Unexplainable - The alpha myth
Episode Date: April 10, 2024The researcher who popularized the idea of the alpha wolf has spent decades trying to take it back. Our friends over at Pablo Torre Finds Out try to uncover how science got it wrong. For more, go to ...http://vox.com/unexplainable It’s a great place to view show transcripts and read more about the topics on our show. Also, email us! unexplainable@vox.com We read every email. Support Unexplainable by making a financial contribution to Vox: bit.ly/givepodcasts Please take a second to help us learn more about you! vox.com/podcastsurvey Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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All right, it's noam.
This is unexplainable, but we're going to do something a little different this week.
A few months ago, we did an episode of our game show with Pablo Torre as the guest.
Damn, I knew this whole episode is about my mom.
It always ends up being about my mom.
Damn it. That's Pablo, and we loved having him on the show so much that we wanted to share an episode of his show this week.
The show is called Pablo Torre finds out, and it's one of my favorite podcasts.
Birds also a huge fan, too. It's ostensibly a sports show, but Pablo really just finds out about everything.
Culture, data fraud, international politics. And on the episode, we're going to share this week, Wolf Science.
It's all about this idea you're probably familiar with, the alpha. You hear it all the time.
in politics and business and sports.
And Pablo says it comes from one particular book
written by a wolf biologist named L. David Meach in 1970.
But there's a big problem.
Here's Pablo Torre finds out.
This book, okay, the most influential, most cited part, though,
is the part that establishes the idea of the alpha wolf.
This is where it comes from.
This tome, this thing that spread out across America,
and the world to inform what it means
to be dominant, to be masculine,
to be the alpha male.
And the issue
with this book and its research
is that that part
is wrong.
It's wrong?
It is completely wrong
according to the guy who wrote
the book himself.
And the problem has been
for decades now
that nobody
will listen to him.
So you're,
We're going to listen to him.
Well, I'm going to listen to the guy we sent to listen to him.
Who did you send to listen to him?
The resident alpha in our office.
So you sent me?
That doesn't make sense, though.
I would have known about this.
As much as your polo shirt suggests that you are both an alpha and also the manager of the worst radio shack in America,
there is someone.
Stop laughing for this.
Jesus Christ.
And he's waiting on the other side of the soundproof glass.
And he's waiting on the other side of the soundproof glass.
Very good.
Bradley Campbell, thank you for taking on this assignment and drinking, which you just confessed off microphone, to be dandelion tea.
Thanks, Pablo.
No, I appreciate the embrace.
Yes.
Yes.
You are a valued part of the Metal Arc media community.
You are many things.
What you are not known as by the various people on the other side of this glass here is an alpha.
No.
No.
I keep my past hidden.
That's right.
That's right.
I don't know if they appreciate
what I'm about to show
the people watching
on YouTube in the Drag Kings Network
because you now, Bradley Campbell,
are like short-sleeved, button-down podcast guy.
You're a narrative podcast producer.
Yeah, I'm the reporter.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I'm the guy at the coffee shop ordering a pour-over.
Absolutely.
Yeah.
Before, though, you were this.
And I just need a stress
that your hair is shorter.
your quads are Godzilla-sized.
There's so much alpha in you, Radley.
Like, how old are you in this photograph?
I mean, I'm 18.
Where are you?
Because you're running a tank top
and the shortest shorts showing off those quadsillas.
And you look like you're a part of the fucking super soldier program.
Oh, yeah.
That's like 180 pounds of Trump rally.
Just coming at you looking at that photo.
But now I'm at the Dallas High School track.
I'm running the anchor of the 4x100.
A relay.
Vains pulsating.
How does one look like that?
I mean, well, that was, it was hay bucking season.
So, like, after I was done with tracking the meat,
we go over to Mr. Hatfield, late Mr. Hatfield's, like one of his farms.
Because you're from rural Oregon.
So super rural Oregon.
Dallas, yeah, just like Texas, sort of bigger the buckle,
the closer to God sort of place.
To pick up extra money, we'd buck hay.
So we just roll around in field.
Buck Hay, toss it up on the back of a trailer.
and do that, I don't know, two, three hours after all of our workouts.
But yeah, you just, you get gagged.
Yeah, gacked is absolutely what is next to this photo in the dictionary, right next to
another term, which we conscripted you to investigate.
Because you, hey, hey, Bucker, former high school track athlete, quarterback, all of these
things.
We sent you back out into nature, into rural America.
Yep.
to investigate how it is that we all became obsessed with the idea of the Alpha.
Yeah, you guys send me out to the great state of Minnesota,
out to St. Paul campus at the University of Minnesota.
That's where I met our main character for the story, Alpha Dave.
My name is Dave Meach.
I'm a senior research scientist with the U.S. Geological Survey.
and I've been a wolf biologist since 1958.
He's amazing. He's 87 years old.
You wouldn't know it, though, super sprightly.
He walked up to, not walked up, he bounded up to the second floor into his office,
pushing desks and tables around to get our shoot going.
Baller.
How is it that this 87-year-old man became the forefather of the alpha wolf?
Oh man, he is the preeminent wolf biologist. And it goes all the way back to 1958.
He was a PhD student at Purdue University. And he was tasked with going to an island called Isle Royal.
It's an island in Lake Superior. And he was there to track timber wolves as part of a research study for his PhD slash dissertation.
But he had the right, you know, kind of resume for it.
because he could guard Carl Anthony Towns.
No, no.
I don't know if he got.
I wouldn't put it past him.
I wouldn't put it past him.
But no, no, no.
I think the biggest reason is because,
one, he had the brain for it.
He went to Cornell University,
people's Ivy.
That's right.
They have an ag school.
They do.
Is it the only one, I think,
with the ag school?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
God bless Cornell.
I mean, we're not, we're not having an ag school
over Harvard University, Bradley.
Come on.
We're not bucking hay over there.
So, anyway.
He had the brain, but even more importantly for this, is that he had experience beforehand
trapping bears.
Trapping bears.
Yeah.
So he would go out into the woods, had a whole method for how to stock bears in order to tag
them.
And this is before the era of dart pistols and dart rifles.
So how is this man?
Yes.
Wrangling a bear before the advent of all the technologies that I would have seen.
assume one would use to trap a bear.
You've seen Looney Tunes, right? Of course.
You know, like the old school traps?
We would, you know, bait them and set them out in the woods along old forest roads.
And when a bear got caught one of those, then we had to subdue the bear, drug it, and put ear tags on it.
His team would jump out, wrestle the bear, grab the bear's feet, essentially, to spread eagle the thing.
And then get up close and then knock the bear out with drugs by hand.
A bespoke bear drug.
So I do want to point out that this Dave Meach character, the scientist, who is the preeminent
wolf researcher and apparently an expert bear trapper, himself, major alpha energy so far.
Oh, huge, huge back in the day.
which made them the perfect PhD candidate to set loose on an island to track down timber wolves.
Which are for people who only know the timber wolves through like, I don't know, NBA.
Drafting three point guards before Steph Curry?
They're a lot scarier than that.
Yeah, Johnny Flynn's like jump shot.
So anyway, our royal is this undisturbed place that had a pack of timber wolves that one day,
They came over on an ice bridge, they believe,
to inhabit the island in hunt moose.
Wow.
So he is there to research these wolves.
This is like him, in a sense, finding his calling.
Oh my gosh.
He's in seventh heaven.
He would have been, like, bound around the island
pretending to be a wolf.
Like packing stuff.
He would pack food, pack around,
and then go as far as he could,
set up camp, try and track wolves.
the whole summer.
So I'm imagining this badass
who in order to study
the wolf must become himself
the wolf. Oh yeah.
But the biggest difference between
trying to wrangle a bear
and trying to wrangle a timber wolf
would be what? You can't find
timber wolves. So he spent the entire first
summer there tracking these timber wolves
but it was kind of like tracking ghosts.
But ghosts who leave shit behind.
So all he did that
entire first summer was just run around
track Wolfscat, collect it, and then study it to see kind of what they ate, what their diet was to guess.
But all he wanted to do was find a wolf.
And so he got the idea in the wintertime to hire a pilot and get up in a Cessna and track him in the sky.
His name was Don Murray, and he was an old bush pilot that actually had been hunting wolves as part of what he did.
So it was handy to have him around because he knew.
knew, you know, quite a bit about wolves and all.
Wait, so, so the pilot was a wolf hunter in a literal sense.
Yeah, dude.
So this is, so scientist plus man who's trying to generally kill the thing that he is studying.
Right.
They form this duo that travels around looking for their targets.
Yeah, it was almost like a bad buddy cop movie.
But the pilot was really good because if you are hunting wolves from the sky, which I learned,
you need a pilot that can fly really, really steady
so that when you aim your rifle or shotgun
out the window and shoot them from the sky,
there's a good chance that you can hit your target.
But it's just funny moment where it flipped from,
you know, here's this pilot going out there
flying, trying to track down wolves,
then all of a sudden here's the researcher,
just sitting there and just kind of looking out, taking notes.
Slowly.
So, yeah, you can imagine what the pilot was thinking too,
but I think they ended up forming a pretty good,
bond until Dave asked him to do something where the pilot was like, dude, no.
What did Dave want him to do?
Well, they were up in the plane one time and they saw a moose kill.
So a pack of wolves had just taken down a moose.
And Dave was like, oh, I really want to get close to it.
I really want to study this thing.
The pilot was skeptical about letting me get down on the ground with the wolves.
You know, at that time, wolves were considered pretty dangerous to people.
In fact, the Park Service made me carry a small revolver just a gun,
just in case I got into some trouble with wolves.
This is a good reminder that even the guy, the badass hunter, of wolves,
he's like, you need to remember what a wolf is.
Yes, and at that time, these were thought of as just these pure killing machines.
Right. I mean, I grew up. We all grew up with these fairy tales, right, about the big, bad wolf, and the wolf was always the villain and blowing down pitting pigs houses and dressing up as a grandma, eating kids. This is rooted in this fear. All of this fear. Generally, they were considered creatures that we shouldn't have around and that should be wiped out. In fact, Isle Royal was one of the very few places that they survived on at that time. Most places they had been wiped out of the country.
but eventually the pilot relented
and then landed the bush plane
and they had devised kind of a plan to
if the wolves were to attack him
the pilot would dive out of the sky
and try to scare him. I don't want a Monday morning quarterback
someone's wolf survival attack strategy
but that seems like a terrible idea.
Yeah, I don't know if it was the best
or most thought out plan
but it's the plan they went with
and so Dave's out there on the ice
walking toward this moose kill
And he gets closer and closer, and it is just, it's gore everywhere.
Think like Tarantino setting.
Like, it's that level.
A lot of blood in a moose.
Oh, yeah, and it's just, it snows everywhere.
So he's got blood on snow, which even if you've had a bloody nose in the snow, it just looks like a massacre.
Well, I might be a little bit hesitant around blood, like days of biologists kind of used to it.
So he just went there and then just started examining the kill.
Suddenly, the plane started coming in low and kind of diving the tree.
trees a little bit. And I thought, what? Maybe the wolves are coming back. And I looked up,
and here were two wolves charging towards me, maybe 100, 150 feet away or so. Then I realized that
maybe I was in a little trouble. And I wondered, should I film these wolves coming towards me,
or should I grab the pistol? This is when I'm yelling at the screen during the horror movie.
Dave, there's an obvious choice here.
The science.
Pull the gun.
What are you doing?
Yeah, the guy was scared.
I mean, the wolves, like we said,
they were thought of his killing machines.
And he's sitting there with these two options,
and it's just going through his head.
Are these killing machines?
Are these something else?
I decided to grab the pistol.
I had the camera in one hand,
and I grabbed my pistol,
and as I pulled it out,
the wolves saw me move,
and that startled them.
And they stopped,
turned around and ran away.
And then I felt kind of foolish
because actually they were afraid of me.
And that was the last time
that he ever packed a gun.
He actually thought that it would be more dangerous
just to have a gun on him
as he was hiking throughout the island
than to just walk around in the wild
with timberwolves around him.
So Dave, his eyes are opened
for the first time
as to actually
these nightmare creatures
are more complicated
than it.
might actually seem. Yeah, definitely. And also in that moment, he realized that he made a mistake.
He's a scientist. Yeah. And so he regretted the instinct to be a hunter. I think in that moment,
he realized that he made a mistake. And Dave's a guy that owns up to his mistakes and is like,
it's okay. If you correct him, it'll be all right. But later on, he would understand that there are
are some mistakes that no matter how hard you try, you can't correct.
Right.
Right.
And so Dave Meach, this true believer, this man who has his eyes open now for the first
time really, to what wolves might really be, he's confronting this mistake that brings us
directly to this book that's been sitting on this desk.
So this book titled again, The Wolf, originally published 1970, this, Bradley, is the text
that Dave Meach brought down from this mountaintop.
And it was where and how the alpha wolf concept took off.
Like, this is where we trace it to.
Yeah, yeah.
Research.
Totally.
I mean, even at the start of the recent national championship game
between Michigan and University of Washington,
yeah, they were talking about how Jim Harbaugh likes to play videos
of predators hunting to his team to get them fired up.
And he says the most lethal set of predators are a pack of wolves hunting.
The perfect fighting unit to me is a pack of wolves, you know, a wolf pack.
And you see them, you see them gathered together, you know, before the fight.
You see them together going to the fight.
You see them together in the fight.
You see him celebrating after the fight.
And it's just like, nah.
A descendant, though, of this book.
Like, that is the through line, right?
Yeah, or people that never read the book.
So what did the book actually say?
Well, the big thing in the book is that Dave wanted to write things that were right.
What he had to do was he had to review all the other literature about wolves.
It was out there.
The famous one was out by a German behaviorist named Rudolf Schnemkel.
And this guy had studied wolves in captivity.
And he was really interested in this thing called pack dynamics.
But to make his pack to study in captivity then,
Schenkel just grabbed a bunch of wolves from different zoos
and threw them all together into an enclosure
and considered that a wolf pack.
The idea was that all the wolves were together
and just thrown together in some random group.
And then there would be a fight, a competition, a battle
in order to get to that top spot.
And once they reach that top spot,
through aggression, through dominance, through just pure...
Ass kicking.
Yeah, ass kicking.
Haybucking.
They would be called the alpha.
And so Dave looked at this previous research
and realized it actually matched up
to what he witnessed on Isle Royal.
There was always one dog that was the lead dog
and subordinates behind it.
So he was like, oh, okay, it must just be the alpha.
This is just kind of how things work.
The alpha dominates the others.
They saw it in captivity in Germany with the study.
Yeah.
And now Dave is seeing this on Isle Royal.
Actually, the quote,
in competitive situations,
dominance takes the form of privilege
for dominant animals showing the initiative
and claiming whatever is desired.
There it is.
Yeah.
I can imagine, so this book comes out again in 1970,
just the way that so many finance bros
must have felt so justified.
Oh, yeah.
In this description of,
my privilege comes from,
my dominance.
Oh yeah.
And you can imagine finance pros love it too
because like the alpha wolf actually walks with this tail up
so other wolves can sniff its ass.
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah.
I mean, anytime you can biologically justify butt sniffing.
Oh, Wall Street loves that.
Oh, they love that stuff.
They love that stuff.
But by the way, so too broadly did like America
did people in the marketplace for books.
Like this thing took off.
It did, it did.
I think this one's like the fifth printing.
This one I think is from 1987.
Yep.
This is printing number five, which means that it gets bought and sold over and over and over and over again across the world.
And all sorts of schools everywhere.
Even in small town, Dallas, Oregon, that little rural town that I come from, fourth grade, we were learning all about wolves.
And a lot of it came from that book.
No, it's an actual sensation that informs and influences scientific thinking, trickles down all the way to a little Bradley Campbell.
Yeah.
Can't wait to get those muscles pumping in honor of the alpha wolf image.
Firewood isn't going to split itself.
And it cements every instinct, I suppose, we have about, oh, this villain in all of these fairy tales, the big, bad wolf.
Yeah, it was essentially True Squad or the whole thing.
But within this book, while most all of it is correct, there was one major problem, this massive error about alphas.
And it's one that took Dave about 30 years to fix.
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Okay, so I'm just doing the math here, right?
So 30 years for Dave brings us to about 1999.
Yeah, height of total request live.
America at its peak.
And we have Dave Meach, the number one wolf researcher in the entire world.
Yep.
The man who has at least five printings of his super influential tome, the wolf that establishes
and teaches America that the alpha wolf is a real thing, that these are dominant animals
claiming what's desired.
That's the quote.
And then he realizes that he has f***ed something up about this seminal research.
Yeah.
And it just starts eating.
way at him. I began to realize that rather than strange wolves coming together and fighting
and one becomes the alpha and all that, it's not the way it works. I'm imagining Dave Meach
like in the shower one day, this true believer scientist who still is like stressed out
about whether he should have pulled that gun on that wolf that was about to kill him. Like that guy's
like I have made a huge tiny mistake. A nightmare, a nightmare for Dave Meage. So, I'm a nightmare for Dave Meage.
there's no fighting or great competition to become the top member of that group, the dominant
one, but rather it just happens naturally.
And therefore, the term alpha does not really apply because the term alpha implies that there
was a fight, a battle, a challenge, a competition to get to the top.
And with wolves, that's not what happens.
It's just a matter of just like humans, a male and female mating.
having offspring. Oh, God, it just hits him again and again, and he continues to do research and
continues to bolster this fact. And he just realized it's not just a bunch of random wolves
coming together, but it's just a family. That's it. It's a family. And honestly, he said it relates
a lot to a human family, where it's like they raise their kids, then their kids grow up, then they go
off and they find a mate, and they make families of their own. They come together, a male and female,
and as they reproduce, they automatically become the dominant members of the pack,
just like a human male and female, a mother and father, become dominant to their offspring.
There's no battling.
There's no battling.
No, it's just a mom and dad.
That's an alpha parents.
This is for so many people for whom the alpha male was a way to either get back,
at or become their dad.
This is a cruel bit of scientific poetry.
Oh, my gosh. Yes. Yes, it is.
So just to be very clear here for our listeners, because we're establishing something that is
staggering and radical.
The alpha wolf.
Yes.
Is what?
Horses.
But the next question I have, then, given the way that horseshs it tends to smell.
Which you know how horseshs smells.
One of the few animals in New York.
I've smelled rats and dogs.
That scat, familiar with.
How did Dave tolerate this for so long?
This is a huge existential concern.
This guy is a true believer.
He cares deeply about correcting mistakes.
And this was not, I mean, it was horsesh, but it was not a lie.
He just got it wrong.
And so how does this sit with him for so long?
How does he go about fixing this?
He went to fix it in the most scientific way possible
by publishing a journal article in 1999.
And he challenged the whole idea
and brought to life the truth about what he learned.
And then he's like, okay,
settled it with scientific community.
Let me now change my book.
Right.
And he tries and he's like,
hey, we have to fix this.
It's completely wrong.
But the publisher was like,
no, we can't do that.
And he was like, no, then just stop selling it.
Like, you need to stop selling this thing.
But it kept on selling,
and it kept on selling.
Pauline.
Past 1999, past 2000, past 2010, past 2018, all the way up to 2022, it finally went out of publication.
This part is incredible.
Yeah.
The idea that Dave is doing the rare thing that so few public intellectuals of any kind ever do,
which has raised their hand and say, not only do I want to correct the record, I would like to stop profiting off of this.
And the publishing machine, why don't they help him make?
the record correct.
I reached out to the publisher
and they said they
only comment on books that are being published.
Right.
But anyway, then I talked to another...
Big book. Yeah, yeah, big paper.
Big paper. Total big paper response.
But anyway, then I talked to another
friend who is in the publishing world
actually involved in Bill Simmons
Book of Basketball publishing.
And he said it's a lot less
nefarious. There are just
a lot of pages here or
It's just a hell of old technology.
Oh.
Books.
Printing.
Printing physical copies.
Yeah, you can't just go in and quickly get into the CMS and edit something, scrub it and fix it and boom.
Like the change never happened.
And so this is sad also.
Yeah.
Because Dave is losing control of this creature.
This alpha.
Yeah, he can't put it back in the cage, man.
We know this from just living.
From living in the present.
Being in the sports world in particular.
where this is everywhere, dude.
Oh, it's LeBron James, who can't stop referencing alphas.
He's talking about how Anthony Davis needs to be an alpha.
To be able to get, you know, a young, hungry, you know, alpha male to go out there and just do the things that he do.
It's Dionne Sanders, coach prime, firing up his, firing up his football players.
Dominance.
To be dominant all the time.
Let's be dominant.
Let's prepare to be dominant.
in the weight room, in the classroom, at home, in your meetings, and on this field.
We got that?
Yes, sir.
All right.
It even goes out to a brain supplement.
Oh, yeah.
In order to get an alpha brain called alpha brain.
Yeah.
That is promoted by Joe Rogan.
Of course.
If I go to a UFC and I don't have alpha brain, I panic.
I take it before every podcast.
I even oftentimes take it on the air just to let people know.
Like, I really take this.
Look, I got to admit here, like, Joe Rogan doesn't.
bother me. Like, he does some good interviews.
Like, his one with Rick Rubin.
Okay.
Solid, solid interviewing. I'm not here
Joe Rogan on trial.
My old alpha is like, oh, hey, Joe,
how you doing? We can talk about squats.
About, about Joe Colts.
I do, though, want to speak to
the person who was actually
on trial.
Who also embodies this whole
alpha scheme.
He's the one that took it all the way off the rails.
This dude, Andrew
Tate. If you guys want to
what it's like to be an alpha male.
I think Andrew exemplifies this
more than just about anyone I know
because he just does whatever the fuck he wants,
he says whatever the fuck he wants,
and he gets whatever the fuck he wants.
And that, you know, in my definition, is what an alpha male is.
He turned this into like a quasi-religion.
Yes, called taitism.
These are the 41 tenets I believe in.
I believe that men have the divine imperative
to become as capable, powerful, and competent
as possible in this life.
I believe that a man's life is difficult
and he has a sacred duty to become strong,
to handle such difficulty.
I believe that men have the sacred duty
to approach everything in life
from a position of strength.
So this is where I have to point out
if you're not familiar,
if you were in fact blessedly unfamiliar
with Andrew Tate and Azouvra.
This is the dude who got arrested in Romania.
Prosecutors in Romania
have filed formal charges
against the controversial influencer
Andrew Tate, his brother Tristan,
and two Romanian associates.
The charges include rape,
human trafficking,
and forming an organized crime group.
and those trials, that whole legal proceeding is still unfolding now.
But that's the guy who took this lineage, the lineage of the Alpha Wolf, and built a whole
business on it, and allegedly criminal business that, let's be honest about this, that is more
popular than any of us would like to admit.
Like the whole Alpha Brain, Alpha Male, Alpha Wolf Industrial Complex, it's clearly
speaking to something that men at least are deeply.
sort of searching for.
Yeah, I guess to get real for a moment.
Please.
Well, yeah, it's just like guys like me die a suicide in the U.S. at the highest rate.
White guys middle-aged.
And I guess in order to cope with it, you want to reach for a philosophy that's easy to understand.
Right.
We keep on looking towards animals.
There's a purity toward animals.
And if you actually go and you see a wolf or you're actually any wild animal up close, it's like, oh, that's pure.
how they live is just perfect and it's easy and they seem at ease and they just are full of just
innate confidence that like it seems that we don't have it we don't have it it is strength yeah but also
um it is an uncomplicated vision of seemingly but man when you're when you're when you're close to an apex
predator it's just it's it's powerful and uh and so yeah so i think a lot of people that are going toward this um
I don't know, this way of living, I guess.
They just want something simple to be that salve within their lives
and allow them to not think about all the complexities
just to go out and fucking dominate.
And so I just want to spell all of this out for the audience here.
The thing that has been eating away in America,
this psychological desire to be strong, to be an alpha,
to be the wolf, to be this alpha male.
that's all been premised on a scientific misunderstanding.
Like, none of it is actually true.
Well, kind of.
Alpha wolves, they don't exist.
Right.
They're just parents, but alpha males.
They do exist.
They do exist.
But domination is a sort of narrow view.
So that's Franz de Wall.
He's one of the top primate researchers in the world.
Now we're, okay, now we're doing primate researchers.
Yeah, yeah.
I think it's important to get into another species in this
because it's important about what he says
because he studied chimps back in the day.
I had this book called Chimpanzee politics,
power in sex among the apes.
Back the 90s, that book was a thing among people in power.
Newt Gingrich of all people in Washington
who recommended it to Republicans in the house, I believe.
And the craziest part is just like Dave's book,
people immediately went right to the alpha.
And are like, yeah, love this thing.
And they just ran with it.
But Franz, when I talked to him, he was just like, could we just pump the brakes?
The real alpha mills that I know in chimpanzees, I think one out of five is dictatorial.
And so it's tyrannical.
And they often end badly because the group at some point is going to revolt.
But four out of five, I would say, are keeping the peace and protecting.
the underdog and keeping the group together.
One out of five alpha males in chimps is dictatorial.
One in five. The other four out of five, he's saying,
keep the bees, protect the underdog, keep the group together.
Which is not alpha shit, as I have come to appreciate the alpha male as a concept.
No, no. And sometimes they're just really friendly.
Sometimes they do a lot of favors for their fellow chimps.
And he added another important point in that it's more often.
Often than not, the people who decide who is the alpha of the group within chimpanzees, it's the women.
The alpha female of the zoo group where I worked, whose name is Mama, because it was very modely to everyone.
But she had an enormous power.
And you basically could not become alpha male without her support.
So I'm listening to this.
And I'm thinking back, like near the end here, back to my time in high school debate.
when I felt most alpha.
I love that you were doing something productive
and I was just like stacking plates on the squat rack.
I was lifting intellectual weights.
And what I learned back then
is that the key to any good debate,
any good discussion of anything,
is you've got to define your terms.
If you don't agree on what the fuck we're arguing about,
we're just like ships passing in the night.
And so here, here I finally settle upon, it seems,
this definition of alpha,
which is just more complicated.
Yeah. Right? Like the alpha wolf in the wild is just a parent. That's what Dave Meach, our 87-year-old friend in Minnesota taught us. God bless him. It's not the domineering Andrew Tate kind of alpha image, but there are, in fact, Andrew Tate alpha chimps in this case. Definitely. They're just losers. I know, I know. And I think the important part is to ground this all, this whole desire to be the alpha is success, is to get whatever you want.
And so whenever I hear that people using the term alpha, I'm like, why do you want to choose a mode that has you finish one and eight in the pack 12?
Dion catching strays.
But what they're saying is diplomacy.
Yes.
An underrated part of leadership.
Parenting the idea to care and to be emotionally sensitive to those who are in your care.
Yeah.
That's what leadership is.
is in the animal world.
They're quite responsible characters,
and they can become extremely popular as a result.
So because the whole group looks at them for security.
But now I'm putting on my hat as a political strategist.
Okay.
Because I am realizing that a complicated definition
is a dangerous one.
Yeah.
And so what do we do about the word alpha, right?
Like, where does it go?
Can we actually do what Dave tried to do
with his own book and like undo some of this. How do we approach that? Well, I think it's here to
stay. I don't think we can do anything. And even Dave agrees with me on that. And Alpa does,
says whatever they want. With humans, yes. Yeah. Yeah. Well, we're not going to stop that.
I mean, that's just the way it is. But I think to bring it back to wolves, you know, in order to be
a good parents, they have to be lethal because pups got to eat and moose are huge.
So you do have to
You'd have to kill at times
But the more important thing
To be a great alpha
To be a great parent
You gotta be affectionate
Yes
You gotta be really great to your
Your pups, your kids
And that leads to
Possibly the coolest thing
That I learned on this whole wolf
Tale
If you will
IL or L-E
Yes
That is
That wolves
Hug
Wait
So you mean they physically, literally, hug each other?
Yep.
Actually putting their arms around each other's neck.
I published a whole paper on wolves hugging each other.
Sometimes, why side by side,
where one will put its front paws around the neck of the other,
and I've seen them doing it this way as well,
where they actually hug
and I don't see that a lot
or haven't seen it a lot
but seen it enough to know that it does exist
yeah
I love this so much
man it's great right
I feel like the only thing
when I found out today
yeah okay
is that there's only one more thing left
for clearly two alphas
as properly defined
to do
yeah
here wait
I mean
Bud Light
on the table.
Oh, that's some good.
Oh, yeah.
Bring it in, man.
Yeah, let's do this.
Oh, keep the cans on.
Oh, you're so...
How are you still so strong?
Pilates.
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