TigerBelly - Ep 349: Josh Peck Is Chris Hemsworth's Cub

Episode Date: May 25, 2022

Bobby goes fast but sweet. Josh is gonna save us all... but only if we meet at the rally point. Khalyla asks about Dayton. We talk about the older lady with the Zenith, knight in shining armor fantasies, and fart microaggressions.Please support us by supporting our sponsors!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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We're talking to it. Yeah, okay, even his skinny photos. He's unlike it Oh, Bobby is obsessed with body transformations. I mean, I love transformations me too. Um, so he is going to probably no, I'm not Don't tell me why I'm gonna be right. Yeah. Am I gonna be I'm not mean no No, but he does is a lot with Gilbert because Gilbert also I also go up and down He really just You know, I don't he just recently went through his own body transformation, but I'm getting it back I don't know and I said all mouse fatty, right? Yeah. Oh my god. That's really that was mean. We're already here. We're already done with it Yeah, don't worry. Don't be worried. So it's the language. So it's she's a fouled mouth big person big

We admonished him If I were her PR person or someone in her ear, I'd be like if you came out with a podcast called fouled mouth Fatty crush it crush it. It would crush it. Yeah, yeah, you know, let's start Very good, Josh Peck. Um, very nice. Do it again. You know the rules of trying to like yeah, yeah, yeah, very nice. So, um, You did it already. Yeah. Welcome to Oh Josh Peck, um, very nice You know the rules of trying to like yeah, yeah, yeah, very nice. So, um, you did it already. Yeah. Welcome to

another episode of TB I'll show you where your hole is, baby. Yeah Now such a creep. No, no Show me where my hole is for real. Use your nose. Honestly find my clitoris right now, right? Find it in front of my eyes Close my eyes and find it. Okay, bore meat and pineapple Why bore meat? I don't know. She's an islander. Okay, you know the cyan warty hog. Yeah, close your eyes. It's fine

My dick. What does it smell like? Close your eyes. Okay. Okay Honestly, yeah I want to say Um, what's that wild mushroom you find in the Pacific Northwest with the wild mushrooms? Sean. Yeah, Sean Terrell. Thank you Sean Terrell's very good mushroom. And what's that mushroom you find on an athlete having itch on their feet? Athlete's foot. Yeah, it's a cross between mushrooms. Okay. All right. Anyway Welcome to another episode. We have a very fabulous guest

We've been chatting before the podcast and um You know, you know, I've been looking at his photo. I've never met him in physical reality Um, but um, I'd say, you know, you fantasize through Photographs and images because he's done a lot of work Um, you know, he's done some of my favorite remakes of all time tuner tuner turner and hooch Um, and the red dawn I thought was the better red dawn But my point is is this top he's also had his own show on Nickelodeon And he was in the Amanda Bynes show on Nickelodeon, I think right and he's done so much work

It's unbelievable, but he's also a podcaster and a friend. He was a um You know a circular he was heavy and he was No, what I'm saying is is that as a kid he was chubbo Can you say that? Yeah fat fuck No, he knows a show. Yeah, he knows a show. He was a chubby guy huge and then through but then he transferred and now His legs are like Rogan's legs He does he has two Rogan's legs His neck. Yeah, yeah

His body is really nice. Um, and um, he's just all around really, you know He's got you got a Tom Hanksy vibe about you. Oh, you know what I mean? About just kind of like a wholesome, you know, boy next door, you know, I mean kind of a guy Um, Josh Peck give him a round of applause Thank you so much Thank you Josh. Thanks for coming What an honor Um, let me ask you something

Bless you Thank you Oh good, let's start here Yeah, yeah, yeah. So who's the guy to the left? Echo Unlimited So good Well, when you're that big you've got to embrace hip-hop streetwear The oldest, yeah, it's the only thing you can do

How old are you in that photo? Uh, 15, maybe 15 Were you smashing then or no? No Why? You're a TV star Doesn't matter You can't, is there a contract? No, no

A Nickelodeon contract Can't smash? No, you can't smash No, just my idea was too insecure Really? Oh, yeah, I would sit home and just alphabetize my DVD It's so funny because when I was a kid And I would see other kids on TV

I always thought, oh, they're smashing and cocaine And you did none of that That came later, like two and a half years later Oh, really? Yeah, both, smashing and the cocaine Oh, so you're 15 there at 17, you start smashing? Uh, I lost my virginity at 18 To a woman who was like 15 years older than me

Who lived in my apartment complex Oh, wow Within a mile of here Oh, Michael, how did that transfer fire? Okay, so I live... Well, I guess I can give it sort of location-wise I grew up at an Avalon apartment complex, you can tell I know exactly where that is

Okay, so it's not too far And it's like the Oak Woods where everyone moves When they come down Yeah, yeah, yeah I stayed for 15 years, all right? Yeah, yeah That's how highly I think of myself So I'm 18, I just have lost like...

I'm in that weird spot, right? I'm not 300 pounds anymore But I'm 220 But I'm on my way down It's looking good Mmm So my mom, still living with mom We decide to do a little, you know, refurbishment

Of the living room Get nicer TV Yeah A hutch So, we sell the TV Like you do in an apartment building You put up an ad in the elevator Right

Selling a TV, Zenith, 37 inch We're doing well You remember how much you were selling it for? 150 Wow Okay TV's back then, we're still high value And very expensive

Yeah Okay So this lovely woman buys the TV I go and deliver the TV to her apartment Oh my God This is a fantasy, dude This is a porn This is a porn

This is a porn movie Is it in the valley too? And I swear to God, I have erousals right now Erousals, not arousals No, no, no, no Don't see, don't see, don't see You won't be able to see it Anyway

If when you want to see it, he don't show Bear Yeah, yeah I don't want it Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm that guy So you have a TV with you Mm-hmm Right, does she know

Let me, I have this question So does she know who you are In terms of the television And all the things you've done? I don't know She was a nurse So she, you know, first responder Right, right

Good person Yeah Good person But it doesn't So I drop it off And it doesn't happen the first time But I get this feeling The first time it could only come from

A woman of maturity Right Right, I said I could do stuff with that girl In your mind, you thought that Yeah, I just got a vibe from her That was very clearly like Was she flirting?

I think that must be what it is Yeah, yeah, she was flirting But I was like, you know, any other flirting You're so excited I'm so excited Well, this is like, I feel like Every young boy Yes

Like dream come true scenario Yeah, it's also funny because it seems like The kind of work he's done It seems like a sitcom scenario On the flip side This is every young girl's nightmare scenario Why? If it were the other way

And I was delivering TV to an older man And he was, and I got the vibe that he was like Dr. Drew Yeah, Dr. Drew It was Dr. Drew You know what? What? Are you okay?

Yeah, yeah, that's what I'm saying So it depends I watched the pod, Anthony Bourdain Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah Then you would So that's not a nightmare Okay So don't lie

Don't lie Don't ever lie again To me Go ahead So I leave And I just remember thinking If I ever hear from this woman again I'm going for it

Oh my God, please I'm gonna raise my hand And if you don't have to answer it But every time I raise my hand Just if you can, give me that If you jerk off to her afterwards Probably Okay, great

Go ahead So you found her extremely attractive No, I just I remember she was a very cute girl Probably 30, 40 LBs overweight Which was like perfect I'm like same

Right Like this is very doable A cute face Very lovely Okay Yeah, like an Akron 8 I was more imagining a Kelly Clarkson Oh, yeah

Kelly Clarkson I like Kelly Clarkson What are some other thick queens? If Eric Stone was trans Yes A younger Eric Stone Those three but trans Maybe

Yeah, yeah, maybe Okay, good I'm getting the picture Yeah Different picture but you can get in it Yeah So Move on

So One week later My mom calls me into her room She goes You know that lady we saw the TV to? Yeah She doesn't know how to use the remote It's a porn

It's a porn, dude It's a porn It's a porn, it's a porn Yeah So will you go over there And show her I go Wow No problem

How did you say it? One more time Yeah, like dice No problem No problem Yeah, yeah, yeah An issue So at this point I've just started smoking weed, right?

Right How old are you now at this point? 18 Okay, okay Don't go down my neck Totally, dude My language is my name Totally, right

So go ahead So like on social hierarchy I'm like weed is fucking cool Right So I'm like I'm gonna roll a joint Bring it over Yeah, he's about He's a fashion right now

I like So I go to her apartment I'm showing her how to, you know Work the remote And I go, hey Smoke weed? She's like Got milk?

Same tone Same thing She's like, indeed I do smoke weed I'm like Joint right here Yeah So we smoke the joint Right

Start kissing Wait Back up, back up Back up, back up, back up Build the tension some more My bad, my bad Okay All right, so I need

There's gaps in there, okay Okay So you smoke the weed on a I just don't know why I need to know that Couch? Casting couch? On a couch, yeah On a couch

It's inside the apartment In the apartment Okay, good So you smoke weed It's an Avalon community Right, and then now Is there small talk? You're smoking it?

Is there any kind of dial? There must have been I'm not sure All right, sure What do you do for a living, young man? Well, I'm an actor I'm on Drake and Josh I'm the Josh part

Did she know that? You know what that sound is? Before the sex Did she know that? I would imagine so It was internet back then, right? Well, yeah There was the internet

Okay I don't know what year it was Al Gore created it That year, that year Oh, yeah, that year, okay I don't know You know, I don't know She probably did

Because she had met my mom when she bought the TV And there's no one who meets my mom That doesn't know that I'm an actor All right You know, my son My mom was at the ENT today Your nose is a throw-down And she's like, the receptionist loves you

I'm like, how did I come up? Right, right, right So, yeah, I don't know I just knew that I had to make a move I needed to go in for a kiss Yeah, yeah And then we're kissing, right? Tongue and everything

You had kissed previous to this time A little bit Very little Like maybe one aggressive game Of spin the bottle Where a girl No, like with tongs Make out, okay

But that was like a girl taking mercy On my life Yeah, yeah, yeah And so we were kissing And I'll never forget this And my pants come off, right? At my ankles You pull them down, she pulls them down

She's like pulling I'm pulling I'm like, I know where this goes You know Oh, my God I'm so happy Listen to the story So she excuses herself

To the bathroom And me, new to this Not knowing that that's like Sometimes a thing people do I leave And I'm at the door Why are you leaving? Because I'm like, oh, we're done

He doesn't know that she's over there To either pee or wash Or clean up She's washing her vag Well, I didn't Or pee before sex Right, it's so weird that you would All I did was play Dreamcast

But what I'm saying is that In your mind, what do you think she's doing? I'm like, it's over We had a nice time Right I'm going to make this easy for her Right Yeah, imagine if she left

He left And she comes in in a lingerie Yeah And she's like, what the fuck Oil Lube She keeps her lingerie in the bathroom Yeah On the tower

All right, so you're at the door She comes out and goes, where are you going, probably Yeah And I go, you want to be her? Yeah Let's try to play it out here Yeah I'm so excited

All right, so you're at the door, right? Yeah I have to do sound effects Hold on, let's start from when you excuse yourself To the bathroom Excuse me Yeah, I got to go to the bathroom Of course

Okay, sure So now I'm in the bathroom Man Lucky, how do we wash? Show me Oh, I have to do physical? Yeah, yeah Yeah, slap that

Oh, you spit wash Yeah, yeah Right Yeah Right And then probably my asshole too, right? Yeah Oh, got to

Right, because they're connected No, fuck the hair, right? Put the asshole in the faucet Yeah, yeah Right Hyper And now, here, tap, tap, tap, tap, he's walking You know what I mean?

Right, tap, tap, tap, tap I open the door Where are you going? Oh, I thought we're done Oh, no, I was just, you know Just, I was in the bathroom Oh Oh, yeah

And then she said, come to my room Okay Wow Well, I don't know the script So send me the Listen, listen First of all, I don't like your tone Right, because number one

I told you the email besides Right before last night, right? So it's like, you know, so I had time to memorize I know Right, so it's like, it's just, anyway Let's just live in the moment Let's be free All right, let's be free

Okay, all right Oh, this is a curb The film's free Don't you hate when they say that with digital? Yeah, yeah, yeah We can keep filming, it's free I'm like, fucking give me a break All right, so

Come to my room Okay, great Okay I don't know what happens now I didn't read the script We proceeded to do everything that I'd ever seen Wow Amazing

Like, I literally went down my list Because I didn't know if we would ever do this again Wow Or if I would ever do it Wow So I checked every box in like eight minutes What were the boxes? Every position, every, just, I just wanted

I just want to know your variety of positions So can we meet? I'll ask you I'll ask you I'll ask you then Cowgirl Yep Reverse?

No, I didn't say reverse yet, right? Reverse cowgirl Okay I don't think so Okay That was a little too exotic All right, right Doggy

Oh, yes Classic Yeah, yeah Did you go European, 69? Yeah Yeah, yeah Did you Did you go 33?

What's 33, babe? What does that look like? From the sides Yeah, yeah Probably mid-transit I was like, let's knock this out for a couple seconds Did you go dirty? Like, these are like specialty moves

Yeah So did you do the dirty Sanchez? What did you shit on? Yeah, how about a blumpy? Boston steamer Do you know what a blumpy is? I think there's shit involved I think it's like a blow job while you shit

Yeah, while you're shitting, she gives you a blow job It's not professional You're not going extreme professional No, no, no This is just like What about the paranormal? Did you do the paranormal? Were we summoned spirit?

No Houdini Did you do the Ouija board while we're mid-coitus? No, the paranormal is when you turn off all the lights, right? You do her from behind, right? And then what you do is You switch out with your friend, right? And then you walk by the window

Say hi So she sees you walk by the window It's illegal That's right, that's illegal You're right, that's illegal You can call it anything fun you want Yeah, yeah, that's illegal Yeah, but she doesn't know, but my point is

All sorts Yeah, these are all, right, so did you do any of these? No Those are all Right, so you did Does anyone do that? Who's ever done The mission impossible

Mission impossible Yeah, right You have to put your leg between the man's leg I don't have that much muscles Yeah, yeah, there's no That's only for like acro yoga people Bro, the bridge of Madison County Yeah

We've all been in relations Everyone in this room has been in multi-year relationships At this point Is anyone doing that shit? No, because I'm not in Cirque du Soleil Like, you're right I'm sure I'm not French Canadian Yeah, these are insane

What about dirty dancing? Have you tried that? That's pretty common Gilbert, have you tried that? Yes, I have I've never done dirty dancing Yeah, but it's also not great, right? It's more for fun It's good for photography

Yeah Not great for feeling Dirty dancing, I just kind of imagine Just the woman's arm shaking It's like burning Yeah, yeah, yeah She's doing a handstand Yeah, I don't know how anyone's getting anything out of Stargate

Is that a TV show? Yeah, yeah, yeah What if a portal opens when you do that? Stargate's not flattering for the midsection Yeah Right It's a little insecure What's the top...

You're right, because the tips hang weird in sitting up like that, too Mine, too Top gun is interesting I can't wait for Maverick Is that true? I heard it's good No, I heard it's really good

Is it? I believe it Yeah, and, you know, I'm excited for it Anyway, so you didn't do any of these So you did the traditional Christian... Yeah, knocked it out Knocked it out Congratulations Did you come good?

Yeah, quick, standard Right, did you wear protection? Yes Did you have it or did she? I had it But I was ready Oh, you were ready? Okay

I was ready, and I was like... I was a kid actor, so I knew the pitfalls of some of it Yeah Like, allowed me to properly prepare for this And I wound up leaving And then she got sprung on your boy What do you mean? She got liked

She ended up liking him hard Like me hard Oh, she started liking you? Yeah, and then she started threatening me What? Here's what I think I think she knew exactly who you were from the get-go And bought the TV just to get to me?

Well, no, I mean, as soon as she realized Oh, this is the person I know he is I'm gonna hatch a plan Wow Let me ask you this Did you have sex with her after that? Yeah How many times a lot?

One more time when it was all cool, cool And then I fell in love with a girl that was age-appropriate Who was like 19, also lived at the Avalon Great dating pool And so, of course, I fell head over heels for her And so then this girl is starting to call me once a week A couple times a week Wow

So much so that she finally starts going I'm sure your mother would hate to hear what you've been up to Oh, god I'm like, you're gonna tell my mom? Oh, fuck Meanwhile, she now knows from this podcast Sorry, mom You've never told the story before?

No, I have, but not with the sex position change So after that, you lost her virginity to her Whatever happened to her, do you know? No, I don't know I mean You moved out of I'm 35, she's in her 50s now Oh, wow, that's interesting

Yeah, good for her She might have a kids and a family Probably not, not alone Yeah, yeah, yeah Right now listening to this podcast You're just angry at this podcast, you think? Maybe Yeah

Then you know what, I'll correct it Ma'am, I think, I'm not gonna say her name Thank you Thank you so much I needed it, I needed it bad Good, yeah Right, like I needed someone to shepherd me through this Just a public service, I think

I think so too There's many women in my past that I wanted to thank You know what I mean? Totally The girl in the closet, after the comedy show We love that story See, you know, so you know a lot Yeah, you know a lot where I cried and looked at Jesus

Of course Nesotros, baby Nesotros to you, my friend And I really appreciate that Hey, anytime So you told me earlier that I never saw Red Dead, the remake of Red Dead No, Red Dead, Red Dawn

Red Dawn Yeah Right, but I would, now you I hadn't seen the original Red Dawn in many, many years Probably since in my early 20s Right And you were telling me that Red Dawn isn't good Why?

Well, I did the remake Which is, the movie's fine I'm just terrible at it The original, I didn't see till we finished the movie Because I was like, I don't want to be infiltrated By any, you know I want to make sure my performance is pristine So I watch it like a week after a week at home from filming

And by the way, at this time, it's 2008 So it's been so, or nine It's been so hyped to me by everyone who worked on the film Because they're all 40 and 50 year old dudes Right Who like, watched it at a time where it felt so real Let me see Chris Hemsworth

Hemsworth That's huge Dude, I play his brother What a mistake That was worth broking Amazing What was the casting director thinking? Yeah, yeah

Josh Hutcherson Hutcherson, yeah Wow, who else? That's it That's it Yeah Chris Hemsworth Everyone's great

But what was he like? The best Yeah, he seems so nice Oh man, it's not fair Yeah, yeah This is, so he had booked Thor But he didn't go to shoot it for six months after Oh wow

So this is pre-Thor working out, eating protein Being super Australian He used to call me and Josh Hutcherson his cubs So like we'd be hanging out in the middle of scenes Like resting He'd be like, oh, he'd be at the lunch lot And he'd be like, oh, hungry cubs That's great

He was the best, he's the nicest And I spent that, I was so intimidated Because here I am, right, I lost 120 pounds I had dreamed of being in a movie like this Which one are you doing though, right? Yeah, the stoic one and the beanie Yeah, that's you Wow, okay

And I just shank it from day one Because I tried to be Chris Hemsworth When all they needed me to be was Josh Beck So what do you mean, your performances Like the director would be like, hey, what are you doing? No, I wish he had said that They just let me shank it I wish someone had said, what are you doing?

Oh, right I wish someone had been like, less Yeah, oh, less Yeah, it's funny, it's like, you know A lot of times when they don't give you notes And you're going through your good instinct I always think to myself, I know I'm doing it wrong But no one's saying anything

And you know what I mean, I don't know what to do I guess I just keep doing what I'm doing Because I'm happy But I think instinctually it's wrong But don't you feel equally, I know that On the days where you get a lot of notes You're also not happy But you know, it generally turns out that they're right

You know, when you watch it later, you know It's frustrating, you know, when they Especially when they don't give you the right Like, they're not clear about it Fast but sweet And you're like, fast but sweet How do you do fast but sweet? Show me fast but sweet

Sorry, I really think that I love really like you That was fast Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't know Like, you know, I don't know what A lot of people's notes are like slower or faster Right? Those I find are good notes You think so? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah

Yeah, because it's just like very direct It's direct, yeah What's a difficult note you think? Ah, there's just too much talking Like, imagine a time in your life, fuck off Aww Yeah, yeah, yeah Enough, just like

Yeah, I like things I got a note once, it was just like more gravitas I'm like, I think I know what that word is Alright, right, right But like, or my friend He was a great director, he always says like I try to give actionable notes, like So I'll say like, take care of her

Like, in the scene Ah, yeah, I can understand that You know, the other day I did The history of the world, I don't know if it's a movie Or a TV show, but it was Ike Bernholz And Nick Kroll, and on paper It was only a couple of lines And they were like

Alright, so say this And they would give me like, I'm not kidding you 30 things to say Alright, action Like, specific things, right It was just so hard to like, you know what I mean At one point I had to go Guys, stop the cameras, right

Let's go off to the side And just tell me exactly, and let me say it first But it's like, sometimes it's like super stressful And you know what I mean Anyway, I don't know why I went out on the tangent I apologize, my point is that Red Dawn, right? That's what it's called

The first one, it was Russians attacking Do you guys know the premise? Okay, so basically I don't know, it's Kansas or some mid-western town Am I right? I think so, the new one it was Washington State I don't know if that's in the original Okay, so it's somewhere

Somewhere in mid-America Colorado, right? And all of a sudden The Russians just take over America Like, imagine How many, they can't even take over Ukraine Right Like, they have a problem with Kiev

Imagine New York City Imagine Compton, right? Like, good luck You're dead, you know what I mean I mean, it's like They parachute in There's basically all these parachutes I remember, yeah, I think I remember seeing where

The kids are in school And one kid just looks out and goes Look at all the people in the parachutes And all these Russians are parachuting In, right? And then I remember Harry Dean Stanton was in it I think that's one of the reasons why I like it

Swayzee Jennifer Gray They had to work together again Yeah Before Maybe that's why they hated each other Than on Dirty Dance Oh, did they hate each other?

She played a high school person In the show It must have been before And I just remember Harry Dean Stanton was Yeah, there they are See Thomas Howell Leah Thompson, what a cast

And I remember There was a scene where Harry Dean Stanton Is in some sort of Interment camp What do you call it? Prisoner of war And he's behind these bars And he's telling Patrick Swayzee

What to do It was a heartbreaking thing But in retrospect, the whole premise is absurd So now in yours Is it the same Russians? No, originally it was China And then they changed it to North Korea Oh

So North Koreans just come in parachutes? Yeah Wait, let me ask you something They changed it to North Korea after you shot it? I think like They just had Asians on set Who cares? It doesn't matter They changed it to whatever

Cambodia, whatever Halfway through, they made a big We were halfway through filming And they were like, I was like It's a lot of new pages Because they wanted this movie To be distributed in China I imagine that was a consideration

Oh wow, that's interesting to me So Did they shot Asians Halfway during the movie or was it just Before the attack? I mean, I don't know How many Asians were in this movie And why didn't you get a call?

How about that, right? How about that? Wow You would think In a North Korean A Korean, right Because it's not just Ken Jeong and Daniel Day came flying down

They need thousands, right? Why didn't I get a call? In 09, were you just working for Joe Pitka? What was this? In 09 I was I was on Matt TV I think

No, I had just gone off Matt TV And I was unhirable Because of that shitting In the office? I don't know I just was unhirable Can we see the Asians that were cast on that red dawn? Please, yeah Was it

Was the movie bad? I shanked it I equated to being A pyromaniac Hanging out outside of a lighter shop I was like, I'm going to fucking burn this And I did From day one

But isn't that your perception? Stop it I got a lot of that for the next So I get a lot of that for the months The editing does wonders You actors, you're all in your head Yeah It wasn't as if I finished the test

You read articles that are saying that you were terrible Oh, yeah Oh, yeah Dude, I'm really bad at it William Lee was the main Korean Yeah, William Lee was the main bad dude It's a one He was the captain, everyone was extras

We'll just CGI him a thousand times It's a bunch of William Lee's Yeah Who's gonna Alright, so So I finished the movie And so typically a movie finishes You have one year until it comes out

And then they're like, okay, fine I'll face the executioner and I'll move on The movie, MGM made it And they went out of business the day we finished So now they can't distribute it So it sat on the shelf for three years So it doesn't come out The words getting around

The peck shanked it So I'm going into auditions, they're like Hi, how's everything? I'm like, not good This is bad It was three years of like hanging my head Wow, really? This has happened, yeah, it's character building

I think Let me go back to your Don't look at a review I'm not gonna look at a review, but I'm gonna look at what you've done So you did Turner and Hooch in 2021 Oh, yeah, I did that last year So you love a good remake

Yeah, yeah And that's you're obviously That's you on the cover That's me So you're the star of the movie So did that go well? Yeah, it went great We all recover

Was that the word you shank it? No, no, no, that was just one Because I was my buddy The character like me who's like a non-traditional leading man type I can punch someone in the face on screen, but I gotta go like this after You know, like I can't do it

without any irony In that movie I was like, Chris Hemsworth can deliver a line like, I'm gonna save you Let's meet at the rally point I can't deliver that line So was it go to the line? I'm gonna save us all

Let's meet at the rally point Don't make me laugh though Okay baby I'm gonna save us all What's so funny? You can't laugh More calm addiction It was fast but sweet

You're a leader Can I just give like the smallest note? You're triggering him dude You are triggering him It's just like small Because I do this, look at me We're doing the same thing How about no forward energy?

How about you sit back on your hips What's the line again? You're so nervous I'm so nervous right now I've never been more nervous in my life What's the line again? I'm gonna save us all Let's meet at the rally point

Fuck you dude This is so hard I'm not gonna be able to do it I can't do it I can't do it Caesar Milan Is he an acting coach? For dogs right?

You're a leader You can get us there You got it I can't do it You do it first I don't need a line I want you to do it first I want you to do it

What is the line? We're all forgetting to eat I'm looking at you I'm gonna save us all Let's meet at the rally point Very good Very good Not you

Fuck you What? The nostrils are just doing this I know So how did you do it in the movie? I'm watching it tonight A lot of forward energy A lot of attention

Attention is fucking bad for an actor That's the one thing I know for sure It was just like a lot of I'm gonna save us all To meet at the rally point It's bad Always crying Some beta cuck shit

You say beta cuck shit? Cuck shit? You have to imagine You're in a movie With these big people You think it's gonna be a big thing You think this is my chance You do all this work

And choices you make before I sympathize with it I used to move on until you say Let's get to the rally point You're gonna save us all, Bobby Alright I'm gonna save us all Let's meet at the rally point

Beautiful So good The tears in your eyes too Cause I'm laughing Those aren't tears Laughing, that was really hard You did a movie with Ben Kingsley too? Yeah, called The Whackness

It was 2008 Before Red Dawn Yeah, like I extinguished all that goodwill I had occurred But that's how you got Red Dawn is probably The Whackness Yeah, straight off her Wow, yeah, yeah, yeah Do you think things are going?

Things are happening So you think that if you did Red Dawn in The Whackness So if you think you did Who's the other guy in it? Kingsley, that's me Okay, that's you, amazing I worked with him too

Yeah, on The Dictator I found him to be The sweetest man The best Did you call him Sir Ben? Yeah, I did call him Sir Ben and I remember One day we were shooting and he sat on a couch Next to me

And he started asking questions about my life Which is really unusual because At that time in my career I don't know what year that was Really just desperate I was in a bad spot I couldn't get anything going Like you

For Red Dawn I don't think I shanked it But I thought I was fine in the movie But I just remember feeling like This is my only opportunity I got to kill this and the movie has to be a success And it wasn't

But I just found that experience to be Really cool, man I remember I asked him for advice on the last day Of filming because I never met my dad so I was probably Trying to accrue father figures You're a single mom

Yeah, never met my pops I think we're of the same Old daddy sperm club Yeah, really old How old? 62 when he hooked up with my mom She was 42, my mom My mom was 22

That makes A little more sense You had older Parents I have hope for us So he passed? When? Eight years ago

And you never met him? How did you find out that he died? Google Is he somebody that was an actor or whatever? No, but he Regular people have obituaries I had no idea What was the

Do you know if he ever Wanted to be a part of your life? I don't think so My mom sent him photos of me In a letter when I was five I guess I wasn't like a fetching Five-year-old because he basically said I'm going to keep

On the path that I've been on And stay out of this kid's life Were you cute at five? I was awesome Who's weirded? Who knows if he was cute or not He made it seem like the dad Saw the picture and was like, pass

That's what I imagined He was old He had three kids and a wife And he was taking this victory March into convalescence And then he fucked up I'm sure he probably was a guy who had had affairs before But

He had a well-timed separation of six hours Just long enough to Be up with my mom and get her pregnant Wow You're 62 I remember once someone said this to me When I was telling them about my family And they go, well, majority rules

I was like He had a family, he had three kids And then you come out of nowhere And this woman that he doesn't know that well So you have three half-biological siblings out there? Have you met them? What? I imagine not

Because I have sisters and there's like It's a whole gang of them And I'm not exactly hiding I feel like they would have found me Yeah Have you tried to make this step? You don't care I've got enough friends

You have siblings? No, I don't have any 100% siblings Oh, okay So the three that's out there, your siblings They're probably much older than you They're like in their 50s Yeah My dad was 62

My mom was 42 They went out for Deli after Years later I found out My mom and him hooked up again that night Which was new information But yeah, it was either the first or the second time This is why Fertility is such a thing, huh?

You have a 62-year-old And what they tell you Past 35 You're a geriatric You're a geriatric Reproducer as a woman She's 42, your dad is 62 And they just hook up twice

And then boom They have a fucking star A fucking star, Red Dawn Turner Hooch That's amazing What a story It doesn't really make sense It doesn't really make sense that I'm here

But somehow, I mean, my mom's 77 Wow It does make sense that you're here Thanks, Bobby Because, you know, I mean The little I know of you I already feel like I know you a lot more And I just can tell many things

Because when you meet new people Sometimes there's just a lot of things You just can't tell, they hide a lot And you just can't read it They could be evil, you know what I mean? I don't know, but with you There's just certain things that I know for a fact You know what I mean?

You have a magical aura Like a nice guy, very funny You know, open You get the Timing of everything, you know what I mean? You're in tune Because you have to be listening, right? To be able to, you know what I mean?

React Maybe that's the acting side Maybe Or you're just authentically that I think it's a combination He's authentically a nice guy But also, you know, he's been acting Since he was, you know what I mean?

A kid But I'm also a big fan of the show Of all you guys And I've seen you before Out at our secret meetings And I don't But I don't approach Because that's weird

And I also don't want to betray the higher calling Of what that is How much Are you willing to talk about that? I just wrote a book about all of it All right When you see the secret group Can we talk about what that group is?

Yeah I've been Hanging around at the LA A scene for Over 20 years And so you'd seen me At an A meeting And you never said

I just felt weird I just felt weird because I knew I would listen to the show And I also like whenever anyone's public I make sure to stay far away Because I see how much they're getting hit up And so I just want to be like At all I can be of help

Sometime down the road, it'll happen The thing I noticed about you You have a quick little get up when you walk What do you mean? I know he already means What do you mean? You don't want to talk to Eddie Oh the meeting's done

What's your thought process behind that When you get up Oh my god that's so funny It makes me laugh so much Because it is what something that I do Head down, going Quick gate Quick gate

There's a million I'll just give you an example Saturday Janina Gavankar Who I did a movie with last year Right? She keeps inviting me to things I'm in town for a couple of days

I'm always busy So she goes Three weeks ago There's a congressman Something Tanaka Mark Tanaka He's doing some sort of Event in Silver Lake

Do you want to go? Read it Yeah Two days before the event She texts me And now I have to go And I read on it And I have to donate money to even go

So there's a platinum ticket And another thing And the platinum ticket is like 500 bucks I gotta go You help me buy the ticket And I show up And it's literally 30 people

In a small little courtyard And I'm sitting there I don't know anything about him I don't know anything about politics I don't know why I'm there With rich people With suits And I'm sitting there

And people are asking Everyone's asking questions So congressman When you propose that That article And I'm like I don't know if he's a Republican I don't know what the fuck is going on here

And so I gotta go And I ran out while he's talking You crossed him? I crossed him And I did that walk How long were you there? A couple hours Oh, okay

Because I saw other people leaving too So I'm like, oh you can leave? I don't know So I did that in two I had a great time Your exits, even though you're With a quick gate as you say They're never that discreet

He thinks he's moving fast Like the wind I feel like I'm being like the wind But you make yourself the most visible What do you mean? You took the route Where you knew you had to cross him In front of the whole crowd

Can you go to the back? Alright People have to know I'm leaving Alright Why be there? It's the anti-Irish goodbye He's like bye But I'm not going to say anything

So I left for two I was uncomfortable I learned a lot And then also secondly There's a valet Only one guy working Somebody's house And you think to yourself

There's 35 people here All by valet If I go with the group I'm there for another hour But sweetie, you know fun things Always happen in the ninth inning of baseball Everyone who leaves in the You know

Would you go? You're out You and I both would be Oh please And I don't say goodbye If I go to any sporting event In the last two minutes I'm at the top of the staircase

Let me ask you this In a meeting if there's a speaker Because my sponsor always says You always have to congratulate the speaker Or thank him Do you do it? At a 45 minute speaker meeting When someone really puts in

It's basically a one act If it's a 200 seat meeting Would you? And I don't like it Because he has to say Thank you to so many people So his interaction with you Is so quick

Something they didn't look at it And then I was like I waited Luck eyes I waited I'll probably leave You crossed the congressman To leave

At the crowd I didn't look at the crowd Because they were all show business people Just listen to what I'm saying All right Because I know this Thank you for this industry I know there's a lot of screen actors

And director And there were people that I kind of Recognized some actors I kind of recognized some producers And this and that So it's like you can't go Normal So if this is the crowd

Josh you're the crowd This is congressman And you're walking this way Do you tilt your head a little bit To the crowd so that they know You leaving Don't get mad I'm going to say something

And I don't want you to get mad So there was a beautiful woman Oh why would I get mad Maybe you crank a neck for that Standing against like this Not a fence but a wall Like a wooden wall Outside wall right

And she had looked at me a bunch of times During the thing right I started getting a little jealous for real You being real? I focused on her And then she smiled at me And I went No you kidding

And then I left The wink I knew it I knew it I don't wink Well now Let's dissect the wink Was it like

You know me crazy Bobby Gotta go or was it like You looked at me a few times I think this is what it is Because I've never had She was a little older And she was Sophisticated looking

What's older mask Because you're in your late 40s So she was early 40s But she was To the nine Like it's Gucci shoes The whole thing right And she was wearing like these

Tan Bell Bonimi Really nice pants He's very into fashion That's the first thing he will notice And normally I'm invisible But lately because I've been on sex in the city

Different audience I'm being real Sometimes I'll see older women Fancy ones Look at me or go They'll even say like I love you I have an honest question and don't be mad If you and I

If you had free reign And you could just go out into The dating pool again Do you think that the caliber Of women now Would be so much better Than it was when you first met me You're smirking

What do you mean the caliber Okay you told me that When we first started dating It was Slim Pickens Slim Pickens a little bit There were some cuties for sure But I mean like there were I wasn't un-fuckable

I mean I had Okay Here's what I would back then Before I met you Roadgash What's roadgash Right when you go on the road

That's what we used to call them That's not my term Highway honey I would smash roadgash And that's anyone at the club And I had been in relationships We know Sarah That's a comic right

And so you're asking me if I was single now No You're not going to hurt my feelings Okay are you sure Answer changes But I'm going to preface this though I'm so happy to be here I'm going to preface this though right

You're never Allowed to bring this back up You have my word You're never it right Don't do it You're never going to use it against me Or bring it back up There is a knight in shining armor

Element to it What do you mean What does that mean Expound We might have to cut this out I might have to cut this out Flag this Now forget it

I don't want to expand You have to now Try your best You know there is a fantasy Of going out with somebody that's like Not at all from LA Right someone Someone who's

Scottsdale More like Dayton Like a farm girl Like Dayton Ohio Who would be so in awe of LA and the actors That's what we're looking for Wow, Paquito Mas Yes

What is this Paquito Mas Like where they would eat Paquito Mas And go is this a Michelin star restaurant That I read about in the books The Grove is like a small city Within a city Yes They basically sum up with stars

In their eyes They have caramelized popcorn Caramelized I've only seen this in the movies Stuff like that And I could teach them about golden goose Oh my 500 dollars Bobby

Really Yeah That you mean? Night and shining on So that You're not allowed to bring this back up Look I have a dad who probably Did that with my mother and produced two children

So there's hope for you my friend Alright I feel hostility I feel some hostility coming out And some anger You asked me a question I was being real Naturally though That was not the answer to my question

You willingly Gave that information that is not related To the question I asked You asked me would I go The caliber and then you said I want Caramelized popcorn Yeah I know I'm just saying

I'm refuting because I'm not going to go Which I don't think is ever going to happen Because I love you so much But in an alternate reality Because I just saw Doctor Strange In a multiverse situation When I'm shooting

A show like Sex and the City Even the background People are fancy on the show And It's like That show portrays a lifestyle That I'm not Privy to

I just can't Measure up To fancy in that way I don't drink wine I like truffle But I don't know the varieties of truffle I don't know how it's made You like caviar but you don't know the different types

When I went to the Bull in the Alley in Tulsa I would go yeah the caviar And a little thing like this And I go I think this is fancy It tasted great What would Dayton Girl think of glue thumbs? Wow That's interesting

Interesting I've never seen that much Elmer's In rum form How impressed would she be of that? Look your glue wall Yeah right Where show me That's a whole wall of glue

We used to have all the glue but I used them all But You're right you know what Here's the thing If you ask Any of my girlfriends before About Elmer's glue They don't know anything about it

Do you know why? You're the most comfortable person that I can show All that stuff to I'm being real I wish I wasn't though you know what I mean I get it You can't get too comfortable Yeah it's like

Babe look at this Ball of fucking fungus Let's slice it open together I'm like nah You openly fart? He does and I don't in front of him You can't either? No you can't do it

I could but I don't I did once when I got my wisdom teeth out And we were together For three years but we were still pretty pristine Good Irish Catholic girl Held it together And then I was laying in bed Watching Ridiculousness

It's a show I watch when I'm sick And I looked at her And I was like I farted And she's like yeah We break up now And she's like no I have a brother It's okay these things happen But when I'm not on narcotics

You really do hold it? Yeah I'll go to another room I'm sure she can hear it from the other room My son and I get a big kick out of Farting in front of each other But I just think the mere act of that I try to be more than 15 feet away from her Means a lot

Let me ask you this If she farted in front of you has she ever? Yeah And does it turn you off? No What's the problem? Because it's a microaggression I feel heard

It is a microaggression Because I do believe in total openness And wanting to just I want to know every single I want to know all your juices or whatever But to me that kills The sexual Feeling

And that's just me I'm not saying that's for everybody But it does chip away At that sexual Hunger I have for you Because I'm constantly thinking of your Wet juicy farts And You don't have to use the adjective

Juicy I'm thinking about it now I'm a little turned off Yeah You know what it's an interesting point and I think you're right And I will be more mindful about that But it's almost too late because You've seen, you've listened to all the

Varieties of farts Every dry, wet You've heard all of them You leave town and you come back It's always a new slate for me And I kind of get a little excited You come in with your suitcase I look at you I'm like I like the way he dresses

I'm attracted to that person And it's like You know what you're right I think you're right So thank you so much Any time You mad about the No not at all

But will I remember it forever Yeah You will? That's just Tomonota I always take notes I always say that Tomonota I knew I should have said it then

No I'm never going to use it again I know but it's in your head now Look that is also just a fantasy That's just a fantasy Do you know what I fantasize about? My fantasies go crazy Being cummed into by 10 men Different than a wink

A lot different than a wink Different than a wink Different than dating It's a little different Call the episode different than dating That's a little different That is such a natural Normal thought process

To have if you didn't have Do you have fantasies? Sure I mean I'm normal Just give me one normal one Yeah It's like when people get super kinky It's like cool whatever your thing is The thing is I had sex with myself

For so long I practiced for so long by myself The fact that there's just someone there Who wants to engage in it With me that's novelty enough Yeah I think I have I was raised with a skewed

Sense of sex You mean not because Of the Lamala station but because To defend you Most people are And were especially most people are Right But I had a friend named

Still my friend I still talk to him And his dad had Porn stashed around his House He had kids And me and At the ages of 13-14 years old Would just scour through

When his dad was at work to find the porn And we would jerk off to it But it's like I don't know if that was like And this is a lot I don't think that was healthy Our friend Asa Kira She's a beautiful

Porn star But she has a really good Point about Kids, young kids coming across Porn You as a parent have that responsibility To explain what porn is For kids watch it

Without any guidance as to That's actually not real life That's actually not how sex goes That's actually not how intimacy goes Because if you don't do that You will have kids with a very worked idea About sex I don't know why we're going in this direction

But that's like an interesting thing We were having fun and it was light And now we're talking about like Real stuff I wish my wife got more jealous But we were in Paris At Paris Fashion Week I was doing social media for L'Oreal

And I just Proposed to my wife the day before So we're in France I'm like we're going to do it up And I don't know whether one of the super models Thought I was handsome Or like had some six warp sense That I was newly engaged

And so she wanted me Were you wearing a suit? I looked nice On Stamos' son on a TV show that got cancelled I was crushing it And so I remember and like she made a bit of a show Of it that she thought

Joshy Boy was cute And I'm like looking at my wife being like Right, stuck in crazy Like take your rings off, show this girl what's up She loved it She thought it was hilarious Because she knows your heart It's securely attached

It's healthy She's the lady of that actually going through Like Josh, you're not going to date some international supermodel I'm not going to lose you to her Like maybe a really cute like Pharmacy Tech at CBN But not Let's go to that direction

Even if you and I were single We're at Paris Fashion Week Wearing suits You're doing a show with John Stamos You got Gluethoms I got Gluethoms but I'm also like maybe doing Like I'm the lead of a Southwest Airlines industrial commercial

Sure That's very popular on YouTube And we'd be two supermodels They're on their own way And they're like they're a little drunk They have to be and they're like hitting on us I don't know what to do after that Me either

What would we do? We would talk for too long And the night would get too long You and I would talk too long We would talk to them too long We would talk for too long I would have to whisper to you Let's get more aggressive

We're talking too long This is four hours of talking about Skyrim Skyrim? What Skyrim is The difference between BS3 and 4 is It's the CPU core I have a question for you both If you were

If you didn't know your wife For the very first time Running errands at Gelsons Would you feel That same feeling? If you met me today Today? Am I single? You're single, you're both single

And you're both at Gelsons so you're rich Yeah She didn't say Erwan Gelsons pretty nice Gelsons is not cheap But have you been to that new Erwan on cold water? Yeah, it's insane Erwan is nowhere

Spell backwards, you know this Oh my god You're welcome George Clippet Wow I did not know that Erwan is nowhere How did it take me that long

To catch on to that? I would have never known but I have a lot of rich friends Yeah Wow You really derailed it with this knowledge You just threw me off anyway If I saw you at Gelsons Am I with Josh?

No, you're by yourself You're just getting your sugar free red bulls I'll just tell you right now I would probably look at you and go wow she's pretty But I'm not I've never Seen a pretty girl Anywhere and said can I get your number

I'm just not that guy So you would have to make the move Would I be like Bobby Ling I love you Oh thank you Bye I just don't have the moves I'm not good at it Are you?

Yeah Because I had a realization At a certain time in my life I think it was like somewhere Like nine or ten years of sobriety You know those interactions you have With people especially during your teens

Where it just feels like It's something or why was that not quite right I realized now all this time later That it's probably them Like I'm a I'm a fun hang Like I'm a nice time So if it's awkward it might be you

That's so good You should think that in most of your interactions Yeah It's their issues To me it's always racism I don't know why it always goes there They just don't like Asian guys Racism

Everything right What do you mean the french fries Everything is racism Every issue you have No I don't First of all when I go to In-N-Out If they say they're out of fries

They only have three things on the menu So I would be like How are you out of fries That's all you do burger and fries There's no chicken sandwich That's number one Is that what you're saying Yeah I wouldn't think

Now if they were like Here's fries for you Mr. Smith But we're out of fries to me Then that would be racism Of all the white people got fries None of the minorities got any fries What if they said they're out of burgers too It's just milkshakes

And everyone else was getting burgers and milkshakes We don't know because there's no one else in there It's pretty late In-N-Out When there's no one in there It's a new one Is it in Dayton It's in Dayton

I'm trying to see what scenarios You would switch the racism In Dayton you're finally dating This Blonde cutie farm girl With stars in her eyes She's never even been to In-N-Out Never heard of it

She's like Gronk but female style Dream And you're like I'm taking you to In-N-Out But like no one in that area Is interested in In-N-Out You're the only ones there I would say it was Morton's but just bring her to In-N-Out He wouldn't know the difference

What's your name? Layla? I like when the parents were hippies Or something Jemima Juniper Like Aunt Jemima Yeah let's see Jemima

I like Jemima Kirk Okay so Jemima You're like let's go to In-N-Out It's a really cool place to be in LA And then you take her there So we walk in No let me do the dialogue Jemima this is Morton's

Oh really Just like the movies Yeah just like the movies Right And there's no one here Jemima You'll get a number 2 I'll order for you

You don't want to read He doesn't want to read Jemima She'll get a number 2 Regular or Animal style Regular onions or sauteed Grilled

Grilled or sauteed Grilled Regular then She's not gonna do the difference You're loving this dude You're loving this I'll have a number 1 Regular onions please

We've actually ran out of fries and burgers We only have milkshakes tonight What That would be my first response Yeah But I'm looking back and forth between you and Jemima And it's not adding up In my little brain

Hmm You're looking at who I'm on the counter I'm taking your order Right but in that center I would just leave You'd be like but you wouldn't call racism No I would go to McDonald's and say it was boa Can we just go to fast food

Yeah Yeah What do you and Jemima watch when you get home Does she love She loves Chuck Lorre Chuck Lorre Oh yeah she loves Chuck Lorre She's like sad Mike and Molly stuff

Network I mean she doesn't understand Big Bang Theory That's just nerds She's like I like the Jewish skinny one No I'd probably watch Ridiculousness That's what I do I watch it whatever I'm saying Gives me a lot of relief

I'd probably watch what she wants to watch Like what do you want to watch Now this pisses me off You let her watch What she wants to watch Never giving me the choice of what to watch Okay stop for a second I'm sorry Josh

Number one You've influenced me on a lot of things Music TV and film There's a lot of things that I would never watch Because and I've watched it because of you Okay And you know that's true so that's unfair

Yeah but you don't watch them with me Number two that's true If you look back In the beginning of a relationship I was willing to do anything Because that's the That's what you do Long Beach

LBE Long Beach Energy Long Beach Energy I did all the things that you wanted to do It's just through time You just kind of go I don't want to watch that Okay fair enough In the beginning it's different We all know that

I wish he watched with you Right now I wish he would watch the show Called Old Enough Because I think that he would get a kick out of it And he is being really resistant What's Old Enough Oh my god

It's a show about little Like Japanese kids running Their first errand ever It's really cute I'm not explaining it well But it's just a very cute Show There was a 50 year

Time in Korea where Japan Oppressed us It all ties into that To me even the kids selling Dumplings at a restaurant I just imagined them getting in a plane And flying into Pearl Harbor For me I have

Deep resentments Okay I'll have to take that as a valid reason Is that a valid reason? I mean my dad used to tell me They used to hang us upside down And get us in boiling water And whenever I see It just gives me trauma

So you want to traumatize me? No I don't Anyway, unhelpful advice By the way, can I just say this I had a blast I think this is so good Do you have your own podcast? What's it called? Mail Models

You're not coming on, stop it I know you Let me ask you something Did I do The boys Chad Who are they? Exactly

I did Trevor Wallace And the other guy Mike I did Lex Friedman These are huge podcasts You're going on futurist podcasts Who do you do mail model with? My friend Joe Vulpis

Yeah, I'm doing it When am I doing it? Anytime, we record down the street But just know that if you don't do it I'm doing it! You know what? You're banned This is how Adam and I are This is how Adam and I

This is how Adam and I You get me a date You lock in a date today No, I don't believe it Give me a date Is this the new poppy? It's going to be a movie next week It can't be then

But that will sass a movie In Florida Aside from that If I'm not conflicting Give me a date Get a date from me I'm going to do mail models I'd love to

What an honor With Prioritize With George With Prioritize With George Wait With a woman How did the video go viral?

I'm confused Not enough It does change It changes it because she's a girl If it was a guy, who cares But when you're a girl it's a little bit different Yeah, but I've never seen it Yeah

It seems a little Like who gives a shit Right Your friends saw it People that know you saw it But if you're in a Starbucks And even if somebody had seen it a month before They're not going to go, oh that's that girl

From the video that I saw There's just no way that happens Because I've done a lot of things And people don't recognize No one cares I feel like she has an addiction maybe Oh there's consequences There's consequences and

Josh and I can testify Like, you know for me I have three sets of friends I have the people I grew up with I have My industry friends That's including actors and comedians And whatnot and podcasters

But then I also have a whole chunk Of a section of friends That are all sober friends And my sober friends Go from some actors Some comedians but Mostly lawyers Mostly people that work at coffee shops

It doesn't matter We have a connection that goes Way beyond any of the other relationships I have One time I was at a I was at a bar This is when I was sober In the 17 years

And I remember I was in the bathroom having a bad day And there was two guys there Talking about A step They were talking about the force I wrote it down but I don't want to And I just turned to them and I go

Well you guys friend of Bill W's And they're like, yeah And I go how much time And we talked there for like 15 minutes Outside of the bathroom My point is that there's an instant Connection Yeah it's a language of the heart

I mean have you met strangers That you just met that are in the program And there's an instant Thing right? Oh yeah I was recently working with a guy And we were talking about someone and I was like Ah that guy's an untreated alcoholic And he looked at me and was like

You know about untreated alcoholics Because normal people don't use that vernacular Like oh he's a drunk And immediately We hit it off But when I was listening Like the first 100 pods I had to hold myself back listening to Tiger Ballet

Because I was like Bobby's gonna drink Oh wow And I was like Don't be that guy Like you know obviously I didn't know you Why didn't you reach out? Because I didn't know you You were moving so quickly from the meeting

No because remember you weren't going You were pretty publicly like I haven't been with me I speak at meetings When asked but I don't really go And then it was like The sleep in 05 And I was like ah he's gonna drink It's weird because

He almost announced it To everyone in a certain way Like a whole year before He actually relapsed He had already talked about Possibly relapsing He was almost planting seeds in everyone's heads And I remember like a couple weeks

Before you actually relapsed You had said hey I'm gonna I haven't chosen a date but I'm gonna So all of us were sort of just like Holding our breath But what I did though was I knew I was gonna But I was scared

So I went to a men's meeting In Santa Monica On 26th Street or whatever And packed, not packed But there's like 40 guys there I raised my hand to share I raised my hand and went up there And I announced to me it was so strange

I go I'm gonna relapse Thursday guys And I'm sharing right now Because I'm just hoping That someone can talk me out of it Or God can intervene or something Happened And after the meeting I had a line Of people talk to me

But it just I had already made the decision It was crazy It was so weird I actually relapsed I said just like Call your sponsor one more time Call this like I was saying Can you just anyone at all

And nothing could convince him out of it Because for a whole year He was already sort of He knew he was gonna get there But you also don't like you can't do You can't do like a spot fix When the dam's about to break Like you can't fix a couple small

Wow that's interesting Like people will accuse me of this And like I have a kid I have a wife I'm pretty square And people will say that to me And I'm like I'm not doing it for you Or for me I'm doing it because I can't be uncomfortable

Like I can't lie cheat and steal Because it makes me thoroughly uncomfortable And the best way I know to combat that feeling Is drinking I gotta be really careful about getting uncomfortable Yeah yeah That's very interesting So back to this lady

You know If you I don't know what this dbt or whatever The things she's doing I'm sure it's great But if you want An instant family And you want to change your life

I've just been Ever since I was a kid A huge supporter of 12 step groups I really have I've been in them all my life From them Just one last story Oh my god this is gonna be so

I think I talked about this already But The first meeting I ever went to I was 17 years old And it was on a Monday night in La Jolla In San Diego And obviously that was in 1988

Were you born then? 86 When you were 2 years old I was going to my first meeting And So a couple of weeks ago I did Tony Hawk's podcast Did I talk about this?

Yeah I did Tony Hawk's podcast Which is in San Diego It was a great time and I went It's a Monday I might as well wait To tonight and I'm gonna go to that meeting So I went to one of my favorite coffee shops The Panic Inn

Encinitas Area And I sat there for hours and drank coffee And played Tetris on my phone And then I went to that same exact meeting And I walked in And the first guy I see This old man walks directly to me

It's me He was older But I remember When I was 17 and I used to set up chairs This dude was so cool To me And we instantly hugged And I ran into 4 people that night

That I remember from 1989 On your first day? On my first time going to that meeting I kept going to that meeting for years I had relationships with them All these other guys And me and this guy sat next to each other At the meeting

We exchanged numbers obviously But I remember Feeling Like I was at home It's really I can't explain it It's like running into Your grandparents that died

Or something It was a feeling of Emotional And the way I Hugged them I would look at their hair Look at all these white hairs You know what I mean?

And looking at his wrinkles And just looking at his body Like it would be an old Seabuddy or war friend Or whatever you were in a war with It was just that kind of feeling And then A kid came up and wanted a photo

Ruin that both He was a huge Tiger Belly fan And I told him Another magical thing Because the reason why I went to that Meeting was because the rehab that I went to Would bring us there in a van

This same kid was A Tiger Belly fan He found out about the rehab that I went to Through the podcast And he was now being delivered to the meeting From the same treatment that I went to And he was just like That's how I knew how to go to this rehab

And now I see you What the fuck I have a photo I got Listen we don't do that because I want to be your friend This is no longer A fan Kind of a thing I want to help you

So no photo Keep going to meeting But it was just Such a weird cosmic Circular Thing Different generations And it gave you

That feeling of What I have always longed For a connection You know And so this lady talking It's like you really are missing out on Something that's like You know unexplainable

It's otherworldly Cosmic If I can Spiritual obviously But there's something that I wish you could Please try to explore You know go

To one see how you feel Because what you'll find there is Something that I can't even describe Would you agree Oh yeah I remember the first time The first meeting I went to I heard that it said Best you didn't tell me what was wrong with me

You told me what was wrong with you And I identified Cos I was like I'm reasonably Articulate and like I've walked around My whole life not being able to diagnose myself And I was like And you could throw some psycho terms at it Like did I have depression? Sure I guess

Like I had a little anxiety But that didn't really encapsulate it But these people drank like me Thought like me Treated other people like me But they weren't like a glum lot They were like these people who were Abiding by the social contract

They weren't shattered like I was They had families and careers And you know all the cash and prizes That come with a good life And I remember I went to like an all men's meeting Early on I was 21 and I used to go pick up I was tasked with picking up this guy in his 80s from his nursing home

And he would get in the car and he had like so much time Sober and he would go turn off the radio And listen to God And he would go And he would say you're here because Of your mother's prayers Right yeah There was a guy who used to get

I don't know how he would get your number But he would find new guys Get their number and then he would call you And then if you didn't call him back He would come up to you at the meeting And go a man calls people back Oh I love that They called you to do accountable

Yeah and it was like Yeah I mean that's exactly what it is dude I learned everything from it You know and Here's the last thing I want to say about it Is Somebody said if you continue

As a kid when I was 17 You'll have A life you know what I mean Beyond your wildest dreams and A big life right And And boy was he right You know I've traveled the world

You know I've met all kinds of people I've done things I could even Never imagine Like doing a movie with Ben Kingsley Like we talked about earlier Like never was that as a young guy Even a concept Because I remember watching Gandhi

As you know going to blockbuster Renting it When you're watching a movie you never think You know what I mean but it's like You know whatever spirituality is Or whatever that guy said big life It just sort of kind of came true for me You know what I mean so

I just want to tell that to somebody That's in pain and suffering You know but I just want to tell this young lady I don't know who she is but That it really is real You know it does work And I've seen it

You know what I mean not only in my own life But in other people's lives I really have you know so But wouldn't you say Bobby like pain and suffering Is a great place to start Like I never learned anything on a good day It's a great motivator It's the only thing

Alcoholics react great To catastrophe Because it wakes us up But like you just can't wait too long Because eventually time will make us feel like Man it wasn't that bad Pain is a great motivator It happened to me today

I was on Instagram and I saw John Mulaney Alley Wong, Neil Brent All these fancy comedians together It hurt me I'm not even a comedian Together the elites With Kevin Hart the elites It caused me so much pain I'm gonna get him

Is that the lesson? That's the lesson I got again Anyway give him a round of applause Music Hey Prime members You can listen to Tiger Barely Ad Free On Amazon Music Download the Amazon Music app today

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