Toni and Ryan - American Toni

Episode Date: January 14, 2025

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Hello. And we are calling Jen who's in Indiana. Didn't we have a great time in Indiana? Indianapolis. Is that the same? Indianapolis is in Indiana. Is it? Yeah.

Remember when we got warned to not go to Gary, Indiana? Oh, Jen. Hello. Jen. Hello, this is Jen. Hi Jen, with two answers. Tony with one N. Hi.

This is exciting. Now, do you live, I think Gary was in the, do you know where Gary is and do we, that not a person, the town, and is that a place that we should avoid at all costs? Yes, it is. My son and his friends once went to Chicago and took a detour off of the interstate and we were watching them on like Life 360. We're like, what the hell are you doing in Gary? Get that thing off the state.

Yeah. Great memories. We got warned against, and I remember when we were driving past, I was like, dad, stop! Yeah, we got warned against. And I remember when we were driving past, I was like, don't stop! On our way to Chicago! Yeah, it was glorious.

And we love Indiana, obviously. And I just wanted to say, Jen said, I didn't want to make this too depressing. Oh. But Jen said she's also a member of the Dead Mums Club and loves that we can all laugh about it together. Love that, Jen. Not, don't love that your mum's dead. Oh, what do you hate to end mum?

No, I love Jen's mum and mine. I wish they were alive. Sorry that we can connect in this way, but love it. Yes, yes, yeah. It's a horrible club to be a part of, but you guys have to find humor. And it was one of your episodes that it was when Tony when you have the gastro and you shit in the car

that was the first when I listened to that episode that was the first time that I really laughed since my mom had passed and I took the episode over to my dad and I listened to it with my dad and my mom's best friend and we all laughed and I'll be honest, Jen, I don't know if you're about to say something sentimental that I've shared about my mom and then you talked about how she myself. Tony just doing God's work, bringing. Um, a real community service. Yeah. Um, uh, and how does that make you feel?

Is it 100 to be number? Jen, I approve of you and your family. Do you approve of today's episode? I hope so. Fucking great. Great. Real life. I love you, obviously.

Love you, Jen. This is Jen from Indianapolis, Indiana, and I approve this podcast. Sorry, everyone. I just had an itchy ankle. Sorry, everyone. I just had an itchy ankle. You let us know when you're ready to start. Your ankle all good? Yeah, my ankle's all good.

So last week we wanted to chat about- Happy New Year by the way. Oh my God. I'm so sorry. So rude. Happy New Year. Have a great one. 2025 also update.

Turns out you didn't invent that. I did not invent that. You thought you invented that? It was a great one. 2020 thrive. Also update. Turns out you didn't invent that. I did not invent that. You thought you invented that. It was a great moment. We were pumped for you. Well, you did think of it of your own volition. I hadn't seen it elsewhere first. What's volition mean?

I don't know. We'll find out on Friday. Sophie add that to the Google list, please. Cause that sounded so good when I said it. Cause I love it. When I said on my own volition, I felt smart. I really want to know if that's right. See? That's okay. That's all right. Hey, I can wait. I'm a patient woman. I'm a patient woman. Uh, what were we talking about? Last week,

I wanted to talk about when did your kid accidentally get naked? Yes. And we sort of got carried away on some weird tangents. Well, cause I didn't know then how anything worked in the world. So we got, did you do health or like sex ed or anything in high school? Do you know what's actually crazy? No. Cause I went to a Catholic school. They don't have sex there.

Well, no. So you don't do sex ed because they go, just don't have it. And that's what you learn. I'm like, not even joking. That's so fucked up. They had one, they had one day and they talked about, um, like getting STDs. You'll get chlamydia and you will die. And it was that kind of energy. Yeah. Um, but, and that was really it. They never talked to us about like, they taught us more about like not drink driving and stuff like that kind of like world safety,

but never about like our bodies. So we had this, um, as fucked as that is, like genuinely, I reckon once a week or once of fortnight in health, uh, everyone had to write a question on a piece of paper and put it in the box. And then Mr. Pringle to make it like anonymous. Cause people would be in Mr. Pringle at the tire place. Yeah. Yeah.

Um, Michelin star teacher he is. So they, that is funny because it's tires and a restaurant. That is funny. That's that is funny. Funny. That's actually the best crossover I've ever heard. Uh, if you want to understand that joke, some episode last year, it was a Wednesday. Was it?

Yep. So Mr. Pringle would pull out the question and he would read it because obviously if you had a genuine question about like your body change. Yeah. And so it took out all that shame. And then so you just read them. And he would- Yeah, but did everybody just write Stiffy on a piece of paper as a joke?

I think, um, I said Stiffy in the office yesterday and I think where it's in for 2025, Stiffy's going to be in me in 2025. So it's just a bit of fun, isn't it? There are often questions about jizz. Like what? No, but like people just being funny. Oh, because it's coconut water. Coconut water and avocado. Tom Gould just used to write, I like math a lot.

Not to be confused with meth, which was from Steve. Yeah. Also not to do with health ed at all. Really? No, it's not good for your health. Yeah. Also not to do with health ed at all, really. It's not good for your health. True, true, true. Yeah, no, so we didn't have anything like that. So I actually didn't really learn much about body. One of my favorite things was asking questions and signing off from someone else.

Oh yeah. I also am the youngest of four kids. So you knew it all? No, by the time my parents got to me, they just gave up. They didn't tell me fucking anything. They're like, your sisters will tell you, I'm sure at some point. And I remember watching the movie, The Sweetest Thing, you know, that movie with Cameron Diaz and Christina Applegate.

There's this scene in that movie where they get, she borrows a dress from one of the other girls and it's got caramel over it. And I remember being like, well, I don't get it. Why, why are they embarrassed? Like what's the, I just didn't understand the joke and they explained it and they wouldn't tell me. And so I was not aware for a long time of what that was. And how did you find out?

Well, I think that it then it happened to me. No, no, no, no, no. Someone juiced on my dress. I was like, that's what it was. No, I was just, I think I was just older and maybe watched it again and then it like clicked what it was, but no one would tell me. And I just didn't, I was like, is it a drink? Like I just didn't.

So, um, this guy was like sunb baking naked and he, his penis got sunburned cause it's very delicate skin. That would fucking. And someone said to like soothe the burn, like you need to like dip it in milk. So I don't know if there's some fucking old wives tale. For a burn, I guess neutralize it. So his sister walks into the kitchen and he's like, got his bits in the milk and she goes, Oh, I've always wondered how you fill those up.

What? Yeah. Like, cause she just didn't know how the gizz got in. Your sack? Well, like. Fill your sack up in a glass parrots container of milk in your mom's kitchen. Guys can just keep gizz, like they gizz, but you never put the gizz in. It always comes out as you know.

I was like, Oh yeah. I don't know a lot about it going in. Don't know a lot about it coming out. When did your child get naked? Oh, fuck. We've done it again. Oh, my lanta. We have to put in a beep.

Whoever's editing this, put in a little beep there. For the word my lanta. No, and we're going to just start again. Okay. Welcome to the show. When did your toddler get naked? Hillary. Hi, Hillary.

My family was on vacation. We're all in the- I'll bet you they were chillery. Keep going. She doesn't like that. Her actual last name is quite close to Clinton. Like written. Oh, I wasn't doing that. I was like, she was on holiday.

So Hillary was chillery. What are you doing? I'm talking about Hillary Clinton, but cause her name sort of seems like Hillary Clinton and she probably gets that a lot. And I just didn't want to meant like, I wasn't doing that at all. I was saying she must be chill. She's on holiday. Welcome to the show.

Um, we are doing, when did your children get naked? Hillary chillery was chilling on vacation. Hi Hillary. My family was on vacation. Hi Hillary. My family was on vacation. We're in the hotel pool, like everyone else in the resort. My son gets out of the pool, pulls his swimwear to his ankles and starts peeing into the resort pool and yells, mommy, I'm peeing. We know, sweetheart.

We can all see. Everyone in the resort can now see. Oh, that is, I like, I get it. But how fucked. Embarrassing. You would be, if you were in the pool, you'd be like, well, that is disgusting. But I've pissed in every pool I've ever been in. So what is the difference between me, you know, discreetly pissing and standing

up and pissing into a pool? There's a huge difference. It's there's two letters T and O and let me explain. Tony. That's four letters. Toe. Knee. Peeing in the pool?

Hmm. Peeing into the pool? No. Not okay. So we're all swimming in piss. I just don't like to see how the sausage gets made. Yeah. I don't want to see the piss going into the water.

The pool. Yeah. Lauren. Hi, Lauren. Did you finger her on a plane? Not this one, no. I was getting money out of an ATM in a busy shopping center when I heard an old lady behind me go, oh my goodness gracious me.

I turned around and my three-year- old son had dropped these pants and undies and was given at the full swinging around about in the food court, little mate spit in the windmill. Oh, the old lady. Oh my goodness. You have to laugh. Don't you? Like, you know, it's not a big deal.

All right. If you wanted to get new shoes, right? I've just ordered some Crocs. If you were in a shoe store and you wanted to buy shoes in person. I'm so sorry. I'm really, I'm really sorry. You would, what would you do? You'd sit down and before trying them on, what would you need to do?

Put on one of those socks that I have in there. Will you take your own shoes off first? Sure. Yes. Uh, Katie. Unless I was desperate for shoes. Cause I'd forgotten mine. Yeah. Oh, but then you're putting like dirty feet in the store shoes. But hasn't everyone? No.

Do you remember like in a shoe store, they would just have the communal socks. They don't do that anymore. They've got like disposable ones, but do you remember that? And you would just put your foot into a crusty fucking sock and you'd be there with your mom buying new school shoes and you'd be at the Bets and Bets for kids. It's just called bets now. Used to be called bets. What happens the first day that dad die?

You betcha. I'm so sorry for your loss. Um, anyway, it used to be called bets and bets. You lose on a bet. Did you? I hope he's better now. Yeah. Oh, maybe he had a cut that got infected.

Should have used some betadine. What's your favorite cheese to go on lasagna? Is that even cheese? The bet's a mouth. It's got cheese in it. Okay. That's nice. So I'll give you that. Yeah. Yeah. I's got cheese. I've heard better.

Anyway, um, and I'll see Sunrise is back this week with Mark. That's right. I know you go, Oh, what's your favorite purple vegetable? Is it a bit true? Well, they're red. So what did I say? Purple. No, they're purple.

That's purple. We're growing best root in our backyard. And it's awesome. It's purple. Yeah. I'll give you that. Yeah. Um, and you would be buying the new school shoes from the bits and

bits for kids and your mom would just put your fucking foot in that manky sock and all good. But you would never now. Anyways, see what mom used to do. Yes, she did. How's she going? She's seen better days.

Hey, you know how my mom's called Liz? It's short for Elizabeth. Katie was in a busy target and her son wanted to try on some rain boots, but instead of taking his shoes off, he just got fully naked before trying them on. We're going to do one more and then we're never going to do this again. Perfect. Delta. Yeah.

Oh, sorry. Something happened over here. Wasn't. Someone fell down. Delta. I'd taken my two year old daughter to an indoor play center. Yep. Where she'd been confidently climbing up the giant inflatable slide and then sliding on down. Beautiful.

And I'd catch her at the bottom. After a few goes, she decided that her clothing was impeding her ability to slide. So she climbed to the top, stripped off all her clothes. And then this naked child just starts tumbling down the thing. Cause you don't slide cause your little bum gets stuck. And I catch this naked girl at the bottom and then her clothes are still at the top of the thing. So I was just-

What a power move. She's like, you want me to wear the clothes? Up you go. So Delta, a fully grown mom has to climb up this- Fully grown mom! Has to climb up this inflatable thing to go on retreat. So she's got one arm holding the naked toddler and the other arm trying to like climb up the ladder thing.

That what a visual, a fully grown mom. This is Jen from Indianapolis, Indiana, and you're listening to Tony and Ryan. In a darkly comedic look at motherhood and society's expectations, Academy Award-nominated Amy Adams stars as a passionate artist who puts her career on hold to stay home with her young son. But her maternal instinct takes a wild and surreal turn as she discovers the best, yet fiercest part of herself. Based on the acclaimed novel, Nightbitch is a thought-provoking and wickedly humorous film from Searchlight Pictures. Stream Nightbitch January 24th,

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Aurora. Jeremiah Young. Jeremiah Old. Chloe Dean. Good on you, Chloe. Sarah Hutchings. Love to see it, Sarah. And Abby, this is the name. Abby, happy birthday from Samil. So I think that Samil has bought Abby the membership for her birthday. So happy birthday, Abby. And what a sweet idea, Samil. It's a great idea for a gift, better than taking her out to a restaurant for a Samil. No, we're not paying that. No, okay. But if you went to a magazine, you could get a happy Samil. Mine, what's your favorite? What's your favorite type of worm?

Because mine's a semile worm. I don't think anyone knows enough about worms for us to understand. That's a very nice, very nice. You do one in Holland. I have lots of winsome meals. I brought a sandwich today, made it with whole semille bread. That's good. That is good.

I'm actually bought a lot. I take it for tomorrow night. I hope I win a meal. You in dollars. No, it's some. Oh, tell me more. It's some meal. Don't lash out.

It's some meal. So you could have gotten some million dollars. Fuck. That would have been good. It's recommendation way to go. I'm not going to lie. I'm not going to lie. I'm not going to lie. I'm not going to lie. I'm not going. So you could have gotten some million dollars.

Fuck that would have been good. It's recommendation week. Recommend us to three of your closest friends. Don't recommend it today though. Maybe later. No, today's a great day to recommend it. Cause they'll have seen it at its worst. We recording when you said we should do a spin off podcast series where we just

attempt to do nakedaked Children's stories. No, we weren't recording then. Okay. Unfortunately. That is a real shame. We are, if you're new here, we are best friends from Melbourne. We used to work at a radio station. I was doing a music shift.

Tony was an audio producer. I was out the back. Yeah. In the cave. In the cave. No one could see me. Yeah. Tony was funnier than all the comedians in the building.

We went to record a demo. For radio. For radio. No one liked see me. Yeah. Tony was funnier than all the comedians in the building. We went to record a demo. For radio. For radio. No one liked the demo. So we just published the demo and now here we are. Yeah. Now we have become best friends. I'm so sad we didn't get the job. Now here's a test of best friends.

We could have been at I-98, Wollongong FM or whatever it's called. Was it I-98 or was it Wave? Oh, we've actually had this conversation a few times. I think. Oh fair chat. Anyway, we didn't get it. We didn't get it. So now we just have to do this with you. Um, but here's the test of best friends. Test friends.

We, with this podcast have met people in all around Australia, New Zealand, London, Dallas, Atlanta, Nashville, Louisville, Indianapolis, Chicago, Toronto, New York, fucking all over the place. Jakarta. Jakarta. Everywhere I go, I go, oh, I could live here. Yes, 100%. But because I know you so well, I know that of all the places we've just mentioned and we've been together, there's one place in particular that if you had to go and live in one of them, I would know what it is.

Three, two, one. Chicago! Best friends. Easy. Best friends. There's a picture of Chicago on my vision board. Really? Yeah. I love it. What's the picture of? It's like, is it you and Rod eating pizza? No, it's not, but it should be. Rod,

what a great mate. Did you just forget his last name? No, it's Till. No, it's not. Can't Google it till Friday. Can't Google it till Friday. What's Rod's Instagram handle? JustMeRod. JustMeRod. I was about to say Rod.com. I was like, that's not it is it? Sorry, JustMeRod. We're about to do a Buzzfeed quiz and it's called based on- It's called What is Rod's last name? The Buzzfeed quiz is-

And we've done a terrible job. Order a pizza and we'll tell you whether you're Australian or American. Now I've seen Tony hit the pizza at Chicago and I saw this and I was like, this could be your life. Chicago suits you. You suit Chicago. Don't just say things like that if you don't mean them. I've got family in Chicago. We might go there this year. Remember I said that? Yeah, yeah I do. I can't stop thinking about it.

Yeah. And you know how you said, oh, if you want to go to Chicago, that's where we'll go. We're thinking about going to Thanksgiving with my American family. And Tony is thinking about. And Ramazan, do you want to come to Thanksgiving? And I was like, oh, I'd love to. That would be amazing.

He's like, yeah, it might be here, here or here, or maybe Chicago. And I was like, if they are taking votes, I am one vote for Chicago. Do you reckon considering my biological family and all the different cousins and stuff that I love, that this random person that just found them on ancestry.com, who works with this chick, that chick gets to choose where it is. Cause at the end of the day, when all said and done, I'm just a girl from work. No, more than that. But like, I'm just a girl from work. No, more than that. But like, I'm just a girl from work. You're a hot piece of ass from work.

I'm some slut from marketing. You're the person. Why did you guys choose to have Thanksgiving in Chicago? Oh, this guy who, um, reckons he's related to us, according to some DNA test, brought his personality higher. Yeah. Brought his, brought a girl from work. And she wants to go to Chicago.

Again. It's not like, oh, a lifelong dream I've been there. So we're going to see if you are actually Australian or maybe, maybe. Okay. This Buzzfeed quiz will tell us that maybe Chicago is where you need to be. Okay. Have you done this quiz? I have. Do you have your answer? Are you willing to share your answer?

I was Australian. Okay. So the thing that I'm going to just flag one thing, I just spat everywhere. I'm going to flag one thing. We're sorry, we're just going to not mention it. No, I have no shame. I know. I like different types of pizza on different days. So imagine, is this my ultimate pizza?

Are you Australian or American on Wednesdays? We'll see. First up, choose your dough. Would you like a deep dish stuffed crust, Roman or near La Poletano? You know the answer to this. You know the answer to this. You know the answer to this. Stuffed crust. Every time.

What did you think of the deep dish when we had it with Rod? I did really like it. But it was like a lot, hey. But do you know what I liked about it? That you kind of ate it like a bit of quiche. Yeah. Like that you have like, there's like salad and sides and you kind of are like cutting bits off rather than just like having slices of pizza.

I just, I think I liked the experience of it. It was an experience. It was really fun. It was like the famous one. Geodanos. Yeah. Geodanos. In Australia, Geodanos make chinos.

Next question. Now choose your source. I don't get it. I don't get it. I don't get it. And I'm going to go into the wormhole. It's just like, I can't Google it till Friday. Like, you know how the clothing store politics with an axe. Well, there's another one called Giordano's. Is there? Yeah. And they just make like clothes. If you were a man, if you were a man who worked at United T you would know about G Dimes. I'll ask my boyfriend.

Choose your sauce. Yep. Classic red, a white sauce, a barbecue sauce, guess what I got? Yeah. Or the pesto. Well, you would have gotten barbecue. I'll go classic red, like Sophie. Choose your cheese.

Mozzarella, cheddar, parmesan, burrata. How does burrata? Burrata on the top, but the base cheese you just want like mozzarella, don't you? Oh, I'll go. Oh, hang on. The next question is choose another cheese. Yeah. So can you, did you go mozzarella for the other one?

Mozzarella. But the second cheese is, cause this is like the fancy cheese. Do you want a sprinkling of goat, ricotta, which you don't have the recipe for feta or brie? I will go brie. No, I'll go ricotta. Choose a veggie topping. Yeah.

And my answer was none, but asparagus, zucchini. Is mushroom an option? Mushroom or capsicum slash pepper. Mushroom. 100%. I haven't picked any meat yet, which is stressing me out. Next question. Choose a meat.

Do you have buzzfeed? I wrote this quiz. Salami, prosciutto, prawn or smoked salmon? I love pizza and I love smoked salmon, but I don't think... I was just about to say the exact same thing. No way. I will go salami. Please? Oh, there was two other options. Sausage or none. Just more veggies. Sausage.

Glad I checked. Me too. Choose one more topping. Geez, they've given up Buzzfeed. Bacon, sun-dried tomatoes, olives, or caramelized onion. Caramelized onion? If you're fucking nasty, yum. Really? Yeah.

Don't you think that sounds yum? I'm going to get Australian though. I was going to say, I reckon that might tip you over. And finally, finish with something nice. Sorry, can I just remind everyone that this is our job? We're like right now doing a Buzzfeed quiz out loud! Hang on, what's worse? This is our job or this was someone at Buzzfeed's job?

Because I reckon we're putting more into this than the person that made the quiz, Tim. No offense to who made this. Julie Willing. Oh, you weren't willing to do any fucking work, that's for sure. They made the quiz. No offense to who made this. Julie willing. Oh, you weren't willing to do any fucking work. That's for sure. All right. Last question. Sorry, Julie.

Sorry, Jules. We'll find you on LinkedIn. No, I won't. I'll be hard. Finish it with something nice. That's what I said to Tony. Yeah. My mouth.

Well, sometimes it's vintage. Sometimes it's my hand Shaved truffle, fresh basil, rocket slash Arugula or olive oil. What's that word going? Did you sleep still? Uh, no, no, she's a regular. My daughter is a regular. And because last night it was me as the three amigos in the spare room,

me, Bron and the arugula wriggled up and slept straight across the pillow. Like a caterpillar rolled up. And then I had to sleep just like crossways and beavers on my legs. And yeah, it's a big night in Elfham last night. Um, uh, sorry, what were the options? Uh, olive oil, arugula, fresh basil or shaved truffle. Basil. Tony Lodge.

Yes. With the fact that she may be moving to Chicago on the line. Yes. With the fact that she may be moving to Chicago on the line. Yes. Or will she? And I assume if you get Australian, it means you have to move to Dal Yalop. That is so nasty. That's nasty. Okay, Australend. Australend.

Can I go back to Dal Yalop? Mandra. Dal Yalop, I think just got a mad mix. Did it? Yeah. According to the Australian, Can I go back to Dalgallup? Dalgallup, I think just got a mad mix. Did it? Yeah. According to Julia Willing, the good people at Buzzfeed and the Buzzfeed quiz. My passport's on the line.

Toni Lodge is American. She's moving to Chicago. Oh my God. The caramelized onions weren't enough. That is huge news. Oh my God. See you at Thanksgiving. Yeah. I'll be giving thanks. I'll be given thanks also. Yes. Thank you for having sex with me. That's me giving you thanks. I've got a love to say it here. Please. And I'm not sure where this is based, but maybe we'll Yes. Thank you for having sex with me. That's me giving you thanks. I've got a love to see it here. Please.

And I'm not sure where this is based, but maybe we'll be neighbors. This is from Marissa, sent it on Patreon. Hey guys, I've got a love to see it. Just bought my first house. Holy shit. Marissa says I'm 23 years old. What? What the fuck? And had the belief that I'd never be able to afford my own home.

Oh, never, ever. When did you have time to think that? Maybe short life expectancy. Sorry, Marisa. I hope everything's going well. I've been working really hard and saving where I can. And on Monday, I officially bought my first home. I'll be moving in at the end of January and starting a new life with my beautiful girlfriend who's moving in with me.

Bury the lead. I lost my dad back in 2013. Terrible year for dead parents. Same year as mine, same vintage. But I know he's smiling down right now and saying how proud he is of me. I just wanted to share this with my Tarp family. Love you guys. That is actually hard to fathom that a 23 year old was saved up and bought a house. But also like, having lost your dad as well, like everything, like you lose a parent and just fucking nothing feels like it will ever happen again. Yeah. So that's like a really awesome thing to be able to go and do and moving in with your partner as well. I remember how being so excited, like moving in with Torbz for the first time. I was 21.

Did you like ask him, was it like a thing or, oh God. Um, oh no, it wasn't really a thing. Did he say, have you ever come so hard, you shit yourself? Do you want to move in with me? What was the conversation? That'd be a way better story. Was it like a long buildup or was it just like a, hey, mate, like. No, it was, it was kind of chill.

I was actually driving and I had to play it really cool. So Torbz was living in a share house with like four other boys and I was spending loads of time there just because he lived close to uni and stuff. So it was way easier than being like up in the hills. Um, and then they were kind of like, they were splitting up as a share house because they were like, oh, it's easier to find like a house that's a bit smaller than for all of us and whatever. And he was moving in with his mate Adam and was like, oh, like,

and we were in the car and was like, oh, I was wondering like if you'd want to move in with us as well. And we tried to be cool. Yeah, and I was driving in the car and I was like, um, I don't know. Like, so embarrassing. And then I was and then I said to you, I was, I really wish that you hadn't asked me that while I was driving, because I can't pretend to be cool right now and

try to concentrate on doing all these things. And I said like, oh my god. And you can't suck him off while you're driving. Yeah. Such a shame for him. Yeah. And me. Yeah.

I'll get something out of it too. No winners there. Two for one. Everyone's a winner. Maybe. Well, not if you're not doing it. Oh my God. Yeah, and me. Yeah. I'll get something out of it too. No winners there. Two for one. Everyone's a winner. Well, not if you're not doing it. Oh my god, so true. Anyway, yeah, so that's how it happened. That is beautiful.

And so it was Torbz and I and his mate Adam who, like I'm now very good friends with as well. Yeah. That's a beautiful story. So it wasn't like a whole big like- Imposed. No, no, no, no, no, it was chill, but I wasn't chill. I was about to, usually it's like the end of a lease or you need to make a call, which

is sort of, and you kind of go, well, if we're going, like this would be the time. Especially because you're like moving into a rental for the most part. I would say that people are like, oh yeah, like the lease is over. We're starting, you know, not just like, oh, I already live alone. Just join me. Like he was living in a share house. Like there wouldn't have ever been another practical time for that to come up. That is huge. 23 years old. Yeah. Um, my love seat is, I'm going to change mine. Mine is from the Warren dot pub.

Nice. Do you know what this is? Showed old guy dude, because who told you? Tony L Pub. Nice. Do you know what this is? Showed off. Yeah, I do. Because who told you? Tony Lodge. My love to see it is there is now a tap at the Warrandyte Pub that has lush guava cruiser. Vodka cruiser on tap. At the Warrandyte old hotel or something. Yeah, which is about seven minutes from my house.

I got two cousins at work there now, actually. Really? Yeah. Logan's serving beers and Hunter's out the back doing the dishes. Fuck yeah. So I- Should we go and have a pami and a fucking pint of vodka cruiser?

Can I get a pint of Lush Guava Cruiser please? We have to. No ice? Don't wanna waste room in that glass. Oh, don't waste room. I'd like the ice because I like it to stay cold. Especially a pint, that would take me two hours to drink. That'll take forever. That's a lot of liquid. It's a lot of sugar. Yeah, have a gavy before you have it. I reckon I could drink one of those in

23 seconds. No, you couldn't. And if you want to find out, I'll see you tonight. Oh, you couldn't. And if you want to find out, I'll see you tonight. You could not. Like, there's no way. I would love to see that. You will. That's my love to see it. For tomorrow.

Okay. Your love to see tomorrow will be last night I saw Ryan. So you want to go to the pub for lunch, like after this, we'll go and you can do this, you test it. Is that what you're saying? Yep. And we will film it. We'll take a video of you drinking a pint of Lush Guava Vodka Cruiser in 23 seconds. Yep. Great. Perfect. Go to our Instagram and see the video. It's up. Perfect. Great. Love you. Love you too. Oh,

can you get me a palma while we're there? Well, you can get yourself one because you'll be there as well. No, but can you buy me one? Yeah? Yeah. On your work card? Oh, fuck. Love you! See you at the pub!

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