True Crime with Kendall Rae - Her Killer Wrote A Detailed “Murder Journal” On The Run!? Angela Bledsoe’s Story

Episode Date: September 3, 2026

In October 2018, 44-year-old Angela Bledsoe was found shot to death inside the New Jersey home she shared with her longtime partner and their young daughter. But by the time Angela was discovered, her murderer was already on the run, setting off an international manhunt that would eventually lead authorities to Cuba. And when the suspect was finally returned to the US, investigators discovered something remarkable among his belongings – an 18-page handwritten journal detailing his version of Angela’s murder and his life on the run.Domestic Violence Resources: National Domestic Violence Hotline  Phone: [phone]-SAFE (7233)  Text: Text "START" to 88788  Chat: http://www.thehotline.org   StrongHearts Native Helpline (For Native American & Alaska Native survivors)  Phone: 1-844-7NATIVE (762-8483)  Website: http://www.strongheartshelpline.orgLove is Respect (For teens and young adults)  Phone: [phone]  Text: Text LOVEIS to 22522Website: http://www.loveisrespect.org  The Deaf Hotline (Deaf, DeafBlind, and Hard of Hearing survivors)  Video Phone: [phone]  Email/Chat: http://www.thedeafhotline.org RAINN (National Sexual Assault Hotline): 1-800-656-4673 or live chat at http://www.rainn.org for specialized sexual violence supportThis episode is sponsored by:Freestyle: get 30% off your first 3 months of a Freestyle diaper subscription at freestyle.world/TCKR with code TCKR. Gusto: try Gusto today at gusto.com/TCKR, and get three months free when you run your first payroll.Square: get up to $200 off Square hardware when you sign up at square.com/go/tckr! #squarepodSKIMS: Shop SKIMS Cotton, and all of my favorite pieces, at https://skims.comCheck out my foundation: Higher Hope Foundation: https://www.higherhope.org/Watch my documentaries:530 Days: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CjUWkmOjNLkApartment 801: https://bit.ly/2RJ9XXr True Crime with Kendall Rae podcast:Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3rks84oSpotify: https://spoti.fi/3jC66prShop my Merch! https://kendallrae.shopCheck out my other podcasts:Mile Higher (True Crime) @milehigherpodYouTube: https://bit.ly/2ROzJcwInstagram: http://instagram.com/milehigherpodThe Sesh (Current events, a little true crime, pop culture, and commentary) https://bit.ly/3Mtoz4X @the_seshpodcastInstagram: https://bit.ly/3a9t6Xr*Follow My Social!* @KendallRaeOnytInstagram: http://instagram.com/kendallraeonytFacebook: https://bit.ly/3kar4NKTrue Crime TikTok: https://bit.ly/3VDbc77Personal TikTok: https://bit.ly/41hmRKgREQUESTS: General case suggestion form: https://zfrmz.com/yg9cuiWjUe2QY3hSC2V0Form for people directly related/close to the victim: https://zfrmz.com/HGu2hZso42aHxARt1i67Join my discord to chat with other viewers about this video, it’s free! https://discord.com/invite/an4stY9BCNC O N T A C T:For Business Inquiries - [e-mail] me mail: Kendall Rae 8547 E Arapahoe Rd Ste J #233 Greenwood Village, CO 80112

Hello everyone and welcome back to another episode of True Crime with Kendall Ray. Thank you so very much for joining me today. And if you're new to this show, then welcome. Be sure to subscribe, follow whatever it is you do on the audio platform, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, all of that, so that you never miss an upload from me. So you guys today, we are going to get into a case that is just wildly upsetting. It is extremely frustrating. It's one that as I was researching for this episode, I just found myself getting so emotional.

And I am a very emotional person. Granted, I get emotional about all the cases I cover, but something about this case just there were so many times where I would just get full body chills while learning about the details and just felt so incredibly sad that this is a reality that so many women and men too face. It involves cheating. It involves an international manhunt, outrageous journal entries, and so much more. It is just absolutely insane, to say the least. I'm going to be telling you about the murder of Angela Bledsoe, and her story is truly a cautionary tale.

Now, domestic violence is definitely something that comes up on my show. It's something we talk about all the time, and there's a reason for that. Annual statistics on intimate partner violence show that both women and men are experiencing victimization at significant rates, which is just the horrible reality that we live in. And unfortunately, as most of you know, the most dangerous time in a domestic violence relationship is when someone is trying to leave. So when we talk about cases like Angela's, it feels very important. And it's never done to scare anyone, of course. It's to spread awareness about these dangers. And in hopes, that maybe it can help someone who might be in a similar situation. And with those statistics, I guarantee there are people even listening to this episode who are in a similar situation.

And so, as always, I will have resources linked for you guys in the description and show notes of this episode. And also, if anyone is comfortable sharing any additional resources they know of or guidance, advice in the comments, that is always very appreciated. And I see that every time I do an episode like this, seeing you guys talk with each other and share your stories or help each other is always so uplifting. And it makes me feel like doing these episodes, even though they are difficult, it's very worth it. Before getting into this episode, I just wanted to thank you all for listening to and supporting my show and also any of the Mile Higher Media shows. Your support makes it possible for us to continue funding grants through my foundation, Higher Hope, which supports

victims of violent crimes, their families, and like-minded nonprofits. And with that, that, let's get into today's case by, of course, talking about Angela and who she was. Angela Michelle was born on February 11th, 1974 to her parents Ray and Gaynell Bledso. She grew up in Maryland alongside her three siblings, Deidre, Lisa, and Ray. And throughout her life, her loved ones described her as a very soft-spoken and gentle person, yet still able to deeply connect with other people. She was also highly ambitious and driven. She was an honor roll student, and her determination really carried her through every

stage of her life. After high school, Angela, who by the way, her loved ones call her Angie, attended Florida A&M University, and she truly thrived there. Alongside majoring in business, she was also deeply involved in student government and also her sorority, Delta Sigma Theta, where she actually served as the chair of the Economic Development Committee. And she was very involved in the school, even post-graduation. In fact, she acted as the parliamentarian for the FAMU National Alumni Association. And there are so many things that people in her life, loved about Angela. But one thing that I really like, and I think so many people about her, loved is the fact that even though she was very successful and juggling a lot in her life and,

you know, just thriving in so many different ways, she really remained humble. For example of how successful Angela was, after graduating college, she had 11 job offers. Very impressive. And the one that she took landed her in a financial consulting position in New York City. And she was so successful with that that at 27 years old, she was able to purchase a brownstone in Brooklyn, which is very impressive, but it wasn't ever something that she bragged about. Instead, her focus was really lifting other people up, helping people succeed alongside her, especially other black women. And it's those qualities that people remember most about her, plus the fact that she was a very compassionate leader. She was a problem solver and a great role model. Angie clearly had a lot going for her,

right? And like many people, she wanted someone to share this future with, share her life with. And for her, it was very important that she could meet someone that could match her drive. She wanted someone who was also disciplined and hardworking and had big goals in life. And around 2009, she thought that she had found that with the man that she was working for, actually. Now, his name was James Ray the 3rd, and he had previously hired Angie to work as a financial consultant for his insurance brokerage firm. Now, for some quick background on James, because it is important to the case. Prior to all of this, he had been a Marine, he was also a New York City cop, and also a pretty

prominent attorney. So obviously to Angie, he had the drive that she was looking for in a partner. You know, someone who could challenge her and keep up with her, really. But the thing with James is he also had quite an ego, and he seemed to be someone who really valued the opinion of others way too much. In other words, cared way too much about what other people thought of him. I will say I'm not completely sure when or how their professional relationship ended up becoming romantic, but it did. And at first, her loved ones thought of them as a pretty good match.

I mean, they seemed like a power couple among their peers, and Angie was very in love. Her sister Lisa remembers meeting him at their dad's surprise birthday celebration, and she said the two of them were dancing and laughing all night. It seemed like they were having a great time. It all seemed to start off very, you know, whirlwindy, as far as I can tell, but it also started off on a lie.

It turns out that James, who, by the way, was 11 years older than Angie, Not that it's that important, but I felt like I should mention that. Turns out he was married and had two adult children when they began dating, which her family says came as a complete shock to her. So he was hiding it from her. Despite that, though, she did decide to stay with him. And I'm going to be honest, I can't speak to why she continued to date him after being lied to about something so massive. but I will say that based on the interviews given by her family members,

they also sounded very confused by this too. I don't think they believed that this was in her usual character. However, they have said that they think James must have been incredibly charming. And this is obviously pure speculation, but I do wonder if maybe he was promising her that he would leave his wife. And I think maybe that could explain why she continued dating him, but I don't know that for certain. Her loved ones also said that Angie sort of lived life with rose-colored glasses and that love may have blinded her.

I do know that some people were hoping that they would break up before it got any more serious, but that didn't happen. In fact, Angie did end up getting pregnant in 2012 and she gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. And I'm not going to share her daughter's name out of respect for her privacy, but for the sake of the case, I'm going to call her Amy. So yeah, Angie gave birth to Amy and everyone says that she was just an incredible mother. absolutely meant to be a mom, and she really lived for her daughter. She practically raised her alone, might I add. Before you have a baby, you just have no idea how much you're actually going to be spending on diapers. It's something that you buy again and again, and that cost adds up quickly.

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And for many reasons, Angie was the only reliable parent to her. But things changed in 2015 when James separated from his wife, and Angie and Amy moved in with him, with the hope that this would turn things around. However, as I'm sure, you probably could guess, it was not the step forward that she had hoped for. Even though you could say James technically stepped up and became more involved in his daughter's life, his relationship with Angie started to get way worse. She confided in friends that things were not going well between them, so much so that in journal entries about her relationship, she described James as a dictator.

She said he was controlling, that he was a bully, and that he tried to, quote, dominate every aspect of their lives. He would call her lazy, he would talk down to her in front of others, And this gives me the ick of all icks, but he would even send her Bible verses about how women need to be submissive to their husbands. He truly seemed to get off on making her feel small. And despite staying together for another few years,

things never improved. The reality was that by the fall of 2018, Angie was in the relationship, but she wasn't in the relationship, if you know what I'm trying to say. Like she had checked out, emotionally speaking. Sources say that she wanted her daughter to be in one home.

with both parents, which I'm guessing was a huge reason why she even stayed with James at all. But the problem was that he could sense that she was slipping away. And not even just slipping, Angie was preparing to leave his sorry ass. By October of 2018, Angie was scheduling appointments to look at other living arrangements, but I'm guessing because she knew how dangerous it would be to tell him that she was doing this, she kept it a secret, at least at first. Because unfortunately, James figured out that something was going on. And in October of that year, he got their daughter to tell him Angie's passcode.

And he ended up using that to go through her phone. And what he found completely set him off. While he was going through her text messages, James learned that Angie had been seeing another man named Bacari Burns behind his back. And the messages between them were supposedly pretty spicy. And when he found them, he was pissed. According to text that Angie sent her sister Lisa, she woke up around 5 a.m. one morning to James sitting on the edge of the bed, shaking his leg. She said he was acting like he was about to, quote, mentally explode. And James told her that she was demonstrating signs of cheating. And in that message, she also told Lisa that he threatened her. He told her that if he found out she was cheating, he would beat both of them up. And so, I think like any sister would do in that situation, she encouraged her to get the fuck out of there. She didn't think her sister was safe being around him any longer, and I believe Angie realized that, hence the steps that she was taking to leave. And also, before I go any further,

I did want to say a few things about this whole situation, and then I want to move on and not dwell on it. But I know this will come up in the comment, so I might as well just say it. First, there's an obvious cheating double standard going on here. James clearly didn't have an issue when he was making Angie the other woman when he was married. But then when she was unfaithful to him, it literally ignited a monster inside of him. Mind you, in 2013, when he was still with his wife and Angie, he was sued for sexual harassment by a young woman at his company.

I guess he was making really weird comments to her about polygamy and also was insisting that she feed him with chopsticks. And I'm sure by this point you also consider James a massive piece of shit, that is just scratching the surface of how horrible this man actually is and you will hate him even more, just as much as I do by the end of this episode. But yeah, it's just frustrating that he's allowed to be a cheater. But when Angie does it after being emotionally abused by him, suddenly, it's not okay? Obviously, I'm not condoning cheating in any way, duh, but I think it's worth pointing out that he held her to a different standard. I also would hope that I wouldn't even need to say this,

but because I know the internet so well and I know there will be weird comments, putting aside all feeling about cheating, nothing Angie did will ever justify James's response to it. Full stop, there's just no other argument there. And this is fully just my opinion, but I think Angie's situation ship,

you could say, with Bacari, was almost a way out for her. I mean, she was checked out of her relationship with James, who was unloving, controlling, abusive, and she had found someone who, I'm guessing, gave her a sense of hope. Of course, in a perfect world, she would have left James first, right? But I think she was in a situation where she truly felt like she couldn't, like it was unsafe and she has a daughter to consider. And also in a perfect world, James wouldn't have done what he did. And for anyone

doubting James's level of unhinged, just listen to this. Okay? So after we know that he was aware of Bacari. He wrote up a pre-up for Angie. Mind you, they weren't married. Let's remember that. In this document, it stated that if one person in the relationship cheated on the other, they would owe that person $300,000 for each act. Which to be clear, when Angie read this, she thought it was completely ridiculous and absurd, and it was very obviously just an attempt to control her, and she was never going to sign it, especially knowing that she was planning to leave him. And I'm sure you guys are curious about this Bacari guy. And some of you may actually recognize him. He is a city councilman in Florida, but to Angie, he was actually an old friend. The two of them knew each other back in college,

but they had just drifted apart after school. However, in fall of 2017, when she went back for homecoming weekend, the two of them reconnected. And between the fall of 2017 and the fall of 2018, they had actually only gotten together physically on four different occasions. And according to family members, she kept this a secret from them for a lot of that time as well. When loved ones found out about him, though, they say that Angie never described the two of them as dating. They did, however, think that he was someone she had feelings for. And to say that James did not take this news lightly would be an understatement. Shortly after he found their text messages, James actually made Angie call up Bacari so that he could speak with him and he said, as you can imagine, a bunch of crazy shit.

And at first, James was asking him if he was aware that he even existed, you know, doing the whole, Did you know she sleeps in my bed? I'm a man, hear me roar type of bullshit. Then James started talking about how they needed to confront Angie together, to which Bacari literally said he didn't have anything to confront her about. And I'm sure there was a lot more that was said. But as far as we know, as the conversation was wrapping up, James basically threatened him saying he might be coming down to Florida to pay him a visit, essentially. And it was all very out of control sounding, so much so that Bacari even filed a police report about it. And as for Angie's response to all of this, she had officially reached her breaking point. And she sent James this long message telling him that she was done with him.

And it reads in part, James, I was done a while ago. I was halfway done when you had your psychiatric episode and disappeared for a few days. I was done when I learned that you were still playing house with Cheryl. while I was left alone to raise the little one. I was done after having no help with a newborn and a toddler. I was done when your divorce took two years. I was done every time I realize that you do not value my time. I'm done.

And she really was finished with him. Like I said, she was starting to look at other living situations, and on October 22nd of 2018, she had an appointment with a realtor scheduled for 11.30 a.m. But Angie never showed up. And of all the people to alert the police, police that something was wrong, James's brother was actually the one who first called 911. His brother, whose name is Robert, made the call at 1148 that night, but only after a very

strange series of events, starting with James asking him if they could meet up for dinner. Around 6 p.m. that evening, the two of them, plus James's daughter and Robert's wife, all met at a Longhorn Steakhouse in Piscataway, New Jersey. And right away, Robert could tell that something was off. When they all pulled up, Robert's wife took six-year-old Amy inside the restaurant and then Robert and James stayed in the parking lot talking and he was acting super bizarre. For example, he was wearing sunglasses despite the fact that the sun had already set and he was just acting weird and nervous and fidgety. And James ended up asking Robert if he could watch Amy for the next week. And Robert found it strange, understandably, that he was being asked out of the blue to watch his niece for an entire week, which of course he agreed to, but it felt weird how sudden it was, right? And James clearly was prepared for him to say yes, knew that his brother would come through for him in that way, because he already had suitcases for her packed and he pulled out a few out of his car and gave them to Robert for his daughter Amy while she was with him.

And then things got even stranger when they went inside. James refused to eat any food, even though he had asked them to go to dinner. And then he also made this really cryptic comment about Robert knowing everything in the next 24 hours. And then James asked his brother if he would take a picture of him and his daughter. In hindsight, I think he knew that this would be the last time he ever saw her. And I say that because after taking this photo, James announced to everyone that he was going to the bathroom. But in reality, he was bailing. He jumped into his BMW and peeled out of the parking lot before anyone could stop him, which

Robert did try to do. When he wasn't able to stop him, though, he got into his own car thinking James just must have driven home. But when he got there, his car wasn't in the driveway. And I'm sure the dude must have been thinking, what the fuck? Because literally, what the fuck? But anyway, he finally decides to give up and goes home because he had a 70-mile drive ahead of him and he wanted to get Amy back safely to their house and get her to bed as soon as

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at his brother's house in Montclair. And the letter he wrote his brother reads in part, Robert, please take good care of my daughter for me and let her know that I truly loved her. I was about to clean my guns, and Angela picked one up as she was going to shoot me. I reacted in the heat of the moment, ease down, and couldn't stop firing.

I am scared and don't want the long burden of a trial to prove my point. So there you have it. James said that he killed Angela in self-defense, but the truth was something much different. When officers with the Montclair Police Department arrived at their house and burst through the front door, they found Angie's body lying lifeless in the kitchen. They discovered several guns throughout the house, along with a total of four bullet casings, one in the kitchen, and three more

neatly lined up on a gun case in the living room. And one gun in particular was found in a pool of her blood lying near her body, and this one will be important to remember. Her phone was also found on a stool in the kitchen, almost as if it had been strategically placed there. And the scene absolutely did not read like self-defense. I mean, for starters, if that was the case, it's very unlikely that James would have taken off the way he did. Plus, Angie's injuries told a completely different story. Based on a combination of the autopsy in the crime scene, investigators determined that the attack originated in the living room, where she was first shot while sitting on the love seat. From there, she stood up and moved towards the kitchen.

And while doing so, she was shot again, this time in the back. This caused her to fall down, which is when they theorized James attempted to shoot her, but missed. Hence the bullet casing and damage to the kitchen floor. And then finally, he shot her once more in the head, with a trajectory that suggested he was standing above her. So yeah, very clearly not a self-defense shooting. And with that, the manhunt for James begins. And that started with piecing together the timeline of events from that day. Now, interestingly, during the chaos of the attack,

a wall clock had fallen into the kitchen sink. And I have never heard of anything like this happening. It is so eerie, but the battery actually got knocked out when it fell. Freezing time at 11.14 a.m., which is approximately when investigators estimate Angie was killed. And there is something about that that, I don't know why, It makes me just so incredibly emotional. I could just cry right now thinking about it.

It gives me full body chills. It's just bizarre. And it feels like it was meant to happen that way to help investigators. But also for it to be stuck at the time that she died, I don't know. There's just, there's something about it that I don't even know how to put into words. It's, anyway, though, from 1114 forward, investigators determined that James spent hours plotting his escape during.

During this time, they say that he was writing his will, he was going to the bank, and he was preparing the letter that he placed in Amy's suitcase. Afterward, he was on his way to pick his daughter up from school, and they learned that he made a very eerie phone call to a female friend of his. And I have no idea why, but he actually did end up recording this, and it's also copyrighted so I can't play it for you. But he basically just spirals about Angie. He's talking about everything that he did for her and how he's worried about his daughter as well. being. And then he says some crazy shit along the lines of, if I'm not around for any reason, can you promise me to look out for my daughter? Then he also said something really weird and eerie about how sometimes you have to protect people in a way that's unconventional and a little

crazy. He also says it takes a certain kind of person to understand that protection, even if they don't agree with it. And he straight up said that he was intentionally not telling her everything. Which obviously, investigators were certain that he was referencing Angie's murder because they knew that she was already dead by the time that he made that call. Now, after that call,

at approximately 4.30 p.m., video surveillance from Amy's school showed that he went and picked her up. And following that, he made another two phone calls, one to his oldest daughter and one to his other son. And then, as we know, he went to Longhorn Steakhouse to leave his daughter with Robert.

But the big question is, how did they find him? Well, initially, they put out a Bolo as well as a red notice, which is effectively the global version of a Bolo that gets sent out through Interpol. And after a week on the run, James was captured in Cuba, of all places, attempting to make entry into the country. And it was Mexican authorities who alerted the FBI that he had boarded a flight in Monterey, Mexico. And by the time he touched down, they were able to arrest him before he even made it through customs. And want to know one of the craziest parts of this whole capture, when they brought him in, he had his duffel bag with him.

And in it, they found an 18-page handwritten journal. And in it, he had outlined everything he said happened from the morning he woke up on October 22nd through his entire escape. And let me tell you, he painted a very obscured version of events. Now, this journal is totally bizarre. He actually titled it as if it was a book, and he titled it on the move, and apparently it actually did read more like a carefully calculated thriller novel than a journal. And in it, James wrote about everything in third person, even changing everyone's name, including his own. He calls himself Jack, he calls Angela Mousie, and then he called their daughter Snookums. And this whole thing was written in a way to try and manipulate the reader into believing his version of events. And let me just tell you, his delusion was through the fucking roof. And not only that, he had also written that he wanted this journal to be published as a book. I mean, it was very clearly what he was going for, right? And he claimed it would be a bestseller

and that he wanted the proceeds to go to his daughter if they were able to get it published. I truly think that he thinks he was really doing something. something by writing this, but at the end of the day, it just made him look way more guilty. Listen to this. When investigators looked through it, they quickly believed that his intention with this journal or this book, whatever he was trying to do, was to make it his get out of jail free card. And it was really his explanation for why he had to kill Angela, how there was no other option for him, not because he wanted to, but yeah, because she forced him to, essentially, that she gave him no other choice. He even wrote that his plan was to go home and take his life after

leaving his daughter with his brother, but he basically got scared when he drove by the house later that night and saw the police lights, hence his decision to go on the run. Here's a quote from it. This writing is an account of what might be either my last days on earth or my journey, travels, and experiences before the outcome of a trial for self-defense. Any actions I may take during my final days was out of pure necessity. And it's super fucking eerie and also just really cringe that he is almost trying to like convince himself that what he wrote is true for his own sake.

I mean, just take a listen at this part in which he explains what happened that day. I rose with my morning routine of stretching. On our way back from dropping our daughter off at school, we spoke about us working to improve our relationship. Upon arrival at home, she said there were a few errands that she was going to run. Since I was home alone, I decided to clean my weapons. I came out of the bathroom and Angela had one of the weapons in her hand. Angela's conversation went from going to run errands to reflecting about her frustrations of our relationship on what she called the worst years of of her life. As she continued to rant about all the dysfunctional things in our relationship with a weapon pointed at me, I remember feeling nervous, scared, and out of options. James then described

how he picked up one of the weapons on the table and fired it in her direction. He said he freaked out and he wasn't sure if he had hit her, so he ran into their bathroom for what felt like an eternity. And then when he came back out, he said there was a trail of blood leading to their kitchen. And when he went in there, he claims that Angie pointed the gun at him again. And the journal says, She lifted her arm and pointed it at me again. Out of reaction, I fired in her direction, and it seemed like I couldn't stop firing. I honestly believed there was no other choice that she would have fired first. He also wrote about his attempt to flee, starting with how after leaving his daughter with Robert, he dropped his car off at the Newark Airport. And then from there,

He says he attempted to blend in with a homeless camp, but after realizing he wasn't cut out for that life, he went to a truck stop and hitchhiked his way from Philadelphia down to Texas. And that's where he'd boarded a bus to Monterey and booked a flight to Cuba. And since Cuba doesn't routinely extradite fugitives to the U.S., investigators believe that specific choice was strategic. He was an absolute idiot, though, because he used Angela's credit card multiple times along the way,

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but that's only because he placed it strategically to make it look like she had been carrying it. Meaning that James's allegation that she held it up and was pointing it at him was completely untrue. But why? Why did he say that Angie wanted him dead? What was her so-called motive for pointing this gun at him? Well, according to his fucked up murder,

Journal Thriller book, it was because he wouldn't give her permission to take his daughter and move to Florida. I will say, though, for as outlandish as that journal was, it was incredibly helpful for the prosecution during this trial because they were able to use it to directly contradict the actual evidence. Now, due to the pandemic going on at the time and the just general slowness of the justice system, it took a few years before James actually went to trial for murder, but in March of 2023, his time in court finally arrived. And I don't think you guys need me to re-explain all the evidence again, so I will spare you, but there are a few things I wanted to mention. Starting with the fact that his defense attorney was an absolute shark. She has a reputation for being ruthless

in the courtroom, and I can see why. In this case was no exception. Without any hesitancy, she ripped Angela's character to shreds. She painted her as a cheater, a homewrecker, and a gold digger. And it was so brutal the way that she spoke about her. I'm not going to repeat a lot of it because it's so upsetting, but it got to the point that Angie's dad actually fainted in court. And listening to his interviews, talking about what this experience was like absolutely breaks my heart. The defense described her as having a big sexual appetite. and that she was after her next culprit. They said that she was the aggressor in the relationship

and that James truly believed it was a shoot-or-get-shot situation. And their proposed motive was that Angela wanted to move to Florida with their daughter to be with Bacari. But the prosecution set the record straight. They asserted that James was the abusive one in the relationship and James was the aggressor when it came to Angela's death. And they said that he had multiple motives when it came to her murder. but his final straw was finding out that she had been unfaithful.

Basically, his very fragile, pathetic little ego could not stand the thought of her moving on with another man. And rather than just break up with her, he murdered her. His brother, who has been fantastic throughout all of this, actually took the stand against him, which I'm sure had to have been difficult and emotional, but it was very important. Robert was able to speak to James' state of mind that day and paint the picture of a man in distress. And to be clear, not in distress because he shot someone in self-defense,

but in distress because he killed his girlfriend and was trying to run from it. Now, Bacari also testified, and his testimony was very important as well, because he spoke to the nature of his and Angela's relationship. He also talked about the phone call between him and James, right after James found out about the affair. And Bacari said that he could tell that James was agitated on the call, mentioning his veiled threats about going down to Florida, to handle this. James's tone was apparently so alarming that he said he lied to James about being

intimate with Angela because he was afraid for her safety. And of course, he was also afraid for his own safety, especially when James was on the run. Once he had heard the horrific news about Angela's murder, Bacari left his house and went from one hotel to another just out of fear that James may be coming to kill him, which if I were in his shoes, I would do the exact same thing. And her loved ones felt the exact same fear. Before anyone knew where he was, they were terrified that he was going to just show up at places like her funeral, for instance,

and try to hurt one of them. Thankfully, though, that didn't happen. And lastly, I do want to touch on testimony from Angie's sister, Lisa. She was able to speak about how terrible the relationship between her sister and James was, mentioning that she had reason to believe Angela's life was in danger while they were together.

For example, before her murder, Lisa had texted her saying, saying Angie, you need to get out of there ASAP. I am worried about you. Of course, there was a lot more to the trial than that, but a lot of it was things that we have already been through. And it did go on for six weeks, if you can believe that, very, very long. But I think we can all see as clear as day what the truth is. And the jury definitely did too, because even after a six-week trial, it took them only three hours to come back with a guilty verdict. And James, he maintained that cold expression during the verdict reading that he had throughout

the entire trial. To be clear, though, while this did mean justice for Angela, and that is fantastic, it didn't take away from the fact that she is gone. Her daughter will still never get her mom back. She'll live the rest of her life without her, and she'll forever have to live knowing that her dad is the reason why. And on top of the pain of that, she and the rest of Angie's loved ones

suffered a major blow when just days before James was set to be sentenced on Father's Day of all days. He took his own life. His body was found in his jail cell and to this day, they have yet to release an official cause of death. And while I'm sure a lot of you,

you know, have the opinion that the world is better off without him and who cares, the tough thing about it though is that, And this is so frustrating, you guys, but this action actually meant that the conviction no longer stood. Yes, you heard that right. In the state of New Jersey, a conviction does not stand until the perpetrator is sentenced, meaning Angie technically did not get justice after all. And this also meant that her family couldn't read their victim impact statements. And it just broke my heart when I found out they weren't able to read those statements because that is, such a huge part of the healing process, the grieving process. It's something that every family who has a loved one murdered should be able to do if they want to do it. And for them to not have that opportunity

is just heartbreaking to me, especially with how long they had to sit through this trial, how long they had to wait for that justice. The way that the trial brought up so many emotions, especially with the defense team just being absolutely ridiculous and putting them through all of that. I mean, just crushing Angela's character to the point where her dad fainted and for them not to be able to get to say their peace in a way is just, it's devastating. I do believe there is peace in knowing that he can never hurt anyone again, but I just know it has to be really upsetting for her loved ones. And I know it is. they have made that very clear, and I want to be sure to honor that. And speaking of honor, Angela's family wanted to find a way to honor her legacy.

And they did that by creating an endowment to fund a scholarship in her name at Florida A&M University. Angela spent her life cherishing the opportunities that came from her college experience, so they wanted to help others in her name, which I thought was such a beautiful way to really honor the person that she was and something that she would have highly valued. I believe. Now I wasn't able to find a working link to make donations. So if any of you come across it or know how to access that, please feel free to post a comment so that I can pin that or add it to the show notes of Spotify and Apple Podcasts because I would love to be able to support that myself and have all of you be able to support it if you're interested as well. But I'm not sure if they're still actively taking donations at this time. But before I go, I do want to. to share that her daughter seems to be doing incredibly well, which is great news. She has been in her Aunt Lisa's care after their family fought for custody in three states. And this was super cool to learn, but I guess she is now fluent or nearly fluent in both

Spanish and Mandarin, so very, very impressive. And I have no doubt that she will end up being just as successful and driven as her mother in life. And I know that there will forever be, you know, a lot to process and a lot of hard times for everyone in their family, including her. But I do find some comfort in knowing how supportive they have all been to one another and how well taken care of. Her daughter is in the hands of her aunt Lisa, who just seems like a wonderful caretaker. Now, like I said at the beginning of today's episode, domestic violence is a theme that we talk about time and time again on this show. And I think Angela's case really, highlights a lot of warning signs that are important to be aware of. Domestic violence rarely

starts out with an extreme, right? Abusers first work to earn your trust, love bomb you, and then over time, they break you down and you start to see the cracks until it gets to that extreme. And James got Angela under his control by being incredibly charming. And only after she uprooted her life to live with him, did he start belittling her? I mean, as I said earlier, she literally described him as a dictator. But his abuse was psychological, which sometimes,

and I'm not saying this is necessarily Angela's case, but it can be hard for someone experiencing that type of abuse in the moment to recognize, oh, okay, this is what's happening here. If someone hasn't told you before, let me tell you now, it is not normal for your partner to make you feel bad,

about yourself and to control you in that way. It is not normal for someone you're with who is supposed to love you to make you feel like you are small or like you are constantly being monitored, controlled, or surveilled by them. Behaviors like this can absolutely escalate over time, sometimes very, very quickly, as can your risk of harm, both emotionally and physically. And other non-physical signs of abuse to be aware of include isolation, extreme jealousy, dominating behavior, gaslighting and shifting blame. Now, of course, that's not a comprehensive list. And there are some really great resources out there to learn more about the warning signs of domestic violence, as well as support for how to safely get out of an unsafe

relationship, which is very difficult to do sometimes. And sometimes you need that help. And I, of course, will have all of that linked in the description and show notes for you all. Like I said, you guys are just so great about leaving advice and support for one another. So I know it will be there and I'm looking forward to seeing that in my comment section because it's always very encouraging to see. That is going to be it for me this week, you guys. I will, of course, be back next week with another case. But until then, stay safe out there.