True Crime with Kimbyr - The Flower Delivery Murder of Lita McClinton: Betrayed at Her Own Front Door: Part 1

Episode Date: June 25, 2025

In this gripping episode of True Crime with Kimbyr, Kimbyrleigha unravels two chilling cases where death arrived disguised as kindness. First, we revisit the horrifying livestreamed murder of Valyriia... Marquez, a beloved salon owner ambushed in front of thousands. Then, we travel back decades to Atlanta, where Lita McClinton, born into Black elite royalty, opened her front door to what she thought was a sweet surprise—only to face deadly betrayal. What do these women have in common? Perfect lives shattered by hidden darkness. Watch True Crime with Kimbyr for this haunting double story of beauty, trust, and murder. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Have you heard the recent and very chilling story of Valeria Marquez? She was a beautiful, popular salon owner, always live streaming from her salon in Mexico, and she had built up quite a large following over the years. Valeria was the kind of woman that people followed because her life seemed vibrant, enviable, and perfect, and her followers adored her. So when Valeria's assistant told her that a surprise gift was coming for her, she waited around that day. She smiled warmly into the camera and it was all caught on live stream,
Starting point is 00:00:31 unfolding in real time for thousands to see. But when her salon door opened and a man walked towards Valeria with this supposed gift, it wasn't flowers or chocolates, it was a gun, and in seconds her life was taken from her. It was sudden, horrific, and devastating. It seems impossible. How could a woman so loved, so admired, someone who appeared to have everything, be caught off guard in such a cruel way? and killed like that in front of thousands of people watching. But as shocking as Valeria's murder was, she is not the first.
Starting point is 00:01:05 Nearly two decades before, in an affluent neighborhood in Atlanta, another woman, equally beautiful, equally admired, and equally unsuspecting, answered her front door, expecting kindness and generosity, a gift, a bouquet of beautiful flowers. Her name was Lita, and she too was living what many saw as the dream. dream life, luxury, influence, and charm. But hidden beneath that perfect image was a story darker and more twisted than anyone could have ever known.
Starting point is 00:01:38 Sometimes the deadliest threats hide behind the most innocent gestures and the most perfect lives can hide the darkest secrets of all. Hi everyone, welcome back to my channel and if you've never been here before, I'm Kimberlea. It's nice to finally meet you. If you close your eyes and imagine Atlanta. Back in the 1960s and 70s, you might picture civil rights marches, protests, and segregated schools, which are images that are accurate. But there was another side to Atlanta that people rarely talked about, the thriving, crowd, and incredibly ambitious elite, but not the white elite. I'm talking
Starting point is 00:02:16 about the black elite. This was the world that Lita McClinton was born into, a world both privileged and complex. She was born on January 7th of 1952 to her parents Emory and Joanne McClinton. The McClinton's weren't just another family in the neighborhood. They were political trailblazers, community icons, and the type of family whose name opened doors. You could think of them like the Obamas of their time for reference. Lita's father, Emery, was influential and respected, serving on Georgia's State Board of Transportation. He wasn't just involved, he was a pillar in the community. You know those quiet, wise, reliable figures who just give off that sense of calm authority?
Starting point is 00:02:56 That was Emory, a man who understood influence, and it wasn't just about money or power, but about integrity and community. He raised his family not with just rules, but with a deep sense of respect for other people. And then there was Lita's mother, Joanne. Imagine the elegance and strength of someone who stood confidently alongside figures like Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Joanne was a powerful legislator in the Georgia State Assembly. She wasn't just an observer of history.
Starting point is 00:03:25 This woman was part of it. She managed the groundbreaking campaign of Menard Jackson, who became Atlanta's first black mayor. Imagine being raised by a woman whose day-to-day life was making history. What kind of impact that will leave on you? Growing up, Lita was surrounded by this powerful mix of ambition, activism, and deep community responsibility. It was a home filled with political debates at dinner time, discussions about social progress, and conversations about the future, not just her future. but the future of an entire community. Lita wasn't the only child. She had a younger sister, Valencia, and a younger brother, Emery Jr. And together, the three McClinton children were inseparable. Their bond was a special blend of deep love, fierce loyalty, and playful sibling rivalry that anyone with siblings knows all too well. Valencia and Lita shared a very close bond together.
Starting point is 00:04:18 They would whisper late night secrets, experiment with makeup, and share clothes from their mom's closet, actually. So imagine, I don't know, you and your friends, staying up really late, watching a movie, YouTube makeup tutorials. That was what it was like, but back then, you know, they just did it in their own way. They would experiment in the mirror, trying out different hair cells from magazine clippings. They were confidants, protectors of each other's secrets, and allies in navigating their strict upbringing. Her brother, Emery Jr. was younger. He was the baby of the family.
Starting point is 00:04:49 Protective older sisters know this feeling that Lita and Valencia had. They often teased him, but they were fiercely. protective of him. They wouldn't let anyone hurt him. And their parents held high expectations for all three of them, but especially for Emory Jr., the only boy, who carried the family name forward. He felt pressure to measure up to his father's respected image, and Lita often soften the burden, stepping in with kindness and becoming both his mentor and his comfort. This trio wasn't just siblings. They were a team. They navigated their world together, and anyone who has grown up with siblings close in age know about getting in trouble together,
Starting point is 00:05:27 of course, sharing secrets, protecting one another. And that's exactly how this felt. Their childhood wasn't ordinary, though. The McClinton's were part of what's called the Jack and Jill of America. This was an exclusive organization aimed at nurturing leadership and cultural pride among the black community, especially youth, from prominent families. If you try to imagine how it would be today, you could picture it as an exclusive social club, only instead of people like influencers and YouTubers and TikTok stars, I guess. The kids were being groomed to be famous leaders, future lawyers, politicians, and pillars of their community.
Starting point is 00:06:05 Jack and Jill wasn't about parties, though they were certainly glamorous, but it was about leadership training, cultural enrichment, charity work, and creating tight-knit friendships that would last a lifetime. Lido moved effortlessly through this world, elegant. even as a child, charismatic without even trying, and she learned poise, public speaking, etiquette, and how to be a diplomat, skills that her parents considered essential for success in an influential
Starting point is 00:06:31 life. And then there were the debutante balls and cotillions, events that most people today might think of as something out of Richardson. But these weren't just parties. They were carefully orchestrated ceremonies that introduced young women into society. Girls wore long white gowns, gloves, they practiced dances like the waltz and learned etiquette rules that were strict and demanding. But here's the thing. Lita actually loved it. She thrived in these environments. She found joy in the structure, the elegance, and the grace that it required. If this were today, she might have been the kind of girl who thrived at New York Fashion Week, or who would naturally excel as an influencer, organizing chic brunches or glamorous charity gala. Her parents saw it as a preparation for her life.
Starting point is 00:07:16 But for Lita, it was a canvas for her self-expression. and a stage for her natural charisma. But despite their privilege, life wasn't always smooth for them. Lita's family was prominent. They were influential and respected. But still, black in the deeply segregated South, that was their reality. Their money, education, and connections
Starting point is 00:07:35 didn't protect them entirely from the prejudice and racism of the time. Lita and her siblings experienced discrimination firsthand. At times it would be subtle and at other times it was overt and painful. When the McClinton children enrolled at St. Pius High School, they were among the first black students admitted. So you can just imagine walking into a classroom or hallway and instantly feeling like you don't belong. Not because you can't measure up academically or socially, but simply because of the color of your skin.
Starting point is 00:08:00 It took resilience and courage and quiet strength to navigate those hallways, and Lita did it with grace. She leaned on her siblings for support. Her sister provided that emotional support she needed, sharing silent nods of understanding, while Emery Jr. would deflect tension with humor. And they faced adversity together, and the experiences made their family bonds even stronger. When it was time for college, Lita chose Spellman, one of the country's most prestigious historically black colleges, and her parents had hoped that she would follow directly into politics or law, something that matched their ambitions.
Starting point is 00:08:35 But Lita saw college as a chance to discover herself on her own terms. Political science became her major, not out of parental pressure, but genuine interest, the curiosity she had about the world, and the determination to understand understand how power worked. At Spelman, she flourished. She made the Dean's list. She excelled academically and deepened friendships that would last a lifetime. College was her first true taste of freedom, a moment many young people today understand very deeply. Finally being away from your parents' supervision, exploring life and your identity, and figuring out who you are. So you know that saying that opposites attract? It sounds romantic at times,
Starting point is 00:09:12 but other times, being too different can lead you down a path that you never imagined. Somewhere dangerous and heartbreaking. And that's exactly how it was when Lita met James Sullivan in 1976. Now, at this point, Lita was thriving. She had built a promising career in fashion. She was managing clients at T. Edwards, an upscale boutique at Atlanta's elite Lenox Square Mall. You can think of it as today's luxury shops in places like Rodeo Drive or Fifth Avenue, where every interaction felt personalized and chic. And Lita loved the rush of helping someone discover their new style. The excitement of clients. leaving her store confident and glowing.
Starting point is 00:09:50 But one day, a customer walked through the doors who was about to change everything. James Vincent Sullivan. He wasn't like her usual client. At first glance, he actually looked out of place. Awkward. He wore oversized glasses, polyester pants, and colors that shouted, okay, I'm very new to this style thing. And he only owned two pairs of pants, a red pair and a green pair.
Starting point is 00:10:13 So it was definitely an outsider vibe. someone very eager to get familiar with high fashion. But what he lacked in style, James made up for with his charisma and his ambition. And charisma was something that Lita deeply understood because she had it as well. James wasn't from the South. He wasn't even from wealth or privilege. James was born and raised in Dorchester, a working Irish Catholic neighborhood near Boston,
Starting point is 00:10:38 blue-collar streets lined with wooden triple-decker homes, families working paycheck to paycheck, far removed from Lee. his family wasn't connected or affluent. They were just living simple lives. And James knew early that if he wanted something more, he would have to hustle. And hustle he did. James worked hard academically landing a spot at the prestigious Boston Latin School known for its rigorous classical education and high achieving graduates. He attended College of the Holy Cross in Worcester, Massachusetts on his scholarship graduating in 1962 with an economics degree. James was clever, driven and ambitious. He joined clubs like the student newspaper and the Economic Society,
Starting point is 00:11:19 always positioning himself strategically to advance his future. He then earned his master's in finance from Boston University, laying the foundation for a career that promised wealth and status. He then landed a job at a major Boston department store, Jordan Marsh, who remembers Jordan Marsh from the old days? I do. And then he climbed the ranks at a major accounting firm, Pete, Marwick, and Mitchell. professionally, James was making his name known. Yet no matter how high he climbed, James felt something was missing in his life. And his life took a turn when James's wealthy uncle Frank, who ran a successful liquor distribution company called Crown Beverages in Macon, Georgia, called him down south in 1973.
Starting point is 00:12:01 Frank didn't have kids, and he wanted someone from the family to inherit his thriving business. James, of course, was eager to escape the predictability of Boston. and finally have some true success. So they agreed that the company would pass to him when Frank died. And in 1975, Frank had a heart attack and passed away. And then overnight, James Sullivan became the sole owner of Crown Beverages, a multi-million dollar company. So imagine that feeling. One minute you're struggling to impress. And the next, you hit the jackpot. It was every hustler's dream. But for James, it came with a bitter feeling of suspicion from Frank's employees who felt that James just didn't earn this sudden wealth and power. And adding to the drama,
Starting point is 00:12:47 James was a divorced father of four. Yes, James had four kids, but he rarely talked about them. He had left them behind with his first wife, Catherine Murray, and he provided very little financial support. James wasn't interested in playing family man. He wanted wealth, status, and respect. And now he finally had it. But despite his newfound riches, James still seemed unsatisfying. Making was fine, but James's ambitions were larger than Georgia. He dreamed of a bigger life, a prestigious social circle, lavish home, and recognition among society's elite. He wanted Palm Beach, one of the most affluent and exclusive communities in America.
Starting point is 00:13:29 Think Beverly Hills or the Hamptons today. So when James walked into Lita's life, he represented everything she didn't know. He was older, he was white, and he was from a very different social class. Her parents immediately sense red flags, not just because of race, but because James was kind of detached. He was unpolished, and he was just like a little too mysterious. But that's what intrigued Lita. He was ambitious and he had honesty. He came from a humble beginning and she saw potential in him.
Starting point is 00:14:00 James was kind of like her project, someone that she thought she could shape and refine, kind of like the ultimate glow up and it was a challenge for her. Okay, I don't know if anyone saw that candle just literally jump off. of my fireplace mantle. I don't usually stop in the middle of these videos, but that was so scary. Okay. But imagine the excitement of taking someone from awkwardness to sophistication. Lita loved the idea of transforming James from polyester suits to tailored elegance.
Starting point is 00:14:27 She restiled his hair. She traded out his bulky glasses for contact lenses and introduced him to the high-end suits and luxury fashion. And soon, James transformed from a clumsy outsider to a polished. businessman. It was like the Cinderella story if Cinderella was wearing Armani suits and Rolex watches. And Lita was falling for James fast. But romance isn't only about fashion and style. And Lita's family had deep concerns. There was a big age difference. He was a decade older. There were cultural contrasts. And of course the unspoken tensions around interracial relationships
Starting point is 00:15:03 in the 1970s south. And that was heavy on their minds. Back then, a black person and a white person together wasn't just complicated. It was scandalous in some circles. Back when Lita and James first started dating the world wasn't exactly rushing to embrace relationships like theirs. We're talking about at time when interracial couples weren't just rare, they were very controversial. Primetime TV had just shown its first regular interracial couple on the Jeffersons and people were still clutching their damn pearls about it. Representation was barely scratching the surface. Today you might scroll past thousands of couples just like them, share. their love stories. But back then, just walking in a room together would make people stop,
Starting point is 00:15:45 stare, and start talking under their breath, sometimes out loud right to them. And sure, Atlanta had its progressive corners, but Macon wasn't one of them. That's where James lived. And the vibe there was very old school, a lot of less open-minded people. And Lita's parents knew what she was stepping into dating him. Their daughter was a young black woman from a respected, politically connected family. If she was getting interested in being with an older white man with a completely different background, they tried to explain to her that it wasn't just about love. This came with a lot of layers. Race, class, power dynamics, reputation. They didn't want to control her. And it wasn't that they forbid it. It wasn't that kind of situation. It was more like,
Starting point is 00:16:30 are you sure you know what this means for you? Because the marriage wouldn't exist in a vacuum for her. People are going to talk, they're going to judge, and relationships that look unconventional, especially in the South during that time, didn't always exist peacefully. Her parents were just worried that she might be making a mistake, that she was mistaking boldness for stability, that this relationship was moving way too fast for anyone to truly see it clearly. Lolita was a grown woman. She was confident. She was headstrong, and she didn't need anyone to co-sign her decisions, especially her parents.
Starting point is 00:17:04 So when James proposed to her, she said yes, and the wedding was set. But then the night before they got married, James dropped the kind of truth that should have ended everything right there for many women. He admitted to her for the very first time since they had been dating that he had been married before. But not just married. He had four children. He had kept that a secret. There was no warning, no lead up to this, just bam. Here's the reality that you're marrying into. to. It was kind of like one of those episodes of Who the F-the-Fri that I marry, right? And by the way, that wasn't the only surprise that James had for her. Because apparently dropping the existence of four hidden children wasn't enough that night. James hit Lita with one more bomb. This time it came
Starting point is 00:17:52 in the form of a contract, paperwork just hours before their wedding. He hands her a prenuptial agreement, yes. The message was clear. If this didn't work out, Lita would walk away with almost nothing. This woman had no real time to process anything, no lawyer, no deep conversation, just a document and a sign here. She was already panicking. The ceremony was set. People were expecting a wedding, so canceling was just not an option. And she would also be heartbroken. It would be a full-blown social disaster if she canceled this wedding now. She was stuck. She was overwhelmed. She was blindsided with no space to really think it through. So she signed it. And that was that on December 29th of 1976, Lita and James Sullivan got married in a small private ceremony in
Starting point is 00:18:41 Macon, Georgia. Her great-uncle, Reverend John Robert Smith, officiated the service. It should have been one of the happiest days of her life, but her mother would describe it later as the worst day of hers. Because for Joanne McClinton, Lita's mom, it didn't feel like a celebration. It felt like she was watching her daughter step into something that could never be undone. And after the wedding, Lita left behind her job at the department store she worked at. And then she left behind Atlanta altogether. The energy, the community, her independence. She just forgot about that.
Starting point is 00:19:16 And she followed James to Macon, where they moved into a massive $350,000 mansion on Nottingham Drive in one of the city's wealthiest neighborhoods, Shirley Hills. Now on paper, it looked like a dream. This was a huge house in a gated community with an elegant lifestyle ahead of her. But in reality, what was going on was hostile. Macon wasn't nice to them.
Starting point is 00:19:41 People didn't bother hiding that they were racist. Trash would be thrown into their lawn. They even put watermelon rinds there. Deliberately left there. And this was a sign. It was offensive. And this wasn't just ignorance. It was calculated disrespect.
Starting point is 00:19:58 The kind of slow, aggressive bullying that will seep into your everyday life and try to make you feel like you don't belong somewhere. And Leida tried her best. She put on a brave face every time. She tried to get involved in the community, show people who she really was, a likable, nice person, down to earth,
Starting point is 00:20:16 nothing that anybody should hate about her. She volunteered with the American Heart Association. She helped the Miss Macon Scholarship pageant, and James got himself a seat on the board of local arts and science museum. From the outside, they looked like the picture-perfect, civic-minded couple. They were wealthy, generously involved,
Starting point is 00:20:32 but behind that front door of their house, there were things already going on. There were cracks showing in their relationships. And friends noticed it first. When it came to money, James looks very successful, right? He's wearing the suits. He's hosting these dinner parties. He's talking the way a man would talk with a lot of assets. But the way he handled money inside the house was kind of bizarre.
Starting point is 00:20:58 Let me give you a little insight from one of their friends, Jane Marlowe, who was over their house one day. She reached to toss the last sheet from a roll of paper towels into the garbage can. Just a normal thing that you would do without thinking, you know that last little part of the roll? Lita had to stop her. She said, wait a minute. James insists on keeping that last little sheet to wipe his hands. You can't waste it. She told her friends that he reused plastic garment bags from the dry cleaner as cling wrap in their kitchen for food.
Starting point is 00:21:26 For leftovers, yes. You know what comes on your suits and your clothing after you get them pressed? He would take them off and then you would take them off. use them as saran wrap. And he allegedly wore his dead uncle's underwear. It wasn't just being frugal. It was just weird. It is overboard.
Starting point is 00:21:42 But I've heard this time and time again, if you want to be rich, you have to be very frugal. I don't know if that's true, but a lot of rich people kind of do eccentric things sometimes to save every last dime. But another friend of theirs noticed it too, Yvette Miller.
Starting point is 00:21:57 When they went out to eat, Lita never paid. Not once. And it wasn't that Yvette expected her to pick up the bill, but she would just never even offer. And she didn't understand, given the size of the house she lived in, the way that they lived, their lifestyle. But that's the thing. Lita didn't have in excess of things. He gave her a weekly allowance, only $300.
Starting point is 00:22:20 And that was supposed to cover everything, the groceries, clothing, household items, entertainment. If she needed anything else, she had to ask him. And to be fair, if we're going to compare, $300 today, would be $2,500. So it wasn't exactly a small sum, but what bothered her was that she wasn't included in any of the financial decisions. She didn't have access to their bank accounts. And the only time she ever saw things like bills or tax returns was when she had to sign them, and that was it. James would claim that they were asset rich but cash poor, that their wealth was all tied up in properties and investments. But to the people who knew them, it didn't come off as being cautious. It came
Starting point is 00:23:01 office he was controlling her because how do you justify living in a mansion but then giving her wife an allowance that's disproportionate to your wealth and then telling her that she's spending too much when he does most of the spending. I know that there's going to be some people that say, you know what, I take issue with this. She wasn't the one making the money. So she doesn't have a say in it. But when you're married, you're supposed to be a team. However, remember, she signed that prenuptial agreement. And he did inherit a lot of his money before they even met. In most states, if you do not acquire the money together as a couple, then it does belong just to the person who earned it before marriage, and it's not marital assets. But I think I'm getting a little too out of myself.
Starting point is 00:23:44 James was stingy to the point that it became his whole personality. I just told you the man reused plastic bags. He wore outdated clothing that had holes in it until they were basically falling apart. He pinched pennies in the kind of house you would expect to come with. staff and a wine cellar, and it basically did. But then every now and then, usually when it only benefited him, though, he would switch everything up. And then he just became Mr. Luxury. He would randomly drop a serious amount of cash on Lita, buying pearls, rubies, emeralds, diamonds, the kind of jewelry you would keep in a safe, not in a drawer. Over time, he spent over $100,000 on just pieces of jewelry for her. In the house, it looked like a museum. They had to be.
Starting point is 00:24:29 I had Lewis the 16th style furniture. I didn't know what it was. I had to look it up. It was gold gilded furniture. They had silver from Gorham and Bachara crystal on the shelves. I wear the imitation of Bachara perfume. It smells really good. I've never heard of these other things.
Starting point is 00:24:44 So you can just tell the elite and how they were living. They definitely wanted to put on a show. And he went all out. He would have fancy dinners, imported wine, 10-person table settings with the works. But the thing is, James. James wasn't consistent. And it wasn't coming from a place of love when he did this for Lita. She described it as periodic deprivation. That's exactly what it was. He would withhold, he would control, he would restrict, and then suddenly, boom, diamonds, lavished dinner parties,
Starting point is 00:25:15 public praise of how amazing she was. But it wasn't affection. It was manipulation. It was something that most of us would call love bombing these days. And it was about timing. These over-the-top gifts usually came after something bad happened when he needed to be seen playing the part of a devoted and generous husband. And from the outside, it worked. To people who didn't know them, they look like a polished, high society couple. But if you knew Lita, you knew something was off. Over the next two years, things only got more strained. Lita started noticing things that really didn't sit right with her. And she suspected that James was cheating on her. And not just cheating, but that he possibly fathered a child with somebody else. She came home to little things that did not belong to
Starting point is 00:26:01 her. There were blonde hairs in her bathroom sink, perfume that was like lingering on their sheets, and it was nothing that she knew she wore. Her mom noticed it too. These weren't just wild accusations. They were the kind of subtle signs that build and build and you can't explain them away anymore. But she tried to. And then, Christmas of 1982, Lita found a cart. It was a one. It was a was addressed to her husband James, and inside was a handwritten message that basically said, I'm missing your kisses at Christmas. And it was signed with a woman's name that she didn't recognize with a make-an address on the envelope. She didn't confront James. Instead, she got into her car, she drove to that address, and she sat outside and she waited. And when a woman finally came home,
Starting point is 00:26:47 this woman was so brave. She approached her and asked her the question to her face. Are you cheating with my husband James Sullivan, and the woman didn't deny it. She told Lita the truth. She and James had been involved for months. That was it. Lita packed her things. She grabbed her silver Mercedes and she drove straight to Atlanta to stay with her family. And in true James fashion, instead of apologizing or even trying to fix things in his marriage, he retaliated. He filed for divorce. And he accused her of stealing his stuff. You know that silver Mercedes I just talked about? that was his. It wasn't hers, even though he gave it to her. He was mad that she didn't just leave, but she hurt him emotionally from stealing from him. He submitted a long list of items that he wanted
Starting point is 00:27:37 returned immediately, as if she was the problem. But within a week or so, it was called off. The whole divorce over. There was some emotional late-night conference between James Lita and his attorney. And it ended with a new agreement. post-snuptial agreement, the one that happens after you're already married. This one was supposed to give Lita more protection, it said. But like everything else with James, the fine print told a very different story. It gave him all the power. The numbers were different, but the dynamic was exactly the same. Starting April 1st of 1983, Lita was put on basically what she referred to as a survival budget. She was promised $15,000 a year, not a month, a year.
Starting point is 00:28:23 That number wasn't just meant for her. It was supposed to cover both of them. She had to do everything. She had to buy groceries, gas, household things, clothing, gifts, going out, staying in and doing things. But in case you're wondering how much that would be in today's terms, it would be $123,000 a year. She asked for more, and he told her no. He said he couldn't afford to give her anything else. And part of the agreement, the post-nuptial that they had just signed required
Starting point is 00:28:47 that she wouldn't ask for anything else moving forward. No future claims, no share of his assets. It was final. And in return, he agreed to take out a $300,000 life insurance policy with Lita as the beneficiary. So if anything happened to him, she would get $300,000, but I'm sitting here thinking, the math isn't mathing.
Starting point is 00:29:08 I know people hate that saying, but it really isn't adding up. What? If you know how much this man is worth and you're going to find out more about it, you giving her $300,000 if and when you pass away is not reassurance. And a few months later, he actually canceled the policy. Oh, but he did it secretly with no explanation, no heads up. She didn't even find out until much later on. People around them had already started picking up on the way that James operated. He wasn't cold to everyone. He could be incredibly charming, but only when it worked for him. His charm was transactional. Everything.
Starting point is 00:29:45 seemed to be with him. If you were someone he wanted something from, he could switch on his charm like a light. But if you weren't useful for him, he would be nasty. He would be dismissive, arrogant, and he would look down on people, especially people in Georgia. He would call them intellectually inferior. He was already mentally packing for his dream life in Palm Beach. And despite all of that, despite the money control, the secrecy, the emotional distance, Lita stayed. That wasn't weakness. I know it might come off that way. Like why? But that's because she was raised this way. She was raised to be loyal. She was raised to value commitment to keep her head up in public no matter what was happening behind the scenes. And she still believed in the idea that the marriage
Starting point is 00:30:32 could work, that she was building something still, that she could make it happen, that she could forgive, and that somehow maybe they could still be in love. And every time, James would do something unforgivable, he followed it with something expensive and grand. Jewelry always followed betrayal. That was his pattern, denied to deflect, distract, and then gift her into silence. By the fall of 1983, while Lita was still trying to hold everything together, James was already planning his next move without even telling her. On October 8th, he sold crown beverages, the multi-million dollar company that he had inherited from his uncle, and he sold it for $5 million. today, that would be $120 million.
Starting point is 00:31:16 And Lita had no idea.

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