids I started dropping my grades I told my son Ricky it's okay to be a nerd all right and he's like nerd I said Bill Gates Okay, Bill Gates was a nerd

Look at Bill Gates now People who picked on him The girls who laughed at him The guys who threw stuff at him They're trying to download his dick right now They would love for him to at least read a resume It's okay to be a nerd You're right

Them bitch is trying to download his dick right now My son, he's in Spain Shout out Ricky man He's a handsome kid, nice kid Yes, y'all he looks just like me He's just a younger Smarter Better looking version

You know, I mean Amen, brother He's in Spain He's been there for almost three years now He's getting a master's in Spanish And Spanish culture Like I told Ricky, you do that man I mean, you know, you get those degrees

I told him I got five years Take a law classes, y'all, no degree Ricky, get your degrees, man Get your shit, Ricky, you know? Get your shit, Ricky, we need that man And he's not a street dude He's a good guy Amen, you know?

I want to ask this man And blessings to Ricky and your children understand um how did the what happened to the fetichini so you get over there you get they got you in the burn water what do they give you a room over there what happened because once that side item hits your neck and your shit's dripping bro you got to tighten up yes they um you know because that's this man that's so dangerous if you get hit by a side item and you're and you're and you're just you're then you're dripping bro they gave me how do you handle that they gave me an injection and i woke up later wrapped up

just like that I woke up later wrapped up the doctors told me that since I drove myself from Columbia to Augusta that I can't leave they told me

somebody has to come get me my oldest daughter lives in Atlanta I call jazz she came to get me naturally my daughter was ticked and like very much

at the whole situation she does not like the whole situation and like she said to me Daddy, you already know, and I'm not going to get on you. We'll talk about it later. You know, so I had to respect that. She took me home. My youngest daughter, Unique, she came, you know, checked in on me for a few days.

And what was it like? Did you have to stand up? Were you allowed to lay down? Do you have to sleep standing up or what? No. You lay down. It's really weird because you have to. change your bandage every now and then.

You have to keep it clean because, you know, you have open burns. Hell yeah, build you. You know, now it's come back in nice, you know, because the ornament they gave me. And then I was putting cocoa butter on it almost every day. I've recovered. My skin has recovered.

My mind has recovered. Our relationship regarding that event, we've moved past it we have recovered um and now we're on to other issues that are messing with the friendship or the relationship got it what do you uh what do the ladies need most man if you want to keep a lady you think what do the ladies need most you think if i want to keep one what do they need most one trust trust understand that During the course of my life, the serious relationships that I've had, and I do understand when people explain to me that my personality has caused issues

because I'm a friendly guy, I'm a talkative guy, I like to smile, and I'm a handsome guy. So a lot of times women... You look like Randy Moss. People say that a lot? No. I've heard... Samuel Jackson. Different type of dudes, man. My thing is, I'm a social guy.

guy. Gerald Deverted. But anybody if you say that? No. Um, I have a flirtatious personality. Oh, yeah, you do. So that will, that don't help with relationships. No, it doesn't. And I can't help it because I'm a social guy. I mean, I love people. I like to talk. Um, I try to keep the flirting down to a minimum, especially if I'm involved with somebody. But y'all, I'm a Scorpio. Can't help it. We out there. It's ingrained in us. It's in us, man. And I'm not even a Scorpio. But how about this. People say the bedroom plays a big part of the life in a relationship. You believe that 's true or not? Yes, it does. It does because I'm 60 now. I'll be 61. There's changes going on in my body. I'm not as strong as I once was. You know, like in boxing. One time there was 15 round

prize fights now they're 12 rounds yeah you know um my body's beginning to fail it's you know it's different and that causes problems oh yeah my shirt's a jake paul fight i my shit'll take a fall in the second round you feel me you know um i mean i'm i'm getting older so the so so the body's acting different but the experience kicks in okay the experience kicks in um what's your biggest sexual move if you had to think physically physically, if you had it even? My biggest sexual move or sexual act? Yeah, probably act, maybe, or just ability.

Put it like this. For example, I love to eat fruit. I love to eat fruits, especially my little baby. I mean, I remember. In the past, I've had, I've made women speak alien. Forget speaking a foreign dialect, y'all. I've made them speak alien, okay?

They don't even know what the hell they even said. You know, and we get past that. We just laugh. I'll stop and go, what was that you said? Ah, ha, ha, ha, I don't even know. Just go on and finish, okay. Dang. You know?

You out here, duo lico. Man? Duolingo, duo lico, homie. You out there teaching, you teach a new languages, Stan. Man, make them speak alien, man. That's it, bro. You know? Yeah.

That's it, boy. Exactly. Dang. Has a ride that a passenger ever led to a date or a relationship, even in a professional, you know, not like on the, at that moment, but like, let's talk and say another time? No, no, no. No, I won't, I won't do it. It's against my ethics. What if a passenger, like, starts to pass out or something?

Do you, are you licensed to know CPR? Are you licensed to know any medical stuff? skills like could you hand like could you do you think it was there ever an emergency you had to do something no and if there isn't an emergency i'm going to do two things i'm going to ways and i'm going to look for the nearest emergency room and i'm going to hit 9-1-1 gang gang gang and i'm not stopping at any red lights amen baby what do you think about waymos when you see them those waymoes way mo's when you see them those waymoe what's that um bring up a waymo if you can for stan driverless car they got now.

Nah, uh-uh, no, no, no. I don't like driverless cars, man. I don't like driverless cars at all, at all, at all, at all, because what that's going to do is eventually that's going to eliminate us chauffeurs, okay? Nah, I'm not in, no, no, no, no. And then if that driverless car happens to hit somebody like me or my kid, I can't drag nobody out by, like, their ankle and beat them up. Yeah.

I've done that before. I dragged a man out of his car by his ankle in front of Lincoln. sent on Christmas Day 99. Yeah, man. Shit got intense, huh? No, he happened to, he was a taxi driver, and I had just bought a conversion van in Charlotte, and I drove it up to New York for Christmas.

Now, I'm leaving New York. I'm on my way to the Lincoln Tunnel, and a cab driver hits my van after I passed him. And I asked him, why did you hit me? I mean, I was past you, and he said something dumb. I don't even remember what it was, but at that particular time, Remember, y'all, this was in 99.

I still had that New York mentality. I dragged him out of his car by his ankle and beat the dude up. We went to jail for it? Yeah, I went to jail in Manhattan. And what happened was I had to pay his hospital bill, restitution, you know. Be Good program for a year type shit. Were you in jail for Christmas? No.

You ever been in jail for Christmas? Yes, once. What's it like in there? What's that like? It's not good. I was locked up in Charlotte. Over the holidays, it's, there's a lot of guys that are unhappy, you know, guys are depressed. I think I got out two days after Christmas or, you know.

Yeah, but that was okay. I got out and was crazy because this. This was with me and my second wife. Once again, I had a young lady who, you know, would drink a little. Things would go on here and there. Once again, another good girl. But, you know, it just wasn't right. And I was in jail for over, like, the Christmas thing.

But once again, now we have a very good relationship. She's the mother of my daughter, Unique, and my son to Rick. I was young She was young And that's it Yeah That's life man Young people

You know with Issues You know Yeah Every young person have issues And then You're always young To another age

So it's like Yeah The issues never stop Have you ever learned anything From a passenger Like has ever been a passenger That you really learn Something really valuable from

Yes Yes Yes I've had some passages that I was talking to one day, it was an old couple, old couple. And I was talking about my multiple failed marriages. And they set me up, y'all.

The lady said to me, oh, let me guess, you did your 50%, they did their 50%, right? I'm all proud. I'm like, yeah, but it still went wrong. And they said to me, you know what, that's where you effed up. I mean, this old couple, they started getting aggressive. They told me that I was supposed to do 100%,

and she was supposed to do 100%. And that's where people mess up. And they had been together. They were in 80s or so all their life. They told me 100%, 100%. You know? Yeah, it's interesting because you think about it differently kind of. That's a different approach to a marriage to a day.

Yeah. Oh, just because now there's two of us, we each have to do 59. Now there's two of us, we both get to do 100. They said you have to do 100% all the time. That's beautiful, man. You know? And another thing they told me, the man told me, he told me to tell her, yes, dear, twice as much as you say no, dear.

Yep. Have you ever driven any Asian people or anything like that? No, I haven't had any Asians. I've had athletes, entertainers. some very, very, very rich people over the years. Regular people. I really love the common man. Oh, yeah.

I love the, you know, like the Saturday night people, you know, those that are looking to have a good time. Especially South Carolina, man. You got, they got such a good energy over there. Yeah. You know, because you're almost got, you got the Palmetto's kind of milling around. You got big energy over there.

You got the beach not too far away. You know. You know, I mean, from North and South Carolina, they have a good location because you have the beach, whether it's Myrtle Beach, let's see, Charleston, you know, you have Fayetteville that you figure two, three hours away going east. Then you have two, three hours away going west. You begin to go into the mountains in North and South Carolina. You go a little further. You're over here in Tennessee. I mean, it's great.

We don't get snow. You know, we don't really have to worry too much about the hurricanes. I mean, it's great. But you definitely have to worry about mosquitoes. And you got to worry about these bad bitches pulling up. Man, they got the women down here. The South has the women. And since the weather's a little warmer, you know, the women wear a little less.

You know, make a man burn out his retina or something, man. That's why you got them glass. Detachiconia looking at it. them, man. You know? Wow, bro. I feel you hurt my own neck. That's what really happened. That's why you had that thing. Oh, you hurt your neck. Hey, wait, wait, wait, wait. That's like, I tell people, since I have this fused neck, I be telling them, man, hey,

my neck is on a swivel. I mean, it's like this now. That's another thing that... What? It's good for the ladies. I got a metal neck, brother. Oof. Yeah, man. We're going to be, yeah. I got a metal neck. You know, hey, you got time, miss. We're going to be here for a while.

Yeah. Oh, here come old metal neck. You know what I mean? You know? Like, God, dang, that's like just attaching your kitten to a little hitching post, baby. Here come old metal neck. Put some money in the meter. Man.

We're going to be here. To see, four, five, six, seven, and eight. It's all fused. It's titanium. But most people, they don't have this type mobility. I mean, most people with this much surgery, they're a little messed up. Yeah. Not this dog.

For some reason? Nah, man. I mean, the only thing that I can't do is hardcore things. I don't lift up stuff. I can't run because my back is fused, but I'm 60, 61. I'm not playing basketball no more, so where am I running? You're chilling, bro. Right, yeah.

All you're doing is running in your future, Stan, and that's what sounds exciting. What I do love, man, is that you're still excited about your life. You're excited about your future. You're excited about, like, you know, love, making love, you're continuing to have love out of the people you have in your life or the possibility of new love coming in your life, man. That's what life's about, man. And I think that's one thing that just your energy is, it's infectious, man. It's electric, y'all.

It's electric. If people want to see you when they come in, we'll put your info so people can reach out and a chauffeur with Stan, man. It's a one-of-a-kind adventure. I'm telling you, it's the Stan experience. We got picked up, man. It was me. My buddy, CB.

My buddy, who else was with us? It was three guys with you. Oh, it was my buddy, CB, DJ, Parker, and me. Yeah. That's it. My tall friend Parker was here, too. It was a tall guy. Bro, and we pulled up at that Wendy's, bro.

We told up at the Wendy's and told that lady at the front you was a domestic abuse, remember that? Yeah. We had the young lady at... And she was still flirting with you. At the Wendy's tongue-tied. Yeah. And she was still flirting with you should try to give you an extra little freezing cup. Yeah, but...

No, I mean, uh-uh. And then that lady, remember, we had to pull a four to get that last sandwich. When they say that shit, we're the only person in line. Like, can you pull forward and wait? Yeah, that's right. Yeah, you know what, I was talking about pull up. And I happen to look in the mirror. I'm like, what, is there a crowd behind us or something?

You know what I mean? Bro, just make four sandwiches. It's like they can make three, but they can't make four, man. Yeah, they had to come up talking about, oh, well, you're a special order. Yeah. I ain't, bro. I mean, that's what you do. Yeah.

But blessings, man. That was a great experience. We had a great time, man. I just want to thank you so much for coming and hanging out. So anybody could be a chauffeur, but it takes, it's not just you driving, it's driving an experience for people. It's setting yourself secondary to your customer, making sure to keep space between you and the car in front of you, keep your head on a swivel.

Make sure that they have a good time. And make sure that they have a good time. That's what Stan does, man. Stan, thank you so much, bro, first. spending time and hanging out, bro. All the love. Good luck to the game, Cox, the rest of the season, man. Yeah, thanks, Theo.

And maybe we'll get to do this again sometime. Hey, brother, anytime, man. I mean, I'm in Columbia. This is only ever... I'll get my Jeep and drive here, man. It's only seven and a half hours away. 77 straight to Statesville make that left and get on I-40 and get off right over here.

What's the longest ride you ever had to take somebody on, man? I took some people from Columbia to Jackson, Mississippi, because they are restauranteurs. They have a restaurant in the Columbia Airport, and they were opening up one in the Jackson, Mississippi Airport. We were there for three or four days. I drove them back. That was a nice little drive. What was a tab on that when you think? I have, no idea.

You don't know. That's not your deal. No. I've taken some other people to Orlando down to the hotel. I guess they were going to Disney but as a New Yorker I'm conditioned to drive up to the Bronx at a phone call

somebody called hey man this that and the other's going on you know family I may have to go you know um any ladies of the night you ever have to drive any ladies in the night any escorts or anything like that?

Oh my God! Yes! Yes, yes, yes, yes. Really? Oh yes, yes, yes. And at one point in Charlotte I was the driver for this dude that had about three or four girls who stayed at this house. He told me he was their manager and I was their driver.

One of the young ladies, you know, she picked me and I drove them to their appointments. But like I told the girls, I'll drop you off. I'm not sitting outside. I will come back and pick you up because if you're sitting outside, then you're part of the organization if they get arrested.

Right. No, no, no, no, no. I'm transportation. I'm paid transportation. I drop off and then I come back and get them. But I had to leave them alone. I was making a little money off them. And then one day the guy, the manager?

Yeah, the manager. I think he called herself script or something dumb like that. He said to me, hey, you Stan, man, I need to talk to you about a payment arrangement. I'm like a payment arrangement. What are you talking about? He going to say to me, man, do you think I could pay you in pink? I said in pink, the fuck you're talking about. He said, man, like the females.

I told him, no, dog, I don't want that. Nancy. I got a woman home. I get out my bed for green. Now, that's what you can pay me. Green, money. You know, pink? I don't want no pink. And what did it seem like, them ladies? It seemed like they were doing okay? Because that's a fair job. They just out there getting their money. Brother, dumb young ladies are all cute. All of them look nice. On Monday, Mondays and like Thursdays, they're going to do their nails, something like Wednesdays. Wait, Thursdays would be nails and hair because they got to get ready for the weekend. Monday, they're trying to straighten themselves up

from the weekend. You know? Yeah, Tuesday and Wednesday hit the gym a little. Yeah, they were cool. What I didn't like was when the girls were trying to flash to her like me. Whoa, wait a minute. That shit doesn't impress me.

Matter of fact, put that away. I don't need that. No, uh-uh, no, uh-uh. Put that away. That's not part of the thing, you know? Yeah, because that's a big industry, man. You know, I have friends that have worked in sex, work and stuff like that and that's a big industry and you know um what else is i thinking about um

oh yeah let me see this oh oh this is one more thing actually i want to say this is stabbing someone above the waist worse than below the waste legally stabbing someone above the waste is generally considered more serious legally because it increases the risk of severe injury or death legal consequences for stabbing above the waist can be harser as it may be classified as attempted murder that's it stabbing below the waste while still a serious felony may sometimes be considered less immediately life-threatening unless it causes dilasabal

delisabal or hits major arteries so that's it man hit them low boy they don't see you coming baby hit them low Stan we love you bro thank you for pulling up man

blessings to you and we'll see you in the future baby yes and other than that people if you're looking for me you can also keep an eye on the OG poet because I do poetry y'all and I'm fierce he is I've heard him do I've heard him do some last time we were in your car right before you dropped us off he did a couple for us um maybe

well have you come back and do some next time yeah yeah other than that people you all you know how to contact me they all uh uh get get give y'all like the avenues to contact me and if you want me to come do some poetry I got some for y'all yeah we'll make sure that all your information's in there dude and that people can but I there's just nobody better if you want to have a experience in Columbia South Carolina that I I don't think there could be a better one. Nah, I got y'all. We're going to have a good time.

Then with this man right here. Thank you, Stan. All right. Now, I'm just floating on the breeze, and I feel I'm falling like these leaves. I must be cornerstone. Oh, but when I reach that ground, I'll share this peace of mind I found I can feel it in my bones.

But it's going to tell you. Thank you.