Toni and Ryan - Dating Your Partner's Friends

Episode Date: October 29, 2023

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Welcome to the Tony and Ryan podcast. My name is Ryan. This is Dr. Author Tony Lodge. Hello. And from one doctor to another. Oh. We're calling Mirth in Amsterdam. She's a PhD student. Oh, PhD. Hello. Mirth, hello.

Oh, my God. Hello, Tony. Hello. And Ryan's here also. Hello. Can we confirm that you are, in fact, a PhD student? Yeah, I'm still a PhD student. And what are you going to be a doctor in? Educational science. Oh, my God. Holy moly.

And I love that you're like, yeah, I'm just a student. Well, you got further than we did. Oh, my God. Mirth, will you approve today's podcast? Absolutely. Yes. It's for science. For science. Yeah. Science. Oh my gosh Murph will you approve today's podcast? Absolutely Yes It's for science For science

Yeah Science Hi it's Murph from Amsterdam And I approve this podcast Just before we get started today, I'd just like everyone to know that Tony judged what I was having for breakfast. Okay. Let me paint the picture for everybody. Please.

A bowl of cereal, fine. Completely fine. But as you, and you had our gluten-free Coco Pops. Yep. And I thought, oh, they look good. Because cereal, when someone else is eating cereal, you just go, I wouldn't mind getting me some cereal. And then as you ate down, I was like, oh, you've let them go all soggy. But it was actually a Weet-Bix at the bottom.

Yeah, a couple of Weet-Bix, a bit of Coco Pops mixed together. Boom. No, weird. Why? Because the texture of a Coco Pop and a Wheat Bix is different. Yeah, it's called contrast. No, but not in a good way. So you get the soft Wheat Bix and the crunch of the Coco Pop together.

But a Coco Pop doesn't crunch for that long. Then I was like, oh, maybe the Wheat Bix kind of like level out the Coco Pops, but then the Coco Pops give the Wheat Bix a bit of a pep. I see what you mean. See where I'm going there? Yeah. Okay, you've changed your tune. No, but I still think it's bad, but now I at least understand what you're trying to do.

Sure, sure. All right, but first, if you want to ruin your relationship, ask your partner these questions. Oh. Now, actually, asterisk. Now, depending on your relationship, this can actually be a lot of fun. But if your relationship, if there's some people who are a bit, it can be a deal breaker.

And it's hard to know before you've asked the question. Well, see, yeah, this is the thing. How self-aware are you? You go, oh, our relationship is great. Then you ask this, you go, oh. Well, how self-aware are you and how secure are both you and your partner? Here's the questions. Okay.

If I died, which of my friends would you be most likely to date? And if you died, which of your friends would you be cool with me dating? Oh, God, it's one of those questions where you can't answer too fast. Who would you date? Oh, well, I really like the look of Jeremy and... Well, do you want me to tell you what happened when me and Bridge had this? Oh.

Actually, I want to know what you... Let's just predict, though. I don't mean your reactions, but, like, out of Torbs' mates, like, who's the first one that comes to mind? Tony's just bought the most rank face. Oh, I just know all... I've known all of them for a really long time. But does that mean, like, you can trust them and you know them, though?

And also our friendship group is quite incestuous. Like, they all have dated and married each other. Right. So, like, all of- This wouldn't be a big deal, then. No. So, all of Torb's mates- Yeah, Torb's side.

Yeah, no. Tony's with Carl now. Okay. Oh, that makes sense. Yeah, we just all swap every five years or something. Every lady take a step to the left. Every lady take a step to the left. Every guy take a step to the right. Oh, no, then you'd end up if you're facing each other with the same people.

Yep. Oh, that's a good question. There's a couple of loose units that you go, oh, that'd be fun. Oh, oh, my God, I'm so stupid. Torb's his friend Maui. Oh, my God, I'm so dumb. What?jorn's friend, Maui. Oh, my God. I'm so dumb. What?

Oh, he's a hottie. Yeah? Yeah. And I know that he doesn't listen to the podcast. Okay. Maui. Yeah. Is he as hot as he sounds?

Yeah. I don't even heard that as a name before. That's hot. Yeah, he's super hot. Is he like a Kiwi or an island or something? Yeah. He's fucking, he's so hot. Yeah.

And he like works away on the boats. So, he's like loaded. So, he's loaded and he also leaves you's so hot. Yeah. And he, like, works away on the boats. So, he's, like, loaded. So, he's loaded and he also leaves you the fuck alone. Yeah. So, I'd get to just, like, hang out by myself. I'm like- Would you like that, though? I'd like that.

I think I would because then it's so intense when you're together. Yeah. Which I would enjoy. Yeah. But then I do also, like- Like, I'm really missing Torbs at the moment. But also because we can't really chat As often as we normally would

Time zones are fucking Yeah you know Bridget and I were doing the maths on time zones and face times So if you wake up at 3am And then I'm getting home Like ridiculous So I am actually missing hanging out with him And you know what he said to me just before we left

Please don't bang Maui He's like I'm really going to miss you And I was like I'm going to hanging out with him. And you know what he said to me, like, just before we left? He's like- Please don't bang Maui. He's like, I'm really going to miss you. And I was like, I'm going to miss you too, mate. And he's like, I'm going to miss not having my best friend around. Isn't that sweet? Yeah, because I'm going as well. Yeah. I've taken Pippa.

She's with us here. Who would you approve of or disapprove of Torbs hooking up with if you passed away? Or do you think you have to, like, find a new circle? Because some people are like, no, no, our friend is weird. Like, you'd have to. I actually don't really think I would mind anyone. Jane. Because I'd want him to be really happy.

He'd be happy with Jane. Yeah, he could be happy with Jane. Yeah. I don't know. I just can't imagine. Your face and your mouth are saying different stories. I just can't imagine. It's such a weird thing to think about.

And because there's the part of like, oh, were you thinking that when we were? Yeah. But I'll be dead. I just want him to be happy. I don't mind. As long as it's not someone that I hated. If he got together with someone who I either didn't trust or didn't like't like i'd be like i don't want her getting fucking all my money oh yeah so he gets your inheritance then he gives you a new girl yeah i'm like i'm not into that

i'm not bloody bridget said literally on this point goes i want mabel to get the money, not your new hoe. That's good. Yeah. Because- It's going to make it harder for me to date, knowing that. Oh, yeah. Yeah, hey, come from the money, girls. Come on. Yeah, that's all I've got.

That's all I've got to offer. So, the other day, I'm like, all right, I'm going to ask Bridget. I'm going to have this chat, right? And I sort of walk in and I have- Because it's like a bit funny and a bit random. Oh, yeah. So, I kind of have like a little smirk on my face.

So, Bridget sees this smirk on my face and I go, so, if I died, Dave Parsons. Oh, yeah, that's a good call. I hadn't even asked, like finished asking the question yet. He is a really nice guy. He is a really nice guy. Great with the kids. Great with the kids. And I feel like Mabel would love hanging out with Summer and Billy all the time. Well, she does. They've hung out a few times and she loves it. So, Dave Parsons,

his wife, Kimmy. Yeah, odd partner. Where is she in all this? Does she also die? This is what I want to know. So, this is what we came to. I was like, but Dave's with Kimmy. Yeah. And, like, you don't want to be cutting her grass. You guys are mates as well. They've been together for a really long time. Really long time.

Like 10 plus years. Yeah. And then I was like, I don't know if this conundrum factors in that their partners are still alive. Hang on. So what's Maui's deal? If they've been together for 10 plus years, Dave and Kimmy, do you give them as much grief as you give Torbs and I for not being married after 10 years? No, because they're not going to get married. Oh, I see. Yeah. Do you give them as much grief as you give Torbs and I for not being married after 10 years? No, because they're not going to get married.

Oh, I see. Yeah. So, if you know that they will get married, it's like. Well, it's sort of like if you want to do it, just do it. And if you don't, then don't. Yeah, right. But not like if you want to, then just fucking. Because, yeah, I just said to them, are you guys getting married?

And they're just like, no. Well, what's the rush? If you love each other, you're still going to be there But it's not a rush they're not going to do it No no no I mean in general though Yeah well because you know how Okay this is bullshit and I'm on your side with this one Oh okay

When people celebrate like a 50 year anniversary Yeah And I reckon that's bullshit for you and Torbs Because it doesn't count the 10 genuine relationship years before you got married. Doesn't it? Oh, yeah, because it's like your 50 wedding. Oh. You know what happens to all that time?

So when you guys are 60, we're like, oh, we're here to celebrate the fifth anniversary of Tony and Torbs. Bullshit. She has 25. Yeah. Well, Tony will be dead soon and then Torbs will be Hooking up with Jane and Maui together So have a good time Oh they can have All my money

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Sounds like a character from Harry McCleary. For those playing along at home, because I know that his sister, Bonnie, listens to the show. Apparently, Rowdy is coming back from Europe for Christmas. Oh, really? Yep. Don't know if he's still dating the girl from- Are we going to get rowdy? Please don't do that again.

Sorry. One of my favorite photos- Oh, is he still dating that girl from- Balenciaga. Balenciaga. Balenciaga? Yeah. What?

The head of creative for Balenciaga. She's the head of fucking fashion. And they live together in like a French castle or some shit. Balenciaga. It's fucked up. Rowdy's done- Yeah, he's done much for himself there. And he's just like a DJ. It's so random. Yeah. I know. Balenciaga. Yeah, fucked up. Rowdy's done, yeah, he's done well for himself there. And he's just like a DJ.

It's so random. Yeah. Yeah, he's in the corner of her office like playing beats while she's designing shit. That is actually, I know that you're joking, but that sounds like something that would actually happen at like a Balenciaga office. I just need to get into the creative zone to come up

with a new collection. Yo, DJ, put on some fucking- Yo, DJ, spin that shit. You know what I mean? Like, it's so funny. He's like in a tux. Yo, DJ, put on some fucking- Yo, DJ, spin that shit. You know what I mean? Like, it's so funny. He's, like, in a tuxedo in the corner, like, with gloves on the turntable. Sean Paul. But, like, it's a- he can only play things with the word Balenciaga in it.

So, they have to- Oh, you've got to play that Sam Smith song. Yeah, they have to replace all the words. So, like, instead of, like, temperature by Sean Paul- Don't call me Balenci song. Yeah, they have to replace all the words. So, like, instead of, like, Temperature by Sean Paul. Don't call me Balenciaga. Yeah. I got to write Balenciaga shelter you from the storm. Anyway.

Balenciaga. Uh-oh. In Times Square, take a picture of me with Balenciaga instead of Kodak. Well, yeah, mine started with B, so. Temperature? No, the lyric. No, you go.

Okay. No, you go. I don't get it. Anyway, I have a question of patience. Oh, not your strong suit. Not my area. No. Not my area. No. Not my area.

I would like to know, first off, how long would you wait for food in, like, a cafe or restaurant? Well, actually, yesterday I went to a place to grab lunch, takeaway. Yep. It's like a sandwich place. Yep. Beautiful. Did you tip?

I've got no cash. Can I give you a chip off the side of my plate or something? Can I give you 20% of the meal back? Yeah. Does that count? That's funny. Try that today. I won't do it, but you should.

Nah, I reckon I'll pass on that. That's funny. Try that today. I won't do it, but you should. Nah, I reckon I'll pass on that. But it had become clear that a family had got there just before me and they'd all just ordered. And the guy just kind of looked at the family and was like, oh, I could be wrong.

Yeah, because that's like six sandwiches. Yeah, and you know what? He was honest and I saw him and I get it because there's only one person at the back and I was like, okay. Say goodbye to your chip, mate. Your chip chip. Yeah, but then I was like standing there and I felt like and I get it because there's only one person at the back and I was like, okay. Say goodbye to your chip, mate. Your chip chip. But then I was, like, standing there and I felt like I was in the way. Yeah, that is the worst feeling when you're like, oh.

Because even if it's eating, you're like, well, at least I'll sit down and grab a drink. But when you're just standing there like a fucking idiot. Or some places you go into now and they don't even really have any tables. No, it's just takeaway. Like, it's just takeaway or they've got like one of those silver chairs like in the front. But then even people ordering after me. Yeah, the Daniel Johns company.

Ben Gillies is there. Wow, we haven't spoken in years. This is awkward. Yeah, what a great place to rekindle our love. You hurt me. Yeah, the book just came out. It's going really well. I'm happy.

Yeah, I was on The Amazing Race with my wife, Jackie. Hello. Sorry, I'm so proud of all my silver jingles. For people outside of Australia that don't know the band Silver Jam, none of that made any sense. But if you do, you're fucking welcome. Yeah. Because that was top shit.

Top shell fucking gold comedy. Thank you. Gold or silver? I said gold. Sorry. Even when other people are coming into order order you just feel like you're in the way i totally and it was probably like 20 minutes um and i hated every single 20 minutes is a long time yeah well i feel like something that i'm really enjoying so far from what we've

seen like in the us is that like there's not as many of those QR code, like, ordering things. Oh, yeah. So, in Australia. They're the fucking worst. Or the best and the worst. See, I literally wrote down, I love to hate it. So, in Australia, since COVID, they introduced, like, the QR. So, you sit down at the table, your QR code, and you order, and the food and stuff all comes to you so that you weren't standing in the restaurant. But I love to hate it. Because is it good that you don't have to get up and if you're in

the middle of a conversation, you can kind of just like, you know, when you're at a busy bar or something. Oh, it can take 10 minutes to go and order. At least. And you're standing in the line and you've got FOMO because your eight mates are sitting there and you go, oh, yeah, I'll carry back all the espresso martinis, you know. Well, at the pub that we go to in Brunswick, it's like you'd have to go and order. And yeah, the person that goes to order, like I come out here to hang out with my friends.

I just spend the whole time standing in the line. I'm standing over there in the line. You don't see anything. But then it is good because you don't have to do that. But it sucks because like as soon as you sit down, everyone's on their phone. So, you sit down, everyone gets their phone out and you're just like, oh, yeah, garlic bread, chips. Yeah. Oh, yeah. So you sit down, everyone gets their phone out And you're just like, oh yep, garlic bread, chips Oh yep, like they do fresh Press juices or whatever, but you're not really like

Having a Conversation Even though you get a receipt, do you also feel like You have this weird like Did it work? Have I ordered at the pub, fucking three Bars down? Like, well fuck, what's happened?

What's happened, mate? So, I'm an anxious person. Yes. Oh, another thing that I really like about it is that you already know whether you've got a spot or not because, like, just before we came, before we left for America, Torbs and I went on like a big day out. It was really nice. Yeah.

And we got food and we were like, yeah, we'll eat in. They give us the food. And then we went to sit down. There was no chairs. Oh. So, the good thing about the QR thing is that you've already got a spot. Anyway, side note. Yeah.

So, in the airport in Melbourne, just before we left to come to America, I was sitting at an airport cafe like across from the gate. Yep. Tony needs to be within eyesight. I like to just know that I'm there. What if the gate disappears? What if there's a gate change? In your mind, is it a possibility that say it's a one o'clock flight, is it like the pilot just gets a good run of traffic on the drive

to the airport and he's like, I know it's only quarter past 12 but i'm good to go let's go everyone um but then it's just gonna go it's not really that it's more just knowing where it is so that i'm not gonna at the last minute have to like rush over right or whatever it's not because i think it's gonna go early it's literally just because then i'm like oh and i think as well as we have learned we don't like travel together like we'll be on the same flight but we'll like hang out for a bit before the flight if we get there at the same time. But then you'll go, oh, I'm going to go buy a magazine or go to the bathroom or whatever.

Go to the bookshop, go to the bathroom 57 times, all of those, you know, just normal people things. But I don't torture people with my waiting at the thing for two hours. I'm like, you don't have to sit there with me. I'm happy to do this by myself. Anyway, got really lucky, though. There's a cafe right across from the gate, so I could see everything. And I was there two hours early.

And so, I'm sitting at this cafe, and they had a QR code, like, ordering thing. Yeah. I ordered a Tony Classic, and I thought it would be fun to ask you if you think that you know what I ordered. The Tony Classic. Well, it wouldn't be a fucker to you cheer because you don't live in the 90s. No. You'll kick yourself.

I don't know if it would have been an iced coffee because like me, sometimes when we travel, it's like let's just go easy on the caffeine so we're not like peeing and pooping the whole time on the flight. But you did go the coffee in this case? I did go an iced latte. Iced latte. Okay. The Tony's special.

You do- I mean, when we get room service, you don't hate like the burger. Yeah. But I don't know if that's an airport meal. Nah. Ham and cheese croissant and an iced latte. I am kicking myself. That's so me.

I'm like, I think that a ham and cheese croissant might be my favourite food. It's hard to think of something better. There's no Benedict in there, though. Hang on. Can you put Benedict in a ham and cheese croissant? If they put a Hollandaise on there, oh, that would be good. Oh, fuck me. Normally at a cafe, you can ask for like a side of Hollandaise.

A side of Hollandaise. So you could do a little dip in. A dip in? That. Name a better food. Let's do that at the next airport we go to. Name a better food. Name a better food. Anyway, so I've ordered a airport we go to. Name a better food. Name a better food.

Anyway, so I've ordered a ham and cheese croissant and a nice latte. Yep. Pretty standard fare for an airport cafe. Normally- You're going to be full of cheese and caffeine and milk getting on that flight straight up. But the ham and cheese croissant is normally made and it's like in that cabinet. Yeah, they pull it out. Or sometimes they'll press it for 30 seconds in the heat.

But like it- It's ready to go. It's ready to go. They're not like, oh, I've got to slice the croissant open. Yeah, no, no out. Or sometimes they'll press it for 30 seconds in the heat. But, like, it's ready to go. It's ready to go. They're not like, oh, I've got to slice the croissant open. Yeah, no, no, no, no. Anyway, it wasn't- So, it should be there within three minutes. Fair.

I think that's pretty fair. It wasn't super busy, but I sat there waiting and I'd ordered the thing and I'm, like, checking my receipt. And I was like, okay. I sat there for an hour. Oh. What? If that's not the most patient I've ever been in my life. Well, hang on, hang on, hang on.

You don't get to decide that you're being really patient if you're sitting there going. I wasn't though. I was like working at the same time. I was messaging Torbs and I was just like, oh, that food's still not here. And then like the people working at the cafe were like circling around and like clearing other people's like plates and dishes and stuff so if there's there's a few things i know about tony lodge

one is that this would ordinarily like really fuck you off yep however on the flip side you would never in a million years go and ask hey where are we at with that croissant because you know you'd never want to put anyone out or like whatever not my style or if they'd be like it's right here and you'd be like oh sorry yeah yeah so were you conflicted about like well what do i do i was and because i was sitting by myself i was like what if i get up i can't leave my luggage by itself yeah and if i get up and move then what if someone else sits down then they deliver the food and they get my breakfast for free yeah thieves thieves anyway it's a thief in international waters because you've passed

customs and it's like there's no laws exactly like they could do anything and i couldn't say a word yeah um anyway i sat there for an hour and I was like, you know what? I'm just going to order again. No. No. Because I couldn't get up. You can go to the counter and go, hey. I mean, run me through why you wouldn't go to the-

I literally just said because I didn't want to leave my seat there. I thought you meant like you didn't want to, like, leave the cafe. No, no, no. You can walk up to the counter. No. Well, I thought that I couldn't because it was kind of on the outside of the cafe. Anyway, and then every time- Oh, I thought you meant like I couldn't go to the bathroom or go check the gate or go to the bookshop.

No, no, no. I was like, no, I can't go to the counter because I was like- Well, of course you can go to the counter. I didn't want to leave my stuff. Anyway, and then so I'm sitting there and I'm like checking the time and I was like, you know what? I'm just going to order again. Maybe it didn't go through. Maybe I ordered it to the wrong thing.

But did the iced coffee arrive? No. No, nothing came. So, I was like, oh, but it said it had like, it said like order processed on the thing. Yeah. And I was like, this is really weird. I'm just going to order again. I ordered and then the food came so fast that I thought it was the first food.

And I was like, oh, no, it's all going to come out. Oh, no, two ham and cheese croissants. What's a girl to do? Oh, no, what will I do? And then the food came so quickly that I was like, oh, this is the first order. And then anyway, I checked the second, like, confirmation that I got on my phone and that had a number. The first one didn't have a number. So, the first one just, like, didn't go through.

Did they charge you, though? No, the money hadn't come out of my account or anything. But I sat there for an hour just being like, oh, it'll come. All good. Yeah, like, because I was like, you know what? Like, I could stand to be more patient. I don't have anywhere to be. I'm already where I need to be.

Yeah, I can see the gate. Yeah, like, I'm all good. Like, I'm set up here and I. I don't have anywhere to be. I'm already where I need to be. Yeah, I can see the gate. We're all good. Yeah, like, I'm all good. Like, I'm set up here and I'm safe and I know where I am. And I literally, being patient cost me, like, time and croissants. That's why I've refused to do it. But anyway, so I'm sat there all that time thinking, like, oh, I've just got to, like, it's fine. It'll come.

It'll come. It'll come. And then, because I'd been thinking that as the people had been walking around clearing plates, I was like, oh, should I ask them if the food's coming? And I was like, no, they've got a job to do. I don't need to bother them. You can do it nicely, though. I had someone forget.

I don't know. I paid. My order just went, go through. And I just, oh, hey, I'm just waiting on a soy cap, go through, and I just went, oh, hey, I'm sorry, just waiting on a soy cap and a flat white. And they went, oh, yeah, so the ticket didn't, yeah, but I remember, yeah, no, sorry, man. And then they just did it.

Oh, that's good. And being kind of like there's ways to go about it. Oh, for sure. You don't have to burn the place down. I saw a carrot in the wild the other day. Oh, love them. And Bridget said, I thought they were only from the internet. I didn't know they existed in real life.

Turns out Target in Northland is where they live. Oh, Northland does sound like where they would live. But I was like, they're kind of looking at me, not a bit funny, but like I didn't have anything in front of me. And I was like, because I literally hadn't put in an order. So they're like, oh, you can't actually sit here. But they didn't want to say anything to me but I'm the arsehole like taking up a spot I'm thinking should I say something but they're thinking should we say something like she's just sitting there like taking up a spot and then after an hour of you

both sitting there like getting all worked up you like walk up to each other and it's like, get out, where's my croissant? Yeah. Like, just like. Well, do you feel like with exposure therapy, you've now become more patient? I think so. Like you've learned? I think so. And now I will know that I can ask the question. Do you want to practice on cam? Okay.

Hi. Hi. Sorry. I actually just ordered food like a little while ago and it hasn't come yet. Get out. Fuck you. It's my first day. They start crying.

The boss hits them in the face. With a cake tin. Yeah. They put them in the Croissant thing Oh god The panini press They take them out the back And call them an idiot sandwich

We're going to Gordon Ramsay's Restaurant next week Oh Yeah I'm so excited In Las Vegas But we're going at like 2pm because

There's no dinner We couldn't get a booking at night We have to eat Within 5 minutes You go in there They throw the food at you And you walk out You walk in with an open mouth

And they just The guy with the tongs Just throws the beef wellington at you whatever you catch is yours to keep but nothing more yeah have you made a booking uh no not five months in advance only a week in advance yeah we tried um i gotta go up to see it here guys yes it's from caitlin lynn no it's just cait lynn not caitlin caitlin yeah My partner and I just got married on the weekend in far north Queensland in our backyard. Our beautiful little family affair and our pup named Honor was our flower girl. She was so well behaved and planted herself in front of the photographer at every

opportunity. So she knows her angles and everyone fell even more in love with her. And now I've got professional photos of me looking like a million bucks and our baby girl looking her best. You fucking love to see it. Have a look. Do we have a picture of Anna? Yep, at Caitlin and Anna together here. Have a squiz. Oh, what a beautiful bride and a beautiful Anna.

What an Anna. What an Anna. An Anna and a privilege. Yeah, and then Anna's got like a little flower sash. Yeah, she's got like a little... Sashay. Not a sashay, it's a sash. It's like a flower necklace.

Yeah. Like flower crown. It's in the You Love To See It thread in the Tony and Ryan podcast Facebook group. Fuck, that was a mouthful. We'll put it in today's episode thread as well. Yeah, but doesn't Honour just look an absolute treat? And congratulations to Caitlin and her partner getting married. Oh, that's beautiful.

I've got a You Love To See see here also from our Facebook group, from Christina Castellanos de Teresa. Of course, we've got a Caitlin. Can I buy a vowel? Like the opposites. This year, I've made over $700 on my Etsy shop. Is that crazy? Think of all the croissants you could buy.

And wait for. Christina says, I opened my shop back in 2021 when COVID was still alive and well. And as a new shop owner, trying to reach people, trying to take the right pictures and videos and cut through. Because lots of people were doing the same thing. They're like, oh, I'll sell my stuff online. Still have a lot of work to do. But this year, I've got double the amount of sales that I had in the first year and a half prior. I'm so excited.

And Christina's goal is that hopefully by the end of the year she'll reach $1,000 in sales. Fuck yeah. So cute. A nice little weekend away for your hard work. I know. And the Etsy store is called Triple Cat Creations. Fuck yeah. So, Christina, good on you.

And maybe if you would be interested in checking it out. You don't know what she sells? Didn't want to click on the link and find out. Handmade items. Ooh, drug. Well, no. Is she a drug dealer? Did you fact check this one too much?

No, I didn't. And if she was a drug dealer, she's not very good. She only made $700. She sold two hits. Three feet of your squeeze. Two and a half bags. You're not doing well No Christina good on you That's awesome

It's good for legal sales Bad for illegal sales Yeah But thank you so much Christina for sharing that with us And we've got Threads in our Facebook group For you love to see it

It's normal on ours Everything So join the conversation Over at the Tony and Ryan Facebook group. Tomorrow we've got confessions. These are tough confessions. Can I just read the first line of the first confession? Uh-huh.

My uncle passed away one year before the incident. We'll chat to you tomorrow. Oh, my God. Also, after you hear this story, no one's allowed to die. Oh, well, that's fair. that's fair. Love you, bye.