Wednesdays - 146. Tim and Tiny! Ruby and Melissa’s Best Moments

Episode Date: July 7, 2026

Name a more iconic duo than a Tiny and her Tim? 👀This week, we're taking a trip down memory lane with a special compilation of the BEST Melissa and Ruby moments!From Ruby’s amazing celeb spotting... in LA, to debating their biggest celeb crushes from Lewis Hamilton to Jude Bellingham, PLUS reliving the girls’ beautiful engagement stories, this episode has it all.Get ready for a much-needed injection of laughter, gossip and all round good vibes. Enjoy the episode x THE CREDITSProducer: Magda CassidyAssistant Producer: Issy Weeks-HankinsVideo: Lizzie McCarthySocial: Amber HouriganSenior Producer: Helen Burke Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Welcome back, Timmy to the floor. Thank you back by popular demand. Yes, she is. I know you missed to me. Right, we also need to have this serious discussion because Timothy Adler fancies Lewis Hamilton, which I cannot wrap my head around. Explain the appeal. No, I say, I don't fancy Lewis Hamilton.
Starting point is 00:00:21 I just said that like, I think, okay, back in the day when he was with Nicole Scherzinger, I really was like, he's fit. Yeah, fair. I got it. The F1 appeal, the driving of the car, the winning everything. I was just like, you're a winner. Like, you're fit. Got it. And then he was with Nicole and she was hot.
Starting point is 00:00:37 She was a pussycat doll. And I was just like, they're just a hot couple. Now I actually, obviously he dresses differently. I'm not sure I get it as much now, but I still see him as that, like, quite fit, like sportsmen that drove those cars. I'm kind of here for him and Kim. I think it's quite cool. They've known each other for so long. Yeah, probably been good friends for a while or something.
Starting point is 00:00:58 Yeah, but like, I think they look quite hot together. She just looks like her mum now and I can't. Those photos of them at the Super Bowl, I'm like, it looks like, it looks like, I said you, I sat next to her in LA when I was there. I would have had absolutely. I don't know what I did. Oh my God. I had never in my life been so starstruck ever.
Starting point is 00:01:14 Yeah, she's like the most famous person I think on the planet. I couldn't, I was wearing skims as well. I really wanted to tell her, but like, why would she care? She probably would have been really nice. I'm sure she would have been so nice. She's probably one of those people that, like, lives up to every expectation, I feel like. Yeah, I was in L. in January with my boyfriend and we were staying in the hotel that we always stay in and I was just
Starting point is 00:01:35 going to get a coffee in the morning I was on my own he was in the room and I was like as we all are on our phones just like glued to my phone replying to messages sat down waiting for the coffee and suddenly just heard this voice that's just the most iconic famous voice in the whole entire world and I look up from my phone to my left I thought I was having an out of body experience it was Kim Kardashian next week where Melissa is oh my closer and I looked over and she was being served breakfast so she actually her order I'll tell you all is poached eggs on toast with avocado she was having like a herbal tea and um I'm sure I heard her it was just after Timothy Shalame had won an award and mentioned Kylie Jenner and said like
Starting point is 00:02:16 thank you to my partner for three years I love you yeah I can't remember exactly what he'd won and I'm sure you won a Grammy no was it a Grammy when he acknowledged her it was something and I heard Kim speaking to whoever she was with saying that she was like Kylie and Tim are so sweet Kylie and Timothy are so sweet and I think she said something about like that is such good tea yeah and I was like she looked amazing she had this like big she looked so bougie like big fur jacket on like she sounds exactly how she does on TV she looked even better in real life her skin is like flawless she's little though like I'm 5-3 she's like I think she's like five two I think she's like 5-1-5-2 she's tiny.
Starting point is 00:02:58 Yeah, she had this like Himalayan Birken, like, obviously no one can get. And I was just like, wow. Wow. Oh my God, what a vibe. We did lock eyes. I think because I was just staring profusely at her. Like, if my boyfriend had been next to me, he would have been like, you need to not look at, like, you need to stop.
Starting point is 00:03:13 Was everyone staring? There wasn't that many people there. It was really quiet. It was like a Tuesday morning at 9 a.m. in January. And there was a few people there, but no one, I think celebrity there is just so, different that you just see so many people that people are so used to it. Whereas here, like, if I, like, I don't know, I guess Kim Kardashian just wouldn't be walking down the street here in London, but wow, I couldn't believe it. So generous. That's my gosh. That is amazing
Starting point is 00:03:39 tea that you heard her say. I was like shaking. Her and Timmy is so sweet. Yeah. You also been like, me. I was like, wow. God, that is insane. I mean, there's rumors that he like broke out with her. I did see that. All the time, but then I think that's been proven to be not true. Dermois confirmed it. Dunmore are a really good, really good source of info. Who are, sorry? Duma. What's that? It's like real life gossip girl.
Starting point is 00:04:03 I've never heard of it. Shut the front door. Are we on that? Get on your phone right now. It's amazing. Amazing. She has a million sources all over the world and she makes sure they're all legit. All my mates follow this page.
Starting point is 00:04:15 Obviously, babe. I don't know where you've been. Under a fucking rock in Australia. Yeah. Sydney and Bondi. It's not in Bondi. Sophie and Jamie had been on there once and it was. huge. I met Ziggy for the first time last week. Oh my god. He was the, is the sweetest little baby.
Starting point is 00:04:36 Not so little, like, chunk. He's like, two months old now? Two and a half months. But he was so good and so handsome and so sweet and he just sat there and like, was just such a good boy. And like, Sophie has obviously taken to motherhood so well and looked so happy. And it was just like, so nice. to see and I had a cuddle and I like that newborn smell and that newborn scrunch they smell of like it's like biscuits and like milk and like warm like porridge with like syrup yeah yeah yeah yeah like maybe he smells like maple syrup yeah and I just didn't want it to end and he was so like he didn't cry he just laid there he didn't really like he was just like wandering his eyes were just like wandering he was so good because they're starting to like see things of it yeah yeah he's a really
Starting point is 00:05:23 beautiful mix of them both actually. I saw when he was first born he was Sophie's twin. Like I remember when she was sending photos into the chat I was like oh my god wow Sophie he's your twin and then actually meeting him I saw Jamie and him which was really nice. Now he's old I agree yeah I agree. I met him and he was like I think five days old and he was so small and quiet then so like I held him and he was obviously just snoozing and then the second time he was so aware of mum's mouth so like the moment anyone else held him, keep cry. And I was like, damn it, he doesn't like me. He just keeps crying.
Starting point is 00:05:59 I'm jealous that you got a nice hug in. I got a lovely, he just like nestled on my arm. And like, he was so good and so lovely. And like, his ear was like, oh my, it made me feel broody. I was like, oh my God, I was texting my boyfriend. Like, look how cute. He's so sweet. I also don't like it when celebrities sometimes call them.
Starting point is 00:06:23 Have you seen, do you know who Francesco Fargo is? Strange names? No. My God, she just had twins. She was on too hot to handle. She's just had to... Oh my God, yes, I do. Of course I do.
Starting point is 00:06:30 And there was this whole controversy on... Oh my God, so she had a boy and a girl. Okay. She called the boy. I'd love to know everyone's thoughts on this. She called the boy Lockett romance. And she called her daughter, Poetry, Lucia. Lock and Poe.
Starting point is 00:06:45 Right, hold on. Locko and Poco. We can shorten Locket to just being Locky, all right? Very Essex. I like it. Locket! All right, Lucky. This is Lucky.
Starting point is 00:06:59 She's nailed the boy's name. She fucking nailed it. And then the girl... It's not what she's going for. No, I know. She's not going for the answer. Like James Locke. I haven't heard that name in so long.
Starting point is 00:07:10 Just he's still too jow. I don't know. Oh my God, that's unreal. I follow him on Instagram. Do you? You fancy him, don't you? He's so someone you'd fancy. Let's move it on.
Starting point is 00:07:22 Right, and the girl, what's the girl called? Um, Lucia. Okay, Lucia is a gorgeous name. Lucia's beautiful. Po luci. Poe-Lucci. So it's essentially like Lockie and Popo.
Starting point is 00:07:33 I get the abbreviations but I mean as if they're actually going to introduce themselves so I'm Locket Poetry. That is mental. On my baby list names. I've got a few and I know they're going to be controversial and I know people aren't going to really like them. We're not going to have the same names. I like Shiloh, Shire and Shai. Sorry, Kiki. I think my favorites.
Starting point is 00:07:52 Is he going to be, I'm really shy. But then you know that song, Shiloh. Shiloh. No. I live under a fucking rock. So shy for a boy. You could call a girl. I like Carter. Carter, very American. It's a bit American. I also quite like Cassius for a boy. Casse. Prince Cassius and shy, I think are quite cute. Prince Cassius of, what was that, Narnia. Is that, that's not what I'm going for. Well, I know, but. I like Kaya for a girl.
Starting point is 00:08:22 G. G. I have that. Do you? You know. from that TV, that film. Kaya. Where the cruel dad's thing is, her name is Kaya in that. And I wrote it. It's a very key name.
Starting point is 00:08:32 I can read out some dog names. Kaya, Shai Lo-Rish. Right, no one called their children any of those names because they're for Ruby. Yeah, thanks. Okay, I'm going to read out some dog names or a cat and a dog name. I'm not going to give way my baby names.
Starting point is 00:08:42 Not that they're that and like that different. Right, ready? Yeah. I would love to have one called Johnny and one cool Walker. I just think it's quite cool. Sorry, I'm so not expecting that. I don't know what. I just think it's quite cool.
Starting point is 00:08:56 Johnny Walker, yeah. I quite like that. What point would you get? No idea. I know Toby wants a lab. Did you say? Black lambs. Like, black labrador.
Starting point is 00:09:06 Honestly, every time I'm up there's a fucking black lab, it's, I'm like, they're not that cute. Are they? Like, they're a lovely dog. I'm not like, they're the cutest breed. Yeah, he grew up with them. They bred them. It's a family thing.
Starting point is 00:09:18 I prefer a golden retriever. Yeah, but all the hair. I know. I think any dog really would you. Yeah, yeah. It's too much better. But probably a cockapoo because I grew up with a cockapoo and they were like... Oh, Poppy.
Starting point is 00:09:29 I know, precious. No hair and no allergies and I'm an allergy gal these days. I'm an allergy gal too. So I'm thinking we're just going to have to go practicality rather than the big lovely... You know what I love? A deep bark. When someone wants us to the drawing, there's a deep bark, it's scary, okay? Like, no one's going to be...
Starting point is 00:09:46 Do you know what I mean? It also, like, deters people. Yeah, does. Even Poppy, like, her bark was quite deep even though she was like a little dog. And like the postman would be like, oh, and I'm like, well, obviously she's not only link to you. But like, it is quite good as a safety feature at right. Do you know what I've bought? Because I live on my own.
Starting point is 00:10:01 Beware of the dog sign. I don't own a dog. Oh my God. That's so clever. Yeah, I have it on just like by my door. That? Beware of the dog and it looks scary. That's fucking genius.
Starting point is 00:10:10 I'm going to get the same thing. It just will deter people. Oh my God, that's so clever. I can buy them off Amazon. I'll send you the link. So the big three, oh, well, so 30 first. Hmm. Timmy's 30.
Starting point is 00:10:24 Yeah, how are you guys feeling? I like that. Mixed emotions. Like, it's very much at the forefront of my mind. Like, I'm aware I've got 30. I'm 30 and I think that everyone that I've spoken to that's in their 30s or my friends say it's the best years of their life. They're like happier, more secure.
Starting point is 00:10:43 They know what they want. I hear it just keeps getting better and better. And like, I don't think I'd want to do my 20s again. Don't get me wrong. I've had the best time. But like, it was all just. really quite chaotic. I'm just hoping, I'm looking forward to a new start at turning 30 and like a new decade. Yeah. And I think, that's a lovely way of putting it. Yeah. I'm excited, but I'm also, you know,
Starting point is 00:11:06 I'm not where I thought I'd be turning. I'm not turning 30 tomorrow, but it's approaching. You're like 18 months. Yeah. You're still very much so 29. Yeah. But it's been sort of approaching and I think I'm, I kind of thought I'd be in a different place. That doesn't need to be a negative. But I just thought, I think maybe, you know, when you're like 20, 21, I kind of thought I'd be like married with a baby. Oh, God, but we all thought that. When I was like 16, I'd be like, 24, I'll probably be engaged and married. And then, I want to have three kids by 25. Yeah, 25.
Starting point is 00:11:36 And I thought, I would have bought a house and this and that. I'm not there. But, you know, I feel like I've learned a lot over the last couple of years. So I want to embrace it. Be excited. Yeah. I have some big fun plans. I'm hoping we'll go away for my 30 years.
Starting point is 00:11:50 Making us. 20, 25. if we were. Oh, that sounds nice. Either one of those, I think that sounds gorgeous. My bear is honestly the funest place ever. Yeah, we could do Marlare. Let's do that, let's do that.
Starting point is 00:11:59 And then Sophie knows all the good places we can go to. You do too. Me and Ruby first met in Marbeer and went out clubbing every night together. Every single night, do you remember? Yeah, do you remember Ruby? You were a storm agent at one point and I will never forget. I was always really bad at posting like my ads or whatever.
Starting point is 00:12:15 And I was like, my phone sang and you literally went. We barely knew each other and then she was like, right, come to my room. She charged my phone. like proper agent. They can't have loaded it for you. We went out like three nights in a row on a C till 6 a. I don't know how we did it.
Starting point is 00:12:26 I know. No hanged over the next day. I woke up. Woo! How do you feel about approaching 30? I feel really excited. Good. But I do just think
Starting point is 00:12:34 for some reason I'm putting a lot of pressure. I really obviously I've spoken about this. Like I'm so broody but I'm also so scared. It's like so scary. And it's also scary. I don't know why it's scary. It's a big life change. You know, it's like the next step.
Starting point is 00:12:52 It's probably one of the biggest things that a human being can go through. You're like growing another baby. It's growing another human being. And I think because my sister, and not to scar any on, because this is so ridiculous, but it's like just some weird anxiety in my mind,
Starting point is 00:13:03 but because my sister had fertility issues, I'm so overly. I think I might have dived in too deep into the fertility thing because I am fine. I've been checked. Like, I'm all good. But I just have this weird, like, I'm putting pressure on myself.
Starting point is 00:13:16 I think loads of us do as women. I think that it's like something that I'm, conscious of and I'm not even like thinking about that stage of my life right now. Obviously God willing I hope one day I do want kids desperately but like it's something I this is very much at the forefront of my mind as well like I hope it happens quickly I think that that's something that we all think about. We're going to play a game called Hood Ruby Rather where me and Melissa are going to play match make a few Roops and so the winner stays on so basically we're going to go. Glenn Powell from Twisters or Lucian Laviscount from Alfie from Emily and Paris.
Starting point is 00:13:53 I already know my answer. Okay, I'm going to say Lucian 100%. Yeah. Winner stays on. Okay, so Lucian Lavis count or Josh, the winner of the most recent season of Love Island. I think you're going to say Lucian again. I think I am going to say Lucian again. Freddie from Love is Blind or Lucian.
Starting point is 00:14:13 Yeah. Yeah. Okay, so Lucian Orlando Norris. I'm going to change it after and go Lando. Great. Lando Norris or Jude Bellingham. Jude Bellingham. Absolutely.
Starting point is 00:14:23 Yeah. Without a doubt. He's unreal. Unbelievable. Wow. He shouldn't be like, he shouldn't be a human. Like he's so fit. This I'm not sure about.
Starting point is 00:14:32 Judebillingham and Stormsy. No, it's 100% Jude. Surely. What's this for? As in like a snog or to be like a... Oh, a huge rather. Date. Just anything.
Starting point is 00:14:43 I would rather date stormy. I would rather date... I would rather date... Stormsy Long term And Shag dude Shag dude Yeah
Starting point is 00:14:53 I'm with you Yeah So I'm gonna say The last one was Stormsy Yeah fine Stormsie or Leo Woodall Leo who Leo Woodall
Starting point is 00:15:00 You know this one No not my vibe at all I know exactly You two Opposite vibes Like you are not going for Toby No
Starting point is 00:15:10 Or James And Toby's very handsome And beautiful And I'm not For RAS It's just so quick I'm crying. I'm razzable people.
Starting point is 00:15:23 Good as I fucking Jew bowing at my res. Okay. Callum Turner or Stormsy, you know Dornley's voice. It's unreal. He is. I'm going Calam Turner.
Starting point is 00:15:32 Right. Okay, now this one. This one, I think I know the answer to. Calum Turner or Central C. Oh, you see it's going to be. Your boy. You were talking about this last night at dinner and we all went out. He's my dream man.
Starting point is 00:15:43 But what about what you just did to mad? What is it about him that you find so gorgeous? I think I've never met him. His raw talent. What is it there? He goes out. Baby, do you want to stay? Isn't that his song?
Starting point is 00:15:54 Which one? The new one with that fizzy girl. I Spice? Yes. Fizzy? Close, you know what I mean. Yeah, I know what you mean. Do we still like him even though he's been cheating a Madeline Argy?
Starting point is 00:16:03 I don't like that, no. I just, good. I just think he's fit, that's all, and he's quite talented. And he's like a loose. Over Jude Belling him, you prefer. What? Central C is the number one running. He's the man for you.
Starting point is 00:16:15 Ruby Adler. Yeah. Closely followed by Jude. Jude. And then Callum. And Stormsy. And Lucian. I'll take all four.
Starting point is 00:16:22 And Lucian, yeah. That's a good list. Whoever came up with that, that was on point. It's so weird, you know what, coming back, because I was saying this to you earlier, I feel like I'd never left. Yeah. You just sort of slop back into routine and, like, it almost feels like the last few months have been like, did they happen?
Starting point is 00:16:38 And you know why? I also think, because you're staying with your parents. Yeah. Staying in a familiar home. If you're seeing a hotel, you'd probably be like. I'd probably be thrown. It's nice being back with my parents for a bit. My bet.
Starting point is 00:16:48 I have missed my Timothy. Oh my God, we miss each other so much. And also, guys, we, I sat down. We sat down and I propped up my vlogging camera. And she was like, why aren't you talking? And I was just like that. Also, can I just say Melissa never props up her blogging camera. I don't.
Starting point is 00:17:07 I always forget to vlog. She vlogs at home. I watch her YouTube. I love it. I'm never featured. The camera never is propped up. It doesn't leave the house. It was this quite stiff prop up.
Starting point is 00:17:17 And then she just stared at me. And I was like trying to fill the silence going, I was like, it's like no time's past him and then there was nothing, I was getting nothing back and I was like, and all this time's gone behind. And just like, we're reading herself. And I was like, what's she doing? And I just like scratched my eye
Starting point is 00:17:33 and then she obviously noticed that I'm engaged. And I was like, and it was so funny, she was like, ah! Just cry. And I cried, I burst into tears. I'm like, this has been the best day ever. It was so fun.
Starting point is 00:17:50 And I was like, I'm actually really sorry because I got chat lagged and jaded. And I've just gone, boom. It was like, so unexpected. So unexpected. But like the most beautiful surprise ever and the ring and the whole thing. And then we called Toby and I go, I know you waited for me. And he goes, to be fair, I did. He kept asking for him there was like so many moving parts that had to work because
Starting point is 00:18:11 he wanted me to like be able to see everyone before we went to Barbados and like had that time to like celebrate my family. So the fact that you were coming back was like working so. He kept me like, you're saying. seeing Ruby on the Monday, and I was like, yeah, you know that? Why are you so worried about me seeing Ruby? I'm going to see when I get back as well. And he was like, okay. But he did keep asking me. I'm surprised he didn't message you to be like, no, I didn't. You definitely doing the podcast with me, we're going for lunch, it's going to be okay. I had no idea.
Starting point is 00:18:37 And it was the last thing I was expecting, but like. Which was so hard for me because obviously yesterday, you just call, you call everyone that you like want to, you want to tell people straight away. And we talk most days. But I only had to wait. a few hours really well i had to wait 24 hours yeah and then i could tell you it you're real life it was so well i'm so glad you waited because like that face-to-face reaction and like i'm so happy i got on film too oh my god really cried it was really sweet i i would lit i burst into tears i like would just like it makes me emotional now i think because i've not seen you in so long and like this is like the new chapter of your life which is so
Starting point is 00:19:14 deserved and i know how happy you are and we've also just like as girls we've spoken about this moment with one another for like the last however many years like when we're going to get engaged our weddings and like now you're in that like whole chapter like i'm just so happy so happy like i love you so much it's so surreal yeah it's so grown up yeah and obviously for the boy because they thought about it for so long guys sophie haboo has known about this engagement since september and has been conspiring with toby wow which is mental because that girl is not good at keeping good news in. Like she wants to tell people it's because she gets so excited.
Starting point is 00:19:55 And the amount of times I've like complained to him and like, fuck you thought Toby was going to propose to me in Valazaire. Like really pissed off. And so he was like had to be so careful not to like give it away by being like, no, he'd never, she was like had to double bluff you and be like, no, I'm sure he's going to do it soon. Like it's probably going to be before the summer. Like I was like, that's so clever.
Starting point is 00:20:14 And she said to me, if Toby was going to like buy a ring, he would. definitely asked my advice, wouldn't he? And I was like, so true. But she already knew, already had it. And I was like, no way. I was like, nah, he'll keep that to himself. He'll ask his brothers. There's no way. Him and her had this cute system where he'd be like, don't reply unless it's within half an hour because Melissa's going to be back home. They both had each other in their archive chat. And then there's so much planning, isn't there? With proposing, like you don't realize that because you're being proposed to. But actually, like, how fun to hear all the stories after, like how he did it. Oh my god, we sat down for two hours and he was just
Starting point is 00:20:52 talking to me about everything and it was so fun. So fun. I love Rick as well. Like I love Toby. He's just such a sweet pee. He's the best. The videos of him like practicing. Oh my God, she showed me these videos of him. He'd pop the camera up and he was like practicing getting down on one knee and there was a few flip for the two twists. And they are so funny. He's like, so good. They're 360 and like just dropping onto one knee and like it's really funny shit. It's so good. It's all very exciting. enough of that I feel like I've spoken about it so much yesterday because every new person that was like we're going to be talking about it a lot to the pub I was then retelling the whole story and blah blah there and then everyone else had a piece of information for me too which is also
Starting point is 00:21:31 quite fun well like actually you know in the cotswolds I was told this and did you just sit with him afterwards at home and just talk about like did he just talk about the last few months and like how he asked my dad and my dad almost blowing cover my dad was so excited they were on a chairlift and then he was like, he was like, I just said what I said to you really, like, just love her so much and I was born and we'd be with her forever. Did he ask your dad on a chairlift? Yeah, he was like, it was the only, on a chairlift. I don't know why they came out like that. It was the only opportunity in Bounderser.
Starting point is 00:22:01 Wow, I'm just then with their skis up. And he was like, there was some French guy on the end called like, I don't know what, but he was just like awkward. I'm going to have to do this now because there's no other opportunity when Melissa's not here because I didn't ski that today. But then we did join them for lunch and apparently my dad gets literally. walks into the restaurant, beelines for my mum and goes straight in her ear. Bearing in mind I've come in with my mum, so me and my mum next to each other,
Starting point is 00:22:23 whispered straight in my mum's ear. Toby's watching this like, what, what the, oh my God, just pure excitement, couldn't contain himself. I was so excited, couldn't contain himself. So, yeah. Wow. It's all really exciting.
Starting point is 00:22:35 It's very exciting. Right, enough about me. Okay, more about you. So it's Valentine's Day. It's Galentine Special, obviously. No, so obviously I'm apart from my boyfriend for Valentine's Day. Oh my God, of course you are. It's our first Valentine's,
Starting point is 00:22:47 day together. Is he upset? I think he's just a bit sad that I've got, that I've gone. In general. You haven't really spent any time apart. No, we haven't really spent any time apart. But I also have just left him and I really miss him. I can't wait to see him. Especially when you're seeing someone like, your routine is so sad. But I left, I just saw these balloons as I walked in and I did a little Valentine's Day set up for him because we're not going to be together. So I left like a big red helium balloon and like a card and I put together some roses and I left him a little like gift, just a small gift. Oh my God, sweet.
Starting point is 00:23:18 And I was like, open this on Valentine's Day. And actually, do you know what he did? We sound so wet. He, um, when I left my suitcase out and I was packing to come here, I like went to the gym earlier that morning and I came back and there was like a gift in my case with a card. And he'd actually sent me a photo of it and he goes, I've left this in your suitcase. But you have to promise me that you won't open it until Valentine's Day. Oh my God.
Starting point is 00:23:40 Like a small gift. How small? Is it in the shape of a Chanel bag? No, no. No. To be fair, it's wrapped up. I have no, it's not a show bag. But I have no idea.
Starting point is 00:23:52 It's a little box. It's very sweet. Just the thought of that. Very good of you to both have done that. Yeah. So I was thinking you were going to be like, tell him to walk into a room. So you've left that balloon. No, no, he saw it before I went.
Starting point is 00:24:06 It's just in the kitchen. But I just was like, look, he'd been travelling for a couple of days. And then he came back to it and I was like, I'm away from Valentine's Day. And I also made, I don't know who I've become. I baked these, like. healthy, like, cookie, oat things that he likes. I literally...
Starting point is 00:24:18 I was so cute at me. I know. Oh, she's so in love. It's so nice. She was like, guys, she was like, Melissa, he's just fucking great. He is the best. He's just the best.
Starting point is 00:24:29 I need to, how weird I've not met him. I can't wait if you to meet him. And I want to come to Australia. I hope you do. In November. Yeah, it's such a nice time to here. It came in November and, like, the weather was amazing.
Starting point is 00:24:39 We had the best time. You would say it's a nice time to go. Yeah, it was hot. And also it's like that, the old in the pits of winter then. Yeah, it's like, nice time to get away because you want to kind of be here for Christmas Christmas is fun here. November's a good time, it's a good break and then you come back and it's like your birthday,
Starting point is 00:24:52 Christmas, like festive. Yes. And you come back in your tanned. Yeah. Gorgeous. There's nothing like a tan in the winter. I agree. Like a tanned hand and like a chest.
Starting point is 00:25:02 Especially now. On the left. On the left hand. Perfect. Go there just for that. Tan the left. I never thought I'd be nervous to say this. I'm engaged.
Starting point is 00:25:15 We need to get that everything. I can't believe. This is day five of being a age. Yeah, so happened on Wednesday. He proposed on my birthday. Maybe you should tell the girlies the whole spiel. Yeah. Of like how it happened.
Starting point is 00:25:31 Because no one's going to know. No, no, they're not. So this is my big moment. Oh my God, firstly, I'm like so happy. I can't quite believe it. I knew we'd get married and I knew he would propose in time, but I really just didn't think realistically it would be this year. So the whole thing completely.
Starting point is 00:25:45 through me and I think a lot of people have inklings or spidey senses and they like kind of feel I see a lot of videos on like TikTok and Instagram being like get ready with me whilst I think my boyfriend might propose tonight. Not unlike I don't like those videos and I'm like I watch them and I don't know why I don't kind of think it's incredible obviously but I just like that could not have been the opposite of what happened to me like I just sat down from like coming home from the gym like it was my birthday had my very like average mundane morning routine as I always have my boyfriend gave me a couple of really lovely gifts and we were doing cards. Really lovely gifts. We were doing cards. And I was in like, I was actually got engaged in Tears, husband's t-shirt.
Starting point is 00:26:23 Which sounds really weird. In this t-shirt that I got from like years ago that's like my light. It's like tears. And I just had a shower, been to the gym, sat down on the sofa. We did gifts. We did presents. We did cards. And it was such a nice morning.
Starting point is 00:26:36 I was having my coffee. It was obviously my birthday. So I had a lunch with a couple of girlfriends in like an hour or two. And he and Gab goes, oh, there's just one more thing. In the bag, I've got one more thing for you. And I'm kind of like clearing up packaging. And he goes, no, sit down. I've got one more thing for you.
Starting point is 00:26:50 And he comes out with a ring box. because my brain was so far away from us getting engaged that I didn't see the ring box and put two and two together that he was proposing. So in my head I was like, oh my God, like you've got me a piece of jewelry or some earrings, like that's so unnecessary. And then he sits down and he opens it. But he doesn't say. Do you get down on my knee? No. That would have thrown you off because I guess that would have initially been like. So he just sat next to me and opened the box on the sofa and doesn't say anything. So we're just staring at one another. Right. And I'm at this point computing what's happening.
Starting point is 00:27:26 So I'm now realizing, oh my God, this is everything I've like literally dreamed of my whole life. He's proposing to me. And like, it's been a hell of a year, guys. Like, I've literally like moved to Australia. And like, it's been like a really crazy 10 years even, like with relationships and with men and with ups and downs. And like, oh, my God, I actually feel like I'm going to get emotional. We've gone through a lot. We've gone through so much.
Starting point is 00:27:51 And actually in that one moment, I was like. like, oh my God, like, this is happening and I love him and he's amazing and I'm going to marry him. And like, it was just the best moment of my life. And now we're talking wedding plans. I know. I feel so grown up. I feel like a child bride. I'm like 31.
Starting point is 00:28:08 I feel like a teen bride. I do just need to grow up and this is just what happens. But like, I'm like, oh my God. You're a lovely age. I also just like feel like so excited that like he's my life partner. Like he is the best guy in the world. That's so wonderful. That's what it's all about really.
Starting point is 00:28:23 Like, we have the best time together and I just, like, think he's the coolest person. I really do. And that's, I want that so nice. Okay, cheers. Cheers. Cheers. Cheers. Like, we're both engaged at the same time.
Starting point is 00:28:35 And, like. And I think I told you, yeah, I did on the pod about, it was like, I was the same, like, five days out of engagement on the pod. And I surprised you the day off. It was the best thing. It was, like, the same thing. What can we call this? Yeah, can we name it, like. Um, the Tim's take, there's nothing teish about a wedding.
Starting point is 00:28:52 Like Tim takes... The two Timmy's tie the knot. The two Tim's tie the knot. The two Tim's tie the knot. Wow. I've never had this. Two besties engaged going around at the same time. Actually, that's untrue.
Starting point is 00:29:08 Oh no. I've never had it. I've never, like, known anyone. But I can think of two best friends engaged at the same time going through it. I can just think of Tim and Timothy. That's it for this week Wednesday. But, God, don't you just fancy some more, Melissa? Yeah, I'd really love a follow-up to some of those dilemmas.
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