unPAUSED with Dr. Mary Claire Haver - Leanne Morgan on Menopause, Success at 60, and Why She's Just Getting Started

Episode Date: October 21, 2025

From selling jewelry in Tennessee living rooms to headlining arenas across America, Leanne Morgan's path to success took 25 years, and it's a story every woman in midlife needs to hear. The comedian a...nd actress sits down with Dr. Mary Claire Haver for a funny and deeply honest conversation about what it really takes to thrive after 50. Leanne shares how severe perimenopause symptoms nearly derailed everything, why one nurse practitioner became her lifesaver, and how going viral in her fifties changed the trajectory of her entire career. She also shares her sleep hacks for touring, why she refuses to stop talking about menopause and testosterone on stage, what she tells her daughters about taking care of their bodies, and why relationships, not retirement, are the secret to a vibrant, joyful healthspan. From her Netflix sitcom to her sold-out tours to presenting at the Emmys, Leanne's journey is proof that your best work, your biggest breakthroughs, and your most joyful years can happen in your fifties and beyond. If you've ever felt invisible, exhausted, or like you've missed your window, this conversation will remind you it's never too late. Guest links: Leanne Morgan Leanne Morgan (Facebook) Leanne Morgan (Twitter/X) Leanne Morgan (Instagram) Leanne Morgan (YouTube) Leanne Morgan (TikTok) Leanne Morgan: I’m Every Woman (Netflix) Leanne (Netflix) Books“What in the World?!: A Southern Woman's Guide to Laughing at Life's Unexpected Curveballs and Beautiful Blessings,” By Leanne Morgan “The New Perimenopause,”⁠ by Dr. Mary Claire Haver ⁠"The New Menopause"⁠ by Dr. Mary Claire Haver To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Do you worry at all about being pigeonholed as the menopause comedian? No, I feel like a queen. I feel like that made me stand out above. Nobody was talking about menopause on Netflix. I didn't know it. I just, you know, tell what's going on in my life. And I was talking about perimenopause. And I've had more people come up to me and go,
Starting point is 00:00:23 oh, my husband finally gets it when you said that. You know, and men have said that to me. I feel very good about it. The views and opinions expressed on Unpaused are those of the talent and the guests alone and are provided for informational and entertainment purposes only. No part of this podcast or any related materials are intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Today on Unpaused, I have the absolute joy of welcoming my dear friend, the one and only Leanne Morgan. Many of you know her as a brilliant comedian whose career is exploding in her 50s, but to me, she's also an eye. a late-night texter and one of the funniest, most genuine women I've ever known.
Starting point is 00:01:13 Leanne and I first met last year in Las Vegas, where we were both honored by KVC as two of the most 50 influential women over 50. I had already been sharing her hilarious videos about menopause on my social media, but spending time with her in Vegas was when we bonded. And yes, she sure is funny, but the heart on this woman is huge. Our paths crossed again at a gathering of some of the most influential women in the world where we ended up as housemates for the weekend. I'll never forget sitting there with Leanne laughing and looking at each other with this, how did we get here moment? It was humbling and surreal and it reminds me of that even in rooms full of power and influence, what matters most is the connection and joy you share with another
Starting point is 00:01:54 woman. Since then, we've cheered each other on, even sharing the spotlight on Oprah's Menopause Revolution TV special. I've watched with joy as her success just keeps growing. with a hit Netflix special, I'm Every Woman, and another one on the way, a sitcom that just got picked up for a second season and a hilarious book, What in the World, that captures all of her wit and wisdom? What can't this wife, mother, and grandmother do? To me, Leanne embodies the very best of this part of our lives, proof that your 50s and 60s and beyond can be a time when dreams take flight, careers blossom, and laughter keeps us going. I'm thrilled to welcome her to Unpause today. I'm Dr. Mary Claire Haver, a board-certified obstetrician and gynecologist and
Starting point is 00:02:37 menopause practitioner. I'm also an adjunct professor of Stetrics and Gonicology at the University of Texas Medical Branch. Welcome to Unpaused, the podcast where we cut through the silence and talk about what it really takes for women to thrive in the second half of life. Hi, Leanne. Hey, you little smart thing. Lord. You could not have set by me in school because I would have not let you study. I think in high school we would have had fun. We would have had too much fun, honey. I was not focused on academics. I did okay, but I was more focused on cheerleading, my little acting classes and boys. Boys, honey, I've loved them since kindergarten. I did the same thing. I played ball, though, but yeah, I didn't pay attention at school. I'm so glad you did.
Starting point is 00:03:27 I had a big turnaround when I was in college, my mom and dad's business. which I'd always taken for granted. I had everything I wanted. All the bills were paid. We weren't struggling for anything. They owned a restaurant. There was a huge economic downturn in our hometown. It was a big oil and gas town in Louisiana. And the oil business went belly up. So people going out on expense accounts stopped. And my mom and dad basically went bankrupt. And all of a sudden, I had this wake-up call of, well, what else are you going to do? So I was enrolled in school. And I said, let me just really apply myself and just focus and see what happens. And now I'm a doctor. Oh, my darling. Well, I'm glad you did.
Starting point is 00:04:09 Well, I have a confession to me. I was in an MLM, too. You were a lot. I was in an MLM, a multi-level marketing company. I'll set it up for you. Okay. So it was not jewelry. It was skincare and makeup. And it wasn't Avon. It was a different company. But, you know, I was working as an OBGYN. I had two little girls. My husband was traveling overseas all the time. I was working 100 plus hour weeks. I was out of my bed three nights a week on call delivering babies, you know, just busy, busy, busy. And I was struggling to pay off my student loans and, you know, make ends meet. And I thought, these hours are killing me. These are way I can go part time. So in roles, my friend, Tish, our kids met at the swimming pool. And I said, oh, is that your little girl? Yes, nice to meet you. We just moved here.
Starting point is 00:05:01 do, what do you do? I'm a doctor. Okay, she says, I sell jewelry. I said, oh, nice, you know, we've become friendly. I ended up hosting a jewelry party for her. But what I realized about her was she set her schedule around her kids' lives. She never missed a birthday party. She never missed a school function. She slept in her own bed every night. No one was calling her in the middle of the night. Some of those things I signed up for, but I thought, wow, I don't want to sell jewelry, but this is a really nice way to have a life and make deep. I was intrigued by her lifestyle and by this whole like MLM concept, right? And building teams and how she got her family. And she said, you know, the company is going to open a new skin care line.
Starting point is 00:05:44 Do you want to try it? And I thought, oh, I'll go get the discount. I'll sign up on the ground floor and get a discount. And I ended up becoming their number one salesperson within like a year of starting. While you were delivering people's babies. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yeah. Well, what I did was I leveraged social media. So like, no regrets. Would I do it again today? No. But I did love the product. I still use some of the products. They're concealers, my favorite. I learned how to build teams. I learned how to manage people. I learned a lot about social media. So I would just basically kind of built my business on social media. So I wasn't having to like drag the suitcase around. I mean, I had it and do all these parties. But when I read in your book, I've heard you on other interviews talking about getting your start. in stand-up, with these jewelry parties, I'm like, I actually understand why you did that. That makes sense to me. And like, the lessons I learned from that experience have gotten me, you know, helped to where I am today. Oh, my darling, what is that consumer?
Starting point is 00:06:48 Yeah, that's how I got starting comedy. And I look back on it and I think I was in the foothills of Appalachian Mountains. And I knew from the time I was little I was going to be in show business, which is crazy. because I, you know, my parents wanted me to go to college, and I wanted to go to, but I had no, I didn't know what. I thought, I don't know what I'm even doing here. I'm going to be a movie star. And my high school boyfriend went to the University of Tennessee
Starting point is 00:07:13 and I followed him and nagged him to death until he broke up with me. But all the while I kept thinking, I'm going to be in show business. Mary Chuck Morgan, get pregnant with my first baby, Charlie. I want to stay home and nurse him. I had a degree in crisis intervention counseling. I wanted to be a child and family therapist if I didn't make it in Hollywood. And my friend, Leon Allison, said, I'm selling this jewelry and you could meet people because I was alone and isolated up there. And she said, you can have fun.
Starting point is 00:07:43 You can make a few hundred dollars a night. Chuck can take care of the baby at night. And it worked perfect for me. And I didn't even care about jewelry. And we all look like Mr. T because they would say, where as many chains as you can. Wear it to the grocery store. So somebody will see and ask you about it.
Starting point is 00:07:59 They went out of business during COVID, but it was a really sweet company. But I started having these jewelry parties every night, and I was supposed to be talking about jewelry, and I talked about breastfeeding and hemorrhoids and things that I love to talk about, you know, with little babies. I loved being pregnant. I loved all that. And women thought I was funny, and I started booking about a year in advance. And the company noticed and started getting me to speak at their big things. But I look back now that I've worked clubs and theaters and everything I've done,
Starting point is 00:08:29 And I had my own little comedy club with my demographic in those living rooms. And I developed some of the first material I ever used in clubs. And it was God's plan because, I mean, I was in the middle of nowhere. There were no comedy clubs. There might have been one in Knoxville, which was about an hour away for me, but with little babies. And then I had Maggie. I kept doing it while I had Maggie. By the time I had Tess, that third one, I was like, I can't schlep this jewelry around anymore.
Starting point is 00:08:55 And by then, Chuck had really gotten established, and I didn't have to have the money. I mean, it would have been nice, but I didn't have to have it. And by then, I was really calling myself a comedian and doing gigs around Morristown, Tennessee. Then we moved. He sold his business and went to work for a big company that he's still with. And we moved to San Antonio, and that's the first time I had a club. And then Austin was right down the road about 45 minutes away. And I would drive back and forth, and Margie Cole that ran that club, believed in me,
Starting point is 00:09:28 and moved me from opener to headliner the first time in their history. And that was one of the best clubs in the United States. And so, yeah, it was all, you know, it worked out wonderful. So when you were a little girl, like baby, Lee, how many siblings do you have? Where'd you grow up?
Starting point is 00:09:42 Were you putting on little comedy shows for your family? Yes, and I was trying to tap. Didn't have tap shoes. I wanted so bad to take lessons, like all that kind of stuff, but we were in a town of 500 people that's in between Nashville and Clarksville, Tennessee, on the Kentucky Tennessee border.
Starting point is 00:09:59 And my little mama owned a business. She and my dad ran a meat processing business together. She did all the accounting and all this stuff. So she was busy all the time. So I didn't go anywhere and take lessons. So I would just tap and do my own thing. But yeah, I always was a ham. And my high school, my teachers saw it.
Starting point is 00:10:19 And they would say, hey, land, do you want to emce this? Or, you know, and you want to be in the choir. We know you can't sing, but just open your mouth and dazzle. So I would be in the front, you know, trying to. So I was all, yeah, I always did that. And then we had a speech and drama class where we did improv, and it felt like my whole world opened up when we did it. Oh, yeah.
Starting point is 00:10:39 And even this little farming community where all the boys, this was so old-timey, our people around there grew alfalfa corn and soy beans and dark fire tobacco. They're known for dark fire tobacco for Skoll in Copenhagen. These boys would get out of school at 1.30 to go work in the fields. That's how old time it was. But in my little class, I had very talented people. One ended up at Juilliard, became an actor, and is done wonderful.
Starting point is 00:11:06 Four of them had a country music band that got a record deal, and they ended up, they all went to college and didn't do that. But we had very talented people in that class, and I think I graduated 42 people. Wow. And so, yeah, I had all that, and I was in a play. I was in one play in high school, but I didn't have any lines. I played the sixth symbol.
Starting point is 00:11:25 Little Abner. I was stupefying Jones. I wore a bun in the seat with panty hose underneath them. I jirating. I had a gyration moment. And in my mind, in my little country mind, I thought, this is my first step to Hollywood. This is it.
Starting point is 00:11:41 This is it. Somebody's going to see me gyrate in this school gym. And just going to find you're going to get discovered. Yeah. So you're in San Antonio, driving up to the club in Austin, like doing your thing. How did you transition from part-time to, or have you ever transitioned to full-time yet? Are you full-time?
Starting point is 00:12:02 Oh, Lord. Now, I mean, that's all I do is work, but I'm so tickled for it. I feel so blessed. So then I had little bitty children, and Brian Dorfman, who is now my concert promoter at Outback concerts and does all my tours, he owns clubs all over the United States. My baby child was 18 months old. I opened for Billy Gardell at Zanis in Nashville. and he said, Lynn, I think you got something,
Starting point is 00:12:28 but you cannot do this with three babies in these clubs. You can't do the club circuit because back then you would work Tuesday or Wednesday through Sunday. And Chuck was an executive by then. It was moving up. The corporate ladder and was gone all the time. And I was the main caregiver for these children. And I wanted to be the main caregiver for these babies. But he said to me, you cannot do it.
Starting point is 00:12:48 And I remember it made me so mad. But he was right. I looked back on it and I couldn't have raised my own children and done that. that way. So God just put his hand on me. So I and when they were little bitty, I got on a tour with the Southern Fried Chicks and that was two other female comedians coming off
Starting point is 00:13:04 of the blue collar. Do you remember when Larry the Cable guy, Jeff Foxworthy, they all blew up. Yep. And we're on this huge tour. We were kind of like a female version of that. We didn't get as big as that. Didn't make that kind of money. But I was able to work on the weekends and Chuck Morgan took care of these babies during the week. I always got to
Starting point is 00:13:22 pick them up at school, drop them off, and then after that tour ended, there was always television deals coming from Hollywood. I had like four before this sitcom made it. And so even if I wasn't working a lot, and I was your breast cancer fundraiser girl, like people hired me to do that, ovarian cancer, or the heart disease or whatever, because I'm a clean comedian. So I did a lot of private corporate things that didn't take me away from my children much. And clean meaning you don't drop X-Buy.
Starting point is 00:13:50 I don't, yeah, I'm a clean comedian that I can work pretty much anywhere. Okay. And I think somebody gave me that advice a long time ago, even though I don't think in my heart I would have ever used language. Somebody gave me advice a long time ago and said, if you can work clean, you can work anywhere and you can make money while you're trying to make it in corporate or whatever. You can't clean up dirty. Yeah. Like, you know, if I start out dirty, and I've seen people try to do it open for me and we go, we need clean people. And they go, yeah, I can be clean.
Starting point is 00:14:19 They usually can't. That was the best advice I ever gotten. But also, I'm a mother. I didn't ever want to say anything in front of them that I didn't want them to say. Right. Anyway, I started just doing what I could to stay on stage,
Starting point is 00:14:32 and there were years that there was nothing. I mean, I would always have bookings, you know, one or two a month, but it's nothing like it is now. But it kept me on stage while I was raising these children. And then later, when I did that movie with Reese Witherspoon and Will Ferrell,
Starting point is 00:14:48 every day she looked at me and said, you got to raise your own children land. And what a blessing it was. even there were times when I was down and thought, nobody cares. I would audition for Aspen Comedy Festival, just for laughs in Montreal, all these things that are big in the comedy world,
Starting point is 00:15:03 never get them. Comedy Central didn't want me. I wasn't edgy enough, all that stuff. But I look back on it, and I feel like that was God's protection over me, because I did get to raise them. I was with them. And then, honey, I was moving that baby child into makeup school.
Starting point is 00:15:20 She's a professional makeup artist. She went to school in New York. York in Manhattan. Your daughter, Tess. My baby Tess. And he says now she's my caregiver. She's with me all the time. Said I did not sign up for that. But anyway, I felt very desperate. I cried to Chuck Morgan a few months before that. And I said, nothing's happening. I had done a special for a dry bar. I'd got millions of views. It was not selling tickets. It did not transfer to tickets sales. I was doing horrible gigs where I'd have to ride in an over with a boy how old marijuana.
Starting point is 00:15:53 And then stay in a country inn on the side of the interstate. Interstate. And thought, what am I doing? I mean, by then I was like 51 or something. And I thought, I don't want to live like this. This is not going well. And I cried to him and said, I'm going to open up hardware store. And because I can dazzle in a hardware store and I can get a cheese wheel.
Starting point is 00:16:15 And he said, you've lost your mind, land. And so I had always admired Jim Gaffkin, Nate Borgate. Nate Borgate is a good friend of mine. He's about a year and a half ahead of me in this career we have, and I saw they had social media people. And this was years ago when a lot of comedians didn't have it. And I thought, what are they doing? I want to be like them.
Starting point is 00:16:34 I want to be in those theaters. And so I hired these social media guys. They put out a couple of videos. One was about taking Chuck Morgan and go see Def Leopard and everybody had plantar fasciitis and looked sick. And that went viral. And I knew something that was happening. And I could see it being shared thousands of times.
Starting point is 00:16:52 and I thought something is happening. And I said it to my family. I said, I think something is happening. And they all said, shut up the Uber's here. Everybody was stressed out. We got to move her into an apartment in New York. You know, we were like the Beverly Hillbillies up there. And yeah, I started sailing out all over the United States.
Starting point is 00:17:10 And it's just like somebody turned a light on in a room. And it was crazy. I mean, that's how I found you. What seems like overnight success, it really is 25 years of you putting in time and being able to raise your kids. Has anybody been really kind to you on this journey? Oh, honey, I've had several. I look back, there were people out in L.A.
Starting point is 00:17:31 They gave me television deals that believed in me. Nick at night, TV land, Warner Brothers, ABC. I mean, there were several, you know, people that thought I had something, but, you know, it just wasn't in the cards for that to pan out at the time. And then Little Reese Witherspoon, I met her. she doesn't remember meeting me at a CMA after party at Brooks and Donne, Ronnie's house. My friend Hugh Hauser invited me to go. I was nobody.
Starting point is 00:18:01 Nobody knew who I was. I tried to dress up and look like I was a country music star. I go to this party, little Reese Witherspins there. I look into her eyes and I said, my mama had a stroke at Vanderbilt. I just said it because she had just been sick. I'd been going back and forth and taking care of my little mom. It was a bad stroke. She went, what?
Starting point is 00:18:21 And held on to me and looked into my eyes. What do you mean your mama's sick? And we held on to each other. And then COVID hit right after that. And she started watching my stuff and sending it to her friends. And that little thing gave me a part in a movie. I played her big sister, Gwyneth. She did that for me.
Starting point is 00:18:38 I mean, so, yeah, Reese Weatherspoon, but all these people, and now I've got this unbelievable manager that, I mean, she's my age, and I'm the first client. She's managed everybody big in the comedy industry, but I'm the first one that's her age, that we can sit and talk about menopause, we sit and talk about our hormones, we talk about, you know, everything, having a comfortable shoe, and we're having a ride of our life with each other. But, yeah, I've had a lot of people invest in me over the years.
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Starting point is 00:19:37 Spotify, or wherever you get your shows. Do you worry at all about being pigeonholed as the menopause comedian? No. I feel like a queen. I feel like that made me stand out above. Nobody was talking about menopause on Netflix. I didn't know it. I just, you know, tell what's going on in my life.
Starting point is 00:20:00 And I was talking about perimenopause. And I've had more people come up to me and go, oh, my husband finally gets it when you said that. You know, and men have said that to me. I feel very good about it. But I've always loved that. And I told you out a nurse practitioner who saved my life. It was in a horrible perimenopause.
Starting point is 00:20:19 Then we did a little podcast together. I've always been interested in women's health because I love being pregnant. You know, when you're with your girlfriends, you're all talking about, well, I had a C-section and all that. I love talking about that. And then menopause was like another thing that you could bond with people over. And we all just talk about it all the time. Did you ever get pushed back? Like, you can't talk about that.
Starting point is 00:20:41 This is off limits. No. You know, did anyone say, this is going to flop. This is not going to be a good gig. No, no. They've all told me to lean into it. Good Lord.
Starting point is 00:20:54 The people that are running Netflix, they're in menopause. Their wives are in menopause. You know, I went to a party with Amy Griffin, beautiful Amy Griffin and come out with her book. Yeah. And went to this beautiful party in Beverly Hills. Everybody was showing each other their estrogen patch.
Starting point is 00:21:13 I saw people's private parts. I feel like it's an occupational hazard when I go to a party and, you know, can I just ask you one question real quick? You end up doctrine. So I'm so glad that somebody else, you know, realizes because I feel like, well, it's just me. They're only going to talk about it
Starting point is 00:21:28 because I'm here and they feel comfortable. But I'm so glad I'm not the only one. No, everybody wants to know. That's why this podcast is going to blow up. Everybody wants to know and nobody knows and everybody's trying to figure it out and you're the male, the goat. You're like Mike Tyson of menopause.
Starting point is 00:21:47 Well, I think we have this in common. My superpower is talking about things women weren't allowed to talk about or were scared to talk about and just being open and honest about it. I came at it from a medical standpoint, but you come at it from a real life because so much of what we go through is funny. You know, you have to laugh at it. And I feel like you validate women's experiences by sharing your own. Oh, well, thank you, my darling.
Starting point is 00:22:11 I just talked to little Kelly Rippa, and she said, Lynn, I felt seen. When I hear you, I feel seen. When you talk about all these things that everybody wants to talk about, and they feel like they can or whatever, which she's very open. She talks about it. But she said, you make me feel seen. And I thought that was so sweet. And I'm just over here talking out of my hand.
Starting point is 00:22:31 But I mean it, though, you know. But I do. I'm very interested in that. And when we met at G9, and I saw you on that panel and everything you said, I started telling everybody, you need to be listening to her. You need to get this book. Because, you know, really, nobody knows what in the world to do, and you do. I didn't learn about it in school.
Starting point is 00:22:53 In medical school, where we get just your general MD training, you know, here you're a new doctor. Now go specialize. I had one, one-hour lecture, and that's pretty standard across the U.S. My daughter's in med school right now. So she said they get a touch more, a little whisper of it here and there, so it's not as. bad. But then I went into women's health. Ob-GYN. Like, I am in charge of breasts, pelvis, all the things. And we got about six hours in a four-year curriculum. And I thought I was fine. Like, I graduated. I've got everything I need to know at my little toolkit. Off we go. And let me tell
Starting point is 00:23:28 you, I walked into that office to sit down with real patients, you know, very different than the patients we practice on in the hospital setting. I mean, surgery is different, but like in the clinic. So I go in with these fancy Houston mamas. pregnancy I got. I can deliver a baby upside down, backwards, inside out, C-section, blindfolded one hand tight. No big deal. But the minute those women came in and started talking about their sex lives, I was a deer in the headlights. We had never covered libido, loss of libido. And so I'd run out in the hall and my two bosses were
Starting point is 00:24:02 two older gentlemen and I'd say, oh, I have Ms. Smith. She doesn't want to have sex and she's really worried and her husband's threatening to leave her or it hurts or whatever. And he's like, tell her to have some wine. that was it. And so I start, but this is before Google, you know, I start looking for resources and I find Venus and Mars in the bedroom. I read it. I'm like, okay, so I start copying sheets, you can write notes out of it and I would Xerox them. That's how old I am. We Xerox. And make little pamphlets for my patients because I didn't know what to do. No one had taught me anything about that. And then as the patients are aging, menopause is coming. And again, after that damn women's health initiative and we were all terrible. of hormone therapy, myself included. I'm a really good doctor. Like, we have really let down a whole generation, our generation of women.
Starting point is 00:24:49 And it really took me going through it to realize we got to do better. We got to do better. And honey, I've been out here telling it, but nobody listens to a comedian. Because my nurse practitioner said to me. No, you're giving women permission to go and talk. To share their stories, to laugh about it.
Starting point is 00:25:07 You know, as those videos are getting shared by the millions, Even though you're telling jokes and it's funny, you're giving women permission to say, hey, wait a minute. This is funny, but it's okay. And we can talk about it and we can go talk to our doctors about it. Did your mama ever talk about this? She was on estrogen for a while. Mine too. And they took her off of it because they were worried about that breast cancer study.
Starting point is 00:25:32 And I remember my little precious mama, a single who's 81, who is the light, if you want to talk to and be with someone. fun, it's her. But she came home from working in that meat house and would be in that cold weather and did manual labor and did the counting and all that. She's brilliant. She would come home. Me and my sister would be sitting up with a towel on her head deep conditioning it. Maybe Dustin because she didn't like a dirty house. My mama, I would be just sitting there didn't help do a thing. And I remember mama taking out the garbage and saying, this smells like S-H-I-T. There was never of language in our house and we all got scared to death and ran in our own rooms and slammed the door and my daddy got that garbage and took it out it was she was in menopause she had never said anything god love her
Starting point is 00:26:21 i remember her being moody i remember her crying she had lost her daddy around that time but they took her off of that estrogen and you know now she's had a stroke and i know that hrt helps with cardiovascular risk as well as bone health dementia Yeah. And cardiovascular, yeah. We wonder, had our mothers had different options counseling, you know, did your mother ever lift weights? Did she think about her bone health? Did she, you know, think about all the cardiovascular risk reduction things she could have done outside of, you know, hormone therapy?
Starting point is 00:26:56 They just weren't, you know, little old ladies just got old. Now, my mama was lifting big baskets of meat, and they told her when she had her stroke, the physical therapist, they said, because you did manual labor, that will help you. you. And she almost recovered, was walking on a walker, almost running after she had her stroke. And then there was another complication they had to operate her own again, and that
Starting point is 00:27:21 affected her balance and her eyesight. So now she can't walk. But she was recovering, and they said it was from a life of manual labor, lifting, squatting, doing, and she always had a garden. She worked like a mule. And then she loved yoga
Starting point is 00:27:37 and Zumba Honey up at the Civic center and she would dance and everybody loved her and wanted to be with her. She'd be dancing with all these young girls and love to exercise. I've told everybody in the United States of America, they have ruined that study. And when I went on hormone therapy, everybody called me and said, you're going to get cancer and you can't take this. And I go, but no, that study was right. But nobody listens to me. I don't have credibility. So your nurse practitioner was an early adopter. She was. She was. And I was in my mid-40s. I had done CrossFit. and gotten real competitive and was doing jerking cleans and crazy mass. I think my cortisol levels went up. It was in the middle of the economic downturn. So things affected Chuck's job because he's in the housing market or at a housing company.
Starting point is 00:28:27 We had a tragic death in our family. I had one of my very best friends that's in the book, dumped me. And I had never had that kind of heartbreak before. and I hear that women in paramedopause and menopause will go through breakups. Yeah. And it's so painful. It's like being middle school girls and somebody's got to be a butthole.
Starting point is 00:28:47 And so I was going through all that and I used to walk every day with her. I was going to fitness classes at my gym. I love fitness. And I just quit going. And I was so tired. I know there must have been stressed. I would fall asleep in the pickup line at school around 3 o'clock. somebody'd have to honk a horn, scare the living day likes out of me to move.
Starting point is 00:29:10 I would be awake all night. And I just couldn't put one foot in front of the other. And I really started thinking, do I have cancer? Is something bad wrong with me? And I was so fatigued. I had heart palpitations. I kept saying to my precious doctor, who I loved, and he was good for a sinus infection. But I said, I don't feel right.
Starting point is 00:29:29 And he had a poster that had thyroid symptoms of hypothyroid or Hashimoto's or whatever. And it was hair loss, constipated. all this and I go, I'm constipated. I've lost my hair. I don't feel good. And he goes, I've done your panel. You're fine. I think it ended up being an antiquated panel.
Starting point is 00:29:47 He goes, you're depressed. I'm going to put you on antidepressant. And he did. It did not change anything. And then I had a child go off to college. I mean, all these life things happen in the same time. And then we were all had braces. I had braces in my 40s with my kids in middle school and high school.
Starting point is 00:30:04 I could barely even keep awake. and I told them I don't feel good. And the girl that worked front desk, she said, there is a nurse practitioner that is saving people's lives. I mean, these 40-something-year-old mamas are in there getting their kids' braces. Turns out the doctor that she worked under was my next-door neighbor. His wife, who I loved my neighbor, I said, I would love to get into her. And she goes, well, let me see what I can do because she had 4,000 patients.
Starting point is 00:30:31 Nobody wanted to see the doctors. Everybody wanted to see her. And she could not take new patients. my neighbor got me in, and she said, I'm going to do some stuff out of the box, probably going to come out of your own pocket, and I'll probably get fined for it. But she said, let's do it. And she, you know, did a gluten intolerant test. She checked my adrenal fatigue.
Starting point is 00:30:52 I was in adrenal fatigue. My thyroid had bottomed down. She said, you're in pari menopause, your estrogen is up and down. Yeah. And she started getting me on everything. It took her a while to get me situated, but I felt like a different person. And I say she saved me. I hear that all the time from patients that, you know, their stresses don't go away.
Starting point is 00:31:12 You still have the sick mamas and the, you know, marital whatever and, you know, carpool and drop off and work. But you got it again. Like, you get your life back. My patients don't come in asking rock a bikini at 45 or, you know, they're like, I just, I built this life. And I had it managed. You know, we had normal stresses, kids. I had it all covered. I could do it.
Starting point is 00:31:35 And now I can't do it. when we address all those issues and get them taken care of, suddenly they can manage their life again. Yeah, because you're up all night. You can't sleep. You're broken out in a sweat. I was having heart palpitations when we did the Oprah thing, and she said she had to wear a heart monitor. I wore a heart monitor at one time. I thought, I've got a heart problem. Something is bad wrong with me. And they put me on a heart monitor, and I was okay. It was just heart palpitations from, I guess, perimenopause. Yeah. Yeah. So there's estrogen receptors on the, there's a little node in our heart muscle that
Starting point is 00:32:06 controls our heart rate. And just like the hot flash center goes cattywampus, the same thing can happen about. It's really shocking because it's like 45% of women will have palpitations in perimenopause and menopause. And it's usually almost always managed. Doesn't mean you don't need to go see cardiology and get the appropriate workup because it's not always menopause, but we're not training the clinicians to say, this might be menopause. Let's get you worked up. But, you know, let's try some hormones and see if it gets better. And I think, I look back on it now. And when I quit exercising, that was a worst thing I could have done. You know, we had had that blow up, and I didn't have anybody to walk with, and I should
Starting point is 00:32:41 have walked on my own. But if I tell young girls all the time, keep exercise. And all that wine and all that rigmaro, I started craving wine. I'd never been a drinker, never been in my house. And I just, like, started thinking, oh, red wine at night. And then I'd be up all night from that. It would disrupt my sleep. And I would eat white flour.
Starting point is 00:33:03 You know, and that just makes it all worse. sugar and all that. Yeah. And I wish that I could have, you know, I would have known better and I would have taken better care of myself. So I try to tell these young girls that. That's almost universal with my patience. All right.
Starting point is 00:33:15 You're literally everywhere right now. You're all over my social media. I turn on the TV. There you are at the Emmys. Looking absolutely fabulous. Thank you, my darling. I mean, I was sitting on the couch with my popcorn and my husband. And I was like, oh, my God.
Starting point is 00:33:28 I didn't know you were presenting. And then I was like, oh, oh, Leanne, Leanne, Leanne. And you looked so beautiful. and you were so funny. Did you get to smell Pedro Pasquale? I did not get to smell a little Pedro. I didn't really even get to meet him. I don't know where they whisked that little thing out somewhere.
Starting point is 00:33:43 And I went to all these parties and I didn't get to see him. And I bet he was there, Lauren Michaels at Sera Nite Love. And he said, my wife is your biggest fan and took me to meet her and she was precious. I've been raised on Sarenot Live. And that is my thing. And I've heard from more Sera Night Live people. I am. I want to host.
Starting point is 00:34:00 Like Leanne Morgan on Saturday Night Live. Just saying, hey. would love to host. And I have had, you know, I work with Will Ferrell, Fred Armisen reached out to me. I was on John Mullaney's show, Amy Poller's podcast, and then I heard from Molly Shannon the other day. So when these SNL people reach out to me, that means the world to me. And they all say, lean, you write like us. Like, all the writers send your stuff around. And I'm like, what? But I have loved it all of my life. And it never dawned on me to get in the car at 18 and drive to Chicago for Second City or Groundley's in L.A. I was just from the country.
Starting point is 00:34:33 I didn't know. But that thrills me. And then we went to a Warner Brothers party, and I met all of Abbott Elementary, that little Quinta Brunson, that little doll that's as big as this cup. I could have held her like a baby. Brilliant.
Starting point is 00:34:46 It's got one of the top shows on. I met Brett Goldstein and Ted Lasso. Oh, my God. And darling, he's another stand-up. I met Drew Tarver, who was on the other two. But every party, I mean, there were people that I saw, that I was like, oh my Lord, look, Chuck Morgan.
Starting point is 00:35:04 He was with me, and we just, and I lost five pounds that weekend because he'd say, do you want a slider? And I was like, no, I don't want a slider. I'm trying to meet people. And I don't want to smell bad. So he ate, and I just would be weak and think, oh, I haven't eaten because I'm at these Hollywood parties, but everybody's tiny. Here's what I see.
Starting point is 00:35:23 Like, I looked at Catherine LaNasse's win, you know, from the pit. That women of a certain age now are... winning things, being recognized or playing like real tangible people. And I can remember Goldie Hahn set a line and I think it was the First Wives Club. There's three ages for women in Hollywood. Babe, district attorney, and driving Miss Daisy. I'll never forget that line for as long as I live. And I'm like, where are we?
Starting point is 00:35:54 There are only three ages for women in Hollywood. Babe, district attorney, and driving Miss Daisy. What do you think about that right now? Do you feel like we're developing a new age for Hollywood? Oh, yeah. Gene Smart one. Yes. Gene Smart for Hacks.
Starting point is 00:36:08 So good. Catherine O'Hara is doing more. Well, I mean, she's always been fabulous. Yeah, I mean. Kathy Bates. I mean. Kathy Bates. That doll.
Starting point is 00:36:20 Yeah. I mean, I just, but I didn't come up in Hollywood. And I know they must feel that ageism, but I don't see it. But I think everybody's thriving at our, at that age and up. I love it. I love seeing it. So your next Netflix special, unspeakable things? Unspeakable things.
Starting point is 00:36:37 What are we going to be speaking about? Honey, it's more stories about all these kids and Chuck Morgan. And the unspeakable thing parts is, you know, do unspeakable things with Chuck Morgan. And he still has a lot of testosterone. And I remember my nurse practitioner saying, I'm going to give you some testosterone. I said, thank you. And she goes, the more Tennessee plays. She said, I'll just tell you, it's going to up his.
Starting point is 00:37:00 you got to keep up with that? And I was like, so I started testosterone for muscle mass. Like in our house, nobody was complaining. Like, it happened when it happened. Everybody's happy.
Starting point is 00:37:13 Like, I wasn't feeling like pressure of, you know, having to perform more. And then because I'm thinner and I was worried about my mom fell in broker hip and bone density and I'm skinny,
Starting point is 00:37:24 I don't have a lot of muscle. Like, you know, maybe I'll add in this testosterone off label to see if it'll help me in this, all this weightlifting. and I'm trying to do it and eating all this protein. Besides the new couple of chin hairs, which are manageable.
Starting point is 00:37:38 It makes you want to do it. I wouldn't say hanging from a chandelier, but I would say he's very much happy. Oh, well, that's nice. Because that's how men show up. That's the way God made them. And there's nothing wrong with that. He's definitely happier.
Starting point is 00:37:54 And there's just more of an uptick in my end of the area. actually maybe even suggesting on my part, which hadn't happened in a long time. And don't you know that makes him feel good? Outside a vacation. Yeah. Outside a vacation in a hotel room. Because in that special I talk about, Chuck Morgan loves a hotel room and gets a glazed look over his eyes and I feel like I'm doing this. Okay. I saw you post the kind that you use and I ask somebody, can you give me what Dr. Mary Claire's got? because I take a little day, it's just a little like in a syringe kind of thing. It's compounded.
Starting point is 00:38:31 And I just take, it's just like this much of, and I don't know what, oh my. So I did compounding for our patients for a long time because that was the thing I had the best access to. Because we don't, and we can debate that on another podcast, but we don't have an FDA approved version for women, though we have tons of studies showing it's safe and effective. And I'm fighting that battle with the FDA right now.
Starting point is 00:38:51 Okay. So we borrow the men's, all right? So you either have to compound it or go, get andro gel or T-STEM or getting injectable. Andro Jail. Is that what you were showing in a video? Yeah. Where can you get it?
Starting point is 00:39:02 So it's from a pharmacy. So I, we found a reliable supplier and it's very, very inexpensive. So that bottle, because it's made for men, will last a woman like four to five months the way we micro, you have to microdose it, basically. So. Is it prescription? It is a prescription. Yeah, you have to have a prescription for it.
Starting point is 00:39:22 But it works great. It's easy to use. The bottle lasts for. ever, it's very affordable. And so we've really switched to that away from compounding, because compounding can be variable. My patients travel far distances to come and see me, and so I don't know these compounding people where they're trying to get their meds and shipping can be a little squirrely with creams and stuff. So this seemed to be like a good solution that worked for it. And a lot of my menopausee friends, the other docs that I hang out with, they do a lot of T-stem
Starting point is 00:39:47 gel, too, so which is prescription in the little packets. Because let's face it, and I know Dr. Laura that had the radio show. Still hasn't. I remember her saying, what do a man need? A cassero. And you know what? I mean, and it really not that men are simple,
Starting point is 00:40:08 it's just uncomplicated. It's very uncomplicated. And if I make a Duncan Heinz yellow cake mix with a bald frost as my mama calls it chocolate, put that in the oven. That's cooking. I pour a little bleach in a toilet.
Starting point is 00:40:24 so Chuck thinks I've cleaned. Then he comes home. You know what? He's almost in tears. It does not take a lot for a man. It really doesn't. But it's terrible when you're going through menopause and it does hurt. And then you think, my body, my stomach doesn't look like a stomach.
Starting point is 00:40:45 What has happened to me? And then you're sweaty. I've tried to tell Chuck Morgan, I feel this, you know, put his hand on my chest. It'll be, you know, I just feel. I need to plan it. So I tell patients that the male libido, and libido is like a Freudian term, you know, I don't love the term libido, but, you know, your desire. Everybody understands what that is.
Starting point is 00:41:07 Men's tends to be very simple, just a little off on switch, usually on. Okay. Easy. A females is the flight deck of a 747. There are more buttons and bells and whistles and clicks. And over here and you turn on this one and this one goes over there. It's a lot more complicated. And so just throwing testosterone at someone doesn't help everyone.
Starting point is 00:41:27 We probably have a good 30 to 40% response rate for desire. Relationships are part of it. Body image is part of it. You know, so much is changing on how we feel about ourselves and how we're socialized to be performers and givers. And sometimes you're just tired. Yeah, you're tired. You know, I buy little gowns now and they're not that cute.
Starting point is 00:41:50 And they've got like a cool technology. so that I, you know, and I look like a me-mole. And then there's all kinds of things. Also, it is, I think, relationship in the morning. Women need to be told you look beautiful today. I do. I do for you. Yeah, can I unload the dishwasher?
Starting point is 00:42:09 It's like warming up a car. And I believe that. You know, I had all those classes in child family studies. So I get all that. And it does. You have to really communicate and all of that. So I do think so much of it is relationship and then, you know, women do feel like your body has changed and it's changing again.
Starting point is 00:42:29 Right. But I have patients who are still having incredible sex lives. Like, it's possible. It's possible. And testosterone, let me just throw this out there and they don't pay me to say this. There are two FDA approved products for women that work at the level of the brain because libido's a mood. It's up here, right? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:42:48 Men's is more just there. Uh-huh. Addie, which we were talking about. talking about last night. Yes, Eddie. And Vileisi, there's an injectable that you can give yourself 30 to 45 minutes before the onset that will help release some hormones that'll make you more receptive. But I just, most of my patients and myself included, when I really think about it, my husband would be like, is it working? Is it working? It's been 30 minutes you feel anything yet? Like so, you know, so Addie is a pill you take every day. And let me say this about precious
Starting point is 00:43:21 man because I've got two grandsons, a son and a husband and I love men. Men don't even care if you're your stomach. Men don't even care. We get that in our head. They don't care. God love them. Just had a baby and Chuck Morgan would be flaring his nostrils at me. He does not care. What I look like. He loves me for who I am. He has never said a word about my body. It's in my head. That's the way we're socialized. So, Big Mark, key birthday. Congratulations. Thank you, my darling. It's good to be alive at 60. Landed hard. I'm 57. I'm right behind you. So 30-year-old Leanne, thinking about 60-year-old Leanne. What did you think you'd be doing at 60? At 30. I would have thought probably I would be a
Starting point is 00:44:10 grandmama. And I would think I would have a career. But I didn't know it was going to be this wonderful. That 30-year-old didn't know all this. It's pretty. special. It's bigger and sweeter and more wonderful than anything I ever dreamed of. And I tell you why, I thought I was going to be 40. I thought I was going to be younger and thinner when this happened. Okay, whatever. But now that I'm at my age and when this happened to me in my 50s, and I'm in a lane by myself, my team, everybody in Hollywood says this to me, in the comedy industry too. I'm in a lane by myself. And I'm speaking to, and I found them, they found me. And every, Every time I walk out in the big panty tour, the first tour, and I was scared to Dan, because I'd never been a big, did a big tour like that in theaters.
Starting point is 00:44:58 And every time I walked out, they would stand up before I ever said a word and blow kisses at me. And they had presents for me. You know, I don't want to be sappy. But it was so precious how they loved on me and wanted to see me do well. Everybody wants to see me win. Yeah. And it's girls, my age, that are like, oh, if she can do that, I can do this. She's in her 50s.
Starting point is 00:45:19 I can start a business. I can go back and be a yoga teacher. I can go back to school or whatever. In my first tour, I partnered with Vanity Fair because they had a real comfortable big panty. And they gave five women seed money to start their own thing during the big penny tour. And they had people fly. And they picked five women and gave them seed money to start businesses or go back to school or whatever they were going to do. And it was precious.
Starting point is 00:45:45 So for the women listening right now who are in their 50s, I mean, they come to my, they come to me. my office and they are a lot of times devastated by life. Menopause is like taking a hit from untreated menopause. I can get them that back. But then they're at this life transition, you know, divorce sometimes, kids leaving the house, parents getting sick and old. And what would you say to a woman who's like, there's nothing left for me? I can't do that. You know, where am I going to go? What am I going to do? I would say whatever their desire had been, I've always heard this. Like, what your desire was as a child. Like, what did you dream of being?
Starting point is 00:46:24 I think we all have these dreams in life and the world stamps it out. But I had that dream. But, you know, I've heard more people say, like, I wanted to be a so-and-so. And everybody said, oh, no, you can't do that. But what is it that you desired in your heart you've wanted to do? Because you can do it now. Because think about it. We're smarter than we've ever been.
Starting point is 00:46:45 We're wiser than we've been. This is the time to do it. I mean, it's just never too late. And I know that sounds sappy, but it's not. It's never too late. And you see all these people doing wonderful. Yeah, I tell you what I love on Instagram, and it got my algorithm for a while and need to get it back.
Starting point is 00:47:00 It'll be like an 80-year-old woman that's gone back to Nursescoe and finish her degree. I mean, it's just doable. Or to me, what I love seeing is the elderly women, 70s, 80s, going to the gym. And they walk in with a walker, and then they're walking out on their own two feet. And I'm like. Joan, Little Joan. Little Joan. Little Joan taking a big log and flipping it into loom. She's living her best life. Train with Joan on Instagram. Train with Joan. If you need inspiration, look at Little Joan in a bikini. She's got her biceps going. I know. It isn't, though, really.
Starting point is 00:47:38 I mean, there are people that go back to school that start a business. But if you can get help and people and people want to see people do well, I want to help people, this is the time to do it. And people say to me all the time, I look at your scheduling and help. I look at your scheduling and how in the world are you doing it because everybody's so tired? And I go, I bet I'd be tired if I didn't have this adrenaline going because this is so exciting for me. But I do, I really try to prioritize my sleep now. I have all these sleep hacks I do. Tell me about some of them, because I'm still struggling. I have got to have it at 66 to 67 degrees. I would even go colder. When I was in L.A. and it was just me and my baby and Chuck Morgan went in there
Starting point is 00:48:14 worried about, you know, the air stand. Yeah, and him covered up in a fleece because he's cold. and I'm not, I got to sleep in, like you could hang meat. And I think that that makes you sleep better. I have a sleep mask. Now I bought this little contraption that's a red light. I turn that on. It's like 26
Starting point is 00:48:34 minutes and I have on that sleep mask. I don't know if that does anything, but I think it does. And I have a sound machine and I get all that out and hope that nobody comes in on me. I don't eat late. I used to eat after I get off stage, but I have found out. Eat
Starting point is 00:48:49 before you don't want to burp in the microphone. So get something where you won't have reflux or burping the microphone. But then don't eat a big gob. Like in all these towns, it's so sweet. We'll go, we try to do well and we'll go, can we get a chicken breast with no oil and a baked potato with nothing else on it,
Starting point is 00:49:06 maybe some A1 and a vegetable like a broccoli? And these precious people in this town want us to have their best food. So then here's this fried chicken breast with over a corn sauce with the broccoli. And she's casserole. You know, everybody will see us get their best food from their town, so then we end up eating that. And I found out, I thought you're in the big penny tour. You can go back and look at those pictures. I was inflamed. I don't even know what you call my breast. I don't know what that was. They look like feed sacks. I wear this or a ring. And this or a ring will say, they'll tell you. You can't lie. Yeah. You'll, yeah. And during the series when Little Tim Daly was playing my boyfriend, he wore an o'er ring. And he goes, do you think they're telling us the truth about the sleep? He said, when I get up, you.
Starting point is 00:49:49 and it says 98, you scored a 98. He goes, I don't feel like I really did. But anyway, the aura, it's weird because it'll say, did you have a late meal? Did you drink alcohol? Yeah, and see, on the big panty tour, I was freaked out of getting in front of those big crowds, and they would have a little wine for me.
Starting point is 00:50:05 And I wouldn't drink a lot, and I have stopped that. I don't care about alcohol. I'll drink it a little bit every once in a while, a margarita, have a little bit of red wine. Because I think that messes me up. Terrible. great studies coming out now looking at sleep disruption and alcohol's effects, especially after menopause. Like, the girls aren't sleeping, by the way. Nobody in pari menopause and menopause
Starting point is 00:50:30 is sleeping like they used to. And we're learning more. Of course, hot flashes have a lot to do with it. But like when I tell my patients a certain percentage of you and me included, if I choose to drink more than a one glass, you know, I am choosing not to sleep. That is my choice. Yeah, just stay up all night and start knitting something. Also, I take magnesium So that I can poop and sleep That's two for one Two for one. I hate for these boys to hear this
Starting point is 00:50:59 And then I take I like a magnesium three and eight I think that helps relax my body And I do try to take something over the counter Like a gaba-eltheninine Like some kind of like a mixture Valerian Rui Yeah, Valerian So I'm always looking for...
Starting point is 00:51:19 I'm the girl on Instagram that gets influenced with supplements. I'm watching Little-O-Women finish their degree and buying supplements in shows that don't over-stimulate toddlers. That comes through mine too, because I got two toddlers, two babies. But yeah, I try to really prioritize my sleep so that I can do this tour. And that's what people ask me all the time. I don't know how you're doing it, Lynn. And I'm so thankful that I have the strength to do this.
Starting point is 00:51:45 My thyroid medicine, I keep that where it's supposed to. to be. That's energy. I take my B-12 methylated because they have that M-THF-R gene. And I make sure I get my vitamin D. Yeah. Who's doing your blood work? Who's, you know, is your nurse practitioner still managing? She retired and we all resented her. She, you know, had to go live
Starting point is 00:52:04 her life and made us mad. God forbid. Yeah. But I have now an endocrinologist that helped take care of my girls because they both had thyroid cancer. And I have nodules, bad nodules. So she watches that. She does a lot of that. I have, um, I've had wonderful people, like my regular provider, those NPs and PAs there,
Starting point is 00:52:23 that would just make sure my vitamin D levels were where they were supposed to be and all that. But the nurse practitioner found out the MTHR thing. And I would think, I'm so tired compared to my friends. And she said, you're not absorbing your bees, Lian, like you're supposed to. So that is really and truly helped me. And if I forget, like I get off and it's in another suitcase or something and I've forgotten it, then I think, why am I so tired? You forgot your...
Starting point is 00:52:50 It's that my B-12s. So your girls, what's the best advice you think you've given them? They probably would say something different. But like, what do you feel as the mother has been the best, like, gift you've given your girls? I try to tell them now, well, I've sat and kissed them in the mouth and we're close. We're very close. We've had a good time, honey. I've been fun.
Starting point is 00:53:12 I'll just say it. I didn't push in school. If Chuck Morgan had had been at home and, pushed them. They'd be in Harvard with a nervous tick. But we went to the zoo a lot. I'll just tell you, Dollywood. Dollywood's near here. We had a ball. I saw the billboard. Oh, it's a wonderful part. Yeah, we're in Knoxville right now. Yeah. If there was like a parent teacher conference, I'd go their parent teacher conference and I go, we're going to Dollywood afterwards. So we have a very close relationship. But now is there grown women, I tell them, I want you to be happy. This
Starting point is 00:53:40 world goes by, this time goes by so fast. As it says in the Bible, it's like dew on the leave. it's gone. And I just look back now and here I am 60 and I've had a wonderful life. But I try to tell them, take care of your body, eat good foods, get this foundation going from when you have your babies, when you go through your, you know, always take care of yourself. I wish I'd take better care of myself. I've had good, I mean, I've had times when I have and then times when I haven't and you know, I feel stressed out and I'm on tour and I could take those bands. Little Tony Horton said, just take a band, lean, do some squats, dance, dance for a few songs, you know.
Starting point is 00:54:19 I know you want to get in that bed because it's so easy. You get off a flight. You're lugging all that. You go to a hotel room. You need to go to that hotel gym. It's depressing. But, you know, I go, well, I just need a comedy nap, lay in the band, stare at the wall.
Starting point is 00:54:33 I need to stay active. I tell them, I want you, don't do as I did. Yeah. Do as I say. Take care of your body. I won't think they want babies. I want to help them. with their babies. I want to be up in the band and teach them how to breastfeed. And then I want them
Starting point is 00:54:49 when they go through their 40s, get that foundation. Eat those blueberries. Darn it, not goldfish with that Diet Coke and a big SUV driving mad at people you don't know your man at. Your kids a handful and then you eat a handful. Handful. Honey, I don't love a goldfish, but I'm trying not to do it. That extra chatter. And I just tell them, do what makes you happy because, you know, everybody gets in some bad job that they're not happy. And you turn around and you're 60. You know, live life to the fullest every day. I tell them I want y'all to be happy and I want you all to find your passion because I believe
Starting point is 00:55:26 in that. Like Chuck Morgan's a lot more practical than me and he's the one that's had the health insurance. So I've, you know, I've relied on Chuck Morgan. I've been the dreamer. But I do believe in in dreaming and dreaming big and keeping that dream alive and never letting those dreams die. I really do, because I think that pushes you and keeps you going. I don't even know if people shouldn't retire. I know they want to, but you know what I'm saying? I mean, maybe you're corporate nine to five, but there's a new book coming out called Joy Span,
Starting point is 00:55:55 and it's a woman who's a gerontologist, which is fancy for she takes care of old people, and she's phenomenal, and so I'm going to interview her too. And she says the number one predictor of health span, which is women live longer than men. I see all the bro-science guys out they're talking about I'm going to live to 120. I don't have a single female patient who wants to be 120. Not if everybody around her is dead. She's like, I just don't want to be in a nursing home. I just don't want to have dementia. I just don't want to have this 10 years of somebody having to take care of me. And what this doctor says is that relationships, using your brain, stimulating your mind besides the healthy habits. If you make it to 80, you know, and cancer doesn't get you or something
Starting point is 00:56:36 else, if you want that last decade to be healthful, relationships, relationships, relationships, relationships and using your brain. So even though you don't nine to five it, you have to be doing something with your talent. Yes. Okay. And I was just at Mississippi College asked me to come and do a Q&A. And I did pictures with all these people that had bought tables. It's a fundraiser for athletic and academic scholarships there. And a little woman, they were, you know, helping her in. She was walking. But they said, this is our grandmother. Ninety-two works at Chick-fil-A. three days a week for three hours and makes the cookies. You know, Chick-fil-A has the cookies and the dessert.
Starting point is 00:57:17 I guess they may be pre-made. I don't know Chick-fil-A, but she's doing that job. And she goes, girl, I love it. And her daughter said, she's like a destination. People go to see her at this Chick-fil-A and make over her, and everybody loves her. She's so popular. And I said, I hope I'm doing that.
Starting point is 00:57:35 I'm always wanted to work in food. I used to when I was in college. I could see myself making the desserts, three days a week and getting to be with people. And I think that's important to stay connected. Yeah. And my little mama wanted to work and kept working after they shut down their business. And then she got sick.
Starting point is 00:57:51 But she's at the senior citizens playing cards and beating the fire out of everybody in Canasta. Using her brain. Uh-huh. And playing bingo and doing all that. I like that you use your brain and it's a way to socialize with your friends. All my friends are doing like a Zumba class and Galveston. Yes. I love Zumba. And I have a little gym we built at our house.
Starting point is 00:58:09 like over 30 years, you know, here's Christmas. We get a new weight bench or, you know, whatever. But I miss, like, being with my girlfriends and we used to play games and do stuff and the kids grow up and whatever. I'm like, I may have to go to that damn exercise class just to go hang out with my girlfriend and dance around with some weights in my hand. I love that and I love jazzercise, but when I go here in Knoxville
Starting point is 00:58:27 because I'm kind of a big deal here. Yeah. Then people have to see me in my yoga pants. And I just feel weird about people going, look at Lans Feeney and those. She's eating a lot of goldfish. Tell me about what's kind of coming up. What do you have? What do we need to let everybody know about? I just had, I was just on
Starting point is 00:58:43 family feud, celebrity with Lainey Wilson. Did you win? We won. Chuck Moore goes, I knew we were going to win. Who did you bring from the family? I saw like a trailer for it. Yeah, it was my children, all three of my kids, because you have five. I wish I could do it again because I was so nervous that I was like freaked out over Britney Spears questions. And now I think, oh, I would have had a ball. But I did have a good time. And Steve Hartman. was precious. He is my idol. When I first got started with Outback Concerts, they go, what do you want to do, Leanne? I go ahead and said, I want to be the female Steve Harvey. He's done stand-up movies, television. I mean, he's done everything, and I just think he's so
Starting point is 00:59:22 funny. I'm finishing out my tour, just getting started tour. And then I will be shooting back in production for Season 2 of Leanne on Netflix. And I'm so thankful. They gave me a season two. Praise God. Season 1 was fantastic. Thank you. Yeah, for 28 days. We were having the hot flash after the date. They sprayed me with something weird. But yeah, those kind of scenes, you know, I really have never been an actress. I mean, I've only done one movie. But I thought, okay, that feels real to me.
Starting point is 00:59:52 I think I can pull that out of my butt because I've had many hot flash. I haven't had to make out with somebody during one. And then I thought, if Chuck Morgan gone from being left me, because let me tell everybody, I'm still with Chuck Morgan. Some people think that I've really been left. And no, Chuck Morgan is on my butt. Yeah, I'm still married. Okay, but in this series, Tim Daly is my, Agent Andrew is my boyfriend.
Starting point is 01:00:13 And when I had to go away for the weekend and I had to go to a hotel room with Agent Andrew, that came easy to me because I thought if I had to go now on a date, and start dating, period, start dating, and then go somewhere and share a bathroom with somebody. And we're a bathing suit and a hamburger in the poo. I mean, it would kill me. So that was easy to that episode. But yeah, so I start filming that, and then I'll go on tour again,
Starting point is 01:00:44 this 200-city tour, and I hope I get to do movies. I hope I get to do a movie again. I had a ball. There's maybe some opportunity with that for parts, so I hope I get to do that. But touring and television series. Awesome.
Starting point is 01:00:56 Well, it was wonderful having you on today. I love you. My little Mary Claire! I tell everybody, I know Mary Claire. I've got her phone number, but I try not to worry you, because you're doing all this. People are going to kill you. I still sit on the couch and watch Netflix.
Starting point is 01:01:10 So, you know, you can always text me when I'm doing that because I'm usually watching you. Oh, you angel from heaven. Thank you, you, don't. You give, give, give, you angel. This is going to be wonderful. You're going to help so many people, you don't. As a reminder to our audience, you can find Leanne at Leanne Morgan Comedy on Instagram and go read her book, What in the World?
Starting point is 01:01:33 You can also stream the first season of Leanne right now on Netflix and catch her hilarious new Netflix special, unspeakable things, streaming November 4th. I'd love to hear from you about this topic and anything else that's on your mind. You can find me on Instagram at Dr. Mary Claire and get honest and accurate information on health, fitness, and navigating midlife
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