Uncle Joey's Joint with Joey Diaz - #673 - Jennifer Lee Pryor
Episode Date: April 9, 2019Jennifer Lee Pryor, wife to comedian Richard Pryor and executive producer of the new documentary, "I am Richard Pryor," joins Joey Diaz and Lee Syatt LIVE in studio. This podcast is brought to you... by: Manscaped - Get 20% off your first order and a travel bag if you purchase “The Perfect Package” at manscaped.com and use the code CHURCH Hims - Go to ForHims.com/joeysc for your first month of their anti-aging kit for $20. While supplies last, restrictions apply. Recorded live on 04/08/2019.
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I'm getting old as a motherfucker kick this motherfucker muley. It's Tuesday the 9th of April the day the devil was buried at sea I
Got Jennifer Pry in the room. I got the Christ killer the original
And your uncle Joey bitches Marisa Arborado is also here
It's a party
Some
What's the story? Oh my god, it's a pleasure. Thank you. Thank you. I haven't seen you in a while
So that's right. It's a comedy story. Yeah, I've always been a fan of yours for many reasons because
Richard Pry's
Everything to me. I was always scared of this
Meeting with you because I'm gonna cry a couple times. Oh, no, I should yeah, he was everything to me. I mean
He saved me he saved
You know when I heard these albums as a seven year old eight year old nine year old
I was blown away by the language. Yeah, I'm Cuban, you know, they they don't let you say shit
and my mom was very
outspoken, you know and
Richard was introduced to me probably. I know that was about eight maybe nine and I was obsessed like that was it
You know when the main albums were the niggas crazy was it something I said and by Centennial early lap stuff
That was just that was just mind-blowing for a guy like me
And yeah, I watched the documentary Marisa said you were gonna go out and talk a little bit
I really appreciate you taking the time. Oh, I'm happy to be here. First of all without meeting you
I know how tough you are if I wasn't if I wasn't the situation
I would call you because I know you show up
That's right and a gallon of milk
We go back to back
When you're a comics wife, yeah, a real comic. Yeah, never mind Richard Pry who had
Major league demons. Yeah, I you're the toughest. You're one of the toughest women. I never know
Yeah, you know, I mean when I watched I am prior the documentary
I knew I am Richard Pry the documentary and I knew the story before you left and came back for more fucking abuse
Not that he hit you or anything. I mean the last
Yeah, yeah, I think you know, but it was
Just the ups and downs of the life of a comic. Yeah. Yeah
And most importantly the pain that he had that I really noticed it in that documentary
Yeah, that's the first time that while I watched something the richest I always cry
Yeah, sometimes I come here late night and I'll put on an album by Centennial nigga and I'll just cry
Because it's such a piece of my childhood. I
Overtook me from being a regular
Spanish kid to being outspoken and cursing and you remember the old fake new commercials chewy chewy chewy
Yeah, I would say chewy chewy chewy on the inside inside all that shit came from Richard like Richard
Sparked my sense of humor. What year did you meet Richard? Well? Well, he sparked your creativity
And your ability to and your need to express yourself and that's the beauty of Richard
I think Richard, you know change creative culture in that way. It wasn't just comedians who were moved by him
It was it was a lot of people it was actors and writers and artists and because he he spoke to the humanity and people and
Obviously he touched something in you very deeply
That allowed you to express yourself stuff that needed to come out and and you wanted to come out
but there was no way to
Do that and and you found the key and Richard was the key that unlocked that door. I met him in 77
I worked for him first and
You just answered an ad one day. No, no, no, no, no. He was
That friend of mine Lucy Saroyan William Saroyan the writer's daughter
She was a good friend of mine and she was working for him
She was also fucking him and and she was a consultant on his NBC variety show and she said he's just bought this house in Northridge
We got to fix it up. He wants it decorated. I need help
Can you help me and I've been working in Texas?
I was on the road with a friend of mine singing and songwriting and clubs and stuff and I got back and and
You know, she said you need a gig and I met him and the first time I met him August 22nd
1977 and I wrote about it. I fell madly in love
I mean his vulnerability and I didn't know much about his career, you know, I'd never seen him doing stand-up
Knew he had this rep, you know, Lucy told me he had this rep and he you know
But I I really was I was captured by the man
You know, I just was so touched by him
Of course, I'd I'd come to work and I'd come early to meet the workmen to do the house over
He'd come out every morning with a new woman
And I'm like, oh, he's he's got it going on, you know, I didn't care
I just wild horses couldn't have dragged me away and one night was my birthday
He gave me an envelope of coke and those were the days man, right?
And it was good shit too. Let me tell you and and he said you got to spend the night
I'm not gonna let you drive back, you know, I I lived in Hollywood at the time and
Lucy came in with, you know, coke rim nostrils
About, you know dawn sun was coming up. She goes we got to get out of here. Richard pulled a gun on me
I said, well, I got to be here in an hour anyway
I mean, I you know, I got to work here. So I'm I'm not gonna go anywhere. Well, she never spoke to me again
Because Richard came in right after she took off and he said, yeah, I pulled the gun on her
She, you know, she won't give me a blowjob. I mean, what can I tell you? I
You know, I kind of giggled and and he's he said listen my house is torn up all I've got can you help?
Can you stay? I said, oh, sure. I'll stay wild horses could not have dragged me away
I was I was there and I was loyal to him. Even then we were not dating. I was just adored him
He married Deborah in the meantime
He went through the NBC variety show Richard's life in one week is like somebody living in Nebraska
For 25 or 30 years
The the shit that would go down in one week in his life was so fast and furious
I mean, you you know, you had to hang on for dear life to keep up, right?
But yeah, he married Deborah and then he shot the car. Remember that incident?
He said you're leaving but the hush puppies bitch and not in my car bang bang
shot the tires shot the engine and she was in the car with her girlfriends and
I was back east visiting my family for Christmas and
I came back and was told don't not contact him. There's you know, he was in jail
I mean there's drama going on. He called me goes. Well, what the fuck? Where are you and
Again, we had not started, you know anything by then and and I said, well, you know, I was told to stay away
He said please come see me and from then on that was January 78
We were together and that he was huge in January 78 just off albums. Yeah, yeah
Yeah, huge, but I'd never been to the comedy store. So we're dating we go to Hawaii together
We come back and we're out on the town one night and
We're on Coldwater Canyon on the way back to Northridge. He does a youy and says I got a surprise
We pull into the comedy store. I'd never been to the comedy store
We walk in I don't say word. I'm like, where are we going? He goes, you'll see he puts me seat seated next to Mitzi
Goes up on stage and starts talking about candle wax on the floor
That's how no net Richard was he would work so
Spontaneously and he would woodshed. He was also so disciplined when he worked
so he started to him at candle wax on the floor and out of that he would spin
like alchemy this
Stories and would just come and then and I would start taking notes just spontaneously and
Every night we go to the store and he would
Take a couple of pieces from the night before
Expand on them and woodshed, you know the term woodshedding and then the next morning
We'd sit by the pool and we go over the notes and I say Richard
You got to move more talk more about women and love women love it and you know and at the end of
Six weeks
He had live in concert live in Long Beach. That was the first big one the first big one
Okay, he had done live in smoking at the bitter end. I mean the improv is sorry the improv in New York fucking menu by yes
That's some raw shit. That's the one that set me. Yeah, yeah, I started staying up
That's interesting found that one and I'll never forget going this guy doesn't and the funny thing is you look at the prices on the menu
Yeah, 25
Hamburger 10 cents for french fries, that's the one that fucked me up
That's it's so interesting to hear you saying that because every comic has their one
For you it was live live in smoking for some it's live in concert for some it's live on sunset
Well for me it was as a commute once I became as a fan. It was live on Sunset, right as a
Comedian he taught me what to do once I watch live and smoke really
Once I watch live and smoke and that one opened my eyes to
The non glamor side of comedy you always see curtains and this guy come up and bring you up
Richard it seemed like Richard just went up there off the cuff and somebody was taping him
Yeah, and it set me fucking on fire. Yeah, Michael Blum filmed that I bought that from him. So we own that now, too
Yeah, thank God. Yeah, that's when I came back. I had to started coalescing all Richard shit
You know his legacy. So now what's going on in January 78? Oh, well January 78. So it's rock and roll man
I mean, it is you know the comedy store every night
He he's you know, he he realizes he wants to
Divest himself of those demons that made him shoot the car and that was Richard's genius
He turned that that scene which was could have been really negative. I mean he was arrested, right?
What was what was the line? He said and then the cops came and they got guns too. Yeah, they don't shoot cars
I went in the house because they don't you cars they shoot. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, and and you know, he's he said
Let's turn this into you know, that was Richard's genius. He would take his
Anything bad or negative or painful and which is what comedians do that was supposed to do, right?
That's what you're meant to do if you're that honest, right?
If you can be that raw with yourself and exposed and then and then turn that into genius being exposed like that
It's really hard to do all the time
This is what I this is how I I mean
I understand Richard more and more as I get older and as I look at him in his work
You're walking a razor wire every day, you know it as yeah
And sometimes you fall off because it's a goddamn struggle and it doesn't matter. It doesn't make you bad
It just makes you makes you human. You struggle
Yeah, you might do some bad things. Yeah, he hit me. Yeah, he did drugs. Yeah, he fucked around
Where where that doesn't make him a bad man Richard happened to be a really good man. He was a wonderful person
You know, everyone wants to talk about his genius and I am more than happy to talk about his work
But I'm here to tell you also he was a good person
He was generous give you the shirt off his back
Help anybody he could I heard a story once about Adam Sandler
Fucking piss me off
he a
Homeless guy in a wheelchair was asking for money. He says man. I have to work for a living too
You know what Richard would have done would have peeled off a couple of hundreds in a heartbeat
You know, that's the kind of man Richard was
Even if that guy was maybe faking it who knows didn't matter. All right, so get over on me. Who cares?
He had such a spirit Richard's essence was good. He was a sweet guy
He was a sweet guy that vulnerability again that I talk of you know and the pain that he had that never left him
You know and yeah drugs they were at at certain points. They were his comfort. They comforted him, right?
It's like a couple of drinks. You can't drink the bottle
But you know you can have a couple of drinks or a joint or whatever you do
But you can't tip over and Richard tipped over obviously he went past that line
You know and that was only he hurt himself more than anybody any points in his career that he want to stop
Stop the coke. Oh, yeah, no, no, no, no
That was the thing that I was so impressed with when I watched him prepare a live-in concert
He was very disciplined. He would go to the store every night
Yeah, and then and then the next day as I said go over the notes and work on what he was going to do that night and
the afternoon he would take a nap and
Then I'd pick a wonderful piece of clothing for him to wear, you know, I loved dressing him in beautiful clothes and
He would go out and he would do the same thing again
He would you know woodshed, you know peel away. What was it working add? What was working find new material?
And it was amazing. I mean he he really he was very disciplined. Yeah, he was doing coke
I mean in a way, but it was not over the top. Who was at the store in 78 when you oh my god
Just like everybody was there. You know, well Robin was there, you know, yeah
Robin yeah, Letterman, I mean they were all there and and you know
It was incredible. It everybody was in awe of Richard. I don't care who was there with fame
Richard was the one when he got on stage
Everybody watched him and nobody wanted to follow him. Yeah, you know that can be right. Yeah, yeah
But it was you know and Mitzi of course was thrilled to pieces and you know what a character she was
Yeah, what do you think of her memorial by the way? I wanted to ask him. I didn't go why?
Because Cubans always Cubans are like fucking Irish. Yeah, I get so emotional and funerals that I start smacking motherfuckers
There was a fist fight at my mother's funeral
And there was a fist fight at that one and then the last memorial at the store
I went there was Marilyn Martinez and I threatened Jeff Valdez that night almost smack the shit
Oh my god, so I have bad blood with a couple comics. I knew I'm gonna be up there. Yeah, Jeff Jeff was there. He spoke
Yeah, I
Cherished Mitzi Mitzi was like a mother to me
But I knew if I would have gone down there. I would have smacked it was disappointing
Yeah, and I heard that he was there and he caused the scene so it was disappointing
I was supposed to speak on behalf of Richard in the big room and
I was cut out the way a lot of women were and
So I went in the OR and I said to who's Dice's girlfriend, you know, she kind of runs the show over there
Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I said Eleanor
Let me get up and say some shit because this is Richard's favorite room anyway. Oh, yeah, that was
Yeah, that was the room he adored
So I said, let me say some shit. Well, you know after she let 89 people ahead of me
I'm for course, you know, I got on and there were three people left in the audience
Which you know, I kind of felt insulted on on behalf of Richard and Mitzi because they had a serious bond
I recently well not recently, but I found out that that they had fucked and which was very interesting to me
Richard fucked everybody. Yeah, he did
Is that you knew it and you like you accepted it you said there's nothing I'm gonna do with this fucking animal
He's an animal. He's a fucking animal. You know when he gets off stage. Yeah, and he does what he does
He's gonna fuck. He's gonna snort. That's what's gonna keep him. That's right. That's what's gonna keep him there
Yeah, for me, I was not a good looking guy. So I couldn't fuck a lot of people but for him
That's who he was and you accepted the documentary you've spoken about yeah for years
Like you know, that's what because you loved him and I know he loved me. Yeah, I know he loved me
He called me one night from
Hooker's house and said Jennifer, I'm here with this woman. I'm telling her how much you mean to me
How much you love me, baby? I said, can you come here and tell me?
You know, but you know, I knew it was it was part of him that he probably would never you know
Forgo he would never give that up and it didn't hurt me sure it hurt me
But it never devastated me you looked at it for what it was what it was
It's part of the game
You know, I get it, you know, it was it but I knew he loved me, you know
And I'd I'd been around the block some you know, I've been with some interesting guys, right?
But I never felt loved. He was a nice dude Warren Beatty. Oh Warren was a good dude
I did one of his movies and he was a director. Yeah, it was on last night and I saw that movie
The last one he did that he directed about Howard Hughes Howard Hughes
Yeah, so I was one of the gangsters that was supposed to draw him out of the hotel and shit
But he talked to me was a gentleman. I was an awe like this is shampoo
Yeah, like explain the people who the fuck Warren Beatty was exactly in 1970. I don't know
He was the man. He was slinging more dick than richie
He was slinging more dick than richie. Hi. He was he really he did
That's a they were friends, you know, oh Richard was friends with everybody. Yeah, they all yeah
I think Richard drew people to him. You made a comment a couple months ago
That destroyed me on the ends not it didn't destroy me
But uh, like that week two articles that come out about him. Oh, Brando about Brenda. Oh, yeah
How did you guys meet Brenda? Well, you know, actually the truth is that I just found out from a friend of mine
Where they met and it was at Reds Club on La Brea
Before I knew Richard
Because people are saying how do you know that's for a fact?
Well, I wasn't there so I don't know it for a fact
But I can tell you this much if Quincy says it because Quincy doesn't pour the tea like that, you know
And what q's taking so much shit for that. I mean he still is taking shit for for saying that, you know talking about Marvin Gaye and
listen
You know Richard love pussy. There's no question about it. He wasn't gay
Hey, you know, sometimes a mouth is a mouth is a mouth. What are you gonna?
You know, I'm when you went listen what I said was
It was the 70s when you sort enough cocaine you fuck a radiator and the flowers in the morning
You know, so but Richard didn't have a lot of shame about it
And I think that came from his childhood
You know when when he saw everything was allowed, right?
Everything went on in that whorehouse, right? He was also molested as a kid
And that's like another whole other topic
But you know, Richard didn't carry a lot of shame about it. I mean look what he said to the Hollywood Bowl
Oh, shit. Yeah, he had told me about that a couple years ago and then I saw it in the documentary
And I almost passed out. Yeah, he's like, I've sucked a dick before what he's saying. He's like, I've sucked a dick before
Yeah, but you faggots aren't nothing like well, where were you? Yeah, where were you when watts was burning?
You know, he was pissed off and there are a couple of different stories about it
but the one he told me was he saw
The the locker group the dance group the lockers being mistreated
With some bigotry and racism
um in the dressing rooms
And it really pissed him off and it was supposed to be
um, it was hey, it was titled human evening of human rights
And he realized that oh no, this is all about gay rights
So what's going on here and they're mistreating some black people here and he really got pissed off and he just let them have it
You know, I mean, that's Richard. That's vintage Richard. That's vintage Richard. That's you supposed to you know, that's what you're supposed to do
You're supposed to tell the truth. So I suck some deaths. What's the big deal?
You know, I mean god bless him, you know, I loved
Out of this documentary what I really loved about I am Richard that
They showed Richard starting off and kind of
Navigating to the cosby thing who that's a man. I can't fucking stand. I never fucking stand them
I can't stand them
I like the one I'm because he talked about buck buck and we played buck buck as a kid in New York City when I came from Cuba
That's a game that you stand on the wall and then everybody holds their wastes
And you go with your ass out and then so there's five people and then five people
Have to jump on the human chain and break it. So you pick the weakest person
Who's the weakest person and you get on top and you jump on top of me and then we start beating that person
Or if it's a woman, we would squeeze the tits, you know until ah
The chain breaks then you do it again
I like and we play hot peas and butter go get your mother you got to hide a belt
Oh my god, and then you're walking. I'm like you're hot. You're hot
You're hot. So if there's kids down the corner and you get the belt you get the whip them all the way to the
Metal belt. Oh, yeah, we got down in the early 70s. So that's the only reason why I like cosby, but I really
I think that that part really was for comedians to know
That yeah, you play the game the first six or seven years of comedy. That's right. You play the game. You play this fucking stupid
safe
Game that's right, especially when you come here
Yep, the fucking agents tell you well you have to go up there and paint the picture of your sitcom
So like when my space came out, you know, my yeah first reaction was in my space
I'm like, I wanted Richard Pry was alive alive. Would he go home and get on my space? No
He'd be snorting coke and getting his dick suck. So I'm not getting on my space either
But then social media took over and you had to
But I liked the part that
One day he said fuck all this. Yeah
Fuck all this nice guy with a suit and a tie. Yeah, you know trying to
be fucking
Martin Luther King jr. Up on stage. I'm gonna fucking go for it
Yeah, and he started talking about drugs and the wine. Oh that wine on meets Dracula. Yeah
That's something that's like well that that's a pivotal point when he goes to berkeley. He walks off stage in vegas
And that is that's why I love the documentary too. I love that too because it really
Shows his evolution as an artist his growth and and how he became richer prior
I am richer prior that is
We all want to know where was it? What was the key and the key was berkeley
It was the first time he was hanging out with smart black motherfuckers too
I mean ishmael reed and cesil brown and the panthers
He saw that there was something else besides this, you know, this the one-trick pony the jokes and the the bullshit that vegas
And he was making a nice living
So for this young kid to finally kind of you know follow and and cosby's by the way
I agree about cosby can't stand him and what I say about cosby is clean on the outside dirty on the inside
And richard dirty on the outside dirty on the inside different. Yeah, and that's the difference
Oreo cookie too. I mean come on, you know, he's really you know does not it not a truth teller that man
Why didn't like that years later when I got into comedy?
He did something in colorado and I was in the room
I walked in and I was only sure if I was gonna say anything to him
And he started talking about dirty comics. Are they not really comedians? Oh, god
He was on that kick meanwhile. He's dosing women with fucking kwayloon
Meanwhile on 87
One of the girls from the show lisa bonnet did a sex scene with mickey rock and she had him fire
He had a fire from the mbc show this to let you know the fucking hypocrisy
The fucking cosby was all when lee went down to see him and I was kind of pissed at lee like don't give that fuck
This is before the rape allegation. Yeah peter lee paid a yardstick and went to san diego and i'm like
Don't go see that. Yeah. He's an embarrassment the fucking cop. Well, he started lecturing everybody, you know ebonics
Why is everyone talking talk real english? I mean and hannibal burris?
He was the one that brother was the one who finally just said why are we listening to him?
He's a rapist ban that caught fire. Didn't it that little shitty gorilla video that somebody took grainy fucked up video
That just caught fire the poor guy. I think I think it marked him too. Do you know what I mean?
I think he got love hate for that
I think a lot in the black community no matter no matter they can see some it's like what trump says
I can kill somebody on fifth avenue
His base wouldn't give a shit
It's the same thing about cosby and sometimes african americans look at look at jackson, right?
I shouldn't go down this road. I know but don't do what we're doing. I mean, you know, it's just sorry guys, but
Right is right and truth is truth and wrong is wrong
So, you know, if somebody's wrong and they get called out they got to deal with it
They got to deal with the truth and boy. I tell you that cosby. He's he's doing a hard time jennifer. Did you smell his pain?
Richards. Oh god. Yes. Did you smell it? Oh
Still I still do I still do
I you know
He just went through so much
He suffered
That's why I just I was so in love with him. I mean he's just
He wore it all. It was right there for you to see
And the way he would connect with everybody. I mean the rednecks. I reach your prior you really, you know, I mean
People didn't like black people
Kkk listen to Richard prior. That's right. Deep later tonight. They would listen to Richard prior. That's exactly Richard prior was the one
Now what killed me the
Back to pain like I saw my mother my mother had this my mother had to leave her daughter in cuba my sister
And my mother would be Richard prior all day suck my dick. Let's do a blast. Let's do this
But about 2 a.m
That's when they couldn't fake the funk no more. That's when Richard pulled out the guns
2 3 a.m
That moment
When you got up to go to the bathroom
That pain would show up you'd come out and see I still have it
Yes, but that pain is what drives a great comic. Yeah
The more the pain the better the fucking comic
And if they touch on it like when I drive to the economy store at night, I don't put music on
I go into my thoughts and I go into painful moments for myself
You know my father dying. I'm finding my mother on the floor, you know
The first time a girl told you she cheated on you
You dip into those places truth things that really, you know
That think truths that you found that about yourself that you're not
All that pain is what makes me be go up on stage and be a fucking animal. That's good
Like I but I got that
And I noticed in all the documentaries I've watched
Richard wore his fucking pain on his sleeve. Yeah
Richard's pain was right there and I think I do the same at times like I feel it
I dated my wife for about a year and a half. Can I tell you that?
I thought she was okay. I liked her a lot until
My wife is naive as can be she's from Tennessee
She's irish and she figured me out. Well, no, she said something to me. Nobody had ever said she said
I could tell that you were raised without a mother. I didn't know whether I want to kick her in the stomach
Or kiss her
But that opened up my that just made me a good comic when she said that to me
I had had 2,000 friends that never brought that up
And I always saw that with Richard like
In his movies that those little pauses and there's a video of him that he's coked out to the gills
Doing an interview. Hey, that's what I have. Yeah, I have those moments of manic
Where you can't control what comes out of my mouth. It's the pain is too much and I really don't give a fuck
It's like the night he went to the hollywood boat. Yeah, he didn't give a fuck
He didn't care about the consequences. No, and that's what a comic does. Yeah, we do what we do
And there's no consequences. Yeah, there's no consequences. We just did it now. What bitch
Make the next move. What's your move? You got no move that I'm gonna keep doing it. You know, that's it
That's what was interesting about Richard that I really always loved even
When he did that we were talking about that thing with the lighter. Yeah live on the sunset. Yeah, I know what your mother fucks been saying
He's yeah, yeah, yeah, this is Richard probably walking out of this with the theater
I still remember that the whole movie theater died. Yeah, he threw the shit up. He just
Turned stand up around. Yeah did something that was he did
He did you get to meet Freddie Prince? I never met him. He was gone already. Yeah
Yeah, he was gone
What year did he die?
There were
Richard's guns terrified me. I mean, I didn't like guns around but Richard had guns
He died in 77 77 guns. I don't keep them
Accessed
Richard pulled a gun on me. Yeah. Yeah, because that's why I will not know. Yeah. Shit happens man. Yeah
Because I will pull it out. Yeah by mistake
By mistake. Yeah, something happens. Yeah, that's the schedule's not on time. Yeah, you know, it's about the smallest thing
Yeah, it's not Richard got manic about the smaller thing. Yeah. Yes. It's not the big thing now. Bali. Yeah, it's a small thing
Yeah, that's when you look at him and go, why are you going crazy over this? You can
That's our mentality. Yeah, that's our little comedian. We have floors as comics. Yeah, musicians have floors
We all have little floors
Richard brought them up. Richard wasn't scared of exposing them. No
No, the more flaws the better. When did you meet paul mooney?
Shortly after I mean, I met paul when I was in that period of time when I was working for richard
He would come out to the house, you know
He was always, you know
bitchy
you know paul was
you know
paul was paul
I told you before I had a love hate thing with paul, you know, because I I saw sometimes how he
Well, let me tell you the last time I saw paul
We he was being richard was being honored at the writer at the director's guilt
And he was in a wheelchair and paul came in
And was was unkind to richard. I'll just say that
and um
Didn't come to his funeral
um, the love hate thing I think was always somehow in balance
But at some points it went out of balance
And paul would become very jealous of richard and bitter. I mean, you know his comedy
He was, you know, he cleared the room. I mean mitzi had to blackball him from the store. How many times?
Oh my god, at least 20 times
You know, and then she'd let him back in because he could empty a room
I mean not to say that some of his stuff wasn't great. It was
But he you know, he was he he would pick at you. He would pick at you a little bit. Yeah
He would pick at you. I mean that was his genius though. That was his other genius like that he would
Not not pick on you he would
Try he would push the line. Yeah. Well the race thing
I mean he would really go after you for the race thing, you know and
You know and and it was sometimes just out of balance and out of whack
I mean you gotta you gotta laugh with it too, man. You know, that's what richard was great at
He pulled the covers off black people same as white people
You know and and he made you laugh at it too. Yes, there was some angry
stand-up routines
angry comedic routines richard did
Regarding race
But my god, it was it was that stuff was insightful, you know
I you know, I I just wasn't a paul mooney fan
You know, I I wasn't because I because I love richard too much and I David banks on the other hand
I love David banks. I love David. David banks still alive. No
David banks said the funniest
Fucking thing. He's a funny mother fucker up at the store. He would have that cocktail
David banks was supposedly richard manager, correct? Yeah at one point. Yeah, yeah
David banks started coming around the store when I was a regular. Well, he was he had been going up there
And I went to the store one night
And he's up there with that little glass
He would have that little glass of whatever the fuck he drank with his ice cubes, right?
And he would jiggle the fucking glasses
And one night arcenio
paul eddie murphy and johnny gill
We're at the store by the light by the comedy store line, right and david banks go and arcenio, I think I just asked her any
I said, you know eddie paul and david banks goes cuba
Watch this. He walked over to me. He goes. So one of you niggas doing the queens of comedy tour
And the fucking
He sucked the air
He hit the nail on the head, huh?
Oh, there were so many things I laughed at with david banks and paul mooney
I remember one night some white dude
Pulled up behind with a convertible and music really loud and when he stopped the car paul mooney looked at me
He goes, what a fucking shame with these white motherfuckers
Acting like negro's
And he turned around and walked in I was fucking dying. I was like, I never heard that before
but
Richard that the documentary that's what I stuck out the most of was
How much you love them? Uh and I know
What it takes to really love a comic. Yeah
My wife I met my wife and we were like kind of off and I tried to I tried that comedy sucked my dick routine
And she didn't play for it and then
I had to call her and take her on a date
And I didn't have enough money to take her on a date and I called her up one day like an 11
And woke her up and I said i'm coming over to eat
And she made like fucking corn dogs with red beans
And i'm like, what the fuck is this? But I was so hungry. I was starving comic
I had to eat it, but that's what made me fall in love with her
She out of all the women I was dating at the time she always
scared
Yeah, she kind of uh
Just had the same thing you had for richard and I could see in your eyes. I mean you fucking will scott clear
And you came back for more. I did. Yeah twice, right? Yeah. Well, yeah, I have a little bathroom real quick. Keep asking
Yeah, I I came back. Um, well, you know richard recycled women, right? So after
we divorced um
In 82 I moved back to new york and um
We stayed in touch the whole time, you know, we would
I'd see him when he came to new york
Uh, it was he trapped me down in paris one time and and said I got to see you, please
And uh, I flew to la and he picked me up and he had little booties hanging from the mirror
I said, what the fuck of those richard?
And he said, oh, I just got this girl pregnant and I knew richard. I oh, shit
You asked me to come back from paris
So that you could
Flop these little booties of what the hell
And of course that was flin and he married her
He actually married her twice too, but um, when people want to know which wife I am I say the best one
Where do you guys have your first date?
Oh the first that first date was actually, um, before he shot the car when I was working for him
He said by the way, I've got to go to this thing with um, uh, uh, a united nations, um event
Um, would you like to go with me?
And it was at bevelly at the bevelly willsher and not the bevelly was the built bevelly hilton
And um, I went on the date with him and david franklin his manager and and he was
Fucking linette mckay at the time. So the four of us had a double date
And uh on the way home. It was very nice. It was very polite stuffy dinner
And on the way home linette mckay started making white jokes
And that you know, I I couldn't believe it. I mean the tension the tension was so thick in the car
And
He walked me to my house and he apologized. He said I am so sorry for linette mckay making those jokes
And I said it's okay richard. Don't worry about it talking about it my first date with richard
And um, and it was very sweet. It was like a real date, you know, he picked me up and dropped me off and
And I had to apologize for linette mckay's uh racist comments and he was just he was just a sweet motherfucker, you know
And as I said, I've been around the block and I just you know
Basically, I felt kind of tired of it all. I'm like I wanted love. I was looking for love
and I found it in richard and
What I found about myself when I came back
I mean first of all the 80s we were back and forth a lot, right and then in 89 he did um
um
Sino evil in new york and I worked with him on that
And I said to him richard, why are you walking like an old man? Then that's when he told me he was diagnosed with ms
at any rate
In 94 he was in new york doing a um
Something at the apollo. I went up to see him at the helmsley palace
And he was drinking, you know water glasses full of vodka
And pills lined up and I said richard you're gonna die
He goes, oh, oh, he said i'm in trouble and deborah was in the room that that wife from before
And she wanted me to go downstairs and get the the white lady price for a diamond ring
That was deborah. She was all about her jewelry
And I went downstairs and got the white lady price and richard bothered this ring and i'm looking at this scene thinking
You can't make this up. But you know, he's drinking and pilling and everyone's the locus had descended, right?
And he said jenny i'm in trouble. I'm in trouble. I need help. Would you come back?
I said, whoa, I got to think about this. This is the summer 94
Actually the spring of 94 and I took a couple trips back and forth. I talked to my father who was an attorney
Dad's gone now, but brilliant attorney. He loved richard, by the way
Kind of cut out the same piece of cloth
um
And I thought long and hard about it because you know was never going to be easy with richard
But when I came out and I saw
More of what was going on in that hotel room at his house
He wasn't eating. He was on an ivy in his bedroom and there was a cook cook and three tiered cakes and everybody
walk it out with the food and
Bitches counting money like it was vegas. I'm thinking what the fuck is this?
And I realized I had to come back. I loved him and I couldn't watch this
I found out about my own profound sense of loyalty
Besides the fact that I never stopped loving him
I what couldn't let him go down like this and he had guns hidden everywhere
There were guns under sweaters in his closet guns under the bathroom sink
Guns under his pillow. I mean fucking brand new barrettas in the box and shit
I don't know anything about guns except I hate them, right?
I'm like, what the fuck are these guns and I knew
That richard intended to go through all his money with all these horrible people just going through it
Then he would go to kill himself
I knew that
And I said not on my watch. I'm coming back richard. I am coming back
And I came back in the summer of 94
a couple months after I had made this decision
and it was such such chaos and
It was just two years of putting things in order and one of the first things I did was take all those fucking guns and that fucking
Ammunition took that ammo down a Ralph's one morning put it in the dumpster at four in the morning
One of his bodyguards said that was good ammo. Why did you do that?
I'm like what what good ammo? Excuse me. What does that mean?
So I took all the guns which by the way were all in their box brand new
I mean every kind of gun and I went down the bb gun shop to it's no longer
But in the valley I sold him out of the back of my car
Guy said you can't sell them in the shop. You can sell them out of your car lady
So I went and I sold them
I I did a transfer as legally
But um, I got rid of those fucking guns because I knew what was planned was the gun because of the cocaine paranoia
I think just a natural I think it was kind of a natural
You know
Embedded paranoia that he had. I think it was a macho thing. I also think he had plans for those guns
I know he did
So I came back and I fought like hell, you know, I got rid of all the riffraff. I lowered the child support payments
That's the way they all came at me, you know
Flynn had a trip for 20 people planned first class to Maui cancelled
Debra had a condo Richard was going to buy for her
325,000 cancelled
You know Richard needed his money to live, right? So I I closed the bank a prior
And let me tell you something that I'm so proud of that because yeah, it took some balls. Let me tell you
I got threatened by the housekeeper. I know people who can have you killed. She said I said
I bet you do bitch 9-1-1
Oh, yeah, I mean I had a restraining order on some of those people
One of the wives won't say who I mean it was rock and roll. How many people were out with the hands out?
Oh, man. Oh, man. Oh
And he was such a good guy give it to you easy peasy Peter Bogdanovich the director
I found a alone a piece of paper. I called him up. I said you owe Richard some money you pay up
um
Johnny gill
Money they all had their hands out and Richard was sick and he was like and people who were smarter than me
Supposed to be watching the farm or not. I'm talking business managers. I'm talking lawyers. They were stealing too
I fired all of them the business managers. He begged me. He said fire that business manager
He's stealing from me and and the lawyers who had him, you know, $65,000 retainer a month for what?
He's not working anymore like that. Yeah
What the fuck is this money just hemorrhaging?
You know, my father helped me navigate a lot of that too
I had to get lawyers and and new people on board
But that's when all the wives and children went crazy too because I closed that bank like bam boom bang closed
Finished the money's for Richard to live
Motherfuckers and I knew the plan was Richard was going to run out of money and then he was going to off himself
Not on my watch
And he lived 11 and a half more years
Indignity and love now when I got into comedy
It was to live like Richard
It was to live like Richard, you know
I wanted to get off the coke in 2001
And
It took me six years because I was scared that I would lose the funny
Yeah, I was scared that I would lose my craziness. I was scared that I would lose that age
That edge. I was scared of so many things
But when I just couldn't
Carry that. Yeah, you know, I've read
Richard's books. I've read, you know, hollywood henderson. Yeah, but hollywood henderson unbelievable story though
He won the lottery twice that motherfucker
I just I've still fresco connie nelson and she hangs with him and she said jennifer
He's he's turned out to be the nicest guy because richard used to run. We used to hang with him. Yeah twice
He said that it is one of his books. He said that he would go
And pick the point and sisters. Yeah, and richard up at the comedy store
And they would free base for fucking days
I mean, they were the kings of the free base, but I also heard an interest a really weird thing
I want you to clarify. I don't I don't know if you were around. You were around
Belushi. Yeah
They said that denaro and robin
Yeah went to the store true to pick up richard but richard had left already. Yeah, so then they walked over the shack
Oh god
richard wasn't there
Richard was not at the chateau. No. No, thank god
No, that was that was robin's and denaro's thing. Yeah
That was horrible. That was horrible. That was really awful
We all heard about that. We all heard that tea very quickly and in real time, didn't we?
I mean that shit spread like wildfire. What's that?
That's truth about belushi and how he died and that kathy girl that the dealer
So it was when you met richard, richard was not free basin yet. No, no
That started when like in the 80s that started
Yeah, the fire was june 9th 1980. Okay, the foster. He was already free. So he yeah, he started that
When he was working on uh, right before stir crazy. He started that
And I came into the house one day and i'm like, what's what's that smell?
He the first time he did free base. He lit the mattress on fire
I mean, you know richard was an arsonist from back in the day. Me too. I love arson. I love it
I like should have been born jewish. I'm telling you. I could light shit on fire like anybody
I love it. He started fires and he was a kid. I mean that you know, but I said richard
And we dragged the mattress into the bathtub
You know it was but he that shit and I did that with him for about 10 days and i'm like i'm out
I can't you know that shit. I could snort and that was and I could keep that under control
This shit was like, what kind of high is this? It's like someone took a mallet and goes wap
You're not you're you're just non-composimentous. You're not
Thinking you're not aware. I said, I got to get out of here richard and anyway
I wrote a poem to richard. I said richard. This is not working
Said the way you made love to me was a shame and a disgrace your ice cold heart chilled my soul. Your woman is free base
Free base had moved in
That was the woman it was it took my place
Which broke my heart and I got out. He said take all that jewelry off bitch on your way out
What did you leave the first time?
Well, you know, there were a couple of incidents that I you know, I'd go away for a few days and I'd always come back
But this was the biggest thing I had to go
And I asked jim brown for help and you know jim kept giving me lip service and no it's okay
Just you know go away
And I came out
The producer of stir crazy called me and said richard has to shoot some pickups. They were back in town from tusan
Oh my god, the city scenes in tusan with the feds
Oh lord
But we're back in town
He had to do some pickups and he refused to do him because somebody had thrown a watermelon a member of the crew
And richard it was a real racist thing to do
So richard was furious
So I went out to the house and there was a mound of cocaine on this antique child's desk
And thank god
I wasn't doing anything at the time because if I had I would have said fuck you richard and I wouldn't be dead
I woke up in the morning. I stayed the night. I woke up and he was
Blowing through that pile going through that but smoking going through the pile
And I said I got to get out of here. He said nope and he grabbed me by the throat
And he was going to strangle me
Somehow I got free. I sat next to him and I just talked him down
He said you're going to die this morning and I had a cross around my neck and I held the cross and I looked out
Failed catholic than I am and I said god give me the words
And I said richard just calm down. She's like law and order, you know when they calm person down
Just give me the gun. It's okay
Calm down everything's going to be okay
And he calmed down and I made a beeline from my blue corduroy pants
I picked them up and I left went to the kitchen
And
A richard said, can you bring me some oxtails and beans?
I did I went into the kitchen got some oxtails and beans that one of his aunts was cooking and brought him back
But the next time I came out to the house was when he set himself on fire
And he said it's going to happen
He said you need to leave because it's going to happen to you too and richard never made an idle threat
never
And I thought okay, you know
So I went to the kitchen
And there was a bodyguard there and a couple of you know a couple hangers on an ant or two
And I said richard's going to hurt himself
And they said get out of here great little crazy white girl, you know get out
By the time I got back to him. I had an apartment. I had taken in in Beverly Hills
I called the house. I called Jim. I said jimmy's going to do something. He he poo pooed me
Dismissed me
called the house
And auntie answered and said what and I said i'm just checking and all of a sudden she's screaming
richard's then running through the house on fire the phone drops
Yeah, I made a beeline for the hospital
Hollywood Presbyterian he went to first and I talked to the doctors and I said he's loaded on coke and and he's just
Vodka and freebase. Don't kill him. You know don't overdose him with morphine
And that the family was there furious with me because I was telling them the truth
And then he was moved to the burn center
And then you know the rest is history
I mean it goes on from there
Yeah, he lit himself on fire. Uh, he poured that 190 proof rum over himself and torched himself
He saw he said there's no way out for me. I did motherfucking chocolate chip cookie. Yeah
In the milk and the ship blew up
That's
The comedy. Yeah, you know, that's the comedy. That's right. I'd shit. No, he lets you have it and then he fucked it
The other bit. Yeah, let me tell you motherfuckers. No, really. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I was
When I dipped the chocolate milk or whatever the fuck, you know, that's yeah
I was I was a young kid and I was just distraught. Yeah, like
This guy I love. Yeah, he's doing
What they were doing at my house Richard prior was doing except my mom wasn't free basin
She died in 79. Thank god. She never got to that free basin point
But she was stored. She had a bar. She was Cuban. She was an alpha woman. You know what I'm saying?
She she beat up the husband the step on the my stepfather through a cigarette that one night
He waited till she went to sleep till he went to sleep
She took a catholic figure and broke it over his fucking head
And that motherfucking had a piece of his skin hanging off a Cuban woman, you know, it's worse than an Irish woman
And the next day usually when a man leaves your house, right? They leave shit just to come back to maybe
He took everything
Screwdrivers and tools
Like there was no everybody leaves something to come back a week later. I forgot my towel
Never came back. So
Yeah, I'm done
When Richard lit himself up. I didn't know what to do. Like people were making fun of me
Like your hero lit himself on fire. I didn't know what to say. It was like, I I just didn't know what to say
Yeah, and then
That I think it was sunset strip. Yeah, he came back came back with sunset strip
He came back what people don't know about that is that we shot it in two nights, right?
The first night he had a bag of dicks first night. So you do now walked off stage
Yeah, and the second night he killed it, but they did have to do some pickups on that, you know, ray stark
Produced it and he he wanted some pickups on that and um, yeah, so and but it was good
I mean he he he came clean again, you know talked all about it
With the red fucking suit with the red suit. Yeah
With the red suit friend of mine designed that
Yeah, well that was tailor-made to the team. Yeah. Yeah. Oh, yeah, custom made. Oh, wasn't he? Yeah, yeah
And like was there anybody black at the time that didn't analyze Richard? Oh god
Jim brown you just dropped some names. We're talking about
Hollywood had this in the point is this news. Yeah
I mean, it's just endless. Well, you know, when he took me over to sammy's for the first time
I mean the way sammy looked at him too and sammy was older than him, right?
So it was kind of a little father thing going on there
But with such love with such adoration and and amazement too at the same time, you know, kind of because richard was
Richard was doing things that nobody else was doing really, you know
But sammy was sammy loved him too. I mean sammy was
You know sammy was a
Was somebody who was always there for him. Yeah
So you leave you clean now at the time when you like how long were you guys separated for?
Well, basically we were separated by a we divorced in 82 and I came back in 94
But I um, you know, as I said, we were back and forth a lot, you know, he'd come to new york and call me and
You know, I I you know, we we never really stopped
Seeing each other stopped loving each other. Um, I mean, I went on I had other boyfriends
I tried to have a life without him, but not everybody paled in comparison. I mean, you know, nobody could follow richard on stage or off
You know, nobody and um, I just
Yeah, I couldn't shake him. I just was madly in love with that man, you know
And I miss him to this day. I talked to him. I'm like, you know, sometimes I'm pissed off like you're supposed to be here, motherfucker
Where are you?
sometimes he visits me
And uh, I feel his presence a lot. You ever smell him?
I do. I smell him. Get that old smell back. Yeah
Why do you remind you of your dad? You said your dad had a little fucking skeleton
Well, my father 100 irish brilliant brilliant lawyer civil rights attorney rock on tour
Great fucking sense of humor womanizer
Could polish a bottle of whiskey
Very similar man, you know, and my father, you know, my father had his own demons
You know, he he's slugged my my mother a few times and my mother had mental illness and that's a whole other story
But they eventually divorced but uh, but I love my dad
and I think I learned from my father that
Bad you can do bad things, but that doesn't make you a bad man. My father happened to be a great man
I I worship him to this day. He did great things for a lot of people. Did he slug my mother?
Yeah, was was was he a prick sometimes? Uh-huh
But he was a good man
And and that's what I appreciate most is, you know, people get confused. Well, he hit you. So he was a bad guy
No, no, sorry
Well, he did drugs. Uh, sorry
no, no
Richard wasn't a hypocrite. Richard was honest, but Richard was a good person
So these these flaws don't make a person
A bad person make they just doesn't it doesn't
the I didn't I I didn't know
much about Richard, but the thing that that
Strugged me and
Was he happy like just like the the documentary just a lot of sadness came through and it did it it makes me sad that
That someone who's so funny would be so sad
Well, I think that you're sitting next to somebody who can talk to that too. I mean, there's not nothing fixes them
Nothing fixes them. I can tell you that on stage is where Richard
Was like gills on a fish. He lived. I mean, he came alive. He was offstage. He had a hard time knowing how to live life
That's real
Happiness, I think was very elusive. I think there were moments of joy
Did he understand the biggest question for me was did he understand how loved he was?
That's the big question. Did he ever feel loved?
You know, I know he felt loved by me
But by the masses by his fans. Did he ever feel the impact that he had?
And I think that as he sat in the wheelchair as he got older and this disease took more hold of him
the disease of ms
I think that Richard
Really came to peace
Came to acquire a sense of peace about his life and about
Being appreciated and being loved
I think that that maybe was one positive thing about that damn disease
Was that it gave him
He didn't have a choice. He was sitting in that damn wheelchair
And he had to face himself
He couldn't run away anymore. He couldn't run to the drug
To the whiskey to the pussy. He couldn't run any way
Aware any more away from it. He had to face
So one of the things I think he had to face was that he was loved
But I think he did acquire a sense of peace about his life
I'm 56 years old
And I think in for three years. I've finally been comfortable living in my skin
That's what i'm talking about and my daughter that little girl
Has really played a big part in me being comfortable in my skin, you know
When I was hooked on the coke
You know, I was booking movies. I was booking. I was at the mitts. You would give me spots four nights a week
But that that nothing to do with that once you get on fountain and make the left
To go home. Yeah reality sets. Yeah, you're a fucking loser
Your mother did drugs, you know, you followed the drugs. You went to prison. You got a g ed
You know, all those things come to play. That's right. Never mind what just happened on the stage never mind
You just ripped that fucking original room to shreds. That's right. All those things come back, you know
And then you have to put them into place. That's right
For years I used the drugs to put them into place, you know, yeah
It just you know, I tell people when I was doing coke
I would go to pee and I refused to look in the mirror
I would not look at myself in the mirror if I had to walk through the bathroom
I wouldn't look at a mirror because you don't want to see yourself. Yeah somewhere along the line as a comic
And it made me stronger
Getting off the coach
Of dealing with that shit dealing with I tell people all the time you got skeletons
You gotta deal you gotta let them out from time to time. Yeah, how do I let them out on that stage? Yeah
Did Richard go to a psychiatrist ever?
He was mandated to by the legal system after shooting the car
Dr. Cannon
Who since passed away
Um, I didn't like dr. Cannon much because he took advantage of Richard
Richard started giving him money for this charity or that charity and then the okie doke sets in right
So no real work is getting done. I got a therapy and it's it's I love it because it's a support system
You get to look at issues in your life in your work
You get to learn how to navigate them better. You just get it
You know for me, it's really important to to have therapy and I know what therapy what it takes
It takes honesty and it takes a degree of courage
And I think that Richard just started to buy the shrink and the shrink went for you know, it got all fucked up
But his psychiatry was the stage
I'm sorry his
Psychiatrists was the stage
Sometimes when I think of this material absolute. That's why I don't go talk to nobody. I want that stage now
And this point in my life. I want to go up there and get it all out. I say everything
I don't give a fuck no more
I was looking for a job when I found this one when I was 40
I had to be careful about what I said not anymore. Good. I'm gonna retire. You know, I'm going out with this fucking wind
I don't give a frenchman's fuck. That's good. And I'm from the school of Richard pride. Yeah that stage
That's good to hear is your psychiatrist. Yeah, you know, listen, I'm a fan of kennison
I'm a fan of bill hicks. Yeah, you know, I love andrew, you know
I love uh, there's a lot of comedians. I love
But nobody's set the tone for me
Like richard
Like i'm not trying to emulate richard. I have the same pain
Oh, I'm gonna see that Richard has and that makes me a comic. Yeah, like that pain getting in touch with it
You live your life going through for years. That's right. You don't know what the fuck is bothering you
Richard saw a lot of things that a lot of seven-year-olds
Shouldn't say should say no a lot of eight-year-olds
Shouldn't see that when you're eight nine your world should be universal city
Yeah, you know donald duck you should be protected not being outside getting guys to come into your grandmother's
Thing, you know while his mom was hooking his grandma raised him. He had the support system
But I think it was his grandma that really oh, that's a double-edged sword. That's a double-edged. She she was a nurturer
But at the same time she had a grip that was iron. It was an iron grip
What was your name again? Uh, Marie Marie Carter. You better. Oh, yeah, I met her. I mean there's a snake
Oh mean it's a rattlesnake, but I understood her, you know she listened she grew up during the jim crow era
Come on. She's not she wanted richard to marry
Oh, come on
The black actress thank you Pam greer Pam richard would tell me had a golden pussy
Really richard? I don't need to hear that
She had she had the best pussy ever like okay, and me angel pussy over here, please
No, he she she wanted him to marry Pam Greer and she called me the bigfoot motherfucker because I'd wear cowboy boots in the house
And she'd hear me
She you know, I get it. I mean she said she sent a maiden once with a two by four over my legs
Smashed it over my legs and the bitch got on top of me and started strangling me
housekeeper
She felt I disrespected her who is this fucking housekeeper, right?
She threatened you that hat. Well, this is this is this is another housekeeper
This this housekeeper was somebody who worked for john slesinger. I was friends with them john and michael and
anyway, I had her in the house and and
When the grandmother was at the house she ran it like the whorehouse like a whorehouse
I mean she so I disrespected her richard and I've been doing coke all night and richard said she started
Calling on the phone some was coming up. She he says tell her we're not we can't take the call
And she thought that was disrespectful
And she sent this woman in with a two by four smashed it over my legs bitch got on top of me started strangling me
and
richard finally like saw oh
I think she's killing her and she threw her through got this woman off me
And I had some shit to say to the grandmother
But richard made me leave the house. He said you have you have to apologize to the grandmother
so she was
Someone to be reckoned with
I understood her though, you know
I I really did I you know, but growing up like I mean living in that
Look what she had to do to survive to help just support everybody to but she was um
When she died richard really
richard started to come apart
Because it was his own it was his it was the only nurturer he had, you know, really how was his relationship with his mom?
Very tortured, you know, she would she abandoned him. She was alcoholic
She would come and go
But then of course he had to choose between the grandmother and the mother
And they put him on in court on the witness stand and he had to choose
And he had to choose the grandmother. You betcha
and he did
But you know, it was it that was a pain that he never got over
I mean, how can you get over that? Right? And the father was a real task master, right?
And of course he does routines about his dad and how tough he was
Buck buck was a pimp in the whorehouse. Yeah, buck
And uh, yeah, he's he used to say to me. I'm so glad you didn't meet buck. He would he would fuck you in a minute
I'm like richard
Your father he goes. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah
The second time you went back with him. How when we you were together till the end? Oh, yeah
Oh, yeah, when I came back in 94, I drove cross country with my two dogs and all my shit and everybody was else
I told you just taking advantage and living 20 minutes down the freeway and they were all cussing me out
I said, well, you're 20 minutes down the freeway. Where were you? Where the fuck are you?
So I drove cross country and I you know
That was the summer 94. I pulled into his driveway and I rented a house right near him
And I made him sign a employment contract because I you never knew with richard, you know
Sometimes he would just upset the apple cart because he could
So I'm like, listen if I'm giving up my rent stabilized apartment on beekman place, motherfucker
I am you better give me, you know some security here
and it took years just to get things in order and
We bought him a house and I told you I closed the bank of priors
So, you know, we could organize it and then we had to take care of him physically
So it was rehabilitating him financially
physically
And uh, and we did the box sets and I went after drowson and won that lawsuit
Chased him. So I started to organize everything
And as I told you that people who were smarter than me should have been doing it and we're not and they were just gone
Oh, no, they were they were they were taken what wasn't nailed down, you know, for the last time we've spoken about richard
And I don't like second usually I don't like second
party whatever
But there was one other special person in this relationship. It was you you're very very special jennifer
Thank you so much. You're very very special because they don't make women like you no more
Women see heat now and there's a divorce box a little controversy and there's a divorce or he called me a contact
I can't you have to look farther than that and you had the wisdom
That you seen past the comic and the money and the coke and the limos
Oh, the party was over when I came back. Oh, was it? Oh, well in that sense
I mean, you know, it wasn't it wasn't rock and roll anymore. Was it it was it was hard work now
It was like let's clean up. Let's coalesce the legacy. Let's do the hard work now richard
You know, you're sick. You're you know, that's when that's what real love is isn't it?
I mean, that's when the shit hits the fan the rubber meets the road, man
That's when you find out who the fuck you are and who the fuck you love, you know inside my wedding band
I had initialed the
To the wheels fall off. Yeah, that's me and my wife's
Favorite thing that's what it comes from bob dillon song. Yeah, yeah when the wheels fall off
And I look at you and I see why I love my wife as much as I do
Because like I said women come and go with this fucking life. They come with money
They come with this
You know how hard it is to be a comics wife because at first you see the comedian on stage
You don't see the guy that that's right. That's moody. That's right. That doesn't wakes up in a bad mood
That doesn't want to talk at night that doesn't like politics that wants his clothes a certain way
And one of the socks is fucking certain way and you know, I got home yesterday and my wife had the clothes was washed
But it wasn't put away
But for a minute I said something to her like a who the fuck am I to say something
She's fucking fight with a six-year-old. I'm fucking that but I wanted to bring you on because
I don't think nobody's had a benefit for you nobody's
Ever given you the credit that you deserve
For taking he would have been dead
Listen when he came out of the hospital in 80 that time, you know
To explain to people that don't know what cocaine was in 1980. You know, we've just seen this marijuana revolution
Exactly. One day it was a shoe store. Now. What's a pot store now? There's two pot stores in the block
We saw what cocaine did
Unbelievable to a society. Yes, like this. It was like a case of the fucking measles
You know, they said that the plague killed how many people in the game. Yeah, the great plague
Cocaine was a great plague and people like richard, you know, the first time I tried coke was october 79
Something I was totally against
Something I was totally against
And one day I went to the basement and I went looking for something and I saw a bail
And I wanted to bail and somebody had left something so my mom could watch
And I took a rock out and put a little aluminum foil and I put it in my desk
I didn't say nothing to nobody for a month
And one day I played hokey with some friends
And I said, let me bring the coke with me and we ended up doing it and sprinkling it in peppermint schnapps and vodka
Calling them snow cones
We were drinking it and snorting it and till this day. I'm still friends with the guy. I did it
But not to take that off one minute
People were smoking pot and doing acid. Yeah, and the next minute everybody was doing coke. Everybody was strong
And I can't imagine
Yeah being richer prior and people putting it in your hand. Oh, yeah
People just putting it in your hand. You're with your pride. They were bringing it in the hospital when he was recovering from the fire
And he was doing it. Oh, yeah
in the hospital
Yeah
That's real
But he did get sober he did here and now sober
Do yeah, he did he did
so
He got out of the hospital june 9th 1980 was a fire he got out in uh about six weeks
and
He had a handler come and stay with him a male nurse
to kind of watch him and you know, but he was like this with the shit, right? And um
and we got back together
that
Christmas we went to hawaii together and then the following summer we got married
um
And he was he was sober then
he actually smoked
some weed and in hana
At our house warming we had we had built a house down there and he goes
He saw he got paranoid and I kind of talked him off the ledge
And he said, you know, you're so good to me. You're just always good to me. Will you marry me? And I'm like, oh
I don't know
Because I was kind of dating somebody, you know, I was trying to trying to get my feet back on the ground, you know
And and I said, all right. Okay. We married a week later
Of course, he came back too soon though. He came back and started doing that dope and robin and he started running together and
Partying and he was woodshedding for the live on sunset
And we moved into true stale rented a house there. So he was close to the store
But he started, you know doing doing the coke again
and
You know marriage got rocky
ended
but he
he um
He got sober eventually and then did here and now sober
But it was always rocky with him, you know, it was just always back and forth guys like him will never be so
Like guys like me can never be sober. It's just well, you don't do coke now, right? No. No, no, no
You drink a little no no drinking smoking addables. Okay. I'll take a xanax
You got a viking and pop it
You know, somebody gave me in pittsburgh this weekend. Somebody gave me a bag of wheat great guy ven
I went back to the hotel. There was two colana pens and oh, wow for fiar and titties
Well, I looked them up and then muscle relaxers, but they got caffeine in them. Oh, man
You know, I put them away. My drug was kwayloons, man. Of course bill cosby had all the kwayloons, didn't it?
Fucking bar guard. I had no idea about that 714 express that man
I I tell I even tell my shrink you didn't do a kwayloon. That was that shit was the bomb
I got one saved at the house. Do you buy it from you?
I took the guy gave me three of them, but I took it one day by myself. I hear you can still get them
I don't know. No, no, no
No, there that's a that's a heavy-duty
At the end he died clean. Oh, yeah. Oh, yes. Oh god, joe
Yeah, you know, he died. Listen, I was so proud of the carer that we took of him. He had a feeding tube
Usually you have a feeding tube for one year
And they die from it six years
He had it and that's how well we took care of him because that damn feeding tube you have to clean it
You have to change it. You have to I mean it is a thing. He was on dialysis the last year of his life
That's really, you know, he died of heart failure, but the kidneys were shot the kidneys what did it?
Yeah
No, I saw him he was done already when I saw him he was
Yeah, but he wanted to go back. He was in the wheelchair. It was his idea. It was his wheelchair
And he won and 96 he was doing not 95 96 he was doing spots
I was living in seattle and coming down and I would never even go to the store like priors down where I'm not even gonna go down there
Oh, I wish you did I could I filmed it. I we've got it on film
And some of it is is good, but you know again, I'm repeating myself now, but it was heroic and tragic at the same time
Both it was both brave of him to want to do that
And also tragic because he's not the predator stalking the stage anymore that great powerful
You know wonderful energy that he had in spirit
So you saw him compromised obviously very compromised with this with the illness
But the fact that he still wanted to do it
Said so much to me about what kind of man richard was
And he still was funny. I mean he got a lot of funny shit
In there too. It wasn't just you know sitting up there, but he had it would hold this martini glass
And he would I don't know how he never spilled it
It was just it was it was an art holding that glass with the martini full to the rim
Not and a cigarette in one hand, you know and doing his thing. It was beautiful
I know it makes you sad to think of but on one hand, you know, it was a thing of beauty
That he's that's where he wanted to be
No, I'm not sad about it. It's balls
That just added to the richard prior
People would say to me, how can you let him do that? I said, whoa
Get it straight here. I'm not letting him do or not letting him do richard wants to do this period
We're doing it instead of hiding in a closet somewhere. Come on. We're supposed to hide
He wanted to go out all the time. He'd go to the movies. He'd go to you know, we go at the dinner
We'd go to places we go to events. You know, we always went to the slaughter stuff the comedy awards
You know always going out there, you know
Always I had a funny story about richard
I heard that towards the end he went up to the store one night in a wheelchair
And there was a funny black comic up to the store at the time
He called them over and the guy thought like, you know, I'm the next richard richard looked at him
Said get close and richard when the guy got done. He goes stop doing my shit
I don't know if it's true. That's interesting. I'm not gonna mention no names, but I heard even at the end
He was that sharp. Yeah, he took the the cover came over like yeah, richard. What's up? Yeah, like what's up?
Doing more shit. Yeah, good. I'm glad. I'm glad
I just heard a robin story that was interesting. Um, howie mandel
Told the director this it didn't make it in the documentary. I wish it had
Um, he said that he went to the store one night and he saw richard doing this routine
God comes to visit and asks richard if he can speak to robert kennedy
Sorry god, he was killed
Well, jack the brother. Oh, no, well, he was killed too
Well
Martin Luther king
Oh, sorry god
Malcolm X
No, I'm sorry
I
You could hear a pin drop
That's what richard's genius was too. He didn't always have to be funny
And that's something to remember too is comics. You don't always fucking have to be funny
Hannah gatsby the new new girl
That new girl comic female comic. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. She's she's breaking some molds too that I think are very interesting
Same kind of thing. You don't you don't always have to be funny
But so howie runs into richard on a plane. He says richard that routine
Where god's asking you to speak to all these dead people
Why'd you stop doing that that way you you had everybody mesmerized? He said because robin started doing it
It's a true story. It's a true story. It's a true story. Yeah
Jennifer you always got a home here. Thank you. I've enjoyed it. I've enjoyed it too. I enjoyed you
Listen, you made me go through a roller coaster of emotions. Good
I was like I said, there's just some people that
I never wanted to really meet because I loved them so much. I would fall apart, you know
When I saw richard, I fell apart when Muhammad Ali's daughter said Muhammad was on his way to the combi store
I got my car and I peeled the fuck out of there because I didn't want to
But richard's one of those people that if it wasn't for richard, I wouldn't be in this office
Well, I can say you got some of his dna
Yeah, no, it's crazy. I can say that. Yeah
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And like I said, if you ever just bored and you want to talk some richard stuff, all right
I love to talk about richard. Yeah me too. I love all this shit because I know you have
10 more hours in you. Oh and there's two hours that you don't even remember. I got to give you a couple martinis
Oh my god, there was another time when he told war baby to suck his dick
Exactly, I love you. Thank you very much. Thank you so much. Thank you very much. All right. I want to thank jennifer
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