Throwbacks with Matt Leinart & Jerry Ferrara - Jerry’s Life-Changing News, Fantasy Draft Season & Newfound Giants Enthusiasm
Episode Date: August 21, 2025It’s a big week for our guy Jerry! A special guest joins to help discuss some life-altering news in the Ferrara household and to break down the impact it might have on Super Bowl LX in Santa Cla...ra. Plus, it’s that time of year again... fantasy football draft season! Matt and Jerry talk about their affinity for and frustration with fantasy football while also revealing some of the random players that have helped them win leagues over the years. And finally, as Week 1 in the NFL draws ever closer, fans across the country are looking at their teams and thinking this could be the year we do something special! Jerry’s starting to feel some of those vibes about the Giants; is he off base or could he be on to something? New episodes of Throwbacks drop every Thursday. Make sure you’re subscribed on YouTube and following on all podcast platforms. Also, make sure you’re locked in on social @ThrowbacksShow on all platforms for highlight moments, bonus content, and to engage with the guys & the Throwbacks community. (http://throwbacksshow.com/) A big thank you to our sponsors: Wendy’s Find your new favorite Frosty Fusions™ flavor today with choices like OREO® Brownie, Caramel Crunch, and Pop-Tarts® Strawberry. https://m-wendys.app.link/frostyswirl25 Nissan The 2025 Nissan Pathfinder Rock Creek. Adventure ready and free from new tariffs. Learn more at https://www.nissanusa.com/ NHTSA When the stop-arm is out, lives are on the line. Stop Means Stop https://www.nhtsa.gov/road-safety/school-bus-safety?utm_source=sinclair&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=schoolbus2025&utm_content=fnr_custom#the-topic-stop-for-school-buses NHTSA Drive Sober or Get Pulled Over https://www.nhtsa.gov/campaign/drive-sober-or-get-pulled-over?utm_source=sinclair&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=labordayimpaired2025&utm_content=custom_alcohol 00:00 Intro – Breaking news 5:08 Fantasy football draft season 7:44 All Time Adventures presented by Nissan 19:32 Crossroads presented by NHTSA 20:00 Jerry’s wife joins the show 35:00 Potential Super Bowl dilemma 44:30 Flavor of the Week presented by Wendy’s 51:34 Jaxson Dart excitement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcript
Discussion (0)
I have the news.
We announced last week, we're going to break some news.
Matt, I have to thank you.
But I said, Jerry, you're never going to regret it.
Sometimes you've got to throw in the towel.
You just got to throw in the towel.
This is like three years of negotiations.
I'm fully like, this is going to change the dynamics.
You are too scared to allow yourself to be excited about it.
You just let me go like, I'll be all right.
I just need to freak out from time to time.
All right, here we are, throwbacks in the flesh.
Maddie, we're back in person.
Good to see you, bro.
You didn't think this was going to happen.
Every time it happens, I'm always like, it's happening.
Well, we do it more.
A couple of things to unpack here.
Number one, it wasn't just me coming.
My wife, who I love.
My wife.
My wife.
She sometimes, and I have a work trip that's up to her.
Fun standard.
She's like, oh, I'll jump on that one.
Me and the kids are coming to L.A. with you
because she lived out in L.A., obviously, for a bunch of years.
So me and the boys came, and I have the news.
We announced last week we were going to break some news.
Yes, it was big on throwbacks.
There's a lot of, there was a lot of news last week in the podcast world.
None bigger than what you're about to announce here on throwbacks, which is, what is it?
Partly because of his advice, uh, I got talked into baby number three for the
untitled Jerry Bree project is happening due date February.
I blame you a lot because you're like, ah, three, three kids isn't that much.
It's easy to be.
Boy, I'm actually, I'm very, I'm actually very responsible because one, I talked you off
a ledge for about the last nine months.
I'm not necessarily off, but yeah, sure.
I've, I've taken you back from the ledge a little bit.
um because i live this i'm like tracking like a year ahead of you and all this so it's like
i had the same worries the same skit the same doubts the same worries the same like i'm hesitant
like i love our life now all these things and it's been the greatest thing ever uh it truly is a
blessing it's fun it's still everything is the same you just got to keep going but i'm so happy
for you guys man i know it was a long tough it's hard it's hard as we get older in our age you know
yeah 45 going to be 46 when this kid's born uh and in honor
You're going to be...
That's what I'm saying.
You're going to be like almost like...
You're going to be like 60 when your kid's like a freshman in high school, bro.
Yeah, think about...
I'll be like 57.
Think about when...
Even if it's like a little girl, when that little girl grows up to go to like prom, right?
She'll be like 15.
And it's going to be like, hey, someone go wheeled dad out.
They're going to have to come get me.
That's how I feel sometimes.
You're still young.
I'm like, ah.
Dude, I'm three years younger.
Have her back before nine.
I'm not going to scare nobody.
Ages is just ages. Ages is a number, man. It's just, it's about how you feel.
It is a number. But I also thought, being that my wife is here, and in honor of the good news, I think we have to hash something out because due dates in February.
There's something else that happens in February. We usually have a, we had a big presence there last week, the Super Bowl.
So, which brings up a great debate of even like players in the past. I know we were talking about Van Jefferson, like famously's baby was born. The confetti came down.
I'm out.
Obviously not the same circumstances, but.
Well, like, at what point, at what point do you, at what point if the baby's not, like,
at what point are you allowed to leave to go to the Super Bowl to work?
Well, we're going to ask you.
And look, she's pretty cool, but I figured, look, the Super Bowl is important for us.
We had a good footprint, fanatics party last year.
I think throwbacks needs to be there.
This is a business now.
What's more important the Super Bowl throwbacks or leaving your newborn child and your wife,
like a day or two after your baby's born.
See, this is where my mind goes, though.
This is the family business right now.
I think you got to do it.
I think you got it.
If the babies before the Super Bowl, you got to go.
Well, here's some fun stuff to throw out on social.
And again, at throwback show on all the social platforms.
So guys, girls out there, if you had to be at the Super Bowl for some work event, whatever it is, how
comfortable are you leaving after your baby's born is question number one?
And then number two, if you had to call in a guest host last minute,
like if you're going to be live on the fanatics right carpet again
or at athletes first, whatever we're going to be doing at the Super Bowl,
and my little baby is not born yet,
you got to get a guest host, bro.
Means you need a backup, a backup QB who could come in and light it up.
As a quarterback, I don't worry about shit that hasn't happened seven months from now, okay?
I'm a day-to-day week-to-week guy.
As a paranoid Italian New Yorker,
I think about anything that could happen six months from now that probably won't.
That's what I'm thinking about.
We need to calm you down.
We need to get you some supplements or something to take the edge off.
Have you segueing out of that, have you started to get your fantasy football nerves yet?
Like what, when does liner, because I know you're nine weeks.
Oh, I've done 50 mock drafts.
You're mocking right now?
How are they anything surprising?
Well, the only problem is I know my draft order on my big league already because we did a, we did a full.
thing out of a hat a couple weeks ago that draft is in a six so you're middle 12 or 10 10 all right I like 10
I'm in a 12 man league too or 12 team league um I'm six and this is our big this is our big league
so this is the one I care about the most um so I've done every mock picking sixth and it comes out to
a lot of the same type of players you're going to get this this draft is pretty these guys are pretty
legit everyone drafts pretty
to the cuff like
there's a couple of reaches every once in a while
but everyone drafts pretty like
pretty like on top of
like best available or like kind of their
strategy so there's no like
holy shit why did you like there's one or two
so like I kind of know where I'm going to
go at six I've been telling my partner I'm like
we're going to get we're going to get
either like Jemir Gibbs
who's going for or we're going to get
Cid Lamb or we're going to get like a Justin
Jefferson because the first three have been
like Bajon, Barclay, and Jamar Chase.
And then anything after that, it's kind of like those three or four players.
Like, Derek, they're kind of been kind of high.
So, like, we're going to get one of the top receivers or we'll get, like, a Jamir Gibbs.
That's what we want.
So, like, I'm kind of just playing it off of basically.
So I've done probably 50 of those, dude.
And I'm in four other leagues, too, so we won't even go there.
Well, no, we're going to, I think it's time we have the fantasy conversation because I,
we talked about it last year on the show.
Like, I wanted to get away from it.
a little bit because I live in a betting state
and I enjoy betting more than fantasy at this point
because it's just a little more control
but I can't sell you on an auction draft right
you're just like snake draft like what is it if some people get so
I was like that for years like oh oxen draft I don't want to do that
it's so much better I just I don't know if it ain't broke
don't fix it dude I'm in five leagues like I don't want to
I don't need a six league you still get the enjoyment out of it
but you're a fantasy hater I love
I love I only draft in person on one
all the other ones are just online
like whatever but we have group chats on
on all of them
I still I still get
I still get like a high off my fantasy drafts
I love that shit
I'm gonna tell you in a second why
I'm mad that you made this big fantasy pitch
first we're gonna talk our all-time adventures
driven by Nissan because it factors into the fantasy thing
okay in the 2025 Nissan Pathfinder
the Rock Creek Adventure, ready and free from new tariffs, because Matt, I had an all-time adventure.
What is it?
Well, because of your big pitch of why fantasy's still awesome and you tried to talk me off
the fantasy ledge, I joined another league.
I went into a new league with some writer friends, some Hollywood types, right?
Good group chat, said yes to the draft time, didn't really pay attention to when it wasn't.
It was exactly when my flight was.
yeah so i joined this new league i talked a bunch of trash and now i can't be at the draft you and my
emergency contact matt can you draft for me and you were like uh no i said no because you don't want me
to draft an auction league for you because i wouldn't know what to do well all i know i could
have said yeah and then butch botched the whole thing all i know is i did find someone who i
went through my emergency contact list of people i would want to draft fantasy for me knowing
I was going to be on a plane, not trusting the Wi-Fi.
Everyone said no.
My nephew had football camp.
My best friend said, no, I don't want to do that.
Everyone said no.
And I got connected with someone that I've never met before.
A buddy of mine's colleague and was like, he'll draft for you.
This guy knows what he's doing.
We had four meetings.
And you know what I summed up fantasy to?
Let me just tell you.
It was all, okay, these are like the five guys I like.
These are the five guys I'm okay with.
And here are the five guys, please, by any means necessary.
Do not draft.
Please.
And then that was it.
I went on the flight with my kids, traveling with four kids.
Isn't it?
Two kids is an adventure.
Yes, you just went from four to three to two.
Because that's, I have, I'm like the Brady bunch now.
And I have to say, it was pretty enjoyable to be on a flight with good Wi-Fi.
He was drafting for me, but I was on.
You were on.
We were chatting every pick out.
And I want to unveil my team to you.
Let me hear it.
All right, auction 10 team.
Ready?
Okay.
Jordan Love and Kyler.
Oof, okay.
Oof?
Oof.
That's fine.
You obviously didn't spend a ton of money on your quarterback.
Chase Brown.
I think Chase Brown's legit.
All right.
We whiffed a little bit on running back too, okay?
We did not get the guy that we wanted.
So running back two might be Tyrone Tracy on the Giants.
Where I think we won.
Who were you going after?
There was some name.
We were going to try to sneak Kyron Williams, but he went for a big number.
That's the thing with auction.
Like, some of these guys go for giant numbers.
But then we went, Malik Neighbors.
Yeah.
And then we went, I'm on.
You got two PPR machines.
This is why I wanted to pitch you.
This is my real all-time adventure.
I'm a firm believer that two of the offensive rookies in every draft, regardless of what round,
two of them are going to kind of pop.
I drafted all of them.
Not the big, I didn't draft Genti.
Like, I'm saying, I went with the reach, like, Bucca, am I saying that right?
Ameca, Bucca, yeah.
You're saying it right?
Yeah, Beast.
I got Tet.
I got, I got a...
I mean, Tet was a top 10 pick, but yeah.
Okay, but he could easily...
Yeah, but he's in Carolina.
He was in Marvin Harrison last year.
He's in Carolina.
You know, I got golden.
I got golden.
So I basically have four rookies.
I know two of them have got to pop.
Two of them have to pop.
Well, T-Mack, as you call him, not Tet.
T-Mack.
Is that the...
He goes, yeah, McName.
He doesn't like Tet as he said that.
I'm not sure Ted is even a nickname.
I think you just gave that to him, but he goes, but T-Macky's, by the way.
People have been calling him.
He's an Orange County kid.
So I didn't mean to offend him.
He'll be the number one there off the get-go.
So that one has the most upside, I think, for sure.
And then Abuka, I love anybody in the Bucks team just because Baker throws a shit all over the feet.
Mike Evans is still doing his thing, but, like, Godwin's out for, I got Godwin's hurt, I think, for a bit.
But like Abuka will be number...
He might be number two, right?
He's going to be number two
to start of the season.
I really wish that with fantasy
and I still have a soft spot for it a little bit,
but I just really miss the in-person stuff, man.
And I know it's so easy to draft
on your phone and your computer,
but like, to me, that the camaraderie
was like half the battle.
Wasn't it?
I used to watch games against the dude I was...
Also, head-to-head?
Why are we still doing head-to-head?
I don't get home-field advantage.
Why are we still doing...
Now, I've been doing it.
doing this shit for 30 years. Why are we still doing head to head? What? How often? I have the
second most points in the league and I missed the playoffs because I lost to the highest points
for four weeks in a row. You go by based on points or no I don't we do head to head but I'm like
wow I have a really tough schedule this year. I don't know I just think it's I loved it in the
beginning I think the head to head stuff is ridiculous. You just got to appreciate it for what it is
man. It's just, it's just fantasy football. It's fun.
Keeps you in tune with the game.
I can't sway you into an auction league at least.
No, no, it's not that I don't like it. It's just I've never done it. So I didn't want
to draft for you. But yeah, I have buddies that ask me all the time. I'm just like, man,
I'm already in five leagues. Like, I can't have no time to do anything else.
Now, are you a draft or that like you'll take one guy in all five teams? Or do you find
yourself in that awesome situation where I like, all right, I need gentie here, but he's also
gonna kill me here i'm not that i'm more i i am a big i am a big like wherever like the players
fall to me where i'm at i kind of like like i best on the board kind of yeah like obviously
i always like i always target like i love getting josh allen dude like he's the number one guy
but like if he if he's there at the end of a second round on a turn like i would get him late
second round or like early third or like i love lamar too i've been a big so like you like having
one in the top there's guy no but i've also but then like we have also but then like we
had Jaden Daniels last year, no one knew, but I was like, I told my partner, you knew.
Well, we had, we had, who did we have? Maybe Herbert, who's been, you know, up and down.
Better than Joe Burrow. But then we were like, we got Jane Daniels. I think, dude, I think this guy
we might start by like week five. Like, he's going to be a star. And sure not, we had him.
And we wrote him for a long time. But, yeah, I mean, I think I'm just more of like, I'll spread
it out, but it depends on where I pick. If I pick in the same spot, I mean, yeah, like,
There's always guys.
There's always two or three that, like, man, I got, like, George Kittle in three leagues.
Or, like, Evan Ingram, I love.
Like, he's a late round, 10th round pick who, like, can't still get you 80 catches.
So, like, in all my mocks, I've been doing other ones, too.
It's like, I'm kind of targeting, I kind of get the same type of guys.
You know what I mean?
My boy, Charlie O'Connell, Season 2, The Bachelor, bro.
Yeah.
He is one of the best drafters back in the day because his whole thing was he assumed he, we could not draft
till after Madden came out.
And then he would grind Madden for five days.
And he'd write down all the guys with all.
He was like Al Davis.
He drafted Jamal Charles three years in a row because he was 99 overall speed.
Darren McFadden.
He took all the Madden 99 overall speed dudes running back away.
And that's who he drafted.
By the way, he won like that.
It was like Chris Johnson, Jamal Charles.
He had all the speedsters.
Well, those guys were fantasy just.
They were, but he was taking them early when people typical, like they hadn't popped.
It wasn't a 2,000-yard season.
Name a random fantasy player.
Yeah.
Like, in the last 10 years, not recent, like 10, 15 years, that won you fantasy league.
Yep.
Oh, God, he's so random.
I don't even know if I could think of it.
Believe it or not, it was a giant's third string running back who became the starter at the end.
What was his name?
It's going to take me a second.
He 100% won me to lead.
One for me. David Johnson.
Remember David Johnson?
Of course I remember David Johnson.
It was like two years of like.
Because that's when I started playing.
I think I was like, he won me like a league outright.
Do you want to know my worst, I remember my worst fantasy start of all time?
I'm a big, like, I used to be anyway, like, you don't know about this guy.
I was playing Charlie O'Connell in a championship game 10, 15 years ago.
And Arian Foster hadn't popped yet.
No, no, he was no one.
I played with him.
He was a beast.
I think he had, I think he finally got like 10 carries in a game the week or two.
before and he had like 10
for like 80 and a touchdown
I start he didn't play
one carry in the in the fantasy
Super Bowl one carry and then next year he went
on to become Aryan Foster like
first round pick
you know who did work for me too
Travis Henry did some work for me
believe it or not
Travis Henry
Travis Henry running back
God that's old
dude I've been playing this shit for a long time
so who was your worst one would you say
oh no I'm just thinking like David Johnson
I remember my worst I mean I
I've...
Who was that dude on the Giants?
He's not even on the team anymore.
Wayne Galman.
You didn't know, wait.
You weren't going to pull that.
Never.
I know the name, though.
Never.
If you said Wayne, I would just say Galman.
He won me a fantasy league.
And that's what I mean about fantasy and why it's what they goes.
You will, if you want to win your league by week 10, you'll have to find Wayne Galman.
That's the beauty of the waiver wire.
You just find the pickups.
When did we lose trading, though?
Meaning like, when did it become like, hey...
Yeah, the trading is bullshit.
I want your best running back and here.
Here's my third string running back and my second or third best receiver that you're going to try to convince me is on the come up.
I also, I do all those trades like are these fair trades, right?
You do it in like an evaluator thing.
I'm just more like how is it going to benefit an asshole in my league, which is not the way to do it, but that's kind of what I do.
So the trades in my big league, we don't even trade.
Like we try, but it's like it gets vetoed all the time.
And that's the only part I hate about it.
I have things I would fix about fantasy.
Just saying.
Toronto.
There's another great city that starts with a tea.
Tampa, Florida.
Fly to Tampa on Porter Airlines to see why it's so terrific.
On your way there, relax with free beer, wine, and snacks.
Free fast-streaming Wi-Fi, and no middle seats.
You've never flown to Florida like this before,
so you'll land in Tampa.
Ready to explore.
Visit flyporter.com and actually enjoy economy.
All right, it's time now for Crossroads, presented by NHTSA.
The next time you're out drinking, call a ride share, a taxi, a sober friend, or a designated
sober driver, the only decision that will change your world for the better is the decision
to call for a sober ride.
Drive sober or get pulled over.
Crossroads, buddy, we talk about Crossroads.
We talked earlier in this segment.
I am no longer at a crossroads.
I'm on cloud nine for you guys.
We are on the road to baby number three
and my lovely wife, Bree, is here to join us.
Matt's more excited about this.
We are breaking the internet today, baby.
In honor of Taylor and Travis episode, we are.
This is way better.
Are you kidding me?
Look at it.
She's glowing.
You're glowing.
Matt, I have to thank you.
Matt's a big part of this.
I will pat myself on the back.
I did have some, I did, we're on the same journey.
Josian, we have our six-month-old.
We've been talking about this.
You know, you guys haven't.
Just do it.
No, it's never that easy.
But I said, Jerry, you're never going to regret it.
And you got two beautiful boys now.
Your wife wants a third.
I'm down this past.
Sometimes you've got to throw in the towel.
You just got to throw in the towel.
You're like, now I do think it's strange that like our due date for baby number three is your daughter's birthday.
That's pretty strange.
Just timing of how that happens.
And here we are
You're there
We are
Listen, we're gonna be honest
Because we're honest
On this show
I was very
Scared and hesitant
Not because I love babies
And I love kids
And I love being a dad
I felt like I was
You know
Handsful
Which is like three years
Of negotiations
You
But he finally gave him
Yeah
I never knew how hard
To push it
Right
But then at some point
You said
And then I was like
It's an hour
or never like well let's let me ask you guys a question let's talk about negotiations since you
just brought up negotiations what kind of negotiations were going on in this process yeah jerry
i'll let you start well look again i was a little hesitant because you know my whole thing i used to
say debris was like are our hands not full like do we have spare time like your video with josie
which is a funny one when you released that you were having a third that you guys win like the best
announcement go check it out on instagram they're like we have like we have like
Life all great.
This is great.
Let's go F shit up.
I believe that.
Like you were kind of joking, but kind of saying,
I'm fully like,
this is going to change the dynamic completely.
But you'd said something to me.
But you think of all like the negative things first.
I do.
Before you think of all the good things.
And that's where I got you.
Like that's where I had to be.
Well,
ultimately too,
you said something to me like by year two
when we started talking about this where you were like,
I just don't feel done.
I know.
You said I just don't feel done.
like having babies
and I at first didn't understand
what that meant. I'm like, what do you mean?
We are done.
And that and you kind of turned
you turned our six year old against me a little bit.
He would look at me, Jacob would go like,
Dad, come on, dad. One more.
He would just hear us talk about it though.
I didn't really.
I think it's a great question
in like, in all seriousness
because I remember Josie and I's negotiation
was about a year and a half.
So it was a long time.
It was like, and quite honestly,
and I was like a hard no.
And I was like, and it felt selfish, but for my reasons, it wasn't selfish, but it was still like, I just like, no, we're good, we're happy.
We're in a great spot.
All the positive things, right?
Like, we're working, all these things.
And then she did say that.
She was like, and I think she broke down and she goes, you won't ever experience this or feel this.
But as a woman and as a mother, I feel it internally that I'm meant to have another child.
And when she, to your point, when she said that, I was like, I actually got goosebumps.
I'm like, I'm like.
damn like how could you say like one i'm in my mind i always knew we're going to have another
because i'm like i'm not going to do my wife will she'll regret it and she'll hold that against
me and i'll feel guilty the rest of my life and it was that it was that phrase and that what she
said i was like you're right i won't know but i knew how much it meant to her and it was just
a little bit of me like in our selfish world of like hey we get to do this stuff we're so just like
you guys you're a good system now we're a good but that was it and jerry had said you kind of
had said that too. So, like, what does that mean?
Did you guys do this thing where whenever you back, like, whenever she would back off,
then you would kind of be like, well, maybe we should because that's what Jerry does to me.
I would put the toe back in the water. I would not hear about, dude, I was out.
I would hear about baby number three for like two weeks. I would back off. And then all of a sudden
he'd be like, I like, I like this name. And I don't know why I did that to you. That was kind
of messed up. But I guess maybe deep down, I was, I didn't want it to go away either. You were too
scared to allow yourself to be excited about it like you didn't want to get there and rightfully so
like you never know what's going to happen you know like you could try you can not get pregnant
things happen and we were very lucky but you like that's just how you are in general what i will
what is it not to put you on the spot like what does it mean like as a woman to do that genuinely
like because it really hit me like it's like it just you feel it in your bones in your body you say
you can't yeah like i'm like it's not like it's not
like I want a vacation or like a bag or something like this is this is a deeper desire and I think
at any point a woman has to grieve that whether she's going to have kids or not have kids right like
you grieve that part of your life being over um but I just wasn't ready to do it I mean I could
have got myself there if he like truly truly if I really thought it was going to like blow up our marriage
or like I could have got myself there he's like what he's like you could have told me that around
And a half months ago, three months ago.
We had the same thing.
I think she would have got to it too, but it was just like, I just couldn't do that.
No, in the end for me, it was also like I, after all, the fear of it goes away.
It's like, it is nice to have a big crew, right?
To be like this big traveling circus kind of.
And then honestly, at the end of it, like I looked at our kids and our oldest was like all about.
I'm like, you know what?
When I'm long gone, there will be three of them.
together and I guess hopefully they all get along and they're they're a tight-knit you know
sibling group and I feel like in the end when my time comes down the road I'll feel a little bit
better by at least there's there's three of them four and you know it's gonna be I think that was
a hard part we were talking about it's like because I was the same way I was like you're so caught
up in the now in the moment like now is great Renee but Josie would always be like but think about
how special it would be when our kids are older and we have grandkids and there's just
big family where like christmases and all of these things and i'm like i don't really want to think
about 20 years from now you know what i mean but like it does it like you have to kind of sit back and like
and again well jerry jerry's go to is like i'm gonna be 95 well i do i do support that thank you
support that i'm 45 years old when the baby's born i will be 46 you are going to be the old
ass dad and pick up no you were by the way there's women having babies at this age come on no i know
And I know I have to carry the child or birth the child, but like 45, 46.
There's pros and constant.
You've lived a lot of life.
Like, you have a lot to offer now.
Not that you wouldn't have when you were younger, but.
You know what she did too, like two things that were sort of sneaky?
I don't know if Josie does this.
And those of you listening, I don't know if in your relationship, your wife or your husband does this.
Like, I would wake up at my normal time and there would be like four or five middle of the night
DMs on Instagram that she sends me forwarded that are all these couples that have like five kids.
And this is a, look at our family.
We just like let it go.
And all this like on the fence about having the third,
let us tell you,
greatest decision we ever made in all these Instagram clips.
Oh yeah.
But then I would talk to a few parents of three.
Most of them were like,
hey, look, the third kid just kind of fits in
and it's all good.
But every now and then,
there's the one that's like,
yo, three is no joke.
And they had like a look of terror in their eyes.
So that would always snap me back.
I think that the, the,
we have a six-month-old dog.
and our boys, and we have an older son, so we have four technically, but the three, it's
been easy because she's very easy. You guys got, we got a chance to, you guys got a chance
to meet her. She's been easy. And we have always been, credit Josie, a roll, a roll with the punches,
go, go, go, go. You guys do have that, but the liners have that line. By the way, we love
home time. We love, we love that. But like, we, there's never like a, let's not, like, let's just
do, dude, the boys are going to roll, the daughter's going to roll, and we're going to make it work.
You're not prisoner to the nap or the, you're just not.
prisoner to that and if you do it's just that's that's what could put a strain on a relationship
it could just put a strain on a lot of things yeah so for for to your point three has been really
easy for us because we just have that mindset of like yeah we're not going to let the baby's time
dictate everything that we do now we're yeah like again i'm definitely more like that you'll get there
babe i don't know if i can ever get but you got to just let it go you got it or else you're going
Well, I think it's time to, like, talk about something that I think we could work out here.
The three of us, it's relevant to the podcast.
It's relevant to our life.
It's definitely relevant to you.
I'm going there now.
Do you want to preface what the meat and potatoes of this talk is about what's coming up in a certain date?
Well, before that.
Is this about golf?
Well, no.
Before that.
Because I sold my soul to golf to get a third baby.
Like, that's how this really happened.
Tell everybody about golf.
But I was losing it anyways to golf.
Tell everyone about, tell Matt about golf mood.
I don't think you've met this version of Jerry.
This is a perfect segue because, hold on one second.
I did get Jerry.
Oh, you got a gift?
Is this a gift?
I got Jerry, I got Jerry, a new golf apparel.
So thick box, dude.
Our friends, my friends are Travis Matthew.
Hold on.
Here, hold on.
Matt, I thought you were on my side here.
Jerry, congrats on baby number three.
Here's some TM.
to keep you fresh.
Oh, that's wild sweet.
This is unfair what he's doing, though.
And then this really has nothing to do with the baby,
but this was also a gift from us to you because this is for you.
Aviator Nation.
Oh.
Here, give that to your life.
Is a good West Coast and like, I'm going to,
is that comfy for like pregnancy?
This will probably be post-pregnancy.
But it's put it away.
And it's so sweet.
It's also kind of for me to continue to get you guys to move out to the West Coast.
You're just little gifts to make sure that you guys at some point.
You told me you have to convince me.
You love Manhattan Beach and now.
So we're moving too, having baby number three.
We're moving back to California.
A lot of change.
Here, let's put this down.
But I got you some golf gear.
My boys over there.
But let's talk golf really quick, the negotiations of golf.
Because your husband got me into golf.
And Josie's a little bit like, seriously?
Oh, no.
I go, babe, I go, babe, it's like, he went to Scotland to play golf.
I will say, I went to Scotland.
He went to sit, like, the home, the birthplace of golf.
And I was like, he went.
I asked Jerry, I'm like, should I go?
He goes, of course you go.
I'm like, I asked Josie, Josie was like, this is, she's great.
She's like, are you kidding me?
You have to go.
Like, you can't miss an opportunity like that.
Jerry gets so many golf invites.
I know he does.
Is that my computer?
Like, it makes my head spin.
Like, he's way more than me.
When he's like, when he, I know when he's about to tell me about a tournament that he got invited.
How does it go? How does it go?
So, what's golf mood?
Yeah, I need to talk to you about something.
I'm like,
I make it sound important.
Where and when are you golfing?
Or like, more importantly, where?
Because he gets invited to like the craziest places.
Yeah, but that's amazing.
It's amazing because I'll tag along for some of it.
So through this podcast, I got Matt into golf and you got me to have a third baby.
I feel like you won that trade in a big way.
For sure.
Real quick.
Crazy golf.
I got invited to Patrick Mahomes thing.
Paddy Mahomes.
When was that May?
The baby was like eight weeks old.
Baby and Josie came.
This is talk about going just, no, no, no, listen.
It was talk about like just, and it's an easy flight for us.
Going with the flow.
We got a nanny there that had babysat her best friend.
So we had this.
We went out that night with a nine week old.
Now, granted, we ended up actually coming home pretty early because we were just over it.
But like we did the very nice dinner.
We went out, had some drinks like the bar, whatever.
And then, and we left, the baby, I don't know, she might get mad at it.
No, it was, but just going with the flow, the baby was nine weeks old.
Is that really, like, this is a little off-topic sports nerd for a second, though.
When you quarterbacks get together, is it like a club, like the quarterback club, like, hey, because you know what that's a lot, like.
It's pretty much.
Like you and my homes, it's almost like an unspoken, like.
I never even met my homes.
Right.
That's what I mean.
It's like, instant.
There's just a respect of.
Could you kind of have that with actors?
Like, you might not know the person personally.
Oh, we do the same thing, you know?
There's for sure.
Like when you're in the same room, it's like you can go up to anyone and be like,
older, younger, for the most part.
Some of the younger kids don't obviously as you get older, but like all the
get out of here, oh man, don't tell me nothing.
It's great.
And it's like, you just hang.
Like, what's up?
Oh, yeah.
Like, you know, no, okay.
This is a big part.
Golf negotiations.
Yeah.
Where are we on these?
How are we feeling about the future of golf?
Have I, how was my summer of golf been to this point?
in your opinion.
Like, have I abused our negotiation privileges?
No, you've actually been pretty mild.
Yeah.
I would say you golfed more last summer.
Well, just no.
In spite of like our negotiations.
There's a storm a coming.
Oh, I know.
There's a storm.
There's a storm.
There's a golf storm coming.
Listen, this is important because all the guys listening.
They need advice because we talk about this whole time.
Like, what do you tell your wife and you need to go golf?
I know it's such a silly thing to, and I wasn't basing like, oh, should we have this third baby on can I golf or not?
Because that's the most selfish thing in the world.
A little bit, a little bit of part of a little.
But, like, I remember when our first kid was born,
they, like, my friends, when Jacob was born,
I was just getting back in the golf, they're like, oh,
over under three and a half rounds of golf the summer.
I'm like, wait, I'm only going to play golf three times a summer
that'll never happen.
And I think I played like five, but it definitely is.
Our first baby, and we lived in, we lived in Williamsburg, Brooklyn.
When you can only play six months a year, that's terrible.
Golf in, like, Brooklyn is a lot harder, though, than Ohio.
To the suburbs.
Yeah.
I'm not a huge, like, it's a six-hour day.
Well, that's it.
And he'll go to courses that are like an hour and a half away.
I'm like, do you have to add three hours on to your already seven-hour day?
Like, where am I going for nine hours?
Tell that about golf mood.
Golf mood is.
I mean, apparently it's pretty bad.
No, no, no.
Listen to this.
Oh, your golf mood.
No, his golf mood.
What is life like for you?
Oh, yeah.
I wake up.
There's, like, breakfast's ready.
The kitchen's cleaned.
Like, he is.
Boys are you, honey.
What are you doing today?
Is there anything can help you with before I leave?
Although, you know what?
Your golf game must be really bad right now.
It is terrible.
The golf mood has changed the last few times you've gotten golfing.
My golf game is in shambles right now.
You know what?
I know that because your golf mood has not been nearly what it usually is.
All right.
Are you ready?
This is really why you wanted to have you on here because this does relate to the show.
It affects Matt, it affects Eddie, it affects Adam, Rich, Andrew.
It affects a lot of people, including you.
What's up?
It arguably the biggest way.
Okay.
So we have our due date, February 4th, and obviously, like, third.
Not that it matters, but yeah.
Clearly it does.
And obviously the big thing is you just want a happy, healthy baby, you, everyone.
Like, that's all that matters.
So assuming that's going to happen.
Mm-hmm.
The Super Bowl this year is what, February 9th, I believe, is the Sunday.
Last year we did our big fanatics, red carpet live show.
Where is this year? We'll get to that as far from you.
This year, and we have a new sponsor about to come on, who I think is going to want to be a big part of our Super Bowl show that we're going to do.
Keep going, Jerry. He got this.
Spit it out.
Do date February 3rd.
I technically, if we were not having a baby, I need to be in Santa Clara.
Santa Clara is in just outside of San Francisco.
Not easy to get to.
When is it?
February 9th.
February 9th.
Oh.
I need to be, I would.
Which means the show is like the night of the 7th.
Oh my gosh.
So it would be fly in the 7th.
So I'd be like.
Super Bowl is the 8th.
So no, no.
Fly in the 6th.
Super Bowl Sunday's the 8th.
So fly in the 6th.
Show the 7th.
Fly right home.
Yeah.
Assuming you are on time, what it to you is the cutoff of like,
obviously if you don't have the baby by like February 3rd or 4th.
I mean, if I have the baby.
How much, yeah, like what's the timeline we're thinking here?
Because this happens with players all the time.
Sure.
Just let her answer.
I'm nervous, man.
I know you're nervous.
You're talking too much.
Let me think.
I talk a lot when I get nervous, Eddie.
I mean, I would like to make it work for you.
Right.
But also knowing that this is a big moment for our family.
and I don't want to push a baby out
and then like you're on a plane.
I agree.
I agree.
So like.
But you,
if you go in,
do your stuff,
get out,
we can probably make it happen,
but you do know some women go later.
Well,
what happens?
Okay.
But I actually,
this is on your side.
I've gone early with both the boys.
He's just beating around the bush way too much.
If the baby was born.
There we go.
Yeah.
You know what?
It would be so much better if he approached things this way.
Yeah.
Like he talks.
too much. He does. He does this with our kids. Like me, like, I'm like, just get to it. If the baby was
born, say, Friday morning, maybe 3 a.m. Which is the, okay. And he, he has, we have big shows
Saturday. So he has to be on a flight, maybe a red eye Friday night. So that's a day. Is that
does, he just puts you on the spot. He likes to put people on the spot. But that, but that, to me,
before you came, I was like, that's obviously the very last you could even get out. Because if it's
after, you just can't go. But the baby.
here, all your family's there.
If I, if all my family is there and I feel comfortable with how the boy, I'm honestly more
worried about, like, the boys being taken care of than myself and the baby.
Well, you, but, yeah, but.
Yeah, but you got family, you can make it happen.
We've got six months.
He's nervous because we will have to get a guest host in there.
By the way, I'm not nervous because I know it's all going to work out.
Right.
It's all going to work out.
The guest host could be fun.
He won't.
I just kidding.
Well, we're going to start auditioning guest hosts.
Friday morning, dude.
I got you.
I got you that extra day.
I don't think Friday morning.
I don't think that's.
Friday would be tough.
I might have to step in.
I think you'll make it.
I think you'll make it.
I think so, too.
By the way, amazing.
It's all going to work out.
It'll work out.
And if it doesn't, get your guest host live.
I wanted to take this moment to just say publicly.
Does Jerry make the Super Bowl?
I was going to go a different route.
Should we start a bet?
Should we start a bet?
What should we do?
Should he go?
What's the cutoff?
We got to ask the...
I think that Friday is crazy.
That's my opinion.
I'm just saying, I think that's wild.
I don't think I'd want to go at that point, obviously.
And I think that's a little wild.
That's true.
He said that before.
He's like, I don't know.
My opinion.
I think that's like, all right, I get how important this is and work stuff is important.
It also just depends on...
We have a great show going here, a great thing going, but I feel like that's like...
You'll be tired.
You'll be tired.
If I have the baby overnight, you're going to be a little tired.
What if I was playing in the Super Bowl?
ball and you hadn't had the baby yet, you would just be like, go play in the Super Bowl, right?
Yeah, I mean, this, no, like, no offense, baby, it's our third baby.
I'm pretty comfortable birthing.
She would let me play in the Super Bowl.
You would play, so if you were still active playing quarterback and you were having, like,
your baby girl now, and it was Saturday before the Super Bowl and your wife did not go into
labor yet, and you're just waiting, you're going to the game.
I mean, has that, like, are there any, like,
Cool stories if that's happened.
I think I've heard that.
Regular season games or whatever.
Guys have like finished games and literally gone like right to the airport.
Like ran to the hospital.
Yeah.
Or well,
sometimes they're on the road so they're not where their wife is.
I played with a teammate who her,
his wife was giving birth during the game and in Arizona.
And he just went straight to the hospital.
So he missed it.
But he was there.
Super Bowl is like.
Well, I did want to publicly take this opportunity to say I was terrified.
I was scared.
I was unsure, a lot of positivity from you,
positivity from you, and we made the decision as a family.
And I have to say, I am very excited.
And I'm happy that, you know, I know it's going to be hard.
If you give me the room to do my freak out thing,
we're like, ugh, like, if you just let me go like,
I'll be all right.
I'll be all right.
I just need to freak out from time to time.
Yeah, look, I'm glad you're coming into terms with it.
I am.
No, I'm jacked up.
We are probably going to have another third crazy boy.
Like, just no.
This is her hedging and trying to put out into the girl vibes out into the, right?
And he's got three too.
So, uh, like, I got, I got 50, 50 shot.
You're even wearing a pink necklace thing.
We got, I got girl vibes all over this.
50, 50 shot.
So I publicly will say I was on the fence, but I'm so happy now.
And I'm so ready to go.
And if it is a girl, I am just going to enter training because I feel like I need to be
more physically threatening to all the idiots that are out there.
So I might go on steroids, maybe.
Would you care if I went on HDH steroids?
Just get jacked up.
Another boy, I'll just go for another one.
We'll be that family that has like five boys.
If it's a girl, I want to be like jacked up.
So when they see me, because Matt, you know, he got a little easy.
He's like six, five.
I feel like at my size, I just need to jack up.
So if anyone sees me, they probably think I do jiu-jitsu or I'm like a UFC fighter.
You could get to college for our ears.
In my marriage, I'm the non-confrontational one.
And my wife would be like that.
Josie would be right up there.
She's like, can you, I'm like, if I had to, she's like, would you even, I'm like, of course I would do something.
Of course he would.
But, like, I don't like anything fighting like no, like, hey, none of that.
I feel like your little girl is going to be the most well-protected little girl in the South.
But she's got three older brothers of various ages.
But at times she's like eight, she'll have a 26-year-old brother.
She'll have like a 12-year-old brother and a 10-year-old.
It's just, I dare you to talk trash to your little girl.
It's over for you.
It's a rap.
So, congratulations.
Honey, I love you.
So, so excited for you guys.
We reunited on the pod.
It's been a while since we've done a pod together.
So bad for business for life if you don't remember.
When was that 2012?
Yeah.
Well, you look beautiful.
Thank you.
And we're going to take a quick break.
All right, it's now time for the flavor of the week.
Presented by Wendy's, find your new favorite Frosty Fusions flavor today with choices like
Oreo, brownie, caramel crunch, and pop-tarts strawberry.
I feel like our previous guest is going to maybe enjoy some frosty soon.
Just saying she might have some cravings.
Dude, she's so great, man.
It's all your fault, man.
It's all your fault.
Your golf game's going to pick back up.
Buddy, I know we briefly touched upon it last week.
That preseason doesn't mean anything.
I mean stuff for the players and the reps and all that.
Like, for sure, you can't really tell anything by season.
and I don't want to bog you down with giant stuff.
But you're going to bog me down.
Well, this might be as good as it gets this year for them, right?
They are 2 and 0 in the preseason,
and they have looked freaking phenomenal.
And Jackson Dart looks phenomenal.
I think what it is is you got, you got Russell Wilson,
who's...
throws an 80-yard moonball in there.
You're going to have good quarterback play,
which unfortunately you haven't had.
had in the last however since Eli and yeah and in the last few years at you i don't even really
count yeah so like you just there's going to be a consistency of that position and then you have the
future and the future is the kids a stud and with the right coaching that all all all all things point
to them going this way instead of kind of just like what are we doing so does this matter though
as a Giants fan, right? Again, like, I'm realistic and I know, first of all, they're in a horrendous division to be good in. Like, the Eagles are great. Commanders are now great. I think the Cowboys are going to be better Dax there. So they haven't beat the Cowboys in like 12 years. It's been so depressing. And the offense, there's never been big plays. There's not players to get excited about. And now there finally is, can you ride off the vibes even?
of the preseason.
Like, the skill may ultimately come back around.
They may win five or six games,
but I feel like these vibes could propel you,
at least to a good start.
Just because you have a more talented team.
I mean, you got to remember in the NFL,
it's, there's so much parity, man.
Every team is really good, right?
Even, even like your worst team
is still competitive and damn near every game.
Maybe you win, but you lose by a couple touchdowns,
which in the NFL is a blowout, kind of.
But like, yeah.
like everyone is paid everyone's professional everyone's very good so um just because on paper you're
more talented or like philly i mean phil's a very good team doesn't necessarily mean or equate to
wins so something to your point if you have you have improvement in the most important positions
um you have great leadership in the locker room or you have guys and again i we're speculating
who knows um and then you have a young star in jackson dart that everyone's just fired up
about there's just there there there's a pulse in the in the locker room and in the building that's
probably different from the past and what you're saying is does that carry you yeah sure does carry
you it's like in anything it's like it's momentum it's uh it's energy it gets guys going a little bit more
they want to come to work then all of a sudden you start the season i mean look the giants
could be the commanders anytime the giants can beat the cowboys like like it's so it's they're
it's like this man like when you're you just go out there and play good football so like and then
all of a sudden you start winning some of those games,
then you start to really believe.
So, like, yeah, absolutely.
Now, it is preseason.
You can't put a ton of stock into it.
I think for the Giants, you're excited that you have a star in the future.
And it looks fun.
And it looks fun.
You have a star at Ryder Receiver from last year,
Malik Neighbors, who I think,
I hasn't even played really as preseason writer.
He's been hurt a little bit, but he's a star.
Russ, Russ is solid.
It was a great deep, but we haven't had a deep ball since.
Yeah, you're just funny.
And imagine, like, you're scoring 7 to 10 points more a game.
14 points more game probably is what good quarterback play leads to.
Dude, that's 9 and 8 to 11 and 5.
Well, you know what I mean?
Here's something else that I don't know again, because it's all professional athletes.
But again, bringing it back to the acting world.
I've been a part of some cast, whether it's entourage or even like indie stuff
where the vibes are high.
everybody wants to be there
everyone kind of likes each other
seems like the Giants do
but then you start also
here because like look if I'm not in the scene
I don't really know what went on
but then you'll show up to work
the next day and be like oh dude
badge did this scene
you actually had the whole crew crying
that's how good this scene was
and then you start to go all right well shit
I better my scenes coming up
I better kill it like you start
riding off not competitive like I want to be
better than you but I
Whoa, Badge just did that.
I better match it with a...
I better just try just as hard
because that word starts to get around
and I feel like that's a little bit
what's happening.
Like, guys are starting to play good
and I feel like other guys maybe look at that.
Overthinking it.
Why are you laughing at me?
Because you're just a desperate New York Giants fan.
You want desperately so bad
for your team to be good again.
Look.
By the way, good start preseason.
Good things to build around.
Let's just see.
You take it week.
two week, bro. That's what you do in football. Let's unwind this for one more second. Because
now that we could finally say, at least in New York, we no longer ever have to discuss Daniel Jones
again unless he balls out in Indian and we could say, of course. I fought hard for Daniel Jones
on throwbacks all year. I fought hard for him. I hung around with him, but Dable, he's about to go
start for the Colts. I know. That's what I'm saying. Of course, he's going to light it up. You know he's
going to light it up. You could see that headline. Daniel Jones stuns.
the Giants realized he was good.
But here,
Daibel is kind of on the hot seat.
Like, not real, but, you know, two bad years in a row.
Does this mean that we really undervalued that playoff season
when Daniel Jones won a playoff game and out-duled Kurt Cousins?
Does that mean Daible is maybe way better as a coach than,
because right now they're like almost trying to get him out.
Like, Daible's the problem.
Giants have been bad for this is it.
If he doesn't win the series out.
By the way, he just bought himself.
more time by getting Jackson Dart.
Right, because then he gets to fully,
he basically gets Jackson Dart's career, early career, right?
If Jackson Dart plays this year, you can like have some growing pains,
but like if he looks great, competitive, we're on to something.
Like, let's keep him together.
I implore you, go look at the box score of that Giants, Vikings playoff game
three years ago on the road.
Daniel Jones and the offense looked fantastic.
And now you cut to years later, you wonder,
how the hell did he do that?
Because it was, it's the same team.
Last year was the same team.
Isaiah Hodgins had 130 yards and two touchdowns.
Bro, it's, come on, bro.
Do you know who got me a little pumped up is your son Cole?
Yeah.
Because I didn't know he knew, no, he knows Jackson.
So I was doing my Giants hype thing, and Cole's kind of being real coy.
He's like, yeah, no, Jackson looks coming.
Oh, you're calling him Jackson.
Like, you know him?
He's like, yeah.
And then he's like, no, no, the dudes, he, you know what Cole said?
They text each other.
He said, like, he wants to be a great court.
And that fired me all up.
I'll tell you about something about Jackson.
You know, you kind of like, there's a trait, like the it factor, you hear that,
but there's a certain aura or like Joe Burrow has it, right?
There's a, there's a little bit of a swag.
You see in all these sports.
Baker Mayfield has it.
He has it.
Cleveland.
Well, Cleveland botched that.
And now he's look at him.
Unbelievable.
He's a great, like, playoffs, borderback winning games and just love the dude.
Jackson Dart now I don't want to make him the next Brady but like he has a aura and an energy about him where that whole team is like oh hell yeah this kid's a real deal like he just he has that he always has he had it old miss by the way he had it at USC you probably don't remember he was at USC I that's what also wanted to stay but link Lincoln brought Caleb Williams in and link and they basically take Jackson to the dart you know they just said like Caleb's coming and so he was he was forced him into so he was he was picking
between, I think it was Ole Miss or like an Oklahoma
or something like that.
And I remember we had a conversation because Lane is the best.
Lane's one of the best getting NFL guys ready, college system,
you're gonna play in the SEC, you dominate there,
you're gonna be, you're there.
And he, I mean, we didn't have a say,
but just that's what he did.
He just went out and balled for three years at Ole Miss.
Kid can run, he's tough, he's durable, he's got a hose.
He fits into everybody, like he's a real deal, dude.
Now you've got to go perform.
Well.
Name of the game.
I also feel like though, did you, were you ever like the vet with the really, really young dude?
You know, I know you were the young dude.
I was still pretty relatively young.
I was like 31 when I retired.
But I was saying like the position that Russ is in and even James to a degree where like both talented, Russ clearly has stuff left.
I mean, Kurt was there with me when I got drafted.
Right.
And Eli.
Like how do you think you, did you ever stop and think like how you would have been with like?
Like, Russ knows.
I'm going to be here.
Hey, if we get hot and go on a run, I'll be around.
But if not, this kid's probably coming in
around week eight or nine, maybe 10,
depending on how we're living.
At that point, and Russ in particular,
because of his last couple years,
like he, I mean, Justin Fields started last year.
I know he was dealing with injuries, though.
I think Russ knows at this point in his career,
it's like there's probably a short leash with my play.
And especially when you draft the first round draft pick.
But, I mean, he's also 37.
Like, I mean, I think he just goes out there,
a job he'll play all year the best thing jack's gonna do is just sit this year and learn like maybe
play some maybe get some meaningful snaps here and there but like sit and learn because you have
two guys by the way if they keep three but they keep jamis they got two dudes who play a lot of
football in the NFL really like jamis would be a great guy to learn from as well you know so
is malique neighbors the number two receiver and fantasy football if james winston starts taking
snaps because look what he did with jerry judy last jerry judey had like
400 yards and two games.
Could be a lot of interceptions of two.
Right, but I feel like neighbors might have a few, like 12 catches for 2.10.
Neighbors are going to have a big year.
I mean, look what he had last year.
He had over 100 catches last year with subpar.
I'm sorry, I'm buying the vibes.
I'm buying the aura.
We should get out of here now, huh, buddy?
We've been talking giants for 15 minutes.
I'm not going to crush you with that, but I had to get you a little bit while I had the time.
Well, good to be in person.
Yeah, dude.
And we'll be back next week.
Congrats again.
It's his fault.
He talked me into it.
Big number three.
Thank you.
Thank you.