Timothy Keller Sermons Podcast by Gospel in Life - Our Identity: Joyful Exiles

Episode Date: April 10, 2026

Jesus’ resurrected power is in our lives now. Even though we are not yet bodily resurrected, Christians are, according to Ephesians 2, raised with Christ and knowing the power of his resurrection. W...hat does that mean? What does it mean to live that kind of life? What kind of life should we live now in light of the resurrection of Jesus?  Let’s look at 1) how we’re supposed to live as Christians, 2) the test by which we know whether we’re living that way, and 3) the power by which we can live that way. This sermon was preached by Dr. Timothy Keller at Redeemer Presbyterian Church on May 11, 2014. Series: Following Jesus. Scripture: 1 Peter 1:1-2. Today's podcast is brought to you by Gospel in Life, the site for all sermons, books, study guides and resources from Timothy Keller and Redeemer Presbyterian Church. If you've enjoyed listening to this podcast and would like to support the ongoing efforts of this ministry, you can do so by visiting https://gospelinlife.com/give and making a one-time or recurring donation.

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Starting point is 00:00:01 You're listening to the Gospel and Life podcast. What does authentic spiritual growth actually look like? Writing to early believers, Peter outlines several qualities of a life that looks more and more like Christ's. Today, Tim Keller takes a closer look at how we can develop this in our own lives and how the resurrection of Jesus makes true, lasting transformation possible. The scripture reading is from 1 Peter, chapter 1, verse 1 through 2, and chapter 2, verses 9 through 12. Peter, an apostle of Jesus Christ, to God's elect, exiles scattered throughout the provinces of Pontus, Galicia, Capadocia, Asia, and Bethinia, who have been chosen according to the
Starting point is 00:00:52 foreknowledge of God the Father through the sanctifying work of the Spirit to be obedient to Jesus Christ and sprinkled with his blood. Grace and peace be yours in abundance. But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God's special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light. Once you are not a people, but now you are the people of God. Once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy. Dear friends, I urge you as foreigners and exiles to abstain from sinful desires which wage war against your soul. Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us. This is God's word.
Starting point is 00:01:49 After Easter, we look at the question of what is the resurrection life? Because Ephesians 2, Philippians 3, talk about the fact that even though Christians, of course, are not yet bodily resurrected, and raised from the dead at the end of time, which is what we believe will happen. But right now, we still are, according to Ephesians 2, we're raised with Christ, according to Philippians 3. We know the power of his resurrection. His resurrected power is in our lives now. What does that mean?
Starting point is 00:02:25 What does it mean to live that kind of life? Now, what we're doing in the weeks after Easter is we're taking 1st and 2nd Peter, and we're looking at it, we're looking at it for answers to that question. What kind of life should we live now in light of the resurrection of Jesus? And last week we looked at one very important theme that we get out of First Peter, which is the new birth. You can't understand what it means to live the Christian life without the new birth. But now we're going to look at another theme, very important theme, without which you can understand how to live the Christian life in this world. And so what I want to do is I want to look at this theme this way.
Starting point is 00:03:00 First of all, let's look at the theme itself, how we're supposed to live as Christians. And then the test by which we know whether we're living that way and the power by which we can live that way. So let's take a look at how this passage tells us we should live as Christians, how we can know the test that we can know we're living that way, and then where do you get the power to do it? So first of all, what is this theme that tells us how to live lives as Christians that we're going to look at this week? And the answer is it's the theme of being exiles. because in verse one it says to God's elect exiles scattered throughout the provinces.
Starting point is 00:03:41 And he's talking to all the people that he's writing to. In other words, the Christians are the exiles. Interestingly enough, the word scattered there in verse one is the word diaspora, which is the word that's usually used for the Jews, because the Jews who were not living in their homeland. Peter applies it to Christians. And he says, we're all exiles. And then down in verse 11, which we'll get to in a second,
Starting point is 00:04:04 He says, Dear Friends, I urge you as foreigners, and exiles. So Christians are exiles and we're to live as exiles. Now, the Greek word that's used there, as is often the case, as you know, can't be completely conveyed by any one English word. So the word exiles isn't bad. But the actual Greek word refers to a very particular kind of person. Exile could be, I think the word exile is too general. you know if somebody is trying to get away from being put in prison in one country you run to another country
Starting point is 00:04:38 you're in exile but that's probably not the best way to understand it the word the word parapidemi which is the Greek word here is best translated resident alien and it's describing a kind of person that we have actually some of you probably are resident aliens at a literal level here's what a resident alien is on the one hand you're not a tourist You're in another country, a country that you're not a citizen of, but you're not a tourist. You live here. You're here, let's just say, on a resident passport, or you have what we call a green card. You're part of the society.
Starting point is 00:05:12 You are a functioning part of society. You have a job. You're here. You know the language. You're not like a tourist who comes and somebody is doing all the translation and you're detached and you're looking at all the exotic things. No, you're a resident. You're here.
Starting point is 00:05:29 You have a job here. You're part of society. You know the language, you're fluent. You have friends and neighbors who you are in relationships with. So on the one hand, you're residents, you're not tourists. But on the other hand, you're still not a citizen. You're a citizen of your home country. You haven't assimilated.
Starting point is 00:05:50 You haven't given up your citizenship. And therefore, even though your neighbors, if you're resident alien, even though your neighbors, even though your neighbors like you, you know, you can speak the language and they like like you, they still think you're kind of weird. Because you don't share all their values, you don't share all their customs, you're still different. And it also, by the way, means that because you're not a citizen, you don't enjoy all the privileges of full citizens. And lastly, you're here on a passport, which means you're not expected to stay forever. That is the word that Peter, it's a very, very specific kind of word. That's the word that Peter uses for Christians. We are resident aliens.
Starting point is 00:06:35 We are not tourists. We're engaged. On the other hand, we're not citizens. We're citizens of heaven. And yet we are residents here and we are engaged to love our neighbors. And that is the balance. Now, what does that mean? What are the implications?
Starting point is 00:06:54 I'll give you two implications of this word for how you live the Christian life. one implication is that we are pilgrims here and this is a related word that we don't talk about enough I think certainly in the modern church we are pilgrims exiles means we're not home we're on our way home but we're not home and this is extraordinarily important for you to know because it's right and it's right of us to stress the great things that happen when you become a Christian the minute you become a Christian. You know that you are wholly pardoned, you're completely accepted and loved. In fact, we'll get back to that. And that's a very transformative recognition, a thing to realization. But once, when you become a Christian, ultimately, you aren't not, you haven't
Starting point is 00:07:47 arrived. You've just begun. And the Christian life, when we talk about the Christian life being a pilgrimage, and we talk about Christians being exiles, what this means is, your Christian life will never be all that completely satisfying. You will struggle. Things will never be just right. You'll always feel like I just, you know, I haven't been able to get on top of this or that. There will be emptinesses, there will be struggles,
Starting point is 00:08:17 all during a Christian life. You know why? Because even though you're a Christian, even though you're loved, you are not home. You're not home. Okay, what's home? You can't understand what it means being exile as you understand what is home. Well, that's not an easy thing to define, but let me try. Kathy and I were recently on a trip. We went to Asia and Australia with city to city,
Starting point is 00:08:45 Redeemer City to City. We do church planting in the great cities of the world. We were out there, we were in a place like Hong Kong and Sydney, talking to church planters and pastors, and it was quite exciting. So for many, many, we do. weeks we were, you know, on the road. And they took care of us pretty much. But when you get home and you get into your bed, your bed. There is no bed like your bed. You know why? Because you work very hard, especially the longer you have a home, you know, the more you work to have a bed that's exactly, exactly like you like it. Not too hard, not too soft, you know, not too squishy, not too much this, not too much of that. And, you know, over the years, you know, I hate that bed. I hate that
Starting point is 00:09:27 bad. It gives me that backward. And finally, you get your bed just the way you like it. And it's not just the bed. See, we stayed in some very nice hotel rooms, but, you know, I'm very tall. Kathy's very short. And there was a lot of things in those rooms that weren't where they should be. Be at home, you painstaking, the longer you're in a home, the more you painstakingly make it fit you. Fit your height. Fit your weight. Fit your emotions. Home is where everything fits. See? Now, you're not really home. You know why we're not home? We're not in ultimate home because ultimate real home would be a place in which everything fit the deepest longings of your soul. Complete love, complete rest. The Bible is so filled with stories to tell you that you're in exile.
Starting point is 00:10:20 Because, of course, you have the story of Abraham, the people of God begin in exile. Abraham, leave your country. And then the people of God are in exile in Egypt. And then there's in exile in Babylon. And you say, well, that's, that's Israel. Yes, but Israel's a microcosm of the human race, because you know what the Bible's about? Where does it start? In Genesis, what does it tell you at the beginning? We're in exile. We lost paradise. And this world is no longer home. It's filled with death. We're always losing loved ones. We're always losing love. We're always, evil's always on top of good. this is not fit. This doesn't fit us at all.
Starting point is 00:11:02 This world's not home. And you know, if you don't believe in God or the Bible, the irony of that is because you think this world is all there is, and this is the only world that ever could be, you don't know why you're so unhappy. You're in exile and you don't know it. See, if you think this world is the only world that could be, and we have evolved to fit this world,
Starting point is 00:11:29 doesn't that how evolution works, natural selection, adaptation to the environment? Well, I want to know then why are we so unhappy? If this is the only world, if this is home, if this is really home, why are we so unhappy? Why can't we handle death? Why isn't death like, who cares? Oh, I love that person with all my heart. They died. Oh, so what? That's the world. And if you were adapted to this world, it wouldn't bother you. But it does. You see that? You're not home. This place doesn't you, you're not home. The Bible says the reason is because we were created for fellowship with God. And if you want to know where true home is, it's in the arms of God and in the face of God and the presence of God. That's the reason why Psalm 90 says he is our dwelling place. And Isaac Watts writes a
Starting point is 00:12:21 hymn about that, calling it, saying God is our eternal home. And we're told that someday God is going to, in a sense, return. His presence will cover the earth the way the waters cover, the bottom of the sea, and he will get rid of death and he will get rid of suffering, and he'll make this world a home again and he'll fix everything. That's home. And until then, everybody, even if you're a Christian, even if you're a great Christian, you aren't home.
Starting point is 00:12:52 You're not home. And therefore, you're always on a pilgrimage. things will never be what you want them to be. Life doesn't fit. The world doesn't fit. And there'll be some better times, there'll be some worse times, but you're on a pilgrimage homeward bound, you're on your way homeward, but you're, you're an exile. You're a pilgrim. You're on a journey. And you will never really understand your own life until you understand that. Secondly, that's the first implication of being exiles. There were pilgrims. And I don't know why in the world, if this world is really our home, we'd be so unhappy here. However, secondly, the word exile also,
Starting point is 00:13:35 and this is what I want to explore more now, the word exile also tells you something about how you should be relating to the world around you. That means that is the society and the culture around you. This word exile is a wonderful world, a wonderful word to tell you, how do you live in a place like New York City if you're a Christian? How do you do it? And the answer is not withdrawal and not assimilation and accommodation. We're not identical to our neighbors, and yet we are deeply involved in loving our neighbors. Miroslav Volf at one point talks about the fact, you know, people say, why is this true? And Miroslav Volf in his book on identity says, when you become a Christian, of course, suddenly,
Starting point is 00:14:20 I would say in traditional cultures, your identity is largely grounded in your family and therefore in your race and your blood. In Western cultures, your identity is probably more grounded in your career. You know, I'm a good lawyer, I make money, or I'm an artist, it's grounded in your career. And the minute you become a Christian now, the source of your value, the source of your security suddenly becomes far more deeply rooted in Christ. It doesn't mean you stop being a lawyer. It doesn't mean you stop being Anglo or Asian or Hispanic or African American or whatever. It doesn't mean you lose the one identity.
Starting point is 00:15:03 It's just another one comes in that's deeper. And so in a sense you have both, asymmetrical. In other words, if you're Chinese, you become a Christian, you don't become a European Christian. You're a Chinese Christian, but you're a Chinese Christian. and as Volf says it perfectly I think he says Christians therefore can never be first Asians or Americans
Starting point is 00:15:27 Russians or Tutsis and then Christians Christians take a distance from the idols of their own culture because they give ultimate allegiance to the God of all cultures so when they respond to the call of the gospel this is helpful they plant one foot outside the culture
Starting point is 00:15:46 while the other remains firmly planted in it. See, resident aliens. Christianity is not flight from one's original culture, but a new way of living within it, within it, because of the new vision of peace and joy in Christ. And the same thing happens if you're a lawyer or if you're an artist. No longer is your primary identity in being an artist or being a lawyer or being Chinese or being European or being whatever. You've got one foot in, one foot out, but the deepest is your identity in Christ. And that makes you a resident alien.
Starting point is 00:16:16 It means you're different and yet you're the same. But you're not one or you're not the other altogether. That's what it means to live as exile. So second, the other thing we learn here is there's a test given to you as to whether you actually are living as exiles. That's how we should live. But how do you know if you are? There's a test. Do you want to see the test?
Starting point is 00:16:39 You know, when I was in school, I hated tests. So I know the material. I read it. I heard this in the lectures. I don't need a test. but they gave me tests anyway. So I'm going to give you a test because misery loves company. So here it is, verse 11 and 12. Dear friends, I mean, just let me distill out the essence of the thought.
Starting point is 00:17:00 Dear friends, I urge you as foreigners and exiles to live such good lives among the pagans that though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us. There it is. Now, for a moment, I'm going to put aside, what does it mean to live a good life? But the point is, if you're in exile and you're living a good life as an exile, two things will happen at once. And notice they're happening at once. Look carefully. Though they accuse you of doing wrong, they will see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us. It doesn't say, if you really live good lives, they'll only glorify God and they're not going to accuse you.
Starting point is 00:17:40 Or vice versa. Here's what it says. if you're living the lives you ought to live, first of all, you will be accused. You will be misunderstood. You will offend the people around you. They will think you strange. They will think you sometimes dangerous. On the other hand, they will also see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits. What that really means is some people in every culture, if you're living like you should,
Starting point is 00:18:05 it's going to be really upset with you, really offended, really angry, and other people are going to see the beauty of God in you and come to Christ. Now, what does it mean then to live a good life? If you're living as you should, if you're living as exiles, if you're living good life, that means you will be extraordinarily offensive and incredibly attractive at the same time. And that is your test. You won't just turn people off, you'll also attract them. You won't just attract people, you'll also turn them off at the same time. Now, by the way, let's test this out. What does it mean to say good line? and the reason we know something about what this probably means is that Peter is actually quoting Jesus, or at least he's alluding to what Jesus said in the sermon on the Mount. In the sermon on the Mount, he's just finished talking about persecution. He just says, you're going to be persecuted at the end of the beatitudes. And then he turns, and he starts talking about being salt and light, and when he gets to light, he says, you are the light of the world, and therefore let your good
Starting point is 00:19:13 deeds show and forth so, so, almost the same words, so that the pagans may see your good deeds and glorify God. And he's actually saying the same thing that Peter is saying, or me you might say Peter is saying what Jesus said, and that is that if you are living the life you ought to live, good deeds, you will be both persecuted at the same time you'll attract people. You'll be offensive and attractive at once. You'll be outrageous and compelling at the same time. You'll be persecuted and yet your church will grow because you'll be winning people to Christ. Ah, you say, well, then what are good deeds? Well, see, when Jesus said it, it was very clear, sermon on the mount. See, Jesus was explaining what it means to live the
Starting point is 00:19:54 Christian life, and he says, he's basically saying, if you live like this, you will be both, you will be both offensive and attractive. What is my purpose in life? What is a good life? And why does the world feel so broken? In the Gospels, Jesus meets people who are asking these very questions, and when Jesus responds, their lives are changed in unexpected ways. In his book, Encounters with Jesus, Tim Keller explores several of these conversations. Looking at Jesus' interactions with everyone from a skeptical student to a religious insider to a social outcast, Dr. Keller shows how these encounters with Jesus can uniquely address the big questions and doubts we still face today. Encounters with Jesus is our thank you
Starting point is 00:20:40 for your gift this month to help Gospel in Life share the hope of the gospel with more people. Request your copy today when you make a gift at gospelandlife.com slash give. That's gospelonlife.com slash give. Now, here's Tim Keller with the remainder of today's teaching. Well, what's in this sermon on the mat? Well, I can't go through all of it now, but I can tell you this. Let me just do a little history lesson. We know there was at least four things that the early Christians exhibited to their non-Christian names.
Starting point is 00:21:12 because they lived the sermon on the Mount that were both offensive and attractive. You know what those four things were? Forgiveness, generosity to the poor of all races, the ability to cheerfully take suffering in death, and sexual chastity, sex only for marriage. In those four ways, Christians were radically different than their neighbors, and they were in some ways offensive and strange and other ways compelling. I'll just do a little background here. First of all, forgiveness.
Starting point is 00:21:46 It's a little hard for us today to understand this, but the Greco-Roman world, those were shame and honor cultures. In shame and honor cultures, it was understood that social stability depended on people fearing and respecting their neighbor as men and women of honor. Now, what did it mean to be a man of honor
Starting point is 00:22:06 in shame culture? It meant that if you wronged him, or anyone in his family, he would take vengeance because he was a man of honor. The family's honor is at stake, you see? So in other words, a man of honor, a woman of honor, that if you wrong them, if their family was wrong, then they would come and take vengeance. And that was considered to be the way in which societies kept together. You lived the way you should live because everybody around you was a, you had a fear and
Starting point is 00:22:37 respect. And Christians came along and said, turn the other cheek. forgive 70 times seven don't repay evil with evil but overcome evil with good nuts crazy society will fall apart and yet it's also kind of attractive all that graciousness and forgiveness secondly
Starting point is 00:22:58 Christians were not just generous to their own poor but to the poor of other nations other nationalities again in an honor and shame culture you basic, and in a traditional culture, you basically got your identity from your family and therefore from your tribe and from your blood. And though you did take care of your own people, if they got, fell into poverty, you never took care of somebody else's. And Christians took care of all sorts of people, all the different races. And they'd never seen anything like that. Now, the reason
Starting point is 00:23:34 Christians did it was Christians believe what the Bible says about the Imago Day, the image of God. the Bible teaches that all human beings are made in the image of God, and therefore every human being, regardless of race, regardless of social class, regardless of capacity or talent, all human beings have a kind of foundational dignity and inviolable dignity. Now, that idea had not gotten out into the world yet. Historians will tell you that the very idea of human rights basically comes from this Christian biblical idea of the Amago Day. Martin Luther King Jr. certainly believed that. He ran with that. It was the basis for an awful
Starting point is 00:24:11 lot of what he did. But of course, back then, this idea of everybody in the image of God was not known, and therefore for Christians to come along and take care of not only of their own the poor of their own race, but of other races too was crazy. Thirdly, Christians could face death and suffering with cheerfulness because they believed in the future resurrection. And their neighbors belong to a culture that did not give them that resource. And fourth, sexual chastity. See, the Greeks believe that the body wasn't all that important. What mattered was the mind and the soul. And therefore, sex was just seen as a bodily appetite, no big deal. So they understood it as just a way of getting pleasure. The Christians come along and said, no, no, sex is a way to
Starting point is 00:25:00 make a full life commitment, total life commitment to one of the person. So they had this high view of sex, therefore it was only for marriage. And again, all these things were, on the one hand, rather offensive to a lot of the people around the Christians. This idea of sexual chastity and generosity to, you know, promiscuous to anybody, you know, even your, you know, to anybody practically. And this approach to suffering and this approach to forgiveness. On the one hand, it was very outrageous and sometimes offensive and kind of nuts on the other hand come on kind of attractive too forgiveness graciousness loving all the poor the ability to handle suffering watching people die with smiles on their faces as they're
Starting point is 00:25:46 singing hymns the pagans couldn't figure it out now do you see what's going on you know what happened historically the Christians were persecuted they were killed and they grew like crazy they were both offensive and they were attractive to the max. And this principle that in every culture, every culture, any group of Christians who lives according to the sermon on the Mount, who lives the way Jesus wants to live, will be both offensive and attractive, but in different ways is a universal rule.
Starting point is 00:26:21 So, for example, today in the Middle East, they'll look at the way Christians believe about sex and marriage, and they'll say that's fine. But then they'll look at forgiveness, and they'll look at how quickly we restore people after they've fallen. When they look at how we treat our enemies, because they are shaming on our cultures.
Starting point is 00:26:38 They say, that's crazy, that's wrong, that's weak. Here in Manhattan, it's the way around. In Manhattan, people like the idea of forgiveness. They don't quite know how to do it, but they like the Christian idea of forgiveness. But they don't do it, but they sort of like the idea. But what we say about sex and marriage, they just consider it just crazy, offensive, and maybe dangerous.
Starting point is 00:26:58 And you know what that means? It means that if the Bible really is, not the product of any one culture, but it really has come down from God, then it would have to, in every culture, offend you somewhere and attract you in other ways, but in different ways. You'd be offended in different ways,
Starting point is 00:27:17 attracted in different ways. But the universal is that if you're a Christian in your culture, you will be offensive and attractive. Okay, how are you doing with that test? Think about it, would you? how are you doing with it? I would have to say that most Christians are either offensive but not very attractive because they're always talking about their Christianity, they're talking about their Christian faith, they're getting a lot of pushback. They're either offensive and not attractive.
Starting point is 00:27:46 Or in some cases they're attractive, but not offensive because they're just keeping a low profile and they kind of go along with what everybody else is saying. Or in most cases, we're neither offensive or attractive. You know, see, people who are offensive, listen carefully, I've got that, this is a little bit of a train of reasoning. People who are offensive and not attractive are a little bit like Jesus in the sense that they are denouncing the money changers in the temple and denouncing the Pharisees. And people who are attractive but not offensive are a little bit like Jesus in that they're attracting the moral and social outsiders, but they're, but you see, in both cases, if you're,
Starting point is 00:28:27 you're offensive and not attractive, attractive and not offensive, you're a little bit like Jesus, but not all the way, you're a little bit like Jesus, not all the way, but if you're neither offensive nor attractive, if nobody's attracted to your Christian faith, if nobody's attracted to your character, and nobody's offended or upset and you never take it on the chin for Jesus, you're not offensive or attractive, you're not like Jesus at all. Think about it. And let's go further. To be truly offensive, take courage. To be truly attractive takes enormous melt in your mouth, compassion. Gentle with doubters.
Starting point is 00:29:03 You know, merciful to your opponents. So to be courageous, I mean, to be offensive takes courage, to be attractive, takes compassion. But see, courage without any attractiveness is probably not real courage. It's self-righteousness. You like to tell people off. And attractiveness without courage is not really love or compassion. It's really cowardice.
Starting point is 00:29:29 how are you doing with this? Are you offensive and attractive? Or maybe neither? Do people come to you and want to open up and talk about their problems? Okay, that's a good sign. Do they talk to you about your faith? That's a good sign. Do you ever take it on the chin?
Starting point is 00:29:50 Do you ever really get in trouble because of what you believe? That's a good sign too. But what if you only have one sign, not the other, or neither? Then you're failing the test. So if it's true that it takes tremendous courage and tremendous compassion in order to live the way we're called to live as exiles, where do we get the power for that? Where do we get that? And the answer is you've got to see two things. There's two things.
Starting point is 00:30:20 Here's the first thing. First of all, you have to see that you're a chosen people of royal priesthood, a holy nation, and God's special possession. That is a classic, enormously rich series of four things, four statements, four ways of talking about the Christian church. If you are a Christian, you're part of a chosen people, a royal priest, a holy nation, God's special possession. I do not have the time. And some of you are saying, you're not going to go into that now, are you really? We'll be here forever. And you're right.
Starting point is 00:30:52 So let me just talk about the beginning and the end. first of all, your gods, your chosen people. An old teacher of mine, Ed Clowny, had a wonderful way of preaching on this. He used to say, first of all, notice if you're a Christian, you're not the choice people. You're the chosen people. You know the difference? Choice people means you're spiritual, you're virtuous, you're hardworking, you're diligent, you know, your choice.
Starting point is 00:31:19 But it doesn't say that. It says you're chosen. You're just chosen. What does that mean? Well, Ed would go to Deuteronomy 7. Deuteronomy 7 says, where God is talking to Israel and he says, I did not choose you because you were the greatest of nations. In fact, you were the puniest of nations. However, because I loved you, I chose you.
Starting point is 00:31:42 And Ed said, did you hear that? You know what that is? That's circular reasoning. God is saying, I didn't choose you because you were virtuous, because you were hardworking, because you were spiritual. I didn't choose you and love you because of those things. I just loved you because I loved you. See, it's circular.
Starting point is 00:32:05 I didn't choose you for this, this, this, this, this is this. I chose you because I love you because I love you, which means I don't love you because you're all these things. I just love you because I love you because I love you. Now, we say, well, that's kind of circular, isn't it? That's kind of weird. And it says, yes, it is. And that's the only way real love works.
Starting point is 00:32:17 And he says, try it out in your marriage. And this would be, here's an illustration. Your spouse comes to you someday and says, honey, do you love me? And you say, of course I love you. And then the spouse comes back and says, why? And when your spouse says that, there's a couple ways you can answer. The one is you can say, well, you've got all these great virtues. You know, you're very, very physically attractive. You are a terrific tennis player. You make money. You know, you have a good career. Now, I want you to know that the conversation is going downhill fast. If you don't know that, who wants to hear that? Who wants to hear? What if I lose my job?
Starting point is 00:33:01 What if I put on weight? What if I, you know, have surgery and I can't play tennis? I mean, here's what you need to say. Here's what you need to say, and I hope you can. You need to say, honey, I must admit that there's these various traits that you had that attracted to me to you at first, but now I love you just because I love you. That's called unconditional love, and it's the only love that we can possibly live with. And because we're chosen by grace, because we're chosen by sheer grace, not because we're choice. You can run to the last of these four statements where it says you're God's special possession. That's a term that means you're his treasure. It's a word that really means your most precious possession, like that heirloom, that the jewelry that your great
Starting point is 00:33:54 grandmother left you, that you have, you know, in your jewelry box, and you know that actually it's worth as much as everything else in your whole apartment put together, and you probably ought to put under lock and key. That's the sort of thing we're talking about here, because actually, the first time that this word is used, this term is used, is in Exodus 19 when God speaks to the children of Israel at Mount Sinai and says, even though I own the whole world, you are my treasured possession. See, that's like saying, I got galaxies. You talk about rich people. I got galaxies, says God. But none of them mean anything to me like you do. Do you know you're loved like that? Do you know because you're chosen by grace, you're loved like that? Have you grasped it? Has it grasped you?
Starting point is 00:34:43 has it really hit you? I'm telling you, until this is an existential reality to you, you will not have real courage. You'll have swagger, maybe, and self-righteousness and braggadocio, and you won't have real compassion. You'll go out there to serve people so you can feel good about yourself, so you can feel like a good person. But you'll be using the people you're serving.
Starting point is 00:35:09 You won't be actually serving them. Until you know you're this loved, you'll be doing everything in order to to feel better about yourself. Not real courage, not real compassion, not real offensive, not real attractive at the same time. You need to know you're this loved. Do you? And if you say, gee, I'd love to be that sure. I don't know that I am.
Starting point is 00:35:29 I'd love to be. How can I be that sure? I know this in principle, I believe I'm loved by God. But how do I actually know that? And it's the second thing you have to see, of course. And this is what you've got to talk to yourself about. Verse two. how did you become a Christian? Why can you be a Christian? How can you be loved like this? Because,
Starting point is 00:35:48 look, verse two, you were chosen by the Father, just talked about that. You were sanctified by the spirit. That was last week. But here's the real reason, because of the shed blood of Jesus Christ. Which means, think about it like this. Jesus was the ultimate exile. He was home. I mean, he was in the bosom of the father. He was home. And yet he left home. He came to earth. And even here on earth, do you ever see a gospel story? Do you ever see any gospel account that talks about Jesus being at home? Jesus was at home eating and they came in and said something. Do you ever see that? No. Why not? He says, he says, foxes have holes, birds have nests. The son of man has nowhere to lay his head. he was exiled from his home in heaven and even here on earth he wandered he wandered why this was
Starting point is 00:36:45 what he came to do and then he was crucified outside the gate outside the city he was the ultimate exile my god my god why hast thou forsaken me he was homeless he lost his home he was exile he took the exile we deserved he got the exile that we human being deserved so that we could be brought we could be brought into home. And only when you see him dying that big death for you, will you really have courage? You know how at the end of the Lord of the Rings there's a big battle? It's both in the book and in the movie. And there's, and one of the hobbits, Mariodoc, one of the hobbits, is in the middle of the battle. And he's, he's utterly, utterly frightened and panic for his life. He's just really, he's crawling around in the mud. He's even, he's afraid to look up. There's all the
Starting point is 00:37:37 these huge evil warriors around. He's afraid for his life and he's just, he's just running scared. And then suddenly he looks up and he sees Aowen standing in front of the biggest of them all, standing ready to die before the biggest of the evil warriors, right? And in the book, it says, the slow, kindled courage of his race awoke. And he looked at her and he said, she should not die alone. That's how you get courage. Then he got up and he did his great deed. So look at Jesus.
Starting point is 00:38:13 Next time you're afraid. You're afraid of speaking up. You're afraid of doing something courageous. You're afraid of opening your mouth. You're afraid of identifying with him. You're afraid of doing something that you know you should do. But you're going to take it on the chin. The next time you're afraid, look at Jesus and say,
Starting point is 00:38:32 he should not die alone. He died the big death for you. Why aren't you willing to die a little death? So somebody kills your reputation. He died. He had the great death. Look at him and say, he should not die alone. Look, when Kathy and I moved here 25 years ago, and some of you were here, I know, remember how the parks were filled with homeless people? And what was a shame about that was that parks are wonderful places, but they can't bear the full weight of a person's whole life. They're not places. They're not places. places to go to eat, sleep, bathe, and do the other things that you do at home. In other words, parks are great places, but they're not home. And so they can't bear the full weight of human life, and therefore they became foul. I'm here to tell you that if there's anything that is more important to you than Jesus Christ and his salvation, if you're relying on anything more than him,
Starting point is 00:39:34 if you love anything more than him, if you're trying to get your significance and security out of anything more than you are trying to get out of Jesus Christ. Those things that you're relying on and looking to, whether it's career or family or whatever, is not, it's a good thing, but it's not home. It'll never bear the full weight of your soul. If you do that, you'll always be wandering and never find home. It'll always be winter and never Christmas. Here's what you need to do.
Starting point is 00:40:05 You need to say, Lord Jesus, I want to live for you because you are exiled for me. Bring me home. Father, accept me because of what Jesus has done. And then, bit by bit as the years go by, though you're still a pilgrim, you'll experience in prayer, you'll experience in worship, you'll experience foretace of home, foretaste of his love, foretaste of his presence. And you'll slowly find your homesickness, the humannlickeit of your heart, the homesickness slowly but surely cured. and you will know that someday you're going to wake up and you're going to say, I'm home at last. This is where I belong.
Starting point is 00:40:53 This is the land I've been looking for all my life, though I never knew it. Let's pray. Our Father, we thank you that we can know that if we believe in you and rely on the salvation of Jesus Christ, we're on our way home. And we can have foretastes of home, even now. And we can forgive, and we can be generous, and we can be chased, and we can be able to handle suffering and even death. We can live lives that to some degree will offend our neighbors, but yet we can still pour ourselves out and love them. And we'll know that we'll be both offensive and attractive, and that's fine because, oh, my word, Lord, your son, Jesus
Starting point is 00:41:37 Christ was so beautiful and he attracted when he was lifted up on the cross he drew the world to himself and yet he was also persecuted and betrayed and forsaken so father we pray that you would teach us how to be pilgrims here how to live as joyful exiles we pray that you'd help us to live this resurrected life because in the end this is what our heart wants the most help us it'll glorify you and it'll satisfy us. Help us be the people that you've called us to be. We pray in Jesus' name. Amen. Thanks for listening to today's teaching.
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