TigerBelly - Episode 186: Dr. Drew & The Cold Jerky

Episode Date: March 20, 2019

Bobby has an emotional shift. Dr. Drew shows his claws. Khalyla pulls something. We talk rage tangles, Jane Fonda, Cappuccino Boys, and powerful impacts. Check out the Philippines Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/TigerBellySupport us by supporting our sponsors!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Your Emperor you mean the one that you follow. I lead you follow and vice versa We've got some beautiful people in the room. What an episode is this George? 180 180, okay welcome This is a very exciting episode for me because um, we have a guest that I've been wanting on this podcast for years Have we not talked about this the guest? Years ago, we're like give me a list. I threw the and then we're like, I don't there's no way I'm gonna be like get a hold of this guy. He's too rock starry, but we have him

but my point is let's start with introducing everyone to The the group the people that are on the boat We have a crew we have a crew here. We have the guy that runs the engines in the boat You know, I mean he does all the the levers. I don't know how boats work. Oh, yeah Yeah, he's all to get revving, right? We got that guy, right? We have this the guy that helps with the side boats You know, there's side boats on the boat. My friends. Yeah, I call him side boat side. Yeah. Yeah So we got side boat guy, right? We have the co-captain here. All right. She does the navigating

Yeah, like Magellan go north. That's what she does and we got this guy this guy is You're the you work at the restaurant. Oh great on the boat. Yeah. Yeah, you serve the help Yeah, I'm the you don't have a name. Okay, like the captain wouldn't know your name. He would go. Hey kid Get me a cappuccino That's you now. Go. This is the boat. We don't have Cappuccino, it's a luxury liner. Oh, okay. It's a cruise ship run by Cole Yeah, it's run by Cole. Anyway, um And so years ago. I'm gonna I'm gonna introduce you years ago. Um, I was on a television program

That only nine Mexicans watched it was called Matt TV Raul, thank you for watching Pedro. There's three Pedro's. Thank you for watching and During my Matt TV days we I did his I think at a radio show that I did I met him But I was a big fan before he had a show called Love Line. He had a big radio show He's everyone knows who he is And here's what I'm really into manifestation. I

I really am I'm in the manifestation and We were talking about who he wanted and I manifest in my mind. I go, how am I gonna get him and The comedy store had a festival It was called what was called a comedy store festival. Wow, very unique unique name. Yeah, it's very unique name Yeah, they called it with big fonts, right with the and I was at this festival and it was me Who was on it a bunch of people David Spade, you know, and I was first and then they go Dr. Drew is here. He's doing a little side broadcast. I go, what the fuck I manifest the shit Hmm, and I did his thing and I looked at him

Dr. Drew Pinsky and I said I said I said, can you do my podcast? He said yes, so I did his You know a month ago. I don't know if you know that crew man. What's your name? I don't have any that's exactly You know coming up. That's exactly why you're fucking here, bro. Yep. All right to have no name And I want to really deep run of applause to our guests dr. Drew Pinsky everybody Speak now. Yeah, you can speak now. Yeah, I've told do not speak to Yeah, I had a couple things to say. Yeah, go ahead. First of all, am I being punked? Is that what's happening? No, this is the way we do it. Secondly. Secondly, I don't know what's happening that day All of a sudden I open my eyes and it was at the comedy festival. I don't know what happened

Somebody manifested me and I just appear See and the secret bro the manifesting was just My voice I've got a little cold But the manifesting was just one part of the other part was how hard you had to fight to get me your podcast I believe you said would you come in your pocket? Yeah? Yes. Yes How shocked was I? You were weirdly shocked. Yeah, you were absurdly shocked. I was like this dick I'm like You're a married man. You're a Christian. I wanted to be on your pod, George. I wanted to be on your podcast

I wanted to be on your pod. Are you Jewish? Right, so I manifested you there and I just showed up there is weird and you said that you had a cold now I have a cold now. Yeah, as well. Oh, you manifested it. No You manifested my cold and you I just think that we'd live some of our lives Of course, yeah, you've manifested me. I don't really exist except in your mind Well, I have a who manifested my food poisoning. Oh, yeah food poisoning I haven't eaten in two days It may not have been food poisoning because there's a horrible gi virus going around starts with vomiting

Hmm had everything and then some diarrhea follows, but mostly it's just you're washed out for two days Okay, so we just got back from the Philippines and I thought that maybe it was something that I adjusted there Maybe but I actually started getting really sick yesterday. So I don't think it was the Philippines. I think you're right sudden vomiting Oh, it was just sudden everything. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, that's it. Is it noro? It's a Noro is here in hollywood. It's actually volatilized off the feces that our friends leave in the streets But it's also there's been a gastroenteritis going on. She had more diarrhea than you see dr. Ken on tv I mean, it was just like every other dr. Ken jung. Korea does pepsi commercials everything. He has diarrhea. No, I'm just saying he's He's her diarrhea was as frequent as him. Oh, Ken is a friend of mine. I love him too. And he's my doctor as well

He used to cover he's not new work. He didn't have a license But when he did have a license, he used to he used to sit in for me on love line Oh, really because when he came on as a guest, I was like that is a smart dude. Who knows his profession He does sit in he knew what the hell he was doing in my I feel bad that he gave up his license He should have kept practicing at least one day a week when I was detoxing off of ike it in He was the only guy I called and he helped me through that. He knows what he's doing. He's amazing Super smart. Yeah, so you think that you have some American virus that probably you caught well, and then I had this brief moment of paranoia because I was in the shower

And I was washing my asshole and something was protruding from it and I pulled out probably was undigested piece of food But it might have been a worm. It might have been a worm. It's a tapeworm Not a tapeworm. Ascaris. Oh, ascaris because yeah, because you get that over there Yeah, it's the most common one in the Philippines, but then it looked flat and white and I was like wait What is the incubation? It's a proglot it's a proglot it from a tapeworm. Ascaris So ascaris is the most common one in the Philippines. It's like a character from the movie Hedge-up with him So I started like googling just the incubation period how long does it take to be a full-grown worm and so I'm in the safe

Yeah, it's a long time. Well, she's a nurse. I don't even know she's not anymore. No, no, not license That's why you know more than she's very How dare you? Fuck you. He loves Kendra. I know so many. I hope she knows more. She's a nurse. Yeah No, not any. I shouldn't say that. That's not it. I'm not a nurse Yeah, but you're very It having had that training and experience It'll stay with you your whole life And you'll know more than your judgment will be different than other people's because just having had that experience

When we were in seattle, someone was dying next to us. Oh, yeah at a restaurant and she saved his life I'm sure that there's a woman I didn't because I didn't look up because what was I doing? He was playing in in his panic He freezes and instead he turns to his gadgets and he was playing bejeweled So instead of saying I was like Bobby call 9-1-1 while I was assisting her. He then does this turns his back Continues to high score, baby. Yeah, well done. And do you know why I did that? Well played, sir Dr. Drew, do you know why I did that? You're a pussy Yes

Right diagnosed. Yeah, but the also the reason why I do it in those kind of situations I think that I'll make the situation worse. Right. I'll get in the way. Yes, right? I'll try to help her I'll lunge and then trip and then fall on her heart and she'll die at whatever You know my heart also the third reason why is I don't want to fill out any paperwork, right? So if she dies, I don't want to answer any questions, right, right? So you get you get why I didn't do anything But I mostly because I just wouldn't Be helpful to the situation. So when you're over and ask for something very specific

That'd be too much No, did you ask me to help dialing 9-1-1? Did you did say that? Oh, and did I do it? No, she knows basic cardiac She knows basic life support and the first thing you do is go who call 9-1-1 Yeah, she didn't know when you do when you learn on resusa annie and you go first thing you look around Yeah, assess your resources call 9-1-1. You never know what ever says and when the guy turns his back on you Yeah, then you call ask somebody else to dial 9-1-1. Touché, but can I say this at for my defense?

Yes, I had so much faith in her skills Right, I thought that you know, she's well played sir. Yeah. Thank you. They're they're in good. It's over But she saved that person's life and then her mom was choking Here in the living living room and she saved her life. So I've seen her in you know in real time in full action So, um, and he did make this situation worse at that time He did call 9-1-1 on my mom But I don't think he was actually formulating any real sentences. He was just screaming into the phone Is your sister a nurse too?

My sister is a great nurse. She's still a nurse. She's actually the the head nurse of the county jail Oh my god, that is a hard job. So she has the At the county or at the jail ward at the county She has she's the head nurse at the van ice jail over here not twin towers Yeah, the the I think those the super Troubled ones get sent to twin towers So, you know what what her job entails her sisters? Oh, I do. Yeah, it's crazy She sees some stuff and she has to empty people who have just stabbed their wives to death things like that

And they're not they're not cuffed either. She has to medically she has to see them Um with the cops sitting behind and her just talking to them like regular people and she has to be absolutely Not biased and just be very objective. Yeah You know, just as a lay person Whenever I think of a job that entails dealing with life and death situations You turn your back and play I played the jewel because of the fact that it's just so

Real and shocking to me that like I'm just one of those guys. I panic like she When we first went to the Philippines not this time, but the last time years ago. She had a heart I have an arrhythmia. She had arrhythmia and I had to call, you know, we had to get the ambulance and we carried her to the thing We went to the hospital. I mean, it's just you know, I've been in situations with her where it's like It's difficult. It's difficult and wide or lonely in one of those. Um, no, I actually have two things I have an svt that I got an ablation for but it was not both targets It wasn't not a re-entrant thing because um, I think that wolf they can see that through imaging, right? It's different. Yeah, and then I also have an occasional run of

Um, it's white white complex. Yeah, I actually have a wide complex as well But I have this weird run of v-tac randomly Yeah, absolutely That I started taking I was an athlete for 15 years. I was a swimmer. I swam division one and then afterwards I think that did they check you for the genetics of the myosin abnormalities for a hyperphoto? They didn't check the genetics, but they did they did ask because I'm Filipino So that maybe they I maybe had trisads. Oh my god, because that's a lot of like southeast asian men die from

Did they catch the v-tac? Did they caught the v-tac during the ablation? They were able to catch everything Oh my god, oh my lord So they just burned the tissue there I'm shaking my finger in bobby. It's like that's real stuff. I know it's real. I love it So when people say oh, I've got palpitations like you should laugh at them It's not that it's not that it's not what you know, the reason why I'm laughing It's like if like wolverine showed us claws, right? When people think about wolverine and you the the legend of wolverine you go

Ah, does he and then when he shows you the claws? So you just showed me that you're a real doctor Yeah, and so I'm trying to follow you Bobby I know you're I know you were and so um when you were you know throwing down heat just now with information I thought wow, he's legit. That's all that's why I was laughing so but she was um, I think her Um problem started After she got breast implants That should have nothing to do with it. It shouldn't but I started to feel exponentially more ill. It's weird Everything started to fall apart. Something's right. Okay. Um, but I don't know really I actually think it comes from I have this weird apnea when I fall asleep

Jesus And I think it's like ever since I was a kid and it's not Um, obstructive sleep apnea because I don't snore. It's a central. It's a weird central thing and I always Uh, I wake up a couple times a night gasping and I think over time It costs some type of like aberrant circuits to happen as I got older. That's my guess. That would mean it's interesting Yeah, it's a hard little hard to make that case, but I'm going with you. I'm going with it But she's able to over the last year to work like instead we used to just call the ambulance right away So we'd have ambulance come over here on time

First name base. Yeah, why didn't they do an implantable? Whatever for you? I didn't want one. I thought that they wanted to do it, huh? Yeah, and I thought that maybe the ablation would just do it, but I still occasionally have um episodes, but um, you should have an implantable device Oh, it scares me because I hear that they fire even when Very unusual these days you fire when you need it. Yeah, right and so I've been able to um Work out high intensity. What kind of antirhythmic you want? Um at the tenor. So that's it. Yeah, doesn't bother you Um, it used to when I had to take it every day now I take it just a pill in pocket when I'm having it's not even that she takes I made me a quarter of

Got it. Yeah. Yeah, I try not I try to keep it down. Yeah Um, well good times Not bleak, but you know what, you know, it's like, um With her health situation. I um, she's healthy. Don't don't make her feel. No, no, she's very healthy, but it's also, um Um, it it I think I've grown by being in this relationship with her because I hope so I have because as a comic for her sake I have okay. Dr. Duke Pinsky. It's all good. If Pinsky's your real last name. It is Jewish. I used to wish ish Um, that I usually when I'm with a in a relationship

I'm 50 in oh So this made you made you go all the way. It's not. Yeah, it's it's also like whenever I'm dating somebody I'm like I'm going to get out of this. Yeah. Yeah, right. Yeah, this will you know run its course, right? But with her I know I'm really in love with her because I just know that I'm committed Well, you've been faced with like Things that at least at times look like life and death and you like feel that yeah, you know I really and sometimes it has been scary. I bet yeah But I do want to ask you though when someone does go through something

I mean mine maybe doesn't sound chronic, but something that alters their life a little bit It did have an impact on His sexual feelings just in general because it scared him. Yeah, like it almost took him out of that. He's gonna break you Oh, that's I don't think we're gonna bring this off. I mean, but you did you did is a perfect person Um, okay. I gotta get real here Yeah, I think through The experiences with the hospitalization because when we were in saboo when she was first Had had had it. We were in the hospital for like two weeks

You know in the Philippines in the Philippines and then by coming here Her getting her ablation operation and then also constantly having to call the ambulance, right? They're in and I think it's tied in with um my pornography addiction Right with the combination of the two affected I find her extremely Attractive I love her so fucking much. Is that is that part of the problem? What your the intensity of your feelings? I don't know. I don't know. I have you know, I got a thing Yeah, oh my god, please tell me more because I feel like that happens a lot in my life

Where people get too involved with you too intense Yeah, like where the love almost turns into something more than because I well intensity You know people confuse intensity for love and they can get sort of overwhelmed by the intensity and the intensity They can either get addicted to or overwhelmed by or aversive to And intensity is something that you sort of have to watch out for Do you have how your boundaries do you have slippery boundaries? No, I don't you good Here's another thing also is is that I never really lived with anyone So

With her health conditions With this podcast because we're in business together With we're constantly around each other. I think that might yeah, we're a little too like we that's she's the only person I see I know but All right, but I feel like that. I feel like you know, I know your history now and I feel like there's some couple layers of stuff something I agree with you with the porn the porn get in the way. Yeah, the porn's what you're retreating to not to deal with whatever else is going on Yeah, I mean and then here. Let me see. I don't know. I don't know what you're alluding to. I don't know either

No, because I know you're a complex guy and you're very complex. I'm layers. Yeah. Yeah Yeah, you've got a lot of trauma and with that a lot of trauma. Yeah, I'm dr. Trauma too. Yeah. Yeah, so something's coming back Okay, here's what I know for sure. Okay That six animals three cats three dogs just listen living in such a close prop prop I saw the the the gate But yeah, yeah, we have a lot. Okay Three cats and three dogs rescue right in this two bedroom place. Yeah. Yeah With the health with the porn, right? Also. Here's another thing just here here Yeah, there's there's little room in my apartment between the dogs and the porn

Maybe I see you know I'm listening. Yeah, and then Also, and you generally you have a little bit of a process addiction. Generally, you know what that is what like Process and you said it or you've alluded to three different things that are what we call process addiction One was the bejeweled or whatever we try in a real video games And video games all part the same thing and then you said, uh, oh social media. Yeah Yeah, now porn so it's all process. It's a while. It's process. You may have to go cold jerky That's the name of the episode cold jerky jerky. I've never heard of cold jerky

What is I'm being funny, but I mean cold turkey on all your devices and things Which will oh my god, and when you sat down, right? We kind of you know to talk briefly about it Who you and I a little bit about social media and last time. Oh right in the middle. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, and um So you're thinking well like every other addiction. Yeah, you have to go cold turkey and then see what emerges Right, you're hiding out and all that stuff Oh my god, it's real. Here's another thing too Which is I think a big thing. Go is is that I haven't for the last two years three years

I've been to maybe two a.m. Oh, did we talk about that? Yeah, we did on yours and I saw So not only so as all this is do I have that I have I'm a dry drunk on top of it No, you're a porter. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, but yeah, but I don't I'm not really Working on my recovery at all. Oh, and I'm using I can see myself fall back into so that That's what this feels like to me like it like like what's the michigas? You know I shenanigans, right? You know what I mean? Yeah, like you need to like get stuff straight You need to get cold turkey and get going some meetings and then see what the hell's going on

Like I feel like I'm looking at like I'm trying to wave smoke aside trying to see why I have so much Right, it's it's not gonna be that much. It's not gonna be that big a deal Whatever it is It's not gonna be as bad as you think it is Yeah, you have faced down way more Yeah, I have and I'm just fine. Well, this is another question. Oh my god enough Okay, but that's real. I mean, let's keep going. Let's go. Um What what now we're talking about penis enlargement is that we're going next?

I'm sorry, sorry Bobby's an open book. I'm an open book and he's so wonderfully. He's so, um Willing to offer that information that he has these addictions this and this What do you call it when someone is so clear and acknowledges their issues? And they have a lot of these. Oh my god moments like when you told him right now Like that's a process thing and he's like, oh my god And he has a lot of these every day and he acknowledges all these things, but there it's 100% inaction

0% actually working towards any of those things that he talks about and acknowledges every day. Okay. Okay. Hey, no If this is a trial Real quick. Nothing to defend. Are you the judge though? No, no, I just have a question. Yeah, go ahead. Go ahead. It's good, right? She's great. Yeah, that's she's right What she's correct. Is she not? Okay, that's good. Okay, because because I don't that a codependent would go. I'm confused Do you help? Well, I gotta help him. Yeah, she's like, hey He's complaining about you. He goes to the recording meetings. What the hell was he expect?

But here's the thing though. Could I just say something? Yeah. Okay. This is that Every time I've gotten sober maybe two times in my life Right, maybe I only know of two. Yeah, I have When I was 17 years old, I got sober. Yeah I relapsed after 12 years. Is that guy still around? like I the the Tattooed guy from the the guy that saved your life. Oh, yeah, I remember the cat. Yeah. He's still around. Yeah, Dan

I know I should I have his number two calling. Okay. That's insane. I should call him. Yes tomorrow Maybe commit to me I'll call him tomorrow. Thank you. But he lives in sandy. I don't I mean, dude, okay But here's the thing. Okay. Is it the two times that I will start the wheel that will start this thing And you know what you two for first of all you all the other ones on the thing, right? I know I seem vulnerable right now, but I'm still your fucking captain. All right, and I want the fucking respect. All right I got you the fucking bullshit. You know, I got the cappuccino. You should know Your steam is going up in their eyes every second here. Yeah, I'm telling you. All right. Yes

But the two times that I have been sober is I have I get motivated When I'm in extreme pain, of course. Okay. Yes. That's when I Like so I if I feel like I'm gonna die. Yeah, I know or it's life or you know life or death, dude That's when I changed my thing. Who are you talking to? I know you pin ski. Yeah, dr. Drew pin ski So so you've done that twice with the with alcoholism and drug addiction, right? With this with this all this stuff the easiest issues you're talking about right now, right? Yeah Yes, it affects, you know, I mean our relationship Um, but still it's still we're still symbiotic. We're still in

This relationship is partly my fault because I think I have a very high threshold for bullshit Um, and I do make it threshold for bullshit. I think that I make your life. You see it and tolerate it I I tolerate it because it's a self-protective thing for mine I don't want to like engage and fight a lot and I think that um, especially with him I do make his life like, you know, he says he has to be in pain to change Yeah, yeah, his life is not painful with me. It's I make things Fairly easy around the house. Does she need to go does she need to go to alanon? I mean, I probably do need to go to alanon. I think so, but here's another thing that I

Where our relationship has gone to Is um dump this all in dr. Drew. So good. I know that he loves it. Um, he's a doctor There is a parental Thing that's kind of happening where She tells me I just it feels like my mom Right, like clean that. You know what? You know, I mean, no, no, but listen, I mean you can't eat that I'm not I'm not surprised you're saying that and that's exactly the kind of stuff I expect to see emerge when you get all the shit out of the way

Right the porn and everything else right this kind of thing because then you could then when it comes During the day and you don't want to clean up. You're gonna go. Hey, we got to talk about this instead you go porn But what I'll do is, you know, like she'll go like I'll go. Hey, can I get jersey because we get a lot of um postmates So today I woke up and I'm like, I'm hungry. She's like, what do you want? We'll stop behaving like your mom's son Mommy No, but that's actually that's how you hold on you've got this the cap in here. They can't you guys can't see this

That's exactly how he does it. He comes out of the room in his underwear and he goes, uh-huh I do do that And on top of that you call me go mommy Yeah, yeah, I do that you're blaming her right and then she'll she goes. What do you want? She'll teach talk talk to me like her like your mom, right? What do you want? That's what your mom talks about. I want to go to the I say I want to go to the east coast Which she knows what that means Oh my god

He's like, no, that's not good for your health You could die, you know and all that stuff and I go I'll get the salad This has gone fully into your mom's relation. You're gonna be you're gonna be chasing him in a field with your car about something He remembers every story. Look at that. Wow. Wow You remember Dan Irwin. He remembered the car. That's crazy. A lot of people I tell these stories that they don't remember Maybe because they're dumb comedians, but yeah Comedians are very yeah, it's not dumb. So there's there's a lot here. There's a lot going on. Yeah, but it's not It's it's not

Super deep, you know, I mean, it's like it's all in the circle. I'm not listen. I know that these issues are in play I'm not blind. You need to hold my hand. No, I just want to when I get real I want to get forward. I want to lock eyes with you sir. Okay, done. So I know that these issues Then why are you looking at the table? I don't know I locked eyes with I got this guy's a pro. All right, so I'll lock eyes with you. I'm gonna favor you. All right. Relax. It's all right All right, so what it is It's like when you know, you're giving someone a blowjob

Oh You're grossing me. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Now. Let's lock eyes now that I said that I have the power again. So anyway So the you know, the issues are on the table. I am, you know, not blind To what's going on in my personal life, right? But still with all that in play how sad that you guys aren't having sex every day. I know that I still that's ridiculous I still there's that fact that she puts up with that. I know. Oh my god But still dude, I know not but still but let's correct that it's important part of relationship really important I know and I finally asked him. I said, look, this isn't

This is I'm I'm vital 30 some young 30 something year old girl and I told him that's like I don't want to continue to keep taking the initiative and trying to fix everything about us So I told him you find a therapist you take you take this matter into your own hands And I've asked you that and then the last time I asked if he goes you find one And I was like, no, no, no the other day. I asked you nicely that I'm leave I'm gonna I just need one sign from you that you're willing to it's calling Dan tomorrow He's calling Dan tomorrow. I know but he's gonna text me after he calls. Now that now that we're talking about this

I want to see another thing. Okay. Yeah is that That there was a while maybe a year ago or is this the way these podcasts normally go? No, no, this is great though. I like this Okay, I want go ahead. I um Surface and usually it's talking about like You know his dick or whatever, but like I don't want to try this because I think that him and I when we're uncomfortable We usually just turn to like, you know turn something Silly because it's just a coping thing we do. It's a coping thing. It's all good, but go ahead a year ago That a year ago. She was doing she would initiate the section, right? And sometimes that bugs women

Yeah, I know all the time. But it would make you feel unwanted and in desire. Yeah, she would always initiate And I do it. We as men like that because it makes us feel good But it makes them feel like hey, I don't Right, so when she was doing that, right? I was like game But then she stopped doing it because she's like, I why do I always have to ask right? She's a and at that point It started dying down, you know, and so um Now that's that's a that's another issue, right? There's a separate issue. I would say and why do you not feel comfortable initiating?

Okay, now the separate issue Okay, so oh god now i'm gonna get to the next level of Of reality. Okay She doesn't give you candy. That's not it the way that guy did No, that's You remember Not only that he's a photographic member at this time. Yeah, you know, he can't name I've known him for years. He can't name anything

We did a friendship test in the Philippines where Bobby sat george down and asked him like 50 questions He didn't know it was single questions about, you know, important things about his life. He's not your friend. Anyway And you know what to thank you so much and exactly you're a user then, huh? So, oh, I didn't say that. Yeah, you're a fucking user, dude. Yeah. Anyway, so here's the next level of things and is is that I then I have so I'll reveal some are you there really? I can't get horny without taking unisom

Unisom that's interesting It's the only time I can feel anything down there And Why don't we see a urologist to get this? No, no, no, here's I looked it up. No, I know what that can do Yeah, I know what it can do but I looked it up and it Elevates my orgasms 20 times It does can't a little bit. It does for me, but but why And you know, you know, also, you know, my brother also now, okay, but but our gas function is separate from

I can orgasm. No, no, no different from desire and all that. Yeah, but I can't I don't feel like doing it unless I'm on unisom But I don't think that's what I required like intercourse is one thing But just to be to even sit down and kiss somebody or hold them in a way that You just don't even show at all anymore. You're very um Cold in that way in the physical part of it all like I don't sex is sex. It's all great, but you know, just even Holding someone is yeah, I have a lot of issues. Yeah, he's a very uh, doesn't want to be I got a lot going on

He's a cat. He'll come to you when he wants to affect you could do that, right? Yeah, I've never no but in just I don't want to defend myself again but I just want to say That you're right. I used to give it more toward Kaila But I do have to admit that I'm just not Never been that way really. That's fine. You know, it's like when I have when I've had previous girlfriends I'm not a cuddler. I know I hate it. You know, you know when they ask for the warm towel after the sexual part I had to I would do it. You know your service. I won't even I'll put the cold water on

I won't even put the warm water on you know, women do that. Yeah, some women have done that Can you give me a warm cold because there's gizzle or my tummy? I go. We'll just use the sheet, you know, but um With the tummy stuff? Yeah Just threw up my mouth On my tummy You need the protein eat it. Yeah, it'd be fun. Oh my god You're macro. He's being fun. I'm being fun. Um, so I I remember a time when I was not as prone to initiate I it and I felt undesired if my wife wasn't initiating and then I did lots lots of therapy and that went away

completely Yeah, completely. Okay, and had no trouble like You know, we're you know, 30 years. We're together 35 years and I'm 60 Wow, and it's all the time your body is great. Geez. I would look at your body earlier. I'm at this guy your tone, bro I'm gonna have to say that. Thank you. Thank you. What are you laughing at that? It's just I've never been called toned before I'm a product of the a's man. You're I mean Your tone, bro. It's like uh me like uh Jane Fonda

You're gonna tone your tone up everybody. I don't even know what tone means I still have a collection of her old stuff and I still do those workouts. Uh, you should uh, what did I see this yet? There's some documentaries about her online. They're great and she talks about all that Oh, so I'm got I got weirdly obsessed with her. I want to meet her and talk to her. Is she still alive? Yes, and she looks amazing. Amazing. It's Henry that died. Henry died. Yeah, but she's got a great I saw her on uh, normick donnell's show and he was talking about death and dying with her and she had the Best attitude I've ever seen in somebody her age. Oh really and I was like, I need to talk to this woman I just have such respect for her and she's been through so much

I'm in a hot pursuit Bobby. They can help me. Yeah Anyway, so you know, I just you know therapy therapy therapy could but let me ask you this now Where I don't we don't I don't really okay, so so call Dan but dance on the therapy is a sponsor Right back and he's gonna have you go to some meetings, but he lives in San Diego. I haven't talked to him in like 20 years Cool. I still have his number though. Cool. Okay, and then you're gonna go to some meetings And then you're gonna maybe get a new sponsor I was calling this guy texted this guy that I like a couple weeks ago. Remember good. It was a guy I liked a couple a couple weeks ago. There was a guy I know around in the rooms. Good. I've always liked him

So I texted him. I go do it. I'm lost. Oh good and I go. Can you temporarily sponsor me? So yeah, but he texted me every day So I texted him four days in a row and then I didn't do it after that And then he never really texted me back. I shouldn't I know he shouldn't yeah, right So it's like so some some resistance here, right ambivalence resistance It's it's I'm telling you right now. It is the ball and everything is going toward Me getting doing something because It's all I can just feel well, you know, the real question is are you gonna have to lose her? No before you do anything

No, is she gonna have to leave with you lose her? No, no, no, no No, because um It's not fair to her How long has this been going on? I'm asking her that we're on our sixth year together. No, but I mean that that's been sort of Oh, oh, oh I think it's probably come to head in the last year. So it's been a year of this. Yeah, roughly speaking. Yeah. Yeah Hmm. So that's enough and I told um Oliver Hudson this and he even said go to therapy You know, Oliver's out of a bunch of therapy, right? Yeah, he's he's a change man. He's a change man. That's right. Yeah

Yeah, and um He's like and everyone's telling me I have to do it. I'm not necessarily telling you go to therapy I'm telling you to reconnect with your sober peers that have been important to you See what they say start going to some meetings. See what happens. See if the air clears a little bit Once you go cold turkey and all these things that you're you're using to Regulate your emotion. Yeah, and see what emerges and maybe something that really requires therapy will emerge. I don't know Yeah, it's a lot. It's a lot. It's a lot to think about if you were to go to therapy

All the therapist could tell you is well, dude, you have to stop you have to stop all this to go to meetings Yeah, the therapist is gonna say and then we'll see where you are right, you know, yeah, I honestly so I think um You know, I'm just generally better off When I'm active in my recovery. Yeah. No, I agree. Yeah, I'm just generally More grounded and more and I am I am what I'm trying to think of the words they're going all kinds of different directions But I would say mostly shocked at that statement and the way you said it Why I just want you to look back on it again after you start going to meetings and things you're generally you're of

Don't see it Your addiction was life-threatening And horrible. Yeah And you're just generally better when you go to meetings. Give me a fucking give me a fucking break If you were my patient, I would I would be all over you. It's not it's not right now. You're leaning forward It's not right for me to do that. It's not that tone. It's not right for Spain on over here It's not right for you to do this so now gonna do it. I know you're my friend I want to say this to you right you're on my page. I'll go do what the fuck. What are you talking about? You're right

Generally better All right? Okay. Okay. You you you made your point. All right when you get all that the tone, right? Yeah. Yeah But here it is I was flat on my chair You know 17 you're so lucky to be alive, but anyway go ahead sober for 17 years I want Dan involved 17 years to ride how to go last time when you go to meetings How'd that turn out? I went out and I would die almost died, but see it's been 17 years Oh, so it's gone now. It's not gone. Of course. It's not gone. Hey, right. I know I know that I'm one It's morphing. I know morphed into something else. It's morphing into something else

And I know that I'm in a danger spot But here, you know, you can admit to this you but drew doctor. I'm just gonna get drew. Fuck it. Please. All right You have to admit to be this though, right when you've been sober for a very long time and you step away For you forget Right, and you and in a lot of times you go. Hey, wait a second You know, I haven't been to a meeting and I haven't relapsed. Yes, and I must be normal Yeah, I mean that right is just a natural thing that might occur in your brain But you're right. I needed a reality check and you just reality-checked me and you're right

Okay, what I said was crazy. I understand that but you don't have to fucking do it the way you did it Right, you're fucking I did. I did. I would have been way worse if you were my patient. Trust me. You wouldn't. Oh, you've been angry Oh, I'm not just angry. I would have I would have whatever came out of my mouth would have I would have trusted it and And I would have it's a lot of things would have flown out. Yeah And so, you know, I'm scared of you. I'm really am you cut it for you because you're my buddy Yeah, yeah, so no, but oh, you know, here's the thing though. It's like you You know when I knew you were coming on to the show Yeah, I didn't know at all that we were gonna talk about anything personal and I didn't think it was gonna

But you know, we're gonna be funny. It is funny and I think people are gonna really like this one Well, of course, it's really good. It's very it's enlightening and you're and and I want this to work I know and She worked it together. She and I've said this before she recreated my career Do you notice he's at an emotional shift like right now just now? Yeah, what do you mean? You're you're you're better right now. Then you were the horse the podcast A little while ago. You're no longer sweating on your nose, right? Right, it dried up. It did right. Whatever it is. You're just you're just you're like, I know I know that I know this

Yeah, there's many things that I don't know. Yeah, okay, but the things that I do know is this is that I know that I haven't Taken a drink or drug in 17 years. Yeah, I know that I am will always be recovering from my disease These are facts. Yeah, but I also do know that Kalyla I believe Was sent into my life. I believe that you know at the time when I met her he manifested you too, so neither of us are really here God damn it, you know, you manifested me tonight to asshole Smart

It's the perfect timing that you're on there and I do know that when I met her I Was in shambles. I mean my my career. I had nothing going on. You know, I couldn't I wasn't working She makes you better. That's good and she Created this podcast for me. She created it. She Made me go on auditions again. She made me she really inspired me to go out Is there a depression lying behind all those stuff? You know, there was a time where I was deeply I still get really deeply depressed and I you know It's it you know with in light of social media. I compare myself to people. Yeah

Comparing is the worst thing. It's gotta make yourself unhappy. Yeah, I'm necessarily depressed But but if you're I mean you had you know, you expose yourself to a lot of stuff and that can hurt your brain It can leave you with depleted neurochemicals and you can end up with depression. Yeah, just happened So you gotta Okay, but you know an addict who's not in recovery when they need to be and I'm not saying that every had it got to be in Eternally, you know, I mean you you have 17 good years under your belt and some of it was in the program So it wasn't cool fine, but now things are changing and now it's necessary, but an Addict who is in their non-recovering mode is always depressed

Always. Yeah, you know that. I think that's what it is. Yeah at the at the end of the day The the problem lies in I'm an untreated I'm not ready to call you untreated You're you're just slipping you're slipping and and you're just slipping. I'm sorry. Did you just get back back? Yeah, I am gonna get back. Yeah, I want to get back and And you're not untreated. Do not don't do that to yourself. Don't start beating yourself up you have a long amazing record in recovery and No one can take that away from you. That is yours. Yeah, and it just you know, you got lazy or whatever depress

I don't know what and it's slipping. It's all right. It happens. It's a all the time. Yeah It's a rare. It's a very interesting time. I'm glad that we're talking about this now because There is a lot of things surfacing up. I can see myself. There's rage. There's a lot of anger You can you've seen it. Are you are you making her your heart power? No, okay, but he's seen it too We went to the Philippines together. I have this Irritability not just irritable. I have this rage that's right at the surface and I can feel it like I can feel it was it here a few minutes ago like

a minute a minute and a half ago. No, I know I know because because I thought I felt it Did you really maybe a little bit? Yeah, maybe a little bit But it wasn't the way I felt toward him Oh and the way I've felt toward her at times what she would say something and I would have this Thing and I have to calm myself down, right? But I've never been like this in your life Not in recovery. I think that my first 10 years of sobriety I you know, I had commitments at meetings. I have a sponsor So, you know, you know how the I don't know what that is exactly, but I can tell you how the recovering community

Talks about that they will say there's a problem in the spirit, right? There's a problem with the spirit right now. Mm-hmm And whether or not the spiritual program will restore you. I don't know but there's a problem in spirit right now. Hmm. I I also Just based on like my observation his lifestyle is very sedentary and I tell him that maybe you want to be toned I do Let's get going maybe not all the root of his rage, but maybe it can be some type of outlet Of course, I just lessened a range tangle a little bit range tangle. Oh, I like that. Yeah

Yeah, it's affected my addiction Mm-hmm to gadgets, especially video games because I played a lot has it not only affected our relationship But it's also affected my career. Gosh, you know when when people I obviously have a process thing for sure But but when people really get going down that path, I always worry about depression. I just feel like it's a way to Escape depression. Yeah, depression. Yeah, so you would so you're as a therapist and as a doctor, right? You're suggesting to me is the cold cut cold turkey cold jerky, okay? I'm not your doctor and I'm not functioning as a very typical Cold turkey. I'm your friend

Unlike George unlike George was not your friend. Yeah Thank you and and you're asking me these questions and I have some Professional expertise in this area. And so I'm giving you my impressions. Okay, you're impressed my impressions based on what I understand to be happening is You're slipping you got it. I think Dan would get you Get pull your chain right back up on the ship You need to get back in what you know is the right series of the rooms to go into and find your your piece again And then in order to really be honest and open and follow the direction of your sponsor who you're gonna find

They're pregnant tell you what I'm telling you which is all that shit's got to stop and then we'll see what's going on Yeah Okay, so um, let's one foot. I know you don't like it. I mean like just you don't like I'm just trying to did you like stopping drugs? When people trying to get you stop drugs in our clothes. Did you like no, but here's the thing though, dude It's like when people would say I remember my friend the last time I relapsed my friend lay been Called me over to a coffee. He's like meet me at this coffee shop And he he gave me this mini intervention like he's like he yelled you like I did what he yelled you like I did He was like dude, I can see you're slipping dude. You're gonna die, right? And I go fuck you whatever I said

You know, you're talking about and then four months later. I Hit a bottom and I got sober, but I didn't do it. Maybe late label. Well, maybe you're gonna have to Think a little further here, too. That's okay. Yeah, I'm not I don't want to I don't want to judge you I just know that's how this thing works and you know how that's how it works, too How much you have to suffer how much you can put her through I don't want to do you know, but here's some good news is that You know, we we've been looking at houses And I have a baby. That's a perfect way to solve problems like this. Really? No The opposite

I'm gonna call Dan a guy that I haven't spoken to him 15 years ago. Yeah. Hey, man. It's me Bob. Oh, hey Hey, what do I say? Like, hey, I just want to I we well first of all, you're gonna avoid saying anything You I just thought you don't want to hang up. See you later. Bye But you're gonna have to say, you know, I told a friend of mine about the The powerful impact you had on my life and I think I did a little bit of that again right now Damn You're not gonna say that Just the old taste a little taste of it again, just a little you almost got me there dude, but no way not you fuck

No, I'll go fuck. I call him fuck. Not Yeah, we're just gonna go straight in the insults straight You're not gonna get me there. Remember that rage. I told you that really they hit home with me dude That really hit home with me bro. Um, I knew there was a reason why I manifested you, huh? Okay. Yeah, it's too bad I'm not really here. Yeah It's strange. It's strange because I was talking to you earlier about this. It's like in many ways the internet and And technology it's helped

Especially comedians to get our name out there It's helped connect the world in a positive way at times. You know, yeah, but it's been for me More detrimental. I I hate it and hurtful. I hate it. I know the way information is so accessible stuff I love but I hate it emotionally. Yeah horrible. It's had a very negative impact on my soul Me too. It really has um, it the way it like, you know Twitter or the internet because I didn't judge and jury. I didn't realize that was happening either when we started all this And then all of a sudden I'm like, oh my god, this is horrible. It's horrible. Yeah Yeah, it is a root of a lot of my depression as well

I mean, I I'm sure it's because of me not going to meetings all that other stuff but it sometimes triggers an immediate response of Resentment and anger and pressure sure when you switch on your phone and you see maybe that's why we're so screwed up in this country right now Because we were just we're so prone to resentment Yeah, yeah, even the people with seemingly good intentions when they post about it on social media and do the virtue signaling That to me has been getting me the worst, right? It's virtue signal. It's like look what how good a hero I am look at the kids in Africa that I'm you know, they're all dressed in Gucci and they're taking pictures with like a tribe in Namibia And they're like look, I'm the you know, I'm the savior of all of this and everyone's like wow

You're doing such a great thing that but that type of like poverty porn. It's It's just all over social media and it really drives me crazy when we were in the Philippines We did a day like that. What was my rule my number one rule? Even I know your number was not to post anything, but also I also was like don't post anything. There's no Fucking way. There's no benefit and I don't want it We're not their white savior. We're not their savior. No, we helped for one day and that's fine. That's it. Right. I um Yeah, it's it's it's You know, just even like how did he get that many followers? I've as a 50 year old man

Why would I give up? You mean why Christa Lea has a million followers on Instagram, but I come times and fuck that guy Fuck yeah, yeah, he's tone as well the fuck, you know, I mean, of course, he's a super nice He's I love I love him one of our bet. We've been on our park as many times But yeah, it's just I you know, I I really think you know when Oliver did the Hoffman Institute He did this thing called the Hoffman Institute where I know but he did The story about you and the Hoffman I know is it what at first I thought that while Bobby's really trying to make a change in his life

So he was like, I need to go to the Hoffman Institute He calls his manager and he's like you need to sign me up. I'll you know need to fill out all the paperwork I need to go there next week Later later on I come to find out that the only reason he wants to go is because he starts name-dropping He's like, you know, Orlando blue. Oh, it's gonna network You know that Justin Bieber was just what is it? Yeah, what actually is it? I don't know. It's some weird week long. Like they it's not don't say it's weird. Bye. It's not a kumbaya, right? All I know is is that did you go? No

After I know what I know that I know that Oliver it helped him I know that it was eight days because they don't allow any phones That's a good thing or a social mean or anything like that It's all good. Maybe you'll get you started towards where you need to go Yeah, try to supplant what you need to do. This will do nothing I have some work to do. I mean, I guess that's you know, that's what we got out of this fucking That's what we got out of this. I have work to do. All right. I have issues to deal with all right. I'm not You know, I have a lot of some defects and it's apparent to me

It's apparent to my but I'm not that bad that bad Despite all of this that's what I need right now. I need I need this He is the kindest most generous and gentle person never once have we ever had a fight where it's ever he's ever turned nasty Where he's ever said anything so even has the rages not even when it's rage He might his his volume might go up, but he's never mean Huh, I'm having trouble saying this every little emotional myself You are one of the more extraordinary people I know and I made that in the best possible Take that in it's all good. No, you're not gonna. You're not gonna do that. We'll talk about Dan again

Thank you. And you know and and so okay, and that's and that's right. He's and you're okay I'm just your manifestation who gives a shit very town. No, I honestly like I just found it I just you know Sort of it's a real blessing that you're here man. Yeah, and I and I and I and when you told your story on my podcast I was deeply moved by all that and I think you helped a lot of the people with that and Then now, you know, it's it's it's you know, it is it's like a it's a reminder Because when you tell those stories, they're like, oh, that's how that works out. That's what that is and always through all that It's all done. It's a reminder that you know, I

Had a recovering staff member who would get overwhelmed kind of easily and she'd start crying to be some of she goes I have to remind myself that I'm not normal. I have these liabilities They're still with me. She's years and years into recovery, but she was like, I just I don't like that But it's just the way it is and that's just the way it is. Yeah But the good news is that we found a house and maybe maybe where's where is it? Can we talk about down the street? Well, don't tell everyone I'm gonna tell everyone but You move move out where where's out was out to you that where I live in Pasadena in that area See, I actually went to high school in Pasadena. We're in and out

Passing a lot of gangs. They're apparently to her dangerous. So I grew up Over there on Colorado Okay, just tell him that what Blair high school is those weren't the good kids, sweetie I was only placed there because I grew up in the Philippines. I came here. I saw gang's needs to the diesel store and next to the yogurt shop The blue bottle through different incarnations and stuff. Yeah, that's where I went to high school and even though, you know, it's right by the Pasadena freeways I saw that in colors But it's um, no, it's what they it's what they call in South Park the shitty Pottown I used to live like, you know back in the day when Woodbury and Raymond wasn't very nice yet

That's where I lived. I lived in a one bedroom with my family when he first came to the States that cost $300 a month to rent That's how shitty it was. It was cockroach infested. I was just so happy to be in America I got zoned to Blair high school didn't know any different everyone was like, this is the worst school ever And I'm like doesn't seem like it free education like in our Altadena. Yeah closer to the border of Altadena But now they've cleaned it up apparently nice nice. I can't take Bobby there because he's gonna be like, wow This is not the hood at all. Now. It's where they raise horses and stuff. It's like a super Yeah, well, Jenna Fisher says live a coming because she lives there. Yeah, good. Yeah. Yeah, go to but um Well, he has to be closer to Korea town because we eat there a lot. It's easy access just on the Uber. They're all easy

It's easier to hear drew. Yes Dr. Drew. Yes, sir. I I I do the clubs. Yes every night. I have to be near the clubs the Comedy clubs. I know I'm just thinking so so Brea is closer to here Yeah, then Pasadena Brea where's all you mean the all the Orange County? No, I mean nightly like the local Hollywood clubs that I play every night Okay, like the improv comedy store lab factory. You do you do I do those all night every night

So I need to be near them. Okay. Okay, but thank you. I drive to Culver City every god. I get it But that's your choice and that's stupid So you wait you do your you do how many things do you do lots of them? So you do a radio show. Yep What's what's that? That's you're the one you go to Culver City for midday live KBC here midday life Okay, is that that's it right? Yeah, then you also do that one with Tom Segura the late night one that I did Dr. Drew After Dark Dr. Dr. Drew after dark and then I do Adam and Drew every day Adam Crowley and I are back together You guys are back. We've been together for the last five years. So thank you for saying back Thank you for listening to that podcast. Yeah. Yeah, I do the Dr. Drew podcast, which is once a week

Oh my god, I do the this live podcast with Bob Forrest the guy from Soviet rehab Yeah, yeah, and then we do another one two other ones Sometimes we do one's called swole patrol health and fitness thing with Mike Catharine my guy from who's also in love line And then I do another one called weekly infusion that we do lots of different things with yeah Yeah, there's a bunch things and we complain about doing this once a week. Yeah, we had like yesterday We did a patreon. I'm like, what the fuck You know six things and you worked with Diane far correct. Yes. Yeah, cuz yeah, I'm on the show with her Oh, that's splitting up. Yeah, yeah, yeah, she's the best. I just saw her last week. Oh my god. Yes

Right, where did I see her? I saw it. I saw at the Peterson car museum with Corolla had a thing there It's so funny because we went to her birthday party and Corolla was there too. We talked to I love him too. It's a great dude Yeah, no. Yeah, no, he is Yeah, he's a bright and so are you interesting. Yeah Dude, I'm and I want to be real with you Toward the end what we do is we do this thing called unhelpful advice when people ask for advice Mm-hmm. But before we even do that, I just want to say honestly, dude, it's like I'm not really good at being real

But I want it's funny. I I'm I you don't have to say anything I want to know though, but but I'm just saying you're making me feel awkward too But I honestly it's just it's been a real blessing that you're here. I really I think that you helped me a lot I hope so and I'm so glad that you manifested me. Yeah, I did and um, I just want to thank you dude privilege. All right We do so we do an all helpful advice. Let's go on helpful advice with dr. Drew. I Enjoyed this show and I've always been a fan of Bobby since Matt TV days and he is a comedy. Thank you. Thank you It's true. So here's my problem. The girl I am seeing is scared of my penis. I Showed her a picture when we were talking and she literally did not text me for several days

I showed her a picture while Yeah, not good the reply got said I am intimidated and have never seen anything like that before Oh, I am paraphrasing there There was a little more cursing and declarations involved within the text on hearing it I was astonished and did my best to comfort her reaction. Where do I go from here? She seems to be afraid of my junk. This has not happened with previous girls regards Carlos

Well, then assure her that things look larger on cameras. Yeah, things. Yeah, things are bigger in the camera than they appear in real life But more importantly, I just think she doesn't like the pic She doesn't like to solicit a dick pic And I don't know why guys think that would be something that would grow would like so you as a woman explain this to her Yeah, she showed me one that somebody direct messes her. Oh god, and he has a capacity to put his face in it So like he he didn't know how to properly crop the photo, right? He's like all his legs just three fucking chins and also he literally looked like mr. Magoo Thick-ass dick with nine veins, I think I counted

Yeah, and also like nine Count it men are a little bit more visual in that way. No, no, no a lot more visual and and for me That's not no amount you could even if I thought he was the most attractive man on the earth if he sent me a dick pic It's a notch down. You just automatically lose. So this is the information. He needs it It says something to do with that not the size of his penis unless I ask for it because I'm in the middle of Masturbating and I'm like, yeah, send me something to get me. You know, I mean, but but even then I I feel like Women are doing that to sort of play along. Yes, exactly It's also almost he's literally sending us this to brag about it. Yeah, exactly

You Carlos congratulations by the way Another listener Do this one for Bobbie cliff notes because he knows Bobbitt isn't like long messages. I don't cliff notes for the slept king One 25 year old male married two small children to live in a small town in California Three when younger 12 to 14 years old. I was molested by an older kid three to four years older than myself For 24 years older three to four years older For my question is should I come out now and say hey this guy molested me or should I keep it to myself? Sleeper his name. Well, I mean, um, do you see leaving Neverland? Yeah. Oh

You know, it's funny because these two guys The issues came up after they had children exactly and they looked at their own children Yeah, and I it was really I think I don't know which one said it that they said that like the way it said, you know I imagined if Michael Jackson molested and all this rage. Oh, yeah came up. Yeah, and then he thought how come I don't have that for myself Right, right very typical. Yeah, and that's where the issues. I think You know, you have to say something. Well, I don't know Accusing somebody of something that they're gonna deny is not gonna help you Okay, go to a therapist and tell them what happened and get some trauma therapy

Right, then you'll decide what to do with this person. Yeah a side note that with leaving Neverland you did see it. Yeah You know, you people are just adamantly they're huge Michael Jackson fans are saying this is they're lying, you know, this that this and that And you know, I'm like, I love Michael Jackson. I really do. I love off the wall and killer thriller create albums But um, but and I was also on the fence. I don't know much about, you know I knew that he used to hang out with kids and monkeys and shit, right? But by watching the documentary it seems So convincing because of the details and stuff. So how do you there's no way to prove that he did? I guess because there's no videotape on it evidence evidence really. So how do you when you're defending the document? How do you what do you say to people?

What I say I had the same thing Oprah said which I thought she was brilliant this I really was in her camp on when she did the Post-show right, right. Yeah. Yeah, she said I'm not gonna tell you whether I know that they did or didn't know Whether I know that they did or didn't do it. I'm gonna tell you this is how it happens This is exactly the way it goes down with the grooming and the this is a perfect description Of this phenomenon of sexual abuse of children. We're not even gonna worry about whether it did or did not happen This is an important conversation to have exactly good for her It's actually the same way that that girl and abducted in plain sight how it happened She was groomed that little girl right to deeply have to have these deep emotions for a family friend

They're like they're like cult leaders. Yeah, it's crazy the manipulation. How'd the candy guy do it? Just candy and that was it my guy. Yeah, just candy, but I was done Well, you like candy. Yeah, I love candy, but I'm also very like susceptible. No, you just like a lot a lot um Dude, that was I honestly did I mean that podcast was So different than the way we do it But that thing this right here could be one of my favorite ones because I'm literally like feeling things

Yeah, I really am good and um, I'm at the process all the things that we talked about But dude, I'm telling you right now man. Um, thank you so much You you're it's so much It's a relief to see you in your feelings. It's like you're in your skin when when you're having feelings. Yeah Good for you. It's it's funny how as a comedian You know like I did one earlier today with Ian the podcast. Yeah, and I was just like Be funny, right When it's like, you know, a lot of times, you know, I just want to be

Someone to talk up real right and that's the trappings that I I sometimes find myself in when I'm guest starring On somebody's podcast to you know too much funny to be funny and I just think that um It's more interesting To do this. Oh, I agree. You you were funny and real on my thing Okay, good, and I feel like there were still some funny moments today that you know, I thought that was great And so it's it's you know, the the funny stands out when when you're talking about pointing stuff You know, really it feels like a It's more of a discharge more relief dude. Thank you. So give him a round of applause. Thank you so much

Thank you for manifesting me and now what happens after the manifestation What happens now is back to the vapors. No, what that's gonna happen now is tomorrow. I'm gonna call Dan Oh, yeah, for sure. Right and we'll see what that happens. Can't wait to hear. Um, uh, thank you Can you stick around take a photo? Yeah, guys, we'll be right back with some housekeeping. Hello everyone. What a great episode Oh, man, I wanted to hear more from about him But like you saw him at like the top of his game I thought or who knows if his game might be a lot better higher

But you saw him doing what he does well. I mean this one also a co-therapist over here I'm not a co-therapist. I honestly this is the first time in my life where you know, like bobby earlier just admitted to All the things that he usually says to me. He told me right now in the room He's like, they're all manipulation tactics And uh, I couldn't do that with dr. Drew could not he's like, I know they're wrong to do with you But I do many ways. He's like, but I couldn't even do that with him. He's gotta shut down Yeah, you know what? Wow. It was good. He's good and like hearing bobby talk all the way you were talking and those things He was saying about like it's like I feel like she's like my mom

It was like dang because me and Cindy have been having some communication issues But it was like everything bobby is doing. It's like there's small a little bit of the core of what I'm doing And I feel like I'm treating her the same way and it's crazy because guys. Let's be like guys suck I'm starting to realize guys just suck. Hey, I'm still single stop putting that out there Like I don't want that don't put that into the environment yet wait under 30 and ready to have a child when you're dead george Don't forget that. I know my god God george, you're stuck. Oh gosh. Look at Bryce be more like him. Look how sharp he's looking with that baggy shirt Um speaking of shirts kalilah. What are you wearing right now?

I am wearing a very exclusive long sleeve our very first long sleeve shirt Um of bobby on my left titty and on the back just Right make sure she doesn't Careful you're gonna knock over the camera. Why don't you stand up? I don't want to show my backside. I want to show her backside. Okay. Well. We have the white right? We have a white long sleeve Yeah, and just go just walk forward because the camera is right there So you have to walk the other way your face is going to be seen Oh my gosh, that's the most action i've ever seen Jessica george have uh keep walking

I have to call it out once can I call it out once? This is a this is a huge moment. They haven't been together since episode 100 I think we're just seeing each other every family gathering. It's a joke. Jessica come over this way Wow, Jessica working out the glutes gray version The gray version Jessica's And it says, um, it's bobby singing me walking down the street being so good to me Yeah, yeah, it's our it's our uh our disney version. You know, you know what when I see that shirt I think of this Uh copyright infringement on the youtube. That's what you think of no, this is me. Oh, we no ads on this and demonetize. Okay. Oh

Is that a fan what isn't that a fan? There's one a fan You look wait, we can't play. We can't play a fan song Oh, that's a fan song god damage. What listen? You said disney and I was like disney has a very good copyright lawyers my friend. This isn't disney. Look at what everyone sounded Does that not sound disney? Wait, hold on. Why is everyone so angry? Look at kalala's shirt and listen to this song Me walking down the street feels so good to me That's my hi-hat guys I'm walking on the path, seeing the flower, seeing the bodies fly on my head, walking on the street

happy together feeling good feeling good feeling good Guys shout out to uh slept kingdom sleeper. Oh, okay His name is marty b music make sure you follow him on instagram at martyb music. You made this wonderful rendition of Walking down the street and to accompany that song. We have this beautiful shirts of guys I'll be on the lookout our social media for this amazing long sleeve. We have some other exciting things like maybe a new pin

Maybe some stickers. Who knows? Uh, any shout out reverse shout outs before we go We don't do reverse anymore. I want to be I want to do uh I want to do a we're a positive christian podcast. Yes. I want to do a shout out to Uh, what do I do a shout out to does it have to be people we don't know you shout out to the luga project or something Oh, that's right. We want to give them um if you guys want to donate to a good cause I actually the the people that we Worked with in the philippines to feed the kids is called the luga project and she's a woman

She's like an ex journalist and who now makes it just this is just her passion project She cooks a lot of the food herself and she goes out in the weekends to these um To these places like dump sites and she feeds the kids. She does it sometimes out of her own pocket But she it's it's a small small organization. I don't even know if she has a link where you can Um donate. I'm hoping she does but if you look it up, it's called luga project and it's specifically in saboo Don't mistake it for any other luga projects. Yeah, I hope the her name is live Live like live tyler

Yes Uh, george any shout outs or anything? Nope. Sorry. I yelled at you, but that's a testament to the song So marty b great song it sounded so disney. I was like, oh my god Hates this uh slup kingdom member shout out to my sister. I haven't eaten in two days I'll bring the food in here and she's about to feed me some lugo. Oh, how fitting. We just said luga project Shout out to the fucking asker is up my butt. Yeah, shout out to the shout out to the amoeba That's running through my system. I am currently very sick. Yes guys Uh, so yeah, if you guys are interested in the luga project, you can actually go to facebook

Um and search luga project. Uh, it actually has a facebook. You can donate money and all that good stuff Awesome. So guys, that's our show. I hope you enjoyed it. Make sure you follow us on instagram at tigerbelly on twitter at that tigerbelly And email us any questions like unhelpful advice or just concerns Um to the tigerbelly gmail.com. Kalala. Where can people follow you at calamity k george? Where could people follow you? Uh george underscore kibble on instagram Hey big b. Where can we follow you? Grace howling and if you guys don't know there have been philippines, uh patrons. They're very funny Uh go to patreon.com slash tigerbelly to hear those audio

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