TigerBelly - Ep 273: Jessimae Peluso is Our Sunbeam

Episode Date: November 24, 2020

Bobby gives an M. Night Shyamalan intro. Khalyla wears Nelly bandaids. Jessimae shuts the door. Gilbert is the Filipino gecko. We talk the airport Karens, "cute vs ma'am", vagimples, and the Korean/Jewish Alliance.patreon.com/tigerbellyPlease support our sponsors.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey Prime members, you can listen to Tiger Belly add free on Amazon music download the app today. Oh My god, and you got sweatpants on What's that on your shirt is that like a little clip monster? It's cute It's Rick Glassman's little goblin guy. I love that. What's it say? Take your shoes off? He's very Asian. He's the most Asian white guy I've ever met There's so my best friends are Jewish and Korean and they always want to start this pack called Koreans and Jews calm because the sensibilities are very similar. Oh, yeah, yeah, they are pretty yeah similar Well, we're both oppressed societies, right?

Like isn't just existence like to the very nature of it. Aren't we oppressed? Yes as individuals? We are but there were times Jessam a there were times Jessam a there were times in our American history. I'm not American the world history where groups of people were mansplaining oppression You're pressing her. You're oppressing her. You're literally oppressing me with your man. I am yeah. Oh shit All right, go ahead Do

We've got Gilbert in the house. We've got white white white white white white white piece of shit Right there. He's country country white. He loves chickens and getting it. I'm dancing my beautiful My beautiful girlfriend Kalilah is in the house Top bun. She's the best in the world that did it did it and then we have and Then we have oh gosh. Oh Shit, you know what happened? I Don't know when I did it, but I did this thing called JFL JFL and

You know, I think they tell me who's on the lineup and I go don't know him Kind of like him What who why you know me you ask these questions, right? You show up you show up and you see um Andrew Schultz, you know, you see the names, you know, I mean big Joe dirt. What's his name? Big Joe big J R worker Yeah, big Joe dirt You got um, you know me fancy English dark guys like Jimmy Carr. Yeah, you know me. Oh, yeah edge edge

pure edge Riding cerebral good crafty, but then you know, I look at the lineup and I see this young lady on it And I see her perform and it reminds me of Kind of like me the way I live my life and I do my comedy wild Just pure wild and I go I thought to myself I mean you look at someone like Whitney and you go Oh, she's really good at joke riding presents herself, right? But then you see someone like this one

And it's just like Just you just flapping. You know what I mean? What's flapping? Just flapping shit. You know what I mean? Just Just You know what I mean? Just flapping. You know what I mean? It's flapping. Yeah. Yeah clapping flapping all the yeah Yeah, yeah all that just out there just fucking lighting fires and like in 10 minutes and the audience is like What the fuck is and you're in the back going holy shit and then you know and then you you meet her you meet this person and there's you know

there's a connection and There's good feels pretty good feels but you know, I really just thought to myself You know, you know, it's so funny when they say back in the day when I started I'll introduce you in a second back in the day when they started five minutes I'm well, you know female women, you know back in the day they go women Some male comics would say aren't as funny, you know as uh Male comics and then you know, you just kind of have to point to something like this like the flap flap And you go really?

Because you can't follow that You know, I mean really that's way more, you know, multi-dimensional, you know Then you you standing white, you know these white guys used to stand there, you know, ah Wow, what's going on around? You know what I mean? Why and you know, you know, and you you as an audience member you go No, right? Right, but then you put her up, right? It's a psych, you know, I'll type it flap it, you know, you know, I mean You know, I mean anyway, she's really funny. I did her podcast out there. I don't know why it took so long

for her to do ours Maybe because she's so busy or something. I don't know but um the give her a run or Paul just to make palusso I don't know how that was gonna go. It was pretty good though. It was like an M. Night Shylaman It was yeah, what do you mean for the ending didn't really make it But the beginning started off really good and then you knew Yeah, you like him. I do please please book me in your covet proof movie Yeah, I love your movie. Yeah, I've seen them all. Yeah, I've really seen them all What happened at the lady in the water? What happened at the end of that? I think she got her period

Yeah, they're a little blood in the pool, right? Yeah, that's the movie I saw. Yeah, that's the movie they I should have seen You know what I mean? That would have been a really good movie. What else? There was another one called the happening What happened there? Oh, there was a wind cloud. Yeah, the wind. There's a queef cloud in the wind Yes, and it killed mark wallberg's family. He said guys We got to go There's brace. Yeah. Yeah, but first let me do 16 push-up Yeah, that was that movie. I'll make you guys a hamburger. Yeah, you know, I mean my family were in the kitchen with my hamburgers

What isn't hamburgers good? Wally burger Wally burger good. I had one in the mall once and I had soupy poops after Did you really I'm not blaming the burger. Yeah, yeah, and my natural anxiety. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah So you had soupy poop after wallberg. I did what else is a shamblon? Um, the visit the visit was Yes, they went to go visit grandma grandma. That was fun. That was a fun one. That was a fun one. Yeah. Yeah signs Hello Signs walk on fawn ox Walk on fawn ox

That movie, you know what? I love there's so many moments in that movie. That's so good What I love is the scene where walk on fawn ox, right? Was in the he had, you know, they fell asleep Gip the gibson. You know what I mean? Yeah, the gib shout out Shout out to the gibson Apocalypse is a great movie by the way. Yeah, great movie great movie So there's a scene where they fall asleep and then walk on fawn ox took the television and put it into that little like storage room Yes, right. He opens it and he's like in there freak the fuck out. Yeah, that's a pretty good one. That's a good one

That's what he realizes the shit. It's about to go down And he kill and he defeats the alien with a fucking bat Right in a glass of water Wait, wasn't he like an ex baseball high school like baseball star? Swing away Swing away and then the little girl collecting all her little water glasses. She's in like the amoebas. I mean The amoeba the amoebas. Yeah. Yeah, she didn't like it was contaminated. Yeah I had to fast forward to the flashback scenes of his wife Mel Gibson's wife pinned against the tree I had to fast forward. I I laughed

I just somebody sat down and said what if we got his wife? I don't know why he sounds like this In my mind, it's like some dudes like she's listen hear me out. She's pinned against a tree legs dangles magangles Still talking giving away the thing it's going to make them survive Which is like things that are used in like all domestic abuse cases in Florida. It's a glass of water and a bat. Yeah Yeah, I like that movie now. Let's go do um unbreakable Unbreakable was delightful. That was delightful because it got into like the superhero realm, right? But made it realistic. Yes, right? It was a new spin on superhero. It really was. Yeah

And then obviously what she just didn't get enough calcium, right? He just had a bad diet Yeah, he had he had malleable bones. What do you get? Ostogenesis imperfecta. Excuse me that bun is filled with information It's not hair. It's there's a brain up there. Yeah She's a regular brain in a bun. She's a bright one this one. Yeah, I can tell. Yeah. She's um a sparkle cookie Yeah, yeah. Yeah. She didn't like that so much. What do you like? Sparkle cookie is not what this is No, I I wouldn't say sparkle either, right? Is that what he calls your choo choo? Yes, he also calls me which I hate the most sunbeam

Sunbeam, I think that's sunny about this beam. This is a beam of dark just dark aura This is doom and gloom It I wouldn't yeah, I don't really know you that well at all, but sunbeam doesn't beam doesn't match It's like when someone calls you cute And you're like, that's not what I am. Would you rather be called cute or ma'am? Oh god, there you go the dilemma. I'll I'll take cute. I'll take cute. Yeah. Yeah a cute cut Or why why why why what what's wrong with ma'am? What's wrong with ma'am? Hello, ma'am. Like if I if you're at the you're over the hump. Yeah, if you're at 7 11, right? I'm almost guy, right?

I'm almost guy, right? You are okay. You and I open the door with a cat I know and I open the door. I open the 7 11 door and I go ma'am. That would be offensive to you Yeah, I probably would kick you in your gun and not go into the store right, I just Because of the connotation Ah, it's all right because you dudes get older and you're distinguished. We get older and we turn into like Salem witches That's just what happened Yeah, it's like she's good looking for her age and then a guy's older. You're like, oh, wow. He looks great. What the fuck?

Yeah, really does Clint Eastwood look great? His face looks like an aerial view of grand candy So true put me in one of your movies. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, I feel like if you blew Clint Eastwood It would just like dust would come in Right and it would just explode in your mouth a proof of dust get off my dick Right and I'd be like, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, because I'd be dust in my mouth. Now. Let me say something about um Let me something but uh, you know, I was looking at a Sarah Silverman And I followed her on insta and I and she was doing her podcast and I thought to myself

You know, she's what she's got to be 50, right? Really? Well, she's older than I am. She's eternally youthful. Yeah, I don't know what she does, but you're the same Yeah, but how old you get you're gonna be internally youth youthful. I drink babies blood You do. Yeah, I'll I'll just prick their finger and drink it throughout the day Not like a gulp like a big like a glass. Yeah. Yeah, it's not like a big gulp. Who's baby 11? A couple just, you know, Angelina Jolie's house is a great place endless endless A lot of baby blood and you get Vietnamese gook baby blood You know

It's gonna get you in the sizzle reel for QAnon The hits Because there's no more shows we got to get on something. What do you think the credits will be? In like 2021 maybe when we start working again and get back on stage What do you imagine the new credits will be because it's no longer seen on this show in late night, right? What it's like Like the zoom park collin quinn zoom parking lot HBO special, which looks great. Yeah, what do you think it's gonna be like? Um, you know, I would probably be like, you know

bill birds youtube video, you know what I mean? rant number three or something. I don't know. I mean, have you done zoom shows? I won't I won't either I can I tell you why we won't I'm not really interested. I'll tell you why I'll tell you why I want to know you and I won't right because we're a specific kind of performer We are and we're we're big Right. We're not like talking heads. You know, I'm not a whenever I do alt rooms. I'm in intimate room I I I just I feel like I'm eating it. You know always hate it the lab

Yeah, and also the and I also feel like they're like if I try too hard Like if I do a thing I start dancing, right? He's trying too hard. What is this? And it's like, of course. I'm trying hard Yeah, yeah, yeah, I want this. I want you to want this that we're physical. We have energy and we need an audience Yes, right and I think the one thing that I enjoy from your performance Is I feel like we're similar in the sense that each night's a little bit different Yeah, because we make the room the room is a character in the set. Yes And when you're on zoom, it's just it's I can't do it. So you haven't done any since the pandy No, I did one

I did two college shows, but they I told him I'll do a q&a, but I can't do stand up to like One show they set me up on a laptop that projected onto a small screen in the quad And there were like people walking across a lawn and their flip-flops with like their uber eats bags Yeah, yeah, and like I was just screaming at people in the background. I can't just stand up in that I couldn't even just stand up if I was there. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah Yeah, so you you had booked the shows before the pandy. I did right and then you had to you know follow through with it Yes. Yeah, that's a good thing to do. I would have been I would have demanded that too q&a q&a

Yeah, and we're good that way as well. Right, right. Let's just roll and have some fun What do they had where they had kids just like zoom in questions? They had kids sitting in a lawn Missouri state, Missouri university. Yeah, they all sat in the lawn on the quad and they like asked A laptop question Are you gonna do that at home? I mean, oh, yeah, yeah, I didn't have pants on I legit I know this is like an ongoing joke, but I legit did not have pants on for that game And when when we get back to the stage? Yeah, okay. Yeah, I am going to demand no pants Because I've been used to being on the zoom show

Yeah, yeah, yeah, so no I don't need a fruit basket in the green room I need to be on stage and no pants without anybody saying it's a hate crime Yeah, yeah, do you know what I mean? Uh-huh. So when you you're not going to do it until Probably it's over there. It's it. Let's be real. Is it coming back? Is anything coming back tie-dye face is anything? We are in we look like you look like a fucking newt Like a lizard Because I'm filipino. No

Wow Hey, oh, underneath the light you look like you're like absorbing the light energy is some sort of it's his terrarium Yeah, yeah I was like, I've never heard that insult yet. Jesus Are there newts in film we do we have really big big ones we have big echoes. Oh, that's funny So it could have been taken as a yeah I'm a I'm a good white. No No, I

I believe you knew that That newt was an actual I just put water all over this really expensive chair. I'm sorry jesse. May. Are you seeing anybody right now? Brad Pitt How is he? But seriously, did you guys see that fucking russian with the pillow lips he was dating? Yeah, I have the one with the open marriage. Yes with a 90 year old. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah I mean with a restaurant sewer. Yeah, I don't I don't know. She's up on the information. So Brad Pitt Uh-huh my boyfriend your boyfriend dating like a 26 year old supermodel who was married to a european restaurant sewer

And he's nice gorgeous. He's 90 Who brad? No, the the the restaurant tour was like 69 69. They have an open marriage Open marriage, right? And she was seeing brad brad was her side piece brad was a side bitch They went to the south of france together Came back splitsville now him and I are totes serious Yeah, she must be beautiful. I mean beautiful. Yes. She's gorgeous. I'm just hating on her pillow lips Right. They're not natural. I can't imagine and if they are I want the dna from where she I mean, she's gorgeous

Look at her. Are you kidding me? She's pretty gorgeous. Yeah. She's absolutely The cealy posturpedic mouth. Yeah, yeah, you could take a nap on those things. Yeah, it's a beautiful face Yeah, when did but when did when did that become something? I never have it growing up though I never when I saw that I think people talk like that with lips. Yes But I never saw like this. I never go. Oh, that's hot I don't have you you do make fun of people without lips. That is true and your girl has a beautiful mouth She's all her mouth is you have a beautiful mouth. Thank you. Her mouth is one very big Great mouth. You gotta get them out. Yeah

I don't like I don't like white chicks when they're they're like this. Hi, I'm Samantha. They're like, hi, I'm Yeah, I don't like that. It's I feel like that's gonna come back though. I guarantee you We're going to pendulum will eventually swing over to the thin lip side. Oh god here is hoping imagine just like extracting the Fucking fat out of my lips. You know what? I'm gonna buy the Kardashians lips when they reverses And they take them off. Yeah, I'll just hold one of them like this. Yes, you know, I mean and I got I got Kim's blower lip But you know, they don't say it's gonna look like a fucking baby whale. They don't stay they don't stay their fillers They're gonna dissolve over time. Oh, no Yeah, it's like hyaluronic acid and your body like eats it eats it

It was just a joke and you guys oh well you guys got science with it You guys got science with it when I did a fucking whale joke and then I got science with it too much brain between What the fuck is going on around here? Well now because the lips when they detach from the you know, I don't give a fuck They just bypass your joke. I know right killed you see that. I saw that. Yeah. It's a bullying Female bullying. It's because of COVID. It's because of COVID. It's because of the pandemic We're just used to being inside. There's no more shows. There's no more live shows now. Everything has to be explained Yeah, you can't just enjoy shit. Yeah. Yeah. Are you working a lot though or no? I actually have I've been fortunate. I have worked a couple times doing like COVID proof things

Like I booked a Netflix thing that was awesome and fun. What was it? Uh, it's a reality base show. Was it no title right now? Oh, no, uh kind of around tattoos and people's struggle Oh, yeah, yeah, cool a lot of fun But I had to leave sex my mom got super sick So I'd like break the COVID production and fly from LA to upstate New York to be with my mom. Is she okay? I don't know. She's been in the ICU for like two months. So that's been fun. Yeah It's been difficult. Oh, no, it's all good. It's not. I mean, I think Here's my look and outlook on life. I already you and I have talked about this

You know, we're both a part of the dead dad's club. Yeah, you are too. Did he sleep? Yes Hey, look, there he is. Wait. He's in a box. Yeah, that's daddy. That's why he does that. Are you serious? With his phone on top of his ass And I mask his mask. Yeah, you got oh see you got your whole dad My sister gave me like a travel size. This is half. This is half. This is lower half lower half Oh, you so it's literally is his ass. Yeah his ass and his legs. Yeah At his feet penis I asked for that a lower half. No, you can't request that. Yes, we did Did you really? Well, I said I said to the guy go

Because my brothers are gonna split and I was split I go Please try to get me just the lower half bird's lower and he's like He goes because if there's a ghost, you know what I mean? I don't want the upper half all Boo, you know what I mean? I want just legs running. That's fine But if I see the whole boo, you know what I mean? I don't want it So my brother took his and I think I think it says it's a girlfriend's house because he doesn't want the upper half Like you're haunting his shit, you know, it's so funny what his mom had didn't want the ashes And so they brought them over she brought them over here and he didn't want the ashes brought them over

He's been transported everywhere. None of the Lees want the ashes. This guy's traveled more posthumously than he's ever been alive Are they stamping his fucking passport? Where you going next week? He's like, I'm gonna go to Aruba No, I mean, it's weird. It's super you get superstitious You do literally the the moment the day that your mom received it. She received it at night She flew to Burbank. That's right. I remember telling telling me I remember her telling me buy me a ticket right now I can't be with these ashes for more than a day And so we got our ticket and she came just to deliver the ashes. Yeah, some people are strange about it Yeah, it's like it depends on what you're like you said like your superstition is

Yeah, I don't I'm not down with the ashes. I threw my dad's like in the pacific ocean real quick. You did Yeah, I didn't even get him a fancy box. Keith Richards. Keep Richard plastic bag. Let's throw it. Let's let's go Yeah, put it back in nature. You know, you know, Keith Richards snorted his oh, that's right. He snorted his own ashes No, his dad's ashes That's not science He's mixed his dad's ashes with cocaine. Oh my god and snorted it. I mean that sounds about right. Maybe that's why he's alive Maybe right. Maybe we should cut up your dad Let's do a couple of slices. You know, what's weird is is that because for me like I go

When I'm feeling unhealthy or I think I'm gonna die soon because I'm getting older I always google Keith Richards, right? Because I go well if he's alive Right, I'm gonna be fine. Yeah. I mean that's how was he alive? He's put everything in his everything through an era Where nobody questioned anything. Yeah, but if it was on the table, they put it into an orifice I just have this belief that genetically there are some human cockroaches that can live without their head for 20 days You know what I mean? Like you can behead them like my aunt was one of those Rest in peace. She the cockroach finally died but it took

It took about like 26 strokes and like she just after each stroke. She would just Go about just drinking a whole thing of coke full sugar. Yeah, it's like those places around the country the blue zones Have you heard of those zack aphron taught taught them to me You heard about the blue zone. What's the blue zone? It's not yeah, like uh, what's that called like uh down to earth his show But there's blue zones all around the country where people the survival rate is the highest And they're like oh like ok now. I'll send in how is it right like people live like over a hundred. Yeah Okinawa there's one in in Serrano, Italy, I believe is there one in Hawaii because remember when we went when we went to that island, which one kawaii

There's gotta be one. No, that's a that's an energy vortex. Yeah, but it's blue zone energy vortex bingo bingo bingo bingo. Is that her sparkle cookie? I said cortex I like that one. I'm a sepio-sexual You hate it when people say they're sepio-sexual. I am vegan and I'm a sepio-sexual vegan. It's like I will stab you Yeah, what is a sepio-sexual? It's the one who is attracted to someone's intellect. Yeah, like you're attracted to like intelligence and science Which you clearly are lacking bobby Well, I got I got both right so when I met her on tinder, right? I didn't know her. I looked at the photo right and I went

Oh, yeah, right when I looked at the fight would go. Oh, yeah Were you holding your pain when you looked at it because you know from from not inside but on the outside I was like, oh, yeah, I was going and then you know once I met her. I'm like, oh, this is a double You know what I mean? Like I'm winning the lot. Yeah, she's she's she's right You're a man. So then that because if he was she was just hot, I think maybe it would have maybe lasted a couple of weeks And try to get that, you know, I mean You know, I mean, I don't know what that was That's how I do it. You know, I mean

But because she's bright and I liked her personality and she was funny and all the things And dark and dark too dark cloud and dark cloud that I go. This is gonna be a long journey And it's been eight years now. That's nice. That's a nice way to look at it though. A relationship is a journey It is a journey. We've grown, you know in different ways Um, you know, we have conflicts Mm-hmm. We have huge fight right before you right right when you pulled up. We are rip his What was it about? Have you eaten? I've eaten a lot today. My good ice cream was a lot of thing

I tell her what I was about, but I fucked it up. I'm sorry. Listen I'm gonna tell you what happened. Okay. Tell him what it's about. Listen, I'm gonna tell you Okay, I'll tell you what it's about and I'll tell you what happened as well. Okay is um So that front door is pretty heavy and um, I don't have a key to get in Right, but I smoke so You were on your way And she always says to me it makes me angry that you don't close that door because we have animals in the house

And they've escaped before and it's just a whole thing and I feel like I always carry the burden of catching those animals Especially on the street. Yes Okay, so I open the door and I had a decision to make I go she's gonna be in her second. I'll just take two just quick drags I don't want to bother right so I'll just leave the door open a tiny bit, right? Because googie, I know that our cat was right there and he's not strong enough. It's a thick, you know orange metallic door These are the my processes easy. Okay. It's I'm smoking and then all of a sudden is googie's outside Right. He'd gone out

Right, and it was a door a jar more. Yes I know I go in and when when I heard her thing. I go, oh, oh, well, you're fucked In my in my mind, I'm like, you're this is absolutely because we just got too huge fight about it last week And the week before and the week before it's an ongoing Um year-long thing where it's like, what is it gonna take for you to understand? Listen, listen, I can't it just he doesn't have it. He doesn't have the that like how he is. Is this is it a rebellion? Just stop. Just stop. All right. Who's therapist says it's um destructive entitlement. Oh

Where it's like fuck it what everybody says I'm gonna do it my way anyway. Yes, it's exactly that's exactly Why you don't know shit? That's what it is I was gonna say it sounds like it's beyond you worrying about the cat and it's like this like this rebellion like this need to rebel against just general Yeah, you You white piece of shit now garbage human You fucking I know you. All right, so let me just say something. Okay. Let me just get this done. Okay. Go ahead

And I'm being absolutely sincere. All right. I'm glad we have the background. I hope we have a guest here No, I'm just saying this is fine. It's on record. We need this on the record. Just I'm going to be absolutely sincere Okay, he looks like a background actor like a rejected one from Fargo All right enough of the roast. Are you like a hurt me? Okay So you're absolutely right It seems like I never learned and that I'm going to continue to do it for the rest of my life and that it's frustrating for you Okay, but when it comes to this one issue, all right

And there's nothing that I can do to like, you know prove it to you unless I just do it and I'm gonna do it Okay, I'm never even if I have to walk around. I'm never gonna keep that door open again. Thank you I am here. I'm witnessing. Thank you for being the witness The Filipino geckos witness Yeah, tie die guy and the left is witnessing You know relationships are hard and oh, yeah, I do have destructive entitlement That makes perfect sense. Yeah, I do, you know, but um, I know I wasn't always like this Well, that's still how the destructive entitlement gets there is the fact that you felt a huge injustice growing up

You don't just become Yeah, you know, you feel this need to have it your way now more than ever because you feel like life had wronged you so Badly in the past. So it's like I better get it my way finally It's like retribution. Yeah, and when you have a little taste of it, you don't want to let it go You're like, nope. This is how I want to do it and I'm gonna fight the tsa guys for the rest of my life Do you fight tsa guys on what everything like what like just to fucking I've seen the way you dress at airports I remember You dress like like like a make-a-wish kid in disney

I do I do I have a video of it You're coming off the plane. Yeah, you legit look like somebody threw you in a sales bin Like at the Goodwill and you just grabbed you just like Like a grown man and you were in flip-flop. I know I don't know but it's called destructive entitlement my friend So the tsa I go through a different security line She can't even go through the fucking line with because I'm not combative like that. I just I'm like it's pretty easy to get through Yeah, what do you what I'm in line right? No matter how long the line is

My focus and my eye line is at the fucking guy so even if it's like a 45 minute line, I'm just The whole time walking looking at the guy can't wait to get and jesse may he'll do this He knows that certain things aren't allowed on carry-on, but he's looking for a fight. So he'll have something on there He's too lazy to take the things out that he knows he's gonna get caught for Yeah, I'll put like bottles of water on the bottom of the thing. Yeah, just just so They have to take it all out and then when they don't put it back perfectly because it wasn't perfect Is that the way you fucking opened it?

And they go, oh, no, but this is the bottle of water. I go exactly the way you I found it. He's a karen. He's an airport karen right And then you know what I love when this happens when they when you go to the you give them the ticket and your light ID Right and they get you through to go to put your stuff through the machines, right? Every once in a while. This is when I love when this happens a tsi just out of nowhere. We'll walk up to you and go so Where are you going?

I love when that happened. Why didn't I go? None of your fucking Like you don't bobby. Do you really? Yeah, because it's illegal what they're doing So you have what what is your beef with airport? Just trying to make a living you and in in arie together. That's what that's the that's where I learned it arie I never learned it. Why would you want to take like airport etiquette lessons from arie? I had beat you. But that's where I learned it. I was at the airport once and he goes, yo, dude, you're being too nice Yeah, what do you mean? I feel frustrated right now. He's like let your frustrations go. He's jewish. Yeah

Koreans and jews I go they're like the police. Yeah, they have no authority over you. They're not the police They're not law enforcement. They're just you know, they're just employee. That's why he's he's he's a poke the bear Yeah, and so he taught me some of the rules and some of the laws when it comes to it But here's my strife with them. All right, and here's my thing is they owe me 42 000 liners Because they used to fucking after nine nine was it nine eleven nine eleven 42 after nine eleven, right They took every fucking lighter from me

Why you think I'm gonna light it on fire? You know how hard even if I wanted to fucking light the plane on fire with a lighter How would that doesn't that would never work? Would it I what is the what's the one light everything looks flammable On the plane. You're right. It's all fabric. I'm just saying but I'm not gonna do this like a fuselage I don't know what the fuselage sounds like a like a room in In the rocks house It sounds like a like a place in it like a like a man cave on his property. Yeah

You're right, but I'm not gonna do that I told you I wasn't gonna do that anymore at the airport and have I done it No, not since he's gone therapy and he's been called out on his behavior. I don't do it I you know what I do now I wait in line and I'm just And then when they asked me I go, yes, sir Hey, where are you going? But he is very I'm going to um Philadelphia to do a show sir. I'm sorry. All right. Have a good day Have you done shows? No, I'm just saying this is what I would okay. Yeah, but I've been in therapy for a year and I'm not doing that anymore

but but I am Never mind go ahead. Is this couple therapy or is it individual? We do some couples both. That's great. Yeah. Yeah. I'm a huge proponent of that Yeah, I love it. So your mom can we go back to your mom? Yeah, so your show Is your mom, um, are you communicating with her every day? Yeah, well now they shut down visitation because of cove. Oh my god, so they're but the the hospital the icu is they FaceTime us Yes, oh, they do so we're able to do that. Yeah. Yeah, and she's not you don't know if she's getting better or not She's a very complicated case like she went in In I say day two of me filming my sister calls me and says she's like in a coma of sorts

And she went in for like a twisted colon, which oh, that's weird. It's so weird. Yeah, like I love that band I was just gonna say it sounds like a band sounds like a bad a bad band at coach She had a twisted colon twisted colon and that's emergency surgery. It's like a 50-50 shot So as she was waiting to get that done She went into cardiac arrest and coded out and they had to like defibrillate her so all those insults to her body just caused a avalanche of residual issues so now we're just sort of

Dealing with all those issues, but like as I was saying before about the dead dad's club thing and your dad passing I think when something like it happens like when you have a huge loss As painful as it is and as hard as that grief is you still Feel for me it opened me wide up like losing my dad opened me wide up into A place that didn't that fear didn't really have a lot of residency in You know what I mean? I think fear didn't really have anything to latch on to because I understood what it meant to love something and to lose it And now with my mom

It's not that i'm not afraid to lose her. I just understand what that process is a little bit more And so I just embraced the unknown I just see embrace the unknown about the baby cry man That's a really really kind of like that's just very cathartic thing that you just said Yeah, I think that people a lot of times like you know like even even if we have no Idea of how to fix it. We still feel this like inherent need to like control everything external in our lives and I think that like kind of letting go and kind of allowing yourself to just

Walk through all those bad feelings No matter the result is Will kind of get you it there is a sense of relief that you're offering yourself in that way where you're like You know Let it be. Yeah, exactly. Let it be and it's hard as humans because I think naturally we want To control things it's a part of survival. So there's like this battle between our You know sort of instinctual existence and our emotional existence And trying to find the balance between those two things like there's a certain level of fear that keeps us alive

But we're not batting off saber-toothed tigers anymore Right the saber-toothed tigers are inside of us right those those those demons are the ones that we have to deal with so I just feel like The loss is the most important lesson in life and the more comfortable you get with loss The more you can be present in the day to day thing. What kind of books are you? I'm sorry. I'm not No, I mean I'm just saying you sound so fucking Good right now. Oh, thank you. I'm on a sativa blend

I I mean, are you like is there a are your other books that you're reading or do you have therapy? I mean, how are you getting to this this level? Um a lot of shrooms Are you being real? Yeah, I do shrooms. I do microdosing. Oh, wow I do the marajays I don't like to get too, you know, I like to feel my feet on the ground. But also I think again losing a little bit of your Connectivity to the earth sometimes in a physical way you can get into the metaphysical and think about what really matters But a ton of therapy a ton of reading

just a lot of moments with myself and just sort of juggling that rubik's cube of your brain and trying to figure out You know, why do I think the way I think and what can I do to To make myself more present so that my whole life feels It just feels like it's it means something and it matters Yeah, you know, and I think that ultimately what you're saying is Correct, and I think that I wish that even some like I wish I had heard somebody say it like that years ago that like There's more meaning

In the unknown there's more meaning than like I think that what my always had a fear of things Kind of falling apart in my life and me just trying to always glue things back together And I I spent my my brain spent so much energy My not being present in what was happening right in front of me was always like glue this back glue this back And I think there's you ultimately find a lot more meaning when you just say fuck it. Okay Because you're always gonna have to glue. Yeah, you're going to have to glue Yeah, and let's be real gluing shit is the most fun. Yeah Not fun in the sense of you know

This is a great day fun in the sense that that's the grit of life And no matter what you're always going to go through something that breaks you down Or something that requires you to be broken down so that you can Become a better person. You know that that whole saying like there's no breakthrough without a breakdown in There's no sense in anticipating and worrying about the breakdown. It's gonna fucking come Yeah, and then our therapist always says they've done a lot of like studies like scientifically proven studies that like the amount of worry that you possess has no it does not

Change the devastation for whether it when it actually happens, right? It doesn't actually prepare you for the bad thing That you've been worrying about for six months It makes it it might even make it worse because then it's a self-fulfilling prophecy I knew that was going to happen. Then you become just this giant ball of like um You know thinking that you know what's going to something bad's going to happen and it's going to happen for sure Yeah, and it's just today. I was talking to my sister about my mom and she's like, you know, you have to prepare yourself You have to prepare yourself for what could happen and I just said no, I don't

You might need to But I don't Because in the preparation so much is lost You're losing like you said just being present in the moment. I'd rather Wake up and accept what the day gives me as opposed to worry what tomorrow has to bring Those are the that's the only way to exist in life I don't know what's going to happen to my mom So if I don't know I choose to live in today where she's alive

I'm not going to think about tomorrow where she could be dead. I could be dead tomorrow before her You know, yeah, so did you guys want to tell a couple dick jokes or? No, I don't who's that guy that we like the spiritual guy from hawaii. He died a couple years ago ramda ramda. Yeah, it's great Yeah, like people would ask him But why do you like being in the presence of because when people die they ask for him to be there, you know, and he enjoys it Yes, he does. He likes he likes to be there experience people in their Last like moments of life. Wow because when they pass it's the it's the it's the It's truth. Yeah, it is. Yeah, it's truth and he gets overwhelmed by it. Yeah. Wow. Yeah

He says the dying process. He's like there is no more truthful moment in someone's life Yeah, when they exit the world and he likes to be in the presence of that truth I'm like, you know, my mom is a hospice nurse. Oh, wow So, um, she goes through that a lot then. Yeah, she's sort of a little bit of an emotional robot So she puts like these emotional walls up so she can perform her job really well um, you know, try to be just as objective as possible and not dump her feelings and stuff, but um, you know, like When when people pass they'll tell you the same five things Either the same five regrets the same five things that you should do and it's really just like don't sweat the small stuff

Don't stop worrying. Don't look too far ahead. Just like live it up now now. Yes I mean think about what you would say to yourself. Just like 10 years ago. I would say that to myself Stop worrying about the boy and the thing and the chimple and like Is a chimple a chest pimple? It's a chin pimple. Oh shit. I had a chest. It's a chest pull Just a chest pull and then I remember Well, remember when Nelly would put band-aids on his face. Yes. Yeah, and so this is when this is in early 2000s And I was really really insecure about my chest pimples. I don't know why I got them I got those two really like gnarly like cystic chest pimples. It looked like I was allergic to air

Wait, would your chest pimple get like white white heads and yeah And so I would just put band-aids and then I would tell people that I got into a scrap I refused to let anyone know I had chest pimples Yeah, I was just like, yeah, I got into like I got into a fight and this bitch scratched my chest I would turn my chimples into moles and be like, yes, that's what my friend did. So smart. I'm Cindy Crawford Yeah, yeah, do you still get chimples? Not as much. Sometimes with the masks now. Yeah, but not really anymore I burned my skin. Why are the ones

Underneath this so pale. Why are those so pale? Why are they the worst and they're not even visible? There's the tiniest little thing right ruin like when you have a cold and you blow your nose all the time And there's always just like a little cold. Yeah, nostril and also, you know, it's gonna nimble When you get a nimble, right? You you cannot you think to yourself It hurts now but and there's no whitehead because you know, it's going to be four days. Yes of living hell But they make these great little patches. Oh, do you use it? They're like little pimple patches. I'm not going to name a brand because they don't sponsor me Hit me up. I'll give you that

The package. They're just little patches you put on overnight Wait, hang on does it relieve the pressure? Because you know when I think what hurts me is when they're cystic And they're just like trying to push out of your skin, but there's no exit Yes, and so now you have to use a little lancet to just You know create an exit. Oh, you're professional. Yeah, I don't like the feeling. I like the Then it shoots into the mirror It's not like a kung fu movie

Sound effect Can women get vagimples? Oh, yeah, it groans. I just popped one last week. Wait, wait You have vagimples where in the hole or the on the lips get a pimple all over where pimples on the on the hole Whitehead. There's yuck. Can I just say yuck? Have you seen your nuts? Like two giant pimples I haven't seen my specific nuts. I mean everyone's seen your nuts. Okay. First of all, my nuts, right are wrinkly. Do you know why? Do you know why? No, because they're wise Okay, they know thank you so much. I just pictured the turtle from never ending story

But I don't look up. I yeah the nipple the testicles aren't a beautiful thing. They're gross. They are gross They look like like a creature's Jowls. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. They look like a org's jowls. Yeah. Yeah. They're so why do you suck on them? Because it pays my rent You hear that Bradhead Actually, I don't need you to pay my rent because I pay my own rent. So a vimple what when you get a vimple, right? What do you do? Do is it like any other pimple? I mean hot compress Oh, I put my cookie right into the hot shower. Oh

That's smart. You know, they should make like a little like a little like a like a vag head to like attach to The shower somehow like a little pussy like a little you park your pussy right into it Yeah, and it just you just put it on there and it just kind of you know, you like, you know It'll be really good. You know, you have the light mask for your face to handle the zits There should be one for the vagina. Just yes. Just keep it on. Yes There's a lot, you know, there's a lot of folds down there. Why don't you I know how a vagina are you sure? I've seen that a couple times A couple times a couple times in the magazine. It sounds like you don't keep track of your pussy in this house

Yeah, there's cats running all over the place. So the veg, right? Okay. Uh-huh This will this will look I've never seen one Why why can I do this? I would like I would like the record to show That a Korean man is mansplaining of a vagina to me I don't know what about my face says that If anything my outfit displays that I know a lot more about vagina than most I don't know much about the vagina. I'll be honest with you. Continue with your I have no I had nowhere to go

Try your best. When I was doing this. I was like, what else are you gonna say? What else you find something Bobby right something right now? This is all I have nothing, but I'm gonna say this Okay, I don't even know much about my own dick. Really? Yeah. I know it's there. I know it works All the functions are there. It's like, you know, a fountain machine at at at mcdonald's or whatever, you know You're like, I can get stuff out of it. Yeah. Diacote works 7-11 7-up works. You know what I mean? You mean I can press that little thing to get water. You know what I mean? It's free. Yeah. Yeah everything everything kind of works. Right. Do you know what the vas deferens is? What? No, she said

What is a vas deferent? No What's a vas deferent? What is it to guess guess what a vas deferent is Vas deferent a vas deferent Vas deferent. Yes. A vas deferent is uh, let's spell it out for us first. V. A. S. D. A F. F. R. E. N. C. E.

Deference I love you had two F's there. This needs to be a new segment on the pod where where Bobby Tells what he thinks a body part is. Yeah, you can tell us what's a vas deferent. Vas deferent, right? V. A. D. R. Wait, that did that. Would you like the origin of the word? No, no, no. Yes. Latin. Latin. Oh, there you go. It's a new Latin stand-up comedian. It was a trick question. Vas deferent is a comedian on Netflix. Okay. Oh, I know what a vas deferent is. The vas, right? The vas is the vagina. Okay. All right. The deferent is the deferent Deferential layers, right? And microcosms and organisms. Whoa. That layer within each other that works in a world in which Everything kind of co-habitates. And then it does transport something. What is that? It transports fluids.

What color is that fluid? And the fluid is in a yellowish white White. And what's it called? What's the layman's term? What? Pussy juice. But for a penis, it would be. What pussy juice? Cumb nuts. Yeah, thank you. Did I get the spilling beat? By the way, this is the turtle that your nuts look like. I mean, girl, tell me how close on a scale to never ending story turtle. That's virtually identical, babe. It even has eyes. Okay. So what is it now? What is a death for that? You said it. It's a highway for your spermies. I have it. You don't have it. Oh, I thought it was for you. No, it's a male part. Well, it is for us eventually, but

You want to get pregnant. So what you're saying to me is that like if I slice open my penis, God willing, you know, it never happens. It's not in your penis. It's outside of it. No, it's in your pocket. Oh, the extra two. It's in your pocket. It's in your dad's ash box. You legit have your dad's vas deferences. You do. You have his vas deferences. Oh, I do. Right. So the death, death's reference is in the, um, it's in the death's reference is in the fucking sacks. Okay. Teach me. Go ahead. Where is it? It's in the sacks. It's, it's like between the, the, the sack and, and it goes into the urethra. Inside then. Yeah, it's done on the outside. It's done on the outside. No, no, no, no. It's done inside for sure. Yeah, for sure. Yeah, yeah. Yep. And it's in here. Uh-huh. In your peen. It's in my peen that connects all the stuff. Well, just, you know, it's the, it's the highway of life.

It's the highway of life. Yeah. Okay. What does it look like? Right there. It's, it's right next to the scrotum. Mm-hmm. It's the little line. It's the cord. And it goes all the way up. Yeah. It's on your, it's, it's, so basically your balls is where you, you, you store your sperm and it has to travel from your balls into your, your shaft. And that's just the 405 freeway. It's a 405 freeway. Ah, it's a 405 freeway. Yeah. That's, I like it when it's explained in freeway. See, now you know a little bit more about your peen. Yeah. Yeah. It's not La Cienaga. No, it's a 405. But it's a 405. Okay. I mean, it's probably, you know, the Shawshank Redemption. What's that highway? It's a sauce and cut off. Did you like that movie? Shawshank Redemption. Yeah. I like to say it. Shawshank Redemption. Shawshank Redemption. I think, I mean, anything Morgan Freeman narrates is great. Yeah, he's great. I feel like he could narrate a rape and it would be fantastic. Have you, have you seen the show? It wouldn't be as brutal. It wouldn't be as brutal. That she was walking down the street. Probably shouldn't have worn that scarf. The man approached with an intense gait. Terrible Morgan Freeman impression. It's like a drunk. I don't do impressions. Hey guys, I'm going to take a really quick break to share this dope ass product with you. Man crates. Man crates, guys. Man crates is the perfect gift for the, for the, for the, for men, for real men. Guys like Bert Harry Kreischer, right? Sometimes Bert Harry, Fatty, Fatty guy. Oh, that guy.

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No, is it good? Oh my God. So there's criminal UK, Spain, Germany, France, but it's basically, it's, it's going to sound really unappetizing the way I'm going to describe it. But it's based, each episode is just in an interrogation room. Ooh. And that's it. And then the whole story unfolds and basically the person's either guilty or not guilty. And you would think like theoretically, you're like, Oh, that sounds like the fucking most boring show ever, but it's so good.

The writing is like the criminal mind. Yeah, it's basically it's, it's, it's, um, um, it's just an interview. Is this the person? But the writing is so spot on and great. And the acting is at a level. Like it's one of those shows where I watch it. I go, Yeah, I'll never be able to get that show. That's the next level.

I wonder if they took like actual interrogation. I think they did. They might have. But the one episode that you should start with is with Kit Harrington. You know, I know. Oh, yeah. Well, John Snow. The reason that I think that you're right about taking real interrogations is because

one of the episodes has to do with a Bataclan theater shooting in France. What did you call me? You know that when the Bumblecloth theater. Is, are they booking comedians? I think so. Bobby and I want to do a set. Yeah. They have the Bataclan theater in France.

Remember they, um, when they had a terrorist, um, um, a guy, how many people were shot people in the Bataclan? Um, you know, I'm talking about. I do. How long ago was that? 40 years ago. I kind of, you know, it's where that death middle of Eagle. What's that about?

What's the difference? What's the death metal of what's it? Eagles of death metal. What's the band called? What is it called? Yeah. What is? Oh, I know.

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Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I've got to figure this out. The but there was a tragedy, right? Where an American band was playing a show in France.

I remember that. Do you really? I do. Yeah. And then, um, there was a full blown shooting. Right, right. You know, it's bad when that shit's happening in France. Yeah.

I mean, they're just chilling. They smoke cigarettes. They eat bread, they drink wine, they fuck each other's wives. Yeah. You know, it's bad when shit's going down in France. you know it's bad when and I don't want to get we don't get political here but you know when when Biden was you know the president-elect and he was announced they rang bells in in France like church bells church bells all over France you sure that wasn't summoning like the flying

monkey no no they they ran and they they bells in England all over the world you know I mean I mean whatever you know your deal is you know but I'm just saying that there's a lot of countries you know especially our former allies right that you know are playing paying close attention to what we do it's just not about us anyway what is it is that you got it right the eagles the death metal wow that's a good memory thank you well yeah I'm in the band oh yeah I'm the triangle no yeah so the eagles of death metal and there was a massacre but you were saying because of the show right so like the premise of the show is um you know the survivors eventually get like some type of like financial but that was a french one version that's a french yeah yeah but one the

the show is about uh alleged survivor collecting money from um that what happened to she said she was there she said she was there but then and then she became like an activist and she became real life I don't know if it was in real life but it was pretty compelling because I mean that shit does happen like people do they they they try and profit off of tragedy that's some terrible shit but I would love to get her information see how I can kind of but can you please watch the show it's with their one hour piece watch the episode with kid herrington in it have you seen it yet not yet yeah yeah yeah yeah great one called Alex that's what's called Alex yeah the episode is called Alex and anyone listening right now it's a just a great I've seen all of them I saw all

the countries it's one of my favorite shows you have to watch evil too watch evil is that good it's good with Mike Colter it's so good what is it it's like they handle like kind of like possession cases each each episode sort of goes along with a different type of person who's kind of possessing there's like this little freaky kid yeah first episode evil evil evil evil do you not know how to spell no I thought you you said evil evil yeah EVOL evil evil evil so it's called evil what's it on it's on netflix it's on netflix it's a cbs show it's a cbs show but netflix picked it up it's really good but is it if it's a creepy if it's a cbs show is it kind of like toned down or no no I thought it was gonna be too it's good it is freaky I'm gonna let's watch an episode tonight

yeah all right um at the end of our first of all I want to say this um uh what a pleasure to have you here I honestly like you know there are times when we have people on this that we all of them are good but all of them are great we love all our guests but there are times when you know we have a guest and it just feels right and it feels um like we're not trying you know what I mean yeah please come back I will we'd love you to come back I'll shut the fucking door thank you yeah yeah we would love you have back and I already knew this about you right when I met you that there was something so um but we do a thing at the end of our but I just want to go ahead and say that I'm the one who asked for you there it is thank you the real friendship I appreciate that

fucking true and you know that's not fucking true that's crazy no I'm not true wasn't did I ask for jesse may yesterday or not thank you did tight I think you did tight I who does your allegiance where's your allegiance in this room everyone oh god just say that you've always been on my fucking shortlist all right she just reminded me go let's get jesse main that's all I appreciate it I love you though and I'll keep the door closed you can't stop letting the pussy out of the house I won't so at the end of it I gotta explain to what we have emails that come in they have questions and we try to answer them or not okay okay go ahead hey what's up welcome to tiger belly 107.9 it's your DJ Gil Gil Gil Gilber we got a special love song for you guys about the November big

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and helpful advice with jesseben pluso all right guys uh my name is my stop it stop it sir my name is ramon and i am a 23 year old male in need of help i am married and have one child named ramon junior who was born last year i've been married with my wife for about a year or two now we have our child right after marriage but besides the beginning of juniors life we never got much time together as we had a very busy work life just recently we were forced to stay inside and move our work lives inside in the beginning everything was normal but as the months passed i realized i wasn't sexually attracted to her anymore and wanted men instead oh shit criminal on netflix i still love our kid and want to keep uh and want to keep him with me but i can't see a future with

my wife i would rather look for men what do i do a lot of question marks is this an email or is this the season the next season of shits cream first of all i can i have a can i ask a question yeah who gets like it sounds like this letter came from the 1800s who gets married at 22 and has a kid like they're already set the south no i know i'll tell you how i was sucking dicks in an alleyway bless when you're when you're a kid right who's in the south let's say you're in a christian household right and you know when you think i kind of like guys i think but then you suppress it because you know that you know jesus isn't into it your family is not going to be into it right and then you're like to prove to yourself and to prove to the people around you you go you know what i'm going

to get married young i'm going to have kids and i'm going to do this right it's a it's a part of denial really yes and that's the most destructive what does he do watch shits creek be a good dad why why he should watch shits creek it's the most it's the most comforting you know i watch shits creek every night over and over and over again it's a great comforting show and also they talk a lot about homosexuality and it's not that big of a deal and also how to sort of come out and embrace yourself and i'm in love with patrick oh god i mean how can you not be in love with patrick the whole freaking my dream cast my rose tail is work a day women the great show it's great it's you watch it too don't nod your head dude you don't watch it it's the moira rose is just the the greatest thing

and you know what i'm going to watch evil oh evil well let's have this 23 year old yeah let's have so um what would you say who me yeah how would you talk to the wife oh how are you i'm doing great we live in the same room i know just wondering how you are i care about you and i want to know how you are how are you yeah i'm doing great i'm just working and how about me i feel great okay but i have a question yeah i already told you what the vast difference was i know that was yesterday but okay would you like to say i need to tell you something okay sure um man that episode of shits creek last night was so funny wasn't it yeah yeah i like watching that show with you yeah i like dick wait what did you say what did you say i like dick that you get you so you slow you you

just jam it in there i actually kind of agree with that you jam it in there you jump in the lake you don't test the wire right right throw it out you're right that's what i would have wanted to hear i think that if i had if i if i this is what i would have wanted to hear i care about you i want to be a good father i'm going to be here and support you financially but something has changed inside me i prefer men i want to stay true to myself stay true to my dick my heart yes i love you thank you for the years yes i respect you yes but this is just my my truth app write that down and say that yeah and the longer you wait the harder it's going to be and the more suffering you're gonna you got to do it right now so bro when you're listening to ramon ramon ramon wait

you're listening to me all right do it right when you're listening now i know it's going to suck but do it right now don't even think about it do it get it over with it's going to suck in the beginning but it's going to be the best decision i also think you'll just be a happier father absolutely everyone wants a happy dad yes do it for your kid and your wife and for you and for the the world the world needs more people to be living in their truth yeah i don't even understand how someone could go against what they feel well like you said growing up in a place where it's it's not even that it's not recognized it's it's like demonized yeah and people become ostracized because of what they want and what they desire and it's it really is just a reflection of people

fearing something in themselves yeah gilbert imagine in society let's say in the world that we lived in guys were supposed to be with guys yeah and girls were supposed to be with girls and you and i write like girls right yeah but you and are forced to be with each other yeah like we're fucking a lot yeah a lot a lot like a lot a lot a lot a lot three or four times a day wow that's a lot i know we don't have jobs why we're almost we're almost in this because we're fucking yeah we're fucking yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah and um you're always the bottom i don't know why why am i i can't imagine gilbert being a bottom he's not a bottom vibe i don't even what do i look like a bottom yeah a hundred percent i got why is that my gecko flip flop oh flip flop he's a bottom

yeah hundred oh he's a he's a little baby bottle all right that's not reveal it's not reveal your baby bottom babe why you just are you don't want to exert more than two calories you just that's just who you are you know what efficient you know you know what irritates women when you're on the bottom yeah and you do this move it is a little it is a little like lacks of days yeah also because your arms are so short and cute i love her like fold i love her yeah do the face too do the face and then everyone's gonna go like this but that's what i love about him he's so non-threatening you really are it except at the tsa line you thank you that's the only place where he feels like fuck me there like see what happens see fuck me at the tsa line try and take my water

it's so funny because that's the only place everywhere else in life everywhere else we go like we're all pretty we're both pretty spineless yeah you don't fight anybody but he gets really revved up already already taught me and i don't know why i don't know why it's it's it's a whole thing here's the deal yeah i know you had to get out of here but um we had a great um podcast we're so blessed that you're here and i swear to fucking god and i hate him a little less right now because you change the mood you really change maybe you're the sunbeam i'm a sunbeam yeah i did change the mood i accept that you saved me because without if it was like someone negative here you know i mean it would have been bad you know yeah but thank you so much thank you for having

me and give her a round of applause jesse me please oh you want to plug anything your podcast oh sure sharp tongue podcast i love it i've done it you have done it and you kicked all my cameras and lights over because you needed a bottle of water she that's what it was podcast where can they find it everywhere everywhere it's all over the place it's all over the place and i honestly i do believe that um you're gonna be a very very huge star i do believe that you said that to me i do believe that i appreciate it and it's i don't say that throw that around in fact i don't really tell people that really i think you um there's a couple other people that i've said that to but um just every other guest no not i can name him but no i think faheem anwar has a shot oh yeah

yeah yeah he's very talented i think there's a couple of other that's it you know i mean but um you're one of them and i i just honestly would watch you perform forever i i just think that you have all the you check mark all the boxes for me you know that's so sweet you do i i really that's really sweet and i and you're here's what here's the thing i i probably would be um i get scared i get scared if i followed you which is this he's he did say that yeah every night um when you guys did shows together i think you did the the the nasty show right yeah every night he's i i can't follow her there's a way you were amazing i was thinking about it on the way over what a great lineup that was that was shaltz yeah big big dirt big dirt joe big dirty joe

big dirty joe was there um bonnie mcfarland bonnie bonnie yep oh if bonnie we lived here that'd be cool too bonnie's great she's great yeah yeah um who else was there car car jimmy car jimmy car jim jeffrey's jim jeffrey's popped in yeah popped in up yeah yeah we got lucky we got dude we're in a theater of thousands of people a night and just us backstage it just it really felt like camp it was that's why that was it we i was so happy that's why you're doing it it really is the joy of just being a part of it that's just why you do it and that's we got it might be the last year for a while never do it again you look like a like a korean meme right now fuck you oh god i do love you so much anyway and i love your girl thank you thank you nice to meet you finally

yeah bye jesse may i'm a fan i'm a fan bye great what's your handle uh instagram handle at jesse may paluso follow her you hey prime members you can listen to tiger barely ad free on amazon music download the amazon music app today or you can listen ad free with wondery plus in apple podcast before you go tell us about yourself by completing a short survey at wondery.com slash survey