Timcast IRL - Timcast IRL #324 - Leftist SF DA Official Says People Who Flee Crime Are Racist w/Fresh&Fit

Episode Date: July 7, 2021

Tim, Ian, and Lydia join hosts of the up-and-coming dating and relationship podcast Fresh & Fit Myron and Walter to discuss the mass exodus from San Francisco, supermarkets that are stockpiling perish...able goods in preparation for something major, how children are bad for the environment (according to leftists), how dating apps have restructured relationships, how women making too much money has somehow become a product of the patriarchy, women who post their photos of before and after being in relationships, and why men should NOT get married, according to the guests. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:00 San Francisco is all kind of messed up. You got human waste all over the streets. You got crime rampant through the streets as well. There's this viral video where 10 people just run out of a building just stealing stuff and people are heard saying, I guess crime is legal. And we've been hearing this for a while. Now the funny thing is you've got this progressive district attorney. So now that this study comes out showing 40% of people in San Francisco, I think registered voters, have said they're planning on leaving
Starting point is 00:00:28 or considering leaving because of the lower quality of life and the crime. And there's this big threat talking about it. This progressive DA who's supposed to be arresting and prosecuting these people said,
Starting point is 00:00:37 well, that's just because they're racist. Their fears are just linked to racism. It's like the easiest way to not take responsibility for screwing up your city. So I want to talk about this and a bunch of other social issues around, you know, what's happening with crime in New York City, how it's how it's come to this. But we're going to be spending a lot of time talking about dating and economic attractiveness. We have this article where it's basically a collection of tick tocks of from women who posted photos of themselves before they met their boyfriends or husbands, and they're all slim and attractive. And they're like, here's me now, and they're like unkempt and obese.
Starting point is 00:01:11 And this plays into a lot of dating tropes, and we got some guys who I guess are experts. Maybe – are you guys experts? I don't know, fresh and fit podcast guys? Somewhat. I would hope so. Yeah. He was following. Every now and then.
Starting point is 00:01:22 Every now and then we try to womanize maybe. I don't know. Just some random dudes or something. I don't know. Just some random dudes or something. I got a bunch of people following you. Yeah, man. So we'll talk a lot about this. This is important too because feminism, dating, how the media plays it, how the dating apps play it has a huge impact on our political space.
Starting point is 00:01:48 Politics is downstream from culture. So a lot of the things that we see really are rooted in, I guess, a lot of it's feminism, but a lot of it's intersectionality or critical race theory and all this stuff. So we're going to know that. Do you guys want to just actually do an intro for yourselves? Yeah, sure. Sure. So we're fresh and fit, man. I mean, you've seen us all over TikTok, Worldstar, you know, the fights, all that stuff.
Starting point is 00:02:09 But behind the scenes, man, we're just some guys from Miami living life. I mean, life i mean it's not how women think how men think put them all in one room together we made sense of the whole arguments that they have so pretty much yeah man uh basically our podcast we help men become better you know through fitness finances and you know dealing with girls you know because obviously dating is tough for a lot of guys out here yeah so uh you know we talk about a lot of uncomfortable truths in the dating game and teach guys what it really takes to be attractive despite, you know, how unflattering or politically incorrect it is. Did you guys say your names yet? Oh, yeah.
Starting point is 00:02:32 Maren. Maren Gaines. Fresh Prince CEO. Yeah. Maren Gaines, man, a.k.a. Fit, and then he's Fresh Prince CEO. Yeah. A.k.a.
Starting point is 00:02:40 Walt Weeks. Yeah. Yeah. Your real name's already out there. It's already out there. Who cares? Too many articles. We got Ian Chillon.
Starting point is 00:02:45 Oh, hello, everyone. Ian Crossland over here. Glad you guys are here. I think a lot about how, what do you say, politics is downstream of culture. I think that culture is downstream of technology. Depending on how you twist and bend technology, you're going to get a massively different culture. And we see this with Bumble and online dating. A lot of that has contributed to this.
Starting point is 00:03:00 Yeah. Online dating, this mobile technology changed a lot of how we have dating culture. Yeah, social media itself, man, has changed the whole landscape because now access is abundant. Yeah, yeah. We got a lot of talk about this, but we're going to work
Starting point is 00:03:14 our way into that through just regular old politics. But we got a lady pushing buttons. I'm also in the corner. I'm really excited about this. I was talking to these guys before the podcast and we agree on a lot
Starting point is 00:03:24 more than most people probably realize so i'm stoked for this pretty base conversation earlier yeah it was based it was getting really spicy before we even started right it's gonna be fun it's gonna be fun but we're gonna we're gonna ease into it we're just gonna go over some of these some of these new stories up front and then uh we're gonna get into yeah yeah but don't forget before we start go to timcast.com become a member and you'll get access to exclusive members only content. We've got awesome segments, one of them from Dr. Chris Martinson. I can't I can't even show you on the website on the screen because the title of it would get us banned off YouTube.
Starting point is 00:03:54 That's that's kind of stuff that we're talking about. And this guy's a Ph.D. pathologist talking about, you know, what's going on with COVID. So we have to have these conversations off off of YouTube and on the site. But you're also helping support our newsroom. We got two more journalists coming on who are going to be doing a lot of news and stuff. We are going to be working on launching the Unexplained Mysteries podcast this weekend because we never stop working. We're going to be filming the vlog.
Starting point is 00:04:18 All that's at TimCast.com, so please become a member. Plus, we're going to have a bonus segment coming up later tonight after the show ends. We record one just for members where we're allowed to say all the things that YouTube would ban us for. And that will be probably pretty fun because even before the show, these guys, I think it's going to be a blast. But don't forget to like this video, subscribe to this channel, share the
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Starting point is 00:04:52 Yep, yep. But we're also on iTunes, Spotify, so we're trying to spread everything around and get people to go to our website, TimCast.com. But you can follow the show at TimCastIRL on Instagram and Facebook. Let's talk about this first story real quick. And let's see what's going on.
Starting point is 00:05:07 We got this story from Fox News. San Francisco DA official says, I'm sorry, I keep screwing this up. I said this was Chesa Bowden. It's not the DA. It's the DA official who says crime surge fears linked to racism. It's similar considering the district attorney is supposed to be the one that's prosecuting all this crime reports of vehicle break-ins are up by between 100 percent and 750 percent in parts of san francisco and we're seeing stuff like this all over we got this story from the daily mail crime is basically legal in san francisco furious shopper posts video of horde
Starting point is 00:05:40 of shoplifters fleeing neiman marcus totally unchecked with armfuls of designer bags. So we'll just jump in. I mean, I've been talking about this stuff for a while. I lived in the Philadelphia area. I don't want to live there because there were riots. It's not even about the riots. There was one story where a guy barricaded himself inside a building and started shooting at cops.
Starting point is 00:06:01 I think he shot like five people. And so at a certain point, I'm just like, why am i even living in a place like this yeah but especially over the past year with crime skyrocketing everywhere you guys are in miami yeah i'm wondering what you guys have noticed uh yeah breaking into cars sounds like winwood yeah literally like you go down to party with your friends whatever in a cool spa area yeah you come under cars it's open winwood is uh it's it's basically like think of it as like r williamsburg of like new york or brooklyn it's like you know going through gentrification very similar to austin a lot of graffiti a lot of really artsy so yeah it's like right there in that art district area so you know but it's going that used to be the hood back in the day so now
Starting point is 00:06:38 what's going on is like a lot of car break-ins a lot of people getting robbed and everything like that and and philly is like always consistently in the top five or ten most dangerous cities in the U.S., man. Yeah, I guess the recurring theme with all of this is that these cities are typically run by Democrats. Yes. Yes. I don't know how political you guys get because you talk a lot about dating. Miami is – we were the last county to open after the beer bug stuff. You know what I'm saying?
Starting point is 00:07:01 Yeah. We were the last county because Florida was open for a while, but Miami-Dade was the slowest. We just opened back up maybe, what, a month ago? A month ago. So, yeah, we're pretty, they're pretty... That's one of the craziest things
Starting point is 00:07:10 is you have that county that was like safe Democrat that flipped Republican. Which county was that? Was that? Yeah, it was Miami, wasn't it? Was that north of Miami? Is it Miami-Dade?
Starting point is 00:07:19 It might have been Broward. Broward is that one area that's like, it's like... I think it might have been Broward. Yeah. Probably Broward. Yeah, because Miami-Dade is typically always blue, but I wouldn't be surprised if Broward. Broward is that one area that's like it's like... I think it might have been Broward. Probably Broward. Yeah, because Miami Dade is typically always blue, but
Starting point is 00:07:27 I wouldn't be surprised if Broward went red for a bit because Broward is like a lot more diverse than South Florida. Yes, that would do it. Well, it is South Florida, but it's much more diverse than the Miami Dade county area. In Miami Dade. Oh, it was Miami Dade? Yeah, it was Miami Dade. There you go. Okay. I was right. I don't know which...
Starting point is 00:07:43 27th? 27th district and 27th, 26th. That was crazy because they were saying that it was safe, Democrat. It wasn't going to change. But there's like, I guess the main theme of the story that we're going on is when you look at, I think San Diego is run by Republicans. They're not in the top 10 for crime, even though in the top 10 biggest cities. So I don't know what your guys' opinion on this. San Diego is great.
Starting point is 00:08:08 I like San Diego. I'm not a fan of California, but San Diego I do like. So nice. Just in general for the crime we're seeing. Honestly, what's it like in Miami? For crime, it's kind of like how to put this. It's more in the party scene. I would say this. Let's say you're
Starting point is 00:08:24 going out with friends, right? You meet a girl. Guys are getting finessed from girls. For example, you bring her to your house. You have a great time. By the time you wake up, your stuff is gone. That's the problem with Miami all the time, right? We're Miami. Think about it.
Starting point is 00:08:35 We're party capital. And then just being a regular civilian, you're walking around, whatever. Certain areas are obviously still not safe. But I would say more like car break-ins you know guys getting finessed from girls and then also you know even behind the scenes there's like um you know death with scammers you know people but does it feel like it's going up um i'll say this um miami beach has definitely changed significantly over the past you know 10 15 years you know ever since i for me what i noticed the trigger point was right around 2008 when Florida started getting on the map with DJ Khaled and Lil Wayne
Starting point is 00:09:07 and all these rappers like really like representing the South Florida area. And then it brought more tourism, more traffic to Miami because a lot of people think Miami Beach like, oh, Ocean Drive. They think that's Miami. No, that's Miami Beach. But Miami Beach now, it could be ratchet at times. Like Memorial Day weekend, you don't want to be there. So, but yeah, there's a lot of crime in Miami Beach because beach because you know it draws a certain crowd there on certain types of events and then
Starting point is 00:09:28 yeah a lot of fights shootings robberies you know in miami beach quite a bit i would say the main a lot of tourists forward on miami beach because we're a brickle downtown so we're kind of like in a safe area so to speak but it's like crazy like you know and then downtown miami has like all the homeless people yeah like all the homeless people in miami are concentrated downtown yeah dude it's no okay get this right so i came here five years ago to miami right from barbados and downtown brickle is kind of like okay open area not too much people over there not too many homeless now it's like overrun but you know the pandemic all this stuff happens people are out of jobs that's where they go brickle is like the manhattan of miami if i was to give people like an example of what it is it's like the financial district it's clean it's nice like you know
Starting point is 00:10:07 they've been really working on making it nice because it used to be when people came to miami they would go to miami beach immediately they would never go into the city right like you actually you would never go into the city unless you worked but now you know the city's becoming more tourist friendly they're trying to compete with miami beach that's why winwood is coming up the design district brickle has its own uh its own scene and everything else like that but so it's like it's fixing but yeah i mean there's definitely like a lot of scammers in miami a lot of girls rob dudes people don't know it's just that the guys don't report it to the cops you know what i'm saying i lived in miami for a little bit uh i was in by homestead actually where they have that where that famous child detention migrant facility or whatever
Starting point is 00:10:41 and we had uh one crazy thing happened The neighbors warned us that there were some home invasions and people were shot and killed. And so I think this is what explains a lot of like, Florida gets a Republican governor. Ron DeSantis, everybody loves the guy. And they're saying he might run for president or maybe he'll be vice president, who knows. But when I was there, this is a story I often tell people.
Starting point is 00:10:59 I was at a Trump rally talking to people about this because this was back in the day or it was like six years ago. There were some home invasions. A guy was in his shower and he heard noise downstairs like rustling so he walks downstairs in his towel and then two guys see him and then just one guy just shoots him in the chest kills him and this is this is like 40 miles west of miami so it's like not that far away okay and you know so i was talking to people in the neighborhood about they're like you got to be really careful. I hope you have guns.
Starting point is 00:11:27 And we were like, we didn't have any guns. We're in the middle of nowhere, but we weren't armed or anything like that. We had an air pressure rifle. And so then talking to these people, a lot of them were Latino immigrants. A lot of them were Cuban. And they said, oh, yeah, we were talking to our neighbors about it. And they were like, oh, yeah, those guys. Oh, yeah, they killed them.
Starting point is 00:11:43 I think they caught them. They were illegal immigrants who would like, we're, we're ransacking houses West of Miami where it's like, there's no cops. It's pitch black. It's like farmhouses. Probably unincorporated date.
Starting point is 00:11:52 So that might be like, that is no man's land. There's nothing out there. It's very cheap over there too. So I get it. Yeah. There's an air force base, but that's about it.
Starting point is 00:12:00 Yeah. But that, that, that, that to me was one, like when the people, I see the trump flags everywhere and i was talking at rallies uh talking to people at rallies i was like oh now i get it like this
Starting point is 00:12:10 is these are the stories that they're hearing all the time that's why they're very concerned about illegal immigration that's why they're very concerned about having the guns and things like that but anyway i digress i you know i want to ask you guys like how do you how do you manage to do a podcast underwater? I heard Miami sank. We're sinking. Yeah, we're sinking every day, bro. We had a building that just collapsed. That's true.
Starting point is 00:12:30 Surfside, South Beach. In Miami Beach, yeah. It was terrible, man. Why was that? Did they ever figure out why? So apparently the building had a very bad structure. It had some issues going on, but they never fixed it. So they were told ahead of time, hey, guys, this building is under some issues.
Starting point is 00:12:44 You need to fix it as soon as possible but then they never did it and then what happened was i think we had like a lot of rain a lot of like um what what was it was like a fissure or something like that yeah i mean the thing about miami is like a lot of the buildings were built you know on the back of of you know the cocaine era you know so it's like they're not necessarily like miami was built on the back of like narco trafficking so let's be honest about it so like you know they like and it's because i'm a real estate investor in miami too yeah it's not Not necessarily. Miami was built on the back of narco-trafficking, so let's be honest about it. Because I'm a real estate investor in Miami too. It's not uncommon for them to be breaking all kinds of codes and violations when you're looking at real estate property in Miami. So I would not be surprised if that building didn't pass certain regulations and it might have collapsed on itself.
Starting point is 00:13:21 Somebody just greased some palms. Exactly. You put some money over there. They hushed. Yeah. Like, hey, I got to dump this money in somewhere bro like somewhere so real estate but imagine you're in your home all of a sudden oh yeah that's crazy yeah yeah there's so many buildings in miami like that so who knows miami might be underwater who really knows what if your podcast you know what if like they're building your end just like dude yeah it's bro who knows because i'll tell you this we're high high up. When it rains, really bad in Brickell, it does go underwater. There's like puddles everywhere.
Starting point is 00:13:51 Cars are driving through. It's like a – imagine you're at a lake and it's the city. It's that crazy. So it's bad. Is it really sinking though? When I was there, I remember I went down to Miami Beach one day and there was like a couple inches of water just in the street. And they said, oh, it's because when i was there i remember i went down to miami beach one day and there was like a couple inches of water just in the street and they said oh it's because miami's sinking but other people told me it's been like this forever it's like it's sea level so it rains
Starting point is 00:14:14 and then like there's nowhere to drain the water so it just like it's in the streets so i'm wondering how much of it's political because here's the thing that they're saying that you know the water levels are going to rise climate change and all. But you still got all these investors buying up property all across Miami. Yeah. That's my question. Dude. Why are these millionaires dumping money into a property that may go underwater? So I'm thinking they must be doing something behind the scenes to stop the-
Starting point is 00:14:36 Not only that. Me and Fresh are both involved in real estate too. And the market in Miami right now is hot, man. If you guys are trying to buy in Miami, man, this is going to be expensive because these New York investors, they're moving down in droves, man. The Canadians, the Russians, Chinese. Yeah, people from Massachusetts, New York, Connecticut, the Northeast in general are moving down there in droves because they're looking at like, okay, what did the beer bug teach us? Okay, well, now you can work from home. You don't necessarily need to be tied to a certain location to be able to do work and commute in. So why are you going to pay $3,000, $4,000, $5,000, $6,000 to live in a closet in New
Starting point is 00:15:07 York City when you can go down to Florida, warm all year, no state income tax? And for a lot of people that don't know this, Florida is actually fairly cheap to live in. Miami is actually a cheap city to live in. You can get a one-bedroom apartment in Brickell, which is in Manhattan, Miami, for $2,000 a month or less. You would never find that in Manhattan. Nope. My friend had a place in Brickell overlooking the bay, and they had two pools for residents, a saltwater pool and a freshwater pool.
Starting point is 00:15:33 Not that expensive. And it's a super nice place. People think Miami is expensive, but here's the thing. It's expensive if you party in Miami. Since so many people come to party in Miami Beach, it's expensive. But if you actually live in the city of Miami, not that bad. And if you want to avoid sea level, you can go to Wynwood, and that's above sea level. It is.
Starting point is 00:15:50 So a lot of investors, that's where they go to invest by property. That's going to blow up soon. Yeah. Sorry, go ahead. No, I was going to say, man, I think a lot of people are moving down there because of freedom. Facts. Yeah, I mean, you had Texas and Florida saying, you don't got to wear masks. You can do whatever you want.
Starting point is 00:16:02 Like, life is normal here. Yeah. That's why people, I think, I think a lot of people move to Florida. So our friend Luke, for instance, you know, he was on the show, Luke Rutkowski, for a couple of months. And then he's like, I'm leaving. I'm going to Florida. And he was like, you should come with.
Starting point is 00:16:14 And I'm like, bro, we can't just go to Florida. He went to Florida. I don't know what he's doing now. It's a great state, man. You should come, man. I lived in Florida. The problem is you can't go outside. What?
Starting point is 00:16:23 The humidity? Humidity. It's like It's a hundred degrees Of the maximum humidity And it's monsooning Half the time I lived in When I lived out there
Starting point is 00:16:30 I'll be honest bro I mean We stay inside most of the time Yeah I mean So you're good bro You're good I mean I'll take warm weather
Starting point is 00:16:37 Because I grew up in Connecticut So I grew up in the northeast I went to college in Boston I'm very familiar with New England And northeast in general I lived in New York City I've lived in Philly And it's just like
Starting point is 00:16:44 Man I'll take that hot weather of a cold weather any day man like but that's just me some people like the season changing but like for me it's like it's cheaper it's warmer the girls are hotter you know listen i will say this though here's my prediction nevada florida and texas are going to see huge migration of new and why because uh they all don't have state income tax and they're all a lot of people are escaping Texas are going to see huge migration of new people. Why is that? Because they all don't have state income tax, and a lot of people are escaping major cities that are expensive.
Starting point is 00:17:12 Las Vegas for LA. A lot of people from New York are coming down to Florida. And then Texas, everyone's just going to Texas because Texas is a fantastic place. If I wasn't in Florida, I'd be in Texas. Houston, you could buy a beautiful home for $300,000. Yes. Texas is a very self-sufficient state.
Starting point is 00:17:28 Gas is cheap. Food is cheap. They make a lot of their own stuff. Very self-sufficient. Say, hell, if they wanted to leave the United States, they could. Don't they have that on paper somewhere too? I think they do. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:17:36 So the only thing that sucks is Houston traffic is awful and you need a car. But Texas is a great place to be. So I think those three states in the next five to ten years, you guys going to see an explosion because now people are seeing i don't have to be domain dependent on where i am to like work i can work remotely so if you're going to work remotely why not pay less taxes and be in a warmer better area there are there are some rumors i haven't looked into this at west virginia is also trying to get rid of their their west virginia is trying to get rid of their income tax at least a certain level i don't know if they're actually going to do it or not i haven't looked into it but a lot lot of people in West Virginia are talking about it.
Starting point is 00:18:06 I like it out here, man. It's close enough to the East Coast, a couple hours to Philly, a couple hours to... Well, not a couple hours, but you can head down to Miami. It's difficult. D.C. is right there. You're allowed to have guns. You've got big open spaces.
Starting point is 00:18:22 I like snowboarding, periodically. Maybe once or twice. I don't want to go crazy with it. But winter is nice. Yeah. New Hampshire, I would say New Hampshire is also good as well for people that want to stay in New England and still be able to get that experience because there's no state of the tax in New Hampshire either. And you're just a hop skipping away from Massachusetts if you want to go to Boston or Springfield or anything like that.
Starting point is 00:18:41 Regarding coastal cities going underwater, I think what happens when that does happen is it happens in jolts because if the ice caps melt, there will be a rise in water. But what happens is when the ice is removed from the earth, the earth rises where that ice used to be, and earth elsewhere on the planet goes down. So it will literally sink. So not only does the water level rise, but the earth sinks. Wait, wait, wait. You're saying the the earth sinks when ice caps melt and just disappear
Starting point is 00:19:08 all in a day if there's like a firestorm and all the ice caps are gone all that land rises where the ice used to be compressing it goes up and so earth on other parts of the planet go down when that land goes up so when the ice caps are removed part of earth will sink
Starting point is 00:19:23 in addition to the water rushing. Well, a lot of times climate change happens in jolts. It doesn't happen slow. The northern ice caps aren't on land. You've got Greenland, which is on land. Antarctica is on land. Antarctica, basically. But Antarctica is, depending on your source, Antarctica is gaining ice in some areas, maybe
Starting point is 00:19:40 losing ice in some areas. But if it were to lose its ice, you would see land sink as well as water go up. I like the tectonic plates floating on water, you're saying? It depends on what theory you look at. If you look at the expanding Earth theory, there are no tectonics. I don't think expanding Earth theory is real. I think we should go deep on expanding Earth theory. I don't know, man.
Starting point is 00:19:59 We're talking about investing in real estate and everything. Well, land sinking, I don't think it's going to sink. I think buying it as a short-term considered high-risk investment when it's not. I just think it's weird that I watched this video where a guy made a really good point. He's like, all these people are coming out claiming that climate change is going to wipe everything out. The water level is going to rise 20 feet. And all these rich people are buying up beachfront property in Miami. Look, either they're expecting it not to happen or they're lying. that's the question here why are they buying these million dollar homes right on the
Starting point is 00:20:29 water something's coming something's up here they know something something that we don't know they have to maybe they're atlantean they can breathe underwater that's probably it yeah but i'm seeing now in miami they're putting like these pillars in the water i don't know what they do but it's supposed to like stabilize the the i don know what it is, but they're putting pillars in water. I don't know why. Like wave breaks? Are they breaking the waves? I don't know what it does, bro.
Starting point is 00:20:51 What I think, honestly, is that these New Yorkers, these New York investors have so much money that even if the place was to flood or whatever it is, they can fix the damages. They're buying it at such a low cost that even buying it at that cost and fixing the damage is going to be cheaper than buying a piece of property in New York. I grew up in Brooklyn, New York, right off Church Avenue as a kid from zero to nine years old, then I moved. That property, I went and looked at it, it's worth $2 million now. And it's just a little crappy apartment building and it's worth $2 million now. So it's like just like a little crappy apartment like building and it's like we're two million dollars now so it's like new york uh real estate you can't even get in the game unless you have millions so it's like oh i can go to florida and buy like a triplex or a quadplex or whatever or maybe even apartment building for under a million yeah i'm gonna do
Starting point is 00:21:37 that but as an investor hold on some of these firms are probably just getting fed money for free it's just they just get loans from the banks they don't care about. What's the worst case scenario if you buy this property and 30 years is underwater? Whatever bankruptcy, you walk away. Why do they care? Is it Blackstone that's doing that? Yeah. Black Rock and Blackstone, right?
Starting point is 00:21:53 Yeah. Blackstone, I think, bought up a company that does this, that buys properties and rents them out. And then I think Black Rock was the one that was buying up all the properties themselves. I don't know. There's like two different companies. I know, right? It's annoying. I'm just know. There's like two different companies. I know, right?
Starting point is 00:22:05 It's annoying. I'm just saying, if I'm an investor, a smart investor, I don't want to put money into something that might lose money. So I'm just thinking from my point of view, hey, I'm an investor where there's not C-level problems. I don't know. Yeah. But what I've come to realize is these New York investors,
Starting point is 00:22:18 they're not even getting good cash-on-cash returns like that. They're barely breaking 10%, and they're still doing the deal. So that tells me that they just have a bunch of money they need to get rid of or something. Have you guys been tracking what's going on with the economy since with COVID and stuff? Yeah, to a degree. Because you're mentioning you're a real estate investor.
Starting point is 00:22:33 We have another story I want to talk about too. We'll jump into this and then we'll get into the dating stuff after this one. Supermarkets are now... This is from the Wall Street Journal. Supermarkets are stockpiling inventory as food costs rise. Grocers are setting aside larger amounts of frozen meat, sugar and other items to protect profits ahead of anticipated price increases. A lot of people think that there's going to be some kind of market collapse. Inflation's already through the roof.
Starting point is 00:22:55 Bacon's up like 20%. Gas is up. Highest it's been in seven years. Now grocery stores are trying to buy as much as they can right now. What was it, like six bucks in L.A.? We were just in L.A. Shout out to Adam22 and No Jumper. We were over there and we were in L.A. for a couple of days and the gas was outrageous, like six bucks.
Starting point is 00:23:11 Yeah, six bucks. Yeah, six bucks. I'm not going to lie. I feel like there's an agenda going on right now. I feel like this whole pandemic thing was kind of like a cause to – a means to an end. And they want to kind of bring about a certain change. And this might become a it's a great, here we go.
Starting point is 00:23:26 Exactly. It's not, it's not a conspiracy music. They, they, they publicly say like COVID is our chance to change, you know, capitalism to reform capitalism.
Starting point is 00:23:36 So it's like, it doesn't have to be a conspiracy. It's just a bunch of ideologues saying, I'm going to do things in this direction. Yeah. Right. And then you end up with, you know,
Starting point is 00:23:44 $6 gas in California, people fleeing like crazy, nobody wants to live there. There's a saying that says from all the chaos comes order. So I think this is like a I would say this is a made up agenda to push what they want, but control the money and control the food, all that stuff. I'll tell you guys
Starting point is 00:24:00 what I'm doing personally. I'm like getting rid of all my fiat currency. I'm throwing it into Ethereum, Bitcoin, real estate and then I even bought some silver, precious metals as well.
Starting point is 00:24:10 Yes. Yeah. So, and then the next thing I'm going to do, I don't know much about the stock market. I'm going to get into that
Starting point is 00:24:14 as well, get a broker account and then get into that as well. But yeah, man, if you have a diversified portfolio and you like take your earned income
Starting point is 00:24:22 and throw it into assets, man, that's the best you can do because I agree with you inflation is gonna we're gonna pay for it soon if these supermarkets are buying food right now dude food food spoils so how long is this food really gonna last in their freezers a couple months they must be expecting some massive inflation to hit within the next few months or so so what what are these big supermarket chains know that we don't where they're willing to bet on buying tons of food that could spoil they might never sell. No, they think they're going to sell it, which means are people going to be running out the door and buying up food right now?
Starting point is 00:24:53 There's a lot of questions about this. They buy larger amounts of frozen meat. How long is that really going to last? How long can you freeze meat for when you freeze it on? Six months, I think. Six months? I think so. That's a pretty long time.
Starting point is 00:25:07 That's like pushing it to the limit yeah but that means our face if you if they if you look if you went out right now and bought 10 loaves of bread yeah you can only freeze them for so long it's not going to be good right yeah and so you're really expecting you're going to eat all that bread and you'd have to get the worst bread not like the good stuff not the ezekiel you'd have to get like the crappy white bread for it to last that long right right right all the preserves and it's really thin. Not like Ian's bread. Ezekiel is going to be green in like three days. Yeah, Ian makes bread that spoils in a couple days because it's just so fresh. No preservatives.
Starting point is 00:25:31 But no, check it out. Check it out. If these stores are buying up all this food, it sounds like they think people are going to be buying up all this food soon. Why? That freaks me out. That freaks me out. That's a good point, man.
Starting point is 00:25:42 It's like something going to happen. People are going to get extra hungry? Or... I'm going to die. I like to eat organic. Oh, yeah. You're totally going to die. I am dead. No, no, point, man. It's like something's going to happen. People are going to get extra hungry. Or... I'm going to die. I like to eat organic. Oh, yeah. You're totally going to die. I'm dead.
Starting point is 00:25:49 No, no, no, no. That's the good news. No, no, no. Listen, listen. When all the food is gone or expensive, you need to eat the bugs. Fresh. Fresh right out of the ground. Cicadas are all gone, so you can't do that anymore.
Starting point is 00:26:00 Roaches have protein. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Bugs have a lot of protein, man. We had a cricket bread. I would say it was underwhelming. Are we in Q3 right now? Did we just enter fiscal quarter three? No, I think we're in two.
Starting point is 00:26:10 Okay, so maybe they're unloading their cash for quarter two before the quarter ends to try and reduce their tax dependency. But it's money and, like, listen, if they think this is a move to make money, right? Because, like, I'll put it this way. If you can buy a steak for a buck right now, but next month it'll be two bucks for that steak. They're saying, like, okay, I'm going to buy a bunch of steak now while it's cheap. But then you also got to sell that steak very quickly because it'll spoil. So they're not only expect, like, they're willing to take that big of a bet that prices are going to be going up relatively soon. See, six months.
Starting point is 00:26:43 I think they know something that we don't know. Because honestly, this is a power move here because why would you buy all the food off rip? So I think you're right here. But I don't know what the agenda is here. That's the thing. That's a strange risk to take. You know what's a good investment? What?
Starting point is 00:26:56 Guns. Yeah. Facts. Yes. Facts. Yeah, man. I mean, I was thinking about this. You mentioned real estate, crypto, getting out of fiat.
Starting point is 00:27:04 I was thinking about that a little while ago. I was like, dude, I've had a savings for a long time. I have some money that I have in savings account, and I'm just like, I'm never going to touch this money. And it's like I've had it for like a decade, just like sitting in the savings account. And I look at it now. I'm like, I can't buy anything with it anymore. If I had used it a couple grand 10 years ago i could have bought something today man the inflation's been so crazy the buying power is just like and i we tell guys on our podcast you know
Starting point is 00:27:32 like you want to have at least six months a year of like cash on hand you know for immediate you know fiat currency like that you that you can have access to but everything else man throw it into like assets because the dollar is going to start you know the inflation is going to hit us very soon so i'll check it out but i agree with the guns thing though because that is definitely man. Throw it into assets because the dollar is going to start. The inflation is going to hit us very soon. I agree with the guns thing, though, because that is definitely... In California, I sedate this chick, actually. She approved the weapons
Starting point is 00:27:54 permits in the Los Angeles County. She said she was a year behind. A year behind, dude. That's creepy. You know why guns are good, though? Think about it. They work. For the most part, you can just get one, you can put it in its case you can seal it up and it's going to work and it's just a piece of metal yep but it's like a good little piece of you know engineering ammo too i think i'm oh yeah but with with i'm thinking about that i'm like if
Starting point is 00:28:18 i went out and bought a gun right now and kept it properly stored and the dollar goes down that that that's that buying power of the value within that weapon is going to keep going up. You're going to retain the same value. So I'm like, that's a pretty good investment. And also you've got to think about this, too. I love the conspiracy theorists who are like, buy gold. All the old Alex Jones videos, you've got to buy your gold, people. I'm like, what are you going to do with gold in an apocalypse?
Starting point is 00:28:41 What are you going to do with gold if the economy collapses? Nobody's going to want it. It's good to have it, but I agree. Because I know people that only do precious metals, and I'm like, bro, diversify. You know what I'm saying? But yeah, I agree. What are you going to do? I'll borrow you some gold if you give me your Glock.
Starting point is 00:28:56 Like, what? Yeah, right? Gold and silver will have value so long as the economy still exists. So the economy can tank not so bad, and you can see the price of gold go up or silver go up that's why i do think it's good to have some person mouths i have some um i do think it's good i think it like you said diversify to have it yeah 200 ounces nothing crazy if the apocalypse happened you know and like it was like covid times 10 nobody's gonna want gold they're gonna want food water water and protection yeah what? For the dating side of it,
Starting point is 00:29:25 you know, the best investment for dating. What is that? Cat food and dog food. All these single ladies. Oh, man. Oh, man. Dude, it was really hard
Starting point is 00:29:33 to get cat food. Even right now, it's like it's been difficult. Really? Yeah. With all these food shortages, cat food's one of them. I don't know why.
Starting point is 00:29:41 They invented dry food for dogs and cats like during World War Two because they had to repurpose all the meat for the troops. So for the first time in history, they stopped feeding cats and dogs wet food, and they created this dry. Basically, it's like giving cats and dogs bread. And a lot of times people think it's because why you see feline diabetes
Starting point is 00:29:57 and diabetes in animals from too much dry food. Just let them go outside and eat some critters. Yeah, man. That's what they do. Wet meat, that's what they're built for. Yeah, Bucca, we let them outside. People got mad at us. Yeah, man. That's what they do. That wet meat, that's what they're built for. Yeah, bucka, we let them outside. People got mad at us. They were like, this is bad pet ownership.
Starting point is 00:30:09 What? Because he killed a rabbit, and then we saw him just eating the rabbit on the porch. And it was a big rabbit. He chewed its head off. Natural selection. Yeah. It's a cat. I don't know, man.
Starting point is 00:30:18 It's hardcore. Love it. So we put a bell on him. So now when he runs, it jingles, which is supposed to help the animals escape. He's like, bro, we got clean food for you here, man. What are you doing? But he wants to murder, you know, the cats. I did not know cats
Starting point is 00:30:31 will eat rabbits. That's a crazy cat. No, they do. He's metal. Sure it's not a tiger, bro? I mean, he looks like a little tiger. You know cats bring you dead animals? You know what? Yeah. If you have a pet cat and you let them outside, they'll come to you and drop like a little tiger there there was uh you know cats bring you dead animals you know what yeah yeah they'll come to your if you have a pet cat and you let them outside they'll come to you and
Starting point is 00:30:49 drop like a dead bird or a mouse or something in front of you to like give to you and apparently they're telling you you're a bad hunter yeah like you never get mice and i hear i'm gonna show you this is what you're supposed to do or they're like here i got this for you and what am i supposed to do with this i don't want that's crazy you go to, but we had chickens, though, and the chickens ate mice. Ugh. There was a mouse running along to the chicken coop, and a chicken just snatched it and gobbled up in one chomp. What?
Starting point is 00:31:12 Yeah. Like a chicken out of rooster? That's random. What the hell? Yeah. I did not know that. I thought they ate corn and stuff. They do.
Starting point is 00:31:20 No, no, no, no, no, no. They don't eat corn. Chickens eat bugs. Chickens eat everything, actually. They eat grain, too, no, no, no. They don't eat corn. Chickens eat bugs. Chickens eat everything, actually. They grain, too. Yeah, they are. But people think you feed chicken seeds or anything. If you let chickens go, they eat bugs.
Starting point is 00:31:31 They scrape the ground and look for bugs. That's what chickens eat. Oh, wow. And so people, like, when you give them corn and stuff, it's like giving them candy. That's what the people at the store told me. Oh, wow. And that's how you fatten them up, probably, too. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:31:41 That's what they feed the chickens. And then for, like, if your hens, you know, they're laying, they have a thing called a layer, egg layer. And then they eat it. And it's like weird, grainy protein garbage. Apparently, if you put a wooden egg in there with the chickens, they think that it's egg laying season. They'll lay more eggs.
Starting point is 00:31:56 It's true. Yeah. That's so weird. Could you imagine if aliens put like a fake baby in a hospital? And people are like, I guess we gotta have babies. I could see it. Just trick people into doing that? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:32:08 What about like deers? Because I see some in the back oh yeah deers oh yeah dude they're everywhere and i'm worried they're always they're always stealing our apples like they walk up to the tree and then they just reach up and grab them and i'm like shaking my fist at them yeah yeah people apparently they're pests yeah i don't mind them they eat our mulberries you see them like eating the mulberries and i'm like whatever i don't like i never thought it was this but i didn't think about that hey man you gave us the carrots but i was nice to you i was trying to but you ran off right away it makes sense but they they kill them in texas oh yeah yeah they kill them all the time oh dude we'll have like five or six in the yard at once yeah and they you know i don't mind them they don't do much other than i'm really worried about them
Starting point is 00:32:40 eating the pawpaw because pawpaw are really really hard to grow it's like it's like they call it hillbilly banana yeah so cool yeah so they say it's like a mango and avocado or something like like avocado and banana or something like that and so we have very few of them because they're hard to grow and you know i don't know they were saying that the deer might come and snatch them up so you like once they get ripened up you got to be careful but someone was telling me that the deer don't like them anyway not to to worry about it. And I'm like, all right. But I watch them. I see them walking towards that pawpaw tree. And then I open the window.
Starting point is 00:33:08 I'm like, hey. Hey, get out of here. He just goes and steals it anyway. So I'm curious. If you were in the apocalypse, right, what is one animal you would want to have by your side? A dog. A dog? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:33:21 Okay. Ian? Oh, that's a tough one. Yeah, I was going to get crazy and say a falcon, but I think a dog. Yeah. I think you want a basic- Falcon punch. A hunting dog.
Starting point is 00:33:33 Okay. Hunting dog. Myron? Yeah, you'd want a dog. Wait, wait, wait, wait. Like by my side? Yeah, by your side. Dude, a gorilla.
Starting point is 00:33:40 A gorilla. Would you be able to control him, though? If he's by my side. If you're saying he's my dude? Yeah, he's your dude. Oh, yeah. Oh, okay. be able to control him, though? If he's by my side. Like, if you're saying, like, he's my dude? Yeah, he's your dude. Oh, yeah. Oh, okay. If you can control him, then yeah.
Starting point is 00:33:49 Being homies with, like, just, like, a fully grown gorilla. Yeah, if he's, like, a Pokemon, I'm like, yo, do Psychic or something. He does it. Then I'm cool with that. But, like, you know, as a monkey. Like, you're really going to listen to me? Like, yo, Psychic, you'll be like, look at me, like. Wow, bro.
Starting point is 00:34:00 But if it was, like, reality, a dog, of course. I don't know. Why do you have a dog? An alligator or something? It's funny because in Florida, we have alligators, right? So my thing is, hey, you come close to me, go stick him, boy. Oh, yeah. Alligator.
Starting point is 00:34:16 Alligator? Crocodile. I don't know. Is it alligators or crocodiles? I can't tell the difference. Crocs are smaller. I have no idea. I feel like they're lazy.
Starting point is 00:34:22 I feel like they want to do nothing. They'd be like, you go attack me. Look at you. Right. But if you could have an animal with you that was like your animal that was cool with you and listened to you,
Starting point is 00:34:33 you'd want something big and powerful. I'd want a lion. Like a rhino or something. That is very true. Yeah, because like you could just be like chased down, maybe a lion.
Starting point is 00:34:40 What about tiger? Yeah. Or leopard. Or leopard. Dude, if you had a domesticated big cat, if you could like communicate with the creature. Okay. There you go.
Starting point is 00:34:50 That would be good. But yeah, the tiger will probably – you definitely need Pokemon badges for a tiger though. Yeah. A lot of Pokemon badges. You ain't going to make it with just a puter gym badge, bro. Got to go all the way. I'll look at you like Brock is trash. I'm not listening to you.
Starting point is 00:35:03 So yeah. Brock is trash. That dude not listening to you. So, yeah. Brock is trash. That dude had no game. Yeah. He was like, how many people who listen to the show watch Pokemon? All that dude would do is just like try and- He had rock Pokemon. No, but he would hit-
Starting point is 00:35:16 They're the worst. Misty. No, I don't mean like his Pokemon game. I think- The girls. Yeah, the girls. Oh, yeah. Bro, he was trying so hard, bro.
Starting point is 00:35:24 You know, Johnny Bravo? It was even worse. He was like, hey, you know donnie bravo it was even worse he was like hey oh you're so beautiful he's like get away from me yo his eyes were always closed yeah and he always had like three geo dudes and i'm like bro geo dude is trash why do you have geo he'll have a geo dude a golem and then gravatar oh and then another geo dude another gravatar i'm like bro you took it out with the first three. What makes you think the other three are going to win for you? Like, what?
Starting point is 00:35:50 Like, every Pokemon breed, like, destroys you guys. You know, except for Electric. But, you know, surfing Pikachu, done. Finesse. That was the dumb thing about that show. It was like he electrocuted the Geodude because it got water on it or something. How is that possible? The show broke so many rules. Yeah. Like, you know, like a Pikachu would beat the Geodude because it got water on it or something. How is that possible? The show broke so many rules.
Starting point is 00:36:06 Yeah. Like, you know, like a Pikachu would beat a Geodude. We know damn well that if, like, Geodude used, like, Earthquake or something, like, the Pikachu would be dead. Dude, anyone who's ever actually played the game is like, what's Pikachu going to do? Quick attack and tackle? Yeah. And then it's, like, doing one damage each turn, and you're like, I'm just dying. This is pointless.
Starting point is 00:36:20 Yeah. Why are we talking about Pokemon? I don't know. I don't know. You asked about the apocalypse. Apocalypse. Animals. Pokemon. Yeah, we found it. But I don't know. I don't know. You asked about the apocalypse. Apocalypse. Animals. Pokemon.
Starting point is 00:36:27 Yeah, we found it. But you could get a surfing Pikachu, though. Surfing Pikachu? Pokemon Stadium 64. Yeah. You had to do some stuff, and then you could teach your Pikachu surf. I think you're loving the Pokemon discussion right now. Well, so let's do this.
Starting point is 00:36:39 We're going to hard segue, because we had a conversation last night about critical race theory in schools. Okay. Have you guys followed any of that stuff? It's we had a whole tip on we had a whole tip on it was we were talking about a little bit yeah so this is like i don't know i guess the maybe esoteric is the right word it's kind of scary because more people should pay attention to this stuff but uh one of the things we talked about in the bonus segment which maybe we'll get into a bit more in the bonus segment for this one as it pertains to dating and stuff like this, is how,
Starting point is 00:37:07 like, the gender identity stuff is affecting future generations. People aren't having families anymore. We talked a bit about climate change. I mean, there's articles where it's like having a child
Starting point is 00:37:17 is one of the most destructive things you can do to the planet. So they're, yeah, yeah, yeah, you've not heard this, but I should pull it up. No, no, no, I've never heard this.
Starting point is 00:37:24 Let me see if I can pull it up So bad I mean No you said I could kind of think about it Because if you read the child The wrong way They could probably like
Starting point is 00:37:30 Oh yeah thanks Want to destroy the earth Yeah that's true Yeah There'll be a liability On not just you But like society in general Single mothers
Starting point is 00:37:37 Let's do this I know we talked about Pokemon for some reason But we'll just We'll pretend we're segwaying From the Florida climate change stuff Into the dating stuff with this story. It's from 2017. Having
Starting point is 00:37:47 children is one of the most destructive things you can do to the environment, say researchers. One fewer child per family can save average of 58.6 tons of CO2 equivalent emissions per year. So you've got stories like this. And then you've got, I think people like AOC,
Starting point is 00:38:04 you know, Kaiser kertez said i'm worried about having kids because of the environment you've got a lot of stories popping up where people saying they're not going to have kids for political reasons and so yeah yeah no joke man you look shocked by this yeah this is stuff that we talk about quite a bit they'll get to depopulation i i think depopulation isn't the right word no population management they want to slow the growth of population. Or stop it to a great degree or control it. And so it starts getting into scary conversations
Starting point is 00:38:30 about eugenics. Choosing who gets to have kids and stuff. But I don't know what they're doing in that regard other than you've got articles popping up. This one says researchers from Lund University found having one fewer child could save 58.6 tons. Eating meat, driving a car, and traveling by airplane made up the list of the most polluting things
Starting point is 00:38:46 that people can do on the planet. But having children was top, according to a new study. So, you know, I guess in terms of where we're headed, people don't have kids. We do have the lowest birth rates in the West in general. How old are you guys? I'm 31. 31?
Starting point is 00:39:02 I'm 28. Are you guys married with kids? No, hell no. Come on, bro. No way, man. Your wife would be cool. are you guys i'm 31 31 i'm 28 do you guys are you guys married with kids no hell no come on bro no way man your wife would be cool it's not really not yeah no but think about like um i don't know about your parents generation like how old you my parents were in their late 20s when they had multiple kids yeah same my mom my mom had me at like four years old yeah that explains a lot yeah yeah am i stuttering now but my grandparents man like they worked together for like 70 years man like back then
Starting point is 00:39:31 it was more like you know you find somebody you know you work through the problems and you figure it out now it is kind of like hey if you're not benefiting me like what's the point here so regarding kids it's kind of like okay what's the point having kids with somebody that you don't really trust so you know that goes into trust you know dating relationships so i just say having kids is a big deal because now it's two people together for a lifetime and most people they want to be for a reason or season but not for the whole time so what's the point of having kids continue the legacy i think it's more ego and i think it's more ego bro honestly yeah well ego i mean we're but we're designed to procreate,
Starting point is 00:40:06 man. Yeah. Yeah. But like, okay. If you're living life, living a good life. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:40:10 Why do you want kids? Well, it's easy for us to say that now, but when you get older, you're going to want kids, bro. You know, it's just that fortunately for us,
Starting point is 00:40:16 we can like push the clock back longer. Yeah. As men, you know what I'm saying? As a guy, like you can, you know, you can keep doing it until the day you die.
Starting point is 00:40:22 But like, you know, for women, they got a finite amount of time. Cause I hear it. I want a little mini me. I'm like, they got to find that amount of time. Because I hear it. I want a little mini me. I'm like, what do you want a mini me? Is it for your own personal gain or because you actually want a kid to enjoy life?
Starting point is 00:40:32 That's some questioning. Like, okay, is it about you, your ego, or is it about the kid itself? Everyone that has kids says it's the best thing they've ever done. So I believe the hype. But I'm not going to do it until I'm completely ready. Because in today's day and age, you've got to be very cautious about doing it. But that's why I think so many people are putting children on the back burner to pursue a career, making money. But were our parents ready?
Starting point is 00:40:53 That's a good question. Probably not. No, they were not. They were not. You're right. They were not. I just had kids. My mom was on vacation in Barbados when she had me.
Starting point is 00:41:00 Oh, my. I was a mistake. Hi, Mom. Yeah, but isn't everybody – that's why it's always funny when you watch on uh tv shows and they say like a kid was an accident or whatever i'm like come on dude like most kids are accidents yeah like nobody was like all right it's 7 p.m on the third uh it's time to have a baby some people do it yeah some people are like i want my kid to be born on christmas yeah you know we time it perfectly that's the worst day to be born takes my friends who had birthdays on
Starting point is 00:41:24 christmas they got like they're gonna get any they got one present you know it's like christmas Christmas. They time it perfectly. That's the worst day to be born, too, because my friends who had birthdays on Christmas, they got one present. It's like Christmas. It's Christmas and your birthday. Congratulations. Here's your present. Have a nice day. Everybody else got presents.
Starting point is 00:41:32 Exactly. You're right, Tim. You're never really ready for kids because you might prepare for it, but it might happen when it's time. Who knows? So what's the end result of this? I mean, we're talking about inflation. We're going to have, if we don't have more people, this weird you like are you guys familiar with like the economic system and the
Starting point is 00:41:48 federal reserve and all that stuff yeah yeah it's not going to sustain itself of course not more people yeah so then what it just china's gonna take over oh you said it oh no just put it bluntly i guess all right well it was it was a good run while it lasted. They got 1.4 billion people or whatever. No, but I honestly believe, man, at some point in time, we're going to have a massive shift where it's going to be under one control, which is like the government, the food, the money. And it's kind of like, okay, now that we control what's needed in life, you have to do what I say. And the majority of people are going to kind of follow a trend. And if you don't follow the trend, you're going to be exercised from, you know, the whole society,
Starting point is 00:42:28 you know, the current system. So I'm thinking, you know what? China, think about their current setup. They're hardly having any kids. It's all business and structure, technology, how to expand, how to build an empire. Versus now, America's kind of like, you know.
Starting point is 00:42:42 Well, they want people to have kids now, though. In China? Yeah. Yeah, they got rid of that rule. One kid per family used to be a male. But now the problem is that they've almost overcorrected to the point where, like, there's no women anymore. Like, there's too many men, too many bachelors. They buy North Korean slaves.
Starting point is 00:42:57 Oh, is that what they're doing? Yeah, yeah. We actually had a woman from North Korea on the show, and she was saying, like, that's what they do. Because there's no women, so they just buy them from North Korea. Oh, I didn't know that. Creepy stuff. Yeah, man, the world's a dirty place, you know. There's no women, so they just buy them from North Korea. Oh, I didn't know that. Creepy stuff. Yeah, man. The world's a dirty place.
Starting point is 00:43:07 There's nasty stuff going on. But my question is... China's like, we're going to win at any cost. We don't care. Do you actually want to have kids in this current climate right now? Do you really want to have kids? No. Yeah, but come on, man.
Starting point is 00:43:16 People had kids during World War II. People had kids during Vietnam. The world was messed up in a lot of ways. People still had kids. I think we're being inundated with propaganda like this where they're like, you can't have kids. The environment, you know, it's really, really bad. And it's like, I mean, that's true, I suppose, like humans fart and poop and eat and stuff like that. But people have kids.
Starting point is 00:43:39 I wouldn't say the natural environment is the problem. Like, you know, with, you know, obviously pollution that plays into it. But I think it's more like raising a kid in today's day and age and this contemporary marketplace like like it's it's going to be tough man like yeah like i mean family if the family unit is not as strong as it used to be you know nowadays you know you got single moms all over the place uh you know there's a whole bunch of things which we get to cover later but yeah i mean it's just it would be tough to raise children now i don't know what's the future going to look like if we're not having kids?
Starting point is 00:44:06 I mean, like we're not trying to take it over, man. I mean, if we don't have kids anymore and we're kind of like, you know, just, you know, doing our thing. It is selfish at the same time, but I understand why people do it. My thing is you don't have kids, though. It's kind of like we're gonna be stuck in a certain like mindset and uh you know i would say hysteria because now we're not bringing up new ideas and new people to think about certain things so we're stuck in a certain like you know box of okay it's how we think if you don't agree with it that's yeah you need to propagate the next
Starting point is 00:44:39 generation you know right now the birth rates are the lowest they've ever been you know and there's a bunch of reasons for that you know you Feminism, the cost of living has went up, inflation, all these other things. But people are millennials now. They're less likely to buy a home. They'd rather rent. So there's a bunch of things. I don't believe that rather rent thing, though. No?
Starting point is 00:44:58 That's absurd. Why would you rather rent? They can't buy. That's the problem. Especially with BlackRock yeah literally like our generation
Starting point is 00:45:07 they want to be entrepreneurs and invest but they can't they're working at Starbucks they're working at how are you going to invest without money so it's kind of tough
Starting point is 00:45:15 I will say I mean but here's the thing man I'm like thinking guys my age group very few of my friends actually own a home they rent
Starting point is 00:45:23 that's true that's what I'm saying. Guys like in our age group, I guess would be considered millennials, they're less likely to buy a home. But yeah, I agree that credit is a part of it. And then also they're pushing back because I've always said it.
Starting point is 00:45:35 There's really no need to buy a home unless you're going to have kids because then you're tied down to that area. And the only reason you would want to be tied down to a geographic area is for a good school. Exactly. So I wouldn't, if you're a single guy or even if you're in a to that area and the only reason you would want to be tied down to a geographic area is for a good school exactly so i wouldn't you know if you're a single guy or you're not or even if you're in a relationship with a woman you know together a monogamous relationship like unless you're gonna have kids i wouldn't buy a home because i think it's like not a it's kind of throwing money at you you lose your leverage to be able to maneuver around and do what you
Starting point is 00:45:59 want to do because you're now you're confined to one geographic area on a house that's not true no just go to a rental management company. And then you buy – let's say you buy a house. Okay. And you live there for one year like you're going to do a lease. Then you decide, I don't want to live here anymore. I don't want to deal with this. There's probably hundreds or thousands of rental management companies.
Starting point is 00:46:18 Oh, yeah. If you rent it out and you do – that's good. But what you're going to do is think about it. Yeah, but most people are going to keep the house. That's what'm saying like a lot of people but you still own it so you own it so what happens is you buy a house you own it you're paying less per month to live there and then when you decide to leave and go somewhere else you call a rental management company you sign a paper you walk away and you don't think twice you don't even you don't even think about the house anymore it's yours and then all of a sudden every few months some money appears in
Starting point is 00:46:44 your bank account yeah if it's if it's like for that where you're going to rent it back out that's great but a lot of people you know they're not i would say they're going to buy the house and like live in it be like i have a house you know what i'm saying like like the american dream you know the white picket fence a home in a good school district i can send my kids to school you know that's why i why a lot of people buy a home in a nice areas for from ego too as well they're like oh this is my house this where I have things. This is where I have my parties. So when they leave, it's like, okay,
Starting point is 00:47:07 I'm leaving everything behind. But I get what you're saying. You can do that as an option. Yeah. But majority of people that I've seen in real estate community that buy a house and live in it, they just dip.
Starting point is 00:47:16 Yeah. I don't think there's good schools anymore though, to be honest. That might be an issue too. I would say we're getting there. We're like, pretty soon you're going to just have to send your kids to private school or homeschool them we're gonna get there to that point very soon oh we're there now dude yeah you think so like we had we had this uh um
Starting point is 00:47:32 azra numani on the other day and she's working with a bunch of parents targeting critical race theory and critical theory in schools the stuff they're teaching kids man is just insane like the books that she brought mind Mind-blowingly insane. Like, what do you think, kids? Indoctrination on steroids? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Worse than college campuses? Yes.
Starting point is 00:47:49 Yes. It was like the same. But they're giving it to first graders. No, like, you imagine like a worksheet for a third grader is going to be like, you know, a train leaves Cincinnati going 50 miles an hour
Starting point is 00:47:58 and then a train leaves Chicago going 70 miles an hour. Like, you know, math problems like that. We're looking at this workbook and it's like, what makes you uncomfortable in your black skin? What? Like, you know, math problems like that. We're looking at this workbook and it's like, what makes you uncomfortable in your black skin?
Starting point is 00:48:07 What? Like asking a child that and then having them write down. But the thing is, it's a loaded question. There was like, one of the questions, no joke,
Starting point is 00:48:15 was something like, why do you think black people are uncomfortable in their skin? That was like one of the questions. Shaggy? And I was like, but you see how the question's loaded? Like it's asserting it as true. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And so
Starting point is 00:48:27 the kid has to believe that's true. Asking you why you think it's true. Right, right. Asserting it is true. And there was one that was like, how can you be a better, what did it say? Gender, race, gender, race, or racial gender. It's just it's just psychobabble. Oh, dude. If that's the case, then yeah.
Starting point is 00:48:44 Obviously, I went to school in the 90s, right? So back then, you were still coloring in circles and stuff like, oh, don't mess outside the line and playing tic-tac-toe and maybe getting in some fights in the schoolyard, whatever it is. But now, if that stuff is going on, that's a clown world, bro. Yeah. Yeah. I did not realize that the school system has changed that much. That's why I asked the question. Do we really want to have kids in this current climate?
Starting point is 00:49:05 I mean, honestly, homeschool is the only way I would actually do it. That's why I asked the question. Do we really want to have kids in this current climate? I mean, honestly, homeschool is the only way I would actually do it. That's the only way I would do it, honestly. Homeschool, man. For sure. But the negative to that
Starting point is 00:49:12 is that you kind of want them to be around other kids too. Yeah. I think one of the beauties of sending your kids to public school is they build a friend group. They learn how to interact
Starting point is 00:49:20 with other people. They learn what's socially acceptable, what isn't. I think bullying is good, personally. I grew up, I got bullied as a kid, and it made me a better man. If you were a weirdo or whatever, you'd get picked on for it, but then you would know, man, maybe I shouldn't act like this or whatever. Some people make some, some people break some.
Starting point is 00:49:41 But it lets you know. Just bring your kids to the skate park. You could do that, too. And there's a bunch of other kids we'll get them involved in sports yeah get them involved in sports bring them out in to public spaces and community events playing instruments these the problem with these schools is you don't actually know what they're teaching your kids and you can't just give that responsibility to strangers yeah and that was that was a mistake people you know parents made for a long time because even you know even outside of the indoctrination of weird culty ideologies
Starting point is 00:50:05 and racist garbage. College campuses are awful right now. Yeah, dude, we hear stories about a dad who's like, I sent my 18-year-old daughter to college, she came back hating me, her head was shaved, she was wearing weird clothes, and her face was all pierced up.
Starting point is 00:50:18 You're toxically masculine, dad. Yeah, it's crazy, man. It's a clown world. But yeah, with kids, I mean, if it's like that. Let's talk about the other aspect of this. Yeah, sure. The future and everything is obviously the dating stuff, which you guys get into a lot. But I got a theory for you guys.
Starting point is 00:50:34 I'm learning, though. I ain't having no kids. All right, cool. So I'm sure you guys have talked about something related to this because you do talk about date you do talk about dating more than we do so uh i think dating apps and and dating websites are one of the reasons why people aren't having kids it's probably a really big reason and one and there was also a study that came out that found something like a third of people under the a third of men under 29 are virgins so the reason i think for it is back in the day kids are in college right yeah 18 year olds go to college yep these young 18 year women, they only know the people in their college.
Starting point is 00:51:08 So probably up to 22, maybe 24, maybe an older college professor. Ooh, that was taboo. But for the most part, they're going to parties with people similar in age to them. Now, with dating apps, they just open up an app and there's a 35-year-old guy who's got a car, who's got his own apartment, and she swipes right on him. He's like, oh, he's got a convertible. Then she sees a 20-year-old guy who's at her college, and she swipes right on him he's like oh he's got he's got a convertible then she sees a 20 year old guy who's at her college and she swipes right on him she thinks he's attractive she gets two messages the 20 year old college student guy says you want to come hang out at my dorm with me and my friends and watch netflix the 35 year old guy says you want to hop in my convertible convertible we'll go drive to my lake house and and chill out
Starting point is 00:51:41 in the infinity pool which one's she gonna pick yeah she's the older guy. I mean, we could break this down. We have theories on exactly why this is going down the way it is, but sorry. No, no, that's it. Yeah, yeah. So what do you think? You want to take it first? BBD. You go first.
Starting point is 00:51:56 Okay, you first. No, you go first. I won. No, let me see you go first. No, no, no. I won. So you go first. Okay, man.
Starting point is 00:52:02 You had paper. I like that role. Basically, right? You're right because right now we're in a social media age where you can see what wasn't normally in front of you before. So what's happening is like you said earlier, girls are on platforms like Instagram. They're on Facebook. They're also on TikTok. And you're seeing these very, I would say, affluent guys with a lifestyle that they want to be a part of versus the guy at college is kind of like okay let's go party in dorms let's get lit but it's kind of like what she did already
Starting point is 00:52:28 so now she's opened up the whole new world and she might be in idaho or even texas whatever and a guy says hey i'm in la i'm in miami come out to see me and let's get lit and that's a whole new world to her and she's excited so i would say girls like lifestyle no more than anything else and now they can actually see it through social media and they want to be a part of it however most guys that are young are in school they don't have that lifestyle they don't have that abundance so i just hey you know what let's go here they're everywhere because obviously they're still in school they don't have a lot of money saved up the point being here is that like girls don't have huge access to people that they never had before and the problem is that like there's no like buffer for guys that are like
Starting point is 00:53:04 up and coming. So they choose the bigger, better deal, BBD. There was some posts from – do you guys know Mike Cernovich? Yes. He was posting about how at the highest level of dating, the most attractive men, it's like guys on Instagram with successful accounts and they're super rich and they're super desirable. And what they do is they just see an Instagram account for an attractive woman and then just DM her and be like, hey, yo, we got reservation at this fancy restaurant.
Starting point is 00:53:30 You want an invite? And they're like, yeah. And then they're hanging out with rich, successful, attractive dudes. Whereas dating apps, that's just for mediocre people. That's what he was saying. Who's wasting their time on that? It's funny because we have an Instagram course because we believe Instagram is the number one dating platform in the world. And we say all the time, hey, you build up a good Instagram page, that's your new resume.
Starting point is 00:53:51 So now they can see your lifestyle and who you really are. And before, you just had dating apps or whatever, and it's like some pictures, maybe a bio, and that's it. Now they can see your stories, your highlights, everything in between. So we teach guys, hey, you know what? Instead of relying on dating apps, everything but Instagram now you have leverage return it turns like you can go on the explore page you can find girls there you can hit them up randomly you can go like let's say you wanna go to Columbia right I could put a hashtag Columbia in the search bar from there I could find
Starting point is 00:54:16 a list of girls that tagged that same location I say you know what I'm gonna Columbia two weeks let's go get some drinks and party there you go and you got the 20 people or the 2010 I respond respond or that 10 you might see five but before you can get there you got girls lined up for you off rip that's powerful because social media and scale so i'm just saying for guys nowadays if you want to have the most options possible get on instagram or some platform like that the social media driven that has a large base you can go anywhere in the world you can geolocation like i said columbia brazil wherever you want to go and you can find what you want that but that being said
Starting point is 00:54:49 nowadays you don't even have a good profile you're kind of losing out on a lot of access to girls i would say yeah so um so i'll break this down from a to z let's go so why why this is happening because what you mentioned is basically like a byproduct of the current dating marketplace we have now which is basically a globalized sexual marketplace just like the world is globalized um the dating marketplace has become globalized as well and what's happened is to understand this well we got to know first right for the guys out there that might not be familiar with us we talk about something called hypergamy right which is like women dating up wanting a man that's uh you know better than them in different facets of life you know typically it's you know they want the provisioning and security on one end,
Starting point is 00:55:26 but they also want an attractive guy that's physically attractive as well from a height standpoint, jawline, physique, etc. So, I shout out to Ronald Tomasi. He talks about this in his book, The Rational Male, The Two Sides of Hypergamy. So, in today's day and age with the globalized marketplace, girls have more options than ever before. So, if a girl's on a dating app,
Starting point is 00:55:43 women have all the leverage on dating apps because almost 80% of the users on dating apps are men. So it's applying to men. There's far more men, far fewer women, so the women can be selective. So even girls that aren't necessarily as attractive have higher standards now because they have the ability to do so. And not only that, they also have Instagram. Like Fresh was saying, Instagram is really the number one dating app in the world. And if a girl has a moderately attractive profile, she's going to get DMs and messages from all types of guys that you mentioned before. Guys with blue check marks, guys that are athletes, guys that are celebrities, whatever it is. They're hosting parties.
Starting point is 00:56:16 And what's happened is with the way the world is now, a woman that was in, let's say, Idaho. We always like to use the state Idaho, right? In the middle of nowhere nowhere she's attractive in her local area the guys that would have been potential good mates those guys are now invisible to her because she's getting hit up by higher status men in la in miami in uh vegas whatever and i'll travel to that guy you know it's going to be way more fun i'll go hang out with him he has money he has resources he has a cool lifestyle you know we always say women trap with their with their thirst trap with always say women thirst trap
Starting point is 00:56:45 with their bodies, men thirst trap with their lifestyle. And that's what Instagram allows people to do. So women, since women date up and they want the bigger, better deal, they're not going to settle on a guy that's just good enough if they can get something better. So what's happened is since women have an abundance of options, they just pick at the top. And if you go through any attractive woman's Instagram, you're going to see a whole bunch of blue checks, celebs, whatever it is is and these are average women getting this type of attention so what happens the average guy gets kind of left out on the dust and this is why so many men uh in the age group that you're saying from like 18 to 29 are virgins and we actually
Starting point is 00:57:15 talk about on our podcast that if you were to take um virgins in 2021 i would be willing to bet a majority of them would be men and not women and women are far more there is an increase in virgin women but it's substantially less the increase in men under the age of 29 who are virgins is really it skyrocketed to like a third yeah it was like 20 some percent
Starting point is 00:57:37 now it's 30 percent or something like that no it was way bigger than that it was like in the teens and then just doubled and then for women it wasn't even that big of a jump but it did go up. Yeah, and we say all the time, you know, some people disagree or whatever, but from what we're seeing,
Starting point is 00:57:51 women typically want the top 10 to 20% of men and they're getting, those are the guys that are having relations with most of the women. And it's actually very funny because on our podcast, one of the questions we like to ask just to kind of get a gauge of the room,
Starting point is 00:58:04 the temperature, hey ladies, what percentage of men do you think are actually active? To keep YouTube friendly. And they're always like, oh, 70%, 80%, 90%, 100%. They're all banging. And we're like, no. Only like maybe 10% to 20% of men are having all the girls. And when we say that, they're like shocked.
Starting point is 00:58:20 Like, what? And it just goes to show, I tell guys all the time, women don't live in the same reality that we do a lot of the times. They kind of have dating on easy mode and they're not used – they don't even see a lot of guys. A lot of men are invisible to them because if they don't meet a certain metric and they're social media, online dating, whatever, it's created this illusion of abundance almost to a fault. So that's what's kind of been going on. There was another study where they asked men and women to rate attractiveness of women to men, men to women. I saw that Tinder study.
Starting point is 00:58:49 Yeah. Was it the one where they found that men rate women on an even scale where it's like the ugly women are ugly and the average women are average and the hot women are hot? But women rate men on an extremely imbalanced scale where 80% of men are unattractive and only the hottest men are attractive. Absolutely. Like 88%. It's either OkCupid or Tinder that they pulled that from. But yeah, and the reason why is because women are far more selective on online dating apps
Starting point is 00:59:13 because they have the leverage. There's far more men and far less women. And on top of that, the apps, the only person that really, the person that loses the most with online dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, et cetera, is really the men. Because for the guy, for you to be able to get a quarter of the access that women have, you have to
Starting point is 00:59:29 pay for some kind of subscription service to be able to swipe more, to be able to run the numbers because anyone that's good with women will tell you it's a numbers game. Top guys in the world close maybe 10% of their leads, whether you're meeting or through online dating, cold approach during the day, cold approach during night, Instagram night instagram whatever it is a guy that's top tier closes 10 and when i say that women think i'm speaking chinese it's like no it's actually very difficult for men and then on an online dating app where they have all the leverage it's even tougher so we always tell guys you need a good instagram account as well to augment your online dating profile because on a balance of probabilities if she swipes on you she's still going to think you're corny to some degree or not
Starting point is 01:00:03 really finding that attractive so you have to augment your entire, how do I say this? It's like a sales page. Yeah. You want a rude awakening? Go to your friend's, your girlfriend's Instagram DMs or a friend of a friend's DMs. Look at her DMs. You're going to see blue check marks. You're going to see athletes, everything in between.
Starting point is 01:00:21 And go to every girl's DMs. You're going to see the same thing. There's no big scale here or big change. They're all being hit up by these celebrities and it's kind of like, okay, how do you compete with that? You can't. No matter what you do, you can't.
Starting point is 01:00:32 So all you can do is level up to the best you can, fitness, mindset, lifestyle, be the best person you can be and at that point, leverage social media. You guys ever watch King of the Hill? Yes. You ever see that episode where Hank asks – he's like – he asks Boomhauer to teach Bobby how to pitch a woo. You know this one?
Starting point is 01:00:51 No, I have not seen this episode. So he's like, Boomhauer is like good with the ladies. Like, Boomhauer, will you teach Bobby how to – Even though no one understands him. And Boomhauer is like, I got you, Hank. I'll teach Bobby. So he takes Bobby to the shoe store. And then he's like, all right, Bobby, I'm going to teach you how to pick up women.
Starting point is 01:01:05 And then Boomhauer walks up to a woman and goes, hey, girl, what's going on here? Give me that number. I'll hit you up sometime. And then she's like, she slaps him. And then he walks up to another woman. He goes, hey, damn, girl, looking pretty good. You're going to give me that number. I'll hit you up sometime.
Starting point is 01:01:15 And then she slaps him. And then he keeps doing it. And then he finally gets a number. And he walks up to Bobby. He's like, look at that. Bobby got a phone number right there. And then Bobby's like, that's the secret, Mr. Boomhauer. You just ask every woman.
Starting point is 01:01:27 And he goes, shh, come on, that's the secret. Shh. But that was it. Boomhauer just asked every single woman until he finally got a number. People think I'm crazy. So in Miami, right, when I first moved there back in 2018, I used to do something. It's called night game, right? But like when you go out at night to the clubs, bars, whatever it is to meet girls, right?
Starting point is 01:01:44 I used to go one for 40, man. And people think, like, what? You're going to talk to 40 girls to find one that, like, right? But when you go out at night to the clubs, bars, whatever it is to meet girls, right? I used to go one for $40, man. And people think like, what? You're going to talk to 40 girls to find one that wanted to leave with you? I was like, yeah, bro. It's tough because when you go out at night, you're playing on ultra hard mode. You know what I mean? Because the music is loud. Bouncers are trying to CB you.
Starting point is 01:02:00 I'll keep you too friendly. You got the friends that are trying to CB you. You got to pay for drinks. There's a bunch of things that distract and can hurt you in that kind of arena. But I enjoyed it. It was fun. It was when I first moved to Miami in 2018. But it takes a lot of work because you got to cold approach a bunch of girls, figure out which ones want you, which ones don't.
Starting point is 01:02:16 And then the biggest thing is a lot of girls just like attention. A lot of women like to sit there and talk with you and get your non-sexual attention. So you got to be able to kick those girls to the curb immediately. Let's get the feminists all angry right now. Oh, yeah. Let's do it. Let's go. The one story that I always bring up that always triggers this wave.
Starting point is 01:02:31 I'll see my name trending after I talk about it. I'm like, okay, whatever. I don't care. As women start making more money, men who make as much money as them are unattractive. And so we have a study. Lack of economically attractive men to blame for decline in marriage rates, study suggests. This is a big story in 2019.
Starting point is 01:02:51 And there was another story from the New York Post talking about women in their 30s struggle to find men who make as much money as them. And the funny thing about it, this story about women not being able to find men who make as much money as them, it's like the initial assumption was, where are all the good men? Why is it so hard for a woman in her 30s who makes $50,000 a year to find a man who's equal to her? And the issue is they seem to think these men don't exist. That's not the case. It's that if you're a 35-year-old woman who makes $50,000 a year
Starting point is 01:03:21 and you're like a manager at a business of some sort, a man who's 35 years old, who's a manager who makes 50K is not trying to date you. He's trying to date a 22 year old. I'm not saying that's a good thing. I'm not, I'm not passing judgment or criticizing women. I'm saying quite literally dudes want to date young women. And it's like we were mentioning just a moment ago in the previous segment about how, you know, these guys who have careers and have cars and have apartments are on dating apps or instagram and they can hit up this college student or a chick in idaho who's like you know now she's she's accessed she has access to every man so this this 35 year old guy is not trying to hook up for the most part or at least i should say as a tendency so then you
Starting point is 01:04:00 end up with women upset they can't find economically attractive men and then you end up with women upset they can't find economically attractive men. And then you end up with the study talking about divorces. Yep. That when men don't make more money than the women, the women don't want to be in the relationship anymore. Yeah. And this is an uncomfortable reality for women. And the thing is, is that women got to understand that men have standards too. It's just that when, yeah, I know, shocking, right? Men have standards too it's just that when yeah i know it's shocking right because like the thing is this if woman says i want a man that makes a certain amount of money
Starting point is 01:04:29 hundred thousand dollars a year to sense to be what most women want six feet tall attractive whatever confidence that's okay that's considered preferences but if a man says i want a woman that's young attractive and not annoying or crass that's considered discrimination and that's the problem and a lot of women don't understand this because if a man speaks his mind of what he really and not annoying or crass, that's considered discrimination. And that's the problem. And a lot of women don't understand this because if a man speaks his mind of what he really likes in women, he can get canceled, be called a misogynist, whatever it is. So very few men tell the truth about what they're attracted to in women. And the reality, ladies, I'll tell you, the more money you make and the older you get, the less negotiating power you have in the relationship world. Because
Starting point is 01:05:04 the things that make a woman attractive are not the same things that make a man attractive. Women think a lot of the times tend to base their value on masculine traits, how much they earn, their career, et cetera. That is asinine. That's like me saying, hey, listen, I look really good in some heels. I can walk in a dress. And as a matter of fact, I'm really feminine. Every girl would be repulsive. I told her, she's like, oh, as a matter of fact, I'm really feminine. Every girl would be
Starting point is 01:05:25 repulsive. I told her, she's like, Oh no, that's, that's not what I'm into. That's exactly how men feel. When a woman says I'm a career woman, I'm strong and independent. It's just that men rarely voice this because to say that you're immediately going to be hit with some kind of shame language. So most guys don't voice what they really want and women, and they just act on it instead. What happens? Older women get left in the dust and the men that they actually want to make money, have status, etc., they go for younger, more attractive girls
Starting point is 01:05:51 because men are attracted to youth and beauty no matter what society wants to say. Reality does not adhere to social constructs. I have to say this all the time to angry feminists. Reality does not adhere to social constructs. Just because you have a degree and you make money, that's cool. Nothing wrong with that. But understand
Starting point is 01:06:06 it's not going to increase your sexiness by having a career. And here's what we hear a lot of. There's always some defense. Like, imagine if a dude, you mentioned looking good in heels or whatever. I think, imagine if a dude said, my goal is to be a stay-at-home dad
Starting point is 01:06:22 and raise kids. You know, I don't want to be in the workplace. I want to get married and have kids at a young age. That's not attractive. I mean, there are certainly women who find that attractive, of course. There's no absolutes. There's a lot of different people with different preferences. But it's a tendency.
Starting point is 01:06:36 You say something like that, oh, this is what triggers the feminists. This is why there's tweet about it. Because guys want to go off on adventures. Guys want to go hunting. Guys want to accomplish that goal. They don't want to be stuck at home. They want to go off on adventures guys want to go hunting guys want to accomplish that goal they don't want to be stuck at home they want to be you know it's different obviously there are guys that do they're guys that wish they could spend more time with their kids and there are people who are upset they spend too much time in the office but there are tendencies so if you're if you're uh put it this way the wins, right? You know why the house always wins at a casino? Because the odds for, say, roulette or for craps is 51% in the house's favor, which means over a long enough period of time, you will lose.
Starting point is 01:07:15 You can maybe go in, throw that dice at one time, get lucky, and win the jackpot, but that's the exception, not the rule. When it comes to dating, even if it's just 51% of men who don't like this and 51% of women who don't like that, that's a pressure where you in the dating marketplace will keep experiencing this. And you'll say, why is it so hard for me to find a guy who just wants to be a stay-at-home dad? Or a guy who says, why is it so hard to find a woman who just wants to be the CEO of a company to be my wife? I got a perfect segue for that. You just said something magical, which I have to say on the podcast. As you guys know, on our show, we bring ladies into the show, a lot of career women, a lot of women that are entrepreneurs. And they ask us, how do I land a guy like this? Or they just, you know, they toss me to the side, whatever. The problem is that a lot of women don't understand that concept you just said. A lot of women operate on possibilities instead of probabilities.
Starting point is 01:08:01 And the reality is the probability is when you have a lot is when you make money, you're successful, you're a strong, independent woman, and you're in your 30s, the probability that you're going to find an attractive man that makes as much money as you, if not more, is confident, attractive, all these traits that women typically want in men, the probability is low. But the problem is this. I'm going to say it. A lot of women live in a Disney fairy tale, okay? Women are told life is all good, sugar and spice. And on top of that, privilege is invisible to those that have it. If a woman was attractive in her 20s and late teens and was getting attention from men,
Starting point is 01:08:34 she's going to continue to think, I will continue to get the same attention and validation from men into my 30s. But they don't realize until they're in their 30s and they're not necessarily as attractive. They can't compete on what men actually want, youth and beauty, then that's when the reality hits them and they operate on possibilities. Well, you know what? It's still possible for me to get my prince charming, my prince, but they don't realize that that possibility is very slim. And men, fortunately for us, we live in a fact-based reality when it comes to dating. Men know deep down you must create. If you don't create, you're not going to procreate period but women you know they don't realize it until later on that i work
Starting point is 01:09:09 so hard for my career and i can't get a guy but no you're using masculine traits and now you've pretty much pissed away your ability to have that negotiating power to get a high status guy have you ever seen the uh the marketplace value study i think it was okay cupid that did this and i think they deleted a lot of these because it was offensive to the woke. But what it shows is that women start off, young women have the maximum possible societal value
Starting point is 01:09:33 in terms of what humans are willing to protect and defend. Young women start off at 100. That's the line. Young men, guess where they start? Zero. Below zero. It's just the bottom. On a scale of zero to 100, men are at 100. That's the line. Young men, guess where they start? Zero. Below zero. Well, it's just the bottom. It's like on a scale of zero to 100, men are at zero. Young men are at zero. Why? Well, they're younger, so they're not as attractive. They're not typically masculine
Starting point is 01:09:56 and they're not ripped. They're not chiseled. They don't have any money. They don't have any status. They've earned nothing. They're starting from the bottom. Why would anyone want that? Rarely. Young women, however, and this is mostly due to biology, whether anyone wants to believe it or not, this is what the studies show. And I'm not saying it's a good thing. I'm just saying men are attracted to young women for their ability to procreate. They're attractive. They want to have kids. They want to have families. What happens is over time, men start to become more valuable by earning status, making money, collecting resources. And women start to become less societally valuable.
Starting point is 01:10:31 Again, I'm not saying it's a good thing. Because they're getting older and their ability to have kids is dwindling and diminishing. Eventually, there's a nexus point. There's like a point at which men – I think it's around 30. Yes. Where men and women – They start to intersect. They even out. And then what happens is women go down and men start going up so men who
Starting point is 01:10:49 are in i think it might have been cernovich was saying this could be wrong like yeah rolo tomasi has a graph on it where that shows this axis which is like the women's prime is like 18 to 24 right and then a man is typically in their 30s you know like to 50 or something. Yeah, 35 to 50. The thing is that a woman's value, it shines the hardest and brightest, but it's for a smaller period of time. For men, if they do the work, of course. If you're 35 years old and you're broke, it don't matter. But if you do the work, you can shine for a longer period of time. And I want to stress too, this is not a personal opinion of value. This is a number based on the study i'm referring to looked at messages
Starting point is 01:11:25 who was getting hit up on dating on dating websites and it wasn't so much as to say like i think they outlined this they're saying we're not saying people are more or less valuable as human beings we're saying that in the dating world women get messages at a declining rate from 24 and then onward men get an increasing increasing amount of message as time goes on. But there was also another funny metric in that where they found that women tend to message men equal to their age. Men always message 22-year-olds. Yeah. And I know that study you're talking about.
Starting point is 01:11:59 Universally, between men between the ages of 18 all the way to 60 almost always prefer women between the ages of 18 to 24 you know it's like it's and 22 was like the number yeah that was like the age of the man is going up and the woman is just at 22 the whole time yeah we had a 35 year old woman on the show right late night show and she was saying like yo i wish someone told me these things when i was younger because she was going out to the club and it's like she's seeing a 22 year old getting picked up by guys you know getting hollered at she's like wow i'm not getting the same attention and it's kind of like she understood if she had choose that time back you know back then which is like in her 20s properly she could probably lock down a man that she cared about her now it's kind of like okay i messed up those years of my life i'm 35
Starting point is 01:12:39 years old what do i have left to give and your youth isn't there and guys want youth i think i think the problem is that like girls don't really know what men really want and men i would say men kind of know what women want but it's kind of like they are putting themselves in a box saying hey you know what i can have fun in my 20s get lit travel men can afford to try to figure it out women can't that's the difference like like hit the wall like like men like you could take 10 to 15 years to figure it out yeah and come into your prime later on women don't get that benefit you know like and the thing is is that like i said they like to measure their value in masculine standards which is asinine because that's like
Starting point is 01:13:13 me saying i can fit just like i said earlier if i could wear heels and walk in a dress you should like me too and that's how women sound when they say i have a career yeah they based off masculine traits but you know attractiveness matters but i think you think what you're saying about masculine traits is what I think triggers feminists so severely. Definitely, yeah. The reason why – this is the one video where it's like all of a sudden I see all these feminists tweeting about me is because they were told their whole lives, you need to get a career. You need to be the CEO. You need to break the glass ceiling. And so they're like, okay, that's what I got to do.
Starting point is 01:13:42 Then they hit their – they're in their 30s and they are in that senior level position or the vp position and they're like i did it now how are my prospects for the things i want and guys are like oh i respect you but i don't want to have a family with you exactly and that must be like getting smacked in the face with with a bag of bricks see if you can find men who do for sure but as you already stated like what ends up happening is women then have to start lowering their standards to find a man who's going to be and they will not do it we found one from the show women will never submit they'd rather die alone with dogs and cats than submit to a guy that they don't want and here's the scary part they've been lied to like you said their whole life so now is that okay they're awakened to what's the truth and it's like
Starting point is 01:14:21 i don't i'm fighting it because i don't I don't want to submit But here's the problem though You have to Because that's your only way out now Because you waited too long To close that gap So I'm just saying To women out there Like if you hear this right now
Starting point is 01:14:33 You're young Take it for what it is Because if you don't You wait too long To find this man To settle down with In your 30s It's kind of like
Starting point is 01:14:40 Okay Why is he going to choose you Over the 22 year old Why? And I'll say this too For the women out there That want to chase a career and everything. I'm not saying don't chase a career and don't make money. Just know the consequences of that are you're going to have a smaller pool of suitable candidates that meet your requirements.
Starting point is 01:14:56 And on top of that, it's not going to increase your sexual market value. Your money does not come into that like it does for a man. So chase your career, but you should also be working on trying to find a guy as well. And the thing is that women prioritize chasing your career and they don't actually prioritize like being a good girlfriend or being a good wife or being a good partner for a man. And they're going to put their career over that. And the thing is, is that you have the most negotiating power and ability to lock down a high status man that you want when you're young and attractive, not later on.
Starting point is 01:15:26 They're not trying to be what men want. They're trying to be what society has told them to be. And so you can keep saying social construct over and over and over again. But the reality is, guys, you look at OkCupid's data and they behave a certain way. By all means, feminists, you're allowed to insult those men. When I did the segment, they were like, you know, Tim Pool is basically saying that men are losers who are immature and i'm like fine i don't care i'm not saying it's wrong i'm saying if that's what you believe you're allowed to believe that you're allowed to be upset that men don't want to date you just recognize that's what the data shows
Starting point is 01:15:56 and i'm not saying it's a good thing but that's literally the studies come out from several different outlets saying guys want 22 year olds yeah they don't care about career in fact salary is bad high paying women men don't like about career. In fact, salary is bad. High-paying women, men don't like it for whatever reason. And women, this is what we find in the study. When a woman makes six figures, she won't want to stay in a relationship with a man who's making the same amount or less than her. I'm not saying it's all women,
Starting point is 01:16:18 and I'm not saying it's a good thing. That's just what the studies come out they show. I'll take it a step further. Career women, the least happy demographic of female, I think it was a study from 2011 yeah of human being actually 42 year old woman unmarried no children in a career yep that is the least happy demographic of human being and i've said this before on the podcast you guys could say it's controversial or not i say women don't derive this derive the same pleasure and uh fulfillment from careers and earning money that
Starting point is 01:16:41 men do men are built to work hours and go through adversity and earn and bring it home to a family. Women are not. And that's why, just like you said before, the reason why so many women divorce a man if they make more money than them or whatever is because when you're the breadwinner, it inadvertently puts you in a leadership position
Starting point is 01:16:59 within the relationship. And I've said on the podcast before, women are incapable of leading men within the confinements of a relationship. And as a matter of fact, if you put her in that leadership role, she's going to lead you all right to the end of the relationship because women are not built to lead or provision long term for men, period. Let's get more offensive to the feminists. Let's do it. We got this story.
Starting point is 01:17:18 This is from Daily Mail. Women reveal how their appearances have dramatically changed since they met their partners, saying comfort eating, birth control, and babies have completely altered their bodies. This is, in many ways, the purpose of marriage. Young women and young men getting together and having a contract to each other under God till death do us part. Because back in the day, it's a problem if a dude continuously becomes more valuable and more attractive and the woman doesn't. And then you end up with a bunch of angry women and you end up with a bunch of
Starting point is 01:17:50 philandering men or womanizing men to have structure. They said, okay, we'll do marriage. Well, nowadays, divorce. Marriage is meaningless. There was a meme where it was like, it was a guy on his knee with a ring and he says, will you enter into a government contract with me that you're allowed to break at any time? And if you do, you get half my stuff. And she says, yes, yes, a million times. Yes. It's like, if that's the, that's the mentality that we have this today, there's, there's, there's no guarantee in marriage. Why would anyone do it back in the day? If you tried to get divorced, the judge would be like, I sentenced you to marriage counseling. Like you can't, you've got to figure it out. And you guys have a mutual agreement with each other. You've got a family, you're going to raise it. And it made sense.
Starting point is 01:18:29 So today, I think this is a good example of why there was marriage. You got images of these women. We're just going to show, I mean, these are posts they show themselves. Being a size six, meeting my BF. And here's her two years later as a 12 to 14 due to contraception and eating bad food the first few months after meeting him. So now she's getting overweight. Here's one where she's like, here's me first, me, my BF. And now here's her now. To be fair, this one, she's actively pregnant.
Starting point is 01:18:58 So I don't think that's actually fair to criticize her. Here's one where she's like, here's how I look. I'm fat. There are a ton of women celebrities or otherwise who have kids and then go work out and get fit get back in shape because they're they're trying to look good and there are a lot of women that look really really good so as they get married that's the trope they let they let themselves go that's why is it that tv shows they have that trope of letting themselves go so i'll say this right
Starting point is 01:19:25 think about this you play a game right and let's say you're playing level one okay you're doing whatever you need to do to make level two at the last stage level 10 is a boss right at the boss fight you pull all the stops you upgrade your weapons you finally use your potions exactly exactly so you have the last legendary weapon. You slay the boss. Now you're finished the game. You're not putting any more effort into the game because you already won the game. Same thing with relationships with these women. They find a guy that they can lock down and take care of them.
Starting point is 01:19:54 And they put all the effort into it at the beginning to get that guy. Now that they got a guy, it's like, okay, if I leave, I get to have his stuff and I'll be good. So I can do whatever I feel like because now he's under my frame so i feel like marriage itself church and store um definitely has a place for women to strive but for men it's a very detrimental thing to do because you can and and i i want to say this right so women have the advantage because they can leave anytime and get what they want but the guy if he leaves he's gonna lose so i'm just saying in that situation they have all the leverage and just them just being there uh they can win and do whatever they feel like because
Starting point is 01:20:33 now they leave like i said before they get everything and that's it i think that prenuptial agreements should be automatic and that you should have to file to do away with it the idea that there is no prenup going into it and that everything you used to own is now half owned by that person because of the signage is insane to me. Here's the problem, though. Prenups don't always work. And if you do do a prenup, let's say they can say it was under duress. You know, he forced me to do it.
Starting point is 01:20:58 So they can always do it right out. My thing is, okay, why even get... This pisses me off, bro. Because it's kind of like, I understand why women leverage sex against men in marriages because they can. Because think about it. If you leave your wife and you've been together for 10 years, alimony, child support, all these things come into play and you're stuck there. So my thing is these women can take advantage because the law allows them to. So how do you avoid this?
Starting point is 01:21:24 Don't get married. So here's a really interesting tidbit. We mentioned this in a previous segment. One of the – a large component, a large factor in divorces is the woman making more money than the man. The man is no longer attractive when he's not economically attractive because, like you guys mentioned, what are women looking for? Lifestyle, status, confidence. So if they're in a relationship
Starting point is 01:21:47 and the woman is making a bunch of money, I have the story from Market Watch. They actually say, they frame it in a very funny way. They say, this one thing in your marriage increases the risk of divorce by 33%. I hate that headline.
Starting point is 01:21:57 And they're basically, and they show the image. When the man is making more than the woman, things are good. When the woman is making more than the man, things are bad. Basically, when the man is no longer attracted to the woman, she leaves.
Starting point is 01:22:07 What about these guys? If they're in a relationship, this woman says she beat the game. She lets herself go. She doesn't exercise. She doesn't eat right anymore. Now she's overweight and unattractive. It's wrong for the guy to be like, I'm not attracted to this anymore. You've broken your agreement with me. Here's the problem.
Starting point is 01:22:24 I've said this on the show many times, and I'll say it. I'm going to probably trigger some feminists right now. But the thing is this. Women want traditional men, but they don't want to necessarily be traditional women. They want a guy that's tall, that makes more money than them, confident, attractive, etc. If someone breaks into the house, he can handle it and protect her and be willing to die for her. Right? But she ain't going to make him a sandwich.
Starting point is 01:22:42 Oh, you toxic misogynist. Make your own sandwich. So they want to be modern women when it suits them, but they want to be traditional when it suits them as well. And that's the problem. That's why we tell guys don't get married nowadays. Don't put yourself in a situation where the woman has all the leverage because when she has the leverage, bad things are going to happen.
Starting point is 01:22:59 And we know it because look at it. 80% of divorces are initiated by women. So you see what happens when women have leverage. They leave. And here's the other thing. Like as a man, you have a burden of performance. Men don't ask for much from women. Women ask far more of men than men ask of women.
Starting point is 01:23:13 So my thing is something simple like bedroom fun. We'll keep it YouTube friendly, right? How many sexless marriages are there out there? Or worse yet, I see on TikTok a wife saying, you're not going to get any unless you take out the trash. You're not going to get any unless you mow the lawn, blah, blah, blah. But if someone breaks into the house, you're expected to protect this woman with your life and she don't even want to give you no bedroom fun. That's BS.
Starting point is 01:23:34 That's why we tell guys most of the time, unless you want to have kids, you shouldn't get married at all. Because women get in line when they know that you have other women in line. That's why we tell guys to not date exclusively, to date not exclusively and all that stuff. Go ahead. Let's think about the actual math of the situation here. It sounds like feminism has been the greatest gift to
Starting point is 01:23:56 to guys like us. To guys like us. Another way to put it is, feminism has actually reverted society back to a more primitive state yes yes yeah because of feminism i would say it's the greatest like like i said high value men guys who are confident successful wealthy they can get any woman they want whenever they want with no obligations no commitment and better yet half the time the women
Starting point is 01:24:19 are are working careers and doing and doing a bunch of the work so there was a meme where a feminist was like or it was a meme where a woman said, feminism is a trick you guys. The men are going to sit around playing video games all day while they make us do all the work. Right? So it's a joke, but what ends up happening is you look back at how things
Starting point is 01:24:37 used to be in the tribal sense. The alpha male, the high value man would, you know, get whatever woman he wanted. All of them. All of them. All of them. And if you look at how in the animal kingdom, typically it's like the most dominant, powerful male takes all the women. He has like 15 wives. Roosters got like 12 ladies.
Starting point is 01:24:55 They take it. They fight each other. They kill the other one, and then they take their harem. So right now, because of all this, like you mentioned, these guys go on Instagram and they can just DM 50 women and get back five messages and then one of them is a go. Yep. And that's what I've said it before. What feminism has actually done is it's given all the sexual leverage to the highest tier men inadvertently. So unbeknown to them, they've basically given all leverage to the men that will never actually commit to them. And what happens is the guys that are good husbands, good potential long-term partners, those guys get left out in the dust.
Starting point is 01:25:31 And the women don't come back to them until maybe their youth is gone or whatever it may be. And then you end up with these marriages that don't end up working out because the guy isn't getting her best, but he still held to a certain standard that he has to provide. There was a chart. I think it might have been Leonardo DiCaprio, but if it's's not forgive me leo for besmirching your your honorable name but it was like this guy dates women and marries women and divorces them at the exact like almost the exact same ages like you have to date at 24 and then like oh yeah it's leo he doesn't date any girl over 25 25 yeah yeah like he dates and then and then dumps him then dates and then he like dates someone smart man. Very smart.
Starting point is 01:26:07 Because here's the thing. Let's be honest about it, right? The women want him for his status and his value. Right. Right? They want to be around an A-list celebrity or whatever. So he's like, okay, you want to share my time with a high-status man? I want the best and the brightest. The problem is this.
Starting point is 01:26:21 When men put women on, we want preferences, this is what we want in women, it's considered misogynistic and rude or discrimination. But when a woman has standards, it's considered preferences. It's completely okay for women to exert their boundaries on what they want in men, but it's not okay for men to do it. Men are shamed for doing it. Think about what we're talking about in this segment. A guy could lose his job and make less money, and now he's not economically attractive anymore, and then you get a divorce. But a man, like even criticizing the fact that these women are overweight, they let themselves go, and it's considered misogynistic or sexist or offensive. I'll take it a step further.
Starting point is 01:26:54 Society actually encourages women to leave their men we no longer provide because they get the money. Eighty percent of divorces are initiated by women. The family courts destroy men. They're heavily gynocentric gynocentric so what is is there any benefit to really getting married in today's day and age yeah i can't see many even social media you see all the time the girls leaving their men for other men and it's funny because when you're married to a woman right guess what happens let's say you lose your job like you said earlier and you're no longer you know i would say you're no longer like attractive to her she can go cheat and have fun on the side
Starting point is 01:27:26 and then still take off your money. Let's start us from the beginning, all right? So you said you encourage men not to get married. Is that the opinion both of you guys have? Yeah, there's very few situations where you should marry. You better not be single, honestly. All right, so you want to just give us the bullet points. I know we've talked about it quite a bit,
Starting point is 01:27:44 but let's go through it now just to start from the beginning. Why shouldn't men get married? Well, a big reason why is because marriage is a traditional thing. And a lot of women aren't traditional. Let's be honest. I'm just going to have to say things that might offend people. Women are more promiscuous than they've ever been. Yep.
Starting point is 01:28:00 You're going to have to train a lot of bad habits out of your girlfriend and or wife to make her a suitable candidate to be your long-term partner to raise children because the problem is this society nowadays you got this rap music you got city girls teaching girls all this other stuff these are bad habits not conducive to a good long-term girlfriend and or wife of your child you know what i'm saying last thing you want is your son to be walking down the playground hey dude i saw your mom's like put on only fans like that's terrible you know what i'm saying like and lana rhodes is dealing with the consequences of that right now for poor decisions in the past but that's what i'm saying so like women are more promiscuous now they don't they don't want uh they don't want to follow male leadership you know uh
Starting point is 01:28:36 they don't want to um they don't want to adhere to traditional traits but they expect you to adhere to all your masculine traditional traits so it's a bad trade for you a lot of the time and only not only that why would you sign a contract with someone that's incentivized to break it? Yeah. And you – They break that contract, they get half your stuff. Exactly. And not only that, most women marry up.
Starting point is 01:28:53 So by default, more than likely, whatever woman you deal with is going to make less money than you. So – and not only that, but when she's married, that's when the sexless marriages start. That's when the sexless marriages start that was when the dispute you know the the disrespect begins or whatever so it's not in a man's best interest to get married in today's state because a lot of women are not fit wives to be honest tim i was actually married before right so i'm speaking from my personal opinion as well as well as being married but i'll say this regarding marriage there was no there was no benefit for me being in that marriage versus not being in that marriage so when i was single dating the same girl i had the same benefits but now being married i involved the state into my into my life so if i want to leave i ask
Starting point is 01:29:34 permission to leave and guess what they're going to take a portion if i want to do certain things so i'm just saying like regarding marriage itself what's the benefit for men honestly not much other than having kids and even then it's kind of like okay you could have kids well you know without marriage my thing is look i'd rather go to columbia find a nice chick over there marry her and come out to the u.s real talk here's another thing too i'm gonna say it as well yeah more than likely if you marry a woman in today's day and age she's gonna have a past okay women always want women want a man with a future but a man does not want a woman that has a past but the problem is that if i say i don't want a past that's considered misogynistic toxic whatever but no i'm taking a huge risk by marrying you and having children with you so i need to make
Starting point is 01:30:14 sure just like you want me to be able to provide for the family that you're going to be a dutiful wife and not embarrass me and the family because when women cheat there's serious negative consequences to it that can destroy a family get pregnant by another man whatever it is it just it just doesn't work so a lot you know if you're going to get married you're going to want a woman that has a lower notch count men are literally designed to want a woman that has a lower notch count are you going to find that in the west very tough man i just added a point as well so when i married this district director's single mom uh just when I first came to America.
Starting point is 01:30:45 And, you know, at the beginning it was cool, rosy, everything was cool. But then it started getting into demanding. Okay, you know what? Spend more time with my kid. I need you to do these things, whatever. And I was like, you know what?
Starting point is 01:30:58 This wasn't part of our agreement at the beginning. It was us helping each other out, whatever. The point here is that they can now exert more boundaries on you and demands on you and demands on you and because you're in that situation it's kind of like okay this is my wife i should do this because if i don't she might leave me and her her leaving me is very very powerful because now i'm gonna lose half my stuff that being said i left her because i knew going forward if i stayed any longer i could be held liable for a lot of things like maybe child support maybe even you know having
Starting point is 01:31:23 to pay alimony. So I got out as fast as possible under that year. But I'm saying most guys, they say, you know what? I'll stick with her. I'll deal with the bull crap, whatever. And then they get finessed because they have to pay a pile – all that stuff they got to pay. Cheaper to keeper. That's a terrible quote.
Starting point is 01:31:36 And one last thing I want to say because I know that the feminists might get mad at me, whatever, for me saying that. I keep saying the feminists are going to get mad. Yeah, they already send me death threats every day. So it is what it is. So I'll just go all the way. The thing is this. Female promiscuity does have consequences. It's just that we don't tell women this because we don't want to tell them the truth, right?
Starting point is 01:31:52 When you lie, women buy. Go ahead, girl. Do your thing. All I'm saying is that if you're going to marry a woman, her past does matter for you as a guy. And there are studies that show this, that the more partners a woman has, the lower her ability to probably have to pair bond with you and or have a marriage that's going to last it has significant uh consequences if the woman was had a promiscuous past so guys need to be smart and know that if you're going to pick a woman for a long-term relationship to have children with you got to know what you're doing and in today's western culture women are incentivized
Starting point is 01:32:22 to be promiscuous so it's like and i shouldn't be admitting this as a guy that dates casually or whatever. But for the women out there that might be watching or guys that are thinking about getting married, this stuff matters, guys. You need to look at this. Check out this story we got. Go ahead. Wife's response to husband's message to lose weight goes viral. She should have given you divorce papers. Here's the story.
Starting point is 01:32:41 A guy bought – he posted a video online saying he purposefully bought his wife a dress that was too small for her. He wanted her to lose weight. The response? How sick and disgusting. She should divorce you. She can gorge herself, eat whatever she wants. She owes you nothing. And she gets half your stuff.
Starting point is 01:32:58 There you go. What incentive is there? You know, I'll say this, too, to all the the women who make it angry about hearing the stuff if you don't like hearing this i'm not saying this to say any of it's good or right or anything like that but now you're hearing what men are thinking and what men are talking about and what men want yeah what they'll never say and there was a peloton commercial too that got people offended because the guy last last christmas i think it was the guy the guy uh bought her a treadmill he bought her a Peloton, which is like a bike. A bike.
Starting point is 01:33:25 Yeah, a bike. And there was a bunch of rage like, are you telling your wife that she needs to lose weight, blah, blah, blah? And this just shows the crazy clown world that we're in where having standards on women is considered misogynistic or awful. You know what I'm saying? And it's – all you're simply telling her is, hey, listen, if you want to continue to get this security and provisioning and relationship with me, you need to also perform. There's a burner performance on men, but there's never a burner performance on women. We have a bunch of social conventions out there that allow women to misbehave, act poorly, be obese, be crass, be annoying with zero consequence. If a woman is fat, love your curves, girl.
Starting point is 01:34:04 Hey, wait, wait, wait. If a woman is fat love your curves girl hey wait wait wait if a woman is rude it's okay they just can't handle you you know if she's strong and independent you know what he has small d energy he's not worthy of your time you know you go girl but if a guy's a loser hey man you're a loser you live with your mom in your basement you're a dork whatever men are there's negative reinforcement to mistakes made if you're a man. But there are not, there's not negative reinforcement for bad female decisions.
Starting point is 01:34:29 And the thing is this, who loses? The women lose. Because they end up single because men select who gets married. Okay? You want to hear
Starting point is 01:34:36 my favorite conspiracy theory? Yeah, let's do it. All right. You know the Dove Real Beauty campaign? Dove? Dove. Dove Soap Real Beauty.
Starting point is 01:34:44 So they got bigger women, size women fat women for their ad campaigns victoria's secret's doing that too yeah yeah yeah but here's the thing about the the the the the dove real beauty campaign right so they got like bigger women plus size women yeah all right you know you know ben and jerry's obviously ice cream ice cream yeah guess what company there's one company that owns both unilever. So the joke conspiracy theory is that they sell the ice cream to all these women, get them really overweight, and then do commercials saying, you're so beautiful. You keep buying. Because you do these ad campaigns for soap where you got all these super attractive models, and these women who keep eating your ice cream, they're going to be out of shape and feel bad. So you got to make the commercials sound, hey, it's great.
Starting point is 01:35:24 It's great. But look at this. You get the body positivity movement. You get all these ads with morbidly obese women that are at serious risk of health complications. It's horrifying. There's nothing like that for men. There's no man body positivity movement. I mean, maybe like a-
Starting point is 01:35:39 No male plus size models. I don't see- Nope. Where's the men's fitness magazine with a big, fat, morbidly obese guy saying like, this actually reminds me of the Socal squared hoax guys you guys know about um james lindsey peter bogosian helen pluck rose they they spoofed a bunch of journals one of them was fat bodybuilding okay i don't know if this got accepted but the idea was why is muscle the preferred you know bodybuilding fat bodybuilding is you should be able to eat a bunch of food get really really fat and that's bodybuilding too but but it doesn't exist no there's no there's no like
Starting point is 01:36:11 my there's no big ad campaign where it's like a big fat dad bod guy you know just sitting there like i eat a lot of twinkies yeah they don't do that and when you and it's amazing because like i used the example before the analogy like if i walked around in a dress and heels and I said, oh, well, I'm really good at doing this. You should accept me for whatever. It sounded asinine, right? But that's how women sound when they say I make a lot of money and I'm a corporate exec, whatever. Men don't care about that. These are considered masculine traits no matter how much feminists want to argue with us about it.
Starting point is 01:36:39 Like earning money, becoming high-powered, high status, whatever. These are things that men tend to do. And women find attractive in men. They're masculine traits. So if you have them, cool plus for you, but it's irrelevant towards your sexual market value. And yes, like I said, there's never going to be a body positivity for men because I always say for a man to be attractive to women,
Starting point is 01:36:58 he's got to live in a fact-based reality. He cannot, men don't get the privilege of living in a Disney fairy tale. I can't tell you how many women I know. It's okay. You'll find a good girl. Don't worry.
Starting point is 01:37:09 She'll come your way, blah, blah, blah. No, that's cap. Because that's like me telling a lion, hey, listen, lion, if you just wait and you'll find that gazelle, man,
Starting point is 01:37:19 don't worry about it. He'll come right to you. He'll come right to you. You just need more time. No, you need to tell that lion what? You need to be stalking your prey. You need to be out at night hiding in the grass you might need two of your buddies to help you whatever it is and then when they're not looking you got to jump on them that's what it takes to get women you got to reveal unflattering realities about how women
Starting point is 01:37:36 really may select to get them but women get the privilege of saying i'm gonna wait around and the right guy will come because they can they get the privilege of being able to believe in disney fairy tales because they're the gazelle. You can't do that as a man. You're the lion. If you don't know what you're doing, you're going to die. You want to get girls? You have to know these unflattering realities with men.
Starting point is 01:37:54 And I think that's why this type of content is exploding in popularity. We're not just men but also women because men are learning what it takes to actually be attractive to women, not being a pushover, not being soft, having these bad boy tendencies. And then women are learning, okay, men actually are different. They want me to be attractive and feminine and submissive. Or they're tired of being lied to. Yeah. There you go.
Starting point is 01:38:14 But real quick, I think this is one of the reasons why feminists get so mad at this stuff. I knew this friend of mine, his dad was a physicist. We were talking about m theory quantum physics you know the the top tier the unified theory and i was like is this is this real is this it is the universe this 12 dimensional membrane or whatever this crazy theory is and he said there's a lot of
Starting point is 01:38:34 problems with it we can't figure out but you got a lot of scientists who have dedicated 60 years of their lives to this scientific theory and they will never give that up so you prove them wrong and they're like my whole life was wasted and broken. So now you have these women. They're 35. They have good careers. They make six figures. And if you say men have a tendency to not want to date that, they're going to get mad.
Starting point is 01:38:57 They have to get mad. They have to shame you. You have to be wrong. You are wrong. It's not true. I did everything right. I know you did. I know you did what they told you to do.
Starting point is 01:39:04 And I'm not saying it's right. I'm just saying you look at the studies. The tendencies exist. So it's going to be a lot harder for you. Like going to college, not a good idea. And all these kids were like, but I was told to go to college. I did exactly what I was told. Great. Now you're massively in debt. You can't get a job. You're doing what you're told. A lot of women that we bring on our show that get mad when we say these types of things, they say, well, that's not fair. And I tell them, life isn't fair. It's not fair that you get to go into a nightclub without paying.
Starting point is 01:39:34 It's not fair that there are men that are willing to pay your rent for not doing anything. We had a girl on our show yesterday. She's on unemployment. She's riding around in Rolls Royces and McLarens. She went to Vegas today. An unemployed man would never be able to do that. Why? But she's young and attractive and she's a woman.
Starting point is 01:39:45 So there's privileges on both sides. And unfortunately, ladies, some of the things that men can do, you can't. Oh, dude. Like growing up, how many guys did you know that became homeless? How many women did you know that became homeless? Exactly. I mean, I'm not saying it's absolute. There's obviously homeless women. But I think
Starting point is 01:40:01 one in five homeless people are women. It's really, really low because, one in five homeless people are women. Yeah. Like it's really, really low because women can just find a guy and live with him. Yeah. It's not absolute. It's not. Of course. But suicides, overwhelmingly dudes.
Starting point is 01:40:15 Exactly. I'm curious. These things happen. Victims of violent crime. Men. Because I had a woman one time say, I was like, give me a privilege that women have that men don't or are right. And she was like, well, you could walk around at night and not feel scared.
Starting point is 01:40:25 And I was like, feeling versus reality are two different things. Men are actually far more prone to be victims of violent crime, which is what you're trying to say. Sorry. No, I was going to say we've got to go to the Super Chats because we went a little long. We've got to do this bonus segment later where we can get even more offensive. Sure, sure. Yes. All right.
Starting point is 01:40:41 Let's see. Chad Randall says, I'm sorry, if you haven't already, give that like button a little tap. Subscribe to TimCast.com because if you think this was offensive, wait till we go to the members only segment. Oh, man. Get it. Because we're in there, right? Yeah. All right.
Starting point is 01:40:55 Chad Randall says, I want an update on Tim's app. When will it be done? Oh, man. We are working as fast as humanly possible. I literally work in this company and I was like, can I give you more money to make it faster? And they were like, yes. And I said,, can I give you more money to make it faster? And they were like, yes. And I said, can I give you even more money to make it go faster?
Starting point is 01:41:08 And they said, that's the limit. There's just only so much you can do. So the new website looks amazing. We're going to do an app. You're going to be able to listen to podcast episodes with the screen off, all that good stuff. That's the plan, man. But it takes time to build stuff, so we're working on it. Hey, East F says, I got a notification today.
Starting point is 01:41:26 Yay, hey, that's cool. Nice, nice. Opo says, we have Tim Pool, the legendary fence sitter versus Fresh and Fit, the legendary fence busters. Will Myron sacrifice the rest of his hair
Starting point is 01:41:36 to defeat the beanie? Will Fresh unleash the stutter barrage? Find out next time on DBZ. That was a good one. That's awesome buddy it wasn't a question but excellent uh let's see okay i don't know this means rainer chen says here's to fresh and fit if tim pool joined your podcast what could it take for you to frank castle him oh tim is fam man yeah frank castle because uh because when. Look at his shirt. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:42:06 I wear the Punisher. Basically, I went viral on TikTok back in late 2020 for saying if a girl reschedules on a date, you need to punish that bad behavior maker by the first round of drinks. I went viral because they're like, Punish bad behavior? Are we dogs? It's like, no. You just need to let her know that you have boundaries and she can't disrespect your time. And then they're like, you punished bad behavior. I was like, you know what?
Starting point is 01:42:24 I'm Frank Castle now. So I just took the name the punisher and every show we do right this for whatever reason this random ratchet chick that goes crazy right yeah and we'll give her a chance you know what please calm down we're on a talk show right now you can't be too loud and they keep going on and on so you know what that's it had enough get out of here yeah and i just kick around it's called frank castling them and the chat is hilarious because they'll start putting castle uh emojis in there when they girls or frank castle lodi i'm like all right get the f out you know and then they leave but tim is cool man tim is cool yeah tim tim is man cool all right i'll take it i'll take it i got these these these guys from
Starting point is 01:42:57 this fancy podcast in miami sam a cool dude that must make it true that's right all right let's see conti123 says, We had a lady try to run a military gate and the MP had to smash her window to get her out because she refuses. Now she's trying to make the MP look bad by lying.
Starting point is 01:43:12 Sad world we live in. Damn, that's tough, man. Yeah, dude. All right, let's see. People are saying, Fresh and fit, based. Next show, Rolo Tomasi, LOL.
Starting point is 01:43:23 Free John Doyle on Twitter. His future POTUS. Shout out to Heck Off Comedy Network. Do you guys know Rolo? Is that how you say it? He's our boy. He's a friend of ours. He's actually the author of The Rational Mail. A very cool guy. Good dude. You should have him on the show, man. He follows me. Yeah. He's a good dude. We'll check it out. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:43:37 I'll Fight You Naked said, just saw Leah's interview with Boyce. It was very interesting seeing a girl who aspires to be a stay-home mom when I'm old enough to be her dad. The Wokies would have got away with it if it weren't for all you meddling kids. I just feel like women have really been lied to. And more than anything, it makes me
Starting point is 01:43:53 sad to watch him try to play a second-rate version of the men's game. It breaks my heart. Lydia, I'm just curious. How many of your friends actually have a boyfriend or are married right now? Most of my friends are married a boyfriend or are married right now uh most of my friends are married and having children right now awesome good that's excellent that's awesome yeah that's good i'm a little jealous but it's all good we'll get there all right black rock
Starting point is 01:44:13 beacon says i just moved from pa to fl it's nice here tim lots of freedom lots of rural land for cheap and unincorporated areas luke was right join us us, Tim. Dude, I lived in Florida. January and February was like when we could go outside. But maybe I'll get a big pole barn or something. Air conditioning. Hold on, Tim. You spend a week with us, I guarantee you will love Miami. I'm telling you, bro.
Starting point is 01:44:38 You might not make it back here alive. All our guests that come with us, they either get an apartment or they buy a home in Florida. I love Miami. It's fantastic. It's just the weather, dude. You know? We're AC all day, bro. Come on, man. Yeah, but I like going outside.
Starting point is 01:44:51 I go outside every day. I skate. And it was like really brutal. We'd go outside in the backyard at 100 degrees maximum humidity, and I'd just like fall over and just melt. There's air-conditioned skate parks, though. Yeah. We can make that happen.
Starting point is 01:45:02 I went to one skate park in Miami. Lou Wains? I don't remember. It had no AC, though. Oh, we can make that happen. I went to one skate park in Miami. Lou Wings? I don't remember. It had no AC, though. And it was seriously probably like 110 degrees inside. And I went inside, and I was like, these people are nuts. They had a fan trying to pull the arm. I'm like, dude, we're in Miami.
Starting point is 01:45:16 They're blowing just more humid air on me. AC must have been broken or something. And they had to keep the doors open. Otherwise, they'd go to business. I get it. All right, let's see. What do we got? Jonathan Duger says, Ian is right on this thing.
Starting point is 01:45:32 The ice is like heavy weight on one end of a seesaw. One side falls and the other rises. Shout out to Ian. Interesting. Some science. It checks out. Pew, pew. Yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 01:45:41 It's got a name. Nathan Simpson says, Ian is right. Isostatic rebound is a thing my home province in canada was covered in glaciers during the ice age and as the crust rebounds over time we sometimes experience small earthquakes huh wow interesting i never knew damn yeah yeah they said atlanta sunk beneath the sea as well as being covered by mud it went down interesting florida's next. Alright, Eamon says, first Superchat listening for two years now. Hey, appreciate it, man.
Starting point is 01:46:09 Love the show. Hi to Lydia. Speaking of getting hustled, got hustled in NOLA on Bachelor's trip. Woke up with fake phone and $2,300 spend on debit card. Police didn't care to take a report. Oh, no. I'm not surprised. That happens, bro. Joe Harshbarger. port oh yeah that's that's i'm not surprised with that game is strong that happens bro joe harsh
Starting point is 01:46:27 barger tim what if they are driving gas prices up because they want to make it more convenient to drive electric cars rather than gas ones i don't know about all that uh i do know i have an electric i have a tesla it's great but you can't really do much with it outside of like running errands you can drive it to the store you can drive it back much with it outside of running errands. You can drive it to the store. You can drive it back. But taking it on longer trips, like we drove it three hours, we had to stop, plug it in, and then chill for like 20 minutes as it charges back up. That's annoying. Yeah, it's really annoying.
Starting point is 01:46:53 I'm not too familiar with Tesla. Do you plug it into an outlet or something like that? You can plug it into an outlet. You can. It'll give you three travel miles per hour of charge. Yeah. Okay. So if you get the actual charger,
Starting point is 01:47:06 like the superchargers, you can actually charge it up to about 80% in 20 minutes. Okay. So that's not that bad. How much is one of those things though? The supercharger. It's the normal plug.
Starting point is 01:47:15 Oh, it just comes with it? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. All right. So like when you pull up to the, we're not like, it's the outlet that it has. Okay.
Starting point is 01:47:21 It comes with a wall charger. You got to get one installed. They're like 500 bucks to install in your home. Okay. But if you're driving, you know, wall charger. You got to get one installed. They're like 500 bucks to install in your home. Okay. But if you're driving, you know, we would drive from here
Starting point is 01:47:27 to like Philly. We stop at a rest station. You plug in the supercharger and then you go inside, grab some food, come back out, your car's fully charged, you're good to go.
Starting point is 01:47:35 Not as convenient as just pump to a gas station. You pump up in a minute, you're done, you're good to go. See, we got the Range Rover diesel. So we'll be mucking in there.
Starting point is 01:47:42 Yeah, we use diesel. That's a little glitch in the matrix right there. Diesel. Diesel's great. Range Rover. Saves. We be knocking it in there. Yeah, we use Diesel. That's a little glitch in the matrix right there. Diesel's great. Range Rover saves. We actually got a Ram because we're trying to do mobile shows. So we got a trailer. We need to set it up.
Starting point is 01:47:53 There's a lot of work that's got to be done to it, and just there's too many plates spinning to get everything going. But we want to go to Nashville, then Austin, then Nashville and back. Nice. Make it a trip where we hang out for a week. Nashville's an underrated city, man. Yeah, it's a cool place. It's a fun place to be. Hector Garcia says, sending love from
Starting point is 01:48:09 Homestead, Tim. And don't sleep on it. They recently started a bunch of development. I'm talking Tesla charging and entertainment complexes. Prices going up and people gentrifying west of the Redlands. West of the Redlands. Wow. I'm telling you, man. South Florida's going to be booming in a couple years. I'll tell you this, some of the best food.
Starting point is 01:48:25 When you get legit food from an abuelita and she's Wow. I'm telling you, man. South Florida is going to be booming in a couple of years. I'll tell you this, dude. Some of the best food. Best food. When you would get like legit food from like an abuelita and she's like cooking real. Abuelita. Grandma's cooking. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Really good. We would go in and it would be like this little hole in the wall place. And you know that it was like they got the meat.
Starting point is 01:48:40 They cooked it. There's no crap in it. It's like family cooking. That was the coolest thing. Killed the chickens in the back or whatever. No, no, no. Definitely, definitely. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:48:49 I once lived across the street from a chicken slaughterhouse. You hear them all screaming at night. Oh, man. You ever had Jamaican food? PETA has entered the chat. Yeah, but like New York Jamaican food. I'm taking you out, bro. We're coming up Miami.
Starting point is 01:49:01 I got you. You and Lydia. Yeah, let's do it. I mean, we could get this trailer set up. We could down to to miami there you go we could do our show for a week then we you know what the plan was we would spend monday monday through thursday doing the shows just in the trailer and then friday night we would get a venue and do a live showing it's not super easy because we got to get camera set up we got live got the internet set up so you got to our studio
Starting point is 01:49:25 yeah but the idea would like sell tickets have people come and actually get to hang out sit in the audience and then super chats plus like audience questions
Starting point is 01:49:32 people would love that bro I've thought about that like you know if you have an audience you could definitely do that Friday nights well because Friday nights people want to go out
Starting point is 01:49:39 they don't want to sit at home and listen to a podcast on the internet so they're out doing something we find this venue where they can drink and hang out, and then we're getting the best of both worlds. Everyone's having a good time. They can come meet us.
Starting point is 01:49:49 That's smart. Yeah, that's a good view. Do it before 10 p.m. in Miami. Yeah. Best Auntie Ever says, Hey, Tim, just looking for a recommendation for an AR for home defense. Thanks. I'll just shout out to the SIG M400.
Starting point is 01:50:03 I mean, I've recently just got a bunch of guns steven crowder sent me the sig m400 told me it was like the cadillac of ar 15s or whatever and it took me a year to get it because there was just like just some it was just difficult i lived in new jersey new jersey had crazy laws we moved to west virginia now it's easy yeah that thing is amazing it really is super easy super super just easy is the best way to put it. So for me, and I'm like, I don't have a lot of experience. I've only got a year or so now actually working with guns and training. I went out, and I had the instructor and everybody show me how to use it,
Starting point is 01:50:36 and it was fantastic. Glocks and ARs are just standard. He's a pro. You can't beat that. I wonder how. A pro. Oh, I didn't say it on air. Never mind.
Starting point is 01:50:46 But like the muzzle break on it. Yeah. You know, it's powerful. Like the recoil was very light. This is a 5.56. Home defense, though, I guess an AR. I just got a 9mm AR rifle. I like that because you can use hollow points or frangible 9mm.
Starting point is 01:51:00 So there's less penetration. So it's safer and just, you know, more accurate. For home defense, though? Yeah. But wouldn't you want to end them? Yeah. I mean a hollow point. I thought you meant fringes.
Starting point is 01:51:12 Okay. Yeah. Well so hollow points are less likely to go through the walls. Oh. Okay. Fair enough. Because it hits them it stays in them and it splatters. Exactly. It expands and mushroom tips. Yeah. It's exciting. To be honest I talked about this before. I was like I don't to end them you know i don't even want to have to shoot somebody but you got that's the hard realities i told you the story about when i'm in in miami they said
Starting point is 01:51:32 guy got his house invaded and he walked down the stairs no idea what's happening it's a chest yeah so sometimes the sad reality is like you don't get to make that choice they made it for you right i'll send an uncut version i don't want to all right we'll save it we'll say i'll say we'll save for the uncut i was gonna say what uncovers all right let's see justin bell says not having children is equivalent to ending your genetic line that has been evolving for how long billions of years we gain sentience to end ourselves we'll we'll we'll get into a bit of this in the in the bonus segment too because that's that's the stuff where youtube gets really mad and we're gonna you know all right let's see what we got asu says fresh and fit did the red pill manosphere go mainstream tim can you have rolo and coach greg adams on the show on the podcast i'm not familiar
Starting point is 01:52:13 i've heard of rolo for sure i don't know who coach greg is you guys he's a good dude he's a good dude coach greg adams yeah we'll definitely do it um we we actually like uh i think we talk about like men's issues and stuff relatively often. It's mostly political and cultural. Not as often as we used to. Yeah. Not as often as we used to.
Starting point is 01:52:30 We actually, like one of our first guests was, uh, was he like a psychology? Yeah. Uh, Sean Smith. Yeah. Oh yeah. Okay. But it's, but it's mostly because it's like a, a gender is obviously a huge driver in cultural politics.
Starting point is 01:52:41 Yeah. And, and how movies are being made and how all this stuff is doing, you know, is, is, is, is changing and happening. So also it's trending very well too. These topics are cultural politics. Yeah. And how movies are being made and how all this stuff is doing, you know, is changing and happening. And also it's trending very well too. These topics are very hot. Yeah. Yeah, a lot of guys are struggling, man. And I think since, you know, my prediction is
Starting point is 01:52:55 as women become more and more selective and they deal with a smaller, smaller portion of men, you know, that top 10% of men and it dwindles down, more and more guys are going to go looking for answers.
Starting point is 01:53:04 They're going to go on Google. How do I get girls? They're going to go on Google. How do I get girls? They're going to find us. You know what I'm saying? Try to figure this stuff out. We say so many marriages and like relationships. It's crazy, man.
Starting point is 01:53:10 Yeah. Check this out. Joe Novosel says, any app is a dating app if you're creepy enough. That's true. Did you hear about the guys who were hitting up women on LinkedIn?
Starting point is 01:53:20 Yo, there's a whole... Yeah, you can do it. There's a whole technique of using linkedin to get girls yeah which is cringy to me i got a buddy that does it he uses linkedin to get girls no dude it could work because you got you got status on there if you do it right you're coming from like kind of like a mentor like higher status like so the girls women are there's a reason why like secretaries but just going to sugar site just a sugar site. You could do that too,
Starting point is 01:53:45 but it's just... I guess it's... I say use every avenue, man. Use every avenue, guys. Cold approach, online dating, LinkedIn game, whatever you got to do.
Starting point is 01:53:54 The VP hit me up to go on a date. Who's the VP? It's like... I don't know. It's cringy. I say use everything. No shame.
Starting point is 01:54:03 Okay. The Civic Nationalist says, I ride around the UK on my 500cc motorbike, and I used to pick up chicks in nightclubs. Never once used a dating app. But I did meet my GF of one year on Instagram, and when she's not at uni, we go on the same rides.
Starting point is 01:54:17 God save the queen. Oh, okay. Jay Rich says, Are we headed towards a world where the average man and woman won't settle for each other and ultimately live alone and pay to play
Starting point is 01:54:27 with the top 1% of either gender when they need to would that be better or worse than what we have now the only thing I would say is it's not going to be the average man be willing to settle it's going to be
Starting point is 01:54:36 the average woman won't settle exactly it's going to be because average women now if you ask them what they want in a man they're not describing an average man
Starting point is 01:54:43 they're describing a man that's above average it was one thing we learned from the show talking to hundreds of women yeah they will never submit they don't give a shit oh i'd rather have a dog cat live alone go ahead yeah yeah they don't they really don't want uh they don't want an average man at all man because we like to ask the girls hey well how tall does he got to be how much money he's got to earn if we were to average it out from all the hundreds of women we spoke to over six feet tall at least a hundred thousand dollars a year uh attractive in somewhat shape not being fat you're already describing a man that's in the top you know five percent you know of man because only ten percent of all u.s households make over a hundred thousand
Starting point is 01:55:18 dollars a year so if you extrapolate that for single men that are attracted that meet these other requirements of yours that are six feet we we're talking top five, top three, top four percent. Not even. Not even. 0.1 because you're single as well. So you got to factor in. I'm being generous. No, because think about this too.
Starting point is 01:55:32 Single as well, right there. So these guys who are highly sought after, they're probably already dating somebody. Exactly. Yes. Multiple people. And here's another equalizer, clout. If you have clout nowadays, it's kind of like the social currency. You have that, you have access to a lot of women.
Starting point is 01:55:45 Yeah, and it's just – the thing is I think – well, it's not even I think. At this point, after interviewing hundreds of women, I know. We know. They have an abundance mentality that is almost detrimental to their ability to lock down a guy because they think, well, I went to this social situation or I went to this party or I was on this yacht and I met all these kinds of guys. These guys are abundant. No, they're not. They're abundant maybe from a they want to sleep with you because women don't understand that. Just like women have a dual mating strategy, men do too. You have the girls that you want to just hook up with. Then you got girls that are wifey material. The problem is that a lot of women conflate a guy wanting to sleep with them and give them
Starting point is 01:56:23 attention as, okay, well, this guy is a potential candidate for a relationship too. And what they don't understand is that relationship value and attractive value are two different things. And here's the other thing too. I always tell women too, this thing, and they get mad at me, but feminists, if you want to get mad at it, it's what it is. A man's value is derived from how many attractive women can you get and sleep with a woman's value is determined by what caliber of man can you attract and most importantly retain if you don't got a ring you lost the thing is this we like to give our participation trophies and don't like to have losers especially when we deal women women we like to coddle them no if you are not married
Starting point is 01:57:01 or in a serious relationship with a man that you love, admire, and respect and want to be with, you lost as a woman. And as a man, if you can't attract an abundant amount of women or at least a woman that you find attractive that you want, then you lost as a man. The problem is that we don't like to have winners and losers. We want to give everyone a participation trophy. And it's okay to call a man a loser but not okay to call a woman a loser. And the thing is this. They want to play the game on easy mode because, let's be honest, dating for women is on easy mode, but they want to get hard mode benefits. They want to be able to say, well, I have guys in my DMs. Hey, well, I get invited to these kinds
Starting point is 01:57:32 of parties. Well, I got guys taking me out on dates, blah, blah, blah. I should be able to be promiscuous as well. No, you got the game on easy mode, so you don't get hard mode benefits. If you want the exotic drops from the boss, you don't get that on easy mode. Yeah, you got to – exactly. So like men play the game on hard mode. So therefore, we can go ahead and be promiscuous. We can go ahead and have a bunch of women because it's very difficult for men to get women. And the thing is – women get mad at me when I say this too.
Starting point is 01:58:02 Men don't cheat. They just exercise options when they get to a certain level. There's another thing too, like another fallacy that they have. Well, I deserve a high value man. Cool. You know what? If you have a high value man, that's fine. But guess what? You're going to have to share him in the bedroom. What? That's BS. Why can't you just be faithful? Why can't this man just be faithful to me? And I have to tell him all the time. Okay. There's two families. You're in one family. I'm one family, right? You, I inherit my million dollars. You were born poor and you had to earn your million dollars. You had to scale up three businesses, whatever.
Starting point is 01:58:32 20, 30 years passes by. I spent all my money maybe betting on Dogecoin, whatever. No offense to the Dogecoin investors, right? And then you, you built up three different businesses up to $2 million net worth. And then I come to you and tell you, hey, listen, you need to invest your money like this. You're going to look at me like, are you crazy?
Starting point is 01:58:48 I'm not listening to you. Why? Well, because I inherited my million for my family, whereas you had to earn your million. So how can you dictate to a self-made millionaire how to invest his money when he made it himself and you inherited your money? And that's what I tell women. You inherited your your value you cannot dictate how a man spends his value when
Starting point is 01:59:09 he had to earn it you must preserve your value men must create their value we play by different rules women do earn their value though they gotta they got in terms of depending on the guy they're going for looking good staying fit taking care of themselves but they're born with value well yeah their looks are inherent. It's inherent to them. So I get it. Yeah, and by no means am I saying a woman's existence is easy. Makeup, wearing heels and all this other stuff, it ain't easy.
Starting point is 01:59:33 But what I am saying is that they're given the value up front and it's their job to preserve it. But check this out. It's also technology I think is one of the big problems. Technology is one of the reasons women have to go get jobs in the first place. Because the high value men can now get with whoever they want, average women don't have a guy who's going to support them.
Starting point is 01:59:53 They have to get a job. I would say, I would blame it more on the lack of a father in a household. The reason why, you know, the divorce rates are so high and, you know, women are not happy with men is because the father used to be a critical component in mate household. The reason why the divorce rates are so high and women are not happy with men is
Starting point is 02:00:05 because the father used to be a critical component in mate selection. And the father would pick a man that was conducive to his daughter's long-term success from a security standpoint. He didn't have to be the most arousing guy, be the nerd, whatever, but that guy was going to be a really good husband and a really good father. The thing is, though, since women make their own money, right, alpha, alpha, seed, beta, need, right? Shout out to Rolla Tommasi. If they make their own money, they no longer want that security from that guy that might be, you know, a loser. They want the hot guy that is attractive and makes money, more money than them. So it's when you're up there and there's a bunch of other reasons, you know, why society fails when you remove the father.
Starting point is 02:00:44 But the father is a critical component in his wife being able to lock down a man and be happy in a relationship as well. We got this one from Simulation115. He says, what are the guest's thoughts on otaku and anime culture and its effect on dating? Honestly, man, I love anime. However, I would say, though, it's created a space where there's a bunch of guys that only... How to put this? Stay in that bubble. And it's kind of like they... I don't want to sound harsh, but they only look at women... I don't know how to say this in a nice way.
Starting point is 02:01:16 They look at women as like... Just don't swear, bro. Yeah. They look at women as like characters. And when you look at them as characters, it's kind of like they... I don't know how to put this into words, bro. characters kind of like they um i don't know i don't know how to put this into words bro they treat them like they're not real they treat exactly like some kind of and they go like sex dolls all that stuff so it means like okay you watch anime
Starting point is 02:01:34 bro but that's not the real life it's kind of like a perception of how things could be but it's not real life so go out there talk to girls live a good lifestyle but remember that anime is for fun when you're bored but it's not real life. That's all I'll say. Here's a good one. Hayden says, I make over $100K a year, live in a more rural state, 30, and have no kids. Most girls my age have kids. Kids get hurt in breakups too.
Starting point is 02:01:56 I want my relationship to be number one, not another man's kid. Marriage remains after the kids leave the house. Being there for each other is part of number one. A lot of guys don't want to marry someone who's already got kids too. And that's – I agree 100%. You should not marry a single mom. This is going to get controversial. Go ahead.
Starting point is 02:02:14 You married a single mom. I did it. Stupid. Stupid. And like – no. For a young guy coming up, especially when you're on your rise and you have no kids yourself, to marry a single mother with a kid, you're literally just saying yourself you know what i'm gonna put my dreams behind focus on this person's seed and raise them i'm not saying it's a bad thing i'm just saying why would you do that
Starting point is 02:02:32 when it's not your kid so my thing is look if you're young you want to make you know you know something of yourself and be successful you don't want to have you don't want to have roadblocks in your life that can actually damage your progress so i'm just saying look don't want to have roadblocks in your life that can actually damage your progress. So I'm just saying, look, don't date single mothers because, one, you have to take care of someone else's kid. Two, it may pull you back from your dreams. And three, think about this. There's millions of other girls that are single with no kids. Why are you going to that girl? She's already had somebody give her an imprint, and you're not going to break that imprint.
Starting point is 02:03:01 From a biological and from a financial standpoint, it's just not intelligent to do that imprint. From a biological and from like a financial standpoint, it's just not intelligent to do that. Like you're, basically what's happening is you have 100% responsibility with like no authority because this is not your child.
Starting point is 02:03:13 Yep. So, you know, the disciplining, there's going to be some, you know, arguments probably with the wife on that. It's not your kid
Starting point is 02:03:20 so they're probably not going to respect you the same. They're going, you're not my daddy. You know, and then you're putting all this money and effort into a child that isn't yours and the woman can leave at any time. You're going to, it's going to respect you the same they're gonna you're not my daddy you know and then you're putting all this money and effort into a child that isn't yours and the
Starting point is 02:03:26 woman can leave at any time you're gonna it's gonna hurt you twice as bad because you're gonna build an attachment to that child to some degree and you have zero rights to that child if something goes down so it's in a man's best interest to have his own kids and to marry a woman that doesn't have kids and raise your own seed because at least, because family court's already bad enough. You're already going to lose your own biological kids more than likely. So you better at least have it be where you have a small chance
Starting point is 02:03:51 of being able to see them versus having a stepchildren that aren't even yours. And last thing, in your own home, discipline is made up to the woman because remember, that's not your kid.
Starting point is 02:03:59 So if you hit them, if you punish them, remember, it's motherly instincts saying, hey, you know what? That's not your kid. Don't punish them. Yeah, it's a bad bet for men to marry a single mom or get with a single mom.
Starting point is 02:04:08 Caleb Bukta says, women might age like milk, but you MGTOWers never grow up. Ooh. I mean, I wouldn't identify ourselves as MGTOWers, but. Hey, no comment. But, I mean, yeah. Like, here's the thing. Like, we don't have a problem with guys in that community. They have, they point out facts.
Starting point is 02:04:28 They speak a lot of truths, man, and they choose. So basically, they've looked at the sexual marketplace that we just described with the globalized marketplace and hypergamy on steroids, whatever, and they've decided, I'm leaving. I'm not playing. And that's fine. That's fine. We ain't going to shame those guys because, honestly, I don't have to blame them. Think about it. Is it really worth dating nowadays? What are you gaining this you get married you might lose you might lose you get a
Starting point is 02:04:49 girl it's just like there's a lot of risk look look at the facts on look at the um the whole agenda here is it worth it probably not yeah keeping it buck i'm not gonna knock the mictow guys i'll just say this for us we enjoy going out there dating casually doing our thing you know womanizing you know we enjoy it if guys want to learn, doing our thing, womanizing. We enjoy it. If guys want to learn how to do it, we're here. If you don't want to be in the marketplace, cool. We ain't going to knock you for it, but we understand where they're coming from. Yep.
Starting point is 02:05:12 Wolfstar says, H pound, H pound. I think he meant H3H3. Proved Tim is a fool. Ethan is a Chad, and Tim can't get a girlfriend because he's a pathetic loser. Did H3H3 talk about me? Did H3H3 write that me? I don't know. Did H3H3 write that chat? What the heck? I don't know if they actually talk about me.
Starting point is 02:05:30 I mean, I would be... Yeah, absolutely. I mean, H3H3 is a huge show. It's funny, man. People on the internet? Get on their radar. They'll talk about you no matter what. Yeah, like when you've got drama shows like H3H3 where their whole thing is
Starting point is 02:05:44 to like drama, not issues, then it makes sense they would want to talk about me because I was criticizing them and they were doing this thing with Crowder or whatever. But I mean there's no real overlap between anything that we do. Like all the conversation with Sam Seder about deontology or utilitarianism and the guy's not smart enough to know what those things are and then ethan will bring that guy on his show who's not smart enough to know basic philosophical concepts to be able to talk about things like solipsism or whatever if we're going to talk about like the current political state of you know taiwan china of which i'm not even an expert and then some guy who does a drama show who's like i don't do any research i just do whatever i'm told by the government like there's not even an overlap there by all means guys like we're not we're not we're not a pop culture podcast you know what i mean so it's it's in his best interest to be like
Starting point is 02:06:28 ah you know tim pool or whatever and then do this thing with stephen crowder we we talk about a lot of stuff that's extremely esoteric and it's not particularly valuable which is tough because i know that if we do a drama show oh yeah if we do drama and gossip and britney spears and all stuff and minecraft or fortnight that's money in the bank. Yep. We don't do that. So it's like... It'd be so easy.
Starting point is 02:06:48 That's why it's like, hey, man, if he talks about me and he gets people to know who I am, I guess it's just good in the long run. Free marketing. Free marketing for you, man. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Haters are going to hate. Yeah. But whatever.
Starting point is 02:06:58 I mean, I think he's all right. He makes good content. It's just drama stuff. It's pop culture. We don't do that. All right. Let's see what else we got. Aaron says, read Soren Kierkegaard, father of existentialism, writing on self.
Starting point is 02:07:10 The first stage where most people stick is aesthetic, which embodies the arts and the erotic. They see boredom as the root of all evil and is preoccupied with making life interesting. Yeah. I mean, that's like most people, though, isn't it? Yeah. I mean, the worst thing you do to a woman is make her bored. You know, that's like most people though, isn't it? Yeah. I mean, the worst thing you can do to a woman is make her bored. That's the biggest thing. When girls leave a guy or whatever, he just doesn't give her an emotional roller coaster
Starting point is 02:07:32 because women are slaves to their emotions, man. There's a reason why they love crime dramas. They like certain types of television and gossiping and all this other stuff. Women are more interested in people. Men tend to be more interested in things. And unfortunately, people tend to come with drama, which is why women are more interested in people. Men tend to be more interested in things. Right. And unfortunately, people tend to come with drama, which is why women are more interested in it. On a balance of probabilities, is this all women?
Starting point is 02:07:49 No. Because I know there are some feminists who, oh my God, you're generalizing. Generalizing is how the world works. Yep. So that people can prepare for how the general world works. Sam Devlin says, I have always been believer that men and women are created to be complementary to one another. Yes.
Starting point is 02:08:03 My partner and I find balance in each other, and it is beautiful. Side note, my wonderful man bought me a Peloton last year, and I felt like a queen. Hey. There you go. Yeah. See, that's how it should be. Yeah. We believe that men and women should be together.
Starting point is 02:08:16 100%. However, not get finessed. Yeah. You know, just, yeah. Yeah, men and women are better together than they are apart. Yes, there's some situations that make it almost impossible nowadays with marriage and women being incentivized to break that marriage contract. But, you know, men and women work together.
Starting point is 02:08:31 We've done it for centuries, and we've come pretty far, right? You're looking at us in 1080p right now, right? That's right. Here's a good one. Rondo says, yo, I never thought I'd see fresh and fit on TimCast. Fresh and fit. How do I convince my friend to not hate women? He had his heart broken when he was dating.
Starting point is 02:08:48 Yeah, so he's going through that rage right now. The biggest thing, dude, is you got to understand, guys, that, you know, shout out to our boy Rollo again. I agree with him 100% on this. Women love opportunistically, man. You got to bring something to the table. And I think a lot of the times when men get frustrated with women, it's because they think that it's a Disney fairy tale.
Starting point is 02:09:05 She's going to love me for me. Unconditional love. We have a discussion one time with girls and, you know, they were all saying like, yeah, I believe in unconditional love. Again, what do I always say? Women get the privilege of living in a Disney fairy tale. You got to live in a fact-based reality as a man. Women love opportunistically. They love you for what you bring to the table.
Starting point is 02:09:21 And that's okay. There's nothing wrong with it. Don't hate them for what they'll never be to you. There ain't going to be no idealistic lover, man. And I'll say, look, man, you got to stand right, that's okay you're not wrong with it don't hate them for what they'll never be to you they ain't gonna be no idealistic lover man i'll say look man you gotta sound right bro it's just your turn understand that any woman you're with right now is for a season it may not be forever and it's true for life nothing is forever so if you were to go right now she breaks your heart understandably definitely it sucks but at the same time tomorrow janet's gonna be there so there's more goes out there it's just your turn don't take it personal bro because it's not about you it's about the whole agenda and here's the
Starting point is 02:09:48 other thing too that's why in our our podcast we're so big on self-improvement yeah because a lot of guys need the fulfillment through women no guys you need the fulfillment through you you need to be working on your business your fitness becoming a better man because when you become a better man and a woman is just a compliment to your life bang she's gonna immediately fall into her place and her feminine she's gonna know that you're on a man and a woman is just a compliment to your life, bang. She's going to immediately fall into her place and her feminine. She's going to know that you're on a path. And women, she's not your co-pilot, guys. She's your flight attendant.
Starting point is 02:10:11 And the more you level, the more you level up, the more options you're going to have. No, real talk, though. She wants to follow your lead, guys. And she's only going to follow your lead if you've got enough Pokemon badges. A lot of you guys got one Pokemon badge out here. Yeah, what the heck? Trying to get chicks. Women want leaders, man.
Starting point is 02:10:24 So you guys got to become, and then you can can come but you see how she broke his heart if you level up uh you know to a certain level you could have her break your heart that sucks of course but guess what you're at a high level a high level where you have options you know to your life so if she messes up guess what janet's here jackie's here so it doesn't really matter it doesn't hurt you that bad because you have options for yourself. Right on, man. Well, I think we should get ready for this members only segment. So if you are not
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Starting point is 02:11:44 DMs on man. Out now. There you go. You can also follow follow me ian crossland.net and at ian crossland on social media thanks all right i wanted to close with a quote which i don't usually do but i was thinking about this quote while we were talking tonight and uh this is something that's been bothering me a lot about feminism lately this quote is from musashi and it says truth is what you want it to be it is what it is and you must bend to its power or live a lie. And I think this is exactly what's happening with feminism, and that is what breaks my heart.
Starting point is 02:12:10 Wow, that was beautiful. Yeah, hopefully that clears up in the next few years. Anyway, you guys can follow me on Twitter at Sour Patch Lids as I attempt to get more followers than Sour Patch Kids. We will see you all at TimCast.com in the bonus segment, so thanks for hanging out. Bye, guys.

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