Unashamed with the Robertson Family - Ep 1246 | Jase Meets Mia's New Boyfriend
Episode Date: January 13, 2026Jase, Al, and Zach connect recent headlines about the Minnesota daycare fraud scheme to a deeper biblical truth: life built outside God’s wisdom always collapses into dust. Drawing from Proverbs and... real-world scandals, the guys dive into how deception thrives in darkness but never survives the light of truth or God’s design for human flourishing. Jase reveals the shocking move he made when his daughter Mia brought home her first boyfriend—and how it traces back to the time he himself was threatened with death just for walking through a girlfriend’s front door. In this episode: Proverbs 8; Proverbs 14, verse 4; Proverbs 21, verses 6, 9, 19, and 30; Proverbs 22, verses 6 and 29; Proverbs 30, verses 15–16, 18–19, and 24–28; Colossians 3, verse 23; James 1, verses 13–15; James 3, verses 13–18; 1 John 3, verse 8; Hebrews 12, verses 26–28; Genesis 1, verse 1; Genesis 2, verses 15–17; Genesis 3, verses 1–7 Check out At Home with Phil Robertson, nearly 800 episodes of Phil's unfiltered wisdom, humor, and biblical truth, available for free for the first time! Get it on Apple, Spotify, Amazon, and anywhere you listen to podcasts! https://open.spotify.com/show/3LY8eJ4ZBZHmsImGoDNK2l Chapters: 00:00-09:10 Fresh eggs come from dirty coops 09:11-17:19 Why Phil changed his career trajectory 17:20-24:43 Raising kids to live in reality 24:44-29:33 How to deal with your daughter’s boyfriend 29:34-36:01 The mystery of why women put up with men 36:02-43:12 The blueprint for human flourishing 43:13-52:42 The playbook for falling prey to sin — Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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I am unashamed. What about you?
So welcome back to the unashamed podcast. We spent most of the time in Proverbs 8 and then talking about the concept of godly wisdom, which is so ingrained. And I like that metaphor used about the grain of the wood. Same with beef. You know, there's grain in there and how you cut it makes a difference.
But I was thinking about that Lisa, when she does her testimony and talks about her life prior to her coming to faith, she had no wisdom.
And it was ironic and interesting that her lifeblood of like what she read as she was a brand new Christian.
And she's 33 years old, so it's not like she was a kid, you know, was proverbs and Psalms.
and she would read them every day and just like just to try to understand a little bit more
about who God is now that she had finally relented and sort of given up and submitted her life.
But I was thinking there's so many such good stuff out there about Proverbs because Mark Moore,
who's a guy that works a big church out in Arizona, he's kind of the, I call him the Bill Smith of
the Christian church because he's super sharp, a great teacher, and a great teacher.
and a great concept guy, and I read all of his stuff.
But he's got a book.
He has these things called Core 52, and it's like a weekly Bible study.
And he just did one on Proverbs, and it's outstanding.
I want to recommend that to people looking.
And also, Sadie last year came out with a devotional book out of Proverbs, which is also excellent.
So this concept you brought up about wisdom was spot on, but it's also, you know, there's some funny stuff in there.
I mean, that our verse has some, you know, Solomon had a bit of a sense of humor as well, which I love.
Well, I mean, life is difficult, and we didn't really, you know, we talked about how Ecclesiastes comes at it from a little bit different angle because life throws your curveballs.
And, you know, he's like, it's all like smoke.
I mean, you're trying to grasp it and the speed of it is so quick.
Well, you're talking about a man who had a thousand lives.
Well, and Proverbs was written not only by Solomon, you know, there are other writers in that, which I do think it's representative of, you know, that Proverbs 8, tying it to the human world is so profound.
And I do think it is a blueprint designed by God.
And you see that all throughout these from chapter 10 through through 30.
It's just these little sayings and almost riddles.
but it shows you how deeper wisdom is.
And I had a few interesting ones that I wanted to read.
And I just thought before we make that segue,
because ultimately, you know, to be successful in life,
you either got to develop some wisdom
or find somebody who has wisdom and get his opinion.
And I think it's all linked to ultimately why God gave us a counselor
who is God, the Holy Spirit,
it in us.
And I really think it will bring clarity in your daily actions, which is why Jesus said wisdom
is proved right by our actions.
So here's a few.
Proverbs 144, which states, where there are no oxen, the manger is clean, but abundant crops
come by the strength of the ox.
you're like, what?
So here's the thought.
So just to illustrate on how you think,
if you don't want to go out there,
which a part of any venture,
there's got to be sacrifices,
there's got to be grit,
there's got to be sustained things
that you don't want to do to be successful.
And you're like, well, I tell you what,
I would love a clean manger.
And you're like,
what does that mean?
That means you don't have to go out there and shovel up poop every day
and fool with a stinky ox.
But guess what?
You get no crops.
Now you can sit there in the basement of your parents' house and say,
well, I don't have to clean this up.
But you don't have anything, you know?
And this is not so much a moral issue as it is just talking about
what it takes to be ambitious and to work
and to do the things you don't want to do.
And I just don't know if you have any thoughts, but it just.
Well, as soon as you said that, I had not, don't remember that prior word.
That's very funny.
But it took me back to my childhood from the blind movie when we live behind the bar.
And so I was very, Jace was just a baby.
And I was only like seven years old.
But mom or dad, I guess it was dad probably, decided to do a chicken coop behind our little trailer.
and my job was to have to go out and get the eggs and clean out the poop.
Well, I hated.
I hated the chickens.
I hated the eggs.
I hated the poop the most because it's a terrible job.
It's really funny.
You fast forward now I'm 61 years old, and I can only eat fresh eggs.
And so I'm not having to deal with the poop, but Joe and Christine can Jimmy do Jersey Joe, because they have chickens.
But it's interesting when you look at it from a different perspective.
when you love farm fresh eggs, you realize there's going to be pooping bomb.
It's just, that's what happens with chicken coops, you know,
but someone has to deal with that if you're going to get that delicious, fluffy egg.
I think there's something to the egg where if you wash the egg,
you actually, if you, I'm going to wash all this filth off of it, that somehow,
they won't preserve.
They won't preserve.
You could take an egg and out of the coop and leave it on the counter for several minds.
I think I'm right in this.
And it won't.
outside the fridge.
Well, you wash it.
All my eggs have poop on them when I get them out of the box.
And I'm like, how could something this great be so close to something so terrifying?
Yes, exactly.
But look, all these things which led to this conversation was embedded from God's wisdom in the creation of this planet.
That's true.
And you see it all up.
We don't ever talk about this, you know, as either.
even evidence of God, but it's evidence in your life, and there are ways to think.
Because we didn't talk about this on the last podcast, but a lot of proverbs is about this whole
idea that Jesus really zeroed in on. When you think you're wise, and you've deceived yourself
just because of your success, which leads me to another proverb, which is about this skill set,
which is what I was saying.
We had this idea of wisdom being just something that is learned,
but it's also skill and work and things like that that our English word for wisdom doesn't necessarily embody.
There was some story that I can't find now,
but where someone got a bunch of woodworkers,
and it called them wise, and some of them were women,
and I don't remember where the story is in the Bible.
I'm sure someone is thinking of that.
But he called them wise, not because they had studied philosophy.
They were just really good at working with wood.
And so in that vein, Proverbs 2229 says,
do you see a man skilled in his work?
He will serve kings.
He will not serve before obscure men.
And the thought being people, you know, in their day,
you know, the king is the king, if you're really good at something,
they're going to find a way to find a job for you.
It doesn't matter where you went to school and just, you know,
if you're just good at it, good at what you do.
And it made me think of verses like in Colossians 3,
which I think that really ties wisdom altogether in Jesus.
It's like, whatever you do, you know, you work at it with all your heart
as you're working for the Lord and not for man.
And there's wisdom in that.
Well, one definition I read of wisdom,
that said that wisdom is skill participation in God's life-giving order of reality.
And I really like that because it is.
It's participatory, which is what we've been talking about this whole time in the First John.
It's participatory.
And it's another way of saying to have wisdom, it's honestly just to operate in reality,
like to be rightly ordered into the way that everything really is.
And the opposite of wisdom then would be to be participating in unreality,
things that aren't actually true.
It's not how the world actually operates.
And I like that because it kind of anchors wisdom
in something that's more,
I was trying to think of the word for this.
It is what it is first,
and then you get the ethic out of that.
Then you get what you're supposed to do.
But these things that God's commanded us to do,
they're not like arbitrary commandments.
I think that's one of the main things that happens
in the book of First John is you get to the end of it.
And he basically says,
if you're looking at the commandments of God as like a burden,
that you're not understanding what the commandments of God are.
These aren't burdensome commandments.
These are revelations of how reality works.
And so if you operate in reality, then guess what?
You're going to have a harvest.
If you operate in the way the world really works, you're going to get eggs.
Yeah, they got a little poop on them.
You wouldn't have to shovel all that out.
But, man, when you eat those eggs, you're going to notice a difference
between that and something that's processed, it's going to taste a lot better, it's going to last
a lot longer, it's just going to be better all the way through. That's what wisdom invites
you into that life. Exactly. I think that's exactly right. And that's my point in my,
telling that story, was someone without wisdom, immature as a child I was, doesn't understand that.
And so the more you grow in maturity. And it's also a clarity thing. I love that you brought
out the skill set proverb, J.
Because I was talking about when dad always told his story, you know, he described a man, as he would say it, who's beating the air, you know, and he would do his arms.
You know, he's beating the air.
He was that man because he didn't have clarity.
And so he went to school to do something, but then he didn't, he didn't, that wasn't what he wanted to do.
And so he fought his own, he was like that double-minded man that talked about in James I.
And so for 10 years, there was this battle when he turned to alcohol and drugs.
immorality and all these different things.
And then he found clarity when he finally understood who Jesus was and he got that wisdom.
Well, guess what?
He changed his whole life plan as well and moved down to the Washington River to fish the river
and start building duck calls and had never built one.
And then he became the most famous duck hunter in the world and built our whole business
and everything that launched our whole family.
So it just shows you what wisdom has the possibility of doing.
but only when we have the clarity to, as Zach, you just said, to understand that we need that ethic in us.
You know, we have to, it becomes a life changer.
But the ethic is not a, it's not, I think the key that you'll, as you mature in the faith,
the key is that the ethic becomes not like literally a rule to prove loyalty anymore.
Right. That's religion. That's what like the old school religion does.
It's like, do the thing so that you prove the loyalty.
And what is, what God's saying is, no, that's not how the ethic works.
The ethic is actually, these are things that you're supposed to do because this is like
how you actually live an abundant life.
This is actually how human flourishing occurs.
And even that's not arbitrary.
It's not like God said, here are the things that will make it awesome for you.
No, everything that's being revealed is actually, it's a picture of himself.
And so when we, when we,
image God, then we actually have abundant life because God is abundant life. So as we image our
creator, then we actually experience reality, which reality is actually not supposed to involve
pain and suffering. The only reason why we have pain and suffering in reality is because
we humans have actually chose to actually not participate in reality. And instead, we're trying to
make up things.
Like, you know, we want to determine it for ourselves.
And it's just that this never, never works out for anyone when you try to determine
reality for yourself.
That never works out for any of us.
And it leads to pain and suffering.
Yeah, I love, I love, though, every time, you know, this conversation, you start
noticing how many times y'all are saying about an abundant life or life, which is the
way John started this, he is the word of life.
Yeah.
And think about those passages in him.
there's no death.
He is life.
Not only life, think about it when he said in John,
I've come that they may have life
and have it more abundantly.
And so this goes in with this next one is Proverbs 21.
And I just have a few random ones here.
It says in verse 6,
A fortune made by a lying tongue
is a fleeting vapor in a deadly snare.
The violence of the wicked will drag them away, for they refuse to do what is right.
And these are just concepts that you see in life, whether you believe in God or not.
These are the things that happen.
If someone built his whole fortune on lies, what happens in the end?
Have you ever watched that show American Greed?
It's like they used to be on CNBC.
And I think it's where it was that.
But they would take these stories of these Ponzi scheme guys like Bernie,
Adolf or whoever, but they would come up with these very sophisticated ways to accumulate a lot of wealth very quickly and deceptively.
And it's like every time it ends up in just a mound of ashes, it all burns to the ground and they lose everything.
And it always shocks me when I watch those because I'm like, there's like a point that we can get to, which is the scary part about sin because you'll watch how they developed into the leader of some kind of Ponzi scheme.
and you're like, how did you think you were going to get away with this?
Like, this is going to come crashing down around you.
And at some point, you realize that the deceptive nature of evil is that I actually
think that these people think that they're going to get away with it at some point.
You just give yourself over to this lie that you start even believing it.
Like, I mean, it's crazy what they think they can get away with, but it never actually works out.
I mean, if you just look at the long history.
I mean, the Enron scandal.
I mean, it's just like one after another.
You try these scandals out and eventually it all comes out in the wash.
Even right now, Zay, there's a huge scandal in Minnesota about these fake daycare places
where they just built, you know, billions of dollars out of taxpayers.
And there were politicians that knew about it.
And there's just all these people were a part of the scam.
And, of course, now once the light of truth shines on it, you're right.
I mean, now people are resigning.
people are going to go to jail, all these.
Tim Walson, I mean, the vice presidential candidate in the last election was running for,
I think he was running for governor again.
He pulls out of the race.
I think I read this a few days ago.
He pulls out of race as a result of this.
So you had this empire.
And so now not only are the people involved in the daycare scandal that they're done,
but also look at the repercussions and then like you throw the pebble in the pond,
the ripples go out, like it just collapses.
around you and it just takes everybody around you with you. Good point. But you said it when you
it's believe in that lie. And of course, John's going to bring up that concept about deceiving yourself.
And that's what happens. You know, we brought up David. I talked about him earlier. You know,
David, he was so convinced in his sinful walk that he got into with the whole Bashiba affair
that when Nathan, the prophet came to him and told him a story about another person, he was.
was angry. I mean, he was like, this man needs to pay. And he, and he, it was him. And then Nathan
Lusatim says, uh, you are that man. Well, what, yeah, it's, it's, it's like if you stick with just
the basic truths of just reality, it just works out for you. I mean, I, one of the proverbs that
I read, I probably read it four or five times a year to each one of my kids. And it's usually
when we're, we're at an impasse where we can't really make,
progress and they're, and they're just like everything that I'm telling them. It's like,
I'm trying to put some kind of parameter on their life. And I'm talking about kids like,
not max and label. They're kind of out of the house now. But I had this conversation with both
of them. But there's a, there's this moment or moments in parenting where you're basically
saying, no, you can't stay out there three in the morning or so or something like that. And it's like,
this is common sense. What are you talking about? And then their response is always that somehow I'm
infringing upon their well-being.
some version of that. And that's how the gaslighting happens. They start to gaslight you.
Well, everybody else is doing it. Whatever the things are. And when we hit certain points,
I'm like, just sit down for a second and let me read something to you. And I'll read
Proverbs 1 where it says, hear my son, your father's instruction. And forsake not your mother's
teaching. And I'll just like sit in that for a second. Like that's the commandment.
But the question is why? For they are a great.
graceful garland for your head and penance for your neck.
My son, and then it goes on.
I'm like, guys, like my instruction, what do you think?
Do you think that I'm like, man, how can we really make Bears life horrible?
You think that's what we're sitting around doing?
Like, me and mom are like, man, let's just make it where he can't have any fun, where he's miserable.
And after much debate, finally, he'll say, no, I do think you guys want what's best for me.
And I'm like, yeah, our instruction is actually the jewels that you'll wear around your neck.
We actually, what we're telling you is like, this is the way to the good life.
Like, we have the experience.
We've made the mistakes.
And we're pleading with you.
Don't make the same mistake that I made when I was 17 years old.
But again, all we're really calling them into is reality.
Like, just come live in reality.
Like, what you're doing is a pathway to destruction.
And then all those little sayings that parents have, they really, there's a lot of wisdom to them.
Like, my dad used to say, nothing good or my mom, nothing good happens after midnight.
it was kind of true
nothing really good in my life
happened after midnight
I shouldn't listen to her
drive around after midnight
and you'll see that's just true
that's a fact
so in that light
I'll throw in Proverbs 22
6 where it says
train a child in the way he should go
when he is old
he will not turn from it
and then later in verse 15
it says
folly is bound up
in the heart of a child
but the rod of discipline
will drive it
far from him, which my parents focused on the word rod instead of the word discipline,
which is why people don't like to hear that.
But I'm like, I think the point was discipline as being a rot.
Jase, they did mistranslated.
Our parents translated rod to leather belt.
But I guess somehow there was a mistranslation there.
But they experienced.
They missed it.
But I think you see the hypocrisy, even in these polls that people,
do, which I get it. You know, it's, you're taking a poll, you're not committing the act. But I tried to
find the one I had read before where, you know, there was a certain amount of money where,
and it had what people would do for it. And I remember seven percent was commit murder.
Oh my gosh. Yeah. Which makes you think, I mean, just think, seven percent, I mean, if your church
holds a thousand people and you're like, how many people here would actually kill me for a sum of
I mean, that's 70 people in there or said, we're ready to roll.
Yeah, I mean, it shows you a lot about our life.
You know, I found a poll just by looking it up here.
And this was over 40% of Americans would leave their romantic partner for a million dollars.
And you have, look, multiple verses in here that we kind of chuckle at.
But it's like, how did this inspired scripture?
get all this right.
And, you know, some of them are funny, some of them not so much,
but Proverbs 21-9 says,
better to live on the corner of the roof
than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.
I've heard that.
I heard that quote that one many times.
That's true, though.
Verse 19 says, better to live in a desert
than with a quarrelsome and ill-tempered wife.
Me doubled down 10 verses later on it, you know.
But then you also have problems.
Proverbs 7 and verse 27 where the song ACDC, this is where they got it from Proverbs.
The adulterous woman, her house is a highway to hell leading down to the...
High way to hell.
Yeah.
I mean, let me just get a piece of advice if you're listening, though.
The one about the rooftop, what was it again?
Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house.
with a quarrelsome wife.
So I firmly believe in quoting scripture.
I think we should be ready to give an answer.
But warning of advice,
and I know a guy one time who quoted that verse
to his wife in the middle of a fight,
and it did not go so well.
So I just want to warn any of you guys out there.
Sounds like he may have been the quarrelsome wife in that scenario.
I'm not going to say anything.
Just be careful.
The point is the wisdom of God and the blueprint,
it's something that you should meditate on,
but you see it come up all through life
where you're exchanging one aspect of something for another.
And Missy and I was talking about this last night,
just even in the dating process.
You know, I was young and immature.
First girl, I thought, oh, this is it.
I was so in love and enamored until I met her parents.
And I thought, I got to get the heck out of here.
I mean, you know, crazy.
I just thought all my love completely vanquished
because I thought she's going to grow up
and if she turns out to be like either one of these people,
I mean, I know crazy, but this is insane.
I mean, that guy looked at me and basically threatened bodily harm
for me just being in the presence of his daughter.
I was like, don't call me.
You're talking about the dad did?
Yeah, I walked in there, and he said,
come over here and sit down.
I'd have forgot the details, but he was basically threatening my life just for being here.
And I thought, that's intimidating.
Okay.
And then the mom was like amening, amening over there.
And I thought, you know, this girl doesn't look near as good as I thought.
I mean, because, you know, I was just, I met her if she looked good.
I thought, okay, yeah.
There's some movie I saw.
I hadn't seen the movie, but it's a clip on social media where the rapper 50 cents.
he's in the movie and his daughter is going on a day,
going to prom with a young gentleman.
And so he walks in the house and 50 cents,
like, hey man, let me, let me hold out you for a minute.
And he walks him into the garage.
Well, then he walks in the garage,
there's like 20 dudes that look like, I mean,
just bowed up with like, I mean,
just tattoos everywhere.
And he basically tells the guy,
you make a wrong move.
And I'm going to, I'm going to cut your throat.
Like, you're done.
And then all these dudes are like,
20 grown men are just sitting there staring at this guy.
Like, you mess this date up.
You disrespect this man's daughter.
We're coming after you.
And the guy is paralyzed and fears.
So maybe there's a little bit of good at a day.
Maybe he perceived you as a threat, Chase.
I will confess my wisdom or lack thereof.
First time my daughter brought a boyfriend over,
I did clean my gun in his presence.
Yeah.
But I was going hunting the next day.
but I do remember thinking
maybe I should clean my gun
just even though I didn't know threats or anything
I just
subconsciously I wanted them to know
I'm very good with weapons
we're capable
so was that wise or was that me
panicking
you don't make an accusation
it's just more like hey son this is what we use
to kill birds with this is called birdshot
now this are here this is what we use
to kill big animals and intruders and people who hurt our family.
This is called Buckshot.
Well, I think I've proved my point by going through a few verses.
I meant this to be the cold open, and this has turned into quite the revelation.
But there's a couple more I want to get to.
I did want to bring up Proverbs 2130, because I do think this is the theme that says
there is no wisdom, no insight, no plan that
can succeed against the Lord.
I mean, that is encouraging.
Mic drop.
Yeah, but that is a mic drop moment
for all human beings right there.
That's the line where in the New Testament
and the Old Testament, for that matter,
that we belong to a kingdom
that cannot be shaken nor destroyed out
to the book of Hebrews.
I take a lot of comfort in that
because people talk about,
oh, no, the church is in peril,
all the churches is this.
Look, let me tell you something.
You ain't got to worry about that.
You don't worry about whether God's going to lose.
What you worry about is whose side are you on.
Exactly.
We have no. God's plans will not be thwarted.
God's will be done.
And I'm just going to make sure that I'm on his side instead of the other side.
Which is another Hebrews 12 moment is that because God's nature will not change.
So he's going to, he's winning and we want to be on the winning side.
Yeah.
So I want to get to these sayings of Agar.
in Proverbs 30.
Now, this guy,
who, some of these are interesting.
But I want to just give you a hint of it
because I just can't help it.
But he was the son of Agar,
son of Jacob, who was an oracle.
Yeah.
So let me just pick a couple here.
I have a bunch of them,
but I'm going to pick a couple.
So down in verse 15, which he starts off this,
the leech has two daughters.
Give, give.
They cry.
I mean, they suck the blood of give.
So you're like, why is that in there?
You're like, well, am I a human leach?
I'm always, you know, trying to take then give or demanding you give me, you know?
That's such a good point.
It's just so profound.
You know, I mean, it's so profound.
life and you can spot one in about five seconds.
And then they validate it every time you see them.
You don't want to be that person.
But then watch where he launches to.
There are three things that are never satisfied.
Four that never say enough.
The grave, the barren womb, land which is never satisfied with water and fire,
which never says enough.
So it's not just all about relationship.
It's about in life.
You just think about those four things.
The grave.
It just, it's consuming.
You know, and anybody's ever had a counseling situation, you know,
with someone who can't have children.
I mean, it is consuming.
It is devastating and painful.
Land, and look, I've been in more land ventures
that would not do anything with water.
It just wouldn't either hold water
or it wouldn't produce anything good.
And you're just like,
you're just beating your head up against, you know,
an invisible wall and fire,
which never says enough.
I just thought that was interesting.
Then this next one is verse 18.
He says,
there are three things that are too amazing for me,
that I do not understand.
And these are about motion.
So watch this.
The way of an eagle in the sky.
The way of a snake on a rock.
The way of a ship on the high seas.
And the way of a man with a woman.
What?
Just wrap your head around this.
Because look, think about it.
When you see an evening.
eagle flying, it is almost impossible.
You think, how is that eagle doing that?
You know, they'll soar for miles, and you're like, how is, how is he?
Because an eagle is a big bird and it's weighty, but he seemingly having propulsion, yeah, without, he just,
and when you look at creation and you're hearing this red and you're like, wisdom is there
before the creation of the world, it's like the blueprint.
You're like, I see somehow there is this life-giving force that's able to pull this off.
And even a snake, you're like, how is he able to move on that rock?
Of course, you know, science tries to come up and stay up with God.
But it just, it seems when you put all these things together, it becomes beyond scientific.
Because you think, how does a ship?
I mean, you've seen all these videos.
I mean, people, they're just putting them everywhere.
It's high seas, and you see the ship just going through.
Going down in a swale and then coming out the other side of it.
And you're like, then it goes into something man created with something God created,
and then forces of nature, what we call nature, which is God's creation,
all coming together in one scene that's hard for you to wrap your head around.
And then it's the, oh, what is a man doing with a woman?
And the way they act when they're enamored and in love.
And why is she even entertaining this?
How did we ever get together and populate the earth?
I think that's, how is this emotion continuing to happen?
And the difference in the way men and women think.
You know, dad used to always say, remember his saying was he said,
when when the almighty made a woman, he made a strange creature.
That was that was his line talking about women in general.
And because he couldn't figure out how they really thought and is really interesting.
He was just honest enough to admit it.
But you're right, Joe, that he puts that in this line of mysteries is so good.
And it's still the thing that motivates people to this day.
And you could probably, he could have come up with a hundred more of things that we
just really can't wrap our minds around, but then we're part of this whole process to go through.
Well, and then I think, you know, the book ends with this speech about a wife of novel character,
and it's like, but who can find?
Yeah.
She, and which this gets back into Solomon, you know, who had a thousand wives, and he's like,
my conclusion is, wasn't any of them any good.
You know, I mean, it's very sad yet.
And then this beautiful story is shown about what this woman does.
You know, our husband has full confidence and likes nothing to value.
She brings him good, not harm, and she's working,
and she's going throughout the city and community and keeping her house in order.
And you just see this just work and sacrifice.
And, I mean, there's nothing like a sacrifice, especially of a mom.
who's to her husband.
And somehow that is just kind of the moral backdrop of society, in my opinion.
And he gets to the end, and he's like, give her the reward she has earned and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.
You know, we should throw a parade for some of these godly women out there.
Well, and Lisa and I do our, if we do like a marriage weekend or, you know, multiple times to speak,
One of our lessons we do comes from Proverbs 31, the passage you're talking about, Jason.
And Lisa basically speaks to the women in the audience back and forth with me.
And mine's out of Job 31.
You know, I've mentioned Job 31 many times on the podcast because it's an ancient guy who was an upright man who loved the Lord
and who went through terrible things because of what Satan had done to him.
And he couldn't figure it out.
And in his defense of his character, he tells about what it is to be a man.
And so I deal with that with the guys.
And man, it's just that these are ancient things to your point of this whole thing we've been talking about for a couple of podcasts that still are relevant and still matter.
And we just tell current stories about it like we've done here today on the podcast.
But, I mean, the principles and the truth of it still matters and still shapes people to this very day.
Well, the reason I wanted to bring that up, and I'm glad you brought up Job, is because these wisdom literature books, you know, Proverbs, ecclesiastes, and we hadn't talked about Job.
But I do think when you put those three books together, you kind of see this wisdom personified, this blueprint that, you know, is a metaphor for God's sister or maiden or wife or however you want to characterize.
it that is fulfilled in Jesus.
Because you see in Proverbs,
all right, here's just kind of the facts of life.
And there are subtly
the side that you need to be on.
There is a hint of morality and decision-making
and work ethic and all that that goes along with.
In Ecclesiastes, you know,
when it throws you a curveball at the end of the day,
you know, sometimes you just got to fear of God
and trust him in the process.
But then Job, I think, introduces also this idea
of the fallen celestial world
and their involvement in this,
which 1 John is heavily,
talks about, heavily about,
especially in 1st John 3,
where Jesus came to destroy the work of the devil,
which is such a profound verse,
and it's found in 1st John 3.
And I think you see, in that case,
life is full with the evil ones attacks
and the spiritual forces of evil and the heavenly realms.
And I think all those components come together
but God has given us that blueprint.
He gave us his son to embody that blueprint.
And he's now our advocate at the right hand of God,
but he's also given us the spirit to kind of make this happen
in our actions of being like Jesus and reflecting who God is.
Yeah, and you're right.
It's a familiar theme throughout all of the word.
This week I've been studying in James I,
because I'm preaching out of that Sunday.
You know, James brings up Godly wisdom, as I mentioned on the last podcast. But then he also talks about the testing of faith and the things that are going to happen to you that you persevere through. And then he also differentiates that from temptation, which he also deals with in the first part of that chapter. And he doesn't, he puts it on us to make a decision about what we're going to do. Remember he says each one is tempted. He is dragged away and enticed. But it's your decision.
decision. And then he lays out the steps that happened as a result of that. So even though,
to your point about the celestial world being involved, we don't want to just, we can't just
say, well, yeah, Satan's evil. And so therefore I'm living a lifestyle of darkness, then I'm
going to follow him. You make that call.
Well, right. About who you're going to follow. So it really is.
We're tracking because, you know, when he, and when James gets to chapter three, which this really
embodied Jesus' style and his mission and in his sermons and about being from heaven.
Yeah.
And you're from the earth.
And going back to the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth.
Well, when he gets to James 3, and I want to read this based on what you just said,
verse 13, he contrasts this about wisdom.
It says, who is wise and understanding among you?
Let him show it by his good life.
that this wisdom produced in actions.
Yeah.
By deeds done in the humility, that comes from wisdom.
It is literally the blueprint that God created the world.
But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts,
do not boast about it or deny the truth.
Such wisdom does not come down from heaven,
but is earthly, unspiritual of the devil.
So he's mentioned there.
Yep.
And then this profound verse that I've quoted hundreds of times in Bible studies,
for where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.
But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure, peace loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy, and good fruit, impartial, and sincere.
All these things Proverbs is about, but it's also all the fruits of the spirit.
peacemakers who sow in peace
raise a harvest of righteousness
but then focus on that
there's the work
they sow in peace
and raise a harvest
of righteousness
so and that you know what comes along with that
dirty mangers
you know cleaning up
and that's that proverb 144
it is interesting
when you go back to the creation
I mentioned this on a previous podcast
but when they were told to work the garden,
when he put Adam Neve to work the garden,
if you think about like the fact that he said to cultivate the earth,
it leads us to believe that whatever was outside of the boundary of the garden
was not the garden.
It was wild.
It was things that needed to be tamed.
It was things that needed to be cultivated.
So you can think about everything, the whole earth,
was not the garden in the beginning, which I think is interesting because you think about,
well, the blessing, when the Bible says that God blessed them and told them to be fruitful,
multiply, cultivate, cultivate the earth, and have dominion over it. So that was actually,
work was actually the blessing. And so in Genesis 3, when the fall happens and the curse
comes, the curse was not work. It was now you're going to work and it's going to produce thorns
and thistles for you. And the curse was not fruitful multiplication. Now,
you're still going to have, go into labor, and you're going to have babies, but now it's going to be painful for you, for the woman.
And so I think that that's a key because what we're returning back to with the story of Jesus and what Jesus accomplished and what the inaugurates in the kingdom is it is a restore, a restoration back to our Edenic purpose.
And so if you go back to the first sin that happened in the garden was a sin that Adam and Eve, particularly Eve in the first part,
she actually did not believe that the revelation of God was for her benefit.
She actually thought that the commandments of God were somehow hampering her own human
flourishment, which happened to be a lie.
So she moves out of reality into unreality.
So the pattern was really simple.
She first minimized the blessing.
She then, because God, she said, we may eat.
whereas God actually said, you may eat freely.
So she took what God said and she minimizes it, which was the blessing.
She makes it smaller.
Then she minimizes the judgment, lest you die where God actually said,
you shall surely die, not lest you die.
No, you will die if you do this.
So she minimizes the judgment.
And then she maximizes the prohibition.
She makes it much more desirable when she says,
you shall not touch it becoming the first legalist in history,
when God actually said, you shall not eat of it.
If you do, you will die.
And I think that's interesting how her pattern of sin work,
because it's the same pattern of sin that we indulge in,
which is essentially minimize the blessing of God,
minimize the judgment, and then maximize the prohibition
to make it more appealing.
We do it, and that's that James passage.
We're dragged away and enticed.
And then when that whole process plays out,
what does it do?
The same thing that did in the garden.
It leads to death.
Well, if you're wondering why we spent two podcasts talking about wisdom,
because I felt led to do this just because First John is hard to wrap your head around.
And I think, you know, if you kind of realize, okay, maybe I need to,
like one of my mentors used to tell me every time I would bring up some passage that I hadn't really thought out well,
he would say, you need to think bigger.
And I fear that as we talked about last podcast,
we're so focused on atonement, just, you know, getting in
and not going to hell or whatever the motivation is,
that we're missing this experience of participating with our maker on earth
and representing him.
And he's supplied everything we need.
But I thought of one other proverb I wanted to mention
because I think part of our problem is we just feel like, well, what can I do?
You know, I'm so, I'm just one person.
I got all my problems and all.
So this is an interesting one.
This is Proverbs 30 and 24 in following.
And it says, four things on earth are small, yet they are extremely wise.
Ants are creatures of little strength, yet they store up their food in the summer.
Hirexes, which I had to look that up, they're little badgers that live in rocks, are creatures of little power, yet they make their home in the rocks.
Locus have no king, yet they advance together in ranks.
That's so good.
And a lizard can be caught with the human hand, yet it is found in king's palace.
Oh, man.
So, I mean, you're like, well, why is that in there?
Well, you think you're small and can't do anything.
I mean, these little creatures, you don't think they're very wise.
But, I mean, you're a human being created in the image of God.
You're in the very good section of the creation, you know, in the image of God.
And able to reign and lower it over the creation.
And so I think that's his point there.
It's especially when he's supplying you the power of His Holy Spirit
and that you're participating in this divine nature.
So I wanted to say that.
And as we go through this, I think if you will allow yourself
to be open to the possibilities of what your position means in Christ,
I think it'll make you puff your chest out a little bit
and do things that may be uncomfortable.
because to me that's really what walking like Jesus is all about.
You just go out there and take a stand.
I listen to a daily devotional for our friends, Shane and Shane.
I know you're good buddies with them.
And this morning was a showstopper.
I don't know why I feel led to share this.
But they did the song, The Doxology.
You know, praise God from whom all blessings flow.
I mean, and they made a point,
everybody knows this song. It's like the Christian National Anthem. My wife actually led a group of people
off the cuff at the K-Love Awards in that song. And what I was stunned at is everybody sang. And it was
powerful. But they did it on their divo was on that song. And they had a preacher who told the
story behind this song. And it was some random guy from the 1600.
hundreds who never had any money who basically there was a law they couldn't write songs it had to be
word for word out of the Bible and he had all these list of songs and he's the same guy who uh who by the way
because of his wisdom uh was led into the presence of the king just because he was good at stuff
and his the the king had summoned uh the use of his house for this king's mistress and
And he said, no.
He said, my house is under repair.
And by the way, I'm not going to use my house as a pimp for the king.
Now, you say that to a king, you're probably going to get your head cut off, you know.
But he was like, I'm just not compromising.
But anyway, immediately after that story, he called a construction person and he said,
I need you to rip the roof off my house.
I mean, he said that because he didn't want to lie.
So he actually hired a contractor to destroy his house
So it wouldn't be a lie
But later on, you know, after he died, he died of obscurity, no money
They found this list of songs that he wrote in his journal
And that was one of those songs
And it became a national anthem
But it just made me think when I read that proverb
I thought this guy just some old guy serving the Lord
Who had lost his parents at an early age
The whole story made me tear up.
And, you know, came up through an orphanage and just never had anything.
But he found wisdom in the Lord.
And look at him now.
He was a lizard who lived in the palace.
Exactly.
Because he understood who God was.
That's awesome.
Well, we may or may not get back to First John next podcast.
We'll just see how that goes.
But that was a good rabbit old, Jays.
I love it.
And it is.
all over the book, so it's good.
Yeah. We'll see you next
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