Trash Tuesday w/ Esther Povitsky & Khalyla Kuhn - Ali Macofsky & Jenna Jiménez's WILD Car Crash

Episode Date: November 18, 2025

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You guys are not similar and you can't be friends. We should hang out and then take a photo posted on Instagram and never mention it to Esther. Imagine you sleep over like tonight. That stuff. I'm territorial about my friendships. I just don't like seeing my friends hang out with other people. I really upset to me in general. I like watching my friends become friends.

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I had to face humiliation also, and I handled it. You can check out the Patreon and shout out to our golden slug brandon. Wait, your legs are tiny. No, I know. Look at my head. Like, life is harder for me.

Oh, my God. Look at this. Life is just. Oh, my God. I'm disabled. I have giant fucking legs. Imagine if you had like this to work with. I would love that.

No. I can't wear boots. I can't wear high boots. My legs get stuck. I can't wear high boots. Because you're uncomfortable. I would never wear heels. She can't carry the weight of the boots on her legs.

Oh my God. You have tiny little ankles. Do you see how hard it's been? Yeah. Look at her bones sticking out of her knees. It's rude that you didn't offer to carry me in. I would. I asked her to carry my burrito and,

and a half of my burrito and a half of hers, which equals one burrito upstairs. I'm really tired, though. Okay, and she was like, oh, this is really heavy. I'm so tired. I kind of hate carrying stuff. I remember one time I went on like a field trip at school and I was wearing a zip-up jacket

and then it got hot and I didn't need it and I didn't want to carry it or like have it hanging on me. So I just put it in the trash. I'm really interested in this. That is amazing. That is amazing. And I feel like that's kind of how I live my life. I'm just like, if I don't want it, I'm leaving it.

Someone else hopefully enjoyed the jacket. In the trash? I didn't put it in the trash. I just put it next to the trash. You don't need everything. And also, I hate carrying things. I hate carrying things. I don't like having a purse.

I know. I can carry you. I love the performance of carrying things sometimes. Oh, man, I hate it. Like today I have like a big tote bag in my car because I'm like, I have a busy day. So I like have all my girls. I packed my little lunch and, like, I feel very. What's in your lunch?

Do you use a cooler? No, I'm just hoping it doesn't wilt. I did like a salad in a jar. I was picturing a turkey sandwich or something. That would be fine. Yeah, I think that would be fine too. In the car? I also like when things get soggy.

That's so disgusting. Yeah, I love kind of like a turkey sandwich. I feel like that would be good after sitting out for a little bit. That is so gross. Wait, when I was younger, I used to love. Love, love, love, soggy cereal. Me too. I love soggy cereal. You're the only other person.

No, soggy cereal is good. That's different. Bitch, don't act like you're in on this. I am. Soggy soft cereal. No, like I just want it, I do want it, I don't want it hard. I like a mix. I like when there's some crunchy pieces on top and then the rest is soggy.

That way when you get a bite, it's like a nice blend of like crunchy, but then. Oh, that's nice. It's like almonds on top of like an avocado. The soft and the crunchy. Almond? Because they're crunchy. You're allergic to almonds. I don't even know why you're...

You just act as like you have this snack all the time and I know factually you can't have almonds. I know about pistachios on top of like avocado toast. I don't think I've ever had almonds. I'm trying to be someone you're not in front of alley. I was trying to say something that like other people could relate to, like a texture that other people could relate to. Sorry. Can I just tell you the point of me?

saying this. Yeah. When I was younger, my mom, and you know this is true, she would the night before make me a bowl of cereal, let it sit in the fridge so that when I woke up in the morning, I could have soggy cereal. That's like unsanitary. But then would you add new cereal to the top? No, no, no, no. I've never, I'm going to try that. It does soak up a lot of the milk, so sometimes I would pour like orange juice on top or a little more milk. Orange juice? She's showing off right now. I'm not. She's just showing off that she's different. Wait, orange juice? I believe you did that.

Wait, why orange juice? Because it's like a sweet. It's like... Yeah, Ali actually wants you to leave. Okay. I'm willing to try this, but like how would you even come up with that idea? I think it was my mom's fault. What about ketchup on eggs? Yes. I'm okay with that.

You are? Yeah. Cache up on eggs, yes. Hot sauce is even better. Yeah, I like hot sauce. Hot sauce. Hot sauce makes sense to me, but ketchup, I love ketchup, but on eggs, I'm getting a, ugh. You know on the breakfast burrito? Wouldn't you do it there?

No. I wouldn't do it on a breakfast burrito because there's so much flavor in it. Like, I don't need to add ketchup. But my friend would do ketchup on mac and cheese. Yum. The thought to me of ketchup in a place where it doesn't belong, suddenly I see ketchup in this different light where I'm like, what are you? Yeah.

you're like a key like plastic bottle of tomato mush it's like when you see your partner in a different space yeah it's so gross but like if it's right there with the fries I'm like oh my god yes daddy like fuck me harder if I said that if I said that if I said that Esther has this double standard where I'm not allowed to say anything sexual because she thinks it's gross like I'm her mom I regret saying that it's fucking rude dear God please forgive me so I'm something Something really freaking nasty right now. No, don't. Ew. Even if I just say like, yeah, so we fucked and I was on top of him and I'm not saying it in any way, just factual. No, you do say it nasty. No, you hear it like this. We fucked.

That's how you hear it. You did something. Like, you did a little titty. You guys busted it at the same time. Like, we fucked. It's just how I speak. I'm from Chicago. Like, what?

Say something dirty. I bet you won't sound as crass. I can't, yeah. Literally just say, so the same thing that I said. So we fucked and I was on top. Okay, well, that wouldn't be true ever. but um so we fucked and I was on top that was so like normal no it's because you have double standards yeah you're nasty yeah what did you say just a second ago that you wanted to repent for I said fuck me

harder catch up you literally said fuck me harder which is inherently more crass than saying you know what it is I think I know what it is please tell us being you for the first time outside perspective you have like a sexual energy to you. Thank you. I hate that you just said that. I don't think have like some like sexual charisma. I hate that you just I don't have a sexual energy. And so I think when you say you fucked I'm like we can see it. Whereas when we say it, it's hard to. You have two babies. You literally, we know that you fucked. That doesn't mean anything. Is this yours? It was so sees that I gave to you. Pants. Oh, thank you. Wait, why are you having Gen Z day today? I'm not having a Gen Z day. It's a sweater. Colilo. We're dealing with again the fact that I have.

Esther has a double standard. Do you want to know what Esther just said we're talking about ketchup and a burrito? Esther goes, yeah, ketchup. Fuck me harder. Can you imagine if I said that? And you hear her say it. The way she says it is nasty.

It's a little wet. She said it. And it's hard on the consonants. And I'm Filipino, but you say it hard with the conscience. Yeah, she's gross. No one agrees with you. And then Ali said it's because I have a more sexual energy. My priest is here and he wants to bless you.

I think honestly, I honestly, I think it has to do with your high testosterone. Yeah, you're like a. I'm a sick man, a horny man. Look at you. I don't know. I'm not saying I look good. I wasn't talking about your lugs. You want to hear something sexual.

I got my per Nouveau results. And he was like, hey. Your pussy's intact. Not only that, but. What? Why does this sound familiar? It's MRI. I want to do that.

You should. Wait, tell us everything. Well, you look really good and hot and gorgeous again today. Oh, you guys want to see, we don't want to see sex. Look at the hole in my pussy. That's great. She's showing us her actual pussy hole. Oh, yeah.

Wow. That's a big hole. Sleepover, we said, right? It was a theme. It's really smooth. He gave you access to my pussy during sleepovers. Thanks for showing us your hole. He was basically like, hey, are you like planning on having like more kids?

And I was like, um, that's like not even on the table like right now. He was like, well, then are you on birth control? And I was like, no. And he was like, oh, because like you're very, my follicles were everywhere. Really? On the MRI. On the MRI. I could see like little like graves.

Everywhere. Like they're like up here. They're coming out my nose. On her face. Oh my God. You're not touching me. Get them off. So I'm very, very.

Whoever wants to impregnate me. Me. Yeah. We're good to go. My testosterone, I could. See, the difference with me is I have PCOS so I have so many follicles. But they're not doing anything. I bet you if we, if we scissured hard enough, like we could make something happen.

I hope. One of you would get pregnant. You would get pregnant from my cissory. Every time they do the intravaginal ultrasound, is that okay that I said that? Yeah, but you did say it a little bit weird. She licked her lips. Yeah. She gets off on it.

You get off on it, which is why you don't want me to say it. Look at you. You're fucking blushing, bitch. You're drooling. Every time they do the intravaginal ultrasound. You can see. Oh, my God. You wish it were.

You can see all my follicles. I have way too many, but they're not developing. Oh, because you're PCOS. Yeah. Wait, did you, can you tell us more about your Punovo? Are you? So my brain looks intact. No, all my vasculature looks good and healthy but.

Healthy butt? That's amazing. Healthy butt. I have what they call on their right side of my brain. It was like on my white matter, they call it microintensities. And basically he was like, It just means you're smart. No, it's the opposite.

So basically he's like, we usually see this and like smokers. people with diabetes and things like that and he's like but that's not you because you don't drink you don't smoke and he was like but then the other then we go to the second tier which is like have you been like knocked out or like concussed and I was like yeah like twice like badly and he was like oh because this is like a conversation like you have in like within a 30 year span so basically

I can have like early cognitive decline because of a concussion yeah I had two really bad concussions or I was like knocked out like cold oh so like less oxygen to your brain in those moments. Yeah. So that might be it or like chronic migraines can cause it apparently. Oh, well I have fucking chronic migraines so I'm dead already. How is your... It doesn't kill you. It just makes you stupid. I feel my

cognitive decline. I definitely have that. You have it. Don't get the scan. I got you. Thank you. Wait, how is your tithes? My tithes were okay. He said they look like I'm breastfeeding. Okay. They're granular. They're you know, glandular.

This is my granular. Glangular. Do you have dense breast tissue? I always have. all the pretty girls all the pretty girls have tight tities hard cities yeah i was trying and feel and i'm like the whole thing feels muscular yeah i'm like it feels like there's bumps everywhere yeah wait so i have some family updates to share oh she does last week we got the call that my grandma was going into the hospital and like this is probably going to be it right she actually went into the hospital she's 85 okay but she drinks and smokes and is like not has not been in great 85 condition you know her older sister is 11 years

older than her and is like living yeah is this the one with a yacht boyfriend yeah my aunt ellen so most of her sister her sister my grandma sisters are like doing great but my grandma you know she has the alcohol and the smoking we got the call she was going into the hospital with the uTI which I don't know if you know this, but I'm sure Colila does. UTI is an old... Very dangerous in India. Also, even a UTI and young people, if it goes untreated, can be really dangerous. And I guess in elderly people, like, it can go untreated longer because they're not aware of it.

But, like, they get a little crazy. They get a little crazy because what happens is that all of their electrolytes start to go, like, haywire. And it's usually, it's UTI, and then it can be septic very quickly. But UTI is a very, very common cause for people to go down at that age. Yeah. She goes in the hospital and she's with my uncle who, like, I'm just going to be honest, is not a reliable narrator. Like, he's just, he's just not all there.

We're like not sure. He's, we can't, like, piece together what's really happening. But all my mom knows is she finally talks to the doctor and they're like, she is dying. And my mom's like, okay, so I'm going. Basically, they're like, actually the UTI is gone. but she has been dying she's dying she has she will not eat she will not drink the only reason she's alive right now is because we have her on a glucose drip and once we cut that like it will just be days the doctor's like there's no coming back from this like this is it my mom's like

my mom and her other brother like okay we understand whatever yeah they like went there to say goodbye yeah but before they got there my mom got a call from the police Oh, I didn't know you were going to say this. Yeah, I didn't know you were going to tell this part. Wait, you already know this? Oh, we know, Jenna, I know this. Esther, this baby up in you making you go crazy. Go on.

I don't know how real this is, okay? I don't know, but we got a call from the police that my uncle, who my grandma, you know, who's supposed to be her caregiver, was kissing and licking. her neck. No. And then he basically had to go to jail. No. And we're like, excuse me? What? Because my uncle's crazy, but like that is just doesn't add up for us. I swear I'm not like I'm trying not to laugh.

It's hilarious. But it's not. It's serious but also it's like that's elderly abuse but also it's like. But I truly don't know that it. I really don't believe it happens. Who reported? The nurses reported it. Here's my theory. Why would the nurses lie? It's great. I know that's what my mom says. My mom says that he was just maybe having like a really strong reaction to losing her.

With his tongue. Licking? Licking's crazy. What I think, my uncle is so annoying and hard to deal with and like probably walks in there acting like he's a doctor. Like it catch me if you can. He's like, I can just see that. What I think is that they were like, let's get rid of this guy and that they call the police. but they did say that my uncle licked my grandma's neck.

And I just, that is, that has something, something I've been carrying for the last week. Oh my God. That's what this is? This is, and I don't know what happened. And I feel like because I am sharing it publicly, I need to at least defend that maybe it didn't really happen. All right. So what I'm going to say is that it happened because, listen, I know there's a possibility that didn't. However, if I'm a nurse and I work there and I want to get rid of him, I'm not going to go to he was licking her neck.

But if you're kissing passionately, I don't know, whatever. I'm going to go to like, he tried to take her thing out and he's, so that's, that's dangerous. He tried to take her IV out so we can't have him here. Maybe he went like this and was like rubbing a smudge. I don't know. But, okay, the reason that it's, if you guys were a different culture, I would be like, you guys are just like saying goodbye to g-ma, right? Because like very huggy, kissy. But because you guys are not that, you're a little bit like cold on the affection.

I don't know what culture we are You guys are like standoffish white I don't know Apparently not because there's a whole lot of Kissy Licky happening Your mom's not super touchy Your dad's not No my mom is not

My parents are not But I don't really know what my extended family is Because I don't fucking know them But what does your mom say Like what did your other uncle say Look you know my mom She has no coloring of the facts She's just like so here's what happened

And I'm like mom what do you think She's like I think you're just having Like an extreme response to him him to grandma dying like my mom just doesn't it she's not like taking it in right as this going on so my uncle goes to jail my family my mom and my other uncle go there they see her she's dying whatever they're like all right we got to like there's a lot to take care of when someone passes away like my grandma lives in this house in Minnesota it's big it's a fucking pig's die because she's been dying and malnourished and my uncle has you know who knows what he's

been busy licking he's not cleaning I thought you were going to say you he's like killing he was like killing her i don't think no i don't think so i mean i think maybe some like he's just not like the type a where he's gonna like make sure she's and she's pretty fussy to begin with so she says she's not eating like i could see how that i i can't fault someone because it'd be like i don't know how to she's maybe he was trying to feed her and like food got here yeah i don't know you can make up stories whatever we can all let's just on our own time we'll think about the licking but My mom, my aunt, my other aunt are there for a few days, and they're just cleaning out the house, right?

They're like getting rid of everything, donating everything because this house needs to sell because, you know, they just want to get it going because they're only there for this amount of time to say goodbye. My mom gets rid of everything of my grandmas. Oh, and your mom's quick. Yeah. And then the next day, the doctor's like, things are looking better for grandma. No. And she's starting to eat. and she's starting to drink and she's asking

where is her stuff and saying she wants to go home but my mom completely cleaned out her whole You gotta put her down like a dog Her stuff is gone And I'm like what's gonna happen Yeah you gotta put her down you gotta put her down

You know what's so funny is that You were talking shit about your sister being hopeful that grandma was gonna turn around You're like what is wrong with her Wait, but now that grandma can talk, can she elaborate on uncle? She can talk. Does she have any memories of? No, she doesn't, she just asks where is he?

But he now legally can't see her. Oh. So he can't. Was he the legal caretaker? Well, my mom's a power of attorney, but he was taking care of right. I don't know what the legality is, but he now can't see her anymore. Is he still in jail? He got out on Monday.

So he's out. And did he say like, L.O.L. misunderstanding. He was just like the cops told. Totally. Like he was like everything got blown out of proportion and he was like traumatized, I think, from spending the weekend in jail. Blown out of proportion. So he didn't say that didn't happen. He just said. I don't know what he said. And it's like, I'm only getting a secondhand for my mom and she probably doesn't want to talk to him. Not to defend your uncle in any way. People do have really strange reactions to people dying. And not to say it's a licking, but my best friend when my dad was passing away and we were watching the monitor slowly start to kind of, you know, the heart.

heartbeat slowly disappear. My best friend, this is the first kind of dying body that she had ever seen. And she did the weirdest thing. She approached my dad's gangrenous foot because he had no more. My dad's foot was already like black and gone. No more circulation. And she did the weirdest thing, which would probably prompt a nurse to be like, what are you doing except that he was really on his way out?

Suck his toes? She didn't suck his toes, but she was like petting the black foot like this. like a gangrenous foot and I was looking at her and my sister and I like is what is she doing and she didn't even know what she was doing she was so uncomfortable so I know go to a different place and she's like the sanest person we know she's very that means that someone else who's maybe not a sane could definitely go to licking I agree with you I think that I don't know what happened it's a wild report and obviously within my family we're like oh what the fuck but as I you know give it some great I'm trying publicly give it some grace like who's like who's knows. Maybe it didn't happen. Maybe he just loves his mama. Yeah. But to me, the funny thing is my grandma. She's homeless. Maybe it's like, it's like sleeping beauty. Like your uncle's lick and woke up her back. Oh my God. She's like coming back. She's like being mean to everybody again. Like it's and she's tall. She really bounced back. Yeah. I called her. We FaceTime to like, was supposed to be our state. Oh, she's alive alive. Yeah. No. She like. My mom was like

FaceTime her we have to say goodbye and it's like she was like asking me how's the weather like it was not a goodbye call so it was a hello call yeah I don't know what is going to happen like what's the next step here but they better tell her about her stuff before she goes home because she might have a heart attack and die well the house wasn't sold in that short amount of time obviously no no but just her stuff we just got to take a we got to do a target run we got to do a quick target run resupply some things I think realistically she'll probably go to a facility she's going to go to a home yeah Yeah, she's going to go to a nursing. But if she's cognitively still there, that's a choice she has to make.

I think that the doctors have said that she needs to go to a facility because she like is not able to do like anything. Oh, her physical, her actual like take, yeah. Which is what's been so weird throughout this is like her brain is there, but like her body is shut up. Okay, body roll. Yeah, her body. That was really sexual what you did there. My grandma.

Well, you know, shout out to grandma for bouncing back. I got to give it up to her. The joke's on all of us. She's her ninth life life is coming through. It's like my grandma. My grandma's like 95. Yeah. She's been wanting to die for maybe six years.

Like she's like, I'm done. No more. Put me away. Put me down. Put me down. She's like, she kept saying recently, I can't wait to take a dirt nap. And I'm like,

where did you even hear this? Just a quick one. Yeah. And then she's with it if she's saying that. She's, like, with it, but she keeps repeating herself, and she's, like, living at this, like, old people's home, and she doesn't socialize with anyone. She thinks she's, like, diva. So she won't hang out with anyone, which is so sad, because there's some, like, cool people. I walk around.

I see some of these people, and they're cool. And she's, like, I don't want a man. Like, at this age, men only want the purse or a nurse, and I'm not either. And I'm like, what are you? You're 95. No one's trying to fuck you. But that's a thing. They do try to fuck.

Not her, trust me. She can't even stand. Because the higher rates of STDs are in nursing homes. That's so sad. Well, I know my aunt who has the boyfriend, she's 96. They just have sleepovers and they just lay in bed and hold hands. That's really cute. That's so cute.

Yeah, they can't really do much more. I love that. Yeah, it's fine. Oh, is that too sexual for you? Yeah. Oh, and you like it. You were all about it until I was like, oh, that's, Colila was like, that's sweet, that's sweet. Everyone you're like, yeah.

And I said, that's sweet. And you were like, You're taking it too far. I do feel a little bit closer to you in that, like, you have a weird uncle. Oh, yeah. I do feel like, okay. I'm a weird uncle. Yeah, I have a weird family.

So I'm like, okay. I feel like my dad's the weird uncle. He is. Yeah, because I don't really have any weird uncles, so I'm like, it must be my dad. You always come across as someone from, like, good stock. Oh, where are you from? Long Beach. Good stock, Long Beach.

It is? Yeah. Top tier. Long Beach is a best. Look at everyone nodding. I spent my weekend there for a reason. I love Long Beach. Yeah, I love Long Beach, too.

Long Beach is so dope. My parents are crazy. Yeah, no, there's a lot. I mean, when it comes to my family, I've got more to just really match you. I feel like you think Esther's normal and she's not. No, I don't think she's normal. Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no. I don't think she's normal.

I think that she's a normal family or something. Yeah, I mean, I have an uncle who shot himself in the penis. Shut. Wait, can you explain that story? Why do you say penis? Let's go tit for tat. You say uncle shot. I'll give you my murderer's uncle who killed his brother.

Okay, that you have me there, because my one uncle only threatens to kill my other uncle. Like, literally, though, like, once a week is like, I'm going to fucking murder him, but he's not done it officially. Also, my uncle is community Jesus. Did we forget that he gets crucified once a year to the cross? I can't during Easter Sunday. I can't match you there. Yeah. But shooting in the penis is pretty close to crucified, you know, uncle.

Shooting in the penises. Could I hear more about this? Yeah. Well, so there is one theory in the family. Is he not alive? No, he's alive. Okay. Just no one's trucking.

He actually recently... What is it called when you're like doing like steel work and you're supposed to be wearing a big mask? Weller? Something like that recently and it was an explosion but he wasn't wearing his mask. Like he's always like doing stuff like that. He was a Navy seal. Like there's just always... Ooh.

Yeah. Wow. Impressive. He didn't even need a dick. There's a theory in my family though that. maybe like someone he was married to or was with shot him in the penis and that he covered for her. But that's just a theory.

Like I'm only wears the bullet around his neck. What? Kind of like very romantic. Wait, he covered for her? We don't know. We don't know. Were they able to reattach it is my question? Were they able to find the piece and put the piece back together?

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I think it's fucked up. I really think it's fucked up. I threw a full tantrum. I was miserable. What birthday was it? It was like maybe my seventh or eighth. And you still remember it. Oh, yeah.

Because you do remember it. It's your special day and someone trying to just blow out your shit. And did they not put like more candles in it to light it again? I mean, but I'm sure they did. But I'm like, fuck that. Now I'm crying. And I'm like, oh, I wish my cousin was dead. He's alive.

I'm so sorry. That would make me upset and not many things would make me upset. Yeah, pissed me off. Your brother didn't torture you. Are you kidding me? What? What do you think happened? We were just best friends.

What did he do to you? I get along with him. I like him. Sure, but he was still a brother. Is he older? He was six years older than me. Oh my God. He would fucking just like hit me and hold my head here.

He would play this game called Buck and Bronco where he would be like, okay, yeah, get on my back and then I'll ride you around. slam me literally fly me into the wall into the bed frame and before I could start crying he would go no no no you're okay you're okay you're okay and then I'd be like mom Jenna Jenna I swear to God and I'm like oh I'm okay are you like what what brother is not like that brothers are rough yeah sisters are more like emotionally manipulative and like more sadistic mentally whereas guys are just like yeah he was he was also like very manipulative he would make me get things for him like I became his chauffeur and my mom would always say like Jenna you don't see

that you're becoming his chauffeur that's what he's doing just tell him no but he would like tell me like oh I'll let you play this video game if you go get that for me so then I would go get it and then I would sit by him for like four or five hours and my mom was like he's not gonna let you play don't you see it hasn't happened I mean she would try but my brother he's she got other things to do you know back then it was like siblings figured out wait would you intervene miss i have problems with discipline i would just let you let it be or do something i wouldn't like i don't know i have discipline problem do you i mean my parents don't have discipline problems but it's like what are you gonna do to like siblings being siblings i be like gabriel you can no longer play video games ever look

something comes up for me when like dave is like i'm taking that away from you from you or from From the baby. Oh, okay. I wasn't sure if Dave was reprimanding you. He's like, I have to take the phone away. That's what it sounded like. The reaction that I have is so large that I'm like something bigger is going on here. This isn't just like, okay, get over it.

It's fine. This is hard. It's like something like I'm like sweaty and clammy. And I'm like, no, like I just, I can't take things away from her. It's horrible. Like if we go from room to room, you know, Dave, like, let's leave that in this room. And I'm like, why? I don't understand why.

Like, why do we have to leave that in this room? She's holding it. She wants to, like, something. I don't know. She's the same with her dog, though, too. It's like, you try and discipline her dog, and she's like, well, that's what she wants. I really, I do empathize with you. Explain.

It is very hard to, because it's like, for me, it's like, he doesn't understand why things are being taken away. He just wants to hold it. Okay, but a dog. A dog. I mean, obviously, if it's like wires and electrical things, I'm like, I'm very firm with him. Yeah, but safety. It's like, no, we're not doing that. But if it's like, no, we're not doing that.

But if it's just a river rock and you just want to take it to the next room. Well, no one's talking about a river rock. Yeah, it could be a river rock. But that's why both parents are needed. Like, I truly think that you need to offset both. You need both energies. Like, I need Aloha to be like, this stays here because this stays here. This is where this belongs.

And I can't do that. I'm kind of like you where it's like, he doesn't know that's where it belongs. He's a year old. But they'll get used to the idea that you can't have everything. But I feel like they're too young at this age to do the whole discipline thing. I think when they're a little. bit older you need to be like you know firmer yeah i don't think she needs to be disciplined i think it needs to be okay that like when i'm there and ace grabs something of mine that i don't want her to take whether

it's because it's dangerous or not i just go like nope no thank you weren't i don't go like you can't take that and she's fine with it yeah it is fine when you do it i just can't do it oh my god she can't do it but because she feels you being like uh i see what you're saying yeah and then ace is like it's also our nanny is like, you guys let her just do whatever. And our nanny will be like, that's not a toy. And I'm like, but it's okay. She's discovering the world. That's what I say.

I was like, she's just new to everything. She isn't like what a toy or, you know. And part of that is true. I do agree with like they're not supposed to be able to discern between a toy and a not toy. You know what I think? But I think it's okay for children to have things taken away in a gentle, loving manner. You are absolutely correct. Of course, I know that's true.

I think for me it's something that's within me that it might be like because my parents really did not discipline me. And so then when I was disciplined, it was by like a different adult that was not like a safe person and it like felt really scary. I don't know. It just makes me really uncomfortable because in my house it was like we were all equals. And I'm not saying that's good or bad. It just was like how what, I don't know, were you disciplined? No. Look at her now.

She's thriving. I wish I was. It was stressful not being disciplined. Like everything was too chill. There were no consequences for anything. It's just like animals. Animals don't feel safe if there aren't boundaries. I was over-disciplined and I think it's one of the reasons why I let him have everything.

For sure. Because I'm like every answer to my question was no. Everything was a no in my household. In fact, we have a no jar in my house and it's for my mom. Anytime she says no now as an adult when she says it to my son, she has to put. I love that. She says no, no, no. And she doesn't just say no once.

Everything is a no. Even when you tell her something, like you're affirming something she says. Let's say, no, no, no, no. My mom's like, the sky is blue. I'm like, yeah, the sky is blue, isn't it? She goes, no. That's her first thing.

It's like she feels like the need to oppose. And it's almost like she says that instead of like wait or hold on, she says no, you're right. She says no first. So we have a no jar because it's like he cannot grow up hearing no all to everything. So how we do it in our household is like, We baby proof it so that so much so that like he can play with most things in the house that are generally safe that we I don't have to constantly be like, not that, not that, not that. No, no, no. That doesn't become like, because that was my entire child. It is no. Damn. Yeah. And I hated it. I hated it so much. Yeah, that's, that's a lot. So you were never told anything. No. Like one, like one time I got super high. I was supposed to drive my dad and my stepmom to like a party.

And I was like, I went to my friend's place beforehand and I ended up getting like so high and like freaking out. And so I called my dad and I was like, hey. And he was like, hey, are you coming to pick me up? And I was like, so here's the thing. I need you to pick me up because I'm very high. And so he's like, okay. So he picks me up and then just like drop me off at home. and that was it

and then I just watched like YouTube videos of circles for like 12 hours I am totally team your dad on that you called him and told him the truth so much trust I'm gonna take care of you yeah I mean I think that part

of it is like good like I didn't feel like I was capable like I didn't feel like I was like a bad kid or anything but I do think in terms of like school or structure like that's where it was like really difficult like I had no sense of like I need

there's responsibilities that I have to take care of it was kind of like whatever it's on you like if you do it you do it if not and so I wish in that way I was like a little bit more like pushed to yeah versus like disciplined and yeah one of my best friends in high school she was she had just moved to the United States her parents were Brazilian diplomats and so she'd lived her whole life there and so like she that was her culture whatever and I feel like I learned so much from her. And one thing, she was like, it's very much of the American culture to lie to your parents. And I was like, that's so true. And so I was like, I want to be like her and the Brazilians. And so I was like, I never lied to my parents. Yeah, I never lied to my mom either.

But my mom also just let me do whatever, but because there was that trust. Like, I didn't have to lie to her about anything. She always told me, like, if you do happen to drink or you're with someone who's drinking, please call us. It doesn't matter what time of. of day, night it is. And you're 37, you still haven't drink. Yeah, and then I ended up never drinking. Whoa. Like, haven't been drunk. It's so cool. It just never happened because I just felt like I had other things to do. I was like in choir and dancing and doing Celine Dion impressions. Doing Celine Dion impressions. Yeah. One rule my mom had was like if you start something, you finish it. Whether it's like something that you sign up for, whether it's a basketball league, whether it's

like your homework. My ADHD was so bad though. So I think that. was the only frustrating thing for her. Like, she would get called into school all the time. I had in school suspension all the time. Me too. Really? Yeah, I was always in detention. I just, for any little thing, I couldn't sit.

Things that I look back on now, like I had a bouncy ball and it like went into a teacher's face one time. Mr. Demontropolis. I'm so sorry. What the fuck is wrong with you? I didn't. It wasn't. I was just trying to.

She needed to stem. Yeah, I was just trying to focus. Oh, you really? Wow. Or I would be in class. Again, I was a great student, but I would sit like this. And they're like I love those people

It makes me laugh still And I had a teacher Mr. Swanson, what up? Who told him? I had a Miss Swanson. Oh my God. Did you like her? No, she was kind of mean.

Mr. Swanson who I like still keep in touch with I walked into Miss Weber's class one year and she said, I'm not teaching you. And like if you can imagine me, like, I was a kind person. You're just probably annoying for an adult. Very annoying for an adult for other students, which I didn't understand at the time.

I wish we were friends in eyes. I love the person you look over. We're all sitting like this and they're just like that guy. I love that guy. That guy? And Mr. Swanson, I remember, walked into the room and he said, I said, hey, like, she won't teach me. And he was my like AP lit teacher.

And he goes, let me just talk to her. And he said, does she do her work? He's like, yes. does she participate in class yes she was like but she's just so disruptive and he said let her sit how she wants and let her sit on the floor i promise you it'll all go away she kept me in her class was good i didn't even know though the teachers could say like i'm not teaching you a chicago public school they could do whatever the fuck they want they could literally hit you and it would be fine do you know what roger did for me my senior year because i was about

to like completely fail out of my senior year who's Roger. Roger's my stepdad, who was my history teacher in high school. I was going through such a crisis, and I was in and out of, shout out, VHC and Torrance, I was in and out of psych hospitals because I kept wanting to unalive myself. It's so, yeah. As it were. Yeah, I kept wanting to unalive myself. I was in a bad way.

And he struck a deal with all of my teachers and basically said, she stays in my classroom all day. I will give me all of the work she needs to get done. I will homeschool her in my classroom. Keep an eye on her. No way. My English teacher, Mr. Dakin, picked me up from my house every morning. And Roger drove me home every day.

They were like, we got to get this girl. She's very bright. She's just going through it, like, mentally. Like, her dad is dying. That's really surprising because you are really smart. And it came from the Philippines with 4.0. That doesn't sound like what? they have to do for smart kids it really sucked because i went from being a 4.0 student to like

0.4 like complete crash and burn from when i first got there i was taking ap classes my ninth ninth grade to my senior year just being like i'll constantly call she's not in the classroom she's not because i was just a really bad shape and they were like we know her potential let's just help her out and so they did was roger your stepdad already no he wasn't really He was my, he was just my high school history teacher. He was just trying to get to your mom. He's just trying to get to my mom. Trying to get to you and their booty.

But not your booty. Your mom's so sweet, right? That's really sweet. They banded together to, that's crazy. That's incredible. Yeah. Like, that is teachers. They need to be paid more.

Yes. And by the way, they already knew that I had a full ride at UNLV pending, that I was offered a full ride. And they were like, she's going to lose this full ride if we don't, if she doesn't graduate. So it's like, let's. It's just help her out and, like, send her on her merry way. And they did. It's so sweet. Wow.

I had, when I was in eighth grade, I had, like, I don't know, like, the main class. I don't know what class it is, like English, social studies, whatever. And so I'm like, in this class, I'm also, like, annoying as hell, always. And we have, like, a student teacher in the class, like, you know, one of these, like, young guys who's, like, learning. and so like every day he's in class I just like keep going up to him he's sitting in the back and I'm like do you want to see me dance

I'm like I'll sing a song for you and like during the whole class I just like keep going up to him and like entertaining him it really is yeah and so I'm just like putting on this whole show every class he's there without realizing that it's inappropriate or did you realize? I'm like

he's sitting in the back alone like let me entertain and then like after a full week I get called into the office and I get to the office and I see my mom and my dad who are divorced and I see the counselor and I see my teacher and then I see the student teacher and you were like and I'm like yeah pretty much and it turns out he was actually in class observing me to see if I had ADD. And you gave him the full show. I gave him the full show. And I gave him the full show. And I'm

I'm like, I wish I had known that because I think all I really wanted was attention and I got it. So did he diagnose you? Yeah, fully. Yeah, and then I was on Vivance for like 12 years after. Oh my God. Yeah, I got diagnosed in like third grade and then again in college and I tried like three different medications but for like two days each and they were all. They just made me like this. Did the V Vance?

What did it do to you? Just made me like super focused. Was it good or not good? I don't know. I think the doctor who gave it, like my pediatrician, that's the kid doctor, right? My pediatrician, like, kept raising my... Oh, the dosage. And so by the end, I was on, like, the most you could be on, which I think was, like, super

unnecessary. And because I was on it, like, long term, I think it definitely, like, dulled my personality. And I think, I don't know. I think as a kid, it's, like, just be crazy and for... Like, is school really the most important thing? Like, I don't know. Yeah. I wish I wasn't on it.

And I know that my mom, like, really didn't want me to be on medication. So she was bummed. But, you know, whatever. But it was helpful. And it was fun to use for, like, for funsies. For funsies. I was on an anti-psychotic called Zyprexa my senior year during the crash and burn. I got so fat.

One time I raged out at my mom because she brought home instead of the triple entree from Panda Express. she brought back just two entre with a chalmain and the rice and I flipped it I flipped it up in the air because I was like how fucking there are you you know I was hungry because I was so hungry on this anti-psychotic

I know that's so cruel I wasn't I wasn't on it very long because I was like what is happening I was like and that's how I know that I like love eating is that everyone was like okay like this medication might make you like not want to eat but you just gotta do it and then it was like

I had zero I was just like powered through it yeah yeah I'm like because some people really do eat for calories and other people like me eat for flavor yeah it's more flavor people like I'm full I'm like who cares keep going is does it taste good keep going

yeah well they say there's people eat through Ozempic too that's me that's my dad my dad's on Ozempic and he he's he plateaued and now he's just like we went to Disneyland and the other day, and he was just eaten his way through Disney.

What did he get? Well, I just, I had the chili sourdough bowl. They have chili and mac and cheese sourdough bowl. It sounds like Panera. I haven't had that. It was delicious. And then right, they do right by the Matterhorn,

this is you guys finding out, I'm a Disney adult. Right by the Matterhorn, they have like a garlic cheesy toast with a brothel. Worst inside, and it's so good. May I ask why you and your dad were at Disneyland? It wasn't just the two of us. It was me and my dad, my mom, my sisters, and my nieces.

And all of you love Disneyland. No, my sister used to work at Disneyland. And then I would go all the time in high school because I would get in for free since she worked there. And then I just go like, I don't know, maybe like, I don't know, at least like twice a year. The last time that we saw you, I feel like you were saying that you were maybe craving like going to New York for like several months or something. Well, I'm going to New York next week, but just for like 10 days. Okay.

Yeah, but I would love to just go to New York. I was just curious if that was in the works or if you're over that. No, I think I just like telling people that I'm going to move there and then not doing it. I know like that. Yeah. Guys, um, I got into my first car accident. You're first? Nine days ago.

Wow. She's fine. Her first. She totaled her car, but she's okay. I also realized. This is probably from that. I was having so much neck pain, shoulder pain, back pain. Everything only on the right side.

Headaches only on the right side. But the funny part of the accident is that, like, I obviously don't know how these things work. This woman hits me. Yeah, wait. Set the scene. It's right by your old neighborhood, too, huh? Because I saw the map.

Because I was going to pick up two deodorants that someone... They went back to your old place. Yeah, I went back to my old place. Oh. Like, there was a glitch in the system. So I was going to pick up the two deodorants. because I go, I can't lose that money. Lost my whole car.

And so I'm on Barham, which you know, people be zoom in. Yeah. And I go into a lane to turn. And like halfway through the lane, this lady just comes into the lane like this, starts pushing me into oncoming traffic. And it's just looking at me like this.

And I'm just going, what the fuck? Stop! And just like keeps moving me slowly. And then once she stops, I go like, we need to go. You need to move around. You need to make, let's go. So I'm like directing traffic, not knowing that, like, you're supposed to take a picture

of, like, the accident as it happens. I'm like, okay, let's get over here. I get out of my car. My car's not parked safely. I make sure that hers is. And I get out. I'm, like, trembling. And I'm just like, are you okay?

Are you okay? She's like, yeah, I'm okay. I'm just a little shaken up. I don't know what to do. You start fixing the cars. Basically, I go to see if, like, is her mirror okay? Can she move it? Can she, like, focused on her.

Then not only that, I call AAA to order myself a toe, and I order her a toe. And, like, it's not a thing where, like, you can just order someone else a toe. You have to pay for it because you're not going to be there. And I was like, I just really, I can't have this lady on the side of the road because it's like, really she could get hit. Was she elderly? She was, like, almost 80. Oh, okay. Almost 80?

everything that you did you did I understand that. I would have done it if she was 13 like I just felt so bad and I just kept like holding her hand and she was fine I was the one who was in pain she was like totally fine

chilling and I'm like here's my number if you need anything I call AAA I connect them with her and I'm like they're gonna come for a toe for you they can also they can drive you to where you need to go I can call you an Uber and she's like, because she didn't know

how to do all of that stuff. She's like, can I hire you? Do me my assistant? Then she sends me this text like this long and she's like if this had to have happened with anyone, I'm happy that it happened with you. Oh my God, wow. A lifelong then you start like in her mess. She was like, yeah, she was

like maybe we'll go to lunch. I was like, that would be amazing. And my mom was like stop talking to her. Yeah. Stop talking to her now. Get your insurance shit fix me. You need to talk to your insurance. And then I was like, I didn't want, I didn't understand that like, this is still injury, right? I was like, well, if I'm not dead and I'm not, a bone isn't broken, I just not good at handling accidents and basically was just like, what can I do to help you, ma'am? Yeah, I mean, I get that.

Yeah, her insurance ended up covering you. Yeah, her insurance covered it totally because it was fully. She kind of said, tried to say that it was like both of your eyes's fault, but it's like her car literally hit you. Yeah, she tried to say like, oh, we maybe went into the late. at the same time, right? And I go, I just didn't say anything. I'm like, oh, okay, that's not what happened. And even when her insurance called me, they were like, yeah, that wouldn't be possible

because you guys were clearly next to each other. Like, she, like, baby T-boned me. Yeah. And they were like, if you guys went into the lane at the same time, they would have been like that or like that. But the fact that you never had a car accident is remarkable. I've had 400. I've got to say, it really.

Have you had any totals? No totals. It's mostly just me rear-ending people. Okay. That's actually all that it ever is Okay My car got totaled but it was a 15 year old car

Yeah So it's like sometimes it's like It's a good thing Oh no I was gonna drive it for five more years But I was still like People are like oh you're gonna get that cash for this I'm like no It had 181,000 miles

It changes everything now Like I drive and I go Oh I know why people drive like how they drive Like you know how I drive I drive like I'm not ever getting into an accident. But I'm a good driver. Anytime I've totaled my car, it's never changed.

You've totaled your car multiple times? Yeah. Twice in the span of a month. How? Yeah, well, it was a crazy time of my life. Set the scene. Yeah, yeah. Oh, okay.

So let's say I'm 19 years old. Vivance, no, Vivance. Definitely Vivance. And so just like for back, no, I don't need back story. I bought a brand new car. Brand new. Wow, brand new at 19. It was a 2018 Honda Fit, and I was fired up about this damn car.

It was a sexy black Honda Fit. Foller. Four days after I get this brand new car, I think I'm working at the comedy store at the time. I meet some Australians. That'll do it. And Australians, they have cocaine, and they have accents, and they have moustaches. And they have a hostel they're staying at. And I go, well, I'll meet you at the hostel boys.

and so I'm like furiously after work like driving around I'm going to the banana bungalow on Fairfax and so I'm driving up I see a parking spot right in front of the banana bungalow and I'm like oh my god it's a sound from God let me just flip this U-turn I don't quite have the depth perception of this car figured out yet because it's four days old you know it's brand new and so I see a car coming but I'm like they're way further behind I have time to flip around and get this parking store spot. And as I flip, this car fully hits me. Not their fault, fully mine. And so I have this job, like my car spins out in the middle of Fairfax. The airbags all go off and everything. I just hear like loud ringing in my ears. It is kind of fun because you're like such a star, you know, like all the cars are like people are walking out and you're kind of like, I'm okay. you know and then the paramedics came and I'm like I have this giant welt on my forehead and they're like okay like you should call someone to pick you up and I'm like but I'm meeting these Australian guys I don't want to get picked up I'm exactly where I need to be in this moment

until I send my sister a photo I'm like hey just got an accident but all good no need to worry and she's like no I'm picking you up and I'm like don't worry about it and did you have a concussion Did they even check? I don't think I went to the hospital or anything. I was really determined. They checked me and I was like fine. Yeah, excited 19 year old. They don't have.

That's so great. You were just pushing through anything. And so then I ultimately decided that the welt was too big and embarrassing to meet up with the guys. And so I just like Ubered home. And it turned out that I was at the wrong banana bungalow. There was another location. So potentially if I knew about the other location, I would have been fine. So then my car's totaled

I get all of the money back since it was brand new So I bought the same car But this time I bought it in white Because I was like if my car is white Then everyone will be able to see it even at night You know White cars are safer You laugh but they are safe

Like white they are And so then 28 days later I did end up Drink and Drive And I did crash my car In the center divider of the freeway and luckily no one was injured. Oh, my God.

But once again, my car was totaled and... And then you got a DUI. No. Oh, no. Wow, okay. No. I got really lucky. My sisters picked me up and they're like,

you wreak of alcohol. And for whatever reason, like Highway Patrol let me go. And so then I had no car and I was like, I'm going to move to London. I don't need a car there. And I can drink. Oh, my God. Did you move to London?

No, I didn't realize you have to get a visa in order to move. And so I just ended up going on like a three-week little Euro trip. It was just one of those things where you wanted to say that you were moving, like the New York thing. No, I was really planning on moving. I like found an apartment like a little flat in Wimbledon. I didn't even know where that was, I just heard of it because of tennis. And I was like, that seems legit. A grand slam.

Yeah. And then like right before my trip, my friend was like, yeah, you can't just like move somewhere. I'm like, no, I'll get a visa once I'm there. I'll be a bartender. And she's like, they don't need American bartenders. There's not a need for that. I'm on your side. I think you should have just gone and let it get figured out.

I am so the opposite of you, how you reacted to your accident when you just wanted to go see the Australians. Like, you're just like denying all this help. Like, I have such a damsel in distress complex that if there's ever an instance where like a paramedic is paying attention to me, like, I am fully just. I just embrace the situation. I could never run from that. Can I get, you want to get the seat collar? Just even if you don't need it. Yeah.

Can I get the whiplash? I was so paranoid that I had a concussion from whiplash. Like, at first I thought, okay, I didn't hit my head, so I'm fine. But the whiplash usually happens. Like, that sensation happens days after. Like, in the moment, your adrenaline's pumping too much. You don't feel much. I didn't feel much.

But then my neck did start hurting like 20 minutes later. But it was the headaches that had me worried because it was so insane, just right side. into my jaw and I started being so paranoid but I was like oh I didn't hit my head and then Argo's like well you can still have a concussion my partner was like you can still have a concussion from whiplash yeah you can and I was like and when the paramedics yeah when the paramedics came to check me out I had my sunglasses on they didn't look in my eyes or nothing I dated and I was just sobbing let me tell you they don't know what they're doing my sister's beef with fire all the time she's a nurse nurses and they come across the fire

department there's tension the fire department came and the guy is just and i'm like going like i feel like i'm going like i feel like i'm going to pass out probably because i'm so and i'm also feeling really nauseous which i don't know if it's from the adrenaline or did i have a concussion yeah and i'm like just like leaning over on the side of bar ham which by the way people saw me who then like wrote on my instagram like that was you on bar ham i'm like sorry sobbing just like bending over he doesn't look at anything he basically he goes like this yeah just take some adville you'll be all right right. Yeah. And I'm like, what? You didn't do nothing. Oh, my first concussion was a horror story. It was a boating accident. Oh, lucky. We were in Lake Mead as an ex-boyfriend and we were being dragged on a tube by a drunk

driver, a drunk driver on a boat. He since passed away, I heard. The driver or your partner? From a boating accident, I think. No, the guy, not my partner, the guy who was driving the boat. But he whipped us unnecessarily without warning because he thought it was funny. He was going way past So I launched up in the air and I collided head to head with my boyfriend at that time. And I cannot account for six hours after that. But we were camping. So instead of him taking me into the city, he was too drunk too. So he was like, she'll be fine.

So apparently I was hunched over in a seated position on a camping chair for like six hours, just like knocked out. And he was like out with his friends. That was my first concussion. And the guy who whipped you around died later from a bowl. voting accident? I think so, yeah. Yeah, I think so too. Yeah. That's horrible. You get a man behind a wheel and he thinks he's being

showing off. That happened once I got in the car with my sister and her boyfriend of some guy that was trying to fuck or whatever and he was speeding and I was like probably 10. I started crying. I was like I have asthma. You can't go this fast. I can't catch my breath.

I was like I have to go home now. I have asthma. The air is going too fast. I can't catch it. Yeah. And I have like intense intense migraines for two weeks every day after that so that's my first concussion that's why I have the you know microintensities my white matter in my brain he's like it's all on your right side I'm like I know I know and then my second concussion is from the same guy I didn't learn my lesson yeah he like tackled me and then I I he like swept me like double-legged and then I smacked my head backwards horse play I woke up eating cheesecake

That's, like, my only memory. That's nice. Like, I was knocked out. I had no memory for, like, three hours. And I woke up and I was like, I'm eating cheesecake. Where am I? Tattoo it on me, write it on my gravestone. No horseplay.

No fucking horseplay. Yeah, you don't like horseplay. Do not touch me. Do not. I still fuck around to some horseplay, but, like, for fun. I'll watch you do horseplay, but I will not be involved. Yeah. Rough housing has its consequences.

And I, like, still try and have competitions. It's like whoever gets out of the bed first wins and we're like full on. You don't like pull muscles? No, my legs are so strong. I can like, pooh. I have to get out of bed so slow. I do get out of bed really slowly now ever since like everything. Oh yeah.

Wait, I had a sleepover with her when we, when everyone went to Palm Springs from the fires. She stayed with me. I didn't know this because she won't have sleepovers with me anymore. I want more sleepovers. Let's do it. Can I have a sleepover? Yes, I mean. I sleep at Kalalas.

I love. I want more friends to have sleepovers. I know it's so fun. I want to watch movies. I want to build a fort. I want to stay up all night. I don't want to stay up all night. I have all the fort stuff.

Let's do it. Just bought it for my son. The whole other extra pillows and everything. Because I need that. Yeah, I want to have a sleepover. We're not staying up all night. That's why I don't be having sleepovers. Well, that's a nice thing about.

Anyone can fall asleep whenever they're on. Anytime. There are no rules. We can fall asleep while talking. I can't sleep. See, she's so unfun. Yeah, she's her own room. Okay.

So I didn't know this about her. but legitimately, when she wakes up in the morning, she literally is like five points uglier. I did not think that's what you're asking. Like, I've never seen it like that. Like, I don't know anyone like that where their face is actually just really weird. That is scary. It's bad.

I get like, my lips get three times bigger. My nose gets three times bigger. I'm, like, I'm, like, swollen. Like, literally bad. You're going to be one of, do you have a baby? No. You're going to be one of those people where when you get pregnant, you're like, your face, like, spreads.

Yeah. Spreads. Yeah. That's a real thing. A lot of, like, times when women have boys, their nose, but it's like, yeah. And now I believe people. Esther, is this what I looked like? When people say that they wake up ugly, like, I'll have respect for that now.

That's real. I don't look great in the morning either. I look swollen and really fucked up because I have. pots, my blood pressure is low, so the blood doesn't reach my head for a while. Is that why? Because I don't have pots, but I have really low blood pressure. Maybe you have to do a handstand in the morning. You guys is a slap your face a couple of times.

Okay, what I thought you were going to say in the morning was not that, but it's great that you did. I thought you. I was like, oh, I know what you're going to say. What? That in the morning, I like, I can't talk to people. I'm like not awake. You're really weird. It takes me. It takes me a very, very

long time. The blood hasn't traveled up yet. So much drama. our lives. I know. I'm really nervous about the blowback. I'm just trying to buy a card. I'm just trying to like that word. Oh, blowback is so sexual. What? Yeah. Nasty. You said blowback. You also hate that I say logs. Because we buy these chicken for poop-pooh. Yeah. We say chicken sausage. Instead of saying chicken sausage or chicken links, she goes, yeah, do you get the logs? Yeah, I want the law. Don't go to fucking log, bro. I never thought about links. Well, I told you links. So you would have...

Are you this weird about like poop stuff? No. Talking about poop stuff? No. Depends who. I'm not weird about it. Neither is Klyla. Esther's just weird.

When I choose to be. Are you weird about poop stuff? No, I was just curious. Yeah. I feel like we're similar. Yeah. Chicken logs is really weird. You guys are not similar and you can't be friends.

Esther was the first one to be like... We should hang out and then take a photo posted on Instagram and never mention it to Esther. Imagine that you sleep over like tonight. That stuff. I'm territorial, but... territorial about my friendships and I'm like, is it because I'm actually gay or am I just territorial about friendships? I don't know. I mean, it could be either, but I don't think it would be because of you're gay. Okay. No, I support this. I just don't like saying my friends hang out with other people. I really upset me. Oh, you mean in general. Yeah. I like watching my friends become friends. No? It's okay if they're friends, but I need to know everything and don't hang out without me. I see what you're saying. And if we're all hanging out together and I feel like you guys are really getting along more than me, then. Sometimes it's so fun when your friends are friends Because then they can hang out

And then you can be like Okay tell me everything that happened I don't even want to know Like when they try and tell me everything that happens I'm like I don't care I wasn't there Yeah I know you don't care I love making all my friends friends Jenna is better friends now with all the friends I introduced her to

Or I'm like oh you guys are going on trips How do you guys know each other Me? Through Esther Whoa Everyone knows everyone because of Esther Because we were friends in college But I'm telling you Jenna's friends with

every single one of like my close close friends and she has too many friends yeah you have too many friends you guys were only time i haven't we're signing off signing off and why jennas to finish with us come to the patreon patreon.com slash tush tuesday podcast or the link below we'll see you guys there and wait ali any stand up tour dates yeah so many are being added so go to my website ali macofsky dot com and find out where i'll be i have a bunch of random cities all over the random ass United States so please come see me on the road

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