This Past Weekend - E540 Sen. JD Vance

Episode Date: October 21, 2024

JD Vance is a United States Senator (R-OH) who is also running for Vice President on the Republican ticket alongside Donald Trump. Before his political career he was a lawyer and author, and wrote the... popular memoir “Hillbilly Elegy” in 2016.  Senator JD Vance joins Theo to talk about how life has changed for him since becoming Donald Trump’s running mate 3 months ago, how his family’s history with addiction shaped his career and beliefs, and the worst fights he’s seen at Ohio State vs. Michigan games.  Sen. JD Vance: https://x.com/JDVance ------------------------------------------------ Tour Dates! https://theovon.com/tour New Merch: https://www.theovonstore.com ------------------------------------------------- Sponsored By: Kalshi: Bet on the election! Get a free $20 bonus with a $100+ deposit http://kalshi.com/theo  Celsius: Go to the Celsius Amazon store to check out all of their flavors. #CELSIUSBrandPartner #CELSIUSLiveFit  https://amzn.to/3HbAtPJ  Prize Picks: First time users, download the PrizePicks app, use code THEO and PrizePicks will instantly give you $50 on your first lineup of $5 or more. https://www.prizepicks.com   Füm: Go to https://www.tryfum.com/theo  to get a free gift with your Journey Pack. Tommy John: Go to http://tommyjohn.com/theo to save 25% off your first order. ShipStation: Get a 60-day free trial at https://www.shipstation.com/theo. Thanks to ShipStation for sponsoring the show! Yellowstone: Don’t miss the epic return of Yellowstone on Sunday, November 10th at 8/7c on Paramount Network. ------------------------------------------------- Music: “Shine” by Bishop Gunn Bishop Gunn - Shine ------------------------------------------------ Submit your funny videos, TikToks, questions and topics you'd like to hear on the podcast to: tpwproducer@gmail.com Hit the Hotline: 985-664-9503 Video Hotline for Theo Upload here: https://www.theovon.com/fan-upload Send mail to: This Past Weekend 1906 Glen Echo Rd PO Box #159359 Nashville, TN 37215 ------------------------------------------------ Find Theo: Website: https://theovon.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/theovon Facebook: https://facebook.com/theovon Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thispastweekend Twitter: https://twitter.com/theovon YouTube: https://youtube.com/theovon Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheoVonClips Shorts Channel: https://bit.ly/3ClUj8z ------------------------------------------------ Producer: Zach https://www.instagram.com/zachdpowers Producer: Nick https://www.instagram.com/realnickdavis/ Producer: Ben https://www.instagram.com/benbeckermusic/  Producer: Trevyn https://www.instagram.com/trevyn.s/  Producer: Colin https://instagram.com/colin_reiner Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:39 and we would love to have them in studio as well. and we would love to have them in studio as well. Today's guest is a Senator from the state of Ohio. He's currently on the Republican ticket for Vice President. He's a Yale graduate. He's a Marine. He's an author. He wrote the book, Hillbilly Elegy. I've read about half of it.
Starting point is 00:01:04 And I'm really grateful to spend time with him today to discuss some issues and get to know him. Today's guest is Mr. JD Vance. ["Shine On Me"] I love this guy. I've been singing since the beginning And now I've been moving away But then it starts to become more interesting, like the last woman we had on like trains cats around the country Really?
Starting point is 00:01:37 With a traveling cat circus, yeah That's pretty amazing So that's who you're following up, you know? That's right That's way more interesting than a politician, man. That's just so you know where you are. You know, Mr. Vance in the top and the only piece, call me JD. All right.
Starting point is 00:01:51 Just so you know where you are JD in the existence of things. Um, JD Vance, thanks for coming in today, man. Yeah, man. It's good to be here. I really appreciate it. I just went to, uh, I just went to Lambeau field the other day. You've been there. Uh, I don't think I ever had been to Lambeau field, but I think I'm going to Lambeau Field the other day. You ever been there? I don't think I ever had been to Lambeau Field,
Starting point is 00:02:07 but I think I'm going to Lambeau Field tomorrow. Nuh-uh. Yeah, yeah. I'm pretty sure, I mean, running for vice president, you never know where you are day to day, but I'm pretty sure we're going to the Packers game tomorrow. Wow. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:02:19 Yeah. It was so good. Did you have fun? It's amazing, yeah. We just went, I had a show there the night on a Saturday night last Saturday, so we just got to go It's amazing. Yeah. We just went. I had a show there the night on a Saturday night last Saturday. So we just got to go do a tour. OK.
Starting point is 00:02:28 But yeah, it's just so wild. You drive into this, you know, it's a small city. Yeah. And you're like, wait, there's an NFL team here. It doesn't make sense, really. Yeah. Like the NFL team in some ways, right? I mean, the Packers are so popular.
Starting point is 00:02:43 But no, I'm looking forward to going. I mean, it's kind of like a political rite of passage because I have a guy serving with the Senate, Ron Johnson, really good dude. He's a Senator? He's a Senator. From Wisconsin? From Wisconsin.
Starting point is 00:02:56 And he's just talking about like, you know, you go to a, you do the tailgate thing at Lambeau Field if you're running for office in Wisconsin. And Wisconsin is like a big battleground state. So I'm gonna go and check it out. We're bringing our kids with us actually, which I don't know what we're gonna do with our kids because there's seven, four, and two.
Starting point is 00:03:11 I don't think they're gonna be that into a tailgate. So maybe- Fill them with cheese, dude. You know what I'm saying? So maybe my wife will take them somewhere and I'll go have fun at the tailgate, but I'm looking forward to it. Because I'm a pretty big football fan.
Starting point is 00:03:23 Lambeau Field is like, you know. Oh yeah, when we saw it- It's a big deal. Oh, I didn't know what to do when we saw it I didn't know yeah like and there was some kids were crying and stuff and The parents were like kind of wiping their cheeks with cheese or whatever. Oh, but it was like Yeah, it was really interesting but wait where they were crying because they were so excited to be at Lambo Yeah, they were crying. I I so are you are you big football guy? Yeah. Okay, so I'm a big college football guy Yeah, I'm more of a college football guy, but I like both
Starting point is 00:03:53 So I'm an Ohio State guy. Oh, yeah, you know born and raised in Ohio But you know there's like the Ohio State Michigan rivalries one of the big big rivalries and this happens of course after After the election, so Iries and this happens of course, after the election. So I'm hoping to go to the game, but you talk about like a kid crying in a football field. This reminds me of a story. It was like one of my dear friends and he's like otherwise a nice guy,
Starting point is 00:04:16 but Ohio State Michigan just turns into a, he turns into a total animal. So this is 2006. Who is he, the senator you're talking about? No, no, no, he's a totally different guy. This is a buddy I've known since I was like five years old. Okay. Just a guy back home. We go to the Ohio State Michigan game. We're number one. They're number two. I think we win that game like 42-39. It's a very, very tight game. I don't remember the exact score. And we're leaving and there's this family and this kid is like, you know,
Starting point is 00:04:42 there's a family of Michigan fans and this kid is crying and You know, my buddy goes up to him and he you know I'm like, oh, you know Bill's gonna be like sweet to this family like welcome to Ohio Glad you guys come to the game. Sorry didn't work out him and and my buddy goes I'm are you are you sad that Michigan lost the little boy goes? Yeah, and he says well, maybe next time you won't root for a team That sucks We just try to be nicer to the new car. But then like you realize that's actually not a concierge. No, no.
Starting point is 00:05:15 But that's why Ohio State and Michigan hate each other, right? Because that kid was probably nine years old. So this is 2006. I mean, he's, I don't know, close to 25 now. He probably still remembers that asshole from Ohio State when he was crying after a game. And like, that's what makes the rivalry. And now that kid is Tom Brady. That's right, exactly. That's how it gets funny. Oh, dude, I remember the craziest thing I ever saw was there was a Mexican father and son, bawling crying when the rock came back one night at WWE.
Starting point is 00:05:49 Yeah. Standing there together, same height, bawling crying, dude. And it was, they both had belts on and it was like, yeah. Yeah. I mean, those are, you know, it's like the little rituals that actually make life worth it, man. Oh, yeah. But definitely, I mean, like my son, he's seven now, but I took him to the Ohio State-Michigan game. I think the last, I took him to the game last year, but then we watch it even when he's like four years old. And Michigan has beat Ohio State the last three years.
Starting point is 00:06:21 And so it's just like, you know, the first time I ever saw my kid cry over sports event was last year at the Ohio State-Michigan game. When they beat them? When Michigan beat Ohio State. Yeah. Oh, when you cry when your team wins, that means something is probably, you have parenting issues in your home, I feel like, you know?
Starting point is 00:06:39 That's right. That's definitely right. That's definitely right. But I mean, it's like, I mean, Ohio State just lost a war in a couple, you know, like a week ago, I guess. And you sort of realize, like I get so much joy out of watching sports and like taking my son
Starting point is 00:06:53 to the Ohio State mission games, like one of the coolest moments of my life as a father. But then it almost always ends in a heartbreak. Yeah. Right, because only one team actually wins the championship. And I sometimes wonder like, why do we put ourselves through this? It's so true that such that,
Starting point is 00:07:07 it is such, yeah, at a certain point, the odds are you're gonna face not feeling great. Yeah, absolutely. That it's gonna end. Right, yeah, I mean, like, I guess the one team in my lifetime, like the Bulls in the 90s, Chicago Bulls in the 90s, and the Patriots when they had the Brady Belichick run.
Starting point is 00:07:25 Like most of the time you're actually happy if you're a fan of that team. But I mean, I'm a Bengals fan in pro sports, and they made the Super Bowl a few years ago, and it was so cool. Yeah, I remember that against 49ers. Was it against 49ers? It's funny, I don't even remember who they were playing
Starting point is 00:07:43 against, but I remember they lost at the very end. It was a very close game. We almost pulled it off. But then it's like all the joy turned into complete sadness. Like I'm a grown man on the verge of tears because a fucking sports team that I rooted for lost a game. Like, wake up, man. I wonder what it is.
Starting point is 00:08:02 Maybe it's just like... Sorry, I have to not say the F word. No, it's okay, dude. Make sure people still vote for me. Maybe it's just like. Sorry, I have to not say the F word. No, it's okay, dude. Make sure people still vote for me. If it's too many F bombs, I'm gonna lose too many votes. So I'll try to tone it down. Okay. Yeah, if you say more than seven or eight,
Starting point is 00:08:14 I'll tap you on the shoulder. Thank you, I appreciate it. Dude, oh, well actually my ribs, dude, I've been on almost like just on bed rest the past like eight days because I, I was at the Vanderbilt game when they beat Alabama two weeks ago. That was a big one.
Starting point is 00:08:32 And some guy, I don't even know him, I got a little bit of a look at him and he squeezed me so hard, he kept squeezing me. And I was like, don't squeeze me anymore. And then he squeezed me even more. And you could hear- Was it a happy squeeze or? You could hear my ribs, like, dude, they really-
Starting point is 00:08:52 Like the oxygen leaving your lungs? Yeah. Please don't go, that's on baits. I love you. Ribs that had never been away from me, like they were leaving home for the first time. Wait, but was he squeezing you because he was happy? He was happy.
Starting point is 00:09:03 Okay, so this wasn't like a- So I was smiling, dude. My smile hit, I mean, the more he squeezed my, the edges of my smile, you could hear him ding against my earlobe. Yeah. I mean, he squeezed me as much as somebody could be squeezed. His wife is not doing well if that guy has a wife, I'll tell you that. Because that, anyway, my ribs, I've been having to ice them, dude, it's been, it's been miserable. You may have like actually cracked a rib. I mean, it's so. It sucks, but it was awesome. But it's like, yeah, the pain you go through to be associated with it. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:09:33 I mean, look, my, so like, I've only been to the game in Ann Arbor once and, you know, Ohio State fans again. Oh, is it weird going up in that territory? People throwing beer bottles at us, sometimes full beer cans at us. I had some kid run up, he was like a 19 year old kid, run up from behind me and it had been raining a lot that day
Starting point is 00:09:54 and he had like, he'd taken a chunk of mud out of the ground and shoved it in my mouth. I mean, this again, this is like what the sports rival we built around is moments like this, but we had, That's insane. We had, I guess, won four, this is like what the sports rival years are built around is moments like this. But we We had I guess won four years in a row reforestation. Yeah But man we won four years in a row and this this girl she's like, you know 22 years old She gets in my buddy's face and she said this is my senior year You ruined my college career
Starting point is 00:10:25 because you guys beat us four years in a row. And then she takes a swing at him and a cop tackles this 22 year old girl down the bleachers. And I'm just like, man, again, yeah. People get injured, people get injured at sporting events. It's crazy. Oh yeah, I thought that for a second I thought you were describing a wedding in Appalachia.
Starting point is 00:10:43 That's what I thought for a second I thought you were describing a wedding in Appalachia. That's what I thought for a second. We've had some of those too. I'm just joking. We had Billy Strings in. He's a guy who does a lot of picking. He does like a lot of guitar picking and stuff. He talked a lot about his environment where he grew up. He grew up in like his area had a lot of addiction and stuff like that. What part of West Virginia is he from? Oh he's from Lansing, Michigan.
Starting point is 00:11:09 But he grew up, he grew up in Kentucky. I'm ruining it. Well but a lot of people, this is like the story of my life, but a lot of people from Michigan, Ohio, Pennsylvania, their families are all from West Virginia, East Kentucky, East Tennessee, and then they moved up for the factory jobs. Oh, yeah. Like, there's a really cool song by Dwight Yocum called a reading, writing route 23. And it's like, in some ways, it's like the story of my family, because he came
Starting point is 00:11:35 from like two counties over, he moved to central Ohio instead of southern Ohio. But, um, I mean, it's like millions of people, the massive, massive thing. So I wouldn't be surprised even that guy's from Michigan, if he's got like West Virginia family, I don't know that guy though. Yeah. It's a massive, massive thing. So I wouldn't be surprised, even that guy's from Michigan, if he's got like West Virginia family. I don't know that guy though. Yeah, Billy Strings, he's great. He's a new guy too. And he'll take you fishing if you wanna go.
Starting point is 00:11:52 But he just has a fascinating story of just like growing up and what his life was like and playing music through it all and learning music and how that kind of kept him going and kept him, gave him something to do really. Yeah, why was that migration? Why did people migrate from there to? Yeah, it was, I mean, at least the biggest thing is you think about it, so World War II ends, right?
Starting point is 00:12:18 America's the biggest industrial power in the world. And a lot of these factories are coming online close to where they had access to waterways because you got to ship iron ore and coal and all that stuff. So a lot of stuff around the Great Lakes, that's Michigan, Ohio, a lot of coal in Pennsylvania. And so you had all these steel mills and textile factories and automobile plants, of course, in Michigan, and all this stuff is getting built. And then it's actually, what's interesting about it is you had a lot of black people come from the deep South,
Starting point is 00:12:52 and then a lot of primarily white people coming from Appalachia, and they sort of migrated together to all these factories. And like, you know, there are books written in Detroit about, you know, the, you've got like basically the hillbillies from Appalachia, the black people from the deep south, and they're just kind of like tossed in to Detroit.
Starting point is 00:13:12 And like a lot of what we think of as sort of modern Detroit culture is like the fusion of those two groups of people who just dropped in in massive, massive numbers. And it's like one of the stories of like, why is Chicago such a big blues town? Because all the black folks from the deep south were moving in and they were bringing their music with them. That's why Chicago became such a capital for blues
Starting point is 00:13:34 is it's not really like, it's because all those folks who came from the Delta. So it's, but basically jobs, man. I mean, there wasn't, my mama talked about this. That's what I called my grandmother. She talked a lot about how, you know, if you were growing up in Eastern Kentucky in the thirties and forties,
Starting point is 00:13:49 it was like basically you go work in the mines or get out. Like that was all there was at that time. Wow. And so my grandfather went and worked at a steel mill, you know, built a pretty good life, was a union welder for 40 years. And then- Oh yeah, we just had a union president on.
Starting point is 00:14:05 Oh yeah. I listened to that one. I like that guy. Sean O'Brien. Yeah. He's wild. Yeah, he is. He is wild.
Starting point is 00:14:10 He's I mean, it's funny, man. You can tell he's from Boston. He's got that thick Boston accent. Yeah. But he's a, he's a, he's a cool dude. Um, I actually, I've talked to Sean a couple of times and, you know, it's like normally, and you know, it it's like normally Democrats are considered sort of the pro-union and then 30 years ago,
Starting point is 00:14:28 Republicans were the anti-union. And one of the things I've been talking a lot about, people like Sean is a lot of union members are coming over to the Republican side. And I think the Republican party, we gotta do frankly a better job at kind of welcoming people. But I think Trump is doing a really good job
Starting point is 00:14:45 at making union voters feel at home in our coalition, which is like an interesting part of what, you know, what we're all about. I mean, I think, you know, so Sean's the head of the Teamsters, I think. Yeah. And there was some poll they did just of Teamsters members where it's like 65% of Teamsters in Pennsylvania
Starting point is 00:15:01 are gonna vote for Trump. That's a crazy turnaround from even 15 years ago. Yeah, they couldn't endorse, usually they, there's only been two times where they haven't endorsed a candidate in the past 30 years, I think, or maybe past 50 years. But this would be one of those times, they said, I think, because it's just, it's too split.
Starting point is 00:15:19 So do you have to ask Trump places you can go to promote or to campaign? What does that relation, how does that work? Yeah, no, it's actually mostly driven at like the staff level, right? And so a strategy kind of? Yeah, it's like strategy. So, so okay, there are seven big battleground states. It's the three in the Midwest or Michigan, Wisconsin, Pennsylvania, and then Georgia, Arizona, Nevada, and North Carolina. And so it's like, you look at, a little bit it's driven by polling,
Starting point is 00:15:50 a little bit it's driven on just like, where do you think this guy's gonna do the best? And I've spent a ton of my time, like I think I did like six or five or six events just in Pennsylvania the past week and a half. So I've spent a lot of time in Pennsylvania, a lot of time in Michigan, a lot of time in Wisconsin. I'm actually trying to get Kid Rock to go with me
Starting point is 00:16:07 to Michigan in a couple days, because he's a Michigan guy. Oh, he'll go. Yeah, he probably will. Yeah, he'll go, dude. He texted me last night, you can't see, but my cousin, for those of you who are watching, my cousin's here, she's more like my big sister.
Starting point is 00:16:23 But we're hanging out, I went to a wedding last night. Oh nice. My little cousin got married. And Kid Rock sends me a text message. He's like, hey, if you're in Nashville, because I guess he knew I was doing this podcast. Well some people were going over there. What do you mind I was texting?
Starting point is 00:16:37 He's like, hey, we're going over to Bob's. And I was like, I gotta prepare for this podcast tomorrow. Vance is coming on. Yeah, maybe that's how he knew, because he texted me and I was like, oh man, I want to fly to Nashville right now just so I can party with Kid Rock, right? I mean, that's an experience of a lifetime.
Starting point is 00:16:54 So now I'm trying to get him to go to Michigan with me. Oh, I'm sure he probably would, man. Oh yeah, dude, he's one of a kind, man. Yeah, but anyway, to answer your question, it's basically you go where the campaign needs you to go. Right. And like, yeah, I could say no, but I'm like running for vice president. So I try to do as much as I can just to be helpful.
Starting point is 00:17:13 And do you all have do you go with Donald Trump? Do you guys go separately a lot of times? Do you guys have like strategy talks in the mornings and stuff like is it? What is it like? Yeah, it's more like doubles tennis kind of. It's more divide and conquer, right? So it's like, you got two people and you can be in two places, so you might as well do it. But if we got like a really big event,
Starting point is 00:17:35 like, you know, the president got shot in Bucks County, or sorry. Which time are you talking about? The first time. Okay. The first time. Yeah, cause they really. He got shot in Pennsylvania.
Starting point is 00:17:47 And so we went out to Pennsylvania together to do the big rally and then Elon Musk was there. Oh, and Butler? And Butler, and Butler PA, yes. In Butler, Pennsylvania. And then, you know, like I was in Bucks County, Pennsylvania like a week earlier, but that was just me. Right.
Starting point is 00:18:02 Right, so you sort of go, you know, some places you go together, but most of the time we're sort of dividing and conquering. How with the attempts that they've had on Trump's on Trump's life and safety, how much of a concern has that been for you? Like, it's like because if I'm standing next to a guy and they're shooting at him, I'm next to him. Yeah. You know? Yeah. I know what you mean. I mean, I try to think about it, man, because.
Starting point is 00:18:26 Really? Yeah, it's just, it's one of these things you can't control. And if you're gonna do this job, like you gotta go out and talk to a lot of people and you gotta go try to win, right? I mean, like I fundamentally believe that we're trying to win to help the country. So either you, you know, you either do it
Starting point is 00:18:42 or you don't do it. And if you do it, you just kinda accept it. I mean, I don't think there's, I don't know, maybe I'm just, this is you don't do it. And if you do it, you just kind of accept it. I mean, I don't think there's, I don't know, maybe this is just me rationalizing it. I don't feel like there's that big of a target on my back, but who the hell knows. Well, you're tall, are you a little taller than him or not? I think we're about the same height.
Starting point is 00:18:56 Okay. Yeah. Which is funny, man, the weird shit people say about you on the internet. Like the thing, there was a long time, maybe even still today, if you Google, how tall is JD Vance, it would say five foot seven. It says 60 now.
Starting point is 00:19:09 Somebody updated it then. Somebody updated it. Yeah. Okay, the first headline is JD Vance is tall, but Americans are getting shorter. What the hell is, the internet's a weird ass place. It also says Joe Biden is six foot sleep. I don't know if that's a height.
Starting point is 00:19:23 Well, see, this is the thing though. How tall is JD Vance? There was like a conspiracy on the internet that I was a really short guy, but no I'm about six two. I think yeah, once you get better people helping you get you height. You get a little bit of height. I'm six feet tall, yeah.
Starting point is 00:19:38 I'm six feet tall. If this rib gets back in place I'm six foot and a half inch, brother, I'll tell you that. So there's, did you have to ask your wife about that? Like say, hey, did she have to weigh in? Cause that's a little, cause I'm trying to think of other jobs where you get shot at really, military, domestic violence, I guess, and then politician.
Starting point is 00:20:01 Politician, I mean, normally politicians don't get shot at that much, but apparently it's coming back. Apparently it's coming back, man. That's not like a good thing to come back to, you know what I mean? But I also mean, I definitely grew up, like I grew up in Ohio, but I spent a lot of time in Eastern Kentucky.
Starting point is 00:20:16 And if you go to like, there's a courthouse in Bretholomew County, Kentucky, I mean, beautiful part of the country, like kind of in the mountains. And there's like a plaque, like a historical plaque that's basically like, you know, on this site, multiple people were killed in the Brethet County blood feud. So the early, you know, the early 20th century.
Starting point is 00:20:32 So I don't know, you just kind of accept it as bad as it is. I mean, I want us to get away from it, right, as a country, but as an individual candidate, I think you just have to kind of accept it. I mean, I'll tell you. I guess if you're going into battle, you're going into battle. That's right. Yeah, that's right You just got to do what you got to do. Yeah, but again, I'm you know, I'm like I'm a I'm a person of faith
Starting point is 00:20:52 I don't talk about it that that much. I don't wear it on my sleeve I always sort of mistrust people who wear it too much on their sleeve, but if you like, you know if God wants me to View be vice president. I'll be vice president. If not, then I won't. You just gotta work your ass off and let the chips fall where they may. Yeah, I saw where you had, your mom was out and you congratulated her on,
Starting point is 00:21:14 she almost has 10 years of sobriety, you said? That's right, yeah. She's a- In January? January of 2025, she will be 10 years clean and sober. And that's really funny because you notice she's standing next to you there. That's Mike Johnson, the Speaker of the House. Oh yeah.
Starting point is 00:21:28 And like my family's not very political. So they bring her up to this booth and like two chairs over is Donald Trump. Of course she knows who that is, but she shakes Mike Johnson's hand and he's like, you know, lovely to meet you. And she says, lovely to meet you too. Who are you?
Starting point is 00:21:42 Do you work in politics? Yeah. Yeah. I was like, mom, that you work in politics? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's like, mom, that's the speaker of the house. Okay. She's like, well, I'll take a, I'll take a McDouble.
Starting point is 00:21:52 Yeah. That's right. Yeah. What? You're working in a Diet Coke with extra ice. Yeah. Yeah. What was, yeah, I know your mom's,
Starting point is 00:22:05 your mom struggled with alcoholism, right? Addiction? Mostly, yeah, mostly non-alcohol drugs. I never saw her drink that much, but I mean, you know, pills, opioids, heroin. What's it been like to watch her get sober? What's that been like? It's amazing, man, it's amazing.
Starting point is 00:22:22 I know you're, what are you, you're recovery, right? Yep, I'm in recovery. Yeah, a lot of my family's in it too. So I think yeah I can relate a lot to your story to be honest with you. Yeah but I mean look, I mean there was a time, like I always you know, always wanted to grow up and have a family and I remember when I was a teenager thinking to myself, there's no way mom's gonna be around to meet. Like if I have kids, there's no way my mom's ever gonna meet them. And she's now like, she's now a great grandmother to the three grandkids. But I don't know, man, it's just,
Starting point is 00:22:53 if you've known anybody in this circumstance, it sounds like you know very well what it's like is, there's like this, there's two feelings that you have, or at least always two feelings I had when mom was going through it is like on the one hand, yeah, she's so smart, she's so funny, and you're just like kind of rooting for her because you just want her to get better.
Starting point is 00:23:11 Then on the other hand, you're just pissed off. It's like, you know, because you don't quite understand it. I think if you're not in recovery yourself, it's hard to fully understand. And you know, so that you'd be frustrated with her one moment and then just desperate for it to get better the next moment, and you're constantly bouncing back
Starting point is 00:23:25 and forth, but man, it's amazing. It really is. I mean, she was at the wedding we were at last night and just having a good time and being her like funny, quirky self. She has a good sense of humor. She's a very good sense of humor. I mean, you know, like the bride and groom
Starting point is 00:23:40 of this really cool tradition where they had like an each table wine bottle with a number on it. And then like at the table one, they'd open that bottle of wine their first anniversary and table two, the second anniversary and so forth. And they had people write stuff in Sharpies on the wine bottle.
Starting point is 00:23:55 I'd never seen that. I thought it was pretty cool little thing. And my mom, I forget what table she was in, but you know, like 10 years down the road. And she just, she writes something on her bottle like, hey, I love you, hopefully I'm still alive when you're drinking this. She's just got like,
Starting point is 00:24:12 it's like a kind of a morbid quirky sense of humor. But yeah, man, it's really amazing. Cause again, I just never, I never thought she'd be alive when I was 40 years old. And she is, and she's got a good relationship with her family and her grandparents, her grandkids, and that's just a very cool thing. Yeah, it's a blessing, man.
Starting point is 00:24:32 That's awesome to see. It is a blessing. It was really cool to see that. Did you ever go to meetings with her? Did she go to, you had been before? Yeah, I've been to a lot of NA meetings. When you were growing up, did you ever go or no? Yeah, I went when I was a kid. I went when I was a teenager. I mean, I've been to a lot actually just in the past few years because
Starting point is 00:24:49 she's, you know, that she's like, you know, she feels like she's really on the other side of it. Yeah. She does a lot with her local NA. I think she's the treasurer, the secretary of her local NA chapter. And I don't, do you ever go to meetings or anything? Oh yeah, I went to one. Okay. I went to one. I was at one last night at eight. Okay. I mean, there's actually a really special community around it, which I really like. And it almost kind of reminds me of church, right? 100%. Where you say these prayers
Starting point is 00:25:15 and you talk about what's going on and there's like this sense of fellowship and community that I think is really awesome. And it's like one of these things where you see just human nature and all of its good sides and its bad sides, right? Because sometimes you have people who come in and they're getting their 24 hour medallion, right?
Starting point is 00:25:36 Which is like, this is the first real period of sobriety I've had in a very long time. Then sometimes you have people celebrating 15, 20, 25 years, and it's just amazing to see. But I don't know if you noticed this, but something I noticed, and it's, you know, it's not to get too political here, but you know, like five, six, seven years ago,
Starting point is 00:26:00 you know, you start noticing this, and then it really started picking up a few years ago where you have somebody who's been say six months or nine months sober and then they don't come to a couple meetings and then they're just dead. And you realize like when people relapse, when mom was in the worst of it, yeah, there was some dangerous shit out there,
Starting point is 00:26:22 but it wasn't nearly as deadly as the stuff that's out there today. And I really worry about that, right? Because think about the second chance I got with my mom, and I really worry that the poison that we've got in the streets now is so dangerous, that a lot of people would have that second chance, but you fall off the wagon once, 15 years ago,
Starting point is 00:26:42 it's like, oh, that sucks, I'm gonna climb back on. Today, you fall off that wagon, it might kill you. And I really worry about that, because I think a lot of good people, you know, like mom, it didn't happen like once, right? It's not like she got clean and sober and that was it. It's a process. Yeah, someone gets to fall off a few times, yeah.
Starting point is 00:26:58 And you gotta get back on. It's a process, man. Yeah, I've had relapses over the years and had to get back on, and it's tough, and one of the tougher things to do is to get back on but it's funny because I think if I don't know if I'd be sober if this stuff weren't killing people to be honest with you. I know that's sad to say, but that keeps me out of the risk of it. You know, it just makes it too. Makes it a little scarier.
Starting point is 00:27:22 Yeah, that's the thing. It makes it scarier. Yeah. You know, it just makes it too. Makes it a little scarier. Yeah, that's the thing. It makes it scarier. But it's also sad that somebody, I mean, this is ridiculous to say probably, that somebody can't, you know, you can't even do cocaine in this country anymore, you know? And that seemed like a crazy thing to say. And don't say it, don't say that.
Starting point is 00:27:40 But I said it, but yeah, but don't say that anymore. I'm gonna steal that line. That's gonna, after the election though, and I, am I gonna win first? But I said it but but yeah, but don't say that anymore. I'm gonna steal that line after the election though, and I First it's unfortunate To be clear those watching I've never done cocaine before. Yeah, and nobody made many mistakes, but not that one nobody's saying yeah, but it's just It's unfortunate. That's that It's um, I don't know. I know what you mean, but it's unfortunate that like, look, everybody makes mistakes.
Starting point is 00:28:09 Everybody makes mistakes, right? And like, I know as a buddy of mine told me about this, hell, this has gotta have been three years ago. It's been a while, but basically what happened is his daughter was like a bridesmaid in a wedding and they were going to this wedding and like the wedding got canceled because a couple of the groomsmen like had terrible overdoses the night before
Starting point is 00:28:37 at the bachelor party because they took some, I mean, like, you know, you can judge and say, oh, they shouldn't have been taking something, but everybody takes something at some point in their lives. Like we don't want it to kill people. We don't want stupid mistakes to kill people. That's sort of like, live and learn. Live and learn from stupid mistakes. Right. You used to be able to live and learn. Yes. Now it becomes a death sentence.
Starting point is 00:28:55 That's what's really, I think, changed about from now to when my mom was struggling with addiction. Why is it so bad? Like, do you know a lot about the fentanyl crisis? I know a fair amount about it. I've worried about it for a long time. I've worked on bills related to it. I mean, there are two basic issues, right? And it's like any business, there's a manufacturer, there's a wholesaler, and then there's the retail, right?
Starting point is 00:29:23 And with fentanyl, it's not, you can't like make fentanyl in a trailer in somebody's basement. Right, that's like, it's not like meth. It takes a really complicated, pretty sophisticated pharmaceutical process. So we know that a lot of it, maybe even most of it the Chinese are making,
Starting point is 00:29:39 meaning Chinese companies, not like necessarily the Chinese government, but they sure as hell know about it. And then they bring it in primarily through the southern border. And the Mexican drug cartels are like the wholesalers, right? Of the Chinese, farm is the manufacturer, the drug cartels are bringing in wholesale style,
Starting point is 00:29:59 and then it makes it in the street level. Wow. And I mean, it's really crazy, man. Like I was talking to a DEA agent about this a couple of years ago, and I think this was in 2022. He was like, look, a few years ago, the cartels were making less than a billion dollars a year. And he's like, in 22, 23, we think they'll make $14 billion a year.
Starting point is 00:30:18 So like an explosion of drug trafficking in this country. And yeah, you hear about stories, and I don't think it happens that much, thank God, but somebody smokes a joint, it's laced with a gun, So like an explosion of drug trafficking in this country. And yeah, you hear about stories and I don't think it happens that much, thank God, but somebody smokes a joint, it's laced with fentanyl, they go into a coma. Oh yeah. I mean, I have seven friends that have,
Starting point is 00:30:34 I have seven friends and not even just like estranged people, you know, like, but not all best friends. Sure. But I have seven friends that overdosed and died from fentanyl. Yeah, yeah. That's me. Right.
Starting point is 00:30:49 And it happened with harder stuff. It happens a lot. Like I think, you know, you hear about it being laced in marijuana, but like not that much. Yeah. But I mean, you're pointing about cocaine, pills, like you have to be careful. Like seriously, it's a huge thing. It's an unbelievable crisis.
Starting point is 00:31:05 And it's like, yeah, you'd think that we'd, I don't know how you fight something like that. Maybe we need to have like a, like a head of like the DEA or something on, maybe he would be able to help, or she would be able to help us figure that out a little bit more. I think it'd be,
Starting point is 00:31:19 that'd be a very interesting conversation. But I think, I think you've got to, I think you got to go to it at the heart. And something, you know, Trump did towards the end of his administration, doesn't get a whole lot of headlines. But I think I think you've got a I think you got to go to it at the heart and something You know Trump did towards the end of his administration doesn't get a whole lot of headlines obviously. I'm biased I think it should get headlines as he was using Economic leverage to try to convince the Chinese to crack down on fentanyl manufacturing because if you get it at the source, right? That's I think really the way to address it. Oh, there's fentanyl in half the bookshelves they make over there, dude.
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Starting point is 00:35:55 But you, I mean, you do that, you go after the drug cartels. The other thing that people don't realize about the cartels, man, is one, we're talking about some very dark and dangerous people. Like this is not some guy who's like dealing, selling joints on a college campus. These are like, they're doing sex trafficking,
Starting point is 00:36:13 they're getting 11, 10-year-old girls involved in the sex trade. Like very evil people. Dictator type of like. Just absolutely vile. And it's like, why are we making it easier for these massive criminal organizations to get richer and richer and richer? Like, we should be trying to make them poor and help people who actually need it. Well, it's also, it's obviously one of the biggest enemies that's, it's like, if there were an enemy that were killing,
Starting point is 00:36:49 if there were somebody shooting into your country every day and killing people, at a certain point you go over there, or you send your military there, or do something to say, hey, we're not gonna let you do this anymore. That's basically what's happening. That's right. Can you imagine if Mexico sent gunmen across the border and killed 70,000 Americans a year, because that's about what dies from fentanyl,
Starting point is 00:37:10 we would be in a major war, right? You know, we just absolutely would be the case. So the other thing that's crazy about this is, so these cartels, and you see this graphic, that's pretty interesting there, but the cartels are gonna start to destabilize the country of Mexico. Like, do you know, do you know the name Pablo Escobar?
Starting point is 00:37:30 Yeah, I do. Okay, so like the Colombian cartels in the 70s were as powerful as like the Colombian government, right? It was a narco state. You don't want that to happen like right at the American southern border, where the drug cartels have more power than the Mexican government.
Starting point is 00:37:45 That's just going to be chaotic. It's going to be basically a warlike atmosphere on our southern border. That's bad news. Well, it's bad news, but it'd be great to figure out a way that to to shut it down. I mean, it just feels like yeah, if that many people are dying each year if it were actual people shooting at these people, yeah, we would send people there in a heartbeat. Right. I mean, and I think that's what we have to, I think not that we have to send people to Mexico, but I think that we actually have to have a military response at the southern border. 100%.
Starting point is 00:38:13 Because these are such vicious people, and I think local law enforcement, they're telling us they're overwhelmed by some of these guys. And we've got to be willing to send our best people, our best fighters, to get control of the southern border. I think that's the most important issue confronting the country, because look,
Starting point is 00:38:29 how do you even measure the human cost of 70,000 people, many of them in the prime of their life? And the ripple effect of it too, in their families. The orphans, the parents that are heartbroken, I mean, how many kids, like this is my story, right? That's why my grandmother raised me, is because my mom struggled with addiction. Luckily my mom got clean You've got hundreds of thousands of children who are being raised by their grandparents or their aunts and uncles like that is an unspeakable Human tragedy man, especially when we can do better. We could do so much better and we're failing right now
Starting point is 00:39:00 And that's you know, the one one of the reasons why'm here, one of the reasons why I'm running. Yeah. What was it like growing up with an alcoholic mother? And no judgment against your mother, this is just to look at it, right? Yeah, yeah, sure. No, I appreciate that. Yeah, what is that like? Is it hard to make a connection with your mom?
Starting point is 00:39:20 What are some of the side effects of that on a child? Yeah, I definitely think there's a, you get very careful about who you allow yourself to get close to, right? That's one big part of it. You're never quite sure whether you can trust the particular situation that you're in, right? So am I still gonna be living in this house
Starting point is 00:39:38 three months from now? If I have somebody, if I give somebody my address, because this is back in the 90s, right? People still wrote letters, postcards, things like that, at least a lot more than they do today. If I give somebody my address, because this is back in the 90s, right, people still wrote letters, postcards, things like that, at least a lot more than they do today. If I give somebody my address, are they going to send me a letter? And I'm not even going to live in this place anymore because we moved around a fair amount.
Starting point is 00:39:54 Right. But I think that, you know, the thing that I took away from it is, I very, even as a young kid, I sort of very neatly divided the world into like three categories of people, right? There were the helpless people, the victims, the people who needed to be helped. There were the bad guys who were preying on the victims.
Starting point is 00:40:15 And then there were the strong people who sort of stood up for everybody else and stood up to the bad guys. That's like, you know, that's overly simplistic. But definitely, you know, I saw my mom growing up very much as this person who was kind of a victim and was being preyed on by bad people, right? And then the person who was sort of looking up for us and standing up for me especially was my grandmother. And I think that attitude of, you know, some people are just not as strong as we wish them to be and bad people are going to prey on them. But it's kind of up to, you know, try to make yourself the person who can look out for people, who can protect people.
Starting point is 00:41:00 And that's always what I wanted to be. That's one thing I think I took from it. Were you able to be that for your mom, did you feel like? You know, not always, certainly. I mean, when I was a- It's a lot of responsibility for a kid. Yeah, when I was a teenager, man,
Starting point is 00:41:12 I was definitely very selfish. I think I got pretty resentful just of the situations. Like, oh, other people have more money than I do. Other people have more stability than I do. Other people, you know, they've got nice cars. We don't have that. So there's definitely like a resentment that comes from it, I think, but I left high school and enlisted in the
Starting point is 00:41:32 Marine Corps, spent four years in the Marine Corps. I think that what that really did for me was just like gave me a cool perspective. And I probably went into the Marine Corps, I was pretty whiny, pretty resentful kid, was pissed off at my mom, was pissed off at all these other people, because I didn't have the things that I thought I should have. And then eventually, yeah, there's me, when I was much skinnier, much better looking.
Starting point is 00:41:54 Oh yeah. The Marines, dude, that was the original Ozempic. That's right, that's right. That's pro-Zempic, dude. That is good, that is good. Marines, the original Zempik, I'm gonna steal that one. But man, yeah, I know I say this all the time dude. If I went back to bootcamp for two months, bootcamp's three months, if I went back to bootcamp for two months,
Starting point is 00:42:14 I'd come out with a six pack. But you know, I've, anyway, so... Semper fat dude. Sorry, that was stupid. And I don't even know if you could even joke about Semper fat dude. Sorry that was stupid. And I don't even know if you can joke about Semper fat. No offense to any Marines. Not at all. No, I'm sure no Marines took offense to that. Yeah, we've done a lot of shows on military bases and stuff and it's usually the Army
Starting point is 00:42:37 just waiting for the Marines to get there to tell them what to do. Yeah, that's right. I know the chain of man, but yeah anyway, so we we we had a Yeah, I think that the way that I noticed it I mean not to get too personal, but like when I So I met my wife in law school. Mm-hmm, and it was like you know I Dated girls in the past, but for her it was like oh my god This is I'm in love with this girl right like I'd known her for a week and I was like, I wanna marry this girl.
Starting point is 00:43:07 Yeah. And there was definitely just an element of like, it took a long time for me to get to a place where I was like, oh, I can actually trust this person, I actually rely on this person, because that's not really the experience that I had grown up, is the people you trusted on, trusted the people you relied on,
Starting point is 00:43:24 they would just kind of disappear. Sometimes through no fault of their own, but sometimes they would just disappear. And so, I don't know if you'd say I have attachment issues, and that's something that definitely I think comes from growing up in a pretty tough, pretty chaotic environment. But the other thing, the flip side of it is,
Starting point is 00:43:43 and again, this is what I talk about the Marine Marine Corps is you have for four years in the Marine Corps You know like like one of the best Marines Maybe the best Marine that I served with is this kid who grew up he was a Puerto Rican guy from the Bronx Was a drug dealer was jewelry or not D. Where jewelry? I mean not with uniform right okay. That's yeah, maybe he did but by the time he you know by the time I met him as a Marine, he had been. But he was like, he had had a much harder life than I had. And there was no bullshit, there was no complaining,
Starting point is 00:44:12 no whining, he was just doing his job and he was a good dude. And you meet a lot of people like that and you start to realize, like in some ways, you know, not having everything handed to you is actually a blessing. And growing up in a tough circumstance and being able to understand that not everybody's always had it easy. I used to be annoyed by that, kind of complaining about it.
Starting point is 00:44:34 Oh yeah, same. Now I sort of see it as like a good thing. Yeah. Right. Because I think I have a different perspective than a lot of people I spend my life around where, you know, they were born to a rich family. They went to a private school, then that, you know, everything was kind of laid out for them. It's kind of good to not have everything laid out for you
Starting point is 00:44:50 because you have to work for it a little bit more. Yeah, that was going to be my next, my follow-up question to that was just like, yeah, what are the positives? Like, and also, so we don't get stuck in like, you know, just in like a Debbie Downer spiral kind of, you know, because it's okay to talk about stuff, but sometimes, you know, it's like things can get kind of like,
Starting point is 00:45:08 where you're just looking at the negative things, but there's usually something positive in everything. Exactly right. And yeah, that's what I was thinking. What were some of the positives of, of having a childhood like that and of being, Yeah. And I guess it would be some self-reliance.
Starting point is 00:45:23 I think, I think it's definitely some self-reliance. I think it's definitely some self-reliance. Awareness probably, which is probably a curse when you're young, because it feels like you have to be kind of scared of stuff, but when you get older, having awareness can be pretty helpful sometimes. Yeah, I've got my head on a swivel, right? I'm always looking around corners,
Starting point is 00:45:39 I'm always kind of worried that things that aren't exactly what they seem, but I think that's made me a little less comfortable, which is a good thing Especially in the in the political life. Oh, yeah Everybody has everybody in politics has a vice that's much worse than alcoholism is the way that I put it But we we release the list Seriously we need to release the f- scene list. That is an important thing. We can go down that rabbit hole.
Starting point is 00:46:12 But anyway, I guess the other thing that I gained from it is, you know, I, I think that I'm just much, I see people as people. And one thing I've picked up on, like I went to law school at Yale, and a lot of my classmates are good people. You're a lawyer also? Yeah, but I sort of, as soon as I went from law school,
Starting point is 00:46:35 I went into the business world. So I never really practiced law. I was mostly a business guy. But like a lot of my friends, they look at people as like, where did you go to school? What do your parents do? What job do you have? What credential do you have?
Starting point is 00:46:49 I've never had that, right? And so when people like talk about politics or policy, they'll be like, oh, well, this person has a PhD. I don't give a shit. They may be smart, but I don't care about- Yeah, PhD is only three, doesn't even spell anything. Yeah, exactly. I don't even, but I don't care about. Yeah, PhD's only three, it doesn't even spell anything. Yeah, exactly. I don't even, but I don't care about the letters.
Starting point is 00:47:08 But like I meet somebody and, oh, they don't have a fancy degree or they don't have a fancy job. I still just naturally care about what they think because the way that I grew up, I just sort of see people as people. Yeah. And I think that's just a very,
Starting point is 00:47:21 it's a perspective that I'm glad that I have. I think it's very much a product of how I grew up. Yeah, I like people that have their own thing. I have like, I don't like, I don't, I don't dislike somebody if they inherited everything. Yeah. But I gravitate more towards people that, that haven't had that experience, I think, because, yeah, I don't know, there's just something a little bit more abnormal about it. I didn't like it when things were handed to people. I guess maybe the truth is,
Starting point is 00:47:53 I got upset when other people had stuff that was handed to them, which probably was just normal stuff to be handed to a kid. Or to, you know, but that made me like, oh, screw that, you know, I'll figure this shit out. You know what I'm saying? Fuck them or whatever. You know what I'm saying?
Starting point is 00:48:10 I'll, you know. I have that exact attitude when I was like 13, 14. Yeah. Yeah. And some of that is, it's just that rebellion at that age. What would you say, and we have a lot of audience members that have struggled with addiction or who, and these days everybody's you can't even like who doesn't have somebody that's in their
Starting point is 00:48:30 family or something that struggle with addiction but what what suggestion or like just advice or thoughts would you give to a young person who has a parent who's who has alcoholism as to how to navigate that. Because I even get messages a lot from people that are like, hey my dad is struggling or this, what do I do? I don't know what to do here, you know. Do you have any thoughts on that? And it's not like you're a specialist. Yeah, I'm not a specialist. I mean here's what I try to do. I mean, take this for what it's worth, but number one is, you gotta,
Starting point is 00:49:10 if you're a kid and you're in an environment where there's a lot of addiction, you gotta make sure that you're taken care of, right? Like, don't get yourself in such a situation where it's not just your parent that is struggling, but it becomes you that's struggling too. Because you can't help them out. You can't help them out unless you're able
Starting point is 00:49:29 to take care of yourself first. That's number one. I think number two is, as hard as it is, man, and shit, I know this very well, because there were times when I had some very angry moments with my mom, don't get resentful, and try to keep your heart as open as possible. Right, you gotta compartmentalize a little bit, right?
Starting point is 00:49:48 There's, yeah, there's the addict version, but then there's the version that, you know, that read you a book when you were a kid, or there's the version that took you to, you know, your favorite movie, or try to hold onto the memories that are completely divorced from the addiction, because I think if you allow yourself
Starting point is 00:50:04 to become totally resentful, then it doesn't just affect them, it starts to affect you too, right? Don't allow your parents' addiction to become something that destroys your life too, in other words. As you've gotta kinda keep your soul intact here. I mean, just practically go to those NA meetings.
Starting point is 00:50:25 I mean, I learned more about mom and her addiction going to those NA meetings and I didn't always, it's not like it was like some eureka moment, oh, I'm not pissed off at you anymore, but you at least understand it a little bit more and you gain some appreciation for what's going on in their life because that's a big part of it. And you also think about NA meanings is just again,
Starting point is 00:50:45 it is human nature and all of its splendor, its virtue and its vice, man. It's just real life. Oh yeah, some dude was selling a boat, the last one I went to, some dude was selling a fucking boat at one of them. It's exactly. And we're like, you can't do,
Starting point is 00:50:57 we're trying to get off of a rug, dude. And yeah, and some guys started bidding on the boat. I'm like, and they had made them take it outside, yeah, because it's outside issues or whatever. But it was like, what is even happening here? Dude, I was in a meeting. Some guy had a fish hook stuck in his fricking cheek, dude. Really?
Starting point is 00:51:14 Yeah. Wow. Yeah. Wow. Man. But he had two weeks clean. Yeah. He'd either had a really bad night or a really good night.
Starting point is 00:51:21 Yeah, definitely. He had both. Jesus. Yeah, it. Both. Jesus. Yeah, it was like that. God dang, it's just like, alright dude. Catch him release, brother. Catch him release. He probably tried to come across the border.
Starting point is 00:51:36 Uh, well, damn it. And I only say that because we had a couple of border patrol agents on here and so we've learned a good bit about it over the years. No, I had a border patrol agent who's clearly, Before you go, He's already, yeah, sorry. No, but I just,
Starting point is 00:51:50 That's a funny story. That statement about trying not to be resentful against your parent, because yeah, once that resentment is the seed that can lead you down some of this, or activate some of the same behaviors in you. That's right, that's right. And I'm not preaching that, but it can activate a lot of,
Starting point is 00:52:08 resentment is just, it's an evil seed. No, that's right. And so so many bad things can happen there because it's just, that's an important message. I never thought of that or heard it before. Well, and what you said earlier about not getting into a negative spiral, I think is really important, just psychologically.
Starting point is 00:52:22 I mean, look, man, I know you had a tough life in a lot of ways. There are certainly some moments in my life that were pretty tough, but I've never, again, I'm not an expert. I've read some books on this stuff. This is not JD Vance's expert opinion. This is just a guy talking, is I really worry
Starting point is 00:52:40 that a lot of the mental health stuff in 2024 is about focusing so much on what's bad in your life that you end up wallowing in it and it becomes a sort of self-reinforcing spiral. Like there's only so much you can, I mean, if bad shit has happened to you, there's only so much you can do to think about it and process it.
Starting point is 00:53:02 And sometimes bad shit happens because it just happens. There's no like rationalizing, there's no like thinking through it. And what I've always found is most helpful is getting outside and going for a walk. Like that made me feel way better than trying to understand why did mom do this thing when she was 13 or when I was 13 years old
Starting point is 00:53:24 and she was, I guess 39 or 36 she would have been when I was 13. But like, why? Right, still harping on it. Yeah, you just, yeah. I gotta go for some walks then. I mean, I go for them, but still. Sometimes you got some ghosts, man, but I feel you.
Starting point is 00:53:40 Yeah, and I've got ghosts too, man, but it's like- But the longer you sit there and look for ghosts, all you, it's still ghosts, it's still a ghost. And it's almost like you find more ghosts, and you keep on finding them. And then it's like, all right, man, I just, I can feel like hanging out with my buddies, go for a walk and have a drink.
Starting point is 00:53:54 Well, you know, not if you're dealing with addiction, but like have a drink of coffee. Just like go, you know, go hang out because I really worry that like the constant wallowing is bad for us. Yeah, we've gotten into this definitely into a constant into a heavy self-help type of vibe. Yeah. You know, like every book is a self-help book because self-help is great. But also you're saying the other side of that is you're saying that something's wrong with me.
Starting point is 00:54:21 Right. And so if you're always looking for ways to improve yourself, which it can be positive to do that. Yeah. wrong with me. Right? Um, and so if you're always looking for ways to improve yourself, which it can be positive to do that, I've noticed in my own life, it's also a way where you're also kind of saying there's always something wrong with you. So I'm in the same way that I'm, Oh, I'm always trying to get better. It's like, I'm, I've obviously created then I'm, I'm, I'm, there's something unachievable. Because I'm always trying to get better. It's such an impossible course.
Starting point is 00:54:47 So really part of me is telling me, oh, there's something wrong with you. So it becomes a little bit more about finding ways to accept myself. You gotta balance it, right? You gotta balance, like obviously there's all things we can work on, but it can become a self-defeating cycle of people.
Starting point is 00:55:01 And I try to just balance it. I mean, like I, like about two years ago, at the end of my Senate campaign, I was just like, I had gotten very overweight. And it's like, I mean, the campaign is hard on the body. You eat Chick-fil-A for breakfast, you eat Wendy's for lunch,
Starting point is 00:55:21 you eat Waffle House for dinner, right? After a while, that starts to catch up with you. And you know, like, I think the- What'd you get at Waffle House just so we know it? Oh man, I'm an All America Special sub grits for home fries, for hash browns. Wow. Yeah, that's- God, I didn't even know they had home fries.
Starting point is 00:55:38 Well, they have hash browns, sorry, they have hash browns, not home fries. Wow, they have home less fries over there, dude. Dude, bro. Okay, that photo home-less fries over there, dude. Dude, bro. That, okay, that second photo from the top, that is the All America special. But again, I'm not a grits guy. So if you swap out the grits for hash browns, they don't charge you anything. Look, dude.
Starting point is 00:55:57 Dude, that is it. That is a meal of champions right there. But your arteries are paying a high tariff, brother. Well, that's a, yes, they are. But anyway, the point, I- Do you get raisin toast or stick with that regular toast? Your arteries are paying a high tariff. Well, that's okay. Yes, they are. Yes, they are. But anyway, the point- Do you get raisin toast or stick with that regular toast? I get regular toast.
Starting point is 00:56:09 Yeah, I just put a lot of jam on it. Wow. I'm not a big raisin guy. Yeah. You like raisins? I like, I mean, cause I like grapes that have been through something. You know, it's just who I am, you know?
Starting point is 00:56:19 But, so yeah, I guess I do like it, you know? I guess I like my, I like my grapes, you know, nice and clean and unaffected. Oh, I guess I do like it, you know? I guess I like my grapes, you know, nice and clean and unaffected. Oh, I like grapes of wrath. You know, which are basically raisins. Those are basically raisins. But anyway, I bring that up because it's like, you can get into a spiral
Starting point is 00:56:38 where it's like, oh, I'm unhealthy, and you beat up on yourself about it. But like, there's a good balance where you recognize you gotta go for a run every now and then and take care of yourself. And that's what I've tried to do is just balance the good and the bad.
Starting point is 00:56:52 Yeah. Yeah. Life's balance, man. It's a good point. Yeah, things aren't gonna be exactly, yeah. Things aren't gonna be perfect, you know? I always was like, I always, yeah. I created when I was a kid kid, I have to be perfect
Starting point is 00:57:05 and to be accepted or whatever. That was a way that I created in my life, I think. Like I. Well, what would that look like? So give me, what would you try to be perfect at? Like school or work or just like, you know, getting in shape or like what's your, if you're trying to get perfect,
Starting point is 00:57:25 what are you trying to get perfect at? Well, that's the crazy part is, it was almost this blind thing. I never even asked the question, hey, what am I trying to be perfect at? Oh, that's interesting. It was just this like, you, like the only way you're gonna be seen,
Starting point is 00:57:39 you have to do everything perfect, you know? Yeah. And then you'll get the, you'll, I don't know, it's just this missing thing inside of myself. I wanted to be seen, so it was like, you have to do it perfect. Right, if you, because if you do it perfect, then there would be no way, it wouldn't mathematically
Starting point is 00:57:56 make sense that you wouldn't be seen then. Because that would have to be seen, right? Nobody would not see something that was done perfectly. But perfection is impossible. And so it was always, I'd always set myself up for this. Like, you'd always come up short no matter what it was. And it could be in anything, something I was presenting at school,
Starting point is 00:58:19 the way I was, the way I looked while you were talking to me. It just, everything had to be like this. So it was this constant like, I just never let my breath go, you know? And then I was always falling short and so then. That can be a tough way to live, man. Yeah, oh, it was horrible.
Starting point is 00:58:37 And it fulfilled this prophecy in my head. Oh, we fell short, you're not enough, which is what you thought in the beginning anyway, right? And I'm not saying that now. Like now I have different thoughts and feelings but those were things that I now I'm able to look back and see oh that that's how I was operating yeah and just how even when I talk about it it sounds fucking impossibly stressful yeah yeah it does I mean that's yeah did you ever go to ACA
Starting point is 00:58:59 meetings or anything like that ACA meetings like adult children of alcohol did you ever go to no no I guess it's interesting. No, I never did. Yeah, some people don't need it. Yeah. I mean, I think frankly, it probably would have helped me. Would have been useful to go to. We did sometimes like, there was one very long-term treatment facility that mom went to and I guess it was kind of like that because part of that was that we would go to meetings every couple of weeks with all the kids of the people who were in. So that may have been an ACA meeting, I just didn't know the name of it,
Starting point is 00:59:30 but that was definitely interesting. And again, it's like you go to the meetings with some of these kids and you think your life is tough and you realize, man, there's always somebody who's got it much worse than you do. And that's, again, I think that's a good attitude to have because then you feel grateful for what you have. That's another thing, man.
Starting point is 00:59:48 The feeling of gratitude is so empowering. If you're just grateful for what you have, you're like, yeah, you and your wife have an argument. But if you're just grateful for her, for her existence, that's such a better attitude. Your kid does something that's annoying to you, but I'm just so grateful that I have this beautiful little baby that I can take care of.
Starting point is 01:00:07 I don't know. The feeling of gratitude, I think, is a very powerful thing. Yeah, and people say that a lot. Was being a parent scary for you? Were you scared like? Absolutely. Yeah?
Starting point is 01:00:19 Terrifying to me. Yeah, man. I was taught by my childhood that most people really screw up parenting. And it's not just like you make a mistake, you get a bad grade, or your boss is pissed off at you. It's you make a mistake and you're screwing up.
Starting point is 01:00:35 You get a bad grade that stays alive. It stays alive, right? You're like, damn, this C plus is having a tough week. C plus is having a really tough week. And do you have kids? Mm-mm, I don't have any children yet. So, I mean, you just love your kids so much, right? I mean, you really think the sun shines out their ass.
Starting point is 01:00:53 You know, that's kind of how you see children. Oh, you're like care bears or whatever? That's right. I'm like a care bear, but a living, breathing care bear that you have to take care of. And so I was just really terrified because this has certainly gotten a lot better, but when I was 27, 28, I had a pretty bad temper.
Starting point is 01:01:14 If somebody cut me off, I'd be really pissed off. Now I don't drive anymore because I have a Secret Service detail, which is probably a good thing. But I just think to myself, oh my God, is my kid going to do something bad and I'm going to fly off the handle like, you know. Oh yeah, I worry about that. Right?
Starting point is 01:01:30 And yeah, I mean, look, certainly kids can be frustrating from time to time. But for whatever reason, I think it's because my wife's so patient, it's in part just because I'm older and a little wiser, it's really worked out. And I've screwed up and I've made mistakes as a parent. And certainly there are days where you're is, you know, it's really worked out. And I've, you know, I've screwed up and I've made mistakes as a parent. And certainly there are days where you're like,
Starting point is 01:01:48 oh man, I can't believe that I did this or that. But, you know, one, kids are much more resilient than people give them credit for. And two, it's just, it's a learning process, man. And it's amazing. I mean, kids are so, so crazy. Like the difference between our two-year-old and our seven-year-old, just in personality
Starting point is 01:02:11 and what they say, and kids have no filter. Yeah. Right, so like one of the things that we call on our side of the aisle is that we'll like, you know, we'll call the news journalists, the corporate media, I call them fake news, right? You gotta be careful about that shit. Because my kids getting on the plane with me,
Starting point is 01:02:27 my four year old, to come to an event. And... And somebody gets on the loudspeaker, they're saying where to sit or whatever, and he's like, fake news. Oh no, he sees all these people taking photos of us and videos, because I get photographed and video, you know, I'm constantly being photographed wherever I go.
Starting point is 01:02:43 And he sees these people with cameras, he goes, Taddy, is that the fake news? And you realize you gotta be a little bit more careful about what you say. You're like, no, that's grandma, now smile. Okay, that's just grandma's getting a picture of us. That's right. But yeah, I mean, it's the most rewarding thing
Starting point is 01:03:01 that I've ever done. It's definitely changed my perspective. So it surprised you as to, it surprised you against your fears kind of? It did, it did. I mean, one, it's just not as, it's not as hard, I guess, as I thought it would be. Yeah, cause I, that's what I just, yeah, I guess,
Starting point is 01:03:15 yeah, I don't know if I think about it being hard. I don't know, it just feels like it would be so scary. That's the word that comes into my head. Man, it is, it is scary. But it's like one of those things where you just, you know, you just deal with it, right? And it's kind of good to confront that fear and then you realize it's not as bad.
Starting point is 01:03:28 I mean, most people will tell you like the first kid gets completely babied, right? And you've got to put hand sanitizer on before you touch the baby when they come home from the hospital. And by the third kid, you're like, I don't, oh, you just played in the mud, fine. Come over here.
Starting point is 01:03:44 And you realize that kids are, again, they're much more resilient than people give them credit for. But you also, you just learn a lot about yourself. And like the coolest thing, right? Think about my mom. I didn't think my mom would be alive when I was 40 years old. And now I see her play Pokemon with my little seven-year-old
Starting point is 01:04:02 and build a relationship with these little kids. And it's just a really, it's a really, really rewarding thing. I mean, does it feel like a gift that you were able to give your mom almost as like, not you were able to give it to her, but that like, you know, God gave you this series of events in your life where you get to see your mom play with this kid.
Starting point is 01:04:17 And you're like, man, that almost could have been me, but it does get to be me like in a weird way. Like, yeah, that's exactly right. I feel like it's a gift that God gave to us where we get to have this second chance with mom. And we get to necessarily relied on mom when I was 12 or 13, because she was still caught up in addiction,
Starting point is 01:04:36 but now we'll leave our kids with mom. Wow. Like being able to rely on her is just a very, it's a very cool thing. My wife, I remember when our kids were first born, And being able to rely on her is just a very cool thing. My wife, I remember when our kids were first born, or Oris was born in 2017, and at that point, mom had been clean and sober for about a year and a half, I guess, and I remember talking with my wife
Starting point is 01:04:57 and she's saying, I love your mom, I hope that she stays clean and sober, but we're never letting her babysit. Yeah, it's laurel-y. Right, laurel-y. But now we trust her with all three of them.it. Yeah, it's laurel-y. Right, laurel-y. Laurel-y. But now, we trust her with all three of them. Wow.
Starting point is 01:05:07 And it's an amazing thing, man. Oh yeah, and now with three kids, you'll give them to anybody to watch, you know what I'm saying? If you got three kids, bro. That's true. Anybody can watch him, dude. Yeah, that's right. No, we...
Starting point is 01:05:18 But no, I think that's really cool. I could have just imagined, I could imagine you getting to see your kids be with your mom and this, it just like Completing the eight or whatever, you know, I'm saying like that symbol or whatever, you know infinity symbol or whatever Yeah, no, that's really right. It's pretty powerful. Yeah, it's important That's the power of like things you see through recovery and stuff too. You know, it's like that people get to Just have a different life, you know,. It's like you witness it all the time
Starting point is 01:05:46 in the meetings and stuff. I do anyway. Yeah, there's something very redemptive about it, man. Yeah, if you wanna hear a miracle or something, you wanna see a miracle, go to a meeting. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? Seriously. You get to see, I mean, and it very much is like church.
Starting point is 01:05:59 It's like, sometimes people are like, you don't go to church sometimes? I'm like, dude, I go to four, I go to church four times a week at least. Yeah. Right? Good for you. I got, it's like, those meetings, it really is. It's like, you get everything you could get out of,
Starting point is 01:06:14 I mean, you witness God's work just through other people, you know? Yeah. I mean, much less outside of possibly in your own life. Yeah. And there are the testimonials you hear at meetings, and the courage it takes somebody who's been clean for two days to walk in and bid on a boat. Off with the best strangers and bid on a boat. Yeah.
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Starting point is 01:10:03 Price is now power to the patients. Oh dude, did you ever listen to Jelly Roll? It's funny. I met Jelly Roll at the United States Senate because I'm with a banking committee. He came and gave. And what was he trying to get pardoned for something? No, no, I don't like so at least, but he was,
Starting point is 01:10:30 he did a, like he was a witness at a hearing at the Senate banking committee. Oh, I think I saw that on C-SPAN or something. And honestly. And that was a joke Jelly, he knows it was. He was, he was really good. I talked to him briefly. I'm sure he doesn't remember. He doesn't remember.
Starting point is 01:10:45 But I thought he gave some very interesting testimony. He talked about the fentanyl issue a little bit. I want to say he maybe talked about homelessness a little bit, but I remember him talking about fentanyl, and he's got an amazing life. I mean, talk about a guy who had a much tougher life than I did. That's Jelly Roll. Yeah, that's a great point. Yeah, he's got an amazing life. I mean, talk about a guy who had a much tougher life than I did, that's Jelly Roll. Yeah, that's a great point.
Starting point is 01:11:07 Yeah, he's a magic man. And when you talk to him, it's just like watching pure, it's just genuine. That's what it is. It's like clean water. It's like what we used to have in a lot of our rivers. It's like, that's what he is. He's just genuine. I mean, it like- He's what he is. Yeah. He's just genuine.
Starting point is 01:11:25 I mean, it like- He's just a genuine human being. Oh, he'll tear up at anything. It's just cause it's just, what's in him is just real. Yeah. You know, he's a genuine guy. Yeah. That actually leads me pretty good into this next part
Starting point is 01:11:36 I wanna talk about some stuff I wrote down. Okay. Because I wanted to be clear and this is important. Yeah, go ahead, man. So you're from a region that was firsthand devastated by the money lizard Sackler family, right? Yes. Which like, you know, which Purdue Farming
Starting point is 01:11:55 and everything that happened with OxyContin, like over 500,000 people died at the hands of them. Yeah. And. Big, big problem. Yeah, unbelievable, right? And it compromised like, you know, they use loopholes, hands of them. Yeah. And big, big problem. Yeah. Unbelievable. Right.
Starting point is 01:12:06 And it compromised like, you know, they use loopholes, all types of stuff to, uh, to be able to keep that company going. Right. And really to keep killing people. I mean, it seemed undeniable at a certain point that they were. It was legalized drug dealing as well was on an industrial scale. I mean, made billions and billions of dollars. They just got like a slap on the,
Starting point is 01:12:26 like they got a financial slap on the wrist, right? Very tiny. But why can't we, shouldn't they be kicked out of our country? It feels like, like if we can let in 20 million people in our country, right, that shouldn't be here. Or that are not like vetted properly to be here. Don't have the legal right to be here.
Starting point is 01:12:44 I agree, I would say they shouldn't be here. Why't have the legal right to be here. Right. I agree. I would say they shouldn't be here. Why can't we put those motherfuckers on a boat and send them back to wherever the fuck they came from? That's a good question, man. Look, I think that frankly- I don't mean that angrily at you, but it's like- No, man.
Starting point is 01:12:59 I'm pissed off about it too. Like at what point do people lose the opportunity to be here? It seemed like if you killed 500,000 people, you wouldn't be able to hang out anymore. Or maybe at least you should have a criminal investigation. Yeah. Right? Because that's the thing that's always, I've always, I mean like the Sackler family clearly got rich off of an extraordinary amount of human misery and death. Yeah. Okay. Where are they from? Bring it up real quick. I want to say they're from New York maybe, or they're from the Northeast, I'm pretty sure.
Starting point is 01:13:31 The Sackler family originated from Galatia in Poland and their ancestors were Jewish immigrants, Isaac Sackler. Brooklyn, New York. Oh, and then they lived in Brooklyn, New York. That's why I thought they were from New York or Connecticut. I mean, look, the thing that I've never understood about them is that they did get fined,
Starting point is 01:13:46 but the fine was such a tiny amount. It was a couple billion bucks or something, right? But they made tens and tens of billions of dollars. I mean, these guys were absolutely rolling in the dough. But they, like, why isn't there a criminal investigation into this, right? Like, if I sold drugs on the street and some person has an overdose and died,
Starting point is 01:14:07 like you can get felony prosecuted for that, or at least investigated for it. And there was never a criminal, at least as I understand it, never a criminal investigation into what was known. Because- Yeah, I think they had a breach of plea deal of some sort. Okay. As the nation continues to grapple with that,
Starting point is 01:14:23 the Sackler family had agreed to pay $6 billion to families and states as part of an agreement to wind down Purdue Pharma, the maker of Oxycontinente Exchange. The Sackler family would be immunized from future civil liability claims, unreal. Because here's my understanding about it. And by the way, I think that like,
Starting point is 01:14:39 you always gotta be worried about this stuff when you're the child of addiction is like, are there, whether it's drugs, alcohol, whatever, you gotta be, you're kinda, you're worried about making sure you do yourself, don't get hooked on anything, right? I had a minor surgery once and like a very minor surgery and I was prescribed Oxycontin
Starting point is 01:14:57 and I took it for like, you know, 12 hours. Got any left, sorry. No, it's because of my wife, because of what I'm about to tell you. And my wife, who was was giving me my meds, she was like, hey, you ready for your next dose? And I was like, yeah, the pain's not really that bad anymore. I don't really want to take one.
Starting point is 01:15:13 But yeah, just give me one, because I feel really good when I take it. And then she and I both have this moment of realization, like, oh shit, right? That is where this whole thing starts, since she took it to wherever, some disposal site, and we got rid of it and that was it. But the problem with OxyContin, as I understand it at least,
Starting point is 01:15:30 is that it's supposed to be delayed release Oxycodone. But the problem is people figured out if you just crush it up, then you can just get it all at once. All released right now. All released right now. And then the Sackler family, understand it knew about it, right? Purdue Farman knew this was going on and they should have been like, oh no, no, okay, we're gonna stop this because
Starting point is 01:15:54 People are getting killed by overdosing on this stuff because they're taking too high of a dose and they didn't do anything Yeah, like that is my understanding fundamentally of what happened is is they didn't want to stop it because they were getting rich from it Oh, yeah, it's it's man. It's it's really gross That is my understanding fundamentally of what happened is is they didn't wanna stop it because they were getting rich from it. Oh yeah. It's man, it's really gross. I just couldn't imagine that. Imagine people dying and you're making money, but they're dying, people are dying, family. The ripple effect of that in this country is still,
Starting point is 01:16:14 it's still haunting people, you know? Absolutely, and that's where the heroin epidemic, which is now a fentanyl epidemic came from. It started as a pill epidemic. And it actually was, like I always used to think it was okay, kind of like me, like, oh, you have surgery and you get too many drugs and then eventually you get hooked.
Starting point is 01:16:30 What it actually was is they were overprescribing it so much that it was just everywhere, right? And so like, oh, you know, your nephew comes over and he's 17 and he takes some to his buddies and now they're all hooked on oxy. And that's like, that's what actually happened. And there was just so much of this drug everywhere that it started the epidemic we have now.
Starting point is 01:16:50 Yeah. And the outside, it was like candy coat. It was like, you just had to slurp off the outside a little bit and then you could party. Oh, I didn't realize that. Yeah, I think you just had to slurp off. I heard about people crushing, I didn't know if you just had to slurp off the outside.
Starting point is 01:17:03 Yeah, I think you did and Yeah Yeah, and yeah, and one of the worst things about it was that like medicine used to be a term that was like it Was for help, right? Yes. It was like, you know, it was in our brains I think as as humans and citizens in our society culture medicine was help, right? Yes, and that that whole thing with them kind of tripped that word where it made people question the value of medicine. It made people just question then who's prescribing the medicine.
Starting point is 01:17:39 It made health, it made like your doctors seem untrustworthy. It just, it ruined so much trust. health it made like your doctors seem untrustworthy. It just, it ruins so much trust. That's absolutely right. Ruined a lot of social trust. And I agree. I think they deserve a ton of blame for that. And it's interesting though, that was maybe the first point,
Starting point is 01:18:00 the oxy epidemic was sort of the first point where I started to question like the mainstream big pharma narrative a little bit. And I always ask myself, and I think this is something, you know, like I'm Republican, I'm conservative, but one of the things that I think the old left was pretty smart about is like recognizing that, you know, when money gets involved, when the profit motive gets involved in health, that can lead to good things. It can lead to people trying to cure cancer because they know they're gonna make a lot of money
Starting point is 01:18:31 if they cure cancer, I'm fine with that. But people making money if they cure cancer, that's a great thing. But then also sometimes it can lead to manipulation of the health system that doesn't actually benefit people's health but does get people hooked on a lot of drugs that they wouldn't otherwise need. And this was something, again,
Starting point is 01:18:47 the old left understood this, that like, well, you gotta be careful. Like, are we prescribing this medication because it's good for people, because that's good, or are we prescribing it because some big pharmaceutical company is getting rich if we do, and they're putting pressure on the government
Starting point is 01:19:02 or somebody else to encourage us to prescribe this medication. And I think there are a whole host of ways in which, frankly, the old left was right about that. And I've tried to persuade modern conservatives that we should be more concerned about that issue. It's like, Bobby Kennedy makes this point all the time. Like, good, some pharmaceuticals are good for us,
Starting point is 01:19:22 but some actually it's not totally clear whether we're taking them Just because it makes people money and this is like let me give you a concrete example, right? So You know this there's obviously this big like debate about transgender issues and you don't have to wait into that but what really worries me is when you've got pharmaceutical companies that are making billions of dollars on hormonal therapies for kids, and are we really being smart
Starting point is 01:19:51 about whether this is good for the kids, about whether it causes long-term consequences, and why is nobody saying, well, wait a second, the people who are lobbying us to give these drugs to kids are also getting rich off of it, right? And I worry about that. I mean, you need to just- You need to follow the money motive.
Starting point is 01:20:06 Yeah, man. It definitely, of course they would want that. Cause it's just another way. It's like, well, how do we split the atom here again to make even more money off of somebody? Well, why not your gender? You know what I'm saying? You're not using it.
Starting point is 01:20:18 Yup. You know, you're like, what do you mean I'm not using my gender? Like I'm trying, I'm trying to, I'm still developing it. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? And you're going to like, but I agree. It's like a couple of my buddies secretly low key date trans people. Right.
Starting point is 01:20:31 And I don't care if any, somebody's trans or Neapolitan or whatever. I don't, I don't care. You know what I'm saying? Hell, if I had a vagina, I would probably wouldn't go looking for women, you know? So there's probably some up up some up to it, but Talking about is uh shit. I don't know what I'm look man. If you Don't but look where the money like look at the fall of the money at this time my kids right all the money Think about what's going on like are the people pushing this? What is their real or do they have some other motive? You have to think about that, you know, well, that's why, I mean, like you mentioned
Starting point is 01:21:06 Ozempic earlier, which, you know, a couple friends have taken it, I've never taken Ozempic or any weight loss kind of drug. Oh, it ended up having a black market. There was somebody selling it outside of a vineyard vines illegally or something over there outside of Charlottesville. Outside of vineyard vines? That's like the most, that's the perfect encapsulation. It breaks my heart, yeah. Vineyard vines. That's the perfect encapsulation.
Starting point is 01:21:25 It breaks my heart, yeah. Vineyard Vines selling Ozempic. Somebody said she was a Capa Delta. But it's just that kind of stuff. It shakes me to my core, JD. That's really dark shit, man. That's darker than a lot of what goes on in politics. A Capa Delta selling Ozempic black market
Starting point is 01:21:45 off outside of Vineyard Fines. I'm gonna have nightmares. They call it faux-zempic. But I like worry, okay, so America has a terrible obesity problem. And I'm not, look, I'm not a doctor. I'm not telling, if your doctor tells you to take Ozempic, follow your doctor's advice,
Starting point is 01:22:00 not what you're hearing from me on a podcast. Yeah, and it's shorty thick. I don't mind it a little, you know? But I, I, I, what I worry about is, okay, you create a problem,
Starting point is 01:22:11 and then you medicate to solve the problem instead of like, maybe solving the underlying problem, right? Like, why don't we try to understand why it is that we have a terrible obesity epidemic rather than just giving people another pill to pop? Well, it's also, we get used to that then after a while, and then it's hard to put the toothpaste back in the tooth.
Starting point is 01:22:28 Exactly right. That's one of the tough, that's one of the, and that's more of like a, a kind of a bigger look at that. Like, um, yeah, it's like, how much personal responsibility it's like, that's something I struggle with sometimes. My brother and I talk about this sometimes, like, you know, people have problems and, um, specifically even like thinking about the OxyContin thing, like they created a medicine that was so strong that even your ability, your God given ability to be able to battle against it,
Starting point is 01:22:58 like you'd be in AA rooms and you'd see people that came in from opioid and it was something different than alcoholism. Exactly right. It wasn't alcohol. in from opioid and it was something different than alcoholism exactly right it wasn't alcohol It wasn't it was addiction, but it was something different. It was like it's right these people. It's zombie these people It's like it's like they created this um This skip card in uno or something it was like so at that point like Shit, were we talking about I had a good idea talking about opioids the effect it has on people's brains,
Starting point is 01:23:27 pharmaceutical companies making money from, we're talking about a Zempik, putting the toothpaste back in the tube. Right, right, personal responsibility. Yeah, yes, okay. You were almost there, sorry. You helped me. You laid all the bread crumb, dude.
Starting point is 01:23:39 That's good, man. So, but yeah. I'm here to help, man. As your next vice president, I'll live to serve however I can. You just helped me right there. But yeah, it's like, um, but then they created something that was so powerful. It kind of exceeded our ability, our natural ability to be able to fight against it. Right.
Starting point is 01:23:58 So at that point, um, personal responsibility kind of isn't. It's it's still there there but it's not exactly fair because you're allowing a company to create something that you can't naturally compete against. It turns you into a zombie, man. I mean, really. Sorry that took so long, my brain's bad. No, man, no, it's, I know exactly what you mean
Starting point is 01:24:22 and it's like one thing to sort of take a pill so your pain goes away, or you take a pill because you got a lung infection, the lung infection goes away, or whatever. When something can so fundamentally transform your personality and your sense of ambition and reward, like what are you going after? It's not a medicine then.
Starting point is 01:24:40 It's, yeah. It's not a medicine. It's very, very weird. Like that's the thing, it's not a medicine, It's very, very weird. Like that's the thing, it's not a medicine, that is a drug. Yeah, and I mean, my mom, to her great credit, man, I don't know how she does this, because look, there are some things
Starting point is 01:24:53 where you really do need a strong pain medication, right? And I forget something happened a couple years ago where they were like, you know, maybe she had some infection, but they really wanted to give her oxy. And she was like, no, I refuse to take it. So for a couple days, I mean, she was in agonizing pain, but she just took Advil, took Tylenol, and she was fine.
Starting point is 01:25:14 And she persevered through it. But man, you're right. The stuff, it's just, yeah. It's like it changes not just your personality, but it changes whether you can take care of yourself and other people. Right? Like for most normal people, there's this thing where it's like, oh, oh crap, I'm not taking care of my kids, my kids need me, I got to change something. Right? But if you're on opioids, it's like it flips a switch off where, yeah, I'm not taking care
Starting point is 01:25:41 of my kids, but maybe I don't give a shit because the drugs have so affected my brain. Yeah, I think that's it, man. And with that, so staying in the health, in like medical and healthcare thoughts, one of the major, and I wrote this down so I could say it clearly, and to just save everybody time who's listening, one of the major bipartisan issues that's plaguing Americans
Starting point is 01:26:04 is the healthcare system, which has become outrageously expensive, right? It's unaffordable, it's inaccessible by millions of Americans. We're overpaying hospitals and insurance companies that hide their prices and they charge us whatever they want. Patients overpay, workers overpay, companies overpay, the taxpayers overpay. On this podcast, Bernie Sanders came on and he stressed the need for a healthcare price transparency. Donald Trump did the same thing.
Starting point is 01:26:33 He had an executive order. I think it's still in place that demands price transparency. Mark Cuban stressed the need for healthcare price transparency. How do we not have real prices and transparency in healthcare knowing that it's exactly what America needs so that our healthcare system will be honest and affordable and accessible? Well, you're right that we should have it. And the reason that we don't is unfortunately because there are a lot of powerful people who get rich off of keeping these things secret.
Starting point is 01:27:04 And so they don't want transparency They don't want sunshine. You can say Chuck Schumer if you want Well, I mean look you're right though like obviously Bernie and I are on the same team politically But there are some health care things like price transparency We're actually I think he and President Trump are both right that there's nothing that you go to Starbucks, right? You buy coffee, you know how much you're getting, you know how much it's costing you. You know, I remember when my wife, I think it was her second baby,
Starting point is 01:27:31 where, you know, you get like pain medications because when you're delivering a baby, at least most people do, because it's like a very painful experience. And there was some weird thing where the doctor that she chose was out of network and she didn't really, I mean, you're not checking whether the doctor's in network at the time, right?
Starting point is 01:27:49 You're just sort of choosing a doctor. And then we come home and we have like a $15,000 unexpected bill because she chose the wrong doctor an hour before she delivers a baby. And it's like, this is totally crazy. And we're in a situation where that was not a big deal for us, we were able to afford it. But think about like a normal middle class family
Starting point is 01:28:09 goes and has a baby and comes home to a medical bill that's like a fifth of their entire take home pay that year, right? That's crazy. Oh, the number one cause of bankruptcy in America is medical debt. Yeah, it's a huge, huge problem. And I think the price transparency is a big part of it. But you asked like why hasn't it happened?
Starting point is 01:28:28 So every time that we try to force price transparency, the service providers, the insurance companies, or the pharmaceutical companies don't actually want that transparency. Here's one of the reasons why the pharmaceutical companies don't want transparency. It's because if Americans, if we realized how much more we were paying for pharmaceuticals over the Europeans, there would be a revolution in this country. We pay a lot more than them? We pay way more than them. And again, like my attitude is I am fine with people, you know, if you invent a life-saving cancer drug, I'm fine with people earning a great profit for doing something amazing like that.
Starting point is 01:29:07 You wanna motivate people to do it in the first place, right? And a lot of people are obviously motivated by that profit motive, but if you take certain drugs that are, you know, they cost $100 in the United States of America, and they're way, way cheaper in Europe, or some of these really expensive,-thousand dollar cancer. Bring something up for me.
Starting point is 01:29:26 Yeah. These really expensive like next generation cancer therapeutics, they cost way less in Europe. Okay. And... This says in 2022, US prices across all drugs, brands and generics were nearly 2.78 times as high as prices in the comparison countries. US prices for brand drugs were at least 3.22 times as high as prices in the comparison countries, even after adjustments for estimated US rebates.
Starting point is 01:29:54 Wow, does it show those countries? Is there a chart with that or no? I love a chart. It's OECD countries, which is mainly Europe. Those are like the advanced economies, basically. Okay, that's what that means. The rich countries, basically. O those are like okay the advanced economies basically the okay that's what that means rich countries basically OECD yeah and what so first world countries probably basically okay yeah so Canada probably Israel's in there a lot of the a lot of the European countries I think are all in OCD okay United States Germany Canada Japan Switzerland Switzerland Switzerland? Switzerland? I can't see that.
Starting point is 01:30:26 Switzerland. I haven't even heard of that. Comparable county average? You're screwing with me. Austria? Well, I think they misspelled it, dude. There's not that many zits in it. Australia, United Kingdom and Sweden. Wow. So we pay per capita spending on prescription drugs in 2019, 900.
Starting point is 01:30:52 And what does per capita mean? Just per person. Okay. Per person, $963 per person. Whereas in Sweden, $270. United Kingdom, $273, dude. Yeah. That's crazy, right? Yeah. That's not fair, dude. They colonize everybody and they're paying cheaper for dope. That's exactly right. Unfair, bro. But again, the reason we don't really know
Starting point is 01:31:14 what we're paying here is because, you know. Because they hide it. They hide it, they hide it. And they don't wanna let people know because if you let people know, then they would demand to pay less. But what something President Trump have proposed for example,
Starting point is 01:31:28 I think is a very good idea, is that he proposed re-importing drugs from Europe. Basically, if they're selling it in Sweden or wherever for $270 per person, and we're paying $963 per person, then we'll just buy it in Sweden and bring it in the United States. I love that.
Starting point is 01:31:46 Right? That was a big, big thing. Of course, the pharmaceutical companies don't like that. But that's why you've, that's why they tried to assassinate him twice. Well, it's probably one of the things that could have happened. I mean, I, I, I, of course to have no idea, no inside knowledge into,
Starting point is 01:31:58 into what drove the motives of the assassins. Oh yeah, I'm just joking. But, but yeah, but I wouldn't be shocked. But I mean, I, it's a lot of money. Man, I wouldn't be shocked. It's a lot of money. But I mean, I wouldn't be shocked if there's some really dark stuff out there. Cause look, two separate people have tried to take a swing at this guy in about three months. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:32:14 Like, well, you know they didn't like Donald Trump, right? Cause they wouldn't have tried to shoot him if they liked him. But I wouldn't be, the first guy who went after Trump, I may have to put on the tin foil I had here, but we've not been able to get, unable to get into his phone. We know that he had all these like foreign encrypted apps
Starting point is 01:32:30 on his cell phone. It is crazy to me that we don't know the guy's motive. Yeah. It's nuts. He almost killed the president. Yeah. And we don't know why he did it. We don't know anything about the guy.
Starting point is 01:32:42 Yeah. Yeah, they're like, he had a lunchbox or something. It's like the vaguest information they keep putting out about the guy, you know, he'd been using a library. We're like, yeah, who gives a shit? Exactly. Yeah. His mom's name was Sharon. It's like, great. Thank you. Yeah, dude. Yeah. They're like, oh, yeah. They're like, oh, he was a Colts fan. You're like, who gives a fuck? Who gives a shit?
Starting point is 01:33:05 Yeah, that's exactly right. Give us the information on the guy. Yeah, he, you know. So how do we stop that? Do you get approached by lobbyists and stuff like that? All the time. Do you really? And what does that look like?
Starting point is 01:33:15 Who are they? What are they wearing? Like, how do you? So lobbyists, here's how you spot them, okay? They're always wearing poorly fitted suits with extremely ugly ties. So if you go out and you see a guy with a poorly fitting suit and extremely ugly tie,
Starting point is 01:33:33 he's definitely a lobbyist. Okay. Okay. It's like in Happy Gilmore. It's a lobbyist for big fabric, huh? It sounds like. It's like in Happy Gilmore where the guys like, you know, the coach is trying to get Happy Gilmore to play golf and Happy's like, you know, you know what you need to play golf is goofy pants and a fat ass.
Starting point is 01:33:55 That's what you need to be a lobbyist is goofy pants and that. But why can't we, if everybody knows who they- By the way, I like golf. So I'm going to be clear. I like golf. Do you like golf? I'm not that good at it. I'll play when I get a little bit older. I don't. It would be clear. I like golf. Do you like all I? I'm not that good at it. Okay, I'll play when I get a little bit older I don't want to slow people down. Okay, right now fair point, you know, but anyway, yes So okay the way the way Brooks Koepka. Yeah, I do too
Starting point is 01:34:15 He's cool. Yeah, he's like a cool dude, and I like that girl that smokes that plays Eyes only for one woman, Theo. I've got only my wife. Yeah, no, I like her. You don't have to know who I'm talking about. You can like her. No comment. She's like the hot.
Starting point is 01:34:33 No comment from Senator Vance. She's like the hot John Daly. I know who you're talking about. Yeah, she's like the hot. John Daly. So John Daly doesn't really do it for you? No. No.
Starting point is 01:34:43 He's a good dude though. Oh no, I like John, man. I definitely... Oh, if you need a ride in an ambulance, hang out with John. You'll get one at Harpeet. And I'm just joking. I think it was Tiger Lawson. But also it's true, I've been at two places where John's been taken. One time they came in looking for him.
Starting point is 01:35:00 He went out there and was sitting in the shotgun. It's awesome. And like where is he? In the ambulance. Oh my God. He tried to help you guys out. Oh, that is so funny. He's a legend.
Starting point is 01:35:12 He's got to come on here soon. But how do we stop that if all the centers in Congress people know it, like Bernie Sanders said there's three times as many lobbyists in DC as there are congressmen and senators, then why don't we get that shit out of like, or why don't, why doesn't it stop? Like if all you guys know it
Starting point is 01:35:31 and everybody's supposed to be working for the people, then why doesn't it stop? So I actually think that we're getting a little bit better compared to maybe 10 years ago. People have no idea how much Washington was just completely run by lobbyists. And you know, you think about like guy on on the left like Bernie Sanders, but most importantly, a guy on the right like Donald Trump completely blows the existing system up.
Starting point is 01:35:51 And this is by the way, like what I realized, because I wasn't a Trump guy back in 2016. And obviously I'm his running mate now. So I really like him. What people don't realize is back in 2016, how much lobbyist money and influence there was that wanted to destroy Donald Trump. They hated the guy because he didn't owe anything to them. He didn't come from the existing political process. And if you look at some of the younger guys
Starting point is 01:36:14 who have come in, we're much more just open about the fact that lobbyist influence is out there. You can't be in DC without running into these people, but you gotta be honest with people like, I'm not gonna let this person write a piece of legislation for me I'm not gonna let this person dictate how I vote and yeah I've gotten some definitely some criticisms from the lobbyist groups in DC some of them will say well you know we don't know if we can trust this guy and I that's fine with me I'm okay I'm okay with it not trust you exactly good
Starting point is 01:36:42 exactly doing your job that's exactly right that's that that's my exact attitude towards it so I If the lobbyist can't trust you, fucking good. Exactly. Then you're doing your job. That's exactly right. That's my exact attitude towards it. They don't know if he can trust you. Who gives a fuck? Exactly. That's exactly right. So, but that is how the town works. Is that if you come in
Starting point is 01:36:56 and you don't always take their meetings, you don't always do what they want you to, then they'll start whispering about you. And then they can get articles written about you. They can have people say bad shit about you. This is why people call it the corporate media. Is if you pick up a story in the Washington Post and you read it and you know,
Starting point is 01:37:10 here's this anonymous source of this, this anonymous source of that, there is a 98% chance that the person who's attacking Donald Trump is on the take somehow. For sure. Whether it's a lobbyist or whether it's a political consultant, it's all dishonest, money laundering bullshit. That's all DC ultimately is,
Starting point is 01:37:28 is people who get paid to offer an opinion instead of having a real opinion. Here's the thing that I think we need to fix structurally about this. So let me give you an example. My Senate staff has probably 40 or so people and all extremely good people. My staff tends to be a little bit younger
Starting point is 01:37:44 because I'm one of the youngest. I'm the second youngest U.S. Senator right now. And you know, like if I wanted to pay my chief of staff $30,000 more a year than what I pay him right now, I'm not allowed by law. So even though I'm a Senator and I was elected to represent the people of Ohio, I'm not allowed to control who I pay and how I pay them. It's all sort of set by law. And here's the bigger issue is that if you think about it, a lot of these big important laws are very complicated.
Starting point is 01:38:15 They've got 800 pages, 900 pages. And I think the law should be simpler, but if you've got a 900 page law and you've got a bunch of junior staffers who don't know the town very well and they don't make a whole lot of money, then the people who are writing the laws are not going to be your junior staffers, it's going to be the lobbyists, right? And we've seen this multiple times with legislation that I've drafted where the lobbyists will
Starting point is 01:38:39 actually ask to get into like the draft of the law and make changes for you and say, well, yeah, we'll justify. No, no, no, no, no, no. I want my staff that works for me to write the laws that I'm drafting. But I actually think that we need to empower senators and congressmen to hire who they want to make a bigger staff if they want. Because if you think about it,
Starting point is 01:39:01 the amount of staff a congressman has, a congresswoman has is a fraction of the federal budget.. I mean we're talking about like a percent of a percent of a penny on the federal budget and so We could actually give people the staff that they need To to be able to actually write the laws and to make sure the lobbyists don't have much influence and yes Like who are the lobbyists? Okay much influence and you ask like who are the lobbyists? Okay, the lobbyists are the people who are really good staffers and then the staffers want to buy a nicer house and they want to you know start a family and they can't you know DC is a very expensive town. I mean you know a one
Starting point is 01:39:36 bedroom apartment in DC will easily run you four thousand dollars a month right? Yeah. Right, it's just a very expensive town so then those people go and become lobbyists. They trade in their public service for a fat check. And I think that we've got to fix something about that pipeline. Right, it's the same thing that happened with OxyContin. And they got the people that were working with the FDA to come and work for them. That's exactly right. That is exactly right.
Starting point is 01:39:59 So it happens at our Congress. It happens with our big bureaucratic agencies. And I think we have to fix something about that. Like we want the people in our government to be public spirited and focus on doing the public good. I don't think that the system that we have works very well where you do public service for a little bit and then you jump and go make a million dollars a year
Starting point is 01:40:18 as a lobbyist. No, no, no, no, no, no. I think you got to separate those functions much better than you have right now. Yeah, because then being a public servant is just a junior college for becoming a lobbyist, it seems like. That is a big worry that I have, especially with my staff. I mean, these are really smart, really good guys. And a big part of what I think about as a senator, a big part of what I think about is how am I going to keep these guys as they get more senior,
Starting point is 01:40:45 as they become better at their job, as they become better at figuring out what a lobbyist is trying to sell them a bill of goods, right? That's a skill, right? And you acquire that skill over time. When they can just spend whatever they want when they're the Yankees. That's exactly right. Yeah. Damn. Shit, dude. We're all going to be addicted. No, we're not, man. I'm telling you, we're going to... That's a joke.
Starting point is 01:41:08 I'm telling you, we're actually going in the right direction. This is what people don't, and I recognize you probably have, of your millions of listeners, some people love Trump and some people hate him, but the thing that Trump really changed about DC is that he was not beholden to the moneyed interests. Oh, well, that's one thing that I also like
Starting point is 01:41:25 about Bobby Kennedy that I mean, I've known Bobby for years. Bobby's been a friend of mine for years. I knew him before I thought he was gonna be due politics. He's a good dude, man. I like Bobby. He used to hold meetings at his house on Tuesdays and we would go to him in his backyard, dude.
Starting point is 01:41:39 And one of his dogs always was slobbering stuff on me. It was a huge dog. It might not even have been a dog because he has a lot of animals. What would it have been then? I don't know dude, but he's had a lot of animals over the years and Bobby what we can afford probably What was this maybe dog that was slobbering all over Theo, but he doesn't need anything else. He's got a great name He's got a cool wife. He's got he doesn't he's always cared about just making people healthy If he is he wrong sometimes on things, he probably is just like anybody else.
Starting point is 01:42:06 Everybody's kind of wrong. But I'd fucking, I'd rather have somebody just raise their hand and ask questions. Like, that's one thing that I just love about him. That he's not beholding to any of these people, you know. The thing that I hate about politics and just media culture in this country right now, man, is people are so afraid of saying anything that's unconventional.
Starting point is 01:42:26 They're afraid of thinking thoughts that you're not allowed to think. Like the biggest ideas come from people who just follow the truth, right? And yeah, sometimes they're gonna be wrong. Sometimes they're not gonna get everything right. But we've gotta stop punishing people like Bobby Kennedy for saying, well, maybe this doesn't work.
Starting point is 01:42:45 Yeah, hey, what about that? Yeah, hey, what about that? Exactly. Like that, hey, what about that is something we have to preserve. And I do feel like we're trying to, we're kind of destroying it. This is, so I'm gonna sound like an old man,
Starting point is 01:42:56 but this is what I think is really jacked up about social media is, okay, we're all social animals, right, we're all influenced by people around us. Oh yeah. But look, 30 years ago, an opinion, it would take it many, many days before an opinion became the accepted conventional wisdom. You know, you'd have to be repeated in one newspaper,
Starting point is 01:43:17 then repeated in another newspaper, and people would talk about it. Now you can have something happen on social media, it's viral, and 10 minutes later, you've got like the social media feeding frenzy that says, well here's this thing that I came up with 10 minutes ago, and if you don't agree with that thing I came up with 10 minutes ago,
Starting point is 01:43:35 then there's gonna be a feeding frenzy, attacking you, attacking your family, finding out where you worked and attack it, trying to attack your employer for keeping you in a job. Like that is a really jacked up thing to take the normal human social impulse to wanna be liked and to wanna make friends and to put it all on the internet
Starting point is 01:43:54 where it operates at like the speed of light. I think there's something very deranged about that. Yeah. Yeah, well, and it's also, it's like, are you a repeater or are you a thinker? Like, that's the thing. It's like we get so preoccupied now and so occupied so quickly that we don't even put it through our own filter. That's exactly right. And it's like, and then our filter starts to not even be a filter anymore because it's like,
Starting point is 01:44:19 well, nobody's using me. I'll just, I'm just a pathway now. And that's what starts to happen. That's how we all start to become desensitized to everything. And we just become repeaters, right? That's exactly what social media does, is it just turns us all into repeaters. I like that Bobby Kennedy is sort of willing to say, no, no, no, no, no, I'm actually gonna think for myself on this topic.
Starting point is 01:44:39 I mean, it is crazy. Why do we have such a terrible obesity problem? Why do we have all these like, you know, certain types of diabetes are on the rise among children today. It's like, okay, we're the richest country in the history of the world, and you know, children are getting diseases
Starting point is 01:44:54 that they didn't get 30, 40 years ago. Like somebody should be saying, what the hell is going on? Or like... Yeah, somebody should, and it should be our leaders, but it feels like there's so much compromise in there. I mean, dude, do you know, okay, this is a paper by a Nobel, yeah, yeah, we'll take a
Starting point is 01:45:11 few more minutes. Now we're just having fun. But there's a paper by a Nobel Prize winning economist that talks about the return to education in years of life. And do you know how much, take a person who's got a four-year degree versus a person who never went to college, do you know how much longer the person with a four-year degree lives
Starting point is 01:45:35 in the United States of America right now? Seven years. Seven years longer. Yeah, so going to college, you get rewarded with seven years of additional life. If that doesn't tell you something is seriously fucked up in our country, then nothing will. Right? That is not okay. And it's part of it, it's health. Part of it's that, you know, people are working more dangerous jobs if they don't have a college degree.
Starting point is 01:46:00 But part of it's just that we have, I think, made it so hard to get by in our country, if you don't have a four-year degree, that people are, you know, they're not making enough money to support their families, and they get stressed out, and they turn to addiction, of course. Addiction happens to everybody, but it's much more common among those without a college degree. So, I just, this to me is like, what is this campaign about? Like, what is Trump being president about?
Starting point is 01:46:25 Is fixing the big problems. Not like the bullshit fake problems that the media gets us to focus on, not the slogans. But why are people dying seven years earlier if they don't have a college degree? Why do we have this historic obesity epidemic in the richest country in the world? Why do we have wars breaking out like crazy
Starting point is 01:46:47 all over the world? Why do pharmaceutical companies get rich by forcing therapeutics that aren't even always good for us? These are big, big, big issues that frankly, I think absent Trump, we wouldn't even be talking about this stuff. Well, I definitely think that one of the things that certainly excited me about Trump when he first was running was, wow, this guy is fucking rogue.
Starting point is 01:47:15 And you know what? And this whole thing is so messed up now that that's what you, I would, I hated politics so much, I just, I hated that. I was like, I would hire a, I would hire a muppet to go in there with a hammer. That's right. I would hire a muppet with a hammer. If I could vote for a muppet with a hammer.
Starting point is 01:47:34 And that's how most people feel. It's like, it doesn't even feel like it's working for us anymore. So what does it even matter? Yeah. Yeah, but so that's why I think Bobby, that's one thing that I did, that's one thing that I thought was pretty amazing about bringing Bobby Kennedy on into you guys's campaign is that?
Starting point is 01:47:50 He's a sheriff for that kind of shit. He really is, you know for caring I think for just for genuinely caring about people. I know I know he cares about people It's like I have friends that don't care about me. They're still my friends some of them, but he's a friend That is a caring guy. Yeah, yeah, that's absolutely right. So that is, I think, why I've vowed for him a lot. Yeah. I had one more thing.
Starting point is 01:48:11 Let me see. Oh, the polls and stuff. OK, yeah. Yeah, I've been looking at the polls recently. Yeah. And especially at Cal-Shea is a place where I look at them. OK, this is the betting market stuff? Yeah, they're a website and an app where people can bet money on regular happenings like in society
Starting point is 01:48:28 Yeah, like not just pop political stuff anything from like politics to entertainment And I think it's a good tracker of in a capitalistic society because it's people putting their money down, right? It's like so it's people saying this is what I think right with my money as opposed to just other polls What what's the latest on there what does it say? Oh it says Trump is 57, Kamal is 43. Trump 57 percent. That's pretty good. Yeah that's pretty good. Does it say the total amount of money that people have bet or not
Starting point is 01:48:59 yet? Oh it says 32 million 917,000 has been put out there on this. It's just, yeah. So that's why I like to follow their stuff, just because it's actually people putting their money down. Sure. What do you think of polls that are out there these days? Do you guys follow these polls? Is that real stuff to you?
Starting point is 01:49:17 Like, I know that like they had the Clinton Trump poll years ago and they had Clinton who was neck and neck or something and then it wasn't when it came out Yeah, do you guys follow any of that or is that really part of the daily routine? Not really man. I mean I can I can get you in the weeds a little bit But I'll try to I'll try to I live and breathe this stuff. So I try not to make it make it too Trust a lot of media. So it's here's yeah, here's basically the way you shouldn't trust polls Whether they're good for us or bad for us. And here's the reason you shouldn't trust polls,
Starting point is 01:49:46 is about 10 years ago, every 10th person you called to do a poll would answer. Now it's about one in 30 people, okay? And another important thing is that if you're a Democrat, especially if you're a higher education level Democrat, you're much more willing to answer pollster questions. Where if you're, excuse me, if you're like my family, if somebody called them a stranger
Starting point is 01:50:12 and said, who are you going to vote for? They would say, F you and hang up the phone. Oh, yeah. Right? So the reason the polls has gotten so bad is because Trump voters are less likely to answer pollster questions and Kamala Harris voters are much more likely to answer pollster questions. So it's very hard to get an accurate sample to give you any sense of what's going on. But do you just believe that or are you just saying that?
Starting point is 01:50:35 I actually believe that. Yeah, no, I believe that. And I've seen it in my own race, for example, you know, I ran for Senate, there were all these public polls that say, you know, the race was tied or maybe we'd even lose by a few points. And the pollster that I had who just posed for my campaign, he's actually Trump's pollster too, and a very smart guy. And he said, Look, the reason these polls are wrong is because they're not reaching voters who don't like to answer polls. And those voters are going heavily for you.
Starting point is 01:51:03 So I said, Okay, well, how much are we gonna win by? And he said, you're gonna win by six points, and we win by seven points, right? So he was much more accurate than the public pollsters. Now, you ask why is he more accurate? Because most of the public polls, they cost 10, $20,000. Like if you see a poll published in a newspaper article, 10 to $20,000, to get an accurate sample,
Starting point is 01:51:23 these guys need to really, it's 60, $70,000 to $20,000. To get an accurate sample, these guys needed to really, it's 60, $70,000, because they've got to call thousands and thousands of people to get a representative sample of the American people. So sitting here, honestly, I think that chart's about right. I think that we've probably got about a 60% chance of winning. I think the polls would have to be wrong,
Starting point is 01:51:46 but they'd have to be wrong in a pro-Kamala direction where normally they're wrong in a pro-Trump direction. And we've got 18 days, 17 days, man, and we're just gonna do everything that we can to win this race, but you shouldn't believe the polls, basically. And I say this right now, because the polls are all saying we'd win.
Starting point is 01:52:04 That's why it's 57-43. Don't buy the polls. Because here's the thing, okay. It could keep people from voting also. It could keep people from voting. But let's say, for example, that something happened. I don't know what happened. But let's say something happened. There's a fire or something. Yeah. Where the people who don't want to answer pollster questions are now Kamala voters, right? So you can't trust this stuff.
Starting point is 01:52:28 You got to assume that you just got to work your ass off. That's what we're trying to do. You know, President Trump and I do in multiple events a day at this point. And if you want, in my view, if you want to secure the border, have common sense economic policy, then Donald Trump is your man. And I say, man, something about Kamala Harris, and I know a little bit about you, and I've read about some of your political views.
Starting point is 01:52:51 We've invited her and Mr. Walz to come on. We would love if they would. Yeah, I'm sure you would. But like- I hope they will. But like Sean O'Brien, who's the head of the Teamsters, like one of the things that President Trump has sort of been known for is bringing more working class people into the Republican coalition, right? It's I think head of the Teamsters. Like one of the things that President Trump has sort of been known for is bringing more working class
Starting point is 01:53:06 people into the Republican coalition, right? It's I think one of the reasons why he's been very successful politically. If you look at like where Kamala is on the big pharma stuff, or you look at where she is on the foreign conflict stuff, she's like very pro-war. Or if you look at where she is on things like, how do we put tariffs on goods
Starting point is 01:53:28 that are imported from China so that you don't have the Chinese undercutting the wages of American workers. Right? Like the illegal immigration thing, like yeah, it's about fentanyl and drug trafficking, but when you bring in millions upon millions of illegal immigrants who are willing to work under the table, that undercuts the wages of American workers, right? So our own people get poorer and I don't have anything against of illegal immigrants who are willing to work under the table, that undercuts the wages of American workers, right? So our own people get poorer, and I don't have anything
Starting point is 01:53:49 against the illegal immigrants themselves. I have something against Kamala Harris who lets these people come in, but I want our people to be able, black, white, brown, whatever. I just want our people to be able to work for a solid wage. That doesn't work when you have people coming in like this.
Starting point is 01:54:02 Well, some of it is we have to have personal responsibility too, as people running companies to not hire I agree. those people as well. And so you have to enforce that side of it as well. I agree. You got to do both sides of it. I think we ought to make it harder to hire illegal labor. We also ought to make it harder for illegal labor
Starting point is 01:54:19 to come into the country in the first place. I agree both sides of it have got to matter, but I think that's actually why we're doing so much better among working people is because they recognize like open borders are not good for me, right? Fentanyl in my community is not good for me. Like this stuff with pharma is not good for me. And so they have become more open to Donald Trump. And I think that's a very good thing because I think, look man, between Bobby Kennedy, me, obviously the president at the top of the ticket, I think we're going to have such a cool administration that's going to try to tackle the big things and not just govern
Starting point is 01:54:55 along these bullshit slogans anymore. So look, I hope that ends up being true because I think we'll do a lot of good if we win. If you, no matter what happens in this election, do you think you would run again in the future? I don't know, man. It's so hard to even imagine running for anything after this because I'm so obsessed with winning right now. And, you know, like, I probably, you certainly probably would do another term in the Senate, but that doesn't come up for four more years because Senate terms are six years.
Starting point is 01:55:25 It's like, whatever, run nationally again. I don't know, man. That's a big thing. It's a big thing to put your family through. Yeah, can imagine. And I've seen it for two months, three months now that I've been the VP nominee. To run for that for two years, my attitude is,
Starting point is 01:55:41 let's get Donald Trump elected and let's fix as much as we can because then then then I think the country will be in much better spot. Like I don't mean to sound like a doomer and you know I actually really haven't thought about what I do. I haven't really thought about what I would do in 2028 no matter what but man if Kamala Harris is the president for the next four years we have four more years of open borders, four more years of not putting tariffs on Chinese imports, four more years of the crazy foreign policy that's pro-war all over the world, I really do worry that
Starting point is 01:56:17 the country's in a very, very bad spot. So I don't think too much about future politics. I just want to win this race. How many times do politicians say stuff that's just on the trail and then when it comes time to actually get an office and do Stuff it seems like that person disappears Me hopefully not at all Some politicians definitely say one thing and then and then don't govern that way and in the private in the privacy of their actual office. I mean, some of it's negotiation, right?
Starting point is 01:56:47 Like some of it is, OK, so let's say you have a tax plan where you want 10 things to happen. But then to get the Democrats to vote for it, you have to take out two of those 10 things. Like that's just the give and take of governance. But I don't think that's what you're talking about. I mean, what you do see sometimes is people who say something on the campaign trail, even though they affirmatively do not believe that thing at all. And that's just that's not you. It's just honesty. It's certainly not me. It's certainly not Donald Trump. They'd say what you will about Donald Trump, but he just says what he thinks. And I think that's actually one of the reasons why people like him. A lot of people are going to vote for
Starting point is 01:57:20 him, I think also because it's just the funny who he's the funniest dude they've ever had in there. He is incredibly funny. The shit he says is absolutely wild just the funny who he's the funniest dude they've ever had in there He is incredibly funny shit. It says is absolutely wild. He's got he's got a great sense of humor I tell you one story. Yeah, and then you have to go I know I know I have to go soon I've got you know my my person over here. I understand I want you to get home to your family. No, I know I'm gonna have dinner with my kids tonight So it's a big deal skyline chili and in nonsense. We're doing Skyline chili in Middletown Even if you have other chilling you just say that they don't want to tell me that's one thing I don't care if you lie about no man skyline is good. Have you ever had skyline? I've skyline go straight to the basement
Starting point is 01:57:54 I know that brother I have had it. I respect it I've had a wedding in Covington, Kentucky. I've had it at Skyline Chili. That's a good wedding, man. Those must have been good friends. Anyway, yeah. So the first time, not that he had ever met my wife, but the first time President Trump spent any like real time with my wife. Did he flirt with her or not? He didn't flirt with her. He was very sweet to her.
Starting point is 01:58:24 You know, gave her a big hug, told her she was beautiful. He's, you know, he's a very engaging guy. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Some of the media doesn't tell people about him, but he's a very engaging guy, very easy to talk to. But it's so funny, like my wife is super diplomatic. And so he asks her, he's like, Usha, you know, what do you think about your husband being involved in politics? And she's, oh, you know, it's nice. I like, you know, supporting him. He really cares about public service, loves the people of Ohio, just gives a very diplomatic answer. And then he kind of chuckles and says,
Starting point is 01:58:50 yeah, my wife hates it too. And it just like broke the ice perfectly. And then she could actually have a conversation with him because she wasn't trying to like talk to the president. Then she was just talking to a guy at that point. And he's just, he's got's got a very good way about him. And he breaks down those barriers. He says some funny stuff.
Starting point is 01:59:10 Do you remember that Al Smith dinner the other night? That shit was good. Yeah. I wonder if Tony Hinchcliffe helped him write that or not. I don't know. It's a good question. But I'll tell you, a lot of the stuff he just comes up with himself.
Starting point is 01:59:22 I mean, the line where he was talking about white dudes for Kamala. Oh yeah. That was tough. And he was like, I forget exactly what he said, but something to the effect of, well, it's okay. Their wives and their wives' boyfriends are all voting for Trump.
Starting point is 01:59:40 That shit was pretty crazy, dude. And like all good jokes, there's like an element of truth to it. My best wasn't even rubbed on lucky Chuck Schumer right there. I know. Squeeze a couple bucks out of the fucking insurance companies right there. Do you think our voting poll, do you think that our voting is fair?
Starting point is 02:00:01 Do you think the voting system is fair? I do, I do. I think we had some problems in 2020. I think the biggest problem in 2020 is that Big Tech interfered in the election. Like I really think it's... I can't believe that Facebook and Twitter when it was owned then, they admitted to like leaving certain things off and stuff and not and not facing any charges. They admitted to censoring American citizens weeks before an election, right? We'll have to deal. We'll talk about that another time,
Starting point is 02:00:25 but we gotta get into that. Yeah, if you'll have me back, I'll come back after we win and have a good conversation, but you're always welcome in Cincinnati, even despite your ViewZone skyline. Right, man, I respect that. We'll be cheering your mom on to get a 10-year chip. It's in January?
Starting point is 02:00:39 It's in January. Awesome, man. Mr. Vance, thank you so much for spending time with us today. Thanks, man. Good man. Mr. Vance, thank you so much for spending time with us today. Thanks man. Good to see you. I'll share this piece of my life out I can feel it in my bones But it's gonna take a little

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