Wednesdays - 64. Selling Sunset's Bre Tiesi reveals the TRUTH behind the Chelsea drama

Episode Date: December 11, 2024

Heyyy Tinies,While Melissa’s off in Cape Town, we’ve got an amazing guest stepping in to surprise you this week. Joining Sophie is none other than Bre Tiesi real estate queen and star of Netflix’s Selling Sunset!Bre’s spilling all the tea on everything Selling Sunset—from what Jason and Brett are really like to the biggest commission she’s ever made. And yes, she’s giving us the inside scoop on all the Chelsea drama from season eight, and who’s coming back for season nine.We’re also hearing all about her life in LA, her go-to cosmetic treatments (and the ones she’d never touch again), her relationship, and how she balances motherhood with being a total girl boss.We were so excited to have Bre on—it was such an amazing chat, and we can’t wait for you to hear it!Want More?! Check out our premium subscription The Follow Up - AD FREE, BONUS EPS and ALL the goss wednesdays.supercast.com/If you have one or a dilemma, any personal advice for another Tiny, or a follow up to a dilemma? You can send us a voice note or message using the link here.--Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wednesdayspodcast/TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@wednesdayspodcastEmail | [e-mail]--Credits:Producer & Editor: @ben_johnsAssistant Producer: @gurlinaheer_Exec: @jemimarathbone and Holly NewsonVideo editor: @jakeji.pVideo editor: @lizziemccarthySocial: @laurabcoughlan Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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psychologists and we're not experts in anything in fact we just chatted all the shit so and we love giving you guys advice but as we love giving you said, do not take what we're saying as gospel. If you do feel like you need to speak to somebody, please seek professional help. Welcome back, guys, to Wednesdays. So today's a little bit different. So Melissa's actually in Cape Town with Toby on a lovely little getaway. And we have Brie from Sunning Sunset. And she is just iconic.

And if you haven't watched it, you need to watch it. And she is just amazing. She you haven't watched it you need to watch it and she is just amazing she's all the way over from LA and we got to have her talking about filming out there life in LA cosmetic surgery in LA what she's had and what she hasn't had done her relationship being a mother all sorts of things so guys please stick around for the episode because it's a really fun one. Brie, we're so excited to have you. Thank you so much for coming. We've just been talking a bit off camera about how jet lagged you are.

I'm so jet lagged. Don't worry. I've been there. It's not fun. It's not. How many hours did you get last night? Three, if that. It was around three o'clock that I realized I had to be up at six. So I'm not entirely sure how much sleep, but.

That's painful, but you look stunning. Thank you. I don't feel stunning. So thank God for my glam team. They are amazing. You look amazing. Thank you. What have you been doing since you've been in London?

We have been nonstop from Moana premiere to I was on Sunday brunch. I always call this the wrong thing. I thought I was going to actual brunch. I was very confused. And it was a whole show. We're doing so many things. So we just keep rolling through right now. This is really exciting. When are you leaving? Tomorrow at like 6am. Okay. So I've had four straight days nonstop, like hit the ground running. I want to know like, what's the situation? Because you guys wear such amazing clothes. Do you have styl you do no way swear yeah my poor assistant he's running around doing everything as if he's he's

basically a stylist I literally have tears in my eyes it's a lot of work um but I'm just really OCD I'm really like I don't know I have a vision and I have to just do it myself and I've tried a couple stylists and like no disrespect but it's just not the same so I'm like I'll just do it myself and I've tried a couple stylists and like no disrespect but it's just not the same so I'm like I'll just do it the other girls don't have a stylist either I think Mary and Amanza were using one which actually was like big drama and storyline on our show but I think that's it I know Chrishell dresses herself I know Emma dresses herself and I'm pretty sure Chelsea dresses herself because she has some controversy about her styling matches her personality season eight has been a huge season for you you were in all of the drama with chris shell with emma with

chelsea how does it feel now that it's wrapped and you're able to watch it back no i never watch it back so so i do this thing where it sounds awful but i'll literally just fast forward to my parts no i'm and i just want to like, we know how it went down, but it doesn't always come out that way in edit. Even in days and just the way they put things together, it's not even like a sketchy thing per se. It's just more the way they edit things are so different from how it actually occurs. So when you're watching it, like it could be, you know, a scene that we shot in the beginning, but it's at the end of the season like it's just interesting so I really just fast forward to that because all the other scenes I'm not involved in so I'm just kind of like I only have so much brain

capacity so yeah I see clips and I see everything and I hear the things that are going on but um I know that like Nicole had a rough season again. And that's about it. And the Emma situation, yeah. Do you feel having watched it that you were represented in the way that it went down? For the most part, yeah. Because I think you came across so well. Thank you. I mean, I feel like I consistently me.

I'm very comfortable in who I am. And it's kind of hard to like change my character per se. But there's definitely things that didn't occur exactly how that goes but that's tv and that's what you sign up for so that's what i'd say i can't unfortunately i can't it's it's just one of those things that you're not yeah like we don't really talk about um but thing with our show is that everything is actually real like i was talking to my pr and she was saying how here it's so different but like these things actually happen and like we're really going at it it's very toxic it's very it's a lot a lot of the time so I think that sometimes the way things are filmed are you know you only see certain parts of

it it's the more interesting aspects obviously so of course it just is what it is because I um I came from reality I did a show in the UK called Made in Chelsea. And it's very different over here. It's pretty constructed. You know what you're getting in for. Like everyone goes into camera knowing they've got to bring it for a scene. However, we were like 18, 20 when we were doing it. Whereas you guys are grown women.

And fighting at a dog funeral. No, no, no, no. I mean like you no no no no I mean like you're working your boss bitches like you're not doing it for camera like this is your life yeah I think there's a lot of egos obviously that are involved and there's a lot of other things you know I think everyone's biggest issue is our reputation and how quickly that can be distorted by what everyone can say so it's kind of like everyone's quick to be like well hold on a second and then they start going at it um it's yeah it's been interesting obviously you

brought the chelsea's husband cheating to camera and that was a big controversy in itself do you stand by your decision by bringing it to camera of course because she knew about it before it came to camera so for me i'm very like i'm sick of this narrative so basically i have found out in december way before we had filmed i called emma i told emma to tell her because it was awful coming from me of course they all knew all three of them knew the only people that didn't know was production oh my god i've got goosebumps that's why i'm my ass up. This whole, miss me with all this. Because, bye. I had Emma tell her because I just felt like we were trying to get to a place to be cool.

Like I would never be friends with her. She's already made her mark with me. But I can be grown and move past it and, you know, be fine being in the room with you and be civil. And that's where I thought we were going. So only because we were making those strides, I felt the need to even tell her because otherwise I would have been like, bitch, you should know where your husband is. That's not my problem. But I felt like, okay, let me just tell Emma. Emma can break it to her. She has questions, whatever. Like I can answer them. I don't know that much. I just know what someone told me. And that of course backfired

because Chelsea just, you know, hates everything about me for some reason and just can't get over it. Like I have the receipts of the whole like, tell me how you told me like it's all there. I'm just not that petty. This is the most wild tea I've ever been told. It's crazy. So I'm like, okay, if I'm the bad guy and you want to make me the bad guy, I don't give a fuck. Like, go ahead. I don't care. But then the three of them turn on you. Yeah, because they're like, you brought it to production. I'm like, well, technically Amanda brought it to production. Like, not me. And I told them I was taking the scene with Amanda.

So basically, rewind even further, I came on on six. And they always ask you, do you know other people? Is there anyone you'd like to bring on? Like, who are you friends with? You know, we bring on at least one or two cast members each season, usually. And so I kept saying Amanda, but they weren't really like sold on her. And then I had her in season seven and there was a scene with me and Emma and her. And it was a guy with the Victoria's Secret bras and she was selling his house and all that. So I had been advocating for her. So when season eight came, they were like, basically they asked me what I thought about Alana

and they asked me to describe her as a coffee. And I said, she was vanilla. And I thought it was a very nice. I was like, she's just so nice. There's nothing wrong with her. She's just vanilla. So that ended up coming up later and they were like, well, who do you want? And I had pushed for Amanda, but knowing obviously I knew Amanda knew this tea. So then it was switched on me that you brought her here to bring down Chelsea I was like honey I could have done that without her I could have just done that myself I already knew but I'm like sure if that works for y'all that's fine because for you to flip on me like that means you were never my friend anyway so totally toodles so you guys not spoken, you're filming now? Yeah. Well, I haven't even seen them yet, to be honest. Yeah.

Oh my God. I can't wait. Yeah, it's going to be very, very interesting. But obviously then Nicole comes and tells you about Emma having infidelity with a married man. And you choose not to bring it to camera. Yeah. Why? Because I don't know that.

Right. You know what I mean? It's different for me to say to you I heard something from someone, but the fact that her and I weren't even speaking, I owe her nothing. So to me, I'm like, okay, you made your choice, so stay over there. There's nothing for us to talk about. If you were my friend, I would have came straight to you and been like, Nicole said X, Y, and Z, but I don't know you shit,

so you can figure that out on your own. Do people know what that is about now? I'm a little confused by it, to be entirely honest, but I don't think there shit. So you can figure that out on your own. Do people know what that is about now? I'm a little confused by it, to be entirely honest. But I don't think there's any validity to that. I don't really feel like Emma's that way. Like, I just don't see that about her. Right. And even if she was, that's none of my business.

What sort of friendships are happening going back into this season? Because obviously... This is going to be very be very very different do you talk off camera when you're off a little bit this is a job to me and I need to save my mental and my son matters more than any of these bitches on this show so I'm very like I'm good on it I've just seen a lot of wishy-washy and like weird stuff everyone showed their true colors for me last season I was like oh okay I thought we were all so close. So I was like, cool.

That's horrible though. And does it affect you at all? Not really. I'm a little jaded at this point. Like I think I've just been in the industry so long that I'm like, okay, cool. All right. But yeah, obviously it's like, damn, I had you at my house. I had you around my kid.

Like I'm spending my birthday with you. Like we're like, you know, it wasn't just for camera. I thought, but I'm like for birthday with you like we're like you were actually real friends it wasn't just for camera I thought but I'm like for you to switch like that and all the things you're doing and saying now is like so manipulative

and conniving there's just so many things that I'm like okay and none of them have reached out to you and been like shit we've watched it back

and like no but they also know that I wouldn't accept that anyways it's already done I love her as strong you are

Chrishell claimed that she would not film with Nicole again and are both of them returning for the new season. Yeah. Okay, so what do you want to see more on the next season? I think it just has gotten kind of dark, to be honest. I feel like I didn't really sign up for this. I feel like when I watched it, it was like surface level drama

and just like more like, you stole my client and whatever. It was just more light and just like more like you stole my client and whatever like it was just more light and fun and more personality and like different things and now it's just turned into like bravo housewife like it has yeah it's just not really what I signed up for so which is obviously great for the viewers like it yeah I'm sure it's so entertaining but it must be toll like it's taxing on you right yeah I think it's more of like if I had made that decision and like consciously went into that then that's on me but I don't feel that I signed up for that I felt like this is really like taking a turn and the attack on my family and on me and everything I was like all right I'm done with

this shit like yeah I'm over it I don't feel like anyone else got that kind of treatment. So that's why I'm like, all right, gloves are off. Like, this is going to be a whole different type of show if y'all keep fucking with me. So I was like, I'm done. I'm trying to be cool. But it's just gotten, it's gotten really dark. So I really hope that this season,

they really honor what they're saying about, like, making it more about our personalities and our personal life and making it fun and really showing more real estate and like all of that because I don't think I'll do it much longer if it continues. No, I'm just, I'm very, even though I dress really girly, I'm very more like guy chill and like, I don't do all of that. And I'm very like, I don't do all of that. So it's, it's a lot for me. And then I feel like it's just damaging at that point. Like everyone's just calling everybody everything, accusing them.

It's just crazy. Like I'm like. And like going back to them talking about your family. Like that was really rough. It's ridiculous. And it's three seasons. You know, it's like we're still talking about this. And you've been so vocal about that and that your beautiful son and you showed him on TV and stuff. And it just feels like everyone got to see you as a mom, which amazing job.

Thank you. And then for people to sort of have those opinions. But then you obviously are getting in the shit for it. It's a narrative of like, oh, well, you know, you guys are both public and we all are allowed to have opinions. And it's like, who the fuck asked you? You have been very vocal about your family setup opinions and it's like who the fuck asked you you have been very vocal about your family setup and it's it's quite untraditional but it's obviously amazing and it works really well for you and your family could you talk to us and the listeners a little

bit more about that uh me and my partner have been on and off for years and it likes to be very clear we don't co-parent we are very much together and that's why people are confused basically he has other partners and we're just open and happy and that's our thing so what would you call that people call it all kinds of shit i call it just i do what i want to do it's just your situation i'm just i'm very like i'm not a jealous person i don't want a conventional relationship i don't want like a full live-in like person i'm responsible for. Like I'm responsible for my child. Like, and I feel like this is probably, which is so crazy is like the healthiest relationship I've ever had. It's amazing. Like we never fight. We never have any toxicity. Like we

don't argue like nothing. And you know, he's the best dad and he's so present. Like I've never asked this man to do something and he doesn't do it. Like it's ever like, so I don't have any complaints. No, I mean, we both work and travel a lot, but it's like, we spend multiple nights like together. We have, yeah, we have set nights that we have, we go to our yoga all the time. And like, we have the nights that we put my son to bed. Like we have a full schedule. Weekends are sports. Like he's very involved. And I think people people just I don't know I mean have opinion because they're always gonna have an opinion on something yeah but he's involved with those that want to be involved like right you know the people that I guess he doesn't deal

with don't necessarily want or need him around you know but I feel like anyone that chooses that or wants that like he's happy to do that he obviously understands the situation that we're in so he's really good at just doing what you know what makes everybody happy and your son has an amazing dad amazing obsessed with him like you can see lovely like you'll see he's like obsessed with his dad I'm like excuse me I'm here so how old is your son now he's two two he's almost two and a half yeah and what's your favorite thing about being a mom? I mean, it's amazing. It's the hardest thing I've ever done in my life, for sure. It's more of trying to balance everything.

And you're just so concerned every day if you're doing the right thing, if you did enough, like if they're happy. Yeah, just the mom guilt's insane. But I mean, he definitely brought out a much softer side. And like he definitely like heals me overall as like a person. Like I feel like your children are a reflection of everything good and bad about you. And it's just in your face and you're forced to deal with it when you have a kid. So anything that I was like, oh, okay.

I was like, oh, you have my attitude. Is that what I look like? Like just little things. It's a mirror. Wow. It's a mirror. Wow. It's crazy. Did you sort of plan pregnancy or did it? Yeah, I've had multiple miscarriages actually.

So I had a harder time getting pregnant. And so once I did, it was like amazing. I had the best pregnancy. I had all natural birth. So no way. Yeah, I would do it a million times. I mean, it was brutal, but I would do it a million times over. Like, so did you do like training to do hypnobirthing and stuff?

Yeah, it was great. That's unreal. No, I wanted to have a water birth, but I was in the water too long. So then his heart rate started raising and I was getting hot. So I had to get out. But it's insane how different and like how much pressure is off you when you're in the water. It's crazy. Really?

Yeah. You had to come out and experience it. I was in there like my whole labor. It was like how many pressure is off you when you're in the water it's crazy really yeah you have to come out and experience i was in there like my whole labor it was like how many hours of labor and i was like oh yeah i was disgusting i was like i am not she was like get out of the bath you have to get out i was like i am not getting out of this bathtub and she's like you have to his heart is raising and i was like fuck okay and was nick with you the whole time yeah oh my god this is amazing we have like a full video of like the whole raw footage i put on youtube and not like raw raw but like you know the experience i need to watch it it was it was amazing yeah and how do you think selling sunsets and being a mom has sort of come together do you think it's changed the way that you have acted on it or

you've a thousand percent a couple years, somebody would have caught some hands. It would have been a problem. I'm like, no, no, it's definitely chilled me out a lot. And just like some of the things that used to like rile me up or hit my ego or any of those things, like I don't even have the energy. I could not care less. So I definitely think being a mom

has changed 98% of like how I deal with things. Just like made you more tolerant to all the bullshit. Because you're like, I don't care. Yeah, you don't care. I already didn't care. But I also would be like, who are you talking to like that? Like, what is wrong? And I would be a little bit more confrontational

versus now I'm just like. You can really see you definitely hold yourself like so well on that. FanDuel Casino's exclusive live dealer studio has your chance at the number one feeling, winning, which beats even the 27th best feeling, saying I do. Who wants this last parachute?

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like I was in LA recently such a wild place it is everyone is the most stunning person I've ever met there every you can get the pressure like even I was there for a week I was like I need to go and get things done and you've got the access to everything everything. And obviously you were a model from 17. How has living in LA sort of impacted like the way you look about yourself and like the work? Honestly, I think because I'm born and raised there, I'm just used to that. And I think it's just something that it's not taboo to us. It's like, you're going to lunch, you're getting some Botox. Like it's just normal, which is crazy to some people, but I don't know. I enjoy those. If I can fossilize, I'm going to do it. Absolutely. I am with you. I'm going to do it all.

Are you able to say what you've had done and what you wouldn't have done? Okay, tell me. I've literally done every laser that's known to man. This is behind in UK. No one's doing the lasers. I know. Like the laser facials. Oh, love. And what does that do? I need to move. There's a million different kinds. So it depends on like which ones you want to do. But I've done Morpheus 8. I love Morpheus.

Too much downtime though. It's like two weeks. And it hurts like a bitch. Yeah, it does fucking hurt. I love that one. I've done it on my stomach. I've done it on my face. And I felt like it really helped after my son with like the skin tightening.

I loved that. There's this new, what was the laser? The laser that I'm doing when I get my boobs done next week. Are you getting them? Yeah. I have capsular contraction really bad. What's that? Capsular contraction is like the number one risk when you get a boob job. So basically after you have a baby and especially when you breastfeed, you're at a much higher risk of getting it. And like the first year after getting your boobs done and what does it do basically it creates this um capsule around your boob that starts to close in on the implant so it thinks it's almost like a foreign object and so it causes them to be like distorted and is it very

uncomfortable and mine actually ruptured so i actually have a ruptured boob at the moment no you do not when did this happen yeah I literally I went in because just on the fly over here no literally the day before I left he was like you have a ruptured implant I was like okay how do you find out that out oh it looks crazy stop crazy and how are you man like changing this you know what I don't care you can't see anything today so I knew something was going on I could see it um and I could definitely feel it but because I was still, I don't have time for this today. I don't have time. So I knew something was going on. I could see it and I could definitely feel it. But because I was still carrying my son around all the time, I was like, I can't have surgery. So I just have to tough it out.

And I waited a little too long. But he still wants to be carried. So it's really hard. I don't know how I'm going to even manage. Mom duties come first. Yeah. That's a real credit to your mom skills. But back to question from botox filler i've had my nose done i've had my boobs done i have not had a brow lift and all these things people say that's the botox people say that you've had a great compliment right yeah

i'll take it i was like i don't care say whatever you want to say i've also been accused of an eye lift which i think is just my shape but those are majority of the things besides like anything non-surgical I've tried everything what things would you never do is there anything you would never do CoolSculpt what's that the freezing fat yes why should have done more research on that one it gave you like so you did do I did do it right okay absolutely hated it and then he had to fix it well what what happened it basically brings all of your fat molecules to one spot and then it freezes it and your body, what? What happened? It basically brings all of your fat molecules to one spot and then it freezes it and your body's supposed

to metabolize it. But if it's not capable of metabolizing it, you've now created this fat pouch. Shut up. And I was like, No way.

I was like, fix this right now. So you go in there and not that you've got any fat, but you've got an area and you're like, freeze this,

I want it to go. And instead what happens is it creates a... Makes it worse. That is horrific. Oh yeah, I was pissed. There's a beautiful model who had it and she had the reverse reaction and they were like it's one percent her body doubled the fat cells doubled terrifying terrifying okay so guys listeners just stay away from cool sculpt yes but he fixed it yeah he did it's more of just like the heat it was a lot of work without being surgical but you know i did that years

years ago um because you're like oh cool i'll try it like what's gonna happen like you don't know so definitely do your research don't just do anything okay so our listeners have written some questions for you what are jason and brat really like can i just say when i was walking past the how do you say it open home jason's little he's real little both very little i i was like whoa you are yeah little very little okay so what are they both really like they're honestly very different i feel like brett's a little bit more quiet and just kind of chill and jason's like i'm fucking here bitches let's go jason's just a whole vibe and brett's just very chill like jason gets loads of really pretty girls.

Like, he must have, I don't know what he has. Apparently, Lamborghini. I don't know. I don't know. I was like, a lot of men have Lamborghinis. I'm like, yeah, love them, but I don't know. How many houses have you sold this year? This year, two. Well, technically, I sold lands for like four million and then um thank you and then I did

another deal and I have two that are just like pending it's been the longest year ever um there's a lot going on in the market and things are just it's tricky right yeah it's kind of reminding me of covid-ish it's just very interesting right now really wow okay not ideal then no it's kind of reminding me of COVID-ish. It's just very interesting right now. Really? Wow. Okay. Not ideal then. No, not really. What's the biggest commission you've ever made?

Sorry, these are really personal, so you don't have to say these. I think my first year I made, well, I sold 17.5, was the one house, and I made 20. So I probably made like 800. Commission from one. Yeah. That's nuts. High five, I would say. I was like, yeah, that's fucking unreal. But that would yeah I was like yeah I'm in the wrong industry people are like she's only sold one house I'm like bitch I don't have to work all year I'm good I'm okay I'm gonna get my salmon sperm in my eye then I'm going to sleep

that is nuts wow so that house how much was that house that you got 800 well that was for the year that one I got I think it was like 500 on that one I think um but it was made by Max Noble he's an amazing developer and it was sold to a big athlete actually who was a really good friend of mine um and it feels like a hotel but it's like a darker black marble and just like this brass. And it was just beautiful. Like in the chandeliers, he was importing everything. And like, I think it was a special one for me too, because it was in my dream community that I, like when I was a kid, Hidden Hills was like the best place you could ever live.

And like, it was where, you know, anyone who's anyone lives and it was a horse community, which I'm obsessed with. And like I actually got to move in this year. So to me, I was like after selling that, I was like, okay, next year I'm in this fucking place. Like I am moving in here. And I was really excited about that. And he's my neighbor now.

So yeah. No way. That's amazing. Big congrats. Thank you. But you're like big dog selling we all have different ways of doing things like right before I would take any listing I would do anything but now since I've had my son I'm like if it's not big money I'm not going and it's more than just even

like my ego it's more of just like my son is just so much more important and I only have so many years that you know he gets to be a baby and I get to like enjoy this before he like literally like you start to become really conscious of that and so work slips a lot but I have to just be easier on myself because oh my god totally it's so like crazy being a woman you've got it and everything and you're told like you can do it all you can have the crate you can be a mom you can do everything we empower you and it's like but we don't have enough fucking time yeah and it's like yeah you empower me but there's no like real support like you know it's hard and it's like, yeah, you empower me, but there's no, like, real support. Like, you know, it's hard. And it's like, even little things like getting out of the house.

And this is most men. It's not just mine. All men are, like, on their phone or doing whatever. You've now changed the baby, got them ready, got you ready, got their snacks, grabbed their shit. You're going out the house and you're like. All you've done is jump out of the shower and, like, look to your phone and reply to a text. Are you ready?

They're like, are you ready? I'm like, are you? Because I've just done 10,000 things. No, you're doing, you're amazing. Who is your best friend in the office? No one. No, I'm still cool with Mary. I'm cool with Amanza.

Me and Alana are cool. I don't mind Nicole. I think she damages herself, but I don't necessarily mind her. And then the other three, couldn't tell you. Dumb. Yeah. Who is the most fun to work with? Me. No, I'm just kidding.

I would say so. I think Mary's pretty fun. Yeah, she's definitely entertaining. And your glam and outfits we've already spoken about as you style yourself. I'm very jealous. What time are you guys getting up in the morning to get yourself ready to go to work? Oh, six. Well, I'm up at like 4.35 with my son. And then... Do you ever sleep?

No. No, I don't. My flight here was the most sleep I've ever had. I was so happy. But no. And then 6.30 we start glam and then I have to be on set by nine and then I'm usually home by like four and how many days a week are you filming at least three and then the other day is basically prep and trying to catch up on real

life and then of course mom duties for those other days God, no. I want to look crazy and just be hiding in my house. I wouldn't even leave. And would you go into the office? Oh, no. Got it. Okay. I don't go into the office ever. Like, unless I have to go into the office.

But even before I joined our crazy office, I never did. Because you can just work from home and you're taking people to see, like, you don't have to go. You don't have to. And for any reason, honestly. Stay away from them. Yeah. Yes. I'm staying away as much as possible.

Who do you think the best dressed is, other than yourself, in The Office? I think Alana did good last season. Me too. Yeah. She. Yeah. If you had to far someone from The Office, who would it be and why? I think we all know who it would be.

I don't know. Emma or Chelsea. Not Emma. Chelsea. Chelsea yeah she can go if you weren't working in LA where would you want to be selling real estate uh well I do sell real estate here actually but Florida I love Miami do you do it in London no no fine no you need to right I'm like I'll just get my license here yeah you should I'm like I'm getting them everywhere at this point I'm like, I'll just get my license here. Yeah, you should. I'm like, I'm getting them everywhere at this point. I'm like, if I'm referring. I love it here, actually. It was fun. Come more. We love you here.

Okay, we got lots of friendship questions and dilemmas on the show. What is your advice for knowing if someone is a true friend? And when has this show showed you who's not a true friend? Definitely last season they showed me who was not a true friend. Looking back on it, though, honestly, Chelsea was very transparent about them not being my friends. When I really think back on a lot of the arguments and a lot of things that were said, she was very clear, like, they were all talking about you. Like, no one's your friend.

So it's like that fake shit, which I don't get down with. But I think it's one of those things that people will just eventually show themselves over time. And you don't have to hold it against them. You just have to watch and observe and just take note. And I think you'll figure pretty quickly like who's who. I was always a little like, you know, for Chelsea to treat me the way that she did unwarranted for no reason. And y'all never had my back or never said shit, never stuck up for me, never had a single comment um and then to flip on me like you did i mean the proof's in the pudding the whole time you just you know it's do you want to actually acknowledge it or not i was kind of just recovering and you know i was in postpartum and benefit of the doubt as well yeah i think i think if i wouldn't have had my son though and been so deep in postpartum i would have picked up on it earlier and it would have been a little bit different but i honestly was just surviving and did not care I was like I don't care about anything but looking back I think I see

I see a lot of it well you've been amazing and kudos to you for having a son and going on that tv show all at the same time it's like nuts I can't even imagine okay so Brie I saw that you had a Halloween tree which is iconic and amazing and i love it so much could you talk to us a little bit more about what your christmas plans are how many trees are you gonna have i did halloween and i do like a fall thanksgiving tree and then like i keep the pumpkins with it and then i do like multiple christmas trees and oh my god you're that mom who has it all down with all custom everything and well my poor assistant because we're we're struggling we're like on the plane i'm like did you get the turkey did you order the customer what so he's coming around for Christmas

day so normally it's a lot more of my family this year I'm having surgery and I kind of just don't feel like doing yeah everything the boob surgery right yeah I don't know I'm probably just gonna have like my immediate family my partner will come I'm having like a couple girlfriends that she's actually from here. One of my girlfriends from London. No way. And so she's not going to go home and she just had a baby. So she's going to come.

So just like close friends, I think. And will you cook or? I do. I do cook for the holidays and that's it. I'm obsessed with it. No other time. Then it comes the microwave or the meal prep or the chef or anyone but me. But the holidays you're doing the

turkey the roast for everything you are unbelievable thank you well I've ordered it a couple times and I wasn't happy so I was like you know what I'm gonna do it myself I need like my grandma's recipes and I feel like for my son I think that the traditions and the holidays need to be like you know I think that's amazing so yeah it'll be fun brie so you're obviously filming now when can we next expect to see the show because i can't probably like next fall ish october somewhere around there we never really know they honestly don't tell us from now yeah which is a little longer than we normally do but it's yeah it's going to be longer this year i think i can't wait i know but they don't tell us because all the girls always say everything we're not

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