Trash Tuesday w/ Esther Povitsky & Khalyla Kuhn - Watch Trash on Election Day w/ Rudy Jules & Jenna Jiménez!

Episode Date: November 5, 2024

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Also, by the way, I pulled up and she goes, hey, do you think you could get a box for me? And I'm like, what? A box? First off, I asked her for a spoon so I could eat my food because she's like, I don't want us to be late. I didn't see, wait, that's so crazy. The way you're painting me is so absurd.

I didn't see your text about the spoon because I wasn't looking at my phone. Okay, and why was I so early? Because you were like, well, if we could at least just be a couple of minutes early. No, you, I can't looking at my phone. Okay, and why was I so early? Because you were like, well, if we could at least just be a couple minutes early. No, you, you, I can't even defend this. But I did get to your car and make you get me a box. She made me go inside her house.

Okay, I pulled up, she's supposed to hop in, get in. She made me go inside her own house to get a box, up the stairs, up the stairs. And then it's like, it's by my office, it's this box and I just, I can't carry it. Do you think you could? Do you think you could? Well, you know what my trick with that was? Is it wasn't, it's like, I'm asking you to do it,

but it's for Kalyla. So you kind of can't say no, because we're all scared of Kalyla. When can I say no, anyhow? Hello, I am Esther and this is my daughter, my first daughter, and I'm here today to talk to you about something very exciting. Firstly, I'll be in Austin, Texas November 22nd and 23rd at the Cap City Comedy Club and you can get tickets at the link in the description.

And secondly, most importantly, I have gone off the deep end and started a solo podcast. I am not well and it shows. You can access this solo podcast at the link in the description of this episode or at esther'sgrouptherapy.substack.com. It's subscriber only and it is all of my deepest darkest most innerest very sad but also uplifting thoughts we've talked about hobbies we've talked about a friend female friendships and depression anxiety being postpartum all those things so you can check that out at esters group therapy dot substack comm thank you so much.

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She is in a shipwreck and she's, we're still working on getting her safely escorted out of the shipwreck and we think we're gonna make it. We think she's gonna make it. So in her place, we have two, two Kalylas. Welcome. Hi. Hello.

We have Jenna. Kalyla number one. Jenna and Jules, the double J's. Jules, are you awake? I am. This is just my energy. I know. Yeah. So you're 23. I know. Yeah.

So you're 23. Turning 23 next week. And what? That's crazy. I feel old. That's not okay to say out loud. No, I do feel old. Cause my friends, they're like 22, 21.

And I'm like the oldest. You feel old cause you're narcoleptic. That's true. Because you sleep, because you can't have any energy. Wait, is she narcoleptic? That's what Atikalae thinks. She's narcoleptic. That's what who thinks?

Atikalae. Yeah, she thinks because, I don't know, I'm just always tired, I need to sleep a couple of hours. Wait, isn't that when you have sex with dead people? No, that's a different... Wait, what is that called again? That's a different... Oh, necrophilia?

Necrophilia. You're narcoleptic. Narcoleptic. And what does that mean? It's usually like you can't control, then you have to, like you sleep. Like you have, you're always tired. And like the extreme is like, you're just like, you can't focus and then you just sleep immediately. Do you do that?

No, that's the extreme. I'm just like always tired. But you're also always sleeping. That's the key that you're missing. Cause I'm always tired. And yes, I have to sleep a lot. But Jules just, so like fall, we'll be like, we were in Hawaii.

It's not like Jules was drinking or anything. It's like the morning, 11 a.m. She's already slept all night, like 13 hours. And we're all like on the couch in the living room, having a good time, hanging out, loud music. We're about to go to the beach and she's like. Yeah. Yeah, I love you though.

Well, you've known her since she was 16. That's what Atika Laila said. That's what Atika Laila said. That I've known you since you were 16. 16. And when I first met Ijena, she was just like showing me her boobs already. Why were you doing that? She's 16.

And like, I came from the Philippines and I've never seen that before. They don't do that there? No. Well, my mom, but then just like my mom and then before. They don't do that there? No. Well my mom, but then just like my mom and then her I don't know her. I've never met her and she was just like yeah I was shocked. What is your relationship with Jenna? Is she your? She's like my older sister. Okay. Yeah but she's younger so I feel like I'm like, you just did like a little like, ooh. Like I send her like random pictures

and she sends me just always like her nipples and I'm like. This is, I don't know but she's not lying. Oh my God. Esther has like a problem with that because obviously I always show my nipples to Esther too and she's always like, ew. Well it's just like it's just sometimes it's just too much for me. Yeah. Yeah. I understand. Yeah. That makes sense. But it'll

never stop. So it's actually election day today. How are we feeling? What's going on out there? We gonna do it or what? I can't vote. Why? Cause you're young. Cause you're 16. I'm not a citizen here. Cause you're 16. No. Yeah.

Well we're in California so that's like- I'll vote for you. I know who you voting for. Yeah. But I feel like I forced my boyfriend to vote and I think that's my vote already. Oh that's good. Good yeah cause you forced it. Why wasn't he gonna vote? Because he's lazy? He's just like, I don't know, he's just in the middle. Did you vote when we were in college?

Remember when we were in college? It was, can I just say, what? I'm listening. I was so miserable at that. I was so miserable. It's crazy because I thought right now you were the most miserable. I know, but college actually does rival that time. And I just remember when Obama won, first of all I tried to vote and I didn't have proof of address and they wouldn't let me.

And then that made me so pissed that I like hated voting from then on. That's such a funny reason. And then everyone was like, there was like parades in the street when he won. Shit went crazy. Okay, so we were in college, kind of like your same age now. I lived on top of the loudest,

I lived on top of a bookstore and then across the street from the loudest bar on campus. So I was like, always, like I could always hear everyone having fun around me and while I was sad alone. You didn't go to parties? No. I actually didn't party in college either, which is crazy. Cause I had partied in high school.

And you know, you know me, it's like, I don't drink, I don't smoke, there was nothing for me to do. I was obsessed with school. What did you do on election night though, in college when Obama, were you at the parade? Oh I partied! So I got on my rollerblades, I went all around campus, just like rollerblades everywhere. What year is it, 1984?

Dora, come here. I remember rollerblading with like Jake Sapaniak, do you remember him? It's so weird to just fully give someone's full name and then like ask if I, that name sounds familiar, but like. Cause I couldn't say Jake, cause then that's like, he's our friend.

Like, oh, you remember Jake? You'd be like Jake who? I don't know if I agree about that. Okay, so Jake? Which Jake? Exactly. Jake Sapaniak? Okay, so Obama won. I voted.

I voted. Wait, I love how you had to say that. You're like, so Jules, here's what happened. Obama won. Do you think she didn't know that? She's like, okay, up there. So Obama won. Twice.

So okay, but this particular time, like there was an uproar. Who did he run against? John McCain. Yeah. I think he ran against him. I think he ran against him. I think he ran against him. I think he ran against him.

I think he ran against him. I think he ran against him. I think he ran against him. I think he ran against him. I think he ran against him. I think he ran against him. I think he ran against him. I think he ran against him. So Obama won. Twice. So okay, but this particular time, like there was an uproar. Who did he run against? John McCain and then who else? You would know.

Why would you say I would know like I'm like the Republican? You're smart. Esther's smart, Jules. Yeah, I know, yeah. Not like me. Why would you know that? At the collie. Oh, she thinks I'm smart?

Yeah, Esther, you're smart. Does she like me, be honest? She loves you. You really think so? Yeah. She's telling the truth. Really? She's telling the truth.

I think I loves you. She talks about you like once a day, and she's just like, what is she saying? Once a day, that's insane. Oh, I'm the winner. Once a day? Yeah. Oh my God. Oh my God.

Oh my God. That is huge. I'm the winner. I made it. Oh my God. Wow. Wow. She likes me. Okay, so Obama won,

Don McCain lost. I was alone in my apartment. Oh, that was also the day that I... It's a little hot in here. Yeah. I'm gonna do the same thing that you did. It's hot in here. Wait, I just remembered that election day that Obama won.

I was an intern at a news station and that was the day that I quit on election day. And then I went to a bakery that was across the street from where I live. Do you remember that bakery? Wait, which one? I got like five things and that was, the end was near for me for college.

It sounds like you. Yeah. Anyway, this is stupid. I wanna- Okay, but it was incredible. me for college. That sounds like you. Yeah. Anyway, this is stupid. I want to disappear. Okay, but it was incredible. It was amazing. Obama won. There was like a whole parade, a party outside.

There's a picture of like me and Jake Sopaniak. Nobody cares about this guy! And a couple of other people on like, we climbed the statues. There were like some racist statues anyhow, like I don't know, something colonial probably. And there was a picture in the newspaper of were like some racist statues anyhow like I don't know something colonial probably and there was a picture in the newspaper of us like that's cool and I didn't show my tits that do you think you'll celebrate I think so really yeah if Trump wins no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no, no, no, not when Trump wins. Kamala.

Yeah. Yeah, bitch. Wait, do you know what? Yeah, bitch. Are you afraid of me? No! I went, yeah, bitch, this is an obvious, high five anywhere in the world, this is a high five, and Jules went.

Man, it was a crazy week last week for my ex-boyfriend, huh? Oh, man. Oh, man. Oh, God. I didn't know you dated him. I know. Okay, as soon as I saw it, I texted Esther and I was like, is this him? I couldn't even say his name.

I'm like, is this him, like the one you dated? Here's why I dated, he was the first guy to hit on me in four years, and so I just went with it. I believe it. That's how I got my first boyfriend. Did you like him? He hit on me, so I liked him, yeah. Right, like she did like him,

but she liked that he liked her. Yeah, that's how, are you, you don't, you're not like that? Sometimes. Yeah. Don't be. Don't be, it's really actually really sad. Yeah. Like when I'm like, when I was like alone and single, like I would just like like the attention.

Yeah. But now you have five boyfriends or what? No, one. Not that one. Not that one. Okay. Well, listen to Esther. Don't do that because this could be 10 years from now and that could happen to you. I don't think that's going to happen. I don't think that's gonna happen

I don't think her ex is gonna say something really bad about Puerto Rico and Change the future of the elections I can't believe I can't believe this is real and that we're talking about this and it's real and that you dated It's actually humiliating that I'm even willing to bring it out I was not gonna bring it out. It is a podcast so we might as well. I wasn't gonna tell anyone. I'll tell you this. I'll tell you this. Like people have brought him up to me and I'm like, mm-hmm.

You think it can't get worse? Let me just say this. He dumped me. What? Yeah, which I didn't remember, but I had remembered like meeting him when they were dating. And I said, oh my God, she looks so cute right now. I'm sorry. Yeah. So, OK, just take a photo of Dona.

Actually, that is loud. Don't it's so so she. I don't remember whatever they were doing. And last week I was at Esther's house. Excuse me. And I was like, so so like, what made you break up with him? Like, I know that he was never that great and you never liked him like that much, but like what made you break up with him? And that's when she broke this news to me.

Do you know what else is crazy? Cause now I'm like all flooded with all these memories from when I was 21, 15 years ago. And I was in this relationship and we were like living in the studio apartment. 21. We slept on a pullout couch that we found outside. And after like three nights.

Even Jules wouldn't do it. After three nights of sleeping on this pullout couch, we start to go, does this bed smell like piss? And then we didn't even care, like I didn't even care. That's what's so crazy, when I was 21, I was like a full animal full the shit that I was doing up until I was about 29 I mean you you know Complete animal like did not care about anything did not care about germs. Tell us do you do nasty stuff since you're young 20s?

No, I'm the opposite. I've I'm like a Germaphobe like I need to sanitize like every like 10 minutes. I love that or like I'm like a germaphobe. Like I need to sanitize like every like 10 minutes I love that or like I'm like my skin is like dirty. I feel like my skin is dirty. So you're OCD. I Guess I don't know. But yeah, I've the craziest thing I've done. Maybe just like Have sex with strangers. Oh That's it. Okay, that's not that crazy. We're talking about nasty, trashy, disgusting stuff. Not that I'm a mom, though.

I think that that is nasty. Yeah, like I had sex with a stranger on a front lawn in Koreatown. I remember that. I was the stranger. That's how we met. Genuinely, I remember you telling me you had sex on a front lawn.

And I was just like, I think about that a lot, actually. Whenever I think about sex, I think about that. How did you had sex on a front lawn and I was just like I think about that a lot actually Whenever I think about sex I'm like I think about that. How did you have sex on a front lawn dude in a public? Okay, I if it's not in a bed even if the bed has piss in it. That's the only place I can do it. Oh Yeah, no This is a long time ago it wasn't that long ago was when she lived here. It was like six years ago. It was like maybe eight years ago Okay, whatever and how was it Well, basically what happened was is I met this guy in an airplane, right? It's never the way you want the story. I was in an open relationship at the time. So it was okay. Okay, and

But I was still always like a germaphobe about catching stuff from people Like I made every guy I slept with take the test Yes, and show me their papers, which is why I didn't have sex until I was like 20 19 And I met this guy in a plane. He's like seven, eight feet tall. I don't know. He's 78 feet tall. He's like 78 feet tall. And even Dota woke up for that. He was like, Oh, yeah, I play basketball in Lithuania.

I'm like, I don't give a fuck what you do. And he invited me. Well, first I invited him back to my home, which is dangerous. Don't do that. You don invited him back to my home, which is dangerous, don't do that. You don't invite strangers to your home. When I told my mom, she's like, Jenna, that is so dangerous that you could do that. What if he killed you and Samantha?

So don't do that. And now just to let everyone know so that they don't think Jenna's doing an anti-Semitic representation of a parent, Jenna, her mother, and Jenna, they're both Jewish. Yeah, yeah. So that was obviously a Jew mom, and Jenna, they're both Jewish. Yeah, yeah. So that's, that was obviously a Jew mom, so I'm glad you said that.

Yeah. And basically didn't have sex with them that night because I was like, you know what, I was feeling it, I invited you to my house, but I still don't wanna fuck, which is okay. So he came over? He slept over at mine and Samantha's. Okay, this is another thing that I am like way too crazy with.

I would never do that now. I was once doing a show in La Jolla in San Diego, and I was supposed to stay at this comedy condo, which is like... Comedy condo? Yeah, it's like where they put the comedians up and then you're like, there's like one room for one comedian and another, whatever. Like I've stayed there before, it's fine. I actually stayed there with Amir K, I don't know if you know him, it was so much fun. But this particular weekend, I just didn't wanna stay at the condo,

so literally at my show, I was like, I need a place to sleep tonight, and I stayed at a random audience member's apartment. What? Yeah, I slept, she was like, I have a guest bedroom. I trusted her, because she had fake boobs. I don't know why, it She was like, I have a guest bedroom. I trusted her because she had fake boobs. I don't know why it was just like, oh, she's like, this sounds like you. Yeah. I'm like, she cares about her appearance. Like she's invested. She had surgery. Yeah.

But I look back on that now and I'm like, what? That's insane. And she's probably like, has a shrine of a view. No, she seemed like she didn't she was just there randomly like I wasn't like a fan Which is maybe worse and I just remember she had one of those hanging upside down things in her apartment and a human And you were never you were never paranoid not then no I was I've really lived life just so carelessly. And it's really starting to, now that I have a baby,

I'm like, I hate that about myself. I never want to be like that again. I love that I was careless. It's fun, but also I feel like I'm too, I think too much about it. Because I've never slept with my friend's house ever since I've got here and you never slept at your friend's house Yeah, like a sleepover. I've never had a sleepover. We're not talking about sleepovers What do you mean? We're not

We're talking about sleeping at random people's houses. She's saying she's never had a sleepover with her friends, but even then I don't like to why I don't know why I'm just paranoid And about what you think they're gonna fuck you in your sleep? Because I've heard like stories of like friends and then they sleep over and then one of them they like kill them So that's like Irrational. Honestly, I love the way you're thinking and if you were my daughter, I'd be proud of you.

You would be. Yeah. Oh my God. Wait, so should we go back to how it came about that we fucked on the lawn? Cause. Should we? It seems like you really want to.

I don't know why. This should be a bad memory that you don't want to It is bad, and I just got to get it out But I just feel like Jules wants to know how it happened cuz I wanna know give me the eyes. Yeah, so Didn't decide to sleep with him that night because you're about in your choice, right? So then I was like man. I'm not into you so I dropped him off at his friend's house then later on that night I was like, you know I'm not into you. So I dropped him off at his friend's house. Then later on that night, I was like, you know what? I should just like follow through for myself.

So I meet up with him to hang out. He was kind of cool. And he brought me to this Airbnb that I was like at that point already. I'm like 30 years old. I'm like, this is kind of disgusting. He's like, well, it's just a studio. What I liked about him is that he was not pushy. And then I was like, dude, are we gonna fuck or what is going on?

Like, I don't wanna hang out with you. Do you said that? Yeah, and he was like, oh, oh yeah. I mean, I wanted to, but I didn't think that you wanted to. And keep in mind, he's 78 feet tall. Okay. So I'm like, he's like, well, my agent is here. His basketball agent.

What? Is there? And he was like, did you bring a condom? I'm like, duh. And so then he, we left the apartment and he like tried to have sex with me in the stairwell and I'm like, ew. Oh my, okay.

So then I'm like, let's go outside and find somewhere. Try to have sex in my car, but he's 78 feet tall. So like we couldn't fit. I'm like, okay, let's go. We were in Koreatown. I'm like, oh, let's just walk somewhere and find somewhere. And then I saw a nice lawn and I'm like, okay, let's go. We were in Koreatown. I'm like, oh, let's just walk somewhere and find somewhere. And then I saw a nice lawn, and I was like, okay, that's where it is.

Did anyone walk by? Also, Koreatown is really not good. It was nighttime. It was like... That's scary. At 10, 11 p.m., and so their lights were off. But then when their lights went on, we left the lawn. And then I just made him finger me in my car

because I was like, you think you're gonna come and not me? Did you guys get Korean barbecue after? I dropped him off and I still remember his head in the window going, let me know if you wanna hang out, and I was like, let me know if you wanna fuck, and then I never saw him again. That's cool. Yeah, it was like a good experience for me.

Yeah. I did exactly what I wanted to do, used a condom, got tested. I would never do it again. Thank you. And that's the kind of story you're gonna hear from us on election day, okay? That is what we want you to be,

that's the energy we want you to be taking with you to the polls. To do what you wanna do. With your body. Now what someone else wants you to do. With your body. Your choice. Yep. Your front lawn. do. With your body. Your choice. Yep.

Your front lawn. Yep. Your ovaries, your unborn baby. Wait, Jess, I called you Jess. I don't even know a Jess. Jess? Oh, it was Jessica. Jenna Jules.

Oh, Jess works. Wait, remember when I called you Jason last week? Oh my God, when, what? I don't know, anyway, that's like- I came over to Esther's to take care of her and her baby, and she's straight up- Wait, can I just say a life hack for the moms out there? Wee!

Tell your friends you wanna hang out, have them come over, and then just give them your baby. Guys, this is not a joke. And I'm not laughing. Cause let me tell you what my life has been like since Esther gave birth. You're the other mama? She's the other mama.

I'm the main one. It's been rough. I'm tired. You better come over tomorrow. I have a little bit of postpartum, sleepless nights. My arms are tired from picking up Ace, but she makes me dinner. Yeah, that's true.

And I do make a good dinner these days. Yeah. Wait, so I heard Jules that you got friend dumped. Yeah. What happened? Tell me. Well, I talked about it on Bad Friends about going to like a party and I and then I

They were party girls. So I said party girls. They were party girls Yeah and so we went to this place and it was so bad and I talked about how having a bad experience in that place and Then I I guess they heard what I said and they're like and then they ghosted me. What? Yeah. Excuse me. How do you know that they heard? Because one of my friends, let's not say her name, one of my friends,

because I told her like oh I think there's something wrong because I texted the group chat and no one texted me back. And normally they would text in the group chat. But then when this person texted the group chat, they would answer to her, but not me. You know, I'm not with any of that. And I never talk shit about them. I just said they were party girls. You said factually, you're not judging them.

I want to be a party girl, I want to party. so sad. Yeah, that makes me so sad. Why what makes you sad? That she wants to party. No, it makes me So you've missed the whole story Have you been here? Have you heard anything that she said? It makes me why do you think? No, Jules, why do you think I said that makes me sad? Because it ghosted me as thank you. I know that too. But it was a weird time when you said you were sad.

Never, ever, anyway. I'm not a comedian. It's not. It's not. I'm not a comedian either, okay? I'm nothing. I'm just a girl who wants to work at Walgreens, okay? I wanna walk off this set, get in my car, drive to Skokie, Illinois, and get a job at Walgreens, okay? I wanna walk off this set, get in my car,

drive to Skokie, Illinois, and get a job at Walgreens and never see any of you again, okay? That- And eat at hubs. Eat at hubs. And maybe dengios? But in this story, I am abandoning my baby and my husband, so that's not good, but I do have donut with me.

Okay. And for legal reasons, this is a parody. So it's sad. It makes me sad that like there's, that you didn't even do anything. You know what they are? They're mean girls. I say that.

Y'all are mean girls. That's what it is. It sounds like they're also, well, I guess we don't want to talk more about them and make the situation worse. So I'll try to like, instead of the negative thing I was going to say, I'll try to be mature. But I'll just spit it out quickly that they're jealous. But I do think that they're jealous and they don't know how to handle it?

I don't, yeah, I don't even know, cause like, it's just a specific clip that they saw that I don't know how they saw it. And then, yeah, I texted them a long message of saying, I'm sorry if I hurt you. It was never my intention. That's great communication. Yeah. Yeah, and then yeah I'm not friends with them anymore

That's that is that's wild to me, but Esther's right like there and this isn't shit-talking them They're probably jealous and they're young so they don't they lack the tools Yeah to express themselves and to manage their emotions I guess but then to Bobby and to Andrew said that I needed new friends when I explained that situation and I guess they also didn't like that they said that. But if they're your friends, talk to me about it then. I know. Like what the fuck?

That's so... It's weird. And I never experienced that kind of like situation. We all have though. Yeah. It's just kind of... I haven't. You kind of like situation. We all have though. Yeah. It's just kind of. I haven't.

You haven't? No. I know of a friend that doesn't like you. Oh. Okay, that's probably true and I just don't notice it, to be honest. She stopped liking me though too, so. Like there's people who I'm sure don't like me

or stop talking to me and I don't notice and probably don't care. That's a good thing. Like I'm sure there't like me or stop talking to me and I don't notice and probably don't care. That's a good thing. I'm sure there's actually a ton of people who don't like me and I have no idea, because a lot of my best friends now will tell me, yeah, when I met you I couldn't stand you, and I was like, what?

That's like Rick Glassman makes a bad first impression. You kind of have that too. No, but he actually does, and I watched it happen where he met a comedian that he had never met before. And I was just watching it unfold. I was watching Rick make someone not like him. And I didn't know what to do and I couldn't stop it. I just called it out.

And then the guy that he was meeting had to be like, no, it's fine. But I know I was right. Oh, you know. Yeah. Wow. So what are you going to do now then? What do you think she should do now about it? Not talk to them. I'm not. Oh, you know. Yeah. Wow. So what are you gonna do now then? What do you think she should do now about it?

Not talk to them, I'm not gonna talk to them. There's nothing to do. It's like if you tried and you said you're sorry. Yeah, you said you were sorry too. Yeah. And also you didn't say anything bad about them. Like if they think that party girls is bad, that's because they think that they're partying too much.

I think I like it was a party girl, you I think a lot of people was a party girl, you were a party girl, everyone was a party girl. I wanna be a party girl. I wanna get drunk, I wanna do everything. But then I guess they didn't. But you don't wanna get dirty. Not dirty. But then yeah, they didn't like that.

Being a party girl, even though I didn't drink, means getting dirty. I was pussy popping on a handstand with my hands on the floor. What does that mean, pussy popping? Why do you have to say it like that? There's no other way to say it. That's like the term. That's the literal term. What else do you say?

Okay wait, can I also say that a group of girls, it's just, it's hard. Groups of girls is just hard, especially that age. Yeah and I was never close to them. Like I was close to this one person that was in the group, but I didn't even force myself to the group. They just invite me to go like party. And then yeah, they were like the close ones. So I was never like.

I don't think they're jealous. I just think they're, I don't know. It's okay to be jealous. Maybe like the level of sensitivity with them is different from me. Can I tell you why I think they're, I don't know. It's okay to be jealous. Maybe like the level of sensitivity with them is different from mine. Can I tell you why I think they're jealous? Because when Christina Aguilera was in high school, she went to her school dance and her song came on

and everyone cleared the dance floor. They wouldn't dance to it. So what does that say? Everyone at her high school was a hater and was jealous and they didn't like that she was successful. Wow. So there's some pop star history for everyone. I did not know that. Well now you do. That's why you should hang out with me more and take care of my baby. It's impossible for me to hang out with you more. That's why you... The only thing I don't do is sleep over. You should Put ace to sleep tonight. Oh man.

Stella, it looks like you had something to say. I was just going to say you're better without them, I think, Jules. Thank you. You deserve better friends than that. Yeah, but I was anxious the whole week because I've never experienced that. That's anxiety. And I see them in school and I don't know how to interact. Yeah, you know, I don't personally like when I don't know how someone feels. Whether it's a bad thing or a good thing, I'm like, just tell me. The way that I feel when I feel confused about how someone else feels makes me feel anxious.

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That's ritual.com slash trash Tuesday for 25% off. It is the absolute worst kind of person when they don't tell you how they really feel. Oh, just tell me. But that said, there's also times where you might be dealing with someone, okay, I wanna talk about this. Because what if you are dealing with someone that you can't really tell them how you feel because they're not well and there's no point?

Do you know what I'm saying? Have you ever had that? Yes, where you're like, this is pointless for me to say because they're so far gone. We're in different realities. That what I say is not even gonna make sense to them and it's gonna be pointless. Yeah. I have experienced that, yes. And even then I would probably try and express myself, but that's a problem too because I like, I over explain, I over express. I like, I want everyone to know exactly why it was

that I did something or why I was thinking a certain way, which can be. I feel that way too, but then I also am learning, like some people, they just don't, they're not worthy of those conversations. That's true. And they're in a different reality. That's like next level growth. Hell yeah. That's like. And they're in a different reality. That's like next level growth.

Hell yeah. That's like when you really know some crazy people, you really learn. But to also learn like, okay, I don't need to explain myself. I'm not fully there yet, but it is something that I'm working on. And maybe it's like my ego,

because I'm always like, for me it's like truth and honesty are my biggest things. I'm like, well, if we just know the truth and that's all that matters, but that is even bigger. But you might not be getting wrapped up in situations with super crazy people, which I obviously know that there's something wrong with me, that that's a pattern that I, you know, have had.

But I don't know why I'm trying to figure it out. Can I also say something and don't get mad at me? Last week I realized that Mariah Carey and Christina Aguilera are different people. What do you mean? Like, I thought they were... I thought Mariah Carey is Christina Aguilera. Like one person. Can you say more about how you thought that? Mariah Carey is Christina Aguilera, like one person. They have two different names. Can you say more about how you thought that?

Mm-hmm. I just thought their face looks so similar to me. And then their song, I was listening to Obsess. Why are you so obsessed with me? Yeah. And I thought that was Christina Aguilera. Okay, I'm gonna take a deep breath. Don't get mad at me though.

Yeah, because I'm not gonna get mad because you already said like, please don't get mad. Do you know Christina Aguilera songs? I'm a genie in a bottle. I know that. What a girl wants, what a girl needs. Yeah, I know that. And I know they're beef with M&M,

but I just thought that- M&M. Wait a second, Wait a second. Wait a second. You're telling me you've only been in the United States- Four years. Four years and you know that they had beef with M&M? Yeah.

I don't even know that they had beef with M&M. TikTok. That's up on TikTok now? That's such an archive. Can we eat these already? What? Can we eat these already? Yeah, you can eat it whenever you want.

Why are you doing it like, it's a phone call. Hello. Hello. Remember when we used to prank call. Okay, this can't be like a remember when episode because I will just do that all day. Okay, what is the beef with Eminem? Because he, I think he said something mean

about Christina Aguilera in his video. Yeah, like something about, he doesn't care about her or something. Christina Aguilera in his video? Yeah, like something about, he doesn't care about her or something. But before they were like friends that they acknowledge each other. But then Eminem came out with a song about like maybe just dissing her.

And then on like the MTV awards. Like what year? I forgot, but Christina Aguilera was like the announcer who won the best song or something and then she said something about- M&M falls asleep. Like I don't care. Like I don't care about M&M and then that made the- Okay.

Yeah. Have you guys seen how good Christina Aguilera looks lately? Because- Now watch that thing that you posted. It is insane. It is so good. It really shows you that the long game is a real game because-

Oh my God. She has always been second fiddle to Britney. Like there's no denying it. Yes, she's had a great career. She's had great music, great voice, whatever. But she has had some rough years in terms of just like not really being relevant, not really being able to stay in the game. Like I'm not saying that to be rude. I it's just a fact as a pop star historian,

but like she is coming out on top. She's coming out on top. She looks like Khaleesi. She looks like an elf. She obviously did do a Zempik and I don't know. And it looks great on top. She looks like Khaleesi. She looks like an elf. She obviously did do a Zempik, and I don't know. And it looks great on her. Yeah, whatever. And it looks whatever. She was bigger. Her choice.

Vote. Vote today. Yeah. Actually, this is a little like this is. You have only a few hours left. You should probably turn this off and go vote. Listen to this while you vote. You understand who to vote for.

Vote for who you want, who you really, really, who really, really, really, really want. I didn't even need to do that. I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, really, So Christina Aguilera and Mariah Carey. They look the same to me. That somehow has to be racist. I can't figure out how, but it's got to be rooted in racism. Yeah. But that's what I thought.

OK. Do you like Sabrina Carpenter? Do you like Sabrina Carpenter? I love Sabrina Carpenter. Wait, I saw you guys saw Olivia Rodrigo. I saw it last week. Oh, yeah. So we went to the premiere of her Netflix movie concert.

Do you like her? I love her. Did you get to talk to her? Yeah, I love her too. Actually, we didn't talk to her that night. But Esther talks to her. Yeah, she's so cool. She doesn't know me, but she would like me. I agree.

She's, yeah, wait, so you're a big Olivia fan? Like when I saw your story, I went to a Tickle Eye Media and said, Esther knows Olivia? And then I think I was like, yeah, they've known each other for so long. I was like, what? Oh my God, we need to force Olivia to be on Trash Tuesday. She just said something iconic.

Did you see she's in the headlines because she has a very forceful red flag in her dates? Wait, what is it? If you, she said there's one question that she always asks. Why do I know this? I don't know anything about pop stars. I saw it online.

It was like, she asks before every date, would you wanna go to space? Would you wanna go to the moon, I think, or space? Would you wanna go to the moon? And if they say yes, it's a no. She's done with them. That's a really good test.

So she definitely would not date Elon Musk, and I like knowing that. That's great. That would also mean that they're like insults if they just wanna go up in space alone. Like they just don't have any like social like. I like that. Well, it's just, it is a weird thing to wanna go to space

cause it's like what this whole planet isn't enough for you. This isn't enough? Why do you think you're so special that you need to go to a different planet? Yeah, like fix shit here first, vote. It also feels like a form of mental illness because if you think about it, we're all just little animals

and we shouldn't be wanting to go to other planets. No, you're right. There's no animal who would be like, yeah, take me to space. We have our air here, our water. It's just, I think it is a mental defect if you want to go to space. Dang, you're right.

I never thought of that. No animal. Dota. Prove us right. Don't go to space. Vote. Who are you voting for? For not Trump.

Who are you voting for, Dota? Kamala. Kamala. That was just me as Esther too. Esther as Donut. What, do you have any red flags like that? Any tests? Red flags.

I think just like when you're on a date and they're being disrespectful to like the waiters And like not even cleaning like their dishes after and just like leaving it because I like to like Make it like organize and then really? Yeah I have to wipe out the table So you're just I have to wipe down the table organize it take it back So you're just I have to wipe down the table organize it take it back That's what I do. So you you want if basically if you're on a date you want the guy to to be the way that he works There yeah, he works there or not even tipping that's kind of like yeah, that's all good. And that's that is fair

Yeah, what's fair to want people to be like to say please and thank you and hold doors, not necessarily for you, but like out in the world to know that they're kind. Yeah, it does. I wish that that's something that I had paid more attention to because it is so, I almost feel like it's so much easier to see the truth than you think it is. Because if you just pay attention to something that small,

you are seeing a bigger picture. That is so true, but we get so clouded being like, oh, I have a crush on someone. Especially if they're hot. Which is so yuck. It's so yuck. Like my parents, my dad still works in a restaurant, my mom worked in a restaurant for like 18 years.

So that's a huge thing for me when people are like, they don't say please or thank you or there's any of this happening. Yo, don't snap at someone. That's crazy. People still do that. I have to say I am like a brat. I've never snapped at anyone.

Not even you. Because you can't snap. Because I can't snap. She's like, I've never snapped at anyone. I even you. Because you can't snap. Because I can't snap. She's like, I've never snapped at anyone. I try, I go like this, but it doesn't work. She brings a bell. Actually, Esther has rung a bell for me to come before. Are you like, at the Esther's, like, yaya, nanny?

No. No, but. What is yaya?, nani? No. No, but- What is yaya? Like nani in Filipino. Oh. Yaya. Do you- Is that like Messiah or Takao again?

Yeah. Do you know how to take care of a baby? I think I know. I have like three younger siblings. So I've- You have three younger siblings? Yeah. And I've kind of like raised them. So I think I know what to do wait three are they gonna come and I only know one Yeah, Issa and then two younger brothers. So I haven't met your brother. Yeah, they're crazy. Why do they never come cuz they're crazy

What does that mean? They're crazy like they're annoying and just like wreck like they're kids So they like to break things they yell they're dumb. They're dumb and they're, like they're kids, so they like to break things, they yell. They're dumb. They're dumb. And they're boys. And they're boys. Yeah. But they would probably vote for Kamala. Yeah, they would vote for Kamala.

Cause that's hot. I have a question. Cause that's hot, right? Cause they're hot, yeah, it's hot. No, no, I'm saying they're hot. I'm saying it's hot. It's hot to vote for Kamala. What's your question?

Are you gonna be strict with Ais when she's older? I don't know because my parents were not strict with me at all. And I feel like you sort of do what your parents did a little maybe. Wait, so did you not disobey anything? What do you mean? Like, I'm trying to picture your family dynamic right now.

Yeah, I'm also trying to picture yours. There's no way you had any discipline. That's the thing, because I wasn't doing anything. There was discipline for my brother because he was like fucking around. There was no discipline for me, except for one time when I didn't call and I was out late. And we didn't even have cell phones.

It was a payphone. because my mom was like, tell me where you're gonna be, don't lie, and don't get tattoos. And you got that tattoo, that ugly ass tattoo at 14. Looks like shit. But I wasn't, it does. It literally looks like a piece of poop. No, the other tattoo, the moon, that doesn't even look like a moon. That It literally looks like a piece of poop. No, the other tattoo, the moon,

that doesn't even look like a moon. That one also looks like a piece of poop, and that one I got two years ago with Socie. Wait, can you see it? You know, it looks like a birthmark or mold. That is the weirdest tattoo I've ever seen. It does not look like a tattoo. It definitely doesn't look like it's there on purpose.

Show it to the camera. It's bad. How do they see it? But it's kind of in a way cool. It's cooler than a tattoo. It's Esther. What does it look like to the? It looks like mold.

It's just a blob. It's a greenish. It does look like a sickness. Look at it. And what is... Okay, so it was supposed to be a moon and then a little crescent on the side. A crescent moon, but you can't see the crescent and all you can see is the dark moon. Did that hurt?

I don't care. It's just, it's so bad and the fucked up thing is I was with Socie, you know Socie. We go, we just pick a random place and we're like, yeah, let's get matching moon tattoos. You just like the spur of the moment? Yeah. Wow. And I, you know, I had, I had wanted a maybe a moon tattoo. Never thought about it much, but I was like, okay,

that sounds like a good idea. What does the moon represent to you? I mean, the moon in general. Well, we're connected to the moon represent to you? I mean, the moon in general. Well, we're connected to the moon. You know, we're like wolves, women who run with the wolves. And it definitely affects us and we're blah, blah, blah, all that stuff. Like we're connected to nature and the pull of it. But the specific crescent moon, we didn't know.

And we had to look up like, oh, what is the crescent moon? And we both convinced ourselves like, yeah, that one means a lot to us. I don't remember what it means. What we could have done was just the crescent moon in an outline, right? But I thought, oh, I want to see the whole moon though. And then just the crescent on the outside of it. Makes no sense, because all you can't see is the crescent on the outside of it.

And Socie made me go first. And I went first and she said that as she was watching it happen, she was like, this is really bad and really ugly, but like, this is our tattoo together, so I have to get it. Wow, what a good friend. She got it covered up and it looks even worse. Would you ever get another tattoo?

Yeah. What? I have like 11. So you're not, you haven't, I'm just trying to check if you learn your lesson or not. No. But I, the only thing, the only reason I wouldn't get another tattoo, all mine are like kind of hidden. Only reason I wouldn't get another one is because I heard that like your body stays trying to heal your skin and the scar tissue and that it's like constantly trying to think that it needs to heal itself and that can affect like autoimmune disorders

and your immune system. Oh, lovely. Oh, whatever, you have a barely fucking tattoo. Yeah, but they're like defective, they're not going away. The one in my lip was supposed to go away after a couple of months. Do you have a tattoo of yours? It's been like nine years.

Yeah. All right. Well, my anxiety didn't need that today, but it got her. Esther. It doesn't matter. Esther. It doesn't matter. Oh my God, it's over for her. What is this we have here? So I heard that there's this article

that says that green flags are different. It basically says that for green flags and red flags are different for different generations. So what might be a red flag to a millennial is perhaps a green flag for Gen Z and the other way around. Okay, what are examples of those? Cause that's crazy. That's so true, like love bombing. How is love bombing a green flag for Gen Z and the other way around. Okay, what are examples of those? Cause that's crazy. That's so true, like love bombing.

How is love bombing a green flag for anyone? So a good example of this is lavish gifts early on. No one's ever gotten me a gift. I like that. Yeah, me too. I like to be love bombed. Okay, so it's saying that Gen Z calls that love bombing and millennials like it,

but it seems that's not the case here. Wait, I thought that love bombing would be more of like saying I love you, I love you, I love you. That's what I thought too. Okay, so that's like the very literal definition of it. Oh great, explain it to us. But it means it's love bombing is like when someone gives you so much attention

and like just, they're always there. They have like a gift for you. They're overly thinking about you. Like me with you. Yeah, you love bombing every day. That's why we're still friends. Okay, what's another one? Let's see, okay.

Your significant other gets mad when you don't constantly text them your whereabouts. Red flag. Yeah, red flag. Okay, so this is not really turning out how I thought it would. But yeah, it is, because the Gen Z said it's a red flag.

Yeah, but you guys are saying it's also a red flag. It is, oh yeah. Well, I kinda like it. But I will say that I do like constantly knowing the whereabouts and I do appreciate the checking in. I noticed that I shared my location with you indefinitely and you didn't share yours back. When did, first off, never sharing my location with you.

Why? Because you already need to know where I am and what I'm doing 24 seven. Oh, you look upset. So this would be easy. It would be easy transition. Maybe, honestly maybe. I think you should really give it a thought.

I'll give it a thought. Do you always check the people in your find me app? I don't check that much. I also have this new app now called Life360 where then it gives me an alert every time like someone leaves their house. What? Yeah.

It's really comforting for me. Red flag. Red flag. Do you share your location with anyone? Just my boyfriend, and that's where I, it's not good, but I always check where he is. You do. But then I don't ask him, I just,

cause I only have, yeah. I mean, I don't share my location with my partner. Oh, you don't. No, but I have 19 people's locations, basically. It's crazy. And you didn't even know that you had mine? No, the way that, no, I did see that I had yours, cause now it shows up at the top,

but I don't know when you shared it with me. Yeah. But I had no idea before that update that I had all of these people's locations. Look where it says people. You have a lot. That's insane. Okay, would it be a red flag or a green flag if your partner posted you on their social media?

Oh, okay. I think green flag. I think green flag, but I also know that sometimes people are like, that's not real. They're just like trying to show or they're trying to like claim you. What about you? I think green flag though.

Green flag, but not too much. Like just once a year. I'm okay once a year. Once a year. I like that. Not every. So that when people look, they're like, oh, they're still dating. Yeah, just once a year.

They were still dating last year. If you're putting me on every like post and picture and story, then that's. Okay, didn't nobody say every picture, post and story. Yeah. But I've seen, you see that, right? Mm-hmm. That's a thing like, okay, my new thing.

Wait, what do you think? I like what Jules said. I think once a year is good. I also though, I... What if it's December? They post it in January and you're like, are they still dating? What if it's just on Valentine's Day every year?

That's a little sus too, I don't like that. Why is that sus? That's weird. Why? That's weird to me. Why? That is so, so, so weird. Or even like the girlfriend day or boyfriend day, that's also weird. That's weird, it's like, okay,

you felt like you had to fucking, I want it to be genuine. You wanted to post, there was a funny thing, there was a funny idea, there was something cute, there was something loving, it came from you genuinely, and you wanted to share it and post it. There was a guy I know where he posted his wife, but in the caption it was like,

my wife is making me do this. I was like, okay, that's weird. That's that. I know too much now. What I don't like about that is that he's trying to be funny and it's rude. Yeah, it feels a little rude. But like I get the joke, but if everyone doesn't know the context of your relationship, no. Okay, I, it feels a little rude. But like I get the joke,

but if everyone doesn't know the context of your relationship, no. Okay, I know I'm a little late to this take, but I think like it's worth, okay. I'm noticing that a lot of like famous people or rich people just- Are you talking about me? Yes. Just really do post their amazing vacations

and their amazing first class flights and fancy dinners, whatever. I'm starting to pick up on that. And I'm like, why are they posting this? I don't know. Do you know what I'm saying? I think because they have a lack of content maybe. Okay, but yes.

Because there's a type of famous and rich person that only does that on social media. Yeah. And it's like, and I also know like other famous rich people who are like, we would never. Okay, so that's what I'm thinking is like, what is the difference between those two people, right? Like why is one group wanting to share?

And I think it's like, has to do with them being really sad. And like, I just think if you are on a private yacht or like whatever it is, this most amazing thing and you're posting it, something is weird. Something is off to me. Because if you have all that, why do we need to know? What is that doing?

You're not even like selling something. You're just like, I guess you're like selling the idea that you're like rich and famous. But shouldn't you, if you were actually whole inside and happy, wouldn't you just like enjoy your life and that would be private? Well, they might also be faking it. Cause I know someone that like. They're not actually on a yacht? Like, they're not rich rich, but like they try to be like, I'm this rich and like on Instagram and everything.

I think that if people are posting like that, there's also the idea that like culturally, they maybe grew up thinking that that was like a very cool thing to do. That's a good point. Or like in the Philippines it's like it's that like you got a pose and then you're cool. Like you do want to show that stuff. And so I feel like it's like a like a pop culture thing where like either you grew up thinking or like you came from nothing and this to you shows like, look, I'm successful.

Either way, I don't like the showy showy. It's weird, something's off to me when I see it. I know, and I feel like it's something that I had more of a tolerance for a few years ago or something. And then lately I feel like I'm just sort of like, wait a second, what is your Instagram account providing me? It's only providing me a glimpse into how rich your husband is? What is this?

Who is this for? What are we doing? Yeah. Or hide. I do follow someone on Instagram like that, who I was friends with them, kind of, okay, that's all I'm gonna say. And I still follow this person, but every time, every time I see their feed every day,

it's the Gucci purse, it's a Louis Vuitton thing, it's unboxing this, it's being on a jet. And I'm like What do you think of all this because you're young and cool? I don't like it, but for me, I don't like it But I also don't care for me what I hate is when I just keep seeing their face on Instagram It's just their face all the time. Like their grid is just their body and face. That's what I hate That is so funny. Interesting. Yeah yeah what if it was just my tit that's funny though see I told you she's like oh she thinks it's so gross but if it's like posting

about like your I mean if you're constantly just posting about your first class or something like something rich related yeah, that's icky. I'm not into it either. Whatever the reason is, not into it, don't wanna see it, but I would just laugh at it. But what do we wanna be seeing on Instagram? Like for me, I feel like I wanna see like, like mental health tips or like my friend,

what, why is that funny? Why is that funny? Someone tell me why that's not. Because going on social media, which is a big reason why people have mental illness, to cure mental illness, is just a little funny. I wanna see, like, mental health tips. I wanna go and see how they can help me.

How to take care of your baby. It also just aged you Esther why Tell me why I don't know like no one no one says that at the ester What do they say what do you want to see an Instagram like just something like fun or like memes or like just that just aged you Me yeah, I don't wanna see memes. I don't wanna go on Instagram to see a fucking meme. Okay, then what do you wanna see? So what I wanna see.

Yeah, let's hear this. Is whatever the person posts that feels genuine. I just want it to feel genuine. Actually, that's not a bad answer. I don't care if it is a meme or a jet or whatever, but that it feels like genuine from that person, not like hidden genuine stuff they never dealt with, feel like this is the thing that they need to do that's cool.

It just feels genuine. I might not like it and I'm like, oh my God, like I have a friend who just posts the same thing every day and I'm like, damn, this is whack, but you know what? She's having fun. Do you get scared posting on Instagram? Like is there like a anxiety around it? No it's more just like I it takes me forever to do it and then I see I haven't posted in four months and then I feel what I don't like about Instagram is I feel like oh man I haven't posted.

Esther's really good. She does something post it it's up. It's easy. Now I'm just, why are we talking about Instagram so much? Shut up. Because you literally brought it up. I just, no, I didn't. I really didn't.

Esther used to get so mad at me because I would post Instagram stuff later. And she's like, Instagram, it's supposed to be instant. This was like 11 years ago. Okay, I think it's time to wrap this up. Why are we talking about Instagram so much? Why are we talking about? You brought it up.

You should do the whole podcast just as me and Joel. Okay, Ate. I have a question, Ate. Because I don't like sex. Okay, I don't like sex either. Why are we talking about this? This is disgusting. Yeah, why? Why do I sound like your mom?

Because you're a white Jew. Okay, so I think it's time that we close it out. I don't know what this episode has been. I hope you guys like it because this is the actual Trash Tuesday family right here, Jenna and Jules. And what else is there to say to really close this one out? We love you guys and we hope that you vote

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