Wednesdays - 8: My Boyfriend said: “I’ve NEVER had feelings for you.”

Episode Date: November 15, 2023

Hello tinies! This week the girls chat parasite cleanses, Sophie’s birthday and… Toby Carvery?! Plus they divulge their winter skincare routines, collagen with coffee, and more.Sophie and Melissa read some of your dilemmas including a stingy boyfriend, a SECRETIVE boyfriend and a boyfriend who said “I have no feelings for you and never had.” Instagram / TikTok / YouTube: @wednesdayspodcastEmail: [e-mail]-Credits:Podcast Producer & Editor: @kat.milsomAdditional Producer: @jemimarathboneVideographer: @jamierg99Social Media: @thechampagencyAssistant Producer: @maiaadelia.docs Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Restrictions apply. See full terms at canada.casino.fandu.com. Please play responsibly. Melissa are you a doctor? I want to be but I'm not I'm not a doctor either and we're not psychologists

and we're not experts in anything in fact we just challenge all the shit so and we love giving you guys advice

but as we said we love giving you guys advice do not take what we're saying as gospel if you do feel like you need to speak to somebody please seek professional help We love giving you guys advice, but as we said- We love giving you guys advice. Do not take what we're saying as gospel. If you do feel like you need to speak to somebody, please seek professional help. Have you heard it when the boys,

say for example, Jamie once came up to me and was like, how often do you think of the Roman Empire? I was like, literally never in my life. What about you? And he was like, every day. And it means you're like strong or something. It's like ridiculous. And the girls have flipped it it now like the boys currently think about the roman empire because they're like roman warriors like what do us girls think about every day like something we

think about niche every day every day i can't tell you my skin my skin just being perfectly honest food my skin and also like oh my god i'm gonna what i'm. My skin and also like, oh my God, I'm going to just. What, I'm eating? No, no. And also like, if I've like. If I haven't been to, I've seen this thing and it's like, if you don't go to the loo in the morning. Yeah, I've ruined my day.

You're like not healthy and I now like get pounded. I'm like, fuck, I haven't been to the loo this morning. I haven't been to the loo this morning. Neither have I. That's all I can think about. You think about parasites. I was out for dinner with my siblings last night and I was actually like,

I'm not going to order pork. I never really ever, ever eat pork anyway, but I'm not going to have sushi anymore. Parasite, parasite, parasite. What did you have then? I had like a chicken pasta thing. Fine, no parasites. I need to have parasite cleanse.

Well, you know what? You're normally always fine if you just cook the meat properly or the fish properly, but sushi is impossible to avoid. I think I've already got parasites in me. It's so common people haven't watched it. To be fair, when you used to get your parasites every now and then, I did think like, because people think it's an intolerance to food and it's not, and now you're fine with so many foods

that you used to be intolerant to. I'm not intolerant to anything. No. Yeah. Mental. But I feel fatigued so I'm worried I've got a parasite candida

so yeah we think about our skin every day don't we I think about I won't lie and my health what I think about Melissa's like

you know my sister calls me out it's so good we did my birthday thing and Melissa and I was going going on about people were asking me questions.

I wasn't just saying it. I thought my sister was going to call me up and be like, Melissa's... I was like, oh, I know she's obsessed with that. Georgia goes, no, but I was so upset she stopped talking about it. I wanted to ask her more questions. She was like, so how does she know everything?

I went, I don't know anything. She just Googles it. She was like, honestly, she railed off every question. She went, right, okay, I'm on Google now. I'm ordering myself a water filter I can send her a good one if she wants one no she's obsessed with it

oh she's now she's now she now thinks she's got parasites and toxins because you put it in her mind oh my god I've got two of you on my cake

I think the thing is like you just have to try and be as like educated as you can be because we can't rely on like packaging and like something to like

convince us that it's healthy when it's not like Oat only we all thought was so good and then you have to educate yourself on like the ingredients right so you just have to like educate yourself and then like make your own decisions basically and just be super vigilant thing is like a new thing to me i'm obviously been around for a long time i thought a parasite was something that like you ate and you became like this then my mom had one just before she was pregnant with me. That's a really bad one. And she was a rake and said it was the worst time ever. One of my friends... You used to be able to buy them on the black market to become skinny.

Yeah. One of my friend's girlfriends, she told me the other day we were having dinner. She was like, she's obsessed with gut health, blah, blah, blah. Because she went traveling and got a parasite. She had food poisoning one day. And then obviously it was then a parasite. She had food poisoning one day. And then obviously it was then a parasite within her. And she said that by the end of it, because the girls that she was with, they were with her every day.

They didn't really notice how dramatically she'd lost weight. And then one of her friends from home called her like, I'm really worried that something's going on with you. You look so skinny from like photos you're putting on Facebook. This is back in the day of Facebook. And I think there might be something really wrong with it. Anyway, she was like, yeah, maybe you're putting on facebook back in their facebook and um i think there might be something really wrong with anyway it that she was like yeah maybe you're right and then she was like god i am like super super super skinny show me photos and i was like oh my god it was like terrifying and then she had to go to this like hospital and they basically like pumped her with loads and loads and like flushed her with antibiotics and she was obviously like that got rid of the parasite obviously my gut health was completely messed up so like now i'm obsessed with gut health blah blah blah but it can happen

and people don't know or they have like slightly milder parasites within them right and then they're like oh god i always like randomly just get like a bad stomach or i've got i'm allergic to this i've got a really sensitive tummy you probably just had a parasite for years and years and years they cannot yeah and then just go well you can you can get rid of them quite easily but it's just the knowing that that's what it might be and then actually doing something about it yeah i'm gonna do that parasite cleanse of that woman that you showed me on instagram that lady she's obsessed with parasites what did she do what did i think she sells parasite cleanses yeah same i might do it just for the sake of it like i think it's good like twice a year to do a parasite cleanse you can get them from anything it's like not something

that we can necessarily completely stop but it's good to just a year to do a parasite cleanse you can get them from anything it's like not something that we can necessarily completely stop but it's good to just do the old cleanse well I saw that like if your dog like from from your dog

honestly you do it all the time and it kills if your dog sleeps in your bed or like you kiss your dog oh you can get worms and parasites

you're literally 90% got a parasite I was like I'm screwed like there's no helping when I had Poppy with me, my family dog, she used to stay with me for a few months on end. And I always used to have her in my bed.

Yeah, parasites. Always. I also think if you've got a clean dog, obviously less likely. I think cats are way more likely to give it to you. Because they go now. The change of the season. Right, okay.

How excited are we? I'm excited, but I'm like... That wasn't a very enthusiastic face. I'm not overly excited. I'm more of a summer girl. We all know that. I know, but we've had such a weird, long, up and down summer with the weather. Oh, I'm ready.

I feel like at least it's like I know what I'm doing with my wardrobe and my life now. Christmas, I'm excited for. I'm excited for skiing. I'm excited for some snow. Same. You're spending Christmas in the ski, right? Yeah, in the ski. Same with me. Gorgeous the in the ski right yeah gorgeous

in the ski in the snow in the snow skiing yeah so I'm excited for all of that I'm excited I'm not excited for the actual temperature of the cold and I'm excited for the coziness I really I know it's depressing in the mornings but I'm liking the early evenings I'm like bedtime and dinner at bedtime at 6 p.m lovely yeah i had a shower this morning and washed my hair when it was dark outside and i was like god this reminds me so much of like boarding school and like having to wake up really early in like year 12 no not year yeah year eight year seven and wash my hair before school yeah winter skincare yeah what are you doing i'm a thick thick moisturizer which moisturizer do you use any

that is we're very lucky we get sent a lot and i just like moisturizers and cleansers for me i just go through them like me too like no tomorrow i overuse there's no like one that i'm like this is my one of course everyone's that are my favorite but i just don't really buy them because we're very lucky we have so many. But I love a balm cleanser. Yeah, me too. Which one do you use? I'm using the Elemis. Yeah, cleansing one.

Love. I love the Elemis moisturizer, but I also am using a Bobbi Brown rich cream, but I also love the Augustine Bauder, which is really expensive. Their rich cream is. Is it? Chef's kit? Also, Clarins one is just great. There's just so many options.

A thick, thick night cream. Lock in that moisture. I'm putting collagen in my coffee every day. Me too. I really like the taste. I put Davina Taylor's collagen in there. I'm going to buy that. I'm obsessed with her.

Okay, right. Moving on to some dilemmas. Dilemma one. I've been on and off with this guy for a year but now we both live in london we've now made it more official he's a great on paper good job smart and a good-hearted nice guy lovely but he doesn't do the cute small things i think are super important in relationship he's also reluctant to spend money and always wants to share food oh he even suggested we share a king-size rose at toby carvey the other day as i wasn't very hungry no side note he can absolutely afford to take me out he has a lot of money from his job okay well that's different then like what are you

doing and he still lives at home so doesn't have to pay gorgeous my birthday was in july and he took me for dinner and bought me some trainers, which I asked to swap. He returned them but never gave me the ones I requested despite reclaiming he ordered them. What? I guess I just want to know if you girls think I'm being silly and shallow and should stay with him as ultimately he's a good guy with a pure heart. And I obviously stay with him. Obviously stay with him.

You can't break up over the Toby Carver. You just have to make your own money and split the meals if that's the way it is. Sometimes people are tight and that that's the way it is. Sometimes people are tight and that's just the end of it. It's a bit annoying. Maybe try and lose. It's not a deal breaker, surely. But the whole train of things is a bit weird. I'm like, where's my birthday present?

That's a bit strange. That's really weird. Although I have done that before in the past. Like when someone's been like, oh, I've already got that. And I take it back and then just forget. Yeah, a bit of an effort. I think I've done it to my mum before on her birthday. And then I'm like, oops. Floor oops that's not nice is it safey or am i being silly and clinging to him as i don't

have many friends in london yet and haven't met many people i feel like you've got the ick with him i want someone who i feel so you're not saying i love him so much you're saying he's a nice guy i think you're a bit like bored by his like you're thinking of ways yeah also thinking of excuses not once have you said i love him so much he's best. I can't imagine my life without him. But he's annoying me with this. You're like, do I leave him? He's a nice guy, but he's a bit tight. Do you know what I mean? Yeah, he's a bit boring. I'm not feeling any passion from you.

I'm not feeling the lust. I'm not feeling the love. I reckon you sack him off. I reckon you sack him off. He sounds dull. Dull and stingy nothing worse like i just don't know like obviously nice guy but like me and him are not getting on that's for sure so like if i'm yeah i feel like you've got a bit of genetic yeah you want a bit of spice you want to be wined and dined and even it's not about the money because some people like

different things that's okay you just want somebody to be excited about life he feels very by the book no no we can't be sharing a roast that's weird to be fair it can't be that you can get beef chicken yeah you can't get a bit of everything do people do that they get one of every meat what sauce sauce do you have? That's an absolute nightmare. What sauce? Apple sauce, bread sauce, mint sauce. I'll have mint. Oh, no, no, no. I would have every sauce with every meat. Like, I'll have mint sauce with every single thing in the world. Exactly.

No. It's like those people that put ketchup with everything. I'm like, you must not. I would do that too. Oh, Sophie. I would do that too. I don't think there's anything wrong with it. No, I just don't get it.

If you mix it all together, like I remember once we were in South America filming for that show I was on and Alex Smith got this meat thing and it was like chicken wrapped in bacon with inside was like minced turkey and then it was like a sausage of pork and I was like, I actually might be sick.

That is sacrilege. That's a leap. That is never allowed. You know what? The only time you're allowed to mix-mix is when you have pigs and blankets. And at that point, it's from the same animal. So I think we can accept that that's okay.

What about chicken wrapped in parmesan? Oh, you're so right. We'll allow that. I guess it's like when people get like a, what is it called? When you get like a, when you go to Megan's and it's kind of like a Lebanese vibe or it's like Greek and like a when you when you go to megan's and it's

kind of like a lebanese vibe or it's a greek and you get mixed grill yeah mixed grill it's giving me that but for english for the brits it's a mixed grill for the brits it's a mixed grill sunday rose oh you know what i'm gonna say at that point when you've got three different animals surely you can share that well that's probably i actually don't think that's an unreasonable thing for him to say and suggest. A car free, yeah, but it's because it's all you can eat. Can't you be like, can I have way more roasties? So he's obviously being like-

Well, fair enough. Fucking hell, how much food do you want? Yeah, but that's just like, I'm picturing, yeah, but that's just like stingy. Like he's chose to go for a car free. Right, instead of going to a pub and just having, picking your own. Yeah, I get you.

Like the plate must have been mounded up to here and they're both like picking off it. I so get you. Not very romantic if you ask me. No, not really. Oh, don't eat that much beef. That potato's mine. Yeah, can you imagine?

Get off my bread sauce. I'm having this chicken wing. He's definitely called Daryl. Daryl. Daryl goes to the Carverys on the Sunday I love the Carvery where is this Carvery place I'm fascinated

Toby's Carvery I don't know but I hear about it all the time really no I've never seen one or heard of it I've never heard of this

in my entire life guys where is it like nationwide there's a chain it's like a Wetherspoons isn't it yeah yeah our next culture car

should be in the Toby's Carvery we have just as a whole team production team made the decision we're card should be in the Toby's Car Free. We have just, as a whole team, production team, made the decision we're going to go to a Toby's Car Free and try it.

We should keep going to things we've never... Why am I excited after I've just been bashing it for the last half an hour? I'm so excited to have a bit of like beef with some mint sauce.

Coming from the pescetarian. I'll have my chicken with some... Bread sauce. No, I'm mixing it up. Oh, with maybe some red currant jelly. There we go. And then some Worcestershire sauce.

Not Worcestershire sauce, horseradish sauce. With some lamb. With some lamb. I actually love that. Do they do a good Yorkshire pudding? Yeah, loads. That's essential. Love a bit gravy.

I'm actually buzzing for this Toby's Carberry. Who's Toby? It's Toby Carberry, by the way. Oh. Toby should come with us. Oh my God, he should. Why is it Toby Carberry. Who's Toby? Who's Toby Carberry by the way? Oh. Toby should come with us. Oh my God, he should. Why is it Toby Carberry?

You know what, this is the sort of shit that Toby Watkins would also just love. Right, what's our advice? Let's just go back to this. Oh yeah,

we've told her, sack it off. Sack it off, you're not into him. No, you're not into him. Also, you don't want that

Toby Carberry anymore. You want a plate of beef on your own. You're just, you're icked out by him, I can sense it. He's not, he's pissing you off.

The little isms about him are just too much for you anymore. You're not finding him cute. because you're just, you're icked out by him. I can sense it. He's not, he's pissing you off. Like the little isms about him are just too much for you anymore. You're not finding him cute. You're justifying it because you're like, he's so nice, but you don't want to be there. Because really, in the grand scheme of things, what he's doing isn't a big deal. No, not at all. And the fact you've written it in, you're pissed off by it. Totally. Because like, actually, it's not actually that.

There's nothing there. There's nothing there. Okay, dilemma two. I was lying in bed with my boyfriend the other night and I saw on his phone DMing someone

on Instagram, what the fuck is going on? There's something in the air. I couldn't see the name of the person or what the messages read but saw that it was a girl's face.

He quickly closed his phone. I feel sick. Since then, I've noticed he keeps his phone on him all the time, even sleeping with it under his pillow and seems more secretive.

Sorry, the MFD radiation from under the pillow is really not a vibe. You need to move that on the floor right now. I've been a bit naughty since then and charged up his old phone to have a look. I can't see any messages with that profile pic or from any girls. God, so he must be deleting them.

Or he's got a different account. He's a sick son of a bitch. However, my curiosity then got the better of me and i started reading a chat with one of his mates where they were just where they were just sending photos of instagram models to each other which made me feel a bit shit i don't like that that really upsets me i think instagram models i don't like it it really bothers me but also what is an instagram model like i don't like that i don't like it i've seen it on jamie's phone for and i got really upset about because they're attainable they're

like they're not a porn star which is a porn star and they're also not like a major celebrity right they're not so like they're just a normal girl off the street that's posting like sexy pics they're just another us who you're finding better than me and who's talking about like no yeah and don't look at that so Sally, like free bum and think that's natural because it's not. In the same chat, his friend sent him a meme of a blind guy with a caption that said, when you see your mate cheating on his girlfriend,

the friend followed it with the message, you. Oh no, I've got goosebumps. I actually feel sick what the fuck this is what i do not understand if i cheated on toby you would be like you've got to tell him or or i'm going to because this is just so fucking immorally like fucked up like i can't even the boys do this sort of shit and they encourage each other like that's not funny that's disgusting and i can just imagine the pit of her stomach coming out of her arsehole when she read that. Now I'm so confused whether this means his friend has cheated and my boyfriend has kept it secret

or my boyfriend has cheated and his friend has kept it secret. I think it means that your boyfriend has cheated and he's kept it secret. Same. I don't feel like it's concrete evidence to accuse him, but I still feel iffy, especially because I'm good friends with the girlfriends of my boyfriend's friends should i confront him for context we live together and have been together for three years right listen i feel like you know what i know what she's saying but you don't know which ones who they're talking about i know a part of me is like i kind of think it is more of a thing that the other guys cheated why would he say i'm

cheating and like reference that as me knows? Also boys tell their girlfriends everything. So I feel like, yeah. So like, if I feel like Toby would probably say to me, I don't know for a fact, but I'm, I feel like he would probably be like,

I'm really upset with such and such. They've cheated on their girlfriend and they've sent something into the group chat and I just don't agree with it. And I can't be okay with it. He would probably tell me that Jamie would 100% tell you that so I feel like the fact he's not telling you either means that he's so so so loyal to his best friend and they're like having this weird banter about it which I think is morally so fucked up or he is the one I think I'm really so sorry I think you've got to confront him I would confront him I would say I would double bluff I'd be like I've heard I know that you're cheating on me I heard you've

been inappropriate and if he was like where from I'd be like can't tell you just why does that matter besides the point people always do that the minute they go where did you hear it from guilty well not really because if someone said that about me i'd be like well where the fuck have you heard that from but i smell about i know what you're saying if they're like if they're like how did you who told you that who told you that if it's like yeah no that's not true

who's spreading shit around me it'd be like who told you that gets the tone did you go through my phone why would you go through my phone do you not trust me that's

then like because it should be like oh my god I absolutely have not go through my phone if you want like no I haven't we'll call I'll call my friends right now it's not about me

it's about them and then then he opens up and tells you like look it's yeah you know one of them's cheating so he either could turn around and be like you've got it wrong it's not about me it's about them and then then he opens up and tells you like look it's you know one of them's cheating so he either could tell you got it wrong it's not me it's him but likelihood is he's gonna be like where have you heard that and then you know you know who it is you've got one you've got a gut feeling for a reason right that you've got a hunch yeah well you've seen him dming somebody yeah so that's weird in itself so we've got the you've

already seen me and he's deleted it, game over. Oh my God, have you seen this new fucked up thing that Instagram are doing right now? So apparently they're doing something where you can change in your settings that the only people that see you, so say if I can change in my settings that I'm liking Matthew Noska,

that super fit model's photo, but only me and he will see that I've liked it. No one else that I follow or no one else that follows me will ever see it. What the fuck,

Instagram? You're basically giving everyone a one-up to cheat. Yeah, encouraging people to like cheat. I'm not here for it

but- Have you seen that episode? I saw it. It came up on my news, on my like, my feed on Instagram and it was like, I think it was someone

doing a podcast or an interview discussing it and how fucked up it was yep that's disgusting that's so good it's not a very thing personally i think that's a very because females are more like emotionally like they're not like we think through stuff a lot more right we don't like women like these also boys are like why are you liking someone's photo right you're going you're trying to get their attention yeah it's foul it's absolutely foul behavior anyway i think confront him for sure and i think you know you have hold your own don't know 100 right dilemma three i'm really sorry that's awful my best friend of 15 years suggested i date her boyfriend's best friend.

We went on a few dates and got on really well. He eventually asked me to be his girlfriend and we were very much in love. Oh, gorgeous. One day he turned around and said he had no feelings for me and never has. What? He ended things with me and never wanted to speak to me again. What? Less than two weeks after he posted an Instagram story of a new girl he was with.

My best friend then proceeded to tell me that she was going on a double date with this man and his new girlfriend and I'm not sure how to react to this am I a terrible fan for asking her not to go I think you're gonna have to accept this just the way that it is because they're already you know her boyfriend is ultimately best friends with him still and she's not gonna like yeah stop that relationship from going on it's very very uncomfortable though i get it i get it's really uncomfortable and i get it there should be a sense of loyalty there but ultimately her boyfriend is also best friends with him so and i guess like you weren't married he didn't cheat on you it's like one of those things yeah also it will make it more i think it will paint

you in a worse light to say if she's like I can't go on this date because you fucked over my friend right so then your boyfriend the boyfriend turns up for dinner with him and the new girlfriend

she's like yeah Katie can't come because she's really pissed off that you dumped her friend like what

no you can't you can't do that and then it makes you look silly you have to just almost pretend that you don't care and you probably what you should say to your friend is look if you're going to see him and go on dates I don't want to hear do that and then it makes you look silly you have to swallow it you have to just almost pretend that you don't care and you probably what you should say to your friend is

look look if you're going to see him and go on dates i don't want to hear about it and i'd rather you just be like i'm so fine with you guys hanging out obviously but can you just have a bit of respect for me for the timing whilst i'm just getting over this and don't post it wealth simple's big winter bundle is our best match offer yet get a two percent match when you transfer over an eligible RRSP. For a $50,000 transfer, that's a $1,000 cash bonus. Enough to buy a fancy parka. A ticket to somewhere you don't need a fancy parka.

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yeah yeah i work on a farm at home and however much i love my job this time of year requires a lot of time and attractor alone and you two make me feel like I'm sat chatting to some of my friends sometimes for eight hours plus a day after a tough year with accidents injuries tragic losses and fallouts with some friends I can always rely on this podcast to cheer me up as every episode has something relatable hilarious in it that is so sweet we love you we love you so much thank you so much my voice is not that horrible that's very sweet I don't think either of us is, but maybe after a certain amount of time, you just become numb to it.

Yeah. It's toe-dare. I actually make them dare. We love you. We love you. That sounds really wholesome. I know. I'd love to be on a stretch all day.

I know. Just go through like the, you know, when you see like the misty fields really early in the mornings. Breathing in clean, kind of. Clean air.

Those lungs must be gorgeous and fresh. Yeah, no black tar on there. Oh no. You've got to get that air purifier going in London, guys.

Questions. Tiny questions. You guys. Don't forget the tiny. You guys, tiny, just send in your questions, tiny questions to us and send them in on instagram

anything ask us literally anything any vibe goes so we've got one from jemima and this is how did you both meet so simple so simple and yet so so much depth behind this question yeah right we first met on made in chelsea i actually am gonna that's incorrect what we first met when I was 20 years old in the interview that I had for Made in Chelsea like the first like not the interview sorry like the meeting like the catch-up meeting at the beginning of the series in the jam what's that pub on Chelsea like opposite the Chelsea Lodge it was called like the jam something yeah that was no that wasn't you were filming no I wasn't so in my life I wasn't it was the catch-up meeting and I had come down from the stairs and

you were waiting downstairs and we met and you were wearing one of these like furry gilet things and you were so sweet and you gave me a massive hug that was like a fleeting high by how was I nice obviously you were so nice and then the second time is when you're really talking about it I know when I know that's when I remember vaguely yeah because everyone was like oh my god harry's got a new girlfriend i was like i've met her yeah i was with harry having the meeting came downstairs you waiting downstairs i remember you wearing jimmy g trainers oh my god i was how did i know what right because they didn't have any branding on but I remember seeing it oh my god and I remember thinking I thought lovely bum you're skinny jeans on and I actually relayed that to people I was like yeah his girlfriend's got great balance wait so then was when was the next time

the next time we were filming when we actually spoke properly yeah you were really good filming like first time I was only brand new pretty much we basically started Made in Chelsea together but we really been on it a tiny bit longer than me hadn't you you started like a few eps into the last season but only towards the end yeah like three episodes yes and then we basically like just got on really well we were kind of newbies you weren't getting along with somebody and well someone just hated both of us and for no reason and we were like and we kind of bonded over it yeah and then the rest is the rest is history oh no and i know why because you sent me a sweet message and you were like what are you wearing on the event day because basically you have event days

and you kind of get given like a brief on like what to wear i remember it was laundry it was laundry and it was like quite scary thing to like obviously have to dress for and so if you message me i'm like what are you wearing and i was like oh my god sweetness but i'm not actually going to this i'm there she's so nice and i want to see we were just like this yeah and then we went to sri lanka like quite shortly and soon that's when it but we were already like we were already super close i feel like that made us even closer because we went away together yeah we were like joined up here yeah that was so fun all right guys we'll leave it there. Thank you so much.

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