Wednesdays - 138. Devil Wears Prada 2 & Walking Red Flags ft Georgia Habboo

Episode Date: May 12, 2026

Heyyy Tinies! Reunited and it feels SO good! Sophie's gorgeous sister Georgia Habboo is back in the studio and we are so here for it.The girls give their verdict on Devil Wears Prada 2, before di...ving into all the noughties rom-coms that absolutely deserve a reboot. The meet cutes, the airport chases, the messy love triangles… we need it ALL back immediately.ALSO, Melissa and Georgia get into the Harry Styles and Zoe Kravitz engagement rumours, and share their thoughts on THAT Channing Tatum poem.And as always, the dilemmas are delivering. One Tiny is in the absolute TRENCHES after finding WhatsApps from an escort on her boyfriend’s iPad 😳Another Tiny had the date of her dreams, but now her friends are saying he's a walking red flag. It’s got the girls asking… are we way too quick to write people off these days? Enjoy the episode xGot a dilemma, some personal advice for a fellow Tiny, or a follow-up to a previous one? Send us a voice note or message on Insta @wednesdayspodcast, or drop us an email at wednesdays@jampotproductions.co.ukInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/wednesdayspodcast/TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@wednesdayspodcastEmail | wednesdays@jampotproductions.co.ukTHE CREDITSProducer: Magda CassidyAssistant Producer: Issy Weeks-HankinsEditor: Kat MilsonSocial: Amber HouriganSenior Producer: Helen Burke Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Starting point is 00:00:03 Hi guys, on today's episode, we have Georgia joining us again, and we talk all about Harry Stiles being engaged to Zoe Kravitz, the normal dilemmas. And we're talking all about Dev Wales Prada too and our most wanted Nauties movie reboots. And if I could ask you guys one favor, please subscribe to our YouTube channel at Wednesday's podcast. Love you guys. Guys, we've got Georgia, Haboo, back on the podcast again. Hi, guys, thanks for having me. By the way, I need to clear something up from last time because I actually had. have read Akatar.
Starting point is 00:00:39 And you were saying, you know, not for me. Not for me. I did, well, it wasn't, I only read book one. Everyone was like, you need to read book two and three. It's only just getting started. Panty book two is really long. My friend Mills is reading it. She was like, there's no sex in it until the very end,
Starting point is 00:00:51 and it's just yearning for too long for me. Yeah, book one, I'm pretty sure they only have sex once as well, and it's about this thick. But is there a lot of buildup and a lot of tension? There is, but I mean, for me, it's like Beauty and the Beast slash... Oh, God. 50 shades are great. Sorry, so the men are all like beastie.
Starting point is 00:01:12 Yeah. Eel, no, I'm not sure. I'm not sure about that. Do they have wings as well? They do, some of them have wings, and some are like half animal. It is, it wasn't for me. That sounds like narnia almost. Yeah, it is a bit narnier-esque, actually.
Starting point is 00:01:26 Interesting. It was a bit too yurney. It's just like, oh my God, just have sex. And also like... But then that does ruin it, because then you won't read anymore. Do you know what? I put it on my stories at the time, and I was like, I read this book.
Starting point is 00:01:37 what's the hype? Like, it's a pretty average writing, pretty average story. Sorry. God, I bet you had a lot. But Connoisse, and I literally probably had like 100 DMs, people being like,
Starting point is 00:01:47 you have, like, you're just getting started. Like, this is the worst book of them all. You have to read book two and three. So that's why I bought book two, but haven't opened it, yeah. I guess it is all down to, like, what you kind of like in books
Starting point is 00:01:58 because I know I would not like crime. Yeah, you might like it. It kind of sounds like I would. Also, you could be quite good as an audio bits. It's not like really like you have to really listen. If you like was zoned out for a bit, you could zone back in. You could zone back in. It's quite nice. Yeah. I'm just imagining a
Starting point is 00:02:13 gruffalo with fairy rings there and I'm like it's just not sexy. It's all like a picture. It kind of is. It's this tiny tinkerbell lady and then a gruffalo with with wings on him and I'm like that it's also like some like hunger games esk element too at one point. There's a lot going on. Hybrid of everything.
Starting point is 00:02:29 It's a lot going on. I guess it's good of the imagination. Yeah. Maybe. Next holiday. Yeah. When is the next holiday? I'm going to I beat who was Sophie and Jamie in February. Although we, you know, they're so, like, hard to pin down.
Starting point is 00:02:44 So they changed the dates. I was like, I'm not going to book the flights until they book it because I just felt like they could change at any moment, which we already have changed it. So I was waiting for them
Starting point is 00:02:52 and I kept being like, when are your flights, what flights are you booking? Obviously they never apply. Then last week, I'm like, guys, we've really booked flights. They're like, we bet them ages ago. Anyway, they put lovely BA flights
Starting point is 00:03:02 and we were on jet too because they've ran out. Fuck, that's so annoying. I know. Now Sam was approaching, maybe I'll get into it, sit by the pool. Yeah, holiday read. I'm not the type of person that's going to sit in bed and read. Oh yeah, I only read books on holiday. What if Bells is on holiday with you?
Starting point is 00:03:18 Well, yeah, I used to literally be able to read like, in a week's holiday I'd read like four books and now I read like a third of a book on a holiday. That's still impressive to be fair. Yeah, and her nap on like speed reading. When she sleeps. How many times does she sleep in the day? Just bont snow. That's devastating.
Starting point is 00:03:32 I know all the naps go out. I know. I saw the clip of Safely and Jamie talking about how much. how many hours of baby sleeps a day. It was crazy, man. But they were like Ziggy sleeps like 22 hours a day. And I was like, compared to normal babies at 15, I was like, what? Yeah, Ziggy's actually, oh, actually he's not a good sleeper at the moment.
Starting point is 00:03:50 They're really going to go through. You're so happy. I'm not going to lie. I actually told Barry. They're really going through it. When we went to Soho Farmhouse in a couple weeks ago, they were like, yeah, Ziggy sleeps through. Like, he just had all over shifts. And we were, and they were going, literally, Jamie was going, guys, I actually think about
Starting point is 00:04:06 you all the time and I feel so bad for your like you because obviously our baby still doesn't sleep through and um anyway she still wakes up but last time she woke up like three times but she does sometimes but mostly once a night she wakes up no we do we actually have a rough but um you're like yeah yeah yeah you're lucky you well done your four months old sleeping through so good for you and then um the other day i said to barren oh yeah zicky's been up every half an hour for the last few days four months regression and I swear to God, Barry, the glee in his face. And I was like, don't be so happy about it. He was like, sorry.
Starting point is 00:04:44 I would be the same though. I'd be like, how have you turned out this lucky with this baby? It's so annoying. But I guess they do go up and down, up and down, right? They do. The thing, the four-month regression is meant to be the worst one. That's what they're having right now. That's the thing.
Starting point is 00:04:57 Yeah, we never actually had a regression because she never got good. At least she's consistent. We like her for that, bless her. Yeah, they're really going through the sleep at the moment. Really bad. That so upset me a picture. Guys, I mean, people listening, the joy in out, towards his eyes right now, they're really nice there. No, I actually do feel really bad because I know the feeling and it's hellish. But they sent me, like, so upset me the best picture I've ever seen.
Starting point is 00:05:25 It's like a screen, the nan monitor is like really high over the bed so you can see a lot of room. And you can see Ziggy is sleeping his cot and then on the floor next to them, Sof and Jane, we are both sleeping. on the floor in his room. Both curled up with a divin, I'm our skull. I'll show you. Oh my God. Why did they just move the baby to their room? Because I think they have tried to, but Bella won't sleep in our room either. She'll just, she'll like want me to be in her room with her, but if I take her in, she's like, no. Does they get used to an environment? No, I can't. I cannot keep. That is so cute, but also like not looking forward to that stage of mine. Yeah, no, it's got it. The baby part's so cute, the sleep part, really for you.
Starting point is 00:06:04 me out. Whoever comes on this podcast has got a baby, I'm like, so tell me about the sleep. And is it all bad? Yeah. It does free me out slightly. Anyway, how was your birthday? Oh yeah, it was really good then. Well, actually, I had food poisoning. Oh, yeah, you couldn't go out. I saw that on your Instagram. I was like, oh no. So I had a girl's dinner, where is she doing it this week instead? Do you know what? I just had a day to myself and I had a haircut and I had a massage. Hair's looking lovely. Thank you. And then, in fact, Barry left work early. We went
Starting point is 00:06:29 just for a little stroll. It was lovely. Just, but having a date yourself is actually so nice. Like with no plans other than treats. Who had Bella? And Annie. It was like on a week day. So I put the day off work. That is so nice. You feel guilt-free as bad about us too.
Starting point is 00:06:43 Yeah. But the day off work, just treated myself. It was lovely. Oh, lovely. And a bit of like pampering like a haircut. Yeah. And also, how long does it take to cut your hair? It does not that long.
Starting point is 00:06:54 This is a blow dry that it's ages. I haven't washed my hair in a week now and it's so greasy. But I've got this really amazing dry shampoo called Faith in nature. It's the same one that does like that beef tallow cream, if you've seen that on health. It's like a powder and it's kind of like a bit of a high. I would say it's like 90% dry shampoo, 10% do you remember that like got to be powder that we'd put in our roots to make it go like that? I say it's like 10% that. So like you get a bit of volume too, but it really gets rid of all the grease and I think it's like non-toxic fives because it's not a spray.
Starting point is 00:07:29 Probably will be also if it's from health. Yeah. Really good. I know. So I'm just milking this but I do find like towards the end like these shorter bits go a bit like spiky they don't well this is my first time in years getting shorter bits and it's actually a bit of an effort having to start them that's not that short it is for me yeah fair I never get anything because I got really badly scarred from a really bad haircut years ago do you remember no I had I went in to just get these sort of shorter bits and they cut it as high as my eyebrows and it's genuinely back to my ear. Oh my God, maybe I do remember that.
Starting point is 00:08:05 It was really bad. Bit of an Emily Ratikowski situation. No, it was like illegal. Like, I went back to the hairdresser and was like, what have you done? And they were like, we are so sorry. They were like mortified. It took me literally like six months to go back. And I've never had short of it since I've been so terrible.
Starting point is 00:08:19 No, I'm not surprised. Well, did you not see Emily Rat had that weird haircut like that? No, I didn't. It was horrendous and she went on Jimmy Fallon and she was like, I've had the worst haircut ever. Oh, so she hated it. It wasn't like a style choice. No, she put it all over her like TikTok. And also when it's that short, you can't, because I went then to, where does Sophie get her haircut?
Starting point is 00:08:37 Paul Ebermans. I went to Paul Eagman's after my really bad haircut. I was like, can you fix it? And they were like, no, it's short. You just got to grow out. I had to have like, wear my hair and grips. Grips, that's what Emily did. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:08:50 Not me just pretending like my mates. She don't be as what she did. Harry Stiles is engaged. Have you seen this? Yes. I can't believe it. Why do celebrities? Can someone tell me why celebrities?
Starting point is 00:09:02 get engaged so quick. No, if there's anything wrong with it. If it works out, then that's fantastic. But why is it such a running theme? I think it's because they're so rich. I actually feel like, and that's why celebrities get married and divorced so much more easily because, like, such a financial impact.
Starting point is 00:09:19 One, it's so, like, so expensive to buy a rape, but it's such a financial impact to get divorced for, like, normal people. But if you're slept, who doesn't matter? If you lose a few million in your divorce. But that's such a shame that we're, like, losing, like, the importance of marriage. Yeah, but I do, I do just.
Starting point is 00:09:32 think that because, but maybe also they're a bit older now, maybe they're just like Yeah, how old is, I think she's a little bit older than him, am I right? He's in his 30s, right? Yeah, I think she's older than that. She's gone for a younger man. But not too much. But wait, how old ago was she engaged
Starting point is 00:09:48 Channing Tatum? Oh my God, I thought they were engaged. They were engaged and honestly, I feel like it was last year. You're right. I saw that and I thought it was fake. I thought surely he's not done that. Poor Channing. One I thought he has a girlfriend because I genuinely thought that that's fake.
Starting point is 00:10:07 He does. He does. He's that really young girl inker. Yeah, she's like 20 which is a bit. I'm not sure. Don't love her. But I just thought really, that's so embarrassing. That's like, I don't know. He's just being open about how he feels.
Starting point is 00:10:21 And men are encouraged to do that. So I think that's good. I don't go to do that. But surely his girlfriend's like, excuse me. Well, I always think that about people. You know when someone's like in like a long term relationship and then like one of friends ends up getting with their ex and they have a problem with it. I'm like, you've got to hold it in, yeah, because you shouldn't care about that anymore. You've really
Starting point is 00:10:41 got to hold that in. If Toby started to kick up of us about his ex being engaged, yeah. Sorry. You'd be like, what's going on here? I'd be like, that's a dumpable offense, actually, because you care enough to, like, be upset over that. That means you still love them. Yeah. Poor Channies. I know. He's obviously devastated about it. I'm not surprised. Zoe Kravitz is just so cool. She's a catch. She is a catch. I. Her and Harry Stars are really sick. couple. They're really cool. I like it. They spend a lot of time in London too. Well yeah. Where do live in London? He does roam these streets quite a bit. I've seen Harry Stiles in real life three times up and down this road. He used to go to BXR. Oh yeah. I remember Sofe telling me she saw him there.
Starting point is 00:11:18 And then I saw him in there a few times. And then I would leave the studio and walk back up that way and he walked past me on that. We were the only two people on the pavement. And it happened twice. And he like looked up and like smiled and carried on. Like really good looking in real life. I think he's gorgeous, but I don't think he's the best looking person I've ever seen. I think Toby's more handsome, but maybe I'm biased. But anyway, we walk past and he just seemed like nice. I was like just a nice normal energy. Like he just gave a sort of sweet, like sort of.
Starting point is 00:11:49 He's also just like. I made eye contact like I was a normal, like he was a normal person. I was just sweet. I was like, oh my God, you're a good man, Samantha. I know. So I'm very happy for Zoe. She's in good hands. Yeah, I think they've just like, must have just fallen really.
Starting point is 00:12:04 in love really like it happens. Think about that honeymoon phase though. That first year is honeymoon galore. And if you're at the right age, you're right. You've got money at your fingertips. You're going to just be like, fuck it. Let's just get engaged. That's why they say people are meeting in their 30s.
Starting point is 00:12:17 It just all happens like way quicker. To be fair, my sister and her husband got engaged after a year. I guess nine months is different. Yeah. When you know, you know. They probably start living together really quickly. I feel like they've been together non-stop since they started. I feel like it's been longer than nine months.
Starting point is 00:12:34 Oh my God, you've also seen the euphoria thing with the wedding. I just keep seeing all these clips. The euphoria wedding. And that girl, what's her name with the round hair? She looks unreal. She's lost so much way. I know. So is everyone, though, in the world.
Starting point is 00:12:47 She walks in in this, like, cut out dress. You can just see, like, the start of her, like, butt crack, but it's really sexy. Apparently Zendaya and Sidney don't love each other, like each other. Who was it that was, like, I was fitted than Sidney's when I was younger? I think it was Cameron Diaz. Oh yeah, to be honest, I agree. I agree. Her in the mask. Yeah, I was just I was just saying her in the mask. That clip replays for some reason on my TikTok all the time just her like bending down with the shoe. She was like the first like growing up like the first
Starting point is 00:13:19 female celebrity that everyone was like Cameron Diaz. Definitely. I do love her as well. I think she's like fun actress kind of like Jen Ann. Me too and she's just come started acting again. She took like ages out to have kids. Did she? Yeah. The last. thing I watched her in actually was what to expect when you're expecting. Or that one, where she was with, um, who's the impossible man? Oh, I know, night and day. Yeah. Day and night. Yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:13:49 Tom Cruise. Yeah. Tom Cruise. I love that film. Yeah, I love films like that. We need those sorts of films back because I feel like we don't really have those anymore. I know. Well, they're starting to redo the like Nauties films.
Starting point is 00:14:03 Nauties, 2000s and 2000s. 2000. Wait, are we going to go watch the old Devil Weirth Prada? Yes, I can't wait to watch it. Devastated that every single person and their dog was invited to that premiere apart from me. It's like every influence under the Sun went. Actually, they did. And like, Philly did
Starting point is 00:14:20 red carpet? And like, did no one see my TikToks of when I dressed up as Meryl Street for Halloween and did all of those voiceovers? I was so good. That's actually such a missed-off tune. And Toby went as Stanley Tucci and it was just iconic. And they missed that. We could have dressed up again for the premiere.
Starting point is 00:14:37 Yeah, you know, you know, you had the whole thing, bald caps in the drawer by the front door. We could have wiped that back on Toby, the glasses. It was such a vibe. Anyway, I'm worried about it not being as good as the first one, just because the first one was so perfect. I have heard good things, though. People loved it.
Starting point is 00:14:56 Okay, that's good. So, yeah. But every time someone needs a premiere, people like it. Really? I do think that, because I think that you're in such an amazing environment. And you see all the cars Yeah and it's just so exciting That it's always so fantastic
Starting point is 00:15:08 I just feel like I trust Anne Hathaway Wouldn't do it if it wasn't amazing And the same with Meryl I guess Yeah So apparently have you heard this They've made Meryl Streep's character nice I like that Well it depends
Starting point is 00:15:22 Because I like the dynamic of Her always being fired But almost always being fired And then finally winning her over And then them having that bond Maybe she's nice because... They're friends now. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:15:36 I also like that I feel like they probably did this to be more feminist. But like this idea that like successful women all have to be off like bitches. That's also true. Yeah, whereas like they're being like, no, she's nice and successful. Yeah, changing the narrative slightly. Also I guess I see Anna Winton now like always there in these like press moments. So maybe she had a bit more of an input because obviously the whole thing is about her. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:16:02 So she was probably, can we make me nicer, please? Whilst we're on The Devil We're as Prada to chat, I'd like to talk a little bit about other naughties films. What is your dream, reboot, for a naughty's film? Because I feel like there've been rumours about this for a radius, but how to lose a guy in 10 days, they need to bring out as a number two event. Are they actually? I don't know.
Starting point is 00:16:21 No, I don't know if they are. I don't know if he would ever do a check flick again. He's so good in the mo. He is. He's like dream, man. He really is. That would be amazing. I forget about that film.
Starting point is 00:16:34 We don't have anything like that coming out newly. Like, there was the one with Sidney Sweeney in it and I'm like, that is a shit chip flick compared to those old 90s one. Yeah, there's no like original good chipflicks anymore. So Princess Diaries supposedly is, that's been supposedly coming out for ages but she said that they're still working on the script.
Starting point is 00:16:52 Oh, so that might be ages. Yeah. That will be so good. That will be so good. I think they shall make sure it's like sensation. I thank God for Anne Hathway bringing these all back. Who was the lovely man in it? Chris Pine?
Starting point is 00:17:06 Yeah, and he was in number two. Oh, so God. Yeah, I love him. That's who I ended up with, right? Oh, that was good. What other films would be good? They tried to do mean girls, that didn't really work. But they didn't try and make that.
Starting point is 00:17:18 They didn't do a number two. They did like a new musical. I would love a number two of mean girls. I don't know what they could do with it. Yeah, maybe they've got kids in high school now. Well, that's what they did with Freaky Friday too, because I actually watched that on the plane. I could.
Starting point is 00:17:31 Not really know. Yeah, I was actually excited. Because Lise Leroyan's made this big comeback, but like, I don't know if she's been in any good movies. She's just done quite a lot of the Christmas movies. Yeah, the Christmas movies. I do actually always watch them, though. Lovely background. Yeah, it is good background, noise.
Starting point is 00:17:45 It's like festive. Basically, no one can think of any good chick flick roncoms anymore, so they're just doing part two. And what was the other really nice one where she was like, ten things I like about you? I think I hate about you. Yeah. That was Heath Ledger then. No. But that was an incredible film. That was such a good film. I rewatch that really recently actually.
Starting point is 00:18:05 Oh my God, I'm going to rewatch that. It's a really good film. Do you know what also we need now the film? You know, like, he's just not that into you. And I love actually, like, those films that have like loads of little different. I love those. Whoever that person is, did a really good job and then they did the New Year's Eve one, Valentine's Day. Who did those? And they get like 20 celebrities in it. Like Taylor Swift was in Valentine's Day.
Starting point is 00:18:27 So good. We should have one with younger people now because like the younger generation. are like the 19 year olds aren't going to watch that. No, but yeah, we can have someone with all the, like the Jacob Allaudies. He could be in it. Sensational. He's in everything, I mean. We could get that Michelle Randall in it.
Starting point is 00:18:41 Oh my God. Oh my God. Such a good film already. All the people from somewhere turned pretty. Yeah. Wack a couple those in. Okay, right. We're going to do some dilemmas now, guys.
Starting point is 00:19:03 Diilemon 1. Hey girls. Love the Pot. I recently just came back from holiday to the Caribbean with my boyfriend. The day after we got back, I had a little sneak. through his iPad whilst he was out. Either this, at this stage, it's either like you're going to find an engagement proposal
Starting point is 00:19:17 or the cheating. I go into his website and see a message from a number saying, hey baby, love to hang out with you last night. Let me know if you want to enjoy my company again. That sounds like... Prostitute. Yeah. My company again.
Starting point is 00:19:30 That's the end of thought. Yeah. I had no idea what was going on. The profile picture was this really gorgeous, sexy woman in her underwear. So I imaged search the profile picture on Google on the first result that came up with the website was called Secret Escorts. We knew this, we knew. We knew.
Starting point is 00:19:45 Her picture was right there on the homepage. I confronted him about it. He said it wasn't him. He must have been hacked. We just get a better excuse. Someone's strong my phone in the night. I just copped to it at that point. I was fuming at this because I was not born yesterday.
Starting point is 00:20:01 To say you've been hatch is such a lame excuse. I've left the house and went home as I didn't want to hear any more about it. He's doing everything to say it wasn't him. But what are the chance to someone text into his WhatsApp? I fear that I'm only left for two options trust him and break up with him but he didn't get hacked.
Starting point is 00:20:15 You've got to break out with him. That's so upsetting though because I feel like when you're so in love with someone and then I've always felt like you need such concrete proof because otherwise you can so talk yourself into believing because you don't want to believe it obviously
Starting point is 00:20:30 and that's such a rank hideous way to get cheated on. Also like that tells me that he's got a lot of problems because I always think, right, there's a few different scenarios of cheating. And some, I guess, in a really, really, really, really, really small case could be accepted and someone could be forgiven. And you can work through it. If someone's going through a seriously rough patch in their relationship, they're not married. I'm going to say this also.
Starting point is 00:20:56 And, you know, you're really, really, really, really, really drunk. And someone kisses you and you're like, oh, God, no, what was I doing? That was really fucking stupid. Yeah. If I was young Yeah I feel like I would even now I know I'm married back There's a certain stage on where I'm like
Starting point is 00:21:12 I wouldn't be able to Like there's always so much leading up to even a kiss Where you could put the brakes on But in a young person When you're like drunk in a club 21 22 And you've been together for a couple years And he makes a mistake like that
Starting point is 00:21:26 That's when I'd be like Babe I think it's okay He's not a bad guy Like this is a mistake He'll learn from it This is a really premedit He's paid for this his hard-end cash has gone on this
Starting point is 00:21:37 he's gone and googled he's picked her out he's met her he's gone through like there's so many steps in that and also they've just come back from holidays so like surely he's having sex of her and then the next night you would think that he's all out of spunk or whatever but no clearly not
Starting point is 00:21:52 but you know what I mean like why you still you've got a problem if you're going that much so yeah and like what didn't she say it was like two nights after they got back so like he's got back from holiday of his girlfriend the next night gone straight to see an about it whilst he was with you. That's just, just...
Starting point is 00:22:08 He's also lying to you so much, making you think that he's been a hacked. You also, you'll never... If you choose to believe it, you'll never get it out your head. Well, I wouldn't anyway, that there is a very strong possibility that he was lying. And, I don't know, I feel like the risk that...
Starting point is 00:22:26 The very small risk that he's telling the truth, the fact that you doubt, like, I don't know, if you trusted him so much, you would be like, no, there's no way you would do this and you were at that. So why would you go through his phone? Something told you to do that in the first place. That's a really good point. That's intuition.
Starting point is 00:22:40 Female intuition is great. Someone up there's looking out for you telling you go and look at that message. But dump him now. Yeah, dump his ass right now. That's a unanimous dump him. No questions asked. Okay, Dynamo 2. Hi girls, I'm in desperate need of some advice.
Starting point is 00:22:56 I'm currently six months pregnant and somehow I've become the friend. No one invites out anymore. All my best friends are still going for drinks, birthdays, nights out, and cozy nights in, but I've realised I'm just not included anymore. At first I thought it was a coincidence, but it happened enough times now that I've had to say something. One of my best friends texted me saying, we just didn't think you'd want to come because you can't drink and we didn't want you to feel like the Debbie Downer. I actually do still want to go out, have a little dance, a little gossip and a takeaway whilst watching Maths Australia. Too right. I might not be doing
Starting point is 00:23:27 tequila shots, but I'm still the same person. Now I don't know whether to call them out properly you'll just start turning up uninvited to make a point and prove I can still be fun and crazy when I'm pregnant. Oh, I feel very sorry for you. I think just speak to the person that you're closest to in the group would be like, I feel so laughed out. Please invite me. I know I'm pregnant, but I'm still really fun. Yeah, I feel like the polite thing to do in that situation for like the group of friends, even if you think your pregnant friend doesn't want to come invite her and then she can turn down the invite.
Starting point is 00:23:56 But like, it's a bit mean to not include someone just because they're pregnant. But I do think they won't mean it. Yeah, I feel like they genuinely probably think, especially if you're like the first in your group to be pregnant. They won't get it and I just think, yeah. Yeah, but just say, if I was here, I'd say something to the closest person in the group. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:24:16 And yeah, I find it really funny that you've said you're just going to turn up and invite it to me for you. That's really funny. She's got one and find my friends right tonight. Yeah, I feel like, if you're like really close friends with them and they'd find that funny and you could just be like, Guys, I'm here. I'm really fun. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:24:32 Do that. But also, just be honest. I think it's nice because you're going to teach them what it's like when they all get pregnant. They're going to be like, oh my God, sucks that we left you out. Yeah. I mean, I think it's quite weird because until you're really at the last stage, like you can't, it's not like you can't do anything that you wouldn't have been able to do. No, especially like. Otherwise.
Starting point is 00:24:53 I get like not inviting you maybe to a clubbing night out because you would genuinely think, like, she's not going to want to do that. Personally, when I was pregnant, there's no way I would have done that. But I also know friends that like do like going to like bars and dinners and stuff when they're pregnant because they don't mind. But the cozy night's in. There's no need for you to not be invited to those. I agree.
Starting point is 00:25:14 I think that we need to put our foot down a little bit and speak up and just say, I don't have to be left out. I haven't got a baby yet. I'm not like invisible just I'm pregnant. I'm not changed person. Yeah. And I'm not like chained to the, I'm not on bed rest. Yeah. So you still want to.
Starting point is 00:25:29 And also, you could maybe invite everyone over and be like, guys, I know that you'll think that I can't do anything, but please keep inviting me because this is also your last time before you do have a baby. Yeah, this is the last time you can. The last time you can't. To just be able to be spontaneous. Such a good point. People pregnant should actually really try and make the most of like, I don't know what you can do this. You can't do much. I know.
Starting point is 00:25:53 It is like a bit miserable when you're pregnant. Like this girl obviously, she seems super fun. so to be fair she's probably not for her but I found it's so miserable like when everyone's in a bar and drunk and you're there like oh I'd find that hard everyone's shut up and I'm my feet hurt and get me home so I was like
Starting point is 00:26:09 I do get back but this girl's great but it's nice to still have the invite and turn it down exactly they should be letting you be the one to make the choice and I think that they would understand that when they've been alert to it yeah they probably just don't don't get it love you so much
Starting point is 00:26:22 okay dilemma three hey Georgia and Melissa I loved hearing you talk about how you love the honeymoon the other week That's interesting. I'm happy that someone liked her. I've always loved a man in a suit. But after a horrific run of dates, when my last date explained NFTs to me for 45 minutes,
Starting point is 00:26:41 I wanted to switch it out. Sorry, NFTs is just like, what is that? I don't know, but it sounds horrid. So I went on a date with a guy who happened to be a handyman. We agreed to have a drink after work at the pub. He walks in wearing those cargo travel. There's lots of big pockets And I was instantly
Starting point is 00:27:01 We were chatting And the vibes were good I'm in the middle of a story Where he suddenly reached into one of his pockets For a proper rummage He pulls at a handful of loose screws And puts them on the bar
Starting point is 00:27:13 Then starts laughing to himself And I ask that's so funny He said Fancy a screw And winked at me That would Absolutely Absolutely send me
Starting point is 00:27:26 Too Oh my gosh This guy's got such a game? Why is that the best pickup line I've ever heard? Oh my God, I can't, I actually found it hilarious. Obviously, it caught me off guard and we were crying with laughter. Anyway, fast forward a week and he keeps messaging me asking to take me out again. I told my girlfriend's expecting them to laugh and they're like, that's so weird.
Starting point is 00:27:50 Oh, your girlfriend seems to fucking get a lighten up. People need a better sense of humor in this world. So now I'm conflicted on the day I thought it was. It was funny and didn't get the it at all, but my friends think it's a massive red flag. Oh my God, it's so tongue-in-cheek and funny. And also he giggled, like, he laughed himself first. He, like, thought of the joke and was like, hey, that's funny. Amazing.
Starting point is 00:28:10 Good chat, I would say. Are they right? Would you prefer, what would you do if you were dropped an innuended like that on the first day? Oh, my God, I would snap it. You'd screw him? Yeah. I absolutely would. I don't know what else to say.
Starting point is 00:28:27 He's really funny. green flag between that he's got a good sense of humour. I'm so confused as to why we're conflicted about this. You were there, you know how great the vibes were. Yeah. I'd love some more information. Did you kiss? Did you screw? I'm guessing you didn't screw, which is a shame. But yeah,
Starting point is 00:28:42 also, I feel, I do see what, like, if that could be like a bit red flaggy if he said it in, like, trying to be seductive, like, I don't know, like, not in that joke. He's obviously just... It sounds like it was so uncreepy it was just him telling a funny
Starting point is 00:28:57 literally slapstick joke. It was like a very obvious humor joke but funny. We need people like this on the planet because people don't make jokes anymore really because people are scared of offending people. And this is exactly what's happened with your friends. Do we think girlies are sometimes too great to say something's a red flag? Well, I feel like it's good to be aware of red flags. But I feel like people really write people off really quickly over like that to me isn't a red flag
Starting point is 00:29:25 and that's not a write off. No. Normally, people that are really red flag, you won't really see it for a while. That's a really good point. So when people are like, red flag, red flag. I'm like, oh God, you're giving red flags by dishing them out. Like, can't write someone off for like a small comment that we think, I don't know. Also, it's, no, I'm sorry. Also, people like can make so many mistakes and be so sweet and I mean mistakes, like silly things, like maths, for example, Australia.
Starting point is 00:29:54 You know, like the really sweet guy who didn't pay her any compliments. Yeah. And then you watched the first like two or three episodes. But the one he didn't pay her a compliment at the start. I'm like, that is not a red flag. But also that girl Mel of the boy Luke, she's being so mean to him. She's just like giving him nothing. But she was like...
Starting point is 00:30:11 Which one is that? He basically was a bit late to the wedding. Oh, golly. No, I haven't watched that yet. Oh, so he... Oh, yeah, you probably won't have got to that pit yet. She's so mean to him. And she's like, I've got the ick, red flags.
Starting point is 00:30:22 Because basically just he was a bit late. to the wedding. She has literally beat him down for it for the whole season actually like really mean to him and then the girls were like you've got the hook of him like what is it
Starting point is 00:30:36 like what is it like what day and she was like he watches the TV really loud and I was like she just doesn't like it yeah but like that's not a red flag no I just feel like as well all over TikTok it's all women being like this isn't it this isn't it this isn't it
Starting point is 00:30:50 I actually haven't seen that oh I mean Barry find him really funny We always say to each other like men having bath, ick. Like, stop. Having a bath? Yeah, they say this. I mean, very just randomly think of things and be like, I don't know, like clipping his toenails, it. Oh, yeah, that is icky.
Starting point is 00:31:09 They've got to do it. They have to, but not in your presence because it's icky for us to be doing that sort of thing too. It's icky for anyone to do that unless you're in your own company. Yeah, that's true. What else is really icky that I've been thinking about recently? There's these boys, okay, on Instagram that wear suits all the time. But they, they like... I can't bear them.
Starting point is 00:31:30 They, actually... They film these moments of, like, getting compliments from people. So, like, you're right, Zahler? And then, like, give a wink to, like, the lady on the tube. And she's like, oh, you look very suave. And he's like, I'll thank you very much. And it's just, I can't describe the videos. But it's quite, like, self-indulgent and, like, just...
Starting point is 00:31:50 Yeah. I don't understand what the point. of these videos are? I actually saw a video yesterday and she got murdered in the comments for it. She was saying that men influencers and she was like, just imagine that if your man has a ring light, that's an it. I was like, too bad. They obviously probably do have a ring light behind that camera.
Starting point is 00:32:14 The male influencers, to me, it is a sexist thing for me to say. It is icky. It is so sexist. There's different types of influences though. caveat that. There are a few that are cool that aren't icked out and they're fashiony and they're creative and like what they're doing is like I like it.
Starting point is 00:32:32 And then there are some where they do those like weird like thirst trappy videos. There's a lot of on TikTok the thirst trapping. It's a funny place that we live in because like that's they are so successful. They obviously make loads of caps so it's so fair play. They are like millions of millions. I know.
Starting point is 00:32:46 They are like flying private jets and living in these like mansions in LA. Which is amazing and I'm proud of them for just just, you know, just using their life. but I just find, I'm like, who is watching it? So please come on another date with him. He sounds like a great laugh. He sounds really funny.
Starting point is 00:33:00 It sounds like it's got good chat and you obviously really fancied him. I fancy him. Yeah, me too. Just from that. I'm like, I'm in. The trousers. The whole thing is amazing. I wonder if he'd planted that there just a bit.
Starting point is 00:33:13 I mean, if you did, it's really good game. Who cares? Also, like, works. And I'll send another episode, guys. Thank you so much for listening. Thanks. Also, guys, if I can ask you a favourite, Please send in your dilemmas and if you can add the more info, the badder, photos, description, etc.
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