Timothy Keller Sermons Podcast by Gospel in Life - Our Identity: Joyful Exiles
Episode Date: April 10, 2026Jesus’ resurrected power is in our lives now. Even though we are not yet bodily resurrected, Christians are, according to Ephesians 2, raised with Christ and knowing the power of his resurrection. W...hat does that mean? What does it mean to live that kind of life? What kind of life should we live now in light of the resurrection of Jesus? Let’s look at 1) how we’re supposed to live as Christians, 2) the test by which we know whether we’re living that way, and 3) the power by which we can live that way. This sermon was preached by Dr. Timothy Keller at Redeemer Presbyterian Church on May 11, 2014. Series: Following Jesus. Scripture: 1 Peter 1:1-2. Today's podcast is brought to you by Gospel in Life, the site for all sermons, books, study guides and resources from Timothy Keller and Redeemer Presbyterian Church. If you've enjoyed listening to this podcast and would like to support the ongoing efforts of this ministry, you can do so by visiting https://gospelinlife.com/give and making a one-time or recurring donation.
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What does authentic spiritual growth actually look like?
Writing to early believers, Peter outlines several qualities of a life that looks more and more like Christ's.
Today, Tim Keller takes a closer look at how we can develop this in our own lives
and how the resurrection of Jesus makes true, lasting transformation possible.
The scripture reading is from 1 Peter, chapter 1, verse 1 through 2, and chapter 2,
verses 9 through 12. Peter, an apostle of Jesus Christ, to God's elect, exiles scattered throughout the
provinces of Pontus, Galicia, Capadocia, Asia, and Bethinia, who have been chosen according to the
foreknowledge of God the Father through the sanctifying work of the Spirit to be obedient to Jesus Christ
and sprinkled with his blood. Grace and peace be yours in abundance. But you are a chosen people, a royal
priesthood, a holy nation, God's special possession, that you may declare the praises of him
who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light. Once you are not a people, but now you are
the people of God. Once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy. Dear friends,
I urge you as foreigners and exiles to abstain from sinful desires which wage war against your
soul. Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong,
they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us. This is God's word.
After Easter, we look at the question of what is the resurrection life? Because Ephesians 2,
Philippians 3, talk about the fact that even though Christians, of course, are not yet bodily resurrected,
and raised from the dead at the end of time, which is what we believe will happen.
But right now, we still are, according to Ephesians 2, we're raised with Christ,
according to Philippians 3.
We know the power of his resurrection.
His resurrected power is in our lives now.
What does that mean?
What does it mean to live that kind of life?
Now, what we're doing in the weeks after Easter is we're taking 1st and 2nd Peter,
and we're looking at it, we're looking at it for answers to that question.
What kind of life should we live now in light of the resurrection of Jesus?
And last week we looked at one very important theme that we get out of First Peter, which is the new birth.
You can't understand what it means to live the Christian life without the new birth.
But now we're going to look at another theme, very important theme, without which you can understand how to live the Christian life in this world.
And so what I want to do is I want to look at this theme this way.
First of all, let's look at the theme itself, how we're supposed to live as Christians.
And then the test by which we know whether we're living that way and the power by which we can live that way.
So let's take a look at how this passage tells us we should live as Christians,
how we can know the test that we can know we're living that way,
and then where do you get the power to do it?
So first of all, what is this theme that tells us how to live lives as Christians that we're going to look at this week?
And the answer is it's the theme of being exiles.
because in verse one it says to God's elect exiles scattered throughout the provinces.
And he's talking to all the people that he's writing to.
In other words, the Christians are the exiles.
Interestingly enough, the word scattered there in verse one is the word diaspora,
which is the word that's usually used for the Jews,
because the Jews who were not living in their homeland.
Peter applies it to Christians.
And he says, we're all exiles.
And then down in verse 11, which we'll get to in a second,
He says, Dear Friends, I urge you as foreigners, and exiles.
So Christians are exiles and we're to live as exiles.
Now, the Greek word that's used there, as is often the case, as you know, can't be completely
conveyed by any one English word.
So the word exiles isn't bad.
But the actual Greek word refers to a very particular kind of person.
Exile could be, I think the word exile is too general.
you know if somebody is trying to get away from being put in prison in one country you run to another country
you're in exile but that's probably not the best way to understand it the word the word parapidemi which
is the Greek word here is best translated resident alien and it's describing a kind of person that we
have actually some of you probably are resident aliens at a literal level here's what a resident
alien is on the one hand you're not a tourist
You're in another country, a country that you're not a citizen of, but you're not a tourist.
You live here.
You're here, let's just say, on a resident passport, or you have what we call a green card.
You're part of the society.
You are a functioning part of society.
You have a job.
You're here.
You know the language.
You're not like a tourist who comes and somebody is doing all the translation and you're detached
and you're looking at all the exotic things.
No, you're a resident.
You're here.
You have a job here.
You're part of society.
You know the language, you're fluent.
You have friends and neighbors who you are in relationships with.
So on the one hand, you're residents, you're not tourists.
But on the other hand, you're still not a citizen.
You're a citizen of your home country.
You haven't assimilated.
You haven't given up your citizenship.
And therefore, even though your neighbors, if you're resident alien, even though your neighbors, even though your neighbors like you, you know, you can speak the language and they like
like you, they still think you're kind of weird. Because you don't share all their values,
you don't share all their customs, you're still different. And it also, by the way, means that because
you're not a citizen, you don't enjoy all the privileges of full citizens. And lastly,
you're here on a passport, which means you're not expected to stay forever. That is the word that
Peter, it's a very, very specific kind of word. That's the word that Peter uses for Christians.
We are resident aliens.
We are not tourists.
We're engaged.
On the other hand, we're not citizens.
We're citizens of heaven.
And yet we are residents here and we are engaged to love our neighbors.
And that is the balance.
Now, what does that mean?
What are the implications?
I'll give you two implications of this word for how you live the Christian life.
one implication is that we are pilgrims here and this is a related word that we don't talk about enough
I think certainly in the modern church we are pilgrims exiles means we're not home we're on our way home
but we're not home and this is extraordinarily important for you to know because it's right
and it's right of us to stress the great things that happen when you become a Christian the minute you
become a Christian. You know that you are wholly pardoned, you're completely accepted and loved.
In fact, we'll get back to that. And that's a very transformative recognition, a thing to
realization. But once, when you become a Christian, ultimately, you aren't not, you haven't
arrived. You've just begun. And the Christian life, when we talk about the Christian life being a
pilgrimage, and we talk about Christians being exiles, what this means is,
your Christian life will never be all that completely satisfying.
You will struggle.
Things will never be just right.
You'll always feel like I just, you know,
I haven't been able to get on top of this or that.
There will be emptinesses, there will be struggles,
all during a Christian life.
You know why?
Because even though you're a Christian,
even though you're loved, you are not home.
You're not home.
Okay, what's home? You can't understand what it means being exile as you understand what is home.
Well, that's not an easy thing to define, but let me try.
Kathy and I were recently on a trip. We went to Asia and Australia with city to city,
Redeemer City to City. We do church planting in the great cities of the world.
We were out there, we were in a place like Hong Kong and Sydney, talking to church planters and pastors,
and it was quite exciting. So for many, many, we do.
weeks we were, you know, on the road. And they took care of us pretty much. But when you get home
and you get into your bed, your bed. There is no bed like your bed. You know why? Because you work very
hard, especially the longer you have a home, you know, the more you work to have a bed that's
exactly, exactly like you like it. Not too hard, not too soft, you know, not too squishy, not too
much this, not too much of that. And, you know, over the years, you know, I hate that bed. I hate that
bad. It gives me that backward. And finally, you get your bed just the way you like it. And it's not
just the bed. See, we stayed in some very nice hotel rooms, but, you know, I'm very tall. Kathy's very
short. And there was a lot of things in those rooms that weren't where they should be.
Be at home, you painstaking, the longer you're in a home, the more you painstakingly make it
fit you. Fit your height. Fit your weight. Fit your emotions. Home is where everything
fits. See? Now, you're not really home. You know why we're not home? We're not in ultimate home
because ultimate real home would be a place in which everything fit the deepest longings of your soul.
Complete love, complete rest. The Bible is so filled with stories to tell you that you're in exile.
Because, of course, you have the story of Abraham, the people of God begin in exile. Abraham,
leave your country. And then the people of God are in exile in Egypt. And then there's
in exile in Babylon. And you say, well, that's, that's Israel. Yes, but Israel's a microcosm of the human race,
because you know what the Bible's about? Where does it start? In Genesis, what does it tell you at the
beginning? We're in exile. We lost paradise. And this world is no longer home. It's filled with
death. We're always losing loved ones. We're always losing love. We're always, evil's always on top of good.
this is not fit.
This doesn't fit us at all.
This world's not home.
And you know, if you don't believe in God or the Bible,
the irony of that is because you think this world is all there is,
and this is the only world that ever could be,
you don't know why you're so unhappy.
You're in exile and you don't know it.
See, if you think this world is the only world that could be,
and we have evolved to fit this world,
doesn't that how evolution works, natural selection, adaptation to the environment? Well, I want to know
then why are we so unhappy? If this is the only world, if this is home, if this is really home,
why are we so unhappy? Why can't we handle death? Why isn't death like, who cares? Oh, I love that
person with all my heart. They died. Oh, so what? That's the world. And if you were adapted to this
world, it wouldn't bother you. But it does. You see that? You're not home. This place doesn't
you, you're not home. The Bible says the reason is because we were created for fellowship with God.
And if you want to know where true home is, it's in the arms of God and in the face of God and the
presence of God. That's the reason why Psalm 90 says he is our dwelling place. And Isaac Watts writes a
hymn about that, calling it, saying God is our eternal home. And we're told that someday
God is going to, in a sense, return.
His presence will cover the earth the way the waters cover, the bottom of the sea,
and he will get rid of death and he will get rid of suffering,
and he'll make this world a home again and he'll fix everything.
That's home.
And until then, everybody, even if you're a Christian, even if you're a great Christian,
you aren't home.
You're not home.
And therefore, you're always on a pilgrimage.
things will never be what you want them to be. Life doesn't fit. The world doesn't fit.
And there'll be some better times, there'll be some worse times, but you're on a pilgrimage
homeward bound, you're on your way homeward, but you're, you're an exile. You're a pilgrim.
You're on a journey. And you will never really understand your own life until you understand that.
Secondly, that's the first implication of being exiles. There were pilgrims. And I don't know why in the
world, if this world is really our home, we'd be so unhappy here. However, secondly, the word exile also,
and this is what I want to explore more now, the word exile also tells you something about how you
should be relating to the world around you. That means that is the society and the culture around
you. This word exile is a wonderful world, a wonderful word to tell you, how do you live in a place
like New York City if you're a Christian? How do you do it?
And the answer is not withdrawal and not assimilation and accommodation.
We're not identical to our neighbors, and yet we are deeply involved in loving our neighbors.
Miroslav Volf at one point talks about the fact, you know, people say, why is this true?
And Miroslav Volf in his book on identity says, when you become a Christian, of course, suddenly,
I would say in traditional cultures, your identity is largely grounded in your family and therefore in your race and your blood.
In Western cultures, your identity is probably more grounded in your career.
You know, I'm a good lawyer, I make money, or I'm an artist, it's grounded in your career.
And the minute you become a Christian now, the source of your value, the source of your security suddenly becomes
far more deeply rooted in Christ.
It doesn't mean you stop being a lawyer.
It doesn't mean you stop being Anglo or Asian or Hispanic or African American or whatever.
It doesn't mean you lose the one identity.
It's just another one comes in that's deeper.
And so in a sense you have both, asymmetrical.
In other words, if you're Chinese, you become a Christian, you don't become a European Christian.
You're a Chinese Christian, but you're a Chinese Christian.
and as
Volf says it perfectly I think
he says Christians therefore can never be
first Asians or Americans
Russians or Tutsis
and then Christians
Christians take a distance
from the idols of their own culture
because they give ultimate allegiance
to the God of all cultures
so when they respond to the call of the gospel
this is helpful they plant one foot outside the culture
while the other remains firmly planted in it. See, resident aliens.
Christianity is not flight from one's original culture, but a new way of living within it,
within it, because of the new vision of peace and joy in Christ.
And the same thing happens if you're a lawyer or if you're an artist.
No longer is your primary identity in being an artist or being a lawyer or being Chinese
or being European or being whatever.
You've got one foot in, one foot out, but the deepest is your identity in Christ.
And that makes you a resident alien.
It means you're different and yet you're the same.
But you're not one or you're not the other altogether.
That's what it means to live as exile.
So second, the other thing we learn here is there's a test given to you as to whether you actually are living as exiles.
That's how we should live.
But how do you know if you are?
There's a test.
Do you want to see the test?
You know, when I was in school, I hated tests.
So I know the material.
I read it.
I heard this in the lectures.
I don't need a test.
but they gave me tests anyway. So I'm going to give you a test because misery loves company.
So here it is, verse 11 and 12.
Dear friends, I mean, just let me distill out the essence of the thought.
Dear friends, I urge you as foreigners and exiles to live such good lives among the pagans
that though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us.
There it is.
Now, for a moment, I'm going to put aside, what does it mean to live a good life?
But the point is, if you're in exile and you're living a good life as an exile, two things will happen at once.
And notice they're happening at once. Look carefully.
Though they accuse you of doing wrong, they will see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us.
It doesn't say, if you really live good lives, they'll only glorify God and they're not going to accuse you.
Or vice versa. Here's what it says.
if you're living the lives you ought to live, first of all, you will be accused.
You will be misunderstood.
You will offend the people around you.
They will think you strange.
They will think you sometimes dangerous.
On the other hand, they will also see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits.
What that really means is some people in every culture, if you're living like you should,
it's going to be really upset with you, really offended, really angry, and other people
are going to see the beauty of God in you and come to Christ.
Now, what does it mean then to live a good life? If you're living as you should, if you're living as exiles, if you're living good life, that means you will be extraordinarily offensive and incredibly attractive at the same time. And that is your test. You won't just turn people off, you'll also attract them. You won't just attract people, you'll also turn them off at the same time. Now, by the way, let's test this out. What does it mean to say good line?
and the reason we know something about what this probably means is that Peter is actually quoting
Jesus, or at least he's alluding to what Jesus said in the sermon on the Mount. In the sermon on
the Mount, he's just finished talking about persecution. He just says, you're going to be persecuted
at the end of the beatitudes. And then he turns, and he starts talking about being salt and light,
and when he gets to light, he says, you are the light of the world, and therefore let your good
deeds show and forth so, so, almost the same words, so that the pagans may see your good deeds and
glorify God. And he's actually saying the same thing that Peter is saying, or me you might
say Peter is saying what Jesus said, and that is that if you are living the life you ought to live,
good deeds, you will be both persecuted at the same time you'll attract people. You'll be
offensive and attractive at once. You'll be outrageous and compelling at the same time.
You'll be persecuted and yet your church will grow because you'll be
winning people to Christ. Ah, you say, well, then what are good deeds? Well, see, when Jesus said it,
it was very clear, sermon on the mount. See, Jesus was explaining what it means to live the
Christian life, and he says, he's basically saying, if you live like this, you will be both,
you will be both offensive and attractive. What is my purpose in life? What is a good life?
And why does the world feel so broken? In the Gospels, Jesus meets people who are asking these very
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to a social outcast, Dr. Keller shows how these encounters with Jesus can uniquely address
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Now, here's Tim Keller with the remainder of today's teaching.
Well, what's in this sermon on the mat?
Well, I can't go through all of it now, but I can tell you this.
Let me just do a little history lesson.
We know there was at least four things that the early Christians exhibited to their non-Christian names.
because they lived the sermon on the Mount that were both offensive and attractive.
You know what those four things were?
Forgiveness, generosity to the poor of all races, the ability to cheerfully take suffering in death,
and sexual chastity, sex only for marriage.
In those four ways, Christians were radically different than their neighbors,
and they were in some ways offensive and strange and other ways compelling.
I'll just do a little background here.
First of all, forgiveness.
It's a little hard for us today to understand this,
but the Greco-Roman world,
those were shame and honor cultures.
In shame and honor cultures,
it was understood that social stability
depended on people fearing and respecting their neighbor
as men and women of honor.
Now, what did it mean to be a man of honor
in shame culture?
It meant that if you wronged him,
or anyone in his family, he would take vengeance because he was a man of honor.
The family's honor is at stake, you see?
So in other words, a man of honor, a woman of honor, that if you wrong them, if their family
was wrong, then they would come and take vengeance.
And that was considered to be the way in which societies kept together.
You lived the way you should live because everybody around you was a, you had a fear and
respect.
And Christians came along and said, turn the other cheek.
forgive 70 times seven
don't repay evil with evil but overcome evil with good nuts crazy
society will fall apart
and yet it's also kind of attractive
all that graciousness and forgiveness
secondly
Christians were not just generous to their own poor
but to the poor of other nations
other nationalities
again in an honor and shame culture
you basic, and in a traditional culture, you basically got your identity from your family and therefore
from your tribe and from your blood. And though you did take care of your own people, if they got,
fell into poverty, you never took care of somebody else's. And Christians took care of all sorts of
people, all the different races. And they'd never seen anything like that. Now, the reason
Christians did it was Christians believe what the Bible says about the Imago Day, the image of God.
the Bible teaches that all human beings are made in the image of God, and therefore every human
being, regardless of race, regardless of social class, regardless of capacity or talent, all human
beings have a kind of foundational dignity and inviolable dignity.
Now, that idea had not gotten out into the world yet.
Historians will tell you that the very idea of human rights basically comes from this Christian
biblical idea of the Amago Day.
Martin Luther King Jr. certainly believed that. He ran with that. It was the basis for an awful
lot of what he did. But of course, back then, this idea of everybody in the image of God was not
known, and therefore for Christians to come along and take care of not only of their own
the poor of their own race, but of other races too was crazy. Thirdly, Christians could face death
and suffering with cheerfulness because they believed in the future resurrection. And
their neighbors belong to a culture that did not give them that resource. And fourth, sexual chastity.
See, the Greeks believe that the body wasn't all that important. What mattered was the mind and the soul.
And therefore, sex was just seen as a bodily appetite, no big deal. So they understood it as
just a way of getting pleasure. The Christians come along and said, no, no, sex is a way to
make a full life commitment, total life commitment to one of the
person. So they had this high view of sex, therefore it was only for marriage. And again, all these
things were, on the one hand, rather offensive to a lot of the people around the Christians.
This idea of sexual chastity and generosity to, you know, promiscuous to anybody, you know,
even your, you know, to anybody practically. And this approach to suffering and this approach
to forgiveness. On the one hand, it was very outrageous and sometimes offensive and kind of
nuts on the other hand come on kind of attractive too forgiveness graciousness loving all the poor
the ability to handle suffering watching people die with smiles on their faces as they're
singing hymns the pagans couldn't figure it out now do you see what's going on you know what
happened historically the Christians were persecuted they were killed and they grew like crazy
they were both offensive and they were attractive to the max.
And this principle that in every culture, every culture,
any group of Christians who lives according to the sermon on the Mount,
who lives the way Jesus wants to live,
will be both offensive and attractive,
but in different ways is a universal rule.
So, for example, today in the Middle East,
they'll look at the way Christians believe about sex and marriage,
and they'll say that's fine.
But then they'll look at forgiveness,
and they'll look at how quickly we restore people
after they've fallen.
When they look at how we treat our enemies,
because they are shaming on our cultures.
They say, that's crazy, that's wrong, that's weak.
Here in Manhattan, it's the way around.
In Manhattan, people like the idea of forgiveness.
They don't quite know how to do it,
but they like the Christian idea of forgiveness.
But they don't do it, but they sort of like the idea.
But what we say about sex and marriage,
they just consider it just crazy, offensive, and maybe dangerous.
And you know what that means?
It means that if the Bible really is,
not the product of any one culture,
but it really has come down from God,
then it would have to, in every culture,
offend you somewhere and attract you in other ways,
but in different ways.
You'd be offended in different ways,
attracted in different ways.
But the universal is that if you're a Christian in your culture,
you will be offensive and attractive.
Okay, how are you doing with that test?
Think about it, would you?
how are you doing with it? I would have to say that most Christians are either offensive but not very
attractive because they're always talking about their Christianity, they're talking about their
Christian faith, they're getting a lot of pushback. They're either offensive and not attractive.
Or in some cases they're attractive, but not offensive because they're just keeping a low profile
and they kind of go along with what everybody else is saying. Or in most cases, we're neither
offensive or attractive.
You know, see, people who are offensive, listen carefully, I've got that, this is a little bit of a
train of reasoning. People who are offensive and not attractive are a little bit like Jesus
in the sense that they are denouncing the money changers in the temple and denouncing the Pharisees.
And people who are attractive but not offensive are a little bit like Jesus in that they're
attracting the moral and social outsiders, but they're, but you see, in both cases, if you're,
you're offensive and not attractive, attractive and not offensive, you're a little bit like Jesus,
but not all the way, you're a little bit like Jesus, not all the way, but if you're neither
offensive nor attractive, if nobody's attracted to your Christian faith, if nobody's attracted to
your character, and nobody's offended or upset and you never take it on the chin for Jesus,
you're not offensive or attractive, you're not like Jesus at all. Think about it. And let's go
further. To be truly offensive, take courage. To be truly attractive takes enormous melt in
your mouth, compassion.
Gentle with doubters.
You know, merciful to your opponents.
So to be courageous, I mean, to be offensive takes courage, to be attractive, takes
compassion.
But see, courage without any attractiveness is probably not real courage.
It's self-righteousness.
You like to tell people off.
And attractiveness without courage is not really love or compassion.
It's really cowardice.
how are you doing with this?
Are you offensive and attractive?
Or maybe neither?
Do people come to you and want to open up and talk about their problems?
Okay, that's a good sign.
Do they talk to you about your faith?
That's a good sign.
Do you ever take it on the chin?
Do you ever really get in trouble because of what you believe?
That's a good sign too.
But what if you only have one sign, not the other, or neither?
Then you're failing the test.
So if it's true that it takes tremendous courage and tremendous compassion in order to live the way we're called to live as exiles, where do we get the power for that?
Where do we get that?
And the answer is you've got to see two things.
There's two things.
Here's the first thing.
First of all, you have to see that you're a chosen people of royal priesthood, a holy nation, and God's special possession.
That is a classic, enormously rich series of four things, four statements, four ways of talking about the Christian church.
If you are a Christian, you're part of a chosen people, a royal priest, a holy nation, God's special possession.
I do not have the time.
And some of you are saying, you're not going to go into that now, are you really?
We'll be here forever.
And you're right.
So let me just talk about the beginning and the end.
first of all, your gods, your chosen people.
An old teacher of mine, Ed Clowny, had a wonderful way of preaching on this.
He used to say, first of all, notice if you're a Christian, you're not the choice people.
You're the chosen people.
You know the difference?
Choice people means you're spiritual, you're virtuous, you're hardworking, you're diligent,
you know, your choice.
But it doesn't say that.
It says you're chosen.
You're just chosen.
What does that mean?
Well, Ed would go to Deuteronomy 7.
Deuteronomy 7 says, where God is talking to Israel and he says, I did not choose you because
you were the greatest of nations. In fact, you were the puniest of nations.
However, because I loved you, I chose you.
And Ed said, did you hear that?
You know what that is?
That's circular reasoning.
God is saying, I didn't choose you because you were virtuous, because you were hardworking,
because you were spiritual.
I didn't choose you and love you because of those things.
I just loved you because I loved you.
See, it's circular.
I didn't choose you for this, this, this, this, this is this.
I chose you because I love you because I love you,
which means I don't love you because you're all these things.
I just love you because I love you because I love you.
Now, we say, well, that's kind of circular, isn't it?
That's kind of weird.
And it says, yes, it is.
And that's the only way real love works.
And he says, try it out in your marriage.
And this would be, here's an illustration.
Your spouse comes to you someday and says,
honey, do you love me? And you say, of course I love you. And then the spouse comes back and says,
why? And when your spouse says that, there's a couple ways you can answer. The one is you can say,
well, you've got all these great virtues. You know, you're very, very physically attractive. You
are a terrific tennis player. You make money. You know, you have a good career. Now, I want you to know that the conversation is going
downhill fast. If you don't know that, who wants to hear that? Who wants to hear? What if I lose my job?
What if I put on weight? What if I, you know, have surgery and I can't play tennis? I mean,
here's what you need to say. Here's what you need to say, and I hope you can. You need to say,
honey, I must admit that there's these various traits that you had that attracted to me to you at
first, but now I love you just because I love you. That's called unconditional love, and it's the only
love that we can possibly live with. And because we're chosen by grace, because we're chosen by
sheer grace, not because we're choice. You can run to the last of these four statements where it says
you're God's special possession. That's a term that means you're his treasure. It's a word that
really means your most precious possession, like that heirloom, that the jewelry that your great
grandmother left you, that you have, you know, in your jewelry box, and you know that actually
it's worth as much as everything else in your whole apartment put together, and you probably ought to
put under lock and key. That's the sort of thing we're talking about here, because actually,
the first time that this word is used, this term is used, is in Exodus 19 when God speaks to
the children of Israel at Mount Sinai and says, even though I own the whole world, you are my treasured
possession. See, that's like saying, I got galaxies. You talk about rich people. I got galaxies,
says God. But none of them mean anything to me like you do. Do you know you're loved like that?
Do you know because you're chosen by grace, you're loved like that? Have you grasped it? Has it grasped you?
has it really hit you?
I'm telling you, until this is an existential reality to you,
you will not have real courage.
You'll have swagger, maybe, and self-righteousness and braggadocio,
and you won't have real compassion.
You'll go out there to serve people so you can feel good about yourself,
so you can feel like a good person.
But you'll be using the people you're serving.
You won't be actually serving them.
Until you know you're this loved, you'll be doing everything in order to
to feel better about yourself.
Not real courage, not real compassion, not real offensive, not real attractive at the same time.
You need to know you're this loved.
Do you?
And if you say, gee, I'd love to be that sure.
I don't know that I am.
I'd love to be.
How can I be that sure?
I know this in principle, I believe I'm loved by God.
But how do I actually know that?
And it's the second thing you have to see, of course.
And this is what you've got to talk to yourself about.
Verse two.
how did you become a Christian? Why can you be a Christian? How can you be loved like this? Because,
look, verse two, you were chosen by the Father, just talked about that. You were sanctified by the
spirit. That was last week. But here's the real reason, because of the shed blood of Jesus Christ.
Which means, think about it like this. Jesus was the ultimate exile. He was home. I mean, he was in the
bosom of the father. He was home. And yet he left home. He came to earth. And even here on earth,
do you ever see a gospel story? Do you ever see any gospel account that talks about Jesus being at home?
Jesus was at home eating and they came in and said something. Do you ever see that? No. Why not?
He says, he says, foxes have holes, birds have nests. The son of man has nowhere to lay his head.
he was exiled from his home in heaven and even here on earth he wandered he wandered why this was
what he came to do and then he was crucified outside the gate outside the city he was the ultimate exile
my god my god why hast thou forsaken me he was homeless he lost his home he was exile he took the exile
we deserved he got the exile that we human being deserved so that we could be brought we could be brought
into home. And only when you see him dying that big death for you, will you really have
courage? You know how at the end of the Lord of the Rings there's a big battle? It's both in the book
and in the movie. And there's, and one of the hobbits, Mariodoc, one of the hobbits, is in the middle
of the battle. And he's, he's utterly, utterly frightened and panic for his life. He's just really,
he's crawling around in the mud. He's even, he's afraid to look up. There's all the
these huge evil warriors around. He's afraid for his life and he's just, he's just running scared.
And then suddenly he looks up and he sees Aowen standing in front of the biggest of them all,
standing ready to die before the biggest of the evil warriors, right?
And in the book, it says, the slow, kindled courage of his race awoke.
And he looked at her and he said, she should not die alone.
That's how you get courage.
Then he got up and he did his great deed.
So look at Jesus.
Next time you're afraid.
You're afraid of speaking up.
You're afraid of doing something courageous.
You're afraid of opening your mouth.
You're afraid of identifying with him.
You're afraid of doing something that you know you should do.
But you're going to take it on the chin.
The next time you're afraid, look at Jesus and say,
he should not die alone.
He died the big death for you.
Why aren't you willing to die a little death?
So somebody kills your reputation. He died. He had the great death. Look at him and say, he should not die alone. Look, when Kathy and I moved here 25 years ago, and some of you were here, I know, remember how the parks were filled with homeless people? And what was a shame about that was that parks are wonderful places, but they can't bear the full weight of a person's whole life. They're not places. They're not places.
places to go to eat, sleep, bathe, and do the other things that you do at home. In other words,
parks are great places, but they're not home. And so they can't bear the full weight of human
life, and therefore they became foul. I'm here to tell you that if there's anything that is
more important to you than Jesus Christ and his salvation, if you're relying on anything more than him,
if you love anything more than him, if you're trying to get your significance and security
out of anything more than you are trying to get out of Jesus Christ.
Those things that you're relying on and looking to, whether it's career or family or whatever,
is not, it's a good thing, but it's not home.
It'll never bear the full weight of your soul.
If you do that, you'll always be wandering and never find home.
It'll always be winter and never Christmas.
Here's what you need to do.
You need to say, Lord Jesus, I want to live for you because you are exiled for me.
Bring me home.
Father, accept me because of what Jesus has done.
And then, bit by bit as the years go by, though you're still a pilgrim, you'll experience in prayer, you'll experience in worship, you'll experience foretace of home, foretaste of his love, foretaste of his presence.
And you'll slowly find your homesickness, the humannlickeit of your heart, the homesickness slowly but surely cured.
and you will know that someday you're going to wake up and you're going to say,
I'm home at last.
This is where I belong.
This is the land I've been looking for all my life, though I never knew it.
Let's pray.
Our Father, we thank you that we can know that if we believe in you and rely on the salvation of Jesus Christ,
we're on our way home.
And we can have foretastes of home, even now. And we can forgive, and we can be generous, and we can be
chased, and we can be able to handle suffering and even death. We can live lives that to some degree
will offend our neighbors, but yet we can still pour ourselves out and love them. And we'll know that
we'll be both offensive and attractive, and that's fine because, oh, my word, Lord, your son, Jesus
Christ was so beautiful and he attracted when he was lifted up on the cross he drew the world to
himself and yet he was also persecuted and betrayed and forsaken so father we pray that you would teach us
how to be pilgrims here how to live as joyful exiles we pray that you'd help us to live this
resurrected life because in the end this is what our heart wants the most help us it'll glorify you
and it'll satisfy us.
Help us be the people that you've called us to be.
We pray in Jesus' name. Amen.
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Today's sermon was recorded in 2014.
The sermons and talks you hear on the Gospel and Life podcast were recorded between 1989 and 2017,
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