Unashamed with the Robertson Family - Ep 132 | Phil & Si's Nickname, Men Who Cook & the Real Story of How Stone Married Al's Daughter

Episode Date: August 23, 2020

Al's son-in-law Jay Stone finally makes his Unashamed debut and reveals the real story of how he ended up hitched to Anna. He also describes how Phil was to blame for the only argument he's ever had with his wife. Phil explains what happens to your soul and spirit when you die and why a man needs to have cooking skills. The guys discuss the resurrection, what the Bible says about how husbands and wives should spend their money, Miss Kay's daily menu briefings, and the way Democrats react to nuclear families. Stick around till the end when Phil shares his nicknames for Jase and Stone, and Jase reveals his term of endearment for Phil and Si. - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

So we got big news. Today's podcast is on Sunday, beginning this week, we are now going to be releasing four podcasts a week. We've been doing three. We're going to add another one in by demand. So many sponsors want to join in. So many people want to hear more. So, Dad, they want more of unashamed.

Shouldn't we have discussed this? No. You just, you know, I'm producing. We just keep churning. You're like a hamster in a wheel, Jay. She's got to keep running. keep running Sunday Monday Wednesday and Friday

are going to be our podcast releases we've got some cool guests we're going to have on here you know what this means I want to have to start letting y'all talk more that's right that's the number one complaint Jay Stubin'clock they want to hear more of a me and dad so check it out this week tell your friends recruit other people Unashamed Nation is growing and we do

appreciate the opportunity we get to talk for a living I am unashamed. What about you? My point is what we read the last time we were together. In John 1018, he said, no one takes it from me. Talking about his life. Yeah.

In death. Yep. But I lay it down of my own accord. Here's this statement. I have authority to lay it down an authority to take it up again. And that's what they were struggling with. Well, wait a minute.

Let's just think about this. I mean, because the next chapter, Lazarus, was raised from the dead. I'm sure he spent the remainder of his life on earth talking about and answering questions about, what was it like? He was like a hero. Four days.

You remember they got up. They later on met all up at his house. Why? Because they won't talk about it. And they said, you were dead. you know, did you see a light? Did you see the tone? But here's what I'm saying.

There's a difference in being raised from the dead. Did you see the light at the end of the tunnel? Well, there's a difference in being raised from the dead and someone rising from the dead by his own authority. That's the difference. That's why I'm saying who Jesus is is of greater impact. because here's a guy you know I know

the godhead is complex but he is one with the spirit and the father and since he has the authority to do this that makes him more awesome than everybody else who could possibly come back from the dead

it's like if I hit a hole in one we all talk about it because it's almost a miracle right but if a guy was standing there and said you want to see a hole in one and he put some mojo on my swing and the ball to make it go in the hole, well, I'm, I need, this guy here's way more important than me. And his gunk.

Because I'm looking down. You run with him. You won't have to practice near as much. I thought I sliced that thing, but it went right in the hole. So that, that was my only conjecture. If you introduce who Jesus is, then when he died, you start saying, well, wait a minute, He's a different being than everybody else that's been on the planet or will be. But I think the reason they missed it is the same reason they all missed it.

I mean, we've seen this in John over and over and over again, because they had a, just like with the guy in John 9, they had a bad view of what his purpose was. See, they had a view in their mind of what the Messiah was going to do, and all it was going to be was make Israel the greatest nation on Earth and rule everybody else. That's all they were thinking about. was the physical.

And he never could get him to understand that this was, this kingdom was not of this world. It was bigger, so I'm saying? So that bad theology that they had learned their whole lives as good Jews now comes back to Hounham because he's telling him, no, this is what's going to be, the kingdom of heaven is life,

the kingdom of heaven is life, and I've got to be raised to lead this thing. And not only did they miss him, they missed the purpose of why he came. But, Al, it was just a bad way. I've met maybe two or three people on the earth who said they weren't going to die or they had some power

over death outside of Jesus. You told the story about the guy was going to drink the battery gas. I mean, you know, when I was thought, I thought, how is he going to get out of this? We were down to the battery acid in a metal container. He was fixed to prove

that he had the power. And I thought, now how in the world is he going to get out of this? Because somebody's going to call 911. I'd call him now. because he's not going to have long. We're fixed to drink battery acid here. So he got right to the cup.

And he was like, I can't, it's not going to work because you don't believe. He pointed me that you don't believe. I was that, don't believe what? He's like, you don't believe in this power. So that doubt could cause me some problems. I was like, my doubt or your doubt? I was going to say, if I were drinking the battery, I said, I might be with you.

But I saw he manipulated people because he's like, if this miracle wouldn't work, he's like, well, you didn't believe strong enough. If you believe it, I could have done it. Well, what a, what a deranged. So I was just making a point. Sometimes when people say Jesus was raised from the dead, they missed, like somebody else did it.

You know, no. He had, he was in full control. of death and life. Now granted, he's a different kind of being because it says the same spirit who is in us for a homozaa level come up from the dead.

He is, his body at the same time, which is pretty interesting, his body did not see decay. I love that verse. When people die, your body begins to decay pretty well

immediately. That's right. That's Acts 2. Peter preached that. But he always He said, Peter and them made a point of that. Right. His body didn't see that. And by the way, that was a prophecy from, was it Joel, too? Oh, yeah.

So this had been talked about hundreds of years ago. Oh, yeah. That's right. So he'd been around a long time. We were going to introduce our guests. Well, we will. We'll get there. But a small argument broke out pre-show.

And we just decided to start rolling the car. I'm wondering, why am I here? What is the purpose for me sitting in this chair? That's a sense of. We said that for 130 episodes for Jase, and now it's his podcast. Well, unlike Jace, I do not have the gift of gab, or a.k.a. blowing smoke,

aka shooting off at the mouth. That's a little bit more brutal than I've been saying he always has a lot of stories. He never runs out of stories, but I never used that particular language. You know what's crazy is this is my guy. What are you all running out of the mouth and gift a gab? All right, well, continue argument. Well, I was just going to say in Peter's sermon when he preached,

he did say his body, what was your line? Where was that at that he said? His body didn't see decay. Where is that at? He's quoting Joel, too. It's in Acts 2. Yeah, he's quoting the Act earlier. Oh, yeah, Acts 2, 27, because you will not abandon me.

me to the grave. Good, good, good, good memory out. Nor will your let your holy one seed decay. But that was right before, before he quoted that, he said in 24, 224, he, there's a couple things here. One of them I'm not sure about. When it said, God raised him from the dead, freeing him from the agony of death. That's the one thing I'm not real sure about. But if you read that, I don't know how you can deduce that it's agonizing to be dead. Well, I think it's more he meant to die. The agony is the moment of... I thought that.

I don't agree. It's said because God... You can be wrong about something. But he said, but God... That's a loud on this show. Well, God, just think about how it says it. Because I know most people think that, and that's what I thought,

just because I'd never heard a different opinion. But the more I stared at it, it says God raised him from the dead. That happened. freeing him from the agony of death. So here's another theory. So here's another theory. So before you answer, what about all the verses about the groaning,

meanwhile we groan? But why would you groan? I would groan if I was in agony in some sort. Just a thought. It could be. Or it could be the fact that he's God in flesh, and the agony was the God can't die. No.

I agree with that. So what I'm saying is he may have been experiencing this solely himself that only as the only human being that ever was God, he died. I had the same thought, but then I thought if we have the same spirit, we're in the same boat. And it could be, you may be right. That's why he had to become flesh or it just wouldn't have worked out. You're right on that. That's John 5. Well, in Hebrews too.

I mean, same. But I wanted to say this also. But then he said, because it was. impossible for death to keep its hold on him, which is why I think it freed him from the agony of being death, because he then uses that phrase, it was impossible for death to keep its hold. Well, that to me makes sense that it would be agonizing

because somehow another he's in a dead state, which it's impossible for him to be in, and it has some hold on him for three days. But it was impossible for that to continue, because it just didn't well it does maybe lead to the greater question of where we go what happens in the interim

all that you know is it soul sleep is it are we someplace is there an awareness and paul said when you physically die it is in fact a departure your soul and spirit go to be with God and your body

stays asleep and Jesus comes back he's going to wake it up the phrase asleep but you know think about how to describe in our English language from Greek what that is. It's hard. Somebody said, how about asleep?

Because it appears less sleep. What are you going to call it? I'm just saying. Well, it's like Dad talks about when you have an operation, and they literally put you to a deeper sleep where you can't feel anything. You have no awareness than anything's ever happened. No time. It's different than when you sleep, right?

Because when you sleep and you wake up, you realize it. I think that is a good way to look at it when it comes to time. But as far as you sleeping, I mean, I've had some wild and you have too. While I'm sleeping, there's a lot going on. He's a warrior. Mom has to protect herself from death. It's been, you know, the battle's on in my dreams. But see, look, I think you've stumbled up on a point if, I mean, his stuff starts flying around.

I end up just out of the bed, co-oom, hitting the floor. I mean, you know. But just think about it. If you had all these thoughts, motives, and desires, and you had no way to express it, wouldn't that be agonizing?

Let's just say you were asleep like that. Well, you got all this going on, and it's not real, because you can't really express it. That's why he gave us body, soul, and spirit. That's why I'm such a proponent in the bodily resurrection. I mean, Jesus was,

was walking around saying look at here look at my hands and my feet he had some way even though it was a cooler body by that i mean he could change his form he could transport he could fly without a out of you know space engine he literally left the atmosphere so okay that's impressive wow but i'm getting back to his character and what he said in his claim when he His death happened. I know some of these guys, and maybe it took the resurrection for it to sink in, they thought,

you remember that time he said he had the authority to take, he's like, they're not going to take my life. I give it freely. I have that authority to give it and to take it back up. But you think about it. If you have that authority, you are the greatest thing that has ever walked the planet. But they didn't really even know post-resurrection,

because he was there 40 days. But he left here, say it's still explaining the kingdom of God. So they still didn't fully get it until Acts 1, when the Holy Spirit came, showed up in Acts 1 and Acts 2. That's when they got it. We're back to your plan. Well, you know, the Unashamed podcast is we don't know what the plan is.

I mean, I have some things that I've come up with, but that may not be where we go, which I think is why people like it. Well, introduce Jay. It's hard to be interesting. So I didn't even thought about this, Jay. So Phyllis is the one until we were together with her last week. And she was like, you guys need to have Jay Stone on your podcast.

I have reference you many times. And I think it's because she's a podcast listener. I mean, we do it, but we don't really listen other than just me making sure it's going well. So like, she's a fan of the podcast. So she was like, y'all keep talking about Jay Stone. Of course, she knows you obviously because you're in the family. but she's like but i mean the audience would love to meet jay stone what's the quick bio

so jay is my son-in-law which we've talked about him enough the audience pretty much knows he's he married to anna he's married to anna my oldest daughter dad has told the story multiple times uh about how he basically had a pre-arranged we were almost like a uh these we went back we had everything but a doubt well phil gave the blessing before the sparks were even in the air right what you need to do I wasn't, didn't bless it at that point. I just told him a avenue that was open to him. I said, I've cleared you, vetted you, and found you to be a man of worth marrying my granddaughter.

I mean, don't take this the wrong way, Phil, but it reminded me of a bunch of guys in a blind, like seeing a truck, you know, a new truck on a lot, saying, you know where you're, you ought to go down here. There's a new truck on a lot. and go ahead and pick that thing up. It'd be a great vehicle. That's what it seemed like. I was just letting him know if he had thoughts about marriage and if he wanted to be a unique the rest of his life. I don't care.

But if you were thinking about marriage, consider my granddaughter. I think she's coming out of pretty good stock. I think in Dad's defense, I think there had been a... I cleared it but told her Al had not cleared us. You right to... Al's going to be the final word.

I'm sure through mom, there had already been a discussion that wasn't a part of the truck buying discussion where there was a conversation that there may be some romantic overtones that are happening in between. See, I miss the romantic undertones. Yeah, I don't know that for sure,

but me knowing mom. I literally thought he said, make you move, and Jay doesn't say a word. He just sat there. And literally two weeks later, I look up and they're going out. And I thought, he did that. So 17 years, so what was your thought about the conversation?

Well, y'all had already been having discussions, I'm sure. Well, you're living with you. John and Paula across the street from us. So you're in the vicinity. Here's the deal. I've been around y'all for about 20 years now. So I would say the Robertson Gene is strong, strong in the art of storytelling, number one. I think our audience would agree.

Well, the exception is my wife, one of them, because she's like me. She doesn't like to shoot off at the mat. She's super quiet. She's quiet. So we get along, perfect. We'll drive all the way to the beach, and there will not be one word spoken. That's probably a sign of trouble.

No. No, in their case, he's right. No trouble. There's nothing to say. Nothing to say. That's kind of depressing. I mean, that's the way we like it. There's not one second of,

if we drive to the beach, There's not one second where someone's not talking. See, I couldn't handle that. I don't enjoy that at all. That's why we're married. If you get a chance to ride with me to the beach, go make some other plans. We've been in one fight in 16 years. How long did it last?

That's the true story. About a week. It lasted about a week, but that's the only one. And I can attest because we live next door. That was mostly Phil's fault. Oh, no. Because he. Stay out of it, Phil.

Phil ripped her for hiding money from meat. And then she didn't talk to me for about a week. And then that was the end of it. Wait a minute. That's the last fight we've been in. Yeah, I don't remember that. She had some money from it? Oh, yeah, all of it.

Well, all the money. You mean, you couldn't get to any of the money that you actually were making. No, I couldn't get to any of them. I think that's when I said you might ought to nip at it in the bud. Oh, she got married. He was given like an overview of, because Nan's tight. I mean, she's all right. You know where the money is now.

Did y'all correct that? Oh, yeah. She takes care of all the money. But you, so nothing changed. Oh, but you can just get to it. But I can access. She's very thrifty. I'm being kind.

She's very thrift. She's got an alarm on her phone. Anytime I spend an amount over $20, it's be me, me, me, me. She'll call me up. She'll say, what did you just buy at Academy? me. Really?

I'll say. Battery. Okay. It would take me a while to adjust to that. Well, here's what's weird. I didn't know that she didn't get it from her parents. No, she did not. Which is why I'm kind of proud of her in one way because she took a weakness we had,

but she went a little far, you know, with it. But she took a weakness and turned into a strength, which for that. Kind of like the men drinking when I was, you know, I saw Phil drinking way too much. I said, I ain't doing that. Right. I mean, I like seven, six, seven years old. You saw a weakness and you thought. I ain't doing it.

Would it be a fair statement? I don't know. But I've always thought that just from being in the retail business, people walking by at these shows and all that. And a guy wants to come up there and he might want to buy a DVD or a duck call way back in the day. Yep. And I know that they would, they would look at the woman. She's back from the table. She's right from the table.

I would get physically nauseous when that would happen. Yeah, I saw that. And I saw that a lot. So I came up with an idea, a constant. I said, you know, I think most of the money, the proceeds from the labor of humanity, I think most of it ends up in the women's purses, not the man's billful. Correct. It just seems that way.

I could be wrong. People make jokes about that, but I don't know. Well, there's probably a lot of reasons why. Like most of the rednecks we know, I mean, you look in their yard and you look around and their stuff and you see they have some impulse buying problems. Well, yeah, male and FEMA. Exactly. Both.

All the time, they'll say, oh, a woman's spending all the money. I'm looking at his stuff, I'm saying. You're spending a lot of it. And your purchases are usually a lot bigger. Sort of like mom and dad. Dad out, mom out spends dad a thousand to one. No doubt. But I will say this, dad, when you buy something, it's big.

I mean, you know what I'm saying? I mean, we're talking. You go by a $20,000 ski boat? She needs to go on a five-year shopping spree. But the point is, if you're both thinking that way, you wind up like where Lisa and I were. So back to Nan and to defend her. Look, she's not a controlling person.

So that's a true statement, right? Now, she was controlling and had this issue, that would be a problem. So when you do need some funds for your particular line of work, you're a duck on or a deer hunter, you're a woodman. when you need a little money, how do you go about doing that? Because she has it. Plastic.

Plastic. He's got the car. He can spend the money. So you clear it with her? No. Or you just do it? I just do it. But he knows she's going to ask about it.

And then she asks, but she never gripes. She never gripes about it. She's not a gram. Ever. So she doesn't, like I tell you, yeah. No, no, no. Never. Well, that's not a bad idea.

Never. Look. And she's not a big, she's not just throwing money in the wind either. So she's pretty thrifty with your money. That's right. That's why I'm saying it's not necessarily. No, it's the perfect. Of course, your borough both work at Duck Commanders, so both of you have a salary.

So I want to talk about that. So let's take another break. So Jay, explain your role. You were a teacher and a coach when you and Anna first got married. Yep. And then tell us what I'll finish the story that Phil started. So Phil did the little deal in the blind. Hey, make you move.

Everybody laughed. You know, hi. So. But I wasn't kidding. But he wasn't kidding. And so I, I, I realized that. And I would say a couple months later, Miss Kay, we were eating lunch, and she pulled me over there.

And she said, you know, you know, aunt, my granddaughter's got a crush on you. I said, yeah, I heard. You know, then about a month later, Paula pulled me over there and said, look, Anna really likes you. You need to do something. So I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, I don't. I was like, all right, whatever. So a week later, Anna comes up to me, and she said, hey, this girl over here wants, got the girl's name.

You know, she's single, and, you know, she's looking to date somebody. So she set me up with this other girl, you know. What kind of a ploy is there? I don't know. I'm stuck on him, and I'm going to line him up with somebody else. So I go out with this other girl. She's pretty smart. She was testive.

And it turns out, the meanest woman. I ever met in my life. Mean. She put the mean one on you. So you would appreciate the meek one. That's right. That's right. So about three weeks into that.

You don't think he's women are not smart? Oh, yeah. She pulls me out to the side end. She said, look, you don't need to mess around with her. You can go out with me. I said, all right. Where are you going to go? I like it.

I like it in this story, Jay is just like willing to, yeah, all right. Well, let's just see. I've heard a lot. relationships and how you form one, but that one is a doozy. At some point, I'm feeling like you need some drive. I got plenty of drive, son. Plenty of it. So, you know, a few months later, you know, she's like, hey, let's get hitch.

So we got hitched. So she asked you to marry her. No, no, no, no, I did. I did that. And he came to me. I came to Al first. He came to me first. Even before they dated.

So how did you present it to her when you said, We're going to spend our life together the rest of our days. How did you bring that up? To be honest with you, I do not remember. Oh, that's bad. Anything that. She doesn't. She probably doesn't either.

That's what bad. She doesn't care that she don't care. She don't care. She don't care that I don't remember. And I don't care that she don't remember. That's why it works. Look, the woman, she don't cook a lick. Are you complaining about this?

No, I am not complaining. You will never hear me complain about anything. she does anything i like that so the woman loves me she loves jesus and that's enough yeah and your kids and she's a great that's right and my kids a great mom and jay is a great cook and you learned how to cook and i learned how to cook mostly from you yep yep and then lisa and i are nearby and we usually all eat together because we kind of have a family i always figured if the woman pulls out on you and takes off with somebody or leaves or whatever or passes on you say you would i would think to have assemblies you of food stuff, you need to have a certain amount of cooking skills.

I would just say anybody ought to have a certain amount of cooking skills. I see on that black box that, you know, the advertisement of the foods is sent. Some guy walks up there and you get it, you walk back in there, and you look in a box. It's pre-cooked, ready to go. And the woman tasted, she said, oh, my goodness, we don't have to cook anymore. She said, this is good. They're jumping around. they're hugging and

cooking. Oh, they're jumping up and down and said, we never have to cook again. That's right. That's why the restaurants before COVID were always full. And now you've got this comes to your door. I wonder how that's working now. Is that the way it's working? That's what they do. They don't cook. People don't cook anymore. I mean, it's just as a whole. I mean, unless you teach it and it goes forward, male or female, people are just buying. By the way, Jace, you're somewhat of a Bible scholar to your credit.

I must have won the idea. So is there. Is there any clear text on how husbands and wives spend their money? Is there any clear text that's out? Is that even mentioned, biblically speaking, you know? I mean. You know, the love of money is a root of all kind of evil people who want to get rich. You got that. But the first verse.

Like a woman's role in marriage and a man's role. I think. The answer is no. It's no. But I will say this. Yes. You know, because to me, I look at it from when Jesus defined marriage in Matthew 19, which I'm so glad he did.

Because who would think in our culture 2,000 years ago, people would have trouble identifying that a male and female getting married in the side of God. And by the way, I've heard people say that. Well, Jesus never addressed this. Talk to make anything that's not a husband wife. Oh, he defined. He defined it. He addressed it by saying, this is the way you do it.

He got real specific. He said, in the beginning, God made them male and female. And then I love the next three words. For this reason, a man will be united to his wife. So he defined marriage. But then he said what they say at weddings, whether they believe it or not, what God has joined together, let not man. separate. And so

the two becomes one. I mean, you are one. My wife, one of her many great qualities, is that she's constantly reminding me that every couple days, you know, because we don't

really have anything in common outside of Jesus. I always say this, but that's enough. It's plenty. It's more than enough. But she will say, we're one. whatever you do I'm doing so to me where somebody got the idea

of degrading women early in the 1900s which is all at all what it was I noticed they wouldn't even let them vote till they've 19-turning I noticed yesterday I look at that now and I find it pretty amazing it's sad

Trump pardon Susan B. Anthony for something about because she voted or and so they charged her with something I noticed that yesterday. But I noticed, Chase, you can elaborate on this. So my, well, just to say my point is I think whoever's doing the providing, like my wife, the first 10 years of our marriage, she worked her tail off in a corporate setting,

in a job that she did. Well, right. I mean, she grew to like it or whatever. But I'm like, we're one. We're providing for each other. So I don't know where we got into these stereotypes. But hang on for you. Hang on, Dad, before you read that, let's take another break.

It is worthy of note that one of the thing, in one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, six, seven, eight, eight times in the three little short chapters of Titus, the Apostle Paul said Titus was my true son in our common faith. He didn't mean he was kin to him, but I don't think he just meant in the faith. he was like a son to him. And he's given him this various things to do, starting with elders. And he starts down in chapter two, he says, teach the older women.

Now, he's talking to Titus. He said, so in your teaching, in Bible studies, you sit down, and you teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers, are addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Then they can train the younger women to, and here's the list, to love their husbands and children,

to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, busy at home. Yeah, they're the homemakers. I mean, they're, Ms. Kay, y'all's mother, who is responsible for bringing y'all on the earth, she gives me without fail, ever, without fail. She always gives me a briefing on the menu prior to it being cooked and served. She gives me a briefing on what's fixing to go down in the way of food. and when it will be there.

She says, okay. Now, when y'all get back after the podcast, I'll have some, those quick-fired pork chimes if y'all want to. You can wait that evening if you want to. Did she say that today for real? Yeah, oh, yeah. Every day. Pork chop?

Every day. Yeah, the pork chops are there, so. That's today. That's good news for y'all. That's what Jay's favorite. But what I'm saying is, now look, look, you said, well, you made her do that and you, no, I didn't. I never brought it up.

Always briefed me. on what we're fixing it. No, I never said a word about it. She's going to leave for three days and all that. She'll say, okay, I'm going to be gone. I'll be in Austin with Jeff and his kids, and we're flying down on Friday, and we'll be back next Thursday.

She said, what you got is you have a honey ham in there, and you can eat that with ham sandwiches, you know. Y'all can make ham and cheese salmon if you want to. She said, save the bone now because I'll put that in beans. And she says, you'll have hamburger meat if y'all wanted to try that. Because Dan's going to bring the hamburger made on Saturday. You might want to have burgers on Saturday.

She's giving me a food update and a menu update every time until it's amazing. She'll say, okay, look, and she'll tell me what she think. She'll say, had you rather have this or that, you know, on Tuesday, had you rather have, you know, I could get some beans. But you do live way away, from civilization. That's true.

Yeah, we don't run to town too often. Well, right. Like most people are sitting here thinking, well, why they have a big cabinet. I'll say this. So this is a good thing for the audience to understand, too. This is seasonal, though. Mom, at 72 at this season of her life,

she's always managed her home, but she's going to be much more direct. When she was actually keeping all the books for the business and you were building duck calls and she was raising us and we were going to school, it wasn't quite this attentive to tell to you. So you got to remember as an audience, people are listening, you're young in your marriage, you're like, well, I don't ever do that.

Well, yeah, I mean, if she loves you, it's just in the season you are right now, you know, mom wasn't that attentive back in the day. She couldn't be. She had to, you know, she had to take care of. I mean, I'm fine. I'm looking down at the floor. She stopped me today and she started going through the menu and all that. But if she does it every day, every day.

And I mean, usually breakfast, dinner, supper in between meals, she lines the whole thing out. But, uh, to be self-control, and pure, be, busy at home, to be kind, to be subject to their husbands, subject to their husbands. You want to, because in our society now, they don't even like the idea of husband. Yeah, they call that patriarchal. The nuclear family, they nuclear, I don't know who got the nuclear part. What is it? If they took to blow up?

I don't know. But they say the nuclear family. They mean what Jay's just. In this day and age, Jace, they don't like the idea a certain segment of the population of the Democratic Party, they do not like the idea of mama, daddy, children, and these qualities I'm reading. They're not buying into what I'm reading right here at all. They call that a nuclear fan.

Would you agree to that? That's true. And basically, they're organizations. So has that helped our nation when people say, we're talking about a spiritual family, you know, and these are saved people. They fear God. They love Jesus like he's talking about it. I'm looking at these qualities down.

down here. I'm looking at all these qualities, and I'm thinking about Nane, because Jay's married, your granddaddy. That's her. Yeah. She never gets on anybody's nerves.

Well, she does... Fair, people also object to being in subjection to Jesus. Correct. The same principle. That's right.

The problem is they're not going to surrender their will to anybody. But you heard Jay said a minute ago, he said, I would never mistreat my wife.

I mean, and you'd be the same way, right? I mean, like... Well, Ephesians 5, look, says something about it. You know, all the husbands get up on the edge of their seat when it says wives be submissive to the husband. But they should sit back and let their, you know, back hit the seat when it says, and you'd be like Christ who gave himself up for the...

In verse 14, it says, So I counsel younger widows to marry because it said if they don't have the control to keep themselves pure. He says, I counsel them to marry. I think it's interesting to have children to manage their homes and to give the enemy no opportunity for slander. And so when I hear something like that, so a lot of people say, well, how come she's monitoring what he's doing? I thought she's supposed to be in subjection. Oh, she's managing the home. and you're in it.

That's right. You know, my wife has come out and many times and said, you want to buy what? And she's like, that's just dumb. And I'm like, you know what? She's right. Well, that's right.

I wasn't thinking, well, I'm in control of this house. She called me on this. That was a dumb decision. I've often told husbands many, many times, if you have to tell your wife, you're the head of the house, you're not. You're not.

You're not. And all these people in the world who say, they'll sit down, they can't get along with a wife. It's a mad house. And then they'll tell me, I mean, I'd die for my wife. And I'm like, no, you wouldn't.

Because you won't live for it. You won't even do this one little thing. That's right. Your head can't get through the door. But then that's your go-to. You'll try to just, oh, I would die. I'll take a bullet for you. No, you won't.

Go get me a gun. That's right. It ain't going to happen. Laying down your life means more than just being killed. It means living your life for somebody. Well, that's the hypocrisy of it all, you know? What was you going to say, Jim? I forgot because y'all kept talking about it.

You've got to jump in here, Joe. Oh, I've listened to your podcast. Have you? Oh, yeah. Through Godwin's computer who sits across for me while I work, and he watches y'all's podcast. What you're saying is he's not quite producing the same thing. I've heard the podcast.

What I'm saying is the Jace is number one alpha, then Phil, and then Al, in that order. Because then I went over there and Godwin said, look at these comments. So I don't know if you read the comments. No, we don't own your, don't ever read comments. We never do. That's good advice. Well, that's just a general rule. Right.

So the number one comments was, Jace, please let your dad finish. Yeah. Chase, please, can we let Al finish a sentence? That's the number one comment on the podcast. Al sent me one email from this woman who said, will you quit talking? You had a guest on there. They go in on a morning duck hunt,

and for one hour they're arguing about the spraying, meaning too many decoys, not in the right place. This is not spinning over here. That's spinning. that was not, and they're looking at it, they're saying the few ducks come by, they don't come in. They're like, okay, here's what the problem. So they go out and look, they'll just tear out of the blind,

rearrange everything, get back on the blind. Then they'll hunt that for the next 30 minutes or an hour. They're like, no, no, I'll tell you what we did. We went too far. And they go out there again. I've seen them reworked the decoys, friends. That's called being a professional. That's it.

Y'all get your feelings hurt when someone disagrees with you, and therefore you can't reach your potential. Yeah. Sometimes we're right here, and they're putting the decoys way over there, and I'm like, y'all got the decoys where if ducks light over there, they're too far to shoot. Well, that was Jay. And Jason was like, oh, no.

I didn't agree with that. No, I didn't agree with that. But the wind, the way it is, the wind's out of the northeast, what they'll do is they're going to lie in between us. I want to say, like this pie. It's just like this pie. Well, the old pipeline. And the cypress lake hole, that worked.

It did. I put the decoys out there and Phil said, too far. And so I said, well, this is the dumbest thing because he's shooting the equivalent of a pop shooting. So what y'all realize, we have a plan. And it's gotten harder as people are getting long in the tooth, you know. So we get a plan to say, okay, you carry the seniors to the blind. I'll carry the decoys.

You get the car battery, hook up the apparatuses, and hopefully we can get all this done and under an hour, and I'm over and get some brush, and go ahead and brush this blind before we hunt. So all this takes, what, an hour and a half? Yeah. Every morning. To get, just to get ready to duck hunt, there's been many a man fall by the waist side trying to hunt with us. You had to lose 70 pounds and get in excellent shape just a bit, so you and Jay's could take care of all of us older. That's right. That's right. Stone went into back into military training and beyond. That's right. Way beyond.

Just to be able to handle the duck out. Phil nicknamed us Mutt and Jeff, which I didn't see that show or whatever. I didn't either. Comic strip. I don't remember what it was. So we nickname him and Cy, no country for old men. And I'm in between. Every day we heard, the old men down here, I'm in between and the younger, which aren't so young.

We're not that young. That's exactly. I have to admit, Cy's the only one that gets us all up because Sae literally does nothing. And he shows up, we haul him out there. He plops down and he looks out there and says, y'all got the decoys too far. You got the decoys too far? While we hunting this hole, I told y'all we should have a hunter down here.

He always has a... Who took my bucket? Who took my seat? It's this the whole time. And I'm like, glad you can make it, Cy. What people don't realize is, what they say all the time, people, my old friend, spouse said, boy, I sure do wish I could go hunt with y'all. I said, no, you don't.

you don't want to hunt with us. That's the last thing you want to do. What do you mean? I said it would be the worst duck hunting experience of your life. It's also, everybody's so stuck in there. So we're almost out of time. I want a dude and tell him Jay about you and Cy, Jay and Cy do a lot of fishing stuff together,

but y'all are doing a grill thing. So where can folks go to see this new grill thing? Are there YouTube videos? I want to let folks know about it because Jay is an excellent griller. besides Spacebook page. All right. It's got all of it. All right.

So go to there. They make videos. They're funny. That thing is. It's a cooking deal. Now it's handy here in a pocket on a shirt. Jay is our griller. Now even dad's like it.

He's like when stone's there. He's figured out how to cook old deer. He goes to an aging process. He's got a whole brine. And in there in there in there in there. They're basically you've got fire on them, but they're, they're slow cooked. But they're hanging. They're hanging.

they're hanging in there. You got a barrel. Smoker. He should have checked with me before he did that. I know. I know how to correct that problem. Don't shoot old dogs. Don't shoot old deer.

Don't shoot them. He's culling the herd, though, but he's found a way to make it delicious. We appreciate your contribution to society. That's exactly right. Welcome. Everybody welcome for Jay. That's really good. So we'll catch you guys.

Oh, one thing I want to announce as we close out here. So this is a Sunday podcast. So starting this week, we're going to be releasing because of severe demand for more podcasts, which is amazing in sponsorship, to four days a week. So we're on Sunday, Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Nobody asked me about that. They didn't ask me either. And your name's on the podcast.

That shows you who's running the show here. We abruptly in this podcast for an immediate meeting. For a week. Now he's really running the show. If we're not careful, we're going to turn this thing into some work. It is work. But it's good. work because we get to talk about good stuff.

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