TigerBelly - Episode 207: Scorpion Lashes w/ Erik Griffin

Episode Date: August 14, 2019

Guest host Erik is a falcon wrangler. Khalyla has a three-year grudge. Bobby is a church boy. We talk half-face first dates, tamale eating, & Tom Cruise noses.  support us by supporting our sponsors!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You're listening ad-free on Wondery Plus. Walking down the street. More Asian. Yeah. Yeah, glad to be there. Hello. Hello. Welcome to Tiger Belly.

Yeah, I like that. Just like that. All right. You ready? Welcome to Bizarro Tiger Belly. Are we counting it down? Here we go. 17.

16. 15. 5. 4. 3. 2. 1. No, I don't do that.

No, I don't do that. Oh, all right. Hello. Welcome to the new Tiger Belly. I'm taking this bitch over. That's what's happening right now. So I have to do it, like, so I have to do all the Bobby stuff. So we've got Panface Gook over here.

My face so flat. Your face. So flat how flat is it? It's a pan. It's flat as a pan. Then we got this white cracker. That's me. Casper motherfucker over here.

So much energy, bud. You know what I mean? I know, it was too aggressive. That was scary, a little scary. Yeah, that's why it's better coming from an Asian guy. Because it's not as aggressive. It don't sound so like honky. You know what I mean?

So all right, I retract that. And then what am I supposed to do? He's always really nice to me. My beautiful something. I mean, no, in the beginning, he says my beautiful something, and then he progressively gets meaner and meaner. Then he calls me bitch, then he calls me all of that. But you got to wait till halfway through.

OK, so I have to call you bitch. Gilbert, I need you to remind me to call her a bitch. Bitch cute? George over here, call her a bitch. Call her a bitch. Now, I feel like this would be like, whenever you met. Because when did you meet Bobby? 2012.

So like in 2012, you're on Tinder. And like you see Bobby. But my thing came up first. And you swiped right on me. OK, now would you have driven to Long Beach to meet me at a coffee shop? Take a look at her face. Let me see.

Open your legs. No, can I see the booty? Keep in mind that I was 27. Wait, I was 28, 27. You were 27 back then? Wow. 28, maybe. Damn, Filipino don't crack, huh?

It does not. Yeah, I know. OK, so he drove all the way to Long Beach. Yeah, I would have drove to Long Beach. OK, all right, check. I would have drove to Long Beach. OK, would you have had just woken up at 2 PM? No, I would have had shit going on.

Would you have shown up with a car full of trash, like hoarders, trash? OK, so are these the things you're looking for in the plus column? Yeah. Is that? Wow. I found all of those.

Did she ever list? She was like, OK, check, disheveled knife. Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha. Needs a haircut, yes. Car is full of bullshit, perfect. Empty Red Bull cans, would you have had that? What was the appeal? Can we like finally, because he's not here, can we?

What literally was the appeal? Because I don't get it when you're saying all this. Like, I'm waiting for you to tell me a story about how he was like, oh, he was so sweet, and he brought me this. But all men show up perfect on the first date. I think I found appealing that he was just so reckless and dirty and so utterly himself that I thought, OK. This is the worst.

So it can't really go up from here. But it didn't go up from there. See, that's what I thought. I was like, oh, this is the extent of the trash or the Red Bull cans in the car. And then it never went. It just got progressively, it deteriorated from there. Really?

Well, yeah, you see how we live. I know, but how did he surprise you? So you thought, OK, this is it. It can't get any worse than this. And you were like, oh, my god. So basically, you're staying in this relationship to see how bad it can get. Yeah.

I want to see. I'm a masochist. I want to see how someone can beat me down with hoarder trash. Good god. I don't know if I would have came to Long Beach knowing all this shit. Like, I think now I want to put trash in my car, go on a date.

And when somebody's like, oh, I kind of like this, I'm like, bye, bitch. You know what I mean? OK, let's say you go on a first date with a woman. Do you, are you impressed by the presentation of her seemingly being perfect? And like, you know what I mean? Like, what are you impressed by?

Yes, yes. I enjoy the girliness of whatever your little girly things you're going to be. Because like, honestly, we don't really care. Yeah. Like, you know, it's like you go on a date. And let's say like, you know, she's running late. Because she's like, well, I'm fixing my face.

It's like, you know, you're fine. You know, but then they come out. And then, you know, they've got the big lashes. You know what I mean? It's Kalyla right there. I don't have lashes. When you put them on. Do you have the big lashes?

Not now. I'm Asian. You know the ones when they're just like, whoosh. And so, you know, when they come out, they're like, you go, OK, this is their effort. This is they think they're at their best. Like, this is, you know, so you go, OK, you think you're at your best.

This is what you're presenting. And you go, OK, I like that. I might not like what's going on, but I like that you think that this is your best. Wait, hold on. You don't like that they're putting in the effort. You like that they think it's their best. Yeah.

That's so fucking twisted. Yeah, yeah. Why are you even thinking that deep into their preparation? Because as a comic, you're always like going into like, you know, you know, this could possibly be a joke. And then it's like, oh, but it's real life. So you like, you really analyze. I don't know.

I just like, so you go out with somebody and they, you know, they putting on this thing because I guess for guys, you're always waiting for the rug to be pulled from under you because she's not always going to be like this. She's always going to be nice and accommodating. But that's why I think the better the better strategy for any woman on a first date is to go midway, to not put on their full face, to go half face,

maybe just some mascara, half face, not full face, not full painting. Because you're saying to me right now, I was like, I'm not going out without some makeup on. Some, but we want to look like the same way guys do, which is we don't want to appear like we've tried too hard. So we want to look sort of casual and sort of like, you know, we kind of came, we had two other places to be

before we got here. Like athleisure wear or like sweats? Maybe not athleisure. That's a little bit. But the reason is because we still want to be able to impress them on the night that it matters, whether it's in front of their friends or like the first time I ever went to the comedy store.

I had my full face on. I had, I had these. She was flying, she was flying. She had to put, there was like, there was like music, you know, she had to like, she had a whole thing. Cue the music. Ow. Na, na, na, na, na, na, na, ow.

She's dancers? Yeah, why the fuck is there smoke? You know what? We should say before we even continue even further, I got to say to all the Tiger Belly people out there, leave her alone. You know what I mean? Like I've been over the whole fact

that you stole my podcast. Yoko. Na, na, na, because like sometimes I look at the comments and I'm like, damn, these people are there. There's people that that's their life. Yeah, but their life is to be like, you, that gold digger stole. You know, and it's like, no, it worked out the way

it was supposed to work out. Everybody's happy in the process. I'm doing my own podcast. Bobby comes on my podcast. You know, he's literally one of my dearest friends. I consider him a brother. So, you know, I just want to like put it out there like, guys, let it go.

All right, you know, let it go. They're not going to listen to you. I know they're not. But that's why we're going to start our own podcast. That's why I thought of my way to get back at this motherfucker. Ha, welcome to Scorpion Finger. Wait, and then you freeze it, you know what I mean?

And then it goes black and white. Scorpion Finger, you know what I mean? So that's how we'll do that. But I don't know. Whatever, you know what I mean? Like, Bobby is who he is. Yeah, I also, regarding what you were saying, I think it comes with the territory.

And I think that I'd be absolutely dumb to think that, you know, I would be getting some type of like backlash. Some backlash? Yeah, it's normal. Well, I mean, it's like, it's tough, though, when people like, it's like, they're not acknowledging like your part in this. Like they don't, people don't know your effect on Bobby.

Because they don't see the ins and outs of our days. You take it, but I'm saying you take you away. And this motherfucker would be like the Tasmanian devil. You know what I mean? Like we're working on him right now for his special. Okay, we're trying to get, and I'm supposed to be like one of the associate producers. I'm helping, right?

Oh, that's so cool. But let me tell you what my job really is. Okay, this is my job. And I want you Tiger Belly artists out there to go, because I know they're gonna draw the shit, because you know, it's like, and I'm so, I'm so tired of fat Lando. Can we stop that now?

Okay, like this is like, hey fat Lando, you know, but people say it's so casual. Like they're saying like, hey Eric, you know. Do they say it when they go to your shows? No, nobody's gonna say that. Nobody's gonna say it to my face. I'm six three and you will get some. No, but it's just all the time is so casual about it.

But see, this is what I am. Okay, you know, like when there's like, let's say there's a TV show and they have animals on the TV show. Let's say there's a Falcon on the TV show and there's a guy on set that's got like a leather glove on. And he's the Falcon guy. You know what I mean?

So he's like, whup whup whup, whatever he does. And if the Falcon come flies in on his arm and then he like sends it into the scene, that's me with Bobby. Oh, you're the Wrangler. I'm the Wrangler. You're Bobby Lee's Wrangler. I'm the Bobby Wrangler.

So they call me like, yo dude, we can't get a hold of Bobby. I'm like, okay. You know, like. Time to text Kalaila. Yeah, right. So that's what I do. That's what I gotta do.

It's like, they come to me, I gotta go to her. Or I had, or I hit him up. I had all I had to do is guilt this motherfucker like the last time we had this meeting, right? Yep. I was there and you were on your way and he was trying to flake. He was trying to flake. What happened? Okay. First of all, it's all the way in Burbank. Okay.

At a bullshit hour, I live in Culver City. It's not easy to get there. I'm there and he's like, hey, can we just do it by phone? I was like, are you fucking out of your mind? You can get a little punk ass over here to this damn place. You know, and he was over at the new place too, which is sort of close. He wasn't over at the new place.

We were still here, but I, I basically lies, the lies just come out. So he got some, you get it. So we came over and that's all that it is. You know, that's just, that's what I have to do. I got to just be there to be like, okay, let me, let me, let me take care of your presence. Guilt him. So it's, I think that's probably part of the reason why you're so crucial in all of this. Yeah.

So that's why I have to have a whistle and my leather glove and then Bobby comes in. You know, with this red bull bull shit haircut. You know, the most frequent, the most frequent text messages I get is, is he coming? Yeah. He on his way. Is he showing up? You know, that's what I get.

And then people text him, is she coming? Has she in a while? How is Bobby as a lover? I'm just curious. Um, is it tolerable? Yeah, I think he's gotten another thing that has deteriorated. You have a leather glove too. So you're in bedroom like, no.

It would be like him being the balance beam and me being Simone Biles. I'm doing all the work. He just sit there as like, but first of all, that if you work with Bobby, that is the relationship for everyone. Yeah. And that's why he has a hard time when he goes on sets, where he has to learn lines and do all these things. He called me from Hawaii, like hysterical.

Yeah, hysterical. Okay. Hysterical. He had this. So I have to talk him down off ledges. You know what I mean? So anytime he, this motherfucker, first of all, he never returns my calls. He's terrible at texting.

As we already know, Crystal Leah already said something about it. This dude is terrible, but he calls me and he expects me to answer. I've answered Bobby's call while I've been on stage on the road. Oh, wow. Because I see it. I'm like, this must be important. Yeah. You know what I mean?

And it's never really important. It's just him needing to like hear himself, bitch. Yeah. That's really us. You're a sounding board. I'm a sounding board. Yes, yes, yes, yes. And then he, back to him being a lover.

Yeah, that's good. Back to, oh, this is great. I love how you're like, finally, I get to just shine. Let me tell you. On Scorpion Finger. Oh, maybe it should be Scorpion lashes. That's the name of our podcast. Scorpion lashes.

And they're like, shh, goodbye. Yeah. I think that in the beginning, that is the one thing he did bamboozle me with. In the beginning, he seemed to be willing to work more. And then now he's doing all that freaky Asian stuff. No. Yeah.

He doesn't do any of the freaky Asian stuff. When is the last? So he doesn't even eat your pussy anymore or nothing? No. He's a church boy now. What? And he always says, oh, he's on his knees. He's kneeling on the pews all day.

He's a church boy now. What does that even mean? He's not going to put in any of the fun stuff that he did. He's not going to do the air guitar in the corner anymore in his cheetah panties type shit. Do you miss that? I do. Say it like you miss it.

Yeah, I do. I miss that. I think that when you're with someone for so long, you become almost like a 2D person. You forget all the little intricacies about each other. You just become this really, really well oiled machine together that you take a lot of like the things that made you fall in love with someone like you forget about

because you are so efficient with each other. Right, right. So you're saying you would like a little more romance in your relationship? Yeah, of course. And we've talked about this on here. We've talked to, you know, I talk about it with him all the time.

It's like we have to reconnect on a different level. I will say though that, well, see, you know, it's harder. This is the thing about Bobby. I don't know his motivations. So it's hard to like, you know, pretend like you understand his motivation. Like, for instance, that night, you know, him and I planned, we're going to go to the movies.

He's bringing me up on stage at the comedy store. And as I'm as I as we're exchanging the mic, I'm saying like, so we go into the movie. He's like, you know, and this is way of being like, oh, I forgot, I want to flake. And so then when we go outside, he's like, I'll wait our way. We're going to go to the movie.

We're texting you. He's texting you off the hook. Like he's like, he's like, I can't go unless I. So he is thoughtful of your feelings. That he is. But that's because you've bitched at him for so long. No, I just I worry about him a lot because I find him to be a reckless human.

So I have a lot of like worry for him. If I don't know exactly, I don't care that he goes out anywhere. You know this about like, I don't give a shit. I just care that he's always accounted for. Yeah, that's it. So if he says I'm going to the movies, fine. He knows he doesn't even need to ask.

But if he could just texted me, I'm going in the movies. I would have been like, fine. But I don't know why he felt he needed to call me and get approval. This is what I'm saying about his motivations. I don't think he really wanted to go and he was using because you know why? Because he did this with me.

Like, so Santino, Santino calls me and he's like, he's all like, Hey man, we didn't talk about this on this. Oh yeah. So he calls me. He's like, Hey, you know, he's bullshitting because he's like, it's bullshit. Small talk. I haven't talked to him in a while.

And then after a while, he gets to the thing. Hey, would you be upset? You know, would you be salty if Bobby and I, you know, if we did a podcast together? And my answer was, yeah. I would. Oh yeah. I'm going to be real salty.

Salty as a motherfucker. You know, it's going to be just, I'm just going to be like, every time I see him, I'm going to have salt ready. Salt ready. I'm salty. You know what I mean? Like friendship ending salty? I could say, I don't know.

Or bits. Lots of annoying bits. Yeah. Just be like, yeah, it would get to the point where you wouldn't want to be around me. Cause I would be like, Oh, hey, hey, it's the podcast guy. The podcast guy. Oh, hey guys. How's it going to talk like that the whole time?

Oh my God. Hey guys. How's it going to work out? Oh, I watched it. It was so good. You know, just all the time to the point where they're like, okay, are you really upset? You know what I mean?

Yeah. But see, I didn't want to bullshit and be like, oh, dude, I'm cool with it. Because you're not. Yeah. Because I'm not cool with it. You know what I mean? I'm not cool with it because, you know, even him and I could have started one.

Bobby, Bobby's bullshit. Cause he told me he was going to start one with me. And I didn't find out till later that he also told Santino he was going to start with him until he sneaked in and stole it from both of us. She won. You know, so now he's saying to me. I don't see you fucking him. That's on your fucking Bobby.

He would like it though. Let's be real. So like, so then like, so then now Bobby's making all these promises to everyone. He's told Steve, he's starting a podcast with Steve. With his brother, Steve? Yes. Yes. That's a knife fight waiting to happen.

I know, but that's great. That's great. You know, I mean, and not I would have to be there. Okay. I was going to say because the one because the ones that we've had some we've had some here where we've had to just end it. Not air because I thought it would just, I would have to take someone or call 9-1-1. They have a weird relationship.

You know, they have a very weird relationship. You know, so it probably lends itself, you know, however their upbringing is and all the things that, which they've aired all their dirty business out on these podcasts. So everybody really already knows. But when they're with me, it seems to be great. Like I was doing, we did two of them. Okay.

They're still my biggest episodes. Great content. You know what I mean? It's good content. We're all good together. So it needs to be something like that. But I just think that he's just overwhelmed with this with tiger belly. Yeah.

I think this is a lot for him. This is so low maintenance for him. He does nothing but show up. Yeah. But that's a lot for him. Oh yeah. Just getting him to show up consistently. Yeah.

Like how many times have you ever had to be like, well, we can't do the podcast today because Bobby's gone. Well, then would what kind of, how would you feel if he started one with him and he just doesn't show up because. That's already happening because we were supposed to do the thing monthly. Yeah. Because that's what I'm saying. Yeah.

We're supposed to do it monthly. There's a reason why this worked out. It's because it's the next room over from where he sleeps. I guess. That makes sense. Yeah. Because he already was talking shit about like, and I heard a little like somebody posted like, you know, you got your guy's little Patreon.

That's what you guys really, that's the devil shit right there. The tiger belly Patreon is where you get the real like, That's for the say-ons. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's where like, yeah, they got the fucking Ouija board out here.

What do you think about Eric Griffin? And the truth comes out. So somebody sent me a little clip of him talking shit about my place. About your place? Yeah. Oh. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. I was like, this motherfucker, dude.

Yeah. Let's run back what he said about your place. I want to know. I forgot what he said. He was just something like he walked in the walls. He had like. He said you had fake walls. No.

He said like it smelled like cum or something like that. Yeah. Cum wall. He is the biggest exaggerating piece of shit. You know, that's what that is right there. But like, like I say, you know, it could still be good. And people ask me literally every fucking day, when is Bobby and Steve coming on to talk about movies again?

You know, so it's like, all these promises have been made. That's a big, that's a big risk anyone is taking to start a podcast with him. Not because he's not good, but just because will he show up? Yeah, it's a lot. So but oh, anyway, so circle back to the point of this is. So Bobby told Andrew that he needed to call me to get approval. But I know Bobby just did that because he doesn't want to do it. I don't think he wants to do either.

That's what I'm saying. But I already know because if he was going to do it with him, we would have done it already. Yeah. You know what I mean? We would have done it. So and so I think that he's just like, you know, that's what he does.

He'll come up with excuses. He won't say no. He'll be like, well, I don't want to film it at my place. I don't want to film it at your place. I don't want to film it in the, you know, I want to do it. That's actually, you know, you're not wrong about that because he uses, he throws me under the bus to save himself a lot. Yeah.

And what was it the other time? It was earlier this week. That's what you did with the movies. That's what you did with the movies. Yeah. He was talking to Mike from ATC and he was saying, he said, he was, he had to say no to something, but he said he used my name and he was like,

it's because Calila said so and so. It just so happened that I overheard him whispering the text to himself and I heard him and I heard my name. I'm like, what are you texting and who are you texting and why is my name on that text? He was like, oh, I'm just texting Mike. I'm like, wait a second, let me see that text. And it said, oh yeah, because something along the lines of

this is a democracy and Calila says that this, she doesn't. I'm like, what the fuck? I didn't even know what they were talking about, but he used me under the bus backwards. And they do have Casper. You guys don't know what if I'm like the secretly at gunpoint? There's like two Korean soldiers in there. You read it now.

Oh, yes, right. Oh, God, here we go. You got to call me bitch now. You bitch. Can we get one more where the sound was off on that one? Level change. This is about him. This is about him like always wanting you.

You don't notice, but you don't see behind you, but he's like, yeah. Hold it up a side. Oh, and Bobby just called me and said, this is fucking depressing. What's depressing? Should we call him like he does to me? We should call him right now.

You to call me a bitch one more time, though. I mean, we feel kind of like Bobby was here. Oh my God. I felt familiar. Can you give me a bag of trash I can pour on her right now? And let me just lay here like this. Does that turn you on? Oh my God.

It's sugar. What you're feeding me right now is all of it. Oh, God, let's see if we heal. That's why the big, tall, sexy dudes that still probably holler at you. You're just like, oh, you're doing too much. Nobody's hollering at you. I don't believe you.

Babe. Where are you? Did you do it already? I'm here with Eric right now. Yeah, we're doing it right now. Piece of shit. But you're on air? Yeah.

You hear my voice right now? Yeah. What is that black doing? Is he doing good? Yeah, I'm sitting in the king chair, baby. I'm taking over. Oh, he is? Yeah, it's called.

It's the new podcast name. It's called Scorpion Lashes. After Eric's done with the podcast, can you wash the mics because you don't want to get a difficult song here? Here we go. Wow. OK.

Autoclave. You want me to put it in an autoclave? Don't encourage him. Jesus Christ. And also, when he's here, you've got to get cakes and all that stuff ready. Cakes, Eric? Yeah, he loves cakes and ice cream and stuff like that.

I brought cookies. Oh, good, good, good. Although you guys talk, like you say it, like you guys talked about it beforehand. Like, should I bring something for his diabetes? But hang on, are you everything OK? He's just laying, if you know what it is, he's just laying in bed and he's very cognitive.

But he answers all the questions. He knows who we are. He laughs. He'll go, we'll go smile, we'll smile. Do these cognitives literally there? But if that tells me that he's not going to be bed any time soon. You know what?

That sounds the same way Bobby has sex with you. You hear that, babe? He says that's how you have sex. Yeah, Bobby, I'm hearing that this is how you have sex. So I see it's like father like son. I think that's that's. Well, you know what? I actually don't believe you.

You know what I mean? Because this is like when your uncle died. Trilite, Trilite. He's out with his. He's out with his mistress right now is what it is. You know, my uncle did that. All right. Well, I'll talk to you guys later.

OK. Thank you for doing the podcast here. Yeah. All right. Love you, Bobby. Bye. Bye. Bye, bitch.

Bye. That's good news. Well, I don't know. It's tough. When someone's in hospice, it's like they can still be lucid and like slip into something. No, but what sucks about hospice in the first place is like the whole idea of it is is like they're saying to you,

hey, this person's going to die. Prepare yourself. So then it sucks to be in a state of mind of like waiting for it. So they're probably sitting there and every time he does anything, they're like, this is it. You know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

And it's like, oh, that's not it. I mean, basically that's what happened yesterday is we got the phone call and his mom was like, you got to be here right now. I got both brothers a ticket to Arizona within three hours. They were there within four hours. Wow. And by the time they got there, he

had sort of stabilized a little bit. But still he's in hospice and they're not making any huge interventions anymore. They're just keeping him comfortable. So that's when it becomes more towards the end is because comfort measures require a lot of like morphine and morphine drives down your breathing rate and all of that stuff.

One of my great aunt, when she died, I was there. The thing was they called us. They said, hey, my family's a strange. They don't even get along. But this woman's dying, you know, the aunt of my mother and her sisters. And so they said, come over, please. So we get there.

My mom hasn't talked to her sister in 20 years. Geez. You know what I mean? So they're having this little moment. And I'm like, OK, so I go inside. And then it's like, she was saying to me, my aunt was all like, you know, we have to bring the family together. And like, this is on her deathbed, you know what I mean?

And I didn't think I was going to feel anything. But I was like, oh, wow, I'm glad I experienced this. And she died like 30 minutes later. She was dead. And we were calling the thing. So I mean, I hope that they get some kind of moment like that with their dad. Yeah.

And I think that this is, I told him it's like, because he feels like, oh, my dad's already better. Maybe I should come home. And he's like, no, just stay there a couple of days. Stay there a couple of days. You know, hang out with your mom. But Bobby's not good with like that. No, he's not.

But I also think he hasn't experienced it with such a close family member before. That maybe he, here's, here's my fear. I think that he thinks he'll be, it'll just happen. And that he'll be okay. Right. But my fear is that it'll hit him in a way that nothing's ever hit him in his life.

Which might be something good. Yeah. It might change him in a way. It might like make him like to refocus because I'm refocused since like my, my, I found out my mom, my mom is, I'm dealing with my mom in dementia slash Alzheimer's right now. It's new. It's fresh.

They were living in Spain. And then like, you know, it happened like this. I visited in December and I knew something was up because my mom was saying things and I was like, Hey, uh-oh. Wait, so it wasn't a gradual thing. It was almost, You know what the thing is, it's like, I knew something was up, but they were living in Spain because she was like

repeating herself a lot. She was like, you know, Hey, you know, and I was like, Oh, maybe it's just a sign of old age type stuff. But then like, I was like, no, this is something going on. And then when I visited, I was like, Oh, it's progressing. And she herself said, I'm feeling confused. And I'm like, so I was like, Oh, okay. This is like, she's right before, but then sure enough,

when I left, maybe like three or four weeks later, it was like, but step dad's calling me like, Hey, she fell down because she was out someplace walking and she was at a place she wasn't supposed to be. And then they helped her. And I was like, then it just went downhill from there. You know, so she has this thing where she thinks her grandmother is alive.

You know, is she, is she back here now? Yes. Yeah, they're back here now. They're in Oxnard, but she doesn't know that. She still thinks she's in Spain. My mom's crazy on Facebook. Okay. Like crazy.

So it's like, I have to like, so when I, she doesn't know this, but I had to block, I, I, I made all her posts private. That's an interesting thing that maybe like, maybe none of us ever considered with dementia before us because in, there is social media now, we can't hear like their voices essentially. Yes. And she's out there like, so I got to hit up people like, Hey,

I know that that was, that seemed like a crazy post. What does she, what does she give me an example? Well, this is one of the last posts that this is, maybe make them all private is like 25 years ago when my mom, before she retired, I think it's even longer than that. There was this lady working at her office that she didn't like. And so like, my mom's comes from an era where being racist is

totally okay. So my mom's writing a post about this woman now and she uses the words tamale eating Guatemalan. That's pretty, that's pretty good though. You know, but you know, is there a part of you, is there a part of you that says, just let her live, but let her just let her fucking hate Stacy and call her a tamale eating Guatemalan.

I read this and I was like, what the fuck is going on with my mom? Like she's like bananas, man. You know, and then, but not just that. It's so fun living in Spain. So she's combining things. Yeah. So she's living in Spain and tamale eating Guatemalan

lady. She doesn't like, is she still working with her? You know what I mean? So I'm like, okay. And this is all out on Facebook for people to be like, what the fuck is going on? So people are like, you know, underneath. And so I just, so what I did was I went on and I made like,

I get into the settings and I made it all like every post she makes is private. Only she can see it and she doesn't know. She's just on there, like typing away. You know what I mean? So I'm like, yeah, tell that bitch off mom, you know, you know, so I was like, oh my God, it's old school racism, man.

I don't like my, the, the, the generation, the two generations before me, those people, they just, they say whatever the fuck they want. You know? So it's like, it's like, it's crazy. So this is something I'm dealing with. So I can understand like, you know, it's like, you know, it must be, it must be really hard for, for Bobby and his

brother, you know, they already, they have a contentious relationship with their father anyway. Yeah. So it's difficult to like have that going on when you've, you've dealt with like, you know, these, these things that have scarred you your whole life. It's a weird, it's a weird mind fuck. And I'm, I'm interested to see how they're going to come

through it. Yeah. Yeah. And I think that a part of them will feel, you know, it's the same way. Maybe I felt when my dad passed where it was, you know, the whole hospice thing where you think that idea that they're going to die tomorrow and then it lasts for two more years.

And you're just sort of like, it feels like two years. It feels like a two year long hold breath, like breath hold. Yeah. You're just holding your breath for two years. To the point where you want to take a pillow and just kill this motherfucker. You know what I mean? But also you start to believe that maybe they just won't

die. I know. And so when some, when they make, when they, when they kind of have a bad day, you're like, oh, no, they'll, they'll make it through. They'll make it through. And then one day they just don't. I know.

And, and you think you're prepared for it. But like, by the way, like I have been prepared for this. So I haven't, I'm not sitting around like acting crazy about her like, oh my God. Cause you know, for the most part, she's herself. Yeah. You know. And I'm like, I just don't, and maybe it just hasn't hit

me. Maybe it will. Maybe when it's like, you know, that fear of like, when she, if she ever says like, who are you, then I'm going to be like, damn, I hope that I spent enough time and did enough where like those memories are enough. It might, you know, but that's the thing about dementia. It doesn't work like that because my sister,

there was one time where my dad wasn't in dementia, but he was confused from his meds, I think, because I was in San Diego and I got a call from my dad and he was already bedridden at this point, but he was home and he told me that there was a stranger that had intruded on the house and that he needs help that I need to call the police. And I can hear my sister crying in the background

saying, puppy, it's me. It's me, Kawinda, your daughter. And he had gotten his diaper full of shit and was trying to like do this and chuck it at her. You know how like he put soap in a towel and did someone with it? That's what he wanted to do with my sister. And she was in hysterics because she was like,

I'm your favorite daughter. She was his favorite. So I was like, shit. Well, see, that's funny because my mom, when she was in Spain, she had this delusion about her aunt and grandma are there. Okay. And so she's saying, she would get on the phone with me

and she'd be like, Eric, I don't know what we're gonna do. Auntie went out and she hasn't come back. You know, and I was like, now the thing is, is like, when it's something like that, it becomes an issue. It's one thing to like be living in a weird fantasy land. But if it's something that is making them upset every single day, you know, like my mom wants to walk to her grandma's house where she thinks it's five minutes away.

So people think like, oh, you just go with it. All the people that think they understand the man, you're like, just go with it. Like, no, she wants to fucking walk every day to a place that it's not there. Yeah. And another thing people don't talk about dementia is the fact that they get terribly strong when they try to fight you. It's because they're so insistent on whatever idea in their head is correct.

And if you start to think that, oh, you can set boundaries for them, fucking forget it. And this thing too, so you're not, I didn't know this at first. And I'm talking about this on stage now. That's how I deal with it is that, you know, you're not supposed to argue with them. You're not supposed to reason with them. But I didn't know that at first.

Just keep them safe, calm. Yeah. So no, but I'm in there like. So what do you tell her when she's like, no, no, but at first I was like, grandma's dead. You know what I mean? That's how I was, you know. And she's like, well, like, no, she's not.

No. Yeah, it's like, yeah, she's like, it's like an insistence that like, no, you're wrong. And she's like, grandma's house is right over here. You know, so now it still happens. So now she's like, at first she was like, then she'd be like, let's get in the car. I'll show you where it is. You know, and I'm like, okay, get in the car then woman.

You know what I mean? So now we're in a car driving around for 45 minutes. You know, and she's like, make a left, make a right, make a left, make a left, make a right. It's over here. And then she's like, you know what? I just need to find the river. I'm like, bitch, there's no river around here.

Okay, where river, where river at? You know what I mean? Yeah. But see, the thing is, is like, you become uncomfortable. That's the problem is like, you know, you have to like be like, okay. So I've just come up with other techniques. You know, I'm like, I'm like grandma called. She's not feeling well today.

You shouldn't come since she went yesterday. And then she's like, oh, okay. It's just stuff like that. You just have to like redirect. Music works. It's a lot. It's a lot. And it's ever evolving too.

Yeah. I don't know what it's going to be next time. It could be, maybe she thinks she's got to go to work. You know, this could be a thing where she's like, oh, I still working. So she's going to get up every morning to get dressed to go to work. How's your stepdad? He's great. The salt of the earth.

You know what I mean? He's the call. I love that relationship. Wait, does Bobby have too much? He might. Wouldn't that explain it all? No, he's really like, I do worry about his memory lapses. Like he does.

He worries about it. Yeah. Like there's some times where I'm like, well, that's what I've been worried about too, because I thought, damn, if this happens to my mom, what's going to be, where am I going to be in 30 years? So that's why I started like, I started working on my diet. Because when you look up the things that cause dementia or the things that they say are leading to it, it's like high cholesterol, high blood pressure, inflammation,

low testosterone. So I was like, all right, I will take care of this. So I'm going to just place next health plug, plug shot out to them and they have this thing. Next health is great. So that's what you do cryo. They have all the IV treatments like the B12 and all that kind of stuff. So I went and got this like blood test and, you know, it was great because you get, it's like $199, but it's this comprehensive exam that you do of your blood.

And so the great, because the guy is this like, he's gay, you know what I mean? And but he's like super into like, you know, preventative medicine. So he's like, he sees my chart and he's like, your vitamin D is down. We got to get this D up. And he's like so excited about it. He was like, you know, circling, he's circling all the things. Oh my God. And he's telling me about like, oh, you must have cravings.

You must get sick because he's looking at my blood and being like, and isn't the thing that we don't do in the United States is we don't focus on preventative medicine. It's all about quick fix all the things. Once you find out you have it, here's the medications, but there's actually things. So I'm trying to do those things right now. Like I say, I'm doing cryo.

Once I started taking vitamin D, my mood change, my hair is fucking, you know, growing and shit. And I started doing this thing called bio bio identical hormone treatment. You know, and that's like, how's that different from like regular hormone treatment? Is it just compounded pharmacy synthetically? I think so. I think it's made from something that it's like not harmful,

like some of the other like steroids or whatever that kind of stuff is, you know? So they put it in your booty, you know what I mean? They make a little slit. They put it in. What are you low on the testosterone? My testosterone was low. And here's the thing that I didn't think that it was like,

you hear about low testosterone. So you think like, oh, your dick doesn't work. And you don't want to do this and that. But because I never had, that's not a problem for me, girl. That ain't no problem. Okay, okay. Scorpion lashes. Oh, shh.

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So I had just like, so like your number, I think, I think you're supposed to be at like 1100, 1200. And mine was less than 200, you know? And I was like, what the fuck? So then I did, I started doing the thing. And then four weeks later, I get another blood test. Then the lady calls me. She's like, oh my God, Eric, you're doing so well.

You know what I mean? Like it was like all these things. And I'm taking all these supplements and stuff too. Like, you know, like vitamin D, turmeric and like. I take all that. I take turmeric. I take vitamin D because a long time ago I read that. Half the population is actually vitamin D deficient.

Yes. And people don't know it. Yeah. People just don't know. They think, well, I'm out in the sun, but it's not enough. I encourage everybody to go out and get those types of tests done. Just a regular preventative medicine blood test just to see where are your levels.

And without vitamin D, you don't activate the calcium in your body. So. A lot of shit. But here's something else I found is like, she was, when he was going through the test, he was like, see, this is whatever it was, was like letting me know that my insulin levels

were a certain way. He was like, this is probably why you have cravings. And I was like, I do have fucking cravings. I'll be driving home like, I got to get a donut. Yeah. Don't have that shit anymore. Really? I don't have cravings for sweets anymore,

like where I need to have it. Yeah. You know? And I didn't realize it was a thing until it was gone. So now it's like, I'll have, you know, like, oh, this is nice. But it's like, it's a treat as opposed to like me trying to self-medicate.

Yeah. Yeah. You know? So I do suggest people go out there. So, you know, I was like, all right, I mean, let me work on this stuff. And then it was like, then it was like, oh, this is why you have like belly fat and all this kind

of stuff. And I was like, wow, you can see all this from a blood test. And so I'm working on all this stuff. You know? So I just have to like not add a workout to it. Yeah. And I'm going to like, you know. Put two boxes.

Slip down. Yeah. But the thing was, it was hard because I was like, started to travel a lot. It was like one month where I was out every weekend of the month, you know? Then it was like, oh, fuck, then you got to get back to it. Then I hurt my fucking ankle.

This is always something. Joe. And once again, when we come back from ad reading and break, bitch. It's like the ultimate multi-camera reversal. Bitch. What does he always say about, you can like peel a banana with your foot?

Is that like? I think that's one of the things. He does a lot of Filipino racial things. Yeah, he's going to make those up. None of them are true. That is, hang on one second. Look, you hear the sensitivity in his voice? None of them are true.

It's actually not true. Just because you're the only Filipino that can't point with your lips or pick up shit with your toes does not mean it's not true. Yeah. You're just. Let me ask you this. I can't peel a banana with my foot.

Do you have a rice cooker at home? Yeah. Filipino. How many vases do you have at your place? Vases? That's a thing? That's a thing? That's a thing.

I know, but it might be a Filipino. One of my ex-girlfriends was Filipino. I'll never do it again. Three vases. You got vases, right? Karaoke machine. No, magic mic. It's magic mic.

Same fucking thing. Those things, those old school things are magic. It's a magic mic, bro. OK, whatever. And you have, and there's like at least three pictures of Jesus. Yes, very much. Filipino.

Baby Jesus, baby Jesus. In fact, if you go to the shop in the Philippines, I bought a couple of pictures from there. They have Jesus doing everything. You can buy a poster of Jesus on a guitar. Jesus on a motorcycle. I think Jesus would have a podcast now if he was out. Oh, yeah, for sure.

Right. Would that be great? Welcome to Jesus Lashes. Storms. This would be wine all of a sudden. Welcome to Jesus podcast, too. So since you're on this new health kick, what do you think it would take for Bobby

to actually change his lifestyle? Unfortunately, and I mean this in all sincerity, unfortunately, something bad is going to have to happen. That's what he says, too. Yeah, and it's unfortunate because his state of mind is so weird. Maybe you need to take him to like, you need to take, you know how it's like scared straight?

Like you need to take him someplace where there's guys in their 40s who like, their dick doesn't work. Girl Korean. Yeah, they're Korean, and they're like, you know. But I've tried scare tactics with him, and this is why I fear for his early onset dementia is because he is fearful in the moment,

and he is a believer, and he's like, all right, babe, I'm going to change. And then eight hours, he will forget how he felt. He will forget the whole experience. You need to start taping him. I was like, this is what you said. Look, I didn't say that. He will still say that.

You know what I mean? He doesn't watch his own podcast, so he doesn't even know all the things he says and reveals. But you should do that because I want to do that. Because my mom, by the way, my mom had this procedure done because she had, they took the MRI, and it was fluid in her blood, in her brain. Oh, shit.

So they did an epidermal thing, and drained the fluid. Like the cerebral spinal fluid. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And so the doctor said she could possibly improve. We haven't seen it yet. It's still the same thing. Like, I was talking to her the other day, and I was like, wow, she sounds better.

Yeah. And then she was like, oh, and I can see my grandma's house. I was like, ah! You know what I mean? Yeah. It was like one of those like, oh. You know what I mean? So, but anyways, we have to figure out

how maybe we should just use the Tiger Belly army. Like maybe people have to just like, tweet at him. Maybe we need to have like, maybe we need to like, get a phone number that people can call and leave messages saying like, Bobby, we love you. Get your fat ass to the gym. Or Bobby, like, work on your health. And if it's like a thousand messages,

that might. You know what I mean? A thousand messages. I feel like. You underestimate his stubbornness. I know what could work. I feel like if Eric, you just go dark for like five months, you get abs, you get ripped.

I know. And he sees that? No, he's going to, no, he's going to, no, no. We have to, what if we like, we make it seem like you and I are having an affair? No, sweetie. I'm so Eric. We figure out, you know.

Eric can have dementia. I don't want to fuck. He's doing this bioidentical hormone therapy. Yeah, but that doesn't even work or nothing works on her. I'd have to be like, come over. Come over and look at my mess I got. Look at these cans in the back of my seat. Look at these cans.

I feel like you guys. I just want to take a can like this and just throw it. And she's like, oh, you know, you got to hit me with a can. You got to throw the full can at my face. Yeah. He found, yeah, you guys are like a match made in like, I don't know where. I don't know where it was made.

I think I have Stockholm syndrome. Oh, oh, yeah. But not in the same way. Like, I don't think he's my abuser, but I think that I am addicted to his type of chaos that I find. I identify with my role in his life as sort of this caretaker. And it's probably really sick.

And maybe, but you know, yeah. And I should pull back a little so he doesn't, you know, think that everything's just always taken care of. Yeah. Because then he's, then he'll start to get resentful. It's like when I was in high school, I didn't drink alcohol. And I had a bunch of buddies that like to drink and smoke and do all this stuff.

So you didn't want to be the guy that every time you're around, you're like, oh, you get to drink it again. Because then it turns into like less not hanging out with him. Yeah. Like they don't like, oh, me. Oh, you know what, Eric, you're right. Let's throw these alcohol and stop smoking. That's not how it works.

It actually is the reverse. Maybe if you like start, maybe what if, oh man. Me start working out? No, no, no, you don't. What if you just get, oh, just get real fat? What if I go out to eat with him every time? No, I can't do that to myself. No, cause he'll just leave you.

He's a shallow bastard. That's the sad part about it is you have to be a caretaker and be hot. That's ridiculous. Like he's going to be in like a bed like this. And you're going to be like, he's going to be like, go work out. You know, you're getting fat. Do you know what this guy does? So I go to Barry's boot camp.

And sometimes I go to do a spin class. Does he have a way in? No, he goes to Barry's boot camp, buys a smoothie, buys a Barry's boot camp t-shirt, and sports it around like he does the workout. He's never done a Barry's boot camp workout ever. And the other day, he has three SoulCycle sweatshirts. When we go, when I go to the gym

and he's on his way to Dunkin' Donuts, cause Dunkin' Donuts is right next to it, he will stop by- Which is ridiculous. Buy sweatshirt from SoulCycle and sport it like he's part of the- Oh my gosh. Yeah, I don't understand why like places like Curves and that kind of place is like in the same place

as an Applebee jacket box. Yeah, it doesn't make any sense. You know, it's like you can get like, you can cast a check and, you know, have a donut and work out, you know? And he does this thing where he tries to lie to his doctor. So what he does is every time he goes in a doctor's appointment, he's in full workout gear. What?

He wears the tights. That is fucking hilarious. Underneath the basketball shorts. Wait, does he get himself like worked up? Then he comes into doctor's office. You know, I ran here. Basically, yeah. He looks, he looks like an athlete actually.

He looks like one of those Korean speed skaters. Never. With like a full bodysuit. Wait, wait. I see, you know what? I think I know what the problem with her is. Like, do you actually know what an athlete looks like? What did she say?

Like, you're like, oh. You have never seen Bobby in a bodysuit then. Because he knows how to like pull it in and just look the part. Does he have a girdle? He spanks, yeah. I've, oh God. National. Do men wear girdles?

I used to. Yeah, I have, I have, I had a. I think they still, they can. When I'm dying up here, I had a tank top, spank tank top. Yeah. You know, just to like, cause I didn't want to feel too lumpy. Yeah.

So just like in a little compression shirt. Yeah. Underneath like a, I imagined that that would be it. But Bobby always looks like a little pear. You know what I mean? Yeah. I don't care. He has, his skin is very taut and very youthful.

Like he's 13 years older than me, but his skin is so much better than mine. And maybe I'm living wrong. Because if you touch his back. Look how he has her thinking. You know what I mean? I'm living wrong. You do have Stockholm.

You're like, I'm, I'm not doing life. Yeah. I'm not living my life the way I should. I need to go to Dunkin Donuts. But he has a rhino hide. If you touch his back, if there's just not a single pore, it's very taut and everything is just so tight and smooth. What if you find out he's been getting like plastic surgery

this whole time and he goes to a place and they pull his back and they cut off the excess fat. And hide the pores. And they hide, yeah. Hide the pores. Yeah. They just get some poor surgery. You know, like some, some South Korean.

Where's the crazy place? South Korea or North Korea? South Korea. Yeah. The crazy place? North Korea. North Korea. North.

George, did you agree to South Korea? Yeah. Well, for plastic surgery, I would say. Yes, for cosmetic surgery, South Korea. Everyone goes there for that. But North Korea, yeah. Plastic surgery is so weird to me though, because why do, it's like people that continuously get plastic surgery.

First of all, isn't it supposed to be that people don't know you got plastic surgery? Like it's supposed to be something subtle where people are just like, oh, that looks good. I'm glad people are looking really artificial. And I'll tell you why. But they look like they all have the same father. Yeah, I know.

And everyone has the same Instagram face. It's all the girls in LA are starting to really look alike. And I'm not knocking any, whatever makes them feel better. But the reason that I want them to look fake is that so younger kids can know that that's the fake look. That's not a standard or a beauty standard that they have to live up to. That is an obvious job that someone did.

But everybody, but the people that are doing that, they're all, they look the way they look. They see something different in the mirror. I think so too. You know, I think they see something different in the mirror. And I think we all do that, actually. Like I sometimes like, it's like, when we look in the mirror, we're already immediately in our skinny angle.

Like you just do it instinctively. Yeah. Really, you do? Yeah. I have a thing where I'm like, yeah, look at you Griffin. What's going on, bro? You're looking good today. But then like I see myself on camera or something.

And I'm like, oh my God, who is that monster right there? You're right. You are so right. Because when I look at myself from the side, like when I happen to watch the podcast, I'm like, oh my fucking God. That's not how I view myself. Right.

We don't view ourselves the way we actually look. Yeah. Which is like, that's why you have to just love yourself regardless, you know? But just trying to find a way to be as healthy as possible. Right? Is that a reasonable thing to ask? Is that a normal thing?

Is that a normal thing? Then we can go with? Yeah, I don't know. But I mean, do you find women who get cosmetic surgery attractive? When I find, you know what? I shouldn't say that because I don't care about fake titties. Fake titties are fine.

No, what I mean like things that you don't know about, like cheek fillers, Botox, things like that. I would like to know, damn, I remember when my ex girlfriend, like she was getting her lashes done all the time. I didn't know, you know? Scorpion lashes. I didn't know. But then when she couldn't get them anymore,

and she was like, oh, these are kind of expensive. Then I thought about it. I was like, oh, I don't even know what you look like without those lashes. But she still looked. It's fine. It's fine. Yeah, it's fine.

So I think those kind of little things are fine. But if it turns it, because I feel like it's addictive. It turns into a thing where they're like, well, if I just get this here, like I wanted to get my nose. I always thought I was going to get a nose job. So let me show you what I want to do. You ready? Yeah.

So here's my nose. So I'm cute. Fine. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. Let me show you again. You didn't see it right. Right, here you go. Do it from the skinny angle.

The skinny angle. Oh, yeah. You look like Linda Blair when you did that. Wait, no. OK, so right now I'm just cute. Sexiest foot. No, because I don't like pig noses. George, you see it.

He got a big nose. He knows what I'm talking about. Because it's too droopy right here. So let me show you again. No, but you have a Kobe nose. Kobe Bryant? Yeah. How do you know what Kobe's nose?

I love Kobe's nose. Let me look up Kobe Bryant's nose. Look at Kobe's nose and tell me that he doesn't have Kobe's nose. This part is a little bit lower than the outer part of his nose. I should start being like that. Yo, guess what? I got Kobe's nose.

Oh, you do have like a Kobe Bryant's nose. I told you. Wow. Great nose. You have a great nose. That's like a jeopardy. Like she could be on a game show. Whose nose is this?

Kobe Bryant. You didn't think anyone was going to get that? That was weird. Yeah, yeah. Wow. It's very similar. It drips a little bit. OK, well, there it is.

All right. But I got over it. But there was something about where I was like, you know, because I see people's nose like people. You have a adorable nose. I don't look it. OK, so she doesn't like it. Oh, you know what?

From the side, I see it. It is a little, it is a little, it is a little beaky. More self-conscious now. Yeah. Yeah. She has like a little like, there's a little. Record like this. There's a little.

It's too canny. It's too canny. There's a little ski hump in the middle. You know what my dad used to say? What? Oh, he would always try to make me feel better about it because my sister has the most perfect petite nose ever. Sibling rivalry.

Your whole life. Perfect, perfect. Just say it. You hate that bitch. Just say it. But my dad used to always say, no, your nose is great. It's called Aqualine. Tom Cruise has it.

I'm like, I hate when somebody picks somebody whose nose is fucking horrendous to make you feel better. Oh, he's basically saying, look, Tom Cruise made it with a bullshit nose. You can make it too. No, I just I've always had a thing about my. Because when I was, see, I've grown into my nose finally. Wait, doesn't your nose continue to grow?

No, because when I I had a full man's nose at three years old. So I just feel like that because my nose was that that was my thing. I knew I was going to be able to become a comic. I used to get teased about my nose all the time. You have a big nose. I just go to school after three days. I'm like, I'm just waiting for it. The big nose comments are going to come and there it is.

You got a big nose. So it wasn't till I started making jokes about it myself that then now I'm laughing with everyone. That's when it literally stopped. It didn't bother me anymore, but I used to get some really bad. Like, you know, it was like, oh, then, oh God, I hate it. I shouldn't even say this on this fucking show. What am I saying this fucking tiger belly?

I know I was just going to ask you what does. But Humpty dance was the one that like, I, oh my God, that was a nightmare for like, you know, stills of this day. Is that Humpty from a. Yes, I get busy in a Burger King bathroom. Fuck. Oh, but okay. So what are things that you're sensitive about now?

Like when you're a comic, does that just all your sensitivities go away about yourself? No, no, not at all. They're actually more heightened. You know what I mean? I you're just aware. You're so insecure and just aware of everything at all times. Bobby and I are similar that way.

Yeah, it's funny how you guys are very similar that way because I think that you love so you for the most part love yourself, but are very, very quiet about the parts that you don't love about yourself. You highlight all the other things. Well, how about this? It's like this. The thing too is like you love yourself and then you're curious

as to why other people don't love you for the same thing. So then you're kind of like, that's why you're like, what? You know, I like this about me. You know, it's like, but it's like, it's just a weird thing. You know what? That's one of the things that I found most attractive about Bobby is that he always, when you hear him, he's always like, oh, I'm just like short, you know, dumpling or whatever.

He self-deprecates, right? But when that man looks at himself in the mirror, he is feeling himself and I, there is nothing. He does it all the time. First of all, that little fuck is always feeling himself. He is feeling himself. Like I don't, when he starts talking to shit, I don't buy it anymore.

I know him so well now that I'm just like, whatever, bro. He thinks he is the sexiest man alive. He thinks he should be on People Magazine. Well, it works. He has no business being with you. But I really like that about him because I've dated much, just much handsomer, man. Not handsomer, but you know, taller, buffer.

She was like, no, not more. No, bigger dicks. You know, nicer shoulders can get things from the top shell. The one thing I found most unattractive. I do look good oiled. But the one thing I found most unattractive in a guy, I remember I was dating this guy and he was six, four, built, massive, very handsome is when after I saw him naked

once and I walked, I'm sorry. I walked in on him naked and he covered himself like a little bitch, like, oh no, don't look at me like this. And I was like, oh my God, I may never recover from that. Whereas Bobby, if I were to walk in on him taking a shit, he'd like happily fling his poo at me like confidently and be like, this is me, bitch, except me. I'm like a man that throws his shit at me.

Yeah, but he, that type of confidence really, really cares. So he throws his shit at you and you're like, get over here and fuck me now. Basically. Take that can, put it in your car. What you doing with all these cans? They're just going to be down on the ground. You just wanted to hit it doggy style while you'd like cans

or all of that. He can't hit it doggy style. His legs are too short. Oh yeah, we got him. The first time we ever had sex. Is that your favorite position though? No, thank God it was never my favorite position. You would have broken up with him.

Yeah. The first time we ever had sex, he like stopped midway and then just took off and left Long Beach. Oh yeah. Because he was too embarrassed to tell me his thighs were burning and he didn't want, because he was like. Shame. Because of the, the fat was just.

He hit me like this or was it normally doggy style? Right. He was like this. The thigh master workout. Yeah, his legs were burning. The doggy style workout. And he didn't have it in him to tell me to lay flat prison style. So he was just like, fuck it, I'm just going to leave.

And I was just like, what is happening? Is this part of his like. Hit prison style flat, face down. But did that make you kind of like, you didn't know why he left? No I didn't. So it was just something about it that you were like. Stereo.

God, he just left me. He just left me like I'm a dirty whore. I was into it. I was like, ah, this bitch is crazy. This could be a thing. We got to get, we, maybe we have to rescue Bobby from you. That's what I'm, that's what I'm seeing right now. This is like, this is insane.

Oh God. I don't know. The confidence is like, I think that is a number. That's a thing. You know, being confident about like yourself and then, you know, how you talk. And I just, my whole thing is like, I just got to, you just got to, I got to get you one on one.

Let me get you one on one and we'll start talking. And cause I'm, I'm, I'm attentive, you know. You know, you really are though. There is a party like when I, I think that the reason I'm happy that you're in Bobby's life is that you're one of the few people in his life that actually listens to him, understands him and tries to problem solve with him. Other people don't offer that same tangible kind of help

with him. They're always like either critiquing something about him saying, you're crazy, you're crazy, you're crazy. But when, when, when shit goes down, you really, really are there for him every time. Yeah. That's why I was really upset that he lied to me about his uncle.

When all he had to say was like, dude, I don't want to come out to Culver City right now. Yeah. That's all he had to say. You know, he comes fucking coming. And then I'm all like, now I'm like, let me call Steve. Yeah. You know what I mean?

Like, is everything, are you guys okay? Just seeing their smiling at shop. Yeah. And wait, where were you recording a podcast? Yeah, that's live. We were recording, you were getting ready. These two fucks, you know, and the shops, the shops all like, bro, you know, I don't know why he did that.

I'm sorry. I was like, no, you were, you were, you were, he loved it. Yeah. You're a fucking part of this shit. Shop still mad at me from like when he, I, the first time I ever seen him do comedy, I didn't even know him. I just heard like, oh, there's this UFC fighter doing comedy.

So I'm watching this set and it was way back. Okay. And I'm just like, it just annoyed me because, because he's this big muscular dude, you know, and now you're all, you're going to do my thing. Good luck. You know what I mean? Get the fuck out of here doing my thing.

So I went up after him and I was like, you know, I was like, oh yeah, guys, that was like, if I start doing UFC fighting for no reason, how would you feel if I was like, I want to fight? Wouldn't you be upset about it? But so I don't know, but I think he took it a little personal at the time because he went on Rogan and talked about it.

Yeah. Eric Griffin was like, you know what I mean? But that's just what we do. That's fucking shit on each other. You know what I mean? That's funny. This is a funny thing to say, but like cut to, like he's done a special.

He's got a successful podcast. He's transitioned to the entertainment business. You know, he's killing it, but it's like, you know, because there's no right or wrong way to do this these days. You know, you find your path and you do it. You know what I mean? Yeah.

And I think that people are really harsh about that. When people dip their hands in multiple cookie jars, people aren't into it. They're like, nope, you have one job and you should stick to that job alone as if you just can't venture out to the other. You can't do that now. You can't, if I was just a comic, I'd be fucking working

at Starbucks to try to make ends meet. I'd be driving Uber or whatever it is. You know what I mean? You know, you'd be surprised how many Uber drivers have come across who say they're like multimillionaires. Dude, this just happened to me. Okay. And I'm actually going to think I'm going to shop this

guy out. Everyone's just full of shit, but I think that my Uber driver in Texas. Okay. My Uber driver in Texas was, you know, we're just driving. He's talking, you know, because one of these guys that just wants to talk, you know, he's like, what do you

do, man? You know, he's a cool, cool, like little brown black dude. Um, and he, um, he, he starts telling me like, I tell him what I do. And he's like, well, damn, I'm a, um, he goes, I'm, I'm actually a Houston rapper, you know, and I'm like, okay, his name's little Oh, that's his name.

His name is little Oh, he's got a good following. Yeah. Right. Yeah. He's like, and so we start talking and he's like, it turns out he's actually a pretty successful, like on the scene. He does shows.

He travels around the world. So shout out to little Oh, and he, um, and then he's like, yeah, I just, I just drive Uber because all my show money, he goes, I put, I buy property with that. Yeah. And he's just like, so I'm like, oh, wow. So here's an example of somebody that's just like, you need something to do.

Here's a quick way to make money. You got the time. You know what I mean? Maybe you're in a relationship and you need a break from your, you know, you know, it's like, this is a way to like, you know, especially living in LA. Cut to, cut to Kala and a Uber.

Do I need to start? It might be the thing. You do it for once. You're not here doing Uber. I'd hustle. Yeah. No, but a lot of these, like I, I remember one of my drivers who drove me to the hospital to see my

stepdad years ago, he was like a recurring, um, he was recurring on sons of anarchy. Right. Wow. Well, that just lets you know that like people think because you're on TV, you're making a lot of money. Yeah.

Let me let you know, my first three seasons of workaholics, if I wasn't doing standup, I would have had to get a day job. Really? Even the third season? It's not a lot of money, man. It's not a lot of, you're not making a lot of money.

You're making like, you know, it's like, let's say you make like three grand an episode or something. It's basic cable. You know, it was a shit deal. Like that was my first big thing. So I wasn't making a lot of money. I was only doing like four episodes.

So I'm not living off, you know, even if I made, even if I made $20,000, $30,000 for those four episodes in that year, I'm not living off that. I'm not, that's not everything. You know, I gotta pay rent. I gotta bills. I gotta, you know, so just because you see somebody on TV, it doesn't mean they're making

exactly. You know, so, but sometimes though, I don't like, you, you see somebody in like a really fancy ass car. Yeah. And then they're doing Uber. Come on. You're living beyond your means.

Leasing. Yeah. Yeah. What are you doing? What are you doing? Leasing. Yeah, but come on. Come on.

What a curl. Here's how, I know how I can get this Jaguar. I'm going to drive Uber black. Like get the fuck out of here. I think that's the one thing that I, that people find really weird about me. What's that? Is that like, I refuse to buy a car.

No, you're just Filipino. Are we just on bicycles? I haven't heard the stereotype. Yeah. What's this new stereotype? Teach us. They're cheap. Oh, okay.

Look at, look at, look at these two fucks. Look at these two fucks. Oh, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay. He's like, is this going to be bad? Oh, yeah, we are cheap. We're cheap as fuck. I remember the only time you've ever hurt my feelings.

Oh, here we go, everybody. She's been waiting on, she's been sitting on this one, but we're going to go to a sponsor first. We'll be right back. Bitch. Okay. And we're back.

And we're back. What did it, when did that hurt your feelings? Since we were talking about money and how I'm too cheap to buy a car. It's not that. It's because you're right about being the whole Filipino thing.

All of my money goes to like, sending my nieces and family to school and stuff, right? So yeah, that's that. But anyway, there's like a laundry mat in the Philippines being sponsored by Kaila, it's called KK. KK Laundries.

Yeah, massage parlour laundry. But there was this one time where we all went out to dinner. And I don't know if it was a special occasion, but Coke was in town. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Everyone was in town. And we're all like, I remember this.

Yeah. So I was like, you know what? Like, I'm really happy that all these guys are together. So I went up and I paid for the bill of cream barbecue. Right? I remember this.

Ten of us, right? Yeah. And you like, and you went over to Bobby and you were like, really loud. You were like, where the fuck did she get this money? I did not say that. And it was my hard-earned money.

Where does this bitch get this money? I did not say that. You miss something. You, you heard wrong. No, no, no. And I was like, you heard wrong. I remember thinking, I was like, this motherfucker, I just paid for that fucking bulgogi

in your mouth. Still hanging. See, that's why I don't like letting people pay for shit, because they want to hold it over your head. You know what I mean? Well, no, I didn't hold anything over your head. Nobody asked you to pay for that.

That was what I knew. No, I was happy to. And you were like, you slammed, but you did this. No, because I was like, no, because I was like, no. No, you still misunderstood. I was getting on Bobby because he let you pay. Oh, OK. Maybe, maybe.

Yeah. Yeah. So you've been holding on to this for a long time. A long time. Just been eating away at you. Yeah. Resentment. Yeah, that resentment is not good.

I actually don't hold on to things very long to you. Um, yeah, for the rest of my life. Really? Are you a grudge holder? It's not that I hold a grudge, but I remember it. But like, what's remembering? You know why? Because you know why?

It's like, if you stab me with a knife, I can heal, but there's going to be a scar. OK. I get that. But is remembering, is remembering and treating that person, are you still treating them exactly the same way as if you didn't remember? Um, well, were you?

Do you feel better now? No, I never really. Is your relationship different now that you got that off your chest? My feelings for her was two and a half minutes, and that was it. I think it was longer than that. I think she was in the car like,

how dare he say that, Bobby? And I'm like, you know. No, it just honestly sprung in my head because you mentioned the whole money in the Filipino cheap thing. So you're the one who dredged up that memory. Oh, that's on you. That's on you.

She did it? Yeah, that was very tactful. That was a very Bobby Lee thing to do. Skillful. That was so skillful of you. I thought that's shit on you. You learned. You're learning great.

He's going to be, he's going to watch that girl head, the teacher becomes the master, the student becomes the master. He is a very cunning motherfucker, though, man. He may, he's like alters your own sense of yourself. You're like, maybe I am like that. He's a fucking ninja. God, he's a bastard.

I don't know. I mean, I just, I guess when you know someone so well, so when I see him pretend mad about things or like when he's all like, he's like, I'm not going to do well. Everybody's funnier than me. I'm like, you don't think that. And he doesn't really think that.

I imagine he does that out of like superstition. He thinks, I think that now when I've seen him do that enough, he thinks that if he just downplays his own talents enough that he, he'll feel like he actually achieved something. Yeah. But see him and I had this same thing where it's like, I know that if I'm on a show, people are going to have a good time. I don't care who's on the show.

Nobody's going to be like, oh, that guy doesn't need to be on the show. No, they're going to be like, that guy was funny. And these other guys, and that's how Bobby feels too. So then when we don't get things that we see other people getting, that's a little slight. So like, wait a minute, why are you treating us like that? And then we start thinking about all our insecurities. You know what I mean?

Yeah. It's like, he's like, oh, I'm short round and, you know, I'm Asian and my belly button is deep enough to do. You know what I mean? You can probably fuck Bobby's belly button. Is there a belly button? Do people have belly button fetishes? Like for like, outies or innies or is that a thing or not?

But he's got a shot glass. He's got an inny outie. Because he actually has naturally has an inny, but his fat is slowly pushing out an outie. Oh. So he has an outie inside an inny. The more you look. Maybe a scorpion inny.

If he gets any tighter around the belly, it's going to pop out like a pregnant woman. Well, yeah, it is pretty much like a little Ethiopian kid. Yeah, because he's so like, he's pretty small and everywhere else. He has a weird, like his head is like, it's not his head. It's almost like he got a head transplant. You know what I mean? Like he was a baby and they were like, we're going to lose him.

But if we put this panda bear's head on his body, he'll survive. You know, what if he's secretly shaving that every day? He has to shave the panda off of him. Oh, no. But he does have a year to defend himself. Oh, he'll be fine. He's don't worry. I'm really enjoying this. He's never said anything about anybody else.

Yeah, by the way. You should air out your grievances while he's not here. Yeah, because I'll get the Google alert. You know, Bobby Lee says, Eric Griffith's breath stinks. Bobby Lee says, Eric's house is weird. Like everything he said, I get a Google alert about this shit. I defended you, by the way. Thank you.

I was going to say thank you about that. He's a little piece of shit. He always does that. He always like takes little digs and he always uses the breath thing. And I think that's because of his insecurity, the whole lacking teeth thing. Yeah.

Oh, he doesn't have a lot of teeth, huh? No, he doesn't. Little baby shark teeth. Right? He's got this little. He has good four teeth up here. His four in front are real good. Oh.

Yeah. And maybe four in the bottom are real good. What if this whole time you didn't know, you just caught him one tag going like this, and it just came right out? I'm really into toothless people. You are the weirdest, motherfucker. Like listen to the list of things that turns her on.

If he throws his shit at me, if, you know, there's cans in the middle of fucking me, he just confidently walks out. Okay, listen. I'm about to organize. I'm going to tell you the degree of toothlessness that I'm into. I'm not into meth head tooth loss.

Okay. I'm into life tooth loss. Like if you're like, oh, I. Oh, he was in a bar fight. This is how I lost his tooth? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh. Like you know what's that, one fighter, Durkin?

Durkin. I think that's a Christopher Nolan film. Doug Kirk. No, no. What's his real name? Durkin. He's like a Gilbert. Look it up.

Give me some help. What does he look like? White guy. His fighting name is Durkin. I don't know. Okay. I'm going to look up Durkin MMA. Yeah.

Oh, Patrick Cummins. Yeah. Patrick Cummins. He doesn't have the teeth and I'm really into that. But that's because that's life toothless. That's not meth toothless. What? No, because he got him knocked out.

Okay. But if it's not, I don't like tooth decay. I don't like that kind of tooth loss. She likes that. What? Look at his face. Look at his hair. What?

Like you're supposed to turn around and it's supposed to be a hunk, but I'm not surprised. You know what I mean? What if you turn around? What if the guy looked a little bit like Bobby, but just with no teeth? You'd be like, oh, she's got a type.

Yeah. I'd like to see pictures of your ex-boyfriends. Oh, you want to see? Yeah. Let's do that. Yeah. I would love to see because I want to see if you actually have a type or if Bobby just was off the reservation, you know,

because when my ex, I wanted to see, I wanted to see and then I saw, I was like, oh, you, you, you like, like three of these guys are chubby. I'm like, okay, you have a type. Oh, really? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. So I just, I'm like, I'm going to, I want to see and don't try

to find a good picture of them too. That's what they like to do. Okay. So just keep scrolling because those are all the X's and there's a couple. You have an X page? No, those are just. These are the X's?

Describe the American. What? Hold on. That's the tattoo artist. Wow. Nothing like Bobby. Don't show the picture. Okay.

Oh, he keeps scrolling. Oh, this is, this guy looks like Elle DeBarge right here. This guy, that's a Drake looking guy. That's the same guy. Oh, about to say what? That's the one guy. Yeah. What?

What? This guy, this guy is, I want to fuck this guy. Is that the soccer player? Yeah, that's that. Okay. All right. Okay. Okay.

Eric's face is so confused. I am. Look how safe you look in this guy's arms. Oh, wow. That's insane. This is crazy. I can't even, oh my God. What?

Are you with Bobby? He should be on his knees thanking the Lord every day that just who he's in competition with. All these dudes. I can't even. Okay, that's enough. They're all muscular. That's the guy I was with for a long time.

What? He was the longest one. He was five years. Light-skinned black dudes too? Oh my God. This guy's got prettier eyes than you. He's a pretty. Little eyed guy.

This is like a pretty eyed dude. My ex, Steve, was gorgeous. I don't know. Wow. Did you just need a break? Like what happened? I don't know. Everybody seemed to not, there was always something missing.

And I think the missing piece was what Bobby offers me, which is sheer, which is just pure terror. Okay. I don't, I don't, you look so happy and safe in those guys. Like, like, she's, like, she's actually, when is the last time you had your head on a man's chest? Standing up. When's the last time you were able to go?

When's the last time you slowed down as to where your, like, your arms were like this? You know what? There are some things. Instead of having to do like this. That's so true. There are some times where I'm like, do I miss that?

But then not really. I don't, I never want to. Like Bobby would take you dancing. I know. We've never done that. You've never done that. No, because we, we don't. Weddings, weddings, right?

When was the last time? Yeah, for like three minutes and he gets tired. Do you remember the first time that you achieved an orgasm with Bobby? Yeah, very quickly. I can make myself come, though, like even like. Oh, so that, that, this is, this is, this is it. He doesn't even have to work.

He doesn't have to work. He doesn't have to do anything. I, I can make, yeah. Like it's so easy for me to get there. Someone vials. Oh, that's terrible. Yeah. So you, so you don't even, he,

he doesn't even get credit for it. He can't even get credit. No guy can really get credit for it because like you could just blow into it and I can come. Oh, I get it. Yeah. All right.

So no one can really. Good for him. That, well he needs to be with someone like that. I think that he is like. You can start walking towards it. Like a little oompa-loompa-loompa-loompa. Yeah. Is that a trash bag in your hat?

There was this one time where I hooked up with this really hot guy. I was traveling to the Philippines on vacation. I hooked up with this guy and I actually was able, he never entered. He looked at my legs and he was like, Oh, your legs.

And like he jizzed on my leg and looking at his jizz on my leg made me come. What? And this explains a lot, ladies and gentlemen, the weirdness of K.K. Was the Star Wars the force? Yeah. Come force?

Oh, that's great. He just, yeah, he just went like this. Yeah, that's just a jet jet. That's actually a body. Jet eye orgasm. I'm just like, you know. Professor Xavier, it's a reaper. Oh my God.

When are we on time, Gil? Before I reveal much more. We are good. We're at 1.15. Oh, thank God. Because it's difficult going in. I know. You're just like, well, we need to know.

For the next time, it's like, when we do a Scorpion Blashes. Just curious. So were you, your freak days are done, obviously, because you're with Bobby. Yeah. But there was a time where you just adjust. You had your horror phase where you were just like,

I need to check it all out. Yeah. And it was a blast. Yeah, I get it. It was fun and I have no regrets. If I was single now, I'd probably fuck a whole lot still too. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, because you're in that.

Yeah, because when you're in your 30s, it's like that's when like, you know, the dirty 30s. Yeah, I never really, I was never that type of girl that worried too much about, I was never worried about what people thought about my sexuality, how many people I've been with and whatnot. I did all of that, had a whole lot of fun. Well, that's a female empowerment, you know.

Yeah. And you'll have more of that on Scorpion Blashes. All right, do we have an unhelpful advice? We do. Unhelpful advice with Eric Kalina at the Scorpion Blashes. Should we let Eric push all his dates or anything else first? Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, talk. Guys, make sure you listen.

Riffin with Griffin. Go right over to Riffin with Griffin. There's a link, look at the video. There's a link right here. There's a link right there. Get over to Riffin with Griffin, Riffin with Griffin.com, EricGriffin.com. I got all my dates and stuff like that there.

And I'm still doing podcasts. I'm gonna have Steve on again. When Steve and I get together, it's always a blast, you know, since Bobby never comes. So we'll have to, you know, so Steve and I are doing our thing monthly. So check that out on both our podcasts. And yeah, thanks for having me here.

You know, I know I'm, and this also send our prayers and thoughts out to Steve and Bobby for their dad. I hope that if he's gonna go, that he goes peacefully and that they, you know, find some strength in it. And maybe this will bring them closer together and then he'll all the ills, right? So, you know, that's all we can hope for. Hey, Tiger Belly.

I'm 23-year-old recent grad. I'm working my first full-time job. I've been working my current job for about seven months now. However, I've always had difficulty fitting in and the workplace is no exception. I really only feel comfortable with the small portion of people while I feel awkward with the rest of the office. My problem.

I went to an office basketball game after work, but I don't play at all. I only joined because I wanted to be more involved with my team in the hopes of getting closer to them. I arrived solely to be a spectator and to offer my support. Eventually got peer pressure into playing and 10 minutes in, I got hit with a basketball right in the face. It didn't really hurt, but my dilemma is,

how the fuck do you recover from something so embarrassing is that? Even though it didn't hurt, I'm still the girl who just got spiked in the face by fucking basketball. What the fuck? Any advice how to get over general embarrassment? Love, Steph. Well, Steph, I think you should just own it.

I think that if you're embarrassed and you have a small group and you feel that, you're putting the pressure on yourself to feel like you need to be friends with more people. No. Just be genuine and open when you can. People will approach you and you just go, hey, how you doing?

And then you approach some people when you feel comfortable. And if people ask you like, hey, how come you don't? You go, I'm just a little shy. I would like to do that. What do you suggest? And then you just open it up to them. Make it about them. Then them, they'll be like, oh, okay.

Well, hey, Steph, come on over there. Let me introduce you to such and such and such and such. You're right. Being a try-hard and trying to make as many friends and being that real eager is such a turn off. Yeah, it is. It's just kind of be there, be aware. That's all you have to do.

You walk around the office and you just be pleasant. You just say, hey, how you doing? What's up? And then don't worry that you're not in with all the people. You just started working there. People have built these relationships for years. And some people are just like that kind of outgoing thing all the time.

And just be happy with you and yourself and you'll be fine. Yeah, and I think that all those people that you see that are super outgoing and seemingly have a lot of friendships, they're not always the most beloved. Yes, exactly. My favorite people are the ones who are a little bit, who are more reserved with their words. Yeah, a little more introverted.

Yeah, that's how my sister is. She's very, she's more quiet. She's more thoughtful. She kind of mulls things over, not outwardly. She just likes to, she's shy. Well, she's got that nice nose. She's got the nice nose. It's not as beaky as some people in the family.

Scorpion beak. My own nose in right now. Cut her in the bathroom like, I'm a idiot. What is that all we have? Hello guys, my name is Marcos and I love the podcast. I need your advice on remorse and on living with guilt. I basically did something horrible when I was 16 that I regret very much. I'm now 24, but recently I've been feeling very guilty and worried.

I've not been able to sleep and I have anxiety attacks when I think about it. I feel like a fraud. I am known for being a good son, brother and friend, but in reality, if any of my family members or friends were to find out, they would never talk to me again. I mostly feel bad that my mom feels proud of me for being good, but that one mistake makes me feel guilty. Do you guys have any advice on living?

Well, that's the thing. Yeah, that's it. Listen, we need to know what it is. Let's pray something. If you raped a co-worker or if you like, some girl was passed out at a party and you had sex with her, then yes, you feel guilty, turn yourself in or I don't know. And you deserve to live with that guilt for a really long time.

You don't need to have it over and that's the price you have to pay. If you did something that drastic and horrible, the fact that you're feeling bad is a tiny price to pay for committing something like that. Let's not say that he did that, but I'm saying that. That's why we need to know what it is. That's where we go. Like our head went there too.

Especially if you say something like... Hey, guys, I only just stole some candy when I was a kid. Right. Oh, God. He's a little bitch. Did you ever steal stuff when you were younger from stores? I think I have. I've stolen some of...

I definitely have, yeah. Yeah, I've... Yeah, you know, but it's like, it's so innocent, you know, but this sounds like he did something that he's fully aware of that he did wrong. But, excuse me, oh, shit, I just did a Bobby. Um, that was great. Welcome back to Tiger Belly. Yeah.

It just became Tiger Belly when I was a kid. You know, if he's aware that, first of all, your family, they're not going to, like, turn on you. You know, he sounds to me like he has a really close relationship with his family and because he values what they think about him. Okay? So, therefore, you know, go to them. If it's a crime, if you've committed, like, a egregious crime,

then you have to have somebody in your family that you can, like, let that out. You got to go to confession, go to therapy, or go to somebody in your family that you trust 100% that you're going to feel that you get to unburden yourself whatever this is. That's the only way. But he deserves that burden. We don't know what it is. Okay, let's, okay, let's assume, let's make a scenario.

You have a son, he's 24 now. He's a great kid, kind as most compassionate kid as far as you know. When he was 16 years old, you know that he raped the girl. Oh, well, then that's going to be like, that's a tough one. You know, it's a tough one. How would you have him? Like, do you want him to?

I just, oh, God, I just hope that that never happened. Okay. And he tells you, Dad, I just don't know how to, I can't live with myself. I feel like I need to end my life because of something that I did. That's such a tough one. You know, it's like, you know, I don't know how, what people feel in their face because there's some,

there's one school of thought that's like, well, we got to just, we got to go in, we got to turn yourself in. You got to go full punishment. Yeah, full punishment. And do you think that would make him feel lighter maybe to get the punishment? Um, yes and no. But okay, as the person that is in that person's life,

you're going to feel shitty. Okay. So like, if you're turning in your family member, you're going to have some guilt about, because when you're going to blame yourself, because you're going to feel like, oh, I didn't do enough because look what my kid did. And maybe I didn't raise him right.

And you're going to feel this guilt of them dealing with whatever they're going to be dealing with in jail or whatever it is like that. So you're going to have your own guilt that's going to be caused by that. But that person, yeah, that person might be unburdened. It might be that, you know, and when he gets out of jail, he's going to be like, that was the best decision

that I ever made in my life. Always going to be in a gang. And he's, you know, yeah, he's going to, you know, he's going to kill six people in prison. I put a scorpion ashes. Yeah, you just, you just don't know. You know what I mean? So it's a tough one.

Let's just hope it's nothing like that. It's probably not a crime. No, no, no, no, he could have stole some money. He could have done something like, I, I, I... If it's stealing money, that's a, when you're 16, everyone steals money. So if that's what you're going to do... No, no, no, no, no, no.

He could have, it could have been like, he could have stole, like he could have embezzled money from his job. Or he could have embezzled money, you know what I mean? Like there are people that take that kind of stuff serious. That, that, that is like our huge deal. That's something that my ex did when he was, not when we were together. The...

Pretty big lies or apps. But he got in trouble for that when he was a teenager. And he was at work and then he stole money from like the register, say for instance. Or like he used someone else. Someone left their credit card and he used it. I had a friend of mine, he was assistant manager of a place that we were working at

and he stole a bunch of money. Yeah, but he was, my ex was 16 when he did that and he is in his thirties now. He's like one of the kindest, best people on... This, this sounds like something that has more to do with the moral, moral rules of that family. You get what I'm saying? Yeah.

Like, like... Lot of family. Like it could be that like his girlfriend had an abortion. Mm. And he never told his mother. See, it could be something like that. You know what I mean? It could be something that's like,

and if it's something like that, if it's burdening you so much, you got to go and be like, yo, you know? Yeah. It could be that he like, you know, it could be a host of things. Transparency. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Just a little, we'll find someone you can like, this is a tough one. That was a tough one. There's no right or wrong answer for that. I'm trying to think of something that I still feel guilty for. Can you? Can you?

Something that you're just so like, you look back and you're like, fuck. Yeah, we all have those. We all have those facts. I think we all do, actually. I think I probably do. I think that most people do. We were like, holy shit.

Like, what was I thinking? You guys, these two fucks, I know. You guys are just ill-free. I feel like one big one for me was, I just felt like I wasn't there for my sister when she was growing up, because I was dealing with my own shit. No, I'm talking about deep dark.

That's not deep dark. That's like, you know. I don't do dark shit. Okay. No, she's talking about like, like, you know, calling one of her ex-boyfriends, you know, ex's job and like, she's on drugs. You know?

I think that warrants. I think that warrants. Bitch! Come on, you gotta stop doing that stuff. Some evil shit. That's what I'm saying. Like, that's where she's going. Like, but that's just like,

you know, that's why, you know, a woman scorned. Oh my God. Speaking of which, it's just, I had to retell this story. I had a guy who was cheating on his wife. He was a friend of mine. He was cheating on his wife. He went to Reno,

fucked the girl, caught Chlamydia, but didn't know he caught Chlamydia until after he came home and fucked his wife. All right. That's when you find out. You know what he did? So he was a trainer at like a 24 hour fitness. And he knew that she just had,

she just had a kid. They had a kid together and he was, she was very conscious about her weight. So he put weight, antibiotics and weight loss pills. And he said, this is something that they've been pushing at the gym. You have to take it every day for a week.

Well, good for him. That was his guilt. And he got away with it. Yeah. Well, not anymore. Cause if they're listening. Oh no. He, she doesn't know to this day.

How is this ever going to come out? What if she just randomly like, maybe I should watch Kalaile's podcast. That's me. He's not giving me. That's why she tells the story cause she secretly wants that to fucking happen. You want that shit to happen.

Just admit it. I'm not a home record. Admit it. Admit you want that to happen. You know what kind of move that is? Bitch. Welcome back to Bitch Lasses. Let's wrap this up.

Let's wrap this up. Come on. Yeah. Cause all your shit is coming up. Cause you don't, you know what it is? Cause she doesn't have a little weirdo shield here. That she can just be like, look, Bobby's weird. No.

It turns out you're a conniving evil motherfucker. I'm spilling everyone's secrets. I know. That's going to happen. Maybe he's watching. He, right now he's at work just doing his like, he's, where does he work? He worked at a gym.

Well, not anymore. Not anymore. Well, wherever he works now. And actually he's like, doesn't want to give me secrets. Maybe, maybe not. He's probably listening to the podcast. He's just at work and he's like, this motherfucker.

What about the guy who just done my kneecap? Do you think he'll hear this? Yeah. He's going to be happy about that. Good. I'm glad. No. He's going to be like, why didn't you tell me you came? I was so embarrassed for 40 years.

I came on his way. You need to call him and tell him. Guess what? By the way, I had a tremendous orgasm that time. You came on my knee. You probably scarred this poor guy. He's going to try to come on every girl's knees after this. No, no, no, no.

That's what he'll do now. Once she tells you. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It worked. Yeah. Oh my God.

That was a match. You should have stayed with that guy. He has children now. Oh my God. So now she just told me who it is. Somehow he was able to enter somebody and just inside instead of a kneecap. Well, because you guys were just doing a little

like freaky deaky shit. That's all that was. Well, anyways, guys, thanks for having me. You know, we'll do it again. Thank you so much. By the way, for stepping in very last minute, I know you've had a long way and you're really tired. That applause for Eric.

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