Wednesdays - 29: We matched on Tinder, went on a date, and then I found out he was married!

Episode Date: April 10, 2024

We’ve got a special guest for this week’s ‘Wednesdays’, Georgia Habboo is in the house!We’re answering questions on all your wedding outfit needs and how to look bomb at any ceremonies this year, taking on how to get out of a situationship and into a relationship, and also hearing from one Tiny who found out the man she met on Tinder had just come back from his HONEYMOON.As well as doing a demonstration of how you can do your contour like Sophie’s over on our TikTok, Georgia is also here to answer all of your questions on make-up and skincare.Got a dilemma or any personal advice for another Tiny? You can send us a voice note or message using the link here.Instagram / TikTok / YouTube: @wednesdayspodcastEmail: [e-mail]:Producer & Editor: @ben_johnsExec: @jemimarathboneVideographer: @jamierg99Video editor: @jakeji.pSocial Media: @thechampagency Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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I want to be but I'm not I'm not a doctor either and we're not psychologists and we're not experts at anything in fact we just challenge all the shit and we love giving you guys advice but as we said do not take what we're saying as gospel if you do feel like you need to speak to somebody please seek professional help We love giving you guys advice, but as we said, do not take what we're saying as gospel.

If you do feel like you need to speak to somebody, please seek professional help. Welcome to Wednesdays. We've got a guest. My sister. Georgia motherfucking Haboo. Actually, no, isn't it Georgia Berry? Well, I haven't legally changed my name yet. Okay, fine. Georgia Haboo. Georgia Haboo's in the house and we just got loads to catch up on.

We just did a contouring demo for you guys, so you can go onto our Instagram pages, onto our TikToks, and you can see how she contours my face. Disclaimer, I have a peeling face. I was going to say that. Don't want people to think that's patchy blending on my part. Yeah. She had a peel. I actually think it doesn't look patchy at all. Just a little bit on that jaw.

Fine. So what happened was I had a transamic acid peel for my pigmentation with Tatiana's clinic. And my skin's a bit peely from it. I also had salmon spam put in my face yesterday. All day long we just go. After everything. You do it more than I do. You do put in my face yesterday. Me and Lissa do this all day long we just go hmm after everything you do it more than I do you do it so much without noticing you say after every sentence yesterday in the car you're like oh my god why am I doing it yeah yesterday was really bad but you do it in public can I have a coffee please no you know when I see you do it in your tiktok when you've like filmed something and you're like, can you do this? And you're like, that's so cute. You know what it is? It's from the, it's cute.

So Jamie's always gone to me, Skilt from Big Daddy. What's Big Daddy? A film. A movie. And this little boy goes, Daddy, I'm Skilt. And then me and Melissa were going,

Skilt. So they sound quite similar. So one day, so that's why I was crying because I knew what he was doing. I didn't. So we're filming this thing and we're going, it's cute. So they sound quite similar. So one day, so that's why I was crying because I knew what he was doing. I didn't. So we're filming this thing and we're going, it's cute. And then Jamie just joins in. He's like, it's cute.

Because he thought that was all we did. I know, and he kept doing it and was being really sweet. That would melt my heart. We didn't correct him. It was like, it's cute. And then all this time, Melissa's just thought that he randomly was going, it's cute. But I was like, everyone's got confused.

Oh, bless. I had salmon sperm yesterday, hence why my face is really puffy. Melissa's just thought that he randomly was going scared but I was like everyone's got confused. Oh bless I had salmon sperm yesterday hence why my face is really puffy. Sophie loves it because she thinks it makes me look like 18 so this won't stay like this forever. I think she looks 12. She does. It's not actually salmon sperm it's salmon sperm DNA that rebuilds your DNA

and I had it all under my eye and she did it on my forehead. I'm also going to shout out to Heart Medical who's the one who did it for me. And it looks so good. And she's freaking unreal. She spent like two hours with me, like analyzing my face, what I needed before I did anything. Oh, I love that. I also had it.

But guys, we've got a serious crisis because we've spoken about it loads on this podcast before. Me and Melissa get Botox in our jaw and we get it to reduce the mass to muscle. Anyway, ages ago, way back when. I feel weird. Honestly, maybe five years ago now. Five years ago, I had it so frozen when Melissa, no, it must have been six when you first met me. And Melissa says that she used to just look at me and be like, really pretty, but why does she smile? Ugly smile.

I literally just thought she doesn't have a nice smile. If it goes into the wrong muscle, the wrong nerve, it can freeze the smile. And basically it's happened. If it goes into the wrong muscle, the wrong nerve, it can freeze the smile. And basically it's happened. So this side is frozen and it's just a real bad situation. I was laughing so much yesterday. So she smiles like with one side. Yeah, and it's just ugly.

I just look, I look rank, to be honest. I don't know how long it's going to take. She was asking me yesterday the day before, like, does it look bad? And I honestly just couldn't stop pissing myself. It looks so bad. She was like, oh bad and I honestly just couldn't stop pissing myself because I was like it looks so bad she was like oh my god you just don't look like you're some

it is horrendous that's what she said to me I was like she was like Sophie don't worry about being honest

horrendous I try really hard to smile this is every time she was smiling at me I thought she was like fake smiling almost I was like

you're not really smiling you're not really trying she's like fake smiling almost. I was like, you're not really smiling. You're not really trying. She's like, this is me trying with all my might. Yeah, it looks like you're like pretending. I know. So that made me laugh. And the funniest thing is, obviously, I don't tell Jamie these things because he, even despite him like injecting Botox into his face, he thinks that Botox is like filler or facelift if I do it.

Yeah, he's my difference. But I'm like, you do it. Yeah, then he should really know. Anyway, he's looking difference. But I'm like, you do it. Yeah, then you should really do it. But he's like, you can't be doing it. Anyway, he's looking at me and I'm like laughing away at a dinner table and he goes... I go, what?

He's like, you know when someone's staring at you, you know, I know, I'm self-conscious about it and I know he's staring at me and he's like this... Small little mouth. I didn't imagine him doing that. Because obviously when I laugh, I'm like, really, it's killed me. And I just know he keeps looking at me thinking,

my wife looks quite buttered up in it. Don't know what's going on around her. I just, I hate it. This is me doing it, Anne. Ben is like, you're not. He's like, no, no, give me a big smile. Look at me, look at me.

It's really funny funny I drive around in my car like this because I just try to stretch it so anyone driving past me just see something like

this need to chew chewing gum all the time yeah do it constantly and the face gym thing apparently on it

yeah so that's the blab of my life and every day all I do and I'm sorry to be vain, but all I do is look at my phone 40 times in the camera to see if it's gone. She took seven pictures of her face.

Is it back yet? Smiling like, has it come back in the space of an hour? Well, apparently it's back in two weeks. And look, I've got really strong muscles because my Botox just does not work. It can take up to two months. When did you get it done? On the internet, it says four to six months.

Yeah, but apparently because it's majoritively in the masseter, it's only a little bit that's spilled into those other strains. It will wear off super quick. Yours wears off quickly anyway, your Botox, always. Yeah, you know when I got it was literally the day before the break. So thank God my smile was fine then. Thank God it hadn't kicked in. Melissa's had a haircut.

It's a lot of hair off. It's quite short. I wasn't anticipating it. Every time I go to tie my hair up I'm like oh my god there's no hair there do you know what I mean you do a ponytail there's nothing there

but hopefully it'll just be fresh for summer and it'll grow out hopefully in like a month it'll be an inch longer and then I'll be really really happy with it I love it as is at least it's healthy

I feel like I've had so much bleach and like from like balayage and stuff to try and like help cover up all my grey hairs which if I'm honest you can actually see right now can you see them no two I can see it yeah so if you have any grey hairs yeah same I don't think we're gonna go grey I know I'm so is your mum great at all not

really at all barely yeah barely so and dad is quite great but like maybe when he was 60 yeah I'm getting like pupas coming out my hair and I think that's my greys you're the one who told me that I thought you were gonna say I'm getting grey pubes I know I was she's not getting she's getting dark curly coarse hair I guess so I actually have no idea oh my god grey pubes grey pubes what the fuck I've I have no idea I might have to google that they're not like white trust me I see because I um I have a trust me I might have to Google that. They're not like white. Trust me, I see because I have a dip. Trust me, I see. I go to a gym and there was...

Oh, I thought you were going to say because Jamie's old. I know, I was about to say, where is this going? Melissa always thinks Jamie's like 37. I'm like, no, no. How old is he? 35. Oh, he's not that old. He's only two years older than Barry.

Right, listen. So you get grey pubes. You do. I just Googled it. Look, I don't know know i don't think i'll have much hair by then i've had so much laser yeah come on do you think i'm gonna ever regret that having like a bald vagina when you're like 17 i think by then you'll get some of it back do you know what i've seen somewhere i don't know where i've seen it about people getting you know you

can get like eyebrow implants to get more hair and i've seen apparently people are getting it on their vagina why because they don't like that they're bald anymore they regret it and they're getting hair implanted back into their vagina i remember this like magazine once i was reading i think it was like cosmopolitan when i was really young fascinated and it was like this thing she was like i've had all of my vagina lasered now i'm at the man of my dreams and he likes a hairy vagina and i'm there's nothing i can do about it and we've had to break up because it's his like one thing that's like, I've had all of my vagina lasered and I'm at the man of my dreams and he likes a hairy vagina and there's nothing I can do about it. And we've had to break up because it's his one thing that's like a deal breaker.

Loads of boys like a landing trip. Loads like a landing trip. I think it's probably quite childlike without any hair. It is if you think about it. I think it's nice to be... I feel cleaner. I know it's not. Yeah, it's not technically as hygienic, right?

Because the hair's meant to keep out the bad bugs. Yeah. Shut the fuck up. That's why you have eyebrows and eyelashes as well. It's like to catch things from your eyes. Shut the fuck up. Yeah, I'm being serious. I didn't understand why we had hair down there.

I was like, what's it protecting? I think that's right. That is right. Right. I've obviously, like, each and every one, I don't care if someone's got a hairy vagina or not

I personally don't enjoy having one power to the bush yeah we just can't also do you know what I'm really funny about is power to the bush

power to the bush is so I'm like honestly power to the bush yeah all for you and for the underarms if you're for it

go you saves a hell of a lot of time really does yeah but then so does laser yeah laser's good but shaving And for the underarms, if you're for it, go you. Saves a hell of a lot of time. Really does. Yeah, but then so does laser. Yeah, laser's good, but shaving, I get why people don't want to shave. I've tried waxing once. It, to me... Takes a lot of time.

No, it was torture. I was like, she actually said to me halfway through, do you just want to stop? Because I was wailing. Wailing on your vagina yeah but I think I hadn't you know you went to start

like waxing quite young and I started quite old so I'd obviously been shaving for years and you've been shaving since strong hair it was I honestly was like

I can never do that again but lace is fucking painful how do we like our men oh how do we like our men though because it's all about fucking girls sorting themselves out what about those

hairy brushes? My husband spends more time grooming than I do, I would say. Can we debrief on Barry's grooming situation? I love that from him. He's so grooming.

Creamy, groomerson. He's a groomer. Wait, talk us through, is this daily or weekly? I actually had to, he's going to murder me for this.

I actually had to, we're going out for dinner tonight for a date night and I had to trim the back of his neck before he went to work for our date night. How long are the back hair, the neck hairs? Well, the neck's just like under his haircut, but his back hairs are a problem. How long I've never seen that.

They could be like this long, like a couple of inches, some of them. You could get a laser on that. Oh, yeah, yeah. I did actually say next birthday. I'm just good. Whether you like it or not. Maybe just an at home laser. His hair, they're not that just go for it no honestly a couple of inches some of them are always how long's that growing for because he does it so regularly I don't know

can you please tell the story about when he did the towels oh my god we have flat with balcony um so we're spending a lot of time on balcony balcony, obviously, as were all our neighbours. It was like summer, COVID, you can leave the house. And just living our lives. It's as you do, yeah. We get a letter through, posted under our door. Like, so obviously someone in our building, because we have like letterboxes, but someone would obviously come to our door and slid it under the door. And you can't knock on the door because it's COVID.

Yes, they probably just didn't want to see us face to face. So, Barry reopens his letter. I wasn't really concentrating. And I see his face like go white. Like he's literally like. And I was like, what's happened? Like, what is this? And he was like, actually didn't want me to see it.

I was like, oh, nothing, nothing. And I was like, no, what is this? Let me read it. Oh my God, stop. Yeah. And basically this letter was like, hi, we're your downstairs neighbours. We'd really appreciate it if you stop throwing your, like the Hoover bag rubbish over the balcony. The dust. The dust over the balcony because it flies underneath and goes straight onto our balcony.

We'd also really appreciate it if you stopped throwing your pubes over the balcony. I was like, what? Sorry, so punchy from there. So punchy. But fair enough. I was in the place, please. Imagine, all I was picturing them having a Friday night little drink on the balcony.

Oh, and it just was pubes flying in your face. No, just sunbathing, picking pubes off them. I don't know if it was his pubes, but he shaves his chest like every month or so because he's a very hairy boy. And probably I'd have done his back hairs. They look like pews. They look like pews, yeah, the dark curly hairs.

And he would have done it like over, he does it over, stands on a towel. And I assumed he put the towel, the hairs in the loo, but no, he goes to the balcony and wafts them over and they go straight into the balcony. I bet. It's the best thing. If you know Barry as well.

It's one of the best stories. He would have been so mortified. He's mortified. Have you ever met them? Do you know which neighbour it is? No, no, we don't know who they are. Thank God. Oh my God, I need you to tell the story

about when you went, when that boy's grandma died and then you went. You know when you have like an embarrassing moment that you'll never get over? Yeah, yeah, yeah, go yeah yeah it shakes you today I actually am so embarrassed still so it's we probably have probably picked it up too much but basically I was like seeing the sport really early on um like early on dating we were like maybe third day as a uni and on we about we'd arranged to like see each other on Saturday on like it it was like our third day, literally. And he texted me and was like, so sorry, I got to cancel.

It was his granddad. My granddad died. And I was like, oh my God, so sorry. Like, it'll be okay. Anyway, a couple hours passed. And he replied to my text being like, it's okay. I'm just really sad I didn't get to say goodbye. And I know.

And I reply saying, don't worry, I'll just see you on didn't get to say goodbye. And I know, and I reply saying, don't worry, I'll just see you on Saturday. She thought it was about her. I honestly have her. So self-absorbed. I know, that's all I think. I'm like, his granddad's died. He's thinking about, I'm thinking about, he misses me.

It's honestly just too, don't worry, I'll see you. What did he reply? He said, I think he replied saying no to my granddad. What did you, was there no foreplay?

I was like, oh my God. I remember her calling me and I was at school and she was like, something really bad's happened. That is harrowing. It was obviously like,

at least 12 years ago because I've been with Barry 12 years and I still like, think about it and shudder. Right, girls, should we get into the dilemmas? Please. Absolutely. Okay, dilemma one.

Hey, ladies, I need your help. I've been invited to a wedding this summer of a mutual friend I share with my now ex-boyfriend. We had quite a bad breakup, and this is the first time that I'm going to see him in six months. I need to look bomb. So what outfit suggestions have you got?

Where would you say is like a few shots? Let's do high street. Let's do mid-range and let's do an expensive look. Well, I'd say if you want to look fire and house of CB. Those snatched in. Snatched you in the waist. The face is in corset. Yeah, it's a corset.

But it's like a pretty flowery dress. I've got quite a few weddings this year and I mean, there's loads that are like either maxi or like ankle length slash or like midi.

So that's really good. And you'll definitely wear them again. That's bomb. 150 to 200, but you'll look fit. I'm going to get one of those. Yeah.

Reformation, gorgeous. They're a bit more expensive. Reformation's like, I would say more high end and it's really classy you'll wear that again and floaty it's not that sexy sexy

but gorgeous gorgeous I don't think they're snatched because they always have that stretchy back a bit so they don't snatch you in they're probably a bit more comfortable maybe I don't know

a bit more loose but if you want to look and what price would we say that is like 250 250 to 300 sometimes 450 if you get a silk one yeah

how much is the house of CB they're 150150 to £200 right Mango amazing at the moment they have this new capsule collection out which is all

basically event dressing but it's more like black tie and they're like £200 actually on Mango they have like this cool capsule collection I'll tell you another one

Rat and Boa expensive but they are sexy they're gorgeous that's like if you don't want the shapewear, like you're very happy with your body,

you don't need anything pulling you in or like sucking in, and you just want like slinky, a lot of skin and like sexy Boa vibes. Like a lot of back out, a lot of arms. That's Rat and Boa, I think. Agree. There's a lot of higher websites that you could go to. Oh my God, yeah. Buy a rotation cut borrowed from a three

that I don't have up my head. They are amazing. I bought a secondhand Rat and Bear dress from Depop. It was like 60 quid and it had been worn once by someone else

and I wore it. Genius. And actually, I bought one from Vinted and also the Outnet. I think you just take your time doing your makeup and your hair

and just feel really confident. Maybe get a blow dry. Get your contouring on from this video. Yes. I practiced before. Use the Georgia Haboo tips. Oh, I tell you what. Do a trial run of the makeup.

I've got the key thing, guys. Listen here. Get a spray tan. Get an express Sienna X tan because every other one is orange to me. Really? And get that on you. The organic one that you suggested was lovely. That must be Sienna X because I don't know of one.

I don't think I've had a spray tan in like 10 years. Neither. I don't think you've ever had one. I have one at my school. I might not have actually. No, surely in Newcastle days. You've never had one. Faked Hand Fails Sublime Bronze.

L'Oreal Sublime Bronze. Really? Oh, orange. Is that the instant stuff that washes off? Yeah, but it doesn't actually. It's instant like you put it on and you're orange

but then it actually stays it's just like so I used to do it before going to smack on a night out smack's in Leamington Spa was that

the local club was that like basically the only one and I would stink I would stink nothing like that throughout the club and I would get home

and all me and my friends would wear it and then we'd all be in bed together and like we were like stench of fate town is nothing worse

oh yeah if you want for this wedding to feel really good use a body if you've got skin out body shimmer glow blur stuff Sally Hansen

makes it in with a bit of moisturiser so it's not so matte feel gorgeous gorgeous and it gets you know sometimes after no matter

if we like wax, shave, laser sometimes you still get that strawberry effect. Some people get that on their legs. The Body Blur stuff gets rid of all of that so you can just feel really confident with your legs. I think that's quite important. I did actually fake tan for the first time two weeks ago

and I hadn't fake tan for, honestly, months. And I did that and I was like, I actually feel gorgeous. Why don't I do this every day? A tan is just like, makes a big difference. A tan on your face. It does quite a lot of admin then when you get patchy you're like oh this is why I don't do it. Yeah and it stinks. I just

find the day I do the fake tan I'll leave it for two days and then after that every time I shower I exfoliate and then it completely fades so like perfectly. It never goes patchy. Shall I just give one more tip because I love doing this. You should have an ice bath or an ice cold shower. And face de blanche.

Yeah, shove your face in the ice. Yeah, get a bowl, put some ice in it and stick your face in. You will feel, on top of the world, get yourself some, listen to some manifestation thing where you're just telling yourself you look fantastic and then off you go. I would also not drink too much. Oh, good tip. Remain in control at all times. You don't want to get messy.

Don't want things to get messy. Water, drink, water, drink, water, drink. Perfect. remain in control at all times you don't want to get messy don't want things to get messy water drink water drink in between water drink perfect and I think also give the whole like I don't give a fuck energy

like if he's there go up to him like oh my god hey how are you so nice to see you you look so well and then just leave like don't chat too much

if you don't want to but like don't feel like you're avoiding him and don't let him think you are I think the worst thing is if you like come across like you're in a mood or like annoyed or elude.

Yes, don't like that vibe. Yeah, you've just got to be like, oh my God, I'm so happy to see you. Almost as if you're not exes. Like don't give a fuck about you. Like you can get with someone in front of me if you want. I won't care. Should she crack on though? You crack on, I think.

You know what? Do what you want to do, but maybe not. Not just to piss him off though. Totally. Like if it happens because of someone gorgeous you fancy yeah but don't like just like don't like get off on his friends oh god no also like we don't want to there's nothing worse than like forcing yourself to do something and then like the feeling you have a regret immediately after yeah nothing where do you guys remember the games like back in the day

like when i was at uni like if i fancied a boy i would like try and flirt with his mate i know going through my mind it's natural human nature I actually remember one one person saying to me I'm friends with that boy and I was like oh god that and it lives it lives rent free in my mind what the person you were flirting with was like I'm friends with like I was clearly like getting with a guy and he like it we weren't official or anything and he obviously was like ignoring me that night so I just started flirting with his mate.

Oh my god, such good tactic. Like quite obviously trying to flirt. I want to be sick and it lives, went through my mind. I remember him sort of like

pushing me away and being like, no, I obviously wasn't all over him but he was like, I'm best friends with so and so and I was like, that's me.

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Right, dilemma two. I desperately need some advice or some sense shooken to me. I've been best friends with this guy for around eight years. We've been sleeping each other for over a year and a half. It happens most weekends

and we only talk about it when we're drunk. The conversation normally starts with one of us saying that we should stop and that it's bad. But I'm not going to lie, even that is a turn on.

It's because it feels like they're forgetting fruit. Yeah, I get that. Oh, I get that. But now I've caught really deep feelings and I don't know what to do. I can't bear to let it stop

because I love the connection we have. But if it was going to turn into a relationship, I wouldn't have done that by now. If you've watched one day, this feels very Dexter and Emma. Aww. For over a year and a half. That's a long time. And for most weekends. No, sorry.

That's like a full-blown relationship. I'm absolutely in love. Well, she is. She's caught really deep feelings. I would. I call that L-O-V-E. It's really tough because boys don't develop feelings through sleeping with someone, whereas girls do. Sorry, that's weird as fuck. I don't know.

You're not going to sleep with the same person every single weekend for a year and a half and not develop feelings. You're a psychopath. Some boys can do that. Well, what should she do? Honestly, it's going to be the best policy here because if you still want to be friends with him, you can't carry on like this because you're just going to get deeper and deeper in love and then you're never going to know. He also might have... I really find it hard to believe he wouldn't have feelings from every weekend for a year and a half he would have stopped it yeah he would have been like

i think what i would do is i'd be like look i can't continue doing this yeah unless like i love you so much as me but i'm actually get i'm not getting feelings and i just like i want to just i would play the route of like i just want to be friends obviously we don't want this to go anymore hoping his days I think probably maybe that's a bit too subtle be like well

I think you need to give him a bit of room for him to be open be like I don't think I can care about doing this because I have feelings I'm catching feelings

and like unless it's going to go in another direction I'm going to be hurt I'm going to have to yeah we're going to have to stop sleeping together

because yeah I think and I think you have to have the conversation sober I'm afraid to be hurt I'm going to have to yeah we're going to have to stop sleeping together because yeah I think and I think you have to have the conversation sober I'm afraid yeah yeah or maybe

or just one drink yeah just go for a nice dinner together because obviously they must do that right and just be like I don't think we can like do whatever

tonight I think I'm just trying to think because this happened with Jamie and I and that's how I got him can we talk about how that happened then

I literally said he wasn't calling me his Jamie and I, and that's how I got him to... Can we talk about how that happened then? I literally said, he wasn't calling me his girlfriend, and we were obviously having a secret, whatever, for ages. I mean, then it obviously got aired all over TV. But I swapped it, because I was like, I can't do this anymore.

Did you say that? Yeah, I said it. And then he was like, at first, he was like, okay, fine. And then he called me the next day and was like, are we not going to do this?

At first, he was like, yeah, sweet, let's just be mates. because he obviously felt rejected yeah and then it took a day and then they come crawling back if a boy likes you enough they're gonna do that I stopped it because I suddenly had feelings but I obviously wanted it to go into a relationship but he wasn't making that move it was still becoming like this we're just mates who are sleeping together so then I was like I'm stopping this yeah you have to take control back I think that's the best thing you can do because sometimes you can just fall into this habit sometimes like boys if they don't have to be pushed into anything further they're just gonna keep it as it is yeah why wouldn't so he might be like actually yeah I

could have a relationship with her I really like her but I but I didn't really fulfill the need to. And also, but if he doesn't, being in a year and a half, you're not then like opening yourself up to meet anyone else. So like you're holding yourself back. Exactly, back. Somewhere. I think he'll turn around and be like,

oh, well, I don't want this to stop. He's obviously just having a sweet deal. I think he will say he wants to date and stuff. You think he will? As in her? Oh, right. Yeah. yeah like yeah wannabe in a relationship yeah but if he doesn't reciprocate those feelings oh you're gonna probably have to take a slight step back from the friendship for a for a minute because it's gonna be hard to see

someone that you've got that habit with doing that when we get drunk you're just gonna you're gonna end up doing it yeah so you probably have to take a step back and just be like i actually just need to get over this for a minute because I actually caught feelings and I wasn't expecting to. And like, I don't want it to ruin our friendship. But in order for me to get over it, I need to have some space from us doing this. I also think in my mind, like, I would be annoyed that he hasn't made a move before a year and a half. I'd be like, why haven't you been asking me out? Do you know what I mean?

Yeah. It's like, definitely been enough time now right let us know please what happens because we have a lot of dilemmas in this sort of like realm where people are asking advice on how to get out of situations like this so we'd love to know how this goes hey dilemma three okay this is a big one guys okay i'm listening my friend has recently started dating again after a five-year relationship came to an end she met a guy on one of the apps who she thought was the man of her dreams he was tall dark and handsome and living in london with a cockapoo puppy oh god they always are however he worked in bristol so he was regularly staying there during the weeks

he asked her number and they started messaging on WhatsApp she noticed that his name was different on WhatsApp than on his dating app so she questioned it

he told her that he prefers to go by his middle name she thought it was strange and made a joke about being catfished he laughed it off and sent a photo

of himself holding a note with her name on it okay that's fine oh so they've not met at all in person no she thought it was strange but really liked the guys he laughed it off and sent a photo of himself holding a note with her name on it okay that's fine oh so they've not met at all in person no

she thought it was strange but really liked the guys to let it slide after a few weeks of speaking they arranged to meet for a date in Bristol she had a good time but nothing came from it

okay so it wasn't a catfish right after the date she then tried to find him online Facebook, Instagram and even LinkedIn and she couldn't find him suspect

when someone's just not on the internet I'm like, LinkedIn, you've got to be on LinkedIn. In any capacity. I'm not on LinkedIn. You're all over the internet though, love. Your fucking face is everywhere. We'll find you in a heartbeat. Two weeks later he came up as a suggested friend on Facebook

and his profile picture was of him in a suit and a girl in a wedding dress. You're lying. You're fucking lying. Because her phone, his number would have been in her phone so it would have been

a suggested. He used his middle name online to avoid being caught because he had a wife. Yeah, I know. See, that's what it's going. My friend does her research and it showed that

he had an amazing wedding abroad and she discovered that he started messaging her only a few days after he retired from his honeymoon. Son of a... Why are people such pigs? He's actively gone out there to create it on a dating app.

Like, actively just wants to cheat. What the hell? The wife is public on Instagram and you can tell she's utterly in love. No! My friend doesn't know what to do. Does she message the wife and tell her what happened? But as you can imagine, she's worried about the heartbreak this might cause. Or does she leave it alone?

I would message her because this guy is not right it's not just a small relationship it's they're married let her know it's so sad you don't want to be the meddler

because the wife's happy and ignorant obviously you have to tell her she'll find out at some point he'll be on dating apps so many people will see that well it sounds like they don't have kids yet

they've just got married so it's better for her to know before they have kids 100% and also then she knows what she's getting herself into if she decides to stay do you know what i mean what a pig that he's gonna cheat that their whole life if he's actively going out on dating apps as soon as he's back from his honeymoon he probably had a dating app when he was not getting married they obviously they went for an actual date in bristol did you

kiss and sleep together? Probably. Right, so what's she going to do? Make a fake account? I think I would do it. I wouldn't do a fake account. If I was going to tell her, she might want to call me and ask questions. Yeah, be a girl's girl.

Like, you don't give a fuck if he knows who you are. I really hope this girl's going to stop dating him. I would Instagram with the proof immediately and then say, this is my number if you want to call me. That's what I would do. Yeah. Be a girl's girl. Like you don't give a fuck if he knows who you are. I really hope this girl's going to stop dating him.

You're doing the right thing. We really, really. But it's going to be rough. It's going to be rough. You know what is a fucking good hack? If you think your boyfriend's iMessaging someone, this is what you can do. This is phenomenal. Right right can you just send me an iMessage right now sophie yeah okay so iMessage has obviously come up on your phone

like a text message like a text message so this is obviously not whatsapp i don't think this works for whatsapp so if i this is me i'm a shady guy i'm messaging sophie and i'm having an affair i'm going to delete so you hold it out i've deleted the messages right okay now what i can do is i can go i think it's is it edited show so i'm on my boyfriend's phone show recently deleted and then the recently deleted messages all come up and you can recover them all and go through them they only last 30 days so if your boyfriend is you think he's having like naughty messages for someone or having an affair on iMessage you can fucking

get them all back you can find them all now but you need to act quick because he might sniff this out and he might delete the deleted yeah he might delete

the deleted because you can also do this in your album photo album same thing same thing I wonder if that's on WhatsApp too

it's not I don't think it is otherwise that would be unreal WhatsApp's hard because it's so encrypted totally yeah and you have all those like locked messages Same thing. I wonder if that's on WhatsApp too. It's not. I don't think it is. Otherwise that would be unreal. WhatsApp's hard because it's so encrypted. Totally. Yeah. And you have all these locked messages. And I'm like, that's just fucking sketch.

You can also have those other messaging apps. Yeah. Like, I reckon a good cheater would just get one of those, hide it in a folder. Or they'd just have a whole new phone. Because I wouldn't know what any of them are called. I wouldn't have a skimmy. They look like a calculator somewhere. Or they'd use Teams or something and and be like it's just work guys obviously we have Georgia here and we're

really excited to get all the answers to these questions that we have I think you guys have written them in as well so this is stuff you want to know quick fire quick fire quick fire what's some of the best no makeup makeup e.g tinted moisturizer well we were just saying we love the new did you say cosas cosas bb cream i've not tried that one it's so good it's actually pretty good coverage yeah i think it doesn't look like anything that's concealer as well that concealer i would wear with no makeup and then just pop that on and you know sometimes you can tell you've got concealer on that you've got no makeup but just flawless skin. I also feel like

Charlotte Tilbury Flawless Filter, just that. Isn't that gorgeous? Also Merit. Really good. Merit is gorgeous. I haven't bought any of that yet.

I need to do that. I know. Okay, how do I stop the concealer under my eyes from creasing? This is really common. So first of all, you should really prep

your under eyes with a really good eye cream before you put any makeup on. What is a good one? I find it goes pilly whenever I use an eye cream. Yeah, so the trick apparently to that, I'm not that good at myself, I do more trial and error, but it's to not mix a water-based and a silicone-based.

So if you're using like a silicone-based concealer or makeup, don't have a water-based primer or moisturiser. So creamy, creamy, like do everything to be... So like a sharper top with magic cream is really good for that, don't have a water-based primer or moisturizer. So creamy, creamy. So everything to be trying to do. So like a Charlotte Tilbury Magic Cream is really good for that, isn't it? Yeah, that would be really good. That's all meant for under makeup. Yeah, Charlotte Tilbury skincare is meant to sit well under makeup,

and it does sit really well, whereas some brands really don't. It's also the SPF that then goes pill, pill, pill. And then also, the other tip, when you're doing I would, don't, when you're doing your foundation, don't go under your eyes because you don't need the double layer of makeup. So do like foundation to like, on your cheeks, leave your under eyes bare and then just do just the concealer under eyes. Oh. That's a great tip.

Otherwise you're double layering. What? Why have I never, ever got that? I also, for some reason with concealer, just because I'm scared about it going creasy, I literally just do it in that corner and then blend it to there. So I don't have it under that bit, which maybe I shouldn't.

No, it depends. I like it really, and do less than you think and use an eyeshadow brush. Okay. It's really soft. I mean, I don't do half these tips myself most of the time when I'm brushing to do my own makeup,

but if I'm doing someone's makeup, I would make sure I do this. Use eyeshadow brush and really very little way less product than you need and then obviously set it with a powder a good powder Charlotte Tilbury everest flawless finishes to be honest to be the best powder there is um setting it that you should be good stunning right I'm doing my own wedding makeup what do I need to know do you have videos and stuff on your Instagram I know do you have videos and stuff on your instagram i actually do i have a video of how i did so sweating makeup and i also do have a video of how i did my own wedding makeup perfect i feel like just send my instagram yeah

we'll put the link of that is that like a real yeah it's a real full tutorial just tips i would say is you actually probably want more than you would normally do because it doesn't show up in pictures. So you just want to look like you're wearing some makeup. Like if you just do very natural, it will look like you're not wearing any makeup. And you want to make sure you use a setting spray so that it lasts all day. And you want to...

Before and after putting your makeup on? Yeah, before. When you've done your primer, your moisturiser, drench your facing setting spray, let it sit. Then do your makeup, then drench it again. Sophie literally loves to drench. Do you drench the second time after contour or after face? You can do that as well.

You can layer. I just do before and after at the end. But some people do, like, setting spray and layers. I don't necessarily think you need that. But, like, if you do, you could literally wipe your face with a tissue and it doesn't come off. Shut up. Which setting spray in layers I don't necessarily think you need that but like if you do you could literally wipe your face with a tissue

and it doesn't come off shut up which setting spray is your favourite Charlotte Tilbury Kylie Kylie Cosmetics got it

really really good okay I'm gonna make a purchase I actually saw a TikTok of some have you seen these like saw a TikTok of someone testing

all the setting sprays and Kylie Cosmetics was the best one right I'm gonna buy it really and Kylie Cosmetics doesn't feel like it feels like it's like a clear water mist oh my god lovely smells good yeah okay are there any makeup skincare dupes you think are better than the original um dupes well you love that Maybelline 4in1 glow 4in1 glow which is kind of a Hollywood

flawless filter dupe I've heard that yeah and it's quite good it's really good guys it's really good I mean I do love Hollywood flawless filter I don't know if you can beat that same

it's just that's really thin like it's not sticky it's like a sheer layer isn't it yeah it never goes claggy it like fades perfectly

it doesn't look like there's anything on your skin but then you look like kind of flawless it's mental it's unbelievable I think that big applicator as well is just so easy to use

yeah just I love also they're selling mini ones guys in Space NK so I have a mini one in my bag at all times and I keep one at Toby's

and in my wash bag just so after I've done like my skincare and I've got no makeup the next day I'm like maybe I just put some of this on because I look a bit shit today

and it just makes you look that little bit extra glowy. Glowy. Love her. Do you know what is good? So you know Alpha, basically, they just do dupes. Do they? All of Alpha's dupes of everything.

Why didn't I know that? Yeah, Alpha Cosmetics is like just dupes. And it is pretty good, to be honest. Their lip oils are really good. Okay. And they do copy a lot of sharp tilbury stuff so i'm sure sharp tilbury don't love them and something's better something's not um are they more affordable yes really it's like boot prices high street prices um but one thing i've tried that's

definitely really good from elf is they did a dupe of the milk uh primer so yeah that's the elf primer i think i've got the red one but you can like it comes out clear so don't worry you're not gonna have red skin um but it's just really good it's stick I've got I've got tried so many different primers like really expensive ones like top end brands and I don't know why this one doesn't go pilly and it's just sticks your makeup really well I've used it on you a few times you probably didn't see what I was using but um yeah I much prefer it I'm not gonna say the brands I don't like but I much prefer it to some of the well. I've used it on you a few times so you probably didn't see what I was using. But yeah, I much prefer it. I'm not going to say the brands I don't like, but I much prefer it to some of the expensive brands I've used.

Very good. How do I get my makeup to last all night? I'm guessing just the setting spray is the best. Setting spray and a really good powder. Like I do think, you don't ever want, don't want to look cakey, but the Charlotte Hill Be Flawless Finish Powder. It's such a good powder.

It's unbelievable. I also like the YSL powder. It's so un-cakey. It's so fine. That's why it's really fine. The YSL powder I quite like too and the Kosas powder.

Oh yeah, I could try that. It's not as good. It's different. I just think I can to me nothing is like that Charlotte Tilbury one.

You can apply that all day and you will not look but cakey. It's phenomenal. It's mental. Right, the people of Britain how do you get your look but cakey. It's phenomenal. It's mental. Right. The people of Britain. This question.

How do you get your hair so perfect? Oh. That's just genetic. That's so nice. I don't know. It looks probably awful. It's just genetics, guys. Yeah.

People ask me, they're like, is Sophie's sister got extensions? I'm like, I wish I could say yes. Yeah, I know. She just doesn't. I do do it a lot. Like, it's done most of the time. And I use an air wrap and I do use nice products like I make sure I really love color wow and um Moroccan oil products okay use

them a lot so whenever I wash my hair it's never just shampoo and conditioner I do like a leave in yeah I like this I lost this morning and I did the coconut leave-in conditioner from color wow and then I do pardon how long oh you just leave it in so it's just you put it in and leave it in that's why it's called leave it leave it how long um and then I also drench it like every other time I wash it in the dream coat so it's super shiny the color wow yeah you do not I literally use it yeah it's like a wet spray and then i also that's to get the hard water off isn't it yeah i've also been using l'oreal metal detoxing i like it a lot and then i also use color wow serum in the ends or moroccan oil serum in the ends and then i always finish with loads of shine spray too what's shine spray

color wash gatekeeping these products i never ever do i think that we also need to put a and then I always finish with loads of shine spray too. What's shine spray? Colour wash. I've seen you being gatekeeping these products I never ever do. Also, I think that we also need to put a disclaimer out that using all those products isn't going to make our hair like Georgia's

because you grabbing that tiny strand when you just did is literally my entire head of hair. Georgia has just in that one little strand. It's so much. You know when Georgia was a kid

they used to like firstly she was like three and they were like When are you going to get traded for a cow for your hair to, like, firstly, she was like three. When you're going to get traded for a cow for your hair or something. No, when she was like three, they were like, we have to book her in for adult prices.

Like, we can't charge her a kid's price. She's like three years old. My mum's like, for God's sake. And then she would have a three. And then Georgia would always have

like three people blow-drying her hair. When I'd have just one. Like, she's always just had this. You do have thick hair. I've got thick hair but yours is like yours is a whole other level

it's bad Jamie sometimes in the hot summer days he just walks down the street and he goes imagine how hot you're dry he honestly can't get it out of his head

he's like that big scarf around her neck it's like a scarf do you know what it's really sad though I do obviously I'm grateful for my long thick hair

but your long natural hair sorry my natural hair but I really I'm so sad my long, thick hair. Your long, natural hair. I'm sorry. I like your long hair. But I really, I'm so sad I can't have a nice bun. Why? Because it looks like a ballerina donut bun.

You should try the TikTok. Try the TikTok bun. What's that? I'll send it to you. But I did it for the Brits. No, so you grab it, then you twist, and you grab another thing, and then you twist, and you pull it through, and it's like almost these three messy loops. And then with them, it's? No. So you grab it, then you twist, and you grab another thing, and then you twist, and you pull it through, and it's like almost these three messy loops.

And then with them, it's so good. I'll send it to you. I'll try. Really easy. Amazing. Right, so next time Georgia's coming on, because she's coming on very shortly, we are going to do more contouring,

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