Wednesdays - 45. Silly Girl Summer: Holiday Tattoo DISASTER

Episode Date: July 30, 2024

Sophie and Melissa are catching you Tinies up with all into the latest trends, from Hailey Bieber’s NAD IV therapy to the internet’s obsession with eyebrow blindness. ALSO Sophie’s peeing habits has Melissa in stitches as they share their sleepover antics.We've got a juicy dilemma this week…Picture this: a man in a long-term relationship is about to tie the knot BUT he's been cheating on his soon-to-be wife! Should our Tiny that knows his secret spill the beans or keep it to herself? Plus, summer just keeps getting sillier with a story that is WILD as a Tiny tells a tale of a henna tattoo on holiday that went horribly wrong…Want More?! Check out our premium subscription The Follow Up - AD FREE, BONUS EPS and ALL the goss wednesdays.supercast.com/The girls are loving your silly girl summer stories so if you have one or a dilemma, any personal advice for another Tiny, or a follow up to a dilemma? You can send us a voice note or message using the link here.Instagram / TikTok / YouTube: @wednesdayspodcastEmail: [e-mail]--Credits:Producer & Editor: @ben_johnsAssistant Producer: @gurlinaheer_Exec: @jemimarathboneVideo editor: @jakeji.p Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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you guys advice but as we love giving you guys advice do not take what we're saying as gospel if you do feel like you need to speak to somebody please seek professional help okay welcome back tiny whinies well you're not whinies anymore, you're just tinies. Welcome back. We're deep diving into a lot today. I have just done NAD, which if you don't know is the Hailey Bieber meme that went around and she was getting an IV drip and she was like to Kendall, she was like, if we just do NAD like for the rest of my life will we ever age and they're like and I'm not sure how that works technically it ages your cells it's called the fountain of youth and it doesn't really help the way you look but the way you feel as we reach 30 we lose NAD in ourselves it helps them regenerate

so it helps them recover so what's the maintenance right so you have three i've had three and then i think you can do as much as you want but obviously it's not cheap so like you keep doing it once every week every week some people do that but i'll probably do it once a month now continuing just to top that bad boy and where do we go for this i went to drip hydration or you can go to get a drip or any sort of drip but athletes do it so like if you're somebody who needs to recover really quickly that is what you should be doing and if you've like i don't know if you've been really ill or you've done things that have like fucked your body up this will help you because you would have lessened your nad so my health guy told me my nad levels might already be really high because i'm quite young so doing the drips wouldn't that necessarily be beneficial,

but the tablets should be fine, and all his patients are on these tablets. Wait, so who is this guy? He runs this incredible functional medicine clinic in Marylebone. It's an obscene subscription. I don't pay for it. But he charges to sign up to do all the tests, £30,000 a year. For this health membership.

It's like the ultra elite, like probably David Beckham goes there. Wait, is this what I sent you? The guy that I've mentioned to go see? No, it's someone that I've sent you. You thought I was going to fucking pay £30,000 a year? I don't know. Melissa, you didn't even pre... Let me show you.

There was no pre-warning. She would have just sent it and been like, you should go see this guy. I would have gone and like just been billed £30,000. Are you joking? Right. So wait, you haven't gone and paid £30 billed 30k are you joking right so wait you ever let me tell you no no no no no so he's a friend of julius caldry's very good friends with so um whoa now you gatekeep this no i didn't tell you about it because it was 30 grand that's why because i was like so you went and saw him i went with jules to see him and i just chatted to him and like every now and then i'll just message him

about a supplement. He doesn't do tests. Tell me, tell me, tell me what other things. He told me which NAD to use. So I'll just, I'll show you. So there's two he sent me. Ultra NMN by Time Health or nmnbio.co.uk. And it's NAD plus brain is the name of it.

NAD plus anti-aging support. like there's just so many different ones on him how much it's actually not that bad for 250 mg from 34 pounds i've not had any bad effects i thought it'd make me really awake and like i wouldn't sleep like i've what i will say i have slept so well it's frightening like i close my eyes and I don't go up wake up for pee you know me I'm up for pee and I wake up rested right I've never in my life experienced anything when you like I've been exposed when you like fuck I really knows I also knew you were like what the fuck but you weren't saying it because everyone's like, what the fuck. But I've done this.

I don't want to make you feel that. I've done this since I was 15. Do you know when it happened at uni? I think it might have been anxiety. It's definitely an anxiety thing. It's an anxiety thing. So Sophie does this fascinating thing. She's crying.

We're sharing a room in Paris. And before we brush our teeth, we both go for a wee start brushing our teeth wash our face whatever then we get into bed five minutes after being in bed not even joking five maybe 2.5 she goes for a wee and i'm like but you've just been like literally 10 minutes ago you wash your face whatever go back to bed then we're gnashing away for another 20 minutes she goes up and goes for another week i don't think anything's coming out for you nothing there's no drops i'm sat there and I squeeze I went again she went I just

I just can't unless I try I'm like what it's like absolutely I'm hit and then ten minutes after we've gone night

turn the lights out she gets up again and I'm like are you joking it was honestly like if I'd have recorded it it was like honestly the weirdest thing

I was like there's no more wee inside of you no I sit there and I squeeze I lean forward it's so bad for you I know it must be like a panic weirdest thing i was like there's no more we inside of you no i sit there and i squeeze i lean forward i know it's it must be like a panic attack thing i don't know what i don't feel anxious but like i think i need we i think there's we that's gonna pour out of my bladder when i close my eyes does anyone have that no no one oh my god i thought it was quite common my manager has it and if I don't go to sleep

within the like that's why sometimes I'm like I need to go to sleep because if I don't go to sleep within the two minutes she'll go for another week I will do

sometimes I do 20 before like it can get on edge yeah it's really weird so I had this at uni and I thought I had a bladder issue so I went to the doctor

and they were like no it's anxiety and this is like way before I knew what anxiety was oh no I shouldn't laugh no because I don't feel anxious it must be like a like an OCD it's anxiety. And this is like way before I knew what anxiety was. Oh, no, I shouldn't laugh. No, because I don't feel anxious.

It must be like an OCD. It's like an OCD thing. Yeah, it does. And I remember seeing you, I was like, again. Every time you went, again. No, you were actually quite good. You didn't even stare the second eye. You just, like, your head was down. Well, I was used to it by the second eye.

She was like, wow. Your eyes just completely went cross. When you did that. You were like this. And it was fascinating. Who knew? Sorry. Megan has it as well.

I would hear her crumpling across the floorboards because she hardly wasn't in her room. And so it's definitely a thing people have. It's unhinged. That's what I will say. So if you honestly, you can keep like 20 weeks a night. My bladder feels full. It's almost like cystitis. Do you ever get that

when you have cystitis? Yes. You need a week all the time. Is that every night before I go to sleep? Imagine the pain I go through. So Hayley was, well I don't know

if she started this trend but like this whole like blindness. So she says she's had eyebrow blindness which I think every person on the planet's had. She's not exactly being original with that

but she's saying it because her eyebrows are so dark. I love a dark eyebrow. They're thick as in she's let them all grow back she doesn't pluck them but like i think she used to pluck them real thin but she thought it was great so she was blind to the fact that she had like bad brows so she was brow blind if that makes any sense at all sophie and i had jaw blindness when we used to grind our teeth and we used to get anxious and our jaws were like honestly out like our shoulders oh god right that i thought you were saying the jaw botox but that we knew was bad well everything i was blind to you when i was

like i obviously look shit but trends are different my big black lip would i like that every single day also it made us like it made you look like you had hooded eyes i also like had so much powder on like i powdered every day that was up to recently always getting the powder out the bag so if you always have powder in her bag always that's wild that's such a time shaper that i never put powder on anymore but i swear i was like dripping in oil maybe you were but i think it's almost like a vicious circle me too like i would be dripping in oil when we were filming i'd use a tissue like what was wrong with my skin whoa oily oily I was so oily when we were filming at MIC like I would literally be slathering like you could fry an egg on that face right so that I

also have had blonde blindness last year I was way too blonde I had fashion blindness like but I think everyone did because like trends and fashion sense back then was so different what with those like weird fur gilets and like the hats and like the over the knee boots and skinny jeans that was tucked in but that was like a fashion yeah trend melissa had a tattoo i had a tattoo i got a laser up you called that laser off so quickly it got me i honestly had the world's tiniest tattoo in between my fingers and it was the outline of a tiny tiny tiny tiny heart it was oh it's this hand did your parents ever know that you did that no they know now that I've got it but they never knew at the time

because I always just had a ring on the dot you'd literally never see it it's basically a dot that is so un-minty and I am not a tattoo girl and I got it when I was

17 two weeks after dating him stupid stupid girl and he had a matching one like ah people that get matching tattoos to their boyfriends I'm just like

I really hope it lasts I couldn't tell you how un-you that is I love a tattoo I think about one every year but I'm just like I really hope it lasts I couldn't tell you how un-you that is I love a tattoo I think about one every year but I'm over it now like I'm never we always got matching ones

we were talking about it and then we sent each other star signs and we were like no that's too done what can we do I do not remember any of this

oh my god I do I'm so glad we did it it was when I was single yes I think you were gonna get one and I was like maybe I'll get one with you I would never get a tattoo I always like the idea of it I would never get one but get one and I was like maybe I'll get one with you I would never

get a tattoo I always like the idea of it I'd never get one but by the way I really like them I have nothing against tattoos like I think they're really cool I love them on boys I love them on girls for me I wouldn't date someone personally that's like covered in tattoos like sleeves sleeves to me Jamie sees different tattoos different he doesn't have any he's got like random sporadic cute little like funny things but David David Beckham, I wouldn't say no. Oh yeah, that's so true. It just depends. There has to be exceptions to certain people.

Look, tattoo, I think it's not happening for me, but I think they're really hot and I think they're great in summer. Do you know why I wouldn't get it? I would be bored of it in one day and regret it. Like I know that for a fact. Okay, keep listening because at the end of the episode, we've got a silly girl summer story about tattoos right let's get into the dilemmas I have been with my boyfriend for over two years at the beginning of our relationship

he had a job that required him to travel a lot so when we'd see each other it was super exciting and the chemistry and the sex were great I I agree. He then changed job and the circumstances saw us move in together quite quickly. Shortly after he moved in with me, I noticed his sex drive dropped a lot. I tried everything to spice things up, sexy lingerie, initiating things and talking to him about what a change. He said that his sex drive wasn't as high as mine and was sorry if I felt rejected. He asked me not to pressure him as he likes things better when it was organic i stopped trying as i was scared of rejection over the last 18 months things have gotten worse we've probably been intimate two or three times with the longest gap being a year

these occasions have all been when he's been drunk and on his terms. Hmm. Okay. He has a long time. My needs are still there and I expressed this to him. We've spoken about the issue a lot. He even has been to the doctors and all the results from his tests came back normal. But at the same time, apart from going to the doctors and doing those initial checks,

he hasn't shown any change effort to initiate or progress in the last 18 months i really do love him and i completely cross ways and don't know what to do i've just done 32 and for me the person i'm with now needs to be the person that i want to marry and have children with and i'm massively aware my clock is ticking do i stick with him and hope things get better even though this is causing me huge upset not being sexually satisfied not just by the sex but with the intimacy in general potentially waste more years trying to fix someone or do i make the break and end things which is going to kill me but maybe i need to do this to meet the right person it can be so many things like maybe he's just not a sexual person like maybe that is just

what will be for the rest of your life and you need to just say to yourself either i'm okay with that or i'm not i think that like requires like couples therapy i personally sometimes all of those things can make it worse because it's more pressure you're making more salt on the wound the more conversations and it's just this deep dark vicious circle and it's never really ever going to get better i'm like feeling like you guys speak about this a lot and it's very it's not just like you're landing landing on him being like, I can't be with you because you're not having sex with me. It really depends. It's such a hard one. Like I feel very uneducated to make this decision for you or give you advice.

I know that that would really affect me. I also feel like it's hard for the boy because they probably feel like, oh, I'm a man. This is what I'm supposed to do. I'm meant to get this huge erection and you know mate with my girlfriend and like if that's not happening they probably feel quite emasculated it's quite difficult for them to then have that conversation with you and I do feel for him in that sense but then also you've tried everything I would love to know the answer to the question if he's going to the gym and if he's working out on his legs because I know I always see these videos if you work out I don't know it was a pc that told me boys that work out

and do their legs like with weight training increase their testosterone increases sex drive everything healthy things like that very important for a man to work out on their legs and also see what he's saying like maybe you don't want to speak to him about it because it's maybe making it more of an overthinking thing in his head it also then probably feels like you're weirdly not nagging him but like he would then feel like it's now all this pressure to do it that I almost don't want to try and do it because it's now like awkward and then feels like it's forced and it's this whole vicious circle I really sympathize with you I just think it's really ultimately down to you like it would change my

relationship I'd be like I don't understand what's going on also like you have needs like a huge part of a relationship is intimacy otherwise we'd all just be friends and not have relationships exactly so and like how will you have children if you only have well i know i think this is a therapy issue i think that you need to go to couples counseling i don't even think couples but she needs to like understand what's going on and like tell the therapist like he's not having sex with me and then leave them on their own to do sessions. God it's really hard. If it was me

I'd leave. I'd be out the door. And like the less you have sex with someone the less you want it. It's a fact. It's like sugar. The more you have it the more you want it. It's a fact. Yeah. Totally. Okay we love you. Keep us updated. Please keep us updated. And it's really not a you issue. It's a him issue.

And hopefully it's not even a him issue. Like, who knows what the issue is. But like... Yeah, I really hope this does get resolved. So do I. But don't be devastated if you do have to just call it quits. Because ultimately, if he's like that, that's the way he's always going to be in a relationship, you know? Dilemma 2.

Hi Sophie and Melissa. I'm struggling to live with the guilt of being involved with a man in a long-term relationship. No. It happened a few years ago, but he's getting married this summer. I feel awful that his soon-to-be wife will build a life and have children with a man who is cheating on her with younger women. Ew. At the time I was 21 fresh out of university and in my first job he was my 25 year old colleague. We became good

friends and I didn't see him in that way at all as I had a boyfriend and he was in a long-term relationship. However after my boyfriend cheated on me and left me my colleague comforted me every day and soon started flirting with me and i knew it was wrong and i was young and impressionable my confidence is low after being chiseled on so i developed strong feelings for him we ended up kissing just before the first covid lockdown and if it wasn't for the pandemic we'd probably have slept together we spent over a year sexting intensely what the he asked me for intimate pictures which i shared kept asking to see me but i fobbed him off as i got another boyfriend i loved my job eventually left the company as he was holding me back from having a serious relationship he protested at me leaving then announced out of the blue at my leaving drinks that he was proposing to his girlfriend.

This is like a holiday situation. Right. He did so just a few months later and they are due to get married this summer. At the time, I didn't say anything to her as we were colleagues, but now we aren't and don't speak anymore. I feel awful that she's going to marry this man who behaved like that no no I moved on and I'm in a long-term relationship with a lovely man now I know in my heart I shouldn't rock the boat but I'd want to know who I was marrying if I were in her position what should I do okay weirdly I'd normally be like don't get involved but I would send her all

the screenshots yeah fuck it she deserves to know she deserves to know before she's married like that's like proof is in the pudding receipts send the receipt i don't think you're gonna gain anything but you're gonna feel like you've done this girl justice in a way by telling her the truth right and if it was me i would want to know like for me this girl can still leave like you know what i mean it's not like they've got a kid together and it's like, don't you want to work it? It's like, this girl has a chance to get out of this relationship with some bloke who's asking his young colleague for sex photos for a whole year in COVID. Like, I think, do it.

Does she ask to, like, go for a coffee with her, love for a catch up? Or do you just send it all to her on message? Send it all and then, like, be done with it. Because you aren't in that position where you're working with them. It's not going to be this toxic environment. You've left, you've got a boyfriend. You're literally just giving this girl an out and she can take what she will.

If she wants to ignore it, she can ignore it. But she has the choice. I think the right thing to do is to screenshot and send them a receipt. Yeah, I agree. I wouldn't call for a coffee because it's just awkward and it's probably more hurtful

and it's more embarrassing for the girl to be sat there thinking she's just going for a coffee with you and then being like well you fucking would sexing him too if it was me i would i would want to meet up with the girl and just be like i need everything transferred to my phone i need to know every single fucking detail yeah but i think what you should do is as sophie said initially send a message with some proof because you can get a message he might be so manipulative and then like convince her like no no she's lying like don't fuck it she's mental like she harassed me like block her now you need to send proof all in the same message so that she's getting the truth there and then without the opportunity of him interfering

with that I agree and convincing her that it's not true so how are we going to start this message i'm going to say like hey lucy um hope you're well i know it's been a long time well about to ruin your life i'm about to ruin your life no but be like hey lucy i hope you're well um i'm really sorry i'm really sorry this happened like you don't have to go deep into it like i just can't live for myself without showing you and like i really i i understand you're never gonna speak to me again but like I just felt that you needed to know and I couldn't live for myself after I heard you guys were engaged yeah absolutely send goodbye appreciate that I had a part to play in this as well which I totally did and I take responsibility and I'm really sorry but I just feel like you should know this information as I

would want to know now I'm with the man I love. Yes. Well, thank you very much. Well, thank you. Thank you. Goodbye. No, I think that's perfect. And then, right, but is she going to attach a nude photo to the end of that message?

Quite aggressive. No, no, no. She would send the screenshots of him being like, can you please send me like nude photos? It's too much to send his dick pics. Fine, and then maybe some other conversations where it's like love you or whatever they're saying like miss you like i can't wait to talk to you tomorrow

whatever the conversations were screenshot those and send them timestamps everything and then i would also say like if you ever need like anything from me like more information you want to chat like i'm here to talk um absolutely and give you like any support or like information that you want absolutely don't also be shocked if she turns on you and is like you're a fucking bitch you're this you're that that can happen and she will just accept it if it does because you know what you're the one who sat with her boyfriend or sexed her boyfriend yeah even though you didn't really hear anything technically he's the one who's really really really really really in the wrong but she could easily you know come for you too

so i think just be prepared for that and if she does fine if she does fine let her have her but at least then you can have peace knowing that you've kind of you did you also don't beat yourself up i feel like if it wasn't going to be you it would have been another girl like if someone's that keen to cheat like they're going to cheat with anyone that's like cheating 101 behavior like the sexting and like he's not even getting it. It's so weird. In lockdown, too. I'm like, your girlfriend's, like, locked in the house with you and you're sexting me.

What else have you got to do other than have sex? I don't want this girl to marry him. Like, I feel like that's such doggy behavior. Like, it's such a pig. I agree. It's giving a pig. Make sure that you also put in that message that you did physically kiss at the beginning. Because he would probably manage to

convince her like it was all just sexting it didn't mean anything I never physically cheated all this bullshit we did kiss

yeah we did kiss and it would have gone further but we went into lockdown exactly and boy did he try and make it

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but this has led her to make some bad decisions when it's come to her dating life. She's recently reconnected with one of her exes who has bad news. We don't like reconnecting with an ex. We don't like reconnecting with an ex. We don't. We don't like reconnecting with a bad boy ex.

It's just not good. He would go on all weekend benders and not respond to her. He'd always be drunk when they would meet up and even made jokes about cheating on her

with other women. What the fuck? Sorry. She came to her senses and broke up with him and in the aftermath we spoke about how bad he was to her.

Perhaps wrongly I said that I didn't even like him and hated their relationship that's fine that's absolutely fine since they've reconnected she has accused me of being too opinionated and interfering in her relationships i don't want to watch her make bad decisions but she wants me to support as she gets back with her ex i know that the more i say the more i will push her away but i can't bite my tongue and watch her do something she'll regret listen she's not gonna stay with this guy she won't get married with him it's another fucking fling so all you can do is turn a blind eye and be there I wouldn't engage in conversation about make it hard for them though and like don't invite them on double dates don't invite him to parties I would act like I don't know it's happening and if she talks

about it I'd be like like I would make her aware but I also wouldn't be that opinionated because she would be like shut the fuck up and then she just won't go around you. I would just stay

very silent on it. I feel like we've all been there with friends going back to exes doing this sort of thing. It's so hard because when you love someone and you care about them

you get angry with them for doing shit like this and you get pissed off with them but angry with them for doing shit like this. And you get pissed off with them. But then it's difficult because it's like you want to be honest and give your opinion. And like if it's really harsh, like you've said, like I fucking hated your relationship with him. Like he was a dick to you. Then she's going to lie to you and sneak around.

And then you get angry with her for lying. And it's all a big fat blather. It's just a nightmare. But we've all got to make our own mistakes. Like, she's going to have to learn the hard way, which unfortunately is probably going to be treated badly again, get fucked over again, and you're going to be the one who has to pick up the pieces. I think getting back with the next is, like, quite a bad idea.

Who gets back with the next? Fucking hell, I did. Different, though. Who? Toby. Oh, yeah, but you guys weren't and never over in my eyes like i always knew that was like yeah it was like you were on a break some weird ass long break i don't think getting back the next ever a good idea especially if they're an arsehole and that's why you leave

i've never ever i don't know anyone who's got back with it right listen it's fine if there's a circumstance where it's like they weren't traveling we were young it didn't work out our lives just didn't align you get back with them years later and you're still whatever if you break up with someone because they're an asshole and they are mean to you and the relationship is just not good it's game over that's not gonna then work again if you try again yeah they're not gonna change like if they're a dick they're a dick but that doesn't work doesn't work doesn't work there's too much fucking baggage like it's

too much baggage you broke up for a reason you broke up for a reason there's always going to be elements of toxicity

there that you'll never be and resentment that you'll never be able to get rid of if they're mean to you like this guy is just mean to her

why would she want to be with him anyway like why out of all the people in the world that you can pick why would you

pick someone that's mean and jokes haha yeah just shagged some other bird last night thinking that's lols sorry i know death it's just a little bit peculiar if i'm honest she obviously doesn't love i don't think she loves herself and it also could be comfort like you need to just get some hottie to come in and like sweep her feet and she'll be like oh why was i with him like it's one of those situations sometimes when we're lacking options we'll retreat back to something it's easy previously had because we know that we can just get in it makes us feel better about ourselves and that is normally always a bad decision and it takes you 10 steps backwards in like your

journey into falling in love with yourself completely because you don't love yourself if you go back if he was like a nice guy and they just broke up because like i don't know they just broke up for the sake of breaking up like all for it he moved to scunthorpe or something yeah fine fine but you know this scenario is not good and i do get it as a friend like it's just so hard to not have such an opinion especially when when... You've already verbalized it with her. You've already said it because they've broken up. You might have to say to keep her sweet, like, look, ultimately this is your life. You know that I love you and support you and everything.

There are some things which I think are really good for you, some things I don't think are good for you. And I know that I've already spoken out about you and this guy and I can't take that back because you've broken up then, but I'm not going to be involved. You almost want your friends to love your boyfriend so much.

Like whenever I do this, like whenever I'm like, oh, Toby's annoying me, Sophie almost sticks up for Toby or tries to see it from a diplomatic point of view. Yeah, it's death

when they don't. It's bad news if your friends don't like your partner or boyfriend. And I think it speaks volume. It speaks volume. Because they know best and they're seeing it from a point of view with no emotion. There's only one reason that they don't like them is because it speaks volume. It speaks volume. Because they know best and they're seeing it

from a point of view with no emotion. There's only one reason that they don't like them it's because they're bad. It's really hard not to get too invested in your friend's relationships.

It's so hard. It's so hard. Because you get older it's a bit easier. I agree. When you're younger it's like all you talk about is the only conversation you have.

Awful. And it eats you up. It eats you up. You genuinely get anxious for the other person and you're like what are they doing? What are they doing?

No, no, no, no, no. The danger zone. No, no, no. Danger zone. But she will come to her senses and she'll come back to you. She's not going to stay with him. And ultimately, if she does, you would be the one losing out. Because if you are so vocal about how much you hate him, she'll choose him over you every single time.

They always do. And you're going to lose out. So the best thing you can do is show that you disapprove. Not overly show it. Just keep very silent on it, but be like, I don't really want to talk about this because you know how I feel about him because I care about you so much.

We're still friends, and I love you, but, like, can we not talk about him? But if you need me, I'm here. That's how I'd handle it. And just wait, tick-tock, tick-tock, until she comes crawling back to you. But also just be like, look, if he proves me wrong, amazing. I would love for him to prove me wrong. amazing. I would love for him to prove me wrong.

I would love nothing more than to prove me wrong and for me and him to have a relationship and him to have changed into this person that he claims to have changed into or whatever. Absolutely. Be open to it. Because then that's very, very middle ground, like you're meeting her in the middle

and then she'll feel more inclined to involve you in the situation. Yeah. Silly Girls Summer Stories. inclined to like involve you in the situation yeah silly girls summer stories when I was 17 I went on a girl's holiday to Zante we just about finished our Friday night and wandered into a guy who was offering henna tattoos on the strip I was on a budget so I said I would get a tattoo if my friends paid for it in exchange for, they could decide what my tattoo would be. Oh no. Help. So they bent me over and began to draw. I woke up the next morning quite hungover with a large ejaculating dick infringed on my bed sheet. It was all very funny because the tattoo was temporary. A few days passed and the other

girl's tattoo started to fade nicely but my dick was only getting darker a couple more days passed and my back began to hurt more and more the dick was not going anywhere how i returned home and went to my local doctors and they told me that i had a third degree chemical burn i had a literal dick burn into my back and not just a small one but one the size of my entire back no no no with loads of steroids it began to fade and i went to uni a few weeks later with a great story to tell i later tried to dye my hair and because of the reaction i'd had with the dick tattoo it made me break out and the doctors told me that i developed a severe allergy to dye i had to stay for weeks until it all passed life lesson dicks ruin. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god.

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Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. also henna I mean a third degree you're lucky they haven't scarred your back I was shooketh to the core it's also the ejaculate it's actually

a really good it's really well drawn like actually I was thinking in my head I was trying to imagine I was like yeah no one's gonna be able to tell it's a penis

it's just it's so it's so well drawn it's got the curve and everything they put the veins down the penis and everything

and it had they must have been doing an RA level pubes out of balls and RA level through and through that's fucking hilarious

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