Wednesdays - 114: My best friend confessed her love to my fiancé?!!

Episode Date: June 20, 2023

Sophie and Melissa have FINALLY reunited and boy, do we have a special episode for you tiny winies!! This week we’ll be discussing boys sucking nipples and calling you “mummy” during sex… and reading your boyfriend’s secret diary and finding out he has CHEATED on you?! Plus, what do you do when your best friend confesses her love to your fiancé?!?This week we are drinking: RE! Torrontes 2021Our rating: 10/10 Thanks for listening x Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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I'm back. No one's missed me. We've missed you so much. I have. I feel like the whole Instagram page is just... I've missed my freaking routine so much. Same. So have I. Honestly, guys, that whole wedding took out a chunk of our lives maybe like

two months of like non-routineness oh yeah i was just gone she was not there i was not there i was like but she's back she's back in business she's back out in full force she's back out in full force we're suffering from i've got jet lag we've got hay fever guys the hay fever we were just i've actually not taken aperitif because i thought it'd make me too sleepy because i'm sleepy anyway i couldn't listen to me this is vexfemidine the 180 gram one which is the highest you can get i'm always like that i'm a lazy bitch it is out of control like all night long it's like this water streaming down so i basically have to get a tissue no because that's because we like wax our nose as mindful growing back i've let them come out i literally fold up a little bit of a tissue And I just like

Place it under my Thing So that when My nose leaks in the night It doesn't go on the pillow Disgusting Because it'd be crispy When you wake up

I know No I'd be sick Sorry TMI But I'm just gonna be real With you guys It's really terrible They might be smaller Because he's like

My eyes are like itchy And obviously my nose is blocked But it's not running at the moment Which is really good Sneeze Sneeze And the back of my throat I'm like

Yeah the itch in the air Okay right Oh god I'm just sneezing. Sneezing, sneezing. And the back of my throat I'm like yeah the itch in the air. Okay right. Oh god I'm so happy that we're back. Oh god I'm happy. Right ladies and gentlemen we're drinking a lovely cold Toronto's 2021. It's bright and appealing with lovely fresh tropical fruits and citrus blossom

this exotic wine with lovely nuances of rose petal lemongrass and ginger the palette is rich and aromatic fresh and beautifully structured with lovely rich ripe fruit crisp gorgeous for a little bit of a scratch duck there aromatic oh god just because of the word aromatic you love duck i hate plum sauce i give so do i i never have plum sauce i have the we've had this conversation i always just have a dry pancake i have a dry pancake just the cucumber the onion and then just the duck and then i don't really love the duck because you get like a bit of duck and then it's just fat and i've gone off sushi as well i've gone off sushi as well. I've gone off sushi. Like, it gives me the actual bit of it.

I've gone off sushi. Like, I'm like, unless it's like the freshest, most amazing sashimi, I like, I don't really like the sushi rice. I kind of just,

yeah, I'm going through stages. Oh, here we go. Sniffy sniff. Everyone, I'm sure all you guys listening are going to have the same thing. Everyone's got hay fever this year. Even if you've never had it before,

you've got it. Jamie does, doesn't he, little bitch? Oh my God, I'm so jealous. I know, too. Even babies have it. Like, imagine a baby got hay fever this year even if you've never had it before you've got it jamie doesn't a little bit oh my god i'm so jealous even babies have it like imagine a baby having well they don't care my friends draw come on his pooch how's hay fever she sneezes and it's the most heartbreaking thing and they told her to give her like purities she'll be like i know um okay so we're drinking this it's delicious shall i give it a gorg, yeah. Going to help the hay fever, all that. All filling up that histamine bucket. You know what you can do?

You can get a sulfate filter for wines. I think we should get one. Delicious. Lovely. Crisp and fresh. Delish. Just what we want in summer. Okay, right.

Wedding and honeymoon catch up. Yeah, right. So just give us, we've heard a lot about it for the whole world. The wedding, like, come on, we're over it. it was the most magical thing i've ever seen but we've also done a debrief on here obviously without you but with your other boyfriend emily yeah i need to listen to it so should we just do a quick recap of the old honeymoon so it was basically just great we lost our luggage two weeks boiling up loads of mosquito bites but we had the funnest time gorgeous is that quick enough and do you think that you preferred the second half of the honeymoon to the first half do you think or no because you did two

different places i thought i would but i was hot i was hot like i was really hot i was like the whole time like i'm not sure caribbean in the winter like sorry i sound like is it really hot as in like how hot 100% humidity I was like this is that really good for our skin well bearing in mind I have pigmentation

so I don't lie in the sun so I was literally like just like no but I can't really obviously it was an amazing time yeah delicious food

lovely time gorgeous relax funny funny funny no arguments lovely stuff stunning swiftly moving on swiftly moving on sweet or dry okay No arguments. Lovely stuff. Stunning.

Swiftly moving on. Swiftly moving on. Sweet or dry. Okay. God, I've missed this. I was going to say, like, do you even know what the structure is? Yes, guys.

I still am part of this podcast even though none of you have missed me. Obviously, everyone's missed you. No, they haven't. Well, your co-host has missed you. Toby's taken over. Emily's taken over.

I love Emily's joy. Emily's so fun. No, Toby, you're not allowed. Like, you've already... No, I don't want Toby's. I love Toby so, so much, but no, no, no.

Not okay. I bet he loved doing it. Did he love it? Yeah, he loved it so much. I knew. He fucking loves it. He was like, doo-doo-doo.

He's a girl secretly, isn't he? Yeah, he's a very... He's got feminine features. Is that the right word? Feminine tendencies. He just loves a bit of gossip.oss oh i love jb's so shit at gossiping i love him he's gonna take listening to my gossip and like speaking about it but then i'm like if i ask him for gossip he's like don't know i'm like you're useless they're like yeah they doesn't take in

any information like what was the fight about? Serotosis. Right, back to sweet or dry. Right, sweet or dry. Stirring drinks with a finger, then sucking it. I'm sick of you. Dry. Dry as fuck. Listen, sometimes there's knees must, and you don't have a... Don't suck it. You're having a pic...

You don't suck it, and you're having a pic, and they can... No, to be fair, I just swivel my glass around. I don't stir my finger. The worst is anyone who goes... Like, eats a rib and goes... I will vomit on you. you you're no blood sucking blood off your finger i that's my worst fear like if you cut your finger they go they suck the blood i'm literally like your dad you know what's really weird to me and mind-blowing to me when we were

younger i used to get paper cuts all the time why is that just stopped oh i get them all the time i never get i honestly have cuts all over my fingers. I don't know why. I think it's razor. Oh. Yeah. Ouchy ouch. I know.

I'm a little cutty girl. Scrappy. She's scrappy. Where's your PJ bottoms and tracksuit pants? Well, I mean, only... I'm guessing that's like if your boyfriend or like... Jamie, yeah. Like my size.

I think that's quite sweet. When Toby puts one on, I'm like, quite fit. Quite sweet. Surely not you. You're like if your boyfriend or like. Jamie, yeah. I think that's quite sweet. When Toby puts on, I'm like quite fit. Quite sweet. Surely not you. You're like two foot tall. No, when he puts mine on, my baggy trackies, they're like kind of tight on him and I think quite fit. When Jamie puts mine on, they're quite big on him.

I love it. Like I can wear hair stays even my mind. Yeah, I think it's sweet. It's sweet. And also really fit If they were really tall And they're tiny on there Oh my god the next one Oh my god

Huh? Calling me mummy When he sucks my nipples Firstly anyone Like I really don't like The nipple sucking Like please stop I'm not going to talk

About my sex life on here I'm not going to talk About it either But like No it's not fucking sweet Don't fucking call me mommy ever especially not when you're sucking one's nipples ew like ew ew dry dry dry dry dry just ask me sex chat i'm just not into i'm sorry just dry dry i think this is quite into it but i'm not

mommy what talking when you're having sex no that's not really a thing for me i'm not going to disclose if i like when it's a bit awkward sure but i'm not going talking when you're having sex no that's not really a thing for me I'm not going to disclose if I like my nipples if it's silent it's a bit awkward sure but I'm not going to say on here if I like my nipples

being sucked or not because you're like I hate it well I don't hate it but like I wouldn't like an hour of someone sucking my nipples oh 100% not

it's like a 3 second jobby obviously I mean it's like take it out like hell with it how mental is it that milk actually

comes out of like us as our nipples when we're older and we have children? Isn't that just mind-blowing? Oh, the thought. Now I'm hitting Jamie like when I'm pregnant, sucking my nipple with my milk. No, no, no.

And being like, thanks, mommy. Wait, we've also had quite a few stories on this podcast about like sucking nipples with milk, haven't we? You've all got Freudian issues, is that a name? Freudian? Freudian issues. Is that a name? Freudian? Freudian issues. What does that mean? Oh, psychology.

Tell me, what does it mean? When you've got like mummy kind of like attachment problems and you like want to... Basically, they fancy their mum. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Is that right? Because apparently that's the first

like person you fall in love with, right? And then sometimes people don't know. And they like have sex. What else is it? I actually got 100% of my psychology A level bitches yeah sure oh my god that's excellent I know

she used to be clever you are clever that's amazing um okay that's dry as hell for me if anyone called me mummy I would literally I know

but even if Jamie was like calling me daddy I'd literally be like I will vomit me too that's a bit it's so common people love it

people love it. People love it. No, mummy is really ill. Like, that's unwell. Sucking the nipple as well. That's literally like your baby sucking my nipple. If you guys have any of these stories, please tell me.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Deep dive into it. Give them to us. Give them right over. My heart is overwhelmed with excitement for this. Dilemmas. Found my boyfriend's

secret diary. This is my dream. This is my dream. This is my dream. Immas found my boyfriend's secret diary this is my dream this is my dream this is my dream i would love sick already that someone has a diary i would as a boy love it's i guess the equivalent of going through someone's way just finding all their secrets and their thoughts they've written it all down i would literally be like i'm in lock the door yeah yeah yeah yeah i would get me a glass of wine would be like lock the door my blood would be pumping boom boom yeah i'm pretty much having all that yeah yeah yeah just can see all into their brain right ready i'm really ready for this hey absolutely love your podcast it brings me so much comfort and laughter every wednesday when having a bubble bath and a glass of wine after

work which i'm truly a tiny money god that's gorgeous i know i love you so much too quite want to like get into that routine myself okay i have a dilemma and would love some advice so my boyfriend of four years is ending things with me and we live together oh my god no i'm really sorry i'm beyond devastated because he was the absolute love of my life and some of the reasons as to why he didn't want me anymore was super hurtful and have really affected my self-esteem oh my gosh i promise you you will be okay but everything happens for a reason yeah and everything makes you stronger and i can really sympathize with you because that is just fucking that's horrible i'm going to be moving out into a flat show and would love some advice on the best things to do in my first few

months after a breakup i'm 24 and this is my first big heart honey you're 24 you're in your prime you are in your prime absolutely fine like this is a blessing oh 100 you probably would have got bored of him eventually let's just be honest honestly this is blessing and six months times you're going to be like ye fucking heart yeah okay right so she's basically just given us some background there and now she's given us an update i'm guessing this was like a dilemma originally she's then given a further update on it so the story is the plot tickets a very juicy update i found my ex's secret diary we're still living together under under until the tenancy ends at the end of the month he has detailed everything about how he has cheated on me

on his press trip to amer whilst we were still together. Sorry, I don't mean to be judgmental, but what a loser writing that in his diary. I'm sorry. It's really fucking weird. That's quite dark. That's strange. That's just like really weird. Like, that's like creepy vibes to me.

Yeah, it's giving me Jeffrey Dahmer vibes. Not that he wrote in a diary. That's just really, that's an itch for me straight up. I've cheated on him. But also, what a blessing, mate. You read it? What? He wrote about?

No, no. What an arsehole. Where was the diary? Where read it what he wrote about no no what an arsehole where was the diary where was it just hanging about did it have a lock where did you find it in his underwear drawer

what no sorry I don't where would he keep it I really don't mean to be judgmental yeah but I'm gonna be anyway

this is really bitchy to boys but I just like girls can have a diary but I find it really icky if a boy does like just write it in your notes mate like it's so weird you know what i think find like the gratitude i guess not good not like a journal like dear diary today so if you ate my brat weetabix he has been sleeping

with the same girl since the breakup and writes about how he feels no remorse and he has even brought her back to the flat and in the bed he hears me crying in through the wall and i'm like this is really quite dark to make things worse people drunk and ended up sleeping together a few days ago and in his diary he writes graphically about it and went to meet her for drinks after i have kicked him out i can't believe i was so civil with him this whole time but the question remains how do i deal with this heartbreak oh my god thank the fucking lord you found this diary why is he writing about your sex graphically in a diary no i can't it's really it's actually i i don't think that that's it's giving me like america's yeah i'm a bit i'm a bit freaked out maybe i shouldn't be but i just am because i don't

to me this isn't really something that i feel like like i would never do that and the fact that he's gone i feel no remorse like written that down it's quite strange like americans yeah it does that's like not normal and then and then say i know no get the fuck out you know what your heartbreak will very much soon turn into something else and thank god it's natural instinct to want what you can't have because he's not feeling remorse and you obviously did love him you're gonna feel sad but you will get over it you have to tell all your friends so they know and they can keep you strong yeah i just went to a complete daze then and then did a little snare no more dilemma two oh my god the title

god these are juicy these are the best dilemmas I think we've ever had right oh she's back she's back in you go

in you go right you ready guys yeah holding my seat excuse that I sound like Monica Croft okay hey girls

love love love no no read the fucking title I think it no no let's give them give it in to them let's give them give it into them let's give it into them okay fine right you ready for the guys my best friend confessed her love to

my fiancee done done i would literally knife you i would knife anyone that comes near to me like honestly right you ready first no i'd knife jamie if he fell in love with me more than you and then you I would I would just like ruin your life no I would knife Jamie but I would ruin your life who would I hate more yeah I know it's a really hard one I'd hate my husband more I would hate Jamie because yeah and I'd be so sad about you I'd be so sad I'd be so sad about you. I'd be so sad. I'd be so sad. Okay, well, that hasn't happened, so we don't need to worry about it. Okay, ready? Ready, ready.

Ready, ready. Hey, girls. Love, love, love the podcast so much. Here's my situation. I've been with my boyfriend for eight years now. And four years ago, my ex-best friend made a move on him and told him she loved him. Safe to say this ended our friendship but i

feel like i've been left with a huge hole ever since oh frick i can't believe someone i considered as my sister would betray me like that and it has made me very wary of being vulnerable wait i don't know so if you came up to me and was like i'm in love with jamie i don't think i'm i'm not going up to you i'm going up to jamie and telling him i'm in love with him behind your back. And then Jamie's. Yeah, I'd be like your dad too. Then Jamie's telling you like. But if Jamie was like, fuck Vanessa, that's weird. I'd be like, lol, bye. Yeah, yeah. See you later. We're no longer friends. So that's what she's done. But she's obviously like upset about it. She's still. There's more, there's more. Okay. This combined with moving away from the area I grew up during COVID

has meant that I've become very isolated and don't have any friends anymore. I've low self-esteem and don't believe anyone would want to be my friend, so I don't put myself in situations to meet new people. I'm friendly again with colleagues at work, but it never goes any further. My boyfriend and I are due to get married this September,

so you obviously showed her, so this is great. And whilst I cannot wait to marry him, I. So you obviously showed her. So this is great. And whilst I cannot wait to marry him, I can't help but feel self-conscious and worried or being judged as weird that I won't have any friends at the wedding. Family only. While he's invited, 30 friends invited. Any advice, please?

Thank you. Love you guys. Don't worry. Oh my God, mate. The smaller the wedding, the better. Yeah. Seriously, you get dragged in every direction. And you just want to

be with your 30 close friends i love everyone who came to my wedding but i had three apparels the whole night yeah it's a lot big weddings are a lot and they always actually say the bride doesn't really enjoy herself on the wedding day because you're so stressed about like so many things going wrong and there's so many people to please if it's just like your family then lovely but also i think you've obviously got massive trust issues and I think you've really got it like maybe you know therapists are expensive but maybe you do need to speak to somebody about that that's like a massive like breach of trust and that would affect me like it would affect I think it would but think how lucky your boyfriend chose your fiance chose

you like he's marrying you he wants to be with you exactly imagine them this could have gone in another direction we could be having a very different conversation right now so yeah you know i think you need to just almost be grateful for it and be like sometimes these things do happen like and it's on her it's on you oh god yeah 100 like you and this was four years ago now so i think don't feel bad about the fact that you haven't got friends coming to your wedding like let's just get over that god no family's great yeah and his friends surely his friends will become that you're married now like his friends are your friends they'll have wives and whatever that you will hopefully slowly yeah not be so i have such a

wall up and then you will like just kind of fall in love with and they'll become your friends too just as much as they are his i would like try and speak to somebody or like if you have even your sister or your mom and just try and like open up about it and just you know every day write things that you love about yourself and like you know all those positive build your confidence back yeah like read all the books you know like there are so many self-help books out there you've obviously had like a trust issue that's really affected you and i totally get that but you you need to like work on it now because you've done nothing wrong and you don't want to live your life not trusting people because i also think you need to give yourself credit for not allowing it to affect your relationship

with your future husband because i think if i was in that position i would almost yeah subconsciously then just not trust him even though he's done nothing wrong I'd be fuming I would just hate him how weird is that that we have that way I would literally be like Toby it's your fucking fault that she's fallen in love with you

like you obviously flirts with her I'd be like you obviously give her her mixed messages you must love her you must love her back no let's not put that

in her mind let's not put that in her that is not the case but you are just I'm just saying I'm proud of you for that not being an issue and I'm really

like that shows how much love like your husband has for you well fiance you know yeah and it's not embarrassing at all like your wedding's gonna be amazing and lots of people don't have many friends like i mean molly may one of the most people it's not even a lot of famous like girl whatever she's so fucking likable and lovable she's very much so like i don't really have many friends you know i've got a handful of friends and i'm really fine with that i don't want many friends yeah loads of people don't yeah some people just like love a tight-knit group or they just have their sisters and they just have their brother you know their cousins that they're friends with we don't have no we've got a pretty close-knit group we do yeah so don't yeah but i would speak to people about it

because i think you've also got trust issues and I totally get that but a problem shared is a problem halved Sophie always says to me hopefully that was helpful dilemma three stuck in a situation ship oh back in the day okay sorry back in the day do you remember the situation the situation we used to always get them in we used to we didn't know what they were we were like what is that we weren't down with the linger of anything really but now we're like full g's oh god yeah 100 we're professionals g's ends we're full g's ends yeah gen z's i'm fucking not a millennial millennial then what's the one above us bo Booper. No, that's the fucking private healthcare. Boomer. Booper.

Your boyfriend's a Gen Z. That was really... I know, I miss it by two months. Jamie must be like... He must be a booper. Is it... Well, he's not. We're all millennial. No, he's 34.

Yeah, he's a millennial still. Oh, fuck's sake. I know. Quite upsetting. But I miss being a Gen Z by two months. Oh, God. Okay, moving on. Don't worry, I'm in your category. You're in my category. Okay, right. I know quite upsetting but I miss being a Gen Z by two months oh god okay moving on don't worry

I'm in your category you're in my category okay right stuck in a situation I need your advice so essentially I'm stuck in what feels like a situation

with a guy important context he's my ex ex's best friend no only that's a bit bad territory we've been seeing each other on and off for four years

but recently have been kind of dating for almost a year straight a year in september sorry that's a long time yeah that's a long time yeah four years four years and i'll be like dating for a year i would you're my where's my ring i'd be like surely the ex-parent is like fuck you or is it all secret boys are so different boys are so different i think boys is her ex yeah her ex's best friend so i'd be like yeah the boy would be like jamie's yes jamie fell out of love with me he'd be like oh who cares you can date her yeah exactly oh god that right what started out as casual fun has led to feelings on both parts obviously when we first started picking up four years ago he was not speaking to my ex and therefore felt no guilt fine i see so when you guys got together they weren't really

friends so he was kind of like i don't care i'm not friends with him anymore makes sense makes sense makes sense now for a few months ago my ex has come out of the woodworks and started hanging out with him again which makes him extremely uncomfortable as he always brings me up in front of him and he has no idea that we've been dating. Surely. Surely. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. Guys, there's no way you can date in secret for four years. Yeah, well, me and Jamie did it for about four months.

True, but that's four years is a long time. Yeah, but that makes me feel like they were dating. They weren't just shagging. They weren't dating. True. But a year of dating is a long time. but that makes me feel like they were dating they weren't just shagging they weren't dating true but a year of dating is what i'm telling you yeah that's mental the ex still talking about you is giving me where's he been in the woodworks has he been in dubai yeah he's come back out has he been a boyfriend about you and he's like shit he's come back from abroad like working abroad and he's like miss her want her back in my life and i'm ready now and the other guys yeah yeah and also he doesn't even know

that you're dating sick i'm sick we started out sleeping together at his house or mine and in a car and then the car and then this led to quick hotel trips and eventually overnight hotel trips and city rates including dinner and drinks otherwise you like escaped the country for this affair lovely yeah but also kind of weird like if he's not friends with the ex, why was he taking you away? Like, can't you just be open? I think if you're like hooking up, then it's like,

what's the point in us like, true? No, I guess if they're just sleeping together, it's like, what's the point in us going on like lovely dates?

Sounds like it was very like sexually impassionate. Yes. Also probably felt a bit naughty because it was the ex's best friend. Yeah. So even if you were just hooking up.

This became a regular thing and we were meeting weekly slash fortnightly. We used to only text the night before to arrange it fine. best friend so even if you were checking up um this became a regular thing we were meeting weekly slash fortnightly we used to only text the night before to arrange it fine so very very casual it then progressed to casual chats throughout the week then talks about life and values and future and we both admitted we liked each other since then there has been a shift in the dynamic and we are more romantic now we are even due to go abroad for the first time for our one year kind of anniversary she sounds very chill you are so chill i wish i had some of

this you're like kind of boy attitude she's like yeah i wish i had some of this like i'll be like two days but recently he said he doesn't know what to do should he tell his friends so that he can be with me in public or let me go to avoid the big fallout no i spent four years at this point you need to just yeah i asked if i should go if i should walk away and he said no as he couldn't stay away from me and didn't want to either i dated my ex seven years ago and broke up five slash six years ago as he was cheating on me and very controlling this guy i'm seeing now is nothing like that and i can see he genuinely cares to me

but how long do i wait for him to decide what to do i don't want to walk away but i'm willing to oh i'm not willing for it to be a secret for the rest of my life please help does he like me or is he he's not using you he's obviously a likes you he's just really terrified of accessing the apple car which is yeah he needs to grab parables but like seven years ago you were dating your ex like seriously he needs to just get over it and be like mate like we've actually kind of thought we've been hanging out but boys and girls are like biting the bullet they're more people pleasers than we are yeah we're just like look at seven years they also just avoid the drama they just hate the drama they hate the drama but you know what

give him an ultimatum give him an ultimatum and be like look I know what I want now like we've been dating for however many years essentially like I've been

seeing you for so long seven years like grow the fuck up to that he probably would be like okay fine it's almost been a century since the ex

the ex probably won't give a fuck he probably will by the sounds of it he still loves her but who gives a fuck he'll get over it I mean i've had this happen to me also if they weren't friends when you guys got together he can't exactly get angry about it also like it was seven years ago i honestly think you give this guy an ultimatum and if he chooses to hang out with the

ex best friend and over being in a relationship with you in public then that kind of answers your question i would just reassure him be like look we dated seven years ago like he's in his mind he's probably freaked out about it but just be like yeah it actually isn't like lay the facts out right like it really isn't we haven't done anything wrong you didn't cheat you didn't do anything like it was seven years ago and he also doesn't need to know the exact time when you guys started sleeping together you can be like look two years ago do you know what i mean he doesn't need to know the exact time when you guys started sleeping together. You can be like, look, two years ago. Do you know what I mean? He doesn't need to know that four years ago you guys started sleeping together. That was still three years after.

Like, that's still... Yeah, it's still... It's ridiculous. It's ridiculous. It's even a conversation, if I'm being honest. And he doesn't sound like he's that best friend. No, if they fell out for ages and they've just come back out of the woodwork. Yeah, no.

Where do your loyalties lie? I don't know. I feel like he was in Dubai. We've conjured up this whole storyline. He's come come back from traveling he's like a real estate guy hey you're a canadian podcast listener and that makes you important to us we'd like to know more about you what you think of this podcast and the other podcasts you'd like to hear so we put together a super brief survey we'd like you to fill out complete it and the other podcasts you'd like to hear. So we put together a super brief survey we'd like you to fill out, complete it, and we'll give you a chance to win one of three $100 Amazon gift cards. That way, we can say thanks for your opinion. Just go to mypodcastsurvey.ca

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We're back home now, aren't we? I've seen your stolen vibrator stories and I have to tell you mine. During lockdown, my boyfriend had a love honey package and delivered it to mine with toys and a few outfits. Gorgeous. Lockdown needs us.

Because I know my sister always went through my stuff, I hid all these toys in a black rucksack. Oh no, this black rucksack is going to be a trouble. About a year later, me and my partner moved out

and obviously brought the rucksack with us. My sister and her partner helped us move and also helped us unpack. Oh moved out and obviously brought the rucksack with us. My sister and her partner helped us move and also helped us unpack. Oh no. They came across the rucksack and she made a joke about it and said it would go to the back of my wardrobe. Two weeks later, as I'm going through our stuff, I find the rucksack and it's empty. No one else knew that we had these toys and that they were in the rucksack. So they could have only been the only culprits and all the toys were

missing we've lived there now for two years we've decluttered multiple times but we've still not weird i'm sick to my stomach i'm really freaked out i'm sick also there might be a poltergeist that's just like also just taking them and i don't know the whole thing's really why did you say they need really weird not the sister it's also the fact that it's a whole bag full of like outfits as well and she's gonna be out like that no no no no i know the sister was like i can't bear the thought my sister's doing this hit them through the way i think let's hope let's i honestly think my sister back in the day she'd have been like can we not just confront the sister i know this isn't a dilemma i'm not going to be giving you advice,

but can you please just ask your sister? Because I really want to know what the fuck's happened to you. I, if I was like 15, I remember finding stuff from my sister and I used to throw it away. And I was like, I can't bear it. I found a condom and I was like, throw the whole pack away. Really? Because I was so upset. Also, it's like drilled into us when we're so young, like sex is bad.

Like, don't have sex kind of thing. Yeah, I called her a prostitute. I thought she was a prostitute. I didn't understand it. I was like, you must be a prostitute then. I was actually 12. Yeah, because you just didn't get it. Oh my God.

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