This Past Weekend - #677 - Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

Episode Date: August 25, 2026

Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar is a global humanitarian, peacemaker and spiritual leader known for founding “The Art of Living”.  Gurudev joins Theo to talk about gaining a reputation as a chi...ld prodigy, how he helped end a war in Columbia, and real ways meditation can improve our lives. Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar: https://www.instagram.com/gurudev/  ------------------------------------------------- Tour Dates! https://theovon.com/tour New Merch: https://www.theovonstore.com ------------------------------------------------- Sponsored By: Celsius: Go to the Celsius Amazon store to check out all of their flavors. #CELSIUSBrandPartner #CELSIUSLiveFit https://amzn.to/3HbAtPJ  Shopify: Take control of your income. Start your free trial at http://shopify.com/theo  Ladder: Head to http://ladder.fit/THEO to find the right plan for you, and get a free 7-day trial and $10 off your first month when you use my link! Armra Colostrum: Go to http://tryarmra.com/THEO or enter THEO to get 30% off your first order. Chime: Join the millions who are already banking for free and sign up now at http://Chime.com/THEO Perplexity AI: Ask anything at https://pplx.ai/theo  ------------------------------------------------- Music: “Shine” by Bishop Gunn Bishop Gunn - Shine ------------------------------------------------ Submit your funny videos, TikToks, questions and topics you'd like to hear on the podcast to: tpwproducer@gmail.com Hit the Hotline: 985-664-9503 Video Hotline for Theo Upload here: https://www.theovon.com/fan-upload Mail stuff to:  ATTN: TPW PO BOX 40137 Nashville TN 37204 ------------------------------------------------ Find Theo: Website: https://theovon.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/theovon Facebook: https://facebook.com/theovon Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thispastweekend X: https://twitter.com/theovon YouTube: https://youtube.com/theovon Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheoVonClips Shorts Channel: https://bit.ly/3ClUj8z ------------------------------------------------ Producer: Zach https://www.instagram.com/zachdpowers Producer: Trevyn https://www.instagram.com/trevyn.s/  Producer: Nick https://www.instagram.com/realnickdavis/ Producer: Andrew https://www.instagram.com/bleachmediaofficial/  Producer: Halston https://www.instagram.com/halstonrays/  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:01:10 He's a spiritual leader, a soul summoner, if you will. He founded the Art of Living Movement, and he's one of the most respected teachers of meditation in the world. A fascinating chat with today's guest, Guru Dev Sri Sri, Ravh Shankar.
Starting point is 00:01:44 Guru Dev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar. Is that correct? Right. Thank you for being here today. I appreciate your time. I appreciate your energy that you've put into the world. Thank you so much for your just your ability to be a guide for people. For our listeners that don't know, you're a humanitarian, a spiritual leader.
Starting point is 00:02:10 a practiser of peace, is that fair to say? Yeah. Okay. And Guru Dev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar. You can just go to there. Guru Dev is fine? Excellent. You had an experience that happened when you were very young at the age of four years old
Starting point is 00:02:30 from what I hear, if the story is true. I could recite the ancient text. You could recite the ancient text of the baga. Bhagavad Gita. Bhagavad Gita. Can you tell us what the Bhagavad Gita is for our listeners that don't know? Gita is the scripture which was written 5,000 years old, but when Lord Krishna gave advice to lessons to Arjuna,
Starting point is 00:02:58 he's the warrior of that time. So it's about knowledge of yoga and everything about life. So this is what Mahatma Gandhi had is as a handbook. Ah, okay. And everyone in India, it's almost like a Bible for the Indian continent, you can say, Hindus and mainly. Got it. So at four years old, you were kind of a prodigy. You were kind of like the Justin Bieber kind of of meditation maybe, you know?
Starting point is 00:03:32 In a way, I don't know if that's, you were kind of the Jean-Benay of India, you know, still living, of course. what was it like to have that much attention at such a young age? How did that affect you? I just felt very normal to me. Was there a reason that you... I didn't feel any special. I felt as normal as anybody else. Was there a reason you felt like you kind of received this download,
Starting point is 00:03:56 sort of, that you received this capability? You know, there are so many child prodigies these days. You can see them all. So it's very natural thing. It was not something that, you know, you make out of it. It was just part of your life. Part of your life. What effect did that have on your childhood?
Starting point is 00:04:19 I was a little strange in my child. As you know, that I didn't take much interest in normal things that kids would do. So I spent most of my childhood with elderly people. With elderly people? Elderly people, adults. and yeah I felt a little bit out of place many times but I tried to fit myself in everywhere I used to be Take me through some of what happens after that in your life
Starting point is 00:04:49 That kind of lead you into becoming a guru Well you know I'm a guru by accident In the sense you know I just kept teaching or telling people what I know And then they started taking me as a guide Well, apart from that, you know, I had deep interest in spirituality and science. As a teenager, I was very much into physics. So physics and astronomy, science, and ancient scriptures, all this interested me quite a lot. Because I felt that such a similarity or parallel between the spirituality and science.
Starting point is 00:05:31 So that was very interesting for me. And then, you know, my teacher was one who lived with Mahatma Gandhi for 48 years. Your teacher lived with Mahatma Gandhi for 48 years? So he is the one who taught him the Gita, the script, when he came from South Africa. He was in the Erwada jail and all. So he was a very funny guy. He used to tell a lot of stories about his time with Mahatma Gandhi, and now he was a rebellious person there. And it was very interesting, you know.
Starting point is 00:06:03 So I grew up with. such an environment where, you know, this non-violence and friendliness, love, compassion, all had great value. So, society. And also my grandfather was also a great follower of Mahatma Gandhi, and he lived in Gandhi's ashram for many years. At what point did you start to become a teacher? Like, at what point did people start to come to hear what you were sharing, I guess?
Starting point is 00:06:32 It's in my teenage that I started this one. And when I was 23, 24, I started the Out of Living Movement. That time, there were two judges of Supreme Court of India. One was a thorough believer, a thesis, and another was an atheist. So one was... Justice V.R. Krishna, he was an atheist. And what was the first one? He was a...
Starting point is 00:06:59 A believer. A believer? A believer. And they both... you know, came as a trustee, became the trustee of our organization. Then he made an organization. He said, you know, you have a beautiful knowledge to share. It needs a framework.
Starting point is 00:07:15 You know, to hold a picture, you need a frame. So we will be the trustees and we'll make it an organization. So it's 45 years now. So the government started to help you sort of put a frame? Not the government, no, individually, their individual capacity, the people. The people did. I read that you started the art of living after you had a 10-day period of silence
Starting point is 00:07:37 where it was kind of this epiphany that fell upon you. Can you tell me a little bit more about that? Correct. The breathing techniques. You know, although I was teaching meditations of yoga and all, I was feeling there's something missing. There's something that I need to bring about.
Starting point is 00:07:56 People do all that, but still they have conflicts inside themselves. They're unable to get over their habits. You know, there was a struggle. So I thought there must be something that would come. So I went into a silence of 10 days. And at the end of those 10 days, it was in a remote place in India. Then a few of the doctors and engineers in that area, they came.
Starting point is 00:08:20 And then I started teaching the breathing technique. That's a birth of that. And that's the sky breathing technique? Yes. And can you take me through a little bit of what that technology? is, is that okay to ask you? Yeah, it takes a couple of days to learn it, just three days to learn it.
Starting point is 00:08:36 It mainly recognizing the rhythm in your breath. You know, your breath has a rhythm. And your breath connects your body and your emotions, your mind and sensations. So harmonizing this, you know, brings a lot of freedom from within. And that's how it started, you know. And at that point,
Starting point is 00:08:59 Do you start traveling around us to share your knowledge and share your experience? Correct. In the earlier years, there was a lot of prejudice against meditation yoga. People thought, this is not, you know, this must be for someone who is out there, oh, cuckoo. Oh, yeah. I'm talking about 45 years back, 40 years back. There was a lot of prejudice against anything about meditation or breathing. What were some of the places that had probably some more prejudice than others?
Starting point is 00:09:32 Like what were some of the tougher places to go and teach? I would say Europe had that and also U.S. You know, we wanted to teach this in the prisons and then there was a lot of resistance. Because I know that when we taught the prisoners, because every culprit is a victim himself or herself. We'd say that again, every culprit is a victim. Victim of something, you know, situations. I'm bringing up. So,
Starting point is 00:10:02 they need healing. They need that healing touch. When you teach this anger, rage, and distress, sadness, everything vanishes. So that's where this has been very effective.
Starting point is 00:10:18 We have taught prisoners all over the world now. Yeah, I've read about that. When you're teaching this, when you say this, do you mean like someone's relationship with their consciousness? Is that kind of what you're talking about?
Starting point is 00:10:30 It's just technology, you know. See how through your own breath you can change your feelings, your moods. Many times people feel so desperate, actually, you know, like trapped with their own emotions. Oh, yeah. I feel so bad, I don't know how to get out of it, you know. Okay, I pray, I do this, I do that. Still, there is something inside of us that doesn't let us feel the freedom from emotion. Using the breathing techniques, it makes a huge difference.
Starting point is 00:11:02 What are some of the first things someone will notice from using some of the techniques? First of all, calmness of the mind. Then your immune system becomes better. You feel better. Really? And then clarity in mind. You know, you feel more clear. And your perceptions become better.
Starting point is 00:11:24 Lots of many benefits. All the benefits are meditating. Many people say, oh, I can't meditate. you know, too many thoughts bombard my head and, you know, I can't sit quiet and I feel so restless. Just a few minutes of this that takes care of all those issues.
Starting point is 00:11:39 Amen. I know you just turned 70 recently. Yeah. How, uh... Yeah, look 70, can't tell me. You look 25. Does our consciousness age? Does it make sense to you, kind of?
Starting point is 00:11:55 Our intellect age, our intellect becomes mature. But consciousness is the same. Has your consciousness felt the same From the beginning, do you feel like? Yeah, that's something that doesn't change in you. Oh, got it. You know, there are two aspects inside. One is that changes constantly, right?
Starting point is 00:12:14 There is something else in you That's a referral point of all changes. So that which is a reference point of all changes cannot change. That's fascinating. What is consciousness to you? Like how would you describe consciousness? Everything is consciousness. Everything?
Starting point is 00:12:35 You are consciousness. The trees are consciousness. Whole world is consciousness. And what are some... It's just energy. The consciousness is that ocean of energy which has manifested everything here in the planet. Yeah, I think I just, I think, I don't know, I get scared a lot.
Starting point is 00:12:55 Do you ever get scared? Not so far. Yeah, I think I just have a lot of fears sometimes. You know, fear is nothing but love standing upside down. Really? Like, explain it to me. Fear is a sensation you get, right, in your chest region or in the belly. What are you afraid of?
Starting point is 00:13:22 Because you love something. And so that from the other side appears to be as a fear. Right, because I'm afraid it will be different than what I think. Or I'm afraid it will feel different than how I want it to feel. Afraid you will lose what you have. Yeah. Or you will now get what you want. That's a feel, right?
Starting point is 00:13:45 And if you just look back, sit back and relax, there's no fear. Do you think there's like a group, like, I feel like we're in a time in society where things feel very scary. It feels kind of stressful in the world, right? Do you, how would you, how would you suggest that we ward off that? Listen, it's like a boy or girl going for an examination. You're so scared what's the outcome of the exam. But someone who has already passed the exam would say, hey, don't worry. If someone has to perform the first time on stage, they will feel,
Starting point is 00:14:30 so scared, but a seasoned performance, nothing, don't worry, go ahead. So similarly, we have to, if you are mastered the art of life itself, you know,
Starting point is 00:14:43 seeing life from a broader perspective, so what? It's not the first time you're scared. It has happened to you when you are a child, when you are a boy, when you're a teenager, when, whatever,
Starting point is 00:14:55 but still you are here. So, broadening of a consciousness, our awareness, the fear disappears. Number one. Second way to combat fear is attentive to your breath. Breathe from the back of the throat.
Starting point is 00:15:14 Breathe from the back of the throat. Long, deep inhalation and slow exhalation. You know, that settles down. That settles down the fear, the sensations. And third thing is, know that this is all
Starting point is 00:15:31 just a game everything around you is a game you know you shouldn't be afraid to play a game
Starting point is 00:15:37 what do you think I think I'm still I'm still a little scared but you know you're thinking about the past week
Starting point is 00:15:48 that's why you are scared well I think I probably am you're right I think some things I fear probably can I share with you
Starting point is 00:15:55 some of my fears yeah yeah okay I think I fear like I fear that as a society and that we're losing what it means to be human sometimes
Starting point is 00:16:04 that we're getting too like we're getting so like involved with technology that we're that we're forgetting that the value of being human is it's starting to be Yeah yeah I get what you're saying You know I make a little distinction
Starting point is 00:16:19 between concern and fear Okay I'm also concerned Where are we going in the world We are all You know moving in the age of technology and how mankind is going
Starting point is 00:16:32 to use this technology whether it will be for the benefit of people or for a selfish gain. I mean, that's a concern. Yes. Concern must be there. If you don't have any concern and you will have no passion.
Starting point is 00:16:48 Right. You must have concern. We're all concerned. Any conscious person will be concerned. Okay. And that concern is a great motivator. It makes you act.
Starting point is 00:17:01 Yeah. That's a good point. Yeah. So I'm glad I have concern because it makes me want to take action. Yeah. Got it. How do you look at that?
Starting point is 00:17:12 How do you view that concern? I'm very concerned about the planet. I'm very concerned about the state of mental health in the whole world, especially in this country too. Young people, one in every fourth person, person is mentally challenged, getting into some sort of problems, issues.
Starting point is 00:17:35 For sure. So we need to attend to this, number one. And then we need to realize that the human society is one family. I always espouse a world as one family. Yes, sometimes it feels like we're losing our sense of purpose. You know? I think that's one thing that scares me. They can only lose the purpose.
Starting point is 00:18:03 If they have not found, there is no point. They cannot lose it. Many have not even found what is the purpose of their life. Oh, that's a good point, huh? I should be grateful that I've found some purpose. Yeah. Hmm. When you look at kind of where we're headed with technology,
Starting point is 00:18:21 do you, what's a positive way that you see it affecting us? It's very good. You know, I tell you, I was going to college. I had to go to library and it would take a whole day to find the index and find the book. Today, in the fingertips, you can get any knowledge, anything from anywhere, you see. You don't have to wait for such a long time to understand something. So knowledge is easily available in every corner of the world, number one. Second is artificial intelligence.
Starting point is 00:18:56 Many are very skeptical or even scared about artificial intelligence, as though it will take away the jobs. Yeah, but you know artificial intelligence, AI is a boon also. It's not just a curse. So it's a positive as well? It's a positive thing. It challenges our intellect to be more original.
Starting point is 00:19:19 It can only put what is already been discovered. I see what you're saying. So if it only has knowledge, right? and if everybody has knowledge, then creativity should maybe go to another level. Another level, yeah. Because that will become sort of a primary... It's a challenge for an individual to be more creative,
Starting point is 00:19:39 more original. Because everybody has the same information now. So now creativity kind of has a new stage. New stage, yes. That's pretty fascinating. I guess I hadn't really thought about it like that. Do you worry that a lot of the power that's in the world, world is in evil hands and do you believe like in good, do you believe like in good and evil?
Starting point is 00:20:02 Do you think there's such thing? Theo, not one child is born on this planet as an evil child. Every one is born here as a bundle of joy. Every baby is a divine gift. They're all beautiful kids. But due to circumstances, situations, lack of understanding or wrong, education or whatever you can say, indoctrination, it leads them where they are.
Starting point is 00:20:33 That's where I feel there is a lack of values in the education system. And if those people were cared in the very beginning, you nib those negative qualities, trends in a child, in a adolescent, in children, they don't come. In adolescent, they start getting up into this sort of, You know, rage. In adolescence. Adolescence.
Starting point is 00:21:00 Rage and, you know, anger. So there is no education. There is no peace education in the world. It's really true. You know, it's interesting. I look back on, like, my experience in school, and a lot of it was just a lot of factual information, but they never taught me how to be like a person
Starting point is 00:21:19 or to look at myself or to have a conversation with myself or how to see if, like, something is going on with a friend and how I can be a good friend. Is that just an American education system or do you find that that's almost everywhere? It's almost now everywhere. Universally it is there. Maybe a little less or more in places,
Starting point is 00:21:38 but the lack of education in human values you can see prevalent. And when that is given, you know, you will find there is no evil person. I always say that evil is only a veil around the goodness of a person. Amen. I believe that.
Starting point is 00:22:01 Do you think that we come sometimes from a past life with other stuff? Or do you think it's new? Yeah, we do. We do? Oh, man. Because that's a bummer because I could be dealing
Starting point is 00:22:13 with somebody else's junk. You know, from junk, you can create something. Okay, that's fair. Yeah. Here, on this creation, nothing is a waste. But imagine saying... And in the waste also brings wealth. A waste also brings wealth.
Starting point is 00:22:33 That's a good point. Manor, huh? Look at manure. Manure. But it's kind of, imagine you land at the airport and you look at your luggage and it's someone else's, you know? That shows lack of awareness. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:22:48 I think you're right. That kind of does show. Yeah. I've probably picked up somebody else's. And if someone picks up viewers, you call them a thief. Right? Yeah, that's true. Yeah, I think I'm trying to think of some other fears that I have.
Starting point is 00:23:05 I think I have fears sometimes of like letting go of the past. That's something that's been very tough for me in my life. Like sometimes I think I've let go of the past, but it comes back again, you know, some of the same feelings. Like even though I've offered like forgiveness and things like that, sometimes it still comes back. Do you know what I'm talking about? Yeah, I know. I very well understand that. Delima, you know, that's why I say forgiveness cannot just happen from your thinking, from your intellect.
Starting point is 00:23:37 It has to come from within your feeling level. And that can happen when you do meditation, do the breathing. Really? Yeah. And how does breathing help you heal from the past? Because, you know, the emotions which are supposed. stuck in our system that need to be released.
Starting point is 00:23:58 And breath is the best tool. Mind is so abstract. You can't catch hold of the mind and do anything about it. You know, you can't, you know, do something with your own mind by the mind. Right. It's like a, yeah.
Starting point is 00:24:12 That's ridiculous. It's like trying to grab your hand with your hand. With your hat. Of course, you have another hand to hand. Oh, that's good. Okay. But with the breath, it is much easier. because breathing has a pattern for every emotion.
Starting point is 00:24:28 You know, when you are happy, your breath moves with a different rhythm. Is that true that breathing has a pattern for every emotion? Correct. See, when you are happy, how do you breathe? When you are angry. Yeah. See, you know, your emotions and the breathing has deep relations. And they have sensation in the body also.
Starting point is 00:24:50 That's why attending to the breath and rhythm, of the breath, creates magic. And what you think is so hard to forgive, forgive, forget, and all that things become, as a matter of fact, so easy. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:25:08 Oh, yeah, man. It's like, I know it's like, yeah, sometimes you just forget to breathe, you know? Yeah. We use only 30% of our lung capacity. We don't even breathe. Is that true? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:25:21 We use 30% of our lung capacity? Yeah, yeah. That's what scientists say. So breathing and meditation combined with meditation makes a big difference. That's the reason there's been programs are, you know, in big demand and popular with people because they get a great benefit out of it. We are working with the war veterans. You guys have been working with the war veterans.
Starting point is 00:25:47 Yeah, war veterans. Yeah, take me through that experience that you had with some of those war veterans. I know you've had a lot of experiences. I know with like incorporating new schools for children. I know some of the different lore. But yeah, take me through what were you guys doing with war veterans? You know, war veterans, the PTSD syndrome in them. The PTSD?
Starting point is 00:26:06 PTSD syndrome. They have been suffering a lot with that. You know, there are two movies made on that. Almost sunrise is one of that where a war veteran is saying the transformation that has happened in his own life. Almost sunrise? Almost sunrise. I'm not familiar with that one. It's a good movie?
Starting point is 00:26:25 Yeah, it was there in, you know, many. Yeah. Okay, I'll check it out. Almost sunrise. So that's a one. But you've had experience doing this, right? Yeah, yeah. You know, I have got so many letters from the families of the veterans.
Starting point is 00:26:43 They say, thank you, Guru Deb. We got our son back. Thanks for getting my wife, my husband back. These are the letters, you know, because they would hold up in their own basement. They would not come and have dinner with their own family. That moral wound was so deep in them. Just in four days or five days of breathing technique, they were back, you know. They could erase all those bad memories and they could become strong and get back with their families.
Starting point is 00:27:15 About 8,000 of them we have taught in this country and you should see the the joy in the eyes of those people, the family, it's so fulfilling, you know, so see that. Hot-bombing. And was that a certain program that you guys started? Yeah, he started this, started this Welcome Home Troops. Welcome Home Troops is the name of the program?
Starting point is 00:27:38 Yeah. And that was just in the U.S.? Yeah, this was U.S., no, we did also in Canada, in some places in Europe as well. Project Welcome Home Troops offers the power, breath, workshop as a resilience building program specifically designed to address the needs of returning
Starting point is 00:27:54 combat veterans. It offers practical breath work tools that decrease the stress, anxiety, and sleep problems that many returning veterans experience. Wow, well, thank you for that. I know I have a close friend right now who's dealing with a lot of that, a lot of past trauma. It's, it's kind of fascinating how the body stores so much trauma. Why does the body want to store trauma? This is asking why both eyes are in one side. Yeah, yeah, that's true. Yeah, I guess if one were back here, it would be more helpful, huh? That's what it is.
Starting point is 00:28:27 It does, you know. A body has a photographic memory. Whatever you feed it, that's what it takes. And if you keep putting your attention on negative things and your body is full of those negative vibes. And you go to the beach and you look at the sunset, to spend time with the nature, your body responds to that.
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Starting point is 00:31:40 that I'm ashamed of or that I wish I hadn't done and it'll just make me feel like, I don't know. It's like almost getting struck by lightning, you know? It's like just getting so disappointed in myself. I understand that. I understand. You get like to shame shivers kind of. You know what I'm talking about like?
Starting point is 00:31:55 Yeah. You know what? When you did that, something wrong, you are not the same person that you are now. You are ignorant. You had no wisdom. You had no control over your emotions. So you did that.
Starting point is 00:32:13 But now, at this moment, you're different. No, there are two aspects in us. One is that which is different all the time. But changes all the time. And one that doesn't change at all. The aspect that doesn't change in you is all good. Oh, really? It's like a river.
Starting point is 00:32:38 It's the old same. Mississippi River, old river. But the water there is new. Like that, the Theo I'm seeing is new. It's not the same Theo as yesterday's. Amen. You know, there is a beautiful story about Lord Buddha about this. Have you heard about that?
Starting point is 00:32:56 Lord Budapides. Lord Buddha's story. You know Buddha? Buddha. Oh, Buddha. Oh, yeah, I heard of them. You have heard Buddha's story on this? No, you want to tell me it, please?
Starting point is 00:33:07 Yeah, you want to? Yes, please. Okay. Thank you. Buddha was teaching meditation. There were 10,000 people in his congregation.
Starting point is 00:33:18 Then one elderly man came and he was so angry because his sons, instead of helping him in the business, they came, they were trying to do meditation there. So he came and he was so upset and he stood in front of Buddha and got angry and
Starting point is 00:33:34 just spoiled my son's life and my life and he spat on Buddha's face. Buddha didn't react He was just smiling So The gentleman Went back home That night
Starting point is 00:33:48 The very vibration of Buddha Brought something in him It just stuck him I said I yelled at him But he was so calm There is something
Starting point is 00:34:00 You know There's something very ethereal About Lord Buddha That impacted him So he felt so bad He felt so guilty So next day he comes and says
Starting point is 00:34:11 I'm so sorry I did will you please forgive me and Buddha said no I can't forgive you everyone else got shot Buddha's principle is to forgive no he's saying no I can't forgive
Starting point is 00:34:28 and Lord Buddha said you see you are not the same person you are here now yesterday and I was not the same person who was there yesterday So if I ever meet the person who spat on the person who's pet, I will tell that person to forgive that person.
Starting point is 00:34:51 So everything is changing. So you do mistakes in life. From that you learn, number one. Another thing you have done in a state of unconsciousness, ignorance. Yeah. So we just move on. It's not just enough to forgive others.
Starting point is 00:35:10 we have to forgive ourselves also. Self forgiveness. Self forgiveness. I have a tough time with that. I think I hold a lot of resentment against myself. Sometimes for things that I can't, that were a long time ago, I just like, I'll think like, man,
Starting point is 00:35:25 I wish I could have figured that out, or I wish I could have done better, or it's like I always have my expectations so high so I can never achieve them, so I'm always falling short. You know, a little bit of guilt is okay. that keeps you moving, but not too much. How much guilt you should have?
Starting point is 00:35:46 Just as much as a salt or tobasco in your... It's a flavor. It's a flavor. But not a meal. No, a meal. So when guilt bothers you, what you have to know is wake up and see, the whole past is like a dream.
Starting point is 00:36:05 Isn't it? Some pleasant things happen. Some unpleasant things happen. None of them exist now. here. Right? Right. What's here now is new.
Starting point is 00:36:15 Either you are reeling in rage of anger, what others did, or what you did, guilt of what you did. Both these eats your consciousness and spoils the present and the future. And so wisdom is seeing
Starting point is 00:36:34 this whole thing as a dream or a drama which happened. and finished. But the person inside of you is untouched by all that. I see what you're saying. And of course it has brought some pain to others.
Starting point is 00:36:55 If you feel you have bought pain to others. Okay, now you bring some comfort to others. Giving comfort is what compensates for the pain. Yeah. So no point in brooding over it, regretting the past, regret causes a lot of toxins in our own body.
Starting point is 00:37:18 And it blurs our vision. It doesn't help us to be happy now or, you know, more compassionate also. So again, here meditation, breathing helps you to completely reverse these impressions in mind. And make you feel that you are a mirror, not a photograph. You know? You are not a polaride photography. You take something and you stay with that photo. No, your consciousness is like a mirror.
Starting point is 00:37:52 You have many lives, many times. You have done many mistakes. And every mistake you have learnt and you have come up. Out of it. So not latch on to that, but see forwards. And see, this world is so beautiful. There are beautiful people around. And there are many who are doing the same mistake you were doing before.
Starting point is 00:38:12 and how we can help them to come out of those mistakes. That's the gift that we have now is we already did it and we know better. Yeah. And we know different and we can share. Correct. Because you have a beautiful person inside, you know. You are a beautiful person. You think so?
Starting point is 00:38:31 Oh, yeah, definitely. Oh, thanks, man. Yeah, I think yeah. You have the feeling, you have the emotion, you have love. and that's what you know though everyone has love not everybody is able to manifest it
Starting point is 00:38:49 yeah yeah how are ways do you think that we can love ourselves better do you feel like or is that a big question love is not an act it simply have to realize
Starting point is 00:39:02 love is not a what it's not an act it is not something that you do to say though all actions are expression of love but not love. Love is what you are. That's your nature.
Starting point is 00:39:19 Like your body is made up of amino acid, protein, carbohydrates. Your consciousness is made up of love. So love isn't really found in our body like in our, it's not like it's in us, but it's not in our... It's what you are. Ah. Listen, all the negative emotions are just a distortion of love. Greed.
Starting point is 00:39:41 What do you think greed is? You love objects more than people. all for yourself. So your love is off. Yeah. You got to tune your love better. Your love is in wrong place. Yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:39:55 Narcissism is what? You love yourself too much. More than others. Jealousy is what? You want everything for yourself? So love gets distorted and forms all these arrogance, anger.
Starting point is 00:40:09 Anger is what? It's nothing but love. It's just love with a knife. Yeah. You know? Love for perfection brings anger for imperfection. That's something I've struggled with. Because you love perfection so much.
Starting point is 00:40:28 Any imperfection brings up the anger inside of you. Well, it makes me feel like I could have done better. Something could be better. I'm always looking for like, okay, this could be different, this could be more, this could be less. You are punishing yourself too much. I am. I'm punishing myself a lot. Every time you get angry, for someone else's mistake or your mistake,
Starting point is 00:40:51 you are taking a toll of your own mind and your own body. So this is where we should say, I'll stop doing this. And we say, okay, I offer all the past to God. You know, what does God want? God doesn't want a promise from you. God just say, drop everything. Drop the past. God wants us to let go of the past?
Starting point is 00:41:14 Let go of the past. and know that the love of God is with you. Yeah, do you think that that's what puts the love inside of us? It's God, did it? God is love. Love is God and so are you. You are made in the image of God means you are love too. Oh, yeah.
Starting point is 00:41:33 That's cool, huh? It's kind of cool. It makes you feel good when you think about that. Sometimes I don't even think about that enough, you know, that God cared enough that he would make us. It's pretty fascinating. Yeah. It's pretty cool of him.
Starting point is 00:41:48 We don't have to think God has someone up sitting up in the heaven and trying to give you a finger, and it's only the Michelangelo painting. God is love, and you can never be away from God. You can close your eyes and you can turn your face away, but it's there. Like air, like space, how can you go away from space? Can you go away from space?
Starting point is 00:42:15 No, I'm in it right now. Yeah. And I'm still in it. Yeah. And just realizing that pure energy, love is all, always with us, all around us. And that's what meditation does. If we meditate for a period of time, this awareness wakes up inside us that, then there is no other.
Starting point is 00:42:36 Everyone is part of you. What is the feeling of the awakening of the awareness? What does it feel? It just feels very normal. What does it feel like? Very normal. It feels normal. How do you notice that you have?
Starting point is 00:42:49 You start smiling more, maybe? Yeah, I don't feel any walls between you and others. You don't feel like how you feel with your own family. That's what you feel with everybody. You don't have anything to show off. There's no barriers between you and other. Because you're all family then. Yeah, everybody's part of you.
Starting point is 00:43:13 More than a family, I tell you. More than a family. More than a family. is sometimes something else that scares me is that I'm not living like whatever God wants me to do like I'm not living like I'm not doing what God wants me to do
Starting point is 00:43:29 Don't be too hard on yourself It's too hard, yeah shouldn't be too hard on yourself You know? Yeah, I am, people tell me that a lot Yeah, you are doing good and you continue to do good You can, you should do more to
Starting point is 00:43:44 whenever it feels Because when you love what you are doing, you always feel you have to do more. That's a sign of love. It is? It never says, oh, I have done enough. When you say, I have done enough, that means somewhere you are retrieving from doing. Ah. Your love has found a boundary.
Starting point is 00:44:09 But when you're not feeling that, it means that you're still giving. Yeah, you'll always feel you can do more. And that's a good feeling? That's a good feeling. That's a good feeling. Okay. It's always good to have the feeling. I have to do more for the world, for the people, for the ones you love.
Starting point is 00:44:29 That's good to have that. And what one has to get over is, I did wrong, I did bad, or wish I had, regret. Yeah. We should come out as a regret and have a positive attention of what we want to do. And you have that. Amen. Sometimes we look for all. When it comes to relationships, I'm going to pivot a little bit.
Starting point is 00:44:59 And thank you so much for your time today. And thank you for helping me think about some things, you know. Yeah, sometimes it's nice to have a voice like to help you think about something, you know. We can't do it by ourselves, you know. Sometimes I try to do so much by myself. It's like, I can do it. I can do it, I can do it, but I can't. You know, I can't do it all by myself.
Starting point is 00:45:20 Of course. In this world, we're all interdependent. The whole world is interdependent. I can't grow my own, you know, cotton. I had to get my clothes done by somebody. I don't stitch my own clothes. So, but, you know, that's what the world is all about. Yeah, someone grows food for you.
Starting point is 00:45:44 And we have this illusion Just giving a little bill And we think If it is all mine No but Still, you have done some help to them But they have done something for you I think
Starting point is 00:45:58 That sense of interdependency In the whole world Of all of humanity Is not what we need to recognize And realize it If we do this Conflicts will just Evaporate
Starting point is 00:46:13 Yeah, because we need each other. Yeah, if you need each other, you wouldn't want to get rid of each other. Correct. Yeah. Where do you think that evil to want to cause harm? Where does that come from? Because there's a lot of harm out there right now, and I think more than ever we're seeing it because of devices. We see so much more harm than we did maybe 30 years ago.
Starting point is 00:46:35 Yeah, you're right. You're right. You're right. And it makes us hurt, I think. So we're walking around sometimes with hurt that's maybe something. something we shouldn't have seen, but at least now we are aware. So it's kind of... That shows, you know, the rage in the minds and hearts of people.
Starting point is 00:46:53 The rage. See, neither at home nor at school, no one teaches you how to get rid of your negative feelings. You get rid of rage. Nobody tells you how to calm you down. How to take care of this stuff here. That's where it's very, very pertinent now to do. to teach children how to manage their moods. You know, our young people are swinging on one side
Starting point is 00:47:21 from depression and suicidal tendencies on the other side, rage and violence. We are swinging in these two extremes. We have to help them to get out of both days and be normal, happy individuals. Yeah, it just feels like we got, it feels like we took a wrong turn. we can turn better.
Starting point is 00:47:49 Yeah, we can turn better, yeah. There is some lore that you were part of stopping a war in Columbia. Can you take me through some of that? There were two million people of internally displaced people in Colombia. They were all with anger, rage, and a lot of suffering because of the far conflict. This has been happening for 52 years. Because of the FARC conflict, yeah?
Starting point is 00:48:17 Bring that up just so I can let our listeners know what it was. And thank you for your time today, brother. Thank you. I needed this. It's all US. The Colombian armed conflict is one of the longest running ongoing arm conflicts in the world. It officially began in 1964 with the creation of two major guerrilla groups, the revolutionary armed forces of Colombia.
Starting point is 00:48:41 Fuerzas Armadas, revolutioniaris. revolutionarayas de Colombia, that's FARC, founded by rebel leader Manuel Marulanda and the National Liberation Army. Emmanuel, yeah. So this was going on
Starting point is 00:48:57 for a long time. For a very long time. So a lot of people were internally displaced. So I went to our group of people were doing the trauma relief for them and helping them
Starting point is 00:49:07 with meditation. So that was a very big success. So the government of Columbia gave me their highest civilian award for this work. So you went there to do it. Was it scary when you went there? It was the Columbia, I mean, the capital, Bogota was almost like in a shamble.
Starting point is 00:49:26 You could never recognize that city when you compare from what it is today, you know. And the people were hurting. People were hurting. So when we, then after that, there was a formal handshake with the president. It was supposed to loss for five minutes. when we were there for about 50 minutes we spoke to him
Starting point is 00:49:47 and then the president Santos said I don't think there is any hope with these people because so many people tried the peace process and they are not agreeing
Starting point is 00:49:58 so I said why not I go and try so he said you can do it any help would welcome so I took a flight from there I chartered a plane and went to Cuba
Starting point is 00:50:10 to meet with this guerrillas. There were 15 of them commandos. First they said no.
Starting point is 00:50:18 We don't have anything to do with we don't have anything to do with the spiritual leader. Yeah,
Starting point is 00:50:25 it's kind of taboo. Taboo. We don't want to so they said our philosophy is Karl Marx and
Starting point is 00:50:35 their philosophy is karma? Carmaks. Carmax. Carmax? Carmax? Cal Carl Max, you know?
Starting point is 00:50:44 Carl Max? The communist philosophy. Okay. What is the communist philosophy? You know it? Karl Marx. Karl Marx.
Starting point is 00:50:54 Oh, Marxism. Marxism. Yeah, what was the Marxist philosophy? Let me just dictate it so that our listeners can follow along. Marxism, a social, political, and economic philosophy created by Karl Marx. It states that society is split into two main groups, the working class who do the labor and the owners who take the profits. So he said,
Starting point is 00:51:14 you know, our ideal is call marks. So we don't need to... Yeah, we're happy. We're happy with all. Because they have everything. So, but then at that evening in Havana I had a public talk in the university. So they sent two people to check me out
Starting point is 00:51:31 what this guy is talking about coming from India. So they came and had given some talk and then I let people through a meditation then they told them maybe we should meet him that he can influence the government and others to stop the bombing to make the story short
Starting point is 00:51:54 so they came to meet with me in the beginning they were very aggressive and then for next three days they were with me when we did some meditations I spoke to them I told them look your goal is
Starting point is 00:52:10 social cause, social upliftment. I'm with you. Everybody wants social justice. But the path you have chosen, the violence, is what, I cannot take it,
Starting point is 00:52:21 I cannot digest it. Why don't you try a different route of non-violence, Gandhian principle of non-violence? First they say no. But then they went back, they thought,
Starting point is 00:52:35 then they came the next day and said, yes, we will. So they announced the bilateral ceasefire. And then we did a forgiveness process. I got some of the victims flow in and the FARC.
Starting point is 00:52:50 They put them face to face. There was forgiveness process. They forgave each other. And that was a very moving instant. Then we had that forgiveness process all over. The peace deal happened. There is a movie coming about this. Someone has made a movie.
Starting point is 00:53:08 Really? It's going to come. It's called White. White. White. Columbia and they're all making a movie. Wow, that's just so exciting, huh? And how long did the whole process take? I would say a few months, a couple of months.
Starting point is 00:53:28 Wow. Yeah, there's just so much conflict in the world. White, there we go. The director is, go back, by Montubassi. Montu Basi. Yes. We'll be the director. Oh, that's...
Starting point is 00:53:44 Oh, wow. And there's an actor named Vikrant Massey. He's acting as me. He's playing you. He better do a good job. But if he doesn't, it's okay. Yeah, it's okay. It's okay.
Starting point is 00:53:58 Oh, he's handsome, man. You think it's same? Yeah, yeah, same guy. He's pretty handsome, huh? Okay, man. You think I am not? No, no, it's good. Hey, very close.
Starting point is 00:54:09 It's very close. Very close. One thing I think sometimes about, like, I think about relationships a lot, right? Like I'm not married yet, but maybe hopefully one day, you know? And, uh, good luck. Good luck to you. Thank you.
Starting point is 00:54:27 I appreciate it. Yeah, yeah. I think I need a little bit of luck maybe. But sometimes I notice it's like I have a, I have a tougher time probably with, like I'll notice sometimes instead of trying to figure out how to love myself, I will try to find someone else and have them, like, I'm not going to figure out how to love myself, but you love me. You know what I'm saying, kind of? Does it, like, I'm going to put the responsibility on someone else, like, it's their responsibility to love me instead
Starting point is 00:55:01 of my responsibility. Does that make any sense if I say it to you? Like, say if I meet someone, right? I see the confusion there. I see, I keep seeing this all the time. I, You do. People, yeah, everywhere. Because it's easier. It's easier for me to say, hey, you love me, instead of me say, hey, let me make sure that I love me. You want to love somebody. You should take it for granted.
Starting point is 00:55:25 They love you. Their expression of love may be different, but never question someone's love for you. Wait, say it again for me, Guru Dev. When you want to love someone, you should take it for granted. They also love you. their way of expression, their way of, or their expression of love may be different, but never questions the love of a person for you.
Starting point is 00:55:50 Do you see what I'm saying? Because then no matter what, they love me. Yeah. Right. Oh, they love me. They might express it. Maybe they don't call. They don't express,
Starting point is 00:55:58 they don't know how to express it properly. They love me. Yeah, they don't text me. They don't text me back, bud, they love me. That's okay. That's okay. You know, in that sense, your love for them grows.
Starting point is 00:56:11 And it also makes the other person comfortable. Just suppose if someone asks you to give the proof of your love for them, it's so hard, it's such a burden on your head, right? Yeah. Suppose your girlfriend, every day asks you to prove that, do you really love me? Do you really love me? Then you will go like this, oh my God.
Starting point is 00:56:33 Yeah. How more I can convince, you know? What else I can do to convince? this person, I love them. See, you know? Expression of love can never be complete because love is infinite.
Starting point is 00:56:49 So, and the whole humanity from ages they've been trying to encapsule word, love in words, in actions, in everything. Still, you find love
Starting point is 00:57:03 is intangible. And it cannot be captually So that's why you say from self-love, the universal love, they're all interconnected. So now I should think, say if I text a girl or something and she doesn't text me back, it's like, oh, she loves me, she just doesn't tell me, she just doesn't tell me. She doesn't know yet. Yeah. But you wait in patience.
Starting point is 00:57:33 You know, you were thought. Maybe I'll wait a few lifetimes. Maybe. That's okay. See, again, you're putting that intention in you. Oh, you're right, huh? So many lifetimes. Why?
Starting point is 00:57:43 In this lifetime, you want to achieve something. You put the positive thought. See, everything is vibrations in this world. Do you think that's true that we can summon other, do you believe that? Yeah, everything is vibration. You know, all our actions are, they go after our thoughts, right? Yes. Our intentions.
Starting point is 00:58:08 They precede our intentions. I mean, they follow our intentions. Our intentions precede all our actions. Most of the actions, at least. So you love somebody, you are attracted to someone, you love someone, then you have to express yourself and express in such a way that it is acceptable to others. Yes, that's the key. Acceptable.
Starting point is 00:58:34 Acceptable to other. You know, we have to make a distinction here. First one is attraction and then attachment. And then comes emotional entanglement or love. So sometimes it might not even be love. It might just be attraction. Attraction, yeah. Yeah, and sometimes you just want somebody to valid,
Starting point is 00:58:59 you just want somebody to make you feel okay. You just want somebody to... There's nothing wrong in it. So what? It's okay. It's okay. It's okay. Everything doesn't have to be a problem, huh?
Starting point is 00:59:11 Nothing need to be a problem. Can take everything as a challenge. Yeah. Yeah. What do you think, when you look at relationships, maybe in your own life or in other people that you've met or witnessed, what is one of the keys to the most success in a relationship? When both of them have a common goal to us,
Starting point is 00:59:40 not focused on each other too much, you know, it's like two lines focused on each other, they'll meet and they'll go apart. But if they have a common goal, then they go for infinity. They go parallel. That is one thing. They should have a purpose, a goal.
Starting point is 00:59:59 Because attraction doesn't last forever. It has its time, right? You're hungry and you eat food and that's done. can't be perpetually hungry. So in the same way, attraction also is time-bound. But if you both go on a machine, then that lasts long, number one.
Starting point is 01:00:23 Second, stop policing each other. That is when you focus just on each other too much, then you'll start policing each other. That's like. Third is understanding, creating a room, giving a space for others. to be what they are. Let them grow.
Starting point is 01:00:44 If you stand by a plant like this, it's going to maybe get nervous. Yeah, don't stifle someone with your love. Yeah, if you stand by a plant with a magnifying glass, maybe it's going to get nervous. It may not get nervous, you are wasting your time. It will take its own time when it wants to grow. Yeah, yeah, that's true, that's true. Yeah, man, I think we all like, I think we look at it.
Starting point is 01:01:10 a lot. I know that in my life I look a lot for love from the outside. There's nothing wrong about that. It's okay. It's okay. It's okay. That's what now you are need is. It's a good so and it's a good thing to search for. I'm not looking for something bad. Yeah. I'm just looking for yeah. We just want. Yeah. That's what we want. And you when you find it, don't start doubting it. Oh, that's what I'll do too. Paramount Plus is your streaming home for the NFL on CBS all season long. That's right, football fans, stream your live local CBS games on Paramount Plus every NFL Sunday and stay locked into all the action right through the AFC championship game. Will the Patriots take the next
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Starting point is 01:05:41 It's like, oh, maybe you should do this at some point, you know? And it could be something bad, it could be, or for me it would be bad, like, because I'm in recovery programs, so it could be, you know, drugs, alcohol, you know, just things like that. Behaviors I don't want to do. Sometimes I have a seed that, like, a little idea will come up, like with a little bell and be like, hey, you know.
Starting point is 01:06:00 or he'll wear something fancy like look what I'm wearing you know like a little idea like a little lady will walk by this an idea will walk by and try to get me to follow you know what I'm talking about
Starting point is 01:06:12 and sometimes it's a bad behavior you know these ideas come and your will and your intellect says no this is not good for you so you stay away from it you know if it's so compelling
Starting point is 01:06:32 why it is so compelling because it is promising some joy, some pleasure. Yes, that's part of it. So then you go for it. Then automatically you run towards it. Here, you need to get a better joy. Better, you know, some, I mean dealing with
Starting point is 01:06:49 addictions, people with addictions and all the time. You say, okay, I'm so addicted to alcohol. I tell them, I'll give you a better brand of intoxicant that will never let you go or do. So when they come and do breathing, they meditate, they find that ecstasy inside them. So they don't need any dependence on some substance. That altered state of happiness comes from within you
Starting point is 01:07:20 with your own breath and meditation. So you're saying a lot of it is you have to replace it with something else of value. Of value of larger joy. More important, more joy. More important, more joyful. when it is when it bothers so much first of all
Starting point is 01:07:36 your discrimination itself will stop you tell me that part again please your wisdom alone will stop is enough to stop sometimes sometimes when it doesn't do then the
Starting point is 01:07:49 better joy will just take you out of it you'll just feel see you won't care you won't care you know as you grow up you're not
Starting point is 01:08:03 craving for candies or chocolates like you were doing when you were a young boy, right? It doesn't bother you anymore. Yeah, I don't even like it. Other things are more important. Yeah. Ah, so you have to find something more important. More important.
Starting point is 01:08:22 I know you guys have done a lot of work with people who are in recovery and addiction. Tell me about some of your work that you guys that you and your institute have done? Yeah, I've, you know, I've trained 38,000. teachers, volunteers. We're all volunteers and teachers and they all
Starting point is 01:08:39 run the whole thing. And they run the, it's a recovery community? The recovery, they do the teachings in the schools, in colleges, sky campuses they do in all the universities. For the sky breathing? Sky breathing. Wow. The university. We are in
Starting point is 01:08:55 170 universities. Let's go. Congratulations. Yeah, young people feel so good, so, such a different when they feel such a disconnect with their parents with their pulse, you know, after doing their breathing they feel so good.
Starting point is 01:09:11 You know, so many parents have returned to me. You know, our children are behaving so much better now. They've been very kind. They're not aggressive. They don't have that rage and anger like before. They've been very kind. They were helpful in nature.
Starting point is 01:09:29 All these good qualities in a person start to manifest. And all that can come from our breathing. Come, come when we get rid of our stress. Stress is the cause of a lot of violence. Stress is the cause of all violence. Simple, Matthew, clarity in mind, purity in heart, sincerity in action. That's my formula.
Starting point is 01:09:53 Clarity in mind, purity in heart, sincerity in action. How do we make sure our actions are sincere? What can we do? What can we ask ourselves, do you think? Being spontaneous. Oh, spontaneous. Sometimes, yeah, I get a, sometimes, yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:10:16 Is meditation, is it, does it have a stronger effect on younger people, do you think? Young or old. Doesn't matter? It doesn't matter. I've seen a lot of videos of children doing intuition tests. Yeah. Can you take me down some of the understanding of intuition tests? And you guys have an institute for intuition.
Starting point is 01:10:35 Is that it? Correct. Institute of Absolute Intelligence. We have... It's called Institute for Absolute Intelligence. First of all, I would love absolute intelligence. So please, what grade do you have to be in?
Starting point is 01:10:48 I'll go. The children and teenager, up to 18 years of age we take them. And it's good. And, you know... And it's a full school? No, no. It's just 18 days program.
Starting point is 01:11:03 Okay, it's an 18 days program. And so what is the program like, take me through it The program is they learn some breathing technique, they learn some meditation technique, and they learn how they can use their intuitive ability, the gut feeling, much more, stronger. And, you know, gut feeling, which is unfalible,
Starting point is 01:11:22 that doesn't fail. That's what gut feeling is all about. What is our gut feeling? What's it made out of? We all have it, but we don't use it. Many times it becomes very obscure. It's very real, though, Because sometimes you get a feeling like this is no
Starting point is 01:11:38 and sometimes you get a feeling a lot of time this is unsure. Those are the two I get. I never get a yes. Never mind. Have you ever seen people? No, no, you will get us also there. Do you think so?
Starting point is 01:11:52 Maybe you're right. Maybe I just not. Maybe I gotta, yeah, you're probably right. No for something, then S for something else, right? But what is that feeling? What is that feeling do you think? I never even think about it. It's the same feeling you get like,
Starting point is 01:12:06 like when your heart is hurt, it's like, it's a feeling that's like, it's not. See, your head says something, your intellect saying, your rational mind says something. But your gut feeling just overthrows that, you know, all your rational, logical thinking is overthrown by some gut feeling. And then you follow it and you find, hey, boy, that was right. Then you call it gut feeling. And how do you guys help children to understand that better? Like, are there certain practices you use?
Starting point is 01:12:36 I will teach them a set of practices. 15 minutes per day and then they get it. Wow. Because they don't have strong craving or aversion. Their mind is still very fresh, you know. It's like learning a ballet dance. When the body is very flexible, they can learn the ballet very easily. So for an adult, it will take some more time to bend there.
Starting point is 01:13:03 Yeah. Yeah, joints. Like that. With kids, they are easy to learn. But not that adults can all. They too can. They too can. But if you're a long-term meditator, yeah, you can.
Starting point is 01:13:17 What's the youngest age you've seen someone start meditation at? Meditation with 10, 12, something. 10 or 12 years old? That's a good age. That's good age. But they have different meditation. But in the teenage or in 20s and 30s, 30s, that's good. You have to do it.
Starting point is 01:13:36 proper meditations, full meditations. So we have, that's why we had designed 67 different workshops which would suit all different ages and, you know, conditions. And is that through the Institute of Absolute Intelligence? Or that is through the Art of Living? Art of Living.
Starting point is 01:13:54 Art of Living. Yeah. So tell me a little bit more about the Art of Living just so I understand it. It was a download that you took in during your period of silence. Correct, correct. And since then, it spawned
Starting point is 01:14:05 countless endeavors and outreach over the years. What does it constitute now, the art of living? Art of living, you know, the very aim is to make life a celebration. Educate people to make life a celebration. Get over anger and anxiety. Do you think it was always there, the anger and anxiety from the beginning of time, or do you think we picked it up? Well, it's there.
Starting point is 01:14:35 It's being there. only you need to learn how to overcome them. Anger about the past and anxiety about the future. When we learn how to rise over there, you know, waves have always been there. Only you need to learn how to self. So, main thing, let me put it in a small capsule. The Art of Living Foundation is a group of volunteers. largest volunteer-based organization.
Starting point is 01:15:08 They help wherever there is disaster, there is problem, trauma. And then the main thing is to make violence-free and stress-free society. We want to eliminate stress in society. Violence-free, stress-free society. Disease-free body. Make people healthy with breathing and meditation
Starting point is 01:15:31 and all the thing. And then confusion-free mind. They're confused about everything, you know, and bringing clarity to mind and inhibition-free intellect, you know. People carry on different type of inhibition about gender inhibition, about age inhibition, you know. People of different age don't mix with everybody, you see. They all find their own levels.
Starting point is 01:15:57 So there is a gap between the generations. The Art of Living brings that thing together, make better understanding. and inhibition between race, religion, gender, all that inhibition to be done away with. Listen, we are in the 21st century where we see the technology has united the whole globe into a village. Now we still hold on to those sort of small-mindedness and prejudice.
Starting point is 01:16:30 That's no good, you know, to helping people to get over their prejudices. all type of prejudice. Trauma-free memory and sorrow-free soul. That's what I would say. Let me repeat it. Violence-free society, disease-free body, confusion-free mind, inhibition-free intellect,
Starting point is 01:16:52 trauma-free memory and sorrow-free soul. Amen. That's it. Sign me up. Thank you. I love those goals. I believe that those are probably in our heart. It feels like those are all of our goals.
Starting point is 01:17:04 follow our goals, yeah. That's what we won. It feels like that's how we should live. Correct. It's amazing that we got so off course sometimes. And that's how, you know, people from 182 countries have taken this up. How many volunteers do you have total
Starting point is 01:17:21 that work within your program, within your organization? Oh, millions. We had a big world culture festival. I wanted to bring everyone together. Every four years we did this. The first one we had was in... The first one you had?
Starting point is 01:17:38 We had in India. That was in 2006. Oh, yeah. In Madras? In Bangalore. In Bangalore we had. I never been to Bangalore. It's nice.
Starting point is 01:17:50 You must come. It's the I.T. capital of India. It's a Silicon Valley of India. Really? Yeah. Oh, good. I'm going to stay with you. Yeah, you must.
Starting point is 01:17:59 Oh, good. We have a nice campus there. You can see two elephants there. You can go to World. World Culture Festival. That's it right there? This is D.C. We had this in Washington, D.C.
Starting point is 01:18:13 And... Hey. Yeah. What a beautiful group of people, huh? We had 1.1 million people joined in D.C. And see, look at that. Did you really? Can you go back a little bit?
Starting point is 01:18:28 Yeah, let's see it again. And 17,000 artists. Let's go. There's Gary Busey. Yeah, this is in Washington, D.C. That's beautiful. Then we had in New Delhi, just imagine how many it was. It was 36,602 artists on this one.
Starting point is 01:18:55 Wow. You put this on? Yeah. On a stage, which was six, soccer grounds seven acres of stage. This is unbelievable
Starting point is 01:19:10 and people who are just listening and who can't see this video this is, I mean it's absolutely it looks like the Olympics. Yeah. It was like the Olympics of culture. Yeah. And I wanted all the
Starting point is 01:19:24 you know, immature artists to come up on stage from 155 countries. This is from Lithuania. Look at that's Meatloaf. Wow, this is beautiful. Thank you for sharing.
Starting point is 01:19:41 This is amazing. And so every four years this happens? Yeah. So this was in New Delhi, 10 years back, and we had 3.75 million people in attendance for this program. Gosh. So it's growing. And they all meditated. They all meditated.
Starting point is 01:19:59 At the same time? At the same time. Just imagine the sea of people so, silent for 20 minutes, it was something. It was wonderful. It's powerful. Very powerful. Same in D.C. we had in the National Mall. 1.1 million people sitting and meditating was very rewarding experience for people. See, this is what we need to do, make life more a celebration, bring people of all culture,
Starting point is 01:20:28 tradition, music. Well, the truth is that it is a celebration. That's the real truth. The truth is that we're here in the middle of nowhere, you know, in the middle of existence, and we get to see each other for just a little bit. And we're sitting here and we're worried about it. And I'm part of the problem, but we're worried about it. We're like whining. We're crying. We're upset.
Starting point is 01:20:48 But it's like this is the magic part of the magic trick. This isn't like the practice and this is the ta-da. You know, this is the, when a magician goes like that, that's where we are right now. we're living, this is the magic. So it is kind of fascinating that we get stuck in these other places, you know, and this is such a nice reminder. Yeah. Spending time with you is such a nice reminder that that's not where we need to be and that's
Starting point is 01:21:15 not where we have to be. It is a celebration. The fact you get to see someone that loves you sometimes, that's a celebration, you know? You know, you don't need to seek love. You know, there are two types of joy. Let me, I want to bring this up to you. Okay. There are two types of joy.
Starting point is 01:21:31 One type of happiness is that you get when you get something. You get a gift on a Christmas day or you get your birthday. You get a new hat or something. You get some gift. Caramels. Getting something really brings happiness to you, right? People give you a compliment. You go, wow.
Starting point is 01:21:51 Yeah. Right? But there is another type of happiness that comes to you when you give. That's more mature happiness, I would say. that's akin to them the joy of a grandmother you know your grandmother when you go home
Starting point is 01:22:09 mom she makes nice dishes she makes a cake for you and all that her joy is in feeding you not eating by herself right right so the joy of giving is where we need to grow into life because that is more
Starting point is 01:22:25 so similarly when you are here to give love and not wanting love you realize the source of love is within your life is very short so let me give love as much as I can to everybody around me you will see you will get ten times more love towards you coming towards you and you believe that's true yeah got it and sometimes we're afraid to I think even give like there's been times where I'm afraid to give because I won't I guess it comes from a place
Starting point is 01:22:54 then I won't have something you know no you give only what you can yeah you know if people will expect you to give something which you cannot give, you simply say sorry, sorry, I cannot give. Someone says, you know, I have a problem, I have my health issue, you come and help me. You will have to say, no, I can't. But whatever you can, you will give.
Starting point is 01:23:16 You will do anyway, right? Yeah. What's the longest that someone can meditate for? 24 hours. You know, I would say you meditate for 20, 20, 20, minutes, 25 minutes, 30 minutes, that's good enough for you. But you know, after practice, then that state of calmness, inner calmness continues, even when you're acting and you're talking and you're doing anything. Well, I notice it gives me a little more space between moments if I'm
Starting point is 01:23:48 going to think of an answer. I'm not as reactive. It gives me a little more like, let me think, Let me make sure. Let me be certain. Let me. Let me. Even just let me. Just that, you know. Just be.
Starting point is 01:24:02 Yeah. It gives me a little bit of space before I react sometimes if I'm having a strong meditation practice. Yeah. We live in a time right now when people are very anxious. There's a lot of anxiety going on. Have you seen that grow in your lifetime? Has it always been there? You think just things have looked differently or different things have caused it?
Starting point is 01:24:22 Or do you feel like we're at a time that feels a little more... It's more on a larger scale now. Okay. It was not so prevalent. When I was a student, I mean, even now I think I'm a student, in a student days you could see that there was no mental health issues. There was no... I've never heard schizophrenia, bipolar or breakdown due to nervous...
Starting point is 01:24:50 Yes, a lot of... It sounds very new. All these things are today in every corner you find them. It's more intense and more prevalent everywhere. What do you think are the causes of some of these things? Have you noticed? No, whatever the causes, I feel there is a solution for it. And that's what I would say, this meditation, breathing, engaging in art and culture and service activity.
Starting point is 01:25:17 All this is help. And it's helping. Yeah, I definitely notice getting... And helping people get out of... You know, we started in India, drug-free India campaign. Drug-free India? Drug-free India campaigns. What's the most popular drug in India?
Starting point is 01:25:33 What are they using over there? All kinds of drugs are there. Really? Yeah. Anything good? Like, or anything not good, sorry. I'm not too familiar about all the way, but I'm only familiar about what has helped people all this.
Starting point is 01:25:46 That's what I meant. Yeah. And our programs, you know, for them. We have, we conducted a program, yes, plus program, youth empowerment seminar. Say it one more time, what's it called? Youth Empowerment Seminar. Youth Empowerment Seminar.
Starting point is 01:25:58 Yes, yes, program. Yes, program. So that has helped. You know, it includes the skybread technique in that and many other things. And with the children, yeah, you see. Oh, beautiful. With the kids, I gave them seven things to take home. You know, when I say, make one new friend every day.
Starting point is 01:26:20 You know, first question I asked children. How many friends do you have? They count on their finger, three, four, five. I think, come on, you are going to a school for so many hours, and so many years, with several thousand kids there, and you couldn't be friendly with all of them. Yeah, get out there. And how can you be friendly with eight billion people
Starting point is 01:26:48 when you come out of the school? Yeah. So that just kindles that awareness in them. Then they take a vow to make one new friend every day. And they become friendly by nature. Yeah, because it's a practice. It's not friendship for something, but to be friendly in nature.
Starting point is 01:27:11 Got it. Oh, I see what you're saying. By making new friends, even trying to make new friends, you are creating the ability within yourself to be friendly. Only in general. What's a way that we can start to get to know ourselves? One thing that I think might be causing some discomfort in our society and in our time is that we have less of a relationship with ourselves.
Starting point is 01:27:41 I think when we didn't use to have so much technology and we didn't have our cell phones so readily available and usable all the time, we had more time to process. things. I wouldn't blame on the cell phones or social media, no. You wouldn't? No, no. They're all there that it's a tool. It depends on how you use it.
Starting point is 01:28:02 If you excessively use anything, you're going to harm yourself. In all this, you must take some time, spend real time with people, engage in music, dance, meditation, breathing, and some time just for yourself. and to be with nature. See, working for environment is also something that aids in your development. You know, if you care for plants, if you care for nature, you know, it shifts your energy level. One of the things it seems like is we spend so much time trying to get to like trying to achieve some level in life, you know, that's kind of that we made up. Yeah, you know, like a societal level. you know, so I think we miss out on a lot of the things that really do mean the most to us.
Starting point is 01:28:52 You don't need to have four more. It's okay. You can have a goal. Okay, I want to achieve it. But being feverish about it is not going to help you. Yeah. You have a goal. You want to go to Hollywood from here.
Starting point is 01:29:06 And if you keep thinking the whole time I'm going to Hollywood, Hollywood, you will miss the exit. You will go somewhere else. You will land up somewhere else, right? So it's okay to have an intention, but not make it. feverish. Feverishly grip you a whole life, hold your mind. You know, how
Starting point is 01:29:26 you make it something better in your life? So again here and you relax and you cool down calm down. You still can have a passion but then you go with awareness.
Starting point is 01:29:44 What's the first, what's the way that someone like, how do someone start to get to know their self, right? What's a way to get to know yourself? Like, how do you start to have a conversation with yourself? Does that make... See, what's not yourself? Does that make sense to you when I ask you that?
Starting point is 01:30:00 Okay. So go ahead, I'm sorry? No, how to find yourself? First of all, see, what is not yourself? You're not just your body. Your body's changing. You know, every cell in our body is changing. The mind is changing.
Starting point is 01:30:18 All the thoughts are changing. Emotions are changing. So by negation, it's like almost going to what is the purpose of your life. If you ask yourself, what is the purpose of my life? I would say go with negation. This is not the purpose. This is not the purpose. This is not the purpose.
Starting point is 01:30:39 Then you find. In the same way, negation, you settle into a space deep within you. Which is serene, calm. fullness, once a glimpse of that, that's it. Then nothing can disturb you. Nothing can take away the smile from you. And that's achieved through meditation, through a relationship with your consciousness?
Starting point is 01:31:06 Consciousness. Yeah. Do you believe that... Meditation is one of the tool. Meditation is one of the tools? One of the tool. What are some of the other ones to nurture that relationship? Other thing, it can come to you as a gift.
Starting point is 01:31:20 give from above and then you are intelligent or your analytical mind will also help to
Starting point is 01:31:31 you know go deep see the futility of other things and then you get to the very core so through knowledge
Starting point is 01:31:41 wisdom music meditation service expressing your love unconditional love in the society All this will contribute to that inner blossoming.
Starting point is 01:31:56 It may appear to be very difficult or very idealistic, but I tell you it's very, very practical. I'm a very practical person. So, though they all appear to be big ideals, but I say it is doable. Okay. Do you have any pets at home? I have two elephants.
Starting point is 01:32:21 You do? We have elephants, hearts, cows, tears, everything. What's the elephants' names? We have one is called Maheshwar. Maheshva? Another is Indrani. The girl is called Rani. Ooh, she sounds cute.
Starting point is 01:32:36 She can play harmonica, you know? Can she? Yeah. Oh, yeah. These women are so talented now. Oh, my gosh. That's her? Yeah.
Starting point is 01:32:46 This is her with the tusk. The tusker. is the other one there is a little tough but they're very cute and do you have a family at home do you have children
Starting point is 01:33:00 no I'm not married oh you're not I'm single like you yeah I hope to remain single the rest of the time also but I have everyone is my family you have a big family yeah big family do you feel like you received
Starting point is 01:33:15 enough like that that was your space in the world for family was just everyone. Yeah. Yeah. That's cool. Before you go, Guru Dev, I know you have this book,
Starting point is 01:33:25 Journey Within, that talks about the essentials of the art of living. Is that a good manual for someone to start to develop their own meditation practice? Yeah, it's good. It just brings
Starting point is 01:33:37 some practical wisdom to your life and whatever you need, whenever you need. Journey Within is a book that people love. You know how it came out? I don't write books.
Starting point is 01:33:47 but you know how it came up we used to you know a group of young people used to get around get around and ask me questions and every Wednesday we had this habit of coming up with some new topic like you said this past week
Starting point is 01:34:05 we used every week we would and then I would send that a roundover to everybody so and that's how this came with seven years of Wednesday knowledge sheets we call it knowledge sheet. So just new topics on Wednesdays you guys would discuss them? Every new topic. We discussed. And then that was compiled into this book. Journey Within, it helps people to, yeah.
Starting point is 01:34:31 So there were kind of a lot of authors of it in some ways, because a lot of people's thoughts were included? There were questions, answers of mine. Got it. They were all questioning me all the time. Okay, got it. That was the one thing, yeah. One thing, I had a great time. I got to visit India once as a student. We went to Madras, Shanai, same place. Yeah. And it was it was amazing. And one of the things I remember the most
Starting point is 01:34:57 was just the children, just how like the happiest kids in the world, I feel like that we saw that. We went to we worked at like some children's homes and we're doing some stuff like that. You guys started a group, like you've started schools over the years called free
Starting point is 01:35:13 schools. Yes. And those are in India? Yeah, in India, in Nepal. and also in other places. And is that a K through 12 or what is the... Yeah, K to 12. And the free schools all over, we have, you know, 150,000 kids studying in the schools. And is meditation part of the curriculum?
Starting point is 01:35:36 A little bit yoga and some meditation. Yes, part of the curriculum. And we have a university also. It's one of the very good university, the happiest campus. Everybody is very happy. service mine and all that stuff. For people, just before you go,
Starting point is 01:35:54 for people that believe that they don't believe they can get out of the mental state that they're in, that's not true, right? Everyone can do you believe? Everyone can feel better. Everyone can feel better. Again, I would say if it's an extreme case, you have to see a doctor,
Starting point is 01:36:14 and if psychiatrists say you have to take medicine, you must take medicine. but this is other than that practices which would first of all prevent you from getting there second it also helps you to recover but it takes practice you have to you have to apply yourself
Starting point is 01:36:33 practice yeah and it's not tough it's not easily people can adopt that I call it the mental hygiene like you have a dental hygiene like that you know kids don't want to bless their teeth the parents have to force them to get into their habit. Got it. Similarly, if you practice doing some breathing and meditation in the morning or afternoon, evening,
Starting point is 01:36:58 once it gets fit in your system, then it becomes a natural thing for you. It's like mental flaws kind of. Mental flaws, yeah. When we leave this life, right? When this body ends, our consciousness has to stay alive. You believe it? if the TV is shut off but still the vibrations
Starting point is 01:37:20 that radiations do remain here right yeah we are just the tubes or the screens the consciousness is what gets projected in it cool so we might see each other again in another time huh thank you thank you so much guru deva I appreciate your time today
Starting point is 01:37:39 thank you very much lovely keep doing the wonderful work you are doing you too brother thank you so much Thank you. Now I'm just floating on the breeze and I feel I'm falling like these leaves I must be cornerstone. I'll share this piece of mind I found I can drop on.

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