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we want to give you a special peek into the follow-up. And if you like it, then make sure to subscribe exclusively on Supercast. Okay, so we've got a follow-up. I just landed from croatia i'm sat in the airport bags taking ages come i'm uploading stuff on to instagram and i get tapped out on the shoulder and i'm like hello and it's the girl's sister-in-law who wrote this in right can you give me a recap on what so do you remember there was a girl who two this in. Right, can you give me a recap on what the preview is? So, do you remember there was a girl who two people in her work were having an affair? Yes. And we were like, go to HR, go to HR.

Yes, I remember saying that. Right, this is what she said. Okay. Hello, firstly, thank you ladies for the advice. I found it particularly funny when Melissa said I should go to HR because, plot twist, I am HR. I fucking hell. Sadly, there is nothing we can do as relationships

in the workspace don't breach any policies. However, I do have an update. She's been really annoying me as I found out at our summer company party she was flirting with a few guys, including our friend's husband. Oh, what the fuck? There's always one like that. I know, I know.

So that's when I thought, right, claws are out, go, go. Good. When one of the guys told me he thought it was odd that she was flirting with him as he knew she was in a relationship i told him the truth about her cheating with our wow she just went for it he then said he had actually seen her one night kissing him apparently word had already spread and loads of people already knew about it as a couple others had seen it happen too so i'm slowly watching it all go down yeah she keeps telling me that her relationship with her boyfriend is falling apart and i keep telling her to break up with him because she's getting with your bloody

colleague and flirting with everyone's husbands yeah he could smell her out and i keep telling her to break up with him as they are clearly both unhappy it sounds like he's getting fed up with her so he doesn't look like he's proposing anytime soon. Well, let's fucking hope he's not. She keeps saying like the sweet and quiet one at work. Little does she know everyone is starting to know the truth. So it looks like karma has arrived. What is it? What is it?

About the quiet ones? Yeah. Can we just? I know. It's always those quiet, quiet girls who'd never expect it. And then it's, yeah. It's the ones you least expect. My worst nightmare is that everyone knows this woman.

She's blissfully unaware. Like, how is she not aware that everyone else has realised she's having an affair with someone there? Like, how have they kept it quiet? Like, I always think work comes first. Well, they haven't kept it quiet, have they? Everyone fucking knows. Yeah, but how is everyone who knows not told that they know? Not told to like, by the way, we've all seen you being getting with Bob and Derek.

I guess in a work situation, maybe you just don't do that. maybe if it was like a friend situation you would be like by the way but because it's at work they're all just like also it is like quite horrendous because then it's like well how do you know that they know unless like i've come up in conversation it's like well yeah you would have come up in conversation because like someone's seen you doing it out and about like i if i'm not even trying to be subtle if i was you she wants to get caught i would say you do know everyone knows i would literally yeah just fucking say i'd be like you know everyone knows and so and so saw it happen loads of people have seen it happen so also at this point you can be like i'm also gonna deny it now because like other people have seen it so like if your boyfriend

comes up to me and asks me i'm not gonna be able to lie i just think at this stage watch it unravel like get some popcorn i couldn't wait to get into work and be like you know everyone knows because i need that off my chest i almost want to call that girl up and be like everyone knows also i think that would then push her into making a bit more of a decision on what she's going to do and hopefully that'll push her to either like break up with her boyfriend and put him out of his misery because he sounds like he's surely going to find out. Oh my God. Surely. I just don't understand how these things happen.

Like particularly with social media these days. Like is no one going to take. She wants to get caught. If you ask me. She is playing fire with fire. I want to know what happens when she finds out that every single person in the office knows. And also is no one going to tell Bob. The guy she's cheating on him with

like surely the boys would just tell him like I get guys dude everyone knows you're hooking up with Samantha or whatever you and Sam have been hooking up

all over the streets and we've all seen it and she's got a boyfriend and we all know thing is though people do keep quiet in these scenarios they'll all talk

and be like not sure if I should tell them because that's fucking awkward and also one person might go and tell him and then everyone goes oh no I didn't know everyone then suddenly backs off And then they look like the gossip that you never want to be the whistleblower in a sense to then tell them that everyone is

Talking about it big fog corn coming in Way like cockroach. Yes. Someone needs to have a pair of balls and like tell them because ultimately they're doing something really bad But also if she's flirting with other guys in front of Bob, he's then going to be annoyed, like, hold on a minute, I thought that we were hooking up. And also, why is she even wanting to get proposed to by her boyfriend when she's cheating on him and trying to shag other married men? I don't think she does want to get proposed to. I feel like it's the next step in their

relationship. They've obviously been together for a while. Yeah. She feels the pressure and she's now trying to escape, so she's like, I'm going to shag Bob from the office. There's a lot going on's like I'm going to shag Bob from the office. There's a lot going on here. I'm going to flirt with Emma's husband at the Christmas party or wherever the party was. It's all just a big fat mess. I'm actually quite like jealous that you get to see this unravel but I also feel really upset for the future husband and boyfriend because she's

off with every Tom, Dick and Harry. There is a chance she'll find out everyone knows she'll quit go get a new job she'll never tell that boyfriend he'll never find out the work social scene will be very different to the boyfriends and like there isn't a reason why he would know he wouldn't necessarily suspect anything i think in these scenarios most of the time people don't leave their partners for the person that they're having the affair with it's quite unusual she would have left him by now she would she wouldn't be having an affair she would have dumped the boyfriend and be with that person or she'll just end this affair and then

she'll go back to her boyfriend they'll get married and then she'll have another affair with someone else people build up reputations i always think in these scenarios like when something happened to me with the next boyfriend he cheated on me with this girl she was quite well known to be doing stuff like that with people's boyfriends yeah because one of my good friends is like oh my god she's done that with someone else and then someone else that I knew was like she has got a terrible reputation for doing this a hundred percent it's the same as like how a guy does you know he's a fuck boy maybe don't go near him. Totally. People don't necessarily...

A leopard doesn't change their stripes for sports. A leopard doesn't change their sports. Yeah. So this week's follow-up is from the episode 44 and it is the tiny whose boyfriend would not go down on her. Oh, yeah. It was very recent, actually. Yeah.

So you guys have written in a few bits and bobs. Okay so someone said it took my partner two years before he finally found my clip. It is just quite hard to find. I thought your g-spot was hard to find. I thought clip was quite easy. Oh no I think boys would never find the clip straight away. The clip like moves all the time. No that's your g-spot. No babe g-spot's in your arsehole. That's for boy. Where's our G-spot. No, babe. G-spot's in your arsehole. That's for boy. Where's our G-spot? But it's right below the clit. Like, how do you not find that?

I know. Look, I'm not digging around, mate. I know it's hard for them to stay on it and, like, activate it. But it's not that they can't find it in the vagina. I'm like... No, no, no. Some boys really just can't. Like, every vagina's different. Some people's clits are really, like, out in the open.

That's why, like, I sometimes can't sit on Jamie's motorbike. motorbike like i'm not joking at fucking like i literally almost have an orgasm when i'm on the back of it it's awful guys it's actually general i love it also how you're calling it a motorbike and it's a moped a moped moped but like i can't by the time i'm to the office i'm like i feel so uncomfortable in my skin okay yeah so do you know what i mean that's why some people like lose their virginity on the back of a horse yeah i know I have heard that I always think that's a wives tale I think they can definitely orgasm from it but they won't pop their cherry

no I agree you know what I mean okay and some other person said ever since he realised what a turn on it was for him to help a woman out he's been putting in all the work

yeah it's funny like they love to see a girl orgasm yeah I think some boys sometimes you've got to really encourage them and rub their ego

which is exhausting but you know it's got to be done sometimes no they definitely love doing it like but sometimes you just fake it right think what an orgasm yeah i've definitely faked it a million times okay right men should get a bit of kick out of making a girl go yes ask and you won't regret it. Life's too short for shit sex. Totally agree. Okay, the follow up guys. You ready for this?

Yeah. Hey girls, thanks so much for the advice. So the situation has changed a bit sadly. As six weeks in, he did the classic, I'm not in the right place for a serious relationship now. Fucking hell. I was pretty shocked, but we had an open, honest chat about it and we are still dating exclusively, but just a more chilled i think he just had a bit of a freak out so i'm a bit more cautious with feelings and seeing how it goes so previously i've always just gone down on him without him asking and after hearing your advice it did make me think he's lazy and it put me off a little bit as i realize

it's a bit selfish god totally however we went out last week with his friends and we were quite beffed that night during sets he asked me in the moment, can I go down on him? I took my opportunity of Dutch guard and said, only if you return the favor. Yes, girl. He didn't seem that keen, but he did it. It wasn't great to be honest.

But mission accomplished. And I felt proud of myself for asking. I've come to the conclusion that he's a bit lazy, but also lacks confidence. And I don't think he's had a serious relationship before. So it's a work in progress. Exactly what we predicted. It's exactly that. He's just a bit lazy but also lacks confidence and I don't think he's had a serious relationship so it's a work in progress it's exactly what we predicted it's exactly that

he's just a bit nervous about doing it and like afraid that you're going to think it's shit and then it's embarrassing for him and it obviously is shit

at the moment but you know what he will grow I do think the tongue it's a muscle and it needs practice the tongue needs serious

like they need to be strong and it needs to be quick it's a skill they have to practice it doesn't necessarily need to be strong. And it needs to be quick. No, no, no. It doesn't necessarily need to be quick. You can just move. It needs to be like, it can't be slow the whole time. It can be slow and then quick.

For me, it needs to be quick. Not the beginning, surely. No, not the beginning. I'm like, you're motivating me. But in order for it to be maintained and for me to climax, the quickness needs to be... Oh, yes. You can't just then stop after two seconds. No, no, that's the last. No, no, no, just sit down. me but in order for it to be maintained and for me to climax the quickness needs to be oh yeah

you can't just then stop after two seconds no no that's not no no no I'm like quite you can shove the head down there again no maybe you can't oh god I was gonna make a really important point you throw me off with the quick tongue they need to practice their tongue needs to get more muscly oh my god you know what it's like I don't know if you ever did this. Okay, this is the moment of being really honest. I used to practice. Practice licking colour? No, blow jobs like, before I'd ever given one. Like my friends had given them.

You'd style you? No, I would practice on like, it was like a cold, do you remember those toothpaste? The Colgate ones, yeah. Yeah, our producer is, is he himself? I know exactly who you are. exactly the toothpaste and they had like a lid and it stands up and it like always moves up like anyway so I put the lid on that oh my god it's such a good replication to like train my gag reflex I was amazing from the get-go

I also was like I just want to know okay I've got it how I'm gonna do this so that's what I used to do so by the time it happened to me you know i wasn't shocked and i was like prepared so you know blokes practice i tell you what my like someone i dated once yeah i said to me yeah okay well he said that his secret to behind the tongue situation was having petty flus without a spoon oh my god okay so maybe just make him do that get the tongue muscle going i'm sick i'm icked out actually i like a petty flu without a tongue you know the mini ones like you have to really get in there from like childhood just never use a spoon really enjoyed the process of doing it with just a tongue so just train the tongue so the tongue was like a

machine like truly it was a machine to the tongue. So the tongue was like a machine. Like truly it was a machine to the point where it had to be like something okay with your tongue. Oh my God. Okay, so Ben, lovely producer Ben, has given us some tongue twisters. Very great.

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so I'm going to give you a one because I think it's great. I think that's great. Okay, right. This is a great one for you all to answer. Okay. Who's most important to you? Me, so Sophie or I, your mates or your mum?

Jamie, you answer first. I didn't like this question. You're going to want me to say my mum. You're going to think I'm going to say my mum? Jamie, you answer first. I didn't write this question. You're going to want me to say my mum. You're going to think I'm going to say my mum. Obviously, Sophie, 100%. Without a doubt, you are. You're going to make me laugh. You are 100%.

Come on, be really honest. I swear on my... Okay, what's in order? I think typically, in my experience, your mum is your first love. Then what happens is that baton gets passed off to the partner that you love and then you love your wife or your partner in a different way and that's it yeah it's a different way maybe you're until you're married your mom was definitely number one and then maybe i'm on par at the moment i think no you're deeper it's a deeper love it's a different love it's also

hopefully it's different yeah it's a different it's a different type of love your mom is your mom you'll like protect your mom forever but But the person that you marry, you would die in like a fire. Right, Toby. I'll buy you. Number one, Melissa. And then my mum. But like you guys are kind of joint, you know. As Jamie said, like you're.

Yeah. But it's different. It's kind of like in terms of time scale. No, no, no. And this is really dark. We're all on a cliff and we're all going to fall. Who are you going to save first?

Fuck you now. No, that's horrific. I can't do that. This building's going up. Who are you saving first? No, I'm not answering that. That's horrific. Honestly, I would.

I'd have to. I'd be like, I would be awful, but I would, yeah. No, that's a really awful scenario. You're part of my soul. I'm saving both of them at the same time.

No, you can't do that. I think you and I have the same relationship that we do with our mums. We're very close to them, right? And they're unbelievably epic. I think if you guys touch wood, hopefully marry and things like that, the tide shifts in a different direction. Yeah, yeah, true. That's what happens.

It's true. It's quite frustrating that it's all like when it suits you, like that I'm going to be more important when I decide. Okay, so who's more important, me or your dad? I would say you, 100%. We're going to reproduce. Yeah, that is true, actually. I'm not going to fucking reproduce my dad.

But also, you also have to remember that I truly believe this, by the way. I truly believe that there's only like enough space to build the boy's heart for like one person. It's a mum. And then as soon as that shifts to like a life partner and you go, this is my life partner, it goes, it goes, that's what happened. Then it's kids, then the wife and then the mum. And then mum, it's really upsetting for mums. Be warned you, you mummers over here. If you, if you have sons, your first love.

Well, I feel so protective of my brother and I'm like, I honestly hate to think what I'd be like as a mother of a son. And when your son marries a girl and you you know, they marry a girl or whoever, they marry someone, whoever it is, and you have to let them go. As a mother, it's really upsetting. No, I can imagine. Right. Okay. I'm going to put you both very sweet that you love your mom so much.

I love Rick equally. One as tics, because it would be actually dickish if you were like, oh, I don't care about my mum. Basically, you're well responded that you said friends were last. I would do anything for my mum, but I would fly to the moon for you. Have you ever refused to apologise to me, even when you know you've been in the wrong? I'll go first. I always apologise to you when I'm in the wrong, all the time. And I know when I'm in the wrong.

No, no, let's rephrase that. Do you actually think you're in the wrong when you apologise or do you just do it because you can't be bothered to be in the fight? I do it because I can't be bothered to be in the fight.

There you go. Yeah. Right, that's the answer. Same, partially, but also I'm quite good at being apologetic and knowing I'm in the wrong. You always say when you're wrong.

No, yeah, I do, I do. Yeah, Melissa actually says that you're really good at saying that. No, most of the time I will always be very self-effacing. And so do I. Yeah, you're very good as well. Our arguments don't last very long. Do they not? Both of us are very good at being that. No, most of the time I will always be very self-effacing. Yeah, you're very good as well. Our arguments don't last very long.

Do they not? Both of us are very good at being like... If I'm fucked up, I'm like, I'm the most un-stubborn person. I am so un-stubborn, you are the most un-stubborn person. I literally get over it within 10 minutes. So, honey, I just need to understand. You think you're un-stubborn. I get over an argument.

No, no, no, Sophie, come on. No, I'm stubborn. If you're going to be in an argument, I'll be in an argument again. She'll match the energy. I'll match the energy for a year and you will not win. I'm never in an argument. You never do anything to annoy me. No, I know I blow up, but I am over it within two minutes.

That is true. Come on. She does snap out of a strop quite quickly from what I see. Sophie goes nought to a hundred in the space of a rocket. And then you're like, whoa, everything's gone out. But she's actually much better. You're actually becoming much better at controlling that in a great way you know she really keeps up yeah but then she also will be a bit like you won't say to me but you'll say it to melissa or you'll say to someone you'll be like oh i've been a bit of a dick here or god maybe i

wasn't like this or that or to your sister someone right what's my best quality your caringness you're very thoughtful and you always do things for me that are very like i'm like oh my god i didn't even think that you would do that and you'd if something's run out you'd buy me a new one like a toothpaste which is very sweet so nice that means you're a dick because i'm good and i knew i was gonna say that i was like i would love you to do that this is this main thing that i'm not i don't actually care. What is my thing about you? You're the way that you make me laugh. That is true. 100%. You're not that thoughtful in some places. You are. You're not. You're just I think Melissa's love language is obviously maybe you're a real act of service. That's

what hers is. Yours is not that. Okay, well, that was very sweet of you. What's the next one? Oh, that's a good one. Before me, have you ever forgotten the name of a girl you're having sex with? No. What about after? The day after?

Are you like, oh, cut. No, never, never. Never done that. What about you? Because I know you. Is that a lie? No, I'm genuinely trying to think because I would love to have told the fun story. But you would have had a one night stand

with a girl that you picked up in a club and you have no idea. Yeah, true. I don't even know. She had a broken arm and I woke up and there was a cast in my bedroom. I had that before. I woke up once.

I woke up once and someone... With a cast in your bedroom. We had. And we obviously had a great night together and she went out and I... She got out, I'm not kidding, her license was stuck to her back and it fell into the bed. And I was like, oh my God.

Her driving license was stuck to her back. And you were like, oh, bye, Olivia. Yeah. And then she came back from the bathroom and I was like, hey. Imagine if she's using a fake ID. you just go no I remember no anything no no I remember what come and tell me we were in a club once and a girl came out and she went hi and you went hi I'm stood there me Jamie and I know who you're talking about we slept together before do you not remember and Jamie went nope and I went oh god well this is awkward oh my god that's so

fucking rude and weird of her. I know. In front of me, it's very odd. That is so fucking bizarre. Okay, right. What's the latest time you've ever made a booty call? Oh, sickening. 2 a.m.

Oh, that's not that bad. That's not that bad. Come on. I mean, 7 a.m. the next day. It's just 8 a.m., 9 a.m. I hate knowing these things about you. What was the question? The latest time you booty called someone.

I don't know, but I remember getting back from a nightclub once very, very late or early in the morning. I decided to phone Babe Station. There are people on the screen that sort of wave their phone and it was like, I think it's seven in the morning. And so I phoned them and they went, hi. And I went, hey. And I went, how are you? And they went, good. And I went, this doesn't feel that sexy. And they there she went what are you doing today and I went I don't

know what are you doing today she said going shopping and I went okay are you gonna do that naked and she went sorry you called the daytime hours when people who are lonely just phoned them and they just want to have a conversation I just hung up yeah yeah that's super weird yeah that's real creepy I'm gonna it was quite creepy. I'm going to give you five out of five for dick on that one. Okay. How did you used to get your girls to leave after a one night stand? I love knowing this answer.

PT. Okay. Yeah, we knew that. PT. I know your one. What was mine? You used to go, I've got filming and you would leave and go make yourself at home. Like there's loads of food.

Like get yourself. So you. And then you'd come back and they'd still be there and they'd be eating. Sorry, what girls are still there? You know, like from Maroosh, you'd get that bread that comes in it. Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. In the packet.

Putting that in the toaster and making bread with it. And he was like, because that's all that was in the house. He's like, surely not. Sorry, what girl stays after you've left? That's so stupid. Like, shower and everything. My flatmate, he went on a date with this girl and they ended up going back to his and they sat together and he has a real thing for noise

hates like any sort of noise around him she tried to snuggle up to him going like like that in the night and he was like oh my god get away from me so he just panics and goes what can i do to get her out and he goes oh fuck she's like what he's like oh my god i can't believe it i've actually forgotten i've got a flight early in the morning i've got i've got to go to heathrow and she was like what have you forgotten that is i don't know but i've got to go now like i'm gonna be late and so he starts packing a bag gets his passport out and he's like i'll just get a black cab i'll get you an uber she's oh my god that's so sweet of you sure like black cab will be really expensive he's like yeah

it's fine gets her an uber sends her down into the lift comes back unpacks his bag and gets back into bed i thought she said oh i live next to heathrow is actually convenient i'll be like oh god i got it all the way here we go so a little recap this is going back to episode 30. And the tiny who found the photo of her boyfriend kissing another woman on his phone. And then she sent a photo of her and him and we were like, you're absolutely gorgeous. Oh God, yeah. Obviously, it was really recently.

Yes. She was 10 out of 10. And we were like, he surely can't cheat on her. And he's disrespecting you. Hey girls, I listened to the podcast and couldn't breathe when you were reading my dilemma. Thank you for your help and your kind words. You really made my day.

So, after finding the photos on his phone, I broke up with him. Yes! A round of applause. Yes. Okay. He was so defensive and called me a psychopath. Oh, for fuck's sake.

For fuck's sake. Scumbag is the only way to describe him. But he's been in touch a few times telling me that he loves me and will never let me go. Other times he just rings me to be nasty. He's not right. I've been really strong with him for the last few weeks, which is so unlike me. I'm starting to crumble now as I'm getting really upset about what happened and I just want him back.

No. No. No, no. This happens. Also, just to be clear, he knew the girl in the photo. She was a mutual fan but has also slept with a lot of boys from the group even when they've had girlfriends.

So it doesn't give him much hope that nothing went on when they went back together. He said, I took it out of context but I don't think I did. I'll keep you up to date with what happens next.

Oh my God. Well done. You're keeping strong. We've got to carry that strength through. What was weird was that he sent a message, didn't he? The message was't he the message was the concrete that was the concrete the message was the concrete evidence she also went back and stayed the night at his no or to the after party or whatever it was no yeah yeah and you know what also the way he's reacted to this whole thing is also is also a

dump all events in itself like don't fucking talk to me like that don't treat me like that no this boy is insecure he's obviously like feels insecure around you and so he thinks he has to like feed his ego and validate himself by getting with this guy like no no no he's giving me pig like boy i don't like pig he's a pig i think really when you go to these moments of weakness this is when you need your friends to hang on to totally and you need to be like don't fucking let me crumble don't let me crumble and like every time you think about calling him speaking to him call your friends every fucking time every fucking time if they don't pick up you listen to a podcast distract distract distract distract do not let yourself get weakened distract distract every time i wanted to call toby i would call

sophie i would call anyone i could think of and you'd be like don't do it actually you were quite bad sometimes you're like just call him if you feel like it and i'll be like i need someone to be like i need someone to get me straight but let's be honest he didn't cheat on you had he cheated on you i would have been like yeah you would have been different story of course it was very very different but you do need your friends to carry you through it when you go through these harder weaker periods because there will be times you're really strong and you'll be like fuck him i can do this and there'll be times when you're really strong and you'll be like, fuck him, I can do this. And there'll be times when you'll be like, vulnerable and you'll be like, I just need him and the attention and blah, blah, blah. But 100%.

Also, like, I would just keep getting with other boys if you're into that sort of thing. If you don't want to, don't. Yeah, take this time to find someone like it's the summer. Like, just have some fun, girl. Have some fun. We hope that you liked that little taster of the follow-up and that enticed you to what we have in store for the new year. And we have a brand new episode of the follow-up dropping tomorrow. I am fitting Melissa in on my recent health scan

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