Wednesdays - 38. I’ve been having an AFFAIR with my BESTFRIEND’S BOYFRIEND!

Episode Date: June 11, 2024

Want More? Check out our new subscription: ad free, bonus eps and ALL the goss wednesdays.supercast.com/Heyyy Tinies, This week Melissa and Sophie are catching up on their fave TV shows…including all things BRIDGERTON. Also what is the optimum size for a boy’s hands and feet?! The girls really deep dive into what they like and don’t like…AND we have one of our most SHOCKING dilemma’s yet…even Melissa and Sophie can’t believe this one! A Tiny has written in confessing she has cheated with her best friends boyfriend… what advice will Sophie and Melissa give? Tell the friend or keep it a secret? Got a dilemma, any personal advice for another Tiny, or a follow up to a dilemma? You can send us a voice note or message using the link here.Instagram / TikTok / YouTube: @wednesdayspodcastEmail: [e-mail]:Producer & Editor: @ben_johnsAssistant Producer: @gurlinaheer_Exec: @jemimarathboneVideographer: @jamierg99Video editor: @jakeji.p Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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I'm not a doctor either and we're not psychologists and we're not experts at anything in fact we just challenge all the shit and we love giving you guys advice but as we said do not take what we're saying as gospel if you do feel like you need to speak to somebody please seek professional help

good morning good morning team i will say i'm jealous of your bare feet on the sofa that looks really comfy i know i got my toenails done they look i don't like them at all i don't like at least it's a clean clean look though they're fresh yeah i almost prefer though i really don't like like a pastel like I like like I just don't like anything that reminisces like really white tippets and this is giving me that vibe don't you mean but it looks still nice I was actually unhinged getting my nails done I was like no change it oh one more oh no and then I literally did they like we don't have time to finish the woman on the row behind me turned around and looked at me because she was thinking this girl's unhinged I was like oh can you mix it

with that one and then I just went no no just take it back and do it all to the first one because I just panicked and as she was doing it I was like I hate them I always go for a dark toenail I know I normally go for I actually like a red or a I like a red red or a black but I somehow thought that maybe I've got quite a few colorful bikinis and you want to keep it nude and natural Georgia my, my sister, always has like clear toes and it looks stunning. Like not clear, clear. Like milky clear, I know what you mean.

Yeah, like so elegant. Like Jennifer Aniston vibes. Yeah. And I'm like, why don't I try that? And this is what came out with. And let me tell you for the listeners, it's like typical. Oh my God, I saw something the other day

and you've got Greek feet. With the long toes. Greek toes, yeah. Yeah. It means I'm really sexual and intelligent. What's the other day and you've got greek feet with the long toes yeah yeah it means i'm really sexual and intelligent i what's the what's the other one there's egyptian greek wait what's the greece or long toes because some people just have the second toe that's longer like you i know but i have the second and third and you know what's really weird my mom and my dad do my mom does my dad doesn't and i've taken off my dad's feet they're in a perfect

gradient which i think is also has really long toes sarah really yeah yours i've never melissa's feet look like someone's got a hammer and just gone it's honestly like they've been stunted at growth like the toenails all in like the toes are all in a gradient like that. Gradient? Like a perfect, like, yeah, gradient. And the feet are just so small. It looks like they're not right. It almost looks like they're cartoon feet. They're like drawn feet. She's a UK three, 36.

And to be really bougie, I'm a two and a half in Jimmy Choo's. But your mum's, your auntie's... My auntie's a size two. And my mum's a size four, which is so normal. So cute. And to my brother's dismay, because my brother's tall. He's like 6'1". His feet are size seven.

I know. And his hands are really big. And he's like, it just doesn't go. We've all got these freakishly tiny feet. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. That's where it is weird. Your brother's 6'1", and he's got size seven feet. Yeah.

Also, he's like, I never tell anyone. I've've told the whole world now but no he might actually get really upset they really not care because he's got i think nothing to hide in that department but he seems to be very confident about it but he's like it's really annoying when i first tell people about the size of my feet because i'm like no no no there's no other problems going on here you know what having small hands for boys way well because yeah you can just wear bigger trainers and like get inner soles but having like really small hands like you can see it right also like you don't need to get inner soles like there's no shame about having small feet small feet is lovely on a girl i've never i've never looked at a boy in no more to be honest i feel like jamie but then he's real tiny but i feel like his feet are like

size what size he's got quite big feet and hands. I think he's size 10. I like boys with long fingers. I don't think Jamie's got long fingers. Jamie's got the nicest hands in the entire world. That's his, that is his best part about his entire body. Really? Jamie's hands are breathtaking. Like people say it.

My mum's like, I've never seen nice hands. I need to get a photo of you. Yeah, can you? His feet and hands are. He has quite dainty feet.'ve never seen nice hands. I need to get a photo of you. Yeah, can you? His feet and hands are... He has quite dainty feet. He has the biggest hands. His hands are literally like my dad's eyes. Right, okay, look.

But that's not even doing them justice. No, that's not. I can't barely see them. Yeah, but you can see their lovely shaped hands. Okay, talk to me about things. What's been going on? Right, what's been going on? Ooh, Bridgerton, Bridgerton, Bridgerton.

So you're not a Bridgerton fan? I've never watched it, but I will watch it because Emily was telling me that it's like soft porn and it's absolutely amazing. It is really kinky, you're right. It's very sexual. But also the colours that they use are like very light and bright and clean and fun.

So when I'm watching it, I feel quite nice. I will say I watched it and I was like, am I watching a pantomime at first? Yes, you have to get into it and just accept that what it is is what it is. And then you get really into the story. I think it's just so well done. I love, I've loved every season.

Okay, so I need to start from season one. Yeah, and the actor that go, what's the gorgeous, the Indian girl that was in season two and that was like the best season? Her partner is gay in real life. Their chemistry is 10 out real life their chemistry is 10 out of 10 and he is so stunning

I did not realise he was gay and I was like god you're an amazing actor because their chemistry I thought they were together in real life like it's that good

it's so good honestly like makes you feel a certain type of way when you're watching it I love it so much really so it's like

your Yellowstone because my Yellowstone makes me feel real I need to still watch that I need to watch that I tried to get into 1883 or whatever it's called. Too slow. Too slow.

Too slow. Okay, right. That's my problem. Right. Another thing that everyone needs to watch and listen to me when I say this,

The Loot on Apple TV. It is... The Loot. The Loot. It's basically like, you know in Bridesmaids, the one that's getting married in Bridesmaids?

Yes. She is a billionaire and it's so good like comedy it's basically like her husband's a billionaire he cheats on her and so she leaves him and

then it's just her navigate like she obviously gets 50% he's like the richest man in the world and it's like her just navigating life as this billionaire but she is so funny

it's comedy it's the most like high it's the most comedy in our lives it's so good it's like her just navigating life as this billionaire but she is so funny and it's comedy it's the most a lot higher we need some more comedy in our lives it's so good it's Apple TV The Loot unbelievable

and also Palm Royale Apple TV you will love that again bridesmaids but the blonde one main character main character

comedy and you know Palm Beach back in the day it's so Palm Beach is like where all these women are just so rich.

It's like the socialites of America. Okay. And they're all dressed to the nines. I need to watch so much TV. I'm just re-watching Bloody Desperate Housewives. I know. Slash watching Bridgerton. Can't wait for this second half to come out.

Because why the hell do Netflix do this? It's really annoying. Because the whole point of Netflix is you can binge or something in a day why are we releasing things in threes and twos now why release the whole fucking season in one go it's annoying wait that's outrageous right part one done yes it's like part one they give you three or four episodes and they're like go wait for like three months for the next part how upsetting three or four episode i'd be out of my mind i think it's to encourage you to watch other tv shows in the interim but it's still annoying me it's like defeating the point of netflix please bring back the full season so season three so far

tell me i love it really new characters tell me about that story you were telling me the other day about that girl so francesca in this season is a different actress basically and she was always like a secondary character so that means and she was always like a secondary character so that means like she was never really a main character like she'd appear every now and then always been background sort of vibe and um this girl was offered like a role i think to go on like sky or netflix show or something else um and she was like look i have to take this role because it's potentially going to be bigger for me and i I'm just a secondary character at Bridgerton. No one knows me.

Anyway, this season, they obviously decided, right, Francesca was going to be the main fucking character. They'd written the script. Yeah, cast a new person. And now this old girl that moved, apparently her show got cancelled and she really missed out on this huge opportunity. Anyway, the universe works in mysterious ways. But this new character, character actress is absolutely stunning breathtaking quite similar vibe to the girl that was in the first ever season almost like gingery strawberry blonde hair very clean and like she's not in it anymore no the one who wore

victoria beckham to the metagala yes and this her stunning duke boyfriend husband she's stunning my sister was on the flight with her the other day. I love seeing people in real life. You want to hear us speak? I never see anyone in real life. So the girl Penelope in Bridgerton is 37 years old in real life. I've told you this fact the other day, but it completely shocked me to the core. She looks about 20 years old. I don't know what that girl's doing to her face, but I need to know. She's incredible. She's never looked at the sun. That's gotta be it. Like that skin has never seen sun in this.

Just so youthful. And like these light blue eyes and this like happy, sweet face. Just so youthful. Anyway. So youthful. It's great so far. And I'm also kind of like,

sometimes Penelope's character like would kind of annoy me because I'm like, why? You're just fucking ruining it for yourself. Like she basically is quite hot headed and then like writes something stupid and what's her name

Mrs Mrs Whistledown or Lady Whistledown see this is what I mean Lady Whistledown was the one who bummed me out Lady Whistledown

drove me this is Penelope to her she's annoying sometimes because she ruins things for herself no you haven't watched it

you need to watch it the queen woman the mum who they were all oh get off my TV friggin like she's so hammy she's like I need to watch it again watched it you don't have you the queen woman who they were all oh get off my tv freaking like she's so hammy she's like again i need to watch it again because you're getting yourself in a pickle with who's what i'm talking about is like the queen woman queen charlotte queen charlotte

did not like one bit did not like queen charlotte i changed my opinion when i watched the whole clean queen charlotte um there was a dedicated series to her and it would go back- God, she's an OG fan right now. Go back to when she was younger and it's phenomenal. And like, again, some people didn't like that series. I loved it.

And like the chemistry that I felt like she had with her husband was phenomenal. And it made me so upset because spoiler alert, if you haven't seen it, I'm just going to tell safety. She basically has a lot of mental problems,

but she still loves him so much and he's like going crazy and it's like so gripping not that toby but like i'm like oh my god like when your partner like has something you and you still love me you want to do everything and it's like obviously so extreme because he literally goes outside and thinks he's like seeing aliens and stuff it's like quite extreme but it's like this amazing love story and then it shows you like to them now and i think he's still alive to this day but like he's locked away in a tower

because he's so crazy. You know what I loved about it back then is that they would fall in love and they'd be like I want to marry you. I know straight away like no more games.

Boom. No more whistling. Yeah, yeah. And I was like are we exclusive? No, no, no. We weren't exclusive so I went off with Daisy

from down the road. There's none of that. It's we have a dance. I feel chemistry. You're going to be my wife. I agree. But easy to end up with the wrong person with that scenario. Exactly.

And the women didn't really have much say. If someone asked them to marry them, they're like, okay, you're going to be a wife. They sort of have to do it. And I also think before, it's really bad with social media because like we catch all these boys, but like imagine before. Would we have liked to have lived in ignorance like sometimes i think maybe ignorance was blessed i need to tell you about something there is a facebook group i don't know if you've heard about this you're terrifying me called called called are we dating the same guy

okay apparently there is 70 000 plus women on this facebook group where they put photos like i'm dating this guy from such and such like are you and then those people like yep and like just to warn you like met this guy like does anyone know anything about him before i like get invested and it's like women are like oh yeah he fucked over my friend or whatever yeah i'm dating him we're out to get you how boys can't get away with fucking shit these days how good is that i was like i'm logging in just for the dollars same can we just join it do you have to be anyone can join it's women looking out for women we actually haven't had a

story time for a while so if any of you guys want to write in please if any of you had any experience or if you've been on that facebook group yeah or you know he has like any drama like that we need to hear it we must know and we will out these people we must know it's fantastic it's fantastic we're taking over the world I don't know how I found out about it

but it's so good I feel like Wednesday should have one like you know when we had in that girl that was like oh my god I was dating this guy

with the dog and he obviously had like 20 new girlfriends 20 other girlfriends if that was on that Facebook group none of you girls would have been in that scenario

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No business or profession is risk-free. Without insurance, your assets are at risk from major financial losses, data breaches, and natural disasters. Get customized coverage today, starting at $19 per month at zensurance.com. Be protected. Be Zen. Hi, ladies. I've got a dilemma for you both, and any advice would be appreciated. Me and my fiance have been together since we were at uni for nearly 10 years with two beautiful children and recently bought our first house together.

Lovely. I'd noticed that he had been distant since the birth of our second son last year. He wouldn't cuddle me and we had stopped having any intimacy. During this time, I had postnatal depression and I struggled to feel competent in my new larger post-baby body.

Instead of supporting me, he would opt to spend his evenings locked away in a different room. I put it down to being tired as our baby was a bad sleeper and hoped that it would improve. When we were in bed one night, I saw his phone lighting up and when I looked, oh, it was Snapchat. As far as I was aware, he didn't have an account, so I let suspicions get the best of me and opened it.

It was a naked girl. As I scrolled through, I saw he had made a fake account under a different name and was using it to talk to 50-plus women. What the fuck? What I read, it included women sending naked pictures and it had been going on for months. I could also see from his camera that he had been sending them pictures of himself whilst we had been on holiday with our children oh i could also see a number of flirty chats with women

that he worked with no i'm not sure i can forgive this i feel like he has hurt me a vulnerable time after having a baby and when i was so feeling so low he says he only did it because he was struggling after having a new baby and that he needed someone else to talk to he's adamant that he wants to be with me that it was a mistake what would you do see i'm sorry out the door i think it's probably unforgivable it is completely unforgivable completely but obviously i understand that you have two babies so i i totally understand that you're not gonna just be like it's not an easy decision it's not something you're just like if you didn't have children with him i'd be like i would probably highly recommend walking out the door if you have children with him i always just vow that you you should if you still love someone just try and see a way like if you can't see a

way out if you don't forgive him it's not gonna work but if you can forgive him and he can do therapy and sort himself out like you have kids so i get that i wouldn't be like i'll just divorce i think in my mind either you're okay with your husband potentially always no it's not okay with it it's like whether she can forgive and he could change because you you can't be like oh my god that person did that they're always going to do it like i know loads of people who've cheated and they've never done it again it's not like a one-time thing there's 50 plus women it's obviously on holiday with your children like sneaking into the bathroom when your kids are in the next room i think there's more than just i needed to speak to someone and i was lacking attention from you

you're in need you've got postnatal depression and he's leaving you in a moment where you need him the most. And I think it's incredibly selfish and I think you deserve better. I understand what Sophie's saying. You should try and make it work if you have children.

And you want to make it work for your children more so for yourself. 100% that's what I'm saying. But I just think he's left you. There's several things that he's not done. He's left you with no other option, really.

It's not been in sickness and health and he's not been faithful to you. Like, there's two terrible things and he's not only done it to you, he's done it to your fucking children. Yeah, it's really right. I'm like, no, like, you were in a really vulnerable position.

I feel sad for you. I think I'm just trying to look, because it feels so sad that you've just had a newborn baby and you're like, found this out. That's where I'm coming from. That's a lot. I'm like, that you've just had a newborn baby and you're like found this out that's where i'm coming from it's a lot i'm like i can't imagine having a newborn baby and being like right i'm gonna leave you now like it would just be horrific but i agree with melissa like that is it's for me it's unforgivable like i know i probably give it a go but i would

hate his guts and i also feel like it's not like you'll be forgiving and returning to a lovely relationship because it doesn't sound like you're having a love relationship he was locking himself in another room not giving you any attention not supporting you so you're going to be forgiving someone and going back to that which is making you unhappy or you just move on and get support from your friends and family yeah and you know what you'll find someone that doesn't fucking do that to you ultimately like of course you will i actually kind of go back on what i'm saying like obviously i don't want to be like go divorce this guy because you've got a brand new baby like do what you think is right and if you want to give it a go and work through it i just really think

that it's disgusting like you've got a brand new baby and there is no excusing this behavior no if it would be different and we would both be sitting here saying something different if you're like i just i kind of forgot the 50 girls i thought that one girl has sent him a snap naked snapchat which is obviously awful but it's very different it's also a blurred lines thing when you're like there's nothing physical that happened and it's all over the phone and then you can sort of justify it yourself but then i'm like actually may as well have gone out and you may as well have done it's it's all a similar thing and it's not like you're just needing someone to talk to and then you've formed like a bit of a semi like emotional connection with someone else which is also

equally just as dumpable it's disgusting that there's 50 plus girls and that you're doing it when you're on holiday with your kids I don't know how I would be able to get over that and I think you deserve so much better but I get that there's a lot of stakes there's a lot of state but also you've got to think if you are just going to get out with him for the babies like i was sort of thinking that maybe which is probably really bad advice you're probably going to resent him for the rest of your life and then the babies are going to have the horrible you'd rather the babies grow up with like a family unit where you're not necessarily together, but it's healthier. And like then you won't need them. Rather than you forcing to be together and it being toxic and not a nice place for your children.

I agree. I mean. Also, in regards to postnatal depression, we're sending you so much love. And there's obviously, I'm sure you know, there's lots of resources online. But we know that Pandas is a really good organization that helps with postnatal depression. So, I mean, always good to check those sort of things out and we're sending you so much love so much love dilemma two i have a dilemma i have a best friend i've been best friends with this girl for years and she's been with her partner for four years she introduced us a year ago and we hit it off right away like best friends and that's all i thought of him as until early this year i

asked another friend if she thought my best friend's boyfriend was flirting with me over text i thought nothing nothing of it at first and let it be two weeks later i'm around at their place and she left us she has left the flat leaving me and him there as it was early in the morning and she had work at seven her boyfriend then gets into bed with me and we start doing bits together. Sorry, how have you just written that into a sentence like it's so casual? What the actual fuck?

What the actual fuck? I can't stand this girl writing it. I really don't think you should write it into us because you are a bad... I know, I'm kind of the same. She's also loving it.

We agreed that it was wrong and it can't happen again. I'm furious. Oh, God. The next day we slept together after work no this can't be right she can't be writing in there this secret affair has lasted for five months no melissa you've got to be having a laugh in these five months he has told me that he he wishes he'd met me first said if we were together he would marry me wait before they left for their trip her boyfriend told me he was in love with me and i confessed that i felt the same and he was over first said if we were together he would marry me wait before they left for their trip her boyfriend

told me he was in love with me and i confessed that i felt the same and he was over the moon no no no i'm not i'm uncomfy he felt that he could he felt that he could be himself with me and not with my best friend however they recently went away the day before they got oh for fuck's sake the day before they got off. For fuck's sake. The day before they got back, I get a message and a video. He's now proposed to my best friend. We go off to say he loves me. What the fuck?

I just spat everywhere out of complete light. I'm so amused. Do I confront him about it all and ask why he started this in the first place? Or do I tell my best friend that she's marrying him or do I leave it alone and let her be happy? Please help. This is a real pickle, my friend, a pickle. Right, I'm going to be brutal. I don't think that you should be, you shouldn't be,

no, you should be ashamed to write this in. Ashamed. I'm so confused because if he's in love with you, like why the fuck wouldn't he, why would he propose to her? And also like, why are you having an affair with your best mate's boyfriend? What the fuck wouldn't he why would he propose to her and also like why are you having an affair with your best mate's boyfriend what the fuck is going on i don't understand how she's just slipped into conversation yeah how did we get to he slipped into bed with me he started doing bits i'm like no also like you were like i just saw him as a best friend until we just climbed

this bed and we started fucking each other like no no also i love it how in this message you're like i don't there's no like i feel so guilty i love her so much no there's just there's none of that it's just he loves me and i love him too you know what i could deal with it if it was like i've met this guy and we just fell in love but like if you were like your best friend you're in the same they house me listen boys lie okay he was saying you telling you what you wanted to fucking hear to keep your mouth shut wait why is the boy doing that he's psychotic i'm so confused people do this shit all the time but why why would he do that wouldn't he be like sleepless at night with anxiety about the fact that his best friend his girlfriend and his best friend live together pretty much and

they're both sleeping with him and he's lying to them and it's just so chaotic i'm really sorry but your best friend has zero intuition if she doesn't think there's something going on i'm really fuck i'm really sorry but like you need to leave both your shit friend your best friend so like what's she gonna do i would disappear is she gonna say anything no i would disappear is she gonna drop that bomb no i think you've done enough damage i would disappear at this point no i think you need to drop that bomb? No, I think you should. You've done enough damage. I would disappear at this point. No, no. I think you need to drop the bomb and then you need to fuck off because you can't let that girl, you can't let that girl going into that marriage thinking that he's, it's all

dandy and fine. True, true, true. He's an absolute snake. And be like, look, I'm just as bad. I'm fully aware that we're going to break up after I tell you what's going to happen. Yeah, friendship breakup. Our friendship is done. And I'm aware of that unless you want to still be friends with me.

But I'm aware of the fact that you're probably not going to want to see my face again but you need to know what's happened it's been this this this this I wish you well

see you later absolutely you do that and you're going to have to get over this boy because I know you're in love with him but also

he never loved you he never loved you he really never did it was all a lie it was always the friend otherwise he would have let me tell you he would have gone out with you.

Probably just fancied you. I know he's a greedy pig. How can he have two girls at once? You know what makes me feel sick? This is the weirdest one for me. He would have shanked his girlfriend. She would have got up and gone to work and then he would have been like,

ooh, fancy a bit of round two and just snuck into the fucking house. He wouldn't have even washed his dick, though, right? No, no. You, you, you guys. I would recommend going an STI check as well because he's probably doing it with other women,

not just you two. Like if he's doing it that close to home he's doing it further from home as well do you know what i mean i just can't get over that you let him get in your bed and sleep with them when your friends left like i can't get over your morals i'm sorry it's the worst part like okay right so this is where this is where the line gets drawn for me where you should have said something he tried to get into your bed you should have been like that's fucking weird like red flag red flag red flag but you could have thought but. He tried to get into your bed. You should have been like, that's fucking weird. Like red flag, red flag, red flag.

But you could have thought... But then if he tries to physically do something, then you go, no, that's it. I'm telling Helena or whatever her name is that you tried to do that. He's regarded... Before there's even a pickle there. We hate him, by the way, 110%.

Yeah, he's way more in the wrong than... Well, actually, I'd say he's equal. Because you're the best friend. I'm just shocked that you don't feel like... I don't feel like you think this is a big deal. Like, you're like, he got into bed and we started doing bits and the next day we had sex. At no point did you think, feel bad on my best friend. Do I think I should tell her? No.

Like, what's going on? Can't get over it. Oh my God. I'm really confused, Alice. I know. I'm completely shook. It's the right, it's the tone in which

it's been written. It's the tone in which, let's just reread this. The next day we slept together after she left for work. That's it. I felt really bad about it. No.

And then it just goes, this secret affair has lasted for five months. We've escalated very quickly. So is it every time she's leaving for work you're just shagging about? They must live together. Also, where's the find my friend? Like, yeah, like what?

Oh my God, because it's right under her nose. She'd never suspect it. She'd never. Oh, you're really giving me the idea. I reckon this sort of thing happens more often than we think. No, no, no. People shag their fucking nannies. People shag their brothers and sisters.

Like, not their brothers and sisters. I've told you that story. I've told you that story. Yeah. Do you remember the girl who was sucking off her mum's boyfriend? Oh, God! That was wild. We actually have this sort of shit all the time.

This is actually quite mild, but I'm just going to go. It's the way that it's been written in with the no guilt. First and foremost, you've got to go up to this girl knowing full right that you, she, I hope she never talks to you again. And you apologize and you say, look, this, and then you feed got to go up to this girl knowing full right that you she I hope she never talks to you again and you apologize and you say look this and then you feed her the piece

of information so that girl can get rid of that snake and get on her merry way yep yep wow dilemma three

that was the juiciest we've had in a long yeah that really was also just really quite strange really shocking it was quite detailed as well

the next part of this podcast is brought to you by philips lumiere ipl hair removal devices we've teamed up with philips lumiere to bring you something a bit different their ipl hair removal devices are all about giving those who choose to remove hair an easier and more convenient way to do it sophie we love getting ready don't we oh my god we love getting ready when i get ready for a night out and it's summer in particular like there's needs to be no hair oh absolutely needs so i do it every time shower same which this will save a hell of a lot of time and i exfoliate my face and then I lather it with a moisturizer. I always think getting ready is just more fun than the actual event sometimes as well.

So like it's just a big part of a girl's night, I think, getting ready. I agree. What about getting ready at uni? Like compared to like you getting ready now compared to how you got ready at uni, is it different? It's probably more refined now. It was so much more fun at uni. Like we'd all be there in each other's room.

We'd be like running to one room then we'd run to the other with our concealer on do a bit of that like it was just the fun this time i was actually much more refined at uni like i really she spent more time with everything i hadn't like i'd finish uni at like four i'd be getting ready start getting ready yeah that's for a night out eight four hours stunning literally near the night's out start nine we've been pre-drinking since six. Talk to me about hair removal, right? How do you remove all your hair?

I think the worst time of my life is when I was waxing because it's painful. It leaves a bit of a red section there for a bit, and you've got to wait so long for the hair to grow back so you can get it off. So you have this awkward in-between stage of having hair on your legs. It's hair. Not fun. My God, the pain. I would actually say two weeks and it starts to come back oh yeah little sprouts yeah but when on like week three you've got hairy legs yeah you've got to do it again but you've got to wait that one

awkward week and if it's summer you're like oh can't get the legs out i am used to over pluck my eyebrows i've like gone through stages like i think at uni i had really shit eyebrows too i went traveling and i had full shit eyebrows too i went traveling and i had full bush slug eyebrow yeah and my dad's girlfriend at the time she was irish and she just went to me i think these eyebrows are they big too they're a bit too thick she must have just been like i've got to tell her yeah i have to tell her it's mean if i don't i reckon my dad was like you've got to tell her like he would have been like what is going on i just thought carla d'alene vibes to be fair we've all been that i had the same so like when i first did main chelsea my rouse was so long

do you not remember no i'll find you you'll be upset with me how you let me walk around like that i kind of remember you had like curly little brows yeah they was just long they still do curly i have to trim more well look we both have gone through our ups and downs of the harem evil but i think this philips lemire is going to solve us a lot of problems. I'm so excited to get this going. So how does it work then? What are the basics that I need to know? Okay, so listen, IPL stands for intense pulsed light,

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certain skin tones and if that's the case then the philips lumiere won't emit any light if your skin tone isn't suitable for ipl that's genius amazing it comes with a free app to guide you step by step through each session so you're supported in your hair removal journey which i love i love an app step by step thing same it's so easy to get lost in these devices but that makes it so much easier so can i use this on any part of my body then okay so almost any part you can use it on your upper lip you can lose it on your chin your underarms your stomach your legs and your bikini area but give it a skip on some more intimate parts of your body as IPL isn't suitable for the inner parts of the bikini area. Hopefully that provided you with a few handy getting ready tips. We'll be back with another guide to getting ready in some coming weeks. I really enjoyed that.

If Philips Lumea IPL sounds like it's right for you, then you can find Lumea in most major retailers or visit philips.co.uk to find out more. Hey, Sophie and Melissa, could really do with some advice from you because I don't want my family or friends to worry. Oh no. Oh no. I've been going out with my partner for eight years. We recently bought a home together

and also got engaged. Our first night in the new house, we turned on Netflix on his MacBook because we didn't have the TV in the room yet i can't bear all these stuff it's giving me a bit of anxiety like i just don't like it to my shock his ex-girlfriend's netflix account details were there to log into that's all right i'd never seen this on his laptop before he said google passwords just had it saved and that i was overacting even though it didn't look great but i'm not convinced but i'm not convinced and i have not been able to act happy ever since seeing this i'd love your advice because i don't know if i'm overacting

but is there no way it would still be saved after 12 years am i being a mug mate he's just been using her netflix yeah the whole time he's just been logging in thinking oh you know what 12 quid a month i can save here let's just use that 100 if it's bothering you that much there's nothing wrong with a bit of a snoopy snoop but i totally but i don't think there's anything to saying you should go through his phone but go through his phone but go through his phone maybe go through the emails and see if there's like any like any like proof of like logins yeah logins and shit like that i'm not really sure what to look for this is quite a niche scenario let me tell you i think he's been on her her netflix for 12 years and he probably is a bit embarrassed because it's like quite like stingy right he'll just have the like thing saved and

he'll be like if there's no other reason and there's been zero nothing for you to worry about before this i think you're fine I feel like Google saves your password. So if you go onto a new laptop, it's just got all the information there. Like that's happened to me. I've got, I've got, I've got X's, emails that come into my email because they've obviously subscribed to things. And I'm like, what? Like booking.com and like Ryanair. Wait, what?

You get their email coming to you they say like dare whoever oh I see yeah that's weird my old old email like from uni days god that's so confusing I'm like that's. Maybe we should deep dive into that. What have you just admitted to? No, the Amazon things and stuff. I think after a decade, oh, she's doing a whole bunch. Just keep digging in there. I don't like it. I feel horrible.

Don't worry, my past has still my ex-boyfriend's name, which is pretty funny. To my laptop. And every time Toby's like, can you change that i'm like honestly i haven't got around to it so i'm confused so if you've been dating for for eight years that means their relationship would have been 12 years ago as you said what happens when you log into like your tv does he then also have his own account if there's any time where you think he's been sneaking off with his laptop and then he's watched Netflix with his ex. Oh no,

it's just like, it's quite far fetched. I think that. I get why your brain's going there, by the way, because that's just innately within us women. Like I would be like, hang on a second.

What the hell? And it's quite jarring to even see anything to do with an ex. Yeah. On the laptop. Like I would not like to see that either. Oh my God. If I saw it, honestly,

wouldn't I? I'd literally be like, lol. Really wouldn't give a fuck. I would not like to see that either oh my god if i saw i honestly wouldn't i'd literally be like lol really wouldn't give a fuck i would not be like you've been having an affair with her i would be like her old email but sometimes i just get annoyed about things like that hit me on the wrong name day and i'll be like me too fucking hate you yeah same that you even had another girlfriend even had anyone before me like message that girl before me like you watch netflix with someone else yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah that sort of vibe i think that's where you're coming from me too me you know d down like he's not gone sneaking off the x so who takes their laptop with them to like watch net like surely she's got her own laptop she's got tv yeah i think we're okay oh my god do you

remember when i kept ordering deliveries and they were going to my ex's? No. Every time. Every time I'd be like, where's my fucking delivery? Do you remember that shop, Bodian's? It's like a rib shop, really round. No. Right, it's B-O-D-E-A-N-S. You have weird hungover cravings. If this was 3am in the morning,

me and Liv Bentley ordered ribs at 3am in the morning. And I got a text from him being like, loads of ribs have just gone I was like I actually feel sick I was mortified he was like there's 20 ribs

outside my flat and it's at 3 in the morning and I was like were you fucking taking all the other deliveries sorry that's 3am one you don't want he was probably hoping

he'd secretly come by and just like knock on the door like ooh need to get my ribs if one of my exes was using my Netflix I'd find it so funny or is it not costing you anything extra by them using the

account yeah i'd find it funny but it's also like but all of amazon stingy fuck yeah i'm like what is i don't know why i find it absolutely hilarious that someone's logging in i just don't but an amazon delivery i'd be like can you stop ordering off my account that is right i know oh my god that's super love you guys thank you guys so much for listening love you as always please continue to write in and give us your follow-ups and all of those things we just love to hear them and we love to hear from you love you fun stories We'll be right back. saying I do. Who wants this last parachute? I do. Daily Jackpots. A chance to win with every spin and a guaranteed winner by 11 p.m. every day. 19 plus and physically located in Ontario.

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