Watch What Crappens - Talking RHONJ with Kim D

Episode Date: October 16, 2020

New Jersey's fashion icon Kim D joins us to answer all our burning questions about RHONJ, Teresa, Melissa, Kim G, Danielle Staub, Posche Fashion show, and pretty much anything else that crosses our mind. Check it out! Don't just listen to the interview, watch it! We recorded this over zoom; so come watch our threeway call with Kim D by clicking here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/42807919/Our Patreon Extras: https://patreon.com/watchwhatcrappensSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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And joining me is the wonderful and hilarious and lovely and talented Arrani Karam, who you don't hear his voice, you know why? Because it's just me talking right now. That's because today is a very special episode of Watcher Crappens. We are interviewing none other than the famous, the iconic, the one and only, Kim D, from Real Housewives of New Jersey.

So we recorded this a few days ago, and we did it over Zoom, and so the Zoom video of this will be available on crap and on demand. It should already be up. And if it's not, then something crazy's happened. But you know, that's what happens. We were talking about posh fashion show, clink, clink, clink, clink. Anyway, so if you want to watch the video of this interview, go to patreon.com slash watch or crap ins and sign up

at the crap ins on demand level, which also gives you access to our weekly bonus episode and also our awesome discord community, which has been super fun watching that grow. Anyway, enough about this, okay? Let's talk about Kim D, Real House, Resident Jersey, all that fun stuff. Here we go. How are you guys? I can't. How are you? I was trying to get close to you, about Kim D. Real House, Resident Jersey, all that fun stuff.

Here we go. How are you guys? I can. How much are you going to get close to so you can see me better? That's perfect. It's perfect. Yeah. It might fall down. Yeah, no, it's great.

Okay. Thank you for bearing with us with this whole technical situation. So we, this is, we are recording right now and we are. Okay. Our fingers are crossed that the technological gods are going to look kindly upon us, and there will be no issues with the recording. That will be a shame if it does, but we are hopefully, hopefully all goes well.

But Ron is, I love it. Well, it says, I'm, it says, please request record permission from the meeting host. So I guess that's you, Ben. Oh, well, I'm recording on my end. I guess that's you been. Oh, Well, I'm recording on my end. I can hear you guys perfectly. Yeah, I'm recording and we're just gonna we're just gonna hope for the best here. So And we normally use a whole different platform, but that is so so we're like Zoom we use zoom to do our conferences and everything but recording we really know what happens. So we're just gonna go with it. We're gonna be crazy.

Yeah, and you know what, at any given moment, you could hear I have eight dogs, one on my lap. So I'm serious in my bedroom here to try to get away from them, because every time somebody walks past my door they go crazy. So let's have those gods, the animal gods, keep them quiet.

Well, I've got one, two. There's a dog bed right behind me. So mine will probably be two. I love it. I love it. I mean, it's the animal God's keep them playing. Well, I've got one two. There's a dog bed right behind me. So mine will probably I love it. I mean it's still it's the time of COVID anything goes right now. I think listen, I'm an arosmith t-shirt, which is holy I put a little I put a little make-up on for you guys Which normally I'm looking around at my pajamas and no make-up on it all so I got I got all doll's up for you I'm in my underwear in this shirt to pretend that I'm making an effort. I know I put on a collar today for you since we have on the show. And I just walked outside. I'm in LA and it's like 95 degrees out of 9 now. She's saying so I could imagine it's it's raining and miserable here too.

So my allergies are crazy and I hate to like say this. But every time my allergies act up and my throat I'm like, oh, I'm going to go for a COVID test. You know, I think you'll feel like a relative. I wake up every day. I convince them. I have COVID symptoms. I went for one. I drove to someone's house that does the COVID test and stayed in my car. She came out of our house and gave me the COVID test right outside my door because I'm so panicked stricken all the time. Because I'm still around people, you know, and I was having like a my door, because I'm so panicked, stricken all this time, because I'm still around people, you know? And I was having like a little shopping party.

I'm like, I don't want to, if God forbid, is anything going on with me, I don't want to infect anybody, but I was good, all good. Good. So, Kim, I just wanted to say, I'm Ben and that's Ronnie over there. So that way, you know,

Hi. Hi. And thank you so much for coming on. This is like a very, very exciting. I'm going to be a little bit more focused on my life. I'm going to be a little bit more focused on my life. I'm going to be a little bit more focused on my life. I'm going to be a little bit more focused on my life. I'm going to be a little bit more focused on my life. I'm going to be a little bit more focused on my life.

I'm going to be a little bit more focused on my life. I'm going to be a little bit more focused on my life. I'm going to be a little bit more focused on my life. I'm going to be a little bit more focused on my life. I'm going to be a little bit more focused on my life. I'm going to be a little bit more focused on my life. I'm going to be us to Posh and so we didn't get to go and see that. So I just want you to know That you have my cousin Melissa as a potential potential shopper for you love it. Hi Melissa Okay, so you guys can find Kim on Instagram at Kim D. Posh just before I forget want to get everything out there and

Posh is happening this year virtually, right, Kim? Well, we have, well, what we're doing is this. This has changed a little bit. We were going to do a virtual fashion show, but in New Jersey right now, we are at 25% capacity in the restaurants. So they're filming it, not New Jersey house, I was wondering if that,

but I have other people coming in and filming it I'm going to stick by the COVID guidelines 25% They're going to film so people be able to see after and then the next one in February. Let's hope that COVID is gone Then we'll have people coming and buying virtual tickets But people be able to see this one because it'll be on YouTube because they are. Oh, okay. Okay. Okay. Perfect. That's a huge network. Congratulations. Yeah. Did you ever, we always say we're on YouTube. So, so, so, loosely. Did you ever think the Posh fashion show would become the, like, the thing that it has become? I mean, it's like legendary now. You know what? It's really funny because I do a lot of cameos, you know, and they call me iconic and they're

like, do the clink, clink, and I'm like, I'm a normal, regular girl, hardworking woman, you know, and I walk into certain places and they're like, oh my God, it's Kim Dianne, I turn around and I can't believe I just still can't believe it, all right? With that said, my first fashion show was the North Jersey Country Club. That was my first fashion show ever. Yeah. When Danielle got her hair ripped out.

Oh my gosh. Yes, my mother belonged to the Country Club. Then after all that was done and said, that week on the E ticker tape, no, North Jersey Country Club bands all new Jersey housewives, Okay. My mother was mortified. Everyone was mortified. But with that said, I mean, now I do three a year sold out. If I can, I would do four. So thank God, you know, thank God, you know, better here, pulled sorry, Danielle. I'm thrilled about it. There's

of course, but other fashion shows where we've had some crazy things. I think thrilled about it. There's of course, another fashion shows where we've had some crazy things. I think that was the crit busiest one. Yeah, well, now it's the now it's the Melissa fashion show. How did that work out? Do you think she just came and kind of pushed you out of the way to get her own fashion show in there? You know, I Melissa's really copied a lot. She really has. I mean, I speak the truth. Her story's so big. She copied.

Yeah, you know, she copied a lot. I had the story. I had the fashion shows. Her fashion shows are completely different than mine, you know, so whatever. I don't even think they're doing one this year. I heard that they're not maybe because of the COVID thing. But, you know, I have repeat people that come to mind.

Mine, I think, my fashion shows, they think are more iconic. But, you know, she's got her store. Now I'll give it to her. She's think my fashion shows, they think are more iconic, but she's got her store. Now I'll give it to her, she's got her envy, let her have it. So envy is still open, envy is still open. Envy is still open, all the boutiques were closed for a while.

I think it started the end of March. Now they're allowed to open, again, almost the same as restaurants. They can open only certain amount, you have to wear masks, of course, to go in. But I go to a restaurant right on the same as restaurants, you know, they can open only certain amount. You have to wear masks, of course, to go in. But I go to a restaurant right on the same street, uh, all the time that MVs on. Thank they're open. I see that they're open.

And what about the rumors that they were selling, uh, fake purses and stuff like that, like Chinatown purses? Oh, I was dying when I saw that on Instagram. You know, I don't even know if it was fake purses. What I know that Melissa did, because I saw her Instagram, she had like scarves that said Chanel hats, things like that. And she did an Instagram story of it. And people were like, that's not real Chanel. So somebody must have rotted her out.

You know, and it was a lot of fun. She got a big fine. she got a big fine. And it was embarrassing, you know, I have the, just Chanel made her say they're not real, like I was mortified for her, you know? Yeah. So, gosh, I have so many questions because this is like, you're like Kim D,

the famous Kim D, like I don't know what, I don't know where to even start. Like oddly enough, a big question that comes to my mind is, like I feel like, I mean, you were on Jersey the very first season, right? Wasn't that you're, were you there the first season? No, first season was six episodes. Right, but you weren't.

Six episodes. No. Oh, you weren't. Okay. No, but that first season, when they went to do the photo shoot, you know how they will come out and they have their family behind them. Yeah.

I had already met Jacqueline and Danielle. They walked into the original posh. I befriended Danielle. Danielle tells me the whole story about what happens at that Lunello's, the table flip, and she's like, I'm scared to death to go. They're like, they want to beat me up. They want to kill me.

I'm like, what? And you know, I just met her like, are you kid? This is unreal because no one knew what New Jersey house. Why is it a six-part episode? You know, six episodes. So she asked me to come with her to the fitting and to the photo shoot where they were filming, and she wore a lot of posh clothes

and to kind of be her bodyguard, to come with her, she was afraid. So I went and the original Carlos King was the original producer. And he recognized me when I was in Caroline Manzo's backyard when they were filming season two. And no one was speaking to Danielle. He remembered that I had come to the photo shoot

because I made friends with everyone. I was, well, she was in the back reminding. I was outside talking to everyone, having a good time. And then I kept your company, of course. But I said, can I film you? Can I film you like with your friends? And I was with my boyfriend at the time. Can you, and I'm like, you know, sure, why not?

We were drinking. We were at a party that was $1,000 a plate. So we were enjoying ourselves. And that's when they started filming me because that was their only connection to Danielle. And that's how I got on the show because I owned Posh. They will shop there. And Posh was like a tiny closet in the beginning, right? I see two remember being like...

Yeah, I remember just like all the clothes just being like on top of everyone. Yes. Are you in a new space now? Is it huge? Huge, really big space, but I, I have a little bit of bad news. I had the space for about seven years. It's beautiful. It's an Allendale, New Jersey, but because of COVID, I had a spa across the street.

Also two beautiful directly across the street. I had to make a decision to close one. Now you can make, you could put a boutique in a spa, you can't put a spa in a boutique. So I closed the boutique, the push, but there still is push. And now it's the spa and the boutique are together. So the boutique is in the back of the spa. What am I going to do? Have you guys, yeah, this is the way the world is working? Have you considered hiring Lauren Manzo? Because didn't she have, she had, she had come to say, could you please give us, could you please give us a yelp review of Caffeine? I can't.

Okay, so I like, I'm gonna say I like Lauren a lot. Caroline and I are fine. I hated the name. I hated the name. I felt sorry for Lauren that she had to do that. But Lauren does have a new place. It's in Wayne. I don't remember the name of it. It's in Wayne where I live, but she's doing great. It's a little blow dry place, and they also have a little boutique and it's not name cafes. We like to call it the face. We felt like that kind of elevated it a little bit. Yeah, we pulled the Judea, we pulled the Judea on cafes. We just changed it mid season. And you know, the way to recent change the last name, we never know what to call it.

Judea, Judea, Judea, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, well, it seems like she even gave that up because she says Judea is again, right? Yes, she does. Yes, she does. I'm not, it's a battle I'm not going to win. I'll just go. Now, you know, who cares? Yeah, Judea, Judea, Judea, Judea, I'm not gonna win. I'll just go And you know who cares? Yeah, dude. I shoot each of the cares. Yeah, you have it. I feel like we are I feel like we are going to dig into Look a lot of questions about the women of New Jersey and I'm just gonna ask this one before I forget because I think this one will get Forgotten What is you are Kim D?

But they're you famously haven't I don't know what I wouldn't say an alter ego, but there is another Kim from New Jersey Kim G. Do you have any relationship with Kim G Kim G's my sister-in-law. That's right. Yes. How is Kim G mother is a granite towel. Listen Kim G and my stepbrother are divorced after this show. Okay. Now after she was done when she got kicked out of that house, remember the lawyer came into my okay. Fliped her lid. We haven't seen her. No one's heard from her. We don't even know where she lives. Really? Yeah. I'm going to tell you a lot of people that get on these shows, lose their minds. Either either number one, it goes to their head. Okay. lose their minds. Either, either number one, it goes to their head, okay. And they start, you know, thinking who they are. Or they look, I've seen it with a lot of people, they really lose their

shit. I mean, they just don't know how to handle it. And she lost it. So actually going back to that. So going back to that, that was a Christmas party, right? She brought that lawyer to confront them. Okay, so there were rumors around that, that was a Christmas party, right? She brought that lawyer to confront them. Okay, so there were rumors around that that that lawyer was who ratted on tree and Joe. Is that true? Okay, her husband represented, I think, don't quote me, because this is a while ago, the person who rotted on Joe was Joe's partner. I don't even know what his name is.

Probably Joe. Probably because of all the Joe. Joe Anthony or. Yeah. So, Anthony's, Anthony's. So, I think that her husband was his lawyer or something like that. You know, it was something to do with that. But yeah, so they can talk while they want it, who writers, who went, whatever.

Supposedly Joe, Judy Chey was told, do the right thing by your partner. There's going to be big problems, you know, because, and he didn't. And I think, way I hear it, is that's how the boss started growing. Wasn't Jacqueline, it wasn't Caroline, none of those people. Yeah, because she was suggesting it was Caroline. Yeah, no, absolutely. No, what? Yeah, not gonna do that.

None of us would stoop that low to do anything like that. Joe Judeis has recently come out with a lot. I don't know if he's come out with him or if he's just stumping for them, but his line of sex toys, right? You've seen this on Instagram. He's always doing ads for like, vibrators and stuff. Have you seen that? Me?

I would die. I'm such a fool. I would. If I seen that, I think I would, I'm, I'm, I'm, listen. Everyone knows this about me. I'm not into that kind of stuff. Listen, I'm happy he's making money. If he's doing good at it, I'm, I'm, I'm listen, everyone knows this about me. I'm not into that kind of stuff. Listen, I'm happy he's making money.

If he's doing good at it, I'm not surprised at his line of work, you know, we chose. Um, because that's what they talked about, you know, the corg is in the judo. I still they talked about the sex, you know, so again, God bless them. Well, you know, but I would have a heart attack if I saw that. So, so Kim, what's funny about you is that like, I feel like the ladies on the show just always are kicking you to the curb. Okay. So all the time, it seems like, it seems like you got a big kick to the curb recently. And like, are you ever going to come back to the show? Do we, would you ever want to come back? And if they asked you, would you come back? Okay, well, that's a three-part question. Yes, it is.

Let's talk about it. We got all the time. We got all the time. I'm here all day. Listen, I'm staying in my aros. My sweats are my aros in the t-shirt. Okay, so the first part of the question is, I really thank Bravo and Sirens for making me, I'm Kim D,

because of them. You don't even have to type in my last name, okay? So thank you very much, Bravo Sirens. How I got kicked to the curb was the reason why, Theresa and I really aren't friends anymore and how this all started. She really, she's the one who threw me under the bus. She's the one who chose to crap with our family,

watch what crap means, and bring me into it and then decided to make a deal with them. And instead of coming to me like a woman and saying, listen, I don't want to fight with my family anymore, I would say, who do you want to fight with? You know me, I'm not that girl that I need to fight with them. Joe and Melissa and I just recently ran into each other before COVID, and we were fine. We were fine. So when you mentioned starting the fight with the family or fighting her battles with her family you're referring to the Melissa stripper gate thing.

Yes. And the Melissa boyfriend thing. Remember that one? Remember that? Oh yeah. Which one you want to do first? So you know, Teresa, listen, I did not tell any of the other girls what was going down as far as stripper gate, but everyone knew something was going to happen at the fashion show.

Teresa knew something that was, Teresa's the one who told everyone that she was a stripper, along with one of Joe's best friends who told me they used to go to lookers to see her. This is, I don't, I would never, ever come out and say something like that about somebody unless I knew. You know what I'm not that girl is just gonna make stuff up and just leave you know someone who is kids and all that okay. So Teresa knew she was a stripper. Teresa said that that's why her family didn't like her. Teresa Melissa hated

each other's guts and Melissa came on the show along with Kathy behind Teresa back. She found out the night of before the Christening that they've signed. And you saw it. Oh my gosh. Yeah. Oh, yeah. We always thought that, you know, we thought that was pretty low down. Actually, I was on the phone with Teresa when she almost didn't sign her contract

the night before the Christening. So with that said again, so Teresa started all this stuff. And then no, my, my, I was with someone for 13 years, and she knew him very well. And he passed away. Okay, seven years ago, she knew this, she knew I was down and out, I filmed the year he passed. And then right after that, she's when she threw me under the bus, made peace with her family, and basically told, you know, Bravo,

I don't really need Kim anymore. And so they twins came on. Oh, yeah. The twin might. I was the twins came on. Oh, yeah. Left their heart. And that was interesting.

Those are two who should have lost their damn minds after this show. I would think that being'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I't on when I watched it because the whole storyline to me was really, really, like we get down in dirty, but that was really down in dirty. Real here. Oh.

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I love my kid, but wherever you get your podcasts. You can listen ad-free on the Amazon music or Wondery app. Did you ever want to be a housewife? Because you're always friend of. Did you ever want to be a housewife? You know, Andy Cohen told me I'm not a housewife. He said you're not a housewife. And he said that with a compliment,

even though I, to all housewives, God bless you all, that was never what I aspired to be. Okay. So we had conversations about this. He also told Ziggie and Dolores, he goes, Kim should have her own show. He goes, she is not a housewife. She's more like an entrepreneur.

You know, we have a wonderful relationship, Andy, and I, when we go and run into each other, he'd be like, it's Kim D in the house, Carrie. And I'm like, you know, I crack up, which you know, he's always mentioning my name. He gives me the mausole for my Halloween costumes. He put me, he put me last year, I was Madonna, and we sent him a video. And he picked me over Kim K playing L would. So, you know, it's not that he didn't, yeah, that's all over Bravo. There we go. It's not that he didn't like me and, you know, we didn't get along great.

He didn't see me as a housewife. That's just, listen, that was his opinion. Would I, now the net last part of it? Would I, would I come on the show? Why wouldn't I come on the show? If they would pay me? Of course. Yeah, under promo. Teresa, who doesn't want me on?

Teresa, but do you think so? Like, I feel like a lot of Teresa's issues with her castmates and also probably with you were somehow wrapped up with her marriage and defending Joe and things like that. Do you think that now that they are separated, we're going to see a new Teresa that may want to bring you back into her life, and would you want to be back in Teresa's life? Okay. Talk. Too hard at this time, too hard at this time.

All right, Teresa would never want me back in her life, because, you know, I'm too truthful. I'm too truthful. I'm not gonna lie for anyone, and I'm just, I had her back on that stage when I did the reunion, and that's why they didn't want me to do the next reunion because they the producers said what are you going to get up there on life for Teresa I didn't lie I omitted you know so um but I think so much water under the bridge now with me and Teresa first about Joe cheating done about her cheating but she

really wasn't cheating because he was in jail and he had already cheated. So, I'm sorry. We fully support her boy toy. Oh, God, so did I. And I was the first one to say, I'm glad that she did that. Teresa doesn't have many friends. Teresa doesn't know how to hold on to a friend. And that's a shame because I'm a woman's woman and I have a ton of friends. If you see my Instagrams, if you see my, I love, I'm a woman about women empowerment.

And Teresa just doesn't get that. She doesn't get it. Look what she did to Margaret last season. She has no allegiance. Look what she did to that. She's no legion. She doesn't know what that means. And you know, that's sad for her.

But I don't have to be Teresa's friend. And with somebody else's friend, I'm still good friends with Dolores. Very good. Yes. Beloved to us. Yes. Dolores. How does Dolores manage that? Being friends with so many of Teresa's enemies? I guess that's probably a problem this season, huh? Listen, let me tell you something. Dolores never once doesn't take my call to Dolores. Always comes to my shows when she can make them, she never, I don't think Teresa ever made her answer for that. Whereas there was a lot of other people that Teresa did make her make them answer.

You know, so I don't know. I don't think Teresa wants a message to Laura's deep down. I wouldn't. I don't think anybody wants to mess with the little girl. That's the best part about the Laura's is that like if you look at her story lines, they're pretty like dull. It's like usually her being like, well, I had to open up the refrigerator today. Because there was a smell.

Yes. So I got some, like a Frank draft some dried pasta in the counter shop. I love it. Yeah. It's true. Frankie came over. Frankie's been doing a lot of push ups.

He got a blow job last night from his girlfriend. Exactly. Like that's her storyline. But for some reason, I'm just like riveted. Because I feel like, like you said, you just don't want to mess with the Laura's. You just feel like when that, when like angry Dolores comes out and it's so where,

it is so good, and you just sort of like waiting for it to come out. Okay, well let me tell you how it would happen. I'm gonna give you a scenario how that would happen. Okay. As long as Bravo and Sirens make this the Teresa Jedi show, it will not happen. They are all afraid of losing their

job and I'm listening. You know me when I tell it to you, it's because I know it. Yeah, all of them. Well, they're not going to take it too far because they're afraid of losing their job. Look what happened to me. Yeah, a long line. The fashion show. Not going to

happen. So what happened? We asked the listeners for some questions this week for you. And someone said, do you know what happened between Trey and Jackie a few months ago? Well, I heard it was pretty ugly, whatever it was. And I heard that Jackie didn't go to a few of the parties or some filming. But once again, I hear that I think everything's okay

because these girls are only gonna push it so far. Whereas me, you saw what I did. I flipped the chair. I said, Clint, Clint, I mean, I don't give two shits. I'm gonna say whatever. I mean, God, that's a lot of there. And I looked it up. I looked up that part and I saw you in some interview saying,

listen, I only left because I saw that she had water. She was about to throw something at me. She had a drink. She had a drink. And I was in a leisure dress with my hair and makeup. Yeah, you're like,

I'm messing up my dress. Paladin here, you think I'm going to let her throw a drink at me and not going to happen? So I watched, you know, I'm street girl. So through one eye, I'm face to face with her going at it,

really going at it. And the other eye is watching her hand go to her drink three times on the third time. I go, that's it. Flip the chair. I said, I'm out of here because I'm not going to put myself in that position to go. And now I've got to go to my hair. We blow dry to my makeup, but not not happening. What are your thoughts on Danielle stop? Danielle just made this whole thing how she's never coming back to the real house. I've never again. Do you on Danielle's job? Danielle just made this whole thing, how she's never coming back to the real house. I've never, again, do you think that's true?

No, I think they told her she was done. And I think she asked them nicely to allow her to say that because it's embarrassing for her. She makes such a big thing of it. And instead of coming back and being humble, that you have a job and you have another chance, she just makes this big thing that she's so, well, you know, all that.

Bing humble, big grateful. And, you know, she doesn't do that. So she makes this big to do. And then when it doesn't work out, now you're embarrassed. You know, why do you think Bravo got rid of her? Because she actually brought a lot of, a lot of really great drama over the past two to three seasons, right? Like I don't think that she did anything on the show that was like so horrific that it's like, oh, we got to get rid of her. I thought she

was like pretty funny. A lot of people really can't stand her. I think she's hilarious and how well I like her too, but you have to remember, it was the Margaret gate. It was, she pulled Margaret's hair to Lisa got what telling her. So what had happened? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

That's true. Once again, to Lisa didn't have her back, to Lisa, you know, to Lisa said, do it, do it. And then when they cooled her out on it, she flips out, she runs away and who gets fired. Danielle. That's right. Well, I don't think she's left it really open for herself to come back anyway, because she said some pretty nasty things that she's left because she has that new podcast like. Yes. And I don't know. I don't know what it's called.

Well, it's like Danielle, but misspelled. Like she, like her promo materials are misspelled or something. You know, like I said, I would never, I'm never going like you've got a people ask me, do you feel villainized? Do you feel absolutely not? I would rather be a villain than a victim anytime of my life. I did what I wanted to do. Did they cut a lot of what I said out? Yes, on the last reunion. I ripped Melissa and Teresa apart bad. They cut it all because they don ripped Melissa and Teresa apart bad.

They cut it all because they don't want them to look bad. I'm much smarter than both of them, put their, hold their heads together. And I could just slice them up. So they cut a lot of it. That's the only thing that bothers me. Other than that, I can't. What did they cut? We don't cut.

We don't have a good word. When Melissa was saying, oh, Jeff, my Joe, you should, he would never be with somebody like you. I said, well, yeah, because we all want a man that comes to our knees. And I went, I've been to me in Theresa one, I had a bad about getting out of jail

and who was trash and who was this. And she couldn't repeat what POSCH meant. Piece of shit, hope for everything. She couldn't repeat that. She didn't remember. So I said, somebody must have wrote, and they probably, it's like Joe Biden. They probably drum it in her head, you know,

what to say, what to say. She needs these things in her ears to, you know, repeat. So, but I'll so much more was said, when I walked off the stage, one of the head producers, and I'm gonna say her name, Lucilla, she looked at me, because you just got your own show.

You knocked it out of the park. She doesn't cut the show. She doesn't slice it, you know what I mean? So, and then when Ziggy and Delores walked off, she said the same thing to them. Kim D really brought it. She's going to get her own show. Like you guys didn't, you know, like really,

they really pumped me up. And then when I watched it, I'm like, oh, okay, you know, I'm just still at the same game. But then when I watched it, I'm like, oh, okay, you know, they're still at the same game. But again, I'm a willing participant. I got them. The first time I realized what they were about is when Dean of Manzo said I was two-faced when I was sitting at that table

and they be only connection with Danielle to them was me. And I'm like, what? Two-faced, I had my own table that my boyfriend spent $10,000 for they came and sat at my table. They brought up Danielle's name. I didn't say anything, but the fact that we have a little annoyed at her shows me some money. What's two face about that? I wasn't even talking to her at the time, but that's when I knew that they can say and do whatever they want because they have the confessionals and I don't. Right. Well, speaking of Dina, what was the tea with Dina when she left the show the first time?

What was going on with her in Caroline? Do you know? You know, at that time, they were still somewhat okay. There was some kind of crazy argument between the two of them that someone said was something about jealousy, like between them. Like they really got, they were absolutely so.

I'm like, you know, got that so on HGTV about party planning or like designing for parties or something. And supposedly there was a big jealous fight about that. But, and I don't think they're really still talking. Isn't that crazy? Is it really crazy? Like sisters and they're not talking because of bullshit on reality TV. Well, well, Dina took off. Dina lives in California. She don't even come to New Jersey anymore. Well, what happened

like staying on Dina that whole attack of Dina and her husband and their. In staying. That's the same. And then we found out that there's all these ties to the partner of the brown stone, right? Her husband. Hello, not her husband. Her husband. Yeah. He's a partner at the brownstone, but it's her ex husband who ended up being the one that hired that guy, right?

Like he gave them. Well, that's why he's accused of some, Yeah, and return for some like free wedding at the brown or discounted wedding. Yeah, the gentleman had a wedding for like 400 people and was charged like $5. You know, something like that. But yeah, I mean, that was huge. That hit all the papers. And of course, they were all calling me for a statement. And you know, hit a couple of the page six and all those things and my glisten you know my opinion of it was you know because he ignored her Tommy he really didn't he didn't mistreat Dina but he ignored her you know so you know mistreatment to me yeah it is it is well you know abuse is abuse

ignore but it's all a form of abuse and then what happens is is when they people, whether it's a woman, whether a man lose the person, then all of a sudden, then they want them, and they blame the other person. So it's a definite typical case of when he had her, he didn't appreciate her, and now she really, she's madly in love with this guy. They have such a beautiful life together. They're married and everything. I don't foresee them coming back to New Jersey. I know, I would, if I had my nose broken and people came out with the bat and I had to jump on a plane, no thank you. Yeah, understandable.

I can't put out New Jersey. Yeah. So, are you in contact with many of the cast members like Pastor Present? The only two that I'm well, well, Jacqueline, I love to do straight. Jacqueline and I love each word. I adore her. Siggy, I adore her and I in Dolores. I mean, we're all still, you know, I'm in contact with them a lot. Siggy flicker. Wow. Yes. So it's hard to tell. We'd love Siggy. Well, we, you know, we do a lot of terrible impersonations on our show and Sigi was so much fun for us because she's just so big.

I love her video. I love her. We love that. But only seeing Sigi really on social media these days, I guess it depends on where you stand. It depends on where you stand politically. Yeah, yeah, it depends on where you stand politically, but I guess speaking from our side, we look at that like what the hell happened to Sigi? Like, yeah, she's going to be like, well, you know, everyone on both platforms are really, really, whatever you believe, whether you want Trump or whether you want to, it's no gray area anymore.

Yeah. You are either 100% for Trump or you're 100% and there's no one in the middle anymore. Yeah. You are either a hundred percent for Trump or you're a hundred percent and there's no one in the middle anymore. So you know, she is, I think she's working with them now. You know, she's not just doing this on her own. I think she's, she's working with them. Well, yeah, I think, I think with Sige for me, I actually really liked Sige because I felt like as crazy as she was and is, she was just like herself on TV. Like she couldn't help.

She couldn't help being a lunatic. And I liked that. I really want that out of people who come on these shows. But what really lost it for me was when she kept on accusing Margaret of being anti-Semitic. And I'm Jewish and I don't speak for all Jews, but I felt that that was a stretch. I think you're allowed to make a comparison to Hitler

without being anti-Semitic. Well, see, but again, Sige takes that so seriously. She's not a regular Jewish person. She is an extreme, you know, she's really a Jewish, but I can't even explain it. She went to Israel and she was just obsessed with the whole thing and her father's very, so she really honestly did take Umberd with it.

You know, she really did. For instance, like, I'm a talent. So when I talk, I do a lot of inspirational speaking to women who are going through a divorce or whatever, and they'll talk about their husbands and of kids and I say the third time, it's gonna get. Now people like, what? Yeah, how do you use that word so hot?

I'm not, it's not derogatory. I'm Italian, I can say that. Yeah, you're Italian. So I get where you're coming from, but she really, really felt that. She wasn't making that up. Like she was really upset. It was clear that she felt it.

I just was, where it lost me was that I felt like when once like things were cooler, she still was like unable to. I she felt it. I just was where it lost me was that I felt like when once like things were cooler, she still was like unable to. I know on it. She's like someone else's perspective on it. Oh, it seemed to me like she was just not liking Margaret. So she was using that, you know, saying, well, I mean, Margaret really, really, really threw her into the bus.

The first she got Margaret on the show. And then the first day that Margaret filmed, Margaret really, um, wait, so she really did get her on the show? Yes. I always think that that's a lie when people say they get somebody on the show. But they do. They're like, oh, look, they're having, you know, they're having lunch together today. But yeah, no, what happens is they come to you as a housewife and they say, do you have any friends? Do you have any people that you could recommend and then they go interview them all and then they pick them so Ziggy had picked her as a friend and they interviewed her along with probably at least 20 other people maybe more and she got picked you know so have her back

maybe for the first couple times you film it was like the first time she filmed kind of through Ziggy under the bus So there was bad blood right from the beginning. Oh wow. Yeah. So what do you have a favorite season of New Jersey? Let me think. I mean, I think the funniest season was when Joe and Joe fought when they were on that.

When they fished for it with the black, well, over the years. All the black, all the free. Oh, my, I don't even know if I was, I think I was on for a little while. That was one of the fun. I can't, listen, when I watched that, I was crying laughing.

I mean, I just thought it was hysterical. So I'm gonna say that's my funniest scene. My fun, my wish, my favorite for me was when I had all the girls walking my show at the brownstone and I was oversold and Caroline walks into Albert and says, oh my god, because we were on top of each other back to back, you know, there was no room. And he goes, yeah, she oversold by 120 tickets. And to me, we had so much fun. We kind of all got along. Teresa walked. Melissa walked. Kathy was a part of it.

Kim G was on. I loved that because even though we were all kind of, kind of fighting, we were like still friendly. And like me, Teresa and Jacqueline would be on the phone to win the morning. What are they gonna do to us next? Oh my God. That brings back some good memories.

I don't know what season that was, but that was my favorite. I think it was Melissa's first season. Yeah, I think that was season three, I remember that. And we last week, we just watched this documentary about Action Park. Did you ever go to Action Park? Did you ever go?

I don't remember. I might have with my son, I might have. Okay, I just have. Okay. I just wanted to know if you had any crazy action park stories because it feels like a lot of people from Jersey have like tails of bodily harm, etc. I came from that park. I'm a princess and I'm not a big outdoors girl. Okay.

I don't really lay in the sun this and that whatever. I'm not really. I did Disney World with my son, 31 now. So I did Disney World seven years in a row, and I did what I had to do as a mother, but it's not really my gig to be going on rides and all that kind of stuff. You could more see me,

by a pool with an umbrella with a peanut collada. That's where I am. Or home with my eight dogs. So yeah, no, I don't have any action park stories. That's okay. Yeah. And then another question I have, another quick sort of last question.

What do you think about Joe Gorgas, inspirational things he does? Like his little do you follow his Instagrams? Listen, I don't, but I've heard, and I've seen some because you know, when you follow certain people, things pop up on that. With what I know, I'm gonna be nice because I had a very nice meeting with them,

at a restaurant, I hugged it out with Joe. My amelicid didn't hug it out, but we took a picture together and I put it behind me, but I'm just going to say this. I don't think you should really be doing inspirational speaking or yeah. Yeah. Joe, you're a cool guy, but I think you should stay in your lane. You know, it's a little, that's a little bit of a stretch for Joe.

Yeah. A little bit of a stretch. I love it a little bit of a stretch. Most things are, most things are, let's go. Yes. Yeah, most things are most things are let's yes, we can't we can't let you go without asking You know kind of a low down question sure are you a madam in the mafia? Oh In the mafia. Oh, that's added to it Are you mafia and are you a madam? Okay? First of all not I'm not forget I'm not, forget a mad, I'm not a magna either,

but I do drink from magnums. Okay. Yeah, okay. When I got home that day and I told my son, and then he watched me go, he goes, mom, he's 31, I wish you were a mad, you know, we were laughing.

I think they got that because I have beautiful, beautiful friends and I have my fashion chosen. There's always gorgeous girls walking. They can't think of what to say about me. I'm a real prude. I live my life. I have fun, I party, but I haven't been with anyone since my boyfriend died seven and a half years ago. So they really can't call me what they call each other. You're a co-core, you're a disser that not happening with me because you know, I live a very private life. When I heard that, I laughed. I don't even think that was so bad.

I mean, even if it was true, be like, okay, I'm not, you know, but it's not true. Yeah, obviously. I wouldn't ask, I don't think if it was really true. Yeah, no, I mean, I would ask for it. It's not true. I think I would not do the stories. Yeah, no, I listen. Like I said, my son said he wishes it was.

It's not. As far as the mafia is concerned, I listen, like I said, my son said he wishes it was. It's not as far as the mafia is concerned. I am not in the mafia. Do I know people that might be a little connected? I play with the big boys and I meant when I said it, I meant it. Yeah, well, I've got a question. I know we're trapping up, but this guy comes up. People talk about this guy all the time.

Back in season two, Daniel Stobb had that friend Danny. Probably Zana. He's scary. That wild. Well, you know, his father, his father supposedly was a big, you know, something big, whatever. So I don't know much about the family that he came from, whatever, but I heard

that, you know, his father, who was, I think, passed away, you know, was somewhat connected. But, you know, when you're Italian and you know, his father, who I think passed away, you know, was somewhat connected. But you know, when you're Italian and you live in New Jersey, you kind of know people, you know, and I was raised knowing, and my, you know, first husband, who was my son's father who passed away, he kind of knew. And you know, I don't think too many people want people doing or saying anything wrong to me. think too many people want people doing or saying anything wrong to me like when Joe Gorgah basically attacked me at San Cubano, you know, not many of these kind of people would really

appreciate a man speaking to me like that. And he lifted his hand to me, which nobody saw. He went, he put his fist up to me and Melissa grabbed his hand. So it was a pretty ugly scene outside San Cabana. It really was. Yeah. Oh. And do we have an update on how Rails is doing? Because Rails is like the steakhouse of New Jersey. And they're constantly. They're constantly. Yeah.

Is it okay? I go there. I go there. I happen to like the restaurant. Haven't been there since before COVID. I couldn't believe how many times they filmed there though. You know, when I did the show, I was like their concierge because I know all the like hot restaurants in the area

and I'd be calling them and say, listen, we want a film there. They'd give us free everything. Free wine, free drinks, free food, free of it. So the producers would call me, say, where can we film next? To reason Joe need a romantic scene, where should we go? And I was like, what am I, the concierge of New Jersey? I was like, what I enjoyed it.

It was fun. But yeah, they really feel, I like rails. The food's good, the service of, they're always packed. Hard to get a reservation there. I guess really, the show really did them great too, because they can even get a reservation. Yeah, yeah. Hot, hot steakhouse.

Hot steakhouse. All right, so just to leave us, what would your housewife line be? What would your tagline be if you were a housewife? Well, I'd have to stick with, you know, I play with the big boys. I'd have to add to that, but you know, don't mess with me because I play with the big boys or, you know, even when I'm home, I play with the big boys, you know, stuff like that. Yeah. Because I think that was that was the line that got me the contract. You know, I got I got a nice contract that year after fighting with Joe, you know, before that it was, you know, friends, but this one gave me the better contract, you know, when I fought with him.

So I'm going to I have a pill all behind me that someone made. Big beautiful says I play with the big boys. And I think the clink clink, right? Clink clink is classic. Clink clink is classic and the play with the big boys are the two lines that I'm asked a lot to do on cameo. So I would have to say that would have to be my tagline. But again, again, Bravo, Sirens, I commend them

for what they've done for me. I've taken the ball and run with it. Some people don't. Yeah. And, you know, I don't ever think to ask me back, but I love Andy Cohen. I'd love to get back into that, into his, what are they called,

what's it happens live, clubhouse, clubhouse. I was having a brain freeze, loved being with him there. He's never done a one-on-one with me. I've always either been a, you know, a surprise guest, or the time that they made me just up as a sexy cockroach.

That was fun for Halloween. You know, I love being the colon. Yeah, yeah, that was good. They said, would you, I go, what? They go, we made you a sexy costume. Would you wear it? I'm like, yeah, I'll be there. I go, what do I care?

We, I would do all full each other that. So, but I would definitely want to work with them again. I did do botched, you know that. I'd love to do in that show. On the eat botched, you know that. I loved doing that show. On the eat, I did also did a show with Vivica Fox, face the truth. So I didn't only do R.H.O.N.J. And I'm hoping that when COVID lifts,

I can do something else. I would be getting, I want to do worst hooks in America. I think I can be really good on that show. I'm going to put it out into the universe. Well, yeah, but we will be putting it out to the universe for you as well on this show. Is there anything else you need to show? Anything you need to mention? The YouTube, so the post show will be on YouTube. Yeah, we'll be on YouTube. Also, if they want to shop

on my website, I sell my web site, it's www.poshbychimd.com. Okay. And my other Instagram is at posh by Kim day and I run both Instagrams So like you know when people and I do a cameo I tell people listen, you know after the cameos done if you'd like to Friend me, you know on Kim be posh. I answer all my DMs. I handle all my own Facebook my you know both Instagrams so you're really getting me Anyone out there if you want to talk to me. You're getting me Well, you're totally unfiltered and we appreciate that. Thank you. Best of luck and we can't wait to see the action show.

And thanks for coming on to our show. Yeah, thank you so much. You've got to come to the next one. I'm going to send you some posh way Kim D. Mast. Oh, perfect. Okay, you got that. I'm so into it. All right, very good.

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