Wednesdays - 6: HALLOWEEN SPECIAL Ft. Psychic Medium, Fiongal Greenlaw
Episode Date: November 1, 2023Hello tiny (witches)… It’s spoOoky season on the podcast this week and we have brought on the spook-tackular Fiongal Greenlaw, a tarot reader and psychic medium to the stars. Fiongal wil...l be drawing psychic art to show Melissa and Sophie their spirit guides… PLUS, Fiongal does some brilliant psychic reads on some of your tricky dilemmas. You can book a private session with Fiongal at wellnessfoundry.co.uk/how-to-book/Instagram / TikTok / YouTube: @wednesdayspodcastEmail: wednesdays@jampotproductions.co.uk-Credits:Podcast Producer & Editor: @kat.milsomAdditional Producer: @jemimarathboneVideographer: @jamierg99Social Media: @thechampagencyAssistant Producer: @maiaadelia.docs Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Melissa, are you a doctor?
I want to be, but I'm not.
I'm not a doctor either, and we're not psychologists.
We're not.
We're not experts at anything.
In fact, we just challenge all the shit.
And we love giving you guys advice, but as we said...
We love giving you guys advice.
Do not take what we're saying as gospel.
If you do feel like you need to speak to somebody,
please seek professional help.
It's spooky season.
And then wait, what else can we do?
Hey, witch.
Do you remember the Goosebumps series?
How spooky that was as a child.
No, Sabrina's teenage witch.
Yeah, but she wasn't scary.
What was that other witchy one?
Oh, Selena Gomez.
Wizards of Waverly Place.
That was so sick.
That was a really good TV programme.
How thick was the younger boy?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I also thought Selena was just like the most beautiful thing in the world.
Yeah, still is.
She was like my absolute idol. Same, same same same thing we should probably also intro the set we've
had a gorgeous situation going on here adapted to spooky season really just gone to town and it
looks so good and it also looks so us we have to explain we're dressed because it's halloween
obviously i've not got my gloves on because they're giving me like you know when you touch a peach or like towels and you buy a towel that feeling is the feeling I'm getting
yeah yeah yeah um obviously we have white swan and black swan white swan and black swan and then
we've got the one and only I'm so excited to find this bingo who is a psychic medium
tarot reader spiritual guy like he Like he's just the best.
He's very talented and such a lovely guy
and we can't wait to have him on.
We're so excited.
So we hope you guys enjoy.
You're going to send us some,
you've sent us in some dilemmas
and we're going to get Fingal to sort of answer them
and give some advice.
Yeah, give some advice.
And also do a spirit read for us.
For both of us, which is really exciting.
So enjoy.
So enjoy, guys.
Spooky, spooky. Stay safe. Bye. read for us for both of us which is really exciting so enjoy so enjoy guys spooky spooky finger we are so excited to have you here I'm excited to be here thrilled I saw Fingal really
recently on Saturday and we're now recording on Monday a little private session oh my god
I might have to pick him with you after this is awful do you want to open your present yes
so Fingal got us these wonderful presents sweet gorgeous little oh my gosh. So Finkiel got us these wonderful presents. Sweet, gorgeous little. Oh my gosh.
That is beautiful.
So that's a piece of blue agate.
Oh my God, cool.
Oh my God.
And that is a piece of purple fluorite.
That feels really calming.
And what does that do?
Blue agate is actually,
it's a very, very calming stone anyway,
but it's great for these two chakras so it's
basically what you can do is lie with it on your third eye and it really activates that part of
you thank you so much purple fluorite is great um for the crown the crown chakra um and really good
for focus and concentration but also for awakening spiritual potential oh my gosh
this is to develop her psychic senses and this is to morph to start them moving in you it's probably
best if you explain what you do to the listeners yeah so i work as a tarot reader psychic medium, but also part of what I do is what I dub psychic art.
So effectively, I draw portraits of spirit. So those that aren't with us. So sometimes that can
be somebody's grandfather, somebody's husband. I mean, it gets nuts. Even in this field of work
that I've done for a long time, I'll draw a picture and then show somebody and they'll go oh my god that's my ex-husband and then they'll send me a photo afterwards and it's uncanny
really really nuts and um yeah I've drawn like people's great great great grandfathers and again
they've sent me photos and it's like it's do you like sometimes freak yourself out with how
accurate it is yeah yeah yeah yeah for yeah, yeah, yeah. For sure.
This is probably the weirdest bit of what I do, but it's also in some ways, you know,
it's particularly when you're working with spirit, there's no, it's not like a, um, you can't just necessarily say, oh, I want this person.
I want it in this way.
Sure.
It's usually the most varied part of it.
But what I also tend to do as
well is um a spirit guide drawing as well which I'll probably do more of today so we all have
spirit guides um so before we're in mate born made incarnate we've got us it's our spiritual team our
spiritual family so every morning I go hi guys welcome and anytime I'm working psychically I
kind of have a connection and a conversation with my spirit guides and they'll be there to help you with different aspects of your life, different periods of your life. So you have spirit guides that are with you for your whole life and you have spirit guides that are there just to help you in a particular task or endeavor. It is amazing. And it's a really, it's when you start that conversation with that particular guide,
whatever endeavor you're working on
just goes so much smoother and easier.
And they're never there to tell you what to do,
but they're very much there to assist, guide, help.
Okay.
Yeah.
And you can see them.
Yeah.
So it's not like I physically see them as I can see you guys,
but I certainly get an impression that's kind of on the screen of my mind.
What I tend to do in this process is I'll go silent for a little bit
and I'll just start scribbling and drawing
and then the drawing will dictate who's coming through.
Fascinating.
So is that what you're doing for us today then?
Yes.
Oh my God.
So you're not going to show us like our grandparents,
it'll be the spirit guide?
It might be.
It might be.
It might be.
It really, really depends on kind of who comes through
and yeah, sometimes it's people's relatives.
Sometimes I draw people's boyfriends that are still alive.
Again, that's really weird.
Like I show them and say, who's this?
And they go, oh my God, that's my boyfriend or my son or whomever it's yeah so
your spirit guide can be anyone from present or past okay yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah um so
spirit guides in the traditional uh form are those that have passed um but because I'm picking up on
the energy that's around somebody sometimes that includes people like they're still here that's no it's we're each other's that would be precious
well the thing is you will have agreed a contract before you've come down onto this earth that you
are going to be in each other's lives teaching each other things helping each other grow because
that you can think of it a bit like a repertoire of actors so you if every kind of time you're
incarnated you tend to be it's part of your soul group so they tend to be with the people that you
stay so maybe usually each other in a past yeah completely my eyes are watering i'm so spooked
oh my god she's crying!
I'm not crying, but you know when you say something,
your eyes are washing.
So like, everyone in this room, we probably knew each other in a past life.
But maybe not in the same way, we just crossed paths
in another time.
Like I could be Melissa's dog.
It's not usually animals.
In the Buddhist tradition,
if you're an animal
it's usually because you've been a bad boy or a bad girl or a bad man in this life and you
and you digress and you have to work your way back up i wouldn't mind being an animal
but yeah apparently it takes seven seven tries before you reach enlightenment because you've
learned all the lessons that you've needed to learn in this life so then you just die and you
you don't die yeah it's weird like you you don't die you just become part of the universe
because although it's a pretty heavy stuff but god i really want to learn more the good thing
about doing this now today is that it's near halloween sawane okay um and it said that the
veil is thinner between our world and their world no stop that's why has the veil ever been dropped
that's why um i mean it can kind of drop in terms of this is what psychics and mediums do
they interact but not in a permanent form because then we would have spirits and yeah all the bad
as well like living amongst us essentially well this is often the misconception is like you know
there are good and bad people in this world sure and there are people that you get on with and
there are people that you're like I don't like their vibe it's just the same in the spirit world so there's quite a lot of emphasis on like bad entities but you know there are bad people
so it's you're so right and you're so right okay fine okay that makes me feel less like spooked
about the veil being dropped temporarily because it is kind of unnerving because you're dealing
with the unseen yeah in many ways but really the important thing to emphasize is that most of your, particularly your
spirit guides, anybody that was brought through today, they're coming through on unconditional
love. All they're interested in is supporting you, helping you grow, help you learn the lessons that
you need to learn. So anybody that I present, it's, yeah, it's this thing of actually, I want
to build this connection. I want to build this relationship because they'll they'll be yeah like a best friend basically somebody you can call I'm gonna cry when
I see my spirit guy it's pretty amazing it's pretty amazing so who would like to go first
you can go first okay I'll go first wait let me just I feel like you're also more practiced apologies if I go quiet for a little for a little while
so um it's a man for you Sophie I'm already about to cry I don't know why and it's interesting with
this man because he's got a kind of relatively kind of hooked nose in certain way. He's a slightly older gentleman and he's got this quite long nose, but refined.
There's a kind of, there's an elegance to his nose.
It's really lovely because he's got this kind of combination of both wisdom and gentleness.
We spoke before about your Arabic roots, but this is kind of where I would
place him slightly more Middle Eastern. Yes, this is correct because he's now showing me these,
the kind of dome temples of mosques. And he's got something in his hand that he's giving you.
It's weird. He's got these two... I'm sorry, it's going to sound so untoward when I say he's got two balls in his hand.
But they're kind of these like, oh gosh, the metal balls that you turn in your hand
and they make this kind of clanking sound.
I feel like I've made them.
And there's something here about it almost being kind of contemplative, contemplative.
It's this idea of a lot of this is around this idea of patience.
And some of this is also around kind of this process of, I don't mean this unkindly at all,
but thinking before you act in some ways.
He's trying to teach you patience is effectively what
this is about and this kind of idea because when he's doing this he's cogitating on things he's
thinking about things he looks like my dad i was going to say it sounds like it sounds like my dad
level-headed hook nose yeah level-headed also like teaching you about all of it yeah i was gonna say it's patrick it's patrick
but then that looks like my dad my dad has a beard too really yeah but it can't but maybe it
was just like his great-grandfather or something i feel that it is connected to anything urgent
he wants to tell me like that i need to not do he's laughing now because he's he's saying urgent i'm teaching you about patience not about
urgency and there's nothing he's really disappointed in me was
no i shouldn't have asked that okay yeah he is god damn it i'm sorry, no, no, not at all, not at all, not at all.
Oh, no.
He's, again, not to kind of repeat myself,
but he's just saying you often want things kind of quickly.
You want the result of things. I want things yesterday.
Yesterday.
And he's not disappointed.
He's just saying, I get quite emotional.
Sorry.
He's basically, sorry.
Oh my God.
He said, oh, this sometimes happens because when it's a sensitive subject.
He's saying this is sometimes what causes you unnecessary suffering.
Is because you kind of, there's this expectation yesterday,
yesterday, yesterday, I want it, or why hasn't it happened yet? And he's just saying things,
it's a bit of a cliche, but he's saying, take time to smell the flowers, stop and smell the flowers.
He's saying, Sophie, take stop, take stock and have a look. And when you have a look, you go, oh my God, everything,
this is amazing. What I've achieved is amazing. Where I am in life is amazing.
This is quite metaphorical, but he's talking about it takes a field of roses to make a single
drop of rose oil. In some ways, it takes a lot to make a little and it's to kind of concentrate things into its purest form.
Takes a lot. And there's this thing about take time, smell the roses and understand that sometimes we have to plant a thousand roses before we get a single drop of rose oil.
So it's not that we plant one rose and then we can squeeze it and then we've got a vial full of rose oil.
It's sometimes we need to do a lot in order to produce a little.
And that's not a kind of disparaging thing or discouraging thing at all.
It's just often we have to plant a lot of seeds in many ways.
That was amazing. Thank you so much.
So this is him.
You're very good.
You are a very good drawer.
You're a very good drawer.
Thank you We have asked you guys to write in your dilemmas
So Fingal can give you
Advice
Or your reading
What the cards say, what the spirits say
Here they are
My boyfriend 25 and I 22 have been together for
around a year and the last few months we have been doing middle distance as i moved about an
hour and a half away to finish and graduate uni fine with the plan being i would move back
afterwards and things would go back to normal after four weeks of graduating i've been offered
an amazing job opportunity but it would mean I wouldn't be
able to move back to my boyfriend we've really struggled with the distance and it's caused us a
lot of issues arguments as we can really only see each other on weekends and he isn't keen on coming
into the city I thought I would mention I've also been set or set on having a year off to travel
I love living in the city but it is really hard on both of us should I stay and take this probably
once in a lifetime job offer or move out to my boyfriend and take the year off to travel and
have some fun great question so I'm not going to kind of do the one thing that we don't do as
psychics is you should do this you should do that because you know free will I'm not liable yeah
exactly and it's like I don't want to disempower people from their choices but what I will do is I will lay three cards down of what it would look like if she took the job
and then three cards down if what it would look like if she moved back and
stay with her boyfriend so it's a kind of a and b take what you want from it one thing I would say
is I did slightly sit upright when she mentioned the job. I thought oh that has a good energy around it but I don't want to be too leading so we'll see. So um uh pile A is what would it look
like if she took the job? And what would it look like if she went back with her boyfriend and did a year worth of traveling. I'm slightly laughing, only because the second pile,
which is, should I go back to my boyfriend, has the two of cups, which is about the kind of
companionship love card. So it's kind of all evident. It's interesting with the job because
you've got, and please don't be scared, it's not as serious as it sounds at all.
You've got the seven of wands, the devil and the death card.
And it sounds awful, but it's absolutely fine.
This part of this is, it's kind of going to state the obvious,
taking the job is going to be tough.
It's not going to necessarily be a smooth ride,
but the rewards of that will be vast and great. But I just really get the sense you won't ever
be able to put down this kind of niggling feeling of, I should have done that. I should have taken
the alternative. I think that kind of, because the devil, it's actually one of my favorite cards, not because I'm a Satanist, but because it kind of indicates where in our life we feel as though
we're doing something kind of that's against our moral code or against our ethical code. So it's
like that little tug. So I just feel that that will kind of bring up. I also feel that the death
card, and this sounds a bit obvious,
but death is always about changes and things going away and dying away. New beginnings. New beginnings, exactly. So in some ways, the relationship probably would come to a natural
close because of it. Option two, which is, should I travel? Should I go? It's really interesting
because you've got loads of cards around work because you've got the eight of pentacles and
the justice card. But I just get the sense that actually there'll be really good things waiting
for you at the end of that time anyway, particularly with the Justice card because
the Justice card is often the lawyer card. But particularly in combination with the Eight of
Pentacles and the Justice, it's work at a really high level. It's work at a really high esteem. So basically put it in a crux.
I don't feel that by rejoining your partner and traveling will have a detrimental effect on your
career in the long term. I don't. I think that there will very much be maybe there's even
conversations and negotiations that you can have with this company in order for them to hold it for
a little bit longer um but yes i just feel that if you take this job particularly with the devil
and the death it's gonna it's gonna be a bit crunchy is the only way I can say it. Is it going to be a bit...
That's unbelievable advice.
That is...
So ultimately, from what the cards are saying,
it's better to go travel.
Yeah, I would say so.
But it's good because I, even though there is the travel,
it doesn't, there's nothing that's indicating here of like,
that's going to have a real detrimental long-term effect
on the career anyway.
Stay with your boyfriend and travel. travel again I never like to dictate but the energy around the latter
is good but there's funny because when you mentioned the job initially I don't think it's a
kind of guillotine if you don't take it this moment it's completely over it's completely off
the table I don't. That's positive.
That's really good.
That means you can have everything.
That's what you'd want to hear.
Like, that's what I would want to hear.
Stay with your boyfriend,
go travelling, have fun
and come back to that job.
The job isn't going to go anywhere
or something good.
Or a better opportunity may arise.
Exactly.
I recently got engaged which is amazing to my fiance who's I've been with for three years and he's incredible he's honestly like a dream he's the sweetest guy so loving and caring and kind
and all the all the good things and I just feel like i basically feel like the worst person ever because
um recently i met a guy who i've sort of known for years and we sort of texted a lot on instagram
because we had a lot of neutrals and i met him recently for a work thing um and you know when
like the energy between you two is just absolutely crazy. I also know through when he's texted me before
that he's previously fancied me.
No.
This is wild.
And I feel like an absolutely horrific person
for feeling this.
I mean, I would literally never, ever cheat on my partner
and I'd never, ever cross the line.
But I can't help that when I was around him,
there was this undeniable, insane chemistry.
And I feel horrific for feeling it. And i would just love to know if i am
basically just worrying over nothing and it's just like a fleeting crush or whether this is a sign
that i need to get out before i get married because this is i'm with the wrong person i
i like to think it isn't that but also the way i'm feeling is so intense
um and any help would be such appreciated i love you guys so much and i can't wait to hear
what your opinions are thank you bless her the ironic thing i love the universe sometimes
the ironic thing is i had almost exactly the same question on
Saturday with a client almost exactly the same scenario had met somebody obviously I can't go
into too much detail I've got to keep it anonymous but met somebody had these really really intensive
feelings but was with somebody for a very long time and they're looking to set up house and
family and together and she presented me the same question first and foremost I just want to say please don't beat yourself up for
having these feelings feelings are feelings you know this very is one thing to have this upswell
of you can't help that intensity right it comes up it's out of your control what you can control
is how you act upon it. So the very
fact that you're kind of ruminating on this, you're kind of wandering around, I just want
to reassure you, it's absolutely fine. Partly, it goes back to what we were talking about before
about soul groups. It's very likely that when we meet people and we have this really intensive feeling that is quite inexplicable,
it's usually some past life thing or some soul connection thing. We often call them soulmates,
but soulmates doesn't always mean kind of that Disney kind of thing of running away together.
It's often they've come into your life to help kind of teach a certain lessons.
The other thing to say is that when you are in a stable relationship,
and, you know, it sometimes goes a bit humdrum, a bit quitted,
and you're arguing about picking up the underwear from the floor
and doing the washing up, and then you have this really exciting
kind of kismet, this new connection gonna stir things up so don't beat yourself
up that it's this kind of there is this contrast speaking from personal experience
often taking the leap in a certain way never pays off oh yeah it always backfires so I just want to kind of reassure you and feeling into it is I feel that this scenario
has come in to teach you about it's so good that it's happening now because it is going to make
you question that dedication. It's going to make you question that commitment. It's going to make
you question actually what is it I want? And that's not necessarily always a bad thing so just look at it but feeling
into it I've got to be honest I feel that the relationship that you're in and the engagement
that you're in feels the way to go I'm gonna give a little bit of personal advice I hope this is okay
but I remember going on a walk with somebody um and by the end of the walk, I was like, oh, I really fancy this guy.
And I was with somebody at the end of it.
I thought, oh, shit, what am I going to do?
And then I went to tell my now husband.
I went on this walk.
I really ended up fancying this person.
It was really weird.
And he said, that's cool.
Thanks for letting me know.
But I'd really appreciate it if you didn't see that person again.
I said, absolutely fine.
And actually having that conversation brought it out into the open and it was no longer a secret it was no longer something
I was trying to hide away it wasn't that exciting and then the next time I because I bumped into
this person again I literally just bumped in on the other guy I was like oh actually no yeah
wow I don't actually fancy you I think it's the excitement of what could be
is often the driving force.
I always say it's the effect, the Great Gatsby effect.
You know, you get this fantasy and this build up
of what it was going to be like,
and then the reality hit and it was like,
oh, it's actually quite shit.
Exactly, exactly.
Yeah, it's a fantasy.
Yeah, stick.
Stick, don't. Dick.
I've been feeling stuck in a rut for over a year now.
Not enjoying my job.
Haven't been able to find a new work opportunity that feels right to move on to.
Living paycheck to paycheck and just always wishing for the next big thing.
I feel like I'm waiting for something to happen and I don't know what direction to go into next. Where do I head next?
When you feel stuck, it's one of the most challenging things. Whenever I get clients
come sit with me and they're really stuck, I feel stuck. It's like, I don't know where to take this.
One thing that I would say, and this isn't so much a channel thing, this is more of an advice thing, but there is something called Ikigai, which is A-K-I-G-A-I.
Japanese. what you love doing and what the world needs more of. And by writing in each of those,
this sweet spot that overlaps all of that is your purpose. So also the thing to kind of clarify is
that the thing that you get paid for doesn't necessarily have to be what you're getting paid
for. It's like a skill set that you have that could be monetized. So that would be kind of the
first place that I would go,
because it's interesting with the cards, because you've got the Seven of Swords,
and the Seven of Swords is often about this kind of walking one way, but looking another.
And it's a little bit of a reminder of perhaps your energies are a little bit scattered at the
moment. Maybe they're a little little bit there isn't perhaps enough not
necessarily focus but unless we kind of it's sometimes hard to know what we want of course it
is but unless we know what we want it's there's this kind of expectation of or something's going
to come in and it's going to change it all for me. And often things that,
yeah, and sometimes you have to wait 20 years before that happens. So again, with the King of Pentacles, the King of Pentacles you've got here, that is the manifestation card. It's also
the work card. So I do feel in this instance, it's all about tapping into your purpose. And I get the sense here,
I'm just going to throw this off the cuff, but I get the sense that this person is much more
caring and nurturing than they're afforded and allowed to be. I feel that things have got a bit,
part of the reason that you're feeling a bit stale is because it's got quite practical
everything in your life's got kind of quite practical and it's quite mind and it's in some
ways not necessarily monotonous but it's kind of punch in punch out punch in punch out it's
and I feel that this person is it's much more about helping and assisting and working with
others I think this is a really really key part and I think
a lot of your emotional happiness is going to be gleaned from actually kind of feeling as though
you're interacting and like helping helping people so if you're in an office job or if you're in any
job that you're sat in front of a computer that ain't right that is not in your energy at all it's much more this kind of caring aspect that
was amazing I feel like that was a really good direction yeah same
Melissa do you prefer Melissa or Mel I don't like. You don't like Mel. I'm glad I asked.
So just give me a couple of moments.
It's definitely a woman.
It's interesting, even as I start tuning into her energy,
I just start stroking my arm in some way.
And this sounds kind of grave and a bit serious, but she comes through with a certain
degree of sadness. Again, this isn't a kind of heavy message at all, but I wonder with this
woman if she actually kind of experienced or understood, for want of a better term, difficulties.
There was something about her son and her son was a bit of a kind of tearaway I think in times sorry Melissa
probably got in trouble with the law a few times I don't think he was kind of a down and out
criminal in any sort of way but he was just a bit of a tearaway energy and something and she's
coming through very much in her 40s something in that kind of age I think you would have been more aware of the sun in some
ways because the sun would have made would have come down as your I think you'd been like your
your cousin once removed or your second cousin is there a photo she's showing me a photograph
of a party and it's somebody's 18th birthday and she's got these banners behind and the party's
almost like at a, not a village hall, but like a function room. That's what it is. It's at a
function room and there's a photo of this event and your dad's in the photo. And this is probably
some of the only times that he had connection with this part of the family. Sorry, this sounds
a bit of a bleak question. Do you know anybody in your family that had a stroke? Not in your
immediate family again. I don't think it's your kind of father or... Because there's a sense here,
again, I know it sounds really, really strange, but there's something about this side of the
body. I think it's typically more the other side, but there's something about this side of the body. I think it's typically more the other side, but there's something about this side of the body. I just get the sense that she was probably a carer
at some point for somebody, again, sounds really bleak, would have been a carer for somebody that
had a stroke, either her mum or someone around her. Again, I think it's a woman almost certain it's a woman that had this stroke
not a man I'm gonna go in and ask why she's coming through
I can see an image of you kind of checking in with lots of people and are they okay and
not because anything bad's happening at all but it's just something about you
in a way taking on that mantle,
particularly, particularly within the family.
There's just this kind of sense of strength and resilience
and oomph that she's trying to bring through to you.
I think I have a feeling about who it is.
Great.
But I don't know what the heck her name would have been.
Fine.
Who is she?
I think it might be my sister's
stepfather's mother I'm not saying it's exactly her but it feels like that sort of connection
oddly it feels slightly kind of yeah someone that I've not related to I've never I've never
obviously met and I didn't really have much of a relationship exactly but I would implore you
please go and speak to your dad about this woman because she's she's she's now taking me by the
shoulders and kind of shaking me and saying please please help me on this help me on this I need to
pass this through I need to pass this on I'm almost sure that she did some either healthcare or she worked as a nurse. Right.
Something in that.
She was used to having to be a caregiver for others, for sure. And I think in a kind of professional sense, I don't think so much nurse
because I think there's some occupational therapy stuff where she had to go
and visit people's houses.
Okay.
Because she's almost wearing a kind of tabard as well.
So much. So much here. Now I'mard as well. There's so much here.
Now I'm really thrown off.
I just don't know.
I'm quite pleased with how she's come through.
Sometimes I draw people and I go,
it's not quite how she looks.
Oh gosh, my hand's gone numb.
I've been gripping your hand so hard.
God, I feel like I've not breathed.
On that side?
Yeah.
That's weird weird my right hand
that is
so weird
I have goosebumps
all over me
so this is her
no that's really odd
that is spooky
have a hunt around
she looks sad
she does look sad
she didn't have
an easy time
god love her
she didn't have
an easy time god I'm like what She didn't have an easy time.
God, I'm like, what lady that's not related cares?
Do you know what I mean?
Well, this is the thing.
This is the odd thing about spirit is it doesn't, you know,
it doesn't always have to be ancestral at all.
But why do they care?
Because often they recognise aspects of what's happening in your life.
So they're kind of here to give advice.
It's a bit like if you called up your, you know, your mum's best friend
and you were just having a conversation and she was imparting some of her view.
Like everyone cares really in a certain way.
It might not mean that she's kind of with you for life,
but she's definitely coming in at this point for you.
I feel like he was with me for life yeah
he's a bit more of a kind of stick around guide for sure where's my stick around guy she's just
loving and leaving me for a hot minute okay your workload's gonna be more intense see ya
be strong and resilient wow i've got goosebumps all over me.
Tap, tap, well done.
We did well.
Thank you so much.
You're so welcome.
Thank you.
Thank you for having me.
No, Fingal, that is, I'm really sorry,
but I could keep you here for my whole life.
I'd love to sit you down for like three hours.
Same.
Thank you so much, Fingal. Thank you so much. Thank you, listeners sit you down for like three hours. Same. Thank you so much, Fingal.
Thank you so much.
Pleasure, pleasure, pleasure.
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Thank you so much.
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I want to know what happens.
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